THE REOCCURRING EX (6 Reasons Why They Keep Coming Back)
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Lovely message. Whoever is reading this God is going to remove every obstacle and hinderance to your miracle and blessing trust Him
Amen🙌🏾
Amen!
I receive that!
I receive this🙌🏾
Amen....🙌🙌🙌
'You didn't loose what God has for you, you lost what was blocking what God has for you' 🙌🏾
🙌🙌🙌
Amen
Trust God, obey God
Amen ...
Bullshit
My goodness,my ex came back last night,but the TRUTH is,I felt NOTHING ,NO EMOTIONS or WHATSOEVER to entertain him...If it ain't KINGDOM,I DON'T WANT IT
Thats soooooo!!! good sister I am proud of you I really hope that this will rub off on me my ex just came back as well I kinda doing good soooo!!! far I pretended my name is ashley Im sorry sir you have the wrong number. I did give him my email b/ c I want to make peace & I want to make sure hes not involved in any of the violence thats going on w/ the protest.I just hope I can rid of these feelings & not go back pray for me
@@niquesencouragementcorner7349 keep firm in your decision. Try not to reach out. Constant communication can send you back to him
Same! Amen!
Same 😅😅😅
Feel the exact same way. Hope they're doing good but I don't need or want to know anymore - TYJ!!!
Whoever sees this comment please pray for me.
How are you Vicky ?
Consider it done ❤️
@@abenadonkor2796 I'm doing much better now, God is not done with me. Thank you for asking.
@@khwezimadlala Thank you dear, thank you very much for your prayers dear.
Vicky Blossom
I thank you Lord for our dear Sister Vicky. For she is doing your will by requesting help from you Lord. I bind every spirit of fear, doubt, disbelief in the name of jesus. I pray that shackles are broken instantly and expeditiously that you are out of bondage. Lord May she remember you are the creator of us all and you do not tell lies. You give us the spirit of Love, self-discipline and power and not fear. Heavenly Father, Give Vicky peace and allow her to love her life for you Lord. Only you can unleash true love and healing. In Jesus, Mighty name you’re covered in the Blood 🩸 of the Lamb. And, also remember when you ask God for Grace and forgiveness Micah 7:19 God “... takes the iniquities and hurls then into the depths of the sea”. It’s already done in his will believe hold onto to that Mustard seed that’s all God needs to work in your life and it will be on his timing. Have trust in the I AM the Alpha and Omega!!!!!! Sending love and healing your way 💐💐📖🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
"God did not crack the red sea for you to go back to slavery......", that hit me hard!!
Gods next is always better. He doesn’t take you to something worse. God levels up on your behalf if you trust his will and surrender. Reoccurring exes are normally toxic....they’re an ex for a reason
Amen sister! Peach.
Amen on that Amen !!!
Amen preach the truth
Exactly
ur so right god neverrrr takes crap out ur life to only give u worse. i’ve never experienced this even with anything. instead he takes away crap to only give us better.
He comes back because of soul ties, yup they are real guys. That’s why God told us to wait until marriage to get intimate. Sex is deeper than just a 5min act. That 5mins act of pleasure can become a lifetime of spiritual bondages that will take prayer and fasting to break.
Yes I agree
Wow I recently heard about soul ties 😩 I’m so interested to learn more about it, cos Lord from the little I’ve learnt so far, all my heart breaks and disappointment in relationships makes sense!
E Smith i was once in the dark about it too, until God started giving me prophetic dreams, then the Holy Spirit started giving me insights from my dreams. I will do some teaching about it from my experience and revelations I’ve had on my channel, you can subscribe to get the teaching when I post them. In the mean time there are some sound videos of it here as well ❤️❤️❤️
Yes you can have soul ties without having sex as well (emotionally). The story of David and Jonathan highlights this.
@@gabbyshantous8149 the spiritual world is so powerful many are so decieved!! I have most like plenty of them then 🤦♀️
I treat all my ex's as though they were DEAD. Jesus said "Let the dead bury the dead". Why would I entertain the DEAD.
For those who have revelation of this scripture of what Jesus said about "Let the dead bury the dead" understands my comment.
Beautifully said. Thank you for such a good comment ❤️
Hahahah this is it right here same way suh! You ain't no dead you living creature
same here. AMEN TO THAT!!
Wow! I have the same mind set.
I'm alive and I live amongst the living!
May God continue blessing you 🙏🏾🙏🏾
"Don't allow the waiting time to make you think God made a mistake." I felt that one...our blessings are around the corner, if we would just continue to patiently wait on Him.
Yes yes yes yes, this is soooooo gooood
Absolutely
Their attaching themselves to you and living while your dying, their sleeping and snoring and you have insomnia, their securities are rising and your INsecurities are rising. PREACH🙏🏾 What an encouraging wake up message!
That hit me like a ton of bricks
That hit my core
This has been my life for over 15 years! I need peace, clarity and direction. Thank you again for this message.
They’re
They're / you're* (Sorry... pet peeve.)
“Stop looking back, you’re not going in that direction” hit HARRDDD. needed that
Exactly
These men keep coming back. Even after I blocked them! I got to a point of not even responding. I am pursuing kingdom marriage & trust God on this promise.
Best way to do 👌👌👌
The reoccurring ex is probably really a narcissist. A person with NPD, that’s what they do.
exactly
When he said “stop re-saving a number I already deleted twice” . I fell out of my chair😭
🤣👌
🙄😂🤣 Me too!!
The Ex Factor....we can no longer allow access for those who chose to leave, hurt us, broke our heart, and who were toxic. Life is about moving forward, never backwards, and if we go back to our past, we will never reach our future.
This man right here said the Ex Factor!!! 🤣🤣🤣 Facts!!! Let the dead bury the dead. My God doesn’t want us speaking to the dead so I obey!!!
Never a truer word!!! Block, delete, & move on..... that’s it.
Facts
Exactly
Exactly X-OUT
This appeared in my Recommendations at 3:30am, after my early morning prayer.
Same, except I'm just starting my reflecting time
Same here, in prayer and it was on time
What’s going on rn that everyone’s exes are returning lol??? Same thing happened to me.
Stay strong guys...remember Gods spouse for you is better than the devils counterfeit 🥰
5 planets in retrograde has a bunch to do with the karma and exes returning. I’ve had two return myself. On another level. Realizing I’m not from here and ready for my emperor when the most high sees it to be so. Asé🙏🏽
@@geneenboka6938 I recently had two exes hit me up, I was wondering what was going on in the universe for that to happen
When a EX return to you it just mean that you weren't the problem 😏 They always want to come back when you are looking good and doing good smh🙄 I don't see none of my EXES that I would want back🤢 That would be like a DOG returning to it's own VOMIT!!🤮 They are a EX for a reason🤔
GOD-SENTS AND COUNTERFEITS COME IN THE SAME SEASON!!! 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 #notgoingbacktoegypt
Some hard truths right there 😭. Struggling with a situationship I decided to end. Keeps coming back and it's hard to stay off even though I know I should. God empower me to stick with my decision. Please pray with me
I feel you sis 😔. Let myself get back into a situationship for the umpteenth time with the same person and I already know how its gonna end...again. Praying that ears will hear and listen to the holy spirit and follow the instructions faithfully this time🙏🏾💕
All shall be well love. Hold up🙏💖
I will pray for you- you pray for me. This is tough life work.
@@dygorgeous3272 Yes it is but we will win
@@mam5345 🙏🏾
Man I’ve been having soo many past ex’s coming back and I asked them what do you want ... I literally asked in soul form why are they here and you make this video ... come on Holy Spirit
So true my Ex been showing up twice in one week I haven’t said nothing
What did they say?
Same here they won’t stop showing up
Maybe I was just raised different, but when I am Done......I’m done... why people want to learn the same lesson twice, is beyond me🤷🏽♀️🤦🏾♀️. Ladies if they leave... let them stay gone... Block & Delete. Please don’t create excuses for keeping there contacts.
Right .
KatRenee I’m on that same page.. I don’t understand it either.
Amen I feel you
Exactly💯 Done = Done
Makes the two of us. It's such a turn off when he thinks he can leave and decide to come back. For what? I get disgusted 🤮🤮🤮
I broke up with my ex a couple of weeks ago. I thought I was convicted. Over it. But last night, I had a massive panic attack. I went to the hospital thinking it's a heart attack. But the stabbing pains through my heart were caused my stress. Randomly at 3am. The Devil is a liar. I am healed. I am whole. I am ready for God's blessings in my life. Thank you for this video. I needed to see it
Amen
C-O-N-F-I-R-M-A-T-I-O-N!
“Increase the strength on my no” that’s the thing. That’s what I need to master.
They don't want anybody to arrive...😂 that's very true
Man if this didn’t just happened last night!! My ex dropped by my house 😳😳 No we not doing that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! No he has no Grip on me anymore
Wow! This attempt just happened a few minutes ago
Those are the really bold devils! Don’t even answer the door or the phone!
Yep..WE CLOSE TO OUR BLESSINGS..MY EX....TOOO...DONT LOOK BACK.....KEEP MOVING FOWARD
“Godsends and counterfeits usually come in the same season” 🔥🔥🔥
You blew it out with this message! The narcissist's hoover move! They try to suck you back in! Not taking that call, not answering that text. The peace, purpose, prosperity and promise of this season is too good to look back to something God clearly said NO to!
Amen
What messege i need to know what message please!!
Yeah
Truth! God’s timing doesn’t usually look like ours.
🙏💖
Peace departs once another person arrives and peace arrives once another person departs 👌🏽👌🏽 I felt that
Me too!
I felt that in my soul
When he said they are sleeping and snoring while you have insomnia... 😭 I've been up til the sun comes up in emotional pain while my insecurities race in my mind 💔.. This is the counseling I needed ❤
This video gave me the clarity to cut off my ex literally two minutes ago, that was rather turbulent but always wanted to remain friends. I felt obligated to be kind and pleasant towards him, but my soul was telling me to cut him off. To which this video revealed my suspicions that he didn’t want to see me with anyone else and he was parasitic. Thank you for this message 🙏🏽
Same....
Anyone watching this, you are blessed and i declare that you are positioned to receive what God has for you, In Jesus Name. Amen
Wow this is so true. I got my blessing during the worst part of my life.
Bro, you speaking life! My ex is going hard now that I’m seeing a man who is intentional and wants a relationship that will lead to marriage. My ex didn’t want that but keeps hitting me up but it’s over for that. You betta preach 🙌🏾!
Thank you soooo much for this upload. I truly needed this. I knew I had to step back and cleanse my mind, body, and spirit when I started worshipping and making him the center of my life. I have learned my God is an amazing God, yet he wont stand for me pushing him to the side to serve anyone other than him. I fought God for almost three years. Everytime he would remove that man I would run and beg him to come back. This year I have done a complete about face. Never again will I change my goals, morals, or myself to please another human being.
“ When you level up it requires an update to your spirit” yes. Thank you. I used to refer to it as unlocking levels. Like why would you go back to a lower level???
Them:You never gone find anyone like me!
Me: fr fr thank you Jesus 🤗🥳💃🙌
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I always say....I PRAY! NOT!!!🙏✌
@@firesign4297 fr💯
AGREED.
I give you all honor and glory Father God and Savior Lord Jesus Christ. Thank you Lord Jesus for sending the message through one of your servants, Pastor Flowers. Continue too bless him and his family and everyone who listen too the message that you send through him Lord Jesus. Let your words manifest in our hearts and embed in our minds.
In Jesus name I pray, AMEN.
I needed to hear this! My ex popped up a couple of days ago after no contact for months. I know God has better for me, I refuse to go back!
"You cannot look forward and consume familiar at the same time." 💯 Needed that, a confirmation and conviction wrapped in one! 😅
He randomly popped back up yesterday prayed about it last night literally, this video is just on time!!!! Thank you God all praises
4:35 REWIND and REPEAT until it SINKS IN, Kingdom King and Queens! Know your worth! 💖
My ex left 2019. I have been myself since February 2019 all of a sudden my ex has been texting I don't want him back cheater liar fake Christian he accused me of cheating I don't want him back coronavirus is real. I have peace
Sounds like you need to block that devil
Keep him out.
Rebuke his ass...
Child of a king!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ChildOfAKing 😭😭😭
Please you should do an episode on how to live a Godly relationship
I AM SO REAL THIS TIME
THE ENEMY JUST GOT IT'S BUTT KICKED OFF......
REDEFINED TV...I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!
When he gives you a way out, it’s because he’s purging you !! Obedience
You preached a Word today!! Your past don’t want NOTHING at all!! Block and delete. Keep moving forward so you don’t miss what God has for you in the current season! Don’t block your blessings and allow the enemy to have his way in your life!
The timing is supernatural. This video just read my whole entire SOUL. Thank you Jerry! Praise the lord!!!! ❤️
I agree👌👌
I block them and delete their number. Don’t play😡
Don't delete, that makes you look like you in pain or feeling sad. Keep them, but say nothing. Let them see you progress in silence, have a life and see how that will pain them even more.
LORD give me the strength and confidence. This cycle has been going on for 2 years. In JESUS name it breaks now! 🙏🏼🕊❤️
Yes I walked away from that parasitic relationship and it's been the best decision I did for my life!
This is MYYYY CURRENT SITUATION ‼️ lord give me strength 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This message was right on time. True confirmation thank you holy spirit. Nothing but the truth. Trust God's pace. It's nothing like your peace and growing to have the spirit to discern the counterfeit from the Godsent. Thank you for sharing this word.
I dont even know why people allow exes access to them...... This is one of my dealbreakers
Pastor Flowers is speaking to my soul on this one. Just left my preference SMH, and THEN right after a church brother recently professed his love for me 😭😭😭😭. But I need to heal from all my familial and divorce trauma.....Lord help me to be obedient in this wilderness/pruning season 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Yes. I left my ex yesterday. I'm done. Thank you for this message. I'm fine. I'm excited about my future with GOD.
I feel like crying after watching this video 😫😩
🙌🏾 right on time at 3am!!!
A Person who worships Satan told me that demons would be working on separating my ex and I . It happened. So my ex and I just started talking again. Since breaking up, we both have worked on ourselves a lot and are both in counseling working through trauma from childhood and our young adult years (we didn’t know that we were both working on ourselves). He’s been Pursuing , and says that we need to take things very slow, and has been intentional about being open, honest, and vulnerable. His words speak so much more life than I’ve ever seen before. He brings me comfort, but also is intentional with boundaries.
Are y’all together now ?
@@aprilsims8309
We are. We are actually engaged to be married. It’s been such a blessing.
Congrats
WOW! You are allowing the Holy Spirit to Use you. This has happened Soo many times. After I had deleted all contact, for the next holiday here comes a message. Thanks but no thanks. God Bless you real good.
Wowww the fact that he called your mother for you to unblock him says alot about him. Thank God you didn't go back and I hope he gives you the strength to move on. Better days ahead.
Amen !!!😂🙏🙏🙏🙏
Subscribed! It feels good to know women out there is talking bout this, but to see and hear a man in the flesh to talk about this as well! It’s God!
May the good Lord continue to pour his annointing on you Pastor Jerry Flowers.
You're truly a blessing to our generation 🔥🔥🔥
Guy preach 🙌🙌🙌💯 I love when they say "you never going to find no one like me" that's the point. 😂😂😂😂 Right
Omg, bro you did that. This hit me in a different way
“Stop saving a number that you had to delete” spoke directly to me 😫
FACTS ONLY!! WHAAAT I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS. I actually came across this topic a week ago and since then its been crossing my path and now this! I'm so convinced more than ever that this message was for me and never again am i going back to Egypt.
2 ex’s tryna re enter into my life within the past month!! So grateful to have had the strength to shut them down with a quickness💪🏽 let’s go!! Timely message🙏🏽
I'm unashamedly intentionsl about REDEFINED TV & Wife's academy.
I needed that. My ex just contacted me and I was contemplating responding back . Now I know my answer. Thank redefined tv!!!!!!!!
Sometimes exes are still WONDERFUL people, just not the RIGHT people for us. I think something we need to keep in mind in cases like these is that we mustn't let OURSELVES become the reoccurring ex in their lives.
(The thing you said about how reoccurring exes want to limit us from getting attached to others and how they might miss us are both feelings I have personally experienced regarding a close guy friend I almost dated. It stressed me out that I might be replaced despite the fact that I was the one who called it off before we even became official... Thanks for the reminder that I shouldn't hold on to someone who I know isn't for me.)
When he began to sing that line from let it burn, I felt that! 😂
Right on time. And I have been delivered from my Amazon prime mentality 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
All true, my life is definitely so peaceful without a parasite. Thank you for posting, I needed the encouragement!
True words of WISDOM.
Thanks Redefine TV.
👋🏽👩🏽🦱♐️. 🧑🏾🦲♏️ those are all the reasons why I refuse to let him back in dirty dog. Amen in the name of Jesus keep me moving on. 💕💕
Thanks for the confirmation, left a toxic relationship but i believe God has greater purpose for me
Real on so many levels!
Ex's are Ex's for a reason who needs a Trauma Bond,keep it pushing..♥️your video...
I believe this is God wants me to watch. Thanks be to God. And thanks for sharing this great msg. Brothers and sisters, may i ask you all to pray for me that God protects me from the lies. Pray for me that God helps me to be strong and leave a man who not send from God. Leave a man who just using me and keep hurting me. But I forgive him because as God forgave me all my sins. Pray for that man that God tell him not to hurt anyone anymore as we are all child of God. Pray for him that don't let satan use him. In Jesus name I pray. Amen
That totally hit my soul
Redefined TV, you are a blessing.
“God Sent vs. Counterfeit” oh my that hit different
This spoke straight to my heart!
I've leveled up!!!! He's under my feet where he is going to stay......Thank you God for an update to my spiritual......
I just experienced this last night. And this comes up🙌 well Mrs flowers once said "side bar lots wife". I ain't returning ♥️🙌 never prolonged the shipping i've crossed the red sea😇 ain't going back to Egypt.
Been thinking about my ex lately and i know well and good i shouldnt be. Im just bored as hell tbh. Lord fill my mind with things other than that man. I need to level up asap
I needed this, thank you!
I needed to hear this.... Thank you
I needed this! I tried giving an ex a second chance after he ghosted next and married his ex. Now he’s ran back to her after I told him that we were a wrap! I’m so glad. It hurt but he was soooo draining. When he left the first time I started to improve in all areas of life but when he came back i felt like he was sucking the soul out of me. All the back and forth was Exhausting. I had to realize that he wasn’t for me and this was not love!! This! I know i made the right choice! God has better...he always does!!
Sadly, I opened my heart back up to someone I had cut off for 5years and then during the process he just tried to use me and started the same narcissistic process all over again. My heart is broken because I just don't understand why I had to go through this again. He has no idea how bad he hurt me and reopened all those old wombs. I just stop talking to him and he has no idea the pain I've been feeling but I know I can't have him in my life with the same behavior. I'm tired of expressing the same thing over and over again about how he makes me feel. It's just pointless and his actions shows he really don't care. I just pray God can get me through this and heal me completely so I can be right for the husband he has for me!
There are patterns or dances that play out in some relationships. When ppl reconnect w/ you they often unconsciously repeat the patterns and habits of your relationship. This can occur in families, too. (Family patterns.)
Someone told me that some people will never be able to improve for you. But they will improve for the next person.
Damn :(
This message is EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽💯
I so needed and received this beautiful uplifting message. For so long I've lowered my standards,excepted crumbs, and thought I could save a manchild just to build them and be left behind but it's a new day my vision is clearer and I'm working on the hardest job ever and that's loving me...cause when you love yourself you don't tolerate foolishness you walk away, level up and you'll then attract a King versus a clown in a crown!
😣 i honestly whaaaaaaat i feel like something is coming, so many things are happening all at once with me ... parasite omgosh i honestly thought about not the same thing obviously but i really didnt have the words but i was drawing in the relationship and when i look back i actually believed he was thriving. I looked at it like this. He liked when i was down and out it made him feel good. Now when i thought of this i was thinking that cant be right. (Maybe because i didnt want to believe it ) sadly this really speaks to my spirit 😔
That's called a narcissist!
@@keh-dalia809 he use to call me that, im actually going through abit with him now and i just see his manipulation so clearly it really hurts me to see. I actually get scared about speaking about incase God reveals something about me in the situation and then im the one who has to apologize or it was all my fault 🤦♀️ (i find this ok to apologize ) i just struggle with being blinded to things. If that makes sense sorry for the spill. Thanks for pointing this out God Bless you
Skye Renei It definitely sounds like you were the victim of narcissistic abuse. I left after 5 years and never even knew I was with a narcissist, but I prayed to God to give me clarity about what had just happened. Immediately God lead me to books, videos about Covert Narcissism. It’s very demonic. Just ask God to reveal to you the truth and supernaturally open your eyes. And He will show you. God bless you! ❤️❤️🙏🏽
@@NN-re7cy hey there,how long did it take to get over him? I know it's different for everyone but I've been there too for 3years when I decided that I couldn't take the abuse anymore.
Awesome! Word!
What’s that song playing it’s jamming!
Peace Be Unto You!
I love this video needed to hear this ❤️
This was so spot on!!!!
This recently jus happened too me I ended things for with my ex over 8 months ago and he jus want leave me alone i unfriend him deleted our pics but now all of a sudden he loves me so much and he misses me u are on 💯this is all going on n my life God has birthed Dees devotions out of me n this season 2 months ago so I gotta stay focus but I can't lie it pulls on me hard help me Lord 🙇🏿♀️
You can do it sis !
Why did you end things?
@@cuttinup97 he changed from the caring and attentive man I knew but now he's tryna follow me on fb
Thank you Jesus! In waiting for my Land of 🥛 and 🍯.. I will can and trust the pace of God.. Yes, so true!! He left me during quarantine. I am not mad all things come by Fasting and Praying. Those that know about my breakup ask me, “why I block him”.. That’s my way of Moving On!! He treated me like I didn’t matter so I am doing the same. To keep my peace. I don’t ask no questions. His choice I sent him a God bless you message and kept it moving. If they don’t want to be with you then, his rejection is God’s protection. God is not a man that He would lie..God doesn’t withhold any Good things from His children. No hatred but gratefulness.. A heartbroken can make you or destroy you. Choose life instead of death. Choose peace instead of confusion.
THANK YOU FOR THIS!!!!
Loving this message!