becoming THAT WOMAN in your 20s: appearance, money, charisma, hobbies & relationships
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- becoming that WOMAN in your 20s: appearance, money, charisma & relationships
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I learned from my twenties how shallow people are. Looks make or break how people treat you off the bat. Be the most attractive person you can be for yourself because I promise you get better treatment
True but also jealousy. Bad bad bad jealousy
Sure, but also why would you want to be around people who only treat you kindly if you’re attractive? You can’t control how others treat you but you can control your environment (for the most part). You don’t actively need to be spending time with people who only value you as a person based on what you look like.
@@teddyf3960 most people treat you based off looks
@@teddyf3960 Its bad.... But that is hpw pple is, since it cant be changed why not use it to your advantage
Fr but it hurts so bad . Having this realization
I just turned 20 and I feel lost. I feel alone, I feel a lot of anxiety, especially in social settings. I feel like I don’t know myself. I feel like I’m trying to do so many things, but not really knowing what I want
You are gonna get over it gurl. Its just a matter of time. You are a goddamn woman who is gonna manifest everything she aspires. Just have faith.
Loads of love❤
@@ME-eo2ju thank you so much for this!!!!!!
I felt this! But I would say to break out of this you gotta KNOW YOURSELF. You already lowkey figured out what you gotta do it’s just about seeing it through. & always remember BE AUTHENTIC. Be genuine! It pays in the long run… I’m telling you. You’d be surprised how many people are NOT GENUINE !
@@LuvKitKatt THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THISSS !!!! I had to learn how to not be so hard on myself and to accept things because I’m still young and learning. And I’m slowly learning that people’s intentions are not pure, and it hurts. But as long as I feel like I’m genuine to myself it’s all that counts
Me too 🫶🏽
I FELT EVERY PART OF THIS VIDEO, especially the part of boundaries, i literally lost all my friends cos i finally started having boundaries when i turned 25, i guess not everyone was meant to finish the journey with us, but tbh am glad i believe they weren't meant to be in this next chapter of my life, better now than realizing this later,
I feel you on the losing people portion. I'm glad you did what you needed to do ❤️
But how do we find new friends after we've lost all of them...
@@MsSimixx just keep doing the things you love. Go to the places that inspire you and you will meet like minded people so you dont have to struggle to fit in but also becar2ful I trying to not just say or I vibe with this person. Because not every vibe is healthy. They might turn our to be horrible. For the most part dont rush the finding new friends process. Just be yourself first. Understand you and everything else will follow in due time
Yes, really needed this because I’m 25 and I do not like my appearance and that’s due to the fact that I don’t like my body and I know it’s something I can change but I’m lazy 😩 so I feel in order to step into my womanhood I need to gain confidence and it starts with loving my body first. I rebuke the spirit of laziness
Yes AMEN 🙏
you *are* not lazy, you are being lazy right now. but laziness is not your identity. you can make change and can make change now. just sit in a quiet place, maybe put a song that gets you in a flow (i usually start with the song tajdar e haram, it's a spiritual song so sets me in right mood) and start from scratch. think of it as a prayer to god, say to god why you feel you are miserable, first address your worries. and then start visualising from now on, exactly from where you are, what small changes u can do to lead to ur desired state. and visualise urself doing them, visualise ur hurdles clearing up one by one. finish the visualisation as the song ends. open your eyes, thank god, and start taking just the next right step you can take. you can do it!
@@tai-gm8sywow 🌟 thanks for that gem
Period girl you got this 🫶🏾💗
thank you for being the big sister we all need
My pleasure ❤️
I second that
right! totally agree :) love her
like seriously ❤️
I am 52, want to change my life for the 2nd innings. I started my fitness journey and want to be the fittest at my 53rd birthday. I am doing Pilates, gym and learning new languages to keep my brain young. I love your voice n your videos. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I literally just turned 20 today and I came across this video, I needed this, thank you.
Am 21 ❤
same i turn 20 yesterday
I just turned 22, and I just feel confused in my 20s and I wanna be the best version of myself and all the pressures from society and what others expect from you is difficult
It is because society makes it this way! Especially them being obsessed with stripping the “innocent” energy that you have.. is crazy !
I only started watching your videos by chance last night, and from then on, I was hooked. Most of the videos i watched piqued my interest, touching on topics I've been wanting to start, but didn't know how too. Every video i watched felt specifically tailored for me. The manner in which you communicate your message is so clear and simple. Your videos are not so long, which keeps me engaged... Thank you for your videos
Wow, thank you so much. I appreciate you taking the time to comment this and I'm glad you're already enjoying the content! ❤️
Turning 25 in a couple of weeks, I feel so behind bc I’m just now starting to be consistent with putting myself first. Better late than never though ❤ thanks for the video
I’m 17 ready to become the best version of my self and this video has had a great impact on me thanks 🙏 ❤
I'm 23 and working on moving out of my home city. Because i realised i dont actually like the mindset of this city. I thought i was immune because i wasnt from a "small town" but im realising i need to move somewhere else for my own sanity
I love and appreciate that you said “ that woman “ it’s degrading to oneself to state “ that girl” it’s a maturity level I think we all need to learn the difference. Speaking from an entomology perspective
I am 39 and can sense the maturity in you. It’s extremely refreshing. Your amazing my dear ❤❤❤
This video was so powerful. Thank you for your words of wisdom ,and inspiration. You inspired me as a woman in my 20’s. Keep shining ✨
Thank you so much ❤️
This is my first time watching you and I can already see myself staying my attention span is awful but I was engaged from start to finish I definitely needed this💕
I love that segment about hobbies! Btw, what's your skincare routine? You're glowing
Thank you! It's pretty simple I use Avene foaming face wash and moisturisers and sometimes i use Tretinoin thats about it! ❤️
I’m 36 and this was very insightful, thank you.
Glad you enjoyed it! ❤️
your hair looks amazing😍 can we pls get a tutorial?
Your hair in this video is the first time I've seen my hair texture as beautiful. Wow. You're absolutely stunning.
Wow, thank you! ❤️✨
I don’t ever comment on videos but thank you coming from a 19 year old turning 20 in December.💓🧘🏾♀️
I’m glad this was valuable! ✨
wow your videos always come at the right moment for me truly a big sis for me
I'm so glad they do! ❤️
Thank you for this. Can you make a video about Leaning into you Feminine Energy and controlling your emotions next?
I love the way you express yourself, you seem to be a natural speaker. I really enjoyed your advice. 🙂😘❤️
Thank you so much! ❤️
Just discovered your video, just turned 25 4/4 an been going through a quarter life crisis an also creating boundaries for myself
I’m 23 and I’m tearing up needed to hear this 🥹✨💚
I just love everything that you do Adama. Your contents are very valuable and I always take something enriching from it. Thank you ❤
Thank you lovely, appreciate you too! ❤️
Firstly, it's nice to meet my namesake 'Lorna'. Also I love how this video is calm, enriching & fulfilling .💝
Hey! Thank you ❤️
when i was about 13, i dreamt i had a 13 year old daughter named Lorna, so i thought i'd save that name for future use. i ended up not naming them any Lornas, though it's funny I did remember that dream a few days ago.
Wow! Adama, the topics you touched on and the wisdom you shared is absolutely dynamic. I can relate to the areas of combining skill sets, censoring what one consumes on social media, nurturing healthy relationships and much more. I look forward to watching other videos of yours! Thank you.
Oh WOW this is deep. I’m in my forties but it speaks to me….every single word. I’m happy I came across your video and subscribed in the first few minutes. Thank you!
I appreciate it, you're welcome! ❤️
I too, relate to this comment. I am in my 40 and I feel zero negative impact on my life due to my age.We women must never feel outdated. We should be confident in age and not 🚭 ashamed of age but confident cuz you are gaining wisdom and experience
I love your voice and the entire message of this video, I really think that more people need to hear this (especially the finance stuff)
Thank you! ✨
Her hair is GOLDEN !!!!!!…. MOVE OUT THE WAY DO YOU SEE THE PRETTY LAYERS ? New Inspo , so beautiful , so soft and full looking!! its like a whisky lash set but in hair !!!
You are so beautiful, well spoken and mature. Hopefully you're already very proud of yourself--surely your parents are.
This is a beautiful comment. Thank you so much ❤️
Huh so what's going on
9:29 this!! Multiple people will try to push your boundaries. Definitely ! Definitely!
I’ll be 26 next month. I just finished my masters in arts admin and as I’m ATTEMPTING to enter into the workforce I’m feeling this tremor in my foundation and my plans because I’m not as prepared for this as I thought. I’m curious to what set you on your path to success. I didn’t have the direction and guidance that I needed, so I went to college and grad school pursuing dance and the arts because that’s what I was put in and practiced from childhood on. But, I had no real plan for what comes after. And, my family was just proud to see me pursue anything. I thought I was on the right course but I’m now trying to figure out how to sustain myself and build a life. I find myself considering whether I need to back track and start over in another industry that is more conducive to that. Is it too late, and is it worth more student loan debt?
Never
I really needed a video like this ❤ earned a new subscriber
This video is enough to convince me you are the online big sissy I've been looking for❤
Can I get your number u look pretty
I discovered your page today and I love it! you just gained a new subscriber!
Absolutely loved this ❤ Also you look so lush 🥰 love your space 😍
Thank you so much! ❤️
Thank you so much for this information this is my first time watching your channel
When she mentioned Pinterest, I was like yep, she knows the shit ❤❤
Thanks for making a video for younger women, was struggling to find them tbh
My pleasure ❤️
Very valid points and your voice is so soothing ! Can we please get details on your hair ? It’s gorgeous 🫶🏽
i love this channel so much! 🥰
Thank you! 🥺❤️
You had me at Sims😂 Thank you for sharing this information!
Yess ! Speaking of fitness appearance yoga works for me , also you can do a Little with a lot ❤
Short but very complete video with good information
So inspiring and engaging! Thank you!
You're welcome! 💕
As soon as you mentioned fitness and lifting I subscribed. Overall valuable information!
You are so well spoken
Loved your perspective ❤
Thank you! ❤️
2:16 veganism is not a diet
Thoroughly enjoyed this. I really have to work on my boundaries.
I'm glad you did! ✨
This is so important
😂😂I felt called out when you mentioned the sims!! Thanks for the advice❤❤
Our sims community is an interesting one 😂❤️
Video came right in time! Thank you.
thank you for the amazing video
You’re welcome!
I love your hair ❤❤
I love this whole video!! Thank you for sharing this 🔥❤️
Thank you! ❤️
GOLD !
loved this!!
Thank you.
24 and i f****** hate EVERYBODY SND EVERYTHING 😭😭😭 I feel like A PMS SYMPTON 😫 😩 Funny but not....... everybody seems so rude and likes a**holes. Dont get me started on self esteem ugh pillow princess fasho. Thank you for this... unfortunately, Like so many other women, i let a few toxic relationships take over my spirit and working on getting it back. ❤
Love the hair!
first time here and Im here to stay. You are so beautiful and I love how you speak
Thank you!! ✨
Jesus! Is that YOUR hair? Beautiful!
Your hair ❤️❤️ I love your hair! Tutorial please?
Ive been 25 for a month and my brain clicked. Im nowhere where I want to be and I am changing. By 26, I want to be unrecognizable
Let’s do it then! ✨
I’m turning 20 in a few weeks and I feel like I need to level up my life somehow. I don’t feel accomplished in anyway
Your voice is so soothing🥰🥰
Thank you!
before starting the video right away , beautiful hair! xD
Okay but can we get a hair tutorial please 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥰
22 year old here feeling completely lost and frustrated
amazing video, thank you so much for the advice!!!
You're welcome!!
YES TO ALL OF THIS!!!!!!!! I feel so inspired after watching this, thank you :) I don't know if you've heard of Superhuman multi-tasking meditations, but my friend recently showed me the app and it has changed my life - reminds me so much of everything you share here. It's rooted in visualizing how you want to think/act/feel and supports you to becoming this ultimate version of you... aka becoming THAT WOMAN!! Can't help but share b/c it's changed my life and it really reminds me of your content haha :)) x
Today is my birthday I just turned 22 I want to come back to this and ask myself did u overcome it ?
Totally enjoyed!
❤️
You have a beautiful voice
Yaasss and I am here for the cover photo ❤
Thank you! ❤️
Girllllls! If you are looking for a good husband, get one of the HelloFresh free meal kits for the week and cook him one of those meals. The first week is absolutely free. You just have to cancel the following week. And as long as you follow the recipe, you are golden. You'll be engaged the following day! Seriously try it! If you do try it, please come back and tell me your experience. I don't work for Hello Fresh by the way. But my husband sings my praises 24/7 because of it.
Ummmmmm. Krazy synchronicity just now. I haven’t went on my Pinterest app in months. And I was just listening to your video on que in the background. Then I realized I need to set my phone alarm. So I grabbed it and why did Ia accidentally open my Pinterest app and immediately after you said something about Pinterest. Wild lol.
Thank you❤️🥺
You’re welcome! ❤️
You are lovely - thank you so much
Thank you! ✨
New subscriber 🥰 great vid
I love ur voice 🥰
The only thing I'm focusing on is how beautiful and calm you are oh my you are sooo beautiful😍
Thank you so much! ✨
Lets all talk about this hair🙌
i dont really comment on posts lol. im in my early 20s, i wish my sister has given me this advice. im glad when im older i can keep this all in mind, lmao i had to continue with the video as soon as i heard "sims 2,3,4 are my hobbies" i related to you spiritually, deffo going to tune in more ✨
Find the things that work for you.
The entire time I’m watching this video I’m thinking “I love her, she’s amazing”. From your cadence in how you speak, to your mannerisms. You are BEAUTIFUL and intelligent. 🥂🤍 Thank you for the sound advice.
Wow, thank you so much! 💕
Please recommend sites for remote jobs please
I personally just use the regular sites like LinkedIn, Google job search and indeed and specify remote working. There are a few websites for remote working but I don’t use them 😊
This content is a goldmine of innovative and critical insights. Reading a book with akin subjects challenged and changed my thinking. "Your Body Your Temple" by Sophia Wintergreen
Thank you! I’ll have to check that book out. Reading list is long atm ✨
You are so beautiful 😍!
Thank you! ❤️
step into my womanhood whewwww
I love this video, which is very engaging and empowering content.
However, you speak quite fast
It's hard for someone to really grasp the fullness of your ideas and perspective in that speed. I think it'll be better you take intentional pauses to breath and for the information to sink in.
I am a fist time listener here. I know that this is a video where I can pause and re watch the parts where I need to but I just thought you should get some feedback.
Thank you! I’ll take that onboard, I did speak quite fast at times in this. I appreciate the feedback ❤️
Omg my brothers name is adama
Hi , this is my first time watching your video , and i'm in love with your lovely accent. Is it british ?
Thank you! Yes born and raised in London! ✨
I love your hair 💖 are you natural or (not trying to offend( is that a wig? If so, whats the name of the unit? 🔥
Can we get hair details pls ??
Wowww..... thanks a lot for all the advice....needed to hear it
You’re welcome! ❤️