Meet Guppy, Billi’s Annoying Little “Cousin” | BilliSpeaks

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  • A quick recap because there’s been a number of changes!
    Billi and I have moved out west, I’ll be traveling frequently for work so we won’t have a “settled home” for a bit. Dad will visit when he can.
    Since I won’t have a home base for a while I am staying with my sister, and Billi will have to put up with her “cousins” Daphne (dog) and Guppy (cat). Yes, Billi is mad 🤷🏼‍♀️
    These three have lived together and visited each other before, but Billi is still an “only child” at heart and has never truly enjoyed her time with them. That may be because Guppy started their relationship by treating Billi’s tail as a toy 😹
    So imagine my surprise when Billi actually started making overtures towards Guppy! They may never be friends, but I’ll take what I can get 😂



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КОМЕНТАРІ • 759

  • @patrikhjorth3291
    @patrikhjorth3291 Рік тому +2134

    Kendra: "Guppy bye"
    Billi: _triumphantly_ "YES!!"

  • @ebonycohen7200
    @ebonycohen7200 Рік тому +2102

    It’s so interesting to see Billi interact with another cat. Glad she got to make friends eventually after “mad”.

    • @teijaflink2226
      @teijaflink2226 Рік тому +65

      And very interesting to see too how she got more and more interested in the other cat, actually wanting to play,from being bit aggressive first. She's giving so much insight in how it's to be a cat with her communication skills.

    • @isabellepoynter5193
      @isabellepoynter5193 Рік тому +9

      I had 3 cats and it was love hate relationship. I always let my cats have some aggressive fights or arguments but not to the point of drawing blood. Animals HAVE TO FIGHT to some extent so they can save themselves. If 2 “hateful” cats just slap each other and we stop them every time….what if they learn not to fight for themselves and a car actually hurt them so bad because the owner trained their cat to be nice? I’m not being mean but that’s how I see it. I let my cats argue and hiss and scratch each other (they know their limits under the same roof). As people we argue with another person. What if a husband and wife or siblings argue and there’s a referee that butts in at the slightest word or raised voice…”stop arguing no!” Wouldn’t it be annoying? Just let people and animals work it out.

    • @The_Real_Mier
      @The_Real_Mier Рік тому +18

      @@isabellepoynter5193 The difference here is that your cats had to live together and these two don’t. Plus Billy is not an outdoor cat (as far as I know), so these ‘survival skills’ aren’t needed.
      I also had two cats who had to learn the whole ‘how to interact and deal with each other’-thing.
      My cats didn’t come to live with us at the same moment and there also was an age difference of roughly one year. And then there was the huge difference in personality!
      Puck, the older one, is a calm and thoughtful soul, who loves his peace and quiet and prefers to simply lay in the sun and chill.
      He had our home to himself for about a year, but when he was a little over 16 months old: Enter JIP!
      And Jip was not only the young boy of just 3 months old, but this was a whole different ball game!
      He was (and is to this day!) the embodiment of rascality!
      The days of peace and quietness where gone for Puck… because now there wasn’t ‘just’ a kitten in the house, not ‘just’ a playful kitten in the house, but now there was a kitten with ADHD, filled up with at least a gallon of Red Bull!
      And Puck did not know how to deal with that. It was heartbreaking sometimes.
      Jip never acted out of meanness or viciousness, but he sure tested how far he could take his teasing.
      He would be on the table and Puck would be walking by on the floor, unsuspecting of what was looming above him and before he knew what happened, Jip would land BAM on top of him, just for the fun of it.
      At first Puck became a bit nervous and even a little scared, but it somehow never occurred to him that he too could lash out every now and then, to make a stand.
      But we left it and did not interfere: he HAD to learn this himself.
      So when the day FINALLY arrived, after about 4 or 5 months, that he DID give Jip a huge swing on his little rascally head, we applauded him!
      (And you have never seen a cat with such a surprised look on his face as Jip had at that moment…. And Jip knew straight away that his gig was up.)
      Of course he did tease (just wants to play, but our Diva Puck ‘doesn’t do playing’) but now if Puck had enough, he had the choice to either walk away or show Jip that in the end he is still the older one and yes, Puck IS boss…
      They DO love each other to and love to snuggle up together too!
      So: You see I completely share your thoughts on letting them deal with their own things, but not when they are just visiting…

    • @the_phuckery_is_real7252
      @the_phuckery_is_real7252 Рік тому +15

      @@isabellepoynter5193 I have been doing tnr and rescue for a decade. I currently have 19 unadoptables from age 1 - 11. I love them all. Here's the thing. Some territorial aggression is expected in the beginning, and even some grumpy days.. However when animals are left unchecked in their aggression, they can quickly turn into bullies with a target. The target will become so afraid of being attacked that it will eventually stop using a litter box and begin to "go" wherever they are hiding. They will spend their time hiding.That's no life for a cat. It can take months or years to undo that kind anxiety and insecurity in a cat. Usually those animals are dumped or worse because the owners didn't know what to do. I've seen it over and again. Mine will nip each other's ears and occasionally have a mild spar but scratches and wounds from fighting can easily turn into abscessed wounds or damaged eyes that are not only painful but can cause disability.

    • @fromhgwaii
      @fromhgwaii Рік тому +11

      As others have pointed out below from the footage we see Billi’s aggression seems territorial when Guppy approaches the buttons, rather than being unprovoked. I think that’s really interesting.

  • @ma.2089
    @ma.2089 Рік тому +1307

    I feel like Billi “starts it” when Guppy gets close to the buttons. I wonder if she’s territorial over her form of communication lol

    • @LoreCatan
      @LoreCatan Рік тому +256

      That's what I was thinking. Billi is very protective of her buttons, it would make sense that seeing another cat in her space and in the WAY of Billi using them herself would make her mad and incredibly frustrated. Since these videos are older, I wonder if Guppy understands that now.

    • @samwalker8893
      @samwalker8893 Рік тому +50

      @@LoreCatanthese are not old videos, this is where Billi is staying now (for now), the buttons have the newer just released additions, i think Billi has never seen another cat near her buttons

    • @LoreCatan
      @LoreCatan Рік тому +33

      @@samwalker8893 I didn't mean older as in months ago, I meant since clearly there were many clips included in this video that they must be at least a couple weeks old, perhaps a month or two at most.

    • @sabrinaelisa94
      @sabrinaelisa94 Рік тому +18

      @@LoreCatan yes, kendra did state that these were more than a couple of weeks of clips put together

    • @deprofundis3293
      @deprofundis3293 Рік тому +31

      With cats, body language is what actually starts it, not the chase. Billi didn't actually start it...certainly did the more obvious step to *humans*, but not what would actually instigate a fight for cats (been there many times). Looks like Guppy did that (which isn't unexpected, given that it was new territory for her.) But still - not really fair to say Billi started it. Also, I doubt Guppy is 14 yrs old like Billi...glad they're getting along ok now, but I hope Billi is still getting her own uninterrupted space and territory.

  • @JordanSkinner314
    @JordanSkinner314 Рік тому +1346

    Billi communicated during conflict better than most humans do 😂 I bet she really appreciated having the buttons to express her frustration and know that she was heard by her human.

    • @zeedo666
      @zeedo666 Рік тому +33

      I wonder if the cat's stress levels really go down or not if they get they are understood by their human. Is there any scientific research on it?

    • @meiru2453
      @meiru2453 Рік тому +77

      @@zeedo666 Well, this channel is pretty much a research. There's a video where Billi presses buttons that her tummy aches and when Kendra went to check on her she pressed "happy" and then demanded pets.

    • @TheScandoman
      @TheScandoman Рік тому +41

      @@meiru2453 If you binge all of Billi's videos, it's pretty informative.
      If you have some time, I recommend it, thinking about it as you observe her behavior.
      I'll let you make your own observations.

    • @starrainYT
      @starrainYT Рік тому +1

      Yes scandoman I agree I binge these videos cuss I have 3 cats teaches me alot

    • @TheScandoman
      @TheScandoman Рік тому +8

      @@zeedo666 A little...there is a lot of UN-scientific research, and even more UN-scientific analysis; some of it conducted by actual scientists who should know better!
      I had a friend who was an athletic coach, dealing with both males and females, who once said: that it wasn't possible to "teach strategy to women!"; my response was that it wasn't possible FOR *HIM* to do it!...because I already knew that *I could!*

  • @mizlia
    @mizlia Рік тому +1595

    Billi looked like she was thinking really hard after "Guppy mad"! I wonder if that gave her a little perspective on Guppy

    • @NeaEmrys
      @NeaEmrys Рік тому +361

      yes, it was like she was thinking 'other cats can be mad too?'!!!

    • @originalismisacrock166
      @originalismisacrock166 Рік тому +305

      Billi really did look taken aback and had to ponder that. Sometimes the silences are every bit as fascinating as the words and their combinations.

    • @Cloxxki
      @Cloxxki Рік тому +189

      In the hierarchy of emotionally aware beings, that's quite a step to take. Seeing that others are like self, and go through emotions. They're not just annoying external factors to be bullied into feeding and grooming us in the exact right way and at the exact right time.
      Mila the cat can communicate through buttons that her sibling needs to go potty. How the dogs tell each other...might be the subtle imaging method used by animal communicators.

    • @travelwell6049
      @travelwell6049 Рік тому +24

      I thought the same

    • @PyrettasPet
      @PyrettasPet Рік тому +60

      Kitty empathy 💕

  • @flamingfenux
    @flamingfenux Рік тому +537

    Mom: “Guppy Mad.”
    Billi : 👀 “good.”

  • @FluorescentPhnix1
    @FluorescentPhnix1 Рік тому +561

    Guppy is like, I'm not touching you~ while being in Billi's space.

    • @ADHDJellybean-LawNerd
      @ADHDJellybean-LawNerd Рік тому +6

      Reminds me of Stitch in Lilo and Stitch. Haha

    • @howling_starr
      @howling_starr Рік тому +20

      I've found that cats can be incredibly petty and passive aggressive lol. Our youngest male, about a year and a half old at the time, was basically my 10 year old gal's stalker when they lived together. He'd never attack her, he'd never even touch her, but he was _always_ skulking nearby watching her, constantly stealing her sleeping/sitting spots if she got up for something, etc. There was never outright hostility from him, just constant petty annoyances that drove her crazy.

  • @tdelphia1
    @tdelphia1 Рік тому +699

    I want to point out that when saying “Billi started it” at the beginning Billi’s sole piece of territory, her word mats, was being staked out by Guppy. And Billie is at a serious disadvantage already….no home, no dad…of course she is going to get annoyed if Guppy essentially takes away Billi’s words and then mom is chastising her for it. Lovely to see them as friends later!

    • @firegaze21
      @firegaze21 Рік тому +99

      That’s what I was thinking. Billi didn’t like seeing Guppy in her word space.

    • @solidonaso
      @solidonaso Рік тому +2

      why does her not having dad put her at a disadvantage? she has mom. weird take

    • @pggi1564
      @pggi1564 Рік тому +97

      @@solidonaso I think they just mean that Billi misses her dad a lot. There's another video where Billi is constantly asking for dad even though mom is there

    • @helenanilsson5666
      @helenanilsson5666 Рік тому +101

      @@solidonaso In addition to what pggi said, having Dad around would increase Billi's "crew". In the videos Guppy has the numerically superior gang with a Mom and a Dog, while Billi only has a Mom - all while they are stuck in Guppy's home territory. Sometimes just Mom isn't quite enough and "we're deep in enemy territory and someone in our gang is missing" is one of those times.

    • @samwalker8893
      @samwalker8893 Рік тому

      @@solidonasoif you watch the relationship and history billi clearly places “dad” and “mom” solely in their own categories. I think the huge swathe of change for billi all at once must be hard. Remember when changing food/litter etc you piece them together day by day. In one day billi was taken, moved at least five times, force separated from her “dad” and now stopped in with another cat, who appears to want to take or at least use, the ONE remaining link billi has to normality- her buttons. You can see why and how she was / is so possessive

  • @star2705
    @star2705 Рік тому +175

    Billi has the ultimate "I'm traumatized, feel sorry for me" face.

  • @saralynn518
    @saralynn518 Рік тому +396

    This is in my top ten Billi vids now. When she first tells you she’s mad, it’s “mad” as in bring the shot glasses, mom! I need a double shot of chicken broth or tuna water. This kid is drivin me nuts!

    • @BilliSpeaks
      @BilliSpeaks  Рік тому +151

      “Get off my lawn!” - Billi

    • @saralynn518
      @saralynn518 Рік тому +32

      @@BilliSpeaks SO true! I feel like Billi often. “Where are your parents?!” Then one tries to bite me and Billie in the butt! Open a can of whoop…makes sure they get in trouble by proceeding to lecture children about safety and walk them home to talk with parents (or nap with them if Billie). She did snitch though. Tough exterior/soft heart 💜

    • @LugborG
      @LugborG Рік тому +10

      @@BilliSpeaks This is MY lawn now, so get off it!

    • @CrankyBarista
      @CrankyBarista Рік тому +21

      Yes! I noticed on other channels where cats talk through buttons (like Russell from catmanjohn) they get extremely protective of them.
      Which makes total sense. A talking cat not able to use their buttons would be like a deaf human who uses sign language having their hands tied behind their back.

    • @TieDyeVikki
      @TieDyeVikki Рік тому +5

      @@CrankyBarista That's a good analogy. I've said before that deciding to get buttons is a huge commitment, because once they have them, taking them away for any reason would be cruel and frustrating, akin to cutting out a human's tongue. But in my scenario the human could at least still communicate by writing and/or signing. In your scenario, the human couldn't do either of those things, so it's a better comparison. So I may steal your analogy if I ever again make such a post! :)

  • @gryphonmazeandfranklintalk3079
    @gryphonmazeandfranklintalk3079 Рік тому +93

    The wide-eyed look after you said that Guppy was mad made me laugh so hard. "It has feelings!?" Billi probably.

  • @justanerdyhobbitgirl
    @justanerdyhobbitgirl Рік тому +69

    Her face after you pushed "guppy mad" 😆 she was like, wait others can be mad too?

  • @sandijohnson2216
    @sandijohnson2216 Рік тому +694

    Yay! Progress. Billie looked so annoyed at first - her little face was so easy to read. 😂

  • @CuriousCabinet
    @CuriousCabinet Рік тому +475

    The feeling you get when your pets choose closeness for the first time still doesn’t have a big enough word to describe it! Also, excellent bed resource management, there’s at least 15% left for you 😂

    • @BilliSpeaks
      @BilliSpeaks  Рік тому +148

      😂😂😂 they’re so generous 😂

    • @violetviolet888
      @violetviolet888 Рік тому +15

      @@BilliSpeaks 0:37 No. *Guppy was in Billi's territory of buttons.* Billi was walking by and Guppy was the one being antagonistic by being ready in pounce position. GUPPY was the instigator. Billi was defending herself. Watch it again. With cats you have to think like a cat. Billi was minding her own business until forced to deal with an attack. 1:48 Again, *Billi* is defending herself, all she's doing is sitting there. It's Guppy who literally walks up to Billi initiating aggression forcing Billi to defend where she already was. Watch closely.

  • @KorilD
    @KorilD Рік тому +625

    Billi trying to play is so cute! She’s making the best of it!

    • @naylisyazwina6836
      @naylisyazwina6836 Рік тому +2

      she got so tired so quickly with the mouth open it seems but she is old

  • @Ruhma.
    @Ruhma. Рік тому +226

    She extrapolated the meaning of 'play' to the playful fighting with Guppy, so she knows exactly what play means...beyond what you've taught her. She understands the spirit of the word! Wow, Billi! 😻😻

  • @fnaffreak_87
    @fnaffreak_87 Рік тому +157

    Bruh guppy and Billie is most sibling stuff.
    “Mad, mad... cat”

  • @CampingforCool41
    @CampingforCool41 Рік тому +18

    It’s so cute how Billi wants to tell you her feelings as she interacts with another cat. “Mad” like a kid with their sibling lol

  • @voiceojane
    @voiceojane Рік тому +350

    There’s something really profound about your cat explaining her intention to you after the behavior (play). It seems beyond just expressing “mad” in the moment. Please let us know if she presses “Guppy friend” or something like that!

    • @BilliSpeaks
      @BilliSpeaks  Рік тому +135

      I’ll be so shocked I’ll definitely share!

    • @maaalene
      @maaalene Рік тому +30

      Usually she uses "play" to ask for play. I was wondering if this could be interpreted differently. I am thinking maybe she wanted to play with Kendra instead of the fight with Guppy.

    • @graciep.6984
      @graciep.6984 Рік тому +2

      @@maaalene That’s what I thought.

  • @yaboicolleen
    @yaboicolleen Рік тому +193

    "Guppy starts it by being annoying, Billi starts it by STARTING it" perfectly describes how my Milk Dud interacts with other cats. It must be a tortie thing 😂 now if only she'd stop starting it with Simba and Chester, it's been a couple months now...

    • @sabinekoch3448
      @sabinekoch3448 Рік тому +6

      One lives in hope…🤗

    • @brigidtheirish
      @brigidtheirish Рік тому +2

      Apparently, there have been studies showing a correlation between the tortie and calico patterns and higher aggression. Given that both patterns are almost exclusively *female,* I'm curious if the researchers took sex into account.

  • @danpitzer765
    @danpitzer765 Рік тому +80

    Awwwww.
    I think part of the initial issue (at least on camera) was a sort of 'those are MY buttons, Guppy!'

  • @cherifroehling6593
    @cherifroehling6593 Рік тому +55

    I love her look when you tell her Guppy is mad! The expression: why the hell is Guppy mad?!?! I’m the one being tormented!!!

  • @TheWendybird123
    @TheWendybird123 Рік тому +105

    It's hard for a grown cat to be introduced into another cat's territory. But cousins are great once you get to know each other! Glad Billi decided she likes Guppy after all. ❤‍🩹😻

    • @casdeanwinchester483
      @casdeanwinchester483 Рік тому +8

      Yeah it can take time. It took a moth for my girl to accept her brother while he was in a basecamp.she was 3 and he 1 year old from a cat shelter .
      But after that time .They have been best friends and they have never fougt each other once in their life

  • @amelialoyselle2123
    @amelialoyselle2123 Рік тому +64

    I dunno, I've been in that situation where the big cousin is like "yeah we were totally playing" while saying bold faced LIES. 🤣😅 That felt like a very "nooooo mom I wasn't instigating, we were just playing, RIGHT Guppy?" Whether that was real or fake play, their actual play is super cute. Billi warms up to little ones~

    • @pjp9383
      @pjp9383 Рік тому +15

      I have to say, that was my suspicion too ... like, Billi had probably been pretty consistently chastised for "starting it" with Guppy, so tried to play it off as "Don't worry Mom, just kidding around with my cuz!"

    • @brigidtheirish
      @brigidtheirish Рік тому +1

      I wouldn't be at all surprised given she's a *cat.*

  • @PeterT1981
    @PeterT1981 Рік тому +49

    A astonishing. I would not believe it unless I saw it. I’m now convinced it’s not just coincidence and biased interpretation of action. Billie is really using the English language to communicate.

    • @dwsel
      @dwsel Рік тому +11

      Nice that you stayed with us here 😊👍

    • @t.k.5088
      @t.k.5088 Рік тому +20

      I watched this like four times in a row. She's clearly recognizing guppy as a cat, saying when she's annoyed by her and later explaining the difference between "mad" interactions and "play" interactions. It's amazing. _She's_ amazing.

    • @TieDyeVikki
      @TieDyeVikki Рік тому +1

      Glad you've come around, good to hear. Now tell that to the other naysayers... maybe they'll pay more attention to a former skeptic. :)

  • @caroldefreese5499
    @caroldefreese5499 Рік тому +57

    Cat dynamics can be so very complex, and the bottom line for peaceful coexistence always seems to be mutual trust. It's great to see that Billi and Guppy are starting to figure out their relationship.

  • @mirjanbouma
    @mirjanbouma Рік тому +106

    Guppy is such a cute name for a cat. And a pretty cat too!

    • @BilliSpeaks
      @BilliSpeaks  Рік тому +81

      She’s lucky she’s cute! Her nickname is Demon, for reasons that probably don’t need explanation

    • @kellypatterson4412
      @kellypatterson4412 Рік тому +9

      My niece has a bunny she named guppy

    • @mirjanbouma
      @mirjanbouma Рік тому +5

      @@BilliSpeaks I cannot imagine why she has such a nickname 😂

    • @meemurthelemur4811
      @meemurthelemur4811 Рік тому +5

      @@BilliSpeaks I had a cat that was referred to as THE Demon by our vet🤣

    • @the_phuckery_is_real7252
      @the_phuckery_is_real7252 Рік тому +7

      @@meemurthelemur4811 Lol. The moment you see the vet putting the giant red sticker on the charts to warn everyone that armor is needed for that combat situation. I felt that. My Charlie is referred to as Satan by the vet and the techs. Honestly, she's just a love bug 🤭

  • @Stevie_B_0828
    @Stevie_B_0828 Рік тому +15

    I like when random buttons are accidentally pushed when there's a frenzy of paws making way thru the field of buttons when the cats are going wild. LOL. Like a scene from an old Kung Foo movie with bad lip synch. 😁😁😁

  • @alisaforster28691
    @alisaforster28691 6 місяців тому +5

    I'm binge watching billie's best moments rn after I heard the news 😢. RIP Billie, you were loved by so many. You will never be forgotten. Her videos and her intellect eternalized her.

  • @saraquill
    @saraquill Рік тому +63

    I'm just waiting for Guppy and Daphne to learn buttons like "food" and "now." Also waiting to see if Mom or Aunt will get held hostage (sat on) by all three at once.

  • @cyrilio
    @cyrilio Рік тому +28

    Billis face after you told her Guppy was mad! 😂

  • @jtidema
    @jtidema Рік тому +16

    This one had it all... action, drama, acceptance... even chase scenes! Billi is amazing.

  • @travelwell6049
    @travelwell6049 Рік тому +69

    I thought when Guppy followed Billi under the sofa that dhe just wanted to play.
    Then there was the moment when you said “Guppy Mad” and Billi took a moment to think about Guppy’s feelings for a moment and not just her own. After that she changed her mind about coexistence.

  • @AshyGr33n
    @AshyGr33n Рік тому +6

    2:48 We know predatory animals play-fight as both practice and entertainment, but it does hit different when the animal stops the play-fighting just to tell you about it.

  • @ToriHalfon
    @ToriHalfon Рік тому +25

    Poor Billi, this has been a really traumatic move. So much change. That’s really hard for old ladies. My 15 year old kitty was so upset from moving from her only home that she made herself very sick and passed away. She had been so healthy before that. Billi is amazing how she’s handling all the upheaval! Maybe because she can communicate with her buttons. Sending love Billi, hang in there!

    • @TieDyeVikki
      @TieDyeVikki Рік тому +2

      Yeah but she's used to it, because they move every year for Kendra's job.

    • @TieDyeVikki
      @TieDyeVikki Рік тому +2

      Oh, I somehow missed that part about losing your kitty... my condolences, it's always tough..... :'(

    • @deprofundis3293
      @deprofundis3293 Рік тому +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss...😞💔 Lost my baby a few months ago and am still really torn up.

  • @PennySue
    @PennySue Рік тому +21

    Stop touching me! I'm not touching you, you were touching me! 😅❤🐾💜

    • @BilliSpeaks
      @BilliSpeaks  Рік тому +15

      Little siblings of all species know the “I’m not touching you!” game 😹

    • @PennySue
      @PennySue Рік тому +6

      @@BilliSpeaks The end was precious and we adore Billi and her cute cousin too! ❤🐾💜

  • @patmaurer8541
    @patmaurer8541 Рік тому +24

    Wow! When you told her, "I don't think she knew you were trying to play." She changed her demeanor! The butt wiggle and, as soon as Guppy rolled over ('ready to gut enemy' move), Billie walked off. She basically spoke 'cat' so Guppy understood her. Billie is bilingual!

    • @nckojita
      @nckojita Рік тому +12

      yeah this video was honestly super interesting to watch! from the “guppy mad” which billi seemed to understand a little, to her pressing the play button when guppy ran off and owner pressed “guppy hi”. she also seemed to understand when told guppy didn’t know she wanted to play, because the switch to trying to communicate friendly playfulness was super apparent! she almost seemed to overact it a bit, like she was trying to make sure it couldn’t be misunderstood at all.
      the neat thing about this buttons study is getting to see how our pets think, it really is just so interesting. you can totally see how they have similar cognitive ability & sense of self to a small child. the body language is different (because, well, they’re cats) but this reminds me so much of a pair of toddlers working out a relationship

  • @sketchyskies8531
    @sketchyskies8531 Рік тому +42

    Aw hello Guppy! Nice to meet you

  • @Gikkiann
    @Gikkiann Рік тому +7

    Look, I just love how Billie can not only communicate her satisfaction with Guppy going upstairs, but when you told her she was being aggressive it’s like she took your advice?! And tried a different method of play by pouncing like a kitten? And napping with Guppy?! Your cat took your advice and acted on it? And even solved her conflict with it?! It’s like she went to cat counseling!

  • @sentienttapioca5409
    @sentienttapioca5409 Рік тому +5

    The impatient 'Kids!' when Billie starts a fight with Guppy sounds just like an exasperated parent lol

  • @BattyBigSister
    @BattyBigSister Рік тому +21

    I'm so glad they made friends in the end.

  • @kristineteall368
    @kristineteall368 Рік тому +43

    I swear I saw what looked like remorse on Billie’s face when Guppy was taken upstairs and you told her Guppy was also mad. She’s so expressive! After all, it seemed like Guppy was just trying to be friends throughout their interactions, although to Billie, annoyingly so! 🤣 I could bet money, Billie felt bad for getting her in trouble. It’s like watching two siblings fighting.

    • @TieDyeVikki
      @TieDyeVikki Рік тому +7

      Yeah I thought I saw that too, like "oops, my bad". Suddenly she realizes Guppy has feelings too and maybe she needs to take them into consideration!

    • @brigidtheirish
      @brigidtheirish Рік тому +3

      @@TieDyeVikki Or realized, "Right, I'm in *her* territory."

    • @TieDyeVikki
      @TieDyeVikki Рік тому +7

      @@brigidtheirish True! Billi considers her buttons her territory, but was forgetting they currently reside in Guppy's territory.

    • @brigidtheirish
      @brigidtheirish Рік тому +8

      @@TieDyeVikki And territory can be a complicated thing with cats. They tend to time-share. A particular backyard might be one cat's territory in the morning and another cat's territory in the afternoon. You'll see it with indoor cats in how they'll take turns napping on a particular shelf and such. All that's after the cats are used to having other cats around and negotiate time-shares. Billi's used to being the only cat, so she needed reminding.

    • @nckojita
      @nckojita Рік тому +3

      @@brigidtheirish yep! solo cats grow used to all things being “my territory”, and when adding in a second one it can definitely take them some time to adjust to many of them becoming “my territory right now” and even more so when things become “our territory”. for a senior cat that’s unused to such things billie is doing incredibly well!

  • @CarJul666
    @CarJul666 Рік тому +11

    Billi realised that Guppy could be mad too. And playing with another cat is fun. Good girl Billi.🥰

  • @scoston8884
    @scoston8884 Рік тому +11

    It's always work to introduce cats to new housemates. They are territorial and have a social order of Me and Mine. Glad to see that Billie and Guppy worked it out.

  • @mycreativeheart4159
    @mycreativeheart4159 Рік тому +166

    Wow!! That's amazing Kendra!!💞 Over a span of how many days did it take Billi and Guppy to play??? And then to sleep together?? Do you think having her word buttons helped Billi with the stress during this adjustment time??? Just being able to communicate with you looks like it would have made it easier/less stressful for Billi.

    • @BilliSpeaks
      @BilliSpeaks  Рік тому +180

      This was over a couple of weeks! Takes time 💕 I do think the buttons helped, at least with tattling on Guppy 😂

    • @mycreativeheart4159
      @mycreativeheart4159 Рік тому +74

      @@BilliSpeaks thanks Kendra. It's good to have a realistic estimate for change. A couple weeks seems quite quick for a cat to change her ways. Billi actually tattled on Guppy??!! True cat pettiness... lol!!!

    • @johannageisel5390
      @johannageisel5390 Рік тому +62

      @@BilliSpeaks We need to know more about that tattling.

    • @matthewdunham1689
      @matthewdunham1689 Рік тому +19

      ​@@BilliSpeaks🤣😃❤️😃🤣😃❤️🤣

    • @marindareed8301
      @marindareed8301 Рік тому +22

      They will end up best buds and partners in crime in short order.
      Does Guppy show any interest in utilizing the buttons?

  • @MichaelLeeOne
    @MichaelLeeOne Рік тому +10

    I am glad to see them getting along. I have a stray here that has been coming in the cat door for food and warmth and my other cats are slowly becoming more tolerant of him.

  • @ninjag-o-g3150
    @ninjag-o-g3150 Рік тому +4

    3:32 aww, look at her winking!

  • @acatnamedm4529
    @acatnamedm4529 Рік тому +17

    An addition to the Billiverse we are all here for! Welcome Guppy

  • @TeamCat1128
    @TeamCat1128 Рік тому +19

    Billi didn’t want Guppy touching her buttons!

    • @dwsel
      @dwsel Рік тому +9

      Poor Billi, I know how it's like to have an annoying cousin using your private things while you're there on the vacations 🙁 And you totally want to shred her to the tiniest pieces 😒😈
      Dang... That's been like almost 30 years ago 😮🙈😂

  • @user-dg9pu4pe9d
    @user-dg9pu4pe9d Рік тому +10

    It is amazing how far Billie's communication has come. Good for her making a friend.

  • @merrycatsrus3383
    @merrycatsrus3383 Рік тому +10

    When u told Billi that Guppy was mad it looked like a 💡 moment for Billi

  • @ellizaarahim
    @ellizaarahim Рік тому +15

    Billi rediscovering the kitten in her and navigating fursib relationships is a whole new adventure! Thanks for inviting us to watch along the developments!

  • @douglasharley2440
    @douglasharley2440 Рік тому +15

    billi's emotions are always so easy to read... 🤣

  • @tthappyrock368
    @tthappyrock368 Рік тому +8

    The look on Billi's face when you said Guppy was mad--priceless!

  • @joannelyn
    @joannelyn Рік тому +42

    This is freaking adorable! I'm so happy that Billi has found a friend in Guppy! Billi was right when she said she was trying to "play" with the other cat, because aggression would be part of that kind of one upmanship, territorial lines, etc. I was surprised to see Billi being an aggressor, but I guess that is her expression of "Mad!" coming out lol 🐈🐈💕🐾🐾

  • @andreahultman8272
    @andreahultman8272 Рік тому +21

    It’s so interesting how your voice and your sister’s voice are so similar!

    • @andreahultman8272
      @andreahultman8272 Рік тому +4

      What a lovely breakthrough with Billi and Guppy!! ::tearing up:: 🥹😍

    • @BilliSpeaks
      @BilliSpeaks  Рік тому +20

      We look very similar as well, constantly mistaken for twins!

    • @andreahultman8272
      @andreahultman8272 Рік тому +4

      @@BilliSpeaks My sister and I do too, especially when her hair is dark. And our voices are alike. ☺️

  • @mindhackz
    @mindhackz Рік тому +16

    00:37 Actually what happens here was her reacting to the other cat being near her buttons which she perceives as her territory. She didn’t start anything. Just defending her area in her view.

    • @deprofundis3293
      @deprofundis3293 Рік тому +1

      Agree. I do think it's an impressive expression of how Billi communicated, but she wasn't the true instigator.

  • @wordnerd5668
    @wordnerd5668 Рік тому +33

    If you’re lucky, cousins are like bonus siblings. Alas, siblings can also be quite annoying.

  • @goldenmightyena2479
    @goldenmightyena2479 Рік тому +2

    I'm sure you know - sleeping is a communal activity for cats! I'm glad to see Billi is settling in with her cousins and starting to get along!!

  • @Nickolas_Baranski
    @Nickolas_Baranski Рік тому +1

    Billy is a tsundere confirmed 👌
    But this is unreal - to have a full-blown conversation with your cat to the point of arguing and solving problems together...

  • @anicoleww
    @anicoleww Рік тому +3

    It’s amazing how sometimes even animals need reminding “they are just like you” “they have feelings too” lol

  • @oneminuteofmyday
    @oneminuteofmyday Рік тому +3

    2:19 I was half expecting Billi to whip out a “So?” button. lol

  • @L7540
    @L7540 Рік тому +7

    everyone has that one relative that is annoying as hell but you can't stop loving them

  • @erinbernstein6843
    @erinbernstein6843 Рік тому +6

    Need to demo guppy wilding out: Guppy no settle Billie mad!

  • @sherriv8615
    @sherriv8615 Рік тому +4

    Wow - I think it helped that Billi could express how she felt - she felt heard and respected - and also that you explained Guppy's actions and feelings to her - "Guppy is mad" "I don't think that Guppy understood you were trying to play" - Billi continues to amaze me with her high level of intelligence

  • @NeaEmrys
    @NeaEmrys Рік тому +40

    Aww Billi might actually get along with another cat someday, from watching this, I think she enjoyed the playing when they actually got that far. Maybe if she got a extra respectful kitten sibling, she might love it - who knows eh.

  • @stanclark8824
    @stanclark8824 Рік тому +4

    the fact that billi knows words says a lot about animals. they really understand. so freaking cute and I want one of those when I get a pet when I start working from home!

  • @quoting_mungo
    @quoting_mungo Рік тому +1

    Guppy and Billi can bond over “mad.” 😂 Common ground.

  • @eh1702
    @eh1702 Рік тому +33

    Bili is maybe wondering if this is the destination and her ultimate fate: well, if she’s gonna have to live with a cat, she’s gonna be Too Cat! (She just forgot that she’s not as young or athletic as she used to be.)

    • @eh1702
      @eh1702 Рік тому +10

      Top Cat!

    • @LindaVernon
      @LindaVernon Рік тому +1

      ​@@eh1702 Aww. I thought "Too Cat" was a great description. Never occurred to me that it was a typo. 😀

  • @anna-lenalott8846
    @anna-lenalott8846 Рік тому +18

    It's all about figuring out the pecking order. Billie sure is the alpha. 😂 Nice to see they got on so well at the end. ❤️

  • @meemurthelemur4811
    @meemurthelemur4811 Рік тому +90

    Do you guys see what I have to put up with now? SUPER mad!😾
    -Billi, definitely

  • @jesseostone386
    @jesseostone386 Рік тому +1

    “What a pill!” 😆😆😆😆 My mom used to say that all the time! 😂

  • @lillones
    @lillones Рік тому +3

    Billi: you bit my tail!
    Guppy: you punched me in the face!
    Billi: but you bit my tail!

  • @modobo
    @modobo Рік тому +2

    Aww I'm glad they finally played nice. I know with cats it can be a bit tricky since they're very territorial.
    Took my little girls about a month. Started with hissing and growling then they went to snuggling oddly enough.

  • @catflower_queen7497
    @catflower_queen7497 Рік тому +5

    It is cool to see Billi use her buttons to comment and communicate about the other animals.

  • @fairylovr33
    @fairylovr33 Рік тому +18

    I feel like I’m behind the mirror in every one of Billi’s videos. Taking so much in. This is so absolutely wonderful for all the reasons ♥️

  • @TheUncleRuckus
    @TheUncleRuckus Рік тому +6

    The mad button got me, Billi is like damn cat is making me mad. 😂

  • @lilsuzq32
    @lilsuzq32 Рік тому +6

    *_THIS_* is entertainment!!! So glad Billi has her buttons, she's gonna be using them a lot I think 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Ave_Echidna
    @Ave_Echidna Рік тому +10

    Billie is just protecting her words from the bully

  • @Superduperscribble
    @Superduperscribble Рік тому +4

    Billi: if you start pressing my buttons then I'll start pressing my actual buttons

  • @Lanoira13
    @Lanoira13 Рік тому

    Eeeeeek, Billi taking the feedback when told she might be being too aggressive when trying to play and backing off and being more chill later is so awesome.

  • @SevCaswell
    @SevCaswell Рік тому +4

    I love that the first time Billi really tried to play she oops-ed on 'hug' which is kinda how I see cats play-wrestling, it's the cat version of a hug.

  • @meganbarber3599
    @meganbarber3599 Рік тому +2

    I was about to need a mad button! No one and nothing better hurt Billi! Glad they worked it out in the end.

  • @ashh4929
    @ashh4929 Рік тому +2

    "Guppy mad."
    Billie "....AND?!" Lol 🤣💜

  • @blkbrn1952
    @blkbrn1952 11 місяців тому +1

    Just like a bunch of kids, lol.

  • @amandasidebottom4719
    @amandasidebottom4719 3 місяці тому

    My cat Jack loves this video. I started training him with a button a few years ago which he would press for treats, and 5 days ago I set up the talking buttons. Jack already has 10 words that he has used! His favorite button is Pets. We miss you Billi, and ty Billi's mom for these videos. Jack watching them with me helped him with his training!

  • @IloveyouLenaKatina
    @IloveyouLenaKatina Рік тому +1

    This is fascinating. Its like trying to have a playdate with toddlers where you can at least communicate with one of them. :)

  • @MadlyNadly
    @MadlyNadly 10 місяців тому

    So cool to watch the transition from "mad" to "play." Good for Billi!

  • @elliot_rat
    @elliot_rat Рік тому +4

    i just realized, imagine how amazing it would be for two cats to use the buttons to communicate with each other

  • @TheForeignersNetwork
    @TheForeignersNetwork Рік тому +10

    Aw I'm so glad they're getting along now 😭💕

  • @kaykay8100
    @kaykay8100 Рік тому +1

    Guppy started it, she lowered her head in aggression 😂

  • @Endless.nightmare-dfi
    @Endless.nightmare-dfi Рік тому +13

    i love how billi confirmed to mom like “don’t worry mom, we were just playing” sometimes playing with cats can look or sound intense, my grandma’s old kittens played but one would always whine when she was loosing 😂, i knew she wasn’t hurt because after her sister/cousin got off she tackled her.
    idk if guppy did know during that interaction tho, my one cat often does that; my other cats won’t know he’s just trying to play (mostly when we first got him, my other male was pretty territorial with him especially since he was smaller then Romeo [playful cat in question]) thankfully now mine only growls at Romeo when he wants to be alone or when he’s protecting me (he protects me when i try to sleep at night ❤)

    • @casdeanwinchester483
      @casdeanwinchester483 Рік тому +3

      This sound like my girl and her brother. She always start the play and she whines then she is sbout to lose a wrestling match. But she sometimes want to continue to play with him..

    • @brigidtheirish
      @brigidtheirish Рік тому +2

      A lot of young animals seem to do this, make a fuss as if they're hurt during a play fight to make the other back off, then go in for the attack! It's like they're practicing strategy.

    • @Endless.nightmare-dfi
      @Endless.nightmare-dfi Рік тому +2

      @@brigidtheirish yeah that is true, i don’t remember if my kitten did it when we first got her but i believe so; hard to tell since our cat (Romeo) was much bigger then her when they started playing together. i believe Macie (one of the kittens) grew out of it before she unfortunately caught a feline specific disease and had to be put down

    • @brigidtheirish
      @brigidtheirish Рік тому

      @@Endless.nightmare-dfi Aww. Poor Marcie.

    • @nckojita
      @nckojita Рік тому +1

      @@brigidtheirish that definitely is part of what they’re doing! they also tend to be quite vocal when young bc they’re all still learning bite/claw inhibition and how much is too much ^^ like “this is a little uncomfortable, let up please”! very cute

  • @vjc2270
    @vjc2270 Рік тому +3

    Billi reminds me of my little tortie girl. She has two fur-brothers who constantly ‘annoy’ her by doing things like breathing and walking about…and the next thing you know, all three of them are curled up together as happy as can be!

  • @katrinarose2210
    @katrinarose2210 Рік тому +2

    The Billi butt wiggle tho 🥺 to die for

  • @janemiettinen5176
    @janemiettinen5176 Рік тому +1

    This was precious! At no point there was real anger, both girls had tails up and ears forward. Limits had to be tested, of course, but I think they honestly enjoy each other, trust comes with time. And dont we all have at least one friend who makes us lil bit mad sometimes, very relatable :)

  • @juliakovacs4885
    @juliakovacs4885 Рік тому +6

    Lol for a while it looked like Billi was plotting to put out a hit on Guppy!

  • @asheekitty9488
    @asheekitty9488 Рік тому +1

    This just proves cats do understand.

  • @AmyMichelleWiley
    @AmyMichelleWiley Рік тому +1

    Aww, I’m happy they are starting to feel safe near each other.

  • @IntrepidFraidyCat
    @IntrepidFraidyCat Рік тому +10

    All snuggly at the end 😻💕

  • @Okiepharmer
    @Okiepharmer Рік тому +3

    Lol! Billie starts it by starting it! I hope I remember this.