Finding joy as a mother of 1
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- Опубліковано 4 чер 2024
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You guys must have an amazing mom. She sure did raise some amazing daughters.
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Agreeeeed!!!!
Amen to that!
I don't normally comment on videos, but I just wanted to throw it out there for the other mothers of wakeful babies. I was so sleep deprived with my first that I barely managed basic self-care or housework. I had to move heaven and earth to get him to sleep, and then he would be up 20 minutes later unless I was either lying next to him or walking vigorously with him in the carrier. Demanded full contact and attention when he was awake, so it was nearly impossible to get anything done. This was definitely not a time in my life in which I could get bored or learn new skills. I was in survival mode for at least the first year. I honestly get more done now with two littles and pregnant with number three.
Same! My first born was Clingy and allergic to sleep lol. I really struggled mentally with it. I found that the transition from one to two children was way easier for me, and my second born slept like a champ. Different seasons for different mamas❤
Same here. I’ve been absolutely exhausted with my first one. I am jealous to those mums whose babies give them a lot of free time
I just listened to the Simple Farmhouse Life episode where Lisa talked about how she told her little sister to embrace the freedom of being a mom of 1 and also told her teenage daughter to learn all the skills now while she is still so young, so that when she is an adult she will have so many tools in her tool belt. This video is very timely! Haha Those sentiments really resonated with me and I think that’s also why I have been enjoying your content so much.
I am a newlywed of 7 months and have been working on becoming a homemaker. I currently work full time but when we have kids the plan is for me to be a SAHM.
I grew up in a cluttered home and my mom was often stressed. We didn’t often do big projects and important things were procrastinated. I began adulthood not knowing how to cook very well, with a tendency to get overwhelmed very quickly by the smallest things, because that’s what I was used to growing up (I should also say I love my mom and she did a lot of things very well. But I do feel like I got the tendencies towards overwhelm from her).
All that to say, I’m trying to embrace how much free time I really do have right now, without kids, and gradually add to my tool belt (getting better at caring for the home, trying new recipes, starting gardening, decluttering, putting time into my faith, etc).
Your content has inspired me to use the time I have now more wisely, and reminds me that I am capable of pushing past overwhelm and learning new skills ❤ thank you
Great job on the sewing. I’m 66 now and never have been much of a sewer. I used too sew clothes for my grama but she is no longer with us. I did just recently get my mum’s sewing machine after she passed and would like to sew more, thank you for the inspiration. We are NEVER to old to quit learning new skills, 🌷🇨🇦
What an incredible job sewing those outfits. Such a sweet and thoughtful gift. 😮❤
I love how you do all the things! The little clothes came out so cute. When your daughter gets older, I can only imagine the pretty clothes you will be making for her!!😊
Yes, yes, yes!! I’m a SAHM of one little girl, and she’s 3 1/2 months old. I was dealing with some PPD and even more boredom just after week 3 or 4 with her. I had mostly recovered from birth, and I felt like I had nothing to do other than the necessities of caring for my daughter and making sure my husband had something to eat when he came home from work (a gifted freezer meal or otherwise). Three months later, I’ve gotten into sourdough at a very beginner level, started to take cooking seriously, and learned to find joy in the beauty around me by taking walks. You’ve inspired me to try my hand at sewing again (I haven’t sewed since I was a teenager) here in a few months after a move. Thank you for all you do.
I love to hear this! My story was/is similar. It helps so much to start learning a traditional skill I feel! :)
Our hands contribute at à simple and enjoy life...We must to remember it...❤
I absolutely love your vlogs. Feel free to make them longer.
I will try!
I agree 😂🥰🤗
What a beautiful thoughtful gift to receive
Bless your heart for being so vulnerable and open with us. Totally appreciate your honesty. Many women struggle with this problem of boredom when becoming a stay at home mom. God bless you and sewing is a excellent craft to learn! The outfits are adorable! Good job!
So glad that I found your channel! Even though I’m a grandmother, I remember those precious days of little ones, sewing their clothes, etc. I cherish those memories. It goes by way too fast.☹️ Love your gallery wall! How fun and happy!😊 Thank you for taking the time to encourage us all with your wonderful channel!🙌🏻
Thank you so much!
First off, that was the most adorable gift I’ve ever seen, and any friend of yours is lucky for so many reasons! Second, I’m curious what your baby does while you’re doing all these cool things. Is is always during their nap? My little one (17 months old) will only play by himself for short periods of time. I’d love to know your secret!
I love to watch you cut out with weights and a rotary cutter. I learned to sew as a little girl before rotary cutters were invented (or at least widely available), so I'm old school using pins and a good pair of scissors for garment sewing. I use a straight edge ruler and rotary cutter for my quilting projects.
Those little outfits turned out beautifully and what a gorgeous fabric 🥰
Thank you!
I agree with one of your other subscribers.. you girls really must have a amazing mom! All 3 of you sisters are amazing ladies, wives, cooks, homemakers.. and more. You ask have such amazing skills at a one of the same things & some different, but all amazing! I know your mom has to be so proud of the young ladies you all have become. The little outfits are just precious, i think you're doing a great job at your sewing! Thanks for another great video😊
*some of the same things!!
Aww well thank you!!! Our mom is wonderful.
You are such an inspiration for newly married or young mothers ❤ Keep up the good work and encouraging videos.
Thank you!
Hi Andrea! I totally relate to feeling the need to have a hobby or skill that occupies your time so you don’t just wish away all of the pockets of your babies sleeping time.
Sewing has definitely been that for me as well, but I would say that for me it has been a very practical skill! For buying normal clothes it is definitely cheaper than making. I have been cultivating my sewing craft for over 15 years, and as a young stay at home mom, I have been able to use it to help provide for my family as a wedding alteration specialist. it is definitely a niche, but it always amazes me that people don’t feel confident enough to do even some basic alterations on their own… And all of the knowledge that I have stems from learning to sew and construct garments for myself!While it is not a necessity for everyone, I have saved myself and my sisters thousands of dollars in alterations between their wedding gowns and bridesmaids dresses, because I can do some thing that started a simple as helping my grandma make little Easter dresses for me and my sisters when we were just little girls🥰.
I hope this is inspiring, because God has truly used a skill I didn’t even know I was growing in to keep our family afloat during the tough financial season we are in now. It is such a blessing!!!
Wow! That's amazing. I have been finding little ways it is very practical, but never thought of this!
That was a sweet labor of love. Thank you for sharing. (New sub here)
You have inspired me to start sewing again! I am a "mature" (nice way of saying older, LOL) woman. I have sewed off and on throughout my life and I do really enjoy it. I was smiling as you were making baby clothes, because when my girls were little I loved sewing for them. I am finally at a time in my life when I want to start slowing down and doing simple things when I have time - baking everything sourdough, gardening, canning, making Kombucha, and many more of these fun old fashioned skills that people used to do, that brings me such joy. I so enjoy watching you, Lisa, and Laura - you all really brighten my day after a long day of work. Thank you!
Aww I'm glad to hear that! Sewing (and other traditional skills) are so rewarding.
Its great that your older sister are there to teach and help you. ❤
It really is such a blessing!
Another thing that people can use for pattern weights are tile. Different decorative tiles make pattern weights that are both lovely and practical.
Oooo how pretty!
Thanks so much for your video Andrea and sharing your wisdom.
Funnily, at 49 your words resonated with me so much and inspired me as I am on the "other side" of motherhood with my youngest being 23 and me being an empty nester and experiencing that weird boredom that comes from way more time on my hands than I thought I would have.
You have encouraged me to not waste it being bored which I logically know but sitting with those feelings and hearing you openly and honestly share your feelings and shift in mindset is refreshing and comforting to hear.
I think I will relisten to this video multiple times, as encouragement and as a warm reminder to myself to cherish this special time in my life "for me".
For many years as a busy busy Mum I would crave the time and headspace to be able to enjoy hobbies, and other things that just had to wait and think longingly "one day.....". Well, now is that time for me.
Thank you so much. You may think that because you are a new Mom you don't yet have the wisdom to talk to older mothers that have lived through way more, but the reality is, if YOU share YOUR truth, it will reach those that can relate even in a tangential way, and YOU will cause a positive ripple.
Much love,
Cherie, Adelaide, South Australia
I am so glad to hear that this resonated with you! Enjoy your time for you!! 🤍🤍🤍
AM A Z I N G!!!!!
Absolutely brilliant message in this video! I remember feeling this way a very long time ago😉❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much!
Super cute!!! Love your videos.
Thank you so much!!
Wonderful video!! The food… how can one go wrong with burgers and fries!!?! I have been sewing since I was 8 and now decades and decades later, I still love it!! The outfits turned out so adorable. It’s very rewarding!!!
Totally agree!
Good for you to take the advice of your older sisters! That was such a thoughtful gift for your friend. Those littles will look so cute in their new outfits!
Thank you so much!
You did a wonderful job making the outfits. I am a great-Grandma and sure do remember making clothing for little ones in our family. Your videos are such a joy to watch.
Thank you so much!
I'm also a new SAHM of one. Thanks for the encouragement!! I really appreciate you sharing from your experience, even being so new into motherhood.
Now I’m inspired to make burgers an fries for supper 😅seeing you make those little boy clothes brought me so much nostalgia! Thirty plus years ago there were no Walmarts and I had no transportation and three little boys in a row that needed clothes . I remember sewing little shirts and pants for them often in tears , sewing was /is something I don’t enjoy that much . But my children had to have clothes! I learned to enjoy sewing shirts with cuffs that opened and closed and lay back collars. With our two youngest children I could buy all there clothes except I always sewed dresses for my daughters.
Wow! I can't believe you made all your oldests clothes! That's incredible
@@Oursweetsunnydays to explain we were conservative Mennonites so we had a dress code , we are still Mennonite but not conservative.
Oh my I love the boy outfits. So adorable and a wonderful gift.
Thank you!
I have a new great granddaughter. I'm looking forward to sewing for her.
Have fun!
LOVE that idea to cut and freeze your organic potatoes!!!❤
Haha thanks!
This was another great vlog. I loved it. Ty.
Thanks so much!
I felt the same boredom too! I slowly started incorporating things into my day and now that my newborn is a toddler… we have SO much fun together.
Awww that's so encouraging!
OH my gosh cute those little overalls and shirt ! Love it!
Lovely video, thank you. 🙏🏻
Great job Bravo
Thank you!
It's nice to hear honesty it's also nice to hear about your sister's it's a loving big Family love your videos I copied you and Lisa got me a little lamp in my kitchen so cozy thankyou for your honesty😊❤
I never thought I’d have the desire to sew but your channel has definitely inspired me and now I’m wanting to give it a try!
You'll love it 😉
Great use of your time!!
Oh how I wish my fern looked like yours!!
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I really enjoyed this video. Keep up the great work! 💚
Thank you!
They turned out adorable ❤️
Thank you!
I love your vlogs so much Andrea! Thanks so much for sharing them! 🥰
Glad you like them!
Such a sweet video! Great job sewing!
Thank you so much!
OMG! This clothes are amazing!! Do u use to make clothes for your girl? I´d love to see those in vlogs! :) Congrats from Brazil!
Those outfits are adorable! They will love them!
Thank you!
Lovely video as usual keep them coming❤
Thank you!!
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I'll be having my first in December so i really appreciate your videos. My plan as of right now is to get into art because that's what my mom likes and i think that'll help us bond❤
I love that! Congratulations! 🥰🥰
Love all of your videos I get so excited when you post a new one! 🥰 Would you be able to share which mic you use for your voice overs? Thanks for sharing today!
I use a YETI mic, but I don't know that I recommend it haha it's very quiet.
I just love your videos! THANK YOU! ❤ I grow my own potatoes, but don’t now how to store them as French fries. Do you just cut them up and freeze them without seasoning or precooking them?
I don't season or pre-cook, but I try to get them as dry as possible!
Bordum leads to creativity. If we are botd enough we will create something to do.
So true!
I love those clips you are using instead of pins! Did you get those at the sewing store? I’ve never seen that before.
They are clips used by quilters. You will find them at sewing stores.
@@504e Thanks, I will check it out!
Love your videos Andrea ☺ I heard you mentioned you started your YT channel after having your daughter, but is it true you had this channel before that? Or did you decide to rebrand? Would love to hear more about your YT growth journey.💖
I had the channel before, but with a very different style video! So I guess this was more of a rebrand. :)
Do you blanch the fries before freezing?
Love everything!! Just wish your videos were longer 😊
Haha I will try to make them longer!
Can you give the steps to freezing fries please
Bored is not a goood word, and I never use it! I’m 73 and my mother taught me “ years” ago. She would tell me I was too smart to be bored. Sewing was big part of my entire life.
Too smart to be bored - I like that!
hi do you knit
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