9 Things Introverts Secretly Love

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  • @YoungJusticeLuv
    @YoungJusticeLuv 9 років тому +1806

    As an Introvert myself, we are not that anti-social, actually I like talking to people, and hanging out with people I enjoy but after awhile I would feel really drained out and would need time to recharge.

    • @LazyVocalist
      @LazyVocalist 9 років тому +14

      Yassss very accurate

    • @lucassmith6454
      @lucassmith6454 9 років тому +38

      Some of us are XD
      I very rarely like a full on discussion with people. I do almost everything in this video. Except instead of playing a guitar when no one is home, I get naked and eat snacks while re-playing skyrim.

    • @kalajean5307
      @kalajean5307 9 років тому +33

      At school when I need to recharge, I'll go so far as to go stand in the restroom or restroom stall. Sounds weird but it's satisfying. :)

    • @lucassmith6454
      @lucassmith6454 9 років тому +3

      Sunny D The restroom is the place where I retreat as well. So it isn't that weird!

    • @kalajean5307
      @kalajean5307 9 років тому +3

      Lucas Sama good to know i'm not the only one XD

  • @brandonblack8264
    @brandonblack8264 9 років тому +1049

    As a introvert, I can say that I hate being an introvert. I'll be standing alone in the hallway, enjoying sweet solitude, and somebody will come up to me and ask, "Why are you so depressed?" That fucking annoys me. I'm like, "No, I'm not depressed, I just don't want to talk to you." Then they ask me why I'm in a bad mood. We're so misunderstood.

    • @YouShotMyRobot
      @YouShotMyRobot 9 років тому +45

      I agree with being misunderstood. My old supervisor who was an extreme extrovert would try all the time to get me to do things I didn't want to do (that were not a job requirements) so that I could "get out of my shell". She thought being an introvert was something I had to overcome apparently. So stupid.

    • @natkai
      @natkai 9 років тому +21

      Haha I feel you!!! But I have more like a resting bitch face 😁

    • @brandonblack8264
      @brandonblack8264 9 років тому

      ***** I believe I did as well.

    • @Jess-uq2zy
      @Jess-uq2zy 9 років тому +11

      Brandon Black Those asses don't know the meaning of the depressed, they always use it so lightly. Highfive to you.

    • @razvanradoiu
      @razvanradoiu 9 років тому +18

      it's especially annoying because when they ask "why don't you wanna talk to me" i don't know what to answear because i don't have a reason for it.. i just dont want to.. and then i get all anxious and ugh the strugle is so real

  • @xiaosleftnut2
    @xiaosleftnut2 4 роки тому +3598

    The most dreaded words in school for an introvert are:
    "Everyone find a partner!"

    • @untetheredsoul
      @untetheredsoul 4 роки тому +153

      Urgh. This brought back bad memories. You are 100% right!

    • @catdragon2584
      @catdragon2584 4 роки тому +147

      There was always one thing worse than having to find a partner though. I still get nightmares about working in a group...

    • @SacredEXPLOOOSI0N
      @SacredEXPLOOOSI0N 4 роки тому +26

      @@catdragon2584 I feel the same way.

    • @jaeger4763
      @jaeger4763 4 роки тому +49

      Work in a group is even worse

    • @aepheixa
      @aepheixa 4 роки тому +13

      Ayy same profile pic

  • @brooklynsmith1298
    @brooklynsmith1298 4 роки тому +3480

    Let’s be real, we all love when no one’s home.

    • @exnarrative
      @exnarrative 4 роки тому +18

      Yup

    • @lunafox45
      @lunafox45 4 роки тому +61

      I literally convince my mum to go down the road so I can be home alone

    • @angeann2917
      @angeann2917 4 роки тому +6

      SAMEEE

    • @jomene1125
      @jomene1125 4 роки тому +4

      Yasss

    • @treasure7278
      @treasure7278 4 роки тому +15

      Yeeeeesss! Or when that extrovert isn’t around us!

  • @Pearlisful
    @Pearlisful 9 років тому +2375

    The worst thing that happens to me often as an introvert is receiving a phone call that I'm not prepared for
    I usually never answer...I have to recollect myself and dial back. haha

    • @maripositaracely
      @maripositaracely 9 років тому +18

      Same here !! Lol my parents get so mad that I do that :/

    • @93queenv
      @93queenv 9 років тому +4

      omg what?? I DO THE SAME !!!!

    • @Pearlisful
      @Pearlisful 9 років тому +13

      Aracely Preciado Hernandez Yes and they think you don't want to talk to them but you're just so thrown off balance your brain turns to mush. LOL

    • @rachelle2227
      @rachelle2227 9 років тому +2

      Oh yes totally! A week ago, someone called that I didn't know from another state. She left a message and knew my name. I didn't pick up, I tried to text the number to see if it was a prank or something, but I guess I will never know...

    • @obsessedwithsweets24
      @obsessedwithsweets24 9 років тому +24

      I never call back...

  • @samzz07
    @samzz07 9 років тому +752

    i hate running into people i know, i think i'm very awkward in those situations

    • @Balinux
      @Balinux 9 років тому +75

      * Oh no! Fuck! I'm gonna have to make up conversation...*

    • @yoginimaindola4691
      @yoginimaindola4691 9 років тому +6

      Balinux I thought only I have this dilemma all the time

    • @man_on_wheelz
      @man_on_wheelz 9 років тому +7

      samzz07 Damn, I'm not the only one that has this fear? Sweet...

    • @SunshineKarebare
      @SunshineKarebare 9 років тому

      samzz07 I've had this dilemma since I was like 7 lol always been awkward seeing people outside of school, even now

    • @mymicks21
      @mymicks21 9 років тому +1

      I find you should see if they notice you. If they do, smile and wave. Thats what I do it works great

  • @jupiter8037
    @jupiter8037 4 роки тому +3731

    Only introverts can recognize the difference between "alone" and "lonely"
    Edit: It has been well over forever since I posted this comment and I come back to see this has received 2.1K likes for a half-truth?! Preposterous! But really, this is probably my biggest achievement in life so, um, thanks :) We are all human beings in the end, whether extroverts, introverts, and let's not forget about them ambiverts. A label should never define our true selves (yes, extroverted introverts like myself and extroverts who love spending time inside their mind exist)

    • @herstellen
      @herstellen 4 роки тому +132

      omg it's truee,i love being alone doesn't mean I'm lonely :)

    • @strawtifulbonnie9363
      @strawtifulbonnie9363 4 роки тому +47

      Yeah me too but sometimes i have both feel8ngs and it just sucks

    • @pr00t805
      @pr00t805 4 роки тому +16

      Wrong, I'm extravert and I know the difference

    • @pessimisticlana404
      @pessimisticlana404 4 роки тому +1

      Elizabeth Mora welp

    • @30shaheenbanukhan97
      @30shaheenbanukhan97 4 роки тому +1

      Yo 😄

  • @toxicdrawings2325
    @toxicdrawings2325 5 років тому +915

    Introverts can SENCE when somebody is looking at them.

  • @myelectricdrug
    @myelectricdrug 9 років тому +1701

    As an introvert, I LOVE staying at home, watching my favorite tv series on my laptop, read novels and drink tea. I just love being alone at home but I'm not anti-social, I'm just "selectively social". When I'm around people I'm not comfortable with, I pretend I don't exist to prevent unwanted awkward conversations but when I'm with my "people", I talk nonstop about random things. And oh yeah, when plans get cancelled... best feeling ever!!!

    • @LilChuunosuke
      @LilChuunosuke 9 років тому +38

      Tea + Book + Alone = HEAVEN ON EARTH

    • @caroline1557
      @caroline1557 9 років тому +4

      Same!!!!

    • @Daisy.3636
      @Daisy.3636 9 років тому +13

      I totally agree (y) and I love"selectively social" its the right term indeed (y)

    • @sherah95
      @sherah95 9 років тому +18

      i completely agree with you, being social with people i'm comfortable with is nice. Just not for too long, i have to recharge after that :P

    • @briannzz
      @briannzz 9 років тому +7

      I think we're the same person lol

  • @kheraja
    @kheraja 8 років тому +3065

    When nobody's home.
    BEST THING EVER

    • @extra.terrestrial5702
      @extra.terrestrial5702 8 років тому +14

      Actually I get freaked out and think their are ghosts in our house....it's really creepy here

    • @TyrantTitan.
      @TyrantTitan. 8 років тому +1

      Kramer in Jerry's apartment LOL

    • @cafeteriacat869
      @cafeteriacat869 7 років тому +10

      Not if you're alone at night

    • @kheraja
      @kheraja 7 років тому

      meow hoes
      True

    • @SepticCornREAL
      @SepticCornREAL 7 років тому

      Your name is the best

  • @Pipopipopi_123
    @Pipopipopi_123 4 роки тому +220

    When no one's home, I dance like a rockstar... When someone enters, I turn back to a shy turtle

    • @florabloom3906
      @florabloom3906 3 роки тому +11

      Oneday, I was singing my heart out then my mom came in. If you r an introvert u know 😂

    • @purvi110
      @purvi110 3 роки тому

      sameee

    • @helloworld2054
      @helloworld2054 Рік тому

      Lol same I like to sing and dance when I'm alone

  • @nitinwadekar5495
    @nitinwadekar5495 4 роки тому +1150

    Me *tries* to talk:
    Interrupted,gets talked over,gets ignored,couldnt be heared
    Them: *WhY ARe YoU sO qUiTe??*

    • @emilyrose3490
      @emilyrose3490 4 роки тому +11

      Ikr

    • @CottonDaLlama
      @CottonDaLlama 4 роки тому +21

      Exactly! And it is sooooo annoying!

    • @chibibeingchibi3197
      @chibibeingchibi3197 4 роки тому +16

      You just summarized my life...but I tend to go like "F you, I'm going to talk"

    • @haneensyr5955
      @haneensyr5955 4 роки тому +17

      It hurts actually 💔😓

    • @preciousfaithlor8196
      @preciousfaithlor8196 4 роки тому +10

      Yeah i also tried that but when I'm ignored I will not try to talk to that person anymore

  • @bluwop77
    @bluwop77 8 років тому +4924

    Real introverts can FEEL when no one's home

    • @bluwop77
      @bluwop77 8 років тому +81

      Shania Spittka I can't even explain it, but I can def tell

    • @neckabuser
      @neckabuser 8 років тому +19

      +BluWop lol, I thought I'm the only one

    • @jlowe8059
      @jlowe8059 8 років тому +49

      +Stanislau Rutkouski I get a sense of euphoria the first few minutes I realize I get to be alone for a while.

    • @neckabuser
      @neckabuser 8 років тому +3

      jeff lowe same here, mate!

    • @alejandroaguilar9223
      @alejandroaguilar9223 8 років тому +18

      +jeff lowe I think thats a clear sign of beign an introvert. I too get that euphoria lol

  • @mgo5939
    @mgo5939 9 років тому +1107

    Okay heaven is just being under the covers when its raining outside with a flashlight book or iPad and junk food

  • @myheartwillstopinjoy8142
    @myheartwillstopinjoy8142 5 років тому +216

    I'm an introvert and I hate when people talk to me, especially when I'm in a lonely mood (like when I'm inspired to sing or draw, when I want to sit and do nothing...) and they never get the hint. And they may think you are angry with them but hey, I just want to be alone to stay with myself

    • @StevenGreene070
      @StevenGreene070 4 роки тому +14

      Yeah, sometimes I just have that mood where I just don’t want to talk to anyone. I just wanna sleep, relax and do my own thing. But i can’t :(

    • @taduntss3832
      @taduntss3832 4 роки тому +7

      You mean alone not lonely

    • @gabby_not_gabby7050
      @gabby_not_gabby7050 4 роки тому +1

      Exactly!! People think I’m mad at them... I’m not mad I’m just not interested and I am in the middle of having some time with myself... lol last night I was alone and my dad called me cuz he’s on vacation in another state so I just used the classic yeah yeah uh huh yep right... he thought I was sad😂😂

    • @fatihasuhaimi5681
      @fatihasuhaimi5681 4 роки тому

      Then why don't u try to tell them that u need space than leaving them hanging like that . I now try to understand introvert because I can't even understand how can they even love . When I try to reach them , they just give me short reply . Always low key reject me when I want to socialize . Yeahhh , I know we have meet for a day at college but I just want my friend company to through the night . A 30 minutes will be enough . But my call declined . I'm annoyed

    • @ayhamshaheed7740
      @ayhamshaheed7740 4 роки тому

      Oh right. Well, I don’t. Mainly because they rarely do unless I go up to them 🤷‍♂️

  • @naminegirl21
    @naminegirl21 4 роки тому +72

    Things i love as an introvert:
    Eating lunch in my car where I can eat in peace without people trying to get your attention or talk to you/conversate even though you are CLEARLY wearing earphones & watching tv or listening to music!

    • @zoenoelle8844
      @zoenoelle8844 3 роки тому

      oh my gosh, i've done that at school and it's so nice

  • @menacedemort2878
    @menacedemort2878 7 років тому +661

    Actually, introverts don't like to avoid conversation, that's a moment of shyness. For introverts, it depends more on with whom the conversation is, and how many people.

    • @Emily-bp9he
      @Emily-bp9he 7 років тому +62

      Yeah, that's what most people misunderstand, they think that we don't like to talk, we usually hate small talk, but when it comes to something we love or are very passionate, about we could talk for days. But it also depends WHO we're talking to and if it's one on one, or to a group of people.

    • @menacedemort2878
      @menacedemort2878 7 років тому +20

      emily Exactly. And I also sometimes don't like to talk to a category of people who don't listen, and just like to reply back when you're not even done yet. So I would rather stay quiet and watch them, cause they won't listen anyway, they just want to get heard.

    • @madhurimagupta422
      @madhurimagupta422 7 років тому +2

      Chris Mentalist exactly

    • @bemei9291
      @bemei9291 7 років тому

      Chris Mentalist ur talking pretty smart

    • @menacedemort2878
      @menacedemort2878 7 років тому +3

      loati94 Exactly. I don't even think they introversion and shyness come together. I think they may present as if they have the same outcome, but they are different.

  • @mirandabarranco5112
    @mirandabarranco5112 8 років тому +647

    I fricking love rain

    • @aliya6577
      @aliya6577 8 років тому +4

      +Ally .M Pluviophiles unite!

    • @loverboyjuno1374
      @loverboyjuno1374 8 років тому +1

      I practically can't like rain because of how often it is in Scotland

    • @michelle-tjoa
      @michelle-tjoa 8 років тому +2

      +PixelArtist
      I like the rain. It have rained 3 times today and it's still 6 pm...

    • @utopiavey
      @utopiavey 8 років тому +2

      Rain and warmed tea with distant train noices under covers with alot of food... rain is epic with all those things. Also being all cold and wet then you get all warm is a pluss too

    • @cafeteriacat869
      @cafeteriacat869 8 років тому +3

      Ahhh, yes! I'm the only one in my house/class that loves rain! I love the grey sky, the sound of the rain, the sound of lightning, GAAHHHHHHH! I do love rain

  • @peiyentsai6430
    @peiyentsai6430 4 роки тому +179

    Boi in my class: You never talk.
    Me: *_Well you never shut tf up_*

    • @str791
      @str791 3 роки тому +11

      My common comeback: *"well yeah... Nobody plans a murder out loud."*

    • @noctis997
      @noctis997 3 роки тому +4

      @Enie Dance and Contortion holy-

    • @str791
      @str791 3 роки тому +4

      i am not ok 😅😂

    • @ameliamae641
      @ameliamae641 3 роки тому +4

      Lmfao this needs more likes

  • @MrRamnassef
    @MrRamnassef 5 років тому +246

    As an introvert. I like to hide under my bed cover too lol , it makes me feel more safe

    • @notnyah104
      @notnyah104 4 роки тому +8

      I was looking for a comment like this!

    • @rroyal7496
      @rroyal7496 3 роки тому +1

      I hope you are not going through depression or anxiety

    • @MrRamnassef
      @MrRamnassef 3 роки тому +5

      @@rroyal7496 I was but not anymore!! Thank you so much for your concern.💕💖💞

    • @shinobintrovert
      @shinobintrovert 3 роки тому +1

      I thought I was the only person that goes under the bed cover

  • @mymicks21
    @mymicks21 9 років тому +518

    Trying to start and maintain a relationship as in introvert is a nightmare though lol

    • @TechnoBill95
      @TechnoBill95 9 років тому +1

      Why? Just wondering?

    • @fleurfeirce8593
      @fleurfeirce8593 9 років тому +29

      I'm because you don't tell your partner anything which can lead to them thinking you have trust issues or something and sometimes meaning you don't wanna go out on dates or anything

    • @ericawesome2033
      @ericawesome2033 9 років тому +3

      C Delany Yup why can't I just get a hug

    • @monsalai
      @monsalai 9 років тому +7

      C Delany tell that to my girlfriend, i am a major introvert and i have maintained a great relationship with her, she is also an introvert so that may be why

    • @mafer.rrrrrr
      @mafer.rrrrrr 9 років тому +3

      C Delany wooow i thought i was the only one scared about that :O

  • @babyriri01
    @babyriri01 8 років тому +269

    I'm an introvert, but I love going out. Not to parties. But out to eat, the movies, the mall...

    • @kianawebb5761
      @kianawebb5761 8 років тому +30

      Me too. I don't like crowds too much.

    • @Aubatron
      @Aubatron 8 років тому +11

      +babyriri01 I'm very introverted, but I love going for hikes way back in the woods, near oceans, rivers, or around lakes.

    • @justahuman9273
      @justahuman9273 8 років тому +2

      +Aubatron that's because there aren't too many people x3 ..it's just you. and the nature~

    • @gloriagloria5628
      @gloriagloria5628 8 років тому +1

      then you're an Ambivert it's a combination of both

    • @alejandroaguilar9223
      @alejandroaguilar9223 8 років тому +10

      *Most likely found*
      Extroverts=bars, parties, clubs
      Introverts=movies, parks, restaurants, coffee shops.

  • @absol5194
    @absol5194 6 років тому +669

    One thing only guitarists will find funny,
    Look at the home alone scene and look how she plays the guitar

  • @carlyj.1446
    @carlyj.1446 3 роки тому +70

    *Introverts really be living the life in coronavirus*

  • @chloechang
    @chloechang 8 років тому +10733

    introverts unite!
    separately!
    ... in your own homes...!

  • @triscuit4491
    @triscuit4491 7 років тому +2693

    I love when no one's home because I can listen to UA-cam without headphones

    • @mysticvoid7x966
      @mysticvoid7x966 7 років тому +33

      I might also raid the snacks if there are any.

    • @mysticvoid7x966
      @mysticvoid7x966 7 років тому +2

      ***** no thanks. I'm too busy planing the downfall of the nearby empires in stellaris

    • @jadeto8151
      @jadeto8151 7 років тому

      wisnu aditya wtf man

    • @restingbitchface845
      @restingbitchface845 7 років тому +5

      RainbowDerp I love blasting the music really loud

    • @bemei9291
      @bemei9291 7 років тому +5

      RainbowDerp same I literally watch buzzfeed at full volume

  • @robenkhoury7079
    @robenkhoury7079 4 роки тому +39

    Omg raining and hiding under the covers is the best thing ever!!
    Then I contemplate my life decisions on why I don't have friends in this lonely cruel world
    Yay!

  • @liscan8978
    @liscan8978 5 років тому +14

    I love avoiding conversations because if I engage in one, I'll have trouble setting up a new topic

  • @iona5485
    @iona5485 6 років тому +3631

    You don’t need the do not disturb feature when you have no one to talk to you
    I should find a friend

  • @jessicajnsm
    @jessicajnsm 8 років тому +141

    The accuracy of the cancelled plans one though...

  • @Motishay
    @Motishay 4 роки тому +34

    The headphones part feels more anti social than introvert. I have a very quiet introvert friend who likes hanging around us and just listen.

    • @alyl.9430
      @alyl.9430 4 роки тому +8

      That's how I am. I am an introvert, but everyone tells me that I'm more ambiverted because I don't mind being around people. I would prefer being alone for the most part, but I still enjoy the company of others, and genuinely enjoy listening to conversations. I don't think that means I'm not introverted, maybe just a different type.

    • @rollingrocky3608
      @rollingrocky3608 4 роки тому +4

      @@alyl.9430 I'm like u too

  • @nehemiahstewart
    @nehemiahstewart 4 роки тому +33

    Am I an introvert? I love it when my roommates aren't home 🤣

  • @natashamilan9873
    @natashamilan9873 9 років тому +410

    This video explains so much. I'm currently sitting on my bed covered in blankets watching videos, and I wouldn't want to be doing anything else right now.

    • @angela.i1311
      @angela.i1311 9 років тому +1

      I just read your comment on another BuzzFeed video where they talk about period horror stories.;D

    • @natashamilan9873
      @natashamilan9873 9 років тому +1

      HeyyItsAngela Omg XD

    • @angela.i1311
      @angela.i1311 9 років тому +1

      LetsGetArtsy So the whole class laughed at you because your pants looked like a japanese flag huh? gosh that sounds awful! :(

    • @natashamilan9873
      @natashamilan9873 9 років тому

      HeyyItsAngela Yes, i can honestly call that the most embarrassing moment of my life. It was so awful:(

    • @angela.i1311
      @angela.i1311 9 років тому +1

      LetsGetArtsy Well u know what?YOUR CLASS IS FULL OF DICKS! :D Hahaha jk! But seriously tho, they didn't have to be so rude like, that can happen to anyone...

  • @mariannap4181
    @mariannap4181 8 років тому +653

    Oh my god when my plans are cancelled i literally feel sooo relieved

  • @IngvarMar
    @IngvarMar 4 роки тому +4

    The worst part is when people think something is wrong with you and start asking question like “Why don’t you have a girlfriend?” “Why don’t you have friends?” “Why don’t you go out?” Just shut up, I hate relationships and talking to new people, I just wanna sit at home, watch movies and play video games....

  • @eliseheartless4636
    @eliseheartless4636 5 років тому +28

    I‘m still questioning to myself how I could talk to my crush, without sound or being awkward. It‘s impossible for me too not get into deep themed and more sad conversations. (My crush is an extrovert and loves to talk with people and I‘m the complete opposite 😂😔)

    • @maxwellmarques1607
      @maxwellmarques1607 4 роки тому +1

      The same thing happened to me, except my crush now has a boyfriend, so I don't have to go talk to her anymore...
      (Cries in corner)

  • @leogarcia8640
    @leogarcia8640 7 років тому +2167

    Cancelled plans are AWESOME

    • @conorq4611
      @conorq4611 6 років тому +7

      Biggie Cheese they're the best, but my friends are always making plans and they expect me to come along.

    • @ihavealotofhusbies8470
      @ihavealotofhusbies8470 6 років тому +1

      They are the BEST

    • @arsenieboca8207
      @arsenieboca8207 6 років тому +3

      Yeah, but sometimes plans are fun. But not because they have people, because it's somethung fun that requires strategy or it can just make you think a lot about things like books. Ik I'm weird and it doesn't make sense but when I'm at paintball, for example, I love to think that I'm a real fighter, or at movies, I like to watch the movie and to think 'Hmmm, how would that character react to this scene?' and yeah it's just awesome to experience that

    • @cantthinkofaname8248
      @cantthinkofaname8248 5 років тому +1

      BuckyBoi ikr

    • @PercivalMitchells
      @PercivalMitchells 5 років тому

      I agree unless they benefit me in any way.

  • @skylahelbig6818
    @skylahelbig6818 7 років тому +715

    Does anyone else get really excited when they get invited to a party but when the day actually comes you're just like i'd rather lay here for another four hours

  • @matthewburns5521
    @matthewburns5521 5 років тому +13

    I can totally relate in true honesty, been introverted for most of my life

  • @Coco-vm7mv
    @Coco-vm7mv 2 роки тому +4

    Only introverts can recognize the difference between "alone" and "lonely"

  • @jolp9799
    @jolp9799 9 років тому +302

    love it when the house is empty, now i can use my laptop in the living room with the volume up
    whew! it's getting wild

  • @dawnriddler
    @dawnriddler 7 років тому +969

    no need for "Secretly" in the title xD

    • @MeltingHeartsWaxMelts
      @MeltingHeartsWaxMelts 7 років тому +8

      Lol not at all😂 I do all of this out loud!

    • @dominicayuu
      @dominicayuu 7 років тому +1

      😄 e4

    • @nataliemiller6912
      @nataliemiller6912 7 років тому

      Megan Carter my mom is a introvert and I'm a extrovert and I'm 9 years old

    • @dawnriddler
      @dawnriddler 7 років тому +9

      Natalie Miller why do you even have internet access ?! o.O

    • @cafeteriacat869
      @cafeteriacat869 7 років тому +1

      Natalie Miller and I thought extroverts don't use Internet.. Well at least a lil bit of Internet

  • @oanaalexandra9913
    @oanaalexandra9913 3 роки тому +4

    The deadly line
    " Please come at the front of the class and introduce yourself"

  • @aasthade0309
    @aasthade0309 3 роки тому +4

    The funny thing is that I really want my friends to invite me to a party...but when they do, I'm so anxious...
    And then, when they actually invite me but party is cancelled, that's when I feel like I have the perfect life!

  • @buzzfeedviolet
    @buzzfeedviolet  9 років тому +5422

    Ain't nothing like coming home and finding the house empty!

  • @cool28plays
    @cool28plays 6 років тому +1345

    I am always quiet and rarely talk to anyone at school, because they are always on groups. So I acctually like when someone comes to talk to me.

    • @random-uu5im
      @random-uu5im 5 років тому +10

      same :

    • @danaabelle
      @danaabelle 5 років тому +22

      Jaanus Kuppel Same! It's so annoying! I have no friends!!

    • @memphisgrizzlies3398
      @memphisgrizzlies3398 5 років тому +1

      @@danaabelle same :(

    • @Caramelbunnyy
      @Caramelbunnyy 5 років тому +2

      Dally Sparkles
      same, but there’s this girl that always talks to me so i count her as a friend. i just hate that i don’t talk a lot

    • @joycelinesantoso862
      @joycelinesantoso862 5 років тому +1

      Samee 😭😭

  • @quietartist5082
    @quietartist5082 6 років тому +19

    The highlight of my day is finding out that the lift is empty

  • @irreligious2647
    @irreligious2647 4 роки тому +47

    When did Gabbie Hanna work at BuzzFeed?!

  • @ryancaton6741
    @ryancaton6741 8 років тому +33

    I'm an introvert. I hear everything you say. I know who your crush is. I know who your crush's crush is.
    I know everything

  • @maxk7238
    @maxk7238 8 років тому +1164

    Sarah is my spirit animal I can relate to every video she's in 😂

  • @boneyard5530
    @boneyard5530 5 років тому

    1:06 exactly,i love rain.And when it's with storm...I just love it

  • @tuscanyfairer9547
    @tuscanyfairer9547 4 роки тому +2

    This is so true... Each one of these is sooo relatable 😂😂😂

  • @anastasiao4036
    @anastasiao4036 7 років тому +209

    For me:
    1-do not disturb
    2-headphones
    3-when no ones home
    4-rain
    5-reading a book

    • @alles9735
      @alles9735 6 років тому

      Anastasia O'Steen omg so relatable 😲😅

  • @alexandrabadescu6122
    @alexandrabadescu6122 6 років тому +4187

    I am an introvert person I love when it rains😍😍

  • @survivallaar1986
    @survivallaar1986 4 роки тому

    Yes, recognize every single point!! Love this things!

  • @elena8luvsdancing
    @elena8luvsdancing 5 років тому

    The do not disturb and mute features on my social are a blessing. 😍😍 Especially when I’m trying to sleep.

  • @nsummer2661
    @nsummer2661 8 років тому +375

    Enjoying a good book, when no one's home and rains. I love all of them.

    • @croissaux
      @croissaux 8 років тому +1

      same

    • @aliya6577
      @aliya6577 8 років тому +1

      +Nicole Ucheha Laput Also having a nice cup of tea/coffee on a rainy day

    • @michelle-tjoa
      @michelle-tjoa 8 років тому +1

      YASSSS

    • @margaritabulos
      @margaritabulos 8 років тому +2

      same here

    • @NPGeshmow
      @NPGeshmow 8 років тому +1

      I feel the same way

  • @mildchildddp7451
    @mildchildddp7451 8 років тому +247

    I'm not an introvert but I fucking love rain.
    The nice walks in the dimly lit sky.
    The raindrops hitting the roof.
    Opening the window and just feeling the breeze with a little dampness.
    Everything about rain is PERFECT.
    I also like hiding under the covers but where I live it's too damn hot.

    • @jihyosspicytoenail9921
      @jihyosspicytoenail9921 8 років тому +3

      I KNOW RIGHT?! I wish it rained every day!!!

    • @cafeteriacat869
      @cafeteriacat869 7 років тому +1

      Same! Luckily it's rain season here (yes you read it right it's rain season here) and it rained almost everyday!

    • @vanillagutz1
      @vanillagutz1 7 років тому +3

      I love the rain but the humidity messes up my hair. This is the cost to me of wanting it to rain.

    • @sneehazaman1873
      @sneehazaman1873 7 років тому +1

      and I thought I was the only one YAYAYAYAY

    • @beee5734
      @beee5734 7 років тому

      I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE YAY

  • @obnoxiousalien
    @obnoxiousalien 5 років тому +2

    Laying down in bed with the lights off while listening to the sound of the rain falling is just the most perfect thing in the universe

  • @initiatehorse949
    @initiatehorse949 2 роки тому

    Had done and love all the above... Especially loved the mysterious bgm in this video

  • @LennyTheHopeless
    @LennyTheHopeless 9 років тому +593

    *Things that suck about being introverted AND/OR shy:*
    When someone asks you to go to a big party and you can't just say no so you end up (very reluctantly) going.
    When your teacher tells you to get in groups so you look around for your friends (if you have any) but their group is already full so you end up being the last one with no group and your teacher assigns it for you, to a group of people you don't like or don't know.
    When you ask to work alone, and your teacher says,"no".
    And then when your teacher questions why you always want to work alone meanwhile giving you their face of pity.
    When people see you sitting alone (like at lunch or something) and ask if you wanna sit with them. (Like it's nice a nice gesture and all but FUCK THT! Talking to a group of strangers without anyone you know...(shivers)
    When your friends are going on about some boring ass conversation that you can't follow and you're so tempted to just stick your headphones on and drown in the music.
    Meeting your friend's friends.
    When people tell you "Don't be shy"
    When people ask "Why are you always so quiet?"
    When you get caught trying to avoid conversing with someone.
    When you go to family dinners and you don't really get along with any family members your age so you just sit there at the dinner table with your headphones in. And then when you tell your parent "I don't wanna go to family dinners anymore." They force you to go even though they always make you feel awkward, bored, and like they're are a waste of time if your not having fun. Just me? Okay):
    When someone continuously tries to talk to you EVEN THOUGH you have your headphones on. (My mom does this ALL the time, omg it gets seriously annoying)
    When you get so pissed and yell profanities in the middle of a class (and really loud), then everyone looks at you, bewildered that you even spoke let alone yelled swear words. Actually this one I find funny. :D I love their shocked faces HA~!
    When you *want* to date someone but are too afraid to actually *go* on a date with ANYONE so you just give up on love (waves forever alone flag~) XD
    This last one might be just me but:
    When your forced to share your very personal (and very cheesy) feelings out loud to someone but once you do you get this feeling of disgust. Like your grossing yourself out. I think I'm much like a guy in sharing feelings and stuff. Ugh I hate it, it's disgusting. And I know it's bad to think that way, but eww.

    • @LennyTheHopeless
      @LennyTheHopeless 9 років тому +10

      ***** Sounds good, you'll be my first one in two- almost three years.
      Forever alone friends!

    • @EatYourPanty
      @EatYourPanty 9 років тому +17

      Lenny The Hopeless Oh my gosh, those are sooo true! The thing with family dinners is the worst. I just hate it. :'D

    • @singlemofo75
      @singlemofo75 9 років тому +17

      Omg! The whole thing about talking about personal feelings is so me! I absolutely hate it & try my best to avoid any conversation that requires me to share my feelings. I just-no, I feel awkward & just wrong when I do. It's like I'm not a mushy type person, I just feel gross when I say anything cheesy or whatever.

    • @LennyTheHopeless
      @LennyTheHopeless 9 років тому +8

      DontStepOnMe Ruiz Yes! I'm glad I'm not the only one omg. XD
      But it makes me feel bad cause one time when my mom was crying I, to make her feel better, said something sweet and nice, but once the words rolled off my tongue I felt this insane repulsion from my own words and when she was holding my hand it was like I just wanted to pull my hand away and escape, like she crossed a line that I don't like people crossing. I had to force myself not to, and pretend like everything was fine until it was over...
      And of course I know how awful that sounds as a human being to be disgusted by feelings like that, but something about it just felt wrong and ugh I don't know...it's hard to describe.
      I guess I'm more awful than I thought I was):

    • @joeclay9683
      @joeclay9683 9 років тому +1

      Lenny The Hopeless do you also get mad when people who on't know you on the street talk to you? i do when htey don't have a valid reason. if they need directions or something like that i'm okay.

  • @Babys-Interior
    @Babys-Interior 8 років тому +280

    My parents go to church every sunday morning. And I finally have the house to myself. Dear lord is that the best feeling in the world.

    • @ucheokoroafor8273
      @ucheokoroafor8273 8 років тому +20

      +Michelle Evans
      Lucky you. You don't have to go with them

    • @gleamingmoon6003
      @gleamingmoon6003 8 років тому +2

      A thousand times YES!!!!!

    • @ucheokoroafor8273
      @ucheokoroafor8273 8 років тому +3

      *****
      Im not a Christian and its a waste of time.

    • @jacobdauphinais7815
      @jacobdauphinais7815 8 років тому

      My parents stopped going to church after the divorce, and our grandfather...

    • @Babys-Interior
      @Babys-Interior 8 років тому +10

      ***** who /likes/ church? It's a place where dated views are shoved down your throat and you're judged for being a little different.

  • @sandhyaadhao384
    @sandhyaadhao384 4 роки тому +2

    Headphones are my life....I can't live without that

    • @StevenGreene070
      @StevenGreene070 4 роки тому +1

      Yeah, I use my headphones every day 😂

  • @Me-wm5zy
    @Me-wm5zy 4 роки тому

    I loooveee when it rains so much and yes the smell the sound and the felling and yes I love under the covers!.

  • @micheledesouzagomes7614
    @micheledesouzagomes7614 7 років тому +274

    My top 3
    1-headphones
    2-Nobody home
    3-Avoiding conversations

    • @leglisbeem5646
      @leglisbeem5646 6 років тому +2

      Michele de Souza Gomes headphones are my favourite too.

  • @freedfg6694
    @freedfg6694 9 років тому +315

    by the way, introverts don't use dnd because no one is texting us in the first place, and there is no party to be canceled. You need friends for those things

    • @YouShotMyRobot
      @YouShotMyRobot 9 років тому +87

      Introverts have friends.

    • @firstofall-7259
      @firstofall-7259 9 років тому +4

      YouShotMyRobot Yes, we do :)

    • @aliceinthewonderland1104
      @aliceinthewonderland1104 9 років тому

      This is true.

    • @LilChuunosuke
      @LilChuunosuke 9 років тому +3

      I use the DND feature on Skype because I will be in a group chat and all the skype bloops from someone spamming a billion messages at me irritates me, especially if I am listening to music.

    • @SimonElias
      @SimonElias 9 років тому +10

      Introverts have friends too, they're just introverted as well.

  • @himanshikaushik721
    @himanshikaushik721 5 років тому

    I really appreciate when people approach and involve me and make me feel wanted and comfortable. ❤

  • @cburrell3
    @cburrell3 4 роки тому +5

    I can relate to a lot of this video, I love being an introvert.

  • @TheGabbieShow
    @TheGabbieShow 9 років тому +2425

    WHY DIDNT SHE WANNA TALK TO ME

    • @jessicawatson3209
      @jessicawatson3209 9 років тому +72

      Gabbie maybe she's intimidated by your awesomeness!!

    • @swampy3299
      @swampy3299 9 років тому +39

      Wait so u work at Buzzfeed? Oh btw ur vines are amozing

    • @catalinacabrera8741
      @catalinacabrera8741 9 років тому +2

      Crazy Lps IK IM SO CONFUSED

    • @machocheeselol
      @machocheeselol 9 років тому +4

      Maybe it's because you like pokemon... NAH

    • @DominiqueTorretto
      @DominiqueTorretto 9 років тому +5

      The Gabbie Show Yayy Gabbie!!!:)

  • @overnightdude
    @overnightdude 6 років тому +180

    1:05 YASSSS I LOVE IT WHEN IT RAINSSS its so calming and helps me fall asleep quicker. And everyone's like "Aww now we can't go outside!" And im like "Bichh I never go outside."

  • @blaireross4316
    @blaireross4316 3 роки тому +1

    Everyone in this video are so sweet, talented, and beautiful!! I love them all!!!!😍♥️

  • @emotionaleagle3148
    @emotionaleagle3148 4 роки тому +16

    When I'm home alone,I love to eat ice cream and sing songs loudly.yess I'm introvert.what do u think??🤔

  • @eugenechelseafc89
    @eugenechelseafc89 7 років тому +228

    When I see someone far off who I hardly know and I don't wanna have a convo with, I always walk the other way just to avoid them. This is usually a work colleague or someone who lives in the same neighbourhood as me. It's not that I hate them or anything, I just find it really annoying sometimes.

    • @anjelheaven
      @anjelheaven 7 років тому +2

      I do the same thing! Lol

    • @P4trickStar00
      @P4trickStar00 7 років тому +4

      I don't really do this.....but sadly that's just because I'm not really outside much anyway xD
      The most interaction I actually get is like through social media when someone messages me on facebook, tweets/messages me on twitter, etc. etc.....so what I'll basically do THEN is literally pretend I never saw it. It's a bit problematic though when I accidentally open the message...oops.

    • @pragmatic1ultramagnetic202
      @pragmatic1ultramagnetic202 7 років тому +1

      I do that all the time too.

    • @greedy_twist
      @greedy_twist 7 років тому +1

      lel i always do that too

    • @phyohtetpaing4648
      @phyohtetpaing4648 7 років тому

      All hоoоot girls aaаrе hеrе => twitter.com/3898ddc3074699672/status/801992405775826944 9 Things Intrоvеrts Sессrеtlу Lovе

  • @enaxlilac6064
    @enaxlilac6064 6 років тому +287

    I'm an introvert but I get freaked out when no ones home
    Seriously I always hear that one sound..

  • @sherloholme7013
    @sherloholme7013 3 роки тому +1

    i missed this kind of buzzfeed video omg time flies

  • @loriwallace5172
    @loriwallace5172 4 роки тому

    This is a such a relatable video !! I love hiding under my blanket and I always try my best to avoid conversations 😂.I love this

  • @cinnamoroll7740
    @cinnamoroll7740 9 років тому +176

    The 'do not disturb' button saves me from sleepless nights due to the terror of group chats.

    • @ArachnosMusic
      @ArachnosMusic 9 років тому +3

      What about turning your phone off lol, saves you electricity and makes you sleep better as well.

    • @Savan2696
      @Savan2696 9 років тому +4

      ArachnosMusic but what about the alarm?

    • @joey_bookworm6169
      @joey_bookworm6169 9 років тому +1

      Even if my phone 'dings' because of all the notifications, I don't wake up. I only wake up to the sound of my alarm

    • @ArachnosMusic
      @ArachnosMusic 9 років тому +2

      Savan2696 Go to bed at regular times... you'll find yourself waking up at the same time every single day. I myself always wake up before 9 AM, if I have to get up earlier I'll use a clock.

    • @Savan2696
      @Savan2696 9 років тому +1

      ArachnosMusic Thanks a lot

  • @AnimeJunkie56
    @AnimeJunkie56 7 років тому +121

    I love Sarah's face, it's so adorable.

  • @abydaincryscyan2212
    @abydaincryscyan2212 4 роки тому +5

    Me: *observing other clueless people trying to know what to do in our activity in class while me just sitting in the corner,watching them while I know what to do*

  • @DieFarbeLila88
    @DieFarbeLila88 6 років тому

    Gosh I LOVE the do-not-disturb-feature!

  • @Delioncourt82
    @Delioncourt82 7 років тому +15

    I'm an introvert and ppl think something is always wrong or I need to get out. No i don't! I love being home alone all the time i hate going out!

  • @vaiosony2
    @vaiosony2 8 років тому +32

    I'm a total introvert and this is so true. I hate parties and I'm relieved when they get cancelled. I like doing things with friends occasionally (movies, lunch etc.) but I hate group activities. It always ends with me being the silent one while the others are talking and then they'll proceed to assume I'm sad or that something is wrong just because I'm silent.
    "No stop it. I just don't feel like interrupting your conversation and I'm totally fine with just listening. What I'm not fine is your questions if 'everything is OK?' THAT'S the problem"

    • @katherinerobinson5072
      @katherinerobinson5072 8 років тому +1

      I am too I like staying in listening to music and not talking to anyone it's nice and I like even though I don't have many friends and people think I'm mute

    • @vaiosony2
      @vaiosony2 8 років тому +1

      +Katy the unicorn same! people who don't know me always assume I'm mute. lol

    • @cabbagepeeler8186
      @cabbagepeeler8186 7 років тому

      Batman
      I was in the middle of your comment and I suddenly shouted YES because I related so much.
      Oh and also the question "Are you sad" or "why aren't you talking",I get that a lot and the most recent one was yesterday by a friend.I just wanted to say 'Because you two are not even including me in your conversation and ignoring me," but I didn't cause I was scared. Scared because I knew that if I did say that,they would try to include me but by forcing themselves and it's obvious.

    • @vaiosony2
      @vaiosony2 7 років тому

      flamingo legs good to know there are more people like me haha :)... most of my friends are extroverted, so I sometimes feel weird.

  • @shadowx2652
    @shadowx2652 4 роки тому

    Me too. Enjoying a good book and especially not always engaging in conversation. Also being home alone.

  • @moombloom5272
    @moombloom5272 4 роки тому +9

    When you always complain about needing more friend when you’re an introvert .-.

  • @camille9678
    @camille9678 9 років тому +332

    I relate to this SOO much except for the last one I have no Ashly to stay at home with XD

    • @marsy529
      @marsy529 9 років тому +1

      Gina Rosalina maybe it will be your sister or anything else

    • @elisekim8351
      @elisekim8351 9 років тому +5

      marsy529 No one will be as good as Ashley (is it Ashly?) we all know that.

    • @marsy529
      @marsy529 9 років тому

      Elise Kim no there will be good and better i really know

  • @matejpcworld8913
    @matejpcworld8913 6 років тому +217

    When i wabt to orde food or something, i just plan every word i want to say, and when they come up with something i was not prepared for i get a lot of anxiety and it gets really akward

    • @neoir8514
      @neoir8514 5 років тому +15

      matejpc world
      Your spelling gives me anxiety.

    • @nelenabben351
      @nelenabben351 5 років тому +4

      You're shy as well...
      This is not what it means to be an introvert...

    • @Sophie-ks3lu
      @Sophie-ks3lu 5 років тому +2

      @@neoir8514 ikr

    • @fangirl365
      @fangirl365 5 років тому +4

      I’ve done this a lot as an autistic person. Social scripts help a lot sometimes, but going off script can be a little nerve wracking.

    • @gauriphadanavis8345
      @gauriphadanavis8345 4 роки тому +1

      When i want to order food.... I Order it online...
      No problems of Calling Someone...🙂🙃

  • @gorillagripcoochiemama1619
    @gorillagripcoochiemama1619 4 роки тому

    I do like it when it rains for some reason. I find the sound soothing and comforting

  • @phalanx6492
    @phalanx6492 6 років тому

    it feels so good

  • @nightmare_nights1413
    @nightmare_nights1413 6 років тому +135

    Introverts have secrets because we just are too introverted to tell anyone

  • @TheYuriBabe
    @TheYuriBabe 9 років тому +152

    Let's not confuse being an introvert with being anti-social.

    • @user-qd8gm8uh2o
      @user-qd8gm8uh2o 9 років тому +1

      Ikr

    • @halo2rocks76
      @halo2rocks76 9 років тому +3

      ***** what's the difference

    • @Melboooooo
      @Melboooooo 9 років тому +60

      David M. G. antisocial is when you can't interact socially. introverts enjoy interacting but only to certain people/get really drained after a while and need to have alone time to recharge.

    • @halo2rocks76
      @halo2rocks76 9 років тому +1

      Melbooo well even antisocial people would interact with people at gunpoint, so they can they just choose not to

    • @izzygram1177
      @izzygram1177 8 років тому +2

      I think what she's trying to say though is that introverts aren't opposed to all social interactions. They just enjoy time alone to recharge because they become drained when they are always around people.

  • @koraedits
    @koraedits 6 років тому

    That's my life!
    And I enjoy every bit of it!

  • @hafsayasir1379
    @hafsayasir1379 5 років тому +3

    I am not an introvert but i still love these things lol

  • @Joyosagsm
    @Joyosagsm 8 років тому +245

    SHE'S PLAYING ON THE WRONG SIDE OF THE CAPO WHAT THE DUCK

    • @alissa7155
      @alissa7155 8 років тому +15

      OMG I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO SAW IT😂😂😂

    • @Joyosagsm
      @Joyosagsm 8 років тому +1

      Pei Syuan 715 SERIOUSLY DOE WHY

    • @Joyosagsm
      @Joyosagsm 8 років тому +2

      WHY Y DO DIS

    • @annabel1207
      @annabel1207 8 років тому +1

      +Joyosagsm I saw that too omg

    • @souffleigh
      @souffleigh 8 років тому

      i saw that too!!!

  • @imstandingrightbehindyou.6987
    @imstandingrightbehindyou.6987 7 років тому +276

    I hate when people becomes too clingy and sadly my friend is one of them,i mean i like you dude but please dont be in my personal space all the time.

    • @Emily-bp9he
      @Emily-bp9he 7 років тому +39

      Same, as an introvert i have never been able to find a way to say "I love being with you, but im tired and want to be alone so go away" without sounding rude.

    • @earthysound9097
      @earthysound9097 7 років тому +4

      yes I mean we don't have to do everything together !

    • @daniqaaaaa
      @daniqaaaaa 7 років тому +6

      I know how you feel.. she thinks I'm mad at her if I stop talking to her for the morning

    • @nebx2.048
      @nebx2.048 6 років тому +4

      Says the person with the name “I’m standing right behind you.”

    • @onestrangepitabread5478
      @onestrangepitabread5478 6 років тому

      NebX 2.0 thats exactly what i was going to say!

  • @meghan5259
    @meghan5259 3 роки тому

    I am definitely and introvert and love all these things. I hate working in group projects even with my best friends (I love them truly) and always ask to work by myself.

  • @lanam6020
    @lanam6020 4 роки тому +2

    My headphones are my life!!!! Whenever I can’t find them I have a panic attack

  • @dfg1999
    @dfg1999 9 років тому +170

    Am I the only one who thinks that Sara looks so gorgeous?

    • @evaeva6824
      @evaeva6824 9 років тому +2

      no you're not! her eyebrows are always so on point!

    • @Phoenixspin
      @Phoenixspin 9 років тому

      No, but I don't get what's going on with her hair.

    • @johnchesterfield9726
      @johnchesterfield9726 9 років тому

      Yes...., yes u r, be ashamed of it

    • @winxclubification
      @winxclubification 9 років тому

      i know right..and she has the best personality :D

    • @dfg1999
      @dfg1999 9 років тому

      Phoenixspin I like her blue hair.

  • @chapachuu
    @chapachuu 8 років тому +140

    Yes, to all of these except the covers. I can't breath.

  • @erink8074
    @erink8074 4 роки тому

    I absolutely love this video!!

  • @jasminecontreras7341
    @jasminecontreras7341 5 років тому

    Yesss do not disturb button & reading at the park 😭❤️