Shipwrecked on a reef in a gale! Ep255

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  • Опубліковано 28 бер 2024
  • What a terrible night, stuck on a reef, wind howling and all alone! At 4am we were awakened by a super strong squall rolling over us. Within minutes our anchor had dragged and we were blown sideways onto a coral reef. In crazy wild condition we did what we could to free her but once we realised that there was no water coming aboard and we were in no immediate danger, we calmed down and thought logically about our situation.
    Its the first time since becoming parents that we were faced with a situation that could really put our baby in danger. Scary!
    We didnt get much footage during the actual "grounding" stage so we did a debrief the next morning, as much for ourselves as for you viewers. Here was discuss what we could have done to prevent the situation and discover that both of us found silver linings.
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  • @stefanor8187
    @stefanor8187 2 місяці тому +2

    ....i feel so sorry for what happened to you! Until you all are safe, its something you can learn out of it. Personally a Cat is confortable but i'm more for classical boats that can defense themselves better, from windage is a fact, as you already said Capt.Vernon.
    Abt your "lovely boat-neighbours", poor people, being a Sailor is not all about how long&rich is your boat, it also belong to old traditions...
    I wish you Vernon, Marie and yr lovely kid all the best ❣Fair Winds

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  2 місяці тому +1

      Thanks Stefano. Could have been much worse, we escaped pretty lightly I reckon.

  • @maurice07Birkin
    @maurice07Birkin 3 місяці тому +9

    Hey morning Vernon, I have been watching sailing videos for many years now, stopped watching most as they turned into another repeat episode "Days of our lives" or "Married at First Sight". Rewatched this episode and think this is one of the most authentic 31 minutes of sailing life I have seen. Glad You, Marie and Eli are all safe and well. Maurice

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +2

      That’s good to hear Maurice. We hope very much that we won’t be replicating it soon. We do always try though to make honest content. Thanks for the nice message.

  • @michaelstavros8652
    @michaelstavros8652 3 місяці тому +2

    Glad you got out of the situation ok. Maybe a suggestion which may help avoid this next time. When you drop anchor pin that position on you satellite nav app/ device, and leave the device on at night. Then if a similar situation occurs you have a real time knowledge of your position, and where safety or danger lies.you don't waste precious time waiting for the device to acquire the position. Also note which bearing takes you to safety when anchored, and you can use your compass. Hope that makes sense and helps. We're always learning on our boat, and usually from when things like this happen to us.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  2 місяці тому +1

      Thanks Micael. As I responded below. I now use my anchor alarm every night, not only when I felt it was warranted as I used too.

  • @jacana25
    @jacana25 3 місяці тому +7

    Sooner or later every cruiser has a story or two of "when it all turned to shit". The thing is that you can't plan for every eventuality but when the shit hits the fan, all you can do is try to keep a cool head and do your best to deal with the situation. Thank you for sharing this experience with us.

  • @johnmajewski1065
    @johnmajewski1065 3 місяці тому +6

    Big test passed with flying Colours, I'm relieved Marie handles this drama with courage most women with a baby would pull up stakes and move a shore. As you noted family bond has been tested you both passed.
    As to the Dutch sailors in my limited experience, I found they can be intransigent difficult people at best of times. Not all but some can, I found it counterintuitive to do the right thing whereas Australians and New Zealanders are the opposite. SV Skoiern IV

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +3

      Thanks John, I feel we are a stronger unit now and that is a good feeling to have.

  • @brianhockenstein7011
    @brianhockenstein7011 2 місяці тому +2

    glad it worked out. fun little family adventure ;)

  • @rcralphpfister
    @rcralphpfister 3 місяці тому +6

    Sorry to hear you had no reaction from so-called mariners. I and others I know would have come to your aid in no time and help you out.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +3

      Yeah, on the other side I would have gone to help immediately as well. Hard to understand.

  • @1Jamesjc
    @1Jamesjc 3 місяці тому +6

    Thank you glad your all ok great debrief good decisions no drama just common sense and my observation from watching learning by doing from day 1 no bullshit congrats

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +2

      Thanks James. Yep, it’s important to us to try and Kep it real. Great to hear you’ve been here since the get-go

  • @faircompetition1203
    @faircompetition1203 3 місяці тому +5

    Until you have been in a line squall you do not understand how fast they come in . One thing I learned here was take note of the compass heading to deep water . You may not have visibility to see it or instruments booted up in a panic .

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  2 місяці тому +2

      The first time I experienced one of them was picking up my last boat Schiehallion the day I brought her. Motoring from Manley up to Scarborough in Brisbane. Craziest thing I ever saw. This thing was similar I guess but we didnt see it coming.

  • @PA96704
    @PA96704 3 місяці тому +5

    Wow thanks for your video. I just realize now that I will carry solar led lights and put one on land to give me a reference. Lucky it was dead low tide.

  • @svdeguello2884
    @svdeguello2884 3 місяці тому +6

    Amazing how few boats use anchor alarms as a matter of habit. We see boats dragging regularly with those onboard unaware for long periods, often oblivious until a third party alarms them. We have been saved by our anchor alarms and sleep well because of them.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  2 місяці тому +4

      Thats one big take away I got from this. I've previously used my anchor alarm only when I thought the conditions warranted it, bad ground, strong winds etc. The problem with that is that you never know when strong wind will appear. I'm using it every night now. The alarm is helpful but even more, if we are drifting I can right away see where and how far we have moved and then react accordingly.

  • @SailingYachtSaltyLass
    @SailingYachtSaltyLass 2 місяці тому +2

    When we ran aground, we were on a sandbank (lucky us!!) but, like you, we let the tide do the work. They way you both stayed calm and patiently worked through the problem was definitely the best thing to do. Good luck getting it all sorted out 👍

  • @Thenewkidsonthedock
    @Thenewkidsonthedock 2 місяці тому +2

    We learned so much from this video. Thanks for sharing guys. Honestly so rattling listing to you recount the story and the impact of seeing Tradie on the reef. You both handled it so well. Massive ups, you're in paradise and there are so many exciting adventures ahead for your family! Lots of love J+P

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  2 місяці тому +1

      Thanks bro. To be honest it’s taking a while to get our confidence back but that’s healthy and we are thinking harder and longer about our decisions. That’s a good thing. So easy to get complacent.

  • @209turtleboy
    @209turtleboy 3 місяці тому +6

    Thank God you have 2 motors in a situation like this

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +4

      Yep for sure. This exact situation in a mono would have been a whole different kettle of fish for sure. Maybe it wouldn’t have happened at all in a mono though.

  • @malachai333
    @malachai333 2 місяці тому +2

    I hope you guys get that propshaft sorted and i am glad it didn't get worse.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  2 місяці тому +2

      Thanks! Yeah could have been worse but we get everything sorted. The video coming on Saturday shows the repairs

  • @Duartechamps
    @Duartechamps 3 місяці тому +4

    Thank you for such a quality report on your scary experience. Life has this things, but learning is what it makes who we are. I feel in this crisis you three reacted very well considering all the situation. No panic!! There are two kinds of sailors, the ones who have run aground and the ones who will run aground!
    Pity of knowing that there is still people (not really sailors) not willing to help!!!
    Glad that you are well!

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +2

      Absolutely, it was good to see us working well as a team. No sense in panicking really. Some lessons learnt.

  • @lincolngrove2808
    @lincolngrove2808 2 місяці тому +4

    A sobering story but a really positive lesson learned. Finding out how well one copes with crisis can only be found through experience and it's great to see you come through this without debilitating panic, argument or loss of the boat. I wish you fairer winds for the future.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  2 місяці тому +2

      Thanks Lincon, you are 100% correct. As tough as it is to go through this sort of thing I feel sort of blessed to have found out how we both reacted and worked it out. You can never simulate this.

  • @davidnichols147
    @davidnichols147 2 місяці тому +4

    Vernon, Marie & Eli: All three are safe, without incident and still very much alive and kicking with Health, that's our main concern. Line squall's are a true nightmare, you both did a remarkable job keeping your wits about you and with Vernon's fast reaction dropping that second anchor, undoubtedly kept the damage to a minimum. Eli looks like he's growing like a weed. It won't be long before Eli will be behind the wheel giving the orders. Your so fortunate to have Marie right there as well, taking care of business. Excellent episode and we all learned so much from your thoughtful explanation.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  2 місяці тому +1

      Thanks David. Mistakes were made obviously but as you point out, no one was hurt, the boats still floating and we learnt some lessons.

  • @colrodrick8784
    @colrodrick8784 3 місяці тому +4

    Bloody hell Vernon Marie and bébé, I did not see that coming. I’m so pleased that you’ve come through as well as you have. A bent shaft is obviously not great but fixable. And nobody hurt.
    I know that you’ll fix what’s not 100% and the lessons learned for all the rest of us are out there to see.
    I surely appreciate you sharing. My knowledge is the tiniest wee fraction of yours and I feel grateful that you can spread the word. Hopefully we can avoid such things ourselves.
    Best of luck with the haul out mate.
    Bonne chance Marie

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +3

      Ah thanks for that. We’re all gaining knowledge as we go and I guess the real test is to see if we put that knowledge into practice.

  • @claverton
    @claverton 3 місяці тому +4

    Could've been a hell of a lot worse, scary. He's a very cute little fella, looks very healthy.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +2

      Yes indeed it could have. Eli takes after his mum for sure.

    • @claverton
      @claverton 3 місяці тому +1

      @@SailingLearningByDoing did you perchance cross paths with the two dutch guys in subsequent days?

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +1

      @@claverton no, as soon as we were floating we went on one motor 20nm to where we hoped to haul out.

  • @MikeSantis
    @MikeSantis 3 місяці тому +5

    Hey guys. First, thanks for sharing all this! So glad to see that you made it through. Sad that the other sailors near by haven't come around to assist or even in the morning to see if you needed any help. Sorry about that. Whenever I found my self in emergencies, I found out that I don't panic. I have no time for panicking cause I'm busy with how to sort out problems and find solutions. Ald in that way, I have learned to trust my self. Take care guys, thankfully it is all material damages and you are all safe.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +2

      Thanks Mike. Yeah in a way it’s good to experience these types of things from time to time.

  • @Yelnats87
    @Yelnats87 3 місяці тому +4

    Mate, it's admirable/ super informative to hear these situations, because sailing isn't always rainbows and skittles! Thanks for sharing guys! Love how truthful you guys are about it all aswell... Glad to hear that you three made it out unscathed! Bless up guys and here's to better sailing days ahead!

  • @colinboniface194
    @colinboniface194 3 місяці тому +4

    You just have to manage what life throws at you... Clearly you both delivered and saved the boat and yourselves... Dam good job too...

  • @sailorruss5279
    @sailorruss5279 3 місяці тому +6

    From the heart Vernon, every cloud has a silver lining. Looking forward to the next chapter

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +2

      Yes thats so true. Always look on the bright side of life, dada, da, da da.

  • @sophiacutler7684
    @sophiacutler7684 3 місяці тому +5

    holy, what a night!.., Glad you are all okay..., little Eli is getting so strong now, holding himself up on dads knee, so cute..., great lessons in there guys..., Marie grabbing passports must have been so scarey for her..., geez,... just fix the window properly nxt time Vernon..😄🫣💁‍♀️..., you did so well team..❤🙏🌏⛵️🥇, so great you are all okay.., the coral will be okay too..❤

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +1

      Thanks mate, super nice of you. Eli is getting big fast! Wanting to do everything I do already but gets frustrated when he can't. Hope youre doing good

  • @klemenprezelj
    @klemenprezelj 3 місяці тому +3

    Sailing with a kid certenly is different ball game, but u guys are smart and experienced, u will learn on the go and adapt. U are great.

  • @Alex000113
    @Alex000113 3 місяці тому +4

    Now its a family adventure. Commiserations and congrats on handling it. Hope the boatyard doesnt find any surprises.

  • @sailingwiththejamess
    @sailingwiththejamess 2 місяці тому +6

    What a night! Glad you 3 are all ok!

  • @sailingopheliacompass2997
    @sailingopheliacompass2997 3 місяці тому +5

    A good end result Vernon - just one of those incidents you can't control. Pity about others not checking on you though.

  • @rurikdraper3178
    @rurikdraper3178 3 місяці тому +5

    Thank you for sharing your adventures with the world

  • @coming_home
    @coming_home 3 місяці тому +5

    Hey Morning!
    Thanks for keeping it real. Glad that you and Marie and bébé are safe and boat was mostly undamaged too.
    Look forward to more of your adventures!
    - Rajesh Kumar

  • @johnmcenaney5255
    @johnmcenaney5255 3 місяці тому +5

    God Bless the three of you, keep strong, have faith in each other, you're all safe.

  • @dreamingosailing5496
    @dreamingosailing5496 3 місяці тому +4

    Wow! First of all, glad you are all safe. Thank you for giving an honest and open account of what happened, root cause, what went right, and what didn’t go so well. That learning is invaluable to not just yourselves, but everyone that watches this. Thanks for the vulnerability! Be safe!

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +3

      You’re very welcome. We’ve always tried to make honest and informative videos with minimal fake drama.

  • @budawang77
    @budawang77 3 місяці тому +7

    Love your humility and honesty. That’s the way to learn and improve. Your channel is aptly titled. Awesome attitude guys!

  • @garthsykes7691
    @garthsykes7691 3 місяці тому +3

    Well handled by you both.Certainly a learning by doing episode Happy you came out well after that one and can move on with the adventures.

  • @giork2828
    @giork2828 3 місяці тому +7

    At least your boat did not hit a bridge 😅

  • @FrankJamger
    @FrankJamger 3 місяці тому +5

    Glad you avoided disaster. Helpful of you to share the experience.

  • @johntebbetts4182
    @johntebbetts4182 3 місяці тому +4

    Well, at least the bunk stayed dry. 😏 Glad you’re ok. Really nice to see Marie smiling and laughing so soon after this incident, it bodes well. The indifference of the other cruisers is sad and disturbing, but it’s the exception, not the rule. Keep the faith. As for exposing the little one to risk, there is risk everywhere. He is probably in much more danger on the average one hour drive than he will ever be onboard that boat. This episode is a good one; “Learning by Doing” writ large. There are always things to be learned. Well done.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +2

      Silver linings eh? You’re right, I think about risk in the same way. Most people don’t even consider it dangerous driving a car, just assuming the person coming the other way is sane, sober and has attended to the vehicle’s maintenance.

    • @johntebbetts4182
      @johntebbetts4182 3 місяці тому +1

      @@SailingLearningByDoing It’s a question of familiarity. Most folks drive every day, and think nothing of it. Complacency. The same danger exists on boats, of course. Ask me how I know. No danger of that for the two of you for a while now…. Best of luck getting things sorted

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому

      @@johntebbetts4182 yep too true I guess.

  • @CraigOverend
    @CraigOverend 3 місяці тому +3

    Glad you're ok and thanks for going in-depth so we can all learn. I've been reading about the 100 year return 10 minute average maximum wind speeds over the ocean where a global study indicated 72 knots max in the northern hemisphere and 66 knots in the southern. Wild. I wonder if what you saw was one of those events for your area.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +1

      Thanks Craig. I haven’t seen what you mentioned, I’ll have a look.

  • @johnwalker6711
    @johnwalker6711 3 місяці тому +7

    Glad to hear everyone is ok mate , also no serious damage to the boat looks like a bigger anchor needed if those squalls are becoming more prevalent where your at . Fair winds !!

    • @hthring
      @hthring 3 місяці тому +2

      yeah i was thinking if not new since he bought the boat maybe it could be bigger

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +3

      Yep, it wouldn't be a bad idea for sure.

  • @billhanna8838
    @billhanna8838 3 місяці тому +5

    Luck shines on us at times BUT the other cruisers ignoring you , That is a No No , Bigger pick ? & I wonder if a small 'rubbing keel' would help , An inch or two glassed along the centerline just for grounding ... The good news is the Great barrier reef has never been healthier . Fair winds .

  • @philwiltse
    @philwiltse 3 місяці тому +4

    Really glad it worked out and you're all ok!!!

  • @Lance84AU
    @Lance84AU 3 місяці тому +3

    Sorry this happened, I think you dealt with it well. I find an anchor alarm really mandatory, but can understand the complacency of not using one.
    But I had to laugh about wearing the ROCNA hat while telling the story!

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +2

      We still feel confident with our Rocna, we just pushed it past its capabilities with too much windage. Have had the anchor alarm on since

  • @cbpaton53
    @cbpaton53 2 місяці тому +3

    ... very scary. thank you for the feedback, good learnings.

  • @maurice07Birkin
    @maurice07Birkin 3 місяці тому +4

    A story to tell your Son when he is old enough to understand. Well that is his first grounding, probably not his last. Great not too much harm done. Maurice.

  • @jimiandersen6962
    @jimiandersen6962 3 місяці тому +4

    What a nightmare. Good you are alright

  • @shaynewoodman6610
    @shaynewoodman6610 2 місяці тому +1

    very honest video think you got lucky your good people and smart looking forward to the repairs video and moving forward be well shayne

  • @peterlee440
    @peterlee440 3 місяці тому +4

    Scary! I’m with you on the help front

  • @budawang77
    @budawang77 3 місяці тому +5

    Seems like you have a good boat there. Kevlar reinforced hulls and lifting rudders. Shaft props are also better than sail drive. Not bad.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +4

      Yeah a saildrive would have been destroyed in this situation I reckon.

  • @allanrobinson8852
    @allanrobinson8852 3 місяці тому +3

    Great lesson, and lucky result, could have gone so much worse, but calm decision making in the heat of the battle is testament to your experience. Well done both of you

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +1

      Yes indeed, would have been a totally different outcome if another squall had rolled through when we were stuck on the reef!

  • @mastapieces
    @mastapieces 3 місяці тому +4

    So glad to see you are save. This episode definitely deserves the "Learning by doing" label I guess :-): All the best for the next chapter, love your humble, modest way of dealing with things. Merci pour partager.

  • @TammyBillings-qt1ve
    @TammyBillings-qt1ve 2 місяці тому +2

    Wow that must have been scary.

  • @davidwarnes5158
    @davidwarnes5158 2 місяці тому +2

    Glad your safe , the chart plotter and instruments on would of helped greatly , orientation at a glance , seeing that you had moved . More time to make a action . Not preaching shit happens .

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  2 місяці тому +1

      Thanks David. Yea you are 100% correct. Having them on and an anchor alarm would have given me valuable seconds.

  • @makingwavesslowly
    @makingwavesslowly 3 місяці тому +4

    Thanks for your honesty in your reporting of the situation. I took much from this for my own sailing, especially the windage factor which has caught me out. I'm very pleased you are all ok and stronger through the experience. More great videos to come. Cheers.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +1

      Yeah thankfully the outcome was favourable and we’ll be around to make many more videos of our adventures. 🙏

  • @erikmortensen6541
    @erikmortensen6541 3 місяці тому +3

    Stay safe, you're made it out of this odeil, Thanks for all your hard work ❤❤❤

  • @AdventureYachtSeaMonkey
    @AdventureYachtSeaMonkey 3 місяці тому +3

    Wow you really handled that well as a team, despite the lack of assistance from Goldmember and co. Super impressive. Glad you’re all safe. Onwards! 💪💪💪

  • @loicwirth_
    @loicwirth_ 3 місяці тому +4

    Love you guys, happy you are all safe ❤

  • @rondejoux8006
    @rondejoux8006 3 місяці тому +3

    Scary, so pleased it ended well.

  • @shaunreid5898
    @shaunreid5898 3 місяці тому +3

    Glad all work out better than expected

  • @tanukish
    @tanukish 3 місяці тому +4

    Congratulations on handling a bad situation well. Glad that Eli is such a young trooper! Good luck on the haulout.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +2

      Thanks. I think we did all right after landing on the reef, the stuff beforehand, not so much

  • @rossmain4142
    @rossmain4142 3 місяці тому +3

    Guys well done in a ordinary situation, Look forward and learn from this, don’t belt yourselves up, you have handled this well.

  • @chhindz
    @chhindz 3 місяці тому +4

    Kevlar good!

  • @sailingstormranger6238
    @sailingstormranger6238 3 місяці тому +9

    Hey mate, I have noticed in the last ten years that the cruising community has changed , for the worst. They don't help each other out like they use too. Glad you made it through, but i am surprised that you don't have an anchor alarm on your GPS/Chart plotter

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +4

      There has been a lot of new people entering the lifestyle but I can’t blame it on my those I think. I’m choosing to believe it was an isolated incident and in general the cruising community are still great.

    • @Sailaboat
      @Sailaboat 3 місяці тому +3

      The look in Marie's eyes on the intro reminded me of my wife the 1st we nearly dragged on the beach in langkawi.
      The other two cruisers should be ashamed of themselves.
      We would have been over and offering a hand as soon asap.
      Best of luck with your repairs guys

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +2

      @@Sailaboat thanks and its good to know that. We'd do the same and I still cant understand those 2 boats

    • @genieclarke7346
      @genieclarke7346 3 місяці тому +2

      I'm so glad all need OK. Baby is growing so fast. 😊

  • @PrimalMovers
    @PrimalMovers 3 місяці тому +3

    Scary! well handled skip, glad all went relatively well for you guys. Onwards!

  • @sammaimas155
    @sammaimas155 3 місяці тому +3

    Very scary Vernon and Marie. I am glad you escaped a worse situation. All the best for the future.🤙

  • @larsholst6216
    @larsholst6216 3 місяці тому +2

    You did so great.
    I really hope it won'øt scare you away from from the water.
    We all learn.
    I really was touched watching this.
    I truly hope the very best for you three and your boat.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +1

      thanks so much! I feel it really made us a stronger team and we feel confident and tomorrow set off on our new adventure.

  • @gwtomkins
    @gwtomkins 2 місяці тому +2

    You lucky to have each other too grow

  • @jonathanscott550
    @jonathanscott550 3 місяці тому +2

    Yes quite a stressful situation. Thankfully all you came out safely which is the most important thing. Surprised the other boater's especially the ones you knew didn't come over or attempt to and worst not even coming by after it was over. Thankfully Eli's a sound sleeper and because of this it made dealing with this situation easier so to speak less worries still very stressful I'm not trying to down play this. Now haul out get a really good close look and fix the damage. Like you said could have been a lot worse. Thank-you for giving us the explanation of what happened and letting us know you three are doing well. Looking forward to next video "The Haul Out!!!!"

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +1

      Thanks Jonathan. If Eli had of been scared and yelling the whole thing would have been so much worse! When he’s crying we can’t seem to concentrate on much else, especially Marie. When I started cruising one of the things that amazed me was the sense of community, people offering help and advice. This is the first time I’ve really been disappointed by fellow cruisers. To be honest, they couldn’t have helped much but at the TIME us or them didn’t know that.

  • @ilukatube1972
    @ilukatube1972 3 місяці тому +2

    You guys handled it so well...Props!! So much for the code of the sea ..those other boats should be ashamed of themselves.

  • @stevethurlow9059
    @stevethurlow9059 3 місяці тому +2

    My friend Mike saw a boat dragging in the BVI and braved 30+ winds to help him..turned out he helped Neil Young re-anchor..he paided him back by coming to Cabbage Key in Florida and playing music for 2 hours one night....

  • @lusvus5445
    @lusvus5445 3 місяці тому +2

    You are the best

  • @SwAImy
    @SwAImy 3 місяці тому +1

    Wow that's my nightmare, especially with kids on board. Good to see you're all safe and hopefully you learnt by doing.

  • @rickpyne
    @rickpyne 3 місяці тому +1

    Thankfully Marie and the baby are safe and well, we can always replace a boat. Your choice of Trade Runner has been a winner. Lightweight and Kevlar, all minimising damage when going aground, thank God. Get the boat out of the water asap and make sure water doesn't get into the hull laminate. The bent prop shaft means that allot of pressure has been put on the shaft bracket . I'm sure you will do a thorough inspection when out of the water. Good luck with the repairs, your theory that small things can lead to larger problems is absolutely correct. I have always thought that a good skipper will easily handle one problem, two problems at the same time again handled by skipper and crew, but with three problems at the same time even the best skippers have lost control of the situation. Again good luck with the repairs and great to know all three of you are safe.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому

      Thanks Rick. Theoretically you can always replace a boat but in our case we’d be completely broke so could only afford to replace Trade Runner with a hobie cat maybe.

    • @rickpyne
      @rickpyne 3 місяці тому +1

      You will be able to fix TR without much trauma and be back on the water soon@@SailingLearningByDoing

  • @stevesteel6066
    @stevesteel6066 3 місяці тому +1

    Verne, you preserved the yacht and took all the necessary actions, whilst considering the conditions and forecasts of wind and tides. Despite the setback to your journey and the necessity to haul out and make repairs good, I would give yourself a pat on the back! Hopefully the boat is repaired by now and you and your family are enjoying the wonders of these great oceans 🌊 Much love to you and your family ❤

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +1

      Thanks Steve. Yeah I think there’s not much we would do differently once we were aground. Beforehand yes, some things I’d change there.

  • @scottgenius9189
    @scottgenius9189 3 місяці тому +1

    You guy's coped with that well minimal damage stay safe

  • @jamesletendre4097
    @jamesletendre4097 3 місяці тому +1

    Happy to see all are fine. You had a situation that comes up so quicking and at a bad time. You handle it extremly well under the circumstances. We all get in situations on the water. Clear heads will generally prevail. You did good and kept Marie and your bundle of joy safe 👍

  • @stevethurlow9059
    @stevethurlow9059 3 місяці тому +1

    Most boaters will size the anchor to the weight of the boat and not the windage as you found out

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +1

      Yep, it’s what I did. You’re the first one to mention windage. On FB the comments are all the same, need a way bigger anchor, 7 to 1 scope at all times etc etc. if you l ft your sails up and a squall came then no anchor would hold you in place, that sorta what we did.

  • @robertlaird6746
    @robertlaird6746 3 місяці тому +1

    The damage is minimal for the most part. Glad it wasn't worse. Looks like an easy fix all things considered. Looking forward to next weeks video.

  • @user-pn9cz3nr1k
    @user-pn9cz3nr1k 3 місяці тому +1

    Mate I live in Bali next to the beach and there have been a couple of CRAZY squalls run past us and obviously when you were there, they were around. Crazy weather mate !

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +1

      I think it’s the change over between seasons. Like a wall of wind hitting us. Crazy.

  • @stevechampion7938
    @stevechampion7938 3 місяці тому +2

    Glad you guys are safe. Nothing better than hindsight so as your channel name says. Learn by doing. Now in future you’ll learn to listen to that voice in your head. Boat is repairable. Glad you have put out an honest video about it cause there would be plenty out there that sugar coat it. To those selfish $&”@: next to you, hope you are both proud that you got a good night sleep, whether the boat next to you has done the wrong thing or not or made a mistake doesn’t stop you from lending a hand. Let’s hope if you’re ever in trouble you don’t get the same response…. FH’s…..
    Ps my kids were never that calm at that age! I should have put them in a boat! Keep up the great work. Don’t let this spoil your lifestyle.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +1

      Thanks Steve. We could have for sure made a way more dramatic video about all this but it's not us. We talked about not releasing a video at all, just telling our Patrons and then moving on but I feel our viewers value the honesty in our videos and we hoped some would find some value in this account. No-one is perfect, we all make mistakes. I'd way rather make a mistake and learn from it than be scared to risk failure and end up doing nothing.

  • @cvs8545
    @cvs8545 3 місяці тому +1

    Congratulations and well done to you both!

  • @margeriggs6692
    @margeriggs6692 3 місяці тому +1

    Oh my goodness. I'm glad you are all ok. Scary.

    • @giork2828
      @giork2828 3 місяці тому +3

      "goodness" might exist but it's a rare thing. God, as in oh my God, exists.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +1

      We see goodness way more than not and choose to think it’s an anomaly

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +1

      Thanks. Scary for sure.

  • @jiefflerenard1228
    @jiefflerenard1228 2 місяці тому +2

    It seems today mariners rely more on technology, private towing, insurance claims more than on fellow human help.
    The same apply to offshore sailors who with tech do not need the deep knowledge and respect of the element than previous generation did,
    you can now circumnavigate without a single serious storm in your way, if the sense of danger is gone ,why help?

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  2 місяці тому +1

      Yeah thats true. If something breaks most will resort to UA-cam to show them how to fix it rather than go ask the guy on the next boat across. Things are becoming less personal in all walks of life. Nowadays you dont ask humans for help, you ask the internet.

  • @svthorasailing4868
    @svthorasailing4868 3 місяці тому +1

    A good outcome,easy fix in the water by the looks of it,can slide the shaft out in the water and put a bung in and replace.Very big learning curve when shtf and you keep your shit together,Safe sailing guys.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +2

      Yep, could have been easily way worse for sure. A haulout was neseccery to reapair the hull.

    • @svthorasailing4868
      @svthorasailing4868 3 місяці тому +1

      @@SailingLearningByDoing hope she’s not too scratched up down there,take care.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +2

      @@svthorasailing4868 nothing 5 long days of hot itchy work wont fix.🙃

    • @svthorasailing4868
      @svthorasailing4868 3 місяці тому +1

      @@SailingLearningByDoing I’ve heard put a heap of baby powder on neked then undies and the dust suit cuts out most of the itchiness,problem is sweat and the exposed areas like hands wrists and face.The new bosun is so cute by the way,also hats off the Maria for keeping it together,most folks would have lost it.I guess in real time the boat is repaired already right???Lol.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +1

      @@svthorasailing4868 Yeah I didnt have any dust suits with me. was about 37deg and so humid in the mangrove swamp.

  • @budawang77
    @budawang77 3 місяці тому +1

    The attitude of those Dutch sailors is almost unthinkable. Sounds like they were in their buddy boat bubble and oblivious to anyone else😮

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +1

      Yeah not very cool. I felt like going over in the morning saying something but they probably would have said “you got yourself in trouble so get yourself out of it”.

  • @julesmoto9022
    @julesmoto9022 3 місяці тому +1

    Must have been great to know that you had Kevlar lining the bottom of the hull. Good to haul out as quick as you can in case the core picks up water. What is the core?
    Hope you manage to get a new prop shaft at a reasonable price and reasonably quickly.
    Any thoughts of a bigger or different anchor? Can't remember what you have at present.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +1

      It was nice to know about the Kevlar, my last boat had it too. Not really stoked to test it out though.

  • @keithh8661
    @keithh8661 3 місяці тому +1

    😊

  • @waynelemmon3007
    @waynelemmon3007 3 місяці тому +1

    As shit as it is, it could of been a lot worse. The best part of it is there doesn't look to be a lot of damage, and you have learnt from it. Not worth talking about those that didn't help. Over all you turned what was a shit situation into a great outcome. Glad your all ok and the adventure continues.

  • @Antipodean33
    @Antipodean33 3 місяці тому +3

    From the damage I could see I reckon a bit of epoxy fairing should do the trick. Straighten the shaft if possible, if not a new one. Lessons learnt, bigger anchor may help. Depressing no one came to help, that is not how we Aussie's operate, obviously they weren't Aussies. To you sailors who ignored their pleas for help, shame on you, you are a cowardly disgrace. If you need a hand fixing the boat i could fly over from South Oz and give you hand if you need it. I wonder what difference a cat to mono makes in this situation, I think in a mono you'd be much worse off. anyway all's safe, boat held up well and you can sail to fix her, so in my opinion you've done well

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +1

      Needed a bit more than filler as you'll see next week but nothing too serous. Youre right, they weren't Aussies! Thanks for the offer mate, great to know there's people, like you out there. This occurred 2 weeks ago now and we've already hauled out and repainted the damage(next video). Would have loved the help though as Marie was flat out looking after Eli and I nearly killed myself getting everything fixed by myself. We discussed this, if it happened to Scheihallion. Would have been way worse I reckon as she would have been over on her side with the keel stuck. Maybe she wouldn't have dragged at all though as a Mono has way less windage.

    • @meredithbayly8617
      @meredithbayly8617 3 місяці тому +1

      Hey Vernon and Marie it seems hard to avoid every situation. I now always feel like we should have sea room and then forget when the weather is calm. I suppose the depth drops too quickly in some places too. Our anchor alarm has saved us a couple of times. 60 knots is not something I want to experience. Safe sailing for your family.🙂

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +1

      @@meredithbayly8617 Yeah it shows we need to be ready for anything, anytime. The weather forecast cant predict squalls like this one and they can come from any point on the compass. Some of its luck and some preparation. Learning all the time

  • @fransdriesen1311
    @fransdriesen1311 3 місяці тому +1

    Could have been worse...The family was safe and Vernon did what he had to do as a skilled skipper..
    Always "lesson learned" ..that's the progression in sailing..

  • @pmorph
    @pmorph 3 місяці тому +1

    That is your worst nightmare... could happen to any of us-- as I am sitting at anchor in Pittwater on my catamaran... Interested to know what our main anchor was? did it drag or did you swing onto the reef with the wind change? Well done managing the panic-- have had to do that once myself on a mono-- just waiting for three hours for the tide to come in, itching to actually do something, anything... but waiting. Phil

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому +1

      Hi Phil. We have. 20kg Rocna with 60m of 8mm chain. We had all the chain out and dragged about 100m till hitting the reef.

    • @pmorph
      @pmorph 3 місяці тому +1

      @@SailingLearningByDoing Wow, as you say possibly the extra windage pulled her out... Thank god the damage is not too bad... bad enough of course.. Go well.

  • @user-cs2hy7fh9w
    @user-cs2hy7fh9w 3 місяці тому +3

    You dodged a bullet there Vernon. You did the right thing waiting for the tide to rise and not forcing it.

    • @SailingLearningByDoing
      @SailingLearningByDoing  3 місяці тому

      We did indeed! If another squall had come while we were stuck it would have been a different outcome.

  • @crazybully
    @crazybully 3 місяці тому +2

    That is disgraceful that those other boats didn't offer any help or at least check on you the next day , oh well Karma is a bitch, I wouldn't want to be sailing on those boats in the future