Hello, It was time to sit down & talk about where I'm at in my life right now. It's been quite the year... I hope you are doing okay. I love you all so much Xx
I've been following Malvika for a couple of years, but this news has broken me soooo much! For some reason, it just felt so personal! As if I'm facing these issues in my own life! I just tossed and turned the whole night last night, thinking about how life must be for her! Pregnancy is SO tough, it changes a woman like no tomorrow. You lose your identity, you grow in size, you don't feel beautiful anymore. And to imagine the shit she's going through in this phase of her life just breaks my heart - while putting up these seemingly happy and everything's fine videos online! It takes so much courage to put on a smile when you're actually shattered to pieces inside! Sending all the prayers and all the strength your way! You are enough
I agree with all the things you said EXCEPT that in pregnancy you lose your identity ❓❓You grow in size---Obiviously and You don't feel beautiful --who told you all these things about pregnancy or being pregnant.All these is absolutely not true .I would suggest meet few pregnant ladies n talk to them about their experiences.🥴🥴🥴🙏
When I first saw the pregnancy announcement video, the first thought that came to my mind was “but she said she never wanted to have babies” and the fact that you addressed it and said “you are allowed to change you mind whenever you want” just came across as so powerful to me and I’m sorry for having judged you. You’re so strong as a person and I always take something uplifting from your videos. Sending you lots of love, Mals ❤️
She was going through so much, and we had no idea. Mals you are an inspiration, this too shall pass, hang in there , the best is yet to come. We all love you ❤️
Such a hypocrisiy from Akhil's side,he is asking people to dm him if someone is low,alone and confused,whereas he cant understand the pain his wife is going through during pregnancy and he will counsel others..pls.I cant understand him.And malvika is trying to move on..which is natural..it takes time..he has moved on or what that he has open up counselling
@@AduAndMummaVlogs Malvika is a kind of girl who everyone wants in thier life. Even if we don't know we can assume things from vlogs and all. His husband himself told that he didn't wanted to commit and want to explore other flowers (women) but he felt pressurized so he married malvika. Also Malvika is a strong girl as she didn't did abortion and even after deciding for divorce. She bought the baby and raising herself 💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Being a psychology student, I am so glad we have people like you in this world, whatever you said is absolutely true. Any issue will be solved through therapy! In fact, my professor had mentioned once that every counsellor needs a counsellor. And you are truly strong and I am very happy that you are so aware of your feelings and emotions and in the second video of your pregnancy playlist, I recognised that you really needed some professional help and I am so so so glad that you did...your child is going to have a greatttt mom! Coming to social media, you've been extremely thick-skinned and it is absolutely okay to feel the way you are feeling. Also I have cursed(not kidding) people who comment hate under videos, especially yours (like really, who could even dislike you?) Sending lots and lots of love, support, happiness. Love you Gals, I KNOW YOU ARE STRONG!❤
Hey revati.. I read your comment nd really appreciated the way u recode this . Can u pls do my help too. I feel so I'm also in mental dilemma but have no one with whom I do share nd they also feel and gice me any advice or else which is helpful for me . Can't tell to parents coz dont wana bother them. most of d time i shared it with my bf but he also fed up. Mostly things revolve in my head. I also start losing interest in traveling in myself nd even dont find motive in life. Jo krna h woh kr ni pai abhi b nd papa want me to do jo ni krna. Even I dont feel happiness it feels it I'm acting to myself. Ki khush hu pr actually m I'm not. Pls help
I was pregnant a year ago and I felt exactly same, exactly shocked by the fact why I’m not happy despite this beautiful blessing and so depressed and anxious most of the time, my husband lost his mom , she died literally 2 weeks after I got to know I’m pregnant. I couldn’t lean on him much either. Thank you so much for sharing your experience but I wish someone had shared it when I was pregnant. No one at all i knew had gone through this and I had minimal support. My husband was the only support I had despite his mom’s death, he tried his best to love him, however I felt so unloved and hurt despite him being really nice to me. So finally I came out as a winner , I still feel some postpartum blues but I’ve I come out as a winner. I’m blessed to have breastfed my daughter and it really helped my I believe, it naturally produces oxytocin hormone and helps you recover and heal. Going through it again still feels scary but I’m so glad I was blessed with my daughter . Thank you so much for sharing your experience, it literally resonates my pregnancy story emotionally and mentally
I had no idea of who’s judging you for speaking up about the difficulties of pregnancy. I feel so surprised because I am so glad that you’re letting people know what no one told you. Many women feel alone in their suffering when pregnant because the dominant media portrayal is all happy and goofy. I have heard of so many of my friends feeling as if it is only them. It their problem that they can’t deal with the changes but if only they knew that they were not alone … and thanks to you many of us will know that this is something that may come up and if we do have a difficult time mentally then we know we are not alien - not alone. Thanks for doing this. It takes courage.
Been following malvika for 7 years now! Never felt that she was going through so much! I used to watch her self love videos in my low phase for hours. She always radiates so much positivity and still continues to inspire me.. Proud of you malvika!!! You have come a long way!!
It's the first time i saw a parent going for therapy so that the child has not to go. I wish my parents had😢 I have struggled so much bcoz of my parents, so much trauma which no child deserves ...sending you virtual hugs and a lots of healing ❤️ I'm so proud of you that you are sharing your honest journey, no sugarcoated stuff, it's the truth guys Life is not sugarcoated so accept it. Show some respect to this women who dares to be honest and vulnerable, maybe we'll have to face this situation and i know many people are, Atleast this way they got somebody to relate to. So proud of you Mals😊 Love from Sehar❤
Hey i feel you here i know so many of us have seen shitty childhood and feel the effects of it all our life. Most of our strengths and weaknesses come from our childhood and it's fine. I also use to think that my parents are the reason for all my limiting beliefs and yes maybe partly they are but one thing is for sure I can't keep blaming them because THEY DIDN'T KNOW ANY BETTER and once one accepts that hard truth to the core healing comes naturally. I know for sure that parents do the best they can and they are not perfect either they are humans just like us but if someone can find the strength to forgive them I can assure that one also forgives themselves easily, it's like we are all connected somehow. I hope everyone here finds a possibility to see their parents as themselves, and choose to heal.
@@MansiSharma-vp8mm don't give advice if u don't knw abt bad has lighting parents End of the day u r supporting and generalising that parents are good what's the point you are trying to make here?
@@charmtantra hey there I have had issues with my parents all my life and trust me I know how toxic those situations can get, i have experienced it first hand that's why I said I can relate. I am going to just say one thing by not forgiving our parents no one is winning and if someone is losing it is us, we are the ones who will always have issues if we don't let go it's like being locked up behind bars with the key just lying there for one to open. Its a process and takes time and i am also midway there but i know if i want to change something in life i cnt keep playing the blame game, there is no point.
Hi Malz, I started following you during covid when I found a makeup recommendation of your video on UA-cam. I love the way you connect with us, everyday life lessons, lifestyle and make us laugh with your funny accent. I have looked upto you for how sorted and grounded you are. I love how you resemble me and every other girl out there. But today, I am broken seeing your news. I don't know how you are handling this and if you are doing well. But again, I am so proud of you. I am so so proud. I can't imagine the strength, courage and grace that you are carrying along. Keep this up Malz. Keep being someone whom we can look upto. Thank you. Love ♾️
Thanku so much for making this video❤ I'm going through from ery rough phase and it seeing your healing just made me feel very light and if you can do it I can also❤
Same. I still can't believe it. They had dated 10 years before they got married. Mals was a teen and now she is in her 30s they grew up together. It must have been really difficult for her that too in pregnancy🥺🥺
Exactly mine too but i feel like she should share a lil about what actually happened my assumption is its coz of her pregnancy bcoz there was no Akhil’s reaction video on that announcement and after that we never saw akhil taking care of her during pregnancy Might b he wasn’t ready for this but this is tooo wrong if this was the reason
I love you so very very very very very very much! You’re super strong! You’re sooooo genuine and what you see is what you get! That’s just how you are! This must be incredibly tough! But if there’s something I learned - you can’t move on from this.. you can move along with this! You’re so damn strong! You’re too precious! The best is yet to come Mals! I wish the world for you
Hii Mallzz i just wanna give you a hug and say everything is gonna be ok. You are beautiful inside out. I really mean it 🥺❤️ Somehow this pain doesn't suit you...i have always looked up to you as someone who's so bubbly, graceful , cheerful and smiling. I want you to be the same. Don't get bothered to change yourself for anything or anyone literally. Always there for you here when you wanna vent out something ❤️
Lots and lots of healings, love ,warm wishes and what not ! And yeah can't wait to a glimpse of the baby, a new phase ,mothehood and ofcourse your community is always there. ❤️
This video was spot on! Like I don't know how but this was all I wanted to hear and I'm thankful that it was you Mals! I was actually looking for a word for the coming year and you directed me to it, "heal". Love you!
Mals! Just saw your post yesterday. Please stay strong and don’t let it affect your baby❤ All are with you 💯 Sending lots of Love, Positivity and Strength ♥️
Thanks for sharing... I could relate to your POV on mental health issue in so many ways. All I can say is thank you for sharing every corner of your journey. Hugs and blessings to you Mals
It really needs a lot of guts & courage to take such a big life changing decision. No amount of years guarantee a life time of relationship, people & situations do change with time. you are a very strong gal for being able to choose your happiness over others and kudos to you for being so honest and vocal about your experiences, sharing it all out there so openly. More power to you Mals.
I haven't been active for 2 years so i didn't know what was going on with her... But today i was thinking i haven't watch malvika for so long ....but i didn't knew she was pregnant had a beautiful baby and her husband left her😭 god i feel so bad....Now iam happy that she is so strong now❤
How far she has come... Watched her story time about her relationship when they have already parted ways. That chirpy malz has grown up to a whole new tangent
Going through the same journey of being separated from someone who was a part of my world,my mum. She was a single parent so basically my only family as I have no siblings. Though as you said we have people who care but trust me guys it is not as easy as it sounds. More power to you mals, this feels so personal to see you go through so much at the same time but as we say " this too shall pass". Love you girl❤
Hi bhoomika Feels like you are going through the same as me My mum was my whole world and I lost her No siblings no one So I can empathize with you Lots of blessings to you
i’m kind of going through something similar like i’m in a dark place too(can’t imagine what you’re going through but i wish you all the healing in the world❤️) and this really helped me find perspective and inspiration. i’ll start journaling and just be, do things i love and things for me, that bring me happiness.
I could not sleep hearing this sad news. Akhil is such a coward he will regret big time. U got this girl. We all love you and wish u the best. Keep the good work and lots of love and luck for the baby
Akhil will regret big time may be not today but 5 years down the or 10 years down the line. What a beautiful family he could have had. Ruined it. I am a girl but if I was in Akhils place, i would have been so grateful to have someone like Malvika who loved you so much.
Aah, I so needed this video today. Woke up crying over past life, you and this video is a sign for me today to get my therapy started. Hugs and sending Love ♥to you. Thank you so much for this video, such a strong girl you are! Love you ♥
Will be coming back to this video in some months or maybe years, when I'd need to hear Mal's advice. So to my future self - Dont let a man ruin your life, pick yourself up, be your own cheerleader because your're enough!
Sending you strength and love ❤ I feel you! Situations may not be same but mental health brings out different menaces to deal with. I have childhood traumas that I still deal with and it still reflects in different ways.
I am literally crying watching you like this, oh god I don't know how much u r going through, hope you pass through this 😘 lots of love to u and ur baby
Mals, i needed to hear this all for more validation. I recently recorded a pep talk for myself and I hear it every time I feel bogged down. Hope this technique helps you too! God bless!
Loads of love Mals... Thank you for this 'Real' talk which is needed.Was waiting to hear something like this. Even though been surrounded by best of the people...still feel terrible...there is something that really not lets you get up...Trying best to get back...If you can,even I can surely ❤️♥️✨
hello can u sum up of dis talk ..wat actually is dis all abt n any idea u gt from d video d reason she gt seprated from akhil ..its v tuff thing for her n for her baby also dey wer so in love wat happnd so suddenly
I have been watching you from like 2019 . I may not know everything about you , I always saw you as an influencer and a make up artist but today watching you cry made me cry , like how something bad that happened in your past or even is happening to you right now , wrong choices , bad friends , bad relationships every shit just leaves a mark over our personality and we cover it up like we our dark spots with concealer , we never think of how big that pile is becoming and how is it affecting us . Been there man I totally understand what dark place you are talking about . I hope you feel better after sharing this . I hope I could hug you and tell you how amazing you are and how brave you are for sharing this online for showing such real emotions so that everyone could see this side of pregnancy that no one knows about or talks about . I hope the best for you mals . You are like a bug sister to me ❤️. Lots of love to you 🫂. You are the best babe . Everything will be alright . And I think I am gonna buy a journal for me and my best friend and start this process of being with myself for some time in the day . Like a new year resolutions thing 😂😘❤️ . Lots of love yr hope you feel better 🫂
Thank you for being so awesome ❤❤❤❤ yes, the best gift you can give yourself this year is to work on your inner child ❤❤❤ it’s so important to heal and do the work
I can’t imagine what ur going through and hope no body ever has to go through what u r going. Now we understand all the crying isn’t just pregnancy hormones. Feeling that ur going to be 1000% stronger than what u started this journey as. All the best to u and ur baby 🦄❤️
BABE EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE ALRIGHT? DO YOU HEAR ME? WE LOVE YOU MALS.. YOU ARE MY FAMILY..ITS BECAUSE OF YOU THAT I AM WHAT I AM TODAY..YOH HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THINGS YOU HAVE DONE..YOU HAVE CHANGED MY LIFE BABY..STAY STRONG..I AM JUST 16 BUT I AM SO STONG AND SECURE BECAUSE OF YOU..JUST HOLD ON BABY
This reminded me of my pregnancy where I was on bed rest for 4 months and lot was going on personal front. I totally relate when I say one isn't aware about these things and still you are expected to deal or sail through. I really like the way you put your thoughts and feelings across. You go girl, you got this all the best with everything. Thanks for sharing 💓💓
How I wish I could come there and give you a big hug. So proud of how you’re addressing these emotions and how people should work on themselves and HEAL. It’s so important to accept what you’re going through because pushing your emotions away will never help, it all comes back so yes HEAL YOURSELVES, do the work. Sending you so much love and strength Mals!❤
You are gonna heal so beautifully malz ✨ 5 yrs from now.. life with your cute baby is so happening and growing andddd loveing... I'll still be seeing you n smiling 😘 we love you okay 😘 you glooooowww 😘
My 2 cents • Malvika - you are doing a GREAT job. Your baby will be proud of you for taking a stand. • I wish everyone learns to see into a guy- beyond just crush, looks, money. See if he is a family man. Does he superseed your needs over his. Relationships are madeup of small or big compromises. • 10 year or 1 year- if someone puts themselves above you- no matter how long you have been togather, one day you get done. • GIRLS - please know TRUE LOVE is all in stories. Real love is - small gestures, geneuine care, making time.
Hi mals I can’t even imagine what you’re going through right now this shall too pass you will be the best mom in the world you’re the strongest girl god will give alot of strength ❤
I love u soooo much malzzzz..... pls dont feel sad , u are such a big inspiration in my life , u are the one who gave me positive vibes during my bad days , even now i dont feel good but u gave me a reason to be happy and yeah i love u so muchhhhhh
I can't even imagine the pain the pain you went through. But nobody deserves disrespect or anything that you know you don't deserve. You will get so much better things in life. I wish you peace, happiness and abundance. You will make the best mum ever.
Thank you so much... I completely understand and needed to hear this. Realized I am not alone. As my life is awesome and great but I get that feeling where you just want to shut everything. Thank you for being here.
It’s still difficult to believe your most recent post! But you are a putting up such brave face. All strength to you and your baby. I don’t know what has happened but I had always adored you and your partner together but I am pretty damn sure you will shine brighter with or without anyone along. ♥️
At the age of 26, i got depressed with life and tbh! I took me alot to overcome it,that’s why i can relate to you very much malvikaa. We got thisss, we still need to heal but we definitely got this.
Even though i stopped following her on ig but watching this video makes me so sad. She is such a kind hearted woman and strong woman. You never know what's going on behind the camera. Stay strong Mals❤🥺
Malvika hey! I hope you’re doing better. I cannot cannot emphasis how much I needed this right now. You mentioned about opening up, layers of traumas that gets passed on and how we take healing for granted unless life puts us at square one and we have to deal with it. Absolutely love you. Whatever people say, you opening up about your journey and being truthful about despite criticism needs courage and balls. It gives a lot of us hope. It is v bold of you, Malz. Keep at it. Wishing you and lil Malz baby lots of good health. ❤🎉
What i love about therapy and trauma informed therapist is sitting with emotions that is so uncomfortable. This is truly healing. A lot of coaches don't address this and push into toxic productivity and positivity or spiritual bypassing without feeling the triggers , without feeling the feelings which if unprocessed will pass down as generational trauma.
So all this time she was talking about her life and motivating herself by talking with us. I felt so sorry for her. I actually take her words and it also helped me in my marriage. I hope she will heal soon 🤍
I had so many traumas in my life during this year. I can not put my feelings into words right now, but to be honest, your words and guidance changed my life. I ended a toxic relationship, kept my distance from some friends, and most importantly, began to love myself more than anything else. I watched your old YT videos to be motivated during that time. Even though we haven't met in person, you have a massive place in my heart. You are an inspiration to me. ❤❤
I cant understand why the hell akhil,he was his best friend to hurt her during pregnancy,pls i wish its not true..she needs him the most at this time...this shows his immaturity
Hey Mals, what do I say?..... you're an amazing woman never forget that!! The thoughts a woman goes through are so real , raw and true but no one takes it seriously but you've given a platform for such woman to say it's ok to feel this way. Us woman never deal with our emotions just brush it under the carpet or have that self talk of guilt. Thank you for being so real, raw!! Virtual hug to you!! 🥰😍🤗
Hi Malvika! You are really strong and it honestly makes me really sad to even think about what you must be going through . We are with you throughout your journey and we love you malz! ❤
I am so so soooo much proud of you!! You strong Mals!! It’s really empowering to watch you hear you!!! You go gurllll.. we are always there to love you and support you!!!
Mals Loads and loads of love and power to you!! YOU WILL COME OUT AS A MORE STRONGER PERSON, 2023 is your year girl. I can feel each word of you I can feel that pain too because I have faced so many things this year related to career, health issue and mental issues as well. I know how much difficult it is to absorb when you slowly lose yourself in that phase,that shit really hit's hard. Time heals everything, God bless you !
While i was pregnant in 2020 i watched your videos and used to feel so inspired and good. Today i am shocked and sad. I never really noticed or imagined this. Pregnancy is such a beautiful phase but she has to go through so much pain. Sending loads of love to u Mals.
It's actually so so much breaking my heart knowing about her just yesterday I got to know she has got separated from her husband whom she loved madly and shared all her moments with him and the way he said I am a butterfly she literally cried but controlled her emotions ooh la la
Malvika, I've seen your journey since INTM. You've always been my favourite person. Just know that whatever is happening, is happening for the best of you. The best version is yet to come. Please hold on to life. This harsh phase will end soon. You will overcome this very soon. Just hold on. I promise you, you will heal. Things will get better. SOON 💓
The amount of love, respect, admiration, support and fondness that I have for you is ASTRONOMICAL ✨ I wish nothing but the absolute best for you 🖤 So grateful that you exist and so grateful that I got to grow up watching you and supporting you eversince you came on INTM, I think I was 11 back then, I'm 19 today. And my love and respect for you,only grows deeper and deeper. You're so Real and so Raw and so authentically yourself, despite all of it. You're tender hearted despite everything and I can't wait to grow up watching you become more successful and happy fulfilled in the times to come
Man i can connect with you soo much regarding traumas ...but you inspire me ❤️ I love watching you.... sometimes there so much going on and we didn't even realise those feelings 🍁
Everybody who knows you know how empathetic you are and how hard you love your people! You are one of the most mature influencers out there, we know you have taken the right decision for your self and for your angel baby..I’m pretty sure everyone of us have shed a tear for you! We love you so so much, may this year be filled with healing and love and happiness for you❤
I wanted to remind you when we met it was in palladium washroom!!! If you remember I didn’t have the courage to meet you with lots of people so I was hiding!! 😅 anyway, I just couldn’t help but cry when you suddenly started crying n here I am with tears spontaneously. I’m a mom to a 14 month old n trust me my pregnancy was shit n I don’t want to tell you after delivery it is better because it becomes much worse . I just started to love my kid when he got 1 year old. Entire 2 years or so was hellhole for me. But it will get better if you have high level of self awareness. Understanding your triggers . Getting a lot of help. It will get better . So just be ready to be the strongest version of yourself. It is nothing less than being a warrior. I’m not even kidding . Lots of love to you Sending all the blessings and strength your way 🎉
Mals...please please take care of yourself .. this all seems just so shocking to me.. you both were a perfect story for me... And reading all about the separation breaks my heart.. May God bless you and the little soul ❤️❤️❣️🫰
Love you so much Malzzz... For how strong you have been through all the difficult situations and how you cope with all the breakdowns. It's really hard to get back to your regular routine when you have been suffering mentally & also physically. You are such an inspiration to all the females out there who choose to give up or are about to give up. Loads of Love and Blessings to you. Keep Going... Stay Positive the way you are...
Its truly heart breaking and i m shattered by this news how could it be possible u guys were having such a beautiful life and then u both planned ur lives with ur coming baby so why he decided to move ahead by leaving both u nd the baby behind..its truly not be acceptable nd justified.. But i want to cheer up u how strong nd confident u r instead of having this much pain nd depression lying down inside u💔 we r with u hope u will get rid of it soon and will be the happiest one ever with ur child
Divorce is a big step. The problems brew from sometime before you take such a huge decision. So maybe they were in the bad situation before this itself. Also, I feel their trip was kinda like the last attempt to reconcile. But unfortunately didn’t work.
@@Life-O-Holic I agree!! But it's just soo surprising... they've been together for 14 years now and after so much time they've spent together...things turn out the other way!
MALS😭you are going to be an amazing mom❤️, thank you for opening up, we are here for you to listen to you! Glad you are at a much better place! Love only💕
I felt same way during my first trimester mals!! Nobody ever educated about how rough pregnancy actually can be. All people know it’s tough but they don’t know the details and don’t teach or talk about struggles. Thank you so much for making a video on pregnancy and difficulty..
MALS i’ve a 8 month old daughter and I’m parenting her all alone by myself living in US with no house help i can relate to what you must be feeling or have gone through whatever the circumstances but YOU the person I know from years never deserves to go through this in this time of your life i know hoc special it is and i also know how special you are to everyone you are like my sister who lives away but i get to live your life and peek into your personalities via your social handles but you can do this look at you baby mals baking a baby now who thought this SIS you are amazing I can’t even tell you how you’ve carried yourself all these years what you wanted back in your life and what actually happened which was good for you I sometimes think at the end it’s just us with our children thats it once you’ll hold your baby get to know your baby and realise how dependent they are on you OMG you are gonna need nobody in your life i always wanted a man in my life But after having my child i think this is the purest love i can ever get Be strong you don’t know whats ahead of you something super exciting
I am not even pregnant but this is so relatable. I went through this the entire year and I have no idea what went wrong and still don't. But I hope things get better soon. It feels good to know I am not alone❤️❤️😊
Same. This year was heavy . I went through the same phase. Really didn't understand what is going wrong? Good to know there are so many people like us . I wish everyone heals fast , 2023 be awesome
@@aditimodi8013 Definitely something about this year. But I guess we needed this to dive deeper and emerge as the best version of ourselves. If traumas are not healed they will pop up at some point.
Oh man 😮💨😮💨😣 I swear. This year was a lot. Let’s begin the new year with a new perspective, shall we? Let’s let go of the past so we can focus on the present and be here. Sending love ❤
I just can’t process the fact that it happened..but nonetheless Mals!!!You have been and are… awesome😭❤️We have always loved you for what you are and all this doesn’t change the factttt that you will be an awesome mother❤️and for the work you do🥺….you’ve been the best…and you always deserve the best . Coming out and speaking about it when you are going through the worst is an epitome of strength woman!!!! You inspire so many of us🥺so always always always…be proud of yourself 🧏🏻♀️cause we are💗i hope this helps🥹love ya❤️❤️Stay strong❤️
This is the first time I am commenting on your video though I have been following you for years. I remember you doing UA-cam because you loved makeup and now seeing you as someone who is this mature and committed to everything you do makes me feel happy. Thank you for reminding that trauma is real and healing is important. Rightly said, we get so carried away by everyday life that we don't pay attention until its too late. Just want to say that you will heal and there will be better days. Congratulations, the little life is a blessed one!
SEEING YOU CRY MADE ME TEAR UP SO BADLYYY MALS! JUST KNOW THAT YOU'RE THE STRONGEST AND YOU'LL GET PAST THIS.. IVE LEARNED AND WILL LEARN ALOT FROM YOU.YOURE MY SISTER, MY GUARDIAN ANGEL.... I LOVE YOU SO MUCH MALS
I've been following Malvika for a couple of years, but this news has broken me soooo much! For some reason, it just felt so personal! As if I'm facing these issues in my own life! I just tossed and turned the whole night last night, thinking about how life must be for her! Pregnancy is SO tough, it changes a woman like no tomorrow. You lose your identity, you grow in size, you don't feel beautiful anymore. And to imagine the shit she's going through in this phase of her life just breaks my heart - while putting up these seemingly happy and everything's fine videos online! It takes so much courage to put on a smile when you're actually shattered to pieces inside! Sending all the prayers and all the strength your way! You are enough
Ikr????! I kept thinking about her and I can’t get over the pain she is doing through:(
It exactly felt personal.....all the love and blessings for you and the baby dear♥️
Same here ! And I was like if it’s so painful to me I can’t even imagine how she must be feeling ! Even I pray for her everyday 🙏
I agree with all the things you said EXCEPT that in pregnancy you lose your identity ❓❓You grow in size---Obiviously and You don't feel beautiful --who told you all these things about pregnancy or being pregnant.All these is absolutely not true .I would suggest meet few pregnant ladies n talk to them about their experiences.🥴🥴🥴🙏
When I first saw the pregnancy announcement video, the first thought that came to my mind was “but she said she never wanted to have babies” and the fact that you addressed it and said “you are allowed to change you mind whenever you want” just came across as so powerful to me and I’m sorry for having judged you.
You’re so strong as a person and I always take something uplifting from your videos.
Sending you lots of love, Mals ❤️
❤
It's Akhil's loss, where can he get another kindest, affectionate, hottest and gorgeous woman like Mals💔
@@lifeisbeautiful5522Dear didi, i pity on such thoughts of yours.. no words😐...
@@shreyadandwate1285 why do I say that
True,all the best malz
but do u know why they divorced???
She was going through so much, and we had no idea. Mals you are an inspiration, this too shall pass, hang in there , the best is yet to come. We all love you ❤️
Such a hypocrisiy from Akhil's side,he is asking people to dm him if someone is low,alone and confused,whereas he cant understand the pain his wife is going through during pregnancy and he will counsel others..pls.I cant understand him.And malvika is trying to move on..which is natural..it takes time..he has moved on or what that he has open up counselling
What happened
Now I understand each and every word you said. Can't imagine how strong u r to just appear in front of the camera. Heal. Prayers and love to you
A man who abandoned his kid and wife when they needed him the most needs to be dumped. Bravo Mals.
What happened
What’s the time stamp she said it in?
For those who don't know, I also got to know about it few days ago
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You don’t know who abandoned whome! You were not there when they were fighting and what they were fighting about duhhh
@@AduAndMummaVlogs Malvika is a kind of girl who everyone wants in thier life. Even if we don't know we can assume things from vlogs and all. His husband himself told that he didn't wanted to commit and want to explore other flowers (women) but he felt pressurized so he married malvika. Also Malvika is a strong girl as she didn't did abortion and even after deciding for divorce. She bought the baby and raising herself 💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Being a psychology student, I am so glad we have people like you in this world, whatever you said is absolutely true. Any issue will be solved through therapy! In fact, my professor had mentioned once that every counsellor needs a counsellor. And you are truly strong and I am very happy that you are so aware of your feelings and emotions and in the second video of your pregnancy playlist, I recognised that you really needed some professional help and I am so so so glad that you did...your child is going to have a greatttt mom! Coming to social media, you've been extremely thick-skinned and it is absolutely okay to feel the way you are feeling. Also I have cursed(not kidding) people who comment hate under videos, especially yours (like really, who could even dislike you?) Sending lots and lots of love, support, happiness. Love you Gals, I KNOW YOU ARE STRONG!❤
Hey revati.. I read your comment nd really appreciated the way u recode this . Can u pls do my help too. I feel so I'm also in mental dilemma but have no one with whom I do share nd they also feel and gice me any advice or else which is helpful for me . Can't tell to parents coz dont wana bother them. most of d time i shared it with my bf but he also fed up. Mostly things revolve in my head. I also start losing interest in traveling in myself nd even dont find motive in life. Jo krna h woh kr ni pai abhi b nd papa want me to do jo ni krna. Even I dont feel happiness it feels it I'm acting to myself. Ki khush hu pr actually m I'm not. Pls help
I was pregnant a year ago and I felt exactly same, exactly shocked by the fact why I’m not happy despite this beautiful blessing and so depressed and anxious most of the time, my husband lost his mom , she died literally 2 weeks after I got to know I’m pregnant. I couldn’t lean on him much either. Thank you so much for sharing your experience but I wish someone had shared it when I was pregnant. No one at all i knew had gone through this and I had minimal support. My husband was the only support I had despite his mom’s death, he tried his best to love him, however I felt so unloved and hurt despite him being really nice to me. So finally I came out as a winner , I still feel some postpartum blues but I’ve I come out as a winner. I’m blessed to have breastfed my daughter and it really helped my I believe, it naturally produces oxytocin hormone and helps you recover and heal. Going through it again still feels scary but I’m so glad I was blessed with my daughter . Thank you so much for sharing your experience, it literally resonates my pregnancy story emotionally and mentally
I had no idea of who’s judging you for speaking up about the difficulties of pregnancy. I feel so surprised because I am so glad that you’re letting people know what no one told you. Many women feel alone in their suffering when pregnant because the dominant media portrayal is all happy and goofy. I have heard of so many of my friends feeling as if it is only them. It their problem that they can’t deal with the changes but if only they knew that they were not alone … and thanks to you many of us will know that this is something that may come up and if we do have a difficult time mentally then we know we are not alien - not alone. Thanks for doing this. It takes courage.
Been following malvika for 7 years now! Never felt that she was going through so much! I used to watch her self love videos in my low phase for hours. She always radiates so much positivity and still continues to inspire me.. Proud of you malvika!!! You have come a long way!!
Can you plz tell me some UA-camr channels name like malvika sitlani?
It's the first time i saw a parent going for therapy so that the child has not to go. I wish my parents had😢
I have struggled so much bcoz of my parents, so much trauma which no child deserves ...sending you virtual hugs and a lots of healing ❤️
I'm so proud of you that you are sharing your honest journey, no sugarcoated stuff, it's the truth guys Life is not sugarcoated so accept it. Show some respect to this women who dares to be honest and vulnerable, maybe we'll have to face this situation and i know many people are, Atleast this way they got somebody to relate to. So proud of you Mals😊
Love from Sehar❤
Hey i feel you here i know so many of us have seen shitty childhood and feel the effects of it all our life.
Most of our strengths and weaknesses come from our childhood and it's fine. I also use to think that my parents are the reason for all my limiting beliefs and yes maybe partly they are but one thing is for sure I can't keep blaming them because THEY DIDN'T KNOW ANY BETTER and once one accepts that hard truth to the core healing comes naturally.
I know for sure that parents do the best they can and they are not perfect either they are humans just like us but if someone can find the strength to forgive them I can assure that one also forgives themselves easily, it's like we are all connected somehow. I hope everyone here finds a possibility to see their parents as themselves, and choose to heal.
@@MansiSharma-vp8mm THEY DIDN'T KNOW ANY BETTER is key of healing. Thanks for this ❤️
True toxic parents exist
@@MansiSharma-vp8mm don't give advice if u don't knw abt bad has lighting parents
End of the day u r supporting and generalising that parents are good what's the point you are trying to make here?
@@charmtantra hey there
I have had issues with my parents all my life and trust me I know how toxic those situations can get, i have experienced it first hand that's why I said I can relate.
I am going to just say one thing by not forgiving our parents no one is winning and if someone is losing it is us, we are the ones who will always have issues if we don't let go it's like being locked up behind bars with the key just lying there for one to open.
Its a process and takes time and i am also midway there but i know if i want to change something in life i cnt keep playing the blame game, there is no point.
Virtual hugs.
So much respect and love for you i can't express. You are so awesome 😘😘
Hi Malz, I started following you during covid when I found a makeup recommendation of your video on UA-cam. I love the way you connect with us, everyday life lessons, lifestyle and make us laugh with your funny accent.
I have looked upto you for how sorted and grounded you are. I love how you resemble me and every other girl out there.
But today, I am broken seeing your news. I don't know how you are handling this and if you are doing well. But again, I am so proud of you. I am so so proud. I can't imagine the strength, courage and grace that you are carrying along. Keep this up Malz. Keep being someone whom we can look upto. Thank you. Love ♾️
Thanku so much for making this video❤ I'm going through from ery rough phase and it seeing your healing just made me feel very light and if you can do it I can also❤
These 2 were my couple goals ! Hard to digest about the separation 🫠😭
Same. I still can't believe it. They had dated 10 years before they got married. Mals was a teen and now she is in her 30s they grew up together. It must have been really difficult for her that too in pregnancy🥺🥺
Exactly mine too but i feel like she should share a lil about what actually happened my assumption is its coz of her pregnancy bcoz there was no Akhil’s reaction video on that announcement and after that we never saw akhil taking care of her during pregnancy
Might b he wasn’t ready for this but this is tooo wrong if this was the reason
I love you so very very very very very very much! You’re super strong! You’re sooooo genuine and what you see is what you get! That’s just how you are! This must be incredibly tough! But if there’s something I learned - you can’t move on from this.. you can move along with this! You’re so damn strong! You’re too precious! The best is yet to come Mals! I wish the world for you
Hii Mallzz i just wanna give you a hug and say everything is gonna be ok. You are beautiful inside out. I really mean it 🥺❤️ Somehow this pain doesn't suit you...i have always looked up to you as someone who's so bubbly, graceful , cheerful and smiling. I want you to be the same. Don't get bothered to change yourself for anything or anyone literally. Always there for you here when you wanna vent out something ❤️
Lots and lots of healings, love ,warm wishes and what not ! And yeah can't wait to a glimpse of the baby, a new phase ,mothehood and ofcourse your community is always there. ❤️
This video was spot on! Like I don't know how but this was all I wanted to hear and I'm thankful that it was you Mals! I was actually looking for a word for the coming year and you directed me to it, "heal". Love you!
‘Heal’ is word of the year for me ❤ so important
MALSSSSS YOU TAUGHT ME SOOOO MUCHHH AND TRUST ME THIS WILL PASS ... AND YOU'LL RISE EVEN MORE ❤️
Mals! Just saw your post yesterday. Please stay strong and don’t let it affect your baby❤ All are with you 💯 Sending lots of Love, Positivity and Strength ♥️
I'm so sorry mals. I can't even imagine what you must have been going through. Sending you lots of love and strength❤️❤️
thank you mals. I have gained so much awareness and grown up over the last 2 years watching your videos. I love listening to you .❤
Thanks for sharing... I could relate to your POV on mental health issue in so many ways. All I can say is thank you for sharing every corner of your journey. Hugs and blessings to you Mals
It really needs a lot of guts & courage to take such a big life changing decision. No amount of years guarantee a life time of relationship, people & situations do change with time. you are a very strong gal for being able to choose your happiness over others and kudos to you for being so honest and vocal about your experiences, sharing it all out there so openly. More power to you Mals.
I haven't been active for 2 years so i didn't know what was going on with her... But today i was thinking i haven't watch malvika for so long ....but i didn't knew she was pregnant had a beautiful baby and her husband left her😭 god i feel so bad....Now iam happy that she is so strong now❤
How far she has come... Watched her story time about her relationship when they have already parted ways. That chirpy malz has grown up to a whole new tangent
Going through the same journey of being separated from someone who was a part of my world,my mum. She was a single parent so basically my only family as I have no siblings. Though as you said we have people who care but trust me guys it is not as easy as it sounds. More power to you mals, this feels so personal to see you go through so much at the same time but as we say " this too shall pass".
Love you girl❤
Y they got separated??
Hi bhoomika
Feels like you are going through the same as me
My mum was my whole world and I lost her
No siblings no one
So I can empathize with you
Lots of blessings to you
i’m kind of going through something similar like i’m in a dark place too(can’t imagine what you’re going through but i wish you all the healing in the world❤️) and this really helped me find perspective and inspiration. i’ll start journaling and just be, do things i love and things for me, that bring me happiness.
I could not sleep hearing this sad news. Akhil is such a coward he will regret big time. U got this girl. We all love you and wish u the best. Keep the good work and lots of love and luck for the baby
Akhil will regret big time may be not today but 5 years down the or 10 years down the line. What a beautiful family he could have had. Ruined it. I am a girl but if I was in Akhils place, i would have been so grateful to have someone like Malvika who loved you so much.
What happened?
@@zuriquinn5574 they are separated
Exactly!!!! 10+ years of “loving” relationship, only for him to divorce her when she is literally carrying his baby🙄
@@kiwiwooq where did she make the announcement though?
On Insta😥😥😥😥
Aah, I so needed this video today. Woke up crying over past life, you and this video is a sign for me today to get my therapy started. Hugs and sending Love ♥to you. Thank you so much for this video, such a strong girl you are! Love you ♥
Will be coming back to this video in some months or maybe years, when I'd need to hear Mal's advice. So to my future self - Dont let a man ruin your life, pick yourself up, be your own cheerleader because your're enough!
Dont jump at conclusions ...m sure deyl try to make things work
I am so so so sorry Malvika- what you are going through is unimaginable !
They have dated for so many years and now this ? It breaks my heart to hear this .. all marriages are crazy
Sending you strength and love ❤ I feel you! Situations may not be same but mental health brings out different menaces to deal with. I have childhood traumas that I still deal with and it still reflects in different ways.
I am literally crying watching you like this, oh god I don't know how much u r going through, hope you pass through this 😘 lots of love to u and ur baby
Mals, i needed to hear this all for more validation. I recently recorded a pep talk for myself and I hear it every time I feel bogged down. Hope this technique helps you too! God bless!
Loads of love Mals... Thank you for this 'Real' talk which is needed.Was waiting to hear something like this. Even though been surrounded by best of the people...still feel terrible...there is something that really not lets you get up...Trying best to get back...If you can,even I can surely ❤️♥️✨
hello can u sum up of dis talk ..wat actually is dis all abt n any idea u gt from d video d reason she gt seprated from akhil ..its v tuff thing for her n for her baby also dey wer so in love wat happnd so suddenly
I have been watching you from like 2019 . I may not know everything about you , I always saw you as an influencer and a make up artist but today watching you cry made me cry , like how something bad that happened in your past or even is happening to you right now , wrong choices , bad friends , bad relationships every shit just leaves a mark over our personality and we cover it up like we our dark spots with concealer , we never think of how big that pile is becoming and how is it affecting us . Been there man I totally understand what dark place you are talking about . I hope you feel better after sharing this . I hope I could hug you and tell you how amazing you are and how brave you are for sharing this online for showing such real emotions so that everyone could see this side of pregnancy that no one knows about or talks about . I hope the best for you mals . You are like a bug sister to me ❤️. Lots of love to you 🫂. You are the best babe . Everything will be alright . And I think I am gonna buy a journal for me and my best friend and start this process of being with myself for some time in the day . Like a new year resolutions thing 😂😘❤️ . Lots of love yr hope you feel better 🫂
Thank you for being so awesome ❤❤❤❤ yes, the best gift you can give yourself this year is to work on your inner child ❤❤❤ it’s so important to heal and do the work
I can’t imagine what ur going through and hope no body ever has to go through what u r going. Now we understand all the crying isn’t just pregnancy hormones. Feeling that ur going to be 1000% stronger than what u started this journey as. All the best to u and ur baby 🦄❤️
Much love Mals!! You are a very strong girl and a great inspiration for all of us! You gonna get the best in your life as always :)
BABE EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE ALRIGHT? DO YOU HEAR ME? WE LOVE YOU MALS.. YOU ARE MY FAMILY..ITS BECAUSE OF YOU THAT I AM WHAT I AM TODAY..YOH HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THINGS YOU HAVE DONE..YOU HAVE CHANGED MY LIFE BABY..STAY STRONG..I AM JUST 16 BUT I AM SO STONG AND SECURE BECAUSE OF YOU..JUST HOLD ON BABY
Thank you so much. Love you more ❤❤😊
This reminded me of my pregnancy where I was on bed rest for 4 months and lot was going on personal front. I totally relate when I say one isn't aware about these things and still you are expected to deal or sail through. I really like the way you put your thoughts and feelings across. You go girl, you got this all the best with everything. Thanks for sharing 💓💓
You’re so strong! I wish you all the happiness in the world. I shall pray for you! ❤❤❤
How I wish I could come there and give you a big hug. So proud of how you’re addressing these emotions and how people should work on themselves and HEAL. It’s so important to accept what you’re going through because pushing your emotions away will never help, it all comes back so yes HEAL YOURSELVES, do the work.
Sending you so much love and strength Mals!❤
Hugs!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
You are gonna heal so beautifully malz ✨ 5 yrs from now.. life with your cute baby is so happening and growing andddd loveing... I'll still be seeing you n smiling 😘 we love you okay 😘 you glooooowww 😘
My 2 cents
• Malvika - you are doing a GREAT job. Your baby will be proud of you for taking a stand.
• I wish everyone learns to see into a guy- beyond just crush, looks, money. See if he is a family man. Does he superseed your needs over his. Relationships are madeup of small or big compromises.
• 10 year or 1 year- if someone puts themselves above you- no matter how long you have been togather, one day you get done.
• GIRLS - please know TRUE LOVE is all in stories. Real love is - small gestures, geneuine care, making time.
Hi mals I can’t even imagine what you’re going through right now this shall too pass you will be the best mom in the world you’re the strongest girl god will give alot of strength ❤
I love u soooo much malzzzz..... pls dont feel sad , u are such a big inspiration in my life , u are the one who gave me positive vibes during my bad days , even now i dont feel good but u gave me a reason to be happy and yeah i love u so muchhhhhh
I can't even imagine the pain the pain you went through. But nobody deserves disrespect or anything that you know you don't deserve. You will get so much better things in life. I wish you peace, happiness and abundance. You will make the best mum ever.
How are you so good at articulating your thoughts!! Much love n strength to you! 🌺❤️
Thank you so much... I completely understand and needed to hear this. Realized I am not alone. As my life is awesome and great but I get that feeling where you just want to shut everything. Thank you for being here.
It’s still difficult to believe your most recent post! But you are a putting up such brave face. All strength to you and your baby. I don’t know what has happened but I had always adored you and your partner together but I am pretty damn sure you will shine brighter with or without anyone along. ♥️
At the age of 26, i got depressed with life and tbh! I took me alot to overcome it,that’s why i can relate to you very much malvikaa. We got thisss, we still need to heal but we definitely got this.
Same case same age girl
Even though i stopped following her on ig but watching this video makes me so sad. She is such a kind hearted woman and strong woman. You never know what's going on behind the camera.
Stay strong Mals❤🥺
Malvika hey! I hope you’re doing better. I cannot cannot emphasis how much I needed this right now. You mentioned about opening up, layers of traumas that gets passed on and how we take healing for granted unless life puts us at square one and we have to deal with it. Absolutely love you. Whatever people say, you opening up about your journey and being truthful about despite criticism needs courage and balls. It gives a lot of us hope. It is v bold of you, Malz. Keep at it. Wishing you and lil Malz baby lots of good health. ❤🎉
What i love about therapy and trauma informed therapist is sitting with emotions that is so uncomfortable. This is truly healing. A lot of coaches don't address this and push into toxic productivity and positivity or spiritual bypassing without feeling the triggers , without feeling the feelings which if unprocessed will pass down as generational trauma.
So all this time she was talking about her life and motivating herself by talking with us. I felt so sorry for her. I actually take her words and it also helped me in my marriage. I hope she will heal soon 🤍
I had so many traumas in my life during this year. I can not put my feelings into words right now, but to be honest, your words and guidance changed my life. I ended a toxic relationship, kept my distance from some friends, and most importantly, began to love myself more than anything else. I watched your old YT videos to be motivated during that time. Even though we haven't met in person, you have a massive place in my heart. You are an inspiration to me. ❤❤
I cant understand why the hell akhil,he was his best friend to hurt her during pregnancy,pls i wish its not true..she needs him the most at this time...this shows his immaturity
Hey Mals, what do I say?..... you're an amazing woman never forget that!! The thoughts a woman goes through are so real , raw and true but no one takes it seriously but you've given a platform for such woman to say it's ok to feel this way. Us woman never deal with our emotions just brush it under the carpet or have that self talk of guilt. Thank you for being so real, raw!! Virtual hug to you!! 🥰😍🤗
Hi Malvika! You are really strong and it honestly makes me really sad to even think about what you must be going through . We are with you throughout your journey and we love you malz! ❤
Unbelievable, I am so much in shock after your recent post. Hope you are doing fine..❤
I am so so soooo much proud of you!! You strong Mals!! It’s really empowering to watch you hear you!!! You go gurllll.. we are always there to love you and support you!!!
"I'm allowed to change my mind" - one of the best things said ever n so f-ing true! ❤️
Mals Loads and loads of love and power to you!! YOU WILL COME OUT AS A MORE STRONGER PERSON, 2023 is your year girl. I can feel each word of you I can feel that pain too because I have faced so many things this year related to career, health issue and mental issues as well. I know how much difficult it is to absorb when you slowly lose yourself in that phase,that shit really hit's hard. Time heals everything, God bless you !
Thank you thank you. ❤❤❤❤
While i was pregnant in 2020 i watched your videos and used to feel so inspired and good. Today i am shocked and sad. I never really noticed or imagined this. Pregnancy is such a beautiful phase but she has to go through so much pain. Sending loads of love to u Mals.
It's actually so so much breaking my heart knowing about her just yesterday I got to know she has got separated from her husband whom she loved madly and shared all her moments with him and the way he said I am a butterfly she literally cried but controlled her emotions ooh la la
Malvika, I've seen your journey since INTM. You've always been my favourite person. Just know that whatever is happening, is happening for the best of you. The best version is yet to come. Please hold on to life. This harsh phase will end soon. You will overcome this very soon. Just hold on. I promise you, you will heal. Things will get better. SOON 💓
The amount of love, respect, admiration, support and fondness that I have for you is ASTRONOMICAL ✨ I wish nothing but the absolute best for you 🖤 So grateful that you exist and so grateful that I got to grow up watching you and supporting you eversince you came on INTM, I think I was 11 back then, I'm 19 today. And my love and respect for you,only grows deeper and deeper. You're so Real and so Raw and so authentically yourself, despite all of it. You're tender hearted despite everything and I can't wait to grow up watching you become more successful and happy fulfilled in the times to come
I don't know whether my comment is gonna make any difference or not but you u and ur baby! Jesus Christ is with us 🤎🇧🇩 stay strong strong girl
Man i can connect with you soo much regarding traumas ...but you inspire me ❤️ I love watching you.... sometimes there so much going on and we didn't even realise those feelings 🍁
This too shall pass ☮️, you are truely an inspiration for everyone around you mals 🙌🏻... Keep going 💫
Strength and love ❤️
Hearing you out is like therapy itself....take care of you Mals ..your baby is so lucky to have you as her/ his mum ❤️❤️❤️
Everybody who knows you know how empathetic you are and how hard you love your people! You are one of the most mature influencers out there, we know you have taken the right decision for your self and for your angel baby..I’m pretty sure everyone of us have shed a tear for you! We love you so so much, may this year be filled with healing and love and happiness for you❤
This too shall pass. Sending you healing vibes. Love love.
I wanted to remind you when we met it was in palladium washroom!!! If you remember I didn’t have the courage to meet you with lots of people so I was hiding!! 😅 anyway,
I just couldn’t help but cry when you suddenly started crying n here I am with tears spontaneously. I’m a mom to a 14 month old n trust me my pregnancy was shit n I don’t want to tell you after delivery it is better because it becomes much worse . I just started to love my kid when he got 1 year old. Entire 2 years or so was hellhole for me.
But it will get better if you have high level of self awareness. Understanding your triggers . Getting a lot of help. It will get better . So just be ready to be the strongest version of yourself.
It is nothing less than being a warrior. I’m not even kidding .
Lots of love to you
Sending all the blessings and strength your way 🎉
Mals...please please take care of yourself .. this all seems just so shocking to me.. you both were a perfect story for me... And reading all about the separation breaks my heart.. May God bless you and the little soul ❤️❤️❣️🫰
All I have to say is you will heal and get better with time, stay strong Mals. Love you and take care!❤
Love you so much Malzzz... For how strong you have been through all the difficult situations and how you cope with all the breakdowns. It's really hard to get back to your regular routine when you have been suffering mentally & also physically. You are such an inspiration to all the females out there who choose to give up or are about to give up. Loads of Love and Blessings to you. Keep Going... Stay Positive the way you are...
Its truly heart breaking and i m shattered by this news how could it be possible u guys were having such a beautiful life and then u both planned ur lives with ur coming baby so why he decided to move ahead by leaving both u nd the baby behind..its truly not be acceptable nd justified..
But i want to cheer up u how strong nd confident u r instead of having this much pain nd depression lying down inside u💔 we r with u hope u will get rid of it soon and will be the happiest one ever with ur child
This video is uploaded on dec 27 2022 but they were still together till jan 2nd enjoying their vacation in Thailand....kinda confusing
Divorce is a big step. The problems brew from sometime before you take such a huge decision. So maybe they were in the bad situation before this itself. Also, I feel their trip was kinda like the last attempt to reconcile. But unfortunately didn’t work.
@@Life-O-Holic I agree!! But it's just soo surprising... they've been together for 14 years now and after so much time they've spent together...things turn out the other way!
@@rachanaevangeline6072 true 😢
Some of these could still be prerecorded 🤷♀️
MALS😭you are going to be an amazing mom❤️, thank you for opening up, we are here for you to listen to you! Glad you are at a much better place! Love only💕
Ah I hope and pray. Sending love ❤
I felt same way during my first trimester mals!! Nobody ever educated about how rough pregnancy actually can be. All people know it’s tough but they don’t know the details and don’t teach or talk about struggles. Thank you so much for making a video on pregnancy and difficulty..
That is so courageous of you to do this video, i felt helped, guided. i think i needed this guidance, thanks love and lots of love to you!
MALS i’ve a 8 month old daughter and I’m parenting her all alone by myself living in US with no house help i can relate to what you must be feeling or have gone through whatever the circumstances but YOU the person I know from years never deserves to go through this in this time of your life i know hoc special it is and i also know how special you are to everyone you are like my sister who lives away but i get to live your life and peek into your personalities via your social handles but you can do this look at you baby mals baking a baby now who thought this SIS you are amazing I can’t even tell you how you’ve carried yourself all these years what you wanted back in your life and what actually happened which was good for you I sometimes think at the end it’s just us with our children thats it once you’ll hold your baby get to know your baby and realise how dependent they are on you OMG you are gonna need nobody in your life i always wanted a man in my life But after having my child i think this is the purest love i can ever get Be strong you don’t know whats ahead of you something super exciting
I am not even pregnant but this is so relatable. I went through this the entire year and I have no idea what went wrong and still don't. But I hope things get better soon. It feels good to know I am not alone❤️❤️😊
Same. This year was heavy . I went through the same phase. Really didn't understand what is going wrong? Good to know there are so many people like us . I wish everyone heals fast , 2023 be awesome
@@aditimodi8013 Definitely something about this year. But I guess we needed this to dive deeper and emerge as the best version of ourselves. If traumas are not healed they will pop up at some point.
Oh man 😮💨😮💨😣 I swear. This year was a lot. Let’s begin the new year with a new perspective, shall we? Let’s let go of the past so we can focus on the present and be here. Sending love ❤
@@ThatGirlInVogue Omg😳😳. Is thar really you?? 🙈🙈. Something good came out of this year. Wishing you a lot of good luck and happiness ahead❤️
Can I send virtual hugs and tons of love. Literally cannot wait for your baby and you just pampering him/her. Love you mals❤️
You’re doing great baby girl 🤍 just keep moving!
Rally loved how openly you expressed your emotions and it is alright! You’ll be fine! Lots of love ❤
I just can’t process the fact that it happened..but nonetheless Mals!!!You have been and are… awesome😭❤️We have always loved you for what you are and all this doesn’t change the factttt that you will be an awesome mother❤️and for the work you do🥺….you’ve been the best…and you always deserve the best . Coming out and speaking about it when you are going through the worst is an epitome of strength woman!!!! You inspire so many of us🥺so always always always…be proud of yourself 🧏🏻♀️cause we are💗i hope this helps🥹love ya❤️❤️Stay strong❤️
Can someone please say what has happened..😓😓
@Priyanka Bhadury she and Akhil broke up 💔
This is the first time I am commenting on your video though I have been following you for years. I remember you doing UA-cam because you loved makeup and now seeing you as someone who is this mature and committed to everything you do makes me feel happy. Thank you for reminding that trauma is real and healing is important. Rightly said, we get so carried away by everyday life that we don't pay attention until its too late. Just want to say that you will heal and there will be better days. Congratulations, the little life is a blessed one!
Reading your post had tears in my eyes🥺My couple goal is separated and it’s painful😓Be strong we all are with you and baby❤️Virtual hug to you🫂❤️
This video made me cry ...thanks sis for talking about on this topic ...this topic from where I'm going through...thanks💌
SEEING YOU CRY MADE ME TEAR UP SO BADLYYY MALS! JUST KNOW THAT YOU'RE THE STRONGEST AND YOU'LL GET PAST THIS.. IVE LEARNED AND WILL LEARN ALOT FROM YOU.YOURE MY SISTER, MY GUARDIAN ANGEL.... I LOVE YOU SO MUCH MALS
Warm hugs ❤❤❤❤❤
Congratulations....
May god give you all the strength to heal through this difficult phase of your life. You are an inspiration to many people, this too shall pass ❤️
Malzz I can't believe what I just saw, hope you have all the strength to overcome this.
Akhil is very unlucky guy I must say.. He lost a gem 🙁🥺