What 5 years of marriage taught us| Featured Our Love Journey couples reflection & lessons

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  • Опубліковано 28 лис 2024

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  • @analoveowusu1098
    @analoveowusu1098 2 роки тому +105

    'A good marriage is not something you find, it's something you make and you have to keep making it' wow God bless you for this message

  • @thembimahlangu9361
    @thembimahlangu9361 2 роки тому +133

    We like even before we watch..."if you don't get it, forget about it" Thank you guys for the consistency...

    • @nanit06
      @nanit06 2 роки тому +5

      I almost skipped the ads cos I'm so used to skipping ads on other videos but I remembered that we don't skip ads on this channel!

    • @thatokgopa9449
      @thatokgopa9449 2 роки тому

      Thembimathembissss, is this the Thembi I know?

    • @thembimahlangu9361
      @thembimahlangu9361 2 роки тому

      @@thatokgopa9449 where would you know me from?

  • @vhiekagola
    @vhiekagola 2 роки тому +6

    “You don’t always have to be in the same room, but you need to be on the same floor.” 💯💯

  • @jasintamumba3738
    @jasintamumba3738 2 роки тому +50

    I'm not married but I'm definitely learning so much from you love you guys ❤️

  • @beulalucy9357
    @beulalucy9357 2 роки тому +54

    Can we kindly have "THE MAKHS"🥺❤
    Thank you so much for this episode💫❤You just gotta love this podcast💫❤

  • @amogelangbasetsanaratlhogo7721
    @amogelangbasetsanaratlhogo7721 2 роки тому +4

    When you mentioned couples you excited to bring on the podcast, Dr Musa Mthombeni and Mrs Liesl Mthombeni came to mind🤗👌

  • @YemiAyodeji
    @YemiAyodeji 2 роки тому +19

    Respect for each other is really a big deal in marriage especially because we won't always agree through the years. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @lisethekauapirura5532
    @lisethekauapirura5532 2 роки тому +3

    In my singleness l feed on all this deep conversations. Taking notes. Learning. A meal worth having. 📝

  • @nthatifuma
    @nthatifuma 2 роки тому +45

    Been here since day one (season 1) and my favourite couple from season 1 was Luyanda and Lebo, like you said they are so true to themselves and my favorites from season 2 were Tebello and Bafana, guys the friendship!
    Was looking forward to the same set up ka season 3 but ei! Life! Covid ! But im glad we could still have our love journey ♥
    Love our love journey and looking forward to the February episodes as well
    Lastly thank You to Mpoomy and Brenden for doing this for us, no one could have done it better 👏

  • @misscarol_m
    @misscarol_m 2 роки тому +4

    Mpoomy I really like how you’ve added a pop of colour in your wardrobe. I’m here for the fashion too👏🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾

  • @lindomashego9472
    @lindomashego9472 2 роки тому +13

    Thank you so much guys much love Regodise are my favorite couple too I love there love shem continue helping us build our marriage 🥳💝 I'm happily married to my hubby for 14years now going to 15th this year October 😍😍

  • @sine9419
    @sine9419 2 роки тому +14

    Lebo and Luyanda❤️I remember watching them and thought it's so beautiful to see such a young couple being so inlove and you can tell they are friends before they are lovers.

  • @shefacesthesun
    @shefacesthesun 2 роки тому +2

    “we don’t have to be in the same room, but we can be on the same floor” 🙏🏾 love it! ✨

  • @DeliciouskFoodSA
    @DeliciouskFoodSA 2 роки тому +1

    I always say “ there’s no leave in marriage, the moment you take leave and relax, ‘ it’s done. This is an ongoing ministry ❤️❤️❤️

  • @johannahshokane2263
    @johannahshokane2263 2 роки тому +7

    Please bring the Makhs🥺❤️❤️

  • @amandaapril2611
    @amandaapril2611 2 роки тому

    Mpumi, you look like a dream, I couldn't take my eyes off you girl! Pink is your color mama!

  • @bongiwemakamane1034
    @bongiwemakamane1034 2 роки тому +16

    Wow thank you so much guys I really needed this, because we are also 5 years in marriage and but hearing you guys I see that i have lost it BIG TIME😪and I will try to make it wok with my Husband. Thank you so much guys I am truly learning. May God do you well

    • @Loralou4455
      @Loralou4455 2 роки тому +2

      Praying for restoration sis ❤️

  • @valentiamangethe7181
    @valentiamangethe7181 2 роки тому +4

    I can't wait for the couples and the lessons they will share with us.
    Thank you for sharing these nuggets:
    *Communication is key> always look at the person's intention.
    *Respect > There is a manner in which you speak to your partner, even when you are disagreeing.
    *You have to Grow with your partner > "awareness", checking in on each other - same floor/ same level.
    " A good marriage is not something you find, its something you make and you have to keep making"
    I love you, Mrs. Mom, and Brendon.

  • @magdeleneskota6827
    @magdeleneskota6827 2 роки тому +4

    Wow beautiful congratulations 🎉🎉 guys 🙏🙏5 yrs is not an easy journey in marriage , I've love the part that your marriage is build in Christ 🙌🙌i am married for 25 yrs this yrs ,you guys will reached more yrs together, you guys are blessed 🙏🙏🙏 marriage is a beautiful thing when couples work together,nothing you get easy in life,i love watching your channel to see young couple growing together,thank you guys💖💖

  • @kiqangelotjihukununa5795
    @kiqangelotjihukununa5795 2 роки тому +7

    Iam so speechless honestly because you guys teach not to married people only but to everyone. So thankful my favourite couples may God give you guys more wisdom to educate us thanks alot

  • @dianarosemtetwa5999
    @dianarosemtetwa5999 2 роки тому +14

    I have been following your content for a while now, it has really helped me grow and become a better person, I love Mpoomy so much and l have shared most of your content with my friends.. Do not grow weary in teaching,, you are really hitting souls❤️

  • @KhanyisileDlamini23
    @KhanyisileDlamini23 2 роки тому +2

    "A good marriage isn't something you find but it's something you make and have to keep on making it."🔥🔥Wow that's so profound❤love this this and RegoDise was my favorite from Our Love Journey series. ❤

  • @kristelhaoses4272
    @kristelhaoses4272 2 роки тому +1

    this is therapy for you guys man

  • @mokgadihlongwane6284
    @mokgadihlongwane6284 2 роки тому +1

    Wow! You guys have conquered marriage. The point you touched on of checking in and the other partner not thinking is a personal attack is 💯. Couples that are "working" may become their worst enemies if they are not intentional about chrcking in.
    You guys are a blessing to many of us 🙏🏼.

  • @Busisiwe_Makhanya
    @Busisiwe_Makhanya 2 роки тому +2

    I can't even remember how I bumber into our love journey but I remember the first night i binged on the previous episodes and season. That's how I started following you guys and you never disappoint.
    May the Lord enlarge your territory.

  • @cokisatiti1730
    @cokisatiti1730 2 роки тому +1

    I’ve been meaning to watch this for a while. I love Brendan’s analogy of same floor. I’ve been married for 10 yrs & I’m not the person I was when we started & neither is hubby so I know how important it is to grow together. From the onset, we instilled the practice of “honestly reflecting together about all aspects of our lives annually (on our anniversary). We started it on our honeymoon so we’ve kept it to our anniversary. It’s a non-judgemental space where the one is given the opportunity to express themselves (what they need & what the other needs to keep doing, stop doing & start doing). It’s not always easy but it helps us to check in & readjust expectations.

  • @corneyapril
    @corneyapril 2 роки тому +15

    Honestly my future husband will have to get used to me watching your beautiful love journey . How raw and honest you are about your journey is beautiful . I've grown so much as an individual from just watching you sis Mpoomy . Your content has served as soooo much wisdom , to use in relationships and life also . This is beautiful . I love you guys a lot. ❤️

  • @RealTalkWithNthabi
    @RealTalkWithNthabi 2 роки тому +6

    Loved this conversation. Marriage is work. Whatever you do together every day builds a stronger bond and growth in the marriage. I needed this video. Thanks, Fam. ❤️

  • @KhanyiMsibi
    @KhanyiMsibi 2 роки тому +8

    Absolutely loved the Our Love Journey Series, learnt so much from the different couples. It honestly makes one realise that no marriage is perfect, it just takes work to make it what you want it to be.
    After watching this, I definitely want to go back and watch it over again.

  • @YemiAyodeji
    @YemiAyodeji 2 роки тому +16

    I really enjoyed the love journey series with other couples, I think that was how I discovered Mpoomy's channel. Great conversation and lessons👏🏽❤

  • @tebotshungu6728
    @tebotshungu6728 2 роки тому +3

    Coffee disagreement is so relatable 😂

  • @nkepengmarumo3648
    @nkepengmarumo3648 2 роки тому +1

    For me it was Bafana and Tebello, their story is beautiful

  • @MsIpps
    @MsIpps 2 роки тому +2

    I definitely need to go back & re-watch all our love journey episodes. I thoroughly enjoyed them back then.

  • @NontobekoMalinga
    @NontobekoMalinga 2 роки тому +3

    I remember forcing my husband to watch season 2 of Our Love Journey. It’s not even the type of content he watches but he absolutely loved it. 😅
    Thank you guys for always serving us with quality content.

  • @masinantk
    @masinantk 2 роки тому +3

    Great way to begin the week 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾❤️

  • @lindiwemoeletsi1610
    @lindiwemoeletsi1610 2 роки тому +7

    You guys are such a breath of fresh air. I always like before I watch the whole video, how crazy is that hey?!! I absolutely enjoy your content. I love you guys!

  • @LungileThabethe
    @LungileThabethe 2 роки тому +6

    Such valuable lessons , thank you guys♥️

  • @Kelle_nb
    @Kelle_nb 2 роки тому +2

    Hey Mrs Mom
    Hope you are well, congratulations on year 5
    I’ve been a part of the journey since 2019 and throughly enjoy it,
    Please Feature Aunt Gail again…she is so humble and has so much wisdom, I truly appreciated the conversation with her.
    Happy Marriage 🥳🥳❤️

  • @buhlendaba3514
    @buhlendaba3514 2 роки тому +10

    What you guys have is amazing...May God continue to bless your marriage.
    I am so far from getting married😅 kodwa I have surely learnt a lot for when I get there. Thank you❤

  • @gracedelightwanjiku
    @gracedelightwanjiku 2 роки тому +7

    Loved the love journeys!! (might even binge them on valentines)😀
    Finding something you love and makes you better is quite rare and you guys do both well.
    Thank you, Mpoomy and Brenden.
    This was a great episode of demystifying marriage as well as revealing just how beautiful it can be.
    Looking forward to the new episodes!
    Cheers!💕

  • @karabotema2651
    @karabotema2651 2 роки тому +1

    Love, Love you guys so much. Learn so much all the time.

  • @ByfaithproductionsNews
    @ByfaithproductionsNews 2 роки тому +2

    I wouldn’t mind joining a couples retreat hosted by the two of you guys. Cape Town.

  • @obianujuh
    @obianujuh 2 роки тому +6

    Please when you guys speak in your other languages, please can you translate through subtitles. Some of us don’t understand and want to get in on the joke 🥲 Love you both 🤍

  • @nthabi_royaltymasango4915
    @nthabi_royaltymasango4915 2 роки тому +7

    After watching this, I'm definitely going back to our love journey series the hundreth time😍 man those series are worth repeating, so beautiful to watch, you guys did well, can't wait to see who you bringing this time♥️

  • @vanessabizarro6176
    @vanessabizarro6176 2 роки тому +4

    This channel is EVERYTHING. So relatable ❤️❤️❤️Love you guys

  • @kozo4326
    @kozo4326 2 роки тому +2

    You look absolutely gorgeous Mrs Ledwaba💛

  • @AntonetteK1
    @AntonetteK1 2 роки тому +1

    Can’t wait to finish my work for the day and get to watching this.

  • @unamimonyatsi
    @unamimonyatsi 2 роки тому +1

    Definitely going back to watch again

  • @zolisawelani9338
    @zolisawelani9338 2 роки тому

    The sound quality of this video is top notch!

  • @Musiano_
    @Musiano_ 2 роки тому

    I'm coming back to this video for the 3rd time. I really loved it🥺💜

  • @mrspboledi
    @mrspboledi 2 роки тому

    Beautiful how Our Love Journey has evolved over the years🥰🥰 it’s always been a fave and it feels like it was just yesterday when the first episode aired🥰🥰 thank you for giving us such amazing content for 5 good years

  • @janetocholla7625
    @janetocholla7625 2 роки тому +1

    Hello Mpoomy & Brendan, I'm Janet Ocholla from Kenya. I love love love your vlogs and always learned so much from every post.
    I would however request you guys, to kindly consider putting subtitles when you're speaking your local dialects!! Your foreign audience wants to laugh with you.
    Be blessed.

  • @ByfaithproductionsNews
    @ByfaithproductionsNews 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you guys for sharing your experiences with us 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💕💕💕

  • @GracefulYvonne
    @GracefulYvonne 2 роки тому +4

    💜😍Location silah!!!

  • @soulwinningtv246
    @soulwinningtv246 2 роки тому +1

    You guys are a gift! 🙌🙌❤️

  • @zimasancoliwe
    @zimasancoliwe 2 роки тому +3

    There is so much I have learnt from Our Love Journey. I just can not wait for more. You guy are amazing ❤️

  • @rethabilemakubela176
    @rethabilemakubela176 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much for this , my marriage is on its knees because I didn’t understand that its not all about izimbali/ grand gestures..I just felt attacked. God bless you guys💛

  • @snazzy443
    @snazzy443 2 роки тому

    I love you guys. Many blessings to you ♥️❤️
    When Mpoomy talks about something she read about not being important it reminds me of Don Miguel Ruiz book Four agreements. One agreement being Do not take anything personally. Whatever people say or do to you whether it’s good or bad, it’s rarely about you rather about themselves.

  • @tinamatsimella5806
    @tinamatsimella5806 2 роки тому +1

    Would you add your own captions in future? UA-cam is letting you down with CC's they provide. Great conversations.

  • @nondumisombele4226
    @nondumisombele4226 2 роки тому +1

    Another amazing podcast, thank you for sharing and always being open and transparent with us! ❤

  • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
    @Tiisetso_Kgomo 2 роки тому +2

    Loved this! Wishing you both a blissful 5th year❤️

  • @Nayyknights
    @Nayyknights 2 роки тому +1

    “You’re not that important” shuu! 👏👌

  • @khanyisahlengani
    @khanyisahlengani 2 роки тому +1

    I really loved the love journey series, brought Alot of perspective into my relationship life.

  • @tshiamochauke5915
    @tshiamochauke5915 2 роки тому

    Think I'll go back to season one! Thanks for the conversation guys!

  • @nobukhosincube3407
    @nobukhosincube3407 2 роки тому

    Mpooomy is my sister from another mother ❤️❤️

  • @misscarol_m
    @misscarol_m 2 роки тому +2

    Brandon is really a humble guy shame I’m not gonna lie,

  • @ruthbwalyamusange
    @ruthbwalyamusange 2 роки тому +1

    Yes can't wait for the guests. I absolutely love y'all's content 💛

  • @globalchar
    @globalchar 2 роки тому +6

    the coffee issue in the beginning lol, absolutely love you guys😂❤️

  • @bhelekazi_b
    @bhelekazi_b 2 роки тому

    Mmmm I've been saying ''that's not how it works'' far more than I can remember because of you guys, love you guys.

  • @YemiAyodeji
    @YemiAyodeji 2 роки тому +1

    The coffee gist had me laughing, BTW😂😂😂.

  • @mimikaaylo
    @mimikaaylo 2 роки тому

    Yes...ngifuna isifuba.hahaha, Mpoomy's favorite.

  • @aviwemachakela5354
    @aviwemachakela5354 2 роки тому +1

    We're here... Yeay❤️

  • @arinahosharon6354
    @arinahosharon6354 2 роки тому

    I really love you guys❤❤🤞🤞you building marriages out here🤞🤞🤞🤞

  • @hlumelagana7152
    @hlumelagana7152 2 роки тому +1

    Mpoomy you look incredible 🙌🏽

  • @saneliswamagagula9781
    @saneliswamagagula9781 2 роки тому +1

    Come through consistency!

  • @huliemadala251
    @huliemadala251 2 роки тому

    what an episode...you guys are everything the youth need

  • @noxolosambatha5659
    @noxolosambatha5659 2 роки тому +1

    The way mpoomy is looking at baby daddy thou

  • @mpopisirejoicemanamela278
    @mpopisirejoicemanamela278 2 роки тому

    The quote ❤️❤️ . Love you guys and God bless you 🙏

  • @your_sister_in_Christ
    @your_sister_in_Christ Рік тому +1

    connection 😀

  • @kutlomasole712
    @kutlomasole712 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you guys for bringing Our love journey ♥️I am learning alot♥️

  • @preciousmmolawa9134
    @preciousmmolawa9134 2 роки тому

    Love journey podcast 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

  • @bhelekazi_b
    @bhelekazi_b 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for this, very insightful. You guys also rank very high on 'Our Love Journey' couples reflections and lessons

  • @queenrammym
    @queenrammym 2 роки тому +1

    I am second here with my Fave Family🥰❤

  • @anitaseitshiro
    @anitaseitshiro 2 роки тому +1

    Did i not scream 😩😩🔥🔥🔥😭🤧💃💃

  • @KhanyisileSondiyazi_
    @KhanyisileSondiyazi_ 2 роки тому

    I enjoy you guys so much, thank you.
    I learn so much from your videos.

  • @NduwaSiachaba
    @NduwaSiachaba 2 роки тому +3

    Wasn't expecting this content to be given to us #Today..But haibo❤️💃💃Great Way to start the week! Thank you guys❤️❤️🙏

  • @noziphonozie8702
    @noziphonozie8702 Рік тому

    its iimbali😅😅😅
    I love you guys its a pity Ive just find your page now and I am not sleeping trying to catch up and I am enjoying every live video 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @laimiuda6213
    @laimiuda6213 2 роки тому

    Always blushing when seeing such notifications ☺..

  • @sarahteira1816
    @sarahteira1816 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you

  • @brendamabusela1168
    @brendamabusela1168 2 роки тому +1

    Whether the person drinks it or not... get the coffee😂😂😂

  • @lolwethungcawa8354
    @lolwethungcawa8354 2 роки тому

    Hey Ledwabas, I enjoyed the video.
    Can't wait for guest interviews 💃❤️

  • @Palesa20m
    @Palesa20m 2 роки тому

    Love that pink on you Mrs mom!!

  • @vickymor3963
    @vickymor3963 2 роки тому

    Top tier content as always.. Be blessed

  • @mandisasamketi781
    @mandisasamketi781 2 роки тому

    always looking forward to your content.......and Mrs Mom...always looking beautiful

  • @queenrammym
    @queenrammym 2 роки тому +2

    I am so excited for this one.
    Notification Gang
    we are within💃💃

  • @mbalikhumalo921
    @mbalikhumalo921 2 роки тому

    OMG ....I loved this.

  • @angelomsibi2821
    @angelomsibi2821 2 роки тому

    Always looking forward to these podcasts for the great advice and knowledge thank you guys for such a wonderful amazing content

  • @thembiadoorns
    @thembiadoorns 2 роки тому

    Beautiful man, u guys are both amazing, thank u for sharing ur love story with us.

  • @karabonkadimeng9576
    @karabonkadimeng9576 2 роки тому

    Heyyiiii what a way to start the day💃💃💃💃my faves

  • @MrsRayleneMartin
    @MrsRayleneMartin 2 роки тому

    hahhahahahahhahah the coffee I cant relate to it as I do the same to my husband but I need my coffee where I warm it the next day, its mine obviously made by mines husband ....hahahhaha...Thank you for sharing your journey i appreciate it and it helps a lot, and i am excited that this is back i have been following since the birth of the Chanel.