In the North Georgia Mountains in the US, I “live vicariously” through you two. I don’t ever plan to step foot on a narrow boat, but the miracle of technology connects me to two wonderful people who share their journey with us. May you always know happiness and joy in each other’s company. Thank you both very much!
The more people who speak out, the more people who will understand Colin as you well know. Mental health depends on it. Mental illness is not something we choose. With physical conditions positive wellbeing is not dependent on the absence of disease such as arthritis or a limb missing etc. You can have a happy and productive life and that is a given now. You are proving to your followers that mental health and well being are not dependent on the absence of any illness. I hope that makes sense. You two are my early Saturday morning go to. It is getting quite hot some days in Oz now. Our turn for long days of sunshine. Richard from down under.
Hi Guys. I had to write this after seeing your vlog and talking about Paul who took his own life. As a counsellor I frequently see people who feel as if opting out would be a better option than staying alive. Its a very lonely place for them and the only people who truly understand are those who have been there themselves! I think Colin is doing a great job of telling it how it really is when he feels bad. Sean is a truly loving support for Colin. Talking openly about mental health problems brings it out into the open and helps down play the stigma still attached to it. Things are getting better thankfully with more well known personalities talking about their own mental health issues too. You are both helping in this worthy cause. I know you dont like things too serious guys so end of essay! I lurve your vlogs. D xx
Sad news indeed. Tragic. Reminds me of Thoreau's quote: "The mass of men live lives of quiet desperation." You just never know what people are going through. Be kind to everyone you meet.
Colin, you are wonderful. Tell Sue that the whole country, no, even the whole world, through your vlogs, were joining you in your tears for the loss of her brother, and our heartfelt thoughts are with her and the family. xx
I've spent a life time of not talking about it but you,re right we should be more open . Never apologise for caring about others you,re a good man Colin . From an old sod with a tear in his eye .
Colin, your vlogs were a light in the darkness for Paul, and while, in the end, he did not survive that darkness, YOU helped keep the light in his life longer. I know that it is not really a great comfort to hear this, but it is true. With Paul's depression, without you, he could have chosen to end his life months sooner, and you have to cling to that. The darkness is indeed an evil thing, and the fight against it is indeed a difficult struggle. And, unfortunately, the battle isn't always won. Sending hugs to you and to Sue.
Thank you for the tribute to Paul. I hope that perhaps someday we'll treat mental health issues as seriously as physical health issues. The world doesn't seem to treat it with the same care as a broken leg when in actuality, it can be as life threatening as cancer. I'm sorry for Paul's pain and for all others that suffer in silence.
I’ve only just seen this vlog - I was aware of Colin’s mental health from earlier ones - and I found the mention of Sue and Paul quite moving. At the end, when you included Paul’s surname, it made me realise that we were kids together, growing up as neighbours in South Manchester. My own son took his life, age 17, almost 6 years ago. I’m reaching out in case Sue ever wants to make contact. Thanks, Colin and Shaun, for being educational, informative, funny and just for being yourselves.
10 years ago I was suffering with Depression and other health issues and had no positive support from the NHS Mental Health Team, I was basically told to "pull myself together", so unfortunately, I did attempt suicide and received no sympathy from the Medical Team, the next morning the consultant said "well at least you haven't done your liver in" and with a look of contempt discharged me without any follow up with a Mental Health team., if it hadn't been for my Wife's support I don't think I would be here today. I know it can be difficult but talking to someone is a must. Keep the vlogs coming we love watching them.
James, no, that's so sad. I know from my own experiences how poor mental health treatment is in the UK but your experience sounds horrific. I'm so sorry. xx
James Carder I’m sorry you had to go through that. And shame on all of those who treated you so poorly. It just goes to show that any ignorant, or evil person for that matter can get a degree. And that piece of paper means nothing if you don’t have decency! I have experienced these kind of people, but I now have a great doctor. I hope you do too!
I've just had to stop the Vlog there to compose myself. What a wonderful & beautiful tribute. My love thoughts & support go to Sue and her family for letting you talk about this silent killer. RIP Paul may your mind be free and I hope you see the sky & stars so clear.
Such a sad story but what a brilliant way to remember Paul, i'm sure Sue will think fondly of him everytime she watches Foxes Afloat! In this mad world mental illness seems to be on the increase and its people like you Collin who are helping! Great video.
I know sadness boys but I want you to know that I enjoy your journeys so very much. In life we are often given times we are not prepared for but keeping a smile on your face is so important. I often watch your videos to cheer up and zone out dreaming of a vacation on a narrow boat. My youngest daughters husband was killed over in Afghanistan and 18 months afterwards my daughter died as well. Her grief took her away from us and some days it’s impossible to function. On top of all that, at 62 yrs of age I ended up with my grandchild to raise. Their child had nobody but me, orphaned by grief. It’s so unfair. But this child has been the saving grace for me. I never thought I would be raising a toddler at this point in my life but I am. This child brings joy into my life that I never thought I would ever have again. I’m so sorry to hear about your fan and friend. No matter how despondent one gets, always remember how lucky you actually are to have companionship and love in your life. Keep on smiling boys, life’s a journey and every day a new one. I do enjoy your videos and I thank you for your sincerity and transparency. Peace to you both ✌🏻❤️🇺🇸😷
Your videos are always powerful, usually bringing laughs and joy. Today you also brought tears. Never underestimate what an important role you play in this harsh world. Sending love.
Man, don't apologize for crying! We all do it, it is not a bad thing! It helps cope with stuff, feels like it cleans out the bad emotions to an extend. It can be so refreshing and help so much at times! Be proud of being able to let it out like that, many people can't do that because they have been told to hold it back and see it as a bad thing.. And thsi is truely devastating, even tho I don't believe in life after death, I shure hope if there is anything like that he enjoys his time cruising the fines canals and finding the best mouring spots!
Ohh Colin, your love and compassion shines out from you. I am a mental health professional with a daughter who has psychotic depression which has led to her trying to end her life on four occasions, she is currently well and has a fabulous partner. We all need to talk about mental health and you are doing an amazing job at making it easier to talk. May your friend Paul now rest in peace, please send my love to his family and as always much love to you and Sean, Anita x
Hi, Anita. What a lovely message. I'm so sorry that your daughter has suffered, but it sounds like she's had fantastic support from you and her partner. We're the lucky ones. I juts wish the NHS had the resources to help everyone in need. Sending love! ❤️
Colin: How strong you are to share you're thoughts and feelings about what is a common thing for many of us. Sean: Bless you for your ongoing support to many of us. Lastly, (I hate giving unsolicited advice but...) like many of us, Colin appologised when he started crying. My friend, NEVER appologize for how you feel! Applogize for how you act, what you do, how you treat others... but NEVER for how you feel!
Great video and very touching. My partner took her own life just 8 month after us starting out journey on the boat which was 18 months ago. She was only 26 years old. Now I'm living our dreams for both of us and have just purchased a narrow boat selling our widebeam and I'm going to cruise the canals with our dogs. Stay safe ❤️
I'm trying to think of something to say.... But I can't. Know this Colin, Shaun... we are all your mates on here that's why we follow your journeys, we may not be physically there with you but we share your lives in some way or fashion which makes a lot of people happy. You bring joy and laughter to all who subscribe, as you did to Paul. RIP Paul xx
Another joyous vlog. You HAVE changed people's attitudes. You HAVE touched lives. You bring joy to THOUSANDS of people every week. Let that sink in for a moment. Internalize it. I believe on you both. Carry on with the great adventures. Make them for yourselves... (just let me watch once in a while. )
Since having a very serious heart attack 3 years ago (age 54) I have suffered with severe anxiety and depression. I have quite possibly had it for much longer but didn't realise; and it took this life changing event to make me understand what it was. As a roughy toughy Firefighter it took me some time to admit to myself let alone others that I needed help. After a short while I received professional help and it has really helped my recovery. I now also find it easier to talk to people about it today. I still have bad days and just want to be left alone. The main thing that suprised me was how my heart attack and subsequent Heart By-pass surgery had such a massive effect on me mentally as well as physically (something that the hospital didn't warn me about). But the message I now tell other people is the well know phrase that "It is OK to not be OK" So as you say, talk to people and seek help as soon as possible. Thank you Guys for being so open on Mental Health Issues and a lovely Vlog and tribute to Paul. My thoughts are with his family. PS I also purchased a narrow boat in August and our trips out on the cut help tremendously. :-)
@@FoxesAfloat Traffords Finest! I love that expression "That it is not ok to be ok!' It is so true and will get people talking. I say to my kids it is okay to not get get things right and through this you experience so more lessons. It makes you talk, analyse and see a different perspective to learn and hopefully get it right for you We all manage our paths and directions in different ways, but try and be true to yourself and others. Enjoy your boat and thank you for your words. I too hope may read this and find inspiration. J :)
HI lad's yes the weather is getting more colder now, well done to you colin for broadcasting about paul,,you did the right thing by doing, what you had to do reading that letter . The emtion showed by you,about somebody, you have never met,just goes to show how much a person can be affected by other peoples action's. i applaud your decision to broadcast it.it also shows by your emotion when reading the letter ,what a very special person you are, shaun is very lucky to have you..
Colin and Shaun, this was the most beautiful tribute to Paul and never think that you don't make a huge difference (often unsaid, usually unseen) in people's lives. We are relatively new to your channel, but my husband and I watch --and are catching up--whenever we can. Your honesty, vulnerability, humor and storytelling are refreshing in the world today. Thank you.
You are so right Kath, my wife & I came across one of The Foxes vlogs a couple of weeks ago & have started watching them from the start, we’re about halfway through now & not looking forward to catching up, as we’ll then have to wait a whole week for each vlog. It’s so refreshing & better than anything on TV at the moment, Shauns facial expressions crack me up & Both my wife & I were crying with laughter when they read out Mr Rimmers question on an earlier question & answer blog.
How kind and sensitive you are, Collin, is just lovely! I'm sure this tribute to Paul means a lot to his family! Bless you and Shaun for doing it.🦊🦊💗🦊🦊💗
Well done you two for this weeks vlog. My dad took his life 20 yrs ago from mental illness and I’m having my own battles. I’m looking to retire early in April next year and get my own narrow boat and follow you. Keep smiling lads and putting a smile on our faces xx
Greetings from New York; USA.Colin, you are amazing. Beautiful tribute to your friend. I could never say I know what you're going thru. Just know that you have the support of your husband and your viewers, and we hope you stay strong. A few years ago, my husband and I were "adopted" by a young man with Autism who did not have a very positive home life. We are his 'Dad' and 'Dadders' now. Over the years, we and friends, have helped him and fortunately, he is now in a much more stable environment. He still has minor episodes, but they are few and far between.I'm so glad I found your videos, and enjoy tracing your travels on the Canal and River Trust maps. Before we met, my husband used to travel to visit a friend in Bournemouth once a year, and tell me of his travels around England/France. I so hoped to get there some day, and if the chance (and funds) ever make that possible, would love to give both you guys a big hug...for bringing your travels to the internet so we can travel vicariously.Thank you, stay strong, be well, and wishing you both a Merry Christmas and a Happy, Healthy New Year. P.S. A big hug to Molly.From Dan and Rusty and our dog Taz
Hi guys 👋 Thank you so much for your message. The young man who adopted you is quite the lucky fella, as are you for being found 😂 If you do manage to get the funds together you'll love the British countryside by narrowboat ❤️
I thought I loved watching you guys for the sheer joy you take in your journeys and in each other..but I was wrong. I love watching you because you are so real and human and genuinely loving. We néed more of that in this world.
Oh darlings! The tribute you paid to Paul was so beautiful and moving. And thank you to his sister for allowing you to speak about him to highlight such an important issue. May he rest in peace, may his family find comfort in the knowledge that his story will inspire people to seek the help they need. And may you continue to reach people with your humour, compassion and wonderfully informative vlogs xxx
Oh how sad, so sorry Colin, tears listening to you, just so sad hearing your story about your friend who you didn't get to meet. But he's in a place now where nothing can hurt him - he might even be looking down on you guys on your narrowboat thinking "they made a right cods up of going through that lock, couple of toss pots." Keep smiling lad, we're smiling with you guys. Thanks so much for the vlogs, you always cheer me up if I'm a bit down.
such a lovely tribute to Paul, It takes a big man to cry openly. the way you share your feelings is an inspiration to anyone suffering this dreadful illness, you are an Angel with dirty knees
But for the grace of God, my wife and family I would've joined Paul (RIP) 2 months ago.. You are so right Colin, we need to talk about what's going on inside of ourselves.. I couldn't see the wood for the trees and so no way out and that led me to a dark place.. I admire you for your courage in speaking out about mental health issues, it so needs to be brought into main-stream and recognised and addressed with compassion and love. Thank you for your strength and openness Colin..
Mental illness is like chess, first the pawns move and then the bigger players and then you find yourself in checkmate. Don't underestimate the pawns, they all have a pattern, each move making you more detached until you feel so alone and in dispair. Seek out the triggers, be honest and make a counter move before the big players start to make their moves.
This has been one of the most heartfelt pieces I have seen for a long time!!! With sharing Pauls story you may have hopefully helped others to come forward to share their issues with friends and/or family so they may seek help!!One thing I will say is please never, ever, ever apologise for showing your feelings because when we show our feelings then it just might help others to show theirs. Total respect to you two and Pauls sister, Sue, for this vlog!!!!
Colin/Shaun. You touched my heart with your heart felt tribute to Paul. I am sure I speak for all of your subscribers when I say that the sadness you feel is shared by us all. I would like to send my sincere condolences to Sue and her family at this sad time. Please remember Colin although most of us have never met Shaun and you. We do support and care about you. You share your life's journey with us and for that we are grateful. Please take care and remember we are out here thinking about both of you. Kind regards Clay x.
Hey Colin. Thank you for your moving tribute to Paul. You are a beautiful caring am compassionate man and I admire you for the way you deal with living with mental ilness. Please take coomfort in the fact that although Paul sadly didnt get the help he needed with tragic circumstanses, it is very obvious that you and Shawn brought a lot of happiness to his life. I am sending you a huge hug and my sincere condolencies to Pauls sister. On Another note I would really like to say that everytime iI watch an episode you video production just gets better and better, and as a professional drone pilot your drone footage is superb. Keep up the great work guys and keep on making friday at 4 pm the highlight of my week
Thank you Colin. Being out about this is very important. I appreciate your candor and courage. You and Shaun are fine people. I'm very glad to have discovered you and your wanderings.
Guys, another American here, living in the HOT California desert. Loving your VLogs, ALL of them. It's lovely to see the English countryside in a fashion unlike the bits in various British television programs (which I seem be addicted to). So green and wet! I've been working my way through the "episodes" in numerical order. Colin, I am tremendously impressed by your willingness to talk about your difficulties. There can be such stigma surrounding mental health issues. I'm a retired mental health professional and it is so refreshing to see the topic come up, as it should, as a part of daily living. And Shaun, the apparent ease with which you provide emotional backup is heartwarming. I've dragged my wife in to watch the odd episode or two- or three... I think she would echo all I've said. Following your travels is a delightful way to spend the time, since we're not going out much these days... Thank you.
Hi Peter. Thank you so much for the lovely words and thoughts. I hope that talking will encourage others to think about their own health or maybe be more understanding towards those who struggle. Take care! x
Lovely tribute. You are a very sweet man. I have been a mental health nurse here in the states for years. Please remember to keep in touch with your doctor and follow through on any therapies. I love watching your videos when I get home from work after a rough shift. You and Shaun help more people than you realize.
Unfortunately, the mental health services here are useless. All of my previous GPs just want to send me away with meds that have side effects worse than the symptoms they're supposed to mask.
@@FoxesAfloat thank you Colin... you are so right in what you say. There is no help and yes the meds they want you to take are full of side effects as my son found out. It is soul destroying trying to get help for him. Just thank you for highlighting it all.💜.
Hi Colin , so so sad to hear of Paul’s death. I was in tears watching you talking about how much Paul wanted to meet up with you and Shaun . Colin you are an inspiration having the courage to speak of mental health issues , it is literally a dark horse for many people and talking does help. Thank you ever so much for the inspiring , funny , beautiful blogs you create for us all to watch Colin I speak for us all who eagerly await your weekly report , we love you both so much and of course Dylan , a merry Christmas to you both from Australia. We still have terrible bushfires here and still very very hot and dry . Take care xxxxxxxxxxx from Aussie Land
Thank you so much. I'm not very good with words tonight so I just want to say thank you. I hope the fires go soon and that you have a lovely Christmas too ❤️
This is the first time I've written, moved to do so. Ups and downs are a part of our lives. I've consoled myself with the thought that there is always light at the end of the tunnel (no joke intended!). You have achieved a very great deal of highly professional presentation and there may be much greater things ahead for you. Good health, good luck and keep on entertaining and informing us, both of you.
I’ve struggled with depression for 1/3 of my life; it can be shocking and definitely humbling. I have found speaking about my struggles in various contexts has conquered any stigma of shame. We all struggle with something and it is healing to share it together. As always, thank you for your transparency and spirit of perseverance. Love to both of you.
Hi guys,I'm in Brattleboro Vermont. I cry with you and I laugh with you. I watch u every night. 2 years ago I lost everything including my 4 year old daughter. She was taking away from me. Since then I have been working my ass off trying to rebuild my life and you guys help to keep me going. You Britton my life. Thank you for what do.because if it wasn't for you guys my depression would have gotten along time ago
Thank you for your vulnerability and your honest and unashamed discussion of MH. There are over 3,000 comments on here yet that number won't be anywhere near the real number of viewers who needed its message yet didn't comment. Never doubt that you're doing the work of the angels.
Wow I can’t tell you how sad that was. You guys really are superb though. It breaks my heart that people go through these mental struggles. You’re both so beautiful and funny. Really love all of your videos, and there’s absolutely no wonder that Paul loved you both. I know I’m late but Rest In Peace Paul, and best of best wishes to you both x ❤️ x
Oh Collin, thank you so much for sharing this story. Depression is real. I suffer with it which is why I follow you guys. You make such difference in my life. I once was a patron but could not afford it any longer. Thank you for your honesty and sincerity. You make lots of people feel good. THANK YOU!
You never know how your life may affect someone else. Just opening a dialog about it may save a life. It has happened before and hopefully with Collin's example of coping ....... done typing. Take care. Thanks.
Hi, guys! Just had my daily dose of Foxes Afloat. You two just make me happy. Colin when you are honest about your feelings it makes me happy because I've spent most of my life battling depression and anxiety. I did reach out and get help but spent most of my life thinking about ending it. I'm glad I didn't and am happy and even-keeled now. I turn 69 in a few weeks so hopefully I have some years left to enjoy. I love seeing the two of you together because your love is so obvious even though you aren't demonstrative openly. I did catch the kiss Colin gave you, Shaun and was glad to see it. If I ever get to England I will try and meet you two and take you out for a nice meal and a pint. Hugs and love!
Love the open discussion of mental health and the pain of depression. You both combine it with everyday joys and happiness. Paul, rip, your story has touched others.
Awe no Paul...I was so sorry to hear of Pauls passing and chocked to see Colin's reaction to the news. I just wanted to give you a big hug Colin. My heart aches to see you in such pain. It also aches for Paul who felt so desperate that he felt the need to take his own life. Words fail how sad i feel for Paul and his family and for you because i know you feel this very deeply having issues yourself. I am so very grateful that you have Shaun to love and to be loved back. Just remember you are not alone... ok Colin. I so wish Paul had met you because you are an inspiration and never forget that please. Much love from this old lady Heather
We all carry a little Paul in us. A hurt, wounded, angry frustrated, helpless child needing love, acceptance and understanding. Thank you for what you're doing. It means more than you likely know. Cheers.
You'll never know who you reach, you'll never know who you touch. Your channel is 100% authentic. Yes it's beautifully filmed, and your journeys endlessly fascinating but I suspect your subscribers would follow if you two were walking around a supermarket. Stay healthy, stay true. Thank you for such a moving tribute to Paul, a fellow traveller.
So sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your lives with us. As they say “warts” and all. I too have depression and anxiety but with my faith and thankfully medication it helps so much. I so enjoy your videos.
One life lost is one too many, but we all know it happens. That Paul took his own life and the pain that made him do so his desperately sad. My sympathy goes to his family and everyone who loved him, including you. Adding the piece to the blog and dedicating it to Paul was a very real way of getting the message home there’s help available. Thank you for your honesty and compassionate. And it feels a little crass to say this, but some of the most beautiful shots of Silver Fox I’ve ever seen were those in the mist. So atmospheric.
Thanks, Mandella. I hope Sue (Paul's sister) will be reading some of these messages too ❤️ I used the misty shots deliberately to create this sense of sadness. x
Just watched this episode last evening. Blessings on you Colin for doing this work. Not spoken about often. You're putting a light where there is darkness. Thank you from someone who was saved from an attempted suicide years ago.🌹🌹🌹
I suffer from PTSD, and I cry 2/3 a week if not more , I love you for doing what you do Colin , There are people that are in the same boat so to speak you are not alone , some have it harder than others , I am 67 , and live on my own ,Your videos are a hope for me to get on the canal and and enjoy what the Creator has given us ,My thanks to you and SHAUN, and condolences to your freind and her family .May YAH bless you and keep you and may YAH shine his face upon you and upon shaun and both Families .
What's so sad is the number of people taking their lives thanks to lockdown and the lack of contact for so many people. We need to move on - and you're so right about the need to communicate with each other x
Watching you gives me strength knowing I am not alone in being depressed. I used to be active still suffered but could just to say cope. I am now unable to be so active so I started self harming. It was the only way to stop being suicidal. Most days I look at my tablets and think it would be easier if I go but my insurance policy stops me. Tht money is for my disabled daughters care when I go. Watching you two argue make me laugh. You both are one special couple.
I'm catching up on older vlogs from you two, ok 3 ! This one touched my heart so deeply. My Godson was a Captain in the US Army, having done 3 tours in Iraq. Lucas was always so upbeat, funny and full of hugs and smiles. None of us realized the turmoil,PTSD, etc. going on in his mind. 2 months ago we were awakened to the news that Lucas had committed suicide. Our hearts are broken and opened to this sad reality. Over 22 veterans a day, take their own lives. I'm so sorry for the loss of dear Paul and others fighting this silent battle. My love and hugs to you !! Waves from Kansas USA. Rest in peace Captain Lucas Osborn ! 💔
@@FoxesAfloat Thank you ! I just want to spread the word and tell everyone that someone is listening and here for them !! Big ,giant hugs to both of you and love pats to Otis ! Extra treat for Otis from Kristy!! Lol
This is the first video I’ve seen on this channel and I can’t get over the production value- it’s just like a BBC show or something. You can see how work has gone into it.
Very powerful episode. It is so important to get the discussion of mental health issues out into the mainstream and normalize them as problems regular people have that can and should be dealt with.....not hidden away. Thank you for doing this. On a lighter note I enjoyed seeing a shot of the interior of Silver Fox. While I love the travelogue aspect of your videos I would also enjoy seeing more about day to day boat life. (maintenance, repairs, shopping for supplies and equipment etc etc) Speaking as a non UK viewer a map at the start of the videos to orientate us as to where you are in the UK for this episode would be a great help. (maybe small scale of all of the UK and then zooming in to where you are?) I often google place names but then the resulting maps don't show the canals so I don't get a good idea of that week's journey. Thanks for the channel....I'm really enjoying working my way through it!
My dearest Foxes Afloat, This video brought tears to my eyes and sadness to my heart. Like others here have written , your videos are so sincerely personalized that we feel as if we have known you both for ages. Although I am 10,000 kilometers removed from you both, it is as if you were the couple next door, beloved of all. Without being presumptuous, and not always finely attuned to British sensitivities, please allow me to share the following with you.. 4 And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away. Señora Lulú du Furret Buenos Aires
Thanks for another great "variety performance" boys. For anybody who thinks that they have troubles but are too proud to seek "help", just mention it to your medical consultant in privacy. There really are clever, caring people who can assist, and the burden that they can lift from your shoulders is indescribable. Colin and Shaun, I came for the jokey country ramblings, but I am in awe of the support that you are extending to the many who might just need a hand up. The best advice that I have received for years, was 'to do the opposite of what the depression tells you'. Near impossible initially, but there are ways out of it. Don't suffer for want of trying, folks........
Thank you for sharing, I lost a very good friend last year due to, among other things that state of Medium Wave (AM) radio, which was his passion, he had helped build the Voice of Vietnam station in Dong Hoi, where I have been for the last 10 months. Sadly we didn't see it coming. Those of us who have dealt with depression can often see what is happening with our friends, sadly we didn't see this one coming.
Just catching up on the comments from today's post which are so heartfelt. I've come to thinking you guys accidentally, are a unique conduit of what is beautiful and sad in this ever so, so called dynamic world: to give us space to think, enjoy, celebrate and love. Sometimes, we need an earth to stop, touch, feel, smell, hear and see again. The above are our basic senses we were given but, have lost tune with. Thank you personally from me to helping me connect see with these again through your eyes and inspiration. I love Friday's at 4 and the new adventures it gives me. Jx :)
Like many. I'm steadily working my way through the journey of Silver Fox, and I viewed this episode two nights ago, but I only got a name tonight, to be able to comment. You are a lovely couple, full of fun, and the outtakes are suberb, and it's nice to see that the "Seadog" has his own personal safety gear! Colin, your tribute was really heartfelt, you are a very compassionate person, and I don't mind admitting, I shed a few tears with you. My very best wishes to all three of you.
I found myself on my bed up against the wall crying after a really bad week and thinking of you and your bravery really really helped me, thank you for all you do for us,, thank you for speaking out.
Hey Colin, it’s so good to hear a man talk about tough stuff. It almost seems antithetical to talk about hard issues. I have frontal temporal degeneration, a type of dementia. It was hard to accept and I experienced a lot of depression, some I later attributed to grieving over the things I could no loner do like driving and being alone with small children due my short attention span. I only started feeling acceptance of my condition by doing what you suggested, talking with others who were safe to talk with. I also learned to allow myself to grieve and at times to be depressed. I almost always realized it wasn’t me but my condition causing my issues. Once I realized I couldn’t make it go away I was better able to accept it and try to live one day at a time. Even with my better acceptance at times in the moment the depression will return and somehow I now better accept it, though with a struggle. For me Acceptance is built on relationships with others who have my same struggles and hearing them discuss their hard stuff. You have been a blessing sharing your hard issues and your channel is one I go to for enjoyment when true enjoyment is at times hard to come by. You have been a true blessing for me and I so enjoy the history you share. You and Shaun have had more ups and downs, especially with all your lock adventures (bad canal joke). You guys keep being yourself and real - sorry about the rambling.
Great to see Martin Zero getting dirty in a tunnel.... My condolences to Sue and her family... Thank you for talking about Paul and treating him and his memory with respect.
Hello from Tasmania, Australia..... That was a moving tribute to your friend Paul. And a big thumbs up for being brave enough, and honest enough, to talk openly about depression......
The beauty of of cold crisp autumn /winter days in the British countryside brought to your living room by your amazing video skills. Truly superb guys. So sad to hear Paul’s story but unfortunately it reflects that of a close friend of mine who took his own life earlier this year leaving a devastated wife and 4 yr old daughter. He was the most gregarious outgoing fun guy , the life and soul of every gathering but had demons he tried to battle alone. A battle he lost. Maybe we can look back with the benefit of hindsight and say the signs were there for us to see but at the time we really had no idea that he needed serious help. Some say it was a selfish act but all I can think is that he was going through a hell of his own with suicide the only escape and we failed him. So yes - you are right - YOU HAVE TO TALK to someone .....anyone. God bless guys
Hi, Paul 👋 I'm so sorry that you know the pain of suicide of someone close. I'm sorry if this brought back that pain. You're right. We can come across as happy and outgoing, but the demons inside us are in control . Sending love ❤️
Great video as always and thank you for highlighting mental health issues. Isn't it strange how national and local governments always have enough public money for themselves - high incomes, second homes, new offices, travel and dining expenses etc but never enough for front line services. It is a disgrace and they should be ashamed. Anyway, had to look up Colleys Mill but then remembered another series (OMG I'm old!!) so try this without the internet - who was pongo the pirate? All the best.
You guys are an inspiration to us all.....I have suffered with mental depression and I hid the problem. I love your vlogs and am slowly catching up......it helps me relax ....love the out takes
It’s hard to hear of someone who has passed because of mental health issues. I’m not ashamed to say that I cried when you mentioned this. I still suffer from depression but take it a day at a time. Condolences to Paul’s family. These issues need to be talked about. Sending you hugs 🤗
Brilliant video. As a retired mental health nurse my advice was and is to talk, encourage everyone to talk, just talk talk talk, someone will listen and then it starts from there, recovery is always possible, respect to you two
Thank you again for sharing about mental health. It does mean a lot to those of us that care about someone that struggles with it. I am sorry about Paul. You guys brought him joy. Carry on gents.
Hi Colin watching all your blogs from number 1, just like to say keep strong, keep talking about mental health issues. I worked as a psychotherapist working with all forms of mental health for years but retired early aged 60 to have a rest but we need more people to offer mental health support
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In the North Georgia Mountains in the US, I “live vicariously” through you two. I don’t ever plan to step foot on a narrow boat, but the miracle of technology connects me to two wonderful people who share their journey with us. May you always know happiness and joy in each other’s company. Thank you both very much!
Thanks, Frank! I hope you enjoy your vicarious travels as much as we hope you do ❤️
The more people who speak out, the more people who will understand Colin as you well know. Mental health depends on it. Mental illness is not something we choose. With physical conditions positive wellbeing is not dependent on the absence of disease such as arthritis or a limb missing etc. You can have a happy and productive life and that is a given now. You are proving to your followers that mental health and well being are not dependent on the absence of any illness. I hope that makes sense. You two are my early Saturday morning go to. It is getting quite hot some days in Oz now. Our turn for long days of sunshine. Richard from down under.
@@Trickywoo54 Thanks, Richard ❤️
Every time we watch this we cry with you. Being “real” is what makes you guys feel like family and why we watch and watch.
Thanks so much guys 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
Couldn't agree MORE!! I Love being able to watch your videos, always brings a smile
Never doubt that you both talking about mental health is helpful and good. You are a blessing to many.
Thank you so much, Kath 💜
Hi Guys. I had to write this after seeing your vlog and talking about Paul who took his own life. As a counsellor I frequently see people who feel as if opting out would be a better option than staying alive. Its a very lonely place for them and the only people who truly understand are those who have been there themselves! I think Colin is doing a great job of telling it how it really is when he feels bad. Sean is a truly loving support for Colin. Talking openly about mental health problems brings it out into the open and helps down play the stigma still attached to it. Things are getting better thankfully with more well known personalities talking about their own mental health issues too. You are both helping in this worthy cause. I know you dont like things too serious guys so end of essay! I lurve your vlogs. D xx
Thanks, Debbie! Lovely words. Shaun really is a hero to me. I don't know how he copes with me sometimes. xx
@@FoxesAfloat Its simple Colin. He loves you! Have a wonderful Xmas and New Year. ❤
Sad news indeed. Tragic. Reminds me of Thoreau's quote: "The mass of men live lives of quiet desperation." You just never know what people are going through. Be kind to everyone you meet.
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Colin, you are wonderful. Tell Sue that the whole country, no, even the whole world, through your vlogs, were joining you in your tears for the loss of her brother, and our heartfelt thoughts are with her and the family. xx
I'm sure Sue will be reading these messages too ❤️
I've spent a life time of not talking about it but you,re right we should be more open . Never apologise for caring about others you,re a good man Colin .
From an old sod with a tear in his eye .
Thanks, Bruce ❤️
Colin, your vlogs were a light in the darkness for Paul, and while, in the end, he did not survive that darkness, YOU helped keep the light in his life longer. I know that it is not really a great comfort to hear this, but it is true. With Paul's depression, without you, he could have chosen to end his life months sooner, and you have to cling to that. The darkness is indeed an evil thing, and the fight against it is indeed a difficult struggle. And, unfortunately, the battle isn't always won.
Sending hugs to you and to Sue.
Thank you. What a lovely message.
Perhaps you're right, but nobody should have to get to that stage in the first place 😢
Thank you for the tribute to Paul. I hope that perhaps someday we'll treat mental health issues as seriously as physical health issues. The world doesn't seem to treat it with the same care as a broken leg when in actuality, it can be as life threatening as cancer. I'm sorry for Paul's pain and for all others that suffer in silence.
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I’ve only just seen this vlog - I was aware of Colin’s mental health from earlier ones - and I found the mention of Sue and Paul quite moving. At the end, when you included Paul’s surname, it made me realise that we were kids together, growing up as neighbours in South Manchester. My own son took his life, age 17, almost 6 years ago. I’m reaching out in case Sue ever wants to make contact. Thanks, Colin and Shaun, for being educational, informative, funny and just for being yourselves.
WOW! So sorry you lost your son, I can't imagine how you feel. Lots of love
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Too many people on social media forget they are human beings.
You don’t.
Thank you for that!
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10 years ago I was suffering with Depression and other health issues and had no positive support from the NHS Mental Health Team, I was basically told to "pull myself together", so unfortunately, I did attempt suicide and received no sympathy from the Medical Team, the next morning the consultant said "well at least you haven't done your liver in" and with a look of contempt discharged me without any follow up with a Mental Health team., if it hadn't been for my Wife's support I don't think I would be here today. I know it can be difficult but talking to someone is a must. Keep the vlogs coming we love watching them.
James, no, that's so sad. I know from my own experiences how poor mental health treatment is in the UK but your experience sounds horrific. I'm so sorry. xx
James Carder I’m sorry you had to go through that. And shame on all of those who treated you so poorly. It just goes to show that any ignorant, or evil person for that matter can get a degree. And that piece of paper means nothing if you don’t have decency! I have experienced these kind of people, but I now have a great doctor. I hope you do too!
I've just had to stop the Vlog there to compose myself. What a wonderful & beautiful tribute. My love thoughts & support go to Sue and her family for letting you talk about this silent killer. RIP Paul may your mind be free and I hope you see the sky & stars so clear.
Awesome words, Jez, just awesome. ❤️
Such a sad story but what a brilliant way to remember Paul, i'm sure Sue will think fondly of him everytime she watches Foxes Afloat! In this mad world mental illness seems to be on the increase and its people like you Collin who are helping! Great video.
Thank you so much, Helen ❤️
I know sadness boys but I want you to know that I enjoy your journeys so very much. In life we are often given times we are not prepared for but keeping a smile on your face is so important. I often watch your videos to cheer up and zone out dreaming of a vacation on a narrow boat.
My youngest daughters husband was killed over in Afghanistan and 18 months afterwards my daughter died as well. Her grief took her away from us and some days it’s impossible to function. On top of all that, at 62 yrs of age I ended up with my grandchild to raise.
Their child had nobody but me, orphaned by grief. It’s so unfair. But this child has been the saving grace for me. I never thought I would be raising a toddler at this point in my life but I am.
This child brings joy into my life that I never thought I would ever have again.
I’m so sorry to hear about your fan and friend. No matter how despondent one gets, always remember how lucky you actually are to have companionship and love in your life. Keep on smiling boys, life’s a journey and every day a new one.
I do enjoy your videos and I thank you for your sincerity and transparency.
Peace to you both
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Thank you so much. I'm not good with words but that was a lovely message. Thanks! 💜💜💜💜💜💜
Your videos are always powerful, usually bringing laughs and joy. Today you also brought tears. Never underestimate what an important role you play in this harsh world. Sending love.
Thank you, Nick. ❤️
Man, don't apologize for crying! We all do it, it is not a bad thing! It helps cope with stuff, feels like it cleans out the bad emotions to an extend. It can be so refreshing and help so much at times!
Be proud of being able to let it out like that, many people can't do that because they have been told to hold it back and see it as a bad thing..
And thsi is truely devastating, even tho I don't believe in life after death, I shure hope if there is anything like that he enjoys his time cruising the fines canals and finding the best mouring spots!
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I don't know what anyone could ask more of a vlog...entertainment, pathos, sadness, joy...we laugh with you, we cry with you and we feel for you both.
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Ohh Colin, your love and compassion shines out from you. I am a mental health professional with a daughter who has psychotic depression which has led to her trying to end her life on four occasions, she is currently well and has a fabulous partner. We all need to talk about mental health and you are doing an amazing job at making it easier to talk. May your friend Paul now rest in peace, please send my love to his family and as always much love to you and Sean, Anita x
Hi, Anita. What a lovely message. I'm so sorry that your daughter has suffered, but it sounds like she's had fantastic support from you and her partner. We're the lucky ones. I juts wish the NHS had the resources to help everyone in need. Sending love! ❤️
Colin: How strong you are to share you're thoughts and feelings about what is a common thing for many of us. Sean: Bless you for your ongoing support to many of us. Lastly, (I hate giving unsolicited advice but...) like many of us, Colin appologised when he started crying. My friend, NEVER appologize for how you feel! Applogize for how you act, what you do, how you treat others... but NEVER for how you feel!
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Great video and very touching. My partner took her own life just 8 month after us starting out journey on the boat which was 18 months ago. She was only 26 years old. Now I'm living our dreams for both of us and have just purchased a narrow boat selling our widebeam and I'm going to cruise the canals with our dogs. Stay safe ❤️
I'm so sorry! I hope watching this wasn't too painful. Let us know if we ever pass, we can share cake! ❤️
Love cake so would love that. And obviously meeting you both... ❤️😍🎂
I'm trying to think of something to say.... But I can't. Know this Colin, Shaun... we are all your mates on here that's why we follow your journeys, we may not be physically there with you but we share your lives in some way or fashion which makes a lot of people happy. You bring joy and laughter to all who subscribe, as you did to Paul. RIP Paul xx
Thanks, Steven. There doesn't have to be any words. ❤️
Thank you, Steven, that was well said.
Another joyous vlog.
You HAVE changed people's attitudes. You HAVE touched lives.
You bring joy to THOUSANDS of people every week. Let that sink in for a moment. Internalize it. I believe on you both. Carry on with the great adventures. Make them for yourselves... (just let me watch once in a while. )
Thank you, Douglas. It won’t sink in though. I still don’t see it 😂
I don't know you, I didn't know Paul, but still I was touched by your fantastic tribute
Thanks Bryan.
@@FoxesAfloat You obviously were a bright light in what looks like his dark room - you could do no more lads
Since having a very serious heart attack 3 years ago (age 54) I have suffered with severe anxiety and depression. I have quite possibly had it for much longer but didn't realise; and it took this life changing event to make me understand what it was. As a roughy toughy Firefighter it took me some time to admit to myself let alone others that I needed help. After a short while I received professional help and it has really helped my recovery. I now also find it easier to talk to people about it today. I still have bad days and just want to be left alone. The main thing that suprised me was how my heart attack and subsequent Heart By-pass surgery had such a massive effect on me mentally as well as physically (something that the hospital didn't warn me about). But the message I now tell other people is the well know phrase that "It is OK to not be OK" So as you say, talk to people and seek help as soon as possible. Thank you Guys for being so open on Mental Health Issues and a lovely Vlog and tribute to Paul. My thoughts are with his family. PS I also purchased a narrow boat in August and our trips out on the cut help tremendously. :-)
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@@FoxesAfloat Traffords Finest! I love that expression "That it is not ok to be ok!' It is so true and will get people talking. I say to my kids it is okay to not get get things right and through this you experience so more lessons. It makes you talk, analyse and see a different perspective to learn and hopefully get it right for you We all manage our paths and directions in different ways, but try and be true to yourself and others. Enjoy your boat and thank you for your words. I too hope may read this and find inspiration. J :)
HI lad's yes the weather is getting more colder now, well done to you colin for broadcasting about paul,,you did the right thing by doing, what you had to do reading that letter . The emtion showed by you,about somebody, you have never met,just goes to show how much a person can be affected by other peoples action's. i applaud your decision to broadcast it.it also shows by your emotion when reading the letter ,what a very special person you are, shaun is very lucky to have you..
Thanks, Peter ❤️
Thanks guys great to see you again. Bitter sweet video. Sorry to hear about Paul 💙
Yeah, sad news. Looking forward to seeing my arse on Sunday 😂
Very moving tribute, if only more people in this world could be as loving and thoughtful as you guys.
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Colin and Shaun, this was the most beautiful tribute to Paul and never think that you don't make a huge difference (often unsaid, usually unseen) in people's lives. We are relatively new to your channel, but my husband and I watch --and are catching up--whenever we can. Your honesty, vulnerability, humor and storytelling are refreshing in the world today. Thank you.
Wow, thank you!
You are so right Kath, my wife & I came across one of The Foxes vlogs a couple of weeks ago & have started watching them from the start, we’re about halfway through now & not looking forward to catching up, as we’ll then have to wait a whole week for each vlog.
It’s so refreshing & better than anything on TV at the moment, Shauns facial expressions crack me up & Both my wife & I were crying with laughter when they read out Mr Rimmers question on an earlier question & answer blog.
How kind and sensitive you are, Collin, is just lovely! I'm sure this tribute to Paul means a lot to his family! Bless you and Shaun for doing it.🦊🦊💗🦊🦊💗
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Well done you two for this weeks vlog. My dad took his life 20 yrs ago from mental illness and I’m having my own battles. I’m looking to retire early in April next year and get my own narrow boat and follow you. Keep smiling lads and putting a smile on our faces xx
I'm so sorry, Jonathan. I hope watching this didn't hurt too much. I'm sure Sue will be reading these message too ❤️
Greetings from New York; USA.Colin, you are amazing. Beautiful tribute to your friend. I could never say I know what you're going thru. Just know that you have the support of your husband and your viewers, and we hope you stay strong. A few years ago, my husband and I were "adopted" by a young man with Autism who did not have a very positive home life. We are his 'Dad' and 'Dadders' now. Over the years, we and friends, have helped him and fortunately, he is now in a much more stable environment. He still has minor episodes, but they are few and far between.I'm so glad I found your videos, and enjoy tracing your travels on the Canal and River Trust maps. Before we met, my husband used to travel to visit a friend in Bournemouth once a year, and tell me of his travels around England/France. I so hoped to get there some day, and if the chance (and funds) ever make that possible, would love to give both you guys a big hug...for bringing your travels to the internet so we can travel vicariously.Thank you, stay strong, be well, and wishing you both a Merry Christmas and a Happy, Healthy New Year. P.S. A big hug to Molly.From Dan and Rusty and our dog Taz
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Thank you so much for your message. The young man who adopted you is quite the lucky fella, as are you for being found 😂 If you do manage to get the funds together you'll love the British countryside by narrowboat ❤️
I thought I loved watching you guys for the sheer joy you take in your journeys and in each other..but I was wrong. I love watching you because you are so real and human and genuinely loving. We néed more of that in this world.
Cheers, Buffy! Always be honest, always be you 💜
Oh darlings! The tribute you paid to Paul was so beautiful and moving. And thank you to his sister for allowing you to speak about him to highlight such an important issue. May he rest in peace, may his family find comfort in the knowledge that his story will inspire people to seek the help they need. And may you continue to reach people with your humour, compassion and wonderfully informative vlogs xxx
Thanks, Denise 💜
Oh how sad, so sorry Colin, tears listening to you, just so sad hearing your story about your friend who you didn't get to meet. But he's in a place now where nothing can hurt him - he might even be looking down on you guys on your narrowboat thinking "they made a right cods up of going through that lock, couple of toss pots." Keep smiling lad, we're smiling with you guys. Thanks so much for the vlogs, you always cheer me up if I'm a bit down.
Cheers, Frank! That means so much 💜
I read somewhere that "you may not be able to light up the world, but you can be a candle to someone in need". You were Paul's candle.
Thanks, Rod 💜
You guys touch the hearts of so many! What a great gift you have been given.
Thank you, Richard. Sending love ❤️
such a lovely tribute to Paul, It takes a big man to cry openly. the way you share your feelings is an inspiration to anyone suffering this dreadful illness, you are an Angel with dirty knees
An angel with dirty knees. I like it 😂 Thanks, Philip ❤️
But for the grace of God, my wife and family I would've joined Paul (RIP) 2 months ago.. You are so right Colin, we need to talk about what's going on inside of ourselves.. I couldn't see the wood for the trees and so no way out and that led me to a dark place.. I admire you for your courage in speaking out about mental health issues, it so needs to be brought into main-stream and recognised and addressed with compassion and love. Thank you for your strength and openness Colin..
I'm glad you're here to say that 💜
Mental illness is like chess, first the pawns move and then the bigger players and then you find yourself in checkmate. Don't underestimate the pawns, they all have a pattern, each move making you more detached until you feel so alone and in dispair. Seek out the triggers, be honest and make a counter move before the big players start to make their moves.
I really appreciate that you take us down those tunnels and the like. Thank you.
Our pleasure, Ragnar! 👍🏻
This has been one of the most heartfelt pieces I have seen for a long time!!! With sharing Pauls story you may have hopefully helped others to come forward to share their issues with friends and/or family so they may seek help!!One thing I will say is please never, ever, ever apologise for showing your feelings because when we show our feelings then it just might help others to show theirs. Total respect to you two and Pauls sister, Sue, for this vlog!!!!
Thank you, Grant 💜 I’m sure Paul’s sister will be reading the comments too
Colin/Shaun. You touched my heart with your heart felt tribute to Paul. I am sure I speak for all of your subscribers when I say that the sadness you feel is shared by us all. I would like to send my sincere condolences to Sue and her family at this sad time. Please remember Colin although most of us have never met Shaun and you. We do support and care about you. You share your life's journey with us and for that we are grateful. Please take care and remember we are out here thinking about both of you. Kind regards Clay x.
Thanks, Clay. I'm not very good with words and replies tonight but thank you so much for being here every week. It means so much ❤️
Hey Colin. Thank you for your moving tribute to Paul. You are a beautiful caring am compassionate man and I admire you for the way you deal with living with mental ilness. Please take coomfort in the fact that although Paul sadly didnt get the help he needed with tragic circumstanses, it is very obvious that you and Shawn brought a lot of happiness to his life. I am sending you a huge hug and my sincere condolencies to Pauls sister.
On Another note I would really like to say that everytime iI watch an episode you video production just gets better and better, and as a professional drone pilot your drone footage is superb.
Keep up the great work guys and keep on making friday at 4 pm the highlight of my week
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Thank you Colin. Being out about this is very important. I appreciate your candor and courage. You and Shaun are fine people. I'm very glad to have discovered you and your wanderings.
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Guys, another American here, living in the HOT California desert. Loving your VLogs, ALL of them. It's lovely to see the English countryside in a fashion unlike the bits in various British television programs (which I seem be addicted to). So green and wet! I've been working my way through the "episodes" in numerical order. Colin, I am tremendously impressed by your willingness to talk about your difficulties. There can be such stigma surrounding mental health issues. I'm a retired mental health professional and it is so refreshing to see the topic come up, as it should, as a part of daily living. And Shaun, the apparent ease with which you provide emotional backup is heartwarming. I've dragged my wife in to watch the odd episode or two- or three... I think she would echo all I've said. Following your travels is a delightful way to spend the time, since we're not going out much these days... Thank you.
Hi Peter.
Thank you so much for the lovely words and thoughts. I hope that talking will encourage others to think about their own health or maybe be more understanding towards those who struggle. Take care! x
Lovely tribute. You are a very sweet man. I have been a mental health nurse here in the states for years. Please remember to keep in touch with your doctor and follow through on any therapies. I love watching your videos when I get home from work after a rough shift. You and Shaun help more people than you realize.
Unfortunately, the mental health services here are useless. All of my previous GPs just want to send me away with meds that have side effects worse than the symptoms they're supposed to mask.
I have a friend in the states, trapped in the mental health system. I don't envy your job.
@@FoxesAfloat thank you Colin... you are so right in what you say. There is no help and yes the meds they want you to take are full of side effects as my son found out. It is soul destroying trying to get help for him. Just thank you for highlighting it all.💜.
Super massive hug to all who need it.
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Hi Colin , so so sad to hear of Paul’s death. I was in tears watching you talking about how much Paul wanted to meet up with you and Shaun . Colin you are an inspiration having the courage to speak of mental health issues , it is literally a dark horse for many people and talking does help. Thank you ever so much for the inspiring , funny , beautiful blogs you create for us all to watch Colin I speak for us all who eagerly await your weekly report , we love you both so much and of course Dylan , a merry Christmas to you both from Australia. We still have terrible bushfires here and still very very hot and dry . Take care xxxxxxxxxxx from Aussie Land
Thank you so much. I'm not very good with words tonight so I just want to say thank you. I hope the fires go soon and that you have a lovely Christmas too ❤️
That must've been tough to share Colin, but thank you for being so open and caring.
Thanks, Peter ❤️
This is the first time I've written, moved to do so. Ups and downs are a part of our lives. I've consoled myself with the thought that there is always light at the end of the tunnel (no joke intended!). You have achieved a very great deal of highly professional presentation and there may be much greater things ahead for you. Good health, good luck and keep on entertaining and informing us, both of you.
Thanks so much Andrew for commenting for the first time. Take care 👍🏻💜
I’ve struggled with depression for 1/3 of my life; it can be shocking and definitely humbling. I have found speaking about my struggles in various contexts has conquered any stigma of shame. We all struggle with something and it is healing to share it together. As always, thank you for your transparency and spirit of perseverance. Love to both of you.
Thanks Judy. Sending love 💜
Hi guys,I'm in Brattleboro Vermont. I cry with you and I laugh with you. I watch u every night. 2 years ago I lost everything including my 4 year old daughter. She was taking away from me. Since then I have been working my ass off trying to rebuild my life and you guys help to keep me going. You Britton my life. Thank you for what do.because if it wasn't for you guys my depression would have gotten along time ago
I'm really sorry to hear about your loss. Please stay strong :) x
Thank you for your vulnerability and your honest and unashamed discussion of MH. There are over 3,000 comments on here yet that number won't be anywhere near the real number of viewers who needed its message yet didn't comment. Never doubt that you're doing the work of the angels.
Aww, thanks, Sam!
Wow I can’t tell you how sad that was. You guys really are superb though. It breaks my heart that people go through these mental struggles. You’re both so beautiful and funny. Really love all of your videos, and there’s absolutely no wonder that Paul loved you both. I know I’m late but Rest In Peace Paul, and best of best wishes to you both x ❤️ x
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Oh Collin, thank you so much for sharing this story. Depression is real. I suffer with it which is why I follow you guys. You make such difference in my life. I once was a patron but could not afford it any longer. Thank you for your honesty and sincerity. You make lots of people feel good. THANK YOU!
Thanks, Ray ❤️ Sending love x
A very wonderful tribute to Paul and speaking of these issues helps in ways we may never know... someone’s life may be saved..
You never know how your life may affect someone else. Just opening a dialog about it may save a life. It has happened before and hopefully with Collin's example of coping ....... done typing. Take care. Thanks.
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Hi, guys! Just had my daily dose of Foxes Afloat. You two just make me happy. Colin when you are honest about your feelings it makes me happy because I've spent most of my life battling depression and anxiety. I did reach out and get help but spent most of my life thinking about ending it. I'm glad I didn't and am happy and even-keeled now. I turn 69 in a few weeks so hopefully I have some years left to enjoy. I love seeing the two of you together because your love is so obvious even though you aren't demonstrative openly. I did catch the kiss Colin gave you, Shaun and was glad to see it. If I ever get to England I will try and meet you two and take you out for a nice meal and a pint. Hugs and love!
Glad you made it through the dark times, Rick 💜 Thanks!
Love the open discussion of mental health and the pain of depression. You both combine it with everyday joys and happiness. Paul, rip, your story has touched others.
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Awe no Paul...I was so sorry to hear of Pauls passing and chocked to see Colin's reaction to the news. I just wanted to give you a big hug Colin. My heart aches to see you in such pain. It also aches for Paul who felt so desperate that he felt the need to take his own life. Words fail how sad i feel for Paul and his family and for you because i know you feel this very deeply having issues yourself. I am so very grateful that you have Shaun to love and to be loved back. Just remember you are not alone... ok Colin. I so wish Paul had met you because you are an inspiration and never forget that please. Much love from this old lady Heather
Thanks, Heather! 💜
We all carry a little Paul in us. A hurt, wounded, angry frustrated, helpless child needing love, acceptance and understanding. Thank you for what you're doing. It means more than you likely know. Cheers.
Thanks, Mark 💜
You'll never know who you reach, you'll never know who you touch. Your channel is 100% authentic. Yes it's beautifully filmed, and your journeys endlessly fascinating but I suspect your subscribers would follow if you two were walking around a supermarket. Stay healthy, stay true. Thank you for such a moving tribute to Paul, a fellow traveller.
Thank you, Malcolm. Weirdly enough we do get people stopping us in the supermarket 😂
So sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your lives with us. As they say “warts” and all. I too have depression and anxiety but with my faith and thankfully medication it helps so much. I so enjoy your videos.
Thanks, Leona. I'm glad you have a med that has some effect 💜
As always, beautiful for the eyes...and for the heart. Travel well, my friends.
Thank you, Daniel ❤️
One life lost is one too many, but we all know it happens. That Paul took his own life and the pain that made him do so his desperately sad. My sympathy goes to his family and everyone who loved him, including you. Adding the piece to the blog and dedicating it to Paul was a very real way of getting the message home there’s help available. Thank you for your honesty and compassionate.
And it feels a little crass to say this, but some of the most beautiful shots of Silver Fox I’ve ever seen were those in the mist. So atmospheric.
Thanks, Mandella. I hope Sue (Paul's sister) will be reading some of these messages too ❤️ I used the misty shots deliberately to create this sense of sadness. x
Just watched this episode last evening. Blessings on you Colin for doing this work. Not spoken about often. You're putting a light where there is darkness. Thank you from someone who was saved from an attempted suicide years ago.🌹🌹🌹
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I suffer from PTSD, and I cry 2/3 a week if not more , I love you for doing what you do Colin , There are people that are in the same boat so to speak you are not alone , some have it harder than others , I am 67 , and live on my own ,Your videos are a hope for me to get on the canal and and enjoy what the Creator has given us ,My thanks to you and SHAUN, and condolences to your freind and her family .May YAH bless you and keep you and may YAH shine his face upon you and upon shaun and both Families .
Thank you so much, Charles. Sending lots of love! Stay safe! 💜
What's so sad is the number of people taking their lives thanks to lockdown and the lack of contact for so many people. We need to move on - and you're so right about the need to communicate with each other x
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Watching you gives me strength knowing I am not alone in being depressed. I used to be active still suffered but could just to say cope. I am now unable to be so active so I started self harming. It was the only way to stop being suicidal. Most days I look at my tablets and think it would be easier if I go but my insurance policy stops me. Tht money is for my disabled daughters care when I go. Watching you two argue make me laugh. You both are one special couple.
I really do hope you're getting the help you need, Katrine.
Stay strong and much love to you xxxxx
I'm catching up on older vlogs from you two, ok 3 ! This one touched my heart so deeply. My Godson was a Captain in the US Army, having done 3 tours in Iraq. Lucas was always so upbeat, funny and full of hugs and smiles. None of us realized the turmoil,PTSD, etc. going on in his mind. 2 months ago we were awakened to the news that Lucas had committed suicide. Our hearts are broken and opened to this sad reality. Over 22 veterans a day, take their own lives. I'm so sorry for the loss of dear Paul and others fighting this silent battle. My love and hugs to you !! Waves from Kansas USA. Rest in peace Captain Lucas Osborn ! 💔
OMG! I'm lost for words. So so sorry for your loss ❤️❤️❤️
@@FoxesAfloat Thank you ! I just want to spread the word and tell everyone that someone is listening and here for them !! Big ,giant hugs to both of you and love pats to Otis ! Extra treat for Otis from Kristy!! Lol
I get where Paul was coming from. I often watch your videos to cheer myself up. The two of you are rays of sunshine for more people than you know.
Thank you so much, Quentin 👍🏻💜
This is the first video I’ve seen on this channel and I can’t get over the production value- it’s just like a BBC show or something. You can see how work has gone into it.
Thanks, Kate. Must have been a good day editing 😂
you walk with many my friend, love and laughter to you both xx👍👍
Thanks, Neil ❤️
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Very powerful episode. It is so important to get the discussion of mental health issues out into the mainstream and normalize them as problems regular people have that can and should be dealt with.....not hidden away. Thank you for doing this.
On a lighter note I enjoyed seeing a shot of the interior of Silver Fox. While I love the travelogue aspect of your videos I would also enjoy seeing more about day to day boat life. (maintenance, repairs, shopping for supplies and equipment etc etc) Speaking as a non UK viewer a map at the start of the videos to orientate us as to where you are in the UK for this episode would be a great help. (maybe small scale of all of the UK and then zooming in to where you are?) I often google place names but then the resulting maps don't show the canals so I don't get a good idea of that week's journey.
Thanks for the channel....I'm really enjoying working my way through it!
Hi Graeme. A lot of what you said happen further down the line of episodes 👍🏻
My dearest Foxes Afloat,
This video brought tears to my eyes and sadness to my heart. Like others here have written , your videos are so sincerely personalized that we feel as if we have known you both for ages. Although I am 10,000 kilometers removed from you both, it is as if you were the couple next door, beloved of all.
Without being presumptuous, and not always finely attuned to British sensitivities, please allow me to share the following with you..
4 And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.
Señora Lulú du Furret
Buenos Aires
Thank you 💜
You are helping so many to understand mental health and also to get help. You made Paul have joy when watching you and that’s a true gift!
Thanks so much. x
That's so so sad, I'm crying my eyes out here. Rest in peace Paul 🙏
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Love you both!! Thank you for mentioning mental health. I know... It is very real. But you make me happy even when I am up a 3:45 am. Thanks again. 😊
You are a kind hearted man and you are both brilliant to watch on your vlogs and journey. Stay strong and be safe.
Thank you kindly
Hauntingly beautiful and extremely moving. Will stay with me for a very long time 💜
I tried 20 times to film it without crying. In the end I just thought f**k it! It's real! People need to see this. Sending love! ❤️
Thanks for another great "variety performance" boys. For anybody who thinks that they have troubles but are too proud to seek "help", just mention it to your medical consultant in privacy. There really are clever, caring people who can assist, and the burden that they can lift from your shoulders is indescribable. Colin and Shaun, I came for the jokey country ramblings, but I am in awe of the support that you are extending to the many who might just need a hand up. The best advice that I have received for years, was 'to do the opposite of what the depression tells you'. Near impossible initially, but there are ways out of it. Don't suffer for want of trying, folks........
Thank you for your support. Keep coming back, especially for the jokey country rambling 👍❤️❤️
You two lovely chaps are generating love to the masses ,you are invaluable in these dark times .
Wow, thank you
RIP Paul. Like Paul I find you both so entertaining to watch. If I've had a shit day - you cheer me up!
Awwww, hope you don't have many days like that 💜
Thank you for sharing, I lost a very good friend last year due to, among other things that state of Medium Wave (AM) radio, which was his passion, he had helped build the Voice of Vietnam station in Dong Hoi, where I have been for the last 10 months. Sadly we didn't see it coming. Those of us who have dealt with depression can often see what is happening with our friends, sadly we didn't see this one coming.
So sorry 💜
Just catching up on the comments from today's post which are so heartfelt. I've come to thinking you guys accidentally, are a unique conduit of what is beautiful and sad in this ever so, so called dynamic world: to give us space to think, enjoy, celebrate and love. Sometimes, we need an earth to stop, touch, feel, smell, hear and see again. The above are our basic senses we were given but, have lost tune with. Thank you personally from me to helping me connect see with these again through your eyes and inspiration. I love Friday's at 4 and the new adventures it gives me. Jx :)
Jex, I don't know what to say in reply. Lost for words for once.
Tough vlog to comment on this week ❤️
Like many. I'm steadily working my way through the journey of Silver Fox, and I viewed this episode two nights ago, but I only got a name tonight, to be able to comment. You are a lovely couple, full of fun, and the outtakes are suberb, and it's nice to see that the "Seadog" has his own personal safety gear! Colin, your tribute was really heartfelt, you are a very compassionate person, and I don't mind admitting, I shed a few tears with you. My very best wishes to all three of you.
Hi, Nammo 👋
Thank you so much for commenting. I hope you're enjoying the journey so far. xx
I found myself on my bed up against the wall crying after a really bad week and thinking of you and your bravery really really helped me, thank you for all you do for us,, thank you for speaking out.
I'm really sorry, Kathy! Thanks for being open 💜
Hey Colin, it’s so good to hear a man talk about tough stuff. It almost seems antithetical to talk about hard issues. I have frontal temporal degeneration, a type of dementia. It was hard to accept and I experienced a lot of depression, some I later attributed to grieving over the things I could no loner do like driving and being alone with small children due my short attention span. I only started feeling acceptance of my condition by doing what you suggested, talking with others who were safe to talk with. I also learned to allow myself to grieve and at times to be depressed. I almost always realized it wasn’t me but my condition causing my issues. Once I realized I couldn’t make it go away I was better able to accept it and try to live one day at a time. Even with my better acceptance at times in the moment the depression will return and somehow I now better accept it, though with a struggle. For me Acceptance is built on relationships with others who have my same struggles and hearing them discuss their hard stuff. You have been a blessing sharing your hard issues and your channel is one I go to for enjoyment when true enjoyment is at times hard to come by. You have been a true blessing for me and I so enjoy the history you share. You and Shaun have had more ups and downs, especially with all your lock adventures (bad canal joke). You guys keep being yourself and real - sorry about the rambling.
WOW! Great big man hugs to you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Great to see Martin Zero with you on your mini-adventure in the Harcastle South Tunnel. Have enjoyed his videos for several years.
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Great to see Martin Zero getting dirty in a tunnel.... My condolences to Sue and her family... Thank you for talking about Paul and treating him and his memory with respect.
Thanks, Daniel ❤️
Hello from Tasmania, Australia..... That was a moving tribute to your friend Paul. And a big thumbs up for being brave enough, and honest enough, to talk openly about depression......
Thank you. ❤️
You are a great couple. Thank you for sharing your lives with us and making the world a kinder and caring place.
Thanks, Chris ❤️
The beauty of of cold crisp autumn /winter days in the British countryside brought to your living room by your amazing video skills. Truly superb guys.
So sad to hear Paul’s story but unfortunately it reflects that of a close friend of mine who took his own life earlier this year leaving a devastated wife and 4 yr old daughter. He was the most gregarious outgoing fun guy , the life and soul of every gathering but had demons he tried to battle alone. A battle he lost. Maybe we can look back with the benefit of hindsight and say the signs were there for us to see but at the time we really had no idea that he needed serious help. Some say it was a selfish act but all I can think is that he was going through a hell of his own with suicide the only escape and we failed him. So yes - you are right - YOU HAVE TO TALK to someone .....anyone.
God bless guys
Hi, Paul 👋
I'm so sorry that you know the pain of suicide of someone close. I'm sorry if this brought back that pain. You're right. We can come across as happy and outgoing, but the demons inside us are in control . Sending love ❤️
Great video as always and thank you for highlighting mental health issues. Isn't it strange how national and local governments always have enough public money for themselves - high incomes, second homes, new offices, travel and dining expenses etc but never enough for front line services. It is a disgrace and they should be ashamed.
Anyway, had to look up Colleys Mill but then remembered another series (OMG I'm old!!) so try this without the internet - who was pongo the pirate?
All the best.
Ah, I did Google Pongo (Never heard of him) LOL! Well before my time 😂
You guys are an inspiration to us all.....I have suffered with mental depression and I hid the problem. I love your vlogs and am slowly catching up......it helps me relax ....love the out takes
Thanks, Michael! Happy catching up!
It’s hard to hear of someone who has passed because of mental health issues.
I’m not ashamed to say that I cried when you mentioned this.
I still suffer from depression but take it a day at a time.
Condolences to Paul’s family.
These issues need to be talked about.
Sending you hugs 🤗
Thanks, Simon 💜
Foxes Afloat
You’re welcome lads 💜
Thank you for a very meaningful, very important vlog. Heart hugs to you and to Sue. RIP Paul.
Thank you ❤️
Brilliant video. As a retired mental health nurse my advice was and is to talk, encourage everyone to talk, just talk talk talk, someone will listen and then it starts from there, recovery is always possible, respect to you two
Thank you 💜
Thank you again for sharing about mental health. It does mean a lot to those of us that care about someone that struggles with it. I am sorry about Paul. You guys brought him joy. Carry on gents.
Thank you. ❤️
Hi Colin watching all your blogs from number 1, just like to say keep strong, keep talking about mental health issues. I worked as a psychotherapist working with all forms of mental health for years but retired early aged 60 to have a rest but we need more people to offer mental health support
I totally agree!
Thank you for expressing your feelings I find your adventures comforting and makes me think about you as a friend that I haven’t met yet.
Wow, thank you