Do I deserve her back? | Talks with Tony
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- Опубліковано 6 лип 2024
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“Don’t ever give a person a 2nd chance to hit you.’ TG
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If I want to be treated like a king I have to adore her like a queen. TG. This man here drops all the jewels!!
Amen
When TG started talking about all the things women go through....that hit me to my core. 😞 It is not easy and I grew up with nothing but brothers. It’s never been an equal level playing field. For a man to acknowledge that is everything. Thank you 🙏 TG!
Look at how he lights up when she shows up. 😊
Yassss.....love it !
At first I thought he was looking at a Christmas tree, he had so much light in his eyes. God is good, to have a man to love his wife the way Tony does.
Tony, you get it. Thank you for the heart you have for women.
Yessss he really get it... 🙌🏾
His heart is so pure in regards to us. Thank God for him
One of the best comments this far.
Yes he broke it down. Thank you Tony for understanding the woman’s anatomy .. men have it so easy ..❤
We, women go through a lot! More the reason we cannot afford to give our bodies, our heart, our money, our kids to any man so casually. We got a lot to loose.
Amen sis!!
Girl bye .... You couldn't say it better.. Amen Queen❤
I absolutely Love the way brother Tony's eyes Light up when he see Sheri@6:28 and the joy in his eyes when he see his sons.
He is Most Definitely IN Love with her & them.✨💎✨💎✨💎.
It's priceless. Love it everytime
No sir, you do not deserve another chance with this young lady.
Do the work, better yourself and treat the next young lady the way you'd want someone to treat the woman you care most about in this lifetime💯
Right.....he will never change for her....better luck next time sir.
Tony saw right thru that letter. This could be a "Sleeping with Enemy" situation.
"If I want to be treated like a king, then I have to prepare her like a queen." TG
Teach Tony! Preach !
This is in simple words what the Bible says in proverbs 18v22 he who finds a wife finds a treasure, and he receives favor from the lord.
Glory to god for the life of your wife!
To Girls, and women! You must know that by divine nature you worth more than what ever a man is telling you. Listen to Tony, pray and go about your business. If what he is doing is not in alignment with a godly love. It’s not love.
Run, pray, drink water, pray, serve, turn your love towards yourself, get your self esteem back up. Heal, grow.
Very beautiful description of what it means to be a woman ! For a happy relationship and true love with a real man, he needs to show he knows and respects at least most of these things and that he is willing to grow and learn the others. Please stay away from men who only like your body or the idea of you, but don't value and respect your heart, soul, mind, character and everything you stand for, everything you've accomplished and dream of being and doing in life.
“We don’t see things as THEY are; we see them as WE are.” Anaïs Nin. Until we see, better. 🙏🏾
Thank you for acknowledging women the way that you do. We need more true advocates. Sadly, especially coming from a man because people tend to listen to men more & take them more seriously.
"heal her heart before I can have her heart" ....will never forget this! Absolutely wonderful teaching tonight 💗, Thank you Tony and God bless you and your family 💯 fold in faith, family and your finances, in Jesus name!
A Woman definitely needs safety when she’s with a man. If you don’t feel safe, it’s hard for you to be with him no matter how much you love him. Women may forgive but may never forget. Women tend to pray to God for change. But the man himself has to want to change in order for any real change to occur. He has to pray to God for change as well. After you put on that armor if God, pray as the Bible says.
It's TRUE speaking on my behalf, when my ex put his hands on me. I just knew he didnt love me and was hard to accept that. Needed to get that I was better off without him. Have had prayed for him. That relationship was painful.
@stargoldqueen how long was you with this guy? And when did you decide to walk away and how? I’m in a situation like this. Idk if it’s alike but the topic of it. Thank you in advance if you reply back.
@@spirituallove1357 good morning, it was less than a year and how; it took me staying away like no contact whatsoever. Period. When; I realized it wasnt gonna get any better. Couldn't stand the verbal/physical "aspect" of it. I was literally drowning because I thought I deserved it, I didn't and you don't either. Spiritual love I had a major surgery that made me realize who was really there for me! You don't realize how strong you are until you walk away and had some time to heal and reflect you made the right choice!
P.s God loves you enough to live in freedom! Have a wonderful day!
@Star Gold Queen GrandRise, I been with mines for three years. First year together he hit me once. Moved me out of state next year. Hit me more out there. Didn’t hit me in 2020 bc I moved back to our state where most my family status but was still verbally abusing me. Now in 2021 we moved back out of town and in a year did it to me twice this year and said it also. “It haven’t been a year right” “smirks” that was his words. He always say stop playing with him or he will ya know me. Ion like speaking certain things with the tongue. But he was verbally first in the first couple months we talked. Major flags I just pushed to the side in the first few months of knowing him. He’s older than me 9 years. So many devils but yet when I’m about to leave he either pops up or he stays home a lot bc he usually leaves us home all day. But he say leave but then when I’m about to stop me saying I’m not taking the kids. He knows what to say to rail me back in. I’m now letting god handle it by going to him praying, fasting etc. thank you for your time. GodBless. 😇🙏🏼
@@spirituallove1357 I'm not pretend it will be easy, it's not a walk in the park; it's easier said than done. But one of these things I enjoy is silence at times because I don't hear negative things etc. But will be praying for you! You are strong.
These men in the dark looooolllllll I love how Tony throws shade without saying names.
yessssss.....Lol
.... 😁 shhhhh we no 😂
I will say it again, TONY, YOU ARE 1 in 10,000,000. The anointing is all over you for this calling you have. BLESS YOU BROTHER.
it takes completely turning to God to change that type of behavior
"When you laid the straw that broke the 🐪's back, then you've got to live with that." TG 💯
His analogies! 😍😂
You should write a book on this uncle Tony. Very powerful message and reminder for all of us.
So true, a lot of men don’t want to deal with consequences.
This made me cry Tony 🥺😔😢
I feel u sis 💛
@@justlillian__ 🤍
I haven’t watched it yet but I know that I will cry as well.
Wow, In all my life i don't think I've ever heard anything quite like this. Every man should listen to this with an open heart and mind, and learn! Thankyou very much for eloquently and truthfully articulating and expressing the life challenges of many many women. You have a gift!!!!! Thankyou! 👏
Omg I love your wife's voice it's so smoothing and peaceful.
Thank you Tony for spelling it out. And after all of that, a man will walk away from you, leave you the provider for the child and tell you how you wasn’t enough.
THAT part! 😔
Tony all I can say is thank you for this video. You were truly speaking like a pastor dispensing divine wisdom. Bless you for your understanding of the beautiful and complex burden of being a woman. When a man gets a woman, he gets a good deal but its not always a good deal for the woman. This is why I am very careful when dealing with men. Your wife is a very lucky woman to have a high quality husband like you.
Real men will watch Tony and get something out of this video!! Every time I watch you Tony I learn so much!! And I been learning day by day what a healthy relationship should be like... before I started watching you I used to think we “trigger men to go be dogs and I thought I had to stick it trough with out calling him out to not make him mad” but I’ve learned soo much that I know that love shouldn’t hurt.. and it shouldn’t be so hard to get if it’s healthy love... I was soo lost 😩
Now I wanna love like I’ve never been hurt and it’s never my fault when a man mistreats me... it’s his own demonds he has in hun if he acts like a grown boy..
God bless
-paulina
True the courts don't care, they see you as the mother and you have to do everything
Class is in session ladies!
The thing about dating a women and marrying a women comes with alot of work. We got through so many issues with our minds, emotions, body's etc. We don't want a man who is going to add to our issues. Thats why so many women are doing the samethings like men which now most men can't handle that. Most men wouldn't or don't want women who are crazy or manipulative, savage etc.
@Joyful n Blessed you are right. We can fix this. We don't have to accept it. The question is how many women want to fix it or care about themselves enough to fix their imbalance?
This is so good. True man of God understand
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Thank you... Thank you... Thank you... for having compassion, empathy and respect for the opposite sex. Thank you for the wisdom you behold beyond your years, Tony Gaskins!!! May God continue to bless you & your family.
I have never heard a man speak so much truthfulness and candor....god bless you!
Amen Tony this really touched home for me in alot of areas. My soon to be ex-husband of 13yrs left "me" and our two special needs kids. Even though his abuse was not physical it feels just as bad. I was so busy wear all those hats u mentioned with life changes plus working full-time plus hrs. I didn't even notice the abuse "until 2yrs ago" being busy with everything else until I found he had been cheating. I confronted him about things then he wants to throw divorce in my face. I was always asking him for help when he thinks he is just surpose to go to work and hang out with his friends. I am so tired of all his excuses for what he does and blaming me for the break down in the relationship. In same breathe telling other people how I did him wrong. You just don't know how much it meant for me to hear the things you said. It only let me know from a MAN point what I told him or had been telling him was right all long. Thanks for what you do....
“Sitting in the dark, with that stuff spinning on their desk!” 😩😂
We know who he talking about too😂
😂😂 that part!!!
So I found out who THAT was! Oh my
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Is that Kevin Samuels or?
@@womanofgod2948 😩😂
Add menopause to the long list of women's physical changes.😌
Word. ❤😳
May the MOST HIGH continue to be with you and your family!
BREAK-IT-DOWN!!! This message is on 🔥🔥🔥,, yet it gave me chills!!! 🙏🏽❤️
Set your reminder on the 🔔
When I was in junior high...I used to leave school and go home and lay my stomach on the basement floor because of my cramps....it was so bad...I would cry....
That’s why I watch your videos Tony. When it comes to the love and relationship space on UA-cam you are one of the FAIREST ones out there which confirms how much your message comes from a genuine and loving place. Just like you said, you definitely do not pander to anyone and as a longtime viewer, that’s absolutely correct. I have been read for filth a few times 🤣🤣🤣. Keep up the awesome work!
He spoke the truth,as women we are took advantage of, mistreated , some times,mentally,emotionally and physically abuse from a man.
You've stepped on my toes many times when I started watching your videos, and it helped me heal and grow. Thanks for your dedication and support. This video is a must-see for every man on 🌎. Be blessed!
Wow Tony Gaskins you are truly walking in purpose, you are changing lives. I thank God for you !! 🙏🏽😀
Oh my Goodness this is a phenomenal video. Extremely stimulating, learn so much!!!
Finally,
A brother to balance it out! Well every life has a cross to bear, in our 20’s we start adulting & trials come for grades. We all know that violence is not the answer, however reading & asking questions on the matter is positive. Going within to make the necessary adjustments will project a person of true reflection.
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Foods high in sugar, fat and dairy maybe causing adult acne. I suggest cutting back on such foods and drinking lots of water to flush your system. I mean lots of water daily. Most people do not have eight, eight ounce glasses of water daily.
Love me some water....thats my only beverage....Im proud of it 😁
True. But I got so skinny when I cut out bread and dairy... and feel the pressure to be more curvy instead of my fit and slim frame. Brainwashed by the thick trend
@Joyful n Blessed when I was thick, my partner teased me about my belly. When I lost weight, he complained about my face and butt being too skinny. So lost the weight just to try to gain it again.
You were PREACHING!!!! This is why I feel like I can click on any one of your videos because there’s always a good word, even if it doesn’t have anything to do with the topic. Or if it closely relates to the topic. Thank you! Good word!
My prayer is that every woman watching/listening to this go back to 4:40 and listen 2-3-4 more times until it is engrained in their brain.
Tony I listened to this video 4 times straight , wow this was a God given message smh 🥲🙏🏽
So much wisdom packed in this!
You keeping it all the way real! I done been struck by the truth you speak! Glory to God.
Absolutely appreciate this vid... To have confirmation that there are, indeed, men out there who acknowledge and can empathize with a "woman's work" is so awesome!!
Thx for getting the message out Tony. No lies were told. I've been through all of this besides being physically hit. I'm divorced now and I'm starting to just want to be alone. I just don't have it in me to deal with these bs dudes out here. I'd rather be alone than to ever deal with a bad relationship again. I have zero tolerance. I just feel like it's overrated at this point
You are right with so many men lose women, beg for their return and do the same or worse!!!!
"God Bless You Tony for the Love and Accountability Talk!! Makes Sense"
Yes you are straight up and to the point, I love it ! You have no respect a person you tell the naked truth to men and women!! 🙏🏽God Bless you !
Mr. Gaskins, you should look up a size conversion chart before ordering items that aren't made in the U.S.
TG “ I got me a bullet” 🥴😩😭🤣
TG thank you for the acknowledgement, empathy and understanding of what it's like to be a woman in this world. I wish more men would listen to this information to understand how to be a better partner.
Thank you Sir Tony Gaskins.
Notifications Gang 👍🏾
What a word! Thank you Tony!
Thank you 🙏🏾
FarFetched.. Send Tony a check!!
TONY. This was one of my favorite videos, and there are so many that have changed my life. Such a great overview and depth of understanding. Thank you for defending women and real relationships.
I’ve listened to many of Tony’s videos. This one goes to the top of my list. 🙏🏽
Thank you, Tony! 😊🙏🏻
This was an fascinating and amazingly wise talk. Thank you.
On point always. Bless you!
Thanks so I will be ready
"something is always wrong with you"😩🥴🤣🤣 My man just said that too!
ANNND YES, I too have plantar fasciitis😭😭
This message was so informative and thought- provoking. much of what Tony said about the role of a woman was in depth. I used to dread being a woman because of the many things we have to go through. A few years ago when the doctor told me I had to have a hysterectomy, I was so happy, the next week I was in surgery. I know this may seem foolish on my part, but if you knew the pain I went through every month and could feel my pain, you would know why I was so happy for a hysterectomy. Now I know how a man feels to not have blood coming from between his legs every every month LOL. Nevertheless, I still feel that women go through because of the "Eve Factor" from the beginning of time. Just my opinion.
Lord, what a blessing you are, Tony. Thank you so much. I'm not in any relationship and not suffering anything regarding that, but still the wisdom God pours into you to share is like life to a weary soul. I try to share you with the younger women I know who need you most but... well, they can never ever say I didn't try. They don't know, Lord, what they're missing. But hey, I'm not missing it!! Thank you. Much love you, the Queen and your little kings. God in Heaven bless you all.
Thank you Tony, for speaking up for us ladies! God bless you!
This was a word. God bless you and your family!
Thank you TG. God bless your beautiful wife and kids . This was a very powerful message. I was overwhelmed just listening to you talk about what women go through. God bless you. 🙏🏽
Thank You for all you do!!
Beautiful video and message. Thank you for this
It’s feels so great to hear this words from a man, Tony, no doubt God has given you this calling. May the Lord bless you abundantly in all you do ! Thank you for your all your help, your time, your wisdom and knowledge. I really appreciate you
Tony, this is so powerful...I wish all men could listen to this! This is thought provoking! Thank you 🙏🏾
Tony Gaskins, simply Thank you for your wisdom over the years and sharing your mistakes.
So much wisdom here
Yes my cramps are terrible. Since the age of 9. 😪
Me too!
@@zoea.8677 it sucks girl , I be down half the month . ... I send my ❤️ to you !
Find a Certified vaginal steam practitioner in your area, they will be able to help minimize or eliminate the issues over time
Try acupuncture!
@Joyful n Blessed thank you!!! I have been changing my eating habits. Thank you so much!
TG just depressed me talking about what our bodies goes through...😢😢 smh 🤦♀️
Very powerful message! Exceeded all expectations! Thank you for your commitment to be used by God to minister to both genders. God knows everyone needs this!
Great video Mr. G. One of your best.
Bravooo Tony Gaskins for your Wisdom! More, more like this we need, then the Perfekt Love will be occurring
Shared like always 🗣🗣🙏🏼
I’m here for it!!!!!!
This is the best you have ever done!
I am glad this wasn't listed as a Man to Man video because I would've bypassed it.
This video here was like a Sunday sermon! It is necessary, fair, and golden!!!
Yesss thats how it is ...some men most. are very inconsiderate
Wow. Thank you Tony for standing up for us. Although you are not a woman, all you said is absolutely true.
Great advice !!!!!
Wow Tony!
You’ve seriously researched the intricacies of the female experience. Thank YOUUUUU✌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽!!!!!!
NAILED IT....BRAVO...WELL SAID...WELL DONE..STRAIGHT TO THE POINT FOR BOTH SIDES. IF PEOPLE DONT UNDERSTAND THIS BREAKDOWN , THEN THERE IS NOTHING ELSE TO SAY.
Tony we would really enjoy it if u let ppl call in !! That’ll be really interesting and have a good dialogue. They also don’t even have show their face or the names
He did that before and it turned out too much for him. The calls were taking too long. Bless his heart
This is the best video you have ever put forth....god bless you!
This video is so true.