The D word | Our Love Journey
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- Опубліковано 12 жов 2024
- Welcome to season 5 of #ourlovejourney! This week we tackle the D word and what could be the major cause. This episode is sponsored by Medshield, and you can visit medshieldmom.com for more details
“I haven’t been broke since we got married” - Mpoomy… that’s some heavy energy 🔥🔥
Over the years I love how expressive and free Brenden has become. He’s actually deep yoh! Beautiful and honest episode guys. Such important conversations 🙏🏽
That's true I watched the convo on mental health with Dove men and honestly he made completing truths that' where not mainly towards men but life itself ...they bounce off really good of each other and it's sooo powerful to listen to
True hey, Mr Ledwaba keeps throwing deep punches yet in a very gracious way ! We are learning and appreciate.
Brenden is very wise.
I always enjoy watching him and his perspective
He's defs has wisdom
"A lack of money is a reflection of you being out of sync with your purpose." That sat with me . Thank you for this lovely conversation ❤️
God will give you provision if you are doing what he wants you to do.
Wow
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I’m listening to this for the 3rd time. This sat with me too.
This entire conversation woke me up to the reality of how my words can affect my hubby. The way Brenden explained it, I feel convicted and I’m definitely changing my ways.
Mpoomy I love you and you always drop gems. But this episode, Ntate ledwaba dropped some fire.
Someone had to say it & I love that it came from a young couple. Which makes it so much more relatable.
Definitely watching this again and again❤
"Why wouldn't you have the provision if you were doing what God wanted you to do?" This is really a nugget to reflect on.
Indeed a nugget to really reflect on very powerful ✨🌻💕🔥
Word!!!
I love how this conversation didn’t necessarily just focus on the “D-word” but on how to improve little things in your relationship.
yes its important to always focus on the positive or solution
I love Brendan's vulnerability. How comfortable he is in this conversation made it more relatable for us.
I love the way Mpoomy smiles at her man with admiration when he speaks facts!!! She's just so proud of him. ☺
Brenden you are so wise and that's on period and I love how real you are, you don't even try being something you not. God bless you.
"money is connected to your purpose, why wouldn't you have the provision if you're doing what God called you to do" eish now this right here yoh yoh yoh wow brenden this just answered alot of questions I've been asking God lately and I literally prayed about it a few minutes before watching this. I've been feeling as if what I'm currently doing isn't what God called me to do but before I type a whole novel here I just wanted to thank you and mpoomy for accepting Gods call on your lives. You're saving alot of lives, relationships and a whole lot through your videos and posts please in the words of bishop TD Jakes don't you ever drop the mic!
Yho!!!!Your lack of money is a sign of you being out of sync with your purpose.
Such a raw statement 🥺
Ouch!I felt that.
The money part 🙌🏼lapho I used to be one of those people who used to say money is not that important kuRelationship but my view has since changed.
Can we also speak about the PRODUCTION QUALITY🤩👌 You are serving us KONTENT, GREAT VISUALS AND SOUND!! Thank you so much 🙏
You raised something that's so important. I am divorced, during the marriage I was constantly told that both the dad and the brother are divorced, so getting divorced is not scary for him. I knew I felt inadequate in the marriage but I couldn't pinpoint it until today. Thank you guys.
Mpoomy not patting Brendan on the shoulder for being a parent is honestly where it’s at .
It hits different 😢
I almost didn't get it until she said "I'm doing a great job as a mom but no one is clapping hands for me because its what I'm supposed to do.."
@@lifewithzandihalley6512 right ?
Brendan uthi Infidelity is the dificiency of the person, I felt that. Its so true and I wish we can all view it that way and we will never think there's anything wrong with the peraon that is cheated on.
Congratulations on the award ❤️love that you guys are back
Thank you Tendai
I’m not married but I loved this discussion. It’s a lot to think about before committing to someone in marriage.❤
Brenden woke up and chose to drop gems or in YT language bangers!! salute Sir. This was a great convo as always, thank you.
I definitely agree with Brendan "we can expect change, but we cant force them"
Not married, but what a beautiful conversation. There’s always something to learn from our Love Journey podcast and that’s what I love about it 🙌
"When I don't have money, I wanna divorce me!" LOL, underrated but truthful articulation of how every gent feels like😂
One thing about this couple they will drop gems 💎 ✨️
I love how vulnerable Brendon is❤ much needed topic. Thank you guys😊
"Lack of money is also a sign that you are not in sync with your purpose" ~ Brenden 🙌🏾
Brendan has shared valid points. Financial security is soo important in relationships/marriages ❤️
I really missed this podcast,glad you're back. Meanwhile I've been enjoying wisdom and wellness episodes and learning alot.
Love 💕 from Kenya
Our love journey has opened a platform for self-evaluation, acceptance of the me I am, and a foundation for growth. You are the representation I have been yearning for and you guys have validated what I have always thought and felt. I honestly feel a sense of belonging here, like there are people who understand me and I can relate to. Congratulations on your award fam❤❤
Thank you guys..im 14 yrs married and you even tought me a lot..this conversation is a MUST
Love really is a gift and we define love and relationships according to our preferences.
I love, a love that evolves and forgives with the foundation of loving eachother purely
Loved when Mpoomy said 'we were compatible before we had dreams...'
Brendan is such an intentional listener and Mpoomy knows that imbewu iwela emhlabeni when she speaks to her husband. It’s beautiful to witness.
I have forsaken this podcast for a while due to my ignorance and laziness. But now I just realized that this is actually one of the great platforms to get knowledge, wisdom and inspiration. I love you guys so much....
This conversation here needs to be had and heard by many. Thank you guys for continuously digging deeper into topics that nobody ever wants to dive into!! Prevention is definitely better than cure .. ❤❤❤#team🇧🇼
Yoh you guys!!! Lol God neh! God is so intentional and He loves us tlhe! Please!
Guys the whole 50 minutes and 48 seconds of this was literally my prayer answered, like God said "hang on ... just a moment" then boom He gave me this, literally every single moment of this was speaking to my situation like Holy Spirit made sure I have no doubt what to do next, He precisely made sure I know He's talking to me
Trust me you guys are doing the Lords work thank you so much for being obedient to God and thank you for putting yourselves out there, being vulnerable and real you have no idea how much this has helped me and will help my son and his father nje my cute likkle family nje🥺🥰, I really hope I get to tell you this testimony one time, this reminded me how much God loves me hey, I'm really His little girl bathong and He just wants me well please 🥺🥰 Thank you so much Mpoomy and Brenden🙏 God bless you guys❤
Hey Mpoomy and Brenden, u know I'm learning a lot about relationships and marriage. I'm not married yet but because of ur content I have an understanding of how marriage should be like and to always put God first. Keep up the good work guys ❤️
"Money is connected to your purpose....,,,"
It really hit home.
Brenden is so wise!
Thank you Mrs Mom and Brenden for always feeding us with great conversation. ❤
Guuuuuys, hello fam🥳🥳 so today I've seen something in our lovely mrs mum...I don't know who else has noticedit but I have...today Mrs mum was actually having a conversation without necessarily being at the center of it...wow!! I love this...mum I'm so proud of you🥳🥳🥳🥳looooooove. Mrs mum is doing better.
Brenden was sooo articulate and conspicuous. What a raw but great session.
I enjoyed this so much, I love how you guys can be vulnerable with us ❤️
The financial security chat for me took the cup!!!! Especially when Brenden highlighted that he can't lead as he should if he is not financial secure and that money is connected to purpose, I mean if you are on the right path [Godly assigned purpose] there should be provision.
Mpoomy you are so right about the importance of exploring different interests to establish what to expertise in or what you like most. In some instances we can only know whether we can by trying or doing.
Got divorced last week and was dreading listening to this. Love the direction it took. ❤🙏🏾
Sending you healing mama ❤️
Healing my love 💓 ❤
Beautiful episode as always. But can we just appreciate the effort you guys put into these episodes! The colour coordinated outfits, background, lighting, camera angles (s/o to Brenden😂) Mpoomys makeup?! Love it ❤
I always find myself crying during the our love journey conversations. Y’all a gift maan and thank you for pouring your hearts to us . We really learn a lot . It’s Brenden for me when he keeps on saying “uyabo” 😊❤️❤️
Brenden is so wise and so real ,love them pls!
Congratulations 🎊 on winning the award! May you win many more
I am glad I listened to this Episode with my fiancé, very very powerful conversation👏🏾🔥🔥
I loved this so much. Absolutely loved how Mr.Ledwaba shared his heart and took charge. I am in full agreement with the thoughts and opinions shared on this one ❤.
Lol one of those where I like even before I even listen to the conversation 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
Thank you Nontokozo
Brenden speaks facts only! What a genius.. Mpoomy you are really blessed
I remember that five year mark was from the conversation with your mother on “My mother’s corner segment”. This episode was beautiful. May God bless your lifetime marriage contract as it is also serving us, people who aren’t close to you guys as well ❤.
The 5 year thing is true
😍😍So excited to have you back guys!! I listened to the podcast earlier today on Spotify and it was amazing but in my head I was busy checking for the UA-cam video and it's finally here😅🎉🎉! Much love for you guys from Zambia!❤️❤️❤️ And congratulations on the award! Well deserved ✨
I love you guys....
The way you ozz with wisdom..and at the same time accept that you are still learning is an inspiration to me!💫
Don't even feel bad about coming to us twice a month...
You have lives to live and experience 🤭so go on enjoy yourselves, draw lessons and then come back share with us ❣️😎.
Peace 🤞
I agree with Brendan 🤞🏾, Your mom is definitely the wisest woman in the world🙌🏾
Brendan is so wise,had to question myself when He was talking about being broke and not living in your purpose!!Something to really work on and figure it out,thank you for this podcast!
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This podcast has helped me see another perspective of how marriage runs.
Thank you Mpoomy and Brenden for this amazing podcast, missed it and congratulations 🎊 on your award. You sure deserve it!!!!
I just love Brendon's facial expressions, they are just priceless😅😅😅
Congratulations on the award 👏🏾❤️ well deserved! Mpoomy is jussss gorgeous gorgeous 😍😍😍😍
I ain't feeling this way since we hooked up!!!!!!😍😍😍 I scromed when I saw you insta post,Welcome back Family.
The way you navigate through the small factors which aren't that small in real life that lead to big effects and decision making about a long time commitment is just OUT OF THIS WORLD!!!!!
May the Lord continue to be the centre of your union and may He give you the grace to keep going and to grow and adapt in every season.
Lovely and deep conversation. I just love how you able to allow each other to vulnerable without judging each other. You each seek to understand each other's point view. I also liked how you explained the importance of preparing your families about your partner. This is something that is being down played and I think it is crucial. Overall I enjoyed the conversation.
Yeah no this episode was impactful! So many gems. Thank you for being sharing and being vulnerable with us.
Great video❤You guys are so matured in how you talk to each other,you honestly sell marriage 😭😭❤ .May God bless your union
Guys this conversation! When Bredan starts mentioning that he wants to be vulnerable and that Mpumi doesn't find him attractive as a father... I heqrd them both and I understood them both and yey!
Mpoomy you were talking to your mum (the 5 year mark story).🙈 I remember because the conversations with your mum have become my favourite.. 🥰.
True! I immediately remembered the episode too 😅
Throughly enjoyed this conversation, Brenden is wise beyond his years. Thanks for a beautiful convo family, May God continue to bless you ❤️❤️
This conversation just spoke volumes to me, on so many levels. And to eco everyones sentiments.... Brenden dropping serious nuggets.
Love the podcast and the growth.
The picture quality is also really good 😍
Also, congratulations on your podcast of the year award!! 🥇 well deserved.
Brendan's on fire today. His point at 37mins is so true. The young Jim Baker's sermon on Wealth and God- carries the exact same point. God wants us financially stable so we may fulfill our purpose and also give to those in need. And also its selfish to pray and ask God for just 'enough'. We have to ask for abundance and God's name can be glorified
My hubby is always threatening to leave- he will sleep in the car/ living room...tjooo!! Its like an Adele sad song in this house all because akala mali and he knows my security lies in savings 😂😂😂🤣 Dude needs to repent and realize he has plans I'm on board with. Angangi dini ngebala lelo lokuthi- I'm leaving.
He is a leader based on his God ordained position and his decision. I'm not in his life to make him a man/ leader/ King. Man need to understand that you are the leader of wife/ the family regardless of the temporary financial issue. Just focus on your goals, achieve them...
Loved this one. Thanks for this very deep and necessary conversation.
I'm taking with me: your husband sets the standard for how you will be welcome/treated. And that's on facts.
I love the fact that your conversations are always sprinkled with laughter and love🥰, I've never laughed so hard like I did when I watched your episode about red flags😅.I love you guys, to many more informative yet fun conversations from icouple yenation yethu🍾🥂❤️🤩
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I always say that as people, especially in a relationship context, 'we either want the samething but in a different way, or want different things in the same way'. And that is where incompatible comes in
Absolutely loved this conversation.
I learnt so much about myself from this. Thank you Mpoomy and Brendan for this...
I continuously grow with you guys in each episode 🥺❤️❤️Thank you
"Lack of money is a reflection of you being out of sink with your purpose". This is deep
Mpoomy is glowing ❤👌
I love watching /Listening to the both of you together podcasts.
Thanks you so much for the content.
This conversation was both mature and phenomenal, gosh I loved it ❤️! Love the couple too❤️
lol Brendens humor 😂 she said “Well I wouldn’t say a fish” 😂. Lol anyway ! Thank you so much for having this conversation you guys. So necessary!
I really enjoyed the conversation was great . this is a great platform for both married ,single and divorced people. talking about divorce i think its not easy but when one partner start raise it, its going to create more questions to another partner like "why now".its something that should be sladen aside and at the same time should be talked about .
just young woman not married but i learn each time through this platform, thank you THE LEDWABA's.
Loved this… particularly enjoyed establishing boundaries with families (that’s a big one).
Wow thank you so much guys I am really making changes... May God continue to keep you
Wow...such beautiful and important conversations....thank you for this!
You guys touched so much on everything that I felt like 50 minutes was not enough ..A great episode indeed ❤❤❤
Aicha Brenden is giving us fire bombs. Wow. This my second time watching this video. Thank you for the wisdom guys.
Congratulations 🎊 on your achievement of winning an Award 🥇 much deserving 🙏blessings and blessings 🙏Thank God for you two talking about the D in this platform 🙌I never click so quick when i saw the heading,so glad that you explained step by step,implementing,giving solutions and just being vulnerable about it,especially now with so much D happening with our favs 🤯shocking the one hits me the most is Tia and Cory💔disbelief 😓funny enough I see you in them😍I pray to God to always protect your union🙏
This has been my favorite episode ❤❤。Thank you for opening up a conversation that I didn’t know I needed to have with myself and with my partner
Literally came to YT looking for a good video to study with and the first thing I see this. God is good 😊💓
I am definitely gonna come back to this installment. It had to do with relationships, but you touched on purpose and career as well.
Phenomenal
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I think this is my absolute favorite! You guys are a blessing. Thank you for sharing openly.
Thank you for this video. I’m married 5 yrs now and I’m always open when it comes to learning from other couples and about marriage ngoba heyi…😂
#Notificationgang😊I really like how Mrs Mom still looks and crushes on him while he's talking 😂💝I love you guys sm💯
Brenden went all in here, he's very blunt. Love to see it!
I love love u guys so much....much love from Kenya...
Thank you Eddah🥰
💃💃💃💃💃💃💃🎶🎵Welcome back Mrs mom nd daddy my name is pearl I love u so much.. I am happy for u are back.. Am blessed with this bordcast because I know a lot with you guys and learn.. So am happy❤️❤️💖am happy..
I love you guys, so much you never disappoint, they way you unpack topics is incredibly helpful. And Brendan keeps saying "Yabo" one of those words in your mind everytime you talk, they eventually come out.
This conversation is so good! So good! So important! Well done guys❤ you push us to think, love and grow 😊
My favorite couple! ♥️
Thank you🥰
Brendan’s analogies are spot on bathong 🤌🏿
This was such an amazing conversation… Brenden said something that just hit me hard because I have been feeling like I am not living in Gods purpose for my life. Yoh 🙏🏻