Quality question ! Ask with energy , opened end question . Asking with why ,where and who ! playful questions . Story question connection to something watching or listening to . Ask passion question , like what has you excited right now . Question about his family ? Ask about his childhood ? Challenge him with fun . Ask him about his vision , what would you like to happen for years to come. Ask him about past relationships , when safe to know truth . You can make it a good thing. What did you learn from Your passed . And never ask in fear .
This is gold! I have a date in an hour, questions ready and I don’t feel as nervous as I usually would because I am not afraid of the outcome of this date, just happy to be getting a walk with a new person I can get to know 😊
Newly single after 9 years, and dating is so new to me, so I need advice badly. honestly, I never thought asking questions to build a connection as I am a bit shy. But this gives me some great ideas and I’m excited to try this. Thx for the support and confidence boost ! Dating is hard and I see so many struggle with it. So thank you 🙏 you will help many I’m sure .
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Hey Mat! The lighting is doing wonders bringing out the color of your eyes!! And I agree that emotional connection is derived from wanting to get to know about him and his life and how he operates. Notice how he has his quirks and dislikes and likes. And find what all he is desiring for a successful life. A relationship isn't purely based on sex. Intimacy is much deeper than that. Humans ultimately crave authentic connection where you bond intellectually, emotionally, physically and mentally.
I think the key with any of these questions is to weave them in organically into the conversation, and it means you really have to be an active listener - to not only hear what he's saying, but note if something makes him smile or if he starts talking excitedly, etc. These are great types of questions, and don't require a lot of "courage" on the part of us ladies to ask - it can be playful and warm! Mat - did you say you were a lawyer? Ahh...that makes a lot of sense. Because a lawyer knows how to pick up on nuances in what a witness is saying, and can lead them with the questions to "spill the beans", so to speak (if that is the intent). I've seen some lawyers in action, and their strategies to get the truth to come out are intriguing! Your smile and your eyes are so gorgeous they're almost illegal...🧲
+:2:3:4:9:0:5:5:5:7:4:9:4:4 whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.
I am the conductor? That is nice....we can make a good music. I am excited for our album, hehehe.😊Ty looking forward to seeing you for a practice or sort of...😊
Thank-you Mat - You explained that really well. 👍🏽 I’ve subscribed to your channel. Another question Carol Allen puts forward to ask a man you’ve been dating for a while is; “I really enjoy spending time with you - how do I get more of that?”! - I’d definitely appreciate being asked that question! You have lovely blue eyes by the way! 😃
The interview questions! Loool I have done this purposely only one time because I wanted a guy who was too clingy to be turned off. He couldn’t take no for an answer so I asked like 20 questions and after he answered those then I emailed him another 20 until he just gave up.
Hey Mat, your video is so good. Thank you. Wish I have so much time with my man..he is incredibly playful, makes all sorts of jokes and he is a super story teller, music lover, dancer too, he loves art and I just love all of it. He is my world. I care
Thank you for all you do to educate us. I just finished your Mastery of Connection course and am bummed I I need to wait to join the MOM course. You are a great teacher and will follow you and sign up for your MOM when I can! Take care of you! ❤️❤️
I've never heard of a zombie apocalypse but decided to ask of each man I am good friends with. Kapow!!! These very conservative professional men's eyes lit up and they talked for 10-15 min while I sat still and nodded. They didn't need my input. What fun!! Carol Arizona
Thats good Mat. I have someone we are already 4 years best of friends, don't know exactly our status. We are living in a distance but if we're seeing each other, we have got a lot of questions and they are all answered from both of us. Excited what will be the next😍👍. I'm your great followers. Thanks Mat.
Hey Matt, these are great questions but when do i ask them? Since he is always to stressed and tired with work. Just can’t find the right moment. Thanks
Hi Mat! I'm in a committed relationship with a wonderful man but when I ask him meaningful questions he NEVER asks it back regardless of if it's deep or surface level. He tends to wait for things to uncover themselves, so he doesn't ask anything about me not even "what's wrong?" when I'm visibly upset. He does value my opinion and asks for my input often when making decisions. Question: It would feel good for him to ask about me too, is there any way to activate his curiosity and reciprocity?
I am facing the same thing.. Well.. the man I m dating(no doubt is a wonderful guy) spent his life studying and supporting his family. So he is a little inexperienced and often misses out any hint I give him.. I ask him meaningful questions, he answers them. But he doesn't replicate the questions .. rather he asks the wrong sort of questions..
Sorry darling. If your feeling unloved or unsatisfied. If your not able to have a serious conversation. The relationship is not "serious" After 6 months. You should know exactly where the relationship is heading. Plans. Marriage. Living together. Buying a home. You know his family. He knows yours. 😉💕
But you have to make a call so we could really exchange words ...ok? What do you want me to say or do in our next meeting...when would that be, by the way. Ty.😊💏
Oh my God.. I love listening and learning from you Sir. Thank you very much and now I'm so in love with you ,the way you help us women.. Please do more videos.. I seriously appreciate you Matt❤
Mat 🙂 , does your 🙂 mindset actually ever change from having been a former attorney 🙂 🥰 , you are still helping but you 🙂 are extremely specialised now and there is less paperwork 🙂-? You 🙂🥰 obviously love to share your 🙂 understanding of everything to help women even if it is something we know it is helpful to know how to use it correctly or not use it
Your comment is much appreciated! If you're thinking about dating again, our 'Are You Ready to Date Again?' quiz can help you figure out if you're ready. 🌸 mat-nlcmdzyq.scoreapp.com/
Fuck! This is why men become drawn to me when I have a conversation with them! because this is my type of talk! Anyway, I love you mat, but it's called FOOTBALL! It's played with feet okay ? Sorry I can't resist myself from this one 😂
Tell me, how are you these days.? Not really fearful of covid anymore compared to the past days? I am happy if you are. I could always pray again for you....ty. 😊
Hello, Mat! I was wondering what your opinion is on dating coworkers? I've been growing close to a man that I work with, and I have a feeling he might like me as well, but we work together, and so I'm not sure if pursuing a relationship with him is a good idea. What are your thoughts on this?
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I ask aquation to him the book we read togather and he say he will give the answer so you wait he told me than it been one week take to answers me, i need to remind him or still wait for him to text me.we are distance. 🙊???
Hey Mat, I gotta know your opinion about whether or not to let a man you take seriously about escorting occasionally even if it does not affect current relationship? Or do you think it could do more damaging? :(
Hi Matt, I need ur opinion bout something. I was goin to rent a room from a guy that I felt attracted to, due to his qualities I liked that he carried as a man. I told him, I have this attraction, & that I cld not rent this room from him cause things might get complicated. I did not want to effect my emotions. Now I'm thinking, I did the right thing & showed him my self worth & respect, but from a mans point of view, was I showing weakness, insecurities, & not being emotionally stable? Pls lmk!! Wld like to know if my decision can catch some attraction or did I just pull him away?
+:2:3:4:9:0:5:5:5:7:4:9:4:4 whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.
I am 70 years old and I have a man that's in his 40s we've not met but we sound serious to me it sounds serious what do you think it's a long distance relationship
+:2:3:4:9:0:5:5:5:7:4:9:4:4 whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.
There are things and I'm not open to like vulnerability I think I need to study the word just sounds like someone could attack you if you're vulnerable are you be seen as weak like your boundaries a beat down and someone could see that you're hurt or something or then something's wrong and why you're not vulnerable keep up your guard not let it down and get surround systems with all these teaching tapes videos always in your mind so you can do things because you forget about how to do it cuz you're mine won't recall with UA-cam beautiful tapes or videos I mean maybe I don't see him as being vulnerable I keep keeps things to himself I don't know if he has his guard up also that we're Fighters sometimes all these old songs keep coming to me all day love songs anyhow I hope to be well and herbal and to share things about myself that I wouldn't share with anyone but him and knowing that he loves me that he would accept me that way is that vulnerability and then for him to be vulnerable put down all my years of frustration and saying that because him and his mother's relationship I found out that he really wanted to protect his mom and his sister you really keeps me up not on a pedestal but he holds me in high esteem I should trust in these things I've been closed up so long and afraid because of the past but let's move on from you
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Hi Mat, seems like you really know what you're talking about. Do these questions apply for gay men too? I'm not the expert and not sure if you are in this specific area but thought I would ask your opinion
I ask him what he would like to be acknowledged for, if there’s anything missing in our sex life, things we like about each other, and where he sees us. Also asking him if he’s been taking care of himself seems to provoke intimacy or at least tenderness in men generally :)
This seems a little trivial but I love to ask questions about their past fun experiences/memories. I’ve discovered that many guys don’t talk to their guy friends about every little aspect of their lives like myself and many girls I know do with our girl friends, and so they crave someone to listen. I ask with curiosity and express genuine interest, making comments and asking them to elaborate where necessary. I love seeing people get all animated and excited and what they emphasise really exposes their values. Btw I typed this answer while watching and it lines up with your ‘story telling questions’ tip!
After 4 years from my husband's passing... when I think maybe I should put a toe in the water... I realize I just can't do it. I am not cut out for the dating scene. I think I have a better chance at finding a reputable necromancer at this point.
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1) Open Question/ Feelings
2) Playful Question/ Hyperthetical
3) Story Question/ Expand
4) Passion Question/ Excitement
5) Family Questions
6) Childhood Questions
7) Competitive Question/ Challenge
8) Vision Question/ Future
9) Past Relationships/ Lessons
Avoid
1) Interview Question/ no agenda
2) Fear Energy Questions
Interesting perspective, thanks so much!
Quality question ! Ask with energy , opened end question . Asking with why ,where and who ! playful questions . Story question connection to something watching or listening to . Ask passion question , like what has you excited right now . Question about his family ? Ask about his childhood ? Challenge him with fun . Ask him about his vision , what would you like to happen for years to come. Ask him about past relationships , when safe to know truth . You can make it a good thing. What did you learn from Your passed . And never ask in fear .
🤗
Thank you 😇
This is gold! I have a date in an hour, questions ready and I don’t feel as nervous as I usually would because I am not afraid of the outcome of this date, just happy to be getting a walk with a new person I can get to know 😊
Happy to hear that Sissel🥰 Lovelots! 🙏❤
Newly single after 9 years, and dating is so new to me, so I need advice badly. honestly, I never thought asking questions to build a connection as I am a bit shy. But this gives me some great ideas and I’m excited to try this. Thx for the support and confidence boost ! Dating is hard and I see so many struggle with it. So thank you 🙏 you will help many I’m sure .
+:2:3:4:9:0:5:5:5:7:4:9:4:4 whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.
Whstapp him
You got this!
Hey Mat! The lighting is doing wonders bringing out the color of your eyes!! And I agree that emotional connection is derived from wanting to get to know about him and his life and how he operates. Notice how he has his quirks and dislikes and likes. And find what all he is desiring for a successful life. A relationship isn't purely based on sex. Intimacy is much deeper than that. Humans ultimately crave authentic connection where you bond intellectually, emotionally, physically and mentally.
Absolutely true!
Mat are you wearing colored contacts? Your eyes look like Caribbean water! Incredible!!!
Wendy Havens aww thanks nope that’s just their color 🙏🙏😍😍😍😍
@@Mat_Shaffer seriously? Wow
Wendy Havens, I was just wondering the same thing.
Ur eyes are mesmerising!
Yes, I'm often mesmerised until I've to keep watching his videos over and over again... Hahaha
Mat has the most beautiful eyes, I’ve ever seen 😳😍
Knowledge Lover that’s so sweet thank you 🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️
I love my Grampa's stories! 😍Never looked at them this way like he said, but it makes sense why storytelling builds one's power!
Exactly!
I think the key with any of these questions is to weave them in organically into the conversation, and it means you really have to be an active listener - to not only hear what he's saying, but note if something makes him smile or if he starts talking excitedly, etc. These are great types of questions, and don't require a lot of "courage" on the part of us ladies to ask - it can be playful and warm!
Mat - did you say you were a lawyer? Ahh...that makes a lot of sense. Because a lawyer knows how to pick up on nuances in what a witness is saying, and can lead them with the questions to "spill the beans", so to speak (if that is the intent). I've seen some lawyers in action, and their strategies to get the truth to come out are intriguing!
Your smile and your eyes are so gorgeous they're almost illegal...🧲
+:2:3:4:9:0:5:5:5:7:4:9:4:4 whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.
Whstapp him
Interesting perspective, thanks so much!
i don't understand how your voice is so pleasing..
you don't have a microphone.
😊🤷♀️😼🤔
hi ! Mat !! omg! i always ask what your biggest fear ? what makes you happy and hows your ultimate dream?
How are you now?
I see those eyes again❣️🤗🙏
Be Enthusiastic Be Inspired great questions !!
I think he has already meltef without the talk/questions... God has made him..... Ty.😊😴
🤗
how will one know his answers if he wouldn't say a thing...!??? you expect us to guess what he's thinking!??not fair...🙄🤔I for one disagree.
conversation is still the best to getting to know each other.. 😢😳🤣👦👍🏿🐒🍌
you sound like a fool tlking to urself..... nonsense 😳🙄🤔👍🏿
thanks... adios!!
I’m so lucky I can ask him anything and he’ll answer me with honesty...
Amazing! love hearing that! ❤❤❤
You are a God send! 💫 Thank you for walking in your divine purpose.
You are so welcome!
I really appreciate how you summarize what you’ve discussed at the end of your videos. Thank you 😊
Its my pleasure.
I just love how positive these questions are! Thank you for all these great out-of-the-box ideas!
You are so welcome!
I am the conductor? That is nice....we can make a good music. I am excited for our album, hehehe.😊Ty looking forward to seeing you for a practice or sort of...😊
Thank-you Mat - You explained that really well. 👍🏽 I’ve subscribed to your channel. Another question Carol Allen puts forward to ask a man you’ve been dating for a while is; “I really enjoy spending time with you - how do I get more of that?”! - I’d definitely appreciate being asked that question! You have lovely blue eyes by the way! 😃
Thanks so much Paula-Elizabeth! 🙏❤️
Mat Shaffer Awww, No problemo Mat. 👍🏽✨
Thank you so much !! Wonderful and practical content ! ❤
Many thanks!
Hi, Mat! Been sending positive, healing light your way! 🌞
Wonderful thank you my dear!!
"Baby daddy audition" questions 🤣🤣🤣
Amazing!
😂
Your knowledge has been unique so far
on every one of your videos.
THANK YOU Matt! 🥳
keep it up!
take care & stay dafe during these times
in life.
Thanks so much Wendi Watson! 🙏❤️
The interview questions! Loool
I have done this purposely only one time because I wanted a guy who was too clingy to be turned off. He couldn’t take no for an answer so I asked like 20 questions and after he answered those then I emailed him another 20 until he just gave up.
😂
Sad
Lmfao
Hey Mat, your video is so good. Thank you.
Wish I have so much time with my man..he is incredibly playful, makes all sorts of jokes and he is a super story teller, music lover, dancer too, he loves art and I just love all of it. He is my world. I care
That's wonderful!!
Thank you for all you do to educate us. I just finished your Mastery of Connection course and am bummed I I need to wait to join the MOM course. You are a great teacher and will follow you and sign up for your MOM when I can! Take care of you! ❤️❤️
Thanks for this, really love that you did a recap at the end, super helpful! 👌
Glad it was helpful!
Are your eyes even real? 😍
😂
contacts
Its real..
I've never heard of a zombie apocalypse but decided to ask of each man I am good friends with. Kapow!!! These very conservative professional men's eyes lit up and they talked for 10-15 min while I sat still and nodded. They didn't need my input. What fun!! Carol Arizona
That's great!
But we become speechless when in person...ty.😊
🤗
This is my favorite questions best the open telling i love it all possibilities really helpful you are very good best advice.
Hoili Swu beautiful love it!!
Thats good Mat. I have someone we are already 4 years best of friends, don't know exactly our status. We are living in a distance but if we're seeing each other, we have got a lot of questions and they are all answered from both of us. Excited what will be the next😍👍. I'm your great followers. Thanks Mat.
Thank you so much! ❤❤❤
Hey Matt, these are great questions but when do i ask them? Since he is always to stressed and tired with work. Just can’t find the right moment. Thanks
Well then don’t bother him lolol
Give him praises & thank him ;)
But we will be able to talk and meet next year.pa....ty.anyway. God will make things possible. 😊
Nimfa Bangay 🙌🙌🙌
This video makes me smile a lot. Idk if its because of the topic or of your great vibes(and ocean eyes).
Maybe both ❤️
😂
@@Mat_Shaffer damn
dude nice harem!!! ;-)
Hi Mat! I'm in a committed relationship with a wonderful man but when I ask him meaningful questions he NEVER asks it back regardless of if it's deep or surface level. He tends to wait for things to uncover themselves, so he doesn't ask anything about me not even "what's wrong?" when I'm visibly upset. He does value my opinion and asks for my input often when making decisions. Question: It would feel good for him to ask about me too, is there any way to activate his curiosity and reciprocity?
Oh, good question. I'd like to see the answer too.
I am facing the same thing..
Well.. the man I m dating(no doubt is a wonderful guy) spent his life studying and supporting his family. So he is a little inexperienced and often misses out any hint I give him.. I ask him meaningful questions, he answers them. But he doesn't replicate the questions .. rather he asks the wrong sort of questions..
I’m curious because I’m a girl and I can be this way too (letting things uncover themselves lol) tell us how to reciprocate Matt!
Sorry darling. If your feeling unloved or unsatisfied. If your not able to have a serious conversation. The relationship is not "serious"
After 6 months. You should know exactly where the relationship is heading. Plans. Marriage. Living together. Buying a home. You know his family. He knows yours. 😉💕
Another truly excellent Master Class!. Thank you Mat!
My pleasure!
Hi Matt. Thanks for this! I was wondering about what kind of questions can you ask when a man has told you that he is depressed?
Susána Ramjit how can I support you?
Susána Ramjit you want to make him feel supported and understood and not alone
@@Mat_Shaffer and any suggestions on wording? I'm shooting in the dark here
But you have to make a call so we could really exchange words ...ok?
What do you want me to say or do in our next meeting...when would that be, by the way. Ty.😊💏
Oh my God.. I love listening and learning from you Sir. Thank you very much and now I'm so in love with you ,the way you help us women.. Please do more videos.. I seriously appreciate you Matt❤
You are so welcome Wyeth Han! 🙏
All I have to do is smile at a man to make him melt cuz am the Goddess of Spring
That's very sweet!
Thank you! I will try these tips!
You're so welcome! 🤗
Thanks for all your videos !!! Omg so amazing all the information you are sharing!
Glad you like them!
Mat 🙂 , does your 🙂 mindset actually ever change from having been a former attorney 🙂 🥰 , you are still helping but you 🙂 are extremely specialised now and there is less paperwork 🙂-? You 🙂🥰 obviously love to share your 🙂 understanding of everything to help women even if it is something we know it is helpful to know how to use it correctly or not use it
Sometimes
I was just about to ask rhe same thing when i looked down and saw your comment. I could go swimming in those Caribbean eyes.
Thanks so much for your feedback!
And what if he doesn’t have much of an answer to some of these questions? Like they say “I don’t know...” 🤷🏻♀️
I agree that's a struggle with some men
Then leave him
yep, I did it a month ago. He turned out to be a narcissist.
Thank you
Your comment is much appreciated! If you're thinking about dating again, our 'Are You Ready to Date Again?' quiz can help you figure out if you're ready. 🌸 mat-nlcmdzyq.scoreapp.com/
Just joined your course 💖
That's very sweet. Thank you🙏❤️✨
Hey Mat! Caught you on Antia’s panel! Great talk! Also... ten days off coffee! Inspired by you!! 💪😁
Boom!! Now it’s been almost 2 months and I feel so amazing 😍😍
It is time to rest.....Ty. so much for your efforts. Gnite.😴❤
Good night
Ty for your interest. 😊 i am interested of what story you want to share....
Great contrasts throughout May💕
Thanks so much Kim Gordon! 🙏❤️
Fuck! This is why men become drawn to me when I have a conversation with them! because this is my type of talk! Anyway, I love you mat, but it's called FOOTBALL! It's played with feet okay ?
Sorry I can't resist myself from this one 😂
😂
Finally! A GREAT video!
Hannah Daniel Hedlund woohoo 🤗
Hannah Daniel Hedlund thanks!
Tell me, how are you these days.? Not really fearful of covid anymore compared to the past days? I am happy if you are. I could always pray again for you....ty. 😊
Thank you for your kind words
I couldn t hear you cause the colour of your eyes,initially...I love see the sea in your eyes.
😊
Excellent Questions!!! Thank You Matt!!
You're welcome!
Draw a woman closer,.... have beautiful, clear, soft eyes. 🤗🤗😁+😍
You're makin' me blush!
@@Mat_Shaffer 😃🤭🤗🤗😁
I love Mat!!!! Such a hunk on all levels. Marry me? 😆
Aw shucks! 😊
Sterling?! That’s hilarious!!! 😂 ❤
Thank you for your honest feedback. It’s important to hear different perspectives, and I appreciate you sharing yours.
Hello, Mat! I was wondering what your opinion is on dating coworkers? I've been growing close to a man that I work with, and I have a feeling he might like me as well, but we work together, and so I'm not sure if pursuing a relationship with him is a good idea. What are your thoughts on this?
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Whstapp him
Go for it! :)
0:40 I thought I got a text message 😂😳
I did too🤣😂🤣
😂📱
Haha me too!
LOL same
If a guy was more interested in watchingTV than me I'd run away lol
Run for the hills!
Hi Mat, I see your hair is back to normal :)) great video. I hit the bell notification but getting none, any idea why?
But i dint want him to melt only softened....ty.😊
Nimfa Bangay haha!
I ask aquation to him the book we read togather and he say he will give the answer so you wait he told me than it been one week take to answers me, i need to remind him or still wait for him to text me.we are distance. 🙊???
You asked him about a book you read together? Maybe he doesn’t have an answer or forgot. I would just keep moving forward and let it go.
Nice video.
Can you cover more about open minded questions . It will be so good
Great suggestion!
Thank you
You're welcome!
Hey Mat, I gotta know your opinion about whether or not to let a man you take seriously about escorting occasionally even if it does not affect current relationship? Or do you think it could do more damaging? :(
Be careful with your beliefs! They create your reality.
Be careful with your beliefs! They create your reality.
He is taken so its up to him ....ty.😊
🤗
I think you're right
Thanks so much my dear!
He has melted a long time ago...ty.😊Hola!
Hello!
Your eyes are gorgeous!
Thanks so much MaryEllen Jenkinson! 🙏❤️
Excellent... I'm hooked for more
🤗
Where do you see yourself in 5 yrs is an interview questions!! 🤪
Hi Matt! I’m trying g to find the video where you address the “will you” statements but cannot find it. Will you help me?
Happy to help!
My gosh your eyes ❤
Amazing! ❤
I tried this and now he won't talk to me. He traded me for liars and someone older who loves drama. I want someone who only wants to be into me
Not all men are like that Lady Libra - I promise!
Ur eyes are mesmerising!
I really like the intro btw :)
Konfetti, Baby! Yay so glad!!!
Konfetti, Baby! Appreciate it!
Hi Matt, I need ur opinion bout something. I was goin to rent a room from a guy that I felt attracted to, due to his qualities I liked that he carried as a man. I told him, I have this attraction, & that I cld not rent this room from him cause things might get complicated. I did not want to effect my emotions. Now I'm thinking, I did the right thing & showed him my self worth & respect, but from a mans point of view, was I showing weakness, insecurities, & not being emotionally stable? Pls lmk!! Wld like to know if my decision can catch some attraction or did I just pull him away?
+:2:3:4:9:0:5:5:5:7:4:9:4:4 whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.
Whstapp him
Don’t give up on love sister!
Its been built.... Ty.😊
You are so welcome Nimfa Bangay! 🙏
Tysm ❤️❤️for this wonderful video 🥰🥰
My pleasure 😊
Gosh, I am terrible at forming Questions!!! More work yeah! Haha
You got this!😀
Hi,I hope you're doing well🙌
🤗🤗❤️❤️🙏 I am!
His eyes 😍
Ty.😊
:):):)
I am 70 years old and I have a man that's in his 40s we've not met but we sound serious to me it sounds serious what do you think it's a long distance relationship
+:2:3:4:9:0:5:5:5:7:4:9:4:4 whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.
Whstapp him
Don’t give up on love sister!
Women are from Venus, men are from Mars. Relationships are so much work! 😥
Yes, we are different, however different can be fun. Life is work, we enjoy some days and figure out the hard days just like relationships.
There are things and I'm not open to like vulnerability I think I need to study the word just sounds like someone could attack you if you're vulnerable are you be seen as weak like your boundaries a beat down and someone could see that you're hurt or something or then something's wrong and why you're not vulnerable keep up your guard not let it down and get surround systems with all these teaching tapes videos always in your mind so you can do things because you forget about how to do it cuz you're mine won't recall with UA-cam beautiful tapes or videos I mean maybe I don't see him as being vulnerable I keep keeps things to himself I don't know if he has his guard up also that we're Fighters sometimes all these old songs keep coming to me all day love songs anyhow I hope to be well and herbal and to share things about myself that I wouldn't share with anyone but him and knowing that he loves me that he would accept me that way is that vulnerability and then for him to be vulnerable put down all my years of frustration and saying that because him and his mother's relationship I found out that he really wanted to protect his mom and his sister you really keeps me up not on a pedestal but he holds me in high esteem I should trust in these things I've been closed up so long and afraid because of the past but let's move on from you
Thank you... How does one deal with younger to you and not get that Sugar Daddy trigger..because for me that is at times feeling to avoid commitment
Many thanks!
Wow, your eyes are incredible. Its looks like the Exuma waters in the Bahamas.
+:2:3:4:9:0:5:5:5:7:4:9:4:4 whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.
Whstapp him
Aw thanks you’re making me blush ;)
Hi Mat, seems like you really know what you're talking about. Do these questions apply for gay men too? I'm not the expert and not sure if you are in this specific area but thought I would ask your opinion
QUESTION OF THE DAY - What type of questions have you used to build intimacy with men in your life? Which do you want to use more of moving forward?
I ask him what he would like to be acknowledged for, if there’s anything missing in our sex life, things we like about each other, and where he sees us. Also asking him if he’s been taking care of himself seems to provoke intimacy or at least tenderness in men generally :)
“Tell me a favorite memory of growing up? “
Love it!!!
This seems a little trivial but I love to ask questions about their past fun experiences/memories. I’ve discovered that many guys don’t talk to their guy friends about every little aspect of their lives like myself and many girls I know do with our girl friends, and so they crave someone to listen. I ask with curiosity and express genuine interest, making comments and asking them to elaborate where necessary. I love seeing people get all animated and excited and what they emphasise really exposes their values. Btw I typed this answer while watching and it lines up with your ‘story telling questions’ tip!
What's something you accomplished and are most proud of?
What I wonder would you say, do to me when we next meet? I have a feeling that this August , you will resurface because you want to see me....ty.😊
Thanks for your comment!
Ty.
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Your eyes 🤩
That's very sweet.
After 4 years from my husband's passing... when I think maybe I should put a toe in the water... I realize I just can't do it. I am not cut out for the dating scene. I think I have a better chance at finding a reputable necromancer at this point.
Be careful with your beliefs! They create your reality!
You are awesome ♥️💋
Thanks so much Rosemary Calogero! 🙏❤️
Love your style, thanks for the content share, and you look like you are feeling better.
Scrub that boston on the head , lil cutie.
Will do!