What is Narcissistic Personality Disorder?
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- Опубліковано 27 вер 2021
- Narcissistic Personality Disorder is one of the most stigmatized mental health disorders, and it can negatively impact most aspects of a person's life. Learn more about the symptoms of NPD and how it affects a person living with this disorder.
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as someone with npd this comment section is not it. im not a monster or an irredeemable monster. im just self aware and seeking help. npd isn't just "abuser disorder"
From someone else with a Cluster B disorder, I really hope you're doing okay! I can't quite relate to the exact stigmas of NPD, as that's not the disorder I have, but I know how awful it is to see all the stigmatizing rhetoric invading like. Pretty much almost any space that discusses your condition. I'm glad you're seeking help, even though there are way too many people who refuse to acknowledge that there's a person under that label who *is* actually trying.
I appreciate you seeking help for your disorder. Most people with NPD can't even take that step so good for you to be self aware enough to seek help.
It is.
@@vroomerlifts I was just about to write exactly the same as the two words.
I applaud you! You are very strong!
For anyone with NPD, from someone with a different personality disorder: You are not inherently evil, you are not irredeemable. You have to take ownership of your disorder and work to learn new, healthier behaviors. It is hard, but you can do it. You deserve to love and be loved.
That's rubbish. They are demons who don't deserve to live.
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The problematic part is that these people, like my father don’t want to seek help, they see nothing wrong and would get overly angry if it would be brought up to seek help
That's just the problem with their condition though, It's because Narcs feel as if they are in their prime and their disorder allows them to not want to seek help, but that doesn't go for everyone. I'm getting help now for my NPD and you can be symptom free just like someone with BPD or any other PD. But I do agree with you though!
I'll be damned if I wasn't thinking the same exact thing! Mine is 71 years old so it's really a moot point.
I have NPD and I’m starting with treatment next week. My bf pushed me to do it. So don’t give up on your father.
@@aleynatara2033 really,then why some narc are extremely stubborn and highly manipulating????
@@priyanrock679 I don't get your point. I was just saying that some people with NPD do choose therapy and you shouldn't give up hope in those people. I don't know who hurt you, but it's very wrong to see all people with NPD as monsters.
I specially liked the last part, where you emphasize the importance of having the same empathy and compassion for people with NPD that one has for people with other mental health issues. Good psych espresso!
Same here! There is often a lot of stigma and not enough empathy.
Fools, NPD Can have no empathy......they can act if it in there interest 🤔. That said wait till you 80 years old looking back at your life...
To Late you dead 💀.
Worst advice ever ! Do not show any empathy to NPD, as trust me, they won't show any to you !
Cut them out of life and leave them, as you will find only pain, lies, disappointments, cheating with them.
Those demons should be left alone.
Lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love and coprate in life. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love. Married life is warriors life they always fight to win even they lose every day single living is dirty living like still water gets dirty day by day according to religious. Husband's house wife's real house she is real queen in that house. Divorce doesn't allowed in religious. Past is jail. Guilt and stress stop blessing. Moody and stubborn behavior brings lots fear in life.ego and discrimination brings fear in life. Faith is big pillow. Nobody bad on earth only our nagtive thinking is dangerous so god said keep faith in heart and take spiritual knowledge it will gives you positive thoughts then you will find love on earth.
@@eh.440 lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love and coprate in life. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love. Past is jail. Guilt and stress stop blessing. Moody and stubborn behavior brings lots fear in life. Ego and discrimination brings fear in life. Married life is warriors life they always fight to win even they lose every day single living is dirty living like still water gets dirty day by day according to religious.husband's house wife's real house she is real queen in that house. Divorce doesn't allowed in religious. Faith is big pillow.
Very interesting and very helpful, the first step for a person who is showing signs of a Narcissistic personality is for them to recognise that they have an issue that needs help, but sadly many don’t get past this first hurdle and bumble along in life thinking everybody else is the problem.
I see many signs in myself of Narcissistic personality, but I think the real sign of Narcissism is a lack of empathy. So, No, I don't need no stinkin' "Narcissism."
@@sallylauper8222 Empathy isn’t a particular strong point of mine either, I feel more empathy towards animals.
@@willswheels283 What I am trying to say is that I don't think I am on the "Narcissism" spectrum because I am a fire hydrant for empathy. I am a fire hydrant for empathy.
@@willswheels283 well my dad helps the homeless yet he’s definitely one he is toxic to my mom thinks he’s always right and just thinks everyone is wrong and after him when no one cares.
@@Jennchannel24My Dad had episodes like this, sometimes he was ok, then other times he’d be in this strange mood where he thought people were talking about him and taking the Mickey out of him and wanted to do him harm, and he’d be going on and on about it, and when we tried to talk him out of it he’d starting getting annoyed and would start shouting at my mum and generally being miserable and moody, he definately suffered with quite bad paranoia, I hardly ever remember him being Empathetic to anybody, not even his family.
I don’t think he chose to be like that though, I realise now he suffered with poor mental health, sadly he passed this onto me, not good at all.
Anybody else with NPD here? Every time I see a comment section for these videos it’s almost exclusively people who don’t have it or are bitter towards someone who has it
100% it's so annoying seeing spaces for npd people flooded by abelist assholes who think they know everything about what it's like to live with this disorder. I have npd and I'm not ashamed of it anymore. I live with my partner of seven years and we're both only 21 and unbelievably happy. She never had that stigma because she never knew it was a thing and has been working with me to help me better myself everyday and I'm so grateful for the progress I've made with her. Npd isn't an unforgivable, unrecoverable disease that defines bad abusive people. Its a disorder. Just like every other disorder. All it takes is a little compassion. The slander is so frustrating!!!!
I don't have NPD, but I do have BPD, so I understand how it feels to see rhetoric that paints you as inherently abusive by default just because of one label, and I'm sorry you have to go through that too, probably to an even greater degree. I hope you're doing okay!
I know
I really wanna talk with someonne with NPD someday; it interests me so much yet there's so little good documentation on it because of confusion and stigma. I.E. I've seen that people with NPD tend to be very insecure, having the highest suicide/depression toll among all personality disorders, but I'm really curious as to how that comes to be and manifests and presents itself
i once just simply said i have npd in a comment section and i immediately got attacked and told that i can't just say that and that i am going to ruin everyones lives 🤷♀️
The part that’s hurts the most is that they really don’t realize the hurt their causing people and never will
They realize it
@@jakerivets2249 And they thrive off the hurt they cause people. It’s literally their supply source. To hell with all of them!
@@FreshPrincessof011 I feel like what you are saying is fucked up
@@Suejoy4234 do they care about the help they are getting?
@@lilmari530 very well said. I didn't want to go with whatever everyone was saying because I felt like it just wasn't right. Glad to know this, thanks
I live with my adult daughter29 who relates most definitely to this disease. Thank you for video it gives me footing.
Nobody bad on earth only our nagtive thinking is dangerous so god said keep faith in heart and take spiritual knowledge it will change your thoughts it will change your life.lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love and coprate in life. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love. Past is jail. Guilt and stress stop blessing. Moody and stubborn behavior brings lots fear in life. Cut down desire only grateful. Married life is warriors life they always fight to win even they lose every day single living is dirty living like still water gets dirty day by day according to religious. Husband's house wife's real house. She is real queen in that house. Divorce doesn't allowed in religious. Faith is big pillow. Ego and discrimination brings fear in life.
Might wanna look at yourself too
@@cristymakes6026 lol
@@cristymakes6026 Bad take.
kick her out
My brother and father have this. Seems to be absolute poison.
My daughter, who is battling cancer, has narcissistic behaviours that are so much worse as she faces her own mortality. When we should be connecting more at this time, its almost impossible.I hang in, as her mother, but its taking a toll on me. I just want to hold her but everyday theres some drama, and I am so triggered, I cant be around her. I am heart broken, yet aware she is in constant acute pain without adequate pain relief, terrified, afraid for her teenage son, and her brother who is watching his closest and only friend suffer. I have no idea how to deal with this, no support,no services just day after day of her pain, paranoia, anger, resentment, need.All I can do is pray, and who knows if that works, but I have nothing else to turn to. My daughter has had a hard life, and sadly, it looks like it will be a hard death.
Don't worry. Everything will be and she will be alright.
Don't worry Mam I will pray for ur daughter❤
I'm very sorry. It sounds like you are in a situation that would be very hard for anyone to deal with. I'm not equipped to give any proper advice, and it does sound like you need it considering the desperation in your tone and seriousness of your situation. I think the first thing you should do is seek professional help with a psychologist to get proper support and advice. I also want to say that you need to remember to take care of both yourself and the other children. Perhaps they could stay with a grandparent for a while, so that they don't get traumatized by your daughters pain and behavior more than necessary, while you stay at home and care for her? You should also make it a priority to do things that are good for your mental health and that gives you a short break from the situation every now and then, eg. taking walks and visiting friends and family. You also need to set boundaries with your daughter. What she is going through must be terribly hard, but that doesn't give her the right to treat others that care for her badly. Even if you want to support her as much as you can, you need boundaries, because you will be able to do more for her if you don't get exhausted by her behavior. Please seek help, anyone would need it in your situation and you have no idea how big of an impact it can have just to have a few sessions with a professional. Good luck
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Finally, a video about NPD that doesn’t demonize and hate on them. I do get that they may negatively impact others, but they’re still people
Edit: I should have phrased my comment more sympathetically to those suffering from a narcissist and more specifically to narcissists who do seek help. I also lived under a narcissistic parent, but I was lucky enough to have a support system who encouraged them to get help and change substantially to the point that we now have a good relationship.
Wonder if they think of others when they cheat, lie, use, manipulate and destroy !
Those demons are to be left alone
@@MarkMarkko Jesus mark who shit in your coffee this morning?
Nobody bad on earth only our nagtive thinking is dangerous so god said keep faith in heart and take spiritual knowledge it will gives you positive thoughts it will change your life. Lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love and coprate in life. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love. Past is jail. Guilt and stress stop blessing. Moody and stubborn behavior brings lots fear in life. Ego and discrimination brings fear in life. Positive attitude is power of mind. Married life is warriors life they always fight to win even they lose every day single living is dirty living like still water gets dirty day by day according to religious. Husband's house wife's real house she is real queen in that house. Divorce doesn't allowed in religious.
@@MarkMarkko lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love and coprate in life. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love. Past is jail. Guilt and stress stop blessing. Moody and stubborn behavior brings lots fear in life. Ego and discrimination brings fear in life. Nobody bad on earth only our nagtive thinking is dangerous so god said keep faith in heart and take spiritual knowledge it will gives you positive thoughts it will change your life. Married life is warriors life they always fight to win even they lose every day single living is dirty living like still water gets dirty day by day according to religious. Husband's house wife's real house. Divorce doesn't allowed in religious. Faith is big pillow
@@applepiecomics3835 lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love and coprate in life. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love. Past is jail. Guilt and stress stop blessing. Moody and stubborn behavior brings lots fear in life. Ego and discrimination brings fear in life. Cut down desire only grateful. Married life is warriors life they always fight to win even they lose every day single living is dirty living like still water gets dirty day by day according to religious. Husband's house wife's real house she is real queen in that house. Divorce doesn't allowed in religious. Faith is big pillow. God is our inner beauty. God is in every heart. God never born God never die only angels born give God's messages to the world in different different countries. God is our inner beauty.
Blessed are those who mourn for they shall be comforted
Just saying “Sorry, I’m just a narcissist” is not an excuse to treat others poorly.
Sounds too much like me, I didnt even realise. The worst part is that I cant have calm sleep unless I overwork myself to the point when its unhealthy to make sure that others value me, my work and they see me as someone valuable. My status is way too important for me, more than it should be. Nice to know, thanks
But know that we all have a degree of narcissism, Freud himself said that. And this pathology usually begins in early adult life.
Thank you for your work! 💕
It is my love for a very special person in my life that brought me here 😢 But there is also sadness left 😢
My narcissist friend abused me emotionally for 2 long years.. Now I find very hard to trust ppl and help ppl... I wish I had never met him.. Man I hate that person
Before you try to guilt trap me I'm just gonna let you know i tried to give him many chances but he failed me in every single one of them
You need to cut off contact with this individual, no contact whatsoever. Change phone numbers if necessary, people with NDP won’t/cannot change.
Have you sought therapy for yourself? No one should have that much power over anyone else to the point of not being able to trust someone new. I'm not trying to shame you at all. You're definitely stronger than you give yourself credit for.
A narcissist is a man or woman who has been disturbed or hurt to the core of there heart. They internalize their emotions to their own detriment. They are unaware of or are unwilling to accept or seek assistances or help because emotion brings them great pain. They are human beings just as you and I. Pray for their healing, and that they stop attempting to only self “assist” (a derivative of narcissist) themselves. Its an innate overprotection trait they have.
thank u i needed to hear this as a person with hardcore npd. growing up getting abused physically, emotionally, feeling unimportant & getting my feelings absolutely crushed as a baby boy traumas me for the rest of my life. the outcome of that is a very narcissistic unemotional man like myself.
people who are hurt and abused.. naturally become overprotective of themselfs... those are the ones who needs prayer and strenght. (the harmless narcissist)
but sociopathic narcissist are practicly... evil incarnate with every step they make! they actually embrace their narsistic personality like the soulles brainless sociopaths they are. i fortunatly tent to find and see them EVERYWHERE in europe.
maybe they don't wanna seek help because everybody armchair diagnoses their abusers with it and acts like having makes you a terrible person
It's also genetic. These people are demons. Plain and simple.
I have had many experiences with people in my past that have, or likely do have, NPD. I was always understanding and patient about things and never got upset with them for things beyond their control, but I did have to step away from some situations where the person was unwilling to seek help, regardless of whether they recognized they needed help or not. What do you recommend to people that are involved in some way with a person who has or likely has NPD that won't seek treatment?
Thank you for taking the first step and expressing your struggle. We want you to know you are not alone in how you feel. We hope you will check out the links to the resources in the description box for where to learn more and where to get treatment and support.
Do not self diagnose watching UA-cam. Let a professional deal with it. Nobody is perfect and people with mental disorders always find themselves to be perfect and find problems with others.
I'm looking for treatment I've recently left a narcissistic behavioral person 12yrs of this abuse physical and mental I'm not sure what to do put I'm going to find me again
Narcissism has become so common nowadays that its isn't considered as mental illness by most people because almost everyone has it. Some have it more while others have it less.
The scary thing about narcissism is that people who have it more don't seek help because they think they are always right. Narcissism has destroyed families, relationships and even countries if your leader is a narcissist.
Omg right like Putin just reeks of narcissist and phycho 🤢
npd and narcissism are very different. only 6% of people have npd
Yes that is the problem, they don't think they have a problem and don't know they have trampled many people
@@sofiyarininarcissists actually think you have the problem if you try to tell them you are wrong. They really don’t care at all. I think in their mind everyone else is an inferior being
not all narcissist have npd, there is healthy narcissism. When the narcissism level is too high that's when it becomes chaotic.
My team lead has NPD and it’s affecting my mental health 😊
thanks for this vedio.
Narcissists are not only obsessed with their appearance, but they also have a tendency of trying to be the best at everything they do. They derive their self worth from the belief that they are superior to their peers, regardless of the fact. Extreme narcissists often look down on respectable people and become resentful or agressive if someone outperforms them. They are also excessively sensitive to the people around them; they care too much about how others perceive them. Unfortunatley, all these behaviors result from efforts to bolster their low sense of self esteem.
Bingo!!
Our son’s ex wife Alanna Clarkson has this problem & she is very abusive mentally and physically. She beat up her oldest son when he was 2 years old because she got mad at him, about 5 years old she choked him trying to kill him. Also beat our son up in front of the 3 kids 3 years ago in Langford BC. Not the first time she has beat him. Our son had to get help for the abuse he’s gone thru the past 10 years.
its bloody exhausting having a narcassit in ur family. They never see that they are the problem, and always play victim. No empathy towards others, everything has to go their way and so mentally abusive. RIP to everyone else who knows a narrcacist.
do they have npd or are you just calling them a narcissist?
@@cheyannegiles9772 They likley have NPD. Many people gett them confused actually
@@Al-bi2oe kind of dickish to assume someone has a mental illness just because they're an asshole
@@cheyannegiles9772 Well dumbass, these are the clearest signs of someone with NPD 🤷🏽 he described them perfectly. If you don't know now you know! 💁🏽
Great Psych Hub, but the music is distracting a little bit.
Thanks ❤
Back in high school I knew someone with npd she acted like she was my friend but then one day I made a mistake then she held that against me all year saying that I was toxic and lying on me making me look like the bad guy even tho she mostly treated me like crap I always wondered why she acted the way she did but let's face it people with npd never change
It sounds more like you might be the one with NPD lol. I mean, what was the mistake? If it involved actively lying to someone and screwing them over then she was completely entitled to hate you. Considering I've seen dumb women say it was "just a mistake" to cheat on their partner, I get red flags from that description. Typical shift of accountability.
@@larion2336 that’s basically what she did actively lying on me
bit of a generalization there. like a if a brunette person treated you bad so you started saying "brunette people never change" like seriously
Yh works like that.
Its very unlikely that she was diagnosed if she was only in highschool. Personality disorders are usually diagnosed only in adulthood, as being a teen can mimic personality disorders.
what about the people they demonize and hate? unfortunately they rarely get treatment because they don't feel they have a problem. The older they get the worse they get. And they usually victimize one person and wear a mask around others. But they do show through only certain people just don't pick up on it.
Love these creative information videos
Lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love and coprate in life. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love. Past is jail. Guilt and stress stop blessing. Moody and stubborn behavior brings lots fear in life. Cut down desire only grateful. Married life is warriors life they always fight to win even they lose every day single living is dirty living like still water gets dirty day by day according to religious. Husband's house wife's real house. Divorce doesn't allowed in religious. Faith is big pillow. Nobody bad on earth only our nagtive thinking is dangerous so god said take spiritual knowledge it will gives you positive thoughts then you find only love on earth.
"yes, mental illnesses can be stressful and cause issues in relationships with loved ones" and "no, mental illness does not make up an entire person's personality, nor does it make them an abusive or bad person" are not mutually exclusive. They can coexist. The fact that there are people calling an ENTIRE group of people demon's/not even human shows who the real demons are. (Hint: not the people with said disorder). Y'all are disgusting lol, learn some compassion.
This comment is 1000% it. 🙏🏻✊🏻🙏🏻
People are so morally self-unaware, I can only shake my head sometimes.
EVERYONE deserves empathy. That's not the same as coddling. That's not the same as accepting, or excusing. 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
DISGUSTING 🤢 YOU WICKED DEMON
there is a stark difference between having compassion for people who suffer from mental illness and individuals who are on a crusade to ruin other peoples lives, hence NPD. Clearly you haven't been the victim of narcissistic abuse. I assure if you were, you would change your tune very fucking quickly.
How can you treat someone who feel themselves healthy.
I know someone who always think of themselves as better than everyone 😃
There are several factors that can contribute to some people behaving this way, and it is important to avoid general judgments and prejudices. Some possible reasons could be:
1. Lack of empathy: A person may have difficulty understanding and perceiving other people's feelings and thoughts, which may lead to them not taking these factors into account in their actions.
2. Superiority and control: Some people may feel that they have the right to rule over others and that their own worth and authority means that they make others follow their will.
3. Learned behavior: In certain contexts, such as in certain cultures or families, it may be common for some individuals to have more power or control than others. This can easily lead some people to believe that it is normal to coerce or coerce others.
4. Vulnerability and lack of self-confidence: Sometimes people who feel vulnerable or insecure about themselves may try to get over themselves by controlling and coercing others.
A health and courtesy produces people who respect each other's rights and feelings and who are open to communication and cooperation. This means encouraging empathy, self-reflection and self-confidence, as well as teaching value and respect for other people's free and personal choices.
I have an experience about imagine myself as a president, a talented guy, a billionaire and even a perfect guy who are perfect at everything like this ! so this video give me an awareness about myself with short amount of time.
Well that’s not all it takes to have npd, but do more research on your time if you show other signs and get checked by a professional if you do have npd or dont
No people with NPD will consider themselves having it!!
They are in deep selfdenial which is crucual for their existence.
First go to a professional who can diagnose you correctly. Freud, the father of psychoanalysis once said that every human being has a certain degree of narcissism but that alone doesn't necessarily make you a narcissist, there are other things to take into consideration, such as a lack of empathy for others, conditional affection and also this pathology tends to start in early adulthood!
I'll be honest...I can make myself cry to get out of bad situations, then I will boast about having the ability to cry on demand and getting out of the situation, I can't help it, hence what I'm doing now...is that narcissistic?I genuinely want to know, I'm not proud of it..how can I stop it?
This is so true
For the last few years my wife has been verbally abusive, I never do anything right, she'll give me long lectures about her feelings and when I try to talk about mine she tells me to shut up or she doesn't have time, she is cheated on me, puts words in my mouth that I did not say, sometime brags about her job and all the things she has and my job is lower and my things are worthless, I'm literally walking on eggshells around her but she tells me she's walking around on eggshells. I've never hit my wife but here lately. I'll just move in to give her a hug and she cowers jerks back like I'm going to hit her. She's never done that before but she has many times in the last month.
She just admitted to me 8 days ago that she is cheated on me and several times tried to make it my fault but other times she admits things but then it flips back on me again with a long lecture. Then when I'll try to discuss the cheating situation, she'll talk for a few moments until I ask something she doesn't like and shuts down or gets angry.
All this to say she says I'm a narcissist and I may be I'm not kidding. I don't think so but I'm trying to work it out. I'm just burning inside because my lovely wife is completely changed on me.
You guys be safe. Thank you for letting me speak here
I understand you although my story is a little different from yours . My mother is like your wife. She always think that she's right and i'm wrong, always complain about her problems but never hear mine. She easily get angry about everything: my dad, me, our family, her coworkers,... ext. I have tried my best to not make any mistakes and to study the best i could but nothing could pleasure her enough. She always pick up on my tiny little mistakes then yells at me. She also makes me study from day to night even on Saturday and sunday, sometimes she made me studied for 3 hours straight. Just like u i walk on eggshell around her when i talk about the problem but nothing works and we even get in big fights. I have sought my uncles, aunts, dad,... helps but no one really understand me and their helps make the situation worse. I have also sought psychologist help but there are rare professional in Vietnam since psychology is a very new job in here. That means i haven't had someone who really know how to help and i had to fix the problem by myself
please be aware that having narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) doesnt make you an abusive person
Hope you get a divorce and realize you deserve better for yourself. Relationships use the currency of trust, and that currency is voided once you cheat - nothing can pay after. That was just me, but I promise the sun always rises. Much love
This sounds very challenging and almost as if she doesn't want you to work it out tbh!!!! All the best if you do tho.
You are the one being abused here. Set yourself free...if she was lovely no way she will cheat and manipulate you like it's normal. She is not loyal to you. She look like someone that can set u up. My luck makes me meet narcissist am at the point I don't give time but walk away. Put a hedge of protection around you. They will use you and tear you up before or if they will ever decide to leave.
They have no conscience
1.Emotional Health 2.Spiritual Maturity3.Discerment my life goes on.
thank you for this video
Idk if I have it, for me it's difficult to explain. Anytime I see someone online bragging about themselves and people who I think seem narcissistic, I feel the urge to just shut them up and humble them because they aren't as perfect as they say they are. I am nice, respectful, and friendly with everyone until someone starts bragging about how great they are, so maybe it rubbed off a little on me or I just have to manage my anger somehow, idk I'm confused and frustrated about it. I can't be the only one who feels anger for people like that?
It dependsss what you mean by "bragging online"
Lets say for example someone posted their body transformation. "look how great my body looks now". That's not something you should be angry about. They're just proud of themselves for achieving what they did is all
You're not. And, recently gaslighted by a man who is a narcissist, I am aware of his trauma and emptiness but don't see how showing him compassion I beneficial. He's so hurtful and cold unlike when we first met. He doesn't care that I'm hurt that he discarded our relationship for a reason I still perceive as unknown.
Its a normal justified reaction.
Forbid you feel what you feel is a retraumatization and gaslighting.
Reasons for doing it? Money.
The way its described in the video doesn't sound like a disorder. A huge portion of the population is like this.
In fact, we all have a certain degree of narcissism and I'm not the one emphasizing this, Freud was the one who said it.
God forbid the conversation not be about them.
My ex partner has this Narcissist Personal Disorder, she's so arrogant that she thinks she does not has it. I feel emotionally abused when I'm with her 😔 😢 😞
Well, I don't know if you're still with her, but if you are, it's your fault! Grow some balls and get rid of her, even if it's difficult, but it will be better for you, that's my advice right there for u.
These people take revenge when they are angry or jealous! EDIT: To whom it may concern. We tried; it didn't work out. I forgive you
Emotions are difficult to control for many. Peace.
I have an ex, his name his Enzo. He is very obsessed with persuading someone that he is not this or that, but the experience was complete opposite. He is selfish, abusive, conditional. Is this NPD as well? I think so. Someone should reconsider the diagnosis. :)
Yes, these are clear signs of narcissism disorder, although we all have some degree of narcissism as Freud once said. And this pathology starts at the beginning of adulthood!
My npd husband.. I learnt when his lies or accuses trigger... He has big ego.. His afraid to be dump or leave him.. So what he do.. He always accuse that I flirt always to other guys.... So many names he involves tho.... But I notice that is his tactic??? To prevent not to cheat him or leave him... Each npd need deeeepest understand.. Isn't easy tho.. Really hard hardest I did of my life
these kind of people knows or more knowledgeable than an engineer, a lawyer, a doctor, etc., even though they didn’t finish their education
Many people say its irreversible
Same my ex wife divorced me 28 years ago before the internet and social media era she refused to get counseling 28 years ago and still refuses to get help 28 years later Block and Delete Rinse and Repeat if they refuse to get help
This amaze me that someone took personality from many people and branded it narcissistic. I see and witness these behavior and numerous people , so this definition is branding it as a personality disorder. I don't understand how people take the time to judge someone instead, if they personality don't agree with you get another friend who is just like you. I hear people branding some of our billionaires and most successful people to have NPD, but do you think they care, they set a certain standard and a believe and know they will succeed. Now that this NPD have a internet (you tube) platform I hear people using this word Narcissist more often just because they looked at a you tube video, but they don't understand that it takes a professional to diagnose this disorder. my point is if someone have maybe 1 or 2 of these indicators or behaviors they should not be tagged with a disorder, don't be judgmental look deeper to know the person before branding them, make sure this is something that common practice for this person.
That is so true. Forgive me if I misundertand your message I'm very drunk. But yeah!! Npd is a disorder! A narcissist is someone with a disorder, not just someone who is kinda full of themselves and it hurt you. People are so quick to armchair diagnose people to explain this bad behavior and then just further demonize people who actually have to live with this disorder. Whether or not it negatively effects you, a person with npd is still dealing with an entire brain and worldview that segregates them from humanity. That's not easy. That's a very hard life to live, especially when you're getting called all these names from every side when you're just doing what you know. No one is willing to step into your bubble to explain to you why people see you as being so cruel. To explain why your world view is so demonized. When I was diagnosed with npd, I was blessed with having an understanding and compassionate and smart gf that was ready to tell me bluntly exactly why people couldn't relate to me. And our whole life we've done that for each other. We help each other grow as people. If you know someone with npd and you haven't made an effort to help they grow, rather accused them endlessly without expressing the issue, that is ableism!! That is what put people with npd at the forefront of this idea that disorders define abuse! That people with certain disorders are destined to be abusive, or crazy, or mean, or heartless, or whatever. No one is evil or good! We need to help each other!!!!
Well, if people around you are using the word "narcissist" in the wrong context, and it irks you so badly, maybe you should get other friends who are just like you. 🤣🤷🏻♂️🤣
@@wildernessrick9278 Makes no sense. People should invest in a DSM5 Manual & actually read it instead of spewing out shit they don’t understand bc it sounds cool to them.
🗣 LOUDER FOR THE UA-cam PSYCHOLOGISTS IN THE BACK!🗣
I’m so damn tired of hearing the word now bc everybody throws it around without actually knowing wtf they’re talking about. Quiet as it’s kept, we all have narcissistic traits. The difference is some of us are empathetic and have the ability to understand what we did was wrong & change our behavior. Narcissists don’t. For personality disorders, behaviors have to be displayed for a specific amount of time. My sister is Bipolar with Mania & has an adjustment disorder. She started displaying manic behavior in high school. When we were in the process of moving overseas, it got REAL bad. Now we realize that was her having an active manic episode. A lot of terms in the psychology or mental health field, don’t always mean what you think.
I see the same thing when people talk about sex offenders too. I’ve been accused of defenders sex offenders bc I said pedophiles & child molesters aren’t the same thing. A pedophile is a victim typology and paraphilia. Pedophilia alone is not a criminal offense bc it’s viewed as a deviant, abnormal sexual behavior. Pedophiles strictly have a sexual attraction towards prepubescent children within a certain age range. All child molesters are not pedophiles & all pedophiles are not child molesters. We’re talking about a sexual behavior versus actually committing a sexual offense against a child. Not the same thing.
Nice sir i am with you
Does NPD rub off on each other? What if one person has NPD in the family- do all around them become similar?
Not necessarily "rub off on each other" but it is genetic. It runs in the family.
If they all have npd, then they could mirror each other or one could exacerbate the others' disorder
Talk therapy (or psychotheraphy) is definitely the most helpful for them, but the fact is, that most of them don't want it. They want to keep torturing people or individuals they chose to torture, because the main characteristic of NPD is covert and overt parasitism on the "chosen ones".
Lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love and coprate in life. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love. Past is jail. Guilt and stress stop blessing. Moody and stubborn behavior brings lots fear in life. Positive attitude is power of mind. Ego and discrimination brings fear in life. Married life is warriors life they always fight to win even they lose every day single living is dirty living like still water gets dirty day by day according to religious.husband's house wife's real house she is real queen in that house. Divorce doesn't allowed in religious. Faith is big pillow. God is our inner beauty.
Wrong. Nothing about overt or covert parasitism is in the DSM-5 so quit spewing false information. You’re implying they’re aware of their behavior & choose to act that way which is not the case. A narcissist doesn’t see their behavior as problematic or know they’re hurting people. They genuinely believe the shit they do or say is the gospel. Otherwise, they wouldn’t be narcissistic if they had the ability to self reflect and change their behavior. That’s sociopathy.
you're wrong. I have a NOD and I bring love and kindness to all my family and friends and I hate only myself
@Alena Muzh I'm sure a narcissist would say that, but what does family actually have to say?
this entire video explains my ex in a nutshell
What happens if we make it to be successful, does it mean everyone was just peasants like we imagined? Lol cause I don’t feel stupid but this sounds like me and I’m working hard to get there.
What is the difference between a narcissist and a high-functioning sociopath?
these people don’t need treatment coz they don’t know they have it. Once you try to talk to them about it they will say you are the one who need treatment.
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I highly recommend the book MIND GAMES The Dual Facets of Manipulation and Dark Psychology
I am theee narcasistic personality disorder. That's me John Mc Dade the discarder.
But that tactics happens every single day..once he said to me.. He can't handle what's on his head.. So I accept him what he is.. Just need to be calm... Patient.. To prevent things not get worst.. After he rage he cool down after a day... They need deepest understand cause they having trouble to understand themself
How do you tell if has npd or is just a narssrassit?
I found that it could come from a mental illness. Depression and anxiety being big ones. They both make a person have extremely low self-esteem. So if the person shows symptoms of anxiety/depression, then thats most likely the underlying cause. Take this advice with a grain of salt, I'm most certainly not a professional. I would recommend trying to talk to them about mental health.
Lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love and coprate in life .be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love. What we do we got back in life. Past is jail. Guilt and stress stop blessing. Moody and stubborn behavior brings lots fear in life. Positive attitude is power of mind. Married life is warriors life they always fight to win even they lose every day single living is dirty living like still water gets dirty day by day according to religious.husband's house wife's real house she is real queen in that house. Divorce doesn't allowed in religious. Sleep at night not day time. Cut down sugar and eat fresh plant based food. Nobody bad on earth our own thoughts is bad so god said take my thoughts then you will find love on earth.
@@zaxio5336 lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love and coprate in life
Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love. Past is jail. Guilt and stress stop blessing. Moody and stubborn behavior brings lots fear in life. Cut down desire only grateful. Married life is warriors life they always fight to win even they lose every day single living is dirty living like still water gets dirty day by day according to religious.husband's house wife's real house she is real queen in that house .divorce doesn't allowed in religious. Souls our mirror. Nobody bad on earth only our nagtive thinking is dangerous so god said change it take spiritual knowledge it will gives you positive thoughts then your life will change you see only love on earth. I read Gurugranth sahib online it's my religious scripture it change my life all has positive thoughts. Positive attitude is power of mind. Read or watch spiritual knowledge videos then happiness builds up in heart. Do little things for others builds up happiness in heart.
@@gurgurgur shut up
Question is are they also bipolar because one minute my ex partner love bomb you and then a few days later they would try and cause a arguement over nothing so that they had a reason in there head to yell and call you names and cause conflict and this is followed by how do you put up with them . And it’s just a roller coaster of emotions and of course it’s never them it’s always something they have accused you.and they will use your weakness against you
I thought it was bipolar but looking at npd I think it best describes what you outlined. What you said fits my partner who has difficulty owning up to her actions.
i have this
What's terrible is that i know too many people who don't like getting help regardless of what personality disorders they have. How everyone encourages to speak to a professional is great but a narcissistic person struggles with consistency in things and seeing things through to the end. They're always about achieving a goal but not always invested in what it takes to get to that goal because they may find the tasks belittling. So they're kind of stagnant too unless they step on others to get what they want. I do have some empathy for them, but it's because they won't seek help, and even when they are Christians they won't really get to know Jesus. They are rigid with others about their sins and extremely unrealistic about how God is about their own sin. It's either that they believe God is forgiving them although they don't repent, or they beat themselves up daily because of their black and white thinking. My empathy is with them. I wish they'd get help if it's available to them.
It's extremely tough for them to get the help they need. I'm pretty sure the chances of them doing it themselves is extremely low. I have a partner who seems to have some npd traits. Getting her to own up to her actions and reflect is next to impossible. I have tremendous empathy for her but it's starting to wear thin. I hope God shows me the way to get her the help she needs.
Ppl who suffer from this do they just have this attitude/ character with everybody and any body,?! Or just so called friends?!, . Partners?! Tell me more?!
I got npd abuse. I forgot how i love someone ... what shoud i do???
Hope your problem got resolved. I'm going through one right now. I think over time you'll be able to love someone.
Maybe NPD should be classified as a disassociative disorder? Like, it isn't me who's fixated on my reflection in the mirror, it's someone else (another identity?) looking through my own eyes who is? _Single White Female_ (1992)
Single white female...Yes Alex, I'd like 2 say "Single white Female" for a 1,000 please....
Lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love and coprate in life. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love. Past is jail. Guilt and stress stop blessing. Moody and stubborn behavior brings lots fear in life. Ego and discrimination brings fear in life. Positive attitude is power of mind. Nobody bad on earth only our nagtive thinking is dangerous so god said change it take spiritual knowledge it will gives you positive thoughts it will change your life. Married life is warriors life they always fight to win even they lose every day single living is dirty living like still water gets dirty day by day according to religious.husband's house wife's real house she is real queen in that house. Divorce doesn't allowed in religious. Faith is big pillow. Positive energy makes life beautiful.
@@vfromthaburg lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love and coprate in life. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love. Past is jail. Guilt and stress stop blessing. Moody and stubborn behavior brings lots fear in life .married life is warriors life they always fight to win even they lose every day single living is dirty living like still water gets dirty day by day according to religious. Husband's house wife's real house she is real queen in that house. Divorce doesn't allowed in religious. Faith is big pillow. Nobody bad on earth only our nagtive thinking is dangerous so god said change it take spiritual knowledge it will gives you positive thoughts it will change your life.
no? most people with d.i.d have many other alts with different names genders dislikes and etc and entire different person but with this (npd) people with npd don’t usually or normally have this issue it’s highly rare and isn’t likely for it to occure. people with npd live and be based off of this same personality meanwhile others with d.i.d have multiple alt selves with much more involved
it is a disassociative disorder, they also have cognitive dissonance.
People that call everyone a narcissist have an issue. Those that choose to throw this disorder around as if its some catch all for being treated poorly. In addition, should someone actually suffer from this, don't take it personal. De-weaponize them by showing compassion and empathy. Perhaps the "narcissist" in your life needs a true friend, despite their ability to be one themselves. Regardless, choosing to diagnose someone with this disorder is a dangerous game. Unless of course you are a professional in a professional setting.
Nope. It's not my job to fix anyone else. There are varying degrees of this disorder and it may ebb and flow depending on a situation. I've suspected numerous people I've know to have various symptoms of NPD, the main ones I can't deal with are the entitled, controlling, manipulative, gaslighting type coupled with a lack of accountability and always playing the victim. I don't have the time or energy for that.
@@doggletamer but I wasn’t speaking to you? Did this resonate with you? I’m sorry if you took it personal somehow. Life is worth enjoying. :) don’t get bogged down by the small stuff.
Im trying to figure out how my own mother felt it was ok to have me care for her and not care about the damage it was doing to my life.
She never asked anyone else to help, and I allowed it to go on way to long before saying enough.
Im not sure if npd was it, but there was a level of selfishness involved.
Good video!
Please tell me if someone tells you they are only hard on you because they love you is it something a narcissist tells someone thank you
It's something an emotionally manipulative person would tell you, and that's about all you need to know as far as what kind of person that is.
@@ohno4930 thank you
But we should understand NPD mostly caused by an ‘abuse'.
There's always something troublesome about people like this
I dated a single mom for a while and I strongly believe she has this disorder. He behavior was unlike anything I had ever seen in another person. I even told her I was concerned about her mental health..... she denied everything, it's everyone else in the world that has a problem not her........ LOL
Lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love and coprate in life. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love. Past is jail. Guilt and stress stop blessing. Moody and stubborn behavior brings lots fear in life. Ego and discrimination brings fear in life. Positive attitude is power of mind. Married life is warriors life they always fight to win even they lose every day single living is dirty living like still water gets dirty day by day according to religious.husband's house wife's real house. Divorce doesn't allowed in religious. Nobody is bad on earth only our nagtive thinking is dangerous so god said keep faith in heart and take spiritual knowledge it will gives you positive thoughts then you will find love on earth.
2:55 😂 am I the asshole to laugh at this part - it kinda felt good knowing that they suffer hard because they deserve it after the sadistic abuse I endured in the hands of my covert narcissist mom, cluster b brothers and other toxic family members.
Yeah, you kinda are an asshole for it.
It's not like they chose to be narcissistic. It's kinda like a brain deformity.
It's not their fault, and they are victims of their own actions..even if they don't realize it or don't see it that way or don't care.
But why they hurt only their partners ..why not their own family persons?
Im capricorn
Some one gave me this title... But I feel like they are really it... I really care for attention dislike material things as well
Well I finally understand what you guys meant when you said don't stay they will drive you insane did literally everything I could he acted good then bad now it's over shit I can't fucking like I love him but this I wish I didn't care at all
Agreed, it's very difficult to stay in control with someone like that. Extremely draining. And when you lose your cool then you'll be punished when initially all you tried to do is fix wtv issue they had -__-
I’m sorry I just popped up here to see the definition of “Narcissism” and it seems to be so subjective that I couldn’t call this a personality, I could justify just about anyone I know around me as a narcissist just on ego alone. Seems vague in its description and concept. Defining human actions is strange to me because people in general can be unpredictable 🤷🏻♂️
My worry with things like this is, there are a lot of people who are just terrible people with shitty character who could just make effort to be less shitty. They see this and go “ohhhh, I’m really not a shitty person, I just have a condition”
There seems to be a medical backup for every ill these days.
No disrespect to those who actually have a disorder.
the comments here disgust me
Isn’t my fault I’m so great.
We all have narcissistic tendencies some are just extreme
Found the narcissist.
They don’t deserve sympathy. They deserve as much sympathy as a snake that bites you.
My partner is really like that😓
Same
For people that don't comment after someone's commented to them hundreds of times. And they say they return comments.😆✌️Liars or narcissist what do you think?
Megan Ragland and hazbeen.
Um idk what I have but I used to think I'm better then everyone at everything except God because when my aunt was dying she spoke to me about God and I knew he was real I used to be made God was higher but the fact he created us is why I let that go I was still to me better then ever other human person and sometimes mad I wasn't better then God anyway I excepted that at some point being I am a haman and all so anyway I was better then all these people but slowly they left me so I was confused as to if I'm so much better why are these people leaving me so then I had to start thinking of there feelings and mirroring like I knew I was better in my mind but I also knew at this point something was off and maybe I needed to look at if there all leaving for a while I honestly just couldn't understand why they didn't realize how perfect I was anyway that went on for a long time and took allot of people leaving me before I realized I needed to evaluate then I started to look at how they feel when I did this I realized I didn't feel the same way as them I started to then look at myself and ask myself okay how can I feel this way to I just don't feel this way from the reason if people leaving me I started to put there values higher copy what I felt they wanted but then I tried to feel like them to because I was unsure why I was different this way I was discusted by the idea of people having better things then me or being better or winning awards or having anything I should have had but after that I did really start to mirror how they feel and what matters to them and also why I even felt this way drove me deeper I did start to care about people loving me and not just status more deeper so I did start to think of how they feel and putting myself in there place and all that now I care very deeply about people I need those people and I do care and think on there feelings but like I do have things I need met higher or more but like uh I started to want a figure of someone in control actually now my bf he is very explosive when we argue and don't seem to think of my feelings but I remember I was a way so I'm confused now so I was later diagnosed with BPD but I wonder because I remember feeling all these ways plus examining my bf which I need his love now hurts me but anyway I remember how I was so I'm like was I or am I a narcissist or just BPD so confusing I do still need validation and admiration yes but I do care about them
My girlfriend has that condition
There are people with NPD on here saying things like “I’m not a monster… “ and lots of things defending their stance. I agree it’s not their fault however it IS your responsibility to get help. You don’t get to just say you aren’t something but continue to hurt people. Most people with NPD will never even admit it’s a problem and the abuse is extreme and long lasting. Take accountability and stop hating on the victims that y’all are creating
My dad is a narcissist, he destroyed our family.😩
The TV Series "The Undoing" tells better idea of npd.
Then if that so why they are not going to therapy???
Because many narcissistic people believe they are fine and cannot take criticism.
Im starting to realize someone i know is a narcissist and its one of the first things i noticed. The dude is not even that bad of a person but couldnt even accept he did wrong when i pointed out something small and simple. Thats the difficult part about mental disorders they put you in a vicious cycle that is hard to climb out of.
@@maximillianlylat1589 perfect explanation
Narcissism can lead to unhealthy,broken relationships and hence one of the top reason of depression. Narcisstic people are mostly insecure about themselves.
I know a narcissist that nobody here would hate. I'd still be the one labeled As crazy
Too much ego as well
Yes it's depression when ego,jealous , greed,emotional attachments ,sex desire , discrimination too much in the mind. God said nobody bad on earth only our nagtive thinking is dangerous. Lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love and coprate in life. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love. Married life is warriors life they always fight to win even they lose every day single living is dirty living like still water gets dirty day by day according to religious.husband's house wife's real house she is real queen in that house. Divorce doesn't allowed in religious.
🇿🇦 The Government of South-Africa should go for a Mental Evaluation, for starters, Frederick Smit (George), Marius Erasmus, Karlien Osbourne, Yvonne, Vivienne.
RSG - Wie is ek, kan gerus op 'n Vrydag om 11h30 praat oor Narcissist's.
You may not have malignant narcissistic personality disorder. The fact that you're self-aware might make you a cerebral narcissistic personality disorder most npd's are totally unaware I find that it's a great thing that you're working on yourself