FEAR: Is it holding you back in your riding??

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  • Опубліковано 3 лют 2025

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  • @lynncobb3109
    @lynncobb3109 2 роки тому +1

    “Tools in your tool box” - I have used this term for so many years. I love the visual :))

  • @TheGinny77
    @TheGinny77 4 роки тому +8

    Thank you. The poem made me cry because I’m dealing with a bit of lack of confidence. Need to print it out and hang it in my tack locker!

  • @stephaniehansen5345
    @stephaniehansen5345 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Amelia for beautiful poem! So articulate, honest and inspiring. The confidence building is so timely. I'm riding this weekend after a 2 year hiatus and a couple of unfortunate encounters. Thank so much!

  • @pkchateau8654
    @pkchateau8654 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for your beautiful heartfelt poem and inspiration, Amelia. To my horse I promise to wonder first and use a questioning observational stance when we are having struggles getting something correct together; I promise to give you the benefit of the doubt, and to always remember that tomorrow is another day.

  • @lucylotto7281
    @lucylotto7281 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for for your thoughtful poem. I printed this (with reference to you and your website) and posted in my small dressage barn I own. I'm sure others will find this peaceful and beneficial as do I.

  • @louebegg3623
    @louebegg3623 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you. To my horse I promise to trust in myself to be her leader.

  • @mmchapman5419
    @mmchapman5419 4 роки тому +2

    I admire you, Amelia. Your passion for horses, riding and pouring your knowledge and experience into others is impressive and appreciated. And sharing a poem in any setting is brave - you’ve taken this to a new level. Bravo!🥰

  • @the_soundofhooves
    @the_soundofhooves 4 роки тому +1

    Absolutely beautiful poem, thank you for sharing!

  • @dawnmcmenamin6192
    @dawnmcmenamin6192 4 роки тому +1

    Timely! Thank you

  • @stephaniesmith5974
    @stephaniesmith5974 4 роки тому +1

    That was so beautiful Amelia. You are so right about getting hurt if you have ridden for years. I have been badly hurt-air lifted one and last summer broke all my ribs (my big girl Scarlet spooked swiftly and widely at a trot near a corn field) and I flew in the air and landed hard. I broke all of my ribs and was hospitalized. I couldn’t wait to get out of the hospital and ride again-why is that? Yesterday I had to cross a road twice to get to a trail. Each crossing, just by chance, a huge truck with come by with round bales and another shiny silver car sped past me and my older quiet mare just lost it but even tho I was panicked inside, you have to stay so calm, comforting and reassuring in these moments. But we still get on. We still continue to learn. Ty for sharing ur wealth of knowledge! I so appreciate you!

    • @AmeliaNewcombDressage
      @AmeliaNewcombDressage  4 роки тому

      Thank you for sharing Stephanie! Why is that that we want to get bak on?!

  • @maureenbrock6903
    @maureenbrock6903 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you Amelia, you are so helpful and have helped me get over my first fear "hump" as an adult ammy. Looking forward to your next Sunday zoom!

  • @lindaokeefe2201
    @lindaokeefe2201 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks so much. I love your inspiration and passion to help others.

  • @kimelliott3687
    @kimelliott3687 4 роки тому +1

    This is awesome Amelia! To my horse I promise to be confident, gentle and relaxed ❤️🐴

  • @worththewait8349
    @worththewait8349 4 роки тому +4

    LOVE this Amelia. And I love the poem too.

  • @thaisferia430
    @thaisferia430 4 роки тому +1

    Sooo beautiful and inspiring! Thank you for sharing this beautiful poem.

  • @charmainemckinney4064
    @charmainemckinney4064 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks Amelia

  • @hildemork8146
    @hildemork8146 4 роки тому

    Beautiful! Thank you for your honesty and for sharing!!

  • @melaniehalpin1422
    @melaniehalpin1422 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for the encouragement and great tips, especially the breathing!! Like that. Wonderful poem!👍🏻 Thank you for this👏💕😀

  • @anettelober2763
    @anettelober2763 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing! Lovely poem ❤

  • @kelleynathan2734
    @kelleynathan2734 4 роки тому +1

    Wonderful poem, thank you for sharing.

  • @laurasoper8020
    @laurasoper8020 4 роки тому +1

    I love this, great advice! I loved your poem!

  • @melissawalker2793
    @melissawalker2793 4 роки тому

    I loved this, thank you

  • @PolarBears098
    @PolarBears098 22 дні тому

    Beautiful x

  • @Genxtravels1979
    @Genxtravels1979 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this xoxo

  • @33CHRISTINA33
    @33CHRISTINA33 4 роки тому

    Love it💯💕🐴

  • @AmeliaNewcombDressage
    @AmeliaNewcombDressage  4 роки тому +1

    What techniques do you use to manage your fear?

    • @sylviawilliamson8913
      @sylviawilliamson8913 4 роки тому +2

      I breathe deeply

    • @sylviawilliamson8913
      @sylviawilliamson8913 4 роки тому

      Tell myself this isn’t you other people

    • @alexkennedy1820
      @alexkennedy1820 4 роки тому

      I am always afraid. I think that is a good thing because it makes me more aware. The fear arises as soon as I get near a horse because I am aware that I can spook him or her. The moment I mount, I get nervous. I am aware that the horse could bolt as I am adjusting my stirrups. I am glad in a way that I am afraid because it makes me cautious and more aware - safer for the horse too, I like to think.

    • @loribradley5498
      @loribradley5498 4 роки тому

      Setting up a positive confidence in Mindset and relaxed breathing.

    • @marogers01
      @marogers01 4 роки тому +3

      I sing out loud, which keeps me breathing regularly. People around me think I’m nuts of course.

  • @joannarodriguez4319
    @joannarodriguez4319 4 роки тому +1

    Love it😍🤩🐎

  • @danw6014
    @danw6014 4 роки тому +1

    My horse can get pretty hot and anxious. I know that is when she needs me the most. I try to use whatever is in my environment to get to her feet. I want her to be thinking about other things. I keep my legs moving so I don't tighten up on her, and I take slow deep breaths.

  • @kerryhoward5675
    @kerryhoward5675 4 роки тому +2

    Ahhhhh l love it 🥰🥰💞😁

  • @llrayan9558
    @llrayan9558 4 роки тому +1

    fear of riding with no stirrups :(

  • @chrisbruns8052
    @chrisbruns8052 4 роки тому

    I promise to never put you in a dangerous situation!

  • @meretesrheim4867
    @meretesrheim4867 4 роки тому

    ❤️

  • @salvadoralvaropjpastor2207
    @salvadoralvaropjpastor2207 4 роки тому +1

    Yo prometo a mis caballos cuidarlos y mantenerlos conmigo hasta que se mueran. Finge vivir hasta los 38 años y Tempranillo hasta casi 33 años.. Caramelo tiene ya 24 años y Geronimo 9 años.Todavia me quedan muchos años de su compañía. Eso espero.

  • @sherylsmerker3864
    @sherylsmerker3864 4 роки тому +3

    Great poem Amellia. I truly appreciate your channel with your instruction, I feel it is mindful, sincere and based on experience. Thank you for the time and energy you spend to help all of us with our riding. If you would send me an address to send you money to help you with it, I would contribute. I don't use the internet to buy things so I an fry contribute wit GB that took. Thank you again, stay safe.

    • @sherylsmerker3864
      @sherylsmerker3864 4 роки тому +1

      The last sentence kind of went bad sorry. I would like to contribute to your channel. I really wanted to do the clinic you had but had no way to pay for it.

    • @AmeliaNewcombDressage
      @AmeliaNewcombDressage  4 роки тому

      Hi Sheryl! What is your e mail address?

    • @sherylsmerker3864
      @sherylsmerker3864 4 роки тому

      @@AmeliaNewcombDressage smerker12@gmail.com