Why I’m Leaving New York City

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  • Опубліковано 24 тра 2024
  • After living in Manhattan NYC for 20 out of 33 years of my life, I’m finally leaving. It’s where I grew up but I’m just done with it. It’s still one of the greatest cities in the world but the NY city and state government has utterly abused my trust and money, and public safety and infrastructure and the subway have gotten worse and worse, as has the government's handling of crime and the migrant crisis. It’s time to leave.
    0:00 Introduction
    0:54 Taxes in NYC
    2:05 Public safety
    3:55 The subway
    7:17 International comparisons
    7:44 Pre-K in NYC
    8:34 Migration in NYC
    10:00 Other issues
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 19 тис.

  • @WineHouse33
    @WineHouse33 Місяць тому +23448

    No explanation needed. New York is a disaster of incompetence.

    • @newyorkfan16
      @newyorkfan16 Місяць тому

      Especially when they put illegal immigrants first before it's citizens.

    • @PineapplePizzaBiS
      @PineapplePizzaBiS Місяць тому +131

      Lol

    • @Chibeagle
      @Chibeagle Місяць тому +284

      #BLM

    • @johnjen6913
      @johnjen6913 Місяць тому +517

      I beg to differ. While NY is bad, LA is on a new level of incompetence.

    • @Rick2367
      @Rick2367 Місяць тому +1432

      Not incompetence. It is AS INTENDED. Keep voting Democrat and it will continue.

  • @thefaytleingod
    @thefaytleingod Місяць тому +5504

    I’m from Australia and I was in New York recently. It was absolutely horrible. Subway was absolutely disgusting. Felt like a third world city

    • @ashwilliams4989
      @ashwilliams4989 Місяць тому +137

      This is the magic of NYC. As if it was aseptic everywhere then there would be no point in traveling.
      NYC in the 1980s was even more "wild" and unpredictable. It was dangerous alby through it until it breathed freedom.
      And it was never a city for family people. That's what the other 99% of cities in the US are for. What sets NYC apart from other cities is, so to speak, the spirit of the old, free and crazy times (the 1970s and 1980s).

    • @thefaytleingod
      @thefaytleingod Місяць тому

      @@ashwilliams4989 There is no magic in NYC. All I saw were overrated landmarks and homeless naked people constantly in my face asking for money. I’ve been through 3rd world cities much better than there.

    • @goddammed
      @goddammed Місяць тому +387

      Hey! Show some respect for third-world cities.

    • @shawnt5205
      @shawnt5205 Місяць тому

      HEY MAN ITS AN ASTHETIC YOU DONT GET IT. ITS SIMPLY STUCK IN TIME AND ALL THIS CRIME AND TERRIBLE DEOMCRAT POLICY IS SIMPLY SPIRIT OF THE OLD.@@ashwilliams4989

    • @wasabi1724
      @wasabi1724 Місяць тому +70

      You want Migrants ? We got bunch of them looking for a change of scene.

  • @chadcognac5626
    @chadcognac5626 13 днів тому +348

    Losing weight, cutting back internet, moving from the dangerous city-welcome to middle age!
    You’re slaying it so far!

    • @AnyoneCanSee
      @AnyoneCanSee 10 днів тому +15

      Yep, I left London and moved to Scotland. I hike a lot more, so I lost weight and I now eat blueberries twice a day. Middle-aged baby!

    • @TheLoneCamper
      @TheLoneCamper 9 днів тому +6

      Most tend to gain weight not lose weight as they age.

    • @chadcognac5626
      @chadcognac5626 9 днів тому

      @@TheLoneCamper yep, just like Ari did.

    • @KatzeMelli
      @KatzeMelli 9 днів тому +2

      hahaha so true!! I moved away from Berlin to the countryside. The 30s are IT!!

    • @DebraJohnson
      @DebraJohnson 8 днів тому

      @@TheLoneCamper Yes, hence the focus on trying to lose it.

  • @Estmaraver
    @Estmaraver 15 днів тому +87

    With how many languages this man knows, he can get started almost anywhere. Wishing you the best.

    • @PlsDontSuuue
      @PlsDontSuuue 11 днів тому +1

      yellow fever jew

    • @ChairmanMeow1
      @ChairmanMeow1 День тому

      exactly! :)

    • @dankquan743
      @dankquan743 22 години тому

      he only really knows chinese

    • @edjeavons562
      @edjeavons562 12 годин тому

      And yet he chooses NJ...

    • @PlsDontSuuue
      @PlsDontSuuue 12 годин тому

      @@edjeavons562 god i hate this guy and his tricks, all these pretext for yellow fever, just be honest

  • @user-nz4kg4wm9j
    @user-nz4kg4wm9j Місяць тому +3485

    Another major crime problem is if you decide to defend yourself then they arrest YOU!

    • @DefinitelyNotAFerret
      @DefinitelyNotAFerret Місяць тому +461

      And arresting homeowners instead of squatters 😆

    • @novachikun
      @novachikun Місяць тому +132

      Sounds like something you would see in a game like Grand Theft Auto, where real life is parodied. But victims getting arrested for defending themselves, and homeowners getting arrested for evicting squatters, is really happening. When parody becomes reality.

    • @user-nz4kg4wm9j
      @user-nz4kg4wm9j Місяць тому

      @@novachikun Bad is good
      Up is down. It's a Satanic ritual thing. Bc that's who is in charge right. Wait until you learn about Lessor black magic

    • @cybererik1
      @cybererik1 Місяць тому +24

      let the victimization flow through you

    • @user-nz4kg4wm9j
      @user-nz4kg4wm9j Місяць тому

      @@cybererik1 👈 classic liberal victim shaming. Same as blaming law abiding gun owners for gun violence and Police for shooting criminals. Nothing new here.

  • @jeremylewis5551
    @jeremylewis5551 Місяць тому +5168

    NYC became a glorified shopping mall. Besides luxury, the organic culture of NYC was drained.

    • @LilRedRasta
      @LilRedRasta Місяць тому +24

      its still there in places like Bushwick.

    • @anonymeister123
      @anonymeister123 Місяць тому +75

      Yeah, the infrastructure and services that the government are supposed to provide really are trash, for the amount you pay.

    • @shigshug8581
      @shigshug8581 Місяць тому +51

      capitalism

    • @AndresGomez-ct7qb
      @AndresGomez-ct7qb Місяць тому +90

      Like Tim Dillon said, "Its become a vacation spot for billionaires."

    • @Dumbledorvsdementors
      @Dumbledorvsdementors Місяць тому +24

      @@LilRedRastayou been to bushwick lately?

  • @GrantHunn
    @GrantHunn 7 днів тому +17

    It's not just NYC. I often complain a lot about potholes. The reason is because something like potholes should be the easiest and most simple form of our tax dollars in use, and I've watched one of our major highways in Minnesota grow these same potholes for over a year now. And then you get people who say "but the government needs our taxes to maintain our roads and infrastructure!" but they aren't even capable of doing that! in 2020 the American government (ONLY FEDERAL) received 3.42 TRILLION DOLLARS in taxes. And what exactly do the citizens get for it? No healthcare, no insurance, we are taxed on a dollar up to 7 times, it's just getting ridiculous. Cost of living continually rises while the quality of living deteriorates.

  • @0animalproductworld558
    @0animalproductworld558 14 днів тому +105

    I have an engineering degree and I have to think for hours before I make a decision to spend on a ~$500 product but new york gives people $500 a night hotel? Are you kidding me.... if you build a cheap shelter for the harmless migrants, it is fine. But I wonder what you are thinking about… Many people are living in extreme conditions and you give these people $500 a night hotel… I just can’t understand. Also, think of the people who are sufferings and you still give these people $500 a night hotel… spend wisely and help those who are suffering…

    • @davidl8759
      @davidl8759 8 днів тому +10

      they are far from harmless, many videos of them assaulting NYPD officers this year

    • @aubreyplazasuncle
      @aubreyplazasuncle 4 дні тому

      @@davidl8759as with people who aren’t migrants.

    • @username93159
      @username93159 2 дні тому

      They are buying voters

    • @OtagesBringthemhome_NOW
      @OtagesBringthemhome_NOW День тому +1

      WhenI saw the title of this video already knew the answer. Take a look at the content ofnCash Jordan's channel. I used to love NYC many years ago. But back then then I also still loved California. Now every Blue City / State seems to have became like this..

    • @OtagesBringthemhome_NOW
      @OtagesBringthemhome_NOW День тому +1

      Oh I forgot, the channel: Here Be Barr also did a vido 3 months ago titled : Is it time to leave NYC?

  • @sarahcc5
    @sarahcc5 Місяць тому +4703

    We’re all here because we love Xiaoma for his language skills, insight on life, and generosity. But here he is showing what a real husband and father is. Making hard choices and work to do what’s best for his family

    • @MarcRichmond-op9ed
      @MarcRichmond-op9ed Місяць тому +44

      Real man is on point

    • @biggestcomplainer
      @biggestcomplainer Місяць тому +12

      Love is a strong word…. And generosity?

    • @johnsimth6587
      @johnsimth6587 Місяць тому +16

      I'd say he just learned what happens when you make some big money but not REAL big money in a place like NY City. How much did you pay in corporation taxes last year?

    • @Barrettszippo
      @Barrettszippo Місяць тому +80

      @@shitshow09 Are you the crazy no-shirt guy who shouted at him in the park then?

    • @sarahcc5
      @sarahcc5 Місяць тому +43

      @@johnsimth6587 not sure what you’re upset about but I was purely referring to the safety and protection he feels over his wife and child and wanting a safer environment for them and to give his wife peace of mind. Not all husbands and fathers would leave the city they’ve spent their entire life in for that

  • @nocturnalwolf7559
    @nocturnalwolf7559 28 днів тому +1238

    Out of all the languages he could've spoken, he chose to speak facts

    • @livefrom201
      @livefrom201 26 днів тому +13

      Eh, lol. He lives on the other side of the river. He still fully uses the city to his advantage, just gets to keep more of his money. He’s just been demoted to pretend New Yorker, lol

    • @mattvanemden7573
      @mattvanemden7573 25 днів тому +30

      @@livefrom201 Its not a badge of honour to be a new yorker... quite the contrary internationally.

    • @IndianaJake
      @IndianaJake 23 дні тому +1

      @@livefrom201 Makes no sense. There are many other 2 state commutable areas if you actually know anything about anything have yaknow, have a job and pay taxes like a functioning member of society

    • @livefrom201
      @livefrom201 20 днів тому +1

      @@mattvanemden7573 he’s still one 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @livefrom201
      @livefrom201 20 днів тому

      @@IndianaJake I know. What you’re saying changes nothing about my statement 😅

  • @Chunky246
    @Chunky246 7 днів тому +34

    Stayed in NYC 2010 to 2013, loved it and always felt safe at anytime of day or night. Went back last year.... was shocked to see what it has become. And the friends I had that lived there have all moved away.

    • @zzygyy
      @zzygyy 3 дні тому

      Parts of LA are the same.

  • @MaestroDraven
    @MaestroDraven 22 дні тому +123

    7:15 - I live in Singapore. You'll be lucky if you see someone so much as accidentally drop a piece of paper on the subway. There are no crazy people yelling and screaming. There are no disruptions. There are no fights. There are no murders. There is no National Guard equivalent. People are nice to each other, behave themselves, and have self-respect in equal measure. And yes, we do it all with some of the lowest tax rates I've ever seen.

    • @user-or6yn8pm3c
      @user-or6yn8pm3c 22 дні тому

      Singapore is mostly East and South Asian. Those groups value hard work rules and discipline. The white ruling class in NYC is mostly leftist ex hippie boomers surrounded by minorities.

    • @harryofbc9942
      @harryofbc9942 12 днів тому +15

      Singapore under Lee Kuan yew enforced harsh cultural rules most importantly English usage and proficiency. The USA has allowed itself to be watered row by diversity multiculturalism nonsense. And that explains New York City, current cultural, social, economic, and environmental disaster

    • @tmenner
      @tmenner 12 днів тому +23

      I lived in NYC from mid-90s to 2022, now live in Singapore, and I think you are both missing some key points. It is true that Singapore is very clean, generally very safe (though they get their occasional crazies as well), and hyper-efficient (the MRT and the airport are stellar). Yet a recent poll showed that most Singaporeans would rather escape and live outside of Singapore, mostly due to the high cost of living and very narrow expectations and options. And despite ostensibly being multicultural Singapore is increasingly becoming homogeneous around Chinese culture.
      In contrast I found NYC's unabashed multiculturalism and acceptance to be its greatest strength, and what made it so much better than any other city. To live in NYC was always a challenge, even more so for immigrants and artists and entrepreneurs and dreamers - but that was a crucible that was common to everyone, and there was a pride and shared experience that I never detected in any other major city. I don't blame so-called "multiculturalism nonsense" (which reeks of the Midwest or South). Rather I blame the politicians and Democratic machine - not that I am anti-Democrat (Biden over Trump forever), but when one party becomes too entrenched then inefficiencies and corruption tend to follow. Guiliani is a madman now, but back in the 1990s he was the right person, as was Bloomberg after 9/11. NYC arguably needs a center-right mayor now.

    • @krayziejman
      @krayziejman 11 днів тому +13

      Yes, and a beer in a mid-tier restaurant costs $18 SGD. Only rich people have privilege and enjoy life in Singapore. No place else on earth better demonstrates the negatives of late-stage capitalism than Singapore. It is a completely soulless place, worshipping money above all else.

    • @tomatofeind2019
      @tomatofeind2019 11 днів тому +4

      I disagree. I've lived in both cities and SG is definitely not just for the rich. I have never seens homelessness in SG, I've never seen a drug addict here. Almost everyone lives in government housing and the social net for the poor is huge. The idea that SG is hyper capitalist is stupid, most firms are largley owned by the SWF and the state controls the econony waaaay more than its comparators. Alcohol prices are about the same as london due to taxes but food is waaaay cheaper! It is easy to eat healthy here. You don't ever see morbidly obese people who can't afford vegetables for instance

  • @visvivalaw
    @visvivalaw Місяць тому +2598

    You're the second major NYC UA-camr I've noticed has made video(s) about NYC issues rather than their usual content. The other is Cash Jordan who used to post about real estate and finding a good apartment, but lately has gone into detail about the very problems you mention, and more, like the large number of stores that were driven to close by excessive shoplifting.

    • @petesmart1983
      @petesmart1983 Місяць тому

      He's a Zionist that the real reason and upset about the massive protests new York

    • @ReallyNoAlex
      @ReallyNoAlex Місяць тому +166

      Yeah the near daily uploads from cash are super informative

    • @stez-nq4hs
      @stez-nq4hs Місяць тому +247

      Louis Rossman was another big one mostly on the business side. He moved his business to Texas and still gets bothered by NYC and NYS governments.

    • @crappybroker
      @crappybroker Місяць тому +92

      Cash is a little more diplomatic with his approach and is very informative, the best . I do like the brazenness of this video here.

    • @willn8664
      @willn8664 Місяць тому +48

      Louis Rossman says hi!

  • @michaelgrogan944
    @michaelgrogan944 Місяць тому +933

    Watching from Manhattan KS! Thanks for the shoutout!!

    • @Jdeneik
      @Jdeneik Місяць тому +86

      Please NY’ers please don’t move to Manhattan Kansas…especially if you vote…

    • @susanriddle9408
      @susanriddle9408 Місяць тому +32

      I grew up in Kansas. As a child I had no understanding or appreciation of the low cost of living.

    • @westonbrewster8344
      @westonbrewster8344 Місяць тому +14

      Watching from Wichita!

    • @beavis_loves_you
      @beavis_loves_you Місяць тому +15

      I live in Kansas and I'm homeless and unemployed due to the quantity of immigrants

    • @MsHillsdale
      @MsHillsdale Місяць тому +3

      ​@@beavis_loves_you That's awful. I'm next door. It isn't bad here. Yet

  • @anedja
    @anedja 10 днів тому +6

    Same reasons I left Paris (France) 10 years ago! Big cities now tend to be dirty, unsafe and so expensive making the quality of life very low. To this day I never regretted my choice to leave!

  • @blurr_blurr
    @blurr_blurr 14 днів тому +10

    Glad to see you moved here to Jersey, we struggle with the same problems as nyc but we’re more spread out so it’s less noticeable. Sometimes I wanna leave Jersey and it sucks because this is my home I know every street every corner every crevice. I love walking the waterfront in weehawken to Hoboken with my son with no fears and sadly if I don’t find I way to make more money eventually I won’t be able to live here anymore… shout out to all of my east coast strugglers and good for you making your families safety your #1 priority!

  • @HarrierMan99
    @HarrierMan99 Місяць тому +1618

    I live in Connecticut. When our kids were little, my wife and I would take them frequently to Manhattan. We saw Broadway shows, the Christmas tree in Rockefeller Center, ate at nice restaurants, did some shopping, went to the Westminster dog show at Madison Square Garden, and saw the sights from the top of the Empire State Building. We always felt safe walking around and rarely encountered any problems. Then something changed. Now, I have no desire to go back at all. People are randomly attacked in broad daylight and you have to be constantly on alert. No thank you. You made the right decision.

    • @ragnarlothbrok2808
      @ragnarlothbrok2808 Місяць тому +111

      It was mayor DeBlasio, plus Covid, plus Adams

    • @rubyignacio6317
      @rubyignacio6317 Місяць тому +84

      +LJames +Horchul +AOC

    • @Rationalific
      @Rationalific Місяць тому +123

      I hope then that you will vote red at least in local elections in CT, so the same problems don't come to you. We know exactly how NY has gotten this way.

    • @WesleyAPEX
      @WesleyAPEX Місяць тому +55

      We all know what changed in the 80s. They’ll never change out of it now. Every 4 years they have their chance yet continue to chose squaller.

    • @spectacledWolf
      @spectacledWolf Місяць тому +48

      @@WesleyAPEX "we know" "we all know" why talk in code? what's the issue?

  • @katherineliu1291
    @katherineliu1291 Місяць тому +946

    I’m crying because you touched everything that has run NYC down to such an embarrassing and pathetic state. I’m surprised people are not protesting how dysfunctional, corrupt the NYC public agency and MTA system is. Little to poor accountability, unnecessary construction….

    • @captainnutsack8151
      @captainnutsack8151 Місяць тому +139

      Nope. They just keep voting Democrat.

    • @RosezanneMarcus
      @RosezanneMarcus Місяць тому

      NYC was a great city but policies have driven it into the ground. NYC is now a cesspool. Smh.

    • @Superabound2
      @Superabound2 Місяць тому +84

      Vote for Trump. Then put Giuliani back in charge of NYC

    • @ThatJew
      @ThatJew Місяць тому +3

      Racist

    • @ThatJew
      @ThatJew Місяць тому +4

      @@Superabound2 Racist

  • @The_SeoulJourner
    @The_SeoulJourner 11 днів тому +11

    I lived in Chicago as an adult for 27 years. I've also traveled to several parts of the world. A few years ago I moved to Seoul....mind blowing.
    My experiences and feelings resonate with you completely. Good luck in the Garden State.

    • @kenfern2259
      @kenfern2259 7 днів тому

      thats how it be when u travel overseas , i came back from austria, and the next day I see someone fighting over a girl outside while i eating inside a restaurant . this place is ridiculously

  • @jimlippi4001
    @jimlippi4001 3 дні тому +3

    I'm a lot older than you so I can say this. I am so proud of you for using your platform to make people aware of what is actually happening in that once beautiful city. I only hope that the UA-cam algorithm does not punish you for it. And I really enjoyed your last video from Scotland. That looks like a good place to live and raise a family.

  • @anthonyesper1485
    @anthonyesper1485 Місяць тому +907

    I opened a startup business in NYC - worst decision I ever made. Despite the fact I didn't have a single employee, the government sent me a 30k bill for not having workman compensation insurance. Having to resolve that took hours on end and thousands of dollars in lawyer fees. Then to simply close that business was even more of a hassle.

    • @Rickuttto
      @Rickuttto Місяць тому +44

      Ouch. That super sux.
      Hope it’s all remedied.

    • @kenbagwell8551
      @kenbagwell8551 Місяць тому +8

      😢😢😢

    • @iamawelder
      @iamawelder Місяць тому +54

      I struggle with the term “their fair share”. Who determines what fair is?

    • @carlric
      @carlric Місяць тому

      @@iamawelder for the government "fair" means all the money they need to buy votes and keep themselves in power...

    • @apponoastos9511
      @apponoastos9511 Місяць тому +6

      Live and Learn. Really should have cased the place over thoroughly. ¿What in your head wanted you to try something there? You couldn't give me a Million dollars to try and do business there at this time.

  • @mattb7895
    @mattb7895 Місяць тому +280

    Poor guy. NYC is such a hell hole that he actually thinks New Jersey is a nice place to live.

    • @myopiniongoodyouropinionbad
      @myopiniongoodyouropinionbad Місяць тому +67

      "Im leaving NYC"
      Moves accross the river🤣

    • @mattbradley408
      @mattbradley408 Місяць тому +36

      New jersey is unironically one of the best places to live in the country, in some places

    • @tony_5156
      @tony_5156 Місяць тому +6

      @@mattbradley408I’m guessing it’s the same places where houses go for 7 figures

    • @lubu4u312
      @lubu4u312 Місяць тому

      @@tony_5156 Yes. As someone who lived in NYC and currently NJ - I'm assuming most people dont know that if you can afford to live in, and then move out of Manhattan you are in the top 1%. Lil homie didnt move to PA or somewhere cheap, he's a regular scumbag.

    • @Desi365
      @Desi365 29 днів тому +4

      goes to the Sopranos territory

  • @rrosie20101
    @rrosie20101 23 дні тому +4

    You are both a smart but also thoughtful person, blessed travels and please keep these vids coming

  • @ATChampagne
    @ATChampagne 12 днів тому +4

    We moved out of NYC in 2017 and in the beginning I was homesick. I went back in Dec 2023 to visit family and the shock to see how absolutely miserable everything is just made me realized I was fortunate to leave when I could. No one is taking care of their homes anymore. Everything is fall apart. Businesses are falling apart. Crime is up when before I move it was actually lower compared to my childhood. I feel for the people who can move out. It’s expensive to move and without help or connections, you can be stuck. 😢

  • @RotNcroch
    @RotNcroch Місяць тому +1813

    People should vote differently in NYC but they don’t and they expect things to get better which is insane

    • @darek4488
      @darek4488 Місяць тому +232

      The definition of insanity

    • @Tommy9834
      @Tommy9834 Місяць тому +466

      Not only do they not change the way they vote, they instead move away, and bring the same policy to the new place.

    • @theavngr7800
      @theavngr7800 Місяць тому +268

      He's pro migrants but doesn't like them when they move to his state 😂

    • @romanteni
      @romanteni Місяць тому

      people like you who still think voting matters lol. The corrupt system literally controls EVERY level of government, from top to the absolute lowest clerk and dmv employee. From prosecutor to the judge, Trump trial and illegal prosecutions (in NEW YORK lol) is perfect example of that. From police departments, to park and rec, to literally every single department and agency, new york, just like most large cities in US are ran by several government cartels, stealing 100s of billions from citizens.

    • @cheefpoker
      @cheefpoker Місяць тому

      "But but but republicans are a threat to our democracy........." LOL!!! The re-pilling going on right now is kinda nuts. There is NO way the dems win in Nov.

  • @MultiLuckychris
    @MultiLuckychris Місяць тому +1223

    Was in New York City last year. I saw somebody get robbed, I was assaulted, and witnessed a kidnapping. Yup, literally chewed up and spit out. Never going back.

    • @mahasiangella
      @mahasiangella Місяць тому +24

      Sorry that happened to you

    • @evansgate
      @evansgate Місяць тому +100

      All the same skin color too huh

    • @messerschimdt9900
      @messerschimdt9900 Місяць тому +10

      You should watch the movie, "Death Wish" starring Charles Bronson.

    • @acook213
      @acook213 Місяць тому +61

      You weren't "literally" chewed up and spit out. You were figuratively chewed up and spit out. You literally used the word "literally" incorrectly.
      Also, where the hell were you that all 3 of those things happened to you? NYC may be wild, but the crime statistics don't even come close to supporting the picture you're attempting to paint.

    • @randomupdates4013
      @randomupdates4013 Місяць тому +5

      Can we all agree Ari fans but he needs to stop saying “frankly” in these walk and share vids???!

  • @danieldolce5734
    @danieldolce5734 12 днів тому +5

    Sadly everything you’ve said is true and there’s much more you could have added. For reasons I will never understand, many of my fellow New Yorkers make no connection between the abysmal slide into anarchy we are experiencing and the elected officials presiding over this catastrophe. From the mayor and city council to the governor and legislature, we have no real leadership but instead a superabundance of social engineers. I’m third generation New Yorker and come September, we’re leaving. And it breaks my heart.

  • @liquidsatan666
    @liquidsatan666 23 дні тому +4

    Xiaoma, you are awesome, and you continue to be awesome, making the decision that is best for you and your family. As a South Jersey native, as well as an anthropologist from Stockton University, if you ever want to come down and check out the area around my university (15 mins from AC), which has a large and diverse population made up of people from many different regions of the world who speak many different languages, please feel free to drop by! Not to mention, some really good food joints I can show you! Buena Suerte!😊

  • @lisagardner903
    @lisagardner903 Місяць тому +949

    I saw a woman in NYC that chains herself to a pole in the subway then unlocks herself when the train comes so she doesn't get pushed on the train tracks.

    • @pat1403
      @pat1403 Місяць тому +186

      WOW. Simultaneously smart and incredibly sad...

    • @LM20237
      @LM20237 Місяць тому +93

      Sad that she has had to resort to such measures. However, I’d avoid doing this as it has made her unable to get away should someone decide to attack her or if there was some kind of emergency she could get crushed/trapped. Would advise against this.

    • @Hashiramashultz
      @Hashiramashultz Місяць тому +94

      She got what she voted for

    • @Yasminh-
      @Yasminh- Місяць тому +88

      @@Hashiramashultz and you know what she voted for yeah? (also crimes like these happen since quite a while already, dont just act like NY was the best place on earth until 2+ years ago)

    • @Go4Broke247
      @Go4Broke247 Місяць тому +17

      RIP Michelle Go

  • @kcav1255
    @kcav1255 Місяць тому +286

    My aunt is a lifelong New Yorker. Lived in Manhattan until 60 years old. A couple years ago she left - forced out by extreme rent increases, safety issues and overall lack of quality of life. She was so sad to leave, but it had to be done. Shes now in NJ and honestly doesnt even miss it that much anymore. It just breaks her heart to see what the city has become. I hope she sees it improve in her lifetime 😢

    • @yikwanwong8267
      @yikwanwong8267 Місяць тому +9

      Violent crimes has been declining in New York. If your aunt lived in NY early 80s, then it was absurdly rough, I know as I was there.

    • @rick535xi
      @rick535xi Місяць тому

      @@yikwanwong8267 you are partially correct. But after Obama and Deblasio the crime has been sky rocketing. The reason you may not see it is because they are playing with the numbers. These DAs are not convicting felonies and are actually downgrading them to misdemeanors, or throwing the case out all together.

    • @andysworld47
      @andysworld47 Місяць тому +8

      If she lived there in the 70s and 80s and didn’t think the city had be written off as dead back then if not for a show called Sex and the City, and its depiction of city life for singles which created a boom town out of NYC and with boom town comes higher costs, so finding the right balance is necessary and needed, but attacking America’s Flagship City for political attacks is just sad, especially when statistics show that GOP states in the south, you have a greater chance of being involved in a violent attack there than in NYC. Fox News doesn’t show videos about crime in Mississippi because it’s not politically beneficial.. so you are unaware to be fearful.

    • @sillyrukus
      @sillyrukus Місяць тому +19

      Americans vs Democrats.

    • @andysworld47
      @andysworld47 Місяць тому +11

      @@sillyrukus we are all Americans, and it’s a 50% split, so making 50% of the country your mortal enemy is not going to end how you expect. Trump’s lasting legacy will be sewing division in his own country, because the level of hatred was forever turned to 10, thanks to his rhetoric. Pray for your country bro,

  • @CosmicNeighbors
    @CosmicNeighbors 12 днів тому +2

    I am born and raised in NYC. After 53 years I just couldn't do it anymore. I hope NYC gets its act together, but I don't see that happening for at minimum another decade or two. Great video and thank you for speaking facts!

  • @wy2528
    @wy2528 День тому

    Amazing to hear the fresh perspectives!

  • @brodssn
    @brodssn 26 днів тому +205

    Lived in NY from the time I was born through 23 years of age (1988-2011). I visited every year after I moved to FL (now reside in NC). It is tragic what they’ve done to Manhattan and criminal what they’ve done to the boroughs.

    • @peanutbuttawaffle
      @peanutbuttawaffle 22 дні тому

      still seeing too narrowly

    • @warnutztheloser
      @warnutztheloser 19 днів тому

      didn't like FL

    • @wohendumwing3ee9
      @wohendumwing3ee9 12 днів тому +7

      Hope you didn't bring the awful leftist voting tendencies of NYC to NC.

    • @danielcarlson7516
      @danielcarlson7516 12 днів тому +2

      Huh, so you like Florida and North Carolina. Interesting.

    • @blondewriter99
      @blondewriter99 12 днів тому +3

      I live in Brooklyn. It's fine. The less people here the better so I hope more leave.

  • @ZizouTheKing22
    @ZizouTheKing22 Місяць тому +735

    I’m 35 years old, born and raised in Queens and everything u said is 100% accurate… moving to another state by end of year and can’t wait

    • @livingwell5892
      @livingwell5892 Місяць тому +151

      That's wonderful, but keep in mind to not vote for the same thing you're running from in your new state. Incase you are a dem...that would be insanity.

    • @baandoptager
      @baandoptager Місяць тому +4

      What state have you chosen?

    • @tinurrr
      @tinurrr Місяць тому +3

      what state?

    • @ZizouTheKing22
      @ZizouTheKing22 Місяць тому +17

      @@baandoptager PA… the northeast is just too beautiful to say goodbye to

    • @ZizouTheKing22
      @ZizouTheKing22 Місяць тому +37

      @@livingwell5892 ohh no problem there lol

  • @ShiZm0
    @ShiZm0 10 днів тому +1

    Welcome to New Jersey! I've lived here my whole life and it's certainly not perfect but we are proudly diverse and go far in helping our most vulnerable. Hope you love it!!

  • @bexiexz
    @bexiexz 9 днів тому

    so exciting for a new chapter!

  • @katazaki
    @katazaki Місяць тому +862

    I didn't expect Xiaoma to talk about this issue, but I'm glad he did. I live in Canada and we're experiencing a lot of the same problems, especially Toronto, Vancouver, all the largely developed cities. I think this was really well put together and said in a way that will make sure everyone understands without trying to outright blame one thing in particular. It's a collection of problems, but things are going downhill fast. Thanks for your amazing content Xiaoma, good luck in New Jersey.

    • @gefingeerdbetweenthedots6092
      @gefingeerdbetweenthedots6092 Місяць тому +53

      you have trudeau he cant do anny thing good

    • @dingdongdickweed6288
      @dingdongdickweed6288 Місяць тому

      LOL If he thinks the Subway is bad, wait till he has to deal with the horrors of Jersey Transit.

    • @johng3029
      @johng3029 Місяць тому +68

      There's a common denominator here, check what party your current politicians are for those cities... I live in NYC btw

    • @katazaki
      @katazaki Місяць тому +24

      @@johng3029 Oh I'm aware

    • @B.D.F.
      @B.D.F. Місяць тому +18

      It’s not even limited to big cities. I live in a city of less than 40,000 people and we have multiple screamers downtown, people who randomly lie down in the middle of the street, people who will run up to your car at a stop sign and try to vandalize your vehicle, used needles in public parks, weekly building fires started by addicts breaking in and getting high, etc.

  • @hermithag
    @hermithag Місяць тому +1114

    You are looking very healthy and fit. Good job.

    • @josealexi5141
      @josealexi5141 Місяць тому +26

      yeah! I was getting worried about his weight

    • @passaro1791
      @passaro1791 Місяць тому +34

      You can’t see someone’s health. Weightloss is not the same as health, gaining weight is not the same as unhealthy

    • @ClixCFC
      @ClixCFC Місяць тому

      Why😂​@@josealexi5141

    • @HeroesFail
      @HeroesFail Місяць тому +85

      @@passaro1791the exception to the rule does not negate the rule. The opposite of what you said is generally true.

    • @Bigdani30117
      @Bigdani30117 Місяць тому

      @@passaro1791 yeah fatty body with fat accumulating in the blood and body is totally not causing health issues.

  • @-The-Golden-God-
    @-The-Golden-God- День тому +3

    You mentioned London; I'm from the UK and London is widely recognised as a cesspit.

  • @cmfernandez9283
    @cmfernandez9283 21 день тому +60

    I left NYC in 2007 at the age of 22 and moved to Florida. I have never regretted it even once.

    • @300Walk
      @300Walk 20 днів тому +10

      FL is #1

    • @tomato-ir9xs
      @tomato-ir9xs 20 днів тому +13

      @@300Walk #1 in transphobia maybe.

    • @Deezhan
      @Deezhan 19 днів тому

      ​@@tomato-ir9xs Not listening to the metally ill who add the word "phobia" behind everything is precisely why they are #1.

    • @ironyhigh
      @ironyhigh 18 днів тому +2

      maybe you should regret your life

    • @nah3826
      @nah3826 18 днів тому +20

      @@tomato-ir9xs Good

  • @zakkincaid
    @zakkincaid Місяць тому +287

    I love living in NYC as a guy, but my girlfriend is constantly uncomfortable having to be hyper alert and avoids going anywhere alone. We’re leaving the city strictly due to safety. Hopefully one day they figure it out so we can move back.

    • @estherruth4692
      @estherruth4692 Місяць тому +12

      What part of it do you love? I was born and raised in Brooklyn, and it became so horrible leading up to and during Covid, I couldn’t stand living in New York anymore. Everything I loved about it was gone.

    • @Comm0ut
      @Comm0ut Місяць тому +3

      It's been that way many more years than it hasn't. Compared to the 1970s today is cake. Best to search places you may potentially afford to retire in for as many years as practical. The best way is to live there so I did.

    • @alexanderkennedy2969
      @alexanderkennedy2969 Місяць тому +11

      they wont figure it out in fact itll get worse. i live about 20 minutes from NYC and havent been there in like 8 years

    • @bobdenalio2074
      @bobdenalio2074 Місяць тому +44

      leave your voting habits behind....

    • @alexanderkennedy2969
      @alexanderkennedy2969 Місяць тому +34

      @@bobdenalio2074 they dont, thats the problem. they think problems in these places have nothing to do with how they voted

  • @RING0JUICE
    @RING0JUICE Місяць тому +504

    As a Kansas resident, having you put in quotes "Yes this is a real place" when referring to Manhattan KS is such a trip! (Oh, and for the record- I've been there! It is in fact a nice town.)

    • @gopher256
      @gopher256 Місяць тому +2

      lol same

    • @xTheBOISx
      @xTheBOISx Місяць тому +16

      Love the little apple 😅

    • @glennkreisel7943
      @glennkreisel7943 Місяць тому +24

      College town, go wildcats baby😂

    • @auggie87
      @auggie87 Місяць тому +12

      Nah. Rockchalk Jayhawk.

    • @miacarlany
      @miacarlany Місяць тому

      except for the wuhan level 4 type biohazard lab there.

  • @rr7firefly
    @rr7firefly 14 днів тому +5

    In the 1950s and 1960s it was possible for a gifted artist to live in the city and to have a studio space. There were many small shops throughout the city where they could find the art materials (and all kinds of odds and ends) to create original work. Artists like Robert Rauschenberg, Louise Nevelson, Joseph Cornell, Jasper Johns were able to take advantage of that affordable climate. Today's NYC is a constant stimulus but the highly creative atmosphere of earlier decades is completely gone. Even by the time that Basquiat and Keith Haring were doing their thing the city was becoming a difficult place.

    • @sorceryofmind
      @sorceryofmind 18 годин тому

      I agree the whole arts world is geared towards, being pushed towards money. Art, in any form, should be about expression not what it could make dollar wise. I agree with your point about studios, supplies, training etc etc all becoming unaffordable. Even funding for the arts is a lot less.

  • @leaving_marks
    @leaving_marks 9 днів тому +2

    I feel the same way. The culture here in America, is that when it's not "your" money, you can spend it however you want. And this is exactly what the government does, spending recklessly, with almost no discretion. And they are not held accountable.

  • @russellhack9337
    @russellhack9337 Місяць тому +150

    The same day an nypd officer was killed, a man was pushed infront of the train and killed, that same day mayor adams spoke about how the crime in the subways is at an all time low…..

    • @THE_A.RAVEN1
      @THE_A.RAVEN1 Місяць тому

      He and all who vote blue here have the blood on their hands.

    • @Geotpf
      @Geotpf Місяць тому +6

      Crime everywhere appears much higher than it is, compared to the past, because everybody now has a video recording device in their pocket today, in the form of a smartphone. This wasn't the case 10, 20, 30, 50 years ago.
      That is, the chances of a crime being recorded is nearly 100% today, vs 1% or lower in the past. So it seems like crime is super high now when it really is much lower than 1975 thru 2000, nationwide. This includes NYC and other major cities.

    • @hvyarms4496
      @hvyarms4496 Місяць тому

      They can't report crimes they can't show up to. NYPD has been gutted and they aren't even enforcing laws unless there is an immediate threat

    • @spk1121
      @spk1121 Місяць тому

      ​@@Geotpf: No, they just aren't recording them the same as before. The prime example is from California, wherein they won't arrest anyone for shoplifting less than $900 in value. The thefts are still happening, now more than ever, and businesses are being forced to shut down as a result, yet officials will claim crime is down because of such manipulations. No arrests or charges means those incidents are not counted in the stats. NYC is engaged in similar, slimy tactics to try to sway people into not believing the evidence of their eyes and ears.

    • @enclave315
      @enclave315 Місяць тому +31

      They literally had to deploy the national guard to stand watch over the subways how is that not proof of crime​@@Geotpf

  • @moik5185
    @moik5185 Місяць тому +293

    My neighborhood declined like so many other places in the US. Growing up, you're just used to the idea that the park, is not for use by families or regular people. It's pretty much seen as wilderness, with hostile human-animals. Schools are hostile environments. Walking home from school was hazardous and potentially dangerous.
    I got the full experience, because we stayed living there long after most everyone else we knew early on, moved away.

    • @j.w.213
      @j.w.213 Місяць тому +1

      bro I doubt ur even native lmao

    • @sillyrukus
      @sillyrukus Місяць тому +21

      Americans vs Democrats.

    • @kirbyjoe7484
      @kirbyjoe7484 Місяць тому

      @@sillyrukus It doesn't matter which party is in charge. They all lick the same corporate boots. They are all on the same team ultimately, equally corrupt and useless. The only thing that changes is the rhetoric they pay lip service to.

    • @RobsRemixes
      @RobsRemixes Місяць тому +8

      *Like so many other democratic states

    • @lostprophecy7593
      @lostprophecy7593 Місяць тому +6

      @@j.w.213tf does that even mean?

  • @aw7331
    @aw7331 11 днів тому +1

    I am so glad you are talking about this. Loved your channel before, but now I’m a bonafide fan of your ways.

  • @jimjima1
    @jimjima1 5 днів тому +2

    It is ESSENTIAL that you understand two interconnected facts:
    1. NYC does not care about your well being outside of it being complementary to your productivity and therefore their ability to profit from your life. Your life is meaningless to them outside of profit. That includes caring for your mental well being and other “empathetic” resources. Again this is implemented in order to keep your system up and running for profit.
    2. Your pain threshold will always be pushed to the maximum in order to maximize profit on their end. They will adjust and reel back as needed depending on the data.

  • @Floridagirl_life
    @Floridagirl_life Місяць тому +1338

    I'm so glad you're addressing this. Everyone speaking out is the only way it changes.

    • @boboso7238
      @boboso7238 Місяць тому

      Not if they keep voting for the same old nonsense and drinking the PC kool-aid.

    • @JonnyBeoulve
      @JonnyBeoulve Місяць тому +27

      Yes but we need to agree on the fundamental problems.

    • @swordsnorchids1997
      @swordsnorchids1997 Місяць тому +8

      Hopefully, I'm Dutch but this is sad..

    • @TheMk37994
      @TheMk37994 Місяць тому

      The main change needed is to stop the constant voting for dems. They have ruined several big cities.

    • @strengthaxlesystem
      @strengthaxlesystem Місяць тому +76

      or vote differently!

  • @shelby412
    @shelby412 Місяць тому +262

    Grew up in Brooklyn, frequented in Manhattan, even dirty old Times Square,playing pinball with my niece and nephew in the '70's, riding subways to almost every neighborhood. The biggest difference between now and then is their weren't as many mentally ill people. Never saw a gun,nobody was naked. Took the subways by myself to the beach, shopped with mother at Macys. My mother worked in Manhattan and took the subway every day. Miss the old shops,coffee shops ,delis,bookstores. It's a shame. You made the right move.

    • @squirlmy
      @squirlmy Місяць тому +15

      NYC and the whole country! had public mental hospitals. They weren't great, they had their problems, and it's easy to cheer for Nicholson in One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, but so many of those people can't care for themselves and needed to be in hospitals for their own safety, for everyone's safety (and hygiene). There were always many mentally ill people (maybe ore than most cities!), but when things got bad they got help.

    • @user-mi6qr6jh1f
      @user-mi6qr6jh1f Місяць тому +2

      Even though you said “macys” , I heard the jingle “every day’s a sales day at mays”

    • @veloxian
      @veloxian Місяць тому

      By every metric NYC in the 70s had multiple times more crime than it does now.

    • @porkcutlet3920
      @porkcutlet3920 Місяць тому +4

      You can thank capitalism for that. It's only going to get worse from here.

    • @manipulatortrash
      @manipulatortrash Місяць тому +20

      @@porkcutlet3920 yeah fuck this comment, it is *not* capitalism lol. This is a very US-centric issue right now, not capitalism of all things. What, do the pristine cities of japan, korea, various countries in western europe/nordic countries somehow get forgotten here?
      There are plenty of landmark cities in the capitalist world (so basically the vassssttt majority countries in the world) with cities well planned, liveable, and clean. This is a US issue as a whole. Not capitalism.

  • @stefincanada
    @stefincanada 14 днів тому +6

    I'm glad I went to NYC in the 90s... before the charm was lost! I'll come back some day once things get better

    • @dez7800
      @dez7800 3 дні тому

      I went 3 times in the 2010s and it was pleasant all 3 times... I feel like it went downhill very intensely since the pandemic...

  • @SolidKnight64
    @SolidKnight64 День тому +2

    Comparing an old city like New York to a new city like Singapore is apples to oranges. NY has been built over again and again losing all potential for space. Singapore is small, conservative, and new allowing for it to learn from the mistakes of older cities. Their Prime Minister was also in charge of parks and recreation or something of the sort, which is why their architecture and city planning is more efficient and human friendly. NY was built in the industrialized West with coal, steel, and sweatshops. It's no mystery why it is the way it is.

  • @Madeleinewith3Es
    @Madeleinewith3Es Місяць тому +199

    I've been following along with Louis Rossman's battle against the NYC bureaucracy and trying to get an answer about a bill sent to an address where he never lived, and now he's moved his whole business to Texas to get away from their constant shuffling off of responsibility.

    • @NEONNOONE
      @NEONNOONE Місяць тому +10

      Yes. Louis actually showed a lot of UA-camrs how it’s done. Cheers from an ex-new yorker who happily lives in Miami for last 3 years and counting

    • @billespy2183
      @billespy2183 Місяць тому +2

      @@NEONNOONE How's miami? Last I been there it felt a bit rough around the edges

  • @passthatcouture
    @passthatcouture Місяць тому +396

    My grandfather once told me that you can find anything there, but nyc is not fit to live in. I learned that myself the hard way. As a woman, I had to be on constant high alert, especially on the train. I adopted the RBF and never used headphones to be aware of my surroundings. mentally disturbed people screamed in my face multiple times. I felt threatened on a crowded train by a man who was aggressively murmuring under his breath. I moved away and never looked back

    • @longiusaescius2537
      @longiusaescius2537 Місяць тому +6

      Keyed Grandpa

    • @briansounalath
      @briansounalath Місяць тому +8

      Just some dude talking to himself freaked you out?

    • @coop4189
      @coop4189 Місяць тому +40

      @@briansounalathdon’t be shocked bro that man can escalate a situation in a matter of seconds. Those people r unpredictable.

    • @cccc285
      @cccc285 Місяць тому +6

      What do you mean as a women, you think it’s that much easier for men there. Who do you think are the people getting stabbed and shot and your talking about a guy talking to himself scaring you away?! I lived in Chicago and hearing this excuse is absurd to me

    • @michael-bell
      @michael-bell Місяць тому +26

      ​@@briansounalathWhy would you reply with a statement that clearly identifies you didn't read her entire comment. Like seriously, man. Just such a rude thing to do. She obviously said it was more than just that incident, with multiple people screaming in their face. Read and respond to the entire statements people make. Don't disingenuously act like they only said one tiny little sentence and then reply to them rudely. Fuck I get tired of reading crap like that

  • @Jesticles85
    @Jesticles85 2 дні тому +3

    i lived in NYC for a few years and i hated it. i have no idea why people like it at all. expensive, filthy, rude, dangerous and the homeless problem is bad too. Enjoy your life away from that place. you're gonna love it!

  • @TheHunter2
    @TheHunter2 2 дні тому +1

    I used to pay about 30% taxes when living in São Paulo and I moved to Sweden for exactly the same thought process you demonstrated in this video. I live in Stockholm and 52% of what I earn goes to government in taxes. Do I like it? No, but I'd rather pay this 52% for the rest of my life and having the guarantee of a good life, safety, healthcare, etc etc then go back to live in a city like São Paulo where the 30% I paid was literally to waste.
    I salute you for not only seeing the things clearly, but also for not just sitting back and complaining like most of people do and instead ACTING on it and doing something about it and improve your life

    • @dallysinghson5569
      @dallysinghson5569 6 годин тому

      If you're paying that much taxes in Sweden then you're probably earning quite a nice amount... But also in Sweden you get much more benefit for the tax you pay in.

  • @photomaker4502
    @photomaker4502 Місяць тому +218

    Here in California, nobody seems to know where the $24 billion dollars that was supposed to go to cover the homelessness issues went. Nobody can track it down...just poof "gone"

    • @uxiono.3026
      @uxiono.3026 Місяць тому +39

      We all know where it went.

    • @prot07ype87
      @prot07ype87 27 днів тому +47

      "We must keep voting left, though!"
      - Democrats

    • @yousufleads
      @yousufleads 27 днів тому +9

      Israel

    • @CaptainManatee
      @CaptainManatee 27 днів тому

      Yea remember when winnie the pooh went to san fran and almost overnight all the homeless just POOF disappeared and they cleaned the entire city? Why do that for the reds? Why aren't we helping our own people? The hell happened to all those people?

    • @davidnovosardian6848
      @davidnovosardian6848 27 днів тому +2

      It went to Hogwarts

  • @nicholasv1023
    @nicholasv1023 Місяць тому +262

    Being from NYC myself, I didnt realize how bad things were until I joined the army and had the opportunity to travel and live in other places. It really opened my eyes to how unacceptable the living standards have deteriorated there. I have been living in a different state now for almost 4 years and it is one of the best decisions I have made. I am so much happier and healthier now. It is sad but as things are now I dread going to New York and I really do not want to return there anytime soon.

    • @ThatDudeDeven
      @ThatDudeDeven Місяць тому +16

      Idk how people do it man. Pay 4x the cost of absolutely everything to move around in that dystopian hellscape. There’s no good reason to live there for anybody. Rich or not.

    • @bobdenalio2074
      @bobdenalio2074 Місяць тому

      Corruption and incompetence.. Change your voting habits and maybe it'll change. Its been solidly blue for decades.

    • @Abbyyena
      @Abbyyena Місяць тому +1

      @@ThatDudeDeven💯

    • @Candlelight10
      @Candlelight10 Місяць тому

      What state u livin in?

    • @scorpiorising5467
      @scorpiorising5467 19 днів тому

      @@ThatDudeDeven Well said!! 👍👍

  • @RedMRanch
    @RedMRanch 11 днів тому

    Thanks for sharing!

  • @AFAskygoddess
    @AFAskygoddess 13 днів тому +1

    Happy to hear you're getting out of NY. I was a flight attendant for over 35 year. I couldn't count the number of times I went to New York. I loved the theater, restaurants, museums and shopping. But I'll never step foot in Manhattan again. It just isn't worth the risk when there are so many other wonderful and safer places to visit.

  • @spawnkeeper999
    @spawnkeeper999 Місяць тому +240

    There is a saying I was told when I was younger, " you have to help yourself before you can help others ". America needs to take a step and we need to help ourselves for the next decade.

    • @mariuquidiello
      @mariuquidiello Місяць тому +4

      Absolutely !

    • @LibertarianLatina
      @LibertarianLatina Місяць тому +27

      Yup.
      Vote Republican down ballot. Theyre awful, but modern day (D)s are completely deranged.

    • @Killopotamus
      @Killopotamus Місяць тому

      @@LibertarianLatinaYeah the Republicans have bankrupted my state so how does that help 😅

    • @jramsey9690
      @jramsey9690 Місяць тому +11

      Decade? That’s nothing. Better be planning for the next 25 years.

    • @veryvocalgamer
      @veryvocalgamer Місяць тому +6

      As if America has ever done anything except help itself 😂😂😂

  • @jasoncarlow4516
    @jasoncarlow4516 Місяць тому +553

    It’s a story as old as New York City, single guy comes to the city, works, finds a wife and has kids and moves to the suburbs

    • @jasoncarlow4516
      @jasoncarlow4516 Місяць тому +120

      And When he gets to retirement age he will move to Florida and complain about life in the North East like people have done for the last 40 years

    • @ur-inannak9565
      @ur-inannak9565 Місяць тому +30

      Suburbs arent safe either now. You gotta go to small towns.

    • @styracosaurusqvt4841
      @styracosaurusqvt4841 Місяць тому +35

      @@ur-inannak9565soon those will be flooded with relocated migrants.

    • @briansounalath
      @briansounalath Місяць тому +27

      Right?! Youth move for the excitement and then when they get some money grow to hate it. He’s way overplaying it. I’ve been here three years and it’s not that bad. Yes you will have unsavory interactions and see a lot of insanity, but that just comes along with living in super populated city. With all the people, you see a lot of cool stuff just by walking around too.

    • @yikwanwong8267
      @yikwanwong8267 Місяць тому +10

      @@ur-inannak9565
      How can it be that the violent crime rate in New York is rather low, especially when compared with the 70s and 80s?

  • @autumnsah3282
    @autumnsah3282 16 днів тому +2

    I am a native New Yorker Brooklynite. I left to the midwest in 2021. I miss some things like the musuems and prospect park etc. Overall happy to be away for it all.

  • @ameenahameed8874
    @ameenahameed8874 22 дні тому +3

    I am from New Jersey and this has always been a thing. Many people live in New Jersey and would commute to NYC for work. New Jersey is less expensive and not as fast paced. Growing up, we would visit NYC sometimes for plays or go to the harbor or shopping, but that was about it.

  • @nuristavarez5716
    @nuristavarez5716 Місяць тому +615

    As a native New Yorker many of the reasons you stated are exactly why I left many years ago! Good for you and your family. Everyone deserves to live in much better environments than NYC which has become absolutely embarrassing in every sense of the word!

    • @maldo1969
      @maldo1969 Місяць тому +16

      Same here and I hate it because I'll always love the idea of NYC. There was a short time where it seemed to turn around. But, I don't remember it being this bad in the early 90's when I commuted back and forth from the Bronx for work.

    • @pikachubread
      @pikachubread Місяць тому

      Where did you move to?

    • @dimitar297
      @dimitar297 Місяць тому +1

      We moved from Brooklyn to Queens and figured out how to finagle free shawarmas.

    • @futureworldhealing
      @futureworldhealing Місяць тому +2

      @@maldo1969 thats bc early 90s the crime went way down and was beginning of great 30 year period which has ended

    • @Cciium
      @Cciium Місяць тому +1

      Damn 😢😢 so there’s no hope for this place huh ? I’m about to start packing.

  • @chedda7907
    @chedda7907 Місяць тому +151

    As someone who has been here over 10+ years, this hit so home for me. Myself (and many others in my network) couldn’t agree more with you here. Great video and really well put together with all the stats + facts.

    • @clone9948
      @clone9948 Місяць тому

      just curious, trump or biden

    • @ebicdefender8570
      @ebicdefender8570 Місяць тому

      congratulations, you voted for this

    • @davehugstrees
      @davehugstrees Місяць тому +1

      The funny thing is all the people I know who live in New York say this, and then when you ask them who they voted for, it's the people that are currently there. So in all fairness, they really have themselves to blame for the situation that they spend so much time complaining about.

  • @user-yl9ew1os9m
    @user-yl9ew1os9m 11 днів тому +4

    You can thank Uncle Joey and Auntie K for the broken policies.

    • @YouHaveAIDS
      @YouHaveAIDS 7 днів тому

      It all goes back to Woodrow Wilson really. He was the "progressive" that gave us central banking among many other destructive freedom stealing policies. His administration was the beginning of the end for the United States.

  • @SolzheBitsyn
    @SolzheBitsyn 4 дні тому

    Wow. Very thorough and impactful video.

  • @alphanerdgames9417
    @alphanerdgames9417 Місяць тому +607

    I left 20 years ago. People thought I was crazy. Turns out, I was just ahead of the curve.

    • @lisamj
      @lisamj Місяць тому +6

      I left in 2019. I feel ya.

    • @ata0069
      @ata0069 Місяць тому +6

      Yup. 2003 I was out.

    • @nysportsfan2576
      @nysportsfan2576 Місяць тому +4

      Great foresight!

    • @opart
      @opart Місяць тому +5

      lol, he "left" across the river. 10 minute path train ride. gtfo

    • @MikeKayK
      @MikeKayK Місяць тому +10

      Not really. NYC was still pretty great til about 2020. Especially during the Guiliani & Bloomberg eras. I was sure I'd be spending the rest of my life there. It's only after COVID/BLM/DiBlasio & Adams that NYC went to complete sh*t and stopped recognizing the city I used to love. By 2023, I was outta there.

  • @TaskSwitcherify
    @TaskSwitcherify Місяць тому +459

    I lived in SF and NYC. Then I visited Singapore. So clean, so safe. Parents let their 12-year old kids walk and ride the (super-clean & safe) public transportation to/from school! We have so much potential for greatness, safety and prosperity...

    • @Laney322
      @Laney322 Місяць тому

      Singapore is probably one of those countries that has a 99 percent conviction rate and the dp for drug dealing

    • @zdrux
      @zdrux Місяць тому +87

      It's like this in every country that has a homogenous population. They all speak the same language, have the same culture, same history, same expectations, etc.. Anytime you mix multiple societies together across religious, racial, cultural lines; you get violence and instability.

    • @cbjewelz
      @cbjewelz Місяць тому +15

      That’s how it was growing up in SF in 90s. I was out all day with friends in middle school, cruising the city and skateboarding.

    • @kurtmoses5583
      @kurtmoses5583 Місяць тому +20

      @@zdrux its just bk ppl

    • @shyamapple9060
      @shyamapple9060 Місяць тому +82

      @@zdrux Singapore is literally one of the most multicultural nations in the world with 4 official languages:- Malay, Chinese, Tamil and English and has an equal distribution of many ethnic groups. Please tell me you have never visited Singapore before you made this comment. America's problems are the fact that there are university and critical social inquiry academic theories prevalent amongst lawmakers and people holding public office whom have made the problems of America worse by implementing laws that do not make sense even for legal migrants and are simply advocating for a complete Marxist shift in politics. Even Dubai is only 13% Emirati the rest are all migrants and yet it has one of the safest, most prosperous and clean city states in the world.

  • @deadwoodribbit
    @deadwoodribbit 10 днів тому +1

    I used to travel to NYC every two weeks for about two years straight in 2006-2007, then monthly from 2008-2012. It was an amazing place, never had to really worry about safety in the areas I was in (Murray Hill, Midtown, etc.). Now I have two daughters & I've often told them how much I would love to take them to NYC, but in its current state, there's no way I'm gonna do it. So sad to see such an awesome city get ruined by the greed, corruption & incompetence of its leaders.

  • @HectorKom-cg5if
    @HectorKom-cg5if 22 дні тому +1

    Thank you xiao man for sharing your experience.

  • @berfunkle4588
    @berfunkle4588 Місяць тому +241

    We used to have mental institutions, but then it was decided that they were cruel. So now, they live on the streets. There's a middle ground, but we as a society can't seem to figure it out.

    • @iworkout6912
      @iworkout6912 Місяць тому +25

      Nearly every city upstate has an abandon high rise 'state hospital'. Large buildings and think of all the crazy people they held at one time. Now the crazy people just wonder around, and scream at people, I didn't know why they were all closed, but you probably right, society thought it was cruel.

    • @leesmusic1
      @leesmusic1 Місяць тому +59

      It’s more cruel to not care for these people, it was frankly far more cruel and idiotic to just let them live on the streets

    • @zguy95135
      @zguy95135 Місяць тому +38

      Agreed. Its more cruel IMO to let people who NEED institutional care to just fend for themselves on the streets. Meanwhile the rest of us have to deal with them. It’s unacceptable.

    • @azillliasmith2734
      @azillliasmith2734 Місяць тому +20

      It's not society it's our politicians....

    • @Johnny_Socko
      @Johnny_Socko Місяць тому +37

      If you watch old movies & cartoons, they often had memes about "calling the men in white coats" when someone was acting crazy. That came from the fact that we used to have an entire infrastructure for mental health care, including dedicated staff who would respond to mental health emergencies (rather than police), and facilities where the patients could be brought. (Those big state hospitals & asylums.)
      Unfortunately the care administered at such institutions ranged from "indifferent" to "sadistic". We had the infrastructure, but the techniques and understanding of mental disorders were lacking.
      Regardless, the Federal funding for such programs was cut bit by bit until it was finally ended entirely during the Reagan administration. That is why the mentally ill homeless population exploded in the 1980s and hasn't gone down since, and why there are so many abandoned mental institutions in every state.
      I've always wondered what we could accomplish if we had a mid-20th Century level of funding and dedicated infrastructure for mental health, combined with modern-day understanding of treatment. It wouldn't be perfect, but I'll bet it would be one hell of an improvement over our current strategy of "there is no strategy".

  • @Hebel1982
    @Hebel1982 Місяць тому +113

    As a German I can understand your grief with slow and expensive government projects. I wish you and your family all the best in your new living environment.

    • @sillyrukus
      @sillyrukus Місяць тому +2

      Americans vs Democrats.

    • @lukasmerten7697
      @lukasmerten7697 Місяць тому +9

      and declining public safety cause of mass immigration.

    • @VostockR
      @VostockR Місяць тому +3

      germany is rotting, no more cheap oil, all the brands get out the country

    • @Zandoh16
      @Zandoh16 Місяць тому

      @@VostockR😂

  • @kevinna3
    @kevinna3 11 днів тому

    i feel exactly the same - moved to NYC last yr for a good job opportunity, but planning on moving to the jersey side soon.

  • @kieranlang3279
    @kieranlang3279 15 днів тому +1

    Went on the hong Kong Subway and was actually shocked how nice it was. And than I was told it's this nice everywhere outside of New York city

  • @stevencuellarart9495
    @stevencuellarart9495 Місяць тому +54

    Damn son! Same reason I left NY 15 years ago. I live in OH now, and I’m very happy. Have a great career as interior carpenter, have my own family, my own house, 3 cars etc. But the best of all is that I actually feel safe. I got assaulted in Roosevelt avenue once after visiting my wife. They took my money, my phone. It was the last strike for me. I’m glad I left.

    • @actionjksn
      @actionjksn Місяць тому +1

      We have a mayor in Columbus who is working on turning this city into NYC. I mean NYC in all the bad ways, not the good parts of it. We did get a lot of house for our money, we were lucky enough to have bought it back in 2009 and the value has literally doubled.

    • @TheDoomWizard
      @TheDoomWizard Місяць тому +2

      Ew you are in denial. You do realize we're in a runaway trajectory of climate catastrophe that's about to send food prices and cost of good spiraling out of control? You aren't any safer in Ohio.

    • @actionjksn
      @actionjksn Місяць тому

      @@TheDoomWizard You are being scammed. You are very eager to have the governments and corporations steal even more of your money. This planet was supposed to be uninhabitable over 20+ years ago. The planet was doomed in 10 years for the last 60 years. Do you think they're telling the truth this time? Why?

  • @splatoon_octo
    @splatoon_octo 16 днів тому

    Totally agree. I started a job in NYC last August, live in NJ. I avoid the MTA like a plague. Horrific conditions in the city.

  • @DFENS-dx1ns
    @DFENS-dx1ns 14 днів тому +3

    so much words needed for describing our greatest strength - 'diversity'

  • @Snazy30
    @Snazy30 Місяць тому +414

    I was born and raised in Queens. At 34 years old I had enough. After Covid NYC just wasn’t the same. I’m sad for what NY has become and its politics that have caused it to be the city it is. I now live in Texas and although it’s not NY I feel a lot safer here for me and my family.

    • @lizc.214
      @lizc.214 Місяць тому +26

      Welcome to Texas✌️

    • @Alex_1400
      @Alex_1400 Місяць тому

      The lack of law enforcement has almost everything to do with the the BLM riots of 2020

    • @estherruth4692
      @estherruth4692 Місяць тому +32

      I was born and raised in Brooklyn. My mom was born and raised in queens. We left for Florida during Covid. I still have family in New York, and as bad as it was when we left, it’s so much worse now they say. It makes me so sad. I grew up in the 90s and 2000s and New York was amazing at that time.

    • @Snazy30
      @Snazy30 Місяць тому +18

      @@estherruth4692 NY was fire before Covid. I never thought I was leaving yet here we are.

    • @Ryan-cb1ei
      @Ryan-cb1ei Місяць тому

      Texas isn’t safe either so that’s funny

  • @jackieumgelder
    @jackieumgelder Місяць тому +621

    You look great! Here’s to new beginning 🎉🎉 Best of luck on your new journey ✌️

    • @TheWimmse
      @TheWimmse Місяць тому +5

      he acutally looks terrible, but i do wish him well.

    • @DavidZ4-gg3dm
      @DavidZ4-gg3dm Місяць тому +3

      Moving from NYC to NJ is very common.

    • @ramy9103
      @ramy9103 Місяць тому +26

      @@TheWimmseHave you seen his older videos. Dude definitely lost some weight.

    • @user-pv6vd3ug5k
      @user-pv6vd3ug5k Місяць тому

      8:45 this is why tyrone needs to diversify him more

    • @ravedragon
      @ravedragon Місяць тому +10

      ​@TheWimmse jealous that he lost weight ? I am too it's okay lol

  • @zyzzyvacation
    @zyzzyvacation 14 днів тому +5

    In NYC, self-defense is now an offense 😟

    • @ItsOk-mq9ex
      @ItsOk-mq9ex 11 днів тому +1

      It's almost as if people voted all their rights away....

    • @vertigo2894
      @vertigo2894 4 дні тому

      Better than Tokyo

  • @chrisgreen2786
    @chrisgreen2786 15 днів тому +2

    Everything you're talking about is also true of London and I did the same thing as you, I moved to my home city 1.5 hours out of London where crime is very low and it's the perfect environment for my daughter to grow up in. It's the best thing I ever did and it's such a relief to not have to keep feeling nervous about getting robbed etc. The final straw was when a female friend was stabbed and beaten walking home and my house getting burgled. Life is too short to live among the scum who now have taken over and inhabit our once great city. My city is the most beautiful in the UK with zero crime so it's an easy choice, that's Bath if anyone is heading this way! If you're past 30 with a young family, go somewhere safe and leave the chaos of the big city behind.

  • @bklynzfranchise
    @bklynzfranchise Місяць тому +54

    My son was born in 2018, the minute my wife became pregnant I started looking to leave Brooklyn. Bought a house in Toms River, NJ in 2019 and it was the best thing i ever did.

    • @drakingson
      @drakingson Місяць тому +2

      My friends live in Toms River.

    • @wfobaby9116
      @wfobaby9116 22 дні тому

      Yeah, and now all the NY North Jersey are invading South Jersey. Tell your friends to stay up there and stop taking over Lakewood.

    • @ItBetterBeFast
      @ItBetterBeFast 11 днів тому

      One dump to another dump

  • @michaelheliotis5279
    @michaelheliotis5279 Місяць тому +346

    I really appreciate how well thought out and level-headed your commentary on NYC was. And how articulate you were at clarifying your precise issues and viewpoints. 🙏

    • @LowKeyLifeHKD
      @LowKeyLifeHKD Місяць тому +8

      You get what you vote for...

    • @user-pv6vd3ug5k
      @user-pv6vd3ug5k Місяць тому +1

      8:45 this is why tyrone needs to diversify him more

    • @onetwo-xu2jw
      @onetwo-xu2jw Місяць тому +1

      He needs a one way trip to the Congo in Africa for his diversity needs...

  • @Olivia-bl8ez
    @Olivia-bl8ez День тому

    You left NYC? Welcome to America ❤️
    A lot of my friends have left NYC recently because of the taxes. And none of them are rich, they were all pretty broke. They used to be willing to spend half their paycheck in taxes to live in a shoebox because they were always out and about. But they got too scared to go out late after some incidents and it’s just not worth it.

  • @mikeyd7749
    @mikeyd7749 Місяць тому +93

    It's all about leadership (or the lack thereof). I grew up in NYC and left in the early 1990s right after college and moved to South Carolina. My brother is now in Colorado. The rest of my family is in Florida. My wife's family is now in Indiana and North Carolina. Our families lived in NYC for generations, and one by one, we left. None of us regret that decision..... GREAT video! Haven't been in NYC since 2017 and it sounds like things have been in a complete freefall since then.

    • @shawnt5205
      @shawnt5205 Місяць тому

      aMAZING THAT 80 PERCENT OF YOUR FAMILY MOVED TO RED STATES

    • @silkscreenart5515
      @silkscreenart5515 Місяць тому +5

      Hey Mike, my story is similar to yours. Left Queens in 1993 and moved to Colorado. Good move for me because I could not afford to buy a house here now.
      That being said, Colorado (Denver) is starting to have its fair share of problems.
      I think the entire United States is in decline. Really nowhere left to run except maybe out of the country.

    • @israelisjeshuas7009
      @israelisjeshuas7009 Місяць тому

      There’s nowhere on earth to run except to the Lord Jesus. Read one of the Gospels today, Sir! God bless. 🙏

    • @Windward535
      @Windward535 Місяць тому

      ​@@silkscreenart5515 CO was great when it was a Republican state. The woke virus destroys everything it touches

    • @onetwo-xu2jw
      @onetwo-xu2jw Місяць тому +1

      @@israelisjeshuas7009 You can run to cold rural places... Africans and Arabs don't like it there.

  • @jlharon
    @jlharon Місяць тому +724

    This was a really well-argued video. I've been frustrated to see some NYC-based creators recently posting a ton of click-bait style videos about the decline of the city. But this was all explained and discussed in a fair and reasonable way. These are real issues and it's becoming more and more difficult to raise a family here in the city. Wishing you the best as you settle into NJ life!

    • @brisar.9372
      @brisar.9372 Місяць тому +3

      Xiaomanyc for president 😁📸

    • @chefnyc
      @chefnyc Місяць тому +17

      I agree with this guy 100%. You pay crazy amount of tax and you get nothing in return. Probably you need to send your kids to private school. I have been living in NYC for 15+ years and it's gotten worse especially in the last 4 years. The same crazy people yell at 4am waking you up from your sleep.
      I was in Jersey City today, exploring the neighborhood ;)

    • @Deciverse
      @Deciverse Місяць тому +35

      How is it clickbait if they’re right?

    • @lartrak
      @lartrak Місяць тому +15

      @@Deciverse They use wildly exaggerated headlines and thumbnails. That is clickbait.

    • @pjperdue1293
      @pjperdue1293 Місяць тому +9

      "NYC-based creators recently posting a ton of click-bait style videos about the decline of the city..." I think I know some of the videos you're referring to. This one was refreshing.

  • @barbarataylor6426
    @barbarataylor6426 7 хвилин тому

    I’m from Toronto Canada. We have similar problems, although on a lesser scale, but the situation has increased over the last decade or so. I would say mental health issues combined with drug addiction is fuelling this epidemic.

  • @richardmaier28
    @richardmaier28 Годину тому

    The Metro in Montreal was way ahead of the NYC subway back in the late 60's and early 70's, still have pictures with my Nikon F I was so amazed,the students at McGill couldn't believe it was that bad in NYC

  • @ryanflores2489
    @ryanflores2489 Місяць тому +127

    Im a born and raised NYer. Have my whole life here, friends here, family here, but i do not see myself staying here. I been traveling to other states now and see ppl are happier than my friends and I. Im out i cant no more

    • @_Wai_Wai_
      @_Wai_Wai_ Місяць тому +8

      personally, I feel like I need to leave the USA.

    • @inelhuayocan_aci
      @inelhuayocan_aci Місяць тому +4

      I packed up my family and left Los Angeles 5 years ago. Born and raised. I felt the same as you before I bought my house in Ohio. If you're anything like me, you're gonna miss home despite everything. There will be learning lessons and growing pains. I'm considering selling my house and moving to a rural part of California if not somewhere else in the Southwest. Climate has a lot to do with it. Food for thought. Good luck.

    • @skoolboi_L
      @skoolboi_L Місяць тому

      Where do you want to move to?

    • @Snazy30
      @Snazy30 Місяць тому +6

      Not to make this a political comment. But if you want better for your family go to a red state. I was born and raised in Queens. Moved to Texas 2 years ago and have no regrets.

    • @inelhuayocan_aci
      @inelhuayocan_aci Місяць тому +4

      @@Snazy30 I, for one, love Oklahoma as I lived there for a couple years. I'd like to live there again. That said, red states DO have their drawbacks as well. Oklahoma was actively starving their education system BEFORE the whole wokeness craze and in more so (at least in effect) in rural areas with some rural districts having to go to 4 day school weeks. There really isn't a perfect solution between so-called red and blue states, only stay away from the areas that have gone off the deep end such as L.A. (despite all its inherent advantages).

  • @ThomasCookeLaw
    @ThomasCookeLaw Місяць тому +80

    I have followed this guy for years. One of the most innocuous people that I follow too. He’s brilliant when it comes to language and is really just spreading joy and positivity through real communication. But even he is done with NYC. I couldn’t relate more. Moved out of NYC a few years ago for the same reasons and I won’t be back. The top 1 percent and the criminals are the only ones who benefit from these policies in NYC and it’s just really sad. I had worked and lived in NYC for over a decade. No more.

  • @davidl8759
    @davidl8759 8 днів тому +1

    I even know a lot of single guys moving to NJ from Manhattan, but if i was married with kids, it would be a total no brainer! Enjoy the good life, you have earned it!

  • @Madheim777
    @Madheim777 20 днів тому

    Sometimes i use the subway in Buenos Aires, Argentina (I don't live there, just travel for hobbies for now) and i'm used to see it as a bit chaotic, dirty or in maintenance (depends of the station). The fact that the NY subway is right now in a much worse state than ours, for what we always saw as a 1st world country, shocks me a lot.

  • @Ibbysz
    @Ibbysz Місяць тому +301

    Wow great video Xiama. I knew about these issues but you've really shown how extreme they are. London is essentially facing the same problem.

    • @harrydavey9884
      @harrydavey9884 Місяць тому +33

      Yep London's Mayor has absolutely decimated our dear capital. We can criticise the hell out of Boris as a PM, but he wasn't too bad as mayor of London.

    • @maisieh.8620
      @maisieh.8620 Місяць тому +10

      I have to say your tube system worked well and I think I only saw one or two homeless people on our 10 day stay in Scotland and London. We waited about 5 minutes or less on the platform.

    • @georgemulford2910
      @georgemulford2910 Місяць тому +16

      Yeah that’s true about London. Only problem is there are less places to go in the UK. I feel the UK as a whole is getting worse and worse though.

    • @CaptainGrimes1
      @CaptainGrimes1 Місяць тому +35

      ​@@georgemulford2910Mass immigration, woke politics and a useless establishment

    • @tntdynamite585
      @tntdynamite585 Місяць тому

      Seems like theres some smart Londoners here who feel the same way. Sadiq Khan took less than 10 years to ruin this city. And he looks likely to get a 3rd term. It’s so over.

  • @user-tj3uy4tz4y
    @user-tj3uy4tz4y Місяць тому +192

    As a native New Yorker who moved to North Carolina, this is so true. My husband was freaking out because at least once a week I would be harassed or touched or groped or would be screamed at in my face (and I’m a 4’10” woman) on the subway commuting to and from work. So many of my other friends have experienced this too. Enough!

    • @Jordan42947
      @Jordan42947 Місяць тому +76

      I hope you remember this when voting. Nc has had tons of yankee transplants. Don’t nyc the south.

    • @lizziepols4057
      @lizziepols4057 Місяць тому +1

      @@Jordan42947Huh? She left so she clearly wasn’t the problem.

    • @jrspringston
      @jrspringston Місяць тому +50

      ​@@lizziepols4057 yeah she wasn't a harasser or groper sure, doesn't mean she doesn't vote blue. Plus based off NYC's voting, it's a fair assumption to make and therefore a fair comment

    • @HCHSKaraoke
      @HCHSKaraoke Місяць тому +2

      Hell naw NYC the south 😅😅 move to Colorado Arkansas Montana all of them 🩷 there's more of us than there are of them, so have fun yelling on the Internet

    • @ubroberts5541
      @ubroberts5541 Місяць тому +50

      Hope you didn’t bring bad blue voting habits with you to NC.

  • @edu2212
    @edu2212 22 дні тому

    i cant believe i was walking by byself at 3 am on lower east side, it was my first 2 days in the city and i didn't know where i was. thankfully i rushed to my hotel in that same place as soon as I noticed some junkie woman pointing at me

  • @SilVia-hs2kb
    @SilVia-hs2kb 2 дні тому

    I"ve lived in North Jersey since i was 14. I remember being in my late teens early 20's in the later Rudy Giuliaano's years as mayor and how you COULD actually enjoy the city. Now even though i only still live 8 miles from NYC, you could not pay me enough to go there. I haven't set a foot in Manhattan in over a decade. My husband and i can't wait to get out of Jersey either. Our taxes are insane, the people are nuts, the only plus is EVERYTHING is close and our property values maintain themselves better than most of the country. I've been visiting the Southern States and i love the vibe there, more relaxed, better quality of life and MUCH nicer people.

  • @invisiblehearths
    @invisiblehearths Місяць тому +152

    I totally expected the title to be clickbait (like, “I'm leaving NYC on a trip and then coming back”) but I'm grateful that this was a more-serious take than that.

    • @woozy607
      @woozy607 Місяць тому +1

      Me 2!!! I am quitting UA-cam, I am moving, ect…. This is def. Not clickbait

    • @baandoptager
      @baandoptager Місяць тому

      Ha ha me too.

  • @julesgiannantonio5558
    @julesgiannantonio5558 Місяць тому +270

    I left 1.5 years ago for all the reasons you mentioned. It financially didn’t make sense for me. I now own a home in Utah where as I would still be living paycheck to paycheck in NYC.

    • @youthecat
      @youthecat Місяць тому +13

      Well, that's nice, but you're in UTAH. I know, I know... "nothing wrong with Utah!". But then again, you're in Utah!

    • @DaniG.German883
      @DaniG.German883 Місяць тому +8

      Vote republican

    • @mrAZcardinal
      @mrAZcardinal Місяць тому +9

      Thanks for bumping our home prices up to unreasonable prices.

    • @weroliera
      @weroliera Місяць тому +3

      Don’t go over there and vote blue

    • @dawsynasay4841
      @dawsynasay4841 Місяць тому +2

      Welcome to Utah! As someone born and raised in the state, I hope it’s treated you well