I'll never stop wearing hoodies during my relax chill time. Nothing is more confortable and because I am bald I need the hood in winter. It also makes me look 10 years younger and last time I checked this never was a bad thing. Pretty much with that.
There is looking youthful and then there’s trying too hard to look young. Hoodies fall into the later category. It’s embarrassing to see old men wear clothes from a teen’s closet. If you want comfort just get a sweat shirt or better yet a good quality sweater.
@@sharinglungs3226wearing hoodie is for utilities and not for looking young, you do read he use it for his bald head.... Trying hard to be youth is when you wear t shirt or sweater with logos like supreme, gucchi .....
@@sharinglungs3226 you need to be a judgemental conceited prick to look at adults wearing hoodies and projecting the idea that they're trying to look younger. I see adults everyday wearing hoodies. No one is trying to pose as a teen. Get a life.
@@sharinglungs3226hey dikknose, some guys work outside and live out if doors. Hoodies are just like gloves and hats. Essentials. All you guys are doing is showing you dont do outdoors activities MEN are known for. Last time i checked being manly and doing manly shit is more attractive than you pretending youre a man by pinch rolling stretchy jeans. Or whatever youre goobering on about. What a lot of non men males dont understand is when you see a dude at a sports event in a hoodie hes probably getting off work and tgats what he was wearing. Anyway… you wrong on this whether you wear them or not. Lifes not about dressing up 24/7
I used to follow your advice completely. I stopped wearing graphic tees, stopped wearing clothing with logos and it really did not feel like me. I actually lost confidence and stopped enjoying my clothing. And I also stopped getting compliments on my style. As long as it fits properly, MOST things are okay. Not all, but most, as long as you have a sense of style and it suits you. If everyone followed your advice we would all look like carbon copies of each other like everyone in the 50’s. We have reached a point where clothing can bring enjoyment and spice to life, we don’t all need to be stuck up, wearing v-necks and polos every day. That’s honestly super boring. We don’t all need to dress like car salesman. Nowadays i’m back to wearing what I like. Graphic tees with 2pac, Ice Cube, wicked pictures of cars, Nike logos, Timberland logos. Hoodies, my Costco sweatpants (super comfy lol). I’m back to feeling confident and loving my clothes. And I’m back to getting compliments on my pieces. I feel like doing this will keep you young. Don’t stop wearing that Nike hoodie just because you hit 40 or 50. It adds a bit of youthfulness back into you. You see a grandma wearing a nike hoodie and you think “ok sure, she’s old, but she’s not OLD old, she still has a sense of coolness and style. She doesn’t feel TOO OLD for Nike”. I’ll give credit where it’s due, the tips about the polo collars and not matching your upper and lower, and things like that you are spot on. But don’t be telling ppl not to wear things that they like. That’s not cool man.
Most normal men don't dress like he says we should anyway. Honestly if you follow his advice you're more apt to stick out and look weird than dressing the way you described you enjoy dressing. Only thing he tries to teach is how to impress other people that really don't matter. We don't need to wear a three piece suit to go out and get coffee.
Part of what makes you feel good is having respect for yourself. Taking care of yourself. Not dressing and looking like crap. Like it or not, perception is reality.
Agree to disagree on the striped shirts. The Breton shirts are absolute style icons. Ultimately what makes a stylish man is understanding a few rules, but more over finding and being comfortable in your own style.
I'll wear wtf I want. I'm old. I'm tired. IDGAF what anyone else thinks. I just want to be comfortable. Hoodies, cargo shorts and crocs with socks. Get fucked.
6:01 This hoodie actually doesn't look bad on you, it's not too big, it fits you right. Personally I'm not a fan of super tailored hoodies, it kind of defeats the purpose in my opinion.
You are absolutely right about the Polo shirt....the one thing I can't stand on my 40s is that tradicional polo collar...they just don't work... the one you present looks so much better. Thanks brother!
Love the tips and general advise as always, but also can't wait until you get a bit older and chill out a bit. Hate being yelled at like a 1990's late night infomercial or used car commercial. 😂👍
My compliments exactly. I believe older people are entitled to wear the same type of similar clothes as younger people in very casual places where younger people are dressed in a similar way so as to avoid age discrimination
I only wear hood for cold/windy days when I’m working out or just being relaxed at home. I will never wear a holiday sweater. And I always wear a T-shirt under my button ups because it feels weird to me to not wear one. Almost like not wear socks or underwear, I gota have an under T-shirt.
6:05 that’s what i wear when i’m getting my steps in and working out. and i wear a black hoodie in the colder months..why would i want to look super sexy when i’m just trying to break a sweat 😅
As long as the clothes cover the body appropriately and not revealing or inappopriate real men wear whatever they want and DGAF about what others think come on you are not this lame
My main casual style: I wear high rise dress trousers/high rise black jeans, with a tucked in short sleeve crochet shirt and lace ankle boots with an Empire Style belt. If its winter i just wear a Wool collar Denim jacket.
I think you're right. The guy that posts these videos seems very conservative and careful, sometime we just need to say f**k it! Enjoy your oversized tops.
@@WestieWestie I was a teen in the 2000s and wore baggy clothes because that was the rage back then. I was 6ft and 160 lbs...xl shirts and size 36 jeans. Fast forward to the late 2010s and I was then/now a built 190 lbs. my jeans are 32 and my shirts/jackets are now a medium. I'm extremely picky with how my clothes fit nowadays. I laugh at my baggy clothes days and I laugh even harder now that the trend is back. I grew up and so did my sense of style. I actually try to look good now. Alpha isn't being careful or conservative...he's trying to teach his followers to actually look good and not just follow trends. Judging by the comments and how many people are offended by what he says, most of these dudes have 0 style and "wear what they want"
Please tell me that there are some acceptions to wearing graphic tee shirts I just lost a lot of weight and can fit into a lot of my "vintage" tee shirts again . I always get complimented for my tee shirts by hot 30 something year Olds. I'm 50 and that makes me feel good that they think I am their age, is that bad? Confidence is key right?
I’m not upscale and could be with my income, but I’m not out to impress when I’m out. I wear what I want and never ever had any problem getting lots of women. clothes aren’t really the defining factor unless she’s looking for one thing….money
I've spent the last few years building a stylish GQ looking wardrobe from e books and UA-cam channels like this, but honestly, 90 percent of my life only calls for a hoodie and sneakers.
Lol i like alpha but sometimes he just contradicts himself according to the trends. Wear what flatters your physique and boosts your confidence.Some guys can be super confident in just a tshirt and jeans while some can look sloppy even in a suit.Wear colors that suit your skin type but somedays you can exception.Hoodies and jackets are my staple when its cold outside.More importantly be healthy keep an athletic physique to carry any clothes with ease
The advice is on point... but for the hoodie, I think I can still rock it on because I'm 24 years old in the Philippines, I think I am valid for wearing a hoodie
Your good the people that shouldn’t be wearing hoodies with graphics/big logos are people that look old af idc if your 40 if I can see gray hairs and a shit ton of wrinkles yea you don’t need to be wearing young people clothes. Like stupid hypebeast dad which are cringy to watch
As for stripes, I at the very least have to disagree when it comes to vertical stripes, especially university-striped oxford shirts, which are staples of preppy attire.
This mind set about suitable or most appropriate clothes wear for individuals based upon age is so passe. It's such a waste of time. As long as the choice of clothing looks good upon a person, depending upon their physical structure and colour of their complexion, they should fearlessly go ahead and select their clothes wear.
U feel attacked? Because u don't have any fashion sense you just follow trends, like hoodies, and sports wear brands and have no real personality in ur wardrobe.
As we age, there are certain type of clothing we should no longer wear which I understand. I assume it's reasonable to keep "old" (inoffensive) clothes around for DIY housework, maybe for the gym and exercise? (as a rule of thumb) ? I am not asking for permission lol. Have a good day reader :)
I like dressing like a country rural urban hip hop guy those two styles and colors combined into one. I am country and city together in terms of how I dress.
Can't agree on the Breton top, they're absolute classics; particularly here in Europe. I also can't agree on the polo shirt you had on, it's polyester on steroids.
Nah dude. I get it, but at your age Alpha, just wear what you want and stop telling men they look to young because of a graphic T or hoodie with prints, etc. Men your/our age 40+ know when to dress up or down. Good luck influencing GenZ types cuz TikTok is their God.
It depends on your shape and level of fat. Anyone at any age can wear form fitting shirts if they're in shape with some abs. Triceps=3/5ths of the arm.
4:40 im sorry brother, but i wouldn’t be caught dead in that blue sweater. i have a big chest and a small waist, with my weird body style, i’d get laughed at 😩
Im gonna add Air force ones to this list as a honorable mention. I saw a 11 ish year old hill billy white kid wearing white forces and i figured yeah its time to ditch the forces.
only thing im gonna agree with here is hoodies, which ive been trying to purge. Really getting sick of the fake southerner north eastern types who have a favorite gas station rocking carhart beanies and oversized hoodies. sweaters and overcoats ftw
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alpha, what brand is your t-shirt?
I’m 49, good looking, and with a great body. All this shit looks good on me…wear what makes you happy and fuck what everyone thinks.
70 bucks for a polo is crazy it’s going to be a hard pass for me dawg…
And they look awful. The buttons go down to almost mid stomach
@@Awendzi I didn’t even noticed that until you mentioned it
Also the quality is terrible. This guy doesnt know what he talks about and is a sellout.
I'll never stop wearing hoodies during my relax chill time. Nothing is more confortable and because I am bald I need the hood in winter. It also makes me look 10 years younger and last time I checked this never was a bad thing. Pretty much with that.
There is looking youthful and then there’s trying too hard to look young. Hoodies fall into the later category. It’s embarrassing to see old men wear clothes from a teen’s closet. If you want comfort just get a sweat shirt or better yet a good quality sweater.
Define old men. @@sharinglungs3226
@@sharinglungs3226wearing hoodie is for utilities and not for looking young, you do read he use it for his bald head.... Trying hard to be youth is when you wear t shirt or sweater with logos like supreme, gucchi .....
@@sharinglungs3226 you need to be a judgemental conceited prick to look at adults wearing hoodies and projecting the idea that they're trying to look younger. I see adults everyday wearing hoodies. No one is trying to pose as a teen. Get a life.
@@sharinglungs3226hey dikknose, some guys work outside and live out if doors. Hoodies are just like gloves and hats. Essentials. All you guys are doing is showing you dont do outdoors activities MEN are known for. Last time i checked being manly and doing manly shit is more attractive than you pretending youre a man by pinch rolling stretchy jeans. Or whatever youre goobering on about. What a lot of non men males dont understand is when you see a dude at a sports event in a hoodie hes probably getting off work and tgats what he was wearing. Anyway… you wrong on this whether you wear them or not. Lifes not about dressing up 24/7
I used to follow your advice completely. I stopped wearing graphic tees, stopped wearing clothing with logos and it really did not feel like me. I actually lost confidence and stopped enjoying my clothing. And I also stopped getting compliments on my style.
As long as it fits properly, MOST things are okay. Not all, but most, as long as you have a sense of style and it suits you. If everyone followed your advice we would all look like carbon copies of each other like everyone in the 50’s. We have reached a point where clothing can bring enjoyment and spice to life, we don’t all need to be stuck up, wearing v-necks and polos every day. That’s honestly super boring. We don’t all need to dress like car salesman.
Nowadays i’m back to wearing what I like. Graphic tees with 2pac, Ice Cube, wicked pictures of cars, Nike logos, Timberland logos. Hoodies, my Costco sweatpants (super comfy lol). I’m back to feeling confident and loving my clothes. And I’m back to getting compliments on my pieces. I feel like doing this will keep you young. Don’t stop wearing that Nike hoodie just because you hit 40 or 50. It adds a bit of youthfulness back into you. You see a grandma wearing a nike hoodie and you think “ok sure, she’s old, but she’s not OLD old, she still has a sense of coolness and style. She doesn’t feel TOO OLD for Nike”.
I’ll give credit where it’s due, the tips about the polo collars and not matching your upper and lower, and things like that you are spot on. But don’t be telling ppl not to wear things that they like. That’s not cool man.
Most normal men don't dress like he says we should anyway. Honestly if you follow his advice you're more apt to stick out and look weird than dressing the way you described you enjoy dressing. Only thing he tries to teach is how to impress other people that really don't matter. We don't need to wear a three piece suit to go out and get coffee.
It's a guide for hipster goons.
The hoodie looked great on you, don't be so hard on yourself
Stop trying to impress people who don’t even love themselves I wear what makes me happy not what someone else thinks 💯
Yeah. Who cares about what others think
Yeah dude. The day I realized that being comfortable and not trying to impress is the day I got a little bit happier
while I don't disagree with you, why are you watching a video giving advice about appearance if you don't care what anyone thinks?
Part of what makes you feel good is having respect for yourself. Taking care of yourself. Not dressing and looking like crap. Like it or not, perception is reality.
I get what you’re saying but there are definitely clothes that grown ass men shouldn’t wear. I don’t know about the striped polos though
Agree to disagree on the striped shirts. The Breton shirts are absolute style icons. Ultimately what makes a stylish man is understanding a few rules, but more over finding and being comfortable in your own style.
I'll wear wtf I want. I'm old. I'm tired. IDGAF what anyone else thinks. I just want to be comfortable. Hoodies, cargo shorts and crocs with socks. Get fucked.
I am 53, and I am wearing an old 7Seconds t shirt. I don't give af. Being genuine goes farther than the latest trend.
Thanks for the help will definitely take the tips
6:01 This hoodie actually doesn't look bad on you, it's not too big, it fits you right. Personally I'm not a fan of super tailored hoodies, it kind of defeats the purpose in my opinion.
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You are absolutely right about the Polo shirt....the one thing I can't stand on my 40s is that tradicional polo collar...they just don't work... the one you present looks so much better. Thanks brother!
Love the tips and general advise as always, but also can't wait until you get a bit older and chill out a bit. Hate being yelled at like a 1990's late night infomercial or used car commercial. 😂👍
I run a plugin to pitch down the voice it helps alot.
I personally love the energy and it's kind of amusing as well because of the exaggeration 😅
Great video!👍
Thank you Alpha ❤
I agree with all points; except the hoodie. I love my team hoodies. Let’s go 49ers!!
Why is everyone so set on growing up super quick? if you love a baggy hoodie wear it, own it, love it :D
Cause not everyone wants to settle, some people want to elevate. If you’re comfortable then you do you
Some good tips!
I'm Canadian, hoodies are indispensable for us at any age, my 78yr old mom wears one!
Wear what you want to...saying you're too old for anything is bit of a negative attitude.
My compliments exactly. I believe older people are entitled to wear the same type of similar clothes as younger people in very casual places where younger people are dressed in a similar way so as to avoid age discrimination
I love both youthful and mature apparel and wearing both types
thank you for your channel, Your videos are very helpful for men and how to be an Alpha Men in todays world 🌎
Sorry bro but hoodies in the fall while cuddled up to your woman next to a bon fire is the best thing ever. I’m 41 and I’ll never grow out of that.
@1:48 I agree that triceps is 2/3 of the upper arm STRETCHED. But when flexed usually its actually more balanced
Great advice as always Alpha!!
Hoodies are life. They make a great combo with jackets.
We lo you Alpha!
I only wear hood for cold/windy days when I’m working out or just being relaxed at home. I will never wear a holiday sweater. And I always wear a T-shirt under my button ups because it feels weird to me to not wear one. Almost like not wear socks or underwear, I gota have an under T-shirt.
Thx, your videos help me not to forget English 😊
6:05 that’s what i wear when i’m getting my steps in and working out. and i wear a black hoodie in the colder months..why would i want to look super sexy when i’m just trying to break a sweat 😅
Aaron, man, what are you doing? White dress shirts with thin navy vertical stripes are amazing
That's not what he was talking about😂 he definitely should have been specific lol
As long as the clothes cover the body appropriately and not revealing or inappopriate real men wear whatever they want and DGAF about what others think come on you are not this lame
My main casual style: I wear high rise dress trousers/high rise black jeans, with a tucked in short sleeve crochet shirt and lace ankle boots with an Empire Style belt. If its winter i just wear a Wool collar Denim jacket.
This is helpful .
Alpha men don't need this crap. Rock the striped shirts. This guy is the opposite of alpha.
I’ll rock the shit out of an oversized tee and hoodies; I think it’s all based on how you present yourself and the confidence in your appearance.
True. He completely bypassed his “wear with confidence,” pitch from days past.
Most NBA players have a ton of confidence walking into the arena, BUT they look like absolute clowns with their horrible oversized outfits haha
I think you're right. The guy that posts these videos seems very conservative and careful, sometime we just need to say f**k it! Enjoy your oversized tops.
@@WestieWestie I was a teen in the 2000s and wore baggy clothes because that was the rage back then. I was 6ft and 160 lbs...xl shirts and size 36 jeans. Fast forward to the late 2010s and I was then/now a built 190 lbs. my jeans are 32 and my shirts/jackets are now a medium. I'm extremely picky with how my clothes fit nowadays. I laugh at my baggy clothes days and I laugh even harder now that the trend is back. I grew up and so did my sense of style. I actually try to look good now. Alpha isn't being careful or conservative...he's trying to teach his followers to actually look good and not just follow trends. Judging by the comments and how many people are offended by what he says, most of these dudes have 0 style and "wear what they want"
Please tell me that there are some acceptions to wearing graphic tee shirts
I just lost a lot of weight and can fit into a lot of my "vintage" tee shirts again . I always get complimented for my tee shirts by hot 30 something year Olds.
I'm 50 and that makes me feel good that they think I am their age, is that bad?
Confidence is key right?
Dude… cmon 😂😂😂😂😂
Wear your t-shirts. Congratulations on your weight loss.
What?
Wear whatever makes you feel good my man. Most of the stuff he says men should wear make them look like dorks anyway.
Cool video.
That awkward moment when a 40 something year old man in earrings tells you that you need to dress more mature. 😂😂😂😂😂
Great advice as always! 😀
I’m not upscale and could be with my income, but I’m not out to impress when I’m out. I wear what I want and never ever had any problem getting lots of women. clothes aren’t really the defining factor unless she’s looking for one thing….money
Those who get women don't talk about it🤣
@@TuneinRNot true.
I've spent the last few years building a stylish GQ looking wardrobe from e books and UA-cam channels like this, but honestly, 90 percent of my life only calls for a hoodie and sneakers.
your sales game is so refined and insanely persuasive
So glad I found this video. My friends were getting sick of me yelling directly at them about collars from shark tank.
Striped rugby polos are sweet though, also oversized street clothes are pretty popular with guys in their early 20s
Never finna stop wearing my “FUCK OFF AND DIE” shirt lol xD
I agree with you on the rest of the video but two things that i disagree with are sleeveless and stripped shirts im not the preppy guy
Lol i like alpha but sometimes he just contradicts himself according to the trends. Wear what flatters your physique and boosts your confidence.Some guys can be super confident in just a tshirt and jeans while some can look sloppy even in a suit.Wear colors that suit your skin type but somedays you can exception.Hoodies and jackets are my staple when its cold outside.More importantly be healthy keep an athletic physique to carry any clothes with ease
If youre jacked you can wear whatever the hell you want.
Collars & Co. rocks. Not cheap, but you get great quality.
The advice is on point... but for the hoodie, I think I can still rock it on because I'm 24 years old in the Philippines, I think I am valid for wearing a hoodie
Your good the people that shouldn’t be wearing hoodies with graphics/big logos are people that look old af idc if your 40 if I can see gray hairs and a shit ton of wrinkles yea you don’t need to be wearing young people clothes. Like stupid hypebeast dad which are cringy to watch
Wear whatever you want and don't ever listen to online influencers. You're welcome.
Hey alpha, did you know you were on a episode ofthe new beavis and butthead show on paramount plus?? Lol just saying.
Not sure I agree on all shirts that have something on it 🤨 love my band tees. If I see someone wearing, I’ll know if they got good music taste. 🤘🎸🎧
amen .!!
As for stripes, I at the very least have to disagree when it comes to vertical stripes, especially university-striped oxford shirts, which are staples of preppy attire.
Alpham u d best
5:50 this is Dwights t-shirt 😂😅
This mind set about suitable or most appropriate clothes wear for individuals based upon age is so passe. It's such a waste of time. As long as the choice of clothing looks good upon a person, depending upon their physical structure and colour of their complexion, they should fearlessly go ahead and select their clothes wear.
What’s wrong with looking youthful when you’re older???
My mood dictates when I want to dress youthful and dress mature. I love both styles
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Where did you get the blue v neck sweater ?
Wheres that blue sweater from
I'll never stop wearing hoodies either. I think they look good too
People wear whatever they want, shut it.
U feel attacked? Because u don't have any fashion sense you just follow trends, like hoodies, and sports wear brands and have no real personality in ur wardrobe.
I always have my shirts tailored
Where did you get the denim shirt at 6:36 time line? please advise
As we age, there are certain type of clothing we should no longer wear which I understand. I assume it's reasonable to keep "old" (inoffensive) clothes around for DIY housework, maybe for the gym and exercise? (as a rule of thumb) ? I am not asking for permission lol. Have a good day reader :)
I love Flanel Shoes with rectanble patterns, they make me look like a Lumberjack
I like dressing like a country rural urban hip hop guy those two styles and colors combined into one. I am country and city together in terms of how I dress.
I am country merged with funk and rock.
Can absolutely wear a hoodie but it’s the same rules as tees: plain, fitted, no big logos etc.
As long as adult women are also entitled to wear them then men can do the same
"A grown ass man" uproarious!
Can't agree on the Breton top, they're absolute classics; particularly here in Europe. I also can't agree on the polo shirt you had on, it's polyester on steroids.
do you mean when you Look your age? i'm 38 but i look young, so should i dress older to fit my age or should i dress my age as i look older?
or you know wear whatever you want and don't give a fuck what others think
My boy tweaking on the hoodies lol
where do you get the black t shirt?
A clean undershirt 100% can be seen and look good
Nah dude. I get it, but at your age Alpha, just wear what you want and stop telling men they look to young because of a graphic T or hoodie with prints, etc. Men your/our age 40+ know when to dress up or down. Good luck influencing GenZ types cuz TikTok is their God.
It depends on your shape and level of fat. Anyone at any age can wear form fitting shirts if they're in shape with some abs. Triceps=3/5ths of the arm.
That blue sweater looked like something somebody's unckle named greg would wear
Alpha I love you 10000000000 . You are crazy man. I want to be like you❤. You previously brought the alpha m intro back. Can you bring that back again
Muy bueno
Hoodie>everything
I always hated horizontal stripes and preferred plain colored shirts. Why? The stripes always made me feel like a 6 year old.
All Saints tees are my go to .. Noice
Pete and Pedro
4:40 im sorry brother, but i wouldn’t be caught dead in that blue sweater. i have a big chest and a small waist, with my weird body style, i’d get laughed at 😩
"Don't wear tight shirts". Wears skin tight shirts throughout all his videos 😂🙄
The grey hoodie looked great man. Gonna disagree on that one.
You know you just can’t wear whatever you want when you actually have A SPICY SEÑORITA 😂 IYKYK
I mean if its hot out, I'm wearing a tank top.
Next week, "why grown men should wear stripped tight shirts" and sponsored by tight shirt company 😂. This guy is running out of things.
I now get my clothes tailored to fit, I hate stripe shirts, I prefer plain shirts and graphic tees
Im gonna add Air force ones to this list as a honorable mention. I saw a 11 ish year old hill billy white kid wearing white forces and i figured yeah its time to ditch the forces.
I can still wear the hell out of a hoodie, not look like a kid, and I don't wear them in every situation.
I’m not a fan of those type of polos.
You dye this mans hair blonde and you reveal that he’s really the Adoring Fan.
only thing im gonna agree with here is hoodies, which ive been trying to purge. Really getting sick of the fake southerner north eastern types who have a favorite gas station rocking carhart beanies and oversized hoodies. sweaters and overcoats ftw
He's dead wrong on hoodies.
NGL but alpha looking like a valet guy at 2:39
I thought that hoodie you wear isn't that bad. just because we age, doesn't mean we can't be casual and chill
My compliments exactly. Unfortunately, the ultra conservatives are narrow minded and cannot see it this wsy
I will wear whatever the fudge i want.
His sharing his opinion, learn to respect it and mabey people will respect urs
@@enclavelieutenant8614 I don't give a fk!😂😂😂