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I really needed this today! I’m working on a plan to make a pretty huge life change and the more it feels like a real possibility, the scarier it gets. But I’m also really excited. Your story inspired me to keep going and take the risk! Whatever happens, at least I won’t regret not trying.
Pretty much most of it. This was such a wonderful pick me up & motivational story that I really needed. Thank you so much for sharing. And congrats on having the courage to build your new life :D
Thank you for sharing your journey 🙏 its very inspiring! I am from Japan, I m9ved to NYC at age 23. I fulfilled my dream in corporate career then I knew I was not completely happy just to live by myself. Then I met my husband from England in NJ. Now, we are haopiky married and ended up moving to France 🇫🇷. My new life in France is a bit challenging due to covid (and my language skill 😅) but I am ok going slow now. I enjoyed your UA-cam!!!!
Hi Diane, I did what you did but in 1977. I went to Europe as an exchange student, married a Swedish man and stayed in Sweden, with dual citizenship, for 38 years. I agree with your philosophy and am jealous that UA-cam and the internet didn't exist back then. I returned to the US at age 60. Reimmigration to the US has been tough. One obstacle is Social Security. I have a very small pension from Sweden, so I must work to qualify for SS and Medicare in the US. A word of advice is to plan for your retirement.
This is exactly where I am, with the question of retirement. I'm 42 with a secure job and excellent benefits in the U.S., but my boyfriend is French and we've been doing long-distance for 2 1/2 years now. I'm getting really tired of my job, and I really want to try finding one in France, but I won't be eligible for retirement health care from my current position if I retire before 55. I have some chronic health conditions that developed over the past year and a half and so now I have a pre-existing condition. I don't feel like I can risk losing my health benefits, given that I will want to live or at least spend significant time in the U.S. in the future. So right now it seems like my only safe option is to stay until I'm 55 at least.
as a citizen of the US aren't you automatically eligible for things like Medicaid and other social assistance programs like SNAP? Also isn't there some kind of program that would look at your taxed income regardless of the country it was in since you're a dual citizen?
I absolutely can relate to this. After college I became a police officer. 5 years into the job I came to think "Do I still want to be doing this when I'm 50?" The answer was "No", so I retrained as a primary school teacher . And that's really nothing to do with how I ended up living in France...
Hi Diane, ah ah, too funny, I did it too, we must have passed each others!! Well, 20 years ago I was living in my own apartment in the center of Paris 2e (between the Louvre and the Opera house). I had friends, family, a job, a cultural life, fun... but just like you something was missing, I was bored. I wanted to experience the American way of living. I moved to Los Angeles, CA where I had friends. I just wanted to stay there for one year. After 5 months I met my husband. We now have 2 teenage kids and live in the state of New Hampshire. Just like you I did not want to get old and have regrets. It can be a big jump in your life but I highly recommend to travel and follow your dreams.
I’m from NJ as well and studied abroad in Paris in 2019. While I can’t say I’d ever want to settle down in France, I’m really glad you found your way there. I question “is this it?” too. It’s a scary thought, but I hope I find my own France someday.
What great content Diane! This video really resonated with me. I am an Austrian who moved to London, then NYC, and now reside in Israel. Each time the move abroad was a good one for me in terms of self-development and career choice. I started a totally new career at age 45. Now, ten years into it, it was the best move yet. Keep exploring and taking risks!
@@bestlife9925 You have to work out how you would do it. That's the small steps Diane IS talking about, planning steps if you will. So start with how you would get to know new people it in a different setting in your own country, for example maybe moving to a small community rather than to a big impersonal city or taking classes or joining clubs to meet people. Then add the additional things you need to make it happen in another country for example being proficient enough in the language to make conversation easy and understand humour. Keep your links with friends in your old country, the pandemic has taught us lots of new ways to stay in touch electronically you might have to stay up late or get up early to make it happen. Lastly If you don't already feel comfortable being alone some of the time in your current life then maybe it's not for you.
Wow. Thank you Diane! This really spoke to me and got me all teary eyed. Your story is very inspiring and touches on many levels with me. So I’ve decided to make a goal and take action. I started dedicating my free time to researching France. Taking lessons, and PLAN! I live in California now with my two young kids and want so much more for them. To experience life outside the US. Whether it be temporary or permanent. It’s important for me to have my kids and myself experience a different culture, lifestyle, language etc. Thank you for speaking directly to me. It felt like we were friends chatting over coffee. Merci xo
Thanks a bunch for your words of encouragement. Means a lot. I'm taking a trip to France this summer....just to get a feel for it...i live in Florida. I totally relate to the rat race, I used to get on the parkway every morning drive 1 1/2 hours each way. Get home exhausted from the stress on the job, and come home and be a mom...phew! I retired 4 years ago...son out of the house, moved to Florida....it took me 3 years to decompress from my 30 years on that job....I'm 68 years old, have. a base in french, lived in Montreal in my younger years..looking forward to this new experience. Thanks Diane for all your do.
Good for you Carmelita! I see that you’ve done some research. Hope that you make the most of your stay.😀Do you have family or friends in France? Are you contemplating moving there?🧐
It's magical when you find something that lights you up and makes you take action. Good for you for listening to your gut, taking the leap and building a great life and business for yourself!
My experience and that of all my friends is that around the age of 25 most people have doubts about the path they are on and most of them make changes. I love your vlogs because they have intellectual substance; they stimulate thought.
Your words are very wise for your age. I am 58 and looking to retire soon. What you say is the same for people like me, change can be scary! Keep with your vlog and best to you and Tom!
I am a risk-taker and very much appreciated your narrative. If I hadn't taken risks, I would have stagnated in my home town and settled for very little. My friends and family were quite nasty and jealous when I first moved from Michigan to Texas, where I found great success and wonderful opportunities. Rather than dream about world travel, I've done it and continue to travel. I met my wonderful husband when answering another risk (a 25th high-school reunion). Moved to WA, continued my career---all good things until becoming ill and having to retire. But guess what? Retirement is a risk and an adventure and I've never been happier! Carpe diem!
I have been in that unfulfilled mindset for awhile. I am in a job is very demanding. I’m an upper level executive which means I am basically on call 24/7, checking work emails and taking work phone calls evenings and weekends, taking just two weeks of vacation a year but still being stressed while on vacation wondering what kind of crisis I will find when I get back to work after vacation. I even was in therapy for awhile, trying to figure out a way to change careers in my late 50s (which isn’t easy - ageism in the workplace does exist). And even outside work, I am just not happy with the life I live here in the US, so even the thought of retirement didn’t resonate, nor does it for my husband, who is already on early retirement in his early 60s. Then, a lightbulb went off. Our happy place is France. We travel to France every other year for about 10 days, and when I am there, it stirs my soul. So, on a lark, I started researching retiring in France, and I was surprised to find that it was actually possible. So, I discussed it with my husband, and he was as excited about the idea as I was. So, now we are working toward that goal, and we plan to move to Brittany within 3-8 years, depending on when we feel we have built our retirement money / investments to a level that we can live a comfortable (not rich) “middle class” life in France for the rest of our lives. Do we think life in France will be perfect or easy? No. Everyone has problems wherever they may live. We will just have a different set of challenges. The difference is, we are excited to face those challenges because it means that we are moving toward building the life we want rather than settling for the life we have. And in the meantime, we are invigorated as we plan and do what we can now toward that goal (such as improving our French).
I really like how you said its one small step and then another and then another small step. That's definitely the way to think about it. As a Canadian, I find we spend too much time living for the future and not enough in our present. Thanks for sharing!
That's a great message, Diane. And I whole-heartedly agree! I had the opposite journey to yours. After I was done with my studies in France, I decided I had decided to travel for a year or so. I knew that once I started with my job (whatever that might be), I would get stuck and it would be much harder to get this opportunity again. I was also unattached, though I had met this American guy over the summer (literally only one evening for 3 hours; we met in a small village in the middle of nowhere in Aveyron where I was visiting family for Le 14 Juillet). We corresponded a little, but we were not involved. Then I found out I could be an Au Pair in the US for a year, so I went for it. While I was in the US, we did get involved and eventually got married a couple of year later. If I hadn't decided to be an Au Pair for a year, we would never have met again, I imagine. I never planned on living the US. Yet I've been here for, well, it'll be 30 years in April 2021! Same thing happened with my job: I would never had gotten my current job (working for an International organization in DC) if, one day when I was still in Premiere at my Lycee, I hadn't decide to switch my 3rd language from Latin (at which I was abysmal) to Portuguese. I had such an easy time learning Portuguese that I was fluent by the time I passed my baccalaureat. And it is BECAUSE I had Portuguese in my language combination that I got hired 4 years later (been working there for 26 years now). I can still see myself almost turning back instead of going to see the Portuguese teacher and asking if I could switch languages a year late. My life would have changed dramatically if I had not walked down that long corridor. Our lives turn on a dime. You can never predict where your actions will lead to eventually. So might as well go with your gut. I like what you said: if it lights you up, it's worth your time! IF it intrigues you, it's worth your time. What's important is to be in accord with yourself. Everything else, all the difficulties will take care of themselves. If you're on the right path, things just tend to "happen" almost magically. So have confidence in your instincts and be happy, everyone!
Your story is equally as compelling. I have a daughter who is soon to graduate (US high school) and loves learning languages. She’d taken 6 years of French and is now taking Spanish. Initially she wanted to become an English as a New/Second language teacher but realized it would not allow her to learn other languages, rather teaching English to foreign speakers. She’s rethinking her University path to map a career allowing her to learn and speak other languages. I would love to know where you work. Portuguese is similar to Spanish so she could add that to her repertoire.
Great story! It is amazing how far one first step can end up taking you! I like to think of goals and life in 5 year increments - so amazing what can be accomplished in that time! I look back now and sometimes can't believe that I got all the licenses and ratings as a pilot that I actually have and took a 11 yr absence from aviation too. Still cant believe I went thru the stress of going back and now I teach corporate pilots to get their type ratings in the first business jet with a side stick - I meet crews from around the world and while it still can be stressful the money from the job has allowed us to take our family on so many adventures these past few years. My next goal is to get back in shape and learn how to fly a paramotor.
I can relate with what you said in this video. Thank you so much!!!! Specifically: "No one has to understand. Don't be held back by people in your life who aren't supportive. People project their own fears and insecurities onto others. Don't let the opinions of others affect you. You aren't alone."
Hi Diane I had the same need to spread my wings at 24, it lead me to travelling on my own and eventually moving to London. I’m now back home in Australia 20+ years later & that same wanderlust is starting to tickle my subconscious. Time for a new adventure! Thanks for the reminder to just go for it!
Bonjour Diane. Your honesty and passion for everything you do is plainly visible in this post. I especially like your statement that life in France isn’t ideal or without its challenges. But you did it and continue to do it every day. You saw an opportunity for self fulfillment and went for it every though there was no guaranteed outcome. Great for you! Your encouragement to your followers is commendable. One thing I have learned is that routine can set in no matter where one is, regardless of age. I’m having a milestone birthday this Christmas. France and things French have been a big part of my life. But cv19 has taken away the extended trip I had planned for this fall. Fortunately I went to Paris for 2 weeks this past February only to get home with covid and never ending political turmoil. But as soon as things reopen I will return. Hopefully I will be able to meet you and Tom. Bientôt... Josef in Cape May
I met my French wife over penpal club from MD USA, and when we married got her to move with me to Florida, years later and 3 boys she convince me to go live in France, been here 21 years best decision I ever made if only she could have stay alive she passed away from cancer in 2018. Still more French than ever. You made the right decision! Salut
I am watching your backstory video and I am so immensely proud of you! I’m in my late 50s and now I understand it’s something that you’re verbalizing to your audience, that is most people go through a period of reflection and thinking is this all there is? It’s very normal and I can see that being a bit older. But at the time when I was in my 20s working as a hospital nurse in pediatrics In Michigan I knew it wasn’t where I was supposed to be but I was frozen in indecision. It’s hard to make a change so you should be very proud of yourself.
Frozen in indecision - I was feeling stuck. I took a step, and then another, and haven't looked back. And I didn't even move very far away. But it's much better here.
I enjoyed this content so much. Everything you said was on point. My first trip abroad was when I was in my 20s, and I lived in Brazil for 6 months. It changed my perspective on so many things. Now I’m in my 60s and am seriously contemplating becoming an expat in France. I’m taking French lessons weekly and am devouring as many UA-cam videos on France as I can. Age will not hold me back, neither will fear. I hope my adventures will be an inspiration for my nieces, nephews and the next generation. Thank you so much for your videos and, this video in particular.
Who said the grass is not greener in the other side 🤔? You saw it, you went for it. You are one heck of a brave woman. That's what life is all about, taking risks and fulfilling your dreams. Thanks for sharing.
OH YES! I spent 22 years in corporate healthcare and was getting more and more depressed and even more so, jaded by my career choice. I quit, after some life changing experiences. I spent 3 years trying to figure out who I was and what I loved. I gave up a lot but I gained so much more. I now get paid to do what I love most. I focused on my hobbies and what brings me joy and it has lead to a wonderful new career and more importantly, a slower way of life and living each day, my way.
Cool story. Since I was 30 I always wanted to live in Spain. I went to language school for a month every year as it provided accommodations and I had people to do things with and always meet incredible people. But I did enjoy my job and family. Now approaching 60 I’m still here in probably a city in Los Angeles adjacent that people aspire to be in. Despite this I plan to follow through with a 1 year move. Have no idea what will come of it, but I can always come back. Just waiting for Covid to end as I’m still really needed at my job and I don’t want to burn any bridges I may need.
Just found this today. My friends live in Paris and was missing them but too early there to call so I thought I’d check this out. Glad I did, You had great advice, thank you. Someone once told me that inspiration or motivation does not necessarily come first, it’s action, Through action we get motivated and inspired. Sitting still waiting for inspection never works, you got to get up and just do, then you’ll get motivated and things will fall into place. Thanks for reminding me of that.
Eventually someone challenged me to make a change and I relocated to North Carolina where I live now and I return to graduate school and by pure accident I found myself working in clinical research. Looking back I realize I stayed in a stuck position too long but I did the best that I could at that time. I also look at my life in North Carolina and think I couldn’t imagine anything else. I think your Blog is very super fantastic! Keep it up.
I have often thought of relocating to North Carolina. I have been so drawn to the coast there. But, I've finally decided that it's my desired annual vacation spot, but I will stay where I am.
The only constant in life, indeed, in the known universe, is change. Happiness comes not from denying change but from expecting it, embracing it and using it to your advatadge. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liminality
This is so true! Taking that step outside one’s comfort zone and seeking fulfillment will seldom cause regret. Thank you for articulating these thoughts so well.
I turned 25 last month, but have been feeling this way for a long time. Same situation. Right now I love my job, but I have been asking myself “is this it?” very often. I have been looking at TAPIF and researching France. Even with the horror stories from UA-camrs I feel like if I don’t leave now (while I’m young, single, and without children) then IDK when I’d go. I’ve studied abroad in Paris for a month, but I never got to experience regular life in France (with responsibilities and not in a touristy place like Paris). Thank you for this video. Really took the words out of my mouth!
I really enjoyed this video. I’m a new subbie, so this backstory helped me know more about you. I find it very inspirational. You were so brave and I’m happy for you to be where you are today. I will remember this video when I need some inspiration and encouragement. I have been enjoying your videos. Keep them coming. Love from Singapore.
Great story, Diane! I lived in Latin America for more than 12 years in a Foreign Service family. Life isn’t perfect; the experiences are well worth it!
Boy can I relate. We just moved to another state. Been wanting to leave florida for a very very long time and to be honest we waited too long but it is what it is. We r now in South Carolina and loving it. No regrets. Thank you for all your videos and info.
OH MY GOSH - YOU ARE THE BEST. Who are you, seriously? Your words are so inspiring about being open to ideas...and potential change. Sending this to my sisters and girlfriends right now. Love it.
Love your story and kudos for following your gut! This is what life is ALL ABOUT. The more we say YES to the internal pulling's the more the universe shows up for us. Our lives are our message and it becomes a light for others. YAY YOU!!! ✨👍❤
So interesting!! You know that scene in Mrs Mazel when they realize that they haven't seen the mother for a while. Then they make their way to Paris and find her in an apartment with one table and one chair, smoking and developing an independent attitude?
Just found you on youtube. Thanks for your story and content. I was a French and Spanish teacher for 16 years and am doing another job in education now. I love travel and languages and miss it! Cant wait for the pandemic to end to travel again. Also, my regrets are that I didnt do more "scary" things as a young person! Thanks for encouraging others!
Excellent video! Just discovered your channel. I started a new business 2 years ago at the age of 68. Love it. Gave up my place and rented a small mother-in-law apt in a home. You have to give up an old life (or at least parts of it) to gain new life with adventure. I was periodiically working internationally before Covd hit and will again. I have a new venture I am adding on to the current one as soon as I can travel again. If you are healthy, go for it. Love your channel!
Thank you so much for this. I was a French major in college and spend my junior year abroad in Paris (also spent a month at a language school in Angers at the UCO, is that near you)? I made some haphazard connections and had the opportunity to stay on after my year, but I chose the stability of finishing up school and getting a job. Here I am about 15 years away from retirement and looking to head back to France (or another EU country, I hear Portugal is much easier to gain citizenship) once I do decide to retire. My French is still pretty good (Advanced level C2 at the Alliance Francaise) and I am looking forward to more of your videos!
Hi Diane, this video is so helpful. Yes working in a corporate job is not fulfilling. I have always wanted to live abroad. It does not just pass, it continues. I have been working in the same industry without any promotions or climbing the corporate ladder. Honestly, it's so hard to make the change. This video is very inspiring!
You have an inspiring story! It's really encouraging to me today. My family lives abroad also, and we seem to be hearing more about staying safe. No one seems to think risk is a good idea! It's nice to hear a different perspective!
I loved this video! Thank you! I'm 55 and just started graduate school. This is what I needed to hear. Also: I like how you mix up your video styles, how you do some routine-style youtube blogs mixed in with some Fb live, mixed in with more personal content, like this one. Keep up the great work! I really enjoy your stuff. I've just recently discovered you and subscribed. I love France; I've been there only once, but it really is calling me back, along with Italy, which I'm just obsessed with right now. All love!
Absolument, Diane! Merci beaucoup. Votre histoire est très inspiré pour tout le monde. You nailed it with EVERYTHING you shared. I too had a similar journey living in Dijon for 7 months, then Paris, for a bit. More concrete, sincere experiences would help many people. You're a natural orator! À bientôt !🇫🇷❣
8:42 Things got real for me ... I struggle in so many areas, with so much fear, don't know how to get unstuck...so I stay stuck in these things. I'd like to do something different, feel like I have an impact on people's lives. I'm 40 and I feel like live is going to pass me by if I keep this up. This came at the right time. I needed to hear this. Thank you ... I don't want to go into all my personal stuff in a public comment section, but please know this really hit home, and falls in line with several things I've watched, been feeling, like I'm being prepared for something. I don't know what that something is. I love your story. It's encouraging, and I think you were very brave to take that risk and just move to France to see what doors would open for you.
Hey, Diane thank you so much for sharing your story and thoughts and also that little pep talk you gave. I also just got accepted to the teaching assistance program (as Austrian in France) and I have some doubts sometimes but I think it’s the right thing to do and I am so looking forward to go to France!
Hi Diane! Love everything about your chanel! Thank u! I am long island girl! My husband is swiss French. Similar back story. You present so well, down to earth, friendly. Again Thank you! Will be looking forward to all your new vlogs and catching up on previous ones. 😊
Hi Diane! Loved your backstory- it was so uplifting. Would love to hear more about when you first moved to France and how you got along. It is on my bucket list to one day visit France!
Thank you so much for this video, Diane! It resonated so much with me, I found myself in tears. I've reached this point in life - much later than you did but I'm there now at 54. Really really have been loving your videos so much.
Diane! Such a great video. I have watched a number of your videos and have never before left a comment (because I watch them on Apple TV and it is not possible, I don't think, to leave comment via Apple TV). But for this video, I had to log on to my desktop computer to post a comment. Thank you so much for this video. I am 57 years old and for the last several years I have been entertaining the idea of moving to France (and spending the rest of my life in France). I have saved much money but financial "experts" forever seem to tell me that we always need more money. But, like you, I have reached a point in my career where I just had to do something that I wanted to do. I decide to retire and have already submitted my resignation with a retire date of Dec 15, 2021--only 1 month away now. I have things lined up for my Visa appointment (which I will be scheduling in next couple of days because then I will be
Hi Jon, first thank you so much for taking the time to leave a comment and sharing your story with me. I'm so happy this video hit home for you. I absolutely understand work taking a toll on you after a while and wanting to try something else. Your attitude is perfect -- if you come for a year or 3 or 5 and want to go somewhere else or return to the US, you've at least had the experience. I'm proud of you and I think it's admirable to take chances, so good on you! How could anyone attack you for that? NO way. You can live well on way less money here. I'm even taking my own advice here now a couple of years after making that video. My mom passed away last month as you might have seen and I know she'd want me to really LIVE and not wait for the perfect time to do something. So that's all to say, I completely understand where you're coming from. Thank you again ;-)
Thank you so much for this video, thank you. I have bo words but a great emotion of gratitude for this video and words of inspiration for moving to france and traveling euope. Thank you ✨✨✨💕❤️
Thank you Diane, that was great as was the previous video. I love the mix of subjects and how it rounds you out as a thinking, sentient person. I lived in France many years ago, and worked and travelled and went to language classes and had a good life there (that is a life which was normal and where ideas and thoughts were resolved and I moved forward). Two things occur to me looking back, firstly I loved the way French people discuss and debate things. That was culturally new for me and it is something I have valued all my life (I am in my 60's)and it is something I like to hear you doing. Secondly I found the meaning of 'travel broadens the mind' - which I believe means we become adult if we want to do so, we become thinking and empathetic and clear about ourselves and change. That is such a gift as it by-passes immature behaviours we may have had despite our age in years. So now, when I am at an age where many men and women are bewildered by retirement and world changes I have a tool box full of useful ideas and changes which lets me survive positively. I feel that you are also resourceful and tolerant of change and growth which leads me to like your channel a lot. Merci.
Hello! Having retired from a 40 year career doing so many different things in my career, I agree with you completely! One thing you said, about feedback that did not agree with and you were shut down and not heard--run from that kind of employer, partner, etc, you are not respected and it will only get much worse if you stay!! Hugs and a great vlog!
I was wondering how you made it there. Very inspiring!! I relate to everything that was said! Even more reason to continue on the journey to France. Thanks for sharing.
I hear you...I needed to watch this video just to get some affirmation even if it comes from someone who doesn't know me. I know I will be spending part of my life in Paris that's why I watch your videos. I have written a novel with my character spending vacations in Paris. I don't want a vacation, I want to live there!
Love your story! I met my husband on a plane going to a business trip. Left my home of 11 years to move to where he was 1500 miles away:-) Yup, take that one step, ha! Was not the greatest career move, but the best personal one and still here 30 years later! The career has gone through lots of interesting changes in the end...and family life has been the best.
Good Evening Diane. Happy New Year greetings to you and Tom. Your story is fascinating and I am so happy you listened to your gut rumblings to move out of the life you were living and find a new space , a new life. It takes a great deal of courage to break up the status quo and a sure thing, like a job and friends and things to reach out for something more that is not so safe and secure, and predictable. I am certain many friends and family said Whoa! What are you doing? You’ve got to be crazy! I’m very glad for you that “ You got to be crazy” and you found something new and exciting to be crazy about.
Diane is a straight shooter and I appreciate her avoidance of cliches and platitudes. She is truly giving great information that doesn't sugar coat anything and yet is optimistic and hopeful and INSPIRING. When i get to France I want to be friends with DIANE!!
"One small step after the next, and then the roadblocks clear." Just what I needed to hear right now! I've decided to retire in France despite not speaking the language and not knowing anyone there. I've made an offer on a house and been accepted and am waiting for the Compromis to go through. I've been watching all your videos and want you to know how useful they are. You have great advice and interesting content, and I love your personality. On to the next small step!
Thank you for sharing your story. It's always interesting to hear. I love watching you explain things and go into the stores and explain the differences. When we went to France it was a huge part to see the different items. I also enjoy you going into the little shops on your walk with your dog. Thanks for sharing your life with us. New subscribers Alwyn and Mercia Vorster 🇿🇦
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I really needed this today! I’m working on a plan to make a pretty huge life change and the more it feels like a real possibility, the scarier it gets. But I’m also really excited. Your story inspired me to keep going and take the risk! Whatever happens, at least I won’t regret not trying.
Pretty much most of it. This was such a wonderful pick me up & motivational story that I really needed. Thank you so much for sharing. And congrats on having the courage to build your new life :D
Great Advice Diane ! To remember to 'Go For What We Want' in spite of the fear ! :) Thanks for posting!
It is really motivating. Thank you for sharing! Love, NJ
Thank you for sharing your journey 🙏 its very inspiring! I am from Japan, I m9ved to NYC at age 23. I fulfilled my dream in corporate career then I knew I was not completely happy just to live by myself. Then I met my husband from England in NJ. Now, we are haopiky married and ended up moving to France 🇫🇷. My new life in France is a bit challenging due to covid (and my language skill 😅) but I am ok going slow now. I enjoyed your UA-cam!!!!
Hi Diane,
I did what you did but in 1977. I went to Europe as an exchange student, married a Swedish man and stayed in Sweden, with dual citizenship, for 38 years. I agree with your philosophy and am jealous that UA-cam and the internet didn't exist back then. I returned to the US at age 60. Reimmigration to the US has been tough. One obstacle is Social Security. I have a very small pension from Sweden, so I must work to qualify for SS and Medicare in the US. A word of advice is to plan for your retirement.
This is exactly where I am, with the question of retirement. I'm 42 with a secure job and excellent benefits in the U.S., but my boyfriend is French and we've been doing long-distance for 2 1/2 years now. I'm getting really tired of my job, and I really want to try finding one in France, but I won't be eligible for retirement health care from my current position if I retire before 55. I have some chronic health conditions that developed over the past year and a half and so now I have a pre-existing condition. I don't feel like I can risk losing my health benefits, given that I will want to live or at least spend significant time in the U.S. in the future. So right now it seems like my only safe option is to stay until I'm 55 at least.
as a citizen of the US aren't you automatically eligible for things like Medicaid and other social assistance programs like SNAP? Also isn't there some kind of program that would look at your taxed income regardless of the country it was in since you're a dual citizen?
Quelle erreur quelle erreur vous auriez dû rester en Suède.
I absolutely can relate to this. After college I became a police officer. 5 years into the job I came to think "Do I still want to be doing this when I'm 50?" The answer was "No", so I retrained as a primary school teacher .
And that's really nothing to do with how I ended up living in France...
Lol! Now I want to hear your France story too!
How did you end up in France?
Hi Diane, ah ah, too funny, I did it too, we must have passed each others!! Well, 20 years ago I was living in my own apartment in the center of Paris 2e (between the Louvre and the Opera house). I had friends, family, a job, a cultural life, fun... but just like you something was missing, I was bored. I wanted to experience the American way of living. I moved to Los Angeles, CA where I had friends. I just wanted to stay there for one year. After 5 months I met my husband. We now have 2 teenage kids and live in the state of New Hampshire. Just like you I did not want to get old and have regrets. It can be a big jump in your life but I highly recommend to travel and follow your dreams.
I’m in NH too! The Seacoast. I love Diane, this channel and France 🇫🇷
Ah oui, New Hampshire.
Ça doit être pas mal 👌🏼
Oh, Diane, I’m so happy for you. I’m 71 years old and you spoke to me. Thank you.
PS. Love your t-shirt!
"No one needs to understand, since it is your life" Nice phrase nailing the point(e).
Totally agree! Never look for outside validation.
So true! How do you say that in French?
@@dls300
Hey I'm french and I'd say :
"Personne n'a besoin de comprendre, vu que c'est ta vie"
I’m from NJ as well and studied abroad in Paris in 2019. While I can’t say I’d ever want to settle down in France, I’m really glad you found your way there. I question “is this it?” too. It’s a scary thought, but I hope I find my own France someday.
This is like a spiritual message in this video. Thank you for the reminder to take risks. It really resonates with me
What great content Diane! This video really resonated with me. I am an Austrian who moved to London, then NYC, and now reside in Israel. Each time the move abroad was a good one for me in terms of self-development and career choice. I started a totally new career at age 45. Now, ten years into it, it was the best move yet. Keep exploring and taking risks!
It’s so good to hear that age doesn’t have to be a negative factor! I’ve been worried about it as I get older
I’m 60 and moving elsewhere ALONE feels so bold! How do you assimilate in a culture and expat culture with no contacts?
@@bestlife9925 You have to work out how you would do it. That's the small steps Diane IS talking about, planning steps if you will. So start with how you would get to know new people it in a different setting in your own country, for example maybe moving to a small community rather than to a big impersonal city or taking classes or joining clubs to meet people. Then add the additional things you need to make it happen in another country for example being proficient enough in the language to make conversation easy and understand humour. Keep your links with friends in your old country, the pandemic has taught us lots of new ways to stay in touch electronically you might have to stay up late or get up early to make it happen. Lastly If you don't already feel comfortable being alone some of the time in your current life then maybe it's not for you.
Wow. Thank you Diane! This really spoke to me and got me all teary eyed. Your story is very inspiring and touches on many levels with me. So I’ve decided to make a goal and take action. I started dedicating my free time to researching France. Taking lessons, and PLAN! I live in California now with my two young kids and want so much more for them. To experience life outside the US. Whether it be temporary or permanent. It’s important for me to have my kids and myself experience a different culture, lifestyle, language etc. Thank you for speaking directly to me. It felt like we were friends chatting over coffee. Merci xo
That's amazing, Angel, so happy you got something out of this video. It was for you. ;-)
Have you ever been to France ?
Thanks a bunch for your words of encouragement. Means a lot. I'm taking a trip to France this summer....just to get a feel for it...i live in Florida. I totally relate to the rat race, I used to get on the parkway every morning drive 1 1/2 hours each way. Get home exhausted from the stress on the job, and come home and be a mom...phew! I retired 4 years ago...son out of the house, moved to Florida....it took me 3 years to decompress from my 30 years on that job....I'm 68 years old, have. a base in french, lived in Montreal in my younger years..looking forward to this new experience. Thanks Diane for all your do.
Good for you Carmelita! I see that you’ve done some research. Hope that you make the most of your stay.😀Do you have family or friends in France? Are you contemplating moving there?🧐
Perfect! So many people need to hear this!! *It’s hard to see the ocean from the shore*
It's magical when you find something that lights you up and makes you take action. Good for you for listening to your gut, taking the leap and building a great life and business for yourself!
My experience and that of all my friends is that around the age of 25 most people have doubts about the path they are on and most of them make changes. I love your vlogs because they have intellectual substance; they stimulate thought.
Your words are very wise for your age. I am 58 and looking to retire soon. What you say is the same for people like me, change can be scary!
Keep with your vlog and best to you and Tom!
You are DYNAMITE!!!! Best video Diane! I think you nailed it and said it in a very motivational way. I love your commentary and videos.
I am a risk-taker and very much appreciated your narrative. If I hadn't taken risks, I would have stagnated in my home town and settled for very little. My friends and family were quite nasty and jealous when I first moved from Michigan to Texas, where I found great success and wonderful opportunities. Rather than dream about world travel, I've done it and continue to travel. I met my wonderful husband when answering another risk (a 25th high-school reunion). Moved to WA, continued my career---all good things until becoming ill and having to retire. But guess what? Retirement is a risk and an adventure and I've never been happier! Carpe diem!
I liked Oui's advice about doing what you feel you should do. The other people aren't important. If they cared, their reaction would be different.
I have been in that unfulfilled mindset for awhile. I am in a job is very demanding. I’m an upper level executive which means I am basically on call 24/7, checking work emails and taking work phone calls evenings and weekends, taking just two weeks of vacation a year but still being stressed while on vacation wondering what kind of crisis I will find when I get back to work after vacation. I even was in therapy for awhile, trying to figure out a way to change careers in my late 50s (which isn’t easy - ageism in the workplace does exist). And even outside work, I am just not happy with the life I live here in the US, so even the thought of retirement didn’t resonate, nor does it for my husband, who is already on early retirement in his early 60s.
Then, a lightbulb went off. Our happy place is France. We travel to France every other year for about 10 days, and when I am there, it stirs my soul. So, on a lark, I started researching retiring in France, and I was surprised to find that it was actually possible. So, I discussed it with my husband, and he was as excited about the idea as I was. So, now we are working toward that goal, and we plan to move to Brittany within 3-8 years, depending on when we feel we have built our retirement money / investments to a level that we can live a comfortable (not rich) “middle class” life in France for the rest of our lives.
Do we think life in France will be perfect or easy? No. Everyone has problems wherever they may live. We will just have a different set of challenges. The difference is, we are excited to face those challenges because it means that we are moving toward building the life we want rather than settling for the life we have. And in the meantime, we are invigorated as we plan and do what we can now toward that goal (such as improving our French).
The challenge may be to find new friends here and the right place for you
I really like how you said its one small step and then another and then another small step. That's definitely the way to think about it. As a Canadian, I find we spend too much time living for the future and not enough in our present. Thanks for sharing!
If one feels stuck, taking a step is the best thing.
That's a great message, Diane. And I whole-heartedly agree! I had the opposite journey to yours. After I was done with my studies in France, I decided I had decided to travel for a year or so. I knew that once I started with my job (whatever that might be), I would get stuck and it would be much harder to get this opportunity again. I was also unattached, though I had met this American guy over the summer (literally only one evening for 3 hours; we met in a small village in the middle of nowhere in Aveyron where I was visiting family for Le 14 Juillet). We corresponded a little, but we were not involved. Then I found out I could be an Au Pair in the US for a year, so I went for it. While I was in the US, we did get involved and eventually got married a couple of year later. If I hadn't decided to be an Au Pair for a year, we would never have met again, I imagine. I never planned on living the US. Yet I've been here for, well, it'll be 30 years in April 2021!
Same thing happened with my job: I would never had gotten my current job (working for an International organization in DC) if, one day when I was still in Premiere at my Lycee, I hadn't decide to switch my 3rd language from Latin (at which I was abysmal) to Portuguese. I had such an easy time learning Portuguese that I was fluent by the time I passed my baccalaureat. And it is BECAUSE I had Portuguese in my language combination that I got hired 4 years later (been working there for 26 years now). I can still see myself almost turning back instead of going to see the Portuguese teacher and asking if I could switch languages a year late. My life would have changed dramatically if I had not walked down that long corridor.
Our lives turn on a dime. You can never predict where your actions will lead to eventually. So might as well go with your gut. I like what you said: if it lights you up, it's worth your time! IF it intrigues you, it's worth your time. What's important is to be in accord with yourself. Everything else, all the difficulties will take care of themselves. If you're on the right path, things just tend to "happen" almost magically. So have confidence in your instincts and be happy, everyone!
Nice story. Lifelong dream of mine to live in France. Trying to make the leap!
Your story is equally as compelling. I have a daughter who is soon to graduate (US high school) and loves learning languages. She’d taken 6 years of French and is now taking Spanish. Initially she wanted to become an English as a New/Second language teacher but realized it would not allow her to learn other languages, rather teaching English to foreign speakers. She’s rethinking her University path to map a career allowing her to learn and speak other languages. I would love to know where you work. Portuguese is similar to Spanish so she could add that to her repertoire.
Great story! It is amazing how far one first step can end up taking you! I like to think of goals and life in 5 year increments - so amazing what can be accomplished in that time! I look back now and sometimes can't believe that I got all the licenses and ratings as a pilot that I actually have and took a 11 yr absence from aviation too. Still cant believe I went thru the stress of going back and now I teach corporate pilots to get their type ratings in the first business jet with a side stick - I meet crews from around the world and while it still can be stressful the money from the job has allowed us to take our family on so many adventures these past few years. My next goal is to get back in shape and learn how to fly a paramotor.
Wow, sounds like such an amazing career!
@@OuiInFrance well it paid for our trip to Normandy last year - and that was SO worth it!
I can relate with what you said in this video. Thank you so much!!!! Specifically: "No one has to understand. Don't be held back by people in your life who aren't supportive. People project their own fears and insecurities onto others. Don't let the opinions of others affect you. You aren't alone."
Glad this video spoke to you, Elaine! Thank you for taking the time to comment.
Thank you Diane, I need to spend some months in France to fulfill a nagging lifelong dream. Fearful of taking the leap but trying.
You said exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you for sharing your story.
Hi Diane
I had the same need to spread my wings at 24, it lead me to travelling on my own and eventually moving to London. I’m now back home in Australia 20+ years later & that same wanderlust is starting to tickle my subconscious. Time for a new adventure!
Thanks for the reminder to just go for it!
Bonjour Diane. Your honesty and passion for everything you do is plainly visible in this post. I especially like your statement that life in France isn’t ideal or without its challenges. But you did it and continue to do it every day. You saw an opportunity for self fulfillment and went for it every though there was no guaranteed outcome. Great for you!
Your encouragement to your followers is commendable. One thing I have learned is that routine can set in no matter where one is, regardless of age. I’m having a milestone birthday this Christmas. France and things French have been a big part of my life. But cv19 has taken away the extended trip I had planned for this fall. Fortunately I went to Paris for 2 weeks this past February only to get home with covid and never ending political turmoil. But as soon as things reopen I will return. Hopefully I will be able to meet you and Tom. Bientôt... Josef in Cape May
I met my French wife over penpal club from MD USA, and when we married got her to move with me to Florida, years later and 3 boys she convince me to go live in France, been here 21 years best decision I ever made if only she could have stay alive she passed away from cancer in 2018. Still more French than ever. You made the right decision! Salut
I am watching your backstory video and I am so immensely proud of you! I’m in my late 50s and now I understand it’s something that you’re verbalizing to your audience, that is most people go through a period of reflection and thinking is this all there is? It’s very normal and I can see that being a bit older. But at the time when I was in my 20s working as a hospital nurse in pediatrics In Michigan I knew it wasn’t where I was supposed to be but I was frozen in indecision. It’s hard to make a change so you should be very proud of yourself.
Frozen in indecision - I was feeling stuck. I took a step, and then another, and haven't looked back. And I didn't even move very far away. But it's much better here.
I enjoyed this content so much. Everything you said was on point. My first trip abroad was when I was in my 20s, and I lived in Brazil for 6 months. It changed my perspective on so many things. Now I’m in my 60s and am seriously contemplating becoming an expat in France. I’m taking French lessons weekly and am devouring as many UA-cam videos on France as I can. Age will not hold me back, neither will fear. I hope my adventures will be an inspiration for my nieces, nephews and the next generation. Thank you so much for your videos and, this video in particular.
Who said the grass is not greener in the other side 🤔? You saw it, you went for it. You are one heck of a brave woman. That's what life is all about, taking risks and fulfilling your dreams. Thanks for sharing.
OH YES! I spent 22 years in corporate healthcare and was getting more and more depressed and even more so, jaded by my career choice. I quit, after some life changing experiences. I spent 3 years trying to figure out who I was and what I loved. I gave up a lot but I gained so much more. I now get paid to do what I love most. I focused on my hobbies and what brings me joy and it has lead to a wonderful new career and more importantly, a slower way of life and living each day, my way.
Cool story. Since I was 30 I always wanted to live in Spain. I went to language school for a month every year as it provided accommodations and I had people to do things with and always meet incredible people. But I did enjoy my job and family. Now approaching 60 I’m still here in probably a city in Los Angeles adjacent that people aspire to be in. Despite this I plan to follow through with a 1 year move. Have no idea what will come of it, but I can always come back. Just waiting for Covid to end as I’m still really needed at my job and I don’t want to burn any bridges I may need.
Wonderful. Would love to see some of the photos of you / of your journey on those first few months in France!
I just want to take a moment to tell you I’ve been watching your videos and I am deeply touched by your kindness. To everyone. Thank you.
Just found this today. My friends live in Paris and was missing them but too early there to call so I thought I’d check this out.
Glad I did, You had great advice, thank you. Someone once told me that inspiration or motivation does not necessarily come first, it’s action, Through action we get motivated and inspired. Sitting still waiting for inspection never works, you got to get up and just do, then you’ll get motivated and things will fall into place.
Thanks for reminding me of that.
That is so interesting. Action first.
Eventually someone challenged me to make a change and I relocated to North Carolina where I live now and I return to graduate school and by pure accident I found myself working in clinical research. Looking back I realize I stayed in a stuck position too long but I did the best that I could at that time. I also look at my life in North Carolina and think I couldn’t imagine anything else. I think your Blog is very super fantastic! Keep it up.
I have often thought of relocating to North Carolina. I have been so drawn to the coast there. But, I've finally decided that it's my desired annual vacation spot, but I will stay where I am.
The only constant in life, indeed, in the known universe, is change.
Happiness comes not from denying change but from expecting it, embracing it and using it to your advatadge.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liminality
Mike Jones, that's so true !!, Cheers.
THAT SHIRT! 🤣🤣🤣
You spoke to me. I don't even know what made me look through your older playlists. I needed to hear this today. Thank you.
So glad! P.S. the shirt is in my shop linked in the desc box if it's of interest ;-)
This is so true! Taking that step outside one’s comfort zone and seeking fulfillment will seldom cause regret. Thank you for articulating these thoughts so well.
Bonjour Diana, you are the best American Blogger in France on UA-cam..😊
I turned 25 last month, but have been feeling this way for a long time. Same situation. Right now I love my job, but I have been asking myself “is this it?” very often. I have been looking at TAPIF and researching France. Even with the horror stories from UA-camrs I feel like if I don’t leave now (while I’m young, single, and without children) then IDK when I’d go. I’ve studied abroad in Paris for a month, but I never got to experience regular life in France (with responsibilities and not in a touristy place like Paris). Thank you for this video. Really took the words out of my mouth!
I really enjoyed this video. I’m a new subbie, so this backstory helped me know more about you. I find it very inspirational. You were so brave and I’m happy for you to be where you are today. I will remember this video when I need some inspiration and encouragement. I have been enjoying your videos. Keep them coming. Love from Singapore.
Thanks for subbing and welcome!
Great story, Diane! I lived in Latin America for more than 12 years in a Foreign Service family. Life isn’t perfect; the experiences are well worth it!
Boy can I relate. We just moved to another state. Been wanting to leave florida for a very very long time and to be honest we waited too long but it is what it is. We r now in South Carolina and loving it. No regrets. Thank you for all your videos and info.
Taking risks is a necessary part … ❤️ thank you. I tried making new friends this week. I don’t regret trying,
I hate corporate job reviews. You definitely did the right thing breaking away!
Oh, I needed to hear this now - thank you for this video! Good conversation.
OH MY GOSH - YOU ARE THE BEST. Who are you, seriously? Your words are so inspiring about being open to ideas...and potential change. Sending this to my sisters and girlfriends right now. Love it.
Love your story and kudos for following your gut! This is what life is ALL ABOUT. The more we say YES to the internal pulling's the more the universe shows up for us. Our lives are our message and it becomes a light for others. YAY YOU!!! ✨👍❤
So interesting!! You know that scene in Mrs Mazel when they realize that they haven't seen the mother for a while. Then they make their way to Paris and find her in an apartment with one table and one chair, smoking and developing an independent attitude?
What a lively and lovely 😊 talk. Love it. Greetings from Dubai.
Commuted on the NJT North Jersey Coast line for 27 years...smart move on your part relocating to France! 😉
Just found you on youtube. Thanks for your story and content. I was a French and Spanish teacher for 16 years and am doing another job in education now. I love travel and languages and miss it! Cant wait for the pandemic to end to travel again. Also, my regrets are that I didnt do more "scary" things as a young person! Thanks for encouraging others!
Bravo!!
I didn't move to France until I was 59.
Excellent video! Just discovered your channel. I started a new business 2 years ago at the age of 68. Love it. Gave up my place and rented a small mother-in-law apt in a home. You have to give up an old life (or at least parts of it) to gain new life with adventure. I was periodiically working internationally before Covd hit and will again. I have a new venture I am adding on to the current one as soon as I can travel again. If you are healthy, go for it. Love your channel!
Thank you for your passion encouraging a change of focus!!
Thank you so much for this. I was a French major in college and spend my junior year abroad in Paris (also spent a month at a language school in Angers at the UCO, is that near you)? I made some haphazard connections and had the opportunity to stay on after my year, but I chose the stability of finishing up school and getting a job. Here I am about 15 years away from retirement and looking to head back to France (or another EU country, I hear Portugal is much easier to gain citizenship) once I do decide to retire. My French is still pretty good (Advanced level C2 at the Alliance Francaise) and I am looking forward to more of your videos!
Hi Diane, this video is so helpful. Yes working in a corporate job is not fulfilling. I have always wanted to live abroad. It does not just pass, it continues. I have been working in the same industry without any promotions or climbing the corporate ladder. Honestly, it's so hard to make the change. This video is very inspiring!
I so enjoyed hearing your story ! Loved my visit to France many years ago and I think it’s exciting your life path led you there 🌸
You're a great storyteller and thank you for recounting this!!
Glad you enjoyed it! Merci
You have an inspiring story! It's really encouraging to me today. My family lives abroad also, and we seem to be hearing more about staying safe. No one seems to think risk is a good idea! It's nice to hear a different perspective!
I typed my comment before you said, "People project their own fears and insecurities onto you." WOW. Lightbulb moment for me!
I loved this video! Thank you! I'm 55 and just started graduate school. This is what I needed to hear. Also: I like how you mix up your video styles, how you do some routine-style youtube blogs mixed in with some Fb live, mixed in with more personal content, like this one. Keep up the great work! I really enjoy your stuff. I've just recently discovered you and subscribed. I love France; I've been there only once, but it really is calling me back, along with Italy, which I'm just obsessed with right now. All love!
Great story and great advice! Thanks for the video - your channel is very interesting.
Thank you Dian!
I find it inspiring. Stories like yours need to be told & shared.
Very very relatable. Fear holds people back.
Nice to hear this story, Diane. I had been wondering what the back story was. Now I know. Very interesting. I like your variety in programmjng.
I have watched a number of your videos but somehow missed this one, wow! The perfect message at just the right time for me. Thank you!
Absolument, Diane! Merci beaucoup. Votre histoire est très inspiré pour tout le monde. You nailed it with EVERYTHING you shared. I too had a similar journey living in Dijon for 7 months, then Paris, for a bit. More concrete, sincere experiences would help many people. You're a natural orator! À bientôt !🇫🇷❣
Diane, thank you for the good advice, and it made me more assured about my decisions.
8:42 Things got real for me ...
I struggle in so many areas, with so much fear, don't know how to get unstuck...so I stay stuck in these things. I'd like to do something different, feel like I have an impact on people's lives. I'm 40 and I feel like live is going to pass me by if I keep this up.
This came at the right time. I needed to hear this. Thank you ... I don't want to go into all my personal stuff in a public comment section, but please know this really hit home, and falls in line with several things I've watched, been feeling, like I'm being prepared for something. I don't know what that something is.
I love your story. It's encouraging, and I think you were very brave to take that risk and just move to France to see what doors would open for you.
Just saw this comment... sending you support from afar. ;-)
Hey, Diane thank you so much for sharing your story and thoughts and also that little pep talk you gave. I also just got accepted to the teaching assistance program (as Austrian in France) and I have some doubts sometimes but I think it’s the right thing to do and I am so looking forward to go to France!
Hi Diane! Love everything about your chanel! Thank u! I am long island girl! My husband is swiss French. Similar back story. You present so well, down to earth, friendly. Again Thank you! Will be looking forward to all your new vlogs and catching up on previous ones. 😊
Thanks so much. You're so sweet!
Excellent points, Diane! I agree with you 1000%! In the words of the late, great Joseph Campbell, "Follow your bliss".
Hi Diane! Loved your backstory- it was so uplifting. Would love to hear more about when you first moved to France and how you got along. It is on my bucket list to one day visit France!
Hi Diane! I've been watching your videos for a while now, but just now got the backstory. Thank you for providing such great content.
Thank you so much for this video, Diane! It resonated so much with me, I found myself in tears. I've reached this point in life - much later than you did but I'm there now at 54. Really really have been loving your videos so much.
You are so welcome!
I have lived in 4 different European countries since I was 20, I am 40 now. Planning to leave the UK next year and hopefully try France out.
Ahhhh this is sooo relatable 🤍 I’m moving this year too! Wish me luck 😄
Thank you for this! I think the older I get the more I realize how change is a constant and it isn't always a bad thing. It leads to new adventures...
Diane! Such a great video. I have watched a number of your videos and have never before left a comment (because I watch them on Apple TV and it is not possible, I don't think, to leave comment via Apple TV). But for this video, I had to log on to my desktop computer to post a comment. Thank you so much for this video. I am 57 years old and for the last several years I have been entertaining the idea of moving to France (and spending the rest of my life in France). I have saved much money but financial "experts" forever seem to tell me that we always need more money. But, like you, I have reached a point in my career where I just had to do something that I wanted to do. I decide to retire and have already submitted my resignation with a retire date of Dec 15, 2021--only 1 month away now. I have things lined up for my Visa appointment (which I will be scheduling in next couple of days because then I will be
Hi Jon, first thank you so much for taking the time to leave a comment and sharing your story with me. I'm so happy this video hit home for you.
I absolutely understand work taking a toll on you after a while and wanting to try something else. Your attitude is perfect -- if you come for a year or 3 or 5 and want to go somewhere else or return to the US, you've at least had the experience. I'm proud of you and I think it's admirable to take chances, so good on you! How could anyone attack you for that? NO way. You can live well on way less money here.
I'm even taking my own advice here now a couple of years after making that video. My mom passed away last month as you might have seen and I know she'd want me to really LIVE and not wait for the perfect time to do something. So that's all to say, I completely understand where you're coming from.
Thank you again ;-)
Bonjour, oubliez Paris oublier nice viser la Dordogne.
Thank you so much for this video, thank you. I have bo words but a great emotion of gratitude for this video and words of inspiration for moving to france and traveling euope. Thank you ✨✨✨💕❤️
Thank you Diane, that was great as was the previous video. I love the mix of subjects and how it rounds you out as a thinking, sentient person. I lived in France many years ago, and worked and travelled and went to language classes and had a good life there (that is a life which was normal and where ideas and thoughts were resolved and I moved forward). Two things occur to me looking back, firstly I loved the way French people discuss and debate things. That was culturally new for me and it is something I have valued all my life (I am in my 60's)and it is something I like to hear you doing. Secondly I found the meaning of 'travel broadens the mind' - which I believe means we become adult if we want to do so, we become thinking and empathetic and clear about ourselves and change. That is such a gift as it by-passes immature behaviours we may have had despite our age in years. So now, when I am at an age where many men and women are bewildered by retirement and world changes I have a tool box full of useful ideas and changes which lets me survive positively. I feel that you are also resourceful and tolerant of change and growth which leads me to like your channel a lot. Merci.
Hello! Having retired from a 40 year career doing so many different things in my career, I agree with you completely! One thing you said, about feedback that did not agree with and you were shut down and not heard--run from that kind of employer, partner, etc, you are not respected and it will only get much worse if you stay!! Hugs and a great vlog!
This is what I needed to hear. Thanks for sharing your back story.
Your energy and spirit are inspiring! Just discovered your channel and am so glad 😊
I was wondering all of this, so thank you for sharing!
Me too!
yes!! no matter what age, shape or form you can try something new and change your path. It's good to be reminded, thank you.
Thank you for your sincere sharing! Your work is excellent and your strength is inspiring. Moving to any foreign country is a real act of faith.
Thank you so much!
Good story and takes a lot of guts...
Just discovered this excellent channel. Great inspiration, Diane!
I was wondering how you made it there. Very inspiring!! I relate to everything that was said! Even more reason to continue on the journey to France. Thanks for sharing.
I hear you...I needed to watch this video just to get some affirmation even if it comes from someone who doesn't know me. I know I will be spending part of my life in Paris that's why I watch your videos. I have written a novel with my character spending vacations in Paris. I don't want a vacation, I want to live there!
Love your story! I met my husband on a plane going to a business trip. Left my home of 11 years to move to where he was 1500 miles away:-) Yup, take that one step, ha! Was not the greatest career move, but the best personal one and still here 30 years later! The career has gone through lots of interesting changes in the end...and family life has been the best.
Good Evening Diane. Happy New Year greetings to you and Tom. Your story is fascinating and I am so happy you listened to your gut rumblings to move out of the life you were living and find a new space , a new life. It takes a great deal of courage to break up the status quo and a sure thing, like a job and friends and things to reach out for something more that is not so safe and secure, and predictable. I am certain many friends and family said Whoa! What are you doing? You’ve got to be crazy! I’m very glad for you that “ You got to be crazy” and you found something new and exciting to be crazy about.
thank you for your wonderful videos , I've been thinking about moving to France and your videos offer great information.
Diane is a straight shooter and I appreciate her avoidance of cliches and platitudes. She is truly giving great information that doesn't sugar coat anything and yet is optimistic and hopeful and INSPIRING. When i get to France I want to be friends with DIANE!!
"One small step after the next, and then the roadblocks clear." Just what I needed to hear right now! I've decided to retire in France despite not speaking the language and not knowing anyone there. I've made an offer on a house and been accepted and am waiting for the Compromis to go through. I've been watching all your videos and want you to know how useful they are. You have great advice and interesting content, and I love your personality. On to the next small step!
Thank you for sharing your story. It's always interesting to hear. I love watching you explain things and go into the stores and explain the differences. When we went to France it was a huge part to see the different items. I also enjoy you going into the little shops on your walk with your dog. Thanks for sharing your life with us. New subscribers Alwyn and Mercia Vorster 🇿🇦
Thanks for watching and welcome ;-)
Diane, thanks for this video. You’re making a difference in my life. So glad I found you.
That makes me so happy, Carol. Thank you