Father's view is not fully correct, DouDou will become very self-centred and lack of EQ in long run. Grandma is right to suggest letting DouDou mixes with other children, then she will know how to handle setback, jealousy, etc at younger age.
Great series indeed. Thank you very much. I can't help saying that the Chinese grandma is a wonderful person, she's frank, she's objective, she loves her freedom and she does have a precious knowledge of kid's psychology which her son-in-law COMPLETELY misses. The Korean mother shows a great personality and strength while respecting the traditions. Her husband unlike I said earlier, is much more childish than her, and in a way, doesn't really respect her. As I notice in my own life, women do have qualities e.g. resilience, hidden strength, that we male rarely have in situation of crisis. Can't wait the next episode.
When you add religion to it, the marriage blackmail is total for Poor Niraj!! I feel so much for him!!!! The chinese grandmother is very sophisticated I love her personality!!
The Chinese dad needs to wake up! He's the one who's narrow-minded and traditional in the upbringing of his daughter. His mum-in-law is in fact well-educated, wise and far-sighted. What she's proposing is what most of the western world has already been practising. This man just wants to protect his ego, and he has zero respect for the elders - very poor upbringing!
I agree with you. But i also understand why he did that. He is the father, master of the family, and currently he is not doing very well with his job. A normal man with pride will feel hurt inside when he can not provide for his family as usual. Thats why he became more active on taking care of everyday household work. He did not want to be looked as a good for nothing man. And when man with that kind of situation get lectured on how to run his family ESPECIALLY in a tv show, he would very likely explode. If grandma choose different time and different approach, he may not aggree with her, but at least he would choose his word more carefully.
@@rian4104 Wow seriously ??!!! seriously he is all about that? He was disrespectful from the start this man has character flaw. A normal man with pride would not take it out on an old lady, especially someone who has taken care of their daughter since birth, doing their household chores for years (forgoing her own pleasures in life for years). Everyone has issues, so if he can't cope with his emotions its ok? This is not someone with depression just ego problem.
A useless man is a poor excuse for using his daughers education as a scapegoat. Everyone experiences downs, but his priority should be focussed on supporting the family instead of finding his ego. I've been to many cities in Asia and 'northern' parts of China apparently especially Beijing are notorious for useless men with fragile egos. The exception was Harbin, made friends with some wonderful and hospital men there with great big hearts. Although some of them worked very labour intensive jobs in order to bring home the pay cheque, they still made time to help with chores at home. Great cooks and not bad looking either. Now that's a man and their wives know it, they don't nag or argue with their husbands because they know they got a good deal.
I would show the 2 Korean brothers and the Dad how to pitch in with the cooking, so the Dad understands just how much is involved when he invites the whole family over at the last minute.
I learnt a big lesson from the Korean Cho family. I would advise my daughter not to marry a man like him, certainly not to fall for a big family like his too, Mr Cho’s relatives are selfish and not grateful. His siblings are doing nothing to help the parents. The chauvinism and self centred personally of Mr Cho is from his parents. It is a nightmare for the wife.
The south korean husband, his parents and extended family are so unreasonable. Obviously he doesn't love his wife. That poor lady is looking after everyone in his family, except herself, and yet no one appreciates, or offers to help out, or give her encouragement. I don't know how she could have suffered through all the sh*t all those years. Poor lady. I would have walked out long time ago.
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The china's family parenting style is surprisingly good and the grandmothers style is non interventionist type allowing the younger generation to do what they want without interfering which is very rare for a grandmother
The grandma is right in the sense that the child should be brought out and exposed to surrounding air as for the parents there are some serious flaws but compared to contemporary china's family i feel that they are much toned down already soooo overall its not that bad. Like for a father to be a stay at home dad instead of working is something that is extremely rare even now
It actually seemed like ten Grandmother did most of the parenting when Dou Dou was younger; that’s why Dou Dou is a great kid. Her parents are not too bad; getting her to help at home doing the dishes etc. However I think the daddy’s a bit difficult. I hope I grow old like Dou Dou’s Grandmother 👵 - very positive, strong and mature.
A servant ? That's a little too generous isn't it ? Even servants get paid. She's a slave to that horrible man and his family, the poor dear woman might have been pushed to her limits. I know we should pay our respects to our elders and in laws but to what extent ? To the point our health pays for it ? I know he sees the problem but he's being a man child and wants his way, nothing else but his way of things. I don't know what to say, I literally don't
If her husband treats her well then she wouldnt feel this way. The problem is her husband isnt even doing well financially, this just makes him look like a pathetic loser
I totally agree with the Chinese. Grandma. As a single mom, I have to force myself go outside do physical activities, which is the only way my son will go outside too. Why study so much? I often told my son: stay healthy is the most important thing. Without being outside playing, running, it will be very difficult for my son to fall asleep at night. Nowadays people dont go outside, get sunlight, just stay inside and using laptop, cell phone, tablet... which is the reason why the number of people with sleep disorder increasing dramatically. Whenever I go to beach, I sleep better at night. Grounding, sunlight, fresh air, running, playing is the best way to stay healthy. All those Chinese students have no weekends, just studying, like a 24/7 machine, when they are in thirties, forties, they would be in poor health. In that situation,, its forsnt matter how much knowledge you have in your brain.
The korean husband act like a saint to his parents and then shift all the burden to his wife. He doing that knowing that his wife won't deforce him because living alone at that age as a woman with no job and no money in korea means a lot more horrible situation. She put herself in that hell hole and her husband, knowing her situations, taking advantage of her. Now she has no choice but to carry on with her slavery life until oneday she did the same damn thing to her daughter in law.
It's the Korean culture. Man takes dominance in the household and the wife is expected to be submissive and serve yet will never enjoy the same standing and privilege as them. Being the eldest daughter-in-law makes it all the worse.
I love this and it happens in so many cultures too: Dou Dou's mother defends her mom and wants her husband to stay - let's say Chinesely reasonable. He didn't need to be harsh and hurting. GOOD POINT DAUGHTER! Having said that, China has embraced modern civilization and its caveats as well. Dou dou's dad responds as any guy of the 21st century in a modern country would have. It's all about Zeitgeist...
The Korean wife has her own family to take care. Her husband is no help for her. Did he marry her so to take care of his entire family??? I'm on her side.
The Korean couple both are good husband and wife, it just shows that life is often hard and rough, but its not easy to find the love of your life that early and stay together through all the ups and downs, really wish the best for them.
The chinese grand-mother is awsome and not outdated at all, I think the father is the one who is narrow-minded and should let his daughter enjoy outdoor activities more. I feel sorry for the Korean wife but i don't think she should leave. I think everybody in the famly should share the burden of the elders, the aunts too and I hope her husband undertsands that.
Omg that culture in Korea, she has to quit her job just to take care of extended families. Too much pressure in financial and too much work, this is bloody worst than Philippines.
The chinese grandma is right, kids need to be kids and have lots of play and interaction with other kids. It is the father that is outdated and still old school, wanting the daughter to be better than others. I've seen so many frustrated kids in HK, many parent don't really consider their kids happiness, they just want their kids to do well at school, have a good job and earn lots of money so they can brag about how good a parent they are.
Jinxian Wu like the wives in traditional Indian families as well - it’s really not an easy existence. But Hanna really puts a cheerful face to it more often than not.
Doudou waking up at 7:30 am. By the time she reaches working adult age, she’s definitely gonna wonder how it feels like to rest. Kids should be kids. Damn Grandma is rocking the travel goals. And the Korean husband should discipline his father not to drink or he’ll be in nursing home. The idea of being non confrontal is sooo complex to me.
niraj grandfather “ she doesn’t look well-educated “ what???? helloooo... you don’t look like one either by doing such thing to your grandson, by uploading his photo online
I am not sure if you read the title before his grandfather's name or not, but he was the Colonel in the Indian Army. That's a very high position in any army. Yes, his views seem very judgemental and conservative, but he is very educated. One of the reasons why he speaks very good English at this age. Can you find a person who speaks that good English at that age in China or South Korea? I am sure you can't.
Actually it’s the norm in 🇮🇳 to place your child’s or grandchild’s profile on a matrimonial website. And he did not say she did not look educated but that she’s not well-educated. You have to state a lot of information on the website such as educational qualifications. It’s a very pragmatic process and yes quite strange but for the most part it works in India. The Grandfather was not wrong in saying that; educational gaps are very hard to bridge.
@@stephaniehale946 Since when was English language superior to other languages? Are you implying that people are not will educated in korea and China if they dont speak English? Laughable.
@prapti middha I’ve been lucky that ways too; and I’m thankful that they allowed me to make decisions that may have been mistakes. It’s made me an independent person.
Such an interesting series about family life that many can relate to in Asian families. The constant nag of getting married. The caring on in-laws. The education. The Chinese father is the one with outdated ideas unlike his wise mother.. Children needs to play with other children not insulated. Niraj just needs to get some balls and say no instead of the grandparents guilt trip. You'd think they were Catholic. LOL
I want to sit down and have conversation with Babaji about the world war 2 also before the independent of India from the British. I can feel that he's a man with many stories to tell.
This Chinese man has no respect to his mother in law. His mother in law spent 8 years taking care of his family, cooking for breakfast, dinner.. do laundry...he has no gratitude at all. I dont like people who take everything for granted...
There’s a common saying in Asia that when you marry, you are not marrying to a man, but to his entire family. ( cuz u need to take care of all of them)
I used to think having to phone my mum every day and spending every weekend with her was intense but these families are boss level. I only had to put up with 10 years of asking for a grandchild. Hilarious listening to the 90 yr old grandfather pimping out his grandson online. I’ll admit initially I thought the Korean wife was a bit selfish at the start but I understand her attitude a bit more now. The couple really need to learn how to communicate.
The Korean Husband needs to be more considerate of his wife and her feelings. The Chinese Dad needs to respect his elderly Mother in-law and get back to work!
I wish I have a mother like Dou Dou’s grandma. I had 2 maids when I was working and 2 kids, newborn and 20 months. My retired mother refuse to come over to supervise the 2 maids when I asked her to . Not even once! I did not even dare to ask her to come over daily or to commit to a certain number of days a week ! And to think that when she was working and I was young, I was told that I had to help her cook dinner, clean the floor, wash dishes etc bec she said she was a working mum. When it was time for her to help me, she refused!
Oh my my. You're strong. Sometimes we do not understand what goes on in some women's head. Just be happy for who you are. You can continue to do it without your mother.
Your mom never owe you anything, since she giving born, feeds you and paid your daily needs include your educations until you getting married or even more..your kids who owe you. Just saying
to the person who keeps bashing the korean women in the past few episodes, look at her now. i dont we have any right to judge someone just through our screen like that. i feel really bad for her :(
Now I understand why some of my Indian friends got forced into marrying some chick in haste and got babies like within the year of marriage, their parents chosen for them, after years of refusing to. How can you win with such a guilt-trip...., that you gotta conceive a baby for your grandfather/grandmother to go heaven. It's like, "IF you don't get this done, I will go to hell when I die! And I am dying!!" Feel sorry for the Korean wife too. Some previous comments painted her as lazy and not wanting to work to help out her husband. Little did they know, she is taking care of sooooo many elderly folks! And being a maid for them.
the winner on this episode is the crew or cameramab who passed by 5:19 of the video. Should have cut the passerby. The scene looked staged.Idk just my perception.
OMFG no way does the Korean grandmother look 97 years old 😳 the mother in law looks older than grandma!!! It always seems to me that Asian women look either way younger or way older than their actual age!!!
Chinese grandmother is right. The girl needs time outside. Korean husband is right. He is not putting his parents first, just caring for them. If she did not want this life, why marry him? Marry a second born son then. Indian son is right. Let him wait two more years and live him alone. They do not even listej to his reasoning and only the grandfather said why he desperately wants him to marry to give him a great grandson. Now what if he only has daughters? Too much pressure on things he the grandson has no control over, because only God knows if and when he will have children.
Korean Family. Husband says "divorce is the only way out". Because she is taking care of his parents against her will, I think she should leave. Otherwise at her death bed, she will think of this as something that she regret, not following her wishes, if she chooses to stay.
Grand ma way of thinking is more up to date. Children have to play out more than get coupe at home. Interacting with other children is the way how they can get a long with society. European children never stayed too long at home do home work.Especially summer time,no one will be stay at home. It’s silly mind set of the son in law. He better go back to work.
I think the Chinese grandma is right about getting more involved with outdoor activities. The way her son in law talks to her is not pleasant to me
Father's view is not fully correct, DouDou will become very self-centred and lack of EQ in long run. Grandma is right to suggest letting DouDou mixes with other children, then she will know how to handle setback, jealousy, etc at younger age.
Great series indeed. Thank you very much. I can't help saying that the Chinese grandma is a wonderful person, she's frank, she's objective, she loves her freedom and she does have a precious knowledge of kid's psychology which her son-in-law COMPLETELY misses. The Korean mother shows a great personality and strength while respecting the traditions. Her husband unlike I said earlier, is much more childish than her, and in a way, doesn't really respect her. As I notice in my own life, women do have qualities e.g. resilience, hidden strength, that we male rarely have in situation of crisis. Can't wait the next episode.
When you add religion to it, the marriage blackmail is total for Poor Niraj!! I feel so much for him!!!! The chinese grandmother is very sophisticated I love her personality!!
The Chinese dad needs to wake up! He's the one who's narrow-minded and traditional in the upbringing of his daughter. His mum-in-law is in fact well-educated, wise and far-sighted. What she's proposing is what most of the western world has already been practising.
This man just wants to protect his ego, and he has zero respect for the elders - very poor upbringing!
I agree with you. But i also understand why he did that. He is the father, master of the family, and currently he is not doing very well with his job. A normal man with pride will feel hurt inside when he can not provide for his family as usual. Thats why he became more active on taking care of everyday household work. He did not want to be looked as a good for nothing man. And when man with that kind of situation get lectured on how to run his family ESPECIALLY in a tv show, he would very likely explode. If grandma choose different time and different approach, he may not aggree with her, but at least he would choose his word more carefully.
@@rian4104 Wow seriously ??!!! seriously he is all about that? He was disrespectful from the start this man has character flaw. A normal man with pride would not take it out on an old lady, especially someone who has taken care of their daughter since birth, doing their household chores for years (forgoing her own pleasures in life for years). Everyone has issues, so if he can't cope with his emotions its ok? This is not someone with depression just ego problem.
@@biibikiki1304 he should let children interact more, if not..she'll have no friends
A useless man is a poor excuse for using his daughers education as a scapegoat. Everyone experiences downs, but his priority should be focussed on supporting the family instead of finding his ego. I've been to many cities in Asia and 'northern' parts of China apparently especially Beijing are notorious for useless men with fragile egos. The exception was Harbin, made friends with some wonderful and hospital men there with great big hearts. Although some of them worked very labour intensive jobs in order to bring home the pay cheque, they still made time to help with chores at home. Great cooks and not bad looking either. Now that's a man and their wives know it, they don't nag or argue with their husbands because they know they got a good deal.
The Granny has a great attitude to life.
I would show the 2 Korean brothers and the Dad how to pitch in with the cooking, so the Dad understands just how much is involved when he invites the whole family over at the last minute.
I learnt a big lesson from the Korean Cho family. I would advise my daughter not to marry a man like him, certainly not to fall for a big family like his too, Mr Cho’s relatives are selfish and not grateful. His siblings are doing nothing to help the parents. The chauvinism and self centred personally of Mr Cho is from his parents. It is a nightmare for the wife.
Dou Dou’s grandma is righttt. I feel so bad for her thoooo
The south korean husband, his parents and extended family are so unreasonable. Obviously he doesn't love his wife. That poor lady is looking after everyone in his family, except herself, and yet no one appreciates, or offers to help out, or give her encouragement. I don't know how she could have suffered through all the sh*t all those years. Poor lady. I would have walked out long time ago.
This is awesome. I love looking at other cultures and family lifestyles. Thanks for making this documentary.
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That Chinese grandma is fantastic!
The china's family parenting style is surprisingly good and the grandmothers style is non interventionist type allowing the younger generation to do what they want without interfering which is very rare for a grandmother
Benja Lee which style are you referring to? Parent or grandmother?
The grandma is right in the sense that the child should be brought out and exposed to surrounding air as for the parents there are some serious flaws but compared to contemporary china's family i feel that they are much toned down already soooo overall its not that bad. Like for a father to be a stay at home dad instead of working is something that is extremely rare even now
The Chinese father is lazy to accompany his daughter to play outside. He prefers to stay home at the computer. That's the reason.
@@ingenuity168 no one is perfect uh everyone has their own flaws
It actually seemed like ten Grandmother did most of the parenting when Dou Dou was younger; that’s why Dou Dou is a great kid. Her parents are not too bad; getting her to help at home doing the dishes etc. However I think the daddy’s a bit difficult. I hope I grow old like Dou Dou’s Grandmother 👵 - very positive, strong and mature.
Korean family.
A wife should not be treated as a family servant.
A servant ? That's a little too generous isn't it ? Even servants get paid. She's a slave to that horrible man and his family, the poor dear woman might have been pushed to her limits. I know we should pay our respects to our elders and in laws but to what extent ? To the point our health pays for it ? I know he sees the problem but he's being a man child and wants his way, nothing else but his way of things. I don't know what to say, I literally don't
If her husband treats her well then she wouldnt feel this way. The problem is her husband isnt even doing well financially, this just makes him look like a pathetic loser
@@lynn9886 I agree. I stand corrected. I'll never allow myself to be treated in that way.
Exactly
I'm in complete agreement. Obviously, he doesn't love her at her. They are all so selfish towards her.
I totally agree with the Chinese. Grandma. As a single mom, I have to force myself go outside do physical activities, which is the only way my son will go outside too. Why study so much? I often told my son: stay healthy is the most important thing. Without being outside playing, running, it will be very difficult for my son to fall asleep at night. Nowadays people dont go outside, get sunlight, just stay inside and using laptop, cell phone, tablet... which is the reason why the number of people with sleep disorder increasing dramatically. Whenever I go to beach, I sleep better at night. Grounding, sunlight, fresh air, running, playing is the best way to stay healthy. All those Chinese students have no weekends, just studying, like a 24/7 machine, when they are in thirties, forties, they would be in poor health. In that situation,, its forsnt matter how much knowledge you have in your brain.
Granny and Dou-dou have a great relationship.
The korean husband act like a saint to his parents and then shift all the burden to his wife. He doing that knowing that his wife won't deforce him because living alone at that age as a woman with no job and no money in korea means a lot more horrible situation. She put herself in that hell hole and her husband, knowing her situations, taking advantage of her. Now she has no choice but to carry on with her slavery life until oneday she did the same damn thing to her daughter in law.
I agree with you. Korean husband doesn't have any pity for his wife. I hope his sons won't turn up like him.
It's the Korean culture. Man takes dominance in the household and the wife is expected to be submissive and serve yet will never enjoy the same standing and privilege as them. Being the eldest daughter-in-law makes it all the worse.
I love this and it happens in so many cultures too: Dou Dou's mother defends her mom and wants her husband to stay - let's say Chinesely reasonable. He didn't need to be harsh and hurting. GOOD POINT DAUGHTER! Having said that, China has embraced modern civilization and its caveats as well. Dou dou's dad responds as any guy of the 21st century in a modern country would have. It's all about Zeitgeist...
The Korean wife has her own family to take care. Her husband is no help for her. Did he marry her so to take care of his entire family??? I'm on her side.
The Korean couple both are good husband and wife, it just shows that life is often hard and rough, but its not easy to find the love of your life that early and stay together through all the ups and downs, really wish the best for them.
Let Niraj get married when he's ready. He has to choose whom to marry. Professionalism is not the answer for long and loving marriage.
The chinese grand-mother is awsome and not outdated at all, I think the father is the one who is narrow-minded and should let his daughter enjoy outdoor activities more. I feel sorry for the Korean wife but i don't think she should leave. I think everybody in the famly should share the burden of the elders, the aunts too and I hope her husband undertsands that.
I sided with dou dou's grandma. He need to hear his mother in law advice if he doesn't want to regret.
Omg that culture in Korea, she has to quit her job just to take care of extended families. Too much pressure in financial and too much work, this is bloody worst than Philippines.
The chinese grandma is right, kids need to be kids and have lots of play and interaction with other kids. It is the father that is outdated and still old school, wanting the daughter to be better than others. I've seen so many frustrated kids in HK, many parent don't really consider their kids happiness, they just want their kids to do well at school, have a good job and earn lots of money so they can brag about how good a parent they are.
I feel so lost for the Korean wife... I would have left if I were her.
feliciachurros I feel so sad for her. Hope things get better for her very soon.
In fact a lot of Korean women lived and living this kind of life. In their culture, women are responsible for taking care of the whole family.
Jinxian Wu like the wives in traditional Indian families as well - it’s really not an easy existence. But Hanna really puts a cheerful face to it more often than not.
This Grandmother was spot on with what she said 👏
Doudou waking up at 7:30 am. By the time she reaches working adult age, she’s definitely gonna wonder how it feels like to rest. Kids should be kids. Damn Grandma is rocking the travel goals. And the Korean husband should discipline his father not to drink or he’ll be in nursing home. The idea of being non confrontal is sooo complex to me.
niraj grandfather “ she doesn’t look well-educated “ what???? helloooo... you don’t look like one either by doing such thing to your grandson, by uploading his photo online
I am not sure if you read the title before his grandfather's name or not, but he was the Colonel in the Indian Army. That's a very high position in any army. Yes, his views seem very judgemental and conservative, but he is very educated. One of the reasons why he speaks very good English at this age. Can you find a person who speaks that good English at that age in China or South Korea? I am sure you can't.
Actually it’s the norm in 🇮🇳 to place your child’s or grandchild’s profile on a matrimonial website. And he did not say she did not look educated but that she’s not well-educated. You have to state a lot of information on the website such as educational qualifications. It’s a very pragmatic process and yes quite strange but for the most part it works in India. The Grandfather was not wrong in saying that; educational gaps are very hard to bridge.
Trust me that guys future wife would be in hell if she marries
@@stephaniehale946 Since when was English language superior to other languages? Are you implying that people are not will educated in korea and China if they dont speak English? Laughable.
@prapti middha I’ve been lucky that ways too; and I’m thankful that they allowed me to make decisions that may have been mistakes. It’s made me an independent person.
Such an interesting series about family life that many can relate to in Asian families. The constant nag of getting married. The caring on in-laws. The education. The Chinese father is the one with outdated ideas unlike his wise mother.. Children needs to play with other children not insulated. Niraj just needs to get some balls and say no instead of the grandparents guilt trip. You'd think they were Catholic. LOL
The most entertaining to watch was the Indian family
Have you watched seasons 2, 3 and 4? Who's your favourite family?
I love this series I just don't want it 😭 😂to end.😊
I want to sit down and have conversation with Babaji about the world war 2 also before the independent of India from the British. I can feel that he's a man with many stories to tell.
😂i think niraj should spite everyone in his family by finding a nice boy.
Doudou's dad is a diaosi live off his wife, but still want to be in charge lol
This Chinese man has no respect to his mother in law. His mother in law spent 8 years taking care of his family, cooking for breakfast, dinner.. do laundry...he has no gratitude at all. I dont like people who take everything for granted...
There’s a common saying in Asia that when you marry, you are not marrying to a man, but to his entire family. ( cuz u need to take care of all of them)
The Chinese father should be grateful to grandma. She took care of your daughter for 8 years.
13:28 is very hilarious! 😂
Can we all appreciate the indian grand father ? He's 90and tapping into tinder to look for a new grand daughter 😂. Not the best place grandpq
I used to think having to phone my mum every day and spending every weekend with her was intense but these families are boss level. I only had to put up with 10 years of asking for a grandchild.
Hilarious listening to the 90 yr old grandfather pimping out his grandson online. I’ll admit initially I thought the Korean wife was a bit selfish at the start but I understand her attitude a bit more now. The couple really need to learn how to communicate.
The Korean Husband needs to be more considerate of his wife and her feelings. The Chinese Dad needs to respect his elderly Mother in-law and get back to work!
I wish I have a mother like Dou Dou’s grandma.
I had 2 maids when I was working and 2 kids, newborn and 20 months.
My retired mother refuse to come over to supervise the 2 maids when I asked her to .
Not even once!
I did not even dare to ask her to come over daily or to commit to a certain number of days a week !
And to think that when she was working and I was young, I was told that I had to help her cook dinner, clean the floor, wash dishes etc bec she said she was a working mum.
When it was time for her to help me, she refused!
Oh my my. You're strong. Sometimes we do not understand what goes on in some women's head. Just be happy for who you are. You can continue to do it without your mother.
You sound entitled. She doesn't owe you that.
Your mom never owe you anything, since she giving born, feeds you and paid your daily needs include your educations until you getting married or even more..your kids who owe you. Just saying
Is it me or they finally had the real family photos put into those frames?
to the person who keeps bashing the korean women in the past few episodes, look at her now. i dont we have any right to judge someone just through our screen like that. i feel really bad for her :(
Korean wife 50 look like 20.
It’s not easy being a Korean housewife 😭
Now I understand why some of my Indian friends got forced into marrying some chick in haste and got babies like within the year of marriage, their parents chosen for them, after years of refusing to. How can you win with such a guilt-trip...., that you gotta conceive a baby for your grandfather/grandmother to go heaven. It's like, "IF you don't get this done, I will go to hell when I die! And I am dying!!"
Feel sorry for the Korean wife too. Some previous comments painted her as lazy and not wanting to work to help out her husband. Little did they know, she is taking care of sooooo many elderly folks! And being a maid for them.
The chinese dad is so agressive and negative, he stresses the family.
I felt the Korean family more depressed one in entire season .
the winner on this episode is the crew or cameramab who passed by 5:19 of the video. Should have cut the passerby. The scene looked staged.Idk just my perception.
OMFG no way does the Korean grandmother look 97 years old 😳 the mother in law looks older than grandma!!! It always seems to me that Asian women look either way younger or way older than their actual age!!!
I wonder if the Korean wife is waiting for her eldest son to get married so she can do the same with her future daughter in law....
Chinese grandmother is right. The girl needs time outside. Korean husband is right. He is not putting his parents first, just caring for them. If she did not want this life, why marry him? Marry a second born son then. Indian son is right. Let him wait two more years and live him alone. They do not even listej to his reasoning and only the grandfather said why he desperately wants him to marry to give him a great grandson. Now what if he only has daughters? Too much pressure on things he the grandson has no control over, because only God knows if and when he will have children.
This Indian family is definitely not middle class!
They definitely don't understand fking boundaries either 😂.
Its a bit boring when your only story line is get married. I think he is very feminine....
Korean Family. Husband says "divorce is the only way out". Because she is taking care of his parents against her will, I think she should leave. Otherwise at her death bed, she will think of this as something that she regret, not following her wishes, if she chooses to stay.
Both father and grandma have their good reasons for believing in what is best for Dou Dou. Perhaps a compromise can be made between the two.
Grand ma way of thinking is more up to date. Children have to play out more than get coupe at home. Interacting with other children is the way how they can get a long with society. European children never stayed too long at home do home work.Especially summer time,no one will be stay at home. It’s silly mind set of the son in law. He better go back to work.
the chinese dad is so damn arrogant!
The son in law, family upbring have problem. nurture her daughter by his way. will turn out to be just like him. Rude ,ungrateful and ignorant.
If you want Independence, then get out of your parents house. Seriously!🤔
Get married and stop procrastinating
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The Chinese are very bad for double dipping in their food ....eeewww....
You sound incredibly ignorant and rude