I have learned not to even ask questions. Just watch people. They tell you, without you even having to ask them anything. The thing I had to learn was to believe what I was being shown and move accordingly. No announcement is even needed, before you move...just move.
I know I'm hearing all this wisdom later in life, but I hope young folks truly LISTEN and take to heart what TG is sharing. I would've been spared from so much heartache of my own making if knew then what I have learned now from his videos. Also, this video had me hollering at so many times on my commute 😆😆😆 Tony is a natural comedian 🤣🤣🤣
A friend of mine had a man gaslight her about not wanting to go to his house. She had a rule about not going to men’s houses that she was getting to know. He told her she was childish and that not everything is not about sex. She went to his house and he gRAPED her. Ladies stick to your standards and don’t let any man talk you out of them!
This is so sad. I also have a rule about not going to a man’s place until we get to know eachother well enough. But this one time after a first date this guy proceeded to ask me back to his place to hang out to continue our conversation since where we were at was closing. I hesitated but advised him it would only be to talk. Don’t know how he got the idea he could potentially get me in bed but he got angry with me for not wanting to sleep with him and luckily for me I was able to grab my bag and leave. It was such a crazy thing to experience and how mad he became cursing me out and all. And looking at someone like this person who is handsome, looks well put together, seems to have his life in order and doesn’t appear like he would even have trouble getting sex if he needed it that bad but still the best looking men can be crazy. Some of these men have some deep rooted issues. Sadly, many of them are black men. I can say that because it’s all I’ve ever dated and many of them need healing. I am so sorry that happened to your friend. After that incident happened to me, never again.
@@Essy_Bthank you love, I’m sorry that happened and I’m happy you got away! Some of these good looking men be the worst of the worst. It’s some sort of sick scary entitlement they have
THANK YOU SO MUCH for what you said about some people and Christians being too or overly spiritual . Some people are SO spiritual they forget to use their own LOGIC … not EVERYTHING is a sign . REST!!!!!always said this !!!!!!!!!!!
The problem is so many people don’t know how to have regular conversation with people. 10 years ago when I worked in education I saw this firsthand - young millennials and Gen Alpha are so smart, but cannot hold a conversation. So many lack interpersonal communication skills. It can be learned though.
I can’t express how many first dates I’ve been on..ik yall are anxious to find that man ladies (when HE should be finding YOU) but it’s seriously a part of the dating process. & he saying up to 10 but really once you in the field & you meeting these different types of men you gon get to a point where you can tell first date this ain’t gon be it! Watch & see!
Can you do a video on building genuine friendships as an adult? It seems that everyone today is flakey and fake. Its hard to meet genuine people as friends
Brother Tony out here speaking facts, im guilty of dumping a nice man who had a receding hairline, short , his breath stank, Lord knows i tried just couldn't do it . Its hard to know sometimes if you should stick to it , i also never want to be in a relationship out of desperation. Im ok being single
At this point, I am too! If I had been listening to Tony G. years ago, I don't see where I would have dated or married anyone I dated/married. I've let good men pass by as well, looking back. I think a few women and men have let good people pass by because they didn't look like our imperfect flesh or society thought they should look. Lord, if I could do it all over again...things would be different.
Why would God send you a man that doesn’t know how to take care of his hygiene? Stank breath is a highlight or oversight of larger issues. Gum or mints are less than $2 along with other dental hygiene resources. Any man with stank breath is a poor planner, not conscious and lacks self and situational awareness. I’ve studied this. Just my opinion and observation. Give yourself more credit. :) I don’t ever want to see a woman guilted into being courted by men with no self esteem and low value. Have a blessed day dear! Hope this helps.
Thank you Tony once again for taking us back to the basic, this message often needs to be said. Sometimes it takes awhile to get this down in our spirit.
I really enjoyed this video. The "don't shoot your shot, keep it" had me laughing. Keep the videos coming Tony Gaskins Sir. You're teaching us young women a lot. Peace and Blessings from Trinidad and Tobago.
Not the eagle talon toes! 🦅🦅🦅😭🤣 That was so funny. I could use the laughs because being single in this day and age is sometimes discouraging. But these kind of videos are funny and give hope.
Tony I’m working on full transformation right now! Focused on the 3 B’s and I wish I would’ve known these things sooner. Getting another license for my retirement plan, getting my steps in on my lunch break at work and staying consistent with my skincare and I’m back reading again regularly. My kids are thriving too. but I’m struggling to balance faith with this world. I’m ready to get out a little and mingle. Should I keep working on me or start exploring events and such? 😬
Have you noticed that when you started working on yourself and thriving, you're not even interested in the things that once caught your interest? That's where I am, since I've been working on myself. I feel great! Everything is aligning...mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and financially.
Thank you for your insight, wisdom, and time, Mr. Gaskins. You are 100% correct. Most of the people in the church are definitely "baking cookies," aka doing the devils dance with no pants🤫! I have a friend who is so gorgeous, intelligent, kind, and a woman of God. Her teenage son is a minister. She network's and is affiliated with several local churches. She is single and abstinent. I really feel that she isn't married yet because most of the men that go to church aren't living right by engaging in baking cookies before marriage!
TONY GASKINZ, I can’t with you! 😂 😂😂I’m out here hollering asking Jesus to take the wheel. You are spot on with your delivery.💯💯💯 God bless you and your family.🙏🏾💫🤎
This message is for you Americans womens : You have a great opportunity to see and learn from this Brother. By the grace of God, every time i see his videos i want to be a better woman. Take your chance ! He is a really good mentor ! God bless you Brother Tony! GOD bless your family too. Big hug to Sheri ❤
As women, we can't build anything genuine. If we could, we would all be married 100x over by now. Either there is a man who chooses to build something genuine with you, or there isn't. Many of us got left on the bench by all the good legacy-minded men.
God bless you Tony for telling your followers the hard truth that Easter, Christmas and Halloween have nothing to do with God. No Apostle and no Christian celebrated these pagan days
Even birthdays are pagan holidays. The orgin of birthdays derive from Greek, Egyptian, and Pagans. Cake and candles come from the Greece moon goddess Artemis. Look it up for yourself. The truth shall set you free.
“Keep your shot, don’t shoot it” said with a serious face at that lolllllll he get on my nerves mannn (I don’t do that, but he is too much everyday of my life lmbo) 💀
Yes I have someone I know who is 52 never married and she told me on the first date she is asking guys what are your plans for the future? And then she telling him what she will and will not tolerate on the first date! Like Tony said asking 21 questions. I told her your running them men away. I see why she never made it to the alter.
THAT’S VERY TRUE TONY 😂 “IT IS THE FUNNIEST SADDEST THING IN THE WORLD”😢. LORD GUIDE MY STEPS, KEEP MY MIND, COMFORT MY HEART & COVENANT MY BODY & LIFE 🙏🏾🙌🏾❤️. 😂TONY SAID “HE CAN CLIMB 🧗 UP A WALL RIGHT NOW, WITH THESE TOE NAILS.”
🤣🤣🤣🤣 on the dont date podcasters lol… some folks don’t read the room or the memo … but it’s ok this is what you’re here for to help Thank you Mr Gaskins lol 😆
Tony, I uses to have questions about yellow couches confessions but like you say what he was saying and acting like made me over rider my questions. Since you raised the alarm I can't look at him the same.
Tonyyyy im already knowing! It’s those women who have a slight lisp!! They’re the ones who have that spirit on them! The lisp isn’t permanent either. It comes and goes. Kinda reminds me of a snakes hiss………
Hi Tony, thank you so much for your valuable advice. Can you make a video about how to grow a relationship at 6 months to a year? ..The in-between stage, after dating- but before long term commitment..in a healthy growing relationship.. thanks 🙏🏼
Someone please help. Hoping for real suggestions. What happens if he is a nice man BUT his grooming is a bit off? There are some things that just arent quite there. Think teeth, skin, grooming ect. And im not sure if he "cares" about them. EVERYTHING im speaking of is fixable and appearance based. How do I have the conversation with him abt these things WITHOUT being offensive AND what is the timeframe? We've been talking/dating for abt 6 weeks. Serious inquiry. Thanks Blessed Tribe! 🙌🏾
Possible video topic question: Is it possible for a woman to influence a man to get close to Christ? It’s very rare I meet men who are pursuing Christ, and I’ve also met men with potential to be influenced to do so?
I have learned not to even ask questions. Just watch people. They tell you, without you even having to ask them anything. The thing I had to learn was to believe what I was being shown and move accordingly. No announcement is even needed, before you move...just move.
This --- LOL!!!! "As a woman, keep your shot. Don't shoot it."
😂😂😂
🙌🏾🧡🍂
😂😂😂
Yesssss! I had to learn the hard way. Tried and it didn’t ever work….I don’t care what anybody says.
The “keep your shot” took me out 😂😂😂
Building for a LIFETIME and NOT NIGHTTIME!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I know I'm hearing all this wisdom later in life, but I hope young folks truly LISTEN and take to heart what TG is sharing. I would've been spared from so much heartache of my own making if knew then what I have learned now from his videos. Also, this video had me hollering at so many times on my commute 😆😆😆 Tony is a natural comedian 🤣🤣🤣
A friend of mine had a man gaslight her about not wanting to go to his house. She had a rule about not going to men’s houses that she was getting to know. He told her she was childish and that not everything is not about sex. She went to his house and he gRAPED her. Ladies stick to your standards and don’t let any man talk you out of them!
I'm so sorry that happened to your friend 😢
This is so sad. I also have a rule about not going to a man’s place until we get to know eachother well enough. But this one time after a first date this guy proceeded to ask me back to his place to hang out to continue our conversation since where we were at was closing. I hesitated but advised him it would only be to talk. Don’t know how he got the idea he could potentially get me in bed but he got angry with me for not wanting to sleep with him and luckily for me I was able to grab my bag and leave. It was such a crazy thing to experience and how mad he became cursing me out and all. And looking at someone like this person who is handsome, looks well put together, seems to have his life in order and doesn’t appear like he would even have trouble getting sex if he needed it that bad but still the best looking men can be crazy. Some of these men have some deep rooted issues. Sadly, many of them are black men. I can say that because it’s all I’ve ever dated and many of them need healing. I am so sorry that happened to your friend. After that incident happened to me, never again.
Devastating
@@Essy_Bthank you love, I’m sorry that happened and I’m happy you got away! Some of these good looking men be the worst of the worst. It’s some sort of sick scary entitlement they have
@@princessszahara thanks love 🫶🏽
"THEN...the next thang you KNOW....dey heart gettin' ate"...😂😂😂😂..
I know my neighbors sick me and this cacklin' 😂😂😂❤
The direct eye contact while blinking, takes me out 😂😂
It is exceptionally eloquent
“Don’t shoot your shot ever 😑 keep your shot.” -Tony A Gaskins Jr.
🤣🤣 pure comedy! but he is dead serious!
I tell Women all the time ladies NEVER shot your shot and NEVER propose just crazy
@@sherrynelson365 WOMEN PROPOSING is outlandish 😩😩 😂😂 Thank God you have wisdom to speak up!
@yeshiasseged9262 yeah that is a damn shame 😮💨🤦🏽♀️ Id rather be dead than propose to a man ☠️
That was so funny 😂😂😂 and when he said “they went back to the house and got they heart ate”. 😂😂😂This man is hilarious
People trying to engineer love instead of trying to build love🔥🔥🔥
Tuesday definitely feels like my most productive day, per week.
THANK YOU SO MUCH for what you said about some people and Christians being too or overly spiritual . Some people are SO spiritual they forget to use their own LOGIC … not EVERYTHING is a sign . REST!!!!!always said this !!!!!!!!!!!
💯
Yall 😂😂😂 "you sitting there with ya 21 question from 50 cent and get 21 lies!" 😢😂😂😂
Tony you’re getting younger by the day! The fasting is effective, you’re the example.
The problem is so many people don’t know how to have regular conversation with people. 10 years ago when I worked in education I saw this firsthand - young millennials and Gen Alpha are so smart, but cannot hold a conversation. So many lack interpersonal communication skills. It can be learned though.
I can’t express how many first dates I’ve been on..ik yall are anxious to find that man ladies (when HE should be finding YOU) but it’s seriously a part of the dating process. & he saying up to 10 but really once you in the field & you meeting these different types of men you gon get to a point where you can tell first date this ain’t gon be it! Watch & see!
Evening “New Cousin” 🤓Here🙋🏾♀️Hello Blessed Tribe Family💁🏾♀️😘😇
“On Firefox and the Fox ‘bout to get fired!” 😂
🤣🤣🤣
Can you do a video on building genuine friendships as an adult? It seems that everyone today is flakey and fake. Its hard to meet genuine people as friends
Bro “cmon give me that cold sore”😂😂😂 “give me that mono”😂😂 Tony bruh
I was dead ☠️☠️☠️
Brother Tony out here speaking facts, im guilty of dumping a nice man who had a receding hairline, short , his breath stank, Lord knows i tried just couldn't do it . Its hard to know sometimes if you should stick to it , i also never want to be in a relationship out of desperation. Im ok being single
At this point, I am too! If I had been listening to Tony G. years ago, I don't see where I would have dated or married anyone I dated/married. I've let good men pass by as well, looking back. I think a few women and men have let good people pass by because they didn't look like our imperfect flesh or society thought they should look. Lord, if I could do it all over again...things would be different.
@montricec8795 it's never too late to have your true partner the difference now is we are wiser
@@brie5414 You're right.
Why would God send you a man that doesn’t know how to take care of his hygiene? Stank breath is a highlight or oversight of larger issues. Gum or mints are less than $2 along with other dental hygiene resources. Any man with stank breath is a poor planner, not conscious and lacks self and situational awareness. I’ve studied this. Just my opinion and observation. Give yourself more credit. :) I don’t ever want to see a woman guilted into being courted by men with no self esteem and low value. Have a blessed day dear! Hope this helps.
@shemlahnaphish3260 thank you for the kind words,indeed why would the Lord send me someone like that .
Do NOT shoot your shot. My father told me “9/10 x’s. If you throw it, a man WILL catch it.”
“Their heart gettin’ ate.” 😂😅😂
I PROMISE I died!!! 😂😂😂😂
Thank you Tony once again for taking us back to the basic, this message often needs to be said. Sometimes it takes awhile to get this down in our spirit.
Tony you be cracking me up!!! 😁🤣
New subscriber binge watching videos from 4 years ago to present. Thank You!
I really enjoyed this video. The "don't shoot your shot, keep it" had me laughing. Keep the videos coming Tony Gaskins Sir. You're teaching us young women a lot. Peace and Blessings from Trinidad and Tobago.
“If I had a yellow couch podcast I’d wear this” 😭😭😭 you are hilarious that man be catching strays LOL
😂😂😂😂😂😂 literally
Not the eagle talon toes! 🦅🦅🦅😭🤣 That was so funny. I could use the laughs because being single in this day and age is sometimes discouraging. But these kind of videos are funny and give hope.
Yaaass 🤣🤣🤣
Lmao! I was reading your comment the exact same time he said it. 😂😂😂🤣😅
Tony I’m working on full transformation right now! Focused on the 3 B’s and I wish I would’ve known these things sooner. Getting another license for my retirement plan, getting my steps in on my lunch break at work and staying consistent with my skincare and I’m back reading again regularly. My kids are thriving too. but I’m struggling to balance faith with this world. I’m ready to get out a little and mingle. Should I keep working on me or start exploring events and such? 😬
Have you noticed that when you started working on yourself and thriving, you're not even interested in the things that once caught your interest? That's where I am, since I've been working on myself. I feel great! Everything is aligning...mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and financially.
It’s the sound effects for me when he was talking about catching something? 😩🤭😂😂😂
He had me rolling 🤣🤣🤣
I climb up a wall rat na with these toe nails. 😂🤣 Tony is hilarious.
Women should show subtle signs that they are interested but not overtly shoot their shot
“Where were you November 38th of 1971?”😂😂 What a time to be alive. Uncle Tony, you ain’t neva lied. Thank you for these gems. So timely. 🙌🏿🤍
It’s the realness and the laughs I get every time for me 😂 😂
Thank you for this video . Very timely . Very necessary. We must all reflect and adapt for better and positive change .
God bless you 🙏🏾
Thank you for your insight, wisdom, and time, Mr. Gaskins. You are 100% correct. Most of the people in the church are definitely "baking cookies," aka doing the devils dance with no pants🤫! I have a friend who is so gorgeous, intelligent, kind, and a woman of God. Her teenage son is a minister. She network's and is affiliated with several local churches.
She is single and abstinent. I really feel that she isn't married yet because most of the men that go to church aren't living right by engaging in baking cookies before marriage!
TONY GASKINZ, I can’t with you! 😂 😂😂I’m out here hollering asking Jesus to take the wheel. You are spot on with your delivery.💯💯💯 God bless you and your family.🙏🏾💫🤎
This message is for you Americans womens : You have a great opportunity to see and learn from this Brother. By the grace of God, every time i see his videos i want to be a better woman. Take your chance ! He is a really good mentor ! God bless you Brother Tony! GOD bless your family too. Big hug to Sheri ❤
THANK YOU A LOT
Sounds like you talking about that Meyer’s Briggs personality assessment, people be like I’m ITFJMS or something like that 😂.
Ooooh this!! 😂😂😂😂 thanks for the remainder. I never go around asking anyone this before 😅
“You don’t work for the FBI” 😭😭😭😭😂😂🤣
Also, what they show on TV shows and movies these days sleeping with a person you just met as normal behavior! Our society is in bad shape! SMH
I love Tony. "Understand that, that, that is the spirit of lil nasty." im hollering 🤣 😂🤣🤣
I am thankful God has lead me to your videos! God bless you and your family 🙌🏼
“You NASTY!! Now you bout to catch herrrPEEEAASS…” 😩😩😭😭😭😭
As women, we can't build anything genuine. If we could, we would all be married 100x over by now. Either there is a man who chooses to build something genuine with you, or there isn't. Many of us got left on the bench by all the good legacy-minded men.
I been thinking about this. Let us show them what they left behind then: Brains Brand Body BOOM!!!!
Now we have men asking who live in your house with you.
😂😂 oh no! They ready to be a tenant
Those shirts are unique. I hope a celebrity gets a hold of one. 💯
Tony is ABSOLUTELY correct about singles being in our head. Doing what he said about just having normal conversations WERKS
God bless you Tony for telling your followers the hard truth that Easter, Christmas and Halloween have nothing to do with God. No Apostle and no Christian celebrated these pagan days
Even birthdays are pagan holidays. The orgin of birthdays derive from Greek, Egyptian, and Pagans. Cake and candles come from the Greece moon goddess Artemis. Look it up for yourself. The truth shall set you free.
I needed this one right here!!! Thank you. 🙏🏽
*powerful words of wisdom in such a timely manner
I'm shocked to hear that one of your mentees got rejected for abstinence. I thought that was something only women go through.
Not an eagle huh Tony!!!! 😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
Not the heart getting ate😩 😂😂😂
😂😂 too funny. “Do I want mono?”
Tony,
It's Trichomoniasis
We needed this! Thank you Tony
“Keep your shot, don’t shoot it” said with a serious face at that lolllllll he get on my nerves mannn (I don’t do that, but he is too much everyday of my life lmbo) 💀
So funny yet so helpful 😂‼️
This video makes me feel hopeful ❤
Mane, that eagle toenail took me out!
I’d be one of them socially awkward people - asking too many questions (all at once ) 😂😂 . Help me Lord !
I know Tony don’t t be trying to be funny but when he said “you ole nasty heifer” I was on the floor.
This advice is on point Tony. Thank you.
a hefer is a Cow Tony 😂😂😂 my gma loved that word too lol
0:50 I love this shirt!!
Thanks TG needed to hear this❤
Yes I have someone I know who is 52 never married and she told me on the first date she is asking guys what are your plans for the future? And then she telling him what she will and will not tolerate on the first date! Like Tony said asking 21 questions. I told her your running them men away. I see why she never made it to the alter.
Good evening 🎉blessings blessed tribe
THAT’S VERY TRUE TONY 😂 “IT IS THE FUNNIEST SADDEST THING IN THE WORLD”😢. LORD GUIDE MY STEPS, KEEP MY MIND, COMFORT MY HEART & COVENANT MY BODY & LIFE 🙏🏾🙌🏾❤️. 😂TONY SAID “HE CAN CLIMB 🧗 UP A WALL RIGHT NOW, WITH THESE TOE NAILS.”
Hey Tony! I'm an IT manager. Reboot your MacBook then try to update your MacBook. Its a glitch in macs preventing updates without rebooting first.
Hope he sees it
Truth💯. Every dream isn't God speaking to you. I can recognize God dreams and my stomach dreams..
the ending of this video about not being too spiritual had me cracking up.. thanks for posting
🤣🤣🤣🤣 on the dont date podcasters lol… some folks don’t read the room or the memo … but it’s ok this is what you’re here for to help Thank you Mr Gaskins lol 😆
TG has the patience of Job! People are really not that bright and it blows my mind 😮💨🤦🏽♀️🤣
LMBOOOOOOOO do you know your BDSM omg 😆 BMI body mass index 🔥🔥🔥 really the best accidental sense of humor Tony got lol 😂
I’m a INTJ … I had to take a personality test for a job lol 😅 it shouldn’t be used for dating purposes lol 😂
I love the CAUTIONS ⛔️ you give us humans!! Thank you . 🐝 Bee Bless 😊
Not gimme that cold sore lol
Right ☠️☠️☠️
Man you are Hilarious 😂 😅 and real at the same time
Nope not willing to catch HSV1 for nan soul!
Coldstone send his check!
You are hilarious but give the messages as usual!! 💯😅😂🙏🏽
Say it again… 😂😂😂you are not building for NIGHT TIME you are building for a LIFE TIME
I've been with TSA for over 15 years.
Tony, I uses to have questions about yellow couches confessions but like you say what he was saying and acting like made me over rider my questions. Since you raised the alarm I can't look at him the same.
Love the shirt!!
😂😂😂 I’m getting the lesson but 😂😂😂
Tonyyyy im already knowing! It’s those women who have a slight lisp!! They’re the ones who have that spirit on them! The lisp isn’t permanent either. It comes and goes. Kinda reminds me of a snakes hiss………
I won't even do costumes period 💯✅👍🏽!
Lol myers briggs personality test
Hi Tony, thank you so much for your valuable advice. Can you make a video about how to grow a relationship at 6 months to a year? ..The in-between stage, after dating- but before long term commitment..in a healthy growing relationship..
thanks 🙏🏼
If I had a yellow couch I'd probably wear it 😂
Not the dreams are actually indigestion!!!! Listen, i cant take Tony today! You cant trust that dream!!! 😅😅😅
Very nice.
Long nails spirit of Leviathan😭😭😭😭
Ur correct my relationship have all jumped in extreme fast only lasted 2 years some only 4 months but I didn’t know about red flags n not rushing
Someone please help. Hoping for real suggestions. What happens if he is a nice man BUT his grooming is a bit off? There are some things that just arent quite there. Think teeth, skin, grooming ect. And im not sure if he "cares" about them. EVERYTHING im speaking of is fixable and appearance based. How do I have the conversation with him abt these things WITHOUT being offensive AND what is the timeframe? We've been talking/dating for abt 6 weeks. Serious inquiry. Thanks Blessed Tribe! 🙌🏾
😂yesss take your time 😂❤
Possible video topic question: Is it possible for a woman to influence a man to get close to Christ? It’s very rare I meet men who are pursuing Christ, and I’ve also met men with potential to be influenced to do so?
I don’t think I like ANY ONE worth catching ANY of these things sir 😅
Dream interpreter.....lol😅😅