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When they ( women) are given rights they say we don't want that And after that says women have no rights in Islam . Btw brother mr. Ali can you please make a video where I can find complete right of mine towards Allah ﷻ and to my mother , father , son , daughter , siblings , uncle , aunt . Everyone and even society and VICE VERSA . Please understand what I'm saying I'm not that eliquent . May Allah ﷻ guide and protect me you and everyone
Sheesh what did you say at last shook me? Don't say how many body count you have? And this is the answer. Your mind is westernalised too much. If I am a man and I want to marry according to my criteria than a woman is also free to choose according to her criteria. A woman chooses a man who is rich, can provide for herself and with whom she would be comfortable. And a man chooses a woman based on her looks and her behavior and her background. A man will not want to marry a woman who has like 50 body counts which is with some random person in a bar. Never ever. People marry with a mindset of living with the person they married to with a mindset of staying with them forever. I don't want a woman who did with like 50 random man even if she is a repentant. Why should I do something for her if all the people got everything they needed for free or by paying a little amount.
@@alidaud258 we are NOT talking about exceptions. Also take it up to Allāh and his messenger if you have a problem with it. Guy needs to do his part, regardless of the woman.
I’m a revert and I’m a house wife and my husband works very hard to be able to provide for us and our children. And yes I do the cooking and the cleaning and the child care and I’m very happy. I dislike when these feminists think they speak for all woman. There are woman who still prefer traditional roles. She has had a bad experience and she blames all men for what her father may have done.
Most women still are in traditional roles especially in richer families anywhere in the world. 70% of women do not work in the upper class of western countries. May Allah bless you, your husband and children
@@Mini-jm2ec cause men and women aren't equal we are different and our creator knows best about our needs and according to our roles Islam has rules and it isn't about what Human thinks which is right or wrong for us , so far as I know islam is totally about gender equality which each of us fit for.
My wife often tells me how envious her friends are of her that her husband allows her to fully be at home and taking care of the home and children because their husbands, are the type to tell them to work and go 50/50. My wife doesnt have to but she thanks me every week for this fact and the fact that her friends total income with their husbands far supercedes my income, we still live a very comfortable life with no debts, is a sign that clinging onto islamic values will always triumph over other values. They earn more but their children goes to daycare, husband drives cars they dont need and at the end of the day, they are both tired of each other and children being raised by another person other than their parents will not grow mentally the same compared those raised by their own mothers. Alhamdulillah for the state of my household and i wish the same for every muslim.
Being a woman i m saying this; no matter how much women claim of being equal to men but the fact is nature made difference in man and woman: this difference is real and it should be respected. Woman’s femininity is their biggest strength and for man taking care of his wife daughter sister mother is the biggest strength.
For arguments sake let's assume that nature made us different, but nature didn't makes us unequal. Inequality was enforced by your "allah" whom you think is God. If women's femininity (sexuality) is their strength - and I agree - again your "allah" deprives women of their sexuality by forcing them to walk around in burkas. If your "allah" really was God, he would teach women how to use their sexuality to their benefit and never be the underdog vis a vis men. That's how you know that your "allah" is not God. Happily iranians are burning their hejabs and freeing Iran from this "allah" and "islam".
@@Amarah4600 Notice how she said men taking care of women are there biggest strength and for women its just their femininity? This woman is affected by f'em'i'n'ism too.
@@therebelliousprince0073and? does that give men the right to dominate women? yes, according to your "allah", meaning he's not God. "allah" is such a misogynist and anti human generally
Women are focusing to prove men that they can do what men can do, and forgetting how to be a women. Men have their strengths, women have their strengths. Bring your strengths together and build your marriage on it! Subhanallah!!
@@moahmmedfarhan5921 yes and I agree with you, what I meant by that is that each personal relationships with Creator is really personal, and there's a story behind everything. So the question you asked might seem simple yet a bit complicated for me due to some personal reasons and searches that I hsd in my life. It's something I would openly talk about in private, because rn I can't answer to your question:)
Let me tell you something I was a woman who wanted to be like these independent feminist and go to work ! I had my baby and after 7 months I went back to work I fought with my husband and he told me it’s not a good idea and I shouldn’t go back ! But I didn’t listen and followed this idea of being independent and strong so I went back and it was the biggest mistake and regret of my life ! I cried every single day and refused to tell my husband ! The guilt killed me and I ended up becoming depressed because my maternal instinct wanted be home with my child and now I am pregnant with my second baby and I have already decided I will not be going back to work after maternity leave ! I am telling you ladies the only way of life is what Allah has told us ! Do not listen to this society !! Please you will flourish in your natural way of life at home as a wife and mother !
Maashallah,well said. It 's 100 % my Story,born and grow up in germany, always that feminist Ideologie in my head,after i got my son,i had soon that feeling that i have to go back to work,i brought him with only 12 months to the childcare😔my husband did not agree but i thought that is right,when i took him after work he was so in love with his educator which made me so sad.sometimes i responsible my husband that he didn' t held me,to All Women outhere,it' s not pejorative to stay at home even when you got more Money, mostly you buy more bags😅
After watching both of those videos, I came to the conclusion that everything she spewed was from an emotional point of view. (I mean you can tell from the beginning she was being emotional). She then mentioned her *father.* DAAMNNN she just made it that much more obvious of her own traumatic personal experience and tried to generalise it to the rest of the men. She's an exception to the rule and the exception never makes the rule.
Two things. The girl is still young & is learning & this is fiqh ruling that Ali Is to under qualified to be discussing because he won't able to do it justice & explain it properly without causing a divide & a rift with the Muslim's his infront of!
She has trauma from her father being oppressive. That you can clearly hear from her words. It's just emotional talk without any objective evidence and substance behind it.
feminism ideology is one of the dangerous fitnah nowadays. sad to see the destruction happened little by little in our muslimah community. may Allah protect us all
@̣ it was a movement to get women their rights, because they didn't have a religion to do that. Islam did that waaay back in 600s. Soo the saud movement brought the rights for women. Now what is its purpose? There is no oppression as far as I know. It is now a toy of politicians to play around, divide and use people. I am not saying it is perfect. But for a certain time its purpose was indeed good.
And I thought lg tv was the most dangerous. But looking at this, how they have penetrated the Muslim women, I think feminism is the most dangerous. It comes slowly from the back and brainwashes you. May Allah(s.w.t.) guide us all.
Exactly...I mean she's talking about marriage and probably has zero clues what marriage realistically entails.. Unless she is unhappily married at her young age?
A man came to the Seal of the Prophets and said: “O Prophet of Allah ! Guide me, to whom should I be good in order to benefit completely from my good deed?”He said: “Be good to your mother.” He asked: “Next to her?”The Prophet repeated: “Be good to your mother.” He said again: “And next to her?”The Prophet answered: “To your mother.”The man said: To what other person should be good?”The Prophet said: “To your father.”
@@servantofthemerciful3511 The Mother is a woman and I wanted to highlight the utmost importance and respect that woman has been blessed with, in our religion. The feminists need to realise this.
17 years old...she is not yet a wife, not yet a mother. I remembered arguing with my father regarding equal rights with my father when I was a teenager...just like this. But now, as I experienced of becoming a wife and a mother myself, I see the wisdom now behind the rules set by Islam upon women.
Keeping your personal experiences separate from Islam is one of the most hardest of tests that we, as Muslims, go through our entire lives. This girl is clearly traumatized and angry about what she went through in her life by 'Muslims' around her. Even though it is sad, I still wish and pray that she finds the strength to not question the way of Islam because a few men didn't portray it right in her own life. And it's not just her, we have countless of people in our society who go through stuff like that and then they do question about what Islam is actually about.
@@hamzak.741 She doesn't have a platform. I don't think she's trying to "corrupt society".. Shes entitled to dialogue, that's how people learn. And how people cleanse their nafs. Not by being forced into silence. She's still wearing the hijab although it seems she struggles with alot of Islamic idealogy. Her outburst may even be a cry for help. Sure her tone was infuriating to listen to. But She needs guidance and instead of leaving Islam she came searching for it.
@@alphabetpeople2902 yea that great lets wait until they are liberated by having men throw change at them to see their naked body and see how marriage rates and birth rates are gonna sink . Did you ever read the study "the paradox of declining female happiness" literally disproved your point.
@@alphabetpeople2902 a bunch of ignorant women vandalising things, and shouting and speaking without knowledge means nothing to Muslims. That’s why it’s only working in Iran and in cities which have a large liberal and ignorant population of people who don’t know Islam and only care about their feelings.
@@Handle0108 without women your eslam is dead, why don't you go inside the temple of any religion and you would witness that majority of the worshipers are women. Even muslim clerics know this, that's why they've banned muslim women from marrying kuffar ie normal people who are not brainwashed by eslam.
It always amazes me with this wave of feminism thinking….women can want and demand things (against traditional feminine nature). And men should change their nature to accommodate. And if they don’t, women are being oppressed and men are misogynist.
Right? I've noticed this too. Women are asking men to change everything about themselves and cater to them like they are some sort of precious one of a kind queens....but if a man has references, let's say he likes slim women, he's a fat fobic mysoginist. If he wants his wife to have his kids and stay home, again he's a mysoginist. Men are only allowed to look good, cook,clean, take cate of kids, work and satisfy the wife at this point. Also another trend and this mainly with the non believers is that it's okay if the woman sleeps around, she's just exploring, but the husband needs to only have eyes for his wife... I feel like women no longer look for a husband, they need slaves now lol.
@@alphabetpeople2902 …PS. Islam would have liberated Iran beautifully and realistically had men followed its teachings. Feminism will only bring in a different kind of imbalance to the country.
Some people who are born into Islam are also born into alot of negative cultural baggage that has zero to do with Islam unfortunately.. and the actions of people in their lives can push them away. Being born into a Muslim family does not automatically instill knowledge and understanding of Islam into your heart. Especially if your life experiences are contrary to the message of Islam, for some people they struggle to separate the beautiful religion from the bad experiences at the hands of misguided people.. And alot of "born muslims" actually have very little knowledge about their own religion... As a revert you may know alot more about Islam than a born Muslim.. because you chose to go with an objective mind and critical thinking and explore the religion, before you committed to belief.
She'll never have a lasting relationship with such a mindset. Sister, open your heart to change before your mistakes pull you deep down into depression and loneliness.
Amina: if i order my daughter to wear hijab is that oppression? Don't fall in to feminism, take detox from liberalism and watch "muslim skeptic" channel.
@@Aksnipper33 well technically my brother we don't know for sure if or if not it is a lie, and maybe she was talking about her father using Islam to oppress in another way, if he was at all "oppressing"
Getting sick of this "boss babe" culture. No man cares about your degree and income. These women would rather drop off their kids to childminders in the desire to work.
@@bilkishbegum6681 Women used to work before feminism but the difference is that they used to prioritise family over work so they were happier compared to modern women. Do some research, even studies prove that's indeed the case. Also let's be honest majority of jobs are soul sucking and exhausting. Even majority of men don't like the idea of working a typical 9-5 but we understand that we have responsibilities and that's why we keep working even though we're not happy. Majority of women are happier when they're around their kids. My mom likes to work (she currently works as freelancer from home) but back when she used to work a 9-5, she used to tell me that one of her biggest regrets is not spending enough time with me as a kid and leaving me and my brother at home alone.
Notice how she is saying "I don't mind" instead of saying "I want to" or "No I dont want to" when asked if she wants to be the leader or the one working and providing or not, which for me looks like she is avoiding the question due to the fact that deep down she knows ali is right.
Personally I think feminism destroys families . Myself I am from Northern Europe where feminism thrives and I grew up around feminism my whole childhood (I am 26 now) . My mothers feministic mindset destroyed her marriage and put the focus away from her kids and towards work more than it should have and unfortunately the situation still this day hasn’t changed . I strongly believed in the feministic teachings until I moved out of home. In 2017 I started doing research on Islam because I felt lost and didn’t feel like I have a direction in life since I felt feminism is nonsense but didn’t know of anything else at that time. Now 6 years later I have reverted into Islam and I’m about to marry the most kind and fair Muslim man and I’ve never felt more clear of how things are supposed to be in a family and in a marriage , I can finally just be a woman and not needing to prove that I can and actually need to be like a man as they expect in my home country . Thank you Ali for still educating us :)
As a woman, I agree with Ali. May Allah guide this sister. She's still very young. May Allah protect all of our children from this "feminist movement" Ameen.
The way she speaks, it shows that she has no experience whatsoever. She's still 17 and speaking for the dozens of women in the world. I appreciate brother Ali's effort to answer her blabbering because he has to clear this up for the thousands of people watching this video. She's still young and I'm sure in a few years, she'll look back and laugh at herself for being so ignorant and emotional.
It was shocking to hear this young girl. Unfortunately, so many are against cooking and keeping a home. This is because they were probably that never liked housework in their parents home. I totally agree with Ali. Traditional women wants traditional men. We love caring for our kids and making sure everything is ready at home while our husband goes out to provide for us.
Oh maybe they came from an abusive household, I was and still am similar to this girl. I despise housework and cooking but that is because I was raised to be a servant and servant by cooking and cleaning. I'm working on this problem but childhood trauma are very intrenched. I do the cooking and cleaning but hate it, also no matter how hard I try my husband doesn't appreciate. This again adding to the feelings instilled as a child
@@zebakhan39 May Allah give you sabr sister to deal with these things, it's not right, unfortunately we have been living with a 2D version of Islam for yonks (just buzzwords from scripture but not trying to seek the true essence of Islam). Both the husband and wife (and man and woman in general society) have responsibilities to each other, and it goes way beyond this "I bring in the money, you do the housework etc" sorts of lines that these videos portray. Islam also has rights over the individual just as it provides rights but we seem to be ignorant of this, and totally lost of the true spiritual essence of Islam. May Allah grant us all hidayah, and may Allah forgive anything wrong I've said here or any ego I've shown.
"The mosques of Allah should only be maintained by those who believe in Allah and the Last Day, establish prayer, pay alms-tax, and fear none but Allah." The Holy Quran(Ayah at-Taubah (Repentance) 9:18)
Assalamualaikum. Once i met a dutch woman she visited Pakistan and she was so surprised to see Us. And surprisingly said " u girls are really enjoying your life with your family, ur kids, cooking delicious meals, meet uos, making house clean. And We just doing work work n work. Ur men treats you like a queen. But we are just live to gather like a room partner my husband has nighg shift and mine is day shift. We only met on weekend and have dinner in a silent environment" and after her visit she reinvert into Islam MashaAllah..
Mashallah. May Allah bless your efforts towards explaining this to the sister. In response to her question about “evidence in Islam” for providing, this Hadith is also helpful: Jabir narrated that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said in his Farewell Sermon: “Fear Allah concerning women! Verily you have taken them on the security of Allah, and intercourse with them has been made lawful unto you by words of Allah. You too have rights over them, and that they should not allow anyone to sit on your bed [i.e., not let them into the house] whom you do not like. But if they do that, you can chastise them but not severely. Their rights upon you are that you should provide them with food and clothing in a fitting manner” (Narrated by Muslim, 1218)
Who are you to say she’s lost already? That’s so poor. I’m not saying she’s right in this, but to say what you did is vile. You are not the judge of her, Allah is! Anyone can change at any age.
This sister is young. Advice to her from a women who is still working, I don’t enjoy it. My biggest wish is to be free and worry less about finances. My life would be so much happier if I all I had to do was home school my 3 kids, and had time to cook them beautiful meals everyday.
I have tried both career woman and stay at home mum homeschooling kids and I am sooo much happier staying home with kids not worrying about paperwork money deadlines etc. I have time to pray in peace and cook amazing meals for my kids. I was not forced to work but wanted to be independent and that was killing my soul. I learnt the hard way to be happy and This girl will learn the hard way too.
@Sheik New yes I agree. The problem is some men in our umma (not all)traumatise the wife to make them feel insecure and in need to protect themselves financially. I believe the men need to be educated on how to treat a woman before he gets married. I speak out of experience!! I only realised how toxic and westernised my life had become after my talaq. If I were to remarry I will as Allah to provide me with a man that follows the sunnah in every manner and cares protects and provides for me not just financially but emotionally and physically. May Allah provide for all my muslim sister the same sisters peace of mind he granted me with Ameen
The bit about past and future, any woman I know without a past expects the same of a man. And I don’t feel that a repentant woman with a past has the right to expect a virgin man, as he says. I’m also not completely obedient to my husband. Although I do of course always consider, respect, love and prioritize him and try to be a good wife.
I did work full time along with my husband and looking after 3 small children and I tell you it's absolutely mission impossible! It's no joke, I felt like I was on the clock 24/7 as I didn't want to neglect my duty as a wife & mother but also didn't want to disappoint or neglect my work duties as well. I was absolutely finished!
Jazakallahukhair for posting. May Allah help and guide the sister. She's still very young, accountable but naive and young. Allah will bless her with wisdom as she gets older. I remember being a teenager with big opinions and thinking I was the bees knees!!! As time goes on, Allah guides us - we are nothing without Allah. It's only after studying deen we realise how amazing islam is and how many rights we have and how many we ha e to fulfill
Keep your kids away from social media and if possible from Western Societies because this is the end result if you don't. Things are getting worse there everyday and sooner or later their society will collapse due to their own foolishness.
@@alphabetpeople2902 The problem with İran is it's oppressive government and it's Shia ideology which is not islam . It's a deviant sect Look at the women in Saudi in Emirat in Qatar they are not oppressed. Stop telling people their oppressed and need liberating. Liberalism and feminism contributed nothing to society except opress men and make them weak physically and psychologically
Ali Dawah requesting all to blur her face. This is what true Muslim men should be like - protecting the honour of Muslim women. May Allah protect you and always keep you on this path brother, ameen.
Why blur her out, if she's so confident in what she's saying she should be fine with saying it without being blurred. As a Muslim hijabi wife with 2 children I am extremely offended by her toxic and twisted mindset. She's basically westernized our Islamic belief system just to suit a more 'woke liberal' mindset. That's a red flag and whoever this poor man is that marry's her should identify this red flag prior to marriage. She wants to do 50/50, not be protected if some harm comes to her, and be left to be a boss babe on her own while her husband lives his own boss man lifestyle. Essentially she wants a liberal partnership and forfeit her Islamic rights and let her man be whatever he wants so she can be whatever she wants. What's the point of marrying then sister, just be on your own the rest of your life.
Story from a brother “I suggested to a Muslim friend that the quality of life for his family would drastically improve if his wife would stop working and, instead, worked at home as a housewife. He was skeptical. He said that the extra money his wife makes working helps them live more comfortably. I explained to him that the value that your wife contributes to your home and your family is worth much, much more than the extra salary she brings. Eventually he was convinced. She left her job, began contributing to making their house a home. Now the brother is telling me, why didn't we do this earlier?! According to him, everyone is happier. The energy and warmth in their home is greater. There is more love. They feel much more at peace. She feels secure. Everything gels because, instead of spending her time and energy working for an employer, she is spending that time and energy working to improve her home and uplifting her family. There is a reason this is the model of family that has been universally practiced for thousands of years of human history.”
@@alphabetpeople2902 also don’t forget history my friend, Muslims decimated the Persians Al Hamdullilah and although the people who are running Iran right now are Shias, in shaa Allah one day real Muslims will run Iran
" Whoso does evil will be requited only with the like of it; but whoso does good, whether male or female, and is a believer - these will enter the Garden; they will be provided therein without measure." Holy Quran40:41
The sisters young, with experience inshallah she’ll learn what’s best. From my own family, I can tell you women that don’t have family as their priority, and prioritise other parts of their life over family/starting a family, they realise at a later time they’ve prioritised the wrong thing
The problem is sometimes they snap out of it too late, too old, less fertile etc. We've really mucked things up as men to let things get to this point. There is a huge lack of guidance for both men and women now.
سورة البقرة الاية ٢٣٣ (……وعلي المولود له رزقهن وكسوتهن بالمعروف). The father of the children is obligated to take the responsibility of the feeding, and dressing of the family with goodness. If he can’t he can’t take responsibility and he is not reached in the level of calling him father and the wife has the right to leave him alone/divorced. May Allah guide us in the right path.
I love these kind of videos, well said brother Ali and I appreciate you becoming calm and patient because a lot of us would have lost patience. May Allah reward your efforts ameen
we are talking about islam. if a woman said she doesn't want to cook for her man she's doesn't have too. she has to pray with him when she can. maintain his house the way she found it when she got there . that doesn't mean she has to clean up after him. guard his good name . don't let any 1 talk bad about him . even if it was his own parents . if anyone does , she is not supposed to stay in there company . but leave them until they refrain from back bitting / or slandering him & come to there bed when he calls her to him if she isn't on her period or ill.in terms of sex . do not have anyone in or around his home if he says he does want someone their . don't matter who they are. these are all the right's set on a women by god in islam for her husband . he has to maintain her in the lifestyle which she is a custom too. if she wants to work, she's can as long as they do not impede on her husband's right. school same. as long as her husband's need's are not violated. see her family . same. as long as her husband 's right's are maintained . so if she say i don't want to cook ,that doesn't make her a bad wife. and her husband is not allowed to make her feel bad about it either . her job is to take care of his sexaul needs period.she isn't being disobedient to him.
The best thing with my mom is the food she made for us and the love she showed us. She worked hard every day doing this and the housework. That means more than her education or job she did.
"Wicked women are for wicked men, and wicked men are for wicked women. And virtuous women are for virtuous men, and virtuous men are for virtuous women. The virtuous are innocent of what the wicked say. They will have forgiveness and an honourable provision" QS surah An Nur 26
God bless you Ali, although you can be sharp tongued at times, I appreciate how you point that out at the end and clarify that it is only because you want what's best for her. Only a woman who is deep in the feministic values would be triggered by your words and twist them to make you look mysoginistic. May Allah bless our sister she is only 17 but she is quite sharp and unapologetically argumentative I have hope inshallah that she will on her own find the conviction/qana3a in Allah's wisdom when it comes to gender roles. I used to be like her when I was her age and now I am 23 alhamdullilah a masters graduate in STEM I used to be quite stubborn and make similar claims, but I now not only see the scientific miracle of islam and how it incoorporates all that literature has taught us about humans (in sociology, psychology, biology, neuroscience, anthropology), but I also truly see how the feminism movement has deluded us muslim sisters into thinking that islam does not give us our rights. I must say tho that I don't just blame globalism and western media. Ali has once mentioned a good point about why muslim brothers turn to Andrew Tate (pre-islam so to avoid the possibility of slander), and I must admit that muslim men have made it so that muslim women turned into feminism, all your points are correct and valid Ali but I hope you can incorporate that all these dominant rights of men must come with kindness. Our prophet PBUH was the kindest man to his wives and daughters to ever walk this earth, if only muslim men observed 1% of his kindness, women would submit to them so willingly and without question. may God bless you you do seem to realise that and observe it with your wife mashallah, but I hope you can emphasise this point even more to our muslim brothers, like the point you made about wearing lipstick and how there is a way to deliver such an order (romantically, with a kind tongue and gentle eyes). May Allah guide us all and make us see the truth and follow it with conviction
SubhanAllah!! Where were you when I lived with my husband!! 😂😂😂😂 Everything was 50:50 He demanded that!! And is Muslim hence why I couldn’t see Islam as I do today. Alhamdulillah I’m a convert!!!!
I had to work for 2 years because my husband came from Morocco and he could not work. He felt really bad about it. Now alhamdullilah he has a job (clearing containers) and i got to go on leave because i got pregnant and had a baby. I have not felt less stressed and happy until i got to be a stay at home mom. Unfortunately my husband does not earn to maintain everything so i have to search for at least something parttime. I am soooo sad. When i am home My baby has a schedule. I can teach her. The house is in order. My husband comes home to at least a warm home with dinner ready or almost ready😂 We all feel happy alhamdullilah. And we are all haring the fact i have to go to work. I ask Allah for a way that i do not have to. This sister sounds young and with no experience. Inshallah she will have an amazing husband with eeman. She can learn then what is best for your mental and physical health. And mostly how to please allah.
May Allah make it easy for you two. May Allah grant him a better job, maybe since you are educated, you can teach him, he can go and learn a profession? It's hard, I know. May Allah be with you 2 in those times.
Hello sister, I'm really sorry to hear that. Situations like this tend to happen especially nowadays because things got more expensive and the income from an average job may not be enough to support an entire family. Keep praying and working hard and I'm sure you and your husband will find a solution for this matter.
@@alphabetpeople2902 Freedom as ruining a woman in making her sleep with as many men as she wants take as much alcohol as she wants by 46 she will be ruined and realize her mistakes and be on pharmaceutical drugs thank God we don't have to acknowledge this cancer as way of life
@@blueflame3531 What's wrong with sleeping with lots of men? Monogamy is unnatural. In moderate doses alcohol is healthy btw. "islam" has nothing to do with God. "allah" is anything but.
Apparently everyone else is so self righteous. It’s easy enough to judge a 17 year old girl. She’s clearly coming from an emotional standpoint so instead of tearing her down, listen to her with a desire to understand where she’s coming from, which doesn’t mean you have to agree.
Sounds like sister wants to be married to superman.....he cooks, he cleans, he takes care of kids, he also works.... Idk what people are smoking, but I'd like to try it too. Jokes aside, I love staying home with my kids, I absolutely love cooking and making new dishes and I love cleaning and organising my home. My husband provides all these for me 🤷🏻♀️ and when I tell people that I'm happy doing all these they calm me oppressed and that I need to go into the work force....like...for what? I hate dealing with customers, I hate filling up shelves, restocking produce and I especially hate cooking for people I don't know, nor am I going to clean for them. I clean for husband and I and for our kids, I cook for them and spend time with them. I know they appreciate me, they respect me and they won't scream at me because I didn't put 1g extra of salt in the food....
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When they ( women) are given rights they say we don't want that
And after that says women have no rights in Islam .
Btw brother mr. Ali can you please make a video where I can find complete right of mine towards Allah ﷻ and to my mother , father , son , daughter , siblings , uncle , aunt .
Everyone and even society and VICE VERSA .
Please understand what I'm saying
I'm not that eliquent .
May Allah ﷻ guide and protect me you and everyone
Can you make a similar video you made to ksi, but to speed? he is cleary very intersted in islam
You have to be careful with all that Man must work and pay for the woman thing because that's what gave us sugaring and prostitution
Sheesh what did you say at last shook me? Don't say how many body count you have? And this is the answer. Your mind is westernalised too much. If I am a man and I want to marry according to my criteria than a woman is also free to choose according to her criteria. A woman chooses a man who is rich, can provide for herself and with whom she would be comfortable. And a man chooses a woman based on her looks and her behavior and her background. A man will not want to marry a woman who has like 50 body counts which is with some random person in a bar. Never ever. People marry with a mindset of living with the person they married to with a mindset of staying with them forever. I don't want a woman who did with like 50 random man even if she is a repentant. Why should I do something for her if all the people got everything they needed for free or by paying a little amount.
„We follow Islam not your individual morals“ perfect said
She’s just a kid. Probably spend most of her time watching “sex and the city” & believing the propaganda.
Honestly crazy how many sisters these days don't get this.
@@thesaltbaron3029 17 bruv
@@thesaltbaron3029 yes
Hummph
women☕
Look at her, she's shaming EVERY sister who is married and isn't contributing 50/50. It's a toxic mindset like that leads to a divorce.
if a woman works and her husband is struggling and there is no 50/50 and she can help the guy and chooses not to I see that as unfair.
@@alidaud258 we are NOT talking about exceptions. Also take it up to Allāh and his messenger if you have a problem with it. Guy needs to do his part, regardless of the woman.
@@YusufIslam1 Bro theres no purpose of having a wife then. If she aint gonna support u whats the point.
@@alidaud258 she looks after you sexually . Looks after the kids and teaches them good.
@@alidaud258 You don't marry a woman for her to support you financially, that's your job. You have the mindset of a woman, sorry brother.
I’m a revert and I’m a house wife and my husband works very hard to be able to provide for us and our children. And yes I do the cooking and the cleaning and the child care and I’m very happy. I dislike when these feminists think they speak for all woman. There are woman who still prefer traditional roles. She has had a bad experience and she blames all men for what her father may have done.
May Allah bless you Sister 😊
W women ❣
So we’ll said
Masha allah may Allah bring happiness in your life and hereafter
Most women still are in traditional roles especially in richer families anywhere in the world. 70% of women do not work in the upper class of western countries.
May Allah bless you, your husband and children
Sister is arguing when the laws of Islam are in her benefit, just why!? 😂
it's funny and sad tbh 😂
arguing just to argue at that point 😂
It's how a person gets blind , I was one of them keep questioning, now alhamdulillah I can differentiate between wrong and right.
Because she thinks it shouldn't be, just because she benefits from an inequality doesn't mean she can't oppose that inequality.
@@Mini-jm2ec cause men and women aren't equal we are different and our creator knows best about our needs and according to our roles Islam has rules and it isn't about what Human thinks which is right or wrong for us , so far as I know islam is totally about gender equality which each of us fit for.
My wife often tells me how envious her friends are of her that her husband allows her to fully be at home and taking care of the home and children because their husbands, are the type to tell them to work and go 50/50. My wife doesnt have to but she thanks me every week for this fact and the fact that her friends total income with their husbands far supercedes my income, we still live a very comfortable life with no debts, is a sign that clinging onto islamic values will always triumph over other values. They earn more but their children goes to daycare, husband drives cars they dont need and at the end of the day, they are both tired of each other and children being raised by another person other than their parents will not grow mentally the same compared those raised by their own mothers. Alhamdulillah for the state of my household and i wish the same for every muslim.
MashaAllah may Allah bless and your family and keep you happy
@@M-kq Ameen, in shaa allah
Being a woman i m saying this; no matter how much women claim of being equal to men but the fact is nature made difference in man and woman: this difference is real and it should be respected. Woman’s femininity is their biggest strength and for man taking care of his wife daughter sister mother is the biggest strength.
Couldn't have said it better. But this so called feminist movement is destroying women
For arguments sake let's assume that nature made us different, but nature didn't makes us unequal. Inequality was enforced by your "allah" whom you think is God. If women's femininity (sexuality) is their strength - and I agree - again your "allah" deprives women of their sexuality by forcing them to walk around in burkas. If your "allah" really was God, he would teach women how to use their sexuality to their benefit and never be the underdog vis a vis men. That's how you know that your "allah" is not God. Happily iranians are burning their hejabs and freeing Iran from this "allah" and "islam".
For men : Masculinity is their biggest strength!
@@Amarah4600 Notice how she said men taking care of women are there biggest strength and for women its just their femininity?
This woman is affected by f'em'i'n'ism too.
@@therebelliousprince0073and? does that give men the right to dominate women? yes, according to your "allah", meaning he's not God. "allah" is such a misogynist and anti human generally
Women are focusing to prove men that they can do what men can do, and forgetting how to be a women. Men have their strengths, women have their strengths. Bring your strengths together and build your marriage on it! Subhanallah!!
They want to do it only when it is easy paying job in an AC office.. She flipping burgers, carrying bricks, shifting luggage, plumbing etc..NEVER
"Marriage" is unnatural. Free Iran from eslam!
what are the strengths of women
@@nuskyahmad6375 bruh really cmon ur mom gave u birth dont say that.
@@bakhtiaruddin1582 so giving birth is their only strength?
I am a Christian, and i think Ali is 100% right about this matter.
Same. A Christian woman here. 100% agree
Time has not yet come for you to become a muslim ?.
@@moahmmedfarhan5921 it's a private matter, I'm not comfortable talking about it online with someone I don't really know 😅
@@viktorijabogdanaite5167 private matter..?.its the single most imp matter for a human. Human helps human...😀
@@moahmmedfarhan5921 yes and I agree with you, what I meant by that is that each personal relationships with Creator is really personal, and there's a story behind everything. So the question you asked might seem simple yet a bit complicated for me due to some personal reasons and searches that I hsd in my life. It's something I would openly talk about in private, because rn I can't answer to your question:)
Let me tell you something I was a woman who wanted to be like these independent feminist and go to work ! I had my baby and after 7 months I went back to work I fought with my husband and he told me it’s not a good idea and I shouldn’t go back ! But I didn’t listen and followed this idea of being independent and strong so I went back and it was the biggest mistake and regret of my life ! I cried every single day and refused to tell my husband ! The guilt killed me and I ended up becoming depressed because my maternal instinct wanted be home with my child and now I am pregnant with my second baby and I have already decided I will not be going back to work after maternity leave ! I am telling you ladies the only way of life is what Allah has told us ! Do not listen to this society !! Please you will flourish in your natural way of life at home as a wife and mother !
Maashallah,well said. It 's 100 % my Story,born and grow up in germany, always that feminist Ideologie in my head,after i got my son,i had soon that feeling that i have to go back to work,i brought him with only 12 months to the childcare😔my husband did not agree but i thought that is right,when i took him after work he was so in love with his educator which made me so sad.sometimes i responsible my husband that he didn' t held me,to All Women outhere,it' s not pejorative to stay at home even when you got more Money, mostly you buy more bags😅
More sisters should listen to this
@@blue_568 to each their own but absolutely not I would rather have my kids, over anything else.
exactly 💯💯💯
But in this society for an alone girl is not its necessary for a women to be financially independent nd manage home too.
After watching both of those videos, I came to the conclusion that everything she spewed was from an emotional point of view. (I mean you can tell from the beginning she was being emotional). She then mentioned her *father.* DAAMNNN she just made it that much more obvious of her own traumatic personal experience and tried to generalise it to the rest of the men.
She's an exception to the rule and the exception never makes the rule.
Two things.
The girl is still young & is learning & this is fiqh ruling that Ali Is to under qualified to be discussing because he won't able to do it justice & explain it properly without causing a divide & a rift with the Muslim's his infront of!
@@3-Kashmir but he makes a good point
of course she is, listen to her voice, she's complaining 90% of the time.
@@3-Kashmir man, what are you saying, these are general logical points. What kind of extra qualification is needed to have a common sense!
She has trauma from her father being oppressive. That you can clearly hear from her words. It's just emotional talk without any objective evidence and substance behind it.
“Most people don't listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.”
If you don't understand then you can not reply .
@@AmAm2001-c3k then you should not reply*
Best comment I see
I was gonna say that😂
This!! 🙌🏼
feminism ideology is one of the dangerous fitnah nowadays. sad to see the destruction happened little by little in our muslimah community. may Allah protect us all
It used be a good thing. Now it has no purpose with a lot of power, and is being used by people that seek power.
@@sacredrider we are muslim
We have our own sets and rules that are perfect for both men and women
We shouldnt take from feminists
@̣ it was a movement to get women their rights, because they didn't have a religion to do that. Islam did that waaay back in 600s. Soo the saud movement brought the rights for women. Now what is its purpose? There is no oppression as far as I know. It is now a toy of politicians to play around, divide and use people.
I am not saying it is perfect. But for a certain time its purpose was indeed good.
And I thought lg tv was the most dangerous. But looking at this, how they have penetrated the Muslim women, I think feminism is the most dangerous. It comes slowly from the back and brainwashes you. May Allah(s.w.t.) guide us all.
She lying through her teeth.. She would never date/marry a guy that makes her pay the bills..
"We follow islam not your subjective morals" well said
Period
Time stamp?
She was just here to practice the feminism that she learned. May Allah guide her and all of us.
Subhanallah look at how feminism has infected the young brothers and sisters. May Allah swt protect us ALL from Shaytan.
Bro she’s 17, let life hit her first 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Exactly
Well said 👏🏼
Exactly...I mean she's talking about marriage and probably has zero clues what marriage realistically entails.. Unless she is unhappily married at her young age?
I'm 15, life has hit me quite a lot hehe
A man came to the Seal of the Prophets and said: “O Prophet of Allah ! Guide me, to whom should I be good in order to benefit completely from my good deed?”He said: “Be good to your mother.” He asked: “Next to her?”The Prophet repeated: “Be good to your mother.” He said again: “And next to her?”The Prophet answered: “To your mother.”The man said: To what other person should be good?”The Prophet said: “To your father.”
@@servantofthemerciful3511 The Mother is a woman and I wanted to highlight the utmost importance and respect that woman has been blessed with, in our religion. The feminists need to realise this.
@@MahsaSara oh yes exactly you right. JazakAllah Khair sister. That's very important point that they don't realize.
@@servantofthemerciful3511 🤲🤲🤲
Mashallah 💙
Feminism is the destruction of the motherly love that son gets.
17 years old...she is not yet a wife, not yet a mother. I remembered arguing with my father regarding equal rights with my father when I was a teenager...just like this. But now, as I experienced of becoming a wife and a mother myself, I see the wisdom now behind the rules set by Islam upon women.
Keeping your personal experiences separate from Islam is one of the most hardest of tests that we, as Muslims, go through our entire lives. This girl is clearly traumatized and angry about what she went through in her life by 'Muslims' around her. Even though it is sad, I still wish and pray that she finds the strength to not question the way of Islam because a few men didn't portray it right in her own life. And it's not just her, we have countless of people in our society who go through stuff like that and then they do question about what Islam is actually about.
does not give her the right to corrupt society, JUST BECAUSE, she had to go through it.
If she was a thinking woman she would think about it harder
@@hamzak.741 She doesn't have a platform. I don't think she's trying to "corrupt society".. Shes entitled to dialogue, that's how people learn. And how people cleanse their nafs. Not by being forced into silence. She's still wearing the hijab although it seems she struggles with alot of Islamic idealogy. Her outburst may even be a cry for help. Sure her tone was infuriating to listen to. But She needs guidance and instead of leaving Islam she came searching for it.
@@long_one5491 ok alina
Also difficult for Christian ppl!
“The Tree has more benefit to the Ummah”, Ali too quick with these punchlines 😂
Happily feminism is liberating Iran from "islam". Women, life, freedom!
@@alphabetpeople2902 yea that great lets wait until they are liberated by having men throw change at them to see their naked body and see how marriage rates and birth rates are gonna sink .
Did you ever read the study "the paradox of declining female happiness" literally disproved your point.
@@alphabetpeople2902 a bunch of ignorant women vandalising things, and shouting and speaking without knowledge means nothing to Muslims.
That’s why it’s only working in Iran and in cities which have a large liberal and ignorant population of people who don’t know Islam and only care about their feelings.
@@alphabetpeople2902 feminist bs
@@Handle0108 without women your eslam is dead, why don't you go inside the temple of any religion and you would witness that majority of the worshipers are women. Even muslim clerics know this, that's why they've banned muslim women from marrying kuffar ie normal people who are not brainwashed by eslam.
It always amazes me with this wave of feminism thinking….women can want and demand things (against traditional feminine nature). And men should change their nature to accommodate. And if they don’t, women are being oppressed and men are misogynist.
Such a good way to summarize! 👍
Right? I've noticed this too. Women are asking men to change everything about themselves and cater to them like they are some sort of precious one of a kind queens....but if a man has references, let's say he likes slim women, he's a fat fobic mysoginist. If he wants his wife to have his kids and stay home, again he's a mysoginist. Men are only allowed to look good, cook,clean, take cate of kids, work and satisfy the wife at this point. Also another trend and this mainly with the non believers is that it's okay if the woman sleeps around, she's just exploring, but the husband needs to only have eyes for his wife...
I feel like women no longer look for a husband, they need slaves now lol.
Happily feminism is liberating Iran from "islam". Women, life, freedom!
@@alphabetpeople2902 …I’m glad you put Islam in quotes, implying it’s not Islam at all that was oppressing women, but rather Iranian culture.
@@alphabetpeople2902 …PS. Islam would have liberated Iran beautifully and realistically had men followed its teachings. Feminism will only bring in a different kind of imbalance to the country.
As a revert I feel amazed by this born sister ya Allah may Allah guide her back to right Islam.
Ameen sister. May Allah bless you. Ameen
Some people who are born into Islam are also born into alot of negative cultural baggage that has zero to do with Islam unfortunately.. and the actions of people in their lives can push them away. Being born into a Muslim family does not automatically instill knowledge and understanding of Islam into your heart. Especially if your life experiences are contrary to the message of Islam, for some people they struggle to separate the beautiful religion from the bad experiences at the hands of misguided people.. And alot of "born muslims" actually have very little knowledge about their own religion...
As a revert you may know alot more about Islam than a born Muslim.. because you chose to go with an objective mind and critical thinking and explore the religion, before you committed to belief.
As salam aleykoum may Allah guide all of us
In Islam the best place for woman is at home and the best job is to cook food. Ameen
«Aki, Aki! Ignore him please! Speak to a tree, a tree is better, it has more benefit to the Umma.» I am dying of laughter 😂
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😂😂😂
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But what does that mean? Why he does ask people to ignore?
@@theaudiotube3293 it's probably someone that's talking nonsense
"I'm gonna work for long hours and I gonna come home and cook for myself? " That's a perfect reply to that guy. Old lad is too open minded.
I’m a Jew and I totally agree with Ali.
we r men brother it doesnt matter who u r.. 😆
Asalam o Alaqum
Hazarat Zubair Alasalam umathi.
“Boss babe” had me rolling 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Same😂😂😂
That’s the funny thing I ever heard 🤣🤣🤣😂
lol
She'll never have a lasting relationship with such a mindset. Sister, open your heart to change before your mistakes pull you deep down into depression and loneliness.
I love how the white guy gradually changes sides😂
I actually kinda like him 🤣🤣
Damn right because he knows what is waiting for him at home
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Tip toe slowly and it’s effective
well said haha 😆
Ali your patience is admirable just love the way he argues
Average aggressive non Muslim: YOU PAY!
Average aggressive Muslim: YOU DONT HAVE TO PAYYY!!😂
Brother Hijab and Ali are moving a bit more like Tate, and brother Tate is moving more like Hijab and Ali. I'm starting to like where this is going!!!
Ali has spoken nothing but facts. Beautifully said my brother.
May Allah guide us all to follow Islam and the Sunnah in the best way possible.
No man don't say that, you are only truly lost if you pass away without making the correction. Allah still forgives and guides until the last breath.
Amina: if i order my daughter to wear hijab is that oppression? Don't fall in to feminism, take detox from liberalism and watch "muslim skeptic" channel.
@@Aksnipper33 well technically my brother we don't know for sure if or if not it is a lie, and maybe she was talking about her father using Islam to oppress in another way, if he was at all "oppressing"
@@ahmediqbal2810 well said my brutha, couldn't have worded any better
“You are movin like a man, i didnt marry a man” THANKYOU BROTHER ALI for all the beautiful words.
Brilliantly Said by Brother Ali
Timestamp?
11:10
“We’re giving her extra rights, she doesn’t want it” 😂
Getting sick of this "boss babe" culture. No man cares about your degree and income. These women would rather drop off their kids to childminders in the desire to work.
Brother babe sounds bad we should not use it that word mostly used in ......
@@servantofthemerciful3511 Personally don't use the word brother, I'm just saying in reference to what these women call themselves.
@@karimtemri1664 Feminism sold women the dream that money and career would make them happy when in reality it's the complete opposite.
@@manni192 some women are happy working. Do you know all working women. Making a generalisation isn’t a good argument.
@@bilkishbegum6681 Women used to work before feminism but the difference is that they used to prioritise family over work so they were happier compared to modern women. Do some research, even studies prove that's indeed the case.
Also let's be honest majority of jobs are soul sucking and exhausting. Even majority of men don't like the idea of working a typical 9-5 but we understand that we have responsibilities and that's why we keep working even though we're not happy.
Majority of women are happier when they're around their kids. My mom likes to work (she currently works as freelancer from home) but back when she used to work a 9-5, she used to tell me that one of her biggest regrets is not spending enough time with me as a kid and leaving me and my brother at home alone.
Notice how she is saying "I don't mind" instead of saying "I want to" or "No I dont want to" when asked if she wants to be the leader or the one working and providing or not, which for me looks like she is avoiding the question due to the fact that deep down she knows ali is right.
Exactly you can't deny your nature
Kudos to Brother Ali. May Almighty Allah continue to bless the work you’re doing. ❤️
Personally I think feminism destroys families . Myself I am from Northern Europe where feminism thrives and I grew up around feminism my whole childhood (I am 26 now) . My mothers feministic mindset destroyed her marriage and put the focus away from her kids and towards work more than it should have and unfortunately the situation still this day hasn’t changed . I strongly believed in the feministic teachings until I moved out of home. In 2017 I started doing research on Islam because I felt lost and didn’t feel like I have a direction in life since I felt feminism is nonsense but didn’t know of anything else at that time. Now 6 years later I have reverted into Islam and I’m about to marry the most kind and fair Muslim man and I’ve never felt more clear of how things are supposed to be in a family and in a marriage , I can finally just be a woman and not needing to prove that I can and actually need to be like a man as they expect in my home country . Thank you Ali for still educating us :)
Mashallah
No.... Patriarchal families have a higher percentage of bad relationships between family menbers
As a woman, I agree with Ali. May Allah guide this sister. She's still very young. May Allah protect all of our children from this "feminist movement" Ameen.
The way she speaks, it shows that she has no experience whatsoever. She's still 17 and speaking for the dozens of women in the world. I appreciate brother Ali's effort to answer her blabbering because he has to clear this up for the thousands of people watching this video. She's still young and I'm sure in a few years, she'll look back and laugh at herself for being so ignorant and emotional.
Mashallah Ali has so much patience during this clip and part 1, May Allah bless him
It was shocking to hear this young girl. Unfortunately, so many are against cooking and keeping a home. This is because they were probably that never liked housework in their parents home. I totally agree with Ali. Traditional women wants traditional men. We love caring for our kids and making sure everything is ready at home while our husband goes out to provide for us.
Oh maybe they came from an abusive household, I was and still am similar to this girl. I despise housework and cooking but that is because I was raised to be a servant and servant by cooking and cleaning. I'm working on this problem but childhood trauma are very intrenched. I do the cooking and cleaning but hate it, also no matter how hard I try my husband doesn't appreciate. This again adding to the feelings instilled as a child
@@zebakhan39 May Allah give you sabr sister to deal with these things, it's not right, unfortunately we have been living with a 2D version of Islam for yonks (just buzzwords from scripture but not trying to seek the true essence of Islam).
Both the husband and wife (and man and woman in general society) have responsibilities to each other, and it goes way beyond this "I bring in the money, you do the housework etc" sorts of lines that these videos portray. Islam also has rights over the individual just as it provides rights but we seem to be ignorant of this, and totally lost of the true spiritual essence of Islam.
May Allah grant us all hidayah, and may Allah forgive anything wrong I've said here or any ego I've shown.
"The mosques of Allah should only be maintained by those who believe in Allah and the Last Day, establish prayer, pay alms-tax, and fear none but Allah." The Holy Quran(Ayah at-Taubah (Repentance) 9:18)
Bangla balobashi
@@hussainsharmin661 bhalobashi, not balobashi.
@@shafaet1194 same thing
@@hussainsharmin661 🤲🤲
@@shafaet1194 🤲🤲
Assalamualaikum. Once i met a dutch woman she visited Pakistan and she was so surprised to see Us. And surprisingly said " u girls are really enjoying your life with your family, ur kids, cooking delicious meals, meet uos, making house clean. And We just doing work work n work. Ur men treats you like a queen. But we are just live to gather like a room partner my husband has nighg shift and mine is day shift. We only met on weekend and have dinner in a silent environment" and after her visit she reinvert into Islam MashaAllah..
Mashallah
Seriously, she's got a mind of a kid. Unbelievable.
She is 17
@@ahmedsaleem1588 17 she’s grown women
@@shafiabdi8315 don't think mentally she is all there.
@@shafiabdi8315 that is not grown😂
@@shafiabdi8315 she is grown, but not mentally
Ali dawa been binging Fresh N Fit content 😄😄
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Not really! This has been common sense for a long time
This is not Disneyland 😂😂😂😂😂
Mashallah. May Allah bless your efforts towards explaining this to the sister. In response to her question about “evidence in Islam” for providing, this Hadith is also helpful:
Jabir narrated that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said in his Farewell Sermon:
“Fear Allah concerning women! Verily you have taken them on the security of Allah, and intercourse with them has been made lawful unto you by words of Allah. You too have rights over them, and that they should not allow anyone to sit on your bed [i.e., not let them into the house] whom you do not like. But if they do that, you can chastise them but not severely. Their rights upon you are that you should provide them with food and clothing in a fitting manner” (Narrated by Muslim, 1218)
Happily feminism is liberating Iran from "islam". Women, life, freedom!
@@alphabetpeople2902 cope
I think she is very angry with her father or a male close relative. She has all these complaints
That's her problem, we all have problems
All the more reason she should study ISLAM. She is putting the blame in the wrong place
The best part i like about my bro Ali is he never ever hesitates to be upfront with the truth!!! subhanallah
This girl needs to be raised up all over again with Islamic morals! She’s lost already, and only 17
Who are you to say she’s lost already? That’s so poor. I’m not saying she’s right in this, but to say what you did is vile. You are not the judge of her, Allah is! Anyone can change at any age.
@@shaheensssssLol simp spotted.
This sister is young. Advice to her from a women who is still working, I don’t enjoy it. My biggest wish is to be free and worry less about finances. My life would be so much happier if I all I had to do was home school my 3 kids, and had time to cook them beautiful meals everyday.
May Allah allow you that opportunity soon. Ameen
I have tried both career woman and stay at home mum homeschooling kids and I am sooo much happier staying home with kids not worrying about paperwork money deadlines etc. I have time to pray in peace and cook amazing meals for my kids. I was not forced to work but wanted to be independent and that was killing my soul. I learnt the hard way to be happy and This girl will learn the hard way too.
@Sheik New yes I agree. The problem is some men in our umma (not all)traumatise the wife to make them feel insecure and in need to protect themselves financially. I believe the men need to be educated on how to treat a woman before he gets married. I speak out of experience!! I only realised how toxic and westernised my life had become after my talaq. If I were to remarry I will as Allah to provide me with a man that follows the sunnah in every manner and cares protects and provides for me not just financially but emotionally and physically. May Allah provide for all my muslim sister the same sisters peace of mind he granted me with Ameen
Masha’allah! Ali finally coming with the facts!
May Allah guide this sister and grant her more knowledge about the deen. آمين
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I’m an Irish Catholic woman and I agree with him for the vast majority.
What parts did you end up disagreeing with?
The bit about past and future, any woman I know without a past expects the same of a man. And I don’t feel that a repentant woman with a past has the right to expect a virgin man, as he says. I’m also not completely obedient to my husband. Although I do of course always consider, respect, love and prioritize him and try to be a good wife.
He’s funny isn’t he. The way he keeps calling her “sister” I like him 😂
@@SquirreleLIV That's the best thing in Islam. Regardless of what race, religion or any origin you have, Muslims should be respectful to everyone ❤
@@eightyeight2379 true!✨🎀
I did work full time along with my husband and looking after 3 small children and I tell you it's absolutely mission impossible! It's no joke, I felt like I was on the clock 24/7 as I didn't want to neglect my duty as a wife & mother but also didn't want to disappoint or neglect my work duties as well. I was absolutely finished!
Skill issue
I feel like she’s been brainwashed may Allah guide all the Muslims ameen
Happily feminism is liberating Iran from "islam". Women, life, freedom!
@@alphabetpeople2902 I dunno what your talking about
@@Amar-mz5tr "islam" is coming to an end in Iran.
@@alphabetpeople2902 Yh there full of Shias anyways I’m in uk and it’s very very strong here alhamdulillah
@@Amar-mz5tr Yeah luckily Iran is shia and not sunni, that's the first step away from islam
Jazakallahukhair for posting. May Allah help and guide the sister. She's still very young, accountable but naive and young. Allah will bless her with wisdom as she gets older. I remember being a teenager with big opinions and thinking I was the bees knees!!! As time goes on, Allah guides us - we are nothing without Allah. It's only after studying deen we realise how amazing islam is and how many rights we have and how many we ha e to fulfill
Quran is fake
Happily feminism is liberating Iran from "islam". Women, life, freedom!
@@alphabetpeople2902 cope
17 years old and this is her mindset, imagine what she's gonna be like at 25
I was like this at 15, 16 and half of my 17s but then Allah gave me hidaya Alhamdulilah and I stay away from this people .
Keep your kids away from social media and if possible from Western Societies because this is the end result if you don't. Things are getting worse there everyday and sooner or later their society will collapse due to their own foolishness.
@@Brighteagle378 same here. Alhamdulillah for Allah and Islam.
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@@alphabetpeople2902 The problem with İran is it's oppressive government and it's Shia ideology which is not islam . It's a deviant sect
Look at the women in Saudi in Emirat in Qatar they are not oppressed. Stop telling people their oppressed and need liberating. Liberalism and feminism contributed nothing to society except opress men and make them weak physically and psychologically
Ali Dawah requesting all to blur her face. This is what true Muslim men should be like - protecting the honour of Muslim women. May Allah protect you and always keep you on this path brother, ameen.
"it's not charlie in the chocolate factory" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
this was a very thought provoking video and as always i get inspired by ali dawah to give my best to make it to jannah. Love from india
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@@alphabetpeople2902 Ok cow worshipper
@@alphabetpeople2902 cope
Islam: women can take $100
Women: no, i want $50 and you are oppressing me.
wtf!!!
Ikr this is how they think now
"We need to change that" 💀☠💀 omg 😂
We are not changing anything
We don't ask them to accept 5 foot 5 guy
@@sole008 5 foot 5 guy you mean bts ?
@@servantofthemerciful3511
no 5ft 5 .sorry English is not my first language 😂.
@@sole008 exactly im 5.7 but i just accept it how it is. this generation is weak.
If you want to bond with a respectable man than keep your legs closed sister
Some women don’t get a choice. I have to work, bills got to get paid.
Why blur her out, if she's so confident in what she's saying she should be fine with saying it without being blurred. As a Muslim hijabi wife with 2 children I am extremely offended by her toxic and twisted mindset. She's basically westernized our Islamic belief system just to suit a more 'woke liberal' mindset. That's a red flag and whoever this poor man is that marry's her should identify this red flag prior to marriage. She wants to do 50/50, not be protected if some harm comes to her, and be left to be a boss babe on her own while her husband lives his own boss man lifestyle. Essentially she wants a liberal partnership and forfeit her Islamic rights and let her man be whatever he wants so she can be whatever she wants. What's the point of marrying then sister, just be on your own the rest of your life.
Story from a brother “I suggested to a Muslim friend that the quality of
life for his family would drastically improve if his
wife would stop working and, instead, worked at
home as a housewife.
He was skeptical. He said that the extra money
his wife makes working helps them live more
comfortably.
I explained to him that the value that your wife
contributes to your home and your family is worth
much, much more than the extra salary she
brings.
Eventually he was convinced. She left her job,
began contributing to making their house a home.
Now the brother is telling me, why didn't we do
this earlier?!
According to him, everyone is happier. The
energy and warmth in their home is greater. There
is more love. They feel much more at peace. She
feels secure. Everything gels because, instead of
spending her time and energy working for an
employer, she is spending that time and energy
working to improve her home and uplifting her
family.
There is a reason this is the model of family that
has been universally practiced for thousands of
years of human history.”
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@@alphabetpeople2902 😂😂 most Iranians who claim to be muslim are actually Shias… Shias aren’t Muslim….
@@alphabetpeople2902 also don’t forget history my friend, Muslims decimated the Persians Al Hamdullilah and although the people who are running Iran right now are Shias, in shaa Allah one day real Muslims will run Iran
@@akzino6639 and now we are ending islam in the entire world. who laughs last laughs best.
" Whoso does evil will be requited only with the like of it; but whoso does good, whether male or female, and is a believer - these will enter the Garden; they will be provided therein without measure." Holy Quran40:41
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The sisters young, with experience inshallah she’ll learn what’s best. From my own family, I can tell you women that don’t have family as their priority, and prioritise other parts of their life over family/starting a family, they realise at a later time they’ve prioritised the wrong thing
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@@alphabetpeople2902 cope
The problem is sometimes they snap out of it too late, too old, less fertile etc. We've really mucked things up as men to let things get to this point. There is a huge lack of guidance for both men and women now.
Brother, you are really blessed with sabar. The way you are handling this with patience is incredible. May Allah SWT bless you
سورة البقرة الاية ٢٣٣
(……وعلي المولود له رزقهن وكسوتهن بالمعروف).
The father of the children is obligated to take the responsibility of the feeding, and dressing of the family with goodness.
If he can’t he can’t take responsibility and he is not reached in the level of calling him father and the wife has the right to leave him alone/divorced.
May Allah guide us in the right path.
Brother Ali salute you for having patience with this sister. It’s sad women like that are trying to take away the rights Allah has given us.
I love these kind of videos, well said brother Ali and I appreciate you becoming calm and patient because a lot of us would have lost patience. May Allah reward your efforts ameen
I can feel the anger. Pray for her😊 to have peace
Comparing to her, even non-muslims don't debate like that.
we are talking about islam. if a woman said she doesn't want to cook for her man she's doesn't have too. she has to pray with him when she can. maintain his house the way she found it when she got there . that doesn't mean she has to clean up after him. guard his good name . don't let any 1 talk bad about him . even if it was his own parents . if anyone does , she is not supposed to stay in there company . but leave them until they refrain from back bitting / or slandering him & come to there bed when he calls her to him if she isn't on her period or ill.in terms of sex . do not have anyone in or around his home if he says he does want someone their . don't matter who they are. these are all the right's set on a women by god in islam for her husband . he has to maintain her in the lifestyle which she is a custom too. if she wants to work, she's can as long as they do not impede on her husband's right. school same. as long as her husband's need's are not violated. see her family . same. as long as her husband
's right's are maintained . so if she say i don't want to cook ,that doesn't make her a bad wife. and her husband is not allowed to make her feel bad about it either . her job is to take care of his sexaul needs period.she isn't being disobedient to him.
اللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ وَسَلِّم عَلَى نَبِيِّنَا مُحَمَّد ﷺ
What an argument Ali, that's some reality check😂😂
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@@alphabetpeople2902 we will free kufars from this land also inshallah 🇦🇫🏳
@@alphabetpeople2902 How can you say that the murder of Mahsa was Islam's fault
@@wazahattufail8781 the same way I can say that it's eslam's fault that girls in next door afghanistan are not allowed to go to school
@@alphabetpeople2902 well that's there parents problem Islam doens't stop you from education
I'm happy she talked with Ali to be honest if she asked me as a Muslim I couldn't give her good explanation
😢Brother Ali I’m jealous of your patience. May Allah SWT make me like you.
“Sister we follow Islam not your subjective morals” Very sweet my brother 😂
The best thing with my mom is the food she made for us and the love she showed us. She worked hard every day doing this and the housework. That means more than her education or job she did.
"Wicked women are for wicked men, and wicked men are for wicked women. And virtuous women are for virtuous men, and virtuous men are for virtuous women. The virtuous are innocent of what the wicked say. They will have forgiveness and an honourable provision"
QS surah An Nur 26
damn straight Ali. May Allah guide her to righteousness in sha Allah
Been a Christian For 13 years and the sisters still haven't engaged in conversation ! Feeling suicidal alone and hungry ?
God bless you Ali, although you can be sharp tongued at times, I appreciate how you point that out at the end and clarify that it is only because you want what's best for her. Only a woman who is deep in the feministic values would be triggered by your words and twist them to make you look mysoginistic. May Allah bless our sister she is only 17 but she is quite sharp and unapologetically argumentative I have hope inshallah that she will on her own find the conviction/qana3a in Allah's wisdom when it comes to gender roles. I used to be like her when I was her age and now I am 23 alhamdullilah a masters graduate in STEM I used to be quite stubborn and make similar claims, but I now not only see the scientific miracle of islam and how it incoorporates all that literature has taught us about humans (in sociology, psychology, biology, neuroscience, anthropology), but I also truly see how the feminism movement has deluded us muslim sisters into thinking that islam does not give us our rights.
I must say tho that I don't just blame globalism and western media. Ali has once mentioned a good point about why muslim brothers turn to Andrew Tate (pre-islam so to avoid the possibility of slander), and I must admit that muslim men have made it so that muslim women turned into feminism, all your points are correct and valid Ali but I hope you can incorporate that all these dominant rights of men must come with kindness. Our prophet PBUH was the kindest man to his wives and daughters to ever walk this earth, if only muslim men observed 1% of his kindness, women would submit to them so willingly and without question. may God bless you you do seem to realise that and observe it with your wife mashallah, but I hope you can emphasise this point even more to our muslim brothers, like the point you made about wearing lipstick and how there is a way to deliver such an order (romantically, with a kind tongue and gentle eyes). May Allah guide us all and make us see the truth and follow it with conviction
4:42 “Help yourself make your own food” is this guy fr 🤨🤨🤨
He looks like lonely white man , whose never had a women, his just upset 😭
😂
This so funny, there's no way she believes what comes out her mouth. May Allah guide her on the righteous path.
SubhanAllah!! Where were you when I lived with my husband!!
😂😂😂😂
Everything was 50:50
He demanded that!! And is Muslim hence why I couldn’t see Islam as I do today. Alhamdulillah I’m a convert!!!!
The level of patience you have my good sir is amazing the level of audacity this young lady has outright disrespectful
Feminism has destroyed women BOSS BABE FACTS BROTHER ALI
5:31 the baldy starting saluting him 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
"Tree has more benefit to the umma" 🤣🤣
I had to work for 2 years because my husband came from Morocco and he could not work. He felt really bad about it.
Now alhamdullilah he has a job (clearing containers) and i got to go on leave because i got pregnant and had a baby.
I have not felt less stressed and happy until i got to be a stay at home mom.
Unfortunately my husband does not earn to maintain everything so i have to search for at least something parttime. I am soooo sad. When i am home
My baby has a schedule.
I can teach her.
The house is in order.
My husband comes home to at least a warm home with dinner ready or almost ready😂
We all feel happy alhamdullilah.
And we are all haring the fact i have to go to work.
I ask Allah for a way that i do not have to.
This sister sounds young and with no experience. Inshallah she will have an amazing husband with eeman. She can learn then what is best for your mental and physical health. And mostly how to please allah.
May Allah make it easy for you two. May Allah grant him a better job, maybe since you are educated, you can teach him, he can go and learn a profession? It's hard, I know. May Allah be with you 2 in those times.
Hello sister, I'm really sorry to hear that. Situations like this tend to happen especially nowadays because things got more expensive and the income from an average job may not be enough to support an entire family.
Keep praying and working hard and I'm sure you and your husband will find a solution for this matter.
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@@alphabetpeople2902 Freedom as ruining a woman in making her sleep with as many men as she wants take as much alcohol as she wants by 46 she will be ruined and realize her mistakes and be on pharmaceutical drugs thank God we don't have to acknowledge this cancer as way of life
@@blueflame3531 What's wrong with sleeping with lots of men? Monogamy is unnatural. In moderate doses alcohol is healthy btw. "islam" has nothing to do with God. "allah" is anything but.
Hats of to Ali’s patience level…😂🫡
" *bang* make me lasagna, *bang* it's too salty" I was dying here 😂
Apparently everyone else is so self righteous. It’s easy enough to judge a 17 year old girl. She’s clearly coming from an emotional standpoint so instead of tearing her down, listen to her with a desire to understand where she’s coming from, which doesn’t mean you have to agree.
Shaytaan also came from an emotional standpoint.
@@diefaust4252 it’s sad that you feel the need to make that comparison.
@@diefaust4252 she’s only 17 islam teaches us to compassionate and merciful to one another.
@@jasminethomas4734 The assumption that emotionality justifies wrong is crooked, all im saying
@@diefaust4252 Nevertheless she is a Muslim sister. Perhaps she has a lot to learn, but haven’t we all been there?
Sounds like sister wants to be married to superman.....he cooks, he cleans, he takes care of kids, he also works.... Idk what people are smoking, but I'd like to try it too.
Jokes aside, I love staying home with my kids, I absolutely love cooking and making new dishes and I love cleaning and organising my home. My husband provides all these for me 🤷🏻♀️ and when I tell people that I'm happy doing all these they calm me oppressed and that I need to go into the work force....like...for what? I hate dealing with customers, I hate filling up shelves, restocking produce and I especially hate cooking for people I don't know, nor am I going to clean for them. I clean for husband and I and for our kids, I cook for them and spend time with them. I know they appreciate me, they respect me and they won't scream at me because I didn't put 1g extra of salt in the food....
Alhamdulillah. 👍 May God protect you sister.
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@@alphabetpeople2902 enjoy jahannam 😊
@@s.a9764 I prefer jahanam, at least no muslims are there
@@alphabetpeople2902 there is gonna be some Muslims there u clearly haven’t done ur research and you are spreading hate💀