7 Things You Do That Make You Attractive
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- Опубліковано 28 тра 2024
- People don’t just look for a captivating face when searching for a potential partner. When looking for a great partner, they want one with a great personality. Someone they connect with! It’s wise to remember appearance isn’t everything. But, maybe you’ve been searching for some tips on how to be attractive, tips that have nothing to do with looks at all. Well, you’re in luck. Here are some tips on how to be attractive, without simply having ‘good looks’.
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1- 0:32 they compliment others + are kind
2- 1:25 they make it a habit to smile
3- 1:53 they dress well all the time
4- 2:23 they pamper themselves
5- 2:49 they set their standards high
6- 3:23 they push themselves to be better
7- 3:54 they are intentionally positive
Thanks 💖 😊
Thank u sm
I have all of this but I realized that I have social anxiety😐
Doing This Only Because I’m Not There For Myself. But There Are Times I Will Push Everyone Away Because I Do Not Want Any Help From Them. Every Help Cost More Problems. How I Know It? Because I Have Experienced It.
@@SUPERNOVA0360 oh hell nah what the hell
"Outer beauty might turn people's heads, but it's the inner beauty that wins hearts in the end."
Yaass🙌🏻
I dont think thats true. Because beautiful people tend to get paid more not that they are more qualified but probably people feel like they are more competent. Even in the films bad guys must be bad and if you are the main character they have to pick someone beautiful otherwise audiance will have a hard time to connect to the character. But we should just accept this realite and work for our goals and be more capable humans in general I think.
@@axps4964 i think that depends on your definition of beauty - i think that someone with a notsopretty face can be far more beautiful that a pretty person, and that inner, real beauty has the real influence on other people. Think of a pretty face who seems not very interesting and someone with average features who is charming as hell - i bet that the second one does indeed win the hearts in long run
@@HannahMarieee True but average ain't ugly mate
I like being a realist about ugliness and beauty, or different kinds of physical attractiveness. But it’s true that a horrible person who’s beautiful is still a horrible person.
Finally someone acknowledges that “not having good looks” actually exists
Yes, satisfied? :)
@@Psych2go yes
@@Psych2go very lol
it feels like response to black pill ideology
boom,that's Psychology🤣
Well that was a confidence booster !! Really opened my eyes with the self respect/high standards thing.
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Agreed!
Goals accomplished!
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The tips in this video are nice, but there's something I'd like to say;
Don't do these things because you want a significant other. Do them because they're good for *you*!
As many have said before me, you shouldn't enter a relationship (be it romantic or otherwise) because the other person completes you; they should be an added bonus to your life.
Going out and meeting people, putting yourself out there, is the alpha and omega of nurturing relationships. Now, that might be done digitally, but a lot of the tips still apply.
If you feel good, and you look like you're feeling good, others will notice.
You should love yourself before you love others
If you have trauma, it may take someone loving you in order for you to be able to love yourself. You have to be shown what love is if you've never experienced it.
@@charlottetaylor4471 I can't really speak on the matter, as I don't know whether the things I have experienced count as trauma. But! I am pretty sure everyone - and especially those suffering from trauma - would benefit from therapy. I know it's old advice and it might not be as accessible to everyone, but I'm hoping that those that need help are able to seek it out.
The difficult thing is that what love is depends on each person. My love might not be the same as your love. I definitely don't think that someone with trauma is not deserving of love. My angle is more that you have to at least be able to find someone, to meet people. Hopefully everyone finds some platform where they can seek kinship :) And friendship is a very good place to start.
I hope nothing I wrote comes off as... well, anything bad. I just try to understand as best I can and pull from my own experiences.
@@goatsfluff I dont know. When you have never been desired by someone else even imagining getting into a relationships with the opposite gender just becomes impossible. And okay I dont need anyone I should love myself talk sometimes is just not enough especially if you are Post 20 and never even held hands with someone before. You see other peoole talk about it and you just can't help but wonder "what is wrong with me?"
There exists not even a single good reason for me to grow fond of myself, to start seeing myself, as a person, in a brighter shade. No. I have no rational grounds whatsoever to set my mind to a positive frame and, then, as a subsequent result, to entangle my heart's strings with my own self and appreciate myself for who I am and for all that I have done. We all are the painters of ourselves, but I, during the recent while, have been painting the image of my very own self with the darkest, the bleakest, and the most dismal shades and colors one could ever possibly come to imagine!
Especially the case in the first point about being kind and helping others. You should be doing does things with no ulterior motive, but simply out of the kindness of your heart. The only “ulterior” motive I can accept, and I think most people can accept, is if you say you are doing so because you are compelled by your faith, whether it be in Christ, Allah, or some other religious figure.
You can also make sure that people feel included. Also, let people shine. Don't hog the spotlight or let someone else hog the spotlight. If you're in a group setting, notice people who seem to be overlooked and bring them into the conversation in a positive way, but if they seem really shy or to have anxiety about talking, don't hold the spotlight on them if they don't seem to want to talk.
Also, notice when someone is doing a good job and compliment them on that, so many people do stuff that doesn't get noticed. You could ask them to show you their techniques, if it seems appropriate in the situation.
Remember people's names and how to spell them or say them correctly. This can make a difference, especially when someone's name is a bit unusual. It can be a small way to show respect and that you care.
Yesss and it is also a way to make friends that are not toxic and will help you in the end just like you helped them
I've seen all 7 signs and I genuinely love to be a good/friendly person as it makes me feel good as a person. I suffer from Aspergers syndrome so my lack of eye contact, tripping over my words and blanking out what to talk about weirds them out in a romantic/sexual setting.
Same here. I also have Asperger’s and also geniunely try to be as good of a person as I can be, not to impress anyone but I feel that it’s more of a show of strength to be kind in a world that embraces rudeness. However, I’ve always been as “too odd” in my romantic endeavors, and after only having one woman say “yes” after 15 or so years of asking women out, I’ve come to realize that I’m not cut out for this sort of thing.
I know all too well.
The right person will see through that. Asperger’s or not, you deserve to have love in your life.
Thank you for the love :)
Women look at me as just a friend. I don’t know how to turn them into a lover.
I love how the artist draw all of the art! It's so GOOD!!! Especially at the end of the video! It's so creative and cute! Support the artist!!!❤️
Sam is amazing isn't she? :)
+Psych2Go *Thanks for the list o' potential tips:*
0:30 (1) Compliments as routine
1:24 (2) Smile as routine
1:53 (3) Routinely good dress
2:23 (4) Good self-care
2:47 (5) Reasonably high standards
3:24 (6) Reasonably difficult goals
3:53 (7) Intentional positivity
Thank you!
The smile says it all about a person and is one of the most attractive features with first impressions. .
0:00 intro
0:30 1、they compliment others + are kind
1:24 2、they make it a habit to smile
1:52 3、they dress well all the time
2:22 4、they pamper themselves
2:47 5、they set their standards high
3:23 6、they push themselves to be better
3:53 7、they are intentionally positive
4:41 outro
Thank you!
@@khalilahd. 😊
Thanks
@Random Stuff:) seek professional help
Only kinda related to two points here. The math has spoken: I'm not attractive.
Not with that attitude! I know it's probably mostly a joke, but you don't gotta put yourself down like that, king!
Let the blackpill guide you, brother.
well u can always try
@@lilianaday1319 I mean... I want to. I'm just afraid I'll mess it up and hurt someone.
The most attractive thing in the world is confidence, intelligence and a heart of gold....❤💕❤💕
Agreed💗
I love this channel so much! Thank you for the good advice I will keep it in mind also the art is amazing!
Thank you and glad you enjoyed this video! :)
@@Psych2go Stop Spying on me
These tips just make you an overall better person and i love it! Being attractive is so much more than skin deep ❤️
Yes, which ones do you find the most practical?
THE ARTSTYLE IS ESPECIALLY AMAZING IN THIS VIDEO!!!! wonderful vid!
this channel always posts videos the moment i need them!
Quite a bit of this has to do with self-love. Taking care of yourself, improving yourself, and setting boundaries are all part of it. Loving who you are, respecting and accepting yourself go a long way and taking time to improve self-love is always worth the effort
Clicked for the thumbnail, stayed for the good advice :)
Attraction comes down to hygiene, health and genes (natural beauty) on physical, mental and emotional level. If you think about it from a historical standpoint, these qualities secure survival and therefore increase attraction. We have yet to outgrow most of our instincts. Which is why we still love petrichor, the smell before it rains, because it reassured us of a bountiful harvest ☀️🌧️🌾
Realistically, physical attractiveness is the Most important factor in determening whether someone will like you. People say intelligence and kindness, but when tested it's attractiveness by a large margin. What people dont realize is that beauty is just an aspect of physical attractiveness. Hygiene, dress, facial expression, weight, smell, and health all contribute to physical attractiveness as well. You can be ugly and still be attractive, and I'm sure we've all met people who weren't beautiful but we found attractive anyway.
It's never likely to change either since there are so many aspects of attraction and many of the factors are important qualities. Even physical attraction is fairly important to the species, we tend to find healthy people attractive and things like asymmetrical appearances can be a sign of genetic disorders. Same goes for obvious things like clear skin, lack of visible deformaties, outward signs of illness, physical fitness, etc.
There are also parts of "physical attractiveness" that arent themselves hardwired into us so much as we relate the physical traits with attractiveness but it's actually success we find attractive, a good example is wealth: throught history and culture there are traits we found attractive that have changed but they all relate to wealth. Having some extra fat was always viewed as attractive since that meant you werent a menial laborer, being pale was viewed as attractive (and still is sometimes) since that means you didnt have to work outside all the time, and things like elaborate hair styles or more esoteric things like foot binding, neck elongation, or skull deformation were all viewed as attractive in the past but in the modern day being fat is a sign of poverty (rich people can afford more time at the gym, personal trainers, healthier food, etc) and tans are more attrative (a sign you can lounge around outside and sunbath or afford a tanning booth) and even farmers tans (which you'd get from working outside) isnt viewed as especially attractive compared to an all over tan (which means lazily sunbathing or a tanning booth). Also why fashion and jewelry is viewed as attractive, its a sign the person is wealthy. That may all sound shallow but it serves a purpose: a wealthier person is more able to provide for their partner AND their potential children. It's not the phyisical traits themselves that we find attractive, it's what the represent which is why so many physical traits are considered attractive in some cultures but not others, and why those traits attractivness has changed over time.
Wait this actually works, there’s this one guy in my class I’ve literally never cared about (back then he was just some screw up who got bad grades and goofed around) but one year he actually started to put in the effort to study and work out and stuff
His grades became extremely high, he’s more confident and he also compliments ppl and like talks to them (saying hi and stuff) and damn he became way more attractive than back then
There are days, when these cute short clips made my days somewhat hapier, meaningfull after a bit of thought. Thanks for that, have a great day.
Yes. Do these things, take care of you, and do this for you.
Don't be worried of how the others look at you or think about your apearance, it should became an obsession.
Don't be obsessed on a person that looks better than you physically, you think that, but you should forget youself to someone who doesn't matter.
Don't try to imitate anybody else because "they looks great in this outfit", but find what looks good on YOU, prefer go shopping in stores more than online. It's better to find something that could really suits you.
Don't ruin your time and energy on your appearance if that make you unhappy, only use these in a correct level, and don't forget to enjoy things.
Don't worry on how attractive you are to stranger, prefer to focus on what really matters to you.
Don't try a glow up or anything else to impress somebody or some people, but because you want to take care of youself.
Don't deny you can't have everything : you can't have the right shape for a haircut or a clothe, can't have the right tone to wear some colors, can't afford everything, accept it and don't blame yourself for that, try to see what you have and understand yourself.
Don't think too much, just take care of you in a sane way.
Hope it can help. (sorry for any mistakes)
Thanks man this really helped my self esteem and confidence out 👍
Welp, I suppose I’ll try to do these things more often. Thank you for always making such helpful videos, much love ❤️
Build a really good relationship with yourself. Self awareness and self love are very attractive qualities, and they're learnable too!
Yes, how do you practice self love?
As a subscriber since under 1M, I am so proud and thankful for this channel. I'm overjoyed knowing so many other people are learning from this channel and enjoying the content as much as I do.
Thank you for supporting us for so long! We will keep evolving and serve.
Honestly, just be nice. As a goblin man, I attracted a beautiful lady to my side just by being nice, it's as effective as it sounds.
Love your videos...both animations and narrative are so calm and joyful!
I love how u talk softly but clear so i can be relaxed while watching this 😊
Its what makes ur videos so great!
Couldnt agree more ☺️
man i loved this video, really says about good things that are even obvious but we don't even think
You have such a soothing and calming voice dear. I really appreciate you. Thank you for putting out such informative and interesting videos.
In my experience not excessively worrying about looking nice is what makes your personality a bigger selling point when you converse with someone for the first time. I've done that for a long time, and it's worked out well for me considering my big 3 when you add astrology to the mix. (Libra, Libra, Scorpio)
this is a confidence booster for me
Point 7 is core for me!
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Your voice is so soothing I could listen to it for hours
I just like the animation and tips
I have a general idea about attractiveness and I am glad that they match what you describe. Now I just need to apply them to myself... 🙈
You can do it. We believe in you!
@@Psych2go psych2go, do u know how to talk around your crush normally? thank u !
At this point I just watch your videos because the animation is so adorably calming 🥰
I have already 1, 5, 6, 7 and I'm working on 4. For the 3 it's ok I guess since I don't dress badly but just without much attention and nothing particular, it's just that I don't really care as long as it isn't ugly. 2, my by default face is "-_-" blasé and tired face as if I was about to pass out so....
Btw at the end of the day don't take those criterias as "Sacred truth" and applying them to get attention...Focus on improving yourself, making oneself a better/happier person and the world a slightly better place to live on, doesn't it sound like the right thing to do ? People's attention might follow if you become a better version of yourself but don't crave for it otherwise you will be disappointed and unhappy.
if someone reads this message, I wish you to find yourself and come to peace of mind to finally wander without tripping throughout the sinuous path that is life
I couldn't agree more.
reminds me of my crush for example.
yes he is cute, but what I truly love about him is, well, *him* .
I love how he always worries a lot for his friends, how he always puts so much effort into what he cares about and enjoys, the jokes he cracks in class, just enough to get a laugh outta a few people but not get the teacher mad, I love his ranting about any video game he knows stuff about, I love him.
Just, people, I know it's hard to believe, I myself have severe lack of self esteem and hate my body, but, remember, you like someone on first impressions and looks, you *love* someone for themselves💜
This animation is gorgeous! 😍🤩
I always love the art and calm voice
Okay, that was a good ask for a like. I rarely give them out, but you get one.
I love this channel!
I guess having high functioning anxiety, social anxiety, and being introvert on top of it all makes me automatically less attractive because I don't talk or interact with others in person a lot since I constantly get worried about what to say and get worried about how they veiw me. I keep to myself mainly, though I do try to be friendly and kind when I am talking to other people. It is what it is. Who needs a significant other, anyway, when I got a family that I feel the happiest around and I feel more comfortable to be my loud, happy, excited self?
I know some people don't have that, however, and I truly feel sorry for them. I hope all of them find something that brings them joy and find someone they can feel comfortable around. I wish for the best for everyone!
It’s how you comport or carry yourself that makes the difference
"they make it a habit to smile"
yeah no i dont think thats happening bud
And I swear this channel said that is a sign of a psychopath, like mf what💀
It is great when people notice and compliment so yeah this video is so true
Thank youuuuu 💓
People can be good-looking as well as they can be total jerks. The heart would be difficult to see at the first sight, but nonetheless is a more important point than looks. Imagine good looks like a packaging while the content we actually want is inside. Thank you for the video, Psych2Go!
This had opened my eyes cause I noticed that most don't show the respect that I deserve I'm honestly sick of it I'll just let him know only talk to me about sports other than that I'm sick of him talking bad about my big bro
So anyways God bless you big sis and you're beautiful family 👨👩👦👦 keep up the good work with the videos about mental health 🥬
Loved this video !
PSYCH2GO u r so close to hit 10 million subs!!!!!! Wish u all the luck and happy days!! ❤️
Amazing video!!
Great work Thank you
Thank you for this video. My biggest struggle is knowing my self-worth. I believe mine is honestly very low. I'd be surprised and thankful anyone sees anything worth keeping in me. I'm not sure if it's just my pessissism and distorted view of the world or just reality. How does one really know? I can't see myself worth any sort of pampering (nevermind actually being able to afford that).
I think we start knowing that we have SELF worth. Simply because we already exist. That's probably one of the hardest thing to practice and realized. And sometimes, we do things like contribute to the world or become a better human being to feel like we have more worth. But in reality, we have self worth and not we're just extending that to others.
I love these videos!
I'm in love with the dark empath's character design
Basically, be perfect. And I’m not gonna go through all that struggle just to make others like me. I’m good enough for myself and I can live with that.
the "struggle" that you're talking is actually self love. sure, it's complicated at first but when you are starting to love yourself, you become more positive, you want to care of you and you want others to feel good too. And you only do it for yourself because you know your worth. it's not "be perfect", perfection doesn't exist. It's all about self love.
@@ateezztrit248 I feel like I can love myself without others loving me. That’s based on my experience.
@@topazbutterfly1853 i'm not sure if i get it well but... that's the goal ! not everyone will love us and it's normal. people have their own preference. the goal is to love and to accept who we are.
Really good daily uploads
this is the best asmr channel ive ever zeen
Dressing is a hard subject. Im a trans person but I can't afford to transition. But I've always dressed how I feel. But....it doesn't mean it looks good on me. What are my options? Dress what matches me but completely give in to what society wants of my body, or be myself and look even more unattractive then I already am born into?
The hell you talking about? Of course you can be good looking with dressing like how you feel. It's just a matter of putting clothes on that really suits you - not what you think what a male / female would normally wear. If you're already doing that than maybe you need some styling tips e.g. jewelry to make your fit stunning or different colour combining techniques. Dammit, now I wanna give you some styling tips 😁
If you are a trans woman but "look manly"... There are ways to make you look more feminine. The same goes for trans men. If you look very muscular and wide, dress like a flamboyant natural would in the kibby body type system and you'll be good to go. I am androgynous in appearance (5 11 tall, broad shoulders, naturally more muscular) but feel very much like the female and feminine woman that I am and this works for me! It's about dressing how you feel but making it make sense with what you were born with. It's all shapes and proportions. And there are many tips for either look you are trying to achieve to look put together.
This feels good as someone who does most of these things ^^
Smiling all the time does wonders
New animator really up ur whole video game. Keep it up psych2go team
Hey, for the past 5 years I’ve struggled with Drugs and alcohol and just turned 21. I’m starting to think more seriously about seeking sobriety… I was wondering if you could make a video normalizing addiction and kind of a guide as to when they should start considering sobriety, because the only thing getting in the way of my recovery is the stigma surrounding addicts and my mind telling me that it’s not that bad and that I’ll be able to get my addiction under control after every “slip-up”; but that’s obviously not true, as each time I relapse it’s only more challenging to get back on track
makes sense.
Ur vdos sure are so supportive and helpful ,like ur videos so much
Keep it up 👍👍
The art of this video is sooooooo cute
Regarding #1 and #2, why am I constantly told that in the contrary, being arrogant and “mean” will actually make you more attractive? I was told girls don’t like nice guys apparently.
I'm being honest. I have all of this but I have social anxiety and other mental health issues. Also people come and go which mean they didn't stay longer with me.
*But I love it.*
You're videos are just SOO AWESOME ❤️❤️😁
Glad you like it! :)
Wowwww!!! Anya Forger!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for your his video, I appreciate all that you covered😉✌🏻😎👍
omg i actually poses most of those things! i think the only one im lacking is the dressing part, which i'm already trying to work on. Yet the only thing every girl around me seems to be atracted to is the looks which i dont have cause im fat and ugly. couple years back i wouldn't have been able to say i poses that much of the things named in this video so im making progress. still people seem to just not like me. i have friends tho, so i know im likable, just not by girls i guess. wonder what it's like to have a girlfriend though. just a hug from somebody that genuinly likes you you know. can't even imagine how much happiness that'd give me.
You have a realy nice voice 👌 and you talking clearly and nice. I like the movies.
I thing you say. I think everyone need to hear it!! Where you talking about In all your stories, that's life. Its a reminder how it need to be. Thank you 😘
0:37 “how do you feel when others complement you”
I don’t get complements 😂
so sweet man!!!
Anya and Bond in the thumbnail, so cute!
I've started complimenting the way people ignores me, it worked
*is it bad that you guys are my favorite channel?*
I confess I am lazy pushing the like button, but this was too cute xD
This was good
I have 1,2,4 and 7 mostly because that's the thing I learned from my family. But making myself better and setting a higher standard for myself is impossible for me. My parents and siblings thought that to me but I never got it. I'm just lazy as hell hahahah
Edit: I'm really the opposite of attractive... Annoying, yes. I am annoying but not to the point where people don't talk to me. I'm
Most of these signs are SO me, although I'm not really looking forward to being in a relationship. I've made some really good friends though!! :D
Can you please do how to assess if someone wants to become friends with you or not
I love these videos
I do none of the above, how great is that
Point 7 would be the biggest hill to climb for me. Hard to be positive when it keeps looking more and more like the end of the world out there.
i'm in this point of my life that i finally subscribe to this channel :>
As someone who was fat and unattractive growing up I learned this. Im more subjectivity attractive now but i am way more interested in the vibe or energy of the person. 😊
Yes, as a matter of fact, I do want to see more of PSI and friends doing stuff.
Change your personality in such a manner that you are irresistible to others.
Develop your physique in such a manner that you become an oomph factor and when people pass by you,they connot stop gazing at you and sighing heavily.
I love the thumbnail
Great animation
Wow.
1. Too shy and afraid of negative response to compliment.
2. My go-to facial expression is just neutral. It feels right to me. I also enjoy wearing a face mask, something about not showing my face makes me feel more comfortable,
3. I hate having to do high maintenence and prefer simplicity, so I basically don't ever intentionally put together a look, and doing so is annoying to me. Shirt, pants, underwear, jacket, done. I did throw in the baseball cap recently though, started to enjoy it.
4. I don't go out.
5. I don't even know what my standards are, but I do know that I walk away from any sensed disrespect.
6. Ah yes, my eternal struggle: trying my damndest to be better and failing.
7. I need not write anything else.
Asides the bonus tip (I always try to be kind, to my disbenefit even), that makes 0/7. Nice.
I mean I couldn't go through this list bc of how unpleasant and negative and self-pitying it sounded. Get it together! There's hope.
@@guesswho5790 It's no pity, it's fact. I learn every day why I feel these ways though, and the more I know, the more solace I feel.
thanks
@Dãvè çàsh what the hell
Finally something for me