Yes, I did watch the whole video.😌 However, I will say this..... even though I'm currently 23 and have never been in a romantic relationship before, I DONT NEED A GIRLFRIEND AT ALL. I'm perfectly comfortable with living life on my own while improving myself every day. I never, ever, ever, ever want to approach or try to form a relationship with anyone no matter what. To me, approaching or forming a relationship with a good woman as an established young man sounds like a stupid, and pathetic goal to go for just because you want to feel like you belong. It doesn't even make you confident, too. No matter how great of a better version of yourself you can be, you're never good enough for anyone. No good man is ever worth having a girlfriend. A man always focuses on his well-being and success. NO RELATIONSHIPS. Being a good man providing for the world without a girlfriend makes you confident..... and a real G. Okay? Why do you think I should even want to approach or be in a relationship with girls, anyway? Thanks for the video, by the way.
Thank you denmo. You've given me the motivation to get out of a depressing warehouse job I've been at for 4 years. Had to get out of there. I got my cdl license and now I drive a concrete mixer truck for the union and make $9 more on the hour than the crappy warehouse job
I'm working on leaving my useless deadend steward role which id a job I did before more than once in the past and now that I'm building my envisioned life, the role isn't part of that nor it will never help me with building the life I'm building right now. Good for you for turning your life around. Keep it up.
This still doesn’t change the fact that there are 49 million kangaroos in Australia and 3.5 million people in Uruguay. Which means that if kangaroos invaded Uruguay, each person would have to fight 14 kangaroos
Jack, I have my goals for the week written down, a morning routine established, eating the same thing everyday, porn blocked on all devices, other dopamine triggers removed, phone B&W. I'm working on a sales offer rn WITH a sales coach, joining a climbing gym. I'm on it bro.
One of the best people I know when it comes to women is just an all-around winner in life. He has achieved excellence in every single thing he does. I admire him greatly. Military Colonel, big house, triathlon metals, coached his daughter's soccer team to championships, and even excels at board games. Just a total winner.
What's worked for me was being chill. It's good to see more insights, Denmo. It feels like everybody is giving up or spreading emotionally toxic advice, so thank you for the optimisstic reality.
Hey Denmo, Most of your audience is ALREADY trying to approach girls and often feels a burning desire to do so when they're out. However, many are stuck at the point of not finding the courage to go near and start talking to her. I hope you make this a main topic in your future videos.
I came to Toronto 3 years ago from Siberia. Long story short - I'm the least preferable candidate for having a wholesome life yet somehow I managed to find friends, switch 2 jobs, start up my own business, and while 90% of my money still is dumped into amenities, once I'm 26 that shouldn't be a problem at all. So don't give up on it guys, it really is a videogame with a bunch of quests. i pay 3k/month btw
Dude I'm 24 yo and I'm a guiarist. I've been playing the guitar since the age of 12. I even play in a band, and I still don't get attraction from women. Which makes me feel that I don't have much hope in hell in ever attracting girls! :(
Thank you for all the information. Just got out of a 2,5 year relationship at the age of 25 and i almost commited to the point of no return. Im free now
I think most guys have interests, hobbies, and a life. The problem is what makes women care enough to want to talk to you and get to know you if you aren't a male model? Nobody ever talks to me unless they have to for their job or they're homeless and asking for money. Other than that, I'm practically invisible. As bad as dating apps are, they seem to be the only place women will show interest and talk. Assuming they aren't fake, don't ghost, etc. And that's rare when it happens but still better than nothing.
Do you walk through life with a neutral attitude/expression? If not try to just put a smile on and just nodding at or waving to people even if your not in a good mood your “expressed mood” will subconsciously make you more approachable. I used to have a bad case of resting pissed face but started consciously masking it and the amount of conversations ive had with complete strangers has gone up significantly, but also start conversations with strangers in the store at the gym, just comment on the surroundings time of day etc.
I live in New Zealand, It's no different to Canada or the US. The average price of rent for the bear minimum one person apartment is About $250-$280, (I don't what that is in USD). Minimum wage is about $21 and hour and we don't really tip in my country so don't expect extra unless you work over time. A shity two bedroom house would cost over $500,000 in an average area even in poor condition. Good condition 3 bedroom in an average area could have a value of 1 million dollars. To even get a good job you probably need at least a masters degree that would leave you close to $100,000 in debt.
Thank you! Your videos are hurting but they help. I think that your videos are universal and they can help at every age but still can please make a video for a bit older guys?
The worst part about your videos(Read: Best Part) is that I already know this shit. I think that's why I respond to them so well, and also, how I know I'm on the right track. So many time we're trying to cheese the boss(girls), just using a tactic that let's us get the results we want without actually having done the work to achieve it. I act as if I were the guy I want to be. And the suckiest part is that we want to feel good enough. That we want to feel like the current us is okay, that it's alright to be who we are now...but it isn't. Not when it comes to the goals we have, especially regarding women. But the key component is that we aren't good enough YET. It's not that we can't ever be good enough, which a lot of people fall into the trap of, it's that we haven't built ourselves up quite enough to be what we want to be. You get it Denmo. And I do too. But it isn't until recently that I've bit the bullet fully and realized that I've been trying to accomplish my goals without actually doing the work, because I wanted to feel like I was enough. But I'm not, not for what I actually want. And it isn't until I put the work in consistently that I'll be who I want.
I used to think I suck at theoretical physics. This is because I never did theoretical physics. But then I start practicing it and I got good at it. For real.
I am also learning vocals right now My vocal journey is verry interesting, I had learnd extreme vocal before normal vocal In one moment I just understand, that without normal full-builded voice I can't use extreme vocals normally, so, I know how to scream and growl, but not how to sing😁
First step..... dont think about women at all.. Like....at all..... Its that simple thats how you get women... By not wanting women..... Like i get it....women are beautiful But if you really wanted women... The way to do it is by figuring out who you are without them... ..You get 1 life.... Dont waste it chasing women Chase the man god wants you to be and then the women will chase you...its that simple....focus on yourself
Im a wealth of knowledge when it comes to precious metals and I've always found my friends and family to be super interested whenever I talk about it. So find something you love and learn everything aboot it
26:52 just go listen to Clutch. This guy sings Rock songs and has a very low voice. Also, pro tip: Having a low pitched voice is actually a blessing because you can always train up but not necissarily down.
How can I do that? I only go to gym and I’m currently unemployed 🤦🏻♂️ I’m a farmer, I feel secluded and isolated from the rest of the world, I’ve no social circle
Real spill: I was on a walk after work cause why not. Then I literally walked past a girl and on the second spin around I said “fuck it just say something…” The just said “hi”. Had some small talk, got her number. Easier then I thought
A bit more regarding approaching. Only 13% of the entire US population between 15 and 24 y.o. If we exclude underage, we are left with 9%. Only half of them are women, so that’s a 4.5% chance of simply meeting someone in 18-24 age group when going out. If we exclude fat people, let’s be generous and as exclude only those who are actually obese, now we are left with 3%. This 3% include people already in a relationship (so at least half) or lgbt. If we also exclude people with evident mental health issues and really ugly we are left in total with 1%. There is a 1% chance to meet a woman 18-24 who is single, straight and not obese when going out at a given time. Or, to put it more realistically, you have to pass 100 people before meeting such person. The question is where? I can do cold approaches, I got success with it in the past, the main issue is unless you are on college campus during the day or live in a huge WALKABLE city, there is no way you gonna have enough traffic to meet enough women to make the strategy “go out more” to work. You can try night clubs, but after certain age it just feels weird and if you don’t drink or use drugs you will be very out of place there to begin with, and unless you are into girls who enjoy getting drunk every Friday you won’t match with them at all. Unless you have unlimited time every week to just wonder around every possible place in your area to encounter 1000 people, 10 of whom will be the girls you are after, the strategy simply doesn’t work.
To add to this: You can try events, sure. But the ratios are the same for all of them. Even for fucking music festivals, unless it’s a rave. And as for raves, same issue as with night clubs, not the quality you will probably want to date and if you don’t drink or use drugs you will be out of place. You can try public places - museum, galleries, book stores, coffee shops. Been everywhere, once in a while you can meet someone who fits criteria above, but it’s same 1%. When half of the population are over 40 years old, you will mostly be encountering a bunch of old people whenever you go. Coffee shops around colleges have the best selection, but if you have a full time job, it becomes very challenging to go there during busy hours. Once in a while universities throw out events open for public or some alumni gatherings. But it’s mostly older crowds. Adventure parks. Good choice, but most girls there are with boyfriends or friend groups, plus admission costs money. Grocery stores. Mostly old people.
Or simply begin by making friends and then organize your own party or event, inviting your friends and asking them to each bring an extra friend. Whether it's someone you know or not, each time you invite your guests, have them bring a new friend. Before long, you'll have a large social circle full of interesting people you didn't even know existed, greatly increasing your chances of meeting a girl who tickles your fancy.
I took a job on the weekends doing security at a high end lounge/hotel, the women that both work there and and attend there are some of the most beautiful girls in Scottsdale Arizona has, put yourself around 8, and 9s constantly you will desensitize yourself being around hot girls and you will just be able to talk to them as if you’ve known them for years and not care how hot they are.
Whats up Daddy Denmo!? Ive been striking up random convos when im out doing errands coffee parks etc. but i need to try your library suggestion hey if no number achieved with a chica try again with someone else it can be as simple as hey do you know where___is? Im new here
I just watched this video cuz the title was a half of a challenge and half an attack on insecurity. A title that grabs someone’s attention and curiosity makkkgthen ask themselves “do I suck at life? Well let’s see if I do whatever he’s talking about”
My location problem is complicated. My parents can hardly afford their place and everything and I'm here helping them pay for it. I tried to move in with my friend but my parents said they "couldn't afford to lose me" and now I'm stuck here at 21 wondering how long they cant afford to lose me.
@@antsonseadoos1287 it sucks because ideally your parents would be helping you. Not the other way around. I'm sure they don't know any better than what they can manage. But they raised you and gave you life. All I can say is if you move to a vibrant City where you can walk places and meet people that helps with dating.
@@szililolabu thanks for the insight. I might be making excuses for myself. My parents can have poor judgement at times and it's not good for me to stick around and deal with the consequences but I'm glad to be around them while I can. I don't mean to gatekeep but unfortunately this isn't the place for me to get much deeper into personal troubles with my parents. I wish you the best and I'm confident I'll have my shit figured out soon
Dude I literally just finisched high school, of course I don't have my own house, car and a lot of money and the majority of guys my age are in the same position as me but still a lot of them are better at getting girls somehow
Yeah I'll always be angry and bitter and resentful that I didn't have my first girlfriend until my early 30s, me and her are not together anymore though. I know I've spoken to another guy like this who has a similar story who says he never had a girlfriend until he was 30, he has the mindset that if he was born a woman he would not have been alone and single that long. I remember one guy said this to me and he really pissed me off when he said to me: "Why would you be bitter once you got what you wanted? Even if it took that long why does it matter? You can still enjoy the fruits of your labor now" Because I didn't get into my first relationship until later than normal that's why I feel angry bitter and resentful. And plus being a guy, how the dating game has always been different for men for women in which I know I'm not the only guy that has this mindset and that is men always have to be the ones to put in all the work and effort in order to land a girlfriend or in order for a heterosexual relationship to happen or start. It's like men are the only ones that have to know or learn so many skills and behaviors on how to attract a mate but not the other way around. I get more mad and angry that people in society say that men are not supposed to view that as work or a burden as in men always having to be the ones to take the lead and Court women and lead the interaction, I will never understand why men are supposed to enjoy and embrace that role. Should be obvious as to what I'm talking about, yeah and I get even more pissed off that people and Society say that women also have to learn dating skills on how to meet men or how to attract men when it never will make sense to me since women don't have to do jackshit to make a relationship happen. Speaking of my lifelong hatred of men always having to make the first move all the time. Didn't happen for me around the time people normally have their first relationship. I get very angry and pissed off whenever people and Society have the mindset that it's better to be a man. I remember another guy said and he only added fuel to fire which made me more angry and pissed off when he said: "Boo fucking hoo. We also don't have to go through child birth and we're strong as fuck. Testosterone gives us ambition + mental and physical strength that MANY (not all) women are lacking. Being a man has many benefits and with great power comes great responsibility. Stop crying about it and get your fucking shit together" Let's just say he pissed me off so much that it's not appropriate for me to say what was on my mind when I read that comment. Yeah I don't understand why a lot of people have the mindset as to why it's better to be a man at the end of the day. Yes it does truly feel unfair being a man at times. It only pisses me off even more when people say "thats the way it is, or so what?". it just fills me with a lot of anger and rage.
Well, women who lack emotional strength, mental clarity, interpersonal skills and have unsafe attachment styles but can still attract men and enter relationships are likely to face negative consequences, such as feeling and acting miserable once the initial feelings of limerence fade. Society often portrays being in love, or experiencing limerence, as the highest attainable state. However, without bearing the burdens of responsibility, it is like the fleeting high of taking drugs. So what do you really want to achieve and are your thoughts and derived feelings even productive?
@mangomight7938 yeah it's a fact that women are far less likely than men are to remain chronically forever alone or single later than normal than men are, should be obvious as to why it's like that and I've already explained why in my post
@@nobodysperfect06So, you're suggesting that a small % of men are simultaneously dating a disproportionately large % of women, essentially engaging in hypergamy. If I concede that this is true, what is the correlation between being such a woman and say experiencing happiness or overall (especially long-term) life satisfaction?
@@mangomight7938 well over the years I've noticed that it's quite common for lots of men to go far into their twenties and even 30s and 40s or older and to have never dated or never had a relationship before
@mangomight7938 no I'm saying that far more men than women end up never having dated or never having been in a relationship before by a certain age and the other way around
7:27 you live in Canada. Good luck wondering around Oakland or LA or St Louis to meet people outside. Sure, you will meet them and this experience will probably be unforgettable, but I don’t think this is the kind of experience you are looking for.
Can being good at video games work? I used to enter tournaments and do pretty well. But I wouldnt want to be fake and act like tis not a part of who i am for women
Ultimately though, you'll never truly be satisfied with the things in this world anyways because that hole or emptiness inside can only be filled by Christ Jesus.
I'm literally scared of women because my mother abused me when I was a kid, I sometimes literally hyperventilate and panic in the extreme, but even im getting better with practice. Exposure therapy.
For those of you who watched the secret message at the end of the video, you are a real G
Yes, I did watch the whole video.😌
However, I will say this..... even though I'm currently 23 and have never been in a romantic relationship before, I DONT NEED A GIRLFRIEND AT ALL. I'm perfectly comfortable with living life on my own while improving myself every day. I never, ever, ever, ever want to approach or try to form a relationship with anyone no matter what. To me, approaching or forming a relationship with a good woman as an established young man sounds like a stupid, and pathetic goal to go for just because you want to feel like you belong. It doesn't even make you confident, too. No matter how great of a better version of yourself you can be, you're never good enough for anyone. No good man is ever worth having a girlfriend. A man always focuses on his well-being and success. NO RELATIONSHIPS. Being a good man providing for the world without a girlfriend makes you confident..... and a real G. Okay?
Why do you think I should even want to approach or be in a relationship with girls, anyway?
Thanks for the video, by the way.
Yo denmo make a vid on how to keep them once you have them
@@jacobb8832wow
Thank you denmo. You've given me the motivation to get out of a depressing warehouse job I've been at for 4 years. Had to get out of there. I got my cdl license and now I drive a concrete mixer truck for the union and make $9 more on the hour than the crappy warehouse job
atta boy proud of ya man
I'm working on leaving my useless deadend steward role which id a job I did before more than once in the past and now that I'm building my envisioned life, the role isn't part of that nor it will never help me with building the life I'm building right now. Good for you for turning your life around. Keep it up.
This still doesn’t change the fact that there are 49 million kangaroos in Australia and 3.5 million people in Uruguay. Which means that if kangaroos invaded Uruguay, each person would have to fight 14 kangaroos
facts
😂😂😂
Jack, I have my goals for the week written down, a morning routine established, eating the same thing everyday, porn blocked on all devices, other dopamine triggers removed, phone B&W. I'm working on a sales offer rn WITH a sales coach, joining a climbing gym. I'm on it bro.
One of the best people I know when it comes to women is just an all-around winner in life. He has achieved excellence in every single thing he does. I admire him greatly. Military Colonel, big house, triathlon metals, coached his daughter's soccer team to championships, and even excels at board games. Just a total winner.
What's worked for me was being chill. It's good to see more insights, Denmo. It feels like everybody is giving up or spreading emotionally toxic advice, so thank you for the optimisstic reality.
I just wanna tell u You’re the best! With love from Tajikistan
cheers brother
I can talk to girls but just trying to date them is another thing
itll get better with time bro
Hey Denmo,
Most of your audience is ALREADY trying to approach girls and often feels a burning desire to do so when they're out. However, many are stuck at the point of not finding the courage to go near and start talking to her.
I hope you make this a main topic in your future videos.
I came to Toronto 3 years ago from Siberia. Long story short - I'm the least preferable candidate for having a wholesome life yet somehow I managed to find friends, switch 2 jobs, start up my own business, and while 90% of my money still is dumped into amenities, once I'm 26 that shouldn't be a problem at all.
So don't give up on it guys, it really is a videogame with a bunch of quests.
i pay 3k/month btw
Dude I'm 24 yo and I'm a guiarist. I've been playing the guitar since the age of 12. I even play in a band, and I still don't get attraction from women. Which makes me feel that I don't have much hope in hell in ever attracting girls! :(
Thank you for the Extra 3 Hours🔥
Thanks for the extra 3 hours holyy
Thanks for saveing me 3 hours Denmo! Did nt know you could sing! Awsome
Thank you for all the information. Just got out of a 2,5 year relationship at the age of 25 and i almost commited to the point of no return. Im free now
your gonna be fine G
This is exactly how I need to be spoken to. Thank you Denmo
I literally go out right now.... New subscriber
I think most guys have interests, hobbies, and a life. The problem is what makes women care enough to want to talk to you and get to know you if you aren't a male model? Nobody ever talks to me unless they have to for their job or they're homeless and asking for money. Other than that, I'm practically invisible.
As bad as dating apps are, they seem to be the only place women will show interest and talk. Assuming they aren't fake, don't ghost, etc. And that's rare when it happens but still better than nothing.
Do you walk through life with a neutral attitude/expression? If not try to just put a smile on and just nodding at or waving to people even if your not in a good mood your “expressed mood” will subconsciously make you more approachable. I used to have a bad case of resting pissed face but started consciously masking it and the amount of conversations ive had with complete strangers has gone up significantly, but also start conversations with strangers in the store at the gym, just comment on the surroundings time of day etc.
I live in New Zealand, It's no different to Canada or the US. The average price of rent for the bear minimum one person apartment is About $250-$280, (I don't what that is in USD). Minimum wage is about $21 and hour and we don't really tip in my country so don't expect extra unless you work over time. A shity two bedroom house would cost over $500,000 in an average area even in poor condition. Good condition 3 bedroom in an average area could have a value of 1 million dollars. To even get a good job you probably need at least a masters degree that would leave you close to $100,000 in debt.
Thank you! Your videos are hurting but they help. I think that your videos are universal and they can help at every age but still can please make a video for a bit older guys?
meant to hit you but help you
The worst part about your videos(Read: Best Part) is that I already know this shit. I think that's why I respond to them so well, and also, how I know I'm on the right track. So many time we're trying to cheese the boss(girls), just using a tactic that let's us get the results we want without actually having done the work to achieve it. I act as if I were the guy I want to be. And the suckiest part is that we want to feel good enough. That we want to feel like the current us is okay, that it's alright to be who we are now...but it isn't. Not when it comes to the goals we have, especially regarding women. But the key component is that we aren't good enough YET. It's not that we can't ever be good enough, which a lot of people fall into the trap of, it's that we haven't built ourselves up quite enough to be what we want to be. You get it Denmo. And I do too. But it isn't until recently that I've bit the bullet fully and realized that I've been trying to accomplish my goals without actually doing the work, because I wanted to feel like I was enough. But I'm not, not for what I actually want. And it isn't until I put the work in consistently that I'll be who I want.
Thank you for the extra 3 hours denmo
$2400/ month in my county 2 bedroom 1 bathroom utilities not included.
I'm 36 and living with my parents to save for a house in Australia. It's painful and my biggest insecurity when it comes to dating.
Your content is so good stay true and continue to do good stuff
Never change the title of this video. It slaps. Hard.
glad you took the message the right way bro!
I used to think I suck at theoretical physics. This is because I never did theoretical physics. But then I start practicing it and I got good at it. For real.
I am also learning vocals right now
My vocal journey is verry interesting, I had learnd extreme vocal before normal vocal
In one moment I just understand, that without normal full-builded voice I can't use extreme vocals normally, so, I know how to scream and growl, but not how to sing😁
First step.....
dont think about women at all..
Like....at all.....
Its that simple
thats how you get women...
By not wanting women.....
Like i get it....women are beautiful
But if you really wanted women...
The way to do it is by figuring out who you are without them...
..You get 1 life....
Dont waste it chasing women
Chase the man god wants you to be and then the women will chase you...its that simple....focus on yourself
What do I do if I chase God and women dont chase me?
Best wingman on UA-cam right here.
gotcha brother
Thank you for inventing the internet daddy
i gotchu bro
That’s cute
Im a wealth of knowledge when it comes to precious metals and I've always found my friends and family to be super interested whenever I talk about it. So find something you love and learn everything aboot it
very interesting niche bro
Regarding the videogame analogy...
Thanks for the extra 3 hours.
26:52 just go listen to Clutch. This guy sings Rock songs and has a very low voice.
Also, pro tip: Having a low pitched voice is actually a blessing because you can always train up but not necissarily down.
these young men need to literally get out more and interact with people!
How can I do that? I only go to gym and I’m currently unemployed 🤦🏻♂️ I’m a farmer, I feel secluded and isolated from the rest of the world, I’ve no social circle
@@fmm5577maybe he’s married already 🙂 so he’s giving us young single guys an advice
do i watch youtube videos 24/7? 😂
and i have a girlfriend so don’t worry about me, bro
@@bekabeka71 you could interact with people in the gym 🤷♂️
People suck tbh
mann i have most of the traits and advice that denmo says that people need to get a women, but still no progress seen
Nothing he says will work for autistic people
I miss Melvin. Where is he? Under the fridge?
No dont u remember the story? He morphed into a cockroach.. so is now moved to new habitat.
melvin died buddy he's long gone
@@Denmosocial R.I.P. Melvin, died a virgin...
Great video
Real spill: I was on a walk after work cause why not. Then I literally walked past a girl and on the second spin around I said “fuck it just say something…” The just said “hi”. Had some small talk, got her number. Easier then I thought
And you guys need to realize that some people are very boring, bigger part of people have no interest... just are good at communicating and pretty
A bit more regarding approaching. Only 13% of the entire US population between 15 and 24 y.o. If we exclude underage, we are left with 9%. Only half of them are women, so that’s a 4.5% chance of simply meeting someone in 18-24 age group when going out. If we exclude fat people, let’s be generous and as exclude only those who are actually obese, now we are left with 3%. This 3% include people already in a relationship (so at least half) or lgbt. If we also exclude people with evident mental health issues and really ugly we are left in total with 1%. There is a 1% chance to meet a woman 18-24 who is single, straight and not obese when going out at a given time. Or, to put it more realistically, you have to pass 100 people before meeting such person. The question is where? I can do cold approaches, I got success with it in the past, the main issue is unless you are on college campus during the day or live in a huge WALKABLE city, there is no way you gonna have enough traffic to meet enough women to make the strategy “go out more” to work. You can try night clubs, but after certain age it just feels weird and if you don’t drink or use drugs you will be very out of place there to begin with, and unless you are into girls who enjoy getting drunk every Friday you won’t match with them at all.
Unless you have unlimited time every week to just wonder around every possible place in your area to encounter 1000 people, 10 of whom will be the girls you are after, the strategy simply doesn’t work.
To add to this:
You can try events, sure. But the ratios are the same for all of them. Even for fucking music festivals, unless it’s a rave. And as for raves, same issue as with night clubs, not the quality you will probably want to date and if you don’t drink or use drugs you will be out of place.
You can try public places - museum, galleries, book stores, coffee shops. Been everywhere, once in a while you can meet someone who fits criteria above, but it’s same 1%. When half of the population are over 40 years old, you will mostly be encountering a bunch of old people whenever you go. Coffee shops around colleges have the best selection, but if you have a full time job, it becomes very challenging to go there during busy hours.
Once in a while universities throw out events open for public or some alumni gatherings. But it’s mostly older crowds.
Adventure parks. Good choice, but most girls there are with boyfriends or friend groups, plus admission costs money.
Grocery stores. Mostly old people.
Or simply begin by making friends and then organize your own party or event, inviting your friends and asking them to each bring an extra friend. Whether it's someone you know or not, each time you invite your guests, have them bring a new friend. Before long, you'll have a large social circle full of interesting people you didn't even know existed, greatly increasing your chances of meeting a girl who tickles your fancy.
I took a job on the weekends doing security at a high end lounge/hotel, the women that both work there and and attend there are some of the most beautiful girls in Scottsdale Arizona has, put yourself around 8, and 9s constantly you will desensitize yourself being around hot girls and you will just be able to talk to them as if you’ve known them for years and not care how hot they are.
Too true
broooo let's jam some grateful dead tunes denmo
Bro awesome video! Location is definitely key, I have to move to Kamloops, BC for work, only 100k population. Is this too small of a place for dating?
kamloops is beautiful ive heard bro
@@Denmosocial Yeah it is, I am just wondering if it would be more wise to move to a bigger city or town?
Denno, i want to thank you for saving me from that dinosaur the other day
"You need to have a car!"
Spoken like a true American
Come on denmo teen skateboarders are cool please show some respect to their work 😂
haha fair enough bro
I am confused, so it is better to do solve the girl problem when need to fix other problems in you life like your skill set?
Thanks for inventing the internet daddy!!Thank u for extra 3 hours also daddy!
no worries carlitos i gotchu bro
Whats up Daddy Denmo!? Ive been striking up random convos when im out doing errands coffee parks etc. but i need to try your library suggestion hey if no number achieved with a chica try again with someone else it can be as simple as hey do you know where___is? Im new here
Thanks for inventing the internet daddy
Paying $1,125/month for rent in my 1 bedroom apartment
damn where you living?
I can only afford to rent a room from someone. Colorado.
Denmo, look up Sean Rowe for some gravelly-voiced rock
Yo Denmo i was wondering about do you do daring profile reviews ?
no but if you join socializer school you can on the Q&As
@@Denmosocial alright thx for the info i will think about join it then ;)
I just watched this video cuz the title was a half of a challenge and half an attack on insecurity. A title that grabs someone’s attention and curiosity makkkgthen ask themselves “do I suck at life? Well let’s see if I do whatever he’s talking about”
Yeah suck at life, so true. 😅
My location problem is complicated. My parents can hardly afford their place and everything and I'm here helping them pay for it. I tried to move in with my friend but my parents said they "couldn't afford to lose me" and now I'm stuck here at 21 wondering how long they cant afford to lose me.
What about moving in with your friend and sending your parents cash?
@@szililolabu whether I like it or not that's exactly what's going to happen if I were to move out now, they would still need my help
@@antsonseadoos1287 it sucks because ideally your parents would be helping you. Not the other way around. I'm sure they don't know any better than what they can manage.
But they raised you and gave you life.
All I can say is if you move to a vibrant City where you can walk places and meet people that helps with dating.
@@szililolabu thanks for the insight. I might be making excuses for myself. My parents can have poor judgement at times and it's not good for me to stick around and deal with the consequences but I'm glad to be around them while I can. I don't mean to gatekeep but unfortunately this isn't the place for me to get much deeper into personal troubles with my parents.
I wish you the best and I'm confident I'll have my shit figured out soon
@@antsonseadoos1287 I wish you the best!
Thanks for inventing the internet daddy! 🤝
no problem son
I'll never be good at waking up early. I'll go on a 5 mile hike and still can;t go to bed until 4. It sucks so bad.
5 mile hike ain't much
@@fantasywrldorder9590 with elevation gain and jogging on at certain points I thought that was good. What would you recommend?
@@fantasywrldorder9590 Well mount washington is like 7 miles but it's the elevation that' s straining.
€2000 per month in rent exclusive of utilities. 45 sqm in Amsterdam.
Doesn't leave much for anything else. It's like this in all the cities
amsterdam is pricey homie
@@Denmosocial but still an amazing city, Toronto is no different cost wise
How often you get what you pay for I pay almost 3K amount in San Francisco but there is amazing women around
I make 200k a year profit own a 400k house and a new Lexus still can’t get a date
2k a month for rent near ASU, I pay for it with money from scrap metal.
I’m really good at scrapping, as a hobby it pays as much as a full time job. Still have no girlfriend or friends!
thats crazy you should consider roommates bro
Dude I literally just finisched high school, of course I don't have my own house, car and a lot of money and the majority of guys my age are in the same position as me but still a lot of them are better at getting girls somehow
social circles are key at this age brotha
@@Denmosocial that is true but my problem is that I always struggled at friendships and making them last
(get girl is one of the mission in the video game)
i downloaded the mod changing the mission to get 3d girl to the mission to get waifus.
Yeah I'll always be angry and bitter and resentful that I didn't have my first girlfriend until my early 30s, me and her are not together anymore though.
I know I've spoken to another guy like this who has a similar story who says he never had a girlfriend until he was 30, he has the mindset that if he was born a woman he would not have been alone and single that long.
I remember one guy said this to me and he really pissed me off when he said to me:
"Why would you be bitter once you got what you wanted?
Even if it took that long why does it matter? You can still enjoy the fruits of your labor now"
Because I didn't get into my first relationship until later than normal that's why I feel angry bitter and resentful.
And plus being a guy, how the dating game has always been different for men for women in which I know I'm not the only guy that has this mindset and that is men always have to be the ones to put in all the work and effort in order to land a girlfriend or in order for a heterosexual relationship to happen or start.
It's like men are the only ones that have to know or learn so many skills and behaviors on how to attract a mate but not the other way around.
I get more mad and angry that people in society say that men are not supposed to view that as work or a burden as in men always having to be the ones to take the lead and Court women and lead the interaction, I will never understand why men are supposed to enjoy and embrace that role.
Should be obvious as to what I'm talking about, yeah and I get even more pissed off that people and Society say that women also have to learn dating skills on how to meet men or how to attract men when it never will make sense to me since women don't have to do jackshit to make a relationship happen.
Speaking of my lifelong hatred of men always having to make the first move all the time.
Didn't happen for me around the time people normally have their first relationship.
I get very angry and pissed off whenever people and Society have the mindset that it's better to be a man.
I remember another guy said and he only added fuel to fire which made me more angry and pissed off when he said:
"Boo fucking hoo. We also don't have to go through child birth and we're strong as fuck. Testosterone gives us ambition + mental and physical strength that MANY (not all) women are lacking. Being a man has many benefits and with great power comes great responsibility. Stop crying about it and get your fucking shit together"
Let's just say he pissed me off so much that it's not appropriate for me to say what was on my mind when I read that comment.
Yeah I don't understand why a lot of people have the mindset as to why it's better to be a man at the end of the day.
Yes it does truly feel unfair being a man at times.
It only pisses me off even more when people say "thats the way it is, or so what?".
it just fills me with a lot of anger and rage.
Well, women who lack emotional strength, mental clarity, interpersonal skills and have unsafe attachment styles but can still attract men and enter relationships are likely to face negative consequences, such as feeling and acting miserable once the initial feelings of limerence fade. Society often portrays being in love, or experiencing limerence, as the highest attainable state. However, without bearing the burdens of responsibility, it is like the fleeting high of taking drugs. So what do you really want to achieve and are your thoughts and derived feelings even productive?
@mangomight7938 yeah it's a fact that women are far less likely than men are to remain chronically forever alone or single later than normal than men are, should be obvious as to why it's like that and I've already explained why in my post
@@nobodysperfect06So, you're suggesting that a small % of men are simultaneously dating a disproportionately large % of women, essentially engaging in hypergamy. If I concede that this is true, what is the correlation between being such a woman and say experiencing happiness or overall (especially long-term) life satisfaction?
@@mangomight7938 well over the years I've noticed that it's quite common for lots of men to go far into their twenties and even 30s and 40s or older and to have never dated or never had a relationship before
@mangomight7938 no I'm saying that far more men than women end up never having dated or never having been in a relationship before by a certain age and the other way around
i pay 600$ a month for rent
Same, based
whereabouts homie
@@Denmosocial northern iowa 💪
Damn you’re really harsh haha that’s just my ego that got burned because i am a hobbyless mf with adhd 😭😂
all good bro now you can improve
$680 rent a month
ok but what if im poor and 5 ft?
make money and become skilled like a comedian, musician, actor, influencer etc
All this dating advice but does denmo have girlfriend?
7:27 you live in Canada. Good luck wondering around Oakland or LA or St Louis to meet people outside. Sure, you will meet them and this experience will probably be unforgettable, but I don’t think this is the kind of experience you are looking for.
Toronto and the GTA are no different
@@Cee_Eff Toronto murder rate is 3 per 100k, Oakland is 30
then move somewhere else bro haha
@@hitash5395 the bad luck of living in the land of freedom
27:10 start drill music lol. Approach some women and do mudic video like pop smoke😂😂😂
$750... Splitting a house on a golf course with 3 friends. Place is 2 minutes from university
best setup bro
Ain't you the dude who used to help people lose their v card by taking them to clubs and pranking random students??
3000$ for rent .. Utah
Can being good at video games work? I used to enter tournaments and do pretty well. But I wouldnt want to be fake and act like tis not a part of who i am for women
Ultimately though, you'll never truly be satisfied with the things in this world anyways because that hole or emptiness inside can only be filled by Christ Jesus.
next time put more light on the solution than on the problem. It's very EASY for you to think of your audience as mere lizard brains.
bruh this entire video I gave solutions for literally every possible objection / excuse. What do you mean haha
Some people are just short, unattractive, fat, and neurodivergent.
What makes a man unattractive?
Thanks for inventing sex Demno, It sounds great!
pretty sure all this vid is gonna say is to make more money
I'm literally scared of women because my mother abused me when I was a kid, I sometimes literally hyperventilate and panic in the extreme, but even im getting better with practice. Exposure therapy.
1 min no views.. let me fix this ✊
So glad u fixed it man i was getting worried