And the thing is, men like him will be with a woman for yearsss, and when they break up, he'll be with the next girl for a couple months & end up marrying that girl
I can answer why! Psychology student here! It's because after they see what they've lost they have a fear of not committing to the one they wanted but didn't end up with. So they commit too quick to prove they can commit and that the problem was with the other person the whole time. In reality, they're miserable in the marriage, while constantly thinking about and comparing their wife to the ex. Often they even marry someone who looks like the ex too.
@@jasmineG-c2fof maybe he just likes the new girl more....women are guilty of thinking they do nothing wrong... thats yall's downfall, no self-reflection
@@David-ol6zj so what if she is she looks better than your entire family and your girlfriend if you got one, you guys are damn bad you don’t have time to be talking about peoples age or anything women don’t even like you all anymore for the way you treated us for centuries
@@NadiaAdkins-f8d Jhene is settling. Yes she's joking about it here, but if you listen to her talk about the relationship over the years it seems like she wants marriage eventually. Big Sean doesn't want it at all and is comfortable with just having a long term GF
@@kellygreengables3936what is the difference between us living together and raising our son together and us going to the court house to sign papers and i buy you a 50,000 dollar ring just because im a millionaire when we could put that money in our kids accounts… yall females be worried about the wrong things
I told her on her insta a few yrs ago she deserved better. She liked it and then UNliked that shit SO FAST😂 Girl, several yrs later and it's still true.
Girl he already done told everyone he ain’t tryna marry you😂 He said y’all got stuff to work on before marriage…. But not before you carry his baby🤦🏾♀️
Cuz what? What you mean we got stuff to work on? Im monogamous and your monogamous...we live together...🤔 WE'RE ALREADY MARRIED FOOL. So what is the difference in lifestyle? Why not be legal? Men are crazy 🤣
@@Mindyourbusiness122 It matters bcuz weak, immoral, and garbage men are ruining and misusing women by not marrying the woman who loves you and then building a large family with such. Even if you happen to feed your future babysitters, your 🐓, the woman you marry should be a virgin, but she is you other half. So don't marry a girl who isn't a virgin or worst case, make sure has only one or two past sex partners otherwise just as unlimited research documents that such promiscuous females are incapable of maintaining a long-term committed relationship.
But How do People just assume she is not happy I know the Best way is a ring But It takes more than the wedding it's a Daily forever Task and there are a lot of People Even Probably commenting that got. The ring Maybe even right and How Did that work for You Sis so stop examining Their thing
@@faerieangeltaitaibecause she’s made it PAINFULLY clear that she wants to be married, so it’s not all jokes, fun & games. Of course she’s going to play it off in front of a crowd of people because why react in a way that embarrasses her even more & proves that she does feel some type of way about him not marrying her … tf was she supposed to curse him out or storm off the stage? Na she’s too “demure” for that but she’s made it very clear she wants to be married. He got a baby out of her & she become a baby mother…. Everyone with half a brain knows she settled
You can't pressure him into something he doesn't want to do Jhene. Go love yourself and forget his ring because the man God has for you won't have to hint it to him.
Ohhhhhh she's a Pisces?! Now I understand (as a Pisces) why she's so dumb. We truly are always tryna love somebody more than ourselves smh. Look at Chrisean Rock!!
@@gxselle-po1fc i dont have any children. If i did and my girl was more concerned about a wedding than she was about raising our children i would be alarmed
She will never get one because she accepted crumbs. He will just keep wasting her time and soon she will be 50 and still hoping and hoping. Tale as old as time.
Who said she’s not getting the same in return ?!? Who said she loves and loves for years. If someone isn’t marrying you, there’s a reason for that and she’s still there so it matters not. You don’t know what goes on behind closed doors
Everyone who keeps saying " its just a ring", tell that to the bank,courthouse and mortician when the *realities* of life hit👂🤫Trust...*they* dont want to hear about "a bond" on nary a document. Rich or poor,most dont think that far ahead until tragedy is right thuur😮💨🤔
Happened to my aunt. She spent 13 years with her man and he never married her. He died and his adult kids barred her from his funeral. Because she had no legal claim to that man she couldn't even see him buried. Wasnt his next of kin so she couldn't eem stay in the house they lived in ...his daughter kicked her asz right tf out! He cheated on their mom with my aunt. They took the opportunity to let her have it in the worst way. I don't really blame them but dang .. marriage is definitely important
Straight facts, I worked in probate for a minute, when the guy passes, the GF might get just some kibbles and bits, unless he left a will, regardless of how many kids you have by him If you just a GF, the courts don't want to hear, we moved in together been together 10, 20 years ago The judge is going to say do you have a marriage license to prove that you are the WIFE 🤔🤔🤔 NO judge, Whelp you just have to let the chips fall where they may cause now you have all these family members that want to be the executor of his estate especially if there's a lot of money or real estate involved, being married in the courts weighs 99.9 percent HEAVY HEAVY believe it, ask a civil attorney ladies and get it right in case something happens to your man and you just laying up especially if you have kids✍🏽✍🏽✍🏽✍🏽✍🏽
@@thehyenamakeupslayer3819✍🏽✍🏽✍🏽✍🏽✍🏽 that part, if he passes away and you just a girlfriend with his kids the don't even acknowledge you just laying up with this guy, so you might get social security for his kids
Married or not if a man wants to ensure his woman is taken care of from both a rights / financial perspective he can make formal arrangements to ensure that that happens. You don’t need to be married to someone in order to make that happen.
@@PSYCHDEGREE63 why do western women sleep with men without requiring marriage first then? I’m African, I know some people also do this, but everyone knows it’s a no no, on a cultural level, that’s with most cultures around the world. Over here you can just move in with a girlfriend and her relatives don’t say nothing, which was a culture shock to me at first.
Wow desperation doesn’t look good on us. There’s no need for it. So many people would love to be with her and raise his children. I see it happen all the time
Raise HIS children ? While some definitely would . Women gotta understand a lot of men not trying to deal with your baby daddy issues from hating ass exes
@@prophetmonitaylor144thousandBut are they not the father? If you choose to spill your seed in a woman you don’t want to deal with as a baby mother….what kind of man does that make you?
Big Sean mentioned that marriage should enhance a relationship, and he wasn't wrong. The common narrative around marriage often overlooks the reality that many married couples are unhappy and feel isolated, despite being legally bound. Some couples raise children alone while still technically married. True commitment is crucial. While anyone can get married, the key is in making it last through dedication to personal growth, compromise, overcoming challenges, and resisting temptation. Criticizing unmarried couples having a baby is immature. Both individuals are financially secure and emotionally prepared to be parents. The public's judgment lacks foundation and is merely projecting. Bringing up marriage is unnecessary, especially since many selectively follow biblical teachings. Most people engage in premarital sex, promiscuity, drinking, drug use, careless talk, and gossip, all of which are considered sinful.
Hi from the D…I know for a fact that your statement isn’t true 😅 think quality…just because people are married doesn’t mean that their partners are valued moreover I know so many trash azz men and women who aren’t even committed to the rings that they wear let alone their spouse fft
Shout out to the women giving whole children (a lifetime commitment ) to men that feel skeptical about marriage. Please don’t give his future wife hell when you become the baby mother he co parents with alongside his wife in the home y’all used to play house in. Happens ALL THE TIME, but y’all don’t listen. And for the men that think she can’t leave because she’s stuck with you, mess around and find another man raising your kids. All that young mentality shit goes out the window when you become old enough to realize life is too short for unfulfilling relationships and fear of starting over. Thirties is really that make it or break it decade, just take a look around at the evidence.
What are you basing that on? Her looks? Do you know her personally? She could be toxic behind closed doors and that’s why he doesn’t marry her. If it’s looks he could literally get a doppelgänger of her so similar people wouldn’t be able to tell the difference.
@@lealand07 Why stay and have a baby w her then if she was toxic? I’m not basing it on looks alone, she’s talented and a kind person and obviously patient to be w someone like him.
@@joparis957what do you know about him? Why are you making it seem like she is surviving him rn… she’s obviously happy and shes trolling the audience.. they have a child together.. according to the bible they are married
So should i not do husband duties until i decide to make you my wife? Im just trying to understand what it is about a ring that makes you feel secure.. do you think that ring is a special tool to unlock my pants or something? U think i cant cheat on you if we married? Or you just like the idea of being able to legally take my stuff if i do cheat? So then you dont want to get married for love you want to get married for your own selfish reasons… i mean make it make sense😊
@@TimesUhave2BA_radicalintellect First and foremost Gdevening...and I have time today,,before u negatively came at me,u should have checked my profile..I'm an Healthcare Administrator Nurse..for 26 years...I became an Nurse at the age of 19..19..I married my exhusband..who was in military ,stay married to him for 21 years..I've been working DOD for 21 years..my credit A1..I was a Virgin when I married my husband all my babies by my husband..I'm the 1 who filed for divorce..A Ring classifies a union..reading the Bible and being obedient, God says when u find your wife ,u have found a great thing I will Bless that union..God didn't say go and find s>mple minded men um so like yourself who mind is not stronger than your heart..because P....and D......lies in the heart..u definitely need to not only get in the word and become obedient, but also pray for that mind and your heart,before u come for me...I'm a Big Boss that handles Big Bussiness..my name Ring Bells..not only that,it's whole lot of Successfull Gorgeous Sisters out here...we can buy our ownsnizzit..u a joke...go work on your credit...or better yet..get in that word..sex ain't everything,,if u or your partner get sick..your relationship is built off of sex,then what,,,,,Have A Blessed Day...I do alot of missionary work...for this lesson today I will be expecting a generous donation..or u can send supplies..we appreciate it..Hugs and Kisses....Administrator Nurse Teree Knight
@@teriwalker1222 i see how you ended up single… and the fact that you just typed all of that in the most manipulative, condescending, blasphemous, oxymoronic, egotistical fashion is beyond reprehensible. I wont revert to petty insults the way you attempted, instead i will just pick your point apart… you listed off all your accolades but failed to list the only one that matters in this conversation “divorced” you failed at a marriage and you got a ring.. your ring did not save you from decades of wasting time with the wrong person.. he gave you a ring and you being married to an active service member benefitted you in other ways.. you used that man for his benefits.. but because he gave you a ring and signed the paper you are legally allowed to get away with it.. a ring classifies a union? What bible verse says that a ring is what classifies the union.. not a single verse says the woman needs the ring.. you cherry picked proverbs 18:22 and try to make it seem like it means a man must kneel to the woman and do whatever makes her happy… no.. we do what is best for the next generation.. and thats what they are doing.. they are working together for their son that none of you women in these comments seem to want to acknowledge… you are all talking about her happiness but not about their child they have together which shows your level of primitive selfishness
I remember watching this video of them on a video chat and I thought they were so ill matched. They proved me wrong by staying together this long though.
Ugh I wish she would let him go ….. why are women good enough to call girlfriend and have your babies but you can’t marry them but want them to stay loyal. It’s sick
My honest opinion; A baby is the HIGHEST honor a woman can give a man. It locks you in permanently through bloodline. Marriage is mostly throughly law. Which is reversible. In the nursery song: That why they say: -First comes love -Then comes marriage -Then comes the baby.... So to my women: PLEASE have VERY high standards on who you sleep with and make a baby with.
No matter how annoyed you get with your partner, NEVER put your business out in the streets. It might feel cathartic to vent, but people never forget and don't have enough context to forgive your partner once you all make amends.
Partner lol, western people love doing things in reverse. You sleep with someone and then demand a wedding ring? How crazy is that in every other culture.
@@WrittenandSpoke No matter how long it's been coming, once you put some stuff out there you can never take it back, because the damage is done. Let's say he was planning a big proposal next month - now it will look forced. Let's say he never proposes - people will point to this as the reason. It's much better to keep private matters private.
@@David-ol6zj as long as you’re alive you do what’s best for you and don’t have to settle for anything sooooo I don’t know what you’re trying to say MR BASIC 😑 “bruh” “she 40” acting like she’s a car with miles… she’s human like you and men who talk like you are childish
Awe that’s sad I’ve read they’ve been together a while and she clearly wants marriage he doesn’t he’s not a husband smh and they have a family together. I would feel embarrassed but he should to for having a family with this woman being together for a while and not know if your ready to marry and gives excuses as to why such the long wait your confused your lost your childish ain’t no man who got it together confused like that smh.
@@shaypope4732 how is marriage going to suddenly change their lives exactly? Marriage was created by the church, for the union between man and woman before God. Majority of entertainers don’t even believe in God, so what the point other than some legal stuff?
They are a very beautiful talented couple & wonderful parents best wishes to them whether they choose to ever get married or not it's their life not ours simple as that as long as they're happy together
@@Ajcarter95 if ur going to have something negative to say spell it right. Thats another thing about Piscesan people always want our attention ☝🏽2 last comments 🙄 any we don't care. Lmfao 😂.
That’s ppl problem no context if ppl listened to ppl off the internet. Some of yall just swear these celebrities don’t be messy cuz they be yall fav until the full story come out
Not wanting to solidify your commitment to the person you see yourself spending your last days on Earth with is the greatest display of selfishness/immaturity/lack of discipline. And like someone else said, no one cares about your bond if it’s not somewhere on paper.
He must not see himself with her forever. There is a reason(s) why he is not marrying her. The commitment should already be there before the papers are signed. The papers just prove commitment to the state law.
@@msch3891 Agreed, it doesn’t take that long to decide if you want to take that step with someone. To me, it not only shows your commitment legally, but also to God and your family.
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@@ToLovelyJesus wouldn’t all the other commenters be different from me? Are you counting yourself, are we the same person? What are you trying to say, exactly?
He smacked her hand away like girl you know we not getting married 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
😭😂
💯 like girl hush 😂
Damn…smh
And the thing is, men like him will be with a woman for yearsss, and when they break up, he'll be with the next girl for a couple months & end up marrying that girl
He engaged to Naya Rivera after a few months of knowing her
I can answer why! Psychology student here! It's because after they see what they've lost they have a fear of not committing to the one they wanted but didn't end up with. So they commit too quick to prove they can commit and that the problem was with the other person the whole time. In reality, they're miserable in the marriage, while constantly thinking about and comparing their wife to the ex. Often they even marry someone who looks like the ex too.
@@jasmineG-c2fof maybe he just likes the new girl more....women are guilty of thinking they do nothing wrong... thats yall's downfall, no self-reflection
@@jasmineG-c2fwow, omg, really?! Damn I didn’t know. great job though 👏🏾 😂😂😂
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She deserves so much better
🥺
She is foolish.
She obviously doesn’t think so because she’s still there almost 10 yrs or so later🤦🏾♀️
They deserve each other.
Every woman does.
They have to realize it first.
She don’t want better she want Sean
Big shawn: i never cheated... not even once or twice
Me in the crowd: it was 3 times
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did he really?
😂
That would have been me ong😂
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That break up album from Jhene bout to be 🔥
Can’t wait
Yep!!
Yep that MF gonna go platinum! 😂
Y’all foul 😂😂
😂😂😂 I’m here for it. Back on my B.S REMIX
Background dancer behind Jhene is giving the Living Single silhouette dancer lmaooooo
Damn that's accurate and funny af😂
So true 😮😂😂😂
Big Lez silhouette 🔥
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
She really said what ring 😂
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Bruh ain't she 40???
@@David-ol6zj I don't know her age.
@@David-ol6zj so what if she is she looks better than your entire family and your girlfriend if you got one, you guys are damn bad you don’t have time to be talking about peoples age or anything women don’t even like you all anymore for the way you treated us for centuries
@@David-ol6zjtheir both 36
Remember that there's a big difference between not getting married because it's mutually agreed upon and not getting married because you're settling!
Then what u call this??
@@NadiaAdkins-f8dshe’s settling
@@kj7682 Exactly!!! To say shes “happy” is just a bunch of bs. DELUSIONAL is a better word for it
@@NadiaAdkins-f8d Jhene is settling. Yes she's joking about it here, but if you listen to her talk about the relationship over the years it seems like she wants marriage eventually. Big Sean doesn't want it at all and is comfortable with just having a long term GF
@@kellygreengables3936what is the difference between us living together and raising our son together and us going to the court house to sign papers and i buy you a 50,000 dollar ring just because im a millionaire when we could put that money in our kids accounts… yall females be worried about the wrong things
The humiliation is crazy.😂😂😂😂😂
Self humiliation at that... and self sabotage. What a sad example to set for her daughter, as well as their son.
@@humblymelanated2804Yesss.💯💯
@humblymelanatedH2804 hope the baby or grown up never see this Oh boy will be 6x disr spected by the SON boys l😅be there momma's well SOME.
Instead of pulling her close he moved her hand away 😭😭😅 I’m shook
I’m not easily embarrassed but that was embarrassing to even watch
Ok it was the NECK ROLLLLLLL for me he is MALE DOG NOTHING SURPRISED.
What you shocked for? Who you embarrassed for?
I told her on her insta a few yrs ago she deserved better. She liked it and then UNliked that shit SO FAST😂 Girl, several yrs later and it's still true.
Oh wow 😮
Look at him smiling, laughing at her. Knowing he'll never give her a ring and she'll never leave. 😊
How do ya come up with this 😂😂😂 wtf did I js read
The internet bring out weird mfs
The smiley nailed the coffin SHUT 💀
Ouu SHIT. Reading this just confirmed that i made the right decision 🙏🙏
@@MJ-qb6pq you'd have no qualms about your sister/daughter/niece dating a man for 10+ years with nothing to show for it?
Girl he already done told everyone he ain’t tryna marry you😂 He said y’all got stuff to work on before marriage…. But not before you carry his baby🤦🏾♀️
That last part
Cuz what? What you mean we got stuff to work on? Im monogamous and your monogamous...we live together...🤔 WE'RE ALREADY MARRIED FOOL. So what is the difference in lifestyle? Why not be legal? Men are crazy 🤣
Oop-
Hurt my soul when he said that I know she in pain !!!! She need to move ooooonnnnnnn….. a baby but nothing else HE A MESS
Very messy
That's embarrassing
That lil hand/finger swipe he did was so cringe and yet said it all at that same time 😭
Hurt my feelings and I’m not even there smhhh
@@goldblooded283same
The "what ring" in the middle of a concert or him smacking her hand away?
@@xlittleblackwolfxBoth imo
Always the finest ones that settle for less
Finest how?
@@ataurusqueenofzion916finer than you
@@mrevilren6507 in what sense?
sadly that's what he'll probably do if not her
@@ataurusqueenofzion916Sweetie she looks better than you is what they trying to say
Jhene accept bare minimum from Big Sean that is why he treats her like that
Some women get treated worse with a ring or more. Its the person.
Like what? Ppl swear they know ppl business.
@@nicolewilliams7594😂 Exactly. And dont know shit about these folks😂🤦🏽♀️
It's sad that you are such a follower that u use trending statements and don't actually know anything about their relationship
Treat her like what? 😂😂
Sis need to move along. Cuz he ain’t proposing no time soon
And why you care she seem to be happy.
@@Mindyourbusiness122 It matters bcuz weak, immoral, and garbage men are ruining and misusing women by not marrying the woman who loves you and then building a large family with such.
Even if you happen to feed your future babysitters, your 🐓, the woman you marry should be a virgin, but she is you other half. So don't marry a girl who isn't a virgin or worst case, make sure has only one or two past sex partners otherwise just as unlimited research documents that such promiscuous females are incapable of maintaining a long-term committed relationship.
@@duchessofthedorksit’s clearly a man responding. He wouldn’t get it 🙄
But How do People just assume she is not happy I know the Best way is a ring But It takes more than the wedding it's a Daily forever Task and there are a lot of People Even Probably commenting that got. The ring Maybe even right and How Did that work for You Sis so stop examining Their thing
Why is that reason to leave him though? Just be quiet
He was low key embarrassed when she said that 😂😂😂😂
He should be
No he wasn’t cause she already proved she dumb enough to be played with like a lot women.
not even close keep on rapping his madness
She was joking too she know she not getting no damn ring
I'm reading these comments like "how did everybody else miss that?"
But she meant it. She wants a ring but she's already 40
@@faerieangeltaitaibecause she’s made it PAINFULLY clear that she wants to be married, so it’s not all jokes, fun & games. Of course she’s going to play it off in front of a crowd of people because why react in a way that embarrasses her even more & proves that she does feel some type of way about him not marrying her … tf was she supposed to curse him out or storm off the stage? Na she’s too “demure” for that but she’s made it very clear she wants to be married. He got a baby out of her & she become a baby mother…. Everyone with half a brain knows she settled
😂😂fact’s she’s accepted it now
@@David-ol6zj🤷🏽♀️ what does being 40 have to do with getting married?
You can't pressure him into something he doesn't want to do Jhene. Go love yourself and forget his ring because the man God has for you won't have to hint it to him.
She a 304 she not going nowhere
@@bayareaplaya6004your sentence contradicts itself 😂.
@@brittanytillis5250it really does 😂😂😂
@@brittanytillis5250 do you know how pimpin works?
@@bayareaplaya6004please explain
He like chilll ouuuuutttt😂😂
😂
That “what ring” was deep af 😂😂
Smacking her hand away answered her question 😂
She’s getting tired of his shit now. Sis can’t pretend and went “off script”😂
She had a ring and divorced dude for Sean & well yeah 😂😂😂
Really?? Oh damn. He's probably enjoying this
Exactly!!!! Like you got exactly what you wanted, don’t cry now.
Dang for real? I didn’t know that😩
Oooh nooo 😮🤦🏾♀️
Who was she engaged to I don’t member? lol 😂
Hate to say it but Jhene is a true March Pisces like myself I settled until I didn’t anymore praying for her to wake up ❤️
lol everyone has their own breaking point and when she’s ready to move on if she does, then she will
Ohhhhhh she's a Pisces?! Now I understand (as a Pisces) why she's so dumb. We truly are always tryna love somebody more than ourselves smh. Look at Chrisean Rock!!
Pisces has zero to do with it.
She will have to move on with a kid by a man that doesn't cherish her..that's the sad part
Yea..no..Some March pisces don't play that issh like my mama. Just bc you have the same sign doesn't make you the same. Smdh..Why are yall like this?
I'm sorry I'm trying to focus on big Sean not being shit but that background dancer is *GETTING IT*
Right I noticed the dancers in the back too😂😂
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All these girls triggered by this show yall dont know how relationships work
@@TimesUhave2BA_radicalintellectand you do? 😂 men really ain’t shit.
@@gxselle-po1fc i dont have any children. If i did and my girl was more concerned about a wedding than she was about raising our children i would be alarmed
She will never get one because she accepted crumbs. He will just keep wasting her time and soon she will be 50 and still hoping and hoping. Tale as old as time.
How the hell do you know that ?
People like you are weird thinking they know someones relationship
@@GRL0122its the truth
Ninja got 4 years tops 😂
@@GRL0122they’ve known one another for almost ten years, and recently had a child. He doesn’t wanna marry her, just wants access to her. Lmao
😂
He’ll marry the next one immediately
He engaged to naya in like a few months
Yep. They always do.
Wow! how women can love and love for years and can't get the same thing in return sometimes I wish I had feelings like a man 🥺💜💜💜
You need to be more logical and less emotional...
@@soulplay6995 yup, facts. just had this chat w my birth dad.
There are a lot of callus women as well
Who said she’s not getting the same in return ?!? Who said she loves and loves for years. If someone isn’t marrying you, there’s a reason for that and she’s still there so it matters not. You don’t know what goes on behind closed doors
So to the hell with the years and years of reciprocated love, if a ring isn’t involved it dont count huh. Now thats some girl math for your ass😂😂
She took her shot and bro didn’t fold..
So sad 💀
Man of his word
"When they show you who they are, BELIEVE THEM!"
He a liar they usually very delusional and believe they own lies 😂
@@MsChi83Please even if you have to put in the glasses 👓
You should never wait on a man to give you a ring. Let God provide you the man who is ready for marriage.
wow, she sure did. but he was wrong for mentioning a non-existent ring 💍 😂😂😂
Well shyt it’s the lyrics
@@MoeSoNatural😂right that song came out well before they started dating
Reading your comment makes my brain hurt
@@kjbishop6025well read it again until u get a brain aneurysm
😂😂😂😂
LOL...Jhene's reaction when he rapped "I never cheated" 😂 smh
She tapped her hand like, " girl, don't start ur foolishness."
Everyone who keeps saying " its just a ring", tell that to the bank,courthouse and mortician when the *realities* of life hit👂🤫Trust...*they* dont want to hear about "a bond" on nary a document.
Rich or poor,most dont think that far ahead until tragedy is right thuur😮💨🤔
Happened to my aunt. She spent 13 years with her man and he never married her. He died and his adult kids barred her from his funeral. Because she had no legal claim to that man she couldn't even see him buried. Wasnt his next of kin so she couldn't eem stay in the house they lived in ...his daughter kicked her asz right tf out! He cheated on their mom with my aunt. They took the opportunity to let her have it in the worst way. I don't really blame them but dang .. marriage is definitely important
Straight facts, I worked in probate for a minute, when the guy passes, the GF might get just some kibbles and bits, unless he left a will, regardless of how many kids you have by him
If you just a GF, the courts don't want to hear, we moved in together been together 10, 20 years ago
The judge is going to say do you have a marriage license to prove that you are the WIFE 🤔🤔🤔
NO judge,
Whelp you just have to let the chips fall where they may cause now you have all these family members that want to be the executor of his estate especially if there's a lot of money or real estate involved, being married in the courts weighs 99.9 percent HEAVY HEAVY believe it, ask a civil attorney ladies and get it right in case something happens to your man and you just laying up especially if you have kids✍🏽✍🏽✍🏽✍🏽✍🏽
@@thehyenamakeupslayer3819✍🏽✍🏽✍🏽✍🏽✍🏽 that part, if he passes away and you just a girlfriend with his kids the don't even acknowledge you just laying up with this guy, so you might get social security for his kids
Married or not if a man wants to ensure his woman is taken care of from both a rights / financial perspective he can make formal arrangements to ensure that that happens. You don’t need to be married to someone in order to make that happen.
@@PSYCHDEGREE63 why do western women sleep with men without requiring marriage first then? I’m African, I know some people also do this, but everyone knows it’s a no no, on a cultural level, that’s with most cultures around the world. Over here you can just move in with a girlfriend and her relatives don’t say nothing, which was a culture shock to me at first.
Wow desperation doesn’t look good on us. There’s no need for it. So many people would love to be with her and raise his children. I see it happen all the time
Raise HIS children ? While some definitely would . Women gotta understand a lot of men not trying to deal with your baby daddy issues from hating ass exes
Is jhene aiko black or just black adjacent ?there's a difference before you open your mouth
P@@prophetmonitaylor144thousand nor are women trying to deal with baby mama drama. Goes both ways.
You saw her try to shake it off with a smile😭😭😭☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️
@@prophetmonitaylor144thousandBut are they not the father? If you choose to spill your seed in a woman you don’t want to deal with as a baby mother….what kind of man does that make you?
That one tik toker who said Big Sean looks like a muppet
A baby but no ring, that is not goals
A baby.. with a man who is a great father.. and loves you… and yall have made millions of dollars together.. dont forget those parts
@@TimesUhave2BA_radicalintellectFuture BabyDaddy here
But a baby & no ring is better than a ring the daddy don't want to have.
But yal act like thats not normal for yal women today.. why shame the next woman
@@TimesUhave2BA_radicalintellectthe only women who will agree with you are low hanging fruit
It’s crazy how wise she comes across yet she rly is dingy
Ain’t it tho!!!!
U know this cuz you met her? 😱
Most pisces are corny
@@Sacredwoman22We're watching that shyt in real life 😂
Love can make you do some crazy/stupid things.
He smacked her hand like “girl, quit playing with me “
Yo😂😂😂
She sick of him😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
That’s why we tell y’all to not have the baby first before getting married. Y’all don’t listen that why yall end up in situations like this
Just don't marry a dude at all if you gotta deal with all their hoops
Big Sean mentioned that marriage should enhance a relationship, and he wasn't wrong. The common narrative around marriage often overlooks the reality that many married couples are unhappy and feel isolated, despite being legally bound. Some couples raise children alone while still technically married. True commitment is crucial. While anyone can get married, the key is in making it last through dedication to personal growth, compromise, overcoming challenges, and resisting temptation. Criticizing unmarried couples having a baby is immature. Both individuals are financially secure and emotionally prepared to be parents. The public's judgment lacks foundation and is merely projecting. Bringing up marriage is unnecessary, especially since many selectively follow biblical teachings. Most people engage in premarital sex, promiscuity, drinking, drug use, careless talk, and gossip, all of which are considered sinful.
It's crazy how even getting married nowadays means nothing. You can still become a single mom.
Sir who are you referring to 😂?
@@minimal4chocolate840 to whoever the shoe fits lol
I love jhene tho
Comfort inn freestyle NEVER GETS OLD
He’s a Detroit dude, she will damn near have to die to get married.
Hi from the D…I know for a fact that your statement isn’t true 😅 think quality…just because people are married doesn’t mean that their partners are valued
moreover I know so many trash azz men and women who aren’t even committed to the rings that they wear let alone their spouse fft
That's dumb . That's like saying me saying if I see a black woman I'll say oh she black you know she a single mom.
FACTS IM FROM DETROIT
💯💯💯
He's black, that's enough
Shout out to the women giving whole children (a lifetime commitment ) to men that feel skeptical about marriage. Please don’t give his future wife hell when you become the baby mother he co parents with alongside his wife in the home y’all used to play house in. Happens ALL THE TIME, but y’all don’t listen. And for the men that think she can’t leave because she’s stuck with you, mess around and find another man raising your kids. All that young mentality shit goes out the window when you become old enough to realize life is too short for unfulfilling relationships and fear of starting over. Thirties is really that make it or break it decade, just take a look around at the evidence.
Their energy is great together…but yeah Big Sean…ITS TIME BRO 💍
He gonna keep knocking you up too #noringforuboo
😂
If she still waiting then good luck
…. Wow. Im actually glad she’s “calling” him out on it..
He’s not gonna get better than her. He’s insane in the membrane 💙
What are you basing that on? Her looks? Do you know her personally? She could be toxic behind closed doors and that’s why he doesn’t marry her. If it’s looks he could literally get a doppelgänger of her so similar people wouldn’t be able to tell the difference.
@@lealand07 Why stay and have a baby w her then if she was toxic? I’m not basing it on looks alone, she’s talented and a kind person and obviously patient to be w someone like him.
@@joparis957what do you know about him? Why are you making it seem like she is surviving him rn… she’s obviously happy and shes trolling the audience.. they have a child together.. according to the bible they are married
Are you crazy..these rappers have beautiful women ready to step up!!!
@@TimesUhave2BA_radicalintellect They had a child out of wedlock. I'm pretty sure that's not what the Bible advocates for.....
STOP DOING WIFE DUTIES AS A GIRLFRIEND. SIMPLE MY GORGEOUS SISTERS,KNOW YOUR DAMN WORTH..I MEAN THAT..❤❤
Nah foh pls
So should i not do husband duties until i decide to make you my wife? Im just trying to understand what it is about a ring that makes you feel secure.. do you think that ring is a special tool to unlock my pants or something? U think i cant cheat on you if we married? Or you just like the idea of being able to legally take my stuff if i do cheat? So then you dont want to get married for love you want to get married for your own selfish reasons… i mean make it make sense😊
@@TimesUhave2BA_radicalintellect First and foremost Gdevening...and I have time today,,before u negatively came at me,u should have checked my profile..I'm an Healthcare Administrator Nurse..for 26 years...I became an Nurse at the age of 19..19..I married my exhusband..who was in military ,stay married to him for 21 years..I've been working DOD for 21 years..my credit A1..I was a Virgin when I married my husband all my babies by my husband..I'm the 1 who filed for divorce..A Ring classifies a union..reading the Bible and being obedient, God says when u find your wife ,u have found a great thing I will Bless that union..God didn't say go and find s>mple minded men um so like yourself who mind is not stronger than your heart..because P....and D......lies in the heart..u definitely need to not only get in the word and become obedient, but also pray for that mind and your heart,before u come for me...I'm a Big Boss that handles Big Bussiness..my name Ring Bells..not only that,it's whole lot of Successfull Gorgeous Sisters out here...we can buy our ownsnizzit..u a joke...go work on your credit...or better yet..get in that word..sex ain't everything,,if u or your partner get sick..your relationship is built off of sex,then what,,,,,Have A Blessed Day...I do alot of missionary work...for this lesson today I will be expecting a generous donation..or u can send supplies..we appreciate it..Hugs and Kisses....Administrator Nurse Teree Knight
@@teriwalker1222 i see how you ended up single… and the fact that you just typed all of that in the most manipulative, condescending, blasphemous, oxymoronic, egotistical fashion is beyond reprehensible. I wont revert to petty insults the way you attempted, instead i will just pick your point apart… you listed off all your accolades but failed to list the only one that matters in this conversation “divorced” you failed at a marriage and you got a ring.. your ring did not save you from decades of wasting time with the wrong person.. he gave you a ring and you being married to an active service member benefitted you in other ways.. you used that man for his benefits.. but because he gave you a ring and signed the paper you are legally allowed to get away with it.. a ring classifies a union? What bible verse says that a ring is what classifies the union.. not a single verse says the woman needs the ring.. you cherry picked proverbs 18:22 and try to make it seem like it means a man must kneel to the woman and do whatever makes her happy… no.. we do what is best for the next generation.. and thats what they are doing.. they are working together for their son that none of you women in these comments seem to want to acknowledge… you are all talking about her happiness but not about their child they have together which shows your level of primitive selfishness
@@TimesUhave2BA_radicalintellectYour mindset is quite immature, I’m actually surprised.
💕 Just wish her all the best that life has to offer💕 Her music is a vibe, & she has a such a beautiful voice.💕
Everyone gets the same black man
Except Beyoncé and Ciara and ashanti
What?
@@ClarissaXplainsItAllRussell is nixed. And Beyonce got a cheater and Nelly just got arrested. Same one
@@Isthisjoebiden😂
@@soulplay6995 Did I lie tho🤣
He has made it clear he doesn't want to marry Her. He made you a BM.. 🤷🏾♀️
Her a queen in the same boat lol
To be honest I don't know what she sees in him, they should just co-parent.
Me neither
I remember watching this video of them on a video chat and I thought they were so ill matched. They proved me wrong by staying together this long though.
@@GirlieHiccups89 I mean maybe they have something that goes on behind the scenes that the public just can't pick up on and that works for them 🤷♀️
😅😅😅 that’s her problem
You don’t even know him
She’s too real for that 😂😂😂I love it ❤
The back up dancers 💀💀
😏😏😏 girlll you are too fine and too talented. Level Up!
Ugh I wish she would let him go ….. why are women good enough to call girlfriend and have your babies but you can’t marry them but want them to stay loyal. It’s sick
Nasty work.
Because men don't have to risk their ssa or lives during childbirth but they do risk their assets and money when married. They don't want to do it.
My honest opinion;
A baby is the HIGHEST honor a woman can give a man. It locks you in permanently through bloodline.
Marriage is mostly throughly law. Which is reversible.
In the nursery song:
That why they say:
-First comes love
-Then comes marriage
-Then comes the baby....
So to my women: PLEASE have VERY high standards on who you sleep with and make a baby with.
Big Sean playing games 🫠
Jhene up there smiling, like a dummy.
"everytime we have a good show, you do that lil ring shidd"
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😊😅
😂
And u the "preference" call can have them all. That's so sad 😢
Cynthia G somewhere screaming “ you got the same black man”
@@lexieburnafteruroll😂😂😂 I miss Cynthia G
@@ba8501Im glad she's back but on her sister yt
@@shaypope4732drop the name of her sister Chanel please
@@lexieburnafterurollDid she lie? 😂😂😂
As my son would say " got 'eeemm" 😉🤣😅😂
whole time I thought they was married😂😂
No matter how annoyed you get with your partner, NEVER put your business out in the streets. It might feel cathartic to vent, but people never forget and don't have enough context to forgive your partner once you all make amends.
Partner lol, western people love doing things in reverse. You sleep with someone and then demand a wedding ring? How crazy is that in every other culture.
Womp Womp
Omg this!!!
@@WrittenandSpoke No matter how long it's been coming, once you put some stuff out there you can never take it back, because the damage is done. Let's say he was planning a big proposal next month - now it will look forced. Let's say he never proposes - people will point to this as the reason. It's much better to keep private matters private.
Jhene time to have a double date with Ciara & Russell.🤔😩
Hell no. Ciara and Russ have a marriage. No dysfunctional mess.
Shes so damn beautiful 😍
“Cause you LIED about religious views…” LOL I felt that. 🙏🙏🙏
Lmfaoooo u a fool 😂😂
how tf you know she will never leave?
Lmfao when the preference thought she was above baby mama status😂
She said what ring😂 he was diabolical for slapping her hand down like her stop playing😂😂
THATS a man that can multitask!!!! He didn’t skip a BEAT when she said: “What Ring?”💍 Lml lol mind over matter!
🤣🤣🤣
Becauseeee marry that woman!!!
He won’t and it’s prolly best for her she just needs to move on to make room for her husband
@@lakeofalltrades true true
@@lakeofalltrades bruh. She's 40 and ran
@@David-ol6zj as long as you’re alive you do what’s best for you and don’t have to settle for anything sooooo I don’t know what you’re trying to say MR BASIC 😑 “bruh” “she 40” acting like she’s a car with miles… she’s human like you and men who talk like you are childish
@@David-ol6zjso is he
Hahahhaha. He laughed at her. She’s so cute!!!
Awe that’s sad I’ve read they’ve been together a while and she clearly wants marriage he doesn’t he’s not a husband smh and they have a family together. I would feel embarrassed but he should to for having a family with this woman being together for a while and not know if your ready to marry and gives excuses as to why such the long wait your confused your lost your childish ain’t no man who got it together confused like that smh.
Yup he wasted over 8yrs of her life n gonna keep wasting it
@@shaypope4732 how is marriage going to suddenly change their lives exactly? Marriage was created by the church, for the union between man and woman before God. Majority of entertainers don’t even believe in God, so what the point other than some legal stuff?
@@simba8665 Bible
@@simba8665right…women always wanna rush you to the altar just for them to change in the marriage first. I get why men wait…marriage is overrated
@@simba8665 he actually says he believes in God and wants marriage in a few interviews just not with her!
He proceeded to say that he never cheated 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Embarassing her once then twice😂😂😂😂
You saw how jhene rolled her eyes after he said that 😂
They are a very beautiful talented couple & wonderful parents best wishes to them whether they choose to ever get married or not it's their life not ours simple as that as long as they're happy together
Dam Jhene is a preference mammy.. lawd help her
wtf does that mean
@@HalfNHalf. google it, smart one.
Not a “pick-me”?
This one took me out 😂
i woulda never thought to put them words together but its definitely her identity.
@@M-atk how is she a “mammy” vs. a “pick-me” ?
At least Ariana Grande know her worth. They would be married or she would be gone. Plus Ariana blew up after Big Sean …
The shade was not necessary😪
And went on to ruin a marriage. Self-worth? 🥴🥴
I SURRRE been wondering 👀👀 like why are you playing?! she is literally EVERYTHING!!!
😂😂 Pisces ♓ keep it real ❤❤❤❤
🙏AMEN 🩵 we deserve the world and so much more
Why the hearts?
Imma sag
Literal worst combo..im a doer and pices are dreamers. Too emotional while im blunt.
@@Ajcarter95 if ur going to have something negative to say spell it right. Thats another thing about Piscesan people always want our attention ☝🏽2 last comments 🙄 any we don't care. Lmfao 😂.
@@Ajcarter95 seems like the Sagittarius was called out for fronting and she kept it real...lmfao 😂
Are these the men that the preferences are “taking from us”?
You must be darkskin😂😂
Her reflexes kicked in😅
Poor thing, It's time to go baby girl. ✌🏾
Better them than us ✊🏿✊🏾✊🏽
That’s ppl problem no context if ppl listened to ppl off the internet. Some of yall just swear these celebrities don’t be messy cuz they be yall fav until the full story come out
You lose em how you get up girl lmao
Not wanting to solidify your commitment to the person you see yourself spending your last days on Earth with is the greatest display of selfishness/immaturity/lack of discipline. And like someone else said, no one cares about your bond if it’s not somewhere on paper.
He must not see himself with her forever. There is a reason(s) why he is not marrying her. The commitment should already be there before the papers are signed. The papers just prove commitment to the state law.
@@msch3891 Agreed, it doesn’t take that long to decide if you want to take that step with someone. To me, it not only shows your commitment legally, but also to God and your family.
Eye rolling of 2024 😂
People are so desperate to be in other peoples business, that they forget to live their own life, take showers, or have business of their own.
@@Chef_nO-shiRt So why did you comment?
i love how he changed the lyrics just for his wife "and i never cheated not even once or twice not even once" so happy for Big Sean and Jhene
He never married her… he got the phobia most modern day men have. Commitment 👻👻
@@Blannksswithout a kid all that shit human made up thing which most humans hate
He cheated the whole relationship have you not listened to her music ?
@@GIGI-lv1qtright lmfao happy for what?
@@MuseMoriahit’s gotta be sarcasm…. Ain’t no way
He fumbled the lyrics too 😂
😂lmao & all the men were acting like we minding their business & angry for her . She clearly wants a ring we just speaking up about it .
Run sis
She like yeah right “never cheated not even once or twice we both know that number is much higher” que head roll
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POV: you’re broke and single about to post your opinion on a celebrity relationship.
@@Darkthoughts-z7r So how are other commenters different from you?
At least you're self aware. Best of luck with everything.❤
@@ToLovelyJesus wouldn’t all the other commenters be different from me? Are you counting yourself, are we the same person? What are you trying to say, exactly?
@@JennaLeigh No ring? You better hold to that luck.
@@Darkthoughts-z7r another swing and a miss. But hey- you tried! Good for you! I hope you find that internet fight you're so desperately looking for.
lol. She didn’t just roll her eyes, she rolled her whole head on that one! 😂❤Jhené
SHE SAID YESH RIGHT WHAT RING 💍🔐