You'll watch an entire Netflix show even when the first episodes are slow and boring just because someone told you "it gets better." *But what if you looked at your goals like that and watched your life get better instead?*
Was just thinking about this the other day, I’m 20 and the idea of ignoring women (not actively pursuing them) makes me feel like I’d be missing out on apart of my life but then again I know there will always be women so I shouldn’t worry. Thanks for being the big brother I never had
If your in college definitely a good idea to try having a relationship. Low cost and low stakes. Plus you learn a lot not just for future relationships but about how to deal and connect with people in life too.
Well in my experience if you avoid women for years when you eventually do want to interact or date one, it’s much harder than normal. While everyone else is hooking up and meeting new people you sort of get “left behind” in terms of social experiences. Just my advice don’t avoid women completely it can bring it’s own set of problems.
I'm 28 atm. Believe me brother. Once you start approaching your 30, that's when women really start to pay attention. But for that you need to keep yourself fit and healthy, groom is a huge part, and focus on your own life. When you maintain all these habits for life and start nearing your 30s, then the fun begins. You literally have to do NOTHING, YES NOTHING. but, keep your intentions clean and transparent. Be kind, and genuine. Never forget that it's your life and the most important part if YOU.
@Joshua William one sexual thought can ruin an hour of your day. Once you access your sexuality it’ll get addicting. You’ll be inclined towards doing it again. It’s not about not accessing it at all. It’s about knowing when to access it. Once we’ve accomplished one purpose we’ll move onto the next one. It might be to grow your family. That’s when you start thinking about having sex.
Its easy after a while. I was addicted to sex i essentially had a schedule of Fuck,Jerk,Fuck,Jerk constantly for 3-4 years only breaks were when i was extremely tired ( worked construction) and when the women didn't wanna come over and wanted to go to an event. So surely when i broke off with my ex whom emotionally ruined me was hard yo go to zero action( both due to being stuck on her and my confidence disappeared at the time) but now two years later and with essentially zero action other than a solo session once a month my libido is easily controllable. At the same time its good cause i cant be baited into some Garbage scenario and get metood or end up with a psycho etc etc(.or even hurt an innocent ish chick as rare as they are)..albeit I also completely cut off my social life an only work,workout so its easu to not get tempted since i only need to hold my urges with hot women at work and gym haha.
I'm studying extremely hard to become a pharmacist, nearly 10-12h a day, I hope one day I will have my own pharmacy and become a multimillionaire by 35. Because of you, I've started taking 1-2 hours of my day to workout. I started working on my social skills. I eat very healthy now, dress properly and take care of my skin. I stopped partying until 3am and I make sure to sleep properly. You are truly an inspiration.
Don’t prioritize or chase women. Level up until they start chasing you. The “Ignore women for 3-5 years” video is one my favorite 1st man videos and I love that you made a part 2 version, Kris. This video was very encouraging as I’m following your path of sacrificing women in order to optimize the male advantage. Glad to have you back man and your SMP is looking dope! 🔥
@@kazenriq No problem, Carlo. That's one of my favorite videos. It's always good to go back to it and remember why you're doing what you're doing. Stay strong on this path to becoming an outlier male, my brother!
bro i used to watch ur channel years back when u had those clothing pickup vlogs, remember u copped the space jam 11s back then and had a nice zara hall, pretty nice to see you here brother
@@MK-zf6or Yo man! That's awesome, thank you for supporting me back then. Glad to see you here as well. It took me like 2 years to bulk up from like 145-170. I'm on another bulking cycle now!
Men just need to go on monk mode. Purpose, gym, eat and sleep well, meditate, no fap. Do this for 5 years and you’ll be like a 7/10 and that’s when most women will start to find you attractive.
I used to struggle with thinking I needed to do everything in the world before I turned 25 I was actually quite depressed because I thought there was too little time in my life to achieve my goals thanks to you I’ve realized that I’m a baby(16) a literal fetus and that was amazing to me you really opened my eyes 🙏
Ha ha I put 16 but I meant 15 lol 16 in 4 months do you think I should interact with girls or just ignore them I’m saying this because I have a girl I like
@@weirdtoknow1226 have fun bro your a teenager , but also do the work Chris is talking about. Most teenagers do not even know kinda of content even exists. You doing this work now will help you get girls too lol , Try looking at ways of making more money. You have 5-7 years and your still a young 20 something who could potentially have good money. More power to you young boy
@@weirdtoknow1226 just enjoy life, focus on the fitness part of what he talks about and you'll be peak body by the time you're 20 and be ahead of everyone else. Look after yours skin, your hair, your health, no teenager does that shit, trust get to 18 and have a little muscle n girls will pick you over other dudes your age because you look more like a man, im 20 and in my final year of school I saw all the girls more attracted to the muscle dudes than the average dude
@@douglas6336 what exactly do you mean enjoy life, cause im 16 and tbh life is pretty shit rn, I don't have my license yet because covid messed everything up which means no job. Ive only been on self improvement for a couple months now and the only thing I can do is keep putting the work in and be patient.
@@oscar1081 Sorry that it's shit dude, school in general is a depressing place imo. But you gotta try not dissociate just to get through. Try to be present, try understand and process your own emotions and try be present in the moment to enjoy what is fun and learn from what is horrible. When I said enjoy life I meant it as enjoy life as a teenager, just as your tried to enjoy it as a kid, then try enjoy it as an adult. Child to teenager to adult is all a different, separate experience.
Great advice as usual. You're like an older brother we've never had. Before 20 years old I was complete bluepilled cuck - addicted to porn, video games, not working out thus underweight, had huge problems with my health, lost in life. Then I started working and after 1.5 years quit and started my own business making 2x more working less hours, started working out, quit videogames and started nofap, improved my english from intermediate to advanced, went plant based + intermittent fasting when I eat for 3 hours a day, fixed most of my health problems, cold showers, yoga, grew 4 cm which is 1.5 inches, started reading stuff on redpill, listening to podcasts and audiobooks. I'm 23 now and I would have absolutely beaten my previous self in terms my mental, physical, financial, emotional and other states. If any of you dudes have questions feel free to ask.
What business did u start? I'm 20 now and I've been trying to make money since I was 17 but couldn't succeed. What do you think is the best thing to learn to start a business?
@@yugalkhond pick a career and work for 2-3 years and learn everything you can, and after you'll understand that you can do better than your employer go and start doing that as a free contractor. Ask yourself what you're good at.
@@rememberme3762 check scientific literature and read books, watch Game Changers, Earthlings, Forks Over Knives documentaries, I literally lowered my chances to die from cardiovascular diseases, cancer, and I'll live longer than people on a standard American diet.
Your channel is in my Top 5. I’ve watched/listened to your videos a sickening amount of times while lifting/working/walking. You’re doing something quite exceptional here mate.
@@benjaminrecalde7628 hamza brought me to 1st man but I like 1stman way better than hamza. 1stman feels more genuine and straight up savage who’s been through it and knows for sure what he’s talking about. However with hamza he contradicts himself a lot . I would much rather put my future with the trust in 1stman
Agreed Kris. I was in a relationship for 4 years from 15 to 19 and another one from 19 to 21. It drains so much time and energy that could've been better spent. If you're in sixth form or starting uni. Do not get into a relationship. I promise it aint worth it. I've progressed more in these last 8 months than I have in 7 years. Trust the process
Such a privilege to be a part of this community. The value of not chasing women is something that I’ve always known and been taught by my mother. But obviously it becomes hard when everyone around is out there to get some. That’s why it’s great to have people that tell you that we’re in this journey together and make you feel supported 👌🙌
This guys speaking some absolute facts . There isn't enough conversation on the importance of sacrifice to build yourself a lot greater than you yesterday. the problem is that there's too much pleasure everywhere.
In Australia , most women have to work because our houses are far too expensive . Not too many women are stay home mothers these days . They are happy to help the hubby financially . I left my career to stay home to help my husband with his tree lopping business and raise the children . Our holidays were done on the cheap . We hired houses and I did all the cooking but we did eat at a restaurant once during our holidays . We used to do a lot of bush walking and coastal walks . Some of the women I knew said that they wouldn’t holiday like me and my family . They wanted to be in a five star hotel and ate out all the time . They refused to cook while on holidays . They also took their children to all these amusement parks while I took my children to national parks where they learnt to connect with nature . Holiday on the cheap can be done and I wouldn’t have it any other way .Sometimes you have to ignore women because if they really like you , they would want to chase you . Never let them take control over you or manipulate you . Stand your ground when she tries to make you do everything for her . She needs to bring something to the table too . Some of these modern women think they are the prize but so are you a prize . It is all about helping and supporting each other .
I don't chase women anymore or use dating apps. I've noticed far more women are wanting my attention and this "not caring attitude" gives me the confidence, and honestly freedom to live my life without the crave of a woman. Rather let things come to me when I'm ready
chapter 11 of think and grow rich is something that has brought out the awareness of everything kris talks about regarding ignoring women rather than wasting time and money for 30 seconds of pleasure, delay it all for a lifetime of pleasure only through putting the work for a consistent number of years
Mate your descriptive skills, I love how well you break down these topics and feelings that we somewhat already know in our minds, but we never could manifest the words. Very important information on this channel
An amazing video Kris once again. There are lot of females that do not comprehend that you have a life to build and become the man you want to be these days. If they can’t see that, then they have to go. No point prioritising or chasing women, you got to make the best version of yourself and build the life set up so they can automatically come to you
I just turned 17 today. My man you've changed the way I see the world and how I see my life. It's hard to find actual male figures in my country like India but you've shown me to build my own empire in this soil. Thanks for the work you do can't wait for the day we both are in the competition
Dude you deserve millions of subscribers, your content is a gold mine for self improvement. I'm literally saving all your videos and downloading some of them because of how important i feel your content is. No joke, man, your videos are truly life-changing.
Accidental Liabilities> accidental leeches Smart video, Kris. Good advice. Guys, you have plenty of time for women. It sounds selfish, but you need to put yourself first until you reach your bigger goals. Once you reach your big, primary goals...all that is left is small goals. Small goals are easy to accomplish if the big ones are out of the way and you are stable in your life. When you only have small goals left, then it's time for women. It's harsh, but you need to have your primary dreams and goals completed before you take on any "liabilities".
"A man who controls his sexual urges is a focused man. That makes him dangerous in the eyes of those who are shackled by their impulses and pleasures." -Micheal Jackson
You are on point on everything except the part about casual sex. Promiscuity has damaged our society to an immeasurable extent and sex is anything but casual. Sexual degeneracy and fornication (sex before marriage) is what we as men start needing to avoid so that society can start rebuilding itself. We are the leaders so if men start practicing sexual discipline then women will have no option but to follow suit.
No, marriage is cancer unless they completely overhaule how divorces work its better to just use them and dump them. Sex isn't worth half your lifes work.
It's true. The advice to go play the field until you're ready for a relationship/wife isn't realistic. Many men who've done that have messed up their futures because of unplanned children, child support and being involved with the mother for most of their lives. That obviously doesn't do anything that enhances someones goals. Emotionally and psychologically as well. A man/woman isn't going to be a better partner to someone by sleeping around.
Iv'e seen this a lot.. men settling down at like 24, going in for a home halves with a woman, have 2 kids then 5+ years down the line he turns fat, struggles financially, and sits in his pjarmas drinking hot chocolate every night after work, she then comes up with a reason to leave and now he's like 32 -36 and lost half the home and has the kids to pay for. They have to start over when they should have put the foundations in place first... I understand how tempting the gravitational pull of being in a relationship is, It's like a drug but it's a drug that rots you out the sexual market place in years to come if you don't do things right.
Yeah, man, you're smart. Doing this even before I watched the video. Just realized that you need to build yourself first, you can't hate women bc that they love the good life, who the f doesn't like it. Life is life. I'm 26 rn, building my biz, going to gym, nofap, no dating, just pure monk mode.
Wow you just described my recent revelation. It's been 3 weeks now since I started Semen Retention. I am gyming as well and I've noticed women have found me attractive even more now. It could be placebo but I feel a lot more confident on no fap/semen retention. I have delayed my sexual gratification
@@mickyhouse8753 It's defo not a placebo. I defo feel the same, people look at you, girls, men, old, young, everybody and it's not just because you're looking, you just feel that you feel confident as f, relaxed, and your testo helps for that also. You just feel like a wolf in the civil world.
@@Sappien Yeah 100% mate, definitely feel a lot more confident, approaching 1 month for SR now. Changed my life for the better. I realized Im not on social media much and focusing on my work, studies, gym and routines
So basically what I’m grasping is that relationships are for men that are financially successful, stable, and set? I believe kris made a similar video with that topic not too long ago. And you guys are welcome to correct me if I’m wrong, but if not, I’m totally on board with it.
Guys this is SO true! The guy who used to manage the gym I go to was smashing it! He was super passionate about the job, the youngest gym manager in the company (at 25), amazing people skills, and was being groomed for a higher management position, and I could easily have seen him managing the whole company further down the line, or having his own chain of gyms! Then he got married, got a mortgage and had a kid, then shortly followed by another kid. Not long afterwards his wife ''persuaded'' him get a regular 9 - 5 job so he could look after the kids more. He now has a job as a recruitment consultant, he's miserable and going nowhere! He recons he'll come back to the industry once the kids are older, but unfortunately it's probably too late for him now! Don't make the same mistake! If your a man, you can get married and have kids later, but get your shit sorted first! Thanks Kris for the powerful video, this really struck a nerve!
When did he get married? I agree, Men should ideally get married between 30-35 (though later is fine) but before that is risky if you are not financially set up properly.
Rate this highly the fact you’re teaching to be selfish focus on yourself and go after it is glorious 🤝 I’m a boxing coach in the south, if you ever want coaching it’s on me 👑
*Sometimes when you are in a dark place, you think that you are buried but you have actually been planted...* If you are going through that hard time, *just know that I am cheering for you...* 🖤
Don't ever stop making these videos. Most people especially men don't seem to understand is that this is all pretty common knowledge things especially if you're working hard towards something in your life
I really wish I had this channel to watch 15 years ago, I'm 35 now )) and I have all the time in the world, never had women and never had the focus either.
Bro amazing content, I be listening to your videos whislt making food. I'm 20 and my 35-40 year old future self thanks you. Love your perspective on life
Thanks for clarifying this, Kris. I was confused and torn about this lately, but as always I can see your points and will follow your strategy. I‘m a lot clearer and therefore self-assured after watching.
Another sick vid. We all keep levelling up because of people like you. idk If this is your type of vid to make but I have my brother who I want to get into levelling up in life but he doesn’t want to listen to anyone else and is really stubborn about having himself learn from someone else. He’s stuck rn and just thinks he knows as much as me even though he’s never even done anything with himself and is not that knowledge at all (basically me 2 years ago/uneducated). That’s all, hope you see this and it’s your type of vid you could potentially make.
Ahh, good ol refreshing half-hour of Kris preaching facts. Been away from the tubes and content building up myself and the business. Great to be back though, will swipe through the new content and surely get another AHA he's thinking like me moments again, always reassuring me that I'm making the right choices. Been on a voluntary celibate journey for over 12 months now myself, wayyy better focus and no fluff, love the freedom to be fair but will dabble in some opportunities on the plate next summer, for now, its the 7 months of grinding. Happy to see the SMP getting action, will transform the look once it's all finished bro. Keep smashing it and we'll be in touch once the time comes. I have some ideas for collabing that we'll benefit from! Keep smashing it. And enjoy the Solano gains.
I would rather work on & improve myself and ignore women altogether until my shit’s right, than chase women now and have to deal with all those rejections because I haven’t got my life in order to attract the women I want.
Although I don't agree with you on many of your topics, including this one, I still love watching your videos. I don't have a need for everybody to agree with me, so I like to hear different opinions on living this complicated fucking mess we know as life. You are very inteligent and have great musculine energy. Keep up the good work. I'll continue to recommend your channel to young men in Croatia.
Great video, we as men have to be grounded and use our strenghts - logic to prevail over short term comfort. Most relationships dont last, and at the end can leave you very hurt. Learn what you can from the past and move on. Women require loads of time and money, just a few minimalistic dates for your girlfriend stack up quickly. Why are you long term with that girl, when you are still living in your parents home, or havent got good prospects, at the end if she wants to settle you cant provision without having the other life boxes in check. In my case, 1 hour of tinder every day for 4 months, instead of learning a skill is hell, listen to 1stMan, if it falls on your lap take it, otherwise its detremental and suboptimal. Delay gratificaion for a few years and have a "killer" mindset. Just having this info will save so much cash and time, relationships are for SUCCESSFUL men.
Thank you I’m 15 and I’ve been thinking of entering a relationship but I also want to improve myself and don’t know if I should put the pressure of pleasing a girl upon myself
@@weirdtoknow1226 Enjoy your youth, I didn’t have my first real relationship before 22, so at that age Im not sure what much you can do with a girl. My advice to you is to focus on the gym as you get peak hormone and growth at 16-18. Its hard to have a plan at your age, just focus on getting good grades so can get a nice job or uni if thats what you want. Anything else you do is a bonus, learn a new language start reading more books on history, become more cultured. Im 24 now but Ive wasted the past 8 years thinking i was fine. So you gotta start putting in consistent work on your purpose and self improvement, if you dont wanna end up like me with 0 agency in life due to winging it. Thank god I got some sense in my head and kicked the gears up, but id be leagues ahead today if I put the work in the past. Character, discipline and dedication is carried through from the foundation that you lay. If you half ass school or the gym you will also half ass other things later. You are super young, relationships with women are serious stuff.
I’m a new watcher to 1st man for like 2 weeks now and have seen a lot of your videos. I’m 20 years old and have a passion for art specifically like making comic books with good messages in a anime like style. I’ve only recently been working out and reading books and trying things like meditation because I get distracted very easily and have negative thoughts about my life if I don’t distract myself with something. I’ve been at it for almost 3 months. It makes me miss the gym, I don’t read, and don’t practice drawing or draw at all for days and I get used to this feeling often and I hate it. And I quit my first job like 2 weeks ago which is a low entry customer service job after a year to make it easier to focus on myself while struggling to keep on the grind, but after watching your videos is it better to go back to that job? I don’t really have an issue with spending money on unnecessary things but I do get a lot of pressure from my parents about going out and socializing and getting a girlfriend because I hardly go out. Before I quit the job I was working like about 24 hours a week and it feels longer than it should. I’ve been able to reduce the amount of internet usage in my day by lot but everything still feels bad like I won’t get anywhere in life. Staying consistent feels impossible.
bro, i'm recently turned 30 and i work fulltime, i try to hit the gym 5-6 days a week and be a parttime entrepreneur. it's all about making those choses about what you want in life. but when you work for a company you have to plan your freetime as effective as possible otherwise you'll always feel bad. like i work full time, i have 3 trainings of my side job lasting from 5 pm till 10 pm every week. 1 week i won't make it due to the hours but if i can, i would since it can make me financially stable in the longterm.
I understand your point. I am with this girl I am only 15. Off course I love her and she loves me. I see a future with her and we have very similar interests and she understands what I want. I think she will be fine if I dont want what she wants. Worst case scenario I leave her or she leaves me and I continue to pursue my purpose.
Can you imagine being like “no go away women are bad !” Haha as you say, Take the opportunities as they come, play it safe, but focus on the goals above all
“ men want to be millionaires driving lamborighini all the girls lookin at us“ basically sugar coating the fact that he wants to hoe around instead of settling , choose the right one , a woman with a vision a woman with commonly sense and she wilk help u reach places , it’s all about mentality and culture
Lol “she wount help you do shit” your a fool bro. Build the empire and then choose someone who can enter your life at the right time where you set the rules bro. If you think I’m wrong history will haunt you.
@@sahilshah5611 most people and especially women are brainwashed , u just have to know who u surround yourself with , if she has that everyday eating out culture and shit will do nothing but ruin u , if she is as entrepreneurial as you are then it’s gonna be a different story , also watch ur mouth u dont know me u dont know what i do and what i have u made an assumption from a comment
My guy we have different versions of women imo specially if you’re someone that comes from North Africa/Arabic culture, i don’t disagree with what you said tho
But you're actually right - Because ignoring women for years also means not trying to chase them. Main reason being - you can't get them anyway. May as well ignore the women your current age, work hard and put yourself in a position to get the next gen of 21 yr olds everyone's going to want
im 16 and tbh been struggling with my life mainly cause im literally seeing all my friends getting girlfriends or getting just woman overall,and especially sucks seeing a woman I was interested in getting a bf,i always dress nice,style my hair,try to maintain my skin everything,but lately ive realized Ive been waiting for woman to chase after me but they arnt as much as I would like.Ive decided to sit back improve even more,i was already on "self improvement" for a while,but ive decided to take it further,and not pursue them till I believe I can attract what i want physically and mentally.
It is indeed..we know what we have to do, keep pushing forward. Eventually and hopefully we gonna reach a point where we won't need to approach women of our choice. They will approach us😉
@Johnathan Myers I'm 25, can squat 80 kg and deadlift 110 for 5 reps, currently bulking. Work a job as software engineer. They pay me good, I don't know if I'll switch to something else in future, sometimes I don't feel like coding
I thinks it's to do with biology is why most (90%) of women want kids, marriage, house and fun stuff because women need men for survival and they are the ones to have babies and feed and nurture those babies regardless of where in the world you are it's pretty much the same scenario. While for men (90%) also want to be providers and protectors as this is built within us but the difference comes from how we are going to provide and protect. Someone living in olden times England will need a place that's warm for their family and shelters from rain. Someone in sub Saharan Africa will need access to shade and water etc. So it's vastly differes for men hence why men are programmed to protect, provide and concur in different ways. Concuring is to get resources as in money, land, food etc. So I believe this is why most women are the same because regardless of their location and situation their lives play or played out the same while for men the situation and location created what action to take. If your on an Island you want to hunt for fish but if landlocked then hunt for bison while women are doing the same, cooking and caring for children and partner regardless if it's an Island or landlocked country.
true, if you're in western society you have to make money. In poor areas you're hunting for food but if you're a head hunter or leader of the tribe it's the same status as having money in the western world..
Same here lad, every other week, someone will ask me, "any birds?" "any girls?" and I always reply with, there will always be girls, just not on my mind right now, especially girls my age and in my generation, I am purely focused on future, financial wealth and my connections and friendships, when the time comes WOMEN will come to me and not girls, I feel like women who call themselves girls are not mature enough to withstand a long lasting relationship.
I know many women in my family who got kids and a house and things like that but there are a few differences. 1, they were the breadwinners (doctors and business owners) and two, they are insane about money. They are wealthy because they built a high paying career and didn't like to spend. So women like this do exist, even if they are not common. I also know women in my family who are still young but have a high paying career and leads citywide projects. Although I believe this goes against the points in this video, I also believe it proves your numerous points about making women more masculine and men more feminine in the modern age. Granted most of these women I am talking about are generation x, it still is something I personally have experienced. I agree with your points saying all men and women should have equal opportunity, but I also believe this is an interesting variable to consider. Not saying these women are masculine because they are not, and these women are definately not average (me with a family with mostly women in it, i've noticed that about half are seeking a career and their future while the other half are not). I've also seen strong msle figures on the other side of my family. A family of haitian italian men who are building themselves up as well.
14 months is pretty hefty with no women when you could get 1 here and there. I think having a fuck buddy or casual sex at least once a month is good for your mind and gives you a nice reset. But I agree with your points and you pretty much covered that. Good stuff
*"Never let the future disturb you. You will meet it, if you have to, with the same weapons of reason which today arm you against the present." - Marcus Aurelius*
I agree with everything except the casual sex and hook up stuff. Theres many reasons historically why men have been taught and told to refrain from such behavior. Only do so in a commitment.
In lil Dicky song Molly he talks about how he had the option between picking his girl which he thought was his soulmate or his career. He chose career and went to LA to progress further. She dating someone else now meanwhile he made it on top cause of that one sacrifice.
I remember when Chris was getting 1-2k views a day now look at the man. Do another body language breakdown or a Thanos type video of your breaking down a masculine character
After being in a relationship for 4 years and getting out at 22. I have so much more mental capacity to work on things. So much time just wasted doing lovey dovey shit.
Thoughts on spinning plates (Richard cooper and follow tomassi ) to build social skills while building yourself up? Seems like it keeps you from ending up in a bad situation after you build up that life setup. Obviously not to a point it takes away from yourself but to build awareness and stay sharp.
i think you should start a discord so its much easier to talk on a personal level to your audience than the comment section of the video, as the channel is getting bigger it will be very difficult for you to reply to everyone in the comments
Wait..did you just say "a woman who sits at home with the kids all day"? Maybe you meant sitting as in babysitting, not actual "sitting"😉 Actually I really like your honesty and appreciate much of what you say. I don't agree with the playing the field mentality because all it takes is once to make a baby with someone you don't want as a wife. Not only are you stuck with her on some level for the rest of your life, there's child support and (hopefully) will still have to be a Dad, but without the help/comforts of a wife/ family. Im a female who's choosing abstinence until marriage, but understand a man (or woman's) desire to sleep around, but on some level that will take someone away from their ultimate goals. Just saying the idea of that path sounds exciting and carefree, but the reality is different.
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You'll watch an entire Netflix show even when the first episodes are slow and boring just because someone told you "it gets better." *But what if you looked at your goals like that and watched your life get better instead?*
Pretty neat perspective shift
Thank you all facts
Omg😂 this is soo true
Fav comment. I am taking it.
Wow this
Was just thinking about this the other day, I’m 20 and the idea of ignoring women (not actively pursuing them) makes me feel like I’d be missing out on apart of my life but then again I know there will always be women so I shouldn’t worry. Thanks for being the big brother I never had
If your in college definitely a good idea to try having a relationship. Low cost and low stakes. Plus you learn a lot not just for future relationships but about how to deal and connect with people in life too.
Well in my experience if you avoid women for years when you eventually do want to interact or date one, it’s much harder than normal. While everyone else is hooking up and meeting new people you sort of get “left behind” in terms of social experiences. Just my advice don’t avoid women completely it can bring it’s own set of problems.
Exactly that. 20’s just have fun. Relationships aren’t the one until you reach late 20’s early 30’s. Some guys until mid 30’s
@@ciro9951 cool, I’ll have fun and enjoy my youth but won’t make it a priority thanks
I'm 28 atm. Believe me brother. Once you start approaching your 30, that's when women really start to pay attention. But for that you need to keep yourself fit and healthy, groom is a huge part, and focus on your own life. When you maintain all these habits for life and start nearing your 30s, then the fun begins. You literally have to do NOTHING, YES NOTHING. but, keep your intentions clean and transparent. Be kind, and genuine. Never forget that it's your life and the most important part if YOU.
Men seek pleasure when they lose their sense of purpose. Focused men never fall for their sexual desires
@Joshua William one sexual thought can ruin an hour of your day. Once you access your sexuality it’ll get addicting. You’ll be inclined towards doing it again. It’s not about not accessing it at all. It’s about knowing when to access it. Once we’ve accomplished one purpose we’ll move onto the next one. It might be to grow your family. That’s when you start thinking about having sex.
You just shared the Holy Grail. Really.
'Men'. A man (or woman) who forgets their purpose in chase of the opposite sex is not a real man (or woman).
I grind 5-6 days a week and be smashing once or twice a month. Granted I’m 19 and my sex drive is through the fucking roof
Its easy after a while.
I was addicted to sex i essentially had a schedule of Fuck,Jerk,Fuck,Jerk constantly for 3-4 years only breaks were when i was extremely tired ( worked construction) and when the women didn't wanna come over and wanted to go to an event.
So surely when i broke off with my ex whom emotionally ruined me was hard yo go to zero action( both due to being stuck on her and my confidence disappeared at the time) but now two years later and with essentially zero action other than a solo session once a month my libido is easily controllable.
At the same time its good cause i cant be baited into some Garbage scenario and get metood or end up with a psycho etc etc(.or even hurt an innocent ish chick as rare as they are)..albeit I also completely cut off my social life an only work,workout so its easu to not get tempted since i only need to hold my urges with hot women at work and gym haha.
I'm studying extremely hard to become a pharmacist, nearly 10-12h a day, I hope one day I will have my own pharmacy and become a multimillionaire by 35. Because of you, I've started taking 1-2 hours of my day to workout. I started working on my social skills. I eat very healthy now, dress properly and take care of my skin. I stopped partying until 3am and I make sure to sleep properly.
You are truly an inspiration.
Keep it up bro
@@sergejjovic6410 thanks man, hope you also doing good
@@cappuccino2901 good job 👏
@@rally_chronicles thanks my guy
Hey man good job
Don’t prioritize or chase women. Level up until they start chasing you.
The “Ignore women for 3-5 years” video is one my favorite 1st man videos and I love that you made a part 2 version, Kris.
This video was very encouraging as I’m following your path of sacrificing women in order to optimize the male advantage.
Glad to have you back man and your SMP is looking dope! 🔥
Ty, I was searching the first one.
@@kazenriq No problem, Carlo. That's one of my favorite videos. It's always good to go back to it and remember why you're doing what you're doing. Stay strong on this path to becoming an outlier male, my brother!
bro i used to watch ur channel years back when u had those clothing pickup vlogs, remember u copped the space jam 11s back then and had a nice zara hall, pretty nice to see you here brother
PS - Idk if u mentioned this in ur old videos, but how many years did building that physique take ya?
@@MK-zf6or Yo man! That's awesome, thank you for supporting me back then. Glad to see you here as well. It took me like 2 years to bulk up from like 145-170. I'm on another bulking cycle now!
This channel is one of the most important out there for men, especially young bucks.
Young bucks🤣
Does 20 count as a young buck
@@bigscapone1261 Yes, very young buck.
@@ChatwithMatt how old are you then Matt😂
32
Men just need to go on monk mode. Purpose, gym, eat and sleep well, meditate, no fap. Do this for 5 years and you’ll be like a 7/10 and that’s when most women will start to find you attractive.
I used to struggle with thinking I needed to do everything in the world before I turned 25 I was actually quite depressed because I thought there was too little time in my life to achieve my goals thanks to you I’ve realized that I’m a baby(16) a literal fetus and that was amazing to me you really opened my eyes 🙏
Ha ha I put 16 but I meant 15 lol 16 in 4 months do you think I should interact with girls or just ignore them I’m saying this because I have a girl I like
@@weirdtoknow1226 have fun bro your a teenager , but also do the work Chris is talking about. Most teenagers do not even know kinda of content even exists. You doing this work now will help you get girls too lol , Try looking at ways of making more money. You have 5-7 years and your still a young 20 something who could potentially have good money. More power to you young boy
@@weirdtoknow1226 just enjoy life, focus on the fitness part of what he talks about and you'll be peak body by the time you're 20 and be ahead of everyone else. Look after yours skin, your hair, your health, no teenager does that shit, trust get to 18 and have a little muscle n girls will pick you over other dudes your age because you look more like a man, im 20 and in my final year of school I saw all the girls more attracted to the muscle dudes than the average dude
@@douglas6336 what exactly do you mean enjoy life, cause im 16 and tbh life is pretty shit rn, I don't have my license yet because covid messed everything up which means no job. Ive only been on self improvement for a couple months now and the only thing I can do is keep putting the work in and be patient.
@@oscar1081 Sorry that it's shit dude, school in general is a depressing place imo. But you gotta try not dissociate just to get through. Try to be present, try understand and process your own emotions and try be present in the moment to enjoy what is fun and learn from what is horrible. When I said enjoy life I meant it as enjoy life as a teenager, just as your tried to enjoy it as a kid, then try enjoy it as an adult. Child to teenager to adult is all a different, separate experience.
Great advice as usual. You're like an older brother we've never had. Before 20 years old I was complete bluepilled cuck - addicted to porn, video games, not working out thus underweight, had huge problems with my health, lost in life. Then I started working and after 1.5 years quit and started my own business making 2x more working less hours, started working out, quit videogames and started nofap, improved my english from intermediate to advanced, went plant based + intermittent fasting when I eat for 3 hours a day, fixed most of my health problems, cold showers, yoga, grew 4 cm which is 1.5 inches, started reading stuff on redpill, listening to podcasts and audiobooks. I'm 23 now and I would have absolutely beaten my previous self in terms my mental, physical, financial, emotional and other states. If any of you dudes have questions feel free to ask.
What business did u start?
I'm 20 now and I've been trying to make money since I was 17 but couldn't succeed.
What do you think is the best thing to learn to start a business?
@@yugalkhond pick a career and work for 2-3 years and learn everything you can, and after you'll understand that you can do better than your employer go and start doing that as a free contractor. Ask yourself what you're good at.
@@RedPillChris thanks brother
@@RedPillChris why plant based
@@rememberme3762 check scientific literature and read books, watch Game Changers, Earthlings, Forks Over Knives documentaries, I literally lowered my chances to die from cardiovascular diseases, cancer, and I'll live longer than people on a standard American diet.
Your channel is in my Top 5. I’ve watched/listened to your videos a sickening amount of times while lifting/working/walking. You’re doing something quite exceptional here mate.
What are the other 4 channels. I need more content bro😂
@@bigscapone1261 Bull dog mentality and Hamza are fire too
@@benjaminrecalde7628 hamza brought me to 1st man but I like 1stman way better than hamza. 1stman feels more genuine and straight up savage who’s been through it and knows for sure what he’s talking about. However with hamza he contradicts himself a lot . I would much rather put my future with the trust in 1stman
Facts what are the other channels
@@bigscapone1261 Masculine Theory, The Book of Alpharonomy, Aurhentic Self Growth, Einzelganger
Agreed Kris. I was in a relationship for 4 years from 15 to 19 and another one from 19 to 21. It drains so much time and energy that could've been better spent. If you're in sixth form or starting uni. Do not get into a relationship. I promise it aint worth it. I've progressed more in these last 8 months than I have in 7 years. Trust the process
Such a privilege to be a part of this community. The value of not chasing women is something that I’ve always known and been taught by my mother. But obviously it becomes hard when everyone around is out there to get some.
That’s why it’s great to have people that tell you that we’re in this journey together and make you feel supported 👌🙌
This guys speaking some absolute facts . There isn't enough conversation on the importance of sacrifice to build yourself a lot greater than you yesterday. the problem is that there's too much pleasure everywhere.
In Australia , most women have to work because our houses are far too expensive . Not too many women are stay home mothers these days . They are happy to help the hubby financially . I left my career to stay home to help my husband with his tree lopping business and raise the children . Our holidays were done on the cheap . We hired houses and I did all the cooking but we did eat at a restaurant once during our holidays . We used to do a lot of bush walking and coastal walks . Some of the women I knew said that they wouldn’t holiday like me and my family . They wanted to be in a five star hotel and ate out all the time . They refused to cook while on holidays . They also took their children to all these amusement parks while I took my children to national parks where they learnt to connect with nature . Holiday on the cheap can be done and I wouldn’t have it any other way .Sometimes you have to ignore women because if they really like you , they would want to chase you . Never let them take control over you or manipulate you . Stand your ground when she tries to make you do everything for her . She needs to bring something to the table too . Some of these modern women think they are the prize but so are you a prize . It is all about helping and supporting each other .
Damn, this is powerful
Thank you
I don't chase women anymore or use dating apps. I've noticed far more women are wanting my attention and this "not caring attitude" gives me the confidence, and honestly freedom to live my life without the crave of a woman. Rather let things come to me when I'm ready
Been feeling really lost and aimless, thank you for putting me back on track, one day I will pay this forward and help others who are lost as well!
chapter 11 of think and grow rich is something that has brought out the awareness of everything kris talks about regarding ignoring women rather than wasting time and money for 30 seconds of pleasure, delay it all for a lifetime of pleasure only through putting the work for a consistent number of years
Napoleon hill is a fraud lol there was an article on gizmodo of him being a con man
@@mahiahmed2486 his work still applies regardless
Mate your descriptive skills, I love how well you break down these topics and feelings that we somewhat already know in our minds, but we never could manifest the words. Very important information on this channel
The truth is within us all
Makes me believe that we are one conscious or something
An amazing video Kris once again. There are lot of females that do not comprehend that you have a life to build and become the man you want to be these days. If they can’t see that, then they have to go. No point prioritising or chasing women, you got to make the best version of yourself and build the life set up so they can automatically come to you
Love how your personality is coming out more with each vid made me chuckle a lot in this vid
I needed this video when I was 20, brother.
You're bringing some real shit to the table
I just turned 17 today. My man you've changed the way I see the world and how I see my life. It's hard to find actual male figures in my country like India but you've shown me to build my own empire in this soil. Thanks for the work you do can't wait for the day we both are in the competition
Good luck bruh
just gotta look at your history to find role models
I like how you’re getting funnier in these videos lmao
Dude you deserve millions of subscribers, your content is a gold mine for self improvement. I'm literally saving all your videos and downloading some of them because of how important i feel your content is. No joke, man, your videos are truly life-changing.
Accidental Liabilities> accidental leeches
Smart video, Kris. Good advice. Guys, you have plenty of time for women. It sounds selfish, but you need to put yourself first until you reach your bigger goals. Once you reach your big, primary goals...all that is left is small goals. Small goals are easy to accomplish if the big ones are out of the way and you are stable in your life.
When you only have small goals left, then it's time for women. It's harsh, but you need to have your primary dreams and goals completed before you take on any "liabilities".
"A man who controls his sexual urges is a focused man. That makes him dangerous in the eyes of those who are shackled by their impulses and pleasures." -Micheal Jackson
You are on point on everything except the part about casual sex. Promiscuity has damaged our society to an immeasurable extent and sex is anything but casual. Sexual degeneracy and fornication (sex before marriage) is what we as men start needing to avoid so that society can start rebuilding itself. We are the leaders so if men start practicing sexual discipline then women will have no option but to follow suit.
Ain’t gonna work in 2021 so put up or shut up bunch boi
💯
No, marriage is cancer unless they completely overhaule how divorces work its better to just use them and dump them.
Sex isn't worth half your lifes work.
Nah
It's true. The advice to go play the field until you're ready for a relationship/wife isn't realistic. Many men who've done that have messed up their futures because of unplanned children, child support and being involved with the mother for most of their lives. That obviously doesn't do anything that enhances someones goals.
Emotionally and psychologically as well. A man/woman isn't going to be a better partner to someone by sleeping around.
I have recently listend to Hamza talking about this and you have explained me this topic perfectly.
Thanks 🙏
Iv'e seen this a lot.. men settling down at like 24, going in for a home halves with a woman, have 2 kids then 5+ years down the line he turns fat, struggles financially, and sits in his pjarmas drinking hot chocolate every night after work, she then comes up with a reason to leave and now he's like 32 -36 and lost half the home and has the kids to pay for. They have to start over when they should have put the foundations in place first... I understand how tempting the gravitational pull of being in a relationship is, It's like a drug but it's a drug that rots you out the sexual market place in years to come if you don't do things right.
Yeah, man, you're smart. Doing this even before I watched the video. Just realized that you need to build yourself first, you can't hate women bc that they love the good life, who the f doesn't like it. Life is life. I'm 26 rn, building my biz, going to gym, nofap, no dating, just pure monk mode.
Wow you just described my recent revelation. It's been 3 weeks now since I started Semen Retention. I am gyming as well and I've noticed women have found me attractive even more now. It could be placebo but I feel a lot more confident on no fap/semen retention. I have delayed my sexual gratification
@@mickyhouse8753 It's defo not a placebo. I defo feel the same, people look at you, girls, men, old, young, everybody and it's not just because you're looking, you just feel that you feel confident as f, relaxed, and your testo helps for that also. You just feel like a wolf in the civil world.
@@Sappien Yeah 100% mate, definitely feel a lot more confident, approaching 1 month for SR now. Changed my life for the better. I realized Im not on social media much and focusing on my work, studies, gym and routines
I am grateful for you, teaching men to focus on their purpose. Thank you my dude
best channel on YT. Yourself and hamza are changing my life.
part one of this has been on my mind all day, so happy to hear part 2
Ah yes. Perfect. I'm just heading to the gym
Your videos really provide some insights to the future I want. Thanks for being a utuber
So basically what I’m grasping is that relationships are for men that are financially successful, stable, and set? I believe kris made a similar video with that topic not too long ago. And you guys are welcome to correct me if I’m wrong, but if not, I’m totally on board with it.
Guys this is SO true! The guy who used to manage the gym I go to was smashing it! He was super passionate about the job, the youngest gym manager in the company (at 25), amazing people skills, and was being groomed for a higher management position, and I could easily have seen him managing the whole company further down the line, or having his own chain of gyms!
Then he got married, got a mortgage and had a kid, then shortly followed by another kid. Not long afterwards his wife ''persuaded'' him get a regular 9 - 5 job so he could look after the kids more. He now has a job as a recruitment consultant, he's miserable and going nowhere!
He recons he'll come back to the industry once the kids are older, but unfortunately it's probably too late for him now! Don't make the same mistake! If your a man, you can get married and have kids later, but get your shit sorted first! Thanks Kris for the powerful video, this really struck a nerve!
When did he get married? I agree, Men should ideally get married between 30-35 (though later is fine) but before that is risky if you are not financially set up properly.
Bro ouch. That hurt to read. He shouldn’t have listened to his wife.
Rate this highly the fact you’re teaching to be selfish focus on yourself and go after it is glorious 🤝 I’m a boxing coach in the south, if you ever want coaching it’s on me 👑
*Sometimes when you are in a dark place, you think that you are buried but you have actually been planted...*
If you are going through that hard time, *just know that I am cheering for you...* 🖤
Very nice analogy
“Some guys want to live in the city and do coke” (sniffs nose) 😂
Ayyeee first let’s goo, keep up the good work man
Thanks for this video. Just got out of a long term relationship and only 24 years old. Going to take a few years to myself to build
Do a solid 3 - see where you end up
2 years left
two uploads in 15 minutes holly are we blessed! Good shit man keep it going
Your SMP is looking good Kris! 50K subs soon, keep it going 👊
Don't ever stop making these videos. Most people especially men don't seem to understand is that this is all pretty common knowledge things especially if you're working hard towards something in your life
I really wish I had this channel to watch 15 years ago, I'm 35 now )) and I have all the time in the world, never had women and never had the focus either.
Bro amazing content, I be listening to your videos whislt making food. I'm 20 and my 35-40 year old future self thanks you. Love your perspective on life
I'm 36. Believe me bro your future self will thank you. I'm there now and it's damn good.
Thanks for clarifying this, Kris. I was confused and torn about this lately, but as always I can see your points and will follow your strategy. I‘m a lot clearer and therefore self-assured after watching.
12:50 absolutely 💯
Another sick vid. We all keep levelling up because of people like you.
idk If this is your type of vid to make but I have my brother who I want to get into levelling up in life but he doesn’t want to listen to anyone else and is really stubborn about having himself learn from someone else. He’s stuck rn and just thinks he knows as much as me even though he’s never even done anything with himself and is not that knowledge at all (basically me 2 years ago/uneducated).
That’s all, hope you see this and it’s your type of vid you could potentially make.
Recently found the channel and loving the contrast you give in every video! Super beneficial. Thankyou man!
You are giving so much motivation, knowledge and inspiration with these. Its really like a success-school for men. Thank you!
Great videos bro, enjoyed the 3 I’ve listened to in past 24 hours. Plz keep up the good work, super helpful. Thank you 🤝
This man speaking FAXXX
Ahh, good ol refreshing half-hour of Kris preaching facts.
Been away from the tubes and content building up myself and the business.
Great to be back though, will swipe through the new content and surely get another AHA he's thinking like me moments again, always reassuring me that I'm making the right choices.
Been on a voluntary celibate journey for over 12 months now myself, wayyy better focus and no fluff, love the freedom to be fair but will dabble in some opportunities on the plate next summer, for now, its the 7 months of grinding.
Happy to see the SMP getting action, will transform the look once it's all finished bro. Keep smashing it and we'll be in touch once the time comes.
I have some ideas for collabing that we'll benefit from! Keep smashing it. And enjoy the Solano gains.
I would rather work on & improve myself and ignore women altogether until my shit’s right, than chase women now and have to deal with all those rejections because I haven’t got my life in order to attract the women I want.
Although I don't agree with you on many of your topics, including this one, I still love watching your videos.
I don't have a need for everybody to agree with me, so I like to hear different opinions on living this complicated fucking mess we know as life.
You are very inteligent and have great musculine energy. Keep up the good work. I'll continue to recommend your channel to young men in Croatia.
9:05 that final snort sound lmao
Great video, we as men have to be grounded and use our strenghts - logic to prevail over short term comfort. Most relationships dont last, and at the end can leave you very hurt. Learn what you can from the past and move on. Women require loads of time and money, just a few minimalistic dates for your girlfriend stack up quickly. Why are you long term with that girl, when you are still living in your parents home, or havent got good prospects, at the end if she wants to settle you cant provision without having the other life boxes in check. In my case, 1 hour of tinder every day for 4 months, instead of learning a skill is hell, listen to 1stMan, if it falls on your lap take it, otherwise its detremental and suboptimal. Delay gratificaion for a few years and have a "killer" mindset. Just having this info will save so much cash and time, relationships are for SUCCESSFUL men.
Thank you I’m 15 and I’ve been thinking of entering a relationship but I also want to improve myself and don’t know if I should put the pressure of pleasing a girl upon myself
@@weirdtoknow1226 Enjoy your youth, I didn’t have my first real relationship before 22, so at that age Im not sure what much you can do with a girl. My advice to you is to focus on the gym as you get peak hormone and growth at 16-18. Its hard to have a plan at your age, just focus on getting good grades so can get a nice job or uni if thats what you want. Anything else you do is a bonus, learn a new language start reading more books on history, become more cultured. Im 24 now but Ive wasted the past 8 years thinking i was fine. So you gotta start putting in consistent work on your purpose and self improvement, if you dont wanna end up like me with 0 agency in life due to winging it. Thank god I got some sense in my head and kicked the gears up, but id be leagues ahead today if I put the work in the past. Character, discipline and dedication is carried through from the foundation that you lay. If you half ass school or the gym you will also half ass other things later. You are super young, relationships with women are serious stuff.
I’m a new watcher to 1st man for like 2 weeks now and have seen a lot of your videos. I’m 20 years old and have a passion for art specifically like making comic books with good messages in a anime like style. I’ve only recently been working out and reading books and trying things like meditation because I get distracted very easily and have negative thoughts about my life if I don’t distract myself with something. I’ve been at it for almost 3 months. It makes me miss the gym, I don’t read, and don’t practice drawing or draw at all for days and I get used to this feeling often and I hate it. And I quit my first job like 2 weeks ago which is a low entry customer service job after a year to make it easier to focus on myself while struggling to keep on the grind, but after watching your videos is it better to go back to that job? I don’t really have an issue with spending money on unnecessary things but I do get a lot of pressure from my parents about going out and socializing and getting a girlfriend because I hardly go out. Before I quit the job I was working like about 24 hours a week and it feels longer than it should. I’ve been able to reduce the amount of internet usage in my day by lot but everything still feels bad like I won’t get anywhere in life. Staying consistent feels impossible.
bro, i'm recently turned 30 and i work fulltime, i try to hit the gym 5-6 days a week and be a parttime entrepreneur. it's all about making those choses about what you want in life. but when you work for a company you have to plan your freetime as effective as possible otherwise you'll always feel bad.
like i work full time, i have 3 trainings of my side job lasting from 5 pm till 10 pm every week. 1 week i won't make it due to the hours but if i can, i would since it can make me financially stable in the longterm.
Looking sharp brother
I understand your point. I am with this girl I am only 15. Off course I love her and she loves me. I see a future with her and we have very similar interests and she understands what I want. I think she will be fine if I dont want what she wants. Worst case scenario I leave her or she leaves me and I continue to pursue my purpose.
thanks for this fella
Excellent advice man!
Can you imagine being like “no go away women are bad !” Haha as you say, Take the opportunities as they come, play it safe, but focus on the goals above all
Best advice is this comment right here, take everything else and leave it.
What a banger video
best channel in UA-cam
Top level of advice 💯
Thank you brother
u are like the big brother that I never had
'accidental leeches' = Women's goals & dreams are dependant/reliant on a man, not exactly a catchy phrase but sounds better 😂
“ men want to be millionaires driving lamborighini all the girls lookin at us“
basically sugar coating the fact that he wants to hoe around instead of settling , choose the right one , a woman with a vision a woman with commonly sense and she wilk help u reach places , it’s all about mentality and culture
Lol “she wount help you do shit” your a fool bro. Build the empire and then choose someone who can enter your life at the right time where you set the rules bro. If you think I’m wrong history will haunt you.
@@sahilshah5611 most people and especially women are brainwashed , u just have to know who u surround yourself with , if she has that everyday eating out culture and shit will do nothing but ruin u , if she is as entrepreneurial as you are then it’s gonna be a different story , also watch ur mouth u dont know me u dont know what i do and what i have u made an assumption from a comment
My guy we have different versions of women imo specially if you’re someone that comes from North Africa/Arabic culture, i don’t disagree with what you said tho
No problem, they ignore me anyway 😂 JK, great video man.
But you're actually right - Because ignoring women for years also means not trying to chase them. Main reason being - you can't get them anyway. May as well ignore the women your current age, work hard and put yourself in a position to get the next gen of 21 yr olds everyone's going to want
Many women don't think of marriage, they into career more and their goals. In the process, they might get married, share responsibility.
Can’t wait to binge watch these I’m at the hospital rn so I got time and I’m not lazy 😷🤒
im 16 and tbh been struggling with my life mainly cause im literally seeing all my friends getting girlfriends or getting just woman overall,and especially sucks seeing a woman I was interested in getting a bf,i always dress nice,style my hair,try to maintain my skin everything,but lately ive realized Ive been waiting for woman to chase after me but they arnt as much as I would like.Ive decided to sit back improve even more,i was already on "self improvement" for a while,but ive decided to take it further,and not pursue them till I believe I can attract what i want physically and mentally.
It's hard brother. Especially when you haven't had any female attention since hitting puberty...hard and depresssing
It is indeed..we know what we have to do, keep pushing forward. Eventually and hopefully we gonna reach a point where we won't need to approach women of our choice. They will approach us😉
@@ΑλέξανδροςΚατριτσης still a better option than sitting and crying
@Johnathan Myers I'm 25, can squat 80 kg and deadlift 110 for 5 reps, currently bulking. Work a job as software engineer. They pay me good, I don't know if I'll switch to something else in future, sometimes I don't feel like coding
@Johnathan Myers buddy, I'm a virgin at 25, don't really think that I'm doing "good" in any way ... Just trying to stay afloat as long as I can
@@vishalsingh6325 crying for what? Hahaha i used to cry for girls they did not give a piss about me..they wouldn't care if i were dead..
I thinks it's to do with biology is why most (90%) of women want kids, marriage, house and fun stuff because women need men for survival and they are the ones to have babies and feed and nurture those babies regardless of where in the world you are it's pretty much the same scenario.
While for men (90%) also want to be providers and protectors as this is built within us but the difference comes from how we are going to provide and protect. Someone living in olden times England will need a place that's warm for their family and shelters from rain. Someone in sub Saharan Africa will need access to shade and water etc. So it's vastly differes for men hence why men are programmed to protect, provide and concur in different ways.
Concuring is to get resources as in money, land, food etc.
So I believe this is why most women are the same because regardless of their location and situation their lives play or played out the same while for men the situation and location created what action to take.
If your on an Island you want to hunt for fish but if landlocked then hunt for bison while women are doing the same, cooking and caring for children and partner regardless if it's an Island or landlocked country.
true, if you're in western society you have to make money. In poor areas you're hunting for food but if you're a head hunter or leader of the tribe it's the same status as having money in the western world..
1st man mindset & lifestyle
Bro you just woke me the fuck up!
im really the 1000th like bro
Same here lad, every other week, someone will ask me, "any birds?" "any girls?" and I always reply with, there will always be girls, just not on my mind right now, especially girls my age and in my generation, I am purely focused on future, financial wealth and my connections and friendships, when the time comes WOMEN will come to me and not girls, I feel like women who call themselves girls are not mature enough to withstand a long lasting relationship.
Another Golden Video!
I know many women in my family who got kids and a house and things like that but there are a few differences. 1, they were the breadwinners (doctors and business owners) and two, they are insane about money. They are wealthy because they built a high paying career and didn't like to spend. So women like this do exist, even if they are not common. I also know women in my family who are still young but have a high paying career and leads citywide projects. Although I believe this goes against the points in this video, I also believe it proves your numerous points about making women more masculine and men more feminine in the modern age. Granted most of these women I am talking about are generation x, it still is something I personally have experienced. I agree with your points saying all men and women should have equal opportunity, but I also believe this is an interesting variable to consider. Not saying these women are masculine because they are not, and these women are definately not average (me with a family with mostly women in it, i've noticed that about half are seeking a career and their future while the other half are not). I've also seen strong msle figures on the other side of my family. A family of haitian italian men who are building themselves up as well.
well a good thing to do is once you are successful and established then start looking for something serious and have a prenup.
@@williamyates8156 some of these women don't even marry but they stoll have a permanent partner
@@Niidan that's good hopefully they can keep their men.
14 months is pretty hefty with no women when you could get 1 here and there. I think having a fuck buddy or casual sex at least once a month is good for your mind and gives you a nice reset. But I agree with your points and you pretty much covered that. Good stuff
*"Never let the future disturb you. You will meet it, if you have to, with the same weapons of reason which today arm you against the present." - Marcus Aurelius*
I'm sick of your bot comments on every self-development channel fishing for attention
Demetri noone gives a shit about your self help content. We're here to learn from a man like Kris, not a wannabe Matt D'avella
Good lad K
I agree with everything except the casual sex and hook up stuff. Theres many reasons historically why men have been taught and told to refrain from such behavior. Only do so in a commitment.
5:20 I felt that
In lil Dicky song Molly he talks about how he had the option between picking his girl which he thought was his soulmate or his career. He chose career and went to LA to progress further. She dating someone else now meanwhile he made it on top cause of that one sacrifice.
I remember when Chris was getting 1-2k views a day now look at the man. Do another body language breakdown or a Thanos type video of your breaking down a masculine character
SMP is looking sharp
After being in a relationship for 4 years and getting out at 22. I have so much more mental capacity to work on things. So much time just wasted doing lovey dovey shit.
Do you have your own place (renting or bought home)
@@Mareno33 just began renting last year. Huge game changer opposed to living at parents if you can get by
Thoughts on spinning plates (Richard cooper and follow tomassi ) to build social skills while building yourself up? Seems like it keeps you from ending up in a bad situation after you build up that life setup. Obviously not to a point it takes away from yourself but to build awareness and stay sharp.
Just search “plate theory” for either of those guys. You’ve probably heard them but I’m sure you’d agree
How do u deal with being horny? If u don’t want to watch porn and you want to ignore women? I’m currently struggling with that now.
Gold
10:16 14 months? Pffff what a rockie, I am 19 and I spent 19 years without talking to any female beside my mother and grandmother
i think you should start a discord so its much easier to talk on a personal level to your audience than the comment section of the video, as the channel is getting bigger it will be very difficult for you to reply to everyone in the comments
Wait..did you just say "a woman who sits at home with the kids all day"?
Maybe you meant sitting as in babysitting, not actual "sitting"😉
Actually I really like your honesty and appreciate much of what you say. I don't agree with the playing the field mentality because all it takes is once to make a baby with someone you don't want as a wife. Not only are you stuck with her on some level for the rest of your life, there's child support and (hopefully) will still have to be a Dad, but without the help/comforts of a wife/ family. Im a female who's choosing abstinence until marriage, but understand a man (or woman's) desire to sleep around, but on some level that will take someone away from their ultimate goals. Just saying the idea of that path sounds exciting and carefree, but the reality is different.
It sucks to know that every girl I find attractive has a boyfriend
But when I level up I would be able to take them from their bfs
-Light in The North
@selfish your telling me your getting a Virgin these days😂😂😂
@@sahilshah5611 exactly like good luck