thrift with me in nyc as a plus size girly

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  • @def_not_aspa
    @def_not_aspa Рік тому +121

    Something about Jessicas aura makes me love her so much

  • @hannahpaton6571
    @hannahpaton6571 Рік тому +95

    I just want to take a moment to say thank you! Your videos have been a game-changer for me as a plus sized girlie. You've encouraged me to experiment with my style and given me the confidence to wear them out. Keep doing what you do because you're making a positive impact on so many lives, mine included!

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Рік тому +15

      aww you have no idea how much that means to me!! thank you sm my love

  • @sandy80334
    @sandy80334 Рік тому +52

    Honestly as a plus size person my New Year’s resolution is learning to sew, make jewelry, and crochet. My brother always tells me we don’t negotiate with clothing, and being 25 I’m like yeah fuck discomfort in anyway.

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Рік тому +13

      same! I’d love to learn how to make my own clothes + alter the ones I have

  • @HorseFighty
    @HorseFighty 7 місяців тому +1

    I really respect the authenticity of not finding much and not overbuying. I love shopping, collecting, and self-expression, but with how normalized overconsumption is even in thrifting, it can be hard to not get something "just to get something." You're stunning and gorgeous as always stay wonderful

  • @mochi_ani
    @mochi_ani Рік тому +6

    The way that you’re an otherworldly goddess through and through. One of the reasons I love you and your channel so much is that you totally get that style is about how you feel, and that clothing is a cool ass form of expression - it’s not just about the look. (Which you’re always pulling the baddest, coolest, most unique looks I must add.) This whole video had me thinking about how my wardrobe must werk for me and that I want to continue to thrift things that I know I’m gonna get so much use out of! The snail tie was a must and your mom is an icon for many reasons including finding that dog bag. Sending u all the love Jess 🫰🏼🎋🪷✨🌸🎐🪩

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Рік тому +1

      aw you have no idea how much I appreciate ur love and kindness 🥺 thank you soooo much my love & I hope you have an amazing year

  • @Miztivin
    @Miztivin Рік тому +5

    As a plus sized person, I really appreciate this! The struggle is real and its nice to see someone my size style things.

  • @Leslie.P.
    @Leslie.P. Рік тому +63

    I have the same struggle! When I go thrifting with my skinny friends they always find cute stuff and I end up crying bc everything in my size is ugly 😩

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Рік тому +33

      when they find something in a size Medium and are like “this would be so cute on you” like …. ok babe 😭

    • @anikejulien7273
      @anikejulien7273 Рік тому

      @lovejessicablair I had a friend give me clothes to try on and she didn't even check the sizes before handing them to me, she just thought they were cute. It was an extremely long process realizing they all won't fit and I had to tell her that through the door in a public space. She meant well but oh my gosh 😭.

  • @cricketmhm8378
    @cricketmhm8378 Рік тому +6

    as a size 18 i really love your videos and content in general it has helped me so much. KEEP MAKING CONTENT GIRL

  • @DarthFurie
    @DarthFurie Рік тому +19

    I appreciate you sharing this, I wear between a size 10-14 depending on the garment and how I want it to fit, but I still have this mentality that thrifting isn't "for me." Every once in a while I'll go, but as a New Yorker I have only thrifted when I'm out of town. The thrifting scene in NY seems really different and my experience matches yours (expensive, disappointing, way less selection than out of town, and weird scenarios happening inside the stores lol)

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Рік тому +4

      honestly that’s why I usually also wait until I’m out of town (like visiting family in the midwest) to thrift :”)

  • @Emily-nj3bz
    @Emily-nj3bz Рік тому +53

    thank you for continuing to be proof that you can be hot and a baddie and Still Mask !!! it’s all connected !!

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Рік тому +14

      ofc!! will continue to mask + stay current on my boosters & encourage everyone around me to do the same !

  • @LeslieHecks
    @LeslieHecks Рік тому +3

    I’m so happy to see other body types as a young person I’m tried of seeing the same cookie cutter body type and the pressure to look that way but seeing you confident in your body makes me feel better and good in my own

  • @asoullesssubstitutefortheh1793

    You really make me feel so better girl, like I CAN'T stop watching your videos and shorts. I have a new inspiration in my style and fashion thanks to you!

  • @naomicordova9057
    @naomicordova9057 Рік тому +4

    vids like this make me feel so safe and happy in my own body

  • @h0neybee333
    @h0neybee333 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for making these videos you have such cute style! V much relate to thrifting as a size 18 being mostly *tumbleweed* and leaving w an interesting book instead

  • @TheHeatInColorPodcast
    @TheHeatInColorPodcast Рік тому +3

    you're so calming to watch and listen to your enthusiasm ❤️‍🔥 thank u

  • @emmy372_bce0
    @emmy372_bce0 3 місяці тому

    girl this is cracking me tf up. first video of yours that I’ve seen and i love you

  • @JJ888-k2x
    @JJ888-k2x 6 місяців тому

    Love the clothes but my favorite is the snail tie

  • @kat_church
    @kat_church Рік тому

    The little belt thing is honestly so true, I also live by that. As someone who lives for a layered fit, I always love how you style things so much.

  • @snybies
    @snybies Рік тому

    I love the sentiment you have about not needing to follow trends and instead make a wardrobe that one can instead style and feel good about no matter any trends that are big at the present moment!
    Love your style too, I adored the snail tie (I have snail earrings that reminded me of the print), and your black and grey striped scarf is so cute and fun!
    Your style makes me think sometimes of indie game characters or the early Resident Evil games! For some reason your outfits sometimes remind me of Claire Redfield. And the gorgeous furcoat is like If Albert Wesker was a super cool badass woman!

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Рік тому +1

      lmao my bf and I really loved the part about resident evil/albert wesker 😭 thank u my love!!

  • @vickyharris5244
    @vickyharris5244 Місяць тому

    That shell shirt!!!🤩

  • @GingerRootss
    @GingerRootss Рік тому

    THE FUR COAT OUTFIT IS EVERYTHING!!!!

  • @lauramayer4896
    @lauramayer4896 4 місяці тому

    In Portland, OR there has been a plus-size-only thrift store for decades. It has even survived several changes of owners! Not everything there was great the last time I went, but there were a lot of things to try. If a small city like PDX has a dedicated plus size thrift store, it seems as if there should be several in NYC.

  • @vedacarbone8561
    @vedacarbone8561 Рік тому +1

    I love your videos so much and the way you styled all the clothes at the end was SO cute

  • @chriskiefel7735
    @chriskiefel7735 Рік тому +1

    You go girl! Rock the clothes you love! Be you!!!!🥰

  • @sammiestuhr
    @sammiestuhr Рік тому +1

    you look SO CUTE in those little y2k glasses!!! Tina fe slayy

  • @fdd8747
    @fdd8747 Рік тому +1

    Snoopy is a king always

  • @Rellylee
    @Rellylee Рік тому +3

    Im a plus size girly from nyc and I know the BEST thrift stores that sell plus size, up to size 20 😊 but I’m afraid of telling people bc it’s a gem. Not me gatekeeping lol

    • @sing2meh
      @sing2meh 4 місяці тому

      Please queen share with me - I live in NJ I would barely ever even go! lol! Right now I’m a size 12, which I’m pretty sure isn’t technically plus, but it might as well be when it comes to thrifting. It’s like if you’re not 110 pounds, you’re out of luck 🙄🙄

    • @fambee158
      @fambee158 3 місяці тому

      pls let me know!, I’m struggling to find good thrift as a plus size girlie

  • @heidisegelke6243
    @heidisegelke6243 5 місяців тому +2

    I live in the NY suburbs and work in NYC and this is what I found: YOU CANNOT FIND ANYTHING IN OVERPRICED CITIES. I did what you did in NYC and Boston-go to the SUBURBS. Queens, less so BROOKLYN and Long Island-and I’m an 18-20. I found lots of stuff in American Thrift. I am 55 with E-clectic taste. You should have tons of luck. ❤

  • @TheCookieeis
    @TheCookieeis Рік тому

    I LOVE LOVE LOVE that you dont film strangers

  • @roojinaakthar5252
    @roojinaakthar5252 Рік тому

    You're so pretty just like a doll 💜 I love you, you're incredible ♥️

  • @lionfearts
    @lionfearts Рік тому

    jessica tina fey is an ICON

  • @erinrabideau3691
    @erinrabideau3691 Рік тому

    LOVE the glasses!! Great pieces!

  • @lunaalyeska9744
    @lunaalyeska9744 Рік тому

    Lazlo’s quote takes this video on a next level

  • @kelseychapman1174
    @kelseychapman1174 Рік тому

    Love these spots you chose! If you ever want more choices for thrifting, come to Bushwick. We have 3 L Train vintage stores that are walkable to one another plus a million others - perfect neighborhood for thrifting.

  • @Ilisnaam
    @Ilisnaam Рік тому

    I love your content, it feels so safe.. U are such an icon girl and I hope for more videos with thrifting (and hopefully with more fitting and cool, cheap clothes!!)))

  • @anolexolliver
    @anolexolliver Рік тому

    You say the most iconic things OMG "it's safe to say I do have trauma, and fear in my heart"‼️‼️‼️

  • @Andyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
    @Andyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy Рік тому +2

    Idk after watching you I feel more confident and wanting to piss people off by wearing clothes I like🔥 thank u for being inspiring 🫶🏼

  • @sandy80334
    @sandy80334 Рік тому +5

    I live in nyc so anytime someone thrifts here I get semi hopeful they’ll find more plus size accommodating stuff.

  • @EllisFern
    @EllisFern Рік тому

    I'm also plus sized and primarily thrift all my clothes. I usually have quite a bit of luck doing so, but I mostly shop the men's section. My style is kind of...goblin/grandpa core, I guess. So thrifted big man clothes work absolutely perfectly for that. 🤷
    Also! You absolutely give Penelope Garcia vibes! Omg that is so iconic. Low key jealous!

  • @sparksfly13
    @sparksfly13 Рік тому

    okay but the styiling portion?!?!? you killed it, the fits look amazing 🤭

  • @audreytaylorsversion
    @audreytaylorsversion Рік тому +3

    UR SO PRETTY ILY JESS🩷🩷🩷

  • @_st4reater
    @_st4reater Рік тому +3

    i hope this doesn’t come off as creepy but you look like you’d smell like caramel apples and cinnamon. you just embody early fall, your presence is just so comforting and warm

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Рік тому +2

      this is genuinely one of my favorite comments I’ve ever received :”) autumn is my favorite, thank u my love

  • @haileyabecassis3713
    @haileyabecassis3713 Рік тому +1

    You should make a video about how to thrift less and stop over consuming... it's my biggest struggle 😭

  • @SoaringSpear
    @SoaringSpear Рік тому

    That’s a good area to thrift! If you haven’t been to the L train over there, I think it’s worth it, they have a lot of true vintage. I think there’s also a crossroads in that area

  • @suruyuki
    @suruyuki Рік тому

    Always love your videos, they're so fun to watch!! Due to an unfortunate hair-incident involving bleach my hair is now a little orange, but you make me feel much better about it lol🧡

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Рік тому +2

      aw I’ve def been there and that’s why I’ll never bleach my hair at home again 🫶 I bet u rock it!!

  • @peristeris4749
    @peristeris4749 Рік тому +6

    Many things I want to say. First I love thrifting videos and especially if they are being filmed by someone I like! Second omg the respecting people’s privacy and not filming them without consent concept is so simple and yet people never get it! Like just don’t film strangers? Lastly, I’m gonna go back to finishing the video happy new year!

  • @melodaydream
    @melodaydream Рік тому +1

    I absolutely love your editing stye

    • @melodaydream
      @melodaydream Рік тому +2

      also I hope physical media comes back too! one of my goals for 2024 is to collect more physical media :)

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Рік тому

      aw thank u angel

  • @leeleescraps
    @leeleescraps Рік тому

    First time seeing your video and I totally empathize what thrift shopping and being plus size is like have you tried thread up I haven’t, but this would be a good opportunity to get a sponsorship from them. I see a lot of UA-camrs using thread up, and I think they have a big plus size selection, I don’t know just an opinion.

  • @Vintagewitchstyle
    @Vintagewitchstyle Рік тому

    I agree about the physical media with prices going up on streaming services and everything else really. I’m of a similar size, truthfully, a bit bigger. I’m a big thrifter and get, as much as, possible, second hand, (thrift, eBay, etc). I love raiding the mens section at the thrift. I’m very much a vintage lover and have an eclectic style. (I’m a sag.). I so need to add the Macklemore song to several of my playlists. I kinda forgot about it, tbh. I also have to be careful about wearing heels. I got a knee injury at work and found out I have arthritis in both knees. 🤦‍♀️ long story longer, I enjoyed your video because clearly I relate to quite a bit of it.

  • @OfCourseitsJulie
    @OfCourseitsJulie Рік тому

    Cool! You walked right past my building. You also missed what I think is the best thrift shop in the neighborhood, on Third Avenue between 22nd and 23rd.

  • @irinagromova5704
    @irinagromova5704 Рік тому +1

    Sooo cool!!! Love it❤❤❤

  • @stace_d
    @stace_d Рік тому

    Forgive me if it's been asked, but have you been to Plus Bklyn (in brooklyn)?? Secondhand clothing store that only sells plus sizes. They have slightly elevated prices, but awesome curation and it's a very charming shop

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Рік тому

      I have but it’s been awhile so I def need to go back and try again!

  • @kristinab8326
    @kristinab8326 Рік тому +3

    That fur coat is everything! Where did your mom find it?

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Рік тому

      fb marketplace! I forget the brand but you should def look on ur local marketplace + ebay

  • @naomicordova9057
    @naomicordova9057 Рік тому

    GORGEOOOUSSS ANGEL!!!! so stunning so perfect i- where did you get the glasses in the fur coat look?? IM PBSESSED ILYYYY

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Рік тому

      etsy !! you can find tons of cool frames on there + take them to your eye doctor to put prescriptions in them

  • @VickiLovell-g5f
    @VickiLovell-g5f Рік тому

    Love the Snoopy. The green plaid looks good on you. I have a degree in Fashion so I love the costume book. Have you had you color analysis done ? You should try it. You look like a True Autumn. Greens and browns look really good on you.

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Рік тому +1

      I haven’t but I have always known that jewel tones look best on me so that makes sense! thank you!

  • @ottozeman3260
    @ottozeman3260 Рік тому +2

    hot! girls! mask! up!!!!!!! (literally wild how few ppl mask and as an immunocomp person i truly appreciate seeing other creators who mask

  • @novellalongo808
    @novellalongo808 28 днів тому

    I saw that in New York you need to go to beacon's closet... it's like a Plato's closet so it's more curated... maybe you'll find more things

  • @kristie3592
    @kristie3592 Рік тому

    New York is different from the Midwest. I do find more plus-size thrift items in the Midwest. Still is a lot of Torrid though.

  • @emcatz
    @emcatz 10 місяців тому

    I’m crying laughing at “what I did find was… a fart smell” and the following description 😂💀

  • @Emily_onFashion
    @Emily_onFashion Рік тому

    Penelope Garcia is truly an icon!!! And you are as well!! Have you had that denim skirt in the last outfit long? Because I think you were the inspiration for why I picked up a similar one *with attached grommet belt.* Thank you for this amazing video!!! I love your outfits soooo dang much! 🖤🖤🖤

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Рік тому

      I haven’t had it for super long but I have made a few vids styling it! also ty my love

  • @duuuuuh5576
    @duuuuuh5576 Рік тому

    You're so pretty

  • @rileycook5798
    @rileycook5798 Рік тому

    Ur hair was looking STUNNING in this video! (also what hair dye brand and color do u use?)

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Рік тому +1

      I either use ion color brilliance or the garnier olia box dye in intense fire ruby ! (also thank u angel!!)

  • @HayleyRaphael
    @HayleyRaphael Рік тому

    You gotta hit the Plus Bus in brooklyn, and increase your budget if you can :)

  • @cosmohaltermandeochoa4828
    @cosmohaltermandeochoa4828 Рік тому +1

    loveeee come to brooklyn the thrift is soo much better for us fatties

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Рік тому +2

      I’ve actually thrifted in brooklyn before but I need to go again!! maybe that’ll be a second thrift w me

    • @cosmohaltermandeochoa4828
      @cosmohaltermandeochoa4828 Рік тому

      would be a major slay lmk if you ever need recs!!

  • @emilyackland2911
    @emilyackland2911 4 місяці тому

    11:40 um Tina Fey is cuteee, the Tina Fey look absolutely works 4 u

  • @xxxxxx-vd6yf
    @xxxxxx-vd6yf Рік тому

    777 views 😳 lots of luck for the new year babesss

  • @heidim1377
    @heidim1377 Рік тому

    You killed it!!! Fantastic looks escpecially the Penny Lane

  • @TheHeatInColorPodcast
    @TheHeatInColorPodcast Рік тому +1

    @11:20 givingggggggg 😊

  • @Abhrx4kr
    @Abhrx4kr Рік тому +2

    Slay queen

  • @thelmasmyth1521
    @thelmasmyth1521 Рік тому

    My daughter and I LOVE Garcia ❤

  • @_ammy_7708
    @_ammy_7708 Рік тому

    Beeaaauutifulllllll human. Inside and out. Love from England. 😊❤❤❤❤

  • @Joey-wu5su
    @Joey-wu5su Рік тому

    I love your hair you are beautiful not in a weird way just truth

  • @nameok1382
    @nameok1382 Рік тому

    Thank you for not starving us 😂🙏

  • @shaistaali9802
    @shaistaali9802 Рік тому

    Please could you tell me where is the fur coat from plus the bag ur mum got of Facebook market place

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Рік тому +1

      the coat is from fb marketplace and I’m not sure about the brand rn cause my friend is borrowing it! but the bag is from the brand “Chala”

  • @dontaskdontpastel
    @dontaskdontpastel Рік тому

    Great video 💕

  • @thevampiresuzanna
    @thevampiresuzanna Рік тому

    the laszlo clip😭😭😭

  • @anikejulien7273
    @anikejulien7273 Рік тому

    Girl wtf?!?!?! Are you having an event or meet and greet or something? I would love to meet you! Be careful in these slushy streets and I hope you enjoy your time here.

  • @dotink
    @dotink Рік тому

    My skinny adult daughters always fart when I thrift with them! Just rancid and I am like knock it off cuz everyone is going to think it's me cuz I'm fat 😂 My youngest walked up to me in an aisle the other day and said "do you smell that?" and I foolishly sniffed a big whiff 😂

  • @hopehensley
    @hopehensley Рік тому

    So in love with you Jessica, you're so beautiful

  • @greeneyedmimibostian3013
    @greeneyedmimibostian3013 Рік тому

    ❤we love ya

  • @rowaneddleston-mcgrath2111
    @rowaneddleston-mcgrath2111 Рік тому

    WWDITS MENTIONED !!!!

  • @chappellgroan
    @chappellgroan Рік тому

    The WWDITS reference took me out!

  • @Bobaandboba23
    @Bobaandboba23 Рік тому

    Is the first thrift store the one that plays African music if so I go there all the time lmao

  • @suzyvegetables
    @suzyvegetables Рік тому

    N ono no it’s slayonetta don’t even worry

  • @TheLeahmarie
    @TheLeahmarie Рік тому +1

    Thank you for trying to avoid filming strangers! ❤

  • @Tonitoni0273
    @Tonitoni0273 4 місяці тому

    Watching this 8 months after posted, physical media is trying to make a resurgence

  • @pritybird8502
    @pritybird8502 Рік тому

    Boyfriend q&a?

  • @jonnawyatt
    @jonnawyatt Рік тому

    There isn't a recession in the US Economy is quite strong.

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Рік тому +4

      wages are horrible, inflation is insane, housing is unaffordable, finding a decent job feels impossible. recession might’ve been the wrong word choice, but the sentiment remains