Tampon math has literally never made sense... some days I have to change mine like 4 times a day if not more. I looked at a Tampax box and it was like "this is 3 months worth!" And I just laughed because clearly someone without a juicy-uty made that claim and has no idea that you use more than 1 or 2 a day lol
@@tbh8149 bruh. My wife is this exactly. It's at the point in our relationship where I'm all ''why are you going through so many, it's day four, you okay honey?" LOL
I've certainly driven myself away from a few "major accidents"! Reminds me of the lyrics to a Robert Earl Keen song: "When and if I ever finally pass you Oh when I do and if I'm still alive I won't ever see you, cause I'm ripping out my rear view And I'm shifting it on in to overdrive But your still swervin' in my lane and it's causin' lots of danger I'm a stompin' on the foot feed, I'm a shooting you the finger I keep a switchin' on my bright lights, but you're just too dim to know When your swervin' on life's highway, you're running someone off the road!"
Yeah. I've never seen a woman break a TV because her team she doesn't even play for or have any money riding on lost... Its pretty clear men are the most emotionally unstable IMO.
@@goodbher9244 omg or break a controller over video games. Or like when you reject a guy and he flips and goes off saying whatever you're ugly anyway. Soo fragile lol.
They started using women at Top Gun as instructors not just because women can take higher gees but we do better in high stress situations. We don’t break done and freak out until afterwards while men tend to break during the crisis.
The last story about female doctors, THAT happened! An attending and amazing teacher of mine had that situation. This patient was literally in a life or death situation and, when he found out he was going to be operated by a woman, he refused treatment, didn't do the surgery. The team started looking for a male surgeon but he didn't make it. He died like 2 days later, while the team searched for a male doctor for him. He DIED Literally prefered his stupid beliefs over his life... My teacher told us this story and her response was: "Natural selection" 🤷♀️
I can see because of a woman. I was losing my sight if I waited a few more months after 21 years of age, I would be legally blind. I could careless if male or female. If you are going to improve my life and make me better, I'm going for you.
It's so weird because in my country jobs like doctors and nurses are very feminised. It is believed that they are better at the job, patients tend to relax more when they see a female doctor, and they are more sought after, the difference is that their men counterparts aren't treated with disdain or untrustworthiness. PS: I understand that the problem is on both sides of the opinion(Not trusting women to do it or putting them in a box of care work) but at least this way nobody is committing suicide because of their sexism.
Feeling "entitled" to a woman is one of the cornerstones of rape culture. He's NOT entitled to a woman, but he might have a stint in prison coming his way.
Exactly! I literally had a conversation recently where the guy I was talking to said that if a woman is showing too much of her body then she’s “asking for it”. To which I replied that even if someone literally asks for sex, they have the right to change their mind, no means no and no one has the right to another person’s body, male or female, even if you’re married that doesn’t entitle you to another person’s body. It shocks me that we’re still having these kinds of conversations in this day and age, it’s insane
@@paleflower "No one has the right to another person's body." YES!! The right to bodily autonomy is the foundation for many human rights, like the right to not get r@ped.
„I am a prime example of someone who deserves a wife.“ You are a prime example of someone who needs therapy for his narcissistic personality disorder my dear.
@@plumquake6838 I'm just wondering if he would be happy with the woman the government picks for him? "Oh, no. She isn't pretty. And she thinks too much. She needs to cook and clean the cave and rub my feet when I come home from a long day of hunting mammoths"" If everyone got the partner they deserve I have to wonder what kind of woman he would end up with.
Also about the "women couldn't make art until recently" thing. So women were considered their husbands' property until the 80's, so anything the wife makes is technically the husbands property, so he could take credit for it. Also, many female artists made male pen names to get their works out to the public, even to this day.
What in this day and age? Maybe years ago yes and it was documented but they're far more likely to credit these days and have no need to use a males name... Think Banksy is a bloke or a woman? Who cares the art speaks for itself..
@@mikespicer4827 it's been only a dew decades since women are allowed to even follow this path. Girls still grow up in a society where people give them more compliments for their looks and clothes than for their intelligence and hard work compared to boys, so of course they are more likely to not be very ambitious when they grow up and not show off their talent and skills. The truth is that a big part of society still values ambition and hard work in men, and bring women down, making them not believe and follow their dreams. Don't get me wrong, men also suffer from toxic societal expectations, but in a different way. Still, the point is that men had thousands of years to show off their skills, while women got only a few decades.
I did an experiment when I was in high school (back in the 70s). We had an art show every year that was judged and critiqued. The first year I entered with my first and last name (first name is Suzanne). It was a pencil drawing of my cat I did, from a photograph I took of her looking out a window. It was challenging to draw the glass and her reflection, and my art teacher recommended I enter that drawing. I didn't even get a runner-up ribbon and In the critique, one judge commented that she thought she'd seen this image before, so it wasn't "original". The next year I entered a drawing I did of a photograph of a little girl from Nat. Geographic and got 2nd place. That time I only used my last name. That image really wasn't "original" since I based my drawing on a photo from a very well-known magazine. I still think my cat drawing was the better of the two. Ever since then, I sign with my initial and last name.
Don't forget that many female artists were relegated to "feminine" crafts, there is some amazing tapestries/embroidery/weaving/lace out there that we will never know who made them, but they were definitely artists.
When I was a young girl my father - who is a massive history buff and often reads every info card in museum displays - took me to a special touring exhibition on feathered dinosaurs. I spent so long pouring over every fossil and model reconstruction that my father had to sit outside the exhibition area to rest his legs. I was so engrossed, I didn't even know he had left the area. He was tired when I finally came out, but extremely happy I had gotten his money's worth out of the exhibition. It's still one of the highlights in my life.
The only special thing in my life that was like this was the day I turned 13, the day I could finally go on the “adult” rides at one of my favorite theme parks, best mfing day in my life, I rode the biggest roller coaster over and over again till we had to go, my dad almost got sick thinking about a second ride so I went alone but the girls I sat with on the ride the second time were super sweet so I felt safe, I rode it a 3rd time and then we had to go home, and they say us girls hate that 😂😂
"Take a 5 year old girl to the museum and she will be begging to go home to watch frozen." My little sister, at 4 years old, went up to a guy working on a display he was setting up for a presentation. She asked if she could look and maybe pet them. I had no clue what the guy had but this isn't unusual for my sister to do with pets of any kind. The guy proceeded to take out a long dark blue basically black snake with metallic looking scales. (Bigger than any snake I've ever seen in a pet store) He told her she could pet the part of the snake between his hands, she was super happy and pet the snake for a good minute before the guy had to continue with his work. She always loved that museum and all the dino bones, rocks, and the planetarium projection displays. To this day she still collects polished rocks, knows the names of dinos, loves space and stars, and goes to every pet store she can to ask if she can pet the snakes.... she is 24 this year.
When I was little I would go into pet stores and ask to pet the feeder mice. I loved history museums and collected rocks. My great grandmother left me her arrow head /geode/turquoise collection when she died and I was 12. I was stoked.
I had heart problems my whole life… I saw male Doctors/Cardiologists for 40years, all of them just saying that I am a female and am just going through anxiety attacks. These Cardiologist’s would give me random prescriptions that caused me many heart attacks.All of the treatment , my parents and I sought, were in California, Texas, Illinois, and the Carolina’s… all males After my 65th heart attack at the age of 42, a 4 foot female Cardiologist, took the time to study me and found 32 holes in my heart. She gave me an ablation operation and I have never had an issue since
That is so dangerous! Please send a report to all those doctors. I would sue. But that is expensive. At least, a letter telling them they failed at being a good doctor might make them check their egos. I'm sure they still believe they were right, and you weren't. Sending them proof they failed might make them change.
Yeah, this I believe! Bc for MANY MANY years, Drs did NOT take women serious & believed we were all these fragile, emotional, airheaded, delicate sensibilities, & irrational creatures. They didn't study women or listen to anything they said & just chalked it up to us being dramatic! & Having a female Dr was a HUGE blessing bc they would listen & understand. Now, I WILL say that during my LONG battle to get my diagnosis of Adenomyosis & then to treat it, I met some female Drs that were WORST than any male Dr. & W\the exception of 2 of the guys, the make Drs were actually more compassionate & sympathetic to my struggle. The women were all period cramps don't hurt THAT bad! All women have them & manage just find day to day. Ummm NO! Maybe YOUR pd cramps aren't that bad bc you haven't ever suffered a HORRIBLY agonizing disorder where your uterus is literally ripping itself apart from the inside out! But I believed as a teen that I was just a big fat baby, so I'd suffer quietly. Then I have birth for the 1st time. There were complications & they had to induce me & the baby STILL wouldn't come so they broke my water b4 I had even dilated at ALL! & We were told the contractions progressively get worse but they start at level 1. So, when the pain of contractions started & I was writhing on the bed crying silently (to the point the nurses were urging me to yell & let it out) I looked up at 1 nurse & said, "Sorry! I know I'm a big baby!" & She looked at me confused & put her hand on my forehead & said "Oh honey, why do you think you're a baby? You've got nothing to apologize for." I told her bc these are the beginning contractions, the easiest ones, & they have to get a lot harder & stronger. & I'm already crying. & She looked SHOCKED! She flipped the monitor around so I could see the peaks from my contractions & how high they were going & said that bc the Drs broke my water, it jump started my contractions, (along w\all the meds they were giving me to bring on contractions, ) & that I skipped all the easy contractions & went straight to the STRONG contractions & labor pains & that I was actually handling it a LOT better than a lot of the women they see! So, I should NEVER call myself a baby again. I said THIS is the labor pains?! Bc it's only a tiny bit stronger than my period cramps! & She was super sweet & outraged on my behalf & told me to keep looking for a diff Dr that would take me seriously! Bc cramps should NOT be anywhere even NEAR that level of pain. Turns out she was right! Only took me 14y AFTER to finally find a Dr who did something about it & by that point I was bleeding all day every day never stopping all year long & blacking out passing out from blood loss! & Had wrecked, nearly caught my house on fire, & passed out at work while taking guests back for their spa treatment! I got way off topic! Sorry!
Omg, the guy who suggested Mac and cheese is absolutely adorable and a treasure he must help those men still lost in the dark. Also though that is heartwarming that all of the guys were so thoughtful that they started brainstorming a way to cheer her up. Omg I feel you on the “extra juicy” issue, though mine would be more acutely described as the elevator screen from The Sining
"Girls don't talk about politics" Fun fact, most revolutions where "started" by women. Take in mind that the 'final straw' for most revolutions had to do with food shortages or increased charges on food. It's because hungry people are hard to lead. And who do you recall was tasked with feeding their families, going to markets, etc? That's right, the wives. There have been countless riots in the streets started by women because their children were starving. Riots that were credited as either the 'start' of a revolution or one of the major events that lead up to a revolution. A few examples: - Women's March on Versailles: Women literally gutted guards like fish and marched straight to their Absolutist Leader and forced them to move to Paris. Not to mention these same women lead the fight for religious freedom in France. - WW1: Women literally led food riots once again in Germany, Italy, and Russia. I mean, in Spain they literally attacked government buildings using the slogan: "In the name of humanity, all women take to the streets." - Russian Revolution: Women literally threw stones and snowballs through factory windows to force the government to give them bread. I mean, they were literally walking up to soldiers and taking their weapons demanding they join the cause. So anyone who says women aren't interested in politics should shut their mouths and open a textbook. Some of the most famous wars and revolutions in all of history started because women started attacking the government to feed their families.
💯 like some of these guys say they “study women” but it’s never anything past sexuality and how one chooses to express it! Like they’ve never sat down and truly looked at Women’s History nor our role in politics. Anyone who was gullible enough to fall for seggs economic theory, enough to put stock in it; is just painting themselves in red paint and sticking 🚩’s out of every orifice with flashing lights and bells and whistles. Who has the time to deprogram a man from that cult like mentality when he believes your some to-bit con only good for baby making, cleaning, and cooking. You can’t get a word in edgewise cause they don’t hold value to what women say to them. Just wait until it’s their turn to speak only to steam roll the conversation. You can’t deprogram someone who’s non-responsive and in an echo chamber but if they willingly choose to go you can’t do much else but wait to put out the fire. Hopefully no one gets injured in the process
My best friend is a woman, she can debate politics with the best, she is the strongest human being I know, she’s as funny as anyone I know, she has a massive interest in history and antiquities and she’s the one who can spend hours in museums. Best of all, she’s my wife and I'll never stop appreciating her for who she is.
Agree. I have made new friends and accointances (both female and male) by talking about something political or the issues of the world. (they have heard me talk. Or I have heard them talk and felt interest)
The most misogynistic thing a man has said to me this week was, "it's your duty, as a wife, to keep the house neat and tidy, and pleasing to look at for passers-by." And trust me, I was boiling inside thinking of ALL the things I did for this house like fixing the leaking roof when my husband is afraid of heights, patching up the dilapidated ceiling because my husband doesn't know how, building (yes, BUILDING) furniture when my husband knows nothing about carpentry (also because furniture cost is beyond our income), building a cattery to house the cats that my husband rescued, fixing the screwed up lighting fixtures and wiring due to bad maintenance because, again, you guessed it, my husband knows next to nothing about electrical wiring, chopping wood and maintaining yard work because my husband has never done either. For context, we're renting a small home with a tiny yard where I store most of my work-in-progress projects. Yes, it's a mild eyesore at the moment but still very organized, neat, and trash-free. Edit 1: Since many are confused, no, the comment wasn't made by my husband. It came from a stranger. Edit 2: I didn't intend to vent about what my husband cannot do. I'm so sorry for all the confusion! The comment came from a stranger who stopped by our house on Monday to complain about how our yard is "unkempt". I was trying to make a point that even though I'm my husband's wife, I still do all those things when they don't seem like "wife duties" because I actually enjoy doing them. Last edit: I just want to clarify that I wasn't trying to humiliate my husband. I was just saying that just because I'm a woman doesn't mean my wifely duties are limited to only "keeping the house clean" as per the stranger's comment. My husband and I are a team. What he can't do, I'll do it in his stead, and what I can't do, he'll do it in my stead. My husband means the world to me and I had no intention of bringing him down in my original comment. English is not my first language so expressing my thoughts is sometimes a challenge. I'm using Grammarly to proofread my English. Thanks for reading, and have a good day, wherever you are.
@@bunnybearme he better be super cute because I don’t think I’d put up with that 🤣🤣🤣!!! My husband is pretty much the opposite, except also loves cats. He also puts up with my crazy ass and I am not that cute 😇😜
@@kiwik2951 yes, he is! 😄 Love him to bits. Tbh, I just like to do all those things I mentioned because that's how I've always been growing up. I just hated it when some random man came over to comment how I should be doing "wifely duties" because I'm the wife. 🤷♀️
Oh, so this was another man commenting on your marriage? Not your husband? I was boiling inside too in your behalf because I thought it was your husband who said this thing. Sounds like you have a really good division of labor in your home. That’s excellent! Why on earth would some rando think he could walk in and insult both of you like that? Jeez!
One of my most vivid childhood memories is being at a movie with my father and asking a LOT of questions. My dad looked over very sternly and said “I DONT KNOW! I literally have the same amount of information as you. Please stop asking me questions and watch” so that guy who claims 5yr old girls don’t ask questions is silly
Ikr? When I was little I was always asking for everything I want know at everywhere. Going grocery shopping with my aunt or grandma? Asking questions. Movie theater? The same... I've read all my grandma's library and when finished started to take home books from school or asking to go to the library. Even when visiting someone I'll always look up through their books looking for something that I didn't read. That's how I knew Orson Scott Card and Theodore Sturgeon. Live going to museums or the planetarium to this day, at 33yo.
YES!! My favorite childhood memories are going to museums with my grandpa and I was always asking questions and if he didn't know the answer we'd figure it out together :)
I like how charlotte refers to her period as ‘spraying’ and now ‘juicing’. I normally just tell people my axe wound is bleeding again. It’s so funny to see their confused faces if they haven’t encountered me before during this time of the month lol.
So much inaccuracy it's breathtaking but 1. Why does this man think we only have 9 periods a year? 2. Periods aren't only blood 3. Women have to remove tampons regularly for safety and comfort. Its not always about them being full 4. Women often change pads and tampons before they HAVE to because they know they won't be able to again for a while, like for going out or going to bed
No no. Uteruses are just like changing the oil on a 1967 SVS Chevy Mustang Charger. Ya just gotta let it all drip out to the last drop. 😮💨 and yes, I purposefully borked the car name.
I quickly did the math and I go through 28 pads in a month(don't worry my stock is always high) bottom line here ? my dude not all women work the same way when we're on our period😮😮😮 shocking I know. I had a clash with a so called med student in his second year at a bbq when my gay friend asks me so what honestly happens when you're on your period? I start blabbing away and the shit with eyes goes: nothing you said is true I'm a med student in my second year bla bla. Me* resting bitch face on*: umm first of all who's the woman here? I am. Who's fucking bleeding outta her coochie right this very second? Yeah... That's me. So shut up lil boy.
The guy giving tampon advice, especially for those with extra juice uterine lining, must love the idea of women getting toxic shock syndrome and infections when we don't change them often enough.
The fact he said women only get 9 periods in a year was pure math too.... given that on average, women get 1 period per month and there's 12 months in a year.....what would I know... I'm only a woman....
For real! Then there are women like me who can get multiple periods per month. One time, I literally bleed for two weeks straight, stopped for a week and then restarted again... it was like this constantly. I could not afford any health care service to have this checked... and my mom who had experienced this before told me that I was going through menopause. Thank goodness I don't need to worry about this anymore. I had two procedures and then a IUD insert that helped correct everything. I still get random pains which causes me to lose work. I went back being a substitute teacher because I couldn't miss any days from my previous work as a paraprofessional which was stressing me out. I am not alone... many people are leaving the education profession. I wish the administrators good luck on teacher shortage.
Exactly. If I and when I’ve used them I can’t even wear them for more than an hour. I’m constantly changing them. This guy thinking 1 a day would do the job😭 Boyyyy I need at least 12 or 13 a day and never at night, that would be extra money for pads too.
“You’re too pretty to save the world” is the second most passive aggressive, sexist comment wrapped up in a backhanded compliment I've heard in my life. "Oh, come on, you're smarter than that" is the first, coming from a male friend after I dared to disagree with his opinion on a specific political topic we were discussing at the time by offering my own opinion.
I love how men call women emotional but have you ever seen men watch their favorite sport? Because dang, I couldn't reach that level of completely unnecessary emotion even if I tried.
Never dated a real sporty guy, I prefer nerdy types. I watched one of my boyfriends openly weep at a Lord of the Rings movie. I don't even cry that hard on my period watching The Notebook.
Fam you don't even have to watch them watch sport to see how emotional they are- just be very calm during an argument, tell him he's being emotional and u can't talk to him when he's all riled up and watch him implode
"But let's maybe try interacting with women and being nice to women and thinking of them as more than objects " - Charlotte's moral of the day . Need to use this verbatim when the opportunity arises 🙂 .
@@uncrustable9923 I thought men were already considered as human beings and seen as people. For example, we don't ask: "Oh, can men poop and fart?" Because some ignorant people still question that about women and some women even try to tell people that they've never pooped 😂 Men are not considered objects. But on the contrary, I do agree that men face backlashes, abuse, stereotypes and calumny in society too. But, they are not considered objects... especially s*x objects.
@@uncrustable9923 Gold diggers manipulate them as people... not as objects. Objects cannot be manipulated but people can be. And no slut shaming, buddy because slut has a definite meaning as in someone who has multiple casual sexual partners. If you're talking about the women using men for s*x, that's called r@pe. And it is punishable by law. The stupid system is inclined towards the female population thinking that men cannot be weak or made use of. But that's also changing. Today, every gender is vulnerable to such crimes. And when it comes to r@pe, every gender is used as an object... not just women or just men. There are more genders than two. In today's world, crime is a crime no matter who it was inflicted on. What the video talks about is men who still (in today's age) feel entitled that they must own a woman (Like property) and some men who have absolutely no idea about a women and feel entitled to teach everyone how a woman's body works and how freaking hilarious it is. 😂 Because such things is more of a joke than a threat in this advanced world
As she would have never sold her work as a woman, born in Warwickshire, England in 1819, Mary Ann Evans employed the male pen name George Eliot when she published her 1859 debut novel Adam Bede. After the success of Adam Bede, she wrote 6 more successful novels…The Mill on the Floss, Silas Marner, Romola, Felix Holt, the Radical, Middlemarch and Daniel Deronda. I just told my husband of 40 years that women don’t have sex drives. Without missing a beat he replied, “I don’t know what moron said that but he’s never met you. Keeping up with your sex drive has been one of the greatest pleasures of my life” Damn I love this man.
I have indeed learned several things today: 1. Mozart had a very talented sister 2. Some men obviously didn't have mothers...or sisters. And it shows. 3. Evidently I over spent on tampons and should have used more algebra in determining quantities need. 4. Charlotte is still the Potato Queen ( but we already knew that)
We all make fun of Phobics and Karens, but i bet barely anyone here votes to keep them outta Office. Im not even going to mention 'Some More News' and others covering LGBT-Issues, but can we at least all never vote for the society-destroying, lgbt-hate-EMANATING Groups, like Republicans and Conservatives? I mean, can we at-least-at-least know where Entitlement and LGBT-Hate and C-Theorys mainly and mostly come from and not allow them to literally make Laws for us?
@CYW yeah i don't think they accounted for hygiene and the biology of the body when they posted that. imma get yeast infections or worse if i used only one a day
Regarding 2, I was in college with a guy who had three sisters, so we could talk comfortably about whether or not it was our time of month right in front of him and he never got uncomfortable, in fact he’d even join in!
Did we gloss over the part where the guy who was mansplaining how many tampons a woman needs per year also said that a woman only has nine periods per year??????
Of course, because I doubt he encounters women on summer break living in his parents' basement. In that time women cease to exist and therefore don't menstruate.
My ex was a coward and tried to mansplain periods. Dude. You don’t have the ducking uterus, cork it! And now, my male roommates know when to not bother the two biological females in the house. They’ve gotten really good at it!
A woman surgeon saved my life when I was 13. She was the only person qualified and knowledgeable enough to preform such an intense and invasive surgery. Some ppl are just afraid of how capable women are of great things 🤷♀️
Love the math for the periods. I think he underestimated how much blood happens in the first three days of the period, and then you still need padding for the spotting days. Plus you can only wear them for a certain amount of time or you could be in a world of hurt. So… yeah. While as paying for sanitation pads/tampons can be seen as a first world problem, it shouldn’t be something we’re taxed for, and it would be nice if it were someone provided for us.
As a woman with endometriosis, the man saying "9 periods a year", is grossly underestimating the amount of tampons. You can tell most of those men have little to no knowledge of women.
I've got PCOS and just in the last 3 days I've gone through 2 boxes of super tampons. Literally had to call out from work and now I have to run to the store for more. People who don't bleed have no idea what we go through.
@@thekimfilez I mean, we have an idea. We can't feel what you're going through, nor do we want to, but I empathize even if I can't sympathize. Only a complete idiot and douchebag would be able to come up with the numbers that guy came up with.
Would be great if the periods would just stop after using 7 tampons 🤦 35 cl goal reached, cya next month period! If I'd use tampons I'd use 7 tampons in just the first 2 days already.
YESSSS! I was just saying that too! I had Adenomyosis. Which is similar to Endo where tissue grows in the wrong spot & then rips & tears when it tries to shed bc it's not supposed to be there. The only diff is unlike Endo mine didn't grow outside the uterus. It burrows holes THRU the muscled wall of my uterus. So, as 1 Dr said, my uterus was quite literally ripping me apart from the inside out. & It's also why even being pregnant didn't stop the pain bc there's so much damage inside the walls, that as my uterus grew to accommodate growing baby, it pulled on ALL that damage inside. Even caused massive hemorrhaging that caused me to miscarry. At the end b4 I got my uterus removed (still have ovaries & cysts but still it's a MILLION times better!) I was bleeding nonstop everyday of my life! No period, no breaks, just 24\7 bleeding. I was fainting from so much blood loss that I was becoming a liability in my job, on the road, even home w\my kids bc I fainted carrying laundry down to the basement while I was cooking & fell down ALL the steps! When I came too my baby was crawling down the stairs to me bawling & barely holding on from tumbling down the stairs, he saw me from the top bc I hadn't been able to close the gate b4 I fainted. The older boys were playing games & never realized but my 7mth old did! & Also, my food was burning & nearly caught the house on fire! I would sob in the drs office BEGGING for them to rip out my uterus but no I was too young they said! They kept putting me on Lupron for 7ys. You're only supposed to take it for 6wks once, after 6mo you can do another round but NO MORE! Bc it causes osteoporosis & a whole host of other bad side effects. But it put me in chemical menopause which stopped the bleeding at least. Nothing for the pain but at least I wasn't bleeding out! But 7yrs on that, now I'm finally uterus free but my teeth are all dust & falling out of my mouth & now I have to get dentures but NOBODY will do them bc they don't accept my insurance. I have my Dad's care credit card but they still won't accept me as a patient! So, another battle. But at least I'm not bleeding to death. Adeno & Endo are ABSOLUTELY NO JOKE & even w\all the knowledge about them out there, it's so hard to find a Dr who will look or acknowledge it!
The number of men who said to me "oh, wow, you're not just pretty, you're smart too" after a 10 min conversation is unreal. To them it sounded like a compliment as well. They really don't know you can be both, the surprise was genuine.
“Women don’t argue about characters” We do argue and make works of fiction about fictional characters… I have actually been in a few fandoms and was surprised that a particular two (both are “this stuff is for boys/men” advertised) I had been apart of that was female dominant with fan work. (Hint: one involves robots and one has a LOT of pretty girls in it- but will not fully confirm or deny what they are.)
Some of the most mysgnostic things I've ever heard actually came from an old woman, which makes it so much sadder. She came to the counter to buy a knitted blanket at the thrift shop I work at. She said it was a shame that women don't knit much any more and that they instead waste their time doing jobs that men are naturally so much better at. Women should be at home looking after the house, knitting and sewing like they are best at. I told her that I wouldn't be very happy staying at home and that I am studying to become a geochemistry researcher. She said I should "leave it to the men" as women aren't wired for that. I was equally sad and angry.
With some women misogyny is so hardwired in that you don't even need men to make you feel inferior. One of my old female relatives, who i am very close to, and who had a successful teaching career in a girls' school with multiple degrees herself, told me that since I am the girl, it's my family's 'burden' to initiate wedding talks with my then bf's family. I am a doctor and have not been financially or otherwise dependent on my family since 2014. 😒😒😒 She had also questioned my father spending money on my med school tution fee (which i am in the process of paying him back for) instead of keeping it in reserve for my wedding. The irony of her background and her attitude continue to astound me.
Wow! They just don't understand, THEY might be better suited to do those things & good at those things but NOT EVERY woman is! & There are Men who are better at that than the women! It's why stereotypes are such a dangerous thing! You go, girl! I'm sure you'll be AMAZING!
I literally just read a comment from an adult male, talking about how women pee from their uterus. He was dead serious. There was also an entire thread in response to a news article about a teenage tennis player mentioning she has bad period pain during the game, with HUNDREDS of men replying saying she should have known she was going to get pain, and telling all the women complete myths about periods, including that she should have "held it in", like one holds on when wanting to pee, ridiculing her for not doing so.
@@EbonyWilliams1 not even sex ed but just basic biology. how the hell do so many people just not know how their body or the body of the opposite sex, functions?
@@Meleena2218 Because so many schools aren't allowed to teach anything biology related about the "sex parts" of men & women, basic reproductive info/health. And they're not getting the info at home, but instead on social media or the 9 year old buddies who saw it in their older brother's Playboy...
@@EbonyWilliams1 frrrr, im afab (a female at birth) and i know all about men and their intimate parts, it scares me that some men dont even know what a period is (eg. shedding of the outer layer of blood from the uterus)
the appropriate response to this is "if i sliced your arm off and told you to just 'hold in the blood', do you think that would work? are YOU capable of magically stopping blood from squirting out? neither are we."
At 11:02 the post reminded me of my mom who works as a nurse in the ER, an EMT and a volunteer at another place that does nurse related jobs and she’s usually never home. Women work a lot man especially single moms (or just moms in general). Sometimes she’ll work that entire week and on most weeks she works the weekends. She’s pretty badass to be able to handle all of that
The funniest part of that one post to me is the fact that he completely misused the expression "dime a dozen" in a way that totally contradicts his point 😂😂😂
I'll never forget the day my bf at the time mansplained periods to me. We were on holiday and I had forgotten to bring sanitary products, so I had to get them abroad on a Sunday, which was slightly awkward, but not impossible. This man said to me "You get them every month, how are you not prepared?". He's my ex for a reason 😂
Yeah, husband, who has taken anatomy and biology, couldn’t understand that hormones are environmentally influenced and also I’m perimenopausal, so I might not have an exact date and time of arrival. It’s not a package buddy. I can’t track it.
@@TheBaumcm 🤣🤣🤣 boys, eh?! Can't live with em, can't live without em, can't make them understand how we tick (sometimes). Love, attention, and chocolate when I'm hormonal and moody does it. Must I explain EVERY month?!
@morganablackwater2017 I was also including my brothers and my dad in that comment....but yes, it is possible to live without men romantically. If I recall correctly, getting married increases the life expectancy of men, but decreases that of women. Very telling!
The irony in the children example, is that I have 3 siblings, 2 of which are twins and are a boy and a girl. My sister asks questions non stop whenever and wherever we are, yet my brother tends to be more on the quite side. I myself like to ask, analyze and try to deeply understand any subject or idea that may wonder into my mind, so yeah.
Responding to the post about women doctors/surgeons: I have almost died several times due to severe crohns that I was diagnosed with at the age of 7. I'm 37 now. A female pediatrician saved my life when I was a child. The 3 life saving surgeries I had more recently were done by a phenomenal female colo-rectal surgeon. 99% of the nurses I had were amazing women. Come on now. Women are amazing! 🥰
As a woman, for me, usually about 8 or9 times out of, 10, the doctor that misdiagnoses me is a man, because the majority of male doctors I've seen do not listen to me. Soooo, about those female doctors ......
I have had problems with some male doctors. I have had my life saved by some [different] male doctors. I have had some problems with female doctors. One of my current doctors is female and so far is proving to be outstanding. Some people are not good doctors. The problems tend to lie in their attitudes. I personally don't care if my doctor has three heads as long as they can do a good job. Women can be good at many things, though, like men, some of us lack talent in certain areas [don't ask to hear me sing if you value your ears, I have no talent there; now, if you want 100% identification of everyone entering and leaving an area, I'm your girl].
@@linabasilisk1955I agree my gf mom almost died with her second child because a female nurse told the other nurses that she is just being dramatic and she almost bled out due to hemophilia and when the DR moved the blanket there was a ton of blood. Both males and females suck in hospitals men because they don't fully understand women and women sometimes say the patient is seeking attention or overreacting
The whole 'girls don't ask questions' thing, especially in classes/education settings, is a thing, BUT that is because most girls (particularly in the past) were taught to not ask questions or that the questions they asked were stupid. So girls learned to not ask questions for fear of looking dumb. Boys were never taught that and so will ask questions more and talk more. Even when I taught at university, most male students had no problem asking questions or talking in general. While, female students generally asked fewer questions and talked less because they were afraid to look dumb and usually started questions with "this may be a dumb question..." or "I'm sorry to bother you...." PLEASE ASK QUESTIONS! TRUST ME, STUDENTS, YOU ARE NOT BOTHERING ME! I AM YOUR TEACHER. And don't get me started on male students who somehow thought that because I am a woman, I somehow cannot teach them despite multiple degrees in the subject.
You have to literally drag me out of museums at closing time because I’m so engrossed. Have been like this since I was small. I remember my first time at Manchester’s Space museum I went MIA for hours, my family went crazy as you can imagine.
“You’re too pretty to save the world” is basically a roundabout way of saying every girl should be Princess Peach and be the object that needs to be saved and/or won. Edit: a lot of comments are pointing out iterations of the Mario world where Princess Peach is a badass hero and worth "being." So let me be clear: I'm referring to the classic versions of Mario where she has no agency and is the one in need of saving. If you're getting distracted by counterexamples of my metaphor, then you are demonstrating that we are actually in agreement when it comes to my sentiment and main point: women can be both strong and pretty, that the dichotomy between beauty and anything else of value (strength, intelligence, etc.) is a false one, evidenced in later iterations of PP that updates her character with advanced cultural attitudes towards women and their agency.
I don't recall who said it. "Always tell a pretty girl she's smart, and a smart girl she's pretty" I guess that's in order to play up to her ego. What do you do if said girl is both pretty AND smart?
7:13 Me, the girl whose favorite word is why, sitting on her father’s lap at 6 and watching him draw a model of the human heart, chambers and blood flow, after visiting his EMS in service with him and seeing open heart surgery. Me, the girl who dated a philosophy major, having existential debates with him and his buddies and using those skills to debate a highly regarded author whose attitude was contemptuous.
9:48 as a biology major, I HAVE to respond to this argument even though I know its obvious... aposematism results in the "toxic" animals SURVIVING and becoming "the fittest" so technically even the trait developed as a warning sign still means theyre the best mate...nevermind that its an inherited trait, oh and many MANY animals (like peacocks) use bright colors SPECIFICALLY FOR finding the best mate...anyway off to redye my teal mermaid hair
Ooooo teal mermaid hair!! 💜💜 Mine was Galaxy for the last two months, and now it’s Sunset! I’ve gotten so many compliments from So many people on the fun colors. Like, random strangers. Seems this dude needs to chill.
2:59 a perfect example for you: The famous German pianist of the 19th century Clara Schumann was ... a woman. Her father Friedrich Wieck was a pianist teacher, her husband Robert Schumann was a composer. At the end Clara Schumann did not only become very famous, also after her husband's death, but also got her face on the 100-DM-Bill.
@@StrangeFacinations or German and old enough to still have paid with Deutschmarks and have learned a little bit about German music history in middle school.
@@inkenhafner7187 Depends on what you mean by "old enough" ;-) The German Marks were replaced by Euros in 2002. I became 13 back then. Also: Learning about history is great.
It's always hilarious to hear a NeckBeard or NiceGuy explain periods and how they work. Using the "I've never been to the moon but I know it's there" concept of logic, they attempt to sound less ignorant about a subject they have no experience with, while stumbling over the mystery as to why they don't have a girlfriend or wife, and why they DESERVE a GF or wife in those cases where their appearance is much like an alien species to the rest of us on earth. And all this without having ever allowed their shadow to darken the steps of an institution of higher learning! Amazing!
Funny you said your mom was a journalist! I remembered her first name from another video of yours, looked her up and found one of her papers, lol. She seems very accomplished AND she raised two awesome kids! Good on her!
The "women have no sex drive" poster reminds me of some of the most "nice" guys I've met and how the women they creepily hoped for relationships with claimed "sorry I've got no sex drive" as a "polite" excuse ... to avoid saying "no sex drive with you." These "nice" guys somehow then believed it's a WOMAN problem because they would much prefer to believe the excuse than admit they give off all the wrong vibes.
I mean that's what happens when you have an ego problem. You assume everyone else is wrong, women don't have sex drive and they don't date nice guys because they are too stupid. It takes maturity to accept that half of the population is not awful, but instead, you are doing something wrong and need to work on yourself. That really hurts the ego.
As a person who legit does not have a sex drive (asexual), the creepy men rarely accept this answer. The number of times I've been accused of "making excuses"... As if I owe you sex for expressing interest in me.
This reminds me of the time I tried to gently turn a guy down for a third date and he just burst out with "what does 'chemistry' even mean? Women keep telling me we don't have it! What does that mean?" I just sat there, speechless, wondering how in the world to respond without making things worse.
This is the rationalization of a rapist. Seriously. It's about power and "entitlement". He feels entitled to a woman, and it's highly likely that he will, eventually, act on that misplaced feeling.
He doesn’t see women as people. He sees it like owning a dog. And is annoyed he has to have the dog’s permission to be its owner. Also he’s an incel nutjob.
I love the one about the office guys trying to cheer up their co worker and all they can come up with is Mac n cheese. It’s so sweet. I love their instincts.
That last one, though... I was born with, or soon contracted, several notable medical issues. The person most instrumental in saving my life was a Female neurosurgeon. She operated on a little baby brain/spinal cord multiple times without breaking a sweat! I went to several follow-up appointments over the years, and my grandpa respected her for both her brilliant work - and the fact that she got her education in/through the military (he was Air Force, she was Navy - a bit of teasing, but tons of respect). My grandpa was an awesome patriarch who saw the arrival of his first great-grand a year before he died. Nobody would fault his manhood - even with being a 'girl dad' and all!
Did take him seriously enough to call that out but did notice it. It was just further proof of his inability to contribute meaningfully to any discussion on the matter. Overall, I’m still confused as to his point. Does anyone know?
Was just saying I’ve had definitely more than 12 in a year before and book ended my month coming off one and starting the next! Think I’ve got a 21 day cycle on average.
@@jrowme9230 I am going to say something tongue in cheek just trying to be funny so please don’t take me seriously… No! You have to have a 28 day cycle! No exceptions! Just like a woman trying to be contrary. Sheesh! 🙄 😉😂🤣
@@jrowme9230 Even with a 28 day cycle, many people will have more than 12 periods in a calendar year, because months are more than 28 days. (Except February except on leap years blah blah time is meaningless) Anyway you're not alone!
- Guy having a tantrum on a sub like a safe space, talking about how scary it is that he doesn't know how women work and thinks they're unstable and dangerous. - Guy says women are too emotional. Buddy, I have news for you.
The whole women are emotional trope only exists because men decided it’s ok for them to show specific emotions such as anger and framing that as tough, but women show them and we’re emotional and bitchy. Even if the anger comes from being treated disrespectfully. It’s all a big con.
Won’t lie that museum comment pissed me off. Love museums and always have. It was my treat as a kid, my dad would take me to a museum and I would have a blast learning and seeing new things. Now I’m studying anthropology in my free time and hope to make museums more exciting for kids again. My cousin (a boy!!!) hates the museum… legit I asked if he wanted to go see the Pompeii exhibit with me and he looked at me just shook his head.
for me as a kid, I loved going to the aquarium, museums, and the planetarium. I still love the aquariums but I haven't been to the planetarium in so long.
Oh, I am so sorry that he said no. Have youbasked him what he thinks museeums and exhibitions are like? I bet someone frightend him off. Good luck with your work!
Same!! For me it was actually a local Pompeii + Herculaneum exhibit that is one of those memories that are still so clear no matter how long ago. I went with my grandparents and came home with the biggest smile and the reddest face as my mum says. 10 years after I went on a school trip to the actual Pompeii and Herculaneum and I cried, this decade long dream finally coming true. It is so extremely interesting to learn about things like this.
I know all about male pigs, I worked in a male dominated job for 16years. (Corrections) I was constantly having to deal with knuckle draggers who didn't think females should be doing a "mans" job. I did it better and longer than many of my co-workers, the only reason I had to retire early was due to medical reasons. Broke my heart to have to give it up.
I worked in Industrial Parts and was the only straight woman in our city of over a million people. The amount of sexual harassment was out of this world. To deal with it from customer's of major corporations was disgusting. There were a few client's that were really supportive but the majority were pigs. I ended up suing one company because I was physically assaulted and was told "What did you expect, you're a young pretty girl in this industry?" It was heartbreaking. I had always loved working on big machine's with my dad on our farm and decided to make it a career.
For some reason I took that literal and thought you worked with literal pigs (like at a large commercial farm or slaughter house or something) and the men at the same job looked down on you for doing a “mans job”
@@cmenowlandreth I dealt with a little bit of sexual harassment, mainly by just one individual and he was more "hostile work environment", the higher ups wouldn't do anything until I put it on report, their answer was instead of dealing with him they promoted me, then the next month they promoted him too! I didn't care at that point as long as I no longer had to work with him!! As for the inmates, I just got called a bitch a lot, I just laughed in their faces, slapped handcuffs on them, told them I couldn't write them up for lying to staff but I could for disrespect, they always thought that was funny!! Made it easier to get them to confinement, they won't fight you if they're laughing. 😁
He also apparently thinks it's a good idea to just leave a tampon shoved up there for 24 hours. I mean, even if he's never had any women in his life he could just see how bad that is by making a 30 second google.
I like how that guy misused the idiom “dime a dozen” since that means they’re abundant. Yes we are abundantly creative and intelligent, thanks for noticing. 🤭
I grew up on a farm where spraying were often used about using cow shit as fertilizer (loved that time of the year). My first thought was that Charlotte had severe diarrhea 😂😂
@@bethanyhanna9464 I was confused as well. Is this just a Charlotteism that I've missed her saying in previous videos. Even when I equated it with menstruation I decided to google it and couldn't come up with "spray" being a euphemism for being on your period.
@@dustinriley8059 yes this is totally a Charlotteism. It originated from some video like this where she read some really funny and utterly wrong mensplaining comments 🤣 it's more like an insider among her regular viewers. Maybe 6 months back, but I'm only guessing...
Thanks for the much-needed laugh with this video. I'm catching up on all of them now because I'm a new subscriber but I just wanted to say I think you're amazing. And this is my favorite thus far, more of this please. I wanted to comment under this one because it's my favorite but I'm currently watching your most recent tourist one and I love what you're doing with the sharks. I cannot stop laughing and right now, to get me to laugh is not an easy thing. You just need to know how appreciated you really are and how laughter is truly priceless. Please don't ever ever ever stop making videos! Ever!
I learned that sex-education, in general, seems to be shockingly bad. Sooo many examples of people who learned one fact and then extrapolated a mountain of erroneous bullshit out of it, and then when they get ridiculed they get, like, toddler-angry
I mean they have internet if they want to learn more. They can google anything from sex ed to psychology, but they prefer to act like they already know everything and embarass themselves.
I got my seggs ed before the internet. You’re right, it was just appallingly bad. We were told not to do it until your wedding night. The boys were told that it hurts women and they never enjoy it, so only do it to make babies. Early 1990s in a Catholic school. Good times🤦♀️
Yep! Us smart, capable, self-reliant, powerful, all the great epithets we can come up with, ladies really ARE a dime a dozen. *Thank you* for recognizing us with your male gaze. We feel *sooooooo honored*
Charlotte my dear, you have a great job! You're job, among a myriad of others, is to make all of us laugh while we enjoy our lunch each day! And you must be good at it because I've choked on my meal laughing a hundred times! You're the best! PS: as much as I would miss your content if you did, you deserve time off woman! My God you're a work horse!
I once dated a guy whose last girlfriend broke up with him like a week or so before their wedding. I realized pretty quickly why. He wasn't a bad guy but he seemed to want a maid more than a wife, kept asking things like if I liked to cook and other stuff and was always talking about his sister in law who was always cleaning. I broke up with him faster than the bride to be.
I lost my job because the (male) boss found a less qualified man to give to. Women made him uncomfortable and were a distraction. So sadly, yes, there are a shocking amount of people like this out there!
I was helping a friend with his startup business. One day he was looking through some CVs and he told me "I don't want to hire women. They'll just seduce all my (currently only-male) employees". And then I think he realized that I'm a woman. He immediately said "oh but not you, you're different". I stopped helping him out after that.
@@DinDeen it was a shock to the system when I started in the workplace and realised how many dinosaurs exist who think women only exist to serve and please them.
If a pair of shoes has had 50 owners that means demand is high, and since there is only one pair, supply is low. Basic economics says its value is actually high... They can't even get their misogyny right...
The first thing I thought of when you showed the sculpture clip and then all the commentary, was the artist Artemisia Gentileschi, and the Pre-Raphaelite Sisterhood.
So that thing with the unnatural hair colors is really true. When I had first blue and then purple hair, all the douchebags and idiots of the world were too scared to bother me. Before that I was was platinum blond and boy was that a nightmare. Now, I've got my natural medium ash blond color back and the douchebags are trying to hit on me again. I always say to parents of teenage daughters to let them dye their hair an unnatural color if they want to because it's a boy/man deterrent. It really works.
It's interesting to see someone suggests that women aren't curious about the world but they are usually the same parents that gave their daughter Barbies, signed her up for ballet, force her to "dress like a lady" and actively discouraged activities thought to be "for boys". Let your child be who they are and tell you what interests them, and I think you'd be quite surprised what they pick for themselves and how curious most children are regardless of gender when given the opportunity to explore it.
The "women are too emotional" really gets to me. Let's talk about murder, for example. Murder is often an act of rage, done impulsively, or deviously planned. Over 95% of murderers are men. How about rapists? Rape stems from wanting to control, usually acted out aggressively. 99% of rapists are men. But women are the ones who can't control their emotions? I don't know why more people can't put 2+2 together. The illogical ignorance of people is infuriating, but I end up feeling kind of sad for the clueless. Unfortunately, they spread ignorance.
You know how people often accuse others of the thing they are guilty of? Like, how cheaters will accuse their partner of cheating and act all outraged ans suspicious, even though they themselves are the actual cheating one? I'm convinced that's what men have done to women. They are the emotional ones who can't help having outbursts, but they try to turn it around on us and accuse us of the very thing they are guilty of.
Yes, because I love when men (who don’t have periods) tell me how to solve my period problems. 🙄 Also, “extra juicy uterine lining” is the most disgusting thing I’ve ever heard and i crossed my legs immediately. I bet he’s also a “r/niceguy” 🙄 lol
I am wondering how he gets only 9 per year, generally its once per month (can be more or less I know blah blah blah) but thats only 9 months so what happened to the other 3 months?
@@chaosbringer04 FACTS lol I don’t know how he got his math figure, but omfg 🤣 He’s all the way off. Dude is trying to teach women how to ration their tampons and failing miserably. 🤦🏻♀️
@@ToxicMuffin15 do you men recommended at least not at most? Sorry I went to a school that didn't think boys should learn about periods in health class but I do know a lot about wet dreams (though I still think they are a myth because non of my friends or boyfriends have ever admitted to having them)
You should look up Hildegard bon Bingen. She was a 12 German Benedictine, a composer, a playwright, a poet, and a mystic. Her music broke the boundaries of the time and she founded two monasteries. Also, look up Florence Price. She was a composer, who also happened to be a black woman, who was a prolific composer during the 1920s. Listen to her Symphony in E minor. It’s really cool! Women have been brilliant for a long time!
"Women don't have sex drives." False. We simply have not been conditioned since adolescence to believe that we have little to no control over our urges and should be excused for our bad behavior. We have instead been shamed for literally hundreds of years for expressing our sex interest. If we follow our sex drives we are *checks for accuracy* like shoes with multiple owners and our value depreciates. At least according to the type of men who wonder why there isn't a line of women desperate to be with a r/niceguy like him. Ladies, we need to do better. Every man who has dumbass opinions like these was literally created by a woman. Mothers, please don't let your sons grow up to be like this. Sure all the "talks" are uncomfortable, but obviously the men in their lives are screwing the pooch and giving horrid information. Sure you may hate every second of it, but we need this little subspecies to die out.
Or they were given the info but chose to ignore it because it came from a woman. I refuse to believe these “nice guys” have great relationships with their moms. Probably watched their dad belittle her and based their “knowledge “ from that.
I'm on my lunch break now and I'm so excited that Charlotte's notification popped up as I'm walking outside. Now I can come back in with a better mood. Also that guy saying those women were a dime a dozen, doesn't that mean 10 out of 12. Those are pretty high odds, but maybe I'm having a brain fart. Women are, in my opinion, very smart and talented.
YES IT DOES!!! Lol I was thinking the exact same thing! So by his logic those intelligent, "interesting" (to him) women are much more common than not. what an idiot.
I'm a man who loves your channel. You make me laugh so much, and your sense of humor has really helped me during a few depression cycles. That said, I'm halfway through this video, and I have to stop. I cannot listen to these users dumb opinions any longer; they are too infuriating. I can't believe there are men who still think this way! ... I still can't wait for your next video though. I hope it's a petty one!
The one about women not having drives is hilarious in my opinion...we might not chase men that aren't attractive, but that's why there are battery operated boyfriends 😉😉😉 The one about "the extra juicy uterus" that dude has never heard of endometriosis or fibroids. That produces a lot of blood.
That line was actually coined years ago by Slayer J...her videos were actually deleted when people on various channels and on tiktok were outright using her voice on their videos as a means to take credit for her jokes. The line was in a video where she talks about contouring. She was literally driven out of youtube because her content was pirated so much by other social media influencers and she was never given credit or even ExPoSuRe for it...please credit the proper comedienne for the line. Also it's, "if the men find out we can shapeshift, they're going to tell the church"
ua-cam.com/video/QunwzgVENUg/v-deo.html here is a reupload of that video after she had left. Again, if it weren't for the fact that she was literally driven off of youtube by how much of her content was stolen and she wasn't paid nor credited for it and she couldn't even monetize her own content while others were profiting off of it...I'd not mentioned anything...and wasn't directly planning on even commenting on the comment until I saw this...please...let black creators have credit for their jokes. And yes, she spoke about how hurt and angry she was at having this happen to her at length on twitter and on her patreon, which is now where her videos are exclusively found after all that.
I had a friend some years ago to whom I confided how I was struggling from depression for years and how hard it was to deal with it and he responded by "are you sure it's not just your period? You could be confusing being actually depressed by just having your period and feeling sad, you know?" He's not my friend anymore, lmao
Gurl if that isn't a red flag I don't know what it is. Depression is a hard enough thing to talk about cause most people don't take it seriously, you don't need sexists comments on top of it xd
Omg the period one left me with so many questions ! Who is saying there's only 10 to 35 ml of period goo ? (Sorry for the details) I use the diva cup, which is about 60ml (2 oz.) big, and I swear that in 3-4 days it fills up about 5.5 times. And a lot of girls have week long periods with a LOT more goo... Do as you may with that information, but this guy's source needs to be sued 😆 it's not a First world problem, it's half of the world population's problem !
It's the amount of blood (accurate) which they are equating to the amount of actual fluid (inaccurate). Just the usual "I did my research but I did it wrong" internet experts.
The average period blood loss is 30-40 ml, though some can get to 60ml and higher for heavy bleeders. It often feels like a lot more, but that's because other fluids come out mixed with the blood. But yeah, the guy is an idiot. I use to have periods lasting 2 full weeks, and going through entire bags of night pads because the blood loss has hemorrhagic, so yeah not quite as simple as this guys puts it. Also, for far too great a number of women in third world countries, access to women hygene products is simply *non-existent* and that can lead to serious health issues in these women. But who cares right? F*ck this world. /sigh
What's funnier is my thought of some funny lady he's paid to sit over a measuring cup & he still got it soooooo wrong. I have little doubt if men had periods there'd be no women measuring them... seriously, whatta douche bag 🚩
Charlotte looking as wonderful as always, great video. The jokes are on point as always, a few clips looked like Charlotte’s head was hurting from seeing what was on the clip.
My fave part about this is the comment about taking female children to museums. My parents would object HIGHLY that it's the other way around, as they spent many trips hustling me along as I read every single plaque, sign, and info book 🤣🤣
Statue : this is art Me : ...this is hard, hard nipples.. Also, fun fact, in nature the alpha of a pack of wolves is often a female. Do with that what you will.
In fact, wolves have a pretty complex social structure. Yes, the leader is often the biggest female, next to her are the other adult wolves, followed by elders who are not sick and the last ones are the cubs and sick ones. When they travel they use the same structure as a way to protect the weakest ones. Leader at the very front, the rest of the adults at front and some in the back, young, elder and sick at the middle. So in case they are attacked they can protect the ones who can't do it by themselves. Pretty awesome to be honest!
That is cool. I think it's black widow spiders or praying mantis that after mating with a male bites his head off/kills them. So yeah, anyone that says women aren't badass has clearly never met a woman.
I'm gonna go out on a limb and say he's never met an actual woman other than his mommy. And I doubt he considers her a woman, because to these boys "Mommies can't be women! They're mommies!"
I have such a vendetta against people that generalize like this. Just because the 10 women you've met in your life are a certain way doesn't mean the population reflects that.
The funniest thing about that 1st clip, about moving where the hair grows from is that it's two different people! 🤦🏼♀️🤯😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 @ 9:00: *9 cycles PER YEAR?!?* WTF!🤯🤦🏼♀️🙅🏼♀️😂😂😂😂
My great-grandmother's great-grandmother was a writer. She was kicked out of school because she was smarter than the male teacher. Also her husband (cousin... I know it was the 18th century) threw a book she was writing into the fire and it was never published. (She was forced to marry her cousin because she was "undesirable" and her father told his brother that she would never marry and made her cousin marry her)
My male friend just killed me after the one with "My value.... history." Coz he stupidly stated, "Aren't they like a musical instruments then, because with use, the instrument plays better. So it could apply the same way, because who doesn't want to play an instrument that plays well." I hit him upside the head.😂😂😂
Hahaha! I'm regularly asked to tone down on the politics talk when I'm at family gatherings. We all hold very similar political stances, so they agree on the politics, but they don't always want to talk about it.
It’s going to be a JUICY one 🤣😖
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Its gonna be a juicy spray at Niagara falls....🤣🤣🤣🤣
Tampon math has literally never made sense... some days I have to change mine like 4 times a day if not more. I looked at a Tampax box and it was like "this is 3 months worth!" And I just laughed because clearly someone without a juicy-uty made that claim and has no idea that you use more than 1 or 2 a day lol
@@tbh8149 bruh. My wife is this exactly. It's at the point in our relationship where I'm all ''why are you going through so many, it's day four, you okay honey?" LOL
"Women do have sex drives... they just aren't driving to you." Absolutely the Charlotte wisdom of the day
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I want a t-shirt with this on it 🤣☺️🤣☺️
I've certainly driven myself away from a few "major accidents"! Reminds me of the lyrics to a Robert Earl Keen song:
"When and if I ever finally pass you
Oh when I do and if I'm still alive
I won't ever see you, cause I'm ripping out my rear view
And I'm shifting it on in to overdrive
But your still swervin' in my lane and it's causin' lots of danger
I'm a stompin' on the foot feed, I'm a shooting you the finger
I keep a switchin' on my bright lights, but you're just too dim to know
When your swervin' on life's highway, you're running someone off the road!"
this is my level of endearing insult.
We're on the freeway, not dirt roads.
the irony of calling a female surgeon emotional while snowflaking over the idea of a female surgeon
Yeah. I've never seen a woman break a TV because her team she doesn't even play for or have any money riding on lost... Its pretty clear men are the most emotionally unstable IMO.
I have worked with literally hundreds of surgeons. Let me tell you that the female surgeons aren't typically the ones who have tantrums
He clearly doesn’t understand that women do not randomly break down into tears. That we are very able to control our emotions.
@@goodbher9244 omg or break a controller over video games. Or like when you reject a guy and he flips and goes off saying whatever you're ugly anyway. Soo fragile lol.
They started using women at Top Gun as instructors not just because women can take higher gees but we do better in high stress situations. We don’t break done and freak out until afterwards while men tend to break during the crisis.
The last story about female doctors, THAT happened! An attending and amazing teacher of mine had that situation. This patient was literally in a life or death situation and, when he found out he was going to be operated by a woman, he refused treatment, didn't do the surgery. The team started looking for a male surgeon but he didn't make it. He died like 2 days later, while the team searched for a male doctor for him. He DIED Literally prefered his stupid beliefs over his life... My teacher told us this story and her response was: "Natural selection" 🤷♀️
I mean... Gotta agree with your teacher on this one. At that point his death his kind of his own fault for refusing treatment...
I can see because of a woman. I was losing my sight if I waited a few more months after 21 years of age, I would be legally blind. I could careless if male or female. If you are going to improve my life and make me better, I'm going for you.
Yeah that’s natural selection right there.
A Darwin award to that guy
It's so weird because in my country jobs like doctors and nurses are very feminised. It is believed that they are better at the job, patients tend to relax more when they see a female doctor, and they are more sought after, the difference is that their men counterparts aren't treated with disdain or untrustworthiness.
PS: I understand that the problem is on both sides of the opinion(Not trusting women to do it or putting them in a box of care work) but at least this way nobody is committing suicide because of their sexism.
Feeling "entitled" to a woman is one of the cornerstones of rape culture. He's NOT entitled to a woman, but he might have a stint in prison coming his way.
Exactly! I literally had a conversation recently where the guy I was talking to said that if a woman is showing too much of her body then she’s “asking for it”. To which I replied that even if someone literally asks for sex, they have the right to change their mind, no means no and no one has the right to another person’s body, male or female, even if you’re married that doesn’t entitle you to another person’s body. It shocks me that we’re still having these kinds of conversations in this day and age, it’s insane
@@paleflower "No one has the right to another person's body." YES!! The right to bodily autonomy is the foundation for many human rights, like the right to not get r@ped.
Hahahaha "rape culture" havent heard that old myth in years, that nonsense making a comeback now? Cool cool.
„I am a prime example of someone who deserves a wife.“
You are a prime example of someone who needs therapy for his narcissistic personality disorder my dear.
@@plumquake6838 I'm just wondering if he would be happy with the woman the government picks for him?
"Oh, no. She isn't pretty. And she thinks too much. She needs to cook and clean the cave and rub my feet when I come home from a long day of hunting mammoths""
If everyone got the partner they deserve I have to wonder what kind of woman he would end up with.
Also about the "women couldn't make art until recently" thing.
So women were considered their husbands' property until the 80's, so anything the wife makes is technically the husbands property, so he could take credit for it.
Also, many female artists made male pen names to get their works out to the public, even to this day.
Very interesting
What in this day and age? Maybe years ago yes and it was documented but they're far more likely to credit these days and have no need to use a males name... Think Banksy is a bloke or a woman? Who cares the art speaks for itself..
@@mikespicer4827 it's been only a dew decades since women are allowed to even follow this path. Girls still grow up in a society where people give them more compliments for their looks and clothes than for their intelligence and hard work compared to boys, so of course they are more likely to not be very ambitious when they grow up and not show off their talent and skills. The truth is that a big part of society still values ambition and hard work in men, and bring women down, making them not believe and follow their dreams. Don't get me wrong, men also suffer from toxic societal expectations, but in a different way. Still, the point is that men had thousands of years to show off their skills, while women got only a few decades.
I did an experiment when I was in high school (back in the 70s).
We had an art show every year that was judged and critiqued. The first year I entered with my first and last name (first name is Suzanne). It was a pencil drawing of my cat I did, from a photograph I took of her looking out a window. It was challenging to draw the glass and her reflection, and my art teacher recommended I enter that drawing. I didn't even get a runner-up ribbon and In the critique, one judge commented that she thought she'd seen this image before, so it wasn't "original".
The next year I entered a drawing I did of a photograph of a little girl from Nat. Geographic and got 2nd place. That time I only used my last name. That image really wasn't "original" since I based my drawing on a photo from a very well-known magazine.
I still think my cat drawing was the better of the two.
Ever since then, I sign with my initial and last name.
Don't forget that many female artists were relegated to "feminine" crafts, there is some amazing tapestries/embroidery/weaving/lace out there that we will never know who made them, but they were definitely artists.
When I was a young girl my father - who is a massive history buff and often reads every info card in museum displays - took me to a special touring exhibition on feathered dinosaurs. I spent so long pouring over every fossil and model reconstruction that my father had to sit outside the exhibition area to rest his legs. I was so engrossed, I didn't even know he had left the area. He was tired when I finally came out, but extremely happy I had gotten his money's worth out of the exhibition. It's still one of the highlights in my life.
Yeah that happened to me to, and when we brought my 5 year old brother to museums he would complain about it
The only special thing in my life that was like this was the day I turned 13, the day I could finally go on the “adult” rides at one of my favorite theme parks, best mfing day in my life, I rode the biggest roller coaster over and over again till we had to go, my dad almost got sick thinking about a second ride so I went alone but the girls I sat with on the ride the second time were super sweet so I felt safe, I rode it a 3rd time and then we had to go home, and they say us girls hate that 😂😂
"Take a 5 year old girl to the museum and she will be begging to go home to watch frozen."
My little sister, at 4 years old, went up to a guy working on a display he was setting up for a presentation. She asked if she could look and maybe pet them. I had no clue what the guy had but this isn't unusual for my sister to do with pets of any kind.
The guy proceeded to take out a long dark blue basically black snake with metallic looking scales. (Bigger than any snake I've ever seen in a pet store)
He told her she could pet the part of the snake between his hands, she was super happy and pet the snake for a good minute before the guy had to continue with his work.
She always loved that museum and all the dino bones, rocks, and the planetarium projection displays.
To this day she still collects polished rocks, knows the names of dinos, loves space and stars, and goes to every pet store she can to ask if she can pet the snakes.... she is 24 this year.
I totally understand your sister. Snakes are gorgeous!
When I was little I would go into pet stores and ask to pet the feeder mice. I loved history museums and collected rocks. My great grandmother left me her arrow head /geode/turquoise collection when she died and I was 12. I was stoked.
This was me as at that age too!! 💕
Is she taking friend applications? She sounds really awesome!
I also like to collect rocks and pet snakes! Wish I knew more about dino names though 🦖🦕
Agreed. I loved museums with dinosaurs, still do, and I’m sorry but compared to most animated films, Frozen sucks.
I had heart problems my whole life… I saw male Doctors/Cardiologists for 40years, all of them just saying that I am a female and am just going through anxiety attacks. These Cardiologist’s would give me random prescriptions that caused me many heart attacks.All of the treatment , my parents and I sought, were in California, Texas, Illinois, and the Carolina’s… all males
After my 65th heart attack at the age of 42, a 4 foot female Cardiologist, took the time to study me and found 32 holes in my heart. She gave me an ablation operation and I have never had an issue since
That is so dangerous! Please send a report to all those doctors. I would sue. But that is expensive. At least, a letter telling them they failed at being a good doctor might make them check their egos. I'm sure they still believe they were right, and you weren't. Sending them proof they failed might make them change.
holy shit!
Yeah, this I believe! Bc for MANY MANY years, Drs did NOT take women serious & believed we were all these fragile, emotional, airheaded, delicate sensibilities, & irrational creatures. They didn't study women or listen to anything they said & just chalked it up to us being dramatic! & Having a female Dr was a HUGE blessing bc they would listen & understand. Now, I WILL say that during my LONG battle to get my diagnosis of Adenomyosis & then to treat it, I met some female Drs that were WORST than any male Dr. & W\the exception of 2 of the guys, the make Drs were actually more compassionate & sympathetic to my struggle. The women were all period cramps don't hurt THAT bad! All women have them & manage just find day to day.
Ummm NO! Maybe YOUR pd cramps aren't that bad bc you haven't ever suffered a HORRIBLY agonizing disorder where your uterus is literally ripping itself apart from the inside out! But I believed as a teen that I was just a big fat baby, so I'd suffer quietly. Then I have birth for the 1st time. There were complications & they had to induce me & the baby STILL wouldn't come so they broke my water b4 I had even dilated at ALL! & We were told the contractions progressively get worse but they start at level 1. So, when the pain of contractions started & I was writhing on the bed crying silently (to the point the nurses were urging me to yell & let it out) I looked up at 1 nurse & said, "Sorry! I know I'm a big baby!" & She looked at me confused & put her hand on my forehead & said "Oh honey, why do you think you're a baby? You've got nothing to apologize for." I told her bc these are the beginning contractions, the easiest ones, & they have to get a lot harder & stronger. & I'm already crying. & She looked SHOCKED! She flipped the monitor around so I could see the peaks from my contractions & how high they were going & said that bc the Drs broke my water, it jump started my contractions, (along w\all the meds they were giving me to bring on contractions, ) & that I skipped all the easy contractions & went straight to the STRONG contractions & labor pains & that I was actually handling it a LOT better than a lot of the women they see! So, I should NEVER call myself a baby again. I said THIS is the labor pains?! Bc it's only a tiny bit stronger than my period cramps! & She was super sweet & outraged on my behalf & told me to keep looking for a diff Dr that would take me seriously! Bc cramps should NOT be anywhere even NEAR that level of pain. Turns out she was right! Only took me 14y AFTER to finally find a Dr who did something about it & by that point I was bleeding all day every day never stopping all year long & blacking out passing out from blood loss! & Had wrecked, nearly caught my house on fire, & passed out at work while taking guests back for their spa treatment!
I got way off topic! Sorry!
How ON EARTH can a doctor think that a person can have 65 heart attacks because of general anxiety?
wow
Omg, the guy who suggested Mac and cheese is absolutely adorable and a treasure he must help those men still lost in the dark. Also though that is heartwarming that all of the guys were so thoughtful that they started brainstorming a way to cheer her up.
Omg I feel you on the “extra juicy” issue, though mine would be more acutely described as the elevator screen from The Sining
"Girls don't talk about politics"
Fun fact, most revolutions where "started" by women. Take in mind that the 'final straw' for most revolutions had to do with food shortages or increased charges on food. It's because hungry people are hard to lead. And who do you recall was tasked with feeding their families, going to markets, etc? That's right, the wives. There have been countless riots in the streets started by women because their children were starving. Riots that were credited as either the 'start' of a revolution or one of the major events that lead up to a revolution.
A few examples:
- Women's March on Versailles: Women literally gutted guards like fish and marched straight to their Absolutist Leader and forced them to move to Paris. Not to mention these same women lead the fight for religious freedom in France.
- WW1: Women literally led food riots once again in Germany, Italy, and Russia. I mean, in Spain they literally attacked government buildings using the slogan: "In the name of humanity, all women take to the streets."
- Russian Revolution: Women literally threw stones and snowballs through factory windows to force the government to give them bread. I mean, they were literally walking up to soldiers and taking their weapons demanding they join the cause.
So anyone who says women aren't interested in politics should shut their mouths and open a textbook. Some of the most famous wars and revolutions in all of history started because women started attacking the government to feed their families.
💯 like some of these guys say they “study women” but it’s never anything past sexuality and how one chooses to express it! Like they’ve never sat down and truly looked at Women’s History nor our role in politics.
Anyone who was gullible enough to fall for seggs economic theory, enough to put stock in it; is just painting themselves in red paint and sticking 🚩’s out of every orifice with flashing lights and bells and whistles.
Who has the time to deprogram a man from that cult like mentality when he believes your some to-bit con only good for baby making, cleaning, and cooking.
You can’t get a word in edgewise cause they don’t hold value to what women say to them. Just wait until it’s their turn to speak only to steam roll the conversation.
You can’t deprogram someone who’s non-responsive and in an echo chamber but if they willingly choose to go you can’t do much else but wait to put out the fire. Hopefully no one gets injured in the process
Preach 😩💕
That one had me laughing. I am FAR more into politics than my husband. why? because his body and rights are less often on the chopping block.
So…what was Margaret Thatcher doing the whole time she was PM?
My mom is a historian
My best friend is a woman, she can debate politics with the best, she is the strongest human being I know, she’s as funny as anyone I know, she has a massive interest in history and antiquities and she’s the one who can spend hours in museums. Best of all, she’s my wife and I'll never stop appreciating her for who she is.
Agree. I have made new friends and accointances (both female and male) by talking about something political or the issues of the world. (they have heard me talk. Or I have heard them talk and felt interest)
Mine too!
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Glad you have each other! 💕
As the potato queen would say " I love that for you!"
Aaah yes, let's gatekeep natural mannerisms like "curiosity". What a wonderful sentiment. Truly delightful.
The most misogynistic thing a man has said to me this week was, "it's your duty, as a wife, to keep the house neat and tidy, and pleasing to look at for passers-by." And trust me, I was boiling inside thinking of ALL the things I did for this house like fixing the leaking roof when my husband is afraid of heights, patching up the dilapidated ceiling because my husband doesn't know how, building (yes, BUILDING) furniture when my husband knows nothing about carpentry (also because furniture cost is beyond our income), building a cattery to house the cats that my husband rescued, fixing the screwed up lighting fixtures and wiring due to bad maintenance because, again, you guessed it, my husband knows next to nothing about electrical wiring, chopping wood and maintaining yard work because my husband has never done either. For context, we're renting a small home with a tiny yard where I store most of my work-in-progress projects. Yes, it's a mild eyesore at the moment but still very organized, neat, and trash-free.
Edit 1: Since many are confused, no, the comment wasn't made by my husband. It came from a stranger.
Edit 2: I didn't intend to vent about what my husband cannot do. I'm so sorry for all the confusion! The comment came from a stranger who stopped by our house on Monday to complain about how our yard is "unkempt". I was trying to make a point that even though I'm my husband's wife, I still do all those things when they don't seem like "wife duties" because I actually enjoy doing them.
Last edit: I just want to clarify that I wasn't trying to humiliate my husband. I was just saying that just because I'm a woman doesn't mean my wifely duties are limited to only "keeping the house clean" as per the stranger's comment. My husband and I are a team. What he can't do, I'll do it in his stead, and what I can't do, he'll do it in my stead. My husband means the world to me and I had no intention of bringing him down in my original comment. English is not my first language so expressing my thoughts is sometimes a challenge. I'm using Grammarly to proofread my English. Thanks for reading, and have a good day, wherever you are.
He must be a great pet, because otherwise, he’s useless.
Sorry 🤗
@@kitty62862 but he is a great cook! And I hate cooking 🤣 edit: oh and he helps me with the house chores, which is a plus.
@@bunnybearme he better be super cute because I don’t think I’d put up with that 🤣🤣🤣!!! My husband is pretty much the opposite, except also loves cats. He also puts up with my crazy ass and I am not that cute 😇😜
@@kiwik2951 yes, he is! 😄 Love him to bits. Tbh, I just like to do all those things I mentioned because that's how I've always been growing up. I just hated it when some random man came over to comment how I should be doing "wifely duties" because I'm the wife. 🤷♀️
Oh, so this was another man commenting on your marriage? Not your husband? I was boiling inside too in your behalf because I thought it was your husband who said this thing. Sounds like you have a really good division of labor in your home. That’s excellent!
Why on earth would some rando think he could walk in and insult both of you like that? Jeez!
One of my most vivid childhood memories is being at a movie with my father and asking a LOT of questions. My dad looked over very sternly and said “I DONT KNOW! I literally have the same amount of information as you. Please stop asking me questions and watch” so that guy who claims 5yr old girls don’t ask questions is silly
Ikr? When I was little I was always asking for everything I want know at everywhere. Going grocery shopping with my aunt or grandma? Asking questions. Movie theater? The same... I've read all my grandma's library and when finished started to take home books from school or asking to go to the library. Even when visiting someone I'll always look up through their books looking for something that I didn't read. That's how I knew Orson Scott Card and Theodore Sturgeon. Live going to museums or the planetarium to this day, at 33yo.
YES!! My favorite childhood memories are going to museums with my grandpa and I was always asking questions and if he didn't know the answer we'd figure it out together :)
Yeah, but we already knew that. I’m sorry your dad responded that way. I hope it wasn’t too harsh and that it didn’t dampen your curiosity.
I would never stop asking questions one of my favorite things was having a long conversation with my dad about stars or something
@@davidguidry657 I may be wrong but I don’t think she meant it as her dad was mad
I like how charlotte refers to her period as ‘spraying’ and now ‘juicing’. I normally just tell people my axe wound is bleeding again. It’s so funny to see their confused faces if they haven’t encountered me before during this time of the month lol.
hysterical!
So much inaccuracy it's breathtaking but
1. Why does this man think we only have 9 periods a year?
2. Periods aren't only blood
3. Women have to remove tampons regularly for safety and comfort. Its not always about them being full
4. Women often change pads and tampons before they HAVE to because they know they won't be able to again for a while, like for going out or going to bed
No no. Uteruses are just like changing the oil on a 1967 SVS Chevy Mustang Charger. Ya just gotta let it all drip out to the last drop. 😮💨
and yes, I purposefully borked the car name.
5. We need different sizes during our period
@@dawnchesbro4189 but you didn’t! That’s the most badass car ever lol
@@jenna_n_goodwell_art We also don't know how long each period will last. And let's not forget the meds for cramps, headaches.
I quickly did the math and I go through 28 pads in a month(don't worry my stock is always high) bottom line here ? my dude not all women work the same way when we're on our period😮😮😮 shocking I know. I had a clash with a so called med student in his second year at a bbq when my gay friend asks me so what honestly happens when you're on your period? I start blabbing away and the shit with eyes goes: nothing you said is true I'm a med student in my second year bla bla.
Me* resting bitch face on*: umm first of all who's the woman here? I am. Who's fucking bleeding outta her coochie right this very second? Yeah... That's me. So shut up lil boy.
The guy giving tampon advice, especially for those with extra juice uterine lining, must love the idea of women getting toxic shock syndrome and infections when we don't change them often enough.
The fact he said women only get 9 periods in a year was pure math too.... given that on average, women get 1 period per month and there's 12 months in a year.....what would I know... I'm only a woman....
For real! Then there are women like me who can get multiple periods per month. One time, I literally bleed for two weeks straight, stopped for a week and then restarted again... it was like this constantly. I could not afford any health care service to have this checked... and my mom who had experienced this before told me that I was going through menopause. Thank goodness I don't need to worry about this anymore. I had two procedures and then a IUD insert that helped correct everything. I still get random pains which causes me to lose work. I went back being a substitute teacher because I couldn't miss any days from my previous work as a paraprofessional which was stressing me out. I am not alone... many people are leaving the education profession. I wish the administrators good luck on teacher shortage.
I want to know if anyone got through to him with the real numbers. JFC.
Exactly. If I and when I’ve used them I can’t even wear them for more than an hour. I’m constantly changing them. This guy thinking 1 a day would do the job😭 Boyyyy I need at least 12 or 13 a day and never at night, that would be extra money for pads too.
He’s obviously never tried to pee with a tampon in, I change it every time I go pee.
“You’re too pretty to save the world” is the second most passive aggressive, sexist comment wrapped up in a backhanded compliment I've heard in my life.
"Oh, come on, you're smarter than that" is the first, coming from a male friend after I dared to disagree with his opinion on a specific political topic we were discussing at the time by offering my own opinion.
I love how men call women emotional but have you ever seen men watch their favorite sport? Because dang, I couldn't reach that level of completely unnecessary emotion even if I tried.
Real shit lmao some men watching sports legitimately scare me.
Never dated a real sporty guy, I prefer nerdy types.
I watched one of my boyfriends openly weep at a Lord of the Rings movie.
I don't even cry that hard on my period watching The Notebook.
Fam you don't even have to watch them watch sport to see how emotional they are- just be very calm during an argument, tell him he's being emotional and u can't talk to him when he's all riled up and watch him implode
@@kittencadaver2744 I can concur that they do indeed go ape shit when told this 😂 I literally thought my exs head was gonna explode lol
Sooooooooooo with you there.
"But let's maybe try interacting with women and being nice to women and thinking of them as more than objects " - Charlotte's moral of the day . Need to use this verbatim when the opportunity arises 🙂 .
@@uncrustable9923 I thought men were already considered as human beings and seen as people. For example, we don't ask: "Oh, can men poop and fart?" Because some ignorant people still question that about women and some women even try to tell people that they've never pooped 😂
Men are not considered objects. But on the contrary, I do agree that men face backlashes, abuse, stereotypes and calumny in society too. But, they are not considered objects... especially s*x objects.
@@uncrustable9923 Gold diggers manipulate them as people... not as objects. Objects cannot be manipulated but people can be. And no slut shaming, buddy because slut has a definite meaning as in someone who has multiple casual sexual partners.
If you're talking about the women using men for s*x, that's called r@pe. And it is punishable by law. The stupid system is inclined towards the female population thinking that men cannot be weak or made use of. But that's also changing. Today, every gender is vulnerable to such crimes. And when it comes to r@pe, every gender is used as an object... not just women or just men. There are more genders than two.
In today's world, crime is a crime no matter who it was inflicted on. What the video talks about is men who still (in today's age) feel entitled that they must own a woman (Like property) and some men who have absolutely no idea about a women and feel entitled to teach everyone how a woman's body works and how freaking hilarious it is. 😂 Because such things is more of a joke than a threat in this advanced world
@@uncrustable9923 Yes, I am aware of that and that is exactly what I mentioned. You probably didn't read it right
@@uncrustable9923 Because you said that you didn't see my point there
@@uncrustable9923 Oh Okay lol
As she would have never sold her work as a woman, born in Warwickshire, England in 1819, Mary Ann Evans employed the male pen name George Eliot when she published her 1859 debut novel Adam Bede. After the success of Adam Bede, she wrote 6 more successful novels…The Mill on the Floss, Silas Marner, Romola, Felix Holt, the Radical, Middlemarch and Daniel Deronda.
I just told my husband of 40 years that women don’t have sex drives. Without missing a beat he replied, “I don’t know what moron said that but he’s never met you. Keeping up with your sex drive has been one of the greatest pleasures of my life” Damn I love this man.
I have indeed learned several things today:
1. Mozart had a very talented sister
2. Some men obviously didn't have mothers...or sisters. And it shows.
3. Evidently I over spent on tampons and should have used more algebra in determining quantities need.
4. Charlotte is still the Potato Queen ( but we already knew that)
We all make fun of Phobics and Karens,
but i bet barely anyone here votes to keep them outta Office.
Im not even going to mention 'Some More News' and others covering LGBT-Issues,
but can we at least all never vote for the society-destroying, lgbt-hate-EMANATING
Groups, like Republicans and Conservatives?
I mean, can we at-least-at-least know where Entitlement and LGBT-Hate and C-Theorys
mainly and mostly come from and not allow them to literally make Laws for us?
@CYW yeah i don't think they accounted for hygiene and the biology of the body when they posted that. imma get yeast infections or worse if i used only one a day
@@isabeltoledo2947 besides, they counted only 9 periods in a year
@@undomiel466 IM CRYING
Regarding 2, I was in college with a guy who had three sisters, so we could talk comfortably about whether or not it was our time of month right in front of him and he never got uncomfortable, in fact he’d even join in!
Did we gloss over the part where the guy who was mansplaining how many tampons a woman needs per year also said that a woman only has nine periods per year??????
Of course, because I doubt he encounters women on summer break living in his parents' basement. In that time women cease to exist and therefore don't menstruate.
Why did he chose 9 as a number lol
@@AmeZakiri he probably mixed it with 9 months pregnancy 🤣
My ex was a coward and tried to mansplain periods. Dude. You don’t have the ducking uterus, cork it!
And now, my male roommates know when to not bother the two biological females in the house. They’ve gotten really good at it!
I got sidetracked by the idea that he thinks tampons are supposed to stay in for 20 hours and totally missed that part.
I took a women and art history course and I was shocked at the amount of female artists that I had never been introduced to.
Gotta love how the dude says women aren't curious and then say they're 'dime a dozen', meaning: extremely common
Congratulations you played yourself
Even worse, he tried to be smart and say "a dime IN a dozen" lolz
hahaha ya beat me to it that was my favorite part. It's like he thought "dime a dozen" and "needle in a hay stack" were synonyms not antonyms.
@@ashmaybe9634 that means 10% of a dozen. He is an idiot, but don't show your self as one to
Yeah I caught that too. I’m like - that means extremely common, dumb ass.
@@ashmaybe9634 Although a dime in a dozen is only 1, so maybe that is what he meant...lol
A woman surgeon saved my life when I was 13. She was the only person qualified and knowledgeable enough to preform such an intense and invasive surgery. Some ppl are just afraid of how capable women are of great things 🤷♀️
Love the math for the periods. I think he underestimated how much blood happens in the first three days of the period, and then you still need padding for the spotting days. Plus you can only wear them for a certain amount of time or you could be in a world of hurt. So… yeah. While as paying for sanitation pads/tampons can be seen as a first world problem, it shouldn’t be something we’re taxed for, and it would be nice if it were someone provided for us.
As a woman with endometriosis, the man saying "9 periods a year", is grossly underestimating the amount of tampons. You can tell most of those men have little to no knowledge of women.
I've got PCOS and just in the last 3 days I've gone through 2 boxes of super tampons. Literally had to call out from work and now I have to run to the store for more. People who don't bleed have no idea what we go through.
@@thekimfilez I mean, we have an idea. We can't feel what you're going through, nor do we want to, but I empathize even if I can't sympathize. Only a complete idiot and douchebag would be able to come up with the numbers that guy came up with.
@@smellyfeet706 I was about to say this like he does know most women have their period every month right...
Would be great if the periods would just stop after using 7 tampons 🤦 35 cl goal reached, cya next month period!
If I'd use tampons I'd use 7 tampons in just the first 2 days already.
YESSSS! I was just saying that too! I had Adenomyosis. Which is similar to Endo where tissue grows in the wrong spot & then rips & tears when it tries to shed bc it's not supposed to be there. The only diff is unlike Endo mine didn't grow outside the uterus. It burrows holes THRU the muscled wall of my uterus. So, as 1 Dr said, my uterus was quite literally ripping me apart from the inside out. & It's also why even being pregnant didn't stop the pain bc there's so much damage inside the walls, that as my uterus grew to accommodate growing baby, it pulled on ALL that damage inside. Even caused massive hemorrhaging that caused me to miscarry. At the end b4 I got my uterus removed (still have ovaries & cysts but still it's a MILLION times better!) I was bleeding nonstop everyday of my life! No period, no breaks, just 24\7 bleeding. I was fainting from so much blood loss that I was becoming a liability in my job, on the road, even home w\my kids bc I fainted carrying laundry down to the basement while I was cooking & fell down ALL the steps! When I came too my baby was crawling down the stairs to me bawling & barely holding on from tumbling down the stairs, he saw me from the top bc I hadn't been able to close the gate b4 I fainted. The older boys were playing games & never realized but my 7mth old did! & Also, my food was burning & nearly caught the house on fire! I would sob in the drs office BEGGING for them to rip out my uterus but no I was too young they said! They kept putting me on Lupron for 7ys. You're only supposed to take it for 6wks once, after 6mo you can do another round but NO MORE! Bc it causes osteoporosis & a whole host of other bad side effects. But it put me in chemical menopause which stopped the bleeding at least. Nothing for the pain but at least I wasn't bleeding out! But 7yrs on that, now I'm finally uterus free but my teeth are all dust & falling out of my mouth & now I have to get dentures but NOBODY will do them bc they don't accept my insurance. I have my Dad's care credit card but they still won't accept me as a patient! So, another battle. But at least I'm not bleeding to death. Adeno & Endo are ABSOLUTELY NO JOKE & even w\all the knowledge about them out there, it's so hard to find a Dr who will look or acknowledge it!
The number of men who said to me "oh, wow, you're not just pretty, you're smart too" after a 10 min conversation is unreal. To them it sounded like a compliment as well. They really don't know you can be both, the surprise was genuine.
“Women don’t argue about characters”
We do argue and make works of fiction about fictional characters… I have actually been in a few fandoms and was surprised that a particular two (both are “this stuff is for boys/men” advertised) I had been apart of that was female dominant with fan work.
(Hint: one involves robots and one has a LOT of pretty girls in it- but will not fully confirm or deny what they are.)
Some of the most mysgnostic things I've ever heard actually came from an old woman, which makes it so much sadder. She came to the counter to buy a knitted blanket at the thrift shop I work at. She said it was a shame that women don't knit much any more and that they instead waste their time doing jobs that men are naturally so much better at. Women should be at home looking after the house, knitting and sewing like they are best at.
I told her that I wouldn't be very happy staying at home and that I am studying to become a geochemistry researcher. She said I should "leave it to the men" as women aren't wired for that. I was equally sad and angry.
For all she knew, that blanket was knitted by a man. I know male knitters. I've tried, but never had the knack for it (I'm a woman).
"Well I am wired for that job, so maybe you don't actually know what you're talking about. That'll be $54, thanks."
With some women misogyny is so hardwired in that you don't even need men to make you feel inferior. One of my old female relatives, who i am very close to, and who had a successful teaching career in a girls' school with multiple degrees herself, told me that since I am the girl, it's my family's 'burden' to initiate wedding talks with my then bf's family. I am a doctor and have not been financially or otherwise dependent on my family since 2014. 😒😒😒 She had also questioned my father spending money on my med school tution fee (which i am in the process of paying him back for) instead of keeping it in reserve for my wedding. The irony of her background and her attitude continue to astound me.
I’m sure you are going to make a brilliant geochemistry researcher. Best wishes for your future!
Wow! They just don't understand, THEY might be better suited to do those things & good at those things but NOT EVERY woman is! & There are Men who are better at that than the women! It's why stereotypes are such a dangerous thing! You go, girl! I'm sure you'll be AMAZING!
I literally just read a comment from an adult male, talking about how women pee from their uterus. He was dead serious. There was also an entire thread in response to a news article about a teenage tennis player mentioning she has bad period pain during the game, with HUNDREDS of men replying saying she should have known she was going to get pain, and telling all the women complete myths about periods, including that she should have "held it in", like one holds on when wanting to pee, ridiculing her for not doing so.
Why sex education should be mandatory. Just baffling that one/many are this ignorant
@@EbonyWilliams1 not even sex ed but just basic biology. how the hell do so many people just not know how their body or the body of the opposite sex, functions?
@@Meleena2218 Because so many schools aren't allowed to teach anything biology related about the "sex parts" of men & women, basic reproductive info/health. And they're not getting the info at home, but instead on social media or the 9 year old buddies who saw it in their older brother's Playboy...
@@EbonyWilliams1 frrrr, im afab (a female at birth) and i know all about men and their intimate parts, it scares me that some men dont even know what a period is (eg. shedding of the outer layer of blood from the uterus)
the appropriate response to this is "if i sliced your arm off and told you to just 'hold in the blood', do you think that would work? are YOU capable of magically stopping blood from squirting out? neither are we."
At 11:02 the post reminded me of my mom who works as a nurse in the ER, an EMT and a volunteer at another place that does nurse related jobs and she’s usually never home. Women work a lot man especially single moms (or just moms in general). Sometimes she’ll work that entire week and on most weeks she works the weekends. She’s pretty badass to be able to handle all of that
The funniest part of that one post to me is the fact that he completely misused the expression "dime a dozen" in a way that totally contradicts his point 😂😂😂
Yeah. I thought….that ain’t right.
I was looking for someone who noticed that too!
Love to hear him define that
a dime in a dozen means 10% so 1 out of 12 woman
@@chrischris3231 gonna assume you’re joking lol
I'll never forget the day my bf at the time mansplained periods to me. We were on holiday and I had forgotten to bring sanitary products, so I had to get them abroad on a Sunday, which was slightly awkward, but not impossible.
This man said to me "You get them every month, how are you not prepared?". He's my ex for a reason 😂
Yeah, husband, who has taken anatomy and biology, couldn’t understand that hormones are environmentally influenced and also I’m perimenopausal, so I might not have an exact date and time of arrival. It’s not a package buddy. I can’t track it.
@@TheBaumcm 🤣🤣🤣 boys, eh?! Can't live with em, can't live without em, can't make them understand how we tick (sometimes). Love, attention, and chocolate when I'm hormonal and moody does it. Must I explain EVERY month?!
@@DrT0705 ofc we can live without them 🤣🤣🤣 I was single and happy most of my life
@morganablackwater2017 I was also including my brothers and my dad in that comment....but yes, it is possible to live without men romantically. If I recall correctly, getting married increases the life expectancy of men, but decreases that of women. Very telling!
The irony in the children example, is that I have 3 siblings, 2 of which are twins and are a boy and a girl. My sister asks questions non stop whenever and wherever we are, yet my brother tends to be more on the quite side. I myself like to ask, analyze and try to deeply understand any subject or idea that may wonder into my mind, so yeah.
Responding to the post about women doctors/surgeons: I have almost died several times due to severe crohns that I was diagnosed with at the age of 7. I'm 37 now. A female pediatrician saved my life when I was a child. The 3 life saving surgeries I had more recently were done by a phenomenal female colo-rectal surgeon. 99% of the nurses I had were amazing women. Come on now. Women are amazing! 🥰
As a woman, for me, usually about 8 or9 times out of, 10, the doctor that misdiagnoses me is a man, because the majority of male doctors I've seen do not listen to me. Soooo, about those female doctors ......
I have had problems with some male doctors. I have had my life saved by some [different] male doctors. I have had some problems with female doctors. One of my current doctors is female and so far is proving to be outstanding. Some people are not good doctors. The problems tend to lie in their attitudes. I personally don't care if my doctor has three heads as long as they can do a good job. Women can be good at many things, though, like men, some of us lack talent in certain areas [don't ask to hear me sing if you value your ears, I have no talent there; now, if you want 100% identification of everyone entering and leaving an area, I'm your girl].
@@linabasilisk1955I agree my gf mom almost died with her second child because a female nurse told the other nurses that she is just being dramatic and she almost bled out due to hemophilia and when the DR moved the blanket there was a ton of blood. Both males and females suck in hospitals men because they don't fully understand women and women sometimes say the patient is seeking attention or overreacting
The whole 'girls don't ask questions' thing, especially in classes/education settings, is a thing, BUT that is because most girls (particularly in the past) were taught to not ask questions or that the questions they asked were stupid. So girls learned to not ask questions for fear of looking dumb. Boys were never taught that and so will ask questions more and talk more. Even when I taught at university, most male students had no problem asking questions or talking in general. While, female students generally asked fewer questions and talked less because they were afraid to look dumb and usually started questions with "this may be a dumb question..." or "I'm sorry to bother you...." PLEASE ASK QUESTIONS! TRUST ME, STUDENTS, YOU ARE NOT BOTHERING ME! I AM YOUR TEACHER.
And don't get me started on male students who somehow thought that because I am a woman, I somehow cannot teach them despite multiple degrees in the subject.
I teach adults, sooo much this. Amen.
You have to literally drag me out of museums at closing time because I’m so engrossed. Have been like this since I was small. I remember my first time at Manchester’s Space museum I went MIA for hours, my family went crazy as you can imagine.
“ If you’re repelled by it it’s working”
Won the entire video 😂
“You’re too pretty to save the world” is basically a roundabout way of saying every girl should be Princess Peach and be the object that needs to be saved and/or won.
Edit: a lot of comments are pointing out iterations of the Mario world where Princess Peach is a badass hero and worth "being." So let me be clear: I'm referring to the classic versions of Mario where she has no agency and is the one in need of saving. If you're getting distracted by counterexamples of my metaphor, then you are demonstrating that we are actually in agreement when it comes to my sentiment and main point: women can be both strong and pretty, that the dichotomy between beauty and anything else of value (strength, intelligence, etc.) is a false one, evidenced in later iterations of PP that updates her character with advanced cultural attitudes towards women and their agency.
I don't recall who said it. "Always tell a pretty girl she's smart, and a smart girl she's pretty"
I guess that's in order to play up to her ego.
What do you do if said girl is both pretty AND smart?
I've seen fellow female farmer being told "she could do better with her looks than being farmer"
Don't insult my girl Princess P like that
@@PeacheIIe it’s true tho, princess peach is dependent af lol.
@@PeacheIIe exactly there is literally a game called Super Princess Peach where peach literally saves not only herself but Mario and Luigi too!
7:13 Me, the girl whose favorite word is why, sitting on her father’s lap at 6 and watching him draw a model of the human heart, chambers and blood flow, after visiting his EMS in service with him and seeing open heart surgery. Me, the girl who dated a philosophy major, having existential debates with him and his buddies and using those skills to debate a highly regarded author whose attitude was contemptuous.
9:48 as a biology major, I HAVE to respond to this argument even though I know its obvious... aposematism results in the "toxic" animals SURVIVING and becoming "the fittest" so technically even the trait developed as a warning sign still means theyre the best mate...nevermind that its an inherited trait, oh and many MANY animals (like peacocks) use bright colors SPECIFICALLY FOR finding the best mate...anyway off to redye my teal mermaid hair
Ooooo teal mermaid hair!! 💜💜
Mine was Galaxy for the last two months, and now it’s Sunset! I’ve gotten so many compliments from
So many people on the fun colors. Like, random strangers. Seems this dude needs to chill.
2:59 a perfect example for you: The famous German pianist of the 19th century Clara Schumann was ... a woman. Her father Friedrich Wieck was a pianist teacher, her husband Robert Schumann was a composer. At the end Clara Schumann did not only become very famous, also after her husband's death, but also got her face on the 100-DM-Bill.
You're a history major, I think. Or music history?
@@StrangeFacinations or German and old enough to still have paid with Deutschmarks and have learned a little bit about German music history in middle school.
@@StrangeFacinations Thank you, I just like learning new things. 🙂
@@inkenhafner7187 Depends on what you mean by "old enough" ;-) The German Marks were replaced by Euros in 2002. I became 13 back then. Also: Learning about history is great.
so, are you saying that because you found 1 famous female artist, what CD said is wrong?
It's always hilarious to hear a NeckBeard or NiceGuy explain periods and how they work. Using the "I've never been to the moon but I know it's there" concept of logic, they attempt to sound less ignorant about a subject they have no experience with, while stumbling over the mystery as to why they don't have a girlfriend or wife, and why they DESERVE a GF or wife in those cases where their appearance is much like an alien species to the rest of us on earth. And all this without having ever allowed their shadow to darken the steps of an institution of higher learning! Amazing!
Funny you said your mom was a journalist! I remembered her first name from another video of yours, looked her up and found one of her papers, lol. She seems very accomplished AND she raised two awesome kids! Good on her!
My mom is a BOSS, thanks for checking out her stuff!
The "women have no sex drive" poster reminds me of some of the most "nice" guys I've met and how the women they creepily hoped for relationships with claimed "sorry I've got no sex drive" as a "polite" excuse ... to avoid saying "no sex drive with you." These "nice" guys somehow then believed it's a WOMAN problem because they would much prefer to believe the excuse than admit they give off all the wrong vibes.
I mean that's what happens when you have an ego problem. You assume everyone else is wrong, women don't have sex drive and they don't date nice guys because they are too stupid. It takes maturity to accept that half of the population is not awful, but instead, you are doing something wrong and need to work on yourself. That really hurts the ego.
You can speak on yourself without it being seen as husband bashing. Screw them that discount that.
As a person who legit does not have a sex drive (asexual), the creepy men rarely accept this answer. The number of times I've been accused of "making excuses"... As if I owe you sex for expressing interest in me.
This reminds me of the time I tried to gently turn a guy down for a third date and he just burst out with "what does 'chemistry' even mean? Women keep telling me we don't have it! What does that mean?" I just sat there, speechless, wondering how in the world to respond without making things worse.
@@Rockabelle next time, just rip off the bandaid; "It means she doesn't think you're sexy, bro. Tough break."
"If to you a girl doesn't drive, it may be because you are not worth the ride."
Master Dobre, I think.
1,000% LOVING spraying Charlotte 😂 love the sass!
that man thinking he's entitled to a girlfriend had me boiling. Like, seriously?
Guarantee he’s a Jordan Peterson fan
@@dontmindme633 I don't even know who Jordan Peterson is :P
This is the rationalization of a rapist.
Seriously.
It's about power and "entitlement".
He feels entitled to a woman, and it's highly likely that he will, eventually, act on that misplaced feeling.
@@dontmindme633 That whole rant is a perfect example of an "incel". Ugh! Jordan Peterson is almost as bad as Charlie Kirk. 🤮
He doesn’t see women as people. He sees it like owning a dog. And is annoyed he has to have the dog’s permission to be its owner.
Also he’s an incel nutjob.
I love the one about the office guys trying to cheer up their co worker and all they can come up with is Mac n cheese. It’s so sweet. I love their instincts.
It really scares me that some men actually think like this!!! Yikes!!!! More please!!!!
That last one, though... I was born with, or soon contracted, several notable medical issues. The person most instrumental in saving my life was a Female neurosurgeon. She operated on a little baby brain/spinal cord multiple times without breaking a sweat! I went to several follow-up appointments over the years, and my grandpa respected her for both her brilliant work - and the fact that she got her education in/through the military (he was Air Force, she was Navy - a bit of teasing, but tons of respect). My grandpa was an awesome patriarch who saw the arrival of his first great-grand a year before he died. Nobody would fault his manhood - even with being a 'girl dad' and all!
9:00 Can we please also talk about how they said that there was 9 periods in a year when there are 12 months in a year lol
Missed that... 😂😂😂😂
Did take him seriously enough to call that out but did notice it. It was just further proof of his inability to contribute meaningfully to any discussion on the matter. Overall, I’m still confused as to his point. Does anyone know?
Was just saying I’ve had definitely more than 12 in a year before and book ended my month coming off one and starting the next! Think I’ve got a 21 day cycle on average.
@@jrowme9230 I am going to say something tongue in cheek just trying to be funny so please don’t take me seriously…
No! You have to have a 28 day cycle! No exceptions! Just like a woman trying to be contrary. Sheesh! 🙄 😉😂🤣
@@jrowme9230 Even with a 28 day cycle, many people will have more than 12 periods in a calendar year, because months are more than 28 days. (Except February except on leap years blah blah time is meaningless) Anyway you're not alone!
- Guy having a tantrum on a sub like a safe space, talking about how scary it is that he doesn't know how women work and thinks they're unstable and dangerous.
- Guy says women are too emotional.
Buddy, I have news for you.
IKR? Who's started the last several world wars? Not women, I can assure this toad. It's the irony of all ironies when men call women 'emotional'. smh
The whole women are emotional trope only exists because men decided it’s ok for them to show specific emotions such as anger and framing that as tough, but women show them and we’re emotional and bitchy. Even if the anger comes from being treated disrespectfully. It’s all a big con.
I literally freaking love the way the birds are drawn in the "holding hands" part of the lesbians comic thing!!
Won’t lie that museum comment pissed me off. Love museums and always have. It was my treat as a kid, my dad would take me to a museum and I would have a blast learning and seeing new things. Now I’m studying anthropology in my free time and hope to make museums more exciting for kids again. My cousin (a boy!!!) hates the museum… legit I asked if he wanted to go see the Pompeii exhibit with me and he looked at me just shook his head.
for me as a kid, I loved going to the aquarium, museums, and the planetarium. I still love the aquariums but I haven't been to the planetarium in so long.
Oh, I am so sorry that he said no. Have youbasked him what he thinks museeums and exhibitions are like? I bet someone frightend him off.
Good luck with your work!
I freaking loved museums as a kid. Still do. Guarantee I've been to more museums than that guy.
Same!! For me it was actually a local Pompeii + Herculaneum exhibit that is one of those memories that are still so clear no matter how long ago. I went with my grandparents and came home with the biggest smile and the reddest face as my mum says. 10 years after I went on a school trip to the actual Pompeii and Herculaneum and I cried, this decade long dream finally coming true. It is so extremely interesting to learn about things like this.
The guy that has "Studied woman", needs to get out of the chair and experience you beautiful creatures on a plantonic level. He's missing out!
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Ugh, no better not. I'd rather avoid such people.
@@fr1day2 probably. Odds are he's a 40 year old Virgin too! (Movie reference not meant to bash actual virgins)
I don’t think he should even go anywhere near women because he sounds like he came out of r/niceguys
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 i just can’t get out that ”bright colors to frighten predators”😂😂😂😂😂😂
I like it extra spicy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I know all about male pigs, I worked in a male dominated job for 16years. (Corrections) I was constantly having to deal with knuckle draggers who didn't think females should be doing a "mans" job. I did it better and longer than many of my co-workers, the only reason I had to retire early was due to medical reasons. Broke my heart to have to give it up.
...and here I thought you were going to say you owned a pig farm lol
I worked in Industrial Parts and was the only straight woman in our city of over a million people. The amount of sexual harassment was out of this world. To deal with it from customer's of major corporations was disgusting. There were a few client's that were really supportive but the majority were pigs. I ended up suing one company because I was physically assaulted and was told "What did you expect, you're a young pretty girl in this industry?" It was heartbreaking. I had always loved working on big machine's with my dad on our farm and decided to make it a career.
For some reason I took that literal and thought you worked with literal pigs (like at a large commercial farm or slaughter house or something) and the men at the same job looked down on you for doing a “mans job”
@@dawnchesbro4189 🤣🤣🤣 actually some of the inmates I dealt with were worse, if you can imagine....
@@cmenowlandreth I dealt with a little bit of sexual harassment, mainly by just one individual and he was more "hostile work environment", the higher ups wouldn't do anything until I put it on report, their answer was instead of dealing with him they promoted me, then the next month they promoted him too! I didn't care at that point as long as I no longer had to work with him!! As for the inmates, I just got called a bitch a lot, I just laughed in their faces, slapped handcuffs on them, told them I couldn't write them up for lying to staff but I could for disrespect, they always thought that was funny!! Made it easier to get them to confinement, they won't fight you if they're laughing. 😁
the one dude seriously grossly underestimated periods. every woman is different, and we don't all use 7 tampons/pads in one cycle.
Also 9 periods a year?! I’ve had over 12 in one year before - sometimes it lands so I literally bookend my month on my period!
He also apparently thinks it's a good idea to just leave a tampon shoved up there for 24 hours. I mean, even if he's never had any women in his life he could just see how bad that is by making a 30 second google.
that made me laugh as well. 7 tampons per period? When I was still using tampons it was more like 7 a day
Just imagine how gross it would be if women only used one tampon every 24 hours lmfao. What a numpty lol
@@Luthwen1301 7/ day for 7 days!
Ohhhhh, Charlotte, you full on crack me up...my head thrown back and all. Hahaha "Thank You!!" 🌟💜🌟
I like how that guy misused the idiom “dime a dozen” since that means they’re abundant. Yes we are abundantly creative and intelligent, thanks for noticing. 🤭
Goes on and on about how smart and superior he is, and then can't get a basic turn of phrase correct.
I grew up on a farm where spraying were often used about using cow shit as fertilizer (loved that time of the year). My first thought was that Charlotte had severe diarrhea 😂😂
I didn't even grow up on a farm, and totally thought the same. 🤣
@@bethanyhanna9464 I was confused as well. Is this just a Charlotteism that I've missed her saying in previous videos. Even when I equated it with menstruation I decided to google it and couldn't come up with "spray" being a euphemism for being on your period.
@@dustinriley8059 yes this is totally a Charlotteism. It originated from some video like this where she read some really funny and utterly wrong mensplaining comments 🤣 it's more like an insider among her regular viewers. Maybe 6 months back, but I'm only guessing...
@@dustinriley8059 I belive it was this video, but she made a few similar ones too so I'm not 100% sure
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@@dustinriley8059 never mind, it's this one! I found it!
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Thanks for the much-needed laugh with this video. I'm catching up on all of them now because I'm a new subscriber but I just wanted to say I think you're amazing. And this is my favorite thus far, more of this please.
I wanted to comment under this one because it's my favorite but I'm currently watching your most recent tourist one and I love what you're doing with the sharks. I cannot stop laughing and right now, to get me to laugh is not an easy thing.
You just need to know how appreciated you really are and how laughter is truly priceless.
Please don't ever ever ever stop making videos! Ever!
I learned that sex-education, in general, seems to be shockingly bad.
Sooo many examples of people who learned one fact and then extrapolated a mountain of erroneous bullshit out of it, and then when they get ridiculed they get, like, toddler-angry
I mean they have internet if they want to learn more. They can google anything from sex ed to psychology, but they prefer to act like they already know everything and embarass themselves.
I got my seggs ed before the internet. You’re right, it was just appallingly bad. We were told not to do it until your wedding night. The boys were told that it hurts women and they never enjoy it, so only do it to make babies.
Early 1990s in a Catholic school. Good times🤦♀️
Shout out to the guy using the phrase “a dime a dozen” wrong. It literally means something is very common
Yep! Us smart, capable, self-reliant, powerful, all the great epithets we can come up with, ladies really ARE a dime a dozen. *Thank you* for recognizing us with your male gaze. We feel *sooooooo honored*
/sarcasm towards the dude who flashed his misogynist idiot card.
You, my friend are amazing as you are!
Charlotte my dear, you have a great job! You're job, among a myriad of others, is to make all of us laugh while we enjoy our lunch each day! And you must be good at it because I've choked on my meal laughing a hundred times! You're the best!
PS: as much as I would miss your content if you did, you deserve time off woman! My God you're a work horse!
Wow. Just. Wow. Is there really men/people that seriously think like this? Wow. No wonder there are less people marrying.
Some of them scream incel
I once dated a guy whose last girlfriend broke up with him like a week or so before their wedding. I realized pretty quickly why.
He wasn't a bad guy but he seemed to want a maid more than a wife, kept asking things like if I liked to cook and other stuff and was always talking about his sister in law who was always cleaning. I broke up with him faster than the bride to be.
I lost my job because the (male) boss found a less qualified man to give to. Women made him uncomfortable and were a distraction. So sadly, yes, there are a shocking amount of people like this out there!
I was helping a friend with his startup business. One day he was looking through some CVs and he told me "I don't want to hire women. They'll just seduce all my (currently only-male) employees". And then I think he realized that I'm a woman. He immediately said "oh but not you, you're different". I stopped helping him out after that.
@@DinDeen it was a shock to the system when I started in the workplace and realised how many dinosaurs exist who think women only exist to serve and please them.
If a pair of shoes has had 50 owners that means demand is high, and since there is only one pair, supply is low. Basic economics says its value is actually high...
They can't even get their misogyny right...
There's so much I want to point out that I laughed at 🤣 Especially when you put your face as Mozart 🤣
The first thing I thought of when you showed the sculpture clip and then all the commentary, was the artist Artemisia Gentileschi, and the Pre-Raphaelite Sisterhood.
Bahhahahha " don't hate me for what I say when I was spraying " 🤣🤣🤣 love it!!
This video convinced me to subscribe. I absolutely cracked up at all of Charlotte's comments🤣🤣
Ur facial expressions were so on point I was dying laughing lol these posts still shock me for how some people can think women should act. 😵💫
So that thing with the unnatural hair colors is really true. When I had first blue and then purple hair, all the douchebags and idiots of the world were too scared to bother me. Before that I was was platinum blond and boy was that a nightmare. Now, I've got my natural medium ash blond color back and the douchebags are trying to hit on me again. I always say to parents of teenage daughters to let them dye their hair an unnatural color if they want to because it's a boy/man deterrent. It really works.
Tattoos also work if you're okay with a more permanent solution lmao manchildren just can't handle women with tattoos.
It's interesting to see someone suggests that women aren't curious about the world but they are usually the same parents that gave their daughter Barbies, signed her up for ballet, force her to "dress like a lady" and actively discouraged activities thought to be "for boys". Let your child be who they are and tell you what interests them, and I think you'd be quite surprised what they pick for themselves and how curious most children are regardless of gender when given the opportunity to explore it.
The "women are too emotional" really gets to me. Let's talk about murder, for example. Murder is often an act of rage, done impulsively, or deviously planned. Over 95% of murderers are men. How about rapists? Rape stems from wanting to control, usually acted out aggressively. 99% of rapists are men. But women are the ones who can't control their emotions? I don't know why more people can't put 2+2 together. The illogical ignorance of people is infuriating, but I end up feeling kind of sad for the clueless. Unfortunately, they spread ignorance.
Brilliant post! How rape and murder aren’t considered “men being emotional” is insane! Toxic Male Aggression is not normal or ok!
You know how people often accuse others of the thing they are guilty of? Like, how cheaters will accuse their partner of cheating and act all outraged ans suspicious, even though they themselves are the actual cheating one?
I'm convinced that's what men have done to women. They are the emotional ones who can't help having outbursts, but they try to turn it around on us and accuse us of the very thing they are guilty of.
Yes, because I love when men (who don’t have periods) tell me how to solve my period problems. 🙄 Also, “extra juicy uterine lining” is the most disgusting thing I’ve ever heard and i crossed my legs immediately. I bet he’s also a “r/niceguy” 🙄 lol
I am wondering how he gets only 9 per year, generally its once per month (can be more or less I know blah blah blah) but thats only 9 months so what happened to the other 3 months?
Also not accounting for toxic shock syndrome. Ya dun keep 'er up there 24/7 ma dude ya gotta swap tha plug!
@@chaosbringer04 FACTS lol I don’t know how he got his math figure, but omfg 🤣 He’s all the way off. Dude is trying to teach women how to ration their tampons and failing miserably. 🤦🏻♀️
@@dawnchesbro4189 and swaps are recommended every 6 hours at most due to TSS.
@@ToxicMuffin15 do you men recommended at least not at most? Sorry I went to a school that didn't think boys should learn about periods in health class but I do know a lot about wet dreams (though I still think they are a myth because non of my friends or boyfriends have ever admitted to having them)
You should look up Hildegard bon Bingen. She was a 12 German Benedictine, a composer, a playwright, a poet, and a mystic. Her music broke the boundaries of the time and she founded two monasteries. Also, look up Florence Price. She was a composer, who also happened to be a black woman, who was a prolific composer during the 1920s. Listen to her Symphony in E minor. It’s really cool! Women have been brilliant for a long time!
"Women don't have sex drives."
False. We simply have not been conditioned since adolescence to believe that we have little to no control over our urges and should be excused for our bad behavior. We have instead been shamed for literally hundreds of years for expressing our sex interest. If we follow our sex drives we are *checks for accuracy* like shoes with multiple owners and our value depreciates. At least according to the type of men who wonder why there isn't a line of women desperate to be with a r/niceguy like him.
Ladies, we need to do better. Every man who has dumbass opinions like these was literally created by a woman. Mothers, please don't let your sons grow up to be like this. Sure all the "talks" are uncomfortable, but obviously the men in their lives are screwing the pooch and giving horrid information. Sure you may hate every second of it, but we need this little subspecies to die out.
Or they were given the info but chose to ignore it because it came from a woman. I refuse to believe these “nice guys” have great relationships with their moms. Probably watched their dad belittle her and based their “knowledge “ from that.
I'm on my lunch break now and I'm so excited that Charlotte's notification popped up as I'm walking outside. Now I can come back in with a better mood. Also that guy saying those women were a dime a dozen, doesn't that mean 10 out of 12. Those are pretty high odds, but maybe I'm having a brain fart. Women are, in my opinion, very smart and talented.
He said dime in a dozen. The expression "dime a dozen" means to be so common that it has no worth. Eg. you can get a dozen for a dime.
YES IT DOES!!! Lol I was thinking the exact same thing! So by his logic those intelligent, "interesting" (to him) women are much more common than not. what an idiot.
@@marieclapdorp1417 was just coming here to say that.
@@marieclapdorp1417 thank you like I said I was having a brain fart.
I never get through one of your videos without at least one genuine LOL. This one only took 8 seconds.
I'm a man who loves your channel. You make me laugh so much, and your sense of humor has really helped me during a few depression cycles. That said, I'm halfway through this video, and I have to stop. I cannot listen to these users dumb opinions any longer; they are too infuriating. I can't believe there are men who still think this way! ... I still can't wait for your next video though. I hope it's a petty one!
The one about women not having drives is hilarious in my opinion...we might not chase men that aren't attractive, but that's why there are battery operated boyfriends 😉😉😉
The one about "the extra juicy uterus" that dude has never heard of endometriosis or fibroids. That produces a lot of blood.
My response to that one was literally "Actually, women do have sex drives. Also standards. Bad luck for you, I guess"
BEST BOYFRIEND EVAR! 🔋🔋🔋
Also, a lot of women don't talk about sex because we're in a society that has words it likes to throw at women who like sex even a little.
"If the men find out we can shapeshift, they're going to tell the judge!" LOL!!!! You are sometimes so spot on brilliant.
That line was actually coined years ago by Slayer J...her videos were actually deleted when people on various channels and on tiktok were outright using her voice on their videos as a means to take credit for her jokes. The line was in a video where she talks about contouring.
She was literally driven out of youtube because her content was pirated so much by other social media influencers and she was never given credit or even ExPoSuRe for it...please credit the proper comedienne for the line.
Also it's, "if the men find out we can shapeshift, they're going to tell the church"
ua-cam.com/video/QunwzgVENUg/v-deo.html here is a reupload of that video after she had left.
Again, if it weren't for the fact that she was literally driven off of youtube by how much of her content was stolen and she wasn't paid nor credited for it and she couldn't even monetize her own content while others were profiting off of it...I'd not mentioned anything...and wasn't directly planning on even commenting on the comment until I saw this...please...let black creators have credit for their jokes.
And yes, she spoke about how hurt and angry she was at having this happen to her at length on twitter and on her patreon, which is now where her videos are exclusively found after all that.
I had a friend some years ago to whom I confided how I was struggling from depression for years and how hard it was to deal with it and he responded by "are you sure it's not just your period? You could be confusing being actually depressed by just having your period and feeling sad, you know?"
He's not my friend anymore, lmao
Gurl if that isn't a red flag I don't know what it is. Depression is a hard enough thing to talk about cause most people don't take it seriously, you don't need sexists comments on top of it xd
I know it's bad, but I just involuntarily burst out laughing when I read how stupid your ex-friend was.
Omg the period one left me with so many questions ! Who is saying there's only 10 to 35 ml of period goo ? (Sorry for the details) I use the diva cup, which is about 60ml (2 oz.) big, and I swear that in 3-4 days it fills up about 5.5 times. And a lot of girls have week long periods with a LOT more goo... Do as you may with that information, but this guy's source needs to be sued 😆 it's not a First world problem, it's half of the world population's problem !
It's the amount of blood (accurate) which they are equating to the amount of actual fluid (inaccurate). Just the usual "I did my research but I did it wrong" internet experts.
The average period blood loss is 30-40 ml, though some can get to 60ml and higher for heavy bleeders. It often feels like a lot more, but that's because other fluids come out mixed with the blood. But yeah, the guy is an idiot. I use to have periods lasting 2 full weeks, and going through entire bags of night pads because the blood loss has hemorrhagic, so yeah not quite as simple as this guys puts it. Also, for far too great a number of women in third world countries, access to women hygene products is simply *non-existent* and that can lead to serious health issues in these women. But who cares right? F*ck this world. /sigh
@@catstreat9434 Yes, that makes a lot more sense ! Most of the goo is endometrium and only a fraction is blood. He stopped his search too early 😆
And why is he counting only 9 periods in a year…??? That’s the biggest question I have
What's funnier is my thought of some funny lady he's paid to sit over a measuring cup & he still got it soooooo wrong. I have little doubt if men had periods there'd be no women measuring them... seriously, whatta douche bag 🚩
Be mean Charlotte! You’re the funniest sweetheart, so you deserve that release! ❤️😹❤️
Charlotte looking as wonderful as always, great video. The jokes are on point as always, a few clips looked like Charlotte’s head was hurting from seeing what was on the clip.
My fave part about this is the comment about taking female children to museums.
My parents would object HIGHLY that it's the other way around, as they spent many trips hustling me along as I read every single plaque, sign, and info book 🤣🤣
Giving baby shark your mouth just made me lose it and it was seconds…thank you for that little extra you put into your videos!!!
Statue : this is art
Me : ...this is hard, hard nipples..
Also, fun fact, in nature the alpha of a pack of wolves is often a female. Do with that what you will.
In fact, wolves have a pretty complex social structure. Yes, the leader is often the biggest female, next to her are the other adult wolves, followed by elders who are not sick and the last ones are the cubs and sick ones. When they travel they use the same structure as a way to protect the weakest ones. Leader at the very front, the rest of the adults at front and some in the back, young, elder and sick at the middle. So in case they are attacked they can protect the ones who can't do it by themselves. Pretty awesome to be honest!
The head of the wolf pack follows behind the group to make sure everyone is accounted for and keeps them safe.
That is cool. I think it's black widow spiders or praying mantis that after mating with a male bites his head off/kills them. So yeah, anyone that says women aren't badass has clearly never met a woman.
Gotta love how the guy at 7:20 has met all women in the world in order to come to this conclusion
I'm gonna go out on a limb and say he's never met an actual woman other than his mommy. And I doubt he considers her a woman, because to these boys "Mommies can't be women! They're mommies!"
I have such a vendetta against people that generalize like this. Just because the 10 women you've met in your life are a certain way doesn't mean the population reflects that.
@@cassijane22 somehow I doubt this man had a conversation with 10 women.
The funniest thing about that 1st clip, about moving where the hair grows from is that it's two different people! 🤦🏼♀️🤯😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@ 9:00: *9 cycles PER YEAR?!?* WTF!🤯🤦🏼♀️🙅🏼♀️😂😂😂😂
Shark with Charlotte's teeth and mouth killed me🤣🤣🤣
My great-grandmother's great-grandmother was a writer. She was kicked out of school because she was smarter than the male teacher. Also her husband (cousin... I know it was the 18th century) threw a book she was writing into the fire and it was never published. (She was forced to marry her cousin because she was "undesirable" and her father told his brother that she would never marry and made her cousin marry her)
My male friend just killed me after the one with "My value.... history." Coz he stupidly stated, "Aren't they like a musical instruments then, because with use, the instrument plays better. So it could apply the same way, because who doesn't want to play an instrument that plays well." I hit him upside the head.😂😂😂
7:15 to that guy that said girls don’t discuss politics, that’s all my family does and it’s mostly woman 😂
Hahaha! I'm regularly asked to tone down on the politics talk when I'm at family gatherings. We all hold very similar political stances, so they agree on the politics, but they don't always want to talk about it.
also what does he think feminism is? lmao
I picture most of these guys as a 14 year old cross between the Hunchback of Notre dame and Jaba the Hut with the reasoning skilled of Jethro Bodine.