Signs You Overthink Everything
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Signs you overthink everything: you're overthinking the fact that you overthink about a video giving you signs of overthinking.
OVERTHINK-CEPTION D:
Ohh do I understand that sentence?
No. No I don't
+Sally Bortey its not that hard ^^"
+Marianna Pagnoncelli over thinking ppl r cute though lol
Another sign you overthink everything: you overthink about what you should say about overthinking while you're overthinking about that video you watched about overthinking.
I find picking music to listen to so frustrating because I don't want people to think my music taste is weird 😑
Blue Queen so true!
Omg taht's so true!!!
right me too!!!
Me
Same but I don't want people to know what I like that's why I hate it.
Overthinking is the worst.
Hector Gonzalez IKR ITS SO ANNOYING
This is me, but I keep all of my overthinking tboughts in my head because if I say them out loud, people might find me annoying, and that's bad, especially if the person I'm talking to turns out to be my future boss because they then won't want to hire me because I'm too annoying.
Some jobs need people to over think because it eliminates problems :)
Xin Lim That's true. I always think about all the possible solutions to problems, as well as what could be wrong with each solution until I find the right solution. You're right, I think this could be a good thing :)
***** My friends also have a few overthinking tendencies. You just have to find others who are cool with a little overthinking. They exist!
***** Same. I don't mind being annoying online since I use a fake name anyways, so it's pretty hard for someone I know in real life to know this is me online.
I'm the worst bc I do say it out loud bc if I just think it'll drive me insane
That moment when somebody tells you to put some music on and your entire head goes blank of whatever casual music you could ever listen to :/
Yesss I had an MRI in April and they asked me what music I wanted and I was like.......?????? I don't knowwwww
SO TRUE
Sunday Girl I’d just listen to kpop Tbh
@Sunday Girl I'd like to tell you your 'indie one' really got me, but your comment came from 2 years ago, you might feel being bothered.. ;D
Always listen to Quinta... *"Did you say anything about punching him in the face?"* - No? Then it's probably not aggressive, haha XD
I have found Graphic Deisgn Guy, what do I win?
Heyyyyy
Katie Hart All I can offer!! Which is just a like a reply and a thank you, haha, sorry :)
Cydney Yip Hey :)
I s2g you have taken over BuzzFeed ._.
this is actually extremely accurate, I felt her pain
Same...this video encompasses me to the tee!
Mee too
So true, especially the part with the songs.
I'm overthinking this comment goddamit just post it
Kent Ku ligit me every time I want to post a comment
Lmao yeah...
Kent Ku-I do the same thing lol....
You think you're soooooo punny
leen-_- g me too wtfff
I overthink what people think about me. when I do something wrong. Or get in an awkward situation I spend the whole day thinking about how they think about me or what I could've said better😩😂
Same
Every.Fucking.Day.Of.My.Life
Me too! Omg every single day of my life
Count me in! We r the onlookers. Lol
ugh me too... I hate it.
I'm clearly a overthinker. I think it also combines with my paranoia, anxiety, and depression. :/ oh welp
me also
+Orio The Furry Artist same here
+Orio The Furry Artist it's actully quite the bummer
sameee
Uhh same here... And I don't like it one bit
overthinking is the worst kind of a prison...
black Pineapple I agree..
Yep
Yea this is actually why some of my friends get annoyed at me
Koi Marmar get new friends they should love you for who you are 🦄❤️🦄❤️
If I had friends they would lol
I overthink if I'm an overthinker.
And the fact that I overthink that makes me overthink everything again
This comment hurts my head
I am so overthinker for everything and sometime I hate it because it just give you negative thoughts and you cannot be calm .... and also cannot trust anybody .... and sometimes it could make you shy.... because you always think what other people think about you and all these things are just ruin your day !!! #its_sucks
So relatable
same
This is totally me. The worst thing is when you're in love. It's r
terrible you overthink EVERYTHING you ever said to them
+Vulcany Long Was my stare too long? Oh gosh, he looked at me. He likes me. His voice is so bright. OK, time to say sth. That was awkward. Did he look at me with... with what exactly, was that friendliness, amusement, fear, does he hate me, omg, he totally thinks I'm a psycho, he's now terrified of me, what now????? No, OK, he responded, we're ok. What if that was just a sympathy, oh no, what if I'm actually a psycho?"
And that moment when they said they love a band you have never heard of...
Should I really write this comment? Is my grammar correct? :D
Honey, when you're in love, you don't need to overthink anything :) love is like home, you feel comfortable. You should be able to say anything you want :) once you get past the awkward beginning stage, you'll feel like you could say anything you want to your significant other and they'll only love you more for it
Vulcany Long It's good to know we are not alone ;D
+Bunny Boo Well, true, but only when you know that they love you back. Not knowing it is maybe the thing that can make you most insecure about yourself.
Hell yeees😂😂
the most relatable video ever.I always am anxious over everything and I get worried if my friends are mad at me or am I too annoying and that's why nobody wants to text me? Then I get nervous when meeting people bc I want to put on a non annoying tone. I always try to study people and see why they have so many friends and I just get so anxious that I can never be like them or non annoying. Breath in Mia breath out okay okay
That's exactly how I feel too. I get so annoyed at myself when I always think about it
All my close friends get the annoying freaking out asking the same question 30 times over just to be sure me, other people get quiet calm me and then I worry if they find me boring
Mia P. Litteraly the same, I’m constantly worried that my bf is mad at me, like even if he changes his tone I just freak out because I don’t want him to break up with me but at the same time I try not to be annoying, if that makes sense
For women
Samee
I overthink too much to the point that I feel myself annoying. I do share my thoughts a lot because I need to get my thoughts out otherwise it'll be too much to handle. Then, I feel that I become annoying to others, so I ask them if I'm annoying in which I also overthink that I may be too annoying to ask people that I'm annoying. Overthink+social anxiety.
you are literally me
😭😭😭
I OVERTHINK EVERYTHING... I'M EVEN OVERTHINKING THIS COMMENT
make the decision to stop overthinking.
view it as an addiction then it´s easier.
Same but I don't express it always out loud
I'm overthinking you comment as well🤧
Oh my god! I hate it when people ask me to play music because I'm so scared there going to hate what I play or judge my music choice.
When you overthink everything except for the things you should think twice about
overthinking about what to comment on a video, end up deleting the whole thing, waking up in middle of the night to retype the comment and post it
I relate to a lot of this but the thing about the music is 100% me
Never have I been able to relate to something so deeply
Omg this is me I'm having anxiety and thinking bout what people think of me now!!!
i think what other people think of me since birth. do i feel my pain?
*u
Deyanira Velasquez ligit typed a comment about having anxiety too then rethought it and now this is my comment 😐
Deyanira Velasquez lets kick our anxiety to the curb💪🏻
uploaded 48 seconds ago, now that i have realized i have won absolutely nothing and will experience exactly what anyone else will, i am going to just watch the video.
This is me all over, I can't do anything without thinking there's something I'm not considering here...hmm
Ok weird things happen to me because I'm an overthinker. This Friday in my sociology class the teacher made a mistake and I wanted to correct him (it's not often I do that-heck, it's not often that I pay attention in classes) and I wanted to repair my bad grades by asking questions and paying attention so I raised my hand BUT HE DIDN'T SEE ME AND I WAS FREAKING OUT INSIDE IT WAS SO EMBARRASSING (FOR ME AT LEAST) and I raised my hand again and called his name but he didn't hear me! And my friends noticed so they asked what's wrong and I just told them I needed to go to the restroom and so THEY told him that. I went to the restroom as quickly as I could so I still could go back and ask that question to him because it really bugged me and so I ran to class. All that running really exhausted me so I was breathing heavily and the teacher asked me what's wrong, I just told him I ran and I was tired.
I moved my seat so I could get his attention when I raised my hand but guess what he told me I was being really noisy and I was annoying everybody in class. Oh my god I canNOT stop thinking about that. Idk I guess that's just how my brain works. I'd rather get yelled at than getting a lecture or that kind of stuff. When I get yelled at, I can yell back but when I get lectured, I really think about that stuff and I hate it.
+Everdeen10 Honestly, no one is going to even think about that. They've all probably forgotten about it. It's not really a big deal. Chill, dude.
+Bhawna03 yeah well good luck telling an overthinker like me to chill :/
+Everdeen10 I used to be an overthinker. In fact, I used to have severe social anxiety (It still attacks me at times), but one think I've read that really helped me is "will it matter to me when I turn 90?" If it won't, then I try to avoid stressing about it because it has already happened, and unless I have a time travel machine, I won't be able to change it. Enjoy life! Life is too short to constantly worry about what other people think of you. You only have one life. Don't let others ruin it. :)
Bhawna03 or just think : it doesent matter in 200 years cause everyone is dead at that time
0:48, that's so me. I read out my emails in different voices, to make sure I'm not coming across as rude in any of them.
1:50 That is *NOT* Quinta O.o
+StarRoseAngelic OH YEAAH!
She didn't say Quinta
She didn't say Quinta.
+luke copeland LOL that's the first time I've been called a utensil. what did she say?
lol dont worry I also heard Quinta
As much as I hate Buzzfeed they used to have some “relatable” content.
#PrayforParis
Not relevant - the whole world knows about Paris; this really isn't necessary ; not to mention no one bats an eye when these kinds of incidents happen every day in third world countries such as Syria & Palestine too, ain't no on hash tagging that
#prayforparis
+Vicki Z. Sorry, it has nothing to do with this... But, same name and last name initials... weird.
pray for Syria , for Palestine , for whales ,,,,
+Vicki Z. and about that... I think there's a infinite debate about it... I mean, yeah, we should pray for Paris, or at least for the people affected and their families, but people forget what's happening over the world. It's really shocking knowing that things like this happen in first world (don't know how to call it) countries... But we should pray for Syrians and other countries with refugees too... And things like Facebook letting you change you're profile picture trying to support France, but not others countries catastrophes, idk, it really get me mad.
Playing music around others is a BIG one for me
It was hard watching this video cause I watched it as if I was her and it was just hard + I kept typing and deleting this comment a hundred times too soo...great:))
Lena I understand the struggle!!! Went on vacation to Disney world last week and I pretty much talked myself out of everything that I was wanting to buy for various reasons. Even though I was good on extra spending money I still told myself it's too expensive or I would ask myself do I really need it. Now that I am home I regret not getting the majority of the things I wanted especially a set of Christmas tree ornaments!!! I hate overthinking and being indecisive. It truly ruins everything!!! I was hoping I would eventually grow out of it but being 29 now I think it has gotten worse!! Lol
Melissa E i feel you girl i so feel you😭 what really is the worst too is when you have to decide something right away but still something really stupid at the same time, like for example choosing between two products at the super market and regretting later that you didn't get the other thing instead... and believe me even if you did have bought what you wanted at disney you would've probably still for some reason rgretted buying them😭 this just sucks
لينا i feel you guys, so lets take a deep breath and think about that we are not alone and try to get that there isn’t a good or bad decision in this world, we got something and we loose something with any decision we get. So at the end it really doesn’t matter.
I actually saying that here but exactly after that i start overthinking about which notebook should i write my stuff too.
So i mean when i say i feel you i really feel you. And maybe this never gonna end but we can control it and even use it in a good way.
I myself sometimes try to show myself I’m a careless girl. I think i never gonna be in the middle. And you know its kinda cool.
Choosing the music for everyone is such a struggle! Omg hahaha
Wow. Never knew a short video could portray my entire life.
Look at the thumbnail of "When you have a Doppelgänger"
And then look at the red dress scene here
She did it! 😌👏👏👏👏
overthinking university decisions sucks uuugh
i THINK i overthink everything. i mean, maybe i overthink everything, but maybe i don't???? idk maybe i do maybe i don't but i feel like i do but i probably don't. well, on the other hand, maybe i do :/. honestly who even knows if anyone overthinks anything... i feel like i could overthink everything, but what are the odds??? is it like 50% or 75%? maybe i should just stop overthinking it.
Oh my lord, I could never have a friend like that.
then we wouldn't be friends...:)
+Nailah same x.x
+Nailah We're nice people though I swear, we just spend 15 minutes wondering if a text sounds mean or if that dress is too fancy for the bar we're going to or maybe the red lipstick is too dramatic paired with that eye makeup but we ultimately just really care about your feelings and doubt ourselves a little but we're great as friends I promise
Agree it's annoying especially when it comes to their guy problems LOL
Nah , that's not a problem
anxiety levels are rising because im literally watching someone reenact my everyday actions
They were pretending to drive, but weren't actually even moving - the car in the background was still
mhm.
...:)
Dumb bitches overthinking even the special effects am I right?
I feel like this is just someone with anxiety
Me AF
Especially the aux cord thing.
this isn't only about overthinking, it's also about caring way too much about what people thing about us and our choices
legit for gifts from my friends I make sure it’s the favorite color, wrap it a certain way, add treats just to their liking.. but my friends deadass give me some hersheys and KitKat
I didn’t even realize I’m a overthinker until I saw this video. I mean, I thought everyone is exactly like this.... #wakeupcallforme🤦♀️
This is me and I never realized...
I can totally relate. It's just so irritating. I mean if someone doesn't reply to my text, I go over the past history from ages ago and try dreadfully recalling how I had offended the person. I just want to chill for once. Haha, but this vid's funny. Thumbs up! Hooray to overthinkers!
If I touched The Graphic Design Guy would I become a graphic design.
+AlfieFG The short answer no, the long answer, nooooo :) But thanks for asking, haha.
Graphic Design Guy 😟🔫
AlfieFG Put the gun down and enjoy being AlifieFG, that's much better than becoming Graphic Design Guy I assure you :)
Graphic Design Guy but can I touch you?
AlfieFG **shakes hand** there :)
overthinking + procrastination + weird imaginations
dangerous combination :)
Buzzfeed needs to quit going through me head.
i'm just so happy that i'm not alone with this.btw.i corrected this line five times until i was courageous enough to put this in the comments (and i'm NOTgoing to look up if i've selled courageous correctly, i'm such a BADASS!!!!)
Me: ok I'm not going to overthink this.
My brain: but what if you *did?*
Me:
I have a bad habit of sitting on the school bus and whenever people pass up my seat, I think: Do I smell? Do I look weird? Do they not like me?" and then I just feel awkward sitting alone.
Omg. Restaurant scene is my life.
This is sooo me! Choosing music to listen to is a NIGHTMARE! Movies too!
I LIKE THIS GIRL WE WANT MORE OF HER OK
yes! I agree
This is so true. I'm an over thinker myself and I constantly ask for opinions about my thoughts.
The shopping one is actually me
This is so relatable to me that I dont even find her questions wierd..
This is definitely my brain on a daily!
We should have a club as over thinkers. That would be really comforting to talk every single detail. Pls contact me if you think same lol
Dude, my English is awful, isn't it?
HAHAHA. The thing about people asking you to play music, especially in their car, is SOOOO TRUE!!!
i do the same thing with the music and stuff. I'm like what if they don't like this song or it's a stupid song
i also do this thing in school where if someone asks for a sharpener I die inside because when they start using it I'm afraid it wont work for their pencil and they will awkwardly hand it back but still have an unsharpened pencil.. i told this to my teacher and she looked at me like i was crazy
the ending abt you do you... that was my favourite. especially Sarah!!
I've never related so much to the video 😂
This is totally me 😂 overthinking one of the reasons why i keep a low profile!
Dude i just did it! I overthought of what i was gonna write ☝🏼️
+Shelly Estrera haha
soooo me. 😭
Ive suffered from anxiety all my life,Suffered episodes of depression here and there BUT 3 years developed OVER THINKING !!!
And my oh my has it basically ruined my life !!! Over Thinking/Negative Thinking/OCD/Dwelling Have RUINED ME !!!
I can't have friends & being in a relationship is basically impossible.
This. Is. So. Me.
the dress looked orange to me
You should take a color blind test..
White and Gold for me
Blue and black
+Henry Sodergren +Asnaos Lioosy You fuckers. lol
+Jessica Savage I saw green and yellow
The music one. I can relate to that so much. I put on random playlists and if the other person likes it it tell them I do too.
ok I do all these things yikes
I can 100 percent relate to this, its hard for me to even make sure if i would post this comment, so I don’t know how could handle this life. Overthinking and obsession and anxiety and perfection are here together, i dont know how i alive yet actually.
0:37 when it's actually a crop top
My entire life. I can't even tell you how many times I've had these conversations with my friends.
It wasn't even a dress 😂😂
If I was to write a book about how my life went straight through the floor, I'd title it 'Overthinking'
I always overthink
Or do I?
Is that even correct grammar?
Would, “I am always overthinking” be better?
I also used to be extremely anxious, overthinking but it helps a lot if you could find a good balance and be more accepting/comfortable with your choices since a lot times there're always disvantages whatever you choose to do. If you had made that choice then it should be what you want/think the best and try to embrace the downsides of it, so it'll leave the least regret. Moreover if the problems are coming from yourself, not from the nature of things, then you should start to work on your own insecurites and build more self confidence.
me af
This is literally my life I over think the most stupid and unimportant things. But also really deep stuff as well.
being a kpopper and having your non-kpopper friends say "but on what ever you want" .-.
Funny, your current circumstances can be a major variable if you find yourself doing this. For me, a long absence from being personally and professionally involved on an everyday basis, due to injury and other variables, often makes me feel completely detached from reality. I know that once I jump back into the thick of things, it will cease to be an issue anymore.
Sooooo early.
I honestly hate being an over thinker, it sometimes makes me feel like I’m going insane! Like I overthink things that don’t need to be over thinked I get myself worried for no reason I sometimes have mental break downs and i even overthink in how I’m supposed to feel about things when I always have to keep saying to myself “you don’t over think emotions you just feel emotions, stop overthinking it”!!!
Honey, this is called anxiety.
There is actually a difference I have anxiety but I'm not and overthinker (that much) :)
+torey mackenzie I'm an overthinker, but have no anxiety.
why is this so accurate?!. Oh, story time!
So once i had a walk with my 2 friends and one of them was super duper talkative. I thought to myself "wow, i think shes comfortable with me!"
Me again "what if she's doing that so i wont talk, cause she doesn't like my talk? Is my conversation and stuff that weird?"
Me.. Again "but why isn't my other friend talking? Does she feel uncomfortable?"
a million questions pop up on my head.
And the "pick any music" thing was accurate!. I had a different story tho, i was watching some funny stuff with my cousin and he knew alot of funny stuff, i thought like "does he think im weird cause i find these things super funny?". And then it was my turn to pick a vid, i sweated and my picked. It was a really funny vid that made me laugh so hard.. But he didn't laugh, that was the most horrible thing that happened. My mind was thinking
"why did you pick the vid?!"
"now he thinks ur weird"
"does he still wanna watch funny stuff with me?"
"does he think my type of funny stuff is cringy?"
"am i cringy"
"do you think he would still be my best cousin?"
"were gonna be so awkward after this"
"what should i say?"
"if i say, now you pick he'll think that i hate him.. "
I have to stop, this is driving me crazy. Bye
i overthink everything too and second guess myself, but sometimes I am glad I think things through, otherwise I wouldve made some serious mistakes. please do a part 2!
the worst part is when i think about conversations i had years ago and spend time replaying it in my head trying to see if i said something stupid and if i did i think of things to say in the future if anyone asks me again but it always go wrong
Overthinking essays, math problems, clothing options, friendships.... I honestly just wish my brain could turn off sometimes!
Having friends like this (and also fighting this problem myself) I think emojis really save our time and brain usage XD
The worst is when you over think things so far to the point you ask the most annoying, hard to answer, difficult questions ever
Glad i watched this video! So accurate! And i definetly dont want to be an annoying person like that who is never sure! Making many changes immediately! Thank you!
Whenever I have an argument and fail terribly, I spend the rest of the day thinking of awesome comebacks and insults that I could have said. UGHH
I panic when someone tells me to play whatever i want, i see the misery look on people's faces when i play my favourite music!
Glad to see I'm not the only one who overthinks everything. I'm not sure whether I should cry or laugh about it though
1:42 her face when she orders and then is rethinking her decision 😄I do that all the time!
I sit in a cornor of my balcony crying abt how much positive energy i had and used to do everything with joy 😭😭golden days
I can totally relate. I hate overthinking though I get stressed out and misunderstand stuff.
I have never seen anything more relatable in my life