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My best friend so happens to be of the opposite sex and that has never been a problem for us. I genuinely loved watching him fall in love and build a fulfilling, strong relationship with his girlfriend and I enjoy spending time with both of them without feeling jealous. His relationship with his girlfriend is just different then with me and I like seeing how they grow closer. It kinda gives me hope that there can be mature, healthy relationships (both romantic and platonic)
@@klima1237 no flirting and make it clear you only want to be friends and have no interest or intentions of dating or having a relationship with them. Just view them as you would your brother or cousin 🤷🏽♀️
@@delnitap I’ve been texting a guy from work, and we get along well but as for me, it’s only friends. Just a great friend, but then yesterday he asked me if I wanted to go out and it just bumps me out. I feel like I’m doing something wrong because , the thing is that I only, just in general have a genuine interest in people I like. I don’t want to send misleading signals
@@klima1237 that’s why you make it clear to the guy that you genuinely want to be friends. And even joke that you’ll help him find a wife. That’s how I make things very clear. I approach them as if they were my brothers.
@@delnitap oops... I flirt with almost anyone, and i don't even see them as more than friends. i just have a naturally flirty personality. i don't even notice when i flirt💀i just do
I know in the past I have lied to myself about wanting to be friends with a guy. In the past I would think that I would want a guy as a male friend but in actuality I wanted to be in a relationship with him and I only wanted a "friendship" because I convinced myself that if he spent more time with me, he would fall in love me (did not work btw)
Lol yep!! I’ve done this too..for the past 10 years!!😭 What a waste of time! My best advice is to heed this advice and learn the skill of becoming a great friend
@@SamElle damn, he should have given you a chance. Usually if you persue a guy he is more likely to reject you🤧 Been there too, hold your head up. You will get the man who deserves your love.
It's tricky. I've developed crushes on guy friends. Once they realized that I liked them, they became distant. I've learned not to consider going out with pals.
So I was in a dating stage, then after three months we had a discussion about our intentions with one another and came to the agreement of being friends. I feel like there is some playfulness but no sexual tensions. This friendship has gone on for almost a year now and it’s awesome!
Hi Ryan, I agree. It's great to be friends first and really get to know him and what he's about. You can always take it further, if you really want to ...
I have friends who are guys, and we are still friends to this day. I also have a guy best friend but he passed on a few years ago. So, I think, yes.. it is possible to have guy friends and just be friends. :)
My main friend is a guy. So yes men and women can just be friends. I’ve made it clear to him that I’m very happy with the friendship we have and wouldn’t want anything to change it. We have been friends since senior year of hs and now finishing our 2nd year of college. His family is like a 2nd family to me.
If you only want to be friends in hopes of being together one day, it’s manipulative and a waste of time. Also, most men pursue women they’re truly interested in from the beginning. Friends to lovers is rare. Just saying.
I’ve always felt that way. I’m interested in what Ryan has to say about this. I’m attracted to my friend but wanting to get to know him on a friend level to see if he is even someone I would want to date. Thoughts anyone?🤔
Not friends, acquaintances. Friendships take years to build up and require the same effort as love relationships. I would say "good company, people trying to know each other better", but not "friends".
it’s possible to just be friends. i have guys that i’ve been friends with for years and i have never had romantic feeling for them and they’ve never had them for me. but i have also had friendships that turned romantic. i even went back to being friends with one of the guys, when we learned our long term goals didn’t clashed massively.
If you aren't sexually attracted to each other, but you got to know each other because of other circumstances, then you might be able to be just friends. If you are always spending time with just each other and each other's families, it is likely more meaningful to one of you. When people don't have the intimate relationship they want, they will be putting effort into finding it, so if someone is spending a significant portion of their free time with you, that means they have already found who they want, you! If someone you aren't interested in romantically is giving you most of their attention, make sure they know you aren't interested in a romantic relationship with them, don't always be available to them, and spend time with others. If being your friend keeps them tied to hope for being with you, you should stop being their friend. They have difficulty managing their emotions, and won't be able to move on as long as you're friends.
Started working with a trainer in July, really like the guy and feel it's mutual. Been wondering what to make of it, sounds like continuing to build friendship is the way to go....thanks for the tips, Ryan
The only guy friends I have are gay. I haven’t had any success having guy friends, but I’m learning reasons why this is from this video. For one, I haven’t been totally honest about my intentions for just friendships. I’ll try this.
Ryan THANK YOU for doing the video I requested!!!!!! This is such perfect timing. So far, building a friendship is awesome..takes the pressure off(that I would’ve applied🤣) Can men intuitively sense when we have expectations? Even if we think we’re doing a good job of covering it up?
I'll bet you gave it a "thumbs up" for his response - but I don't see it showing up. In fact it says "no views" and I can at least three of us viewed it. How odd.
Such a great video! Yes, men and women can be friends and you do a great job explaining boundaries in friendship. Yes, I agree that friends are simply thrilled when friends find a great partner, and later they can even sometimes have "get togethers" going to events as couples.
YES. Men and women CAN be just friends. I have a few since high school, and they are great and sincere friends, and we are never awkward with each other even though we hug and hold hands. It's just really platonic.
I’ve had a few guy friends in my past, but all of them resulted in them wanting something more and I had to cut them off completely. I only have one guy that is just my friend and has been for about 3 years now. I’m glad we can text, call each other to catch up and hang out without any problem!
Yes you can have friends that are of the opposite sex. Underlying attraction is common but one doesn't have to act on it (if it's just one sided or if the situation doesn't permit).
Dang, called out as part of the 78%. Can men and women be just friends? Yes and No. I have found that while you can remain friendly with men - when time together is limited and you're more acquaintances (at work, among a group of friends, etc.)... I find that if a man is really wanting to "hang out" with a woman, he tends to be what I call "a pickle in the jar" - someone waiting for an opportunity to date. Men seem to always work with intentions for some kind of return on their time and investment. Pretty much everyone of the opposite sex who invests time on me, I gauge my own interest and respond accordingly...colder and unavailable if not interested, or flirt a bit. I'm not a subscriber because you are designed to help single women who don't match me and my situationships. However, I find your content entertaining and sometimes eye-opening about male behavior. I'm the "bad" woman on your channel who is interested in someone at work, which you frown upon, so that prevents me from subscribing. I wish life were clear cut, but it's not always!
I would never call you bad for liking someone at work. I just want to show you new ways of approaching your dating pool that won’t potentially create a nightmare for you where you make your money is all 🙇🏻♂️ I hope now you’ll consider subscribing since my heart is in the right place 😄
I absolutely think men and women can be just friends. In fact, I have a few good male friends, men I've known for years and years. There has never been anything more between us on either side. There have been times where I find out that a male friend of mine wanted more, and that's usually when things go south. I really hate that because and it hurts me to hurt them by not returning the feeling. I greatly cherish my friends and I hate losing one.
I have a boy that I love. But I don’t even think he even caress about me. Everyone says that I am the best in the class and he is the worst. I’v wanted to be friends for a long time but I just can’t. So thank you for this video.
I have a great friend. We always ate together, watched football, watched each other's puppies, he finally found a great girl friend ibam so happy for him. But I have moved after I retired far away. I miss them him his girlfiend and his puppy. But I see them when I fly home at least once a year.
Yes men and women can be friends and but like you said they both have to be honest about this friendship it's good for men to learn how to relate to women and it's good for women to learn how to relate to men to friendships this is how that interaction is built I mean think about it if you don't have any brothers or there's no dad influence and all you do is hang with women how you going to even know what a man's about. It would be a very awkward thing to be around men if you don't understand them or are reluctant to talk to them for that matter you can learn a lot socially in a reaction is very important social science
Ya they can just be friends, like my brother has a friend who’s a girl who is super sweet and chill who hangs out with him and his friends all the time. She’s like their wing women and girl best friend but it’s clearly nothing more.
Yes. Men and women can be friends! My best guy friend told me he had feelings. I politely told him I'm a lesbian, but we're still cool with each other and are good friends!
I had a good guy friend in college who carefully hide he liked me. He was handsome but younger than me by quite a bit. He came over once, pouted as he rode up while i was on a date & we just pulled up to my apartment. He saw it got huffy & biked away
I missed a few videos been so busy. Glad to be back because yes!!! I wish i had guy friends who I am really just friends with. I miss hanging out with guys as friends so much.
Just came across your video on UA-cam. I really like the audio quality of your video and how clear you speak. Very comprehensive and helpful content. I also like you have those cushions in the background. Lol. Liked and subscribed!
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Friends is a great start to build a relationship. But sometimes guys there I come across of take it the wrong way or they’re just too weird. Idk 🤷🏻♀️ what I’m doing wrong here finding the weird the guy weird
Shoot, I had most of my life Male friends, with no problems, so yes one can be just friends! But I am also someone who will tell someone" stop right there, I am not interested in more, can you deal with it or not?"
Absolutely men and women can be friends ...I have maybe two female friends but 5 or 6 male friends, several of them for 10 years or longer. All of them are heterosexual and often come to me for a listening ear about their various relationships and sometimes advice. Their girlfriends have met me or at least know who I am and I am always polite to them but we don't usually hang out.
I have a male friend that I love that I enjoy sexually as well. I have had to “check myself” and put things in perspective when jealousy crops up on my part but our friendship is important to me and I truly love him and want the best for him and the sex is amazing!
Hi Ryan, so I ended up being friends with my recent ex. We were in a relationship for less than a year. He is now in a new relationship and we have gone out on double dates with one another. We communicate openly with his new partner and vice versa. Of course it took a lot of time to get to this point and surprised me but we are better off as platonic friends.
I think it could be. Men and women can be friends. I know this guy from college, he was very nice to me. When I told him I am about to transferred to an out of state school, he suggested that we should go out. Anyway, my point is that he just my classmate, why do I said no to him right? And recently I heard he is married. And we have known each other since 2011. I mean we just friends.
Thank you for this video. I am trying to get an ex to be friends and stay that way. He wants more and I don’t. We are better off friends and part of each other’s life as friends because we argue to much when we are dating.
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Man, I just love your content so much. So powerful and real. Thanks a lot!
I think men and women can have platonic relationships, as long as both people know up front what the boundaries are; because it can turn into something awkward quickly, if one of those people gets all up in their feels.
Maybe I got the wrong advice , but my brother told me once "the only way a guy , can just be "friends " with a girl is if he's gay" Now that I'm older I have had this come up in the back of my mind, that if a guy just wants to be friends he's gay, and. If he doesn't want to be friends he just wants to have sex all the time.
No you can because we both had feelings and we work together. It wS hard. He wS dating someone but would come on to me. Now everything got ruined because l got upset at him. I told him we can't be friends and he cut me off of everything. I really care for him. He was really mad at me. Will he turn around and see the potential
I was friends with a guy for six years while he was in a relationship with someone else, then he asked me out and subsequently ghosted me despite the date going well. 🤷♀️Now trying to move on without closure!
I don't believe heterosexual men and woman can be friends from experience xx My two best friends are male but there both gay this has been the only true male friendships I have ever had with no sexual tension ext xx xx my advice girls don't let your man have female friends those girls be thirsty xxxx
Yes, men and women can be friends without sex. Not everyone is attracted to everyone, and it's also possible to be low-key attracted to someone and choose not to pursue it.
Do you have any advice on guys who live far(long distance ) if they like you or not? We’ve been friends and he calls me first all the time but theres alot of things unsaid.. thank you!
I started having a crush on a guy that was in my class last year. Now he is in a different section of school. I don't know how we can be friends again. I'm sad now. HELP
I had a really good and healthy relationship with my guy bff and then he got a gf and completely stoped talking to me. And then they broke up and he wants to be bffs again. What should I do?
My best friend is a guy I work with and have known for 17 + years. 4 years ago we had a hot steamy fling that lasted 3 months. It didn't end badly at all just abruptly. Things were awkward for while. He's still my best friend and I love him dearly as a friend. It hasn't been quite the same closeness as it was pre fling. I'm wondering if we'll ever get back to that or if the same great friendship we have now minus the as close part is where it will stay. That's my story, curious about your thoughts Ryan
I do think men and women can be "just" friends but its REALLY hard sometimes. Through evolution, humans used to go towards the opposite gender (cavemen times). The women would look for big, strong looking men that could protect them and men would look for women with child bearing hips and a body capable of producing. So, through our ancestors we have these, but these might slowly breaking and why is it so nerve wracking to BECOME FRIENDS WITH A GUY-
I 100% don’t think that guys and girls can be just friends (unless you work with them and have no choice but to be around them and develop a friendship)... b/c there’s ALWAYS one person that wants more and are just playing the friend card hoping that it’ll grow into something more... I have zero desire to hang out with a guy unless I’m romantically interested in him!!
I do think men and women can be friends. I also think that even asking the question erases gay people. (Not Ryan's fault since he was only talking about a belief that's out there in society.)
What you thought the guy could of been a giid friend but seems obsessed Shall I block him I went out with him twice as friends and I thought it seemed easy going Can you answer how or what you shouldn't do ti get him obsessed I said he could be a life band buddy Hes just coming out of a marriage and he thinks I'm hes girl friend We haven't been sexually intermet I layed my boundary out but he thinks I really making up and really like him more ...
Not always. I've had two male best friends (heterosexual men) with no sexual intention at all. One of them has been my friend since 1993 and the other one since 2005. But I notice it's kinda rare because one often ends up wanting more, so you're right, but not 100%.
I have to say is difficult to be pure friends with guys. As either one would fall for each other. But is not that is not possible. As I do have 3 guys buddies. But is harder compare having same gender friendship. And i do have many gays friends, which is great, they never fall for me.. 😂 And we can be so close n honest with each other without having any expectations. 😉
How to you make sure that you only want them as friends and at the same time, still have fun together/are there for each other/giving advices/experience things together as such?
i need advice ☹️ i tried getting into his favorite game and anime, but he still doesn’t talk much with me. we text a lot since we only share one class at the end of the day, but he sits across the class so we don’t talk much in person. we aren’t close yet so i understand we’re not going to be conversing constantly but idk what further to do while also not seeming annoying/needy
I think men and women can only be friends 'at arms length', not close friends. A romantic relationship is not just sexual, it's also emotional. So having a growing emotional relationship with a 'friend' of the opposite sex is actually part of what a romantic relationship is all about, especially for a woman. There is an attachment and connection whether it's just emotional, just sexual, or both. Close friends should be saved for those of the same sex.
I don't think men in general have an interest in having female friends. And I don't mean acquaintances or casual friends who talk every now and then, I mean GOOD friends. I believe they always want to get something out of it, other than pure friendship. It may not be sex or a relationship. It may be access to other things, like opportunities or people.
That's not true. I met one of my best guy friends on plenty of fish. We weren't meant to be together but I'm so glad I have him in my life. He's been there for me more than most of my female friends. He has a girlfriend and a new baby that he loves very much! He doesn't need or want anything from me other than friendship. 🤷♀️
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My best friend so happens to be of the opposite sex and that has never been a problem for us. I genuinely loved watching him fall in love and build a fulfilling, strong relationship with his girlfriend and I enjoy spending time with both of them without feeling jealous. His relationship with his girlfriend is just different then with me and I like seeing how they grow closer. It kinda gives me hope that there can be mature, healthy relationships (both romantic and platonic)
I think friends is the best place to start.
Meeeee, too!! 😁
Yes. I think those are the ones with the longest lasting relationships.
Yes, I’m friends with a lot of men with no intentions. Just friendship.
How to you make sure that they know you don’t want a relationship?
@@klima1237 no flirting and make it clear you only want to be friends and have no interest or intentions of dating or having a relationship with them. Just view them as you would your brother or cousin 🤷🏽♀️
@@delnitap I’ve been texting a guy from work, and we get along well but as for me, it’s only friends. Just a great friend, but then yesterday he asked me if I wanted to go out and it just bumps me out. I feel like I’m doing something wrong because , the thing is that I only, just in general have a genuine interest in people I like. I don’t want to send misleading signals
@@klima1237 that’s why you make it clear to the guy that you genuinely want to be friends. And even joke that you’ll help him find a wife. That’s how I make things very clear. I approach them as if they were my brothers.
@@delnitap oops... I flirt with almost anyone, and i don't even see them as more than friends. i just have a naturally flirty personality. i don't even notice when i flirt💀i just do
Yes you can be just friends
I know in the past I have lied to myself about wanting to be friends with a guy. In the past I would think that I would want a guy as a male friend but in actuality I wanted to be in a relationship with him and I only wanted a "friendship" because I convinced myself that if he spent more time with me, he would fall in love me (did not work btw)
Lol yep!! I’ve done this too..for the past 10 years!!😭 What a waste of time! My best advice is to heed this advice and learn the skill of becoming a great friend
@@inside_the_waiting_room hahahah Im glad that Im not the only one who has done this!! But yes, will definitely take this advice!!
I'm sorry to hear that 😪 Were you the one who initiated the friendship? It's hard out here.
@@kumajoey6031 Yea, it was me who initiated the friendship! Tell me about it!! Dating is so hard
@@SamElle damn, he should have given you a chance. Usually if you persue a guy he is more likely to reject you🤧 Been there too, hold your head up. You will get the man who deserves your love.
It's tricky. I've developed crushes on guy friends. Once they realized that I liked them, they became distant. I've learned not to consider going out with pals.
So I was in a dating stage, then after three months we had a discussion about our intentions with one another and came to the agreement of being friends. I feel like there is some playfulness but no sexual tensions. This friendship has gone on for almost a year now and it’s awesome!
I think girls and guys can be friends as long as there is mutual respect and honesty
Hi Ryan, I agree. It's great to be friends first and really get to know him and what he's about. You can always take it further, if you really want to ...
I have friends who are guys, and we are still friends to this day. I also have a guy best friend but he passed on a few years ago. So, I think, yes.. it is possible to have guy friends and just be friends. :)
My main friend is a guy. So yes men and women can just be friends. I’ve made it clear to him that I’m very happy with the friendship we have and wouldn’t want anything to change it. We have been friends since senior year of hs and now finishing our 2nd year of college. His family is like a 2nd family to me.
If you only want to be friends in hopes of being together one day, it’s manipulative and a waste of time. Also, most men pursue women they’re truly interested in from the beginning. Friends to lovers is rare. Just saying.
I’ve always felt that way. I’m interested in what Ryan has to say about this. I’m attracted to my friend but wanting to get to know him on a friend level to see if he is even someone I would want to date. Thoughts anyone?🤔
I agree with you 💯
💯 men and women can be just friends, if their hearts and kinds are in the right place.
Not friends, acquaintances. Friendships take years to build up and require the same effort as love relationships. I would say "good company, people trying to know each other better", but not "friends".
it’s possible to just be friends. i have guys that i’ve been friends with for years and i have never had romantic feeling for them and they’ve never had them for me. but i have also had friendships that turned romantic. i even went back to being friends with one of the guys, when we learned our long term goals didn’t clashed massively.
Ryan is absolutely right about this. Trust! I was skeptical but HE IS RIGHT about friends first
If you aren't sexually attracted to each other, but you got to know each other because of other circumstances, then you might be able to be just friends. If you are always spending time with just each other and each other's families, it is likely more meaningful to one of you. When people don't have the intimate relationship they want, they will be putting effort into finding it, so if someone is spending a significant portion of their free time with you, that means they have already found who they want, you! If someone you aren't interested in romantically is giving you most of their attention, make sure they know you aren't interested in a romantic relationship with them, don't always be available to them, and spend time with others. If being your friend keeps them tied to hope for being with you, you should stop being their friend. They have difficulty managing their emotions, and won't be able to move on as long as you're friends.
Started working with a trainer in July, really like the guy and feel it's mutual. Been wondering what to make of it, sounds like continuing to build friendship is the way to go....thanks for the tips, Ryan
Trainers are bad news. They always have more than one girl. Man I could tell some stories 🤣.
Same hat omg... I hope it works out for you!!
@@spacexbrawler thank you! It's still friend zone for me, hopefully more for you!
The only guy friends I have are gay. I haven’t had any success having guy friends, but I’m learning reasons why this is from this video. For one, I haven’t been totally honest about my intentions for just friendships. I’ll try this.
I can be friends with you :D
@@XXXX-ch6sb Well. My honest intentions is to just be friends:)
@@hotmaco75 samee
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Friends zone sounds great to me
Ryan THANK YOU for doing the video I requested!!!!!! This is such perfect timing. So far, building a friendship is awesome..takes the pressure off(that I would’ve applied🤣) Can men intuitively sense when we have expectations? Even if we think we’re doing a good job of covering it up?
LOL DO MEN HAVE A 6TH SENSE.... omg
I'll bet you gave it a "thumbs up" for his response - but I don't see it showing up. In fact it says "no views" and I can at least three of us viewed it. How odd.
Ok - now thumbs up are finally showing. You tube has been getting weird.
Such a great video! Yes, men and women can be friends and you do a great job explaining boundaries in friendship. Yes, I agree that friends are simply thrilled when friends find a great partner, and later they can even sometimes have "get togethers" going to events as couples.
YES. Men and women CAN be just friends. I have a few since high school, and they are great and sincere friends, and we are never awkward with each other even though we hug and hold hands. It's just really platonic.
I’ve had a few guy friends in my past, but all of them resulted in them wanting something more and I had to cut them off completely. I only have one guy that is just my friend and has been for about 3 years now. I’m glad we can text, call each other to catch up and hang out without any problem!
I think platonic friendships are possible if you remember that the other person is human. Focus less on it being a man or woman. 🤷🏾♀️
Yes you can have friends that are of the opposite sex. Underlying attraction is common but one doesn't have to act on it (if it's just one sided or if the situation doesn't permit).
pleaaase make more content about making easier guy friends! i believe that men and women can be just friends, and i want to have more guy friends!
Me too!
I can be friends with you I’m a guy :D
Dang, called out as part of the 78%.
Can men and women be just friends? Yes and No. I have found that while you can remain friendly with men - when time together is limited and you're more acquaintances (at work, among a group of friends, etc.)... I find that if a man is really wanting to "hang out" with a woman, he tends to be what I call "a pickle in the jar" - someone waiting for an opportunity to date. Men seem to always work with intentions for some kind of return on their time and investment.
Pretty much everyone of the opposite sex who invests time on me, I gauge my own interest and respond accordingly...colder and unavailable if not interested, or flirt a bit.
I'm not a subscriber because you are designed to help single women who don't match me and my situationships. However, I find your content entertaining and sometimes eye-opening about male behavior. I'm the "bad" woman on your channel who is interested in someone at work, which you frown upon, so that prevents me from subscribing. I wish life were clear cut, but it's not always!
I would never call you bad for liking someone at work. I just want to show you new ways of approaching your dating pool that won’t potentially create a nightmare for you where you make your money is all 🙇🏻♂️ I hope now you’ll consider subscribing since my heart is in the right place 😄
I absolutely think men and women can be just friends. In fact, I have a few good male friends, men I've known for years and years. There has never been anything more between us on either side. There have been times where I find out that a male friend of mine wanted more, and that's usually when things go south. I really hate that because and it hurts me to hurt them by not returning the feeling. I greatly cherish my friends and I hate losing one.
This video is so perfect and timeless. I appreciate you, Ryan!
I have a boy that I love. But I don’t even think he even caress about me. Everyone says that I am the best in the class and he is the worst. I’v wanted to be friends for a long time but I just can’t. So thank you for this video.
You can be JUST friends with a guy. My best friend is a guy and we have literally no feelings for each other.
I have a great friend. We always ate together, watched football, watched each other's puppies, he finally found a great girl friend ibam so happy for him. But I have moved after I retired far away. I miss them him his girlfiend and his puppy. But I see them when I fly home at least once a year.
Yes men and women can be friends and but like you said they both have to be honest about this friendship it's good for men to learn how to relate to women and it's good for women to learn how to relate to men to friendships this is how that interaction is built I mean think about it if you don't have any brothers or there's no dad influence and all you do is hang with women how you going to even know what a man's about. It would be a very awkward thing to be around men if you don't understand them or are reluctant to talk to them for that matter you can learn a lot socially in a reaction is very important social science
Ya they can just be friends, like my brother has a friend who’s a girl who is super sweet and chill who hangs out with him and his friends all the time. She’s like their wing women and girl best friend but it’s clearly nothing more.
Yes. Men and women can be friends! My best guy friend told me he had feelings. I politely told him I'm a lesbian, but we're still cool with each other and are good friends!
I had a good guy friend in college who carefully hide he liked me. He was handsome but younger than me by quite a bit. He came over once, pouted as he rode up while i was on a date & we just pulled up to my apartment. He saw it got huffy & biked away
I missed a few videos been so busy. Glad to be back because yes!!! I wish i had guy friends who I am really just friends with. I miss hanging out with guys as friends so much.
Someone ever told me in the past, 'there is no pure friendship between man and woman". Yeah he is damn rite. 😂
Just came across your video on UA-cam. I really like the audio quality of your video and how clear you speak. Very comprehensive and helpful content. I also like you have those cushions in the background. Lol. Liked and subscribed!
Videos on healing when you broke up with him for the right reasons but you hate that you know he is hurting because he is still a good person but he isn’t right for you
Friends is a great start to build a relationship. But sometimes guys there I come across of take it the wrong way or they’re just too weird. Idk 🤷🏻♀️ what I’m doing wrong here finding the weird the guy weird
Shoot, I had most of my life Male friends, with no problems, so yes one can be just friends! But I am also someone who will tell someone" stop right there, I am not interested in more, can you deal with it or not?"
Excited about your new channel Tough Love!
Good for you on starting another show/channel. Thats awesome! Hope it is very successful.
Absolutely men and women can be friends ...I have maybe two female friends but 5 or 6 male friends, several of them for 10 years or longer. All of them are heterosexual and often come to me for a listening ear about their various relationships and sometimes advice. Their girlfriends have met me or at least know who I am and I am always polite to them but we don't usually hang out.
YES, you can just be friends with a guy without feelings.
I have a male friend that I love that I enjoy sexually as well. I have had to “check myself” and put things in perspective when jealousy crops up on my part but our friendship is important to me and I truly love him and want the best for him and the sex is amazing!
Hi Ryan, so I ended up being friends with my recent ex. We were in a relationship for less than a year. He is now in a new relationship and we have gone out on double dates with one another. We communicate openly with his new partner and vice versa. Of course it took a lot of time to get to this point and surprised me but we are better off as platonic friends.
I think it could be. Men and women can be friends. I know this guy from college, he was very nice to me. When I told him I am about to transferred to an out of state school, he suggested that we should go out. Anyway, my point is that he just my classmate, why do I said no to him right? And recently I heard he is married. And we have known each other since 2011. I mean we just friends.
THEY CANT BE JUST FRIENDS
WITH ME ATLEAST IT NEVER HAPPENED , ALWAYS FEELINGS ARE CAUGHT EITHER SIDE , WITHOUT INTENDING
I do have male friends and we are comfortable in those friendships- we give ea other lots of emotional support via phone and mail.
Ryan have you made a video about mamas’ boys? Please make one!!!
Thank you for this video. I am trying to get an ex to be friends and stay that way. He wants more and I don’t. We are better off friends and part of each other’s life as friends because we argue to much when we are dating.
Man, I just love your content so much. So powerful and real. Thanks a lot!
Yes you can I've got a guy best friend and he's happily engaged
I think men and women can have platonic relationships, as long as both people know up front what the boundaries are; because it can turn into something awkward quickly, if one of those people gets all up in their feels.
Men tried to go that route to get into a relationship we me. I was often blindsided. So I'm not too sure anymore...
That's nice! I'll watch your other UA-cam channel! 😃
Maybe I got the wrong advice , but my brother told me once "the only way a guy , can just be "friends " with a girl is if he's gay"
Now that I'm older I have had this come up in the back of my mind, that if a guy just wants to be friends he's gay, and. If he doesn't want to be friends he just wants to have sex all the time.
I feel like men that want to be friends with usually have an ulterior motive, even if I lay down the rules and a friendship is truly all I want.
No you can because we both had feelings and we work together. It wS hard. He wS dating someone but would come on to me. Now everything got ruined because l got upset at him. I told him we can't be friends and he cut me off of everything. I really care for him. He was really mad at me. Will he turn around and see the potential
What about if you are both interested in a relationship but want to start out as friends first?
If there is no attraction, a man and a woman can be just friends.......
I agree. Otherwise, in my experience, it’s like putting the other person on hold. While some may not mind that, I personally hated the feeling
I was friends with a guy for six years while he was in a relationship with someone else, then he asked me out and subsequently ghosted me despite the date going well. 🤷♀️Now trying to move on without closure!
Any update?
Yes we can! I have loads of friends
I don't believe heterosexual men and woman can be friends from experience xx My two best friends are male but there both gay this has been the only true male friendships I have ever had with no sexual tension ext xx xx my advice girls don't let your man have female friends those girls be thirsty xxxx
I have 6 guy friends and I love them all no biggie 💗
Youre funny....England listening
Yes, men and women can be friends without sex. Not everyone is attracted to everyone, and it's also possible to be low-key attracted to someone and choose not to pursue it.
I found this really useful thank you
I have zero dating experience, but I think men and women can be purely friends.
Yes you can
Please do a vid about women falling inlove with a man she later finds out he is gay but the best friend ever.
Do you have any advice on guys who live far(long distance ) if they like you or not? We’ve been friends and he calls me first all the time but theres alot of things unsaid.. thank you!
Thank you for being clean shaven. These weird beards have to go
I have quite a few of guy friends I have known for many many years I think it works as long as there is no sexual stuff with in your friendship
Does anyone else know what the other video Patrick was talking about at the start? I’d like to watch it!!
According to my experience I don't believe men and women can share a pure friendship well unless both parties are homosexual
I started having a crush on a guy that was in my class last year. Now he is in a different section of school. I don't know how we can be friends again. I'm sad now. HELP
Yes we can be just very good friends!!!
But how close can you actually be ? Before it opens up the relationship zone?
i love that video
I had a really good and healthy relationship with my guy bff and then he got a gf and completely stoped talking to me. And then they broke up and he wants to be bffs again. What should I do?
My best friend is a guy I work with and have known for 17 + years. 4 years ago we had a hot steamy fling that lasted 3 months. It didn't end badly at all just abruptly. Things were awkward for while. He's still my best friend and I love him dearly as a friend. It hasn't been quite the same closeness as it was pre fling. I'm wondering if we'll ever get back to that or if the same great friendship we have now minus the as close part is where it will stay. That's my story, curious about your thoughts Ryan
My best friend is a guy ! Lol strictly friends . And true !! VERY ! Being friends is a foundation of relationships
Can you really get to know friends with a guy you like? Can relationships work if you start out as friends?
I do think men and women can be "just" friends but its REALLY hard sometimes. Through evolution, humans used to go towards the opposite gender (cavemen times). The women would look for big, strong looking men that could protect them and men would look for women with child bearing hips and a body capable of producing. So, through our ancestors we have these, but these might slowly breaking and why is it so nerve wracking to BECOME FRIENDS WITH A GUY-
I 100% don’t think that guys and girls can be just friends (unless you work with them and have no choice but to be around them and develop a friendship)... b/c there’s ALWAYS one person that wants more and are just playing the friend card hoping that it’ll grow into something more... I have zero desire to hang out with a guy unless I’m romantically interested in him!!
I think that’s more you personal to you than a universal rule.
I do think men and women can be friends. I also think that even asking the question erases gay people. (Not Ryan's fault since he was only talking about a belief that's out there in society.)
What you thought the guy could of been a giid friend but seems obsessed Shall I block him I went out with him twice as friends and I thought it seemed easy going Can you answer how or what you shouldn't do ti get him obsessed I said he could be a life band buddy Hes just coming out of a marriage and he thinks I'm hes girl friend We haven't been sexually intermet I layed my boundary out but he thinks I really making up and really like him more ...
No you can’t be “friends” with a guy. One always ends up wanting more.
Not always. I've had two male best friends (heterosexual men) with no sexual intention at all. One of them has been my friend since 1993 and the other one since 2005. But I notice it's kinda rare because one often ends up wanting more, so you're right, but not 100%.
i think this is the case most of the time but not all the time
I have to say is difficult to be pure friends with guys. As either one would fall for each other. But is not that is not possible. As I do have 3 guys buddies. But is harder compare having same gender friendship.
And i do have many gays friends, which is great, they never fall for me.. 😂 And we can be so close n honest with each other without having any expectations. 😉
I've always had lots of guy friends. But, I think most of them would be happy to date me if I seemed at all interested...
How to you make sure that you only want them as friends and at the same time, still have fun together/are there for each other/giving advices/experience things together as such?
i need advice ☹️ i tried getting into his favorite game and anime, but he still doesn’t talk much with me. we text a lot since we only share one class at the end of the day, but he sits across the class so we don’t talk much in person. we aren’t close yet so i understand we’re not going to be conversing constantly but idk what further to do while also not seeming annoying/needy
Where did you order your pillows? Do you have a link ♥
I think men and women can only be friends 'at arms length', not close friends. A romantic relationship is not just sexual, it's also emotional. So having a growing emotional relationship with a 'friend' of the opposite sex is actually part of what a romantic relationship is all about, especially for a woman. There is an attachment and connection whether it's just emotional, just sexual, or both. Close friends should be saved for those of the same sex.
hey ryan please reply
i really need help with my crush so can you do a
video on signs a boy likes you
NOT BEING JEALOUS HIM MAKING GIRLFRIEND ... OR NOT CATCHING FEELINGS
SOUNS RIGHT , HOWEVER NEVER HAPPENS IN REAL LIFE .. HAHA
You can be friends with the opposite sex. I have all kinds of guy friends and most of them I would never consider dating.
I don't think men in general have an interest in having female friends. And I don't mean acquaintances or casual friends who talk every now and then, I mean GOOD friends. I believe they always want to get something out of it, other than pure friendship. It may not be sex or a relationship. It may be access to other things, like opportunities or people.
That's not true. I met one of my best guy friends on plenty of fish. We weren't meant to be together but I'm so glad I have him in my life. He's been there for me more than most of my female friends. He has a girlfriend and a new baby that he loves very much! He doesn't need or want anything from me other than friendship. 🤷♀️