Devastating News on our Narrowboat Journey Down Heartbreak Hill Locks - Ep. 79
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- Опубліковано 4 лип 2024
- A day of tears & tunnels and devastating news on our narrowboat journey down Heartbreak Hill locks, (well, some of them) officially known as the Cheshire Locks. Colin explores the abandoned Harecastle South Railway Tunnel with fellow UA-cam explorer @MartinZero, and get's filthy!
Onwards exploring Britain by Narrowboat, we leave Church Lawton, heading north through Rode Heath and Thurlwood, where we find out about Thurlwood Steel Lock, then on to the village of Betchton and towards Hassell Green. We moor narrowboat Silver Fox at Lock 57 where Colin receives some bad news.
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In the North Georgia Mountains in the US, I “live vicariously” through you two. I don’t ever plan to step foot on a narrow boat, but the miracle of technology connects me to two wonderful people who share their journey with us. May you always know happiness and joy in each other’s company. Thank you both very much!
Thanks, Frank! I hope you enjoy your vicarious travels as much as we hope you do ❤️
The more people who speak out, the more people who will understand Colin as you well know. Mental health depends on it. Mental illness is not something we choose. With physical conditions positive wellbeing is not dependent on the absence of disease such as arthritis or a limb missing etc. You can have a happy and productive life and that is a given now. You are proving to your followers that mental health and well being are not dependent on the absence of any illness. I hope that makes sense. You two are my early Saturday morning go to. It is getting quite hot some days in Oz now. Our turn for long days of sunshine. Richard from down under.
@@Trickywoo54 Thanks, Richard ❤️
Every time we watch this we cry with you. Being “real” is what makes you guys feel like family and why we watch and watch.
Thanks so much guys 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
Couldn't agree MORE!! I Love being able to watch your videos, always brings a smile
Never doubt that you both talking about mental health is helpful and good. You are a blessing to many.
Thank you so much, Kath 💜
Since having a very serious heart attack 3 years ago (age 54) I have suffered with severe anxiety and depression. I have quite possibly had it for much longer but didn't realise; and it took this life changing event to make me understand what it was. As a roughy toughy Firefighter it took me some time to admit to myself let alone others that I needed help. After a short while I received professional help and it has really helped my recovery. I now also find it easier to talk to people about it today. I still have bad days and just want to be left alone. The main thing that suprised me was how my heart attack and subsequent Heart By-pass surgery had such a massive effect on me mentally as well as physically (something that the hospital didn't warn me about). But the message I now tell other people is the well know phrase that "It is OK to not be OK" So as you say, talk to people and seek help as soon as possible. Thank you Guys for being so open on Mental Health Issues and a lovely Vlog and tribute to Paul. My thoughts are with his family. PS I also purchased a narrow boat in August and our trips out on the cut help tremendously. :-)
I hope a lot of our viewers read you comment 💜
@@FoxesAfloat Traffords Finest! I love that expression "That it is not ok to be ok!' It is so true and will get people talking. I say to my kids it is okay to not get get things right and through this you experience so more lessons. It makes you talk, analyse and see a different perspective to learn and hopefully get it right for you We all manage our paths and directions in different ways, but try and be true to yourself and others. Enjoy your boat and thank you for your words. I too hope may read this and find inspiration. J :)
Colin, you are wonderful. Tell Sue that the whole country, no, even the whole world, through your vlogs, were joining you in your tears for the loss of her brother, and our heartfelt thoughts are with her and the family. xx
I'm sure Sue will be reading these messages too ❤️
I've spent a life time of not talking about it but you,re right we should be more open . Never apologise for caring about others you,re a good man Colin .
From an old sod with a tear in his eye .
Thanks, Bruce ❤️
Hi Guys. I had to write this after seeing your vlog and talking about Paul who took his own life. As a counsellor I frequently see people who feel as if opting out would be a better option than staying alive. Its a very lonely place for them and the only people who truly understand are those who have been there themselves! I think Colin is doing a great job of telling it how it really is when he feels bad. Sean is a truly loving support for Colin. Talking openly about mental health problems brings it out into the open and helps down play the stigma still attached to it. Things are getting better thankfully with more well known personalities talking about their own mental health issues too. You are both helping in this worthy cause. I know you dont like things too serious guys so end of essay! I lurve your vlogs. D xx
Thanks, Debbie! Lovely words. Shaun really is a hero to me. I don't know how he copes with me sometimes. xx
@@FoxesAfloat Its simple Colin. He loves you! Have a wonderful Xmas and New Year. ❤
Thank you for the tribute to Paul. I hope that perhaps someday we'll treat mental health issues as seriously as physical health issues. The world doesn't seem to treat it with the same care as a broken leg when in actuality, it can be as life threatening as cancer. I'm sorry for Paul's pain and for all others that suffer in silence.
I totally agree 💜
Colin, your vlogs were a light in the darkness for Paul, and while, in the end, he did not survive that darkness, YOU helped keep the light in his life longer. I know that it is not really a great comfort to hear this, but it is true. With Paul's depression, without you, he could have chosen to end his life months sooner, and you have to cling to that. The darkness is indeed an evil thing, and the fight against it is indeed a difficult struggle. And, unfortunately, the battle isn't always won.
Sending hugs to you and to Sue.
Thank you. What a lovely message.
Perhaps you're right, but nobody should have to get to that stage in the first place 😢
I've just had to stop the Vlog there to compose myself. What a wonderful & beautiful tribute. My love thoughts & support go to Sue and her family for letting you talk about this silent killer. RIP Paul may your mind be free and I hope you see the sky & stars so clear.
Awesome words, Jez, just awesome. ❤️
Such a sad story but what a brilliant way to remember Paul, i'm sure Sue will think fondly of him everytime she watches Foxes Afloat! In this mad world mental illness seems to be on the increase and its people like you Collin who are helping! Great video.
Thank you so much, Helen ❤️
Sad news indeed. Tragic. Reminds me of Thoreau's quote: "The mass of men live lives of quiet desperation." You just never know what people are going through. Be kind to everyone you meet.
Well said 💜👍🏻
Too many people on social media forget they are human beings.
You don’t.
Thank you for that!
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Thanks guys great to see you again. Bitter sweet video. Sorry to hear about Paul 💙
Yeah, sad news. Looking forward to seeing my arse on Sunday 😂
I’ve only just seen this vlog - I was aware of Colin’s mental health from earlier ones - and I found the mention of Sue and Paul quite moving. At the end, when you included Paul’s surname, it made me realise that we were kids together, growing up as neighbours in South Manchester. My own son took his life, age 17, almost 6 years ago. I’m reaching out in case Sue ever wants to make contact. Thanks, Colin and Shaun, for being educational, informative, funny and just for being yourselves.
WOW! So sorry you lost your son, I can't imagine how you feel. Lots of love
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I know sadness boys but I want you to know that I enjoy your journeys so very much. In life we are often given times we are not prepared for but keeping a smile on your face is so important. I often watch your videos to cheer up and zone out dreaming of a vacation on a narrow boat.
My youngest daughters husband was killed over in Afghanistan and 18 months afterwards my daughter died as well. Her grief took her away from us and some days it’s impossible to function. On top of all that, at 62 yrs of age I ended up with my grandchild to raise.
Their child had nobody but me, orphaned by grief. It’s so unfair. But this child has been the saving grace for me. I never thought I would be raising a toddler at this point in my life but I am.
This child brings joy into my life that I never thought I would ever have again.
I’m so sorry to hear about your fan and friend. No matter how despondent one gets, always remember how lucky you actually are to have companionship and love in your life. Keep on smiling boys, life’s a journey and every day a new one.
I do enjoy your videos and I thank you for your sincerity and transparency.
Peace to you both
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Thank you so much. I'm not good with words but that was a lovely message. Thanks! 💜💜💜💜💜💜
Great video and very touching. My partner took her own life just 8 month after us starting out journey on the boat which was 18 months ago. She was only 26 years old. Now I'm living our dreams for both of us and have just purchased a narrow boat selling our widebeam and I'm going to cruise the canals with our dogs. Stay safe ❤️
I'm so sorry! I hope watching this wasn't too painful. Let us know if we ever pass, we can share cake! ❤️
Love cake so would love that. And obviously meeting you both... ❤️😍🎂
10 years ago I was suffering with Depression and other health issues and had no positive support from the NHS Mental Health Team, I was basically told to "pull myself together", so unfortunately, I did attempt suicide and received no sympathy from the Medical Team, the next morning the consultant said "well at least you haven't done your liver in" and with a look of contempt discharged me without any follow up with a Mental Health team., if it hadn't been for my Wife's support I don't think I would be here today. I know it can be difficult but talking to someone is a must. Keep the vlogs coming we love watching them.
James, no, that's so sad. I know from my own experiences how poor mental health treatment is in the UK but your experience sounds horrific. I'm so sorry. xx
James Carder I’m sorry you had to go through that. And shame on all of those who treated you so poorly. It just goes to show that any ignorant, or evil person for that matter can get a degree. And that piece of paper means nothing if you don’t have decency! I have experienced these kind of people, but I now have a great doctor. I hope you do too!
I don't know what anyone could ask more of a vlog...entertainment, pathos, sadness, joy...we laugh with you, we cry with you and we feel for you both.
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Man, don't apologize for crying! We all do it, it is not a bad thing! It helps cope with stuff, feels like it cleans out the bad emotions to an extend. It can be so refreshing and help so much at times!
Be proud of being able to let it out like that, many people can't do that because they have been told to hold it back and see it as a bad thing..
And thsi is truely devastating, even tho I don't believe in life after death, I shure hope if there is anything like that he enjoys his time cruising the fines canals and finding the best mouring spots!
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HI lad's yes the weather is getting more colder now, well done to you colin for broadcasting about paul,,you did the right thing by doing, what you had to do reading that letter . The emtion showed by you,about somebody, you have never met,just goes to show how much a person can be affected by other peoples action's. i applaud your decision to broadcast it.it also shows by your emotion when reading the letter ,what a very special person you are, shaun is very lucky to have you..
Thanks, Peter ❤️
Very moving tribute, if only more people in this world could be as loving and thoughtful as you guys.
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You guys touch the hearts of so many! What a great gift you have been given.
Thank you, Richard. Sending love ❤️
Ohh Colin, your love and compassion shines out from you. I am a mental health professional with a daughter who has psychotic depression which has led to her trying to end her life on four occasions, she is currently well and has a fabulous partner. We all need to talk about mental health and you are doing an amazing job at making it easier to talk. May your friend Paul now rest in peace, please send my love to his family and as always much love to you and Sean, Anita x
Hi, Anita. What a lovely message. I'm so sorry that your daughter has suffered, but it sounds like she's had fantastic support from you and her partner. We're the lucky ones. I juts wish the NHS had the resources to help everyone in need. Sending love! ❤️
Another joyous vlog.
You HAVE changed people's attitudes. You HAVE touched lives.
You bring joy to THOUSANDS of people every week. Let that sink in for a moment. Internalize it. I believe on you both. Carry on with the great adventures. Make them for yourselves... (just let me watch once in a while. )
Thank you, Douglas. It won’t sink in though. I still don’t see it 😂
I'm trying to think of something to say.... But I can't. Know this Colin, Shaun... we are all your mates on here that's why we follow your journeys, we may not be physically there with you but we share your lives in some way or fashion which makes a lot of people happy. You bring joy and laughter to all who subscribe, as you did to Paul. RIP Paul xx
Thanks, Steven. There doesn't have to be any words. ❤️
Thank you, Steven, that was well said.
Wow I can’t tell you how sad that was. You guys really are superb though. It breaks my heart that people go through these mental struggles. You’re both so beautiful and funny. Really love all of your videos, and there’s absolutely no wonder that Paul loved you both. I know I’m late but Rest In Peace Paul, and best of best wishes to you both x ❤️ x
Thank you 💜
I don't know you, I didn't know Paul, but still I was touched by your fantastic tribute
Thanks Bryan.
@@FoxesAfloat You obviously were a bright light in what looks like his dark room - you could do no more lads
Well done you two for this weeks vlog. My dad took his life 20 yrs ago from mental illness and I’m having my own battles. I’m looking to retire early in April next year and get my own narrow boat and follow you. Keep smiling lads and putting a smile on our faces xx
I'm so sorry, Jonathan. I hope watching this didn't hurt too much. I'm sure Sue will be reading these message too ❤️
omg colin, this video had me in tears, the internet connects us with people all over the world that we have never met. i lost a friend iv never met, we played a online game together and i did a utube show about the game, when we lost him to cancer i did a tribute to him at end of our weekly show and it got played at his funeral. some guy from australia i never met touched my life. never underestimate the internet colin, im from UK
Wow! Weird how things work out 💜
@@FoxesAfloat what you two do is an insperation to others, keep up the fantastic videos. ptsd depression and all the rest i fight daily, i say, you can do it colin and shawn/sean
I thought I loved watching you guys for the sheer joy you take in your journeys and in each other..but I was wrong. I love watching you because you are so real and human and genuinely loving. We néed more of that in this world.
Cheers, Buffy! Always be honest, always be you 💜
How kind and sensitive you are, Collin, is just lovely! I'm sure this tribute to Paul means a lot to his family! Bless you and Shaun for doing it.🦊🦊💗🦊🦊💗
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Thank you for this. My older brother died by suicide 7 years ago (I was 50, he was 53). Please keep talking about mental health. It's so important.Thank you.
I'm so sorry. I hope this didn't hurt too much to watch ❤️
Thank you Colin. Being out about this is very important. I appreciate your candor and courage. You and Shaun are fine people. I'm very glad to have discovered you and your wanderings.
I appreciate that 💜
I read somewhere that "you may not be able to light up the world, but you can be a candle to someone in need". You were Paul's candle.
Thanks, Rod 💜
Colin: How strong you are to share you're thoughts and feelings about what is a common thing for many of us. Sean: Bless you for your ongoing support to many of us. Lastly, (I hate giving unsolicited advice but...) like many of us, Colin appologised when he started crying. My friend, NEVER appologize for how you feel! Applogize for how you act, what you do, how you treat others... but NEVER for how you feel!
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Colin and Shaun, this was the most beautiful tribute to Paul and never think that you don't make a huge difference (often unsaid, usually unseen) in people's lives. We are relatively new to your channel, but my husband and I watch --and are catching up--whenever we can. Your honesty, vulnerability, humor and storytelling are refreshing in the world today. Thank you.
Wow, thank you!
You are so right Kath, my wife & I came across one of The Foxes vlogs a couple of weeks ago & have started watching them from the start, we’re about halfway through now & not looking forward to catching up, as we’ll then have to wait a whole week for each vlog.
It’s so refreshing & better than anything on TV at the moment, Shauns facial expressions crack me up & Both my wife & I were crying with laughter when they read out Mr Rimmers question on an earlier question & answer blog.
So sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your lives with us. As they say “warts” and all. I too have depression and anxiety but with my faith and thankfully medication it helps so much. I so enjoy your videos.
Thanks, Leona. I'm glad you have a med that has some effect 💜
That must've been tough to share Colin, but thank you for being so open and caring.
Thanks, Peter ❤️
Oh how sad, so sorry Colin, tears listening to you, just so sad hearing your story about your friend who you didn't get to meet. But he's in a place now where nothing can hurt him - he might even be looking down on you guys on your narrowboat thinking "they made a right cods up of going through that lock, couple of toss pots." Keep smiling lad, we're smiling with you guys. Thanks so much for the vlogs, you always cheer me up if I'm a bit down.
Cheers, Frank! That means so much 💜
People sometimes regard showing emotion as a sign of weakness. But talking about mental health and the way it has affected you takes real strength. All power to You.
Thank you, Allen ❤️
What's so sad is the number of people taking their lives thanks to lockdown and the lack of contact for so many people. We need to move on - and you're so right about the need to communicate with each other x
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Oh darlings! The tribute you paid to Paul was so beautiful and moving. And thank you to his sister for allowing you to speak about him to highlight such an important issue. May he rest in peace, may his family find comfort in the knowledge that his story will inspire people to seek the help they need. And may you continue to reach people with your humour, compassion and wonderfully informative vlogs xxx
Thanks, Denise 💜
You are a kind hearted man and you are both brilliant to watch on your vlogs and journey. Stay strong and be safe.
Thank you kindly
such a lovely tribute to Paul, It takes a big man to cry openly. the way you share your feelings is an inspiration to anyone suffering this dreadful illness, you are an Angel with dirty knees
An angel with dirty knees. I like it 😂 Thanks, Philip ❤️
This was a lovely video.Your thoughts about Paul are so touching - thank you for sharing - what special guys you both are.
Thank you! ❤️
As always, beautiful for the eyes...and for the heart. Travel well, my friends.
Thank you, Daniel ❤️
Super massive hug to all who need it.
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But for the grace of God, my wife and family I would've joined Paul (RIP) 2 months ago.. You are so right Colin, we need to talk about what's going on inside of ourselves.. I couldn't see the wood for the trees and so no way out and that led me to a dark place.. I admire you for your courage in speaking out about mental health issues, it so needs to be brought into main-stream and recognised and addressed with compassion and love. Thank you for your strength and openness Colin..
I'm glad you're here to say that 💜
Mental illness is like chess, first the pawns move and then the bigger players and then you find yourself in checkmate. Don't underestimate the pawns, they all have a pattern, each move making you more detached until you feel so alone and in dispair. Seek out the triggers, be honest and make a counter move before the big players start to make their moves.
you walk with many my friend, love and laughter to you both xx👍👍
Thanks, Neil ❤️
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Lovely tribute. You are a very sweet man. I have been a mental health nurse here in the states for years. Please remember to keep in touch with your doctor and follow through on any therapies. I love watching your videos when I get home from work after a rough shift. You and Shaun help more people than you realize.
Unfortunately, the mental health services here are useless. All of my previous GPs just want to send me away with meds that have side effects worse than the symptoms they're supposed to mask.
I have a friend in the states, trapped in the mental health system. I don't envy your job.
@@FoxesAfloat thank you Colin... you are so right in what you say. There is no help and yes the meds they want you to take are full of side effects as my son found out. It is soul destroying trying to get help for him. Just thank you for highlighting it all.💜.
hi guys, thanks for this respectfull vlog. i cried along with you when you talked about Paul and what happened ... my thoughts are with his family and friends... somehow though the hazy footage at the beginning of the vlog seemed to fit in just right ..
a big hug for you ..
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Thanks, Fenna. That was exactly why that footage was in there ❤️
Colin, please don't let the suffering of others get you down. I hope you feel no guilt or shame for your honesty (and vlogged adventures). As one more person with MH issues, watching your videos gives me great joy and often gives me a shot of happiness I might not get otherwise. And your candid comments regarding MH is very illuminating . . . we are not alone. The two of you are providing a great public service and so many of us really appreciate it. Cheers mate!
It hasn't got me down, I was just very very sad for Paul and his family. I don't feel any guilt or shame, just sadness that people didn't get the support they needed. People shouldn't have to die like this. That's what makes me sad. ❤️
This has been one of the most heartfelt pieces I have seen for a long time!!! With sharing Pauls story you may have hopefully helped others to come forward to share their issues with friends and/or family so they may seek help!!One thing I will say is please never, ever, ever apologise for showing your feelings because when we show our feelings then it just might help others to show theirs. Total respect to you two and Pauls sister, Sue, for this vlog!!!!
Thank you, Grant 💜 I’m sure Paul’s sister will be reading the comments too
I’ve struggled with depression for 1/3 of my life; it can be shocking and definitely humbling. I have found speaking about my struggles in various contexts has conquered any stigma of shame. We all struggle with something and it is healing to share it together. As always, thank you for your transparency and spirit of perseverance. Love to both of you.
Thanks Judy. Sending love 💜
Thank you for expressing your feelings I find your adventures comforting and makes me think about you as a friend that I haven’t met yet.
Wow, thank you
Great video as always and thank you for highlighting mental health issues. Isn't it strange how national and local governments always have enough public money for themselves - high incomes, second homes, new offices, travel and dining expenses etc but never enough for front line services. It is a disgrace and they should be ashamed.
Anyway, had to look up Colleys Mill but then remembered another series (OMG I'm old!!) so try this without the internet - who was pongo the pirate?
All the best.
Ah, I did Google Pongo (Never heard of him) LOL! Well before my time 😂
Awe no Paul...I was so sorry to hear of Pauls passing and chocked to see Colin's reaction to the news. I just wanted to give you a big hug Colin. My heart aches to see you in such pain. It also aches for Paul who felt so desperate that he felt the need to take his own life. Words fail how sad i feel for Paul and his family and for you because i know you feel this very deeply having issues yourself. I am so very grateful that you have Shaun to love and to be loved back. Just remember you are not alone... ok Colin. I so wish Paul had met you because you are an inspiration and never forget that please. Much love from this old lady Heather
Thanks, Heather! 💜
You are a great couple. Thank you for sharing your lives with us and making the world a kinder and caring place.
Thanks, Chris ❤️
Just watched this episode last evening. Blessings on you Colin for doing this work. Not spoken about often. You're putting a light where there is darkness. Thank you from someone who was saved from an attempted suicide years ago.🌹🌹🌹
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Rest in peace Paul .
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Hi Colin , so so sad to hear of Paul’s death. I was in tears watching you talking about how much Paul wanted to meet up with you and Shaun . Colin you are an inspiration having the courage to speak of mental health issues , it is literally a dark horse for many people and talking does help. Thank you ever so much for the inspiring , funny , beautiful blogs you create for us all to watch Colin I speak for us all who eagerly await your weekly report , we love you both so much and of course Dylan , a merry Christmas to you both from Australia. We still have terrible bushfires here and still very very hot and dry . Take care xxxxxxxxxxx from Aussie Land
Thank you so much. I'm not very good with words tonight so I just want to say thank you. I hope the fires go soon and that you have a lovely Christmas too ❤️
Thank you for sharing, I lost a very good friend last year due to, among other things that state of Medium Wave (AM) radio, which was his passion, he had helped build the Voice of Vietnam station in Dong Hoi, where I have been for the last 10 months. Sadly we didn't see it coming. Those of us who have dealt with depression can often see what is happening with our friends, sadly we didn't see this one coming.
So sorry 💜
Greetings from New York; USA.Colin, you are amazing. Beautiful tribute to your friend. I could never say I know what you're going thru. Just know that you have the support of your husband and your viewers, and we hope you stay strong. A few years ago, my husband and I were "adopted" by a young man with Autism who did not have a very positive home life. We are his 'Dad' and 'Dadders' now. Over the years, we and friends, have helped him and fortunately, he is now in a much more stable environment. He still has minor episodes, but they are few and far between.I'm so glad I found your videos, and enjoy tracing your travels on the Canal and River Trust maps. Before we met, my husband used to travel to visit a friend in Bournemouth once a year, and tell me of his travels around England/France. I so hoped to get there some day, and if the chance (and funds) ever make that possible, would love to give both you guys a big hug...for bringing your travels to the internet so we can travel vicariously.Thank you, stay strong, be well, and wishing you both a Merry Christmas and a Happy, Healthy New Year. P.S. A big hug to Molly.From Dan and Rusty and our dog Taz
Hi guys 👋
Thank you so much for your message. The young man who adopted you is quite the lucky fella, as are you for being found 😂 If you do manage to get the funds together you'll love the British countryside by narrowboat ❤️
You two lovely chaps are generating love to the masses ,you are invaluable in these dark times .
Wow, thank you
Hi Colin watching all your blogs from number 1, just like to say keep strong, keep talking about mental health issues. I worked as a psychotherapist working with all forms of mental health for years but retired early aged 60 to have a rest but we need more people to offer mental health support
I totally agree!
Thank you for a very meaningful, very important vlog. Heart hugs to you and to Sue. RIP Paul.
Thank you ❤️
You are helping so many to understand mental health and also to get help. You made Paul have joy when watching you and that’s a true gift!
Thanks so much. x
God bless the Gissing family as they come to terms with the loss of Paul. We all have our demons to battle. Some small, some large. Ultimately sometimes the fight is too much. May Paul find the peace in Heaven that eluded him on earth.
Incredible words, John. Thank you. ❤️
Thank you for your vulnerability and your honest and unashamed discussion of MH. There are over 3,000 comments on here yet that number won't be anywhere near the real number of viewers who needed its message yet didn't comment. Never doubt that you're doing the work of the angels.
Aww, thanks, Sam!
I suffer from depression and anxiety and PTSD so I do understand RIP Paul.
Thanks, Adrian. Sorry that you suffer too. ❤️
Watching you gives me strength knowing I am not alone in being depressed. I used to be active still suffered but could just to say cope. I am now unable to be so active so I started self harming. It was the only way to stop being suicidal. Most days I look at my tablets and think it would be easier if I go but my insurance policy stops me. Tht money is for my disabled daughters care when I go. Watching you two argue make me laugh. You both are one special couple.
I really do hope you're getting the help you need, Katrine.
Stay strong and much love to you xxxxx
Hi guys,I'm in Brattleboro Vermont. I cry with you and I laugh with you. I watch u every night. 2 years ago I lost everything including my 4 year old daughter. She was taking away from me. Since then I have been working my ass off trying to rebuild my life and you guys help to keep me going. You Britton my life. Thank you for what do.because if it wasn't for you guys my depression would have gotten along time ago
I'm really sorry to hear about your loss. Please stay strong :) x
Hey Colin, it’s so good to hear a man talk about tough stuff. It almost seems antithetical to talk about hard issues. I have frontal temporal degeneration, a type of dementia. It was hard to accept and I experienced a lot of depression, some I later attributed to grieving over the things I could no loner do like driving and being alone with small children due my short attention span. I only started feeling acceptance of my condition by doing what you suggested, talking with others who were safe to talk with. I also learned to allow myself to grieve and at times to be depressed. I almost always realized it wasn’t me but my condition causing my issues. Once I realized I couldn’t make it go away I was better able to accept it and try to live one day at a time. Even with my better acceptance at times in the moment the depression will return and somehow I now better accept it, though with a struggle. For me Acceptance is built on relationships with others who have my same struggles and hearing them discuss their hard stuff. You have been a blessing sharing your hard issues and your channel is one I go to for enjoyment when true enjoyment is at times hard to come by. You have been a true blessing for me and I so enjoy the history you share. You and Shaun have had more ups and downs, especially with all your lock adventures (bad canal joke). You guys keep being yourself and real - sorry about the rambling.
WOW! Great big man hugs to you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I really appreciate that you take us down those tunnels and the like. Thank you.
Our pleasure, Ragnar! 👍🏻
This is the first time I've written, moved to do so. Ups and downs are a part of our lives. I've consoled myself with the thought that there is always light at the end of the tunnel (no joke intended!). You have achieved a very great deal of highly professional presentation and there may be much greater things ahead for you. Good health, good luck and keep on entertaining and informing us, both of you.
Thanks so much Andrew for commenting for the first time. Take care 👍🏻💜
Love you both!! Thank you for mentioning mental health. I know... It is very real. But you make me happy even when I am up a 3:45 am. Thanks again. 😊
Hey Colin. Thank you for your moving tribute to Paul. You are a beautiful caring am compassionate man and I admire you for the way you deal with living with mental ilness. Please take coomfort in the fact that although Paul sadly didnt get the help he needed with tragic circumstanses, it is very obvious that you and Shawn brought a lot of happiness to his life. I am sending you a huge hug and my sincere condolencies to Pauls sister.
On Another note I would really like to say that everytime iI watch an episode you video production just gets better and better, and as a professional drone pilot your drone footage is superb.
Keep up the great work guys and keep on making friday at 4 pm the highlight of my week
Thank you so much 💜
You really thought you would come back clean with Martin??😂😂
Watched him for over 2yrs now - waders, overalls and waterproofs and a life jacket with him......
Windy Miller was coleys mill if I remember right?
As for you and mental health issues, you are an ambassador for people - you have spoke up for the people that can not do that! For that, I can only hold you in high regard! Please keep on doing what you do, no matter what the struggle, you have to overcome yourself! To show people there is a way, to get through the hard times! I bow to you.....
Haha! It was Colly’s Mill 👍🏻
Thank you for the lovely comment, Simon. 💜
As a young lad I walked through the harecastle Tunnel many times , and red bull as far as I’m aware took its name from the two public houses of the same name one is adjacent to the lock , by the bridge of the A34 , the other is just about 200 yards up the from the first red bull pub , although it became an Indian restaurant, they were locally known as the top and bottom bull , in fact just further up the road from the Top bull , is the birthplace of Reginald Mitchell, the designer of the spitfire , that’s the village of butt lane , where I was born .
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@@FoxesAfloat I’m full of useless information of that area , I spent most of my childhood playing around the Trent and Mersey and Macclesfield canal , and watching the trains trundle past on the kidsgrove to Crewe branch line ,I even did my apprenticeship at Crewe locomotive works , seems like yesterday, but in my mid 50s now ,but still a young lad at heart . Must say I do enjoy watching your vlogs such humour, and honesty. 👍🏻
This also brought a tear to my eyes my Mom took her life back in 1977. You try but you never really get over it. Please reach out to people you know are going through a rough time.
Great words. I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. I hope I didn't hurt you too much by showing this ❤️
Thank you for sharing your devistation about Paul.its such a humbling thing to see a man cry.when something makes us laugh we all laugh so why should a man not express their devestation at a tragic loss of a friend.
Your an inspiration to other men and mental health.
A lovely video despite the sad news.great footage from the drone.
We have beautiful countrysides here.we are so lucky.x
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Just catching up on the comments from today's post which are so heartfelt. I've come to thinking you guys accidentally, are a unique conduit of what is beautiful and sad in this ever so, so called dynamic world: to give us space to think, enjoy, celebrate and love. Sometimes, we need an earth to stop, touch, feel, smell, hear and see again. The above are our basic senses we were given but, have lost tune with. Thank you personally from me to helping me connect see with these again through your eyes and inspiration. I love Friday's at 4 and the new adventures it gives me. Jx :)
Jex, I don't know what to say in reply. Lost for words for once.
Tough vlog to comment on this week ❤️
You guys are an inspiration to us all.....I have suffered with mental depression and I hid the problem. I love your vlogs and am slowly catching up......it helps me relax ....love the out takes
Thanks, Michael! Happy catching up!
Great to see Martin Zero with you on your mini-adventure in the Harcastle South Tunnel. Have enjoyed his videos for several years.
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Very powerful episode. It is so important to get the discussion of mental health issues out into the mainstream and normalize them as problems regular people have that can and should be dealt with.....not hidden away. Thank you for doing this.
On a lighter note I enjoyed seeing a shot of the interior of Silver Fox. While I love the travelogue aspect of your videos I would also enjoy seeing more about day to day boat life. (maintenance, repairs, shopping for supplies and equipment etc etc) Speaking as a non UK viewer a map at the start of the videos to orientate us as to where you are in the UK for this episode would be a great help. (maybe small scale of all of the UK and then zooming in to where you are?) I often google place names but then the resulting maps don't show the canals so I don't get a good idea of that week's journey.
Thanks for the channel....I'm really enjoying working my way through it!
Hi Graeme. A lot of what you said happen further down the line of episodes 👍🏻
Thank you for this vlog and for telling us about Paul. I'm so terribly sad and sorry for what happened. Thank you for sharing your lives with us. All the best to you and to Paul's family. Alex
Thank you 💜
We all carry a little Paul in us. A hurt, wounded, angry frustrated, helpless child needing love, acceptance and understanding. Thank you for what you're doing. It means more than you likely know. Cheers.
Thanks, Mark 💜
I'm watching this just now and writing with tears in my eyes.
You both are amazing and thanks to you I'm starting to realize what's bothering me sometimes, short and minor episodes of depression.
I'm also lucky to have a partner who loves me and we support each other for over 20 years now.
Sorry you suffer too 💜 Great you also have a supportive partner 👍🏻
Your videos are always powerful, usually bringing laughs and joy. Today you also brought tears. Never underestimate what an important role you play in this harsh world. Sending love.
Thank you, Nick. ❤️
The most respectful and beautiful way to discuss a difficult subject. It’s in our house as well. My daughter. She is medicated and that is working very well. Always, always important to get help.
Thanks, Lee. I wasn't sure how to do that one. Sorry your daughter suffers, but I'm relieved she at least has great support from you 💜 Thanks for commenting 👍🏻
I appreciate how open you have been about your own struggles. I have been dealing with depression and other mental health issues for more than 2 decades now. I hope that Paul's family keeps all of their memories of him fresh in their minds and hearts. Your dedication of this video to him is amazing and I'm so happy to see it.
I wanted to let you know that I only stumbled upon your vlogs within the last week, and they've been helping me deal with the isolation and stay at home orders here in Florida, USA. I wish I could go over and see some of these amazing places you keep showing us. Thank you so much for sharing all of this with us.
Thank you so much for a lovely message. Stay strong and enjoy the journey with us! 💜
Re Windy’s windmill............Colly’s Mill!😉😉👌
It is! 👏
A tribute that you make to this person who has unfortunately disappeared I wish his family a lot of courage, I appreciate you both very much, you are honestly sensitive, you often make me laugh, but this time I had like a knot in the throat , never change
I won't ❤️
That's so so sad, I'm crying my eyes out here. Rest in peace Paul 🙏
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Yes..... At 1:57, a picture perfect shot of Silver Fox in the fog
Yeah, we have a photo of that too ❤️
Thank you again for sharing about mental health. It does mean a lot to those of us that care about someone that struggles with it. I am sorry about Paul. You guys brought him joy. Carry on gents.
Thank you. ❤️
This is the first video I’ve seen on this channel and I can’t get over the production value- it’s just like a BBC show or something. You can see how work has gone into it.
Thanks, Kate. Must have been a good day editing 😂
Just watched this video by chance. I was blown away. You guys are amazing. I’m hooked I can’t wait to continue the journey with you. I’ve subscribed and everything else. Bless you both. You guys are totally unique I wish you every success and all the luck in the world
Aww, thanks and welcome!
Look Guys...
As many of your subscribers have commented, your tribute to Paul was heartfelt and genuine based on your own experiences. What this vlog was also great about was your own narrative routed in a a couple very much together and in love. Also, wonderful frosty images of a countryside preparing for a harsh winter.... keep the log burner well lit!
Mike
Mike English I 100% agree, you have said everything I was thinking Thank you 🙏
Cheers, Mike 💜
The fire’s roaring 🔥