"HOW TO GET MEN TO CHASE YOU" | "Manipulate, tease & throw it back."

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 5 тис.

  • @AlenAbdula
    @AlenAbdula 3 роки тому +2934

    I married a girl that wouldn't let me smash for 2 years. I had so much respect for that. The chase is far more interesting, makes the catch far more rewarding.

  • @Cyber-Rain
    @Cyber-Rain 3 роки тому +5379

    Beauty attracts. Personality keeps.
    Can't play hard to get when you're hard to want.

  • @d4mterro320
    @d4mterro320 3 роки тому +2450

    he's teaching heterosexual women how to attract heterosexual men with the knowledge of attracting gay men.

    • @sarantoure7233
      @sarantoure7233 3 роки тому +267

      Can't make this ish up

    • @Xxxxavvs
      @Xxxxavvs 3 роки тому +82

      @@The_Black_Anarchist where? in opposite world? Where up is down and left is right?

    • @Xxxxavvs
      @Xxxxavvs 3 роки тому +10

      @@brandondavis7015 his audience is women

    • @Xxxxavvs
      @Xxxxavvs 3 роки тому +106

      @@The_Black_Anarchist so bisexual men then , stop trying to make up your own set of facts, straight men are straight, gay people are gay. Do I really have to tell you that straight men are in no way attracted to or even think about experimenting with gay guys? Do I seriously need to say this to you? Y’all love living in this alternate reality where what you say is ultimately fact and it’s not

    • @Xxxxavvs
      @Xxxxavvs 3 роки тому +64

      @@The_Black_Anarchist any man that you been with was gay or bisexual, there’s nothing wrong with that, but to say you’ve been with STRAIGHT men… just hear that statement out loud it literally makes no sense.

  • @mommakimmins5554
    @mommakimmins5554 3 роки тому +1442

    I like how a gay man who pursues gay men is coaching straight women how to pursue straight men

    • @AsiyaIammuah
      @AsiyaIammuah 3 роки тому +106

      Ikr I be watching this fool for his personality but In my mind I’m like wtf can he teach me

    • @sodvine3486
      @sodvine3486 3 роки тому +36

      😂😂😂😂...you said it first but I was about too....tell him the rest of us ain't gay

    • @giana6068
      @giana6068 3 роки тому +6

      right 💀💀💀💀

    • @Animated341
      @Animated341 3 роки тому +12

      I love aba and preach but this whole thing like, half of what they are laughing at is just that he's gay. MAKE BETTER JOKES GUYS. Try harder.

    • @ThePillager2099
      @ThePillager2099 3 роки тому

      YESSSS! Lmafo

  • @svpcharls
    @svpcharls 3 роки тому +2039

    Every time Preach does "the laugh" an angel gets it's wings.

  • @camronthaxter3491
    @camronthaxter3491 3 роки тому +1557

    "So let me get this straight" I lost it asf😂😂😂😂😂😂..

  • @paulcarmi8130
    @paulcarmi8130 3 роки тому +3209

    "so let me get this straight" lmao

    • @1bossofbosses
      @1bossofbosses 3 роки тому +226

      ''Big Pause''
      ''So Let Me get this Straight''
      Them words had so much humor in them during the video.

    • @8djd
      @8djd 3 роки тому +139

      You can't get this one straight.

    • @Blutiger-Ant
      @Blutiger-Ant 3 роки тому +56

      The cringe on aba's face made me press the like button 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @imanigordon6803
      @imanigordon6803 3 роки тому +39

      It’s not straight bro it’s a circle 😂

    • @paulcarmi8130
      @paulcarmi8130 3 роки тому +15

      @@Blutiger-Ant might've been the best aba face since the girl that said she wanted to perform an act on a dude while he's gaming LMAOOO

  • @TheGListed2
    @TheGListed2 3 роки тому +3566

    "Dear gay men: DO NOT give dating and sex advice to heterosexual people, especially if you are a gold star gay," says this gay man. 😂😂

  • @dedricklane4899
    @dedricklane4899 3 роки тому +451

    Is this dude serious? His experience is with gay men. Gay men and straight men are into different things… clearly.

    • @ErK61
      @ErK61 3 роки тому +23

      100000%. It is wayyy more different than I thought

    • @bombomos
      @bombomos 3 роки тому +43

      The flamboyant gay culture for relationships is very dramatic and toxic. It's basically a reality TV show.
      Now if he wasn't flamboyant he would probably be in an actual decent relationship and be able to give decent advice

    • @NoName-sp5dp
      @NoName-sp5dp 2 роки тому +8

      @@bombomos the misogyny in that comment. Him being feminine is not the problem

    • @user-um5dz9gt4o
      @user-um5dz9gt4o 2 роки тому +2

      @@NoName-sp5dp it literally is duck 🤣😂

    • @user-um5dz9gt4o
      @user-um5dz9gt4o 2 роки тому +4

      @@NoName-sp5dp and explain how's that misogyny?? He's a gay man not a woman no wonder terfs exist women like you have really watered down feminism to not only include transwomen but apparently gay feminine men I doubt you'd care if he was a masculine gay man

  • @TTerilee
    @TTerilee 3 роки тому +2377

    Here's what I've learned: if he's into you, he's into you. Whether you put out fast or slow, whether you tease or don't. If he's into you- you got him. And as long as you keep treating him with the same respect you want in return, you'll probably keep him. End of story.

    • @castleford2591
      @castleford2591 3 роки тому +162

      Thank Jesus. Someone with a brain.

    • @Tuoyo3005
      @Tuoyo3005 3 роки тому +127

      Nope. Can't compute. This is not complicated enough 🤣

    • @treeflyer6088
      @treeflyer6088 3 роки тому +48

      I’m taking a screenshot of this to remind myself of this wisdom when if I may need it

    • @wesleybrown6974
      @wesleybrown6974 3 роки тому +10

      Thank you!

    • @johnwilliams983
      @johnwilliams983 3 роки тому +11

      I'm not chasing forever though

  • @TweezyfPizeey
    @TweezyfPizeey 3 роки тому +2457

    Preach’s laugh is literally therapeutic. How can you not laugh after hearing him?? 😂

    • @asmranonymousgaming901
      @asmranonymousgaming901 3 роки тому +79

      His laugh is infectious af

    • @sabrinastarks7868
      @sabrinastarks7868 3 роки тому +32

      If they could bottle that and sell it, they could stop trying to sell me bongs and sex pills....LMAO!

    • @Dandyline
      @Dandyline 3 роки тому +7

      It's like listning to La Linea laugh, if you guys remember that cartoon? 😂

    • @WOLFMANDRAKULA
      @WOLFMANDRAKULA 3 роки тому +2

      Exactly

    • @clipflicks3462
      @clipflicks3462 3 роки тому +6

      Facts lol had me rolling

  • @marlom7882
    @marlom7882 3 роки тому +509

    “Press pause. So let me get this straight”
    I couldn’t keep it together after that

  • @RAWKSTARtm
    @RAWKSTARtm 3 роки тому +519

    Plot twist: while you did all this and got the man, there’s another woman studying these same videos to steal your man. It will work, because he’s easily manipulated and coerced. How you got him is how you gonna lose him.

    • @carmenisabel
      @carmenisabel 3 роки тому +44

      This comment is underrated

    • @jayo4282
      @jayo4282 3 роки тому +33

      If he can be stolen from a good woman by this bullshit he was a trash ass dude anyway

    • @colintheboywonder
      @colintheboywonder 2 роки тому +5

      Maybe you picking the wrong people to give a chance, you make all dudes sound like scrubs lol

    • @morris9973
      @morris9973 2 роки тому +1

      @@carmenisabel extremely underrated

    • @0i0l0o
      @0i0l0o 2 роки тому +1

      word

  • @becaye7380
    @becaye7380 3 роки тому +643

    I didn’t have to manipulate my guy to be with me. I was just myself and he accepted me. There’s no trick to getting a man.
    If you gotta do all this to get a guys attention, most likely he isn’t the one. It’s should be easy and organic

    • @squeebbb
      @squeebbb 3 роки тому +21

      Real talk right here.

    • @mr.j9103
      @mr.j9103 3 роки тому +4

      🖨

    • @jerometruitt2731
      @jerometruitt2731 3 роки тому +7

      Its not about JUST getting his attention. Its about having the upper hand.

    • @babyshaq6455
      @babyshaq6455 3 роки тому +1

      Boom bam.... that easy

    • @tyrellseymour7724
      @tyrellseymour7724 3 роки тому +11

      Exactly... and the same is true for women. If you need to be someone other than yourself to have a mate you're probably not that great of a person

  • @Razzlion
    @Razzlion 3 роки тому +775

    "You have a pancake for an ass? Don't worry i've got maple syrup"
    Now that is a quote for the ages my dude.

  • @MaskHysteria
    @MaskHysteria 3 роки тому +710

    Women who believe this crap: "Imma make myself difficult to 'get'."
    Men subjected to this crap: "Sweet, she's finally leaving me alone. Time for video games with the homies."

    • @wtfKwaku
      @wtfKwaku 3 роки тому +28

      Facts or getting my life back aligned

    • @TardMania
      @TardMania 3 роки тому +29

      The irony of being "difficult to get" is that the girl almost always never get attention from the one they want it from. Espescially since the one they want only get negative or dismissive bodylanguage.
      "Turn into a fucking Tsundere" cus that always fucking works in the shows, right? It's not like the "will they won't they" tropes used in series and movies use Tsundere personalities purely to HALT the progression of the relationships between the main characters or anything xD

    • @kidfisch
      @kidfisch 3 роки тому +6

      @@TardMania I see what you did there 👌🏾

    • @RasenRendanX
      @RasenRendanX 3 роки тому +11

      @@TardMania I respect your ass SO MUCH for using Tsundere as a example. i cannot stand Tsuns in anime. worst girls imo

    • @TardMania
      @TardMania 3 роки тому +4

      @@RasenRendanX They're not just used in anime unfortunetly, but I have no clue if there is an english word to describe them.. other than derogitory terms like "stuck up" and "bitch", commonly used together..
      There are some series and anime that pulls it off, but those usually also emphesise the negative sides of that personality trait, such as difficulties making relationships with anyone because they are acting toxic towards people whom are friendly towards them, a good western example of this is disneys frozen. Not saying that movie is particularly good, but the symbolism of the ice-queen-esc girl living in a fucking ice castle because of her cold af personality and have no visitors or communication with any other people, does atleast show abit of consequence of such traits.
      I gotta wonder what the actual precentage of males whom think girls being bitchy and grumpy is cute. Not that it matters, imo, as previously stated, I'm failry certain they only exist to extend "will they wont they" tropes to keep viewers watching more episodes. I do begin to think though whilst writing this that maybe the men who actually fantasise about these women looks for a women which is hard to get to know just so they can "have them all for themselves" or some similar primal ownership shit.. which would be kind of creepy if I'm right about that :S

  • @WhitePhoenixCrown
    @WhitePhoenixCrown 3 роки тому +223

    Have confidence, don't look desperate, and communicate what you want. This is for men and women. Communicate what you want if y'all aren't on the same wavelength then move on. Once again Communicate.

    • @Kal-El207
      @Kal-El207 2 роки тому +5

      People in real life, don’t react to that. People react to negativity. Unfortunately that’s the only time anybody has a single word to say in real life. On the internet y’all are so positive and upbringing. You guys talk your best and give your all to be likable behind a screen when it comes to videos like this. But when I step out into the real world, don’t nobody have a clue what kindness or communication is.

  • @realtalk293
    @realtalk293 3 роки тому +488

    dating coaches never teach how to have a healthy relationship, just how to manipulate.

    • @se.i.4393
      @se.i.4393 3 роки тому +11

      Because sadly they fall for the one who hurts them, not the good one

    • @arvyarvy4242
      @arvyarvy4242 3 роки тому +40

      because they are also manipulating their audience ad have nothing really to offer but cheap tricks.

    • @se.i.4393
      @se.i.4393 3 роки тому +3

      @@arvyarvy4242 sorry but you guys are more manipulated here in my opinion because aba and preach find him a way alll the others find him that way. I've seen multiple videos of that guy which is very positive and good, he makes just videos on youtube which we won't spend anything for.

    • @KL-je9qq
      @KL-je9qq 3 роки тому

      Stephan Speaks is one of the best out there. He's also purple-pilled.

    • @t5hammer871
      @t5hammer871 3 роки тому +2

      Because healthy relationships are complicated.

  • @tomas1564
    @tomas1564 3 роки тому +372

    You know what men want? Someone who is straightforward, up front and honest. If ur interested, just tell them and chances are the honesty will be attractive in itself. You wanna play games? Have fun at the arcades

    • @msessenceofreality
      @msessenceofreality 3 роки тому +16

      💯

    • @Kali-8
      @Kali-8 3 роки тому +9

      Fr lmao women that play games make me tired and makes me lose all interest

    • @nickb6425
      @nickb6425 3 роки тому +3

      Fr I'm just saying him being a gay man saying "we don't chase men" is bad and funny enough, but like.. Shouldn't one of the perks of being gay be avoiding all these bullshit games? Lool

    • @ng4logic
      @ng4logic 3 роки тому +3

      @@nickb6425 gay man are feminine. So basicaly answer is no.

    • @trustme7660
      @trustme7660 3 роки тому +3

      Honesty an communication is the key to a successful relationship

  • @bradmangaming9993
    @bradmangaming9993 3 роки тому +557

    Abe: “let me get this straight.”
    Preach: has one of those laughs from middle school where you think your going to die

    • @Micheph
      @Micheph 3 роки тому +2

      Guess they never left school 😉

    • @haniyaali8835
      @haniyaali8835 3 роки тому +1

      Hil-a-rious

    • @neattylulu9817
      @neattylulu9817 3 роки тому

      Preach is the stupid cousin you can't stand, but can't do without...that laugh...........😂😂

    • @Manservant2011
      @Manservant2011 3 роки тому +4

      Preach is 2 seconds away from peeing himself with that laugh

    • @Fighting_Fatigue_117
      @Fighting_Fatigue_117 3 роки тому +1

      In Britain you get primary school (4 to 10 years old) then secondary school (11 to 15/16 years old)
      I wish Americans would simplify the way they describe school.

  • @marianaborrelli4136
    @marianaborrelli4136 2 роки тому +65

    I refused to sleep with my boyfriend for almost 8 months because he refused to get tested for hiv. I don't think I was wrong, I had my own negative results but he wouldn't go get tested because he was embarrassed that people would see him and think that he was sick. People don't sleep together for other reasons that don't include playing hard to get.

  • @jordanthistle2360
    @jordanthistle2360 3 роки тому +330

    Preach's laugh reminds me of my late uncle. He passed away a few years ago at the age of 42. When he used to laugh everyone around him would end up laughing with him because his energy was so contagious. People would honestly come over to meet him to say thank you for the laugh it was what they needed. He would do it in restaurants, church, on roller costers.

    • @ProfessionalMenPodcast
      @ProfessionalMenPodcast 3 роки тому +28

      Rest well Uncle 🙏🏽

    • @protagonist_koon2260
      @protagonist_koon2260 3 роки тому +19

      Rip unc🙏🏾

    • @KimChi-iy7jd
      @KimChi-iy7jd 3 роки тому +18

      What a good rememberance of your uncle! 💜 Thank you for sharing. 🙏🏼

    • @quellzai2293
      @quellzai2293 3 роки тому +9

      So sorry for your loss. Unfortunately, he lived such a short life. But it sounds like he was a positive impact on a number of people, so that's always amazing to see. May he rest in peace

    • @sayvay1933
      @sayvay1933 3 роки тому +2

      May Acts 24:15, 1 Corinthians 15:25-26 and Revelation 21:3-5 bring you comfort.

  • @robinthrush9672
    @robinthrush9672 3 роки тому +341

    I don't know why an obviously gay man is giving advice to straight women about what straight men want.
    I don't want a chase. I'm not saying, "be easy", I'm saying, "let me know you're interested" or else I'mma assume you're not and move on.

    • @pommy3109
      @pommy3109 3 роки тому +33

      Exactly. He's not even a traditional, straight male. So why is he trying to target the straight audience?

    • @BboyTurok1990
      @BboyTurok1990 3 роки тому +6

      As a straight man this man doesn't represent us and who is responsible for letting this man out?

    • @tanadagarmon888
      @tanadagarmon888 3 роки тому

      @@BboyTurok1990 truth!

    • @tanadagarmon888
      @tanadagarmon888 3 роки тому

      @@pommy3109 that's deep...

    • @JasmineJ_
      @JasmineJ_ 3 роки тому +4

      @@pommy3109 My thoughts exactly! I as a straight woman will not be taking advice from a gay man on how to attract a straight man. He should stay in his lane

  • @jeremiahgiles3593
    @jeremiahgiles3593 3 роки тому +355

    WHY WOULD WOMEN TAKE DATING ADVICE TO DEAL WITH MASCULINE MEN FROM A CLEARLY HOMOSEXUAL MAN? MAKE IT MAKE SENSE!

    • @nawlnottoday3677
      @nawlnottoday3677 3 роки тому +19

      Because some of them gay men mess with them DL "masculine" men

    • @a.sarnelli
      @a.sarnelli 3 роки тому +73

      Gay men think they think like straight women because they like dick too. But the thing is, gay men ultimately have more in common straight men because THEYRE BOTH MEN. I mean go figure

    • @a.sarnelli
      @a.sarnelli 3 роки тому +19

      @@nawlnottoday3677 then it would make sense if gay men were giving advice to straight women that were trying to get with “DL” gay men that are actually straight men

    • @imanigordon6803
      @imanigordon6803 3 роки тому +26

      @@nawlnottoday3677 Funny enough straight women are the most homophobic 😂

    • @nawlnottoday3677
      @nawlnottoday3677 3 роки тому +1

      @Blank Mane personally idc. It's not that serious. I'm not here giving advice, the man in the video is. I'm just going off how gay men think. Not saying it's true. So shake your head another place

  • @Jay.Laurent
    @Jay.Laurent 3 роки тому +439

    I learned to never take advice from these relationship "experts" or online guru's who don't have a ring on their finger themselves. How you coaching the game from the bleachers? Have a seat.

    • @MistahKayotic420
      @MistahKayotic420 3 роки тому +3

      do tan lines count?

    • @anngiddings6382
      @anngiddings6382 3 роки тому +4

      😂😂

    • @JuanitaMichelle
      @JuanitaMichelle 3 роки тому +20

      MJ is not a relationship expert or guru. He’s the CEO of an insurance company who tells juicy stories about his love life and sometimes he gives advice based on his experience. I think he’s hilarious. But just wanted to clarify that he doesn’t proclaim to be an expert. This is more like his personal blog content.

    • @Lauren_Fields
      @Lauren_Fields 3 роки тому +14

      Even ones with a ring suck.

    • @King-Beezy
      @King-Beezy 3 роки тому +4

      Having ring means nothing mfs will cheat in some way regardless

  • @tjj15401
    @tjj15401 3 роки тому +572

    "we dont chase men!!" proceeds to do everything in his power to chase man ...

    • @hermon1499
      @hermon1499 3 роки тому +21

      lmao, I can’t rn.This man is a hypocrite.

    • @pootis4986
      @pootis4986 3 роки тому +31

      Gender norms are bad but not when they benefit women!

    • @beccf.s.8012
      @beccf.s.8012 3 роки тому +4

      Lol 😂

    • @haddingtoniangcp2464
      @haddingtoniangcp2464 3 роки тому +9

      He is a walking, talking, breathing contradiction.

    • @taylorthenatural5509
      @taylorthenatural5509 3 роки тому +1

      @@pootis4986 They are supposed to benefit each gender....

  • @Japjongetje
    @Japjongetje 3 роки тому +251

    Imma say this again: We NEED a 2nd camera by the couch to see Preach when he falls over laughing like that! 🤣 🤣

  • @duckduckduckduckduckduckdu2201
    @duckduckduckduckduckduckdu2201 3 роки тому +515

    Who came up with this idea that relationships are power based
    If your relationship is just based on you guys trying to gain power over one another that shits toxic

    • @brian_Austin27
      @brian_Austin27 3 роки тому +9

      Exactly people believe that shit, people just need to use condoms and check on their sexual health every month and u food🤨🤨

    • @ScribblebytesWorldwide
      @ScribblebytesWorldwide 3 роки тому +3

      Scorpios.

    • @shaq-sloth
      @shaq-sloth 3 роки тому +4

      I guess humans like illusion. It's on some primal ish

    • @laurenbatson5918
      @laurenbatson5918 3 роки тому +4

      And will quickly become abusive. Have fun with that!

    • @animalkingdom2871
      @animalkingdom2871 3 роки тому

      Right

  • @moomoo2271
    @moomoo2271 3 роки тому +104

    95% of these dating youtuber “dating” coaches are still single. If they’re giving out all these advice then how come none of them are in a relationship?

    • @shannond1511
      @shannond1511 3 роки тому +4

      To be fair, this isnt relationship advice, its infatuation advice, which seems to be what he does.

    • @kenstewart5291
      @kenstewart5291 3 роки тому +4

      They're cursed with knowledge.

    • @aninsimone
      @aninsimone 2 роки тому +4

      Because they don't know how to keep a man, they only know how to trap a man into wanting them. There is no love and respect here.

    • @crazymadstriker766
      @crazymadstriker766 2 роки тому

      @@aninsimone man/woman. Guy and girl incels fr be "teaching" how to get somebody to like them

    • @Abandoned2377
      @Abandoned2377 Рік тому

      He gay though they a whole different can of worms

  • @jahjohnson31
    @jahjohnson31 3 роки тому +354

    I don’t think a gay man is the best person to tell straight woman how to attract straight men

    • @dachanel2076
      @dachanel2076 3 роки тому +33

      Ask the fishermen. Or in this case.
      Ask good Moms lmao

    • @ProdigalDiasporan
      @ProdigalDiasporan 3 роки тому +14

      Yup, ask your father, your brothers or your (real) male friends.

    • @everyonedeservestogohome2949
      @everyonedeservestogohome2949 3 роки тому +12

      Except if it's kevin scamuels 🍵 👀

    • @bluebird1694
      @bluebird1694 3 роки тому +3

      @@everyonedeservestogohome2949 Kevin is bi. He was married to a woman and has a daughter. I don't think this guy has touched a vaj

    • @thatkid7343
      @thatkid7343 3 роки тому +4

      @@bluebird1694 wait what? bro😂 please re-read your sentence

  • @BenjiBoyStephEnt
    @BenjiBoyStephEnt 3 роки тому +290

    Preach’s laugh
    *The cure for all diseases and world hunger*

  • @patrickarraes4422
    @patrickarraes4422 3 роки тому +455

    It’s like there isn’t something called companionship and trust. Its all about manipulating and power, what a sad world these people live in.

    • @iguideotherstoatreasureica3635
      @iguideotherstoatreasureica3635 3 роки тому +12

      at 30 :why cant i find good men ?

    • @sarahanna5222
      @sarahanna5222 3 роки тому +18

      As soon as he started talking I was thinking, why would someone wanna hold all the cards and have all the power in a relationship? That doesn't sound like much of a relationship.

    • @animalkingdom2871
      @animalkingdom2871 3 роки тому

      Right🤷

    • @cius2112
      @cius2112 3 роки тому +3

      lol the most manipulative people say shit like this

    • @aeoligarlic4024
      @aeoligarlic4024 2 роки тому +6

      This is what i read EVERYWHERE! It's all about how men have money power or how women how pu$$y power. Why does it always narrow down to sex and money, this is not how we discuss relationship this is prostitution

  • @georgio3753
    @georgio3753 3 роки тому +66

    My friend (a woman) once asked me how to get a man when we were in our twenties. I regret to say I told her all the above. We even threw a fake party (a barbeque) to get the guy she wanted to come through. He pulled me aside to tell me about this chick acting weird around him (my friend - cos she was doing the whole sexy, flirty thing) She freaked the dude out. He ran for the hills.
    Since then. My advice, just be you, if that ain't good enough then that person is not for you.

  • @chris_092
    @chris_092 3 роки тому +440

    Yo it's been a while since Aba laughed this hard he had to fall on the couch lmao!

    • @AbaNPreach
      @AbaNPreach  3 роки тому +168

      feelsbadman.

    • @Sephiroso.
      @Sephiroso. 3 роки тому +59

      I can't tell if i'm being trolled or not but on the off chance you weren't, that was Preach my man.

    • @TheNoviceOAO
      @TheNoviceOAO 3 роки тому +36

      Preach was on the floor, not aba

    • @herenow4550
      @herenow4550 3 роки тому +3

      ooof.

    • @Chibeliver
      @Chibeliver 3 роки тому +3

      Abe and Peach and pretty funny ngl

  • @Qbertqueso
    @Qbertqueso 3 роки тому +119

    His advice is straight out of a Cosmopolitan article from 1994

    • @nm-mh4rt
      @nm-mh4rt 3 роки тому +5

      Yesssssss 😅😅😅

    • @Trini190
      @Trini190 3 роки тому +1

      He’s old school but guess what a lot of old school people are still together

  • @curlygirl9023
    @curlygirl9023 3 роки тому +1538

    Aba: “So let me get this straight”
    Preach & Me: 🧨LAUGH🧨
    😂😆😆😂😂😂

  • @xadanzuri6007
    @xadanzuri6007 3 роки тому +64

    Best advice ever: Genuinely love you first , focus on what makes you happy as an individual then the person for you will come

    • @kaihiroku8495
      @kaihiroku8495 2 роки тому +5

      @@peace_seeker5545 It's not lies, and even if the person for you doesn't magically show up, at least you have focused on yourself instead of wasting time. You have achieved things, have a good life and a stable mental health. It is true that if you love yourself, it will be easier for you to love someone else properly.
      Most toxic relationships are born from people with low self-esteem and/or emotionally dependent. Learn to live on your own and love yourself, then the chances of a relationship succeeding will skyrocket.

    • @foreveralchemy3193
      @foreveralchemy3193 2 роки тому

      @@peace_seeker5545 did u say she shouldn't love herself 1st? & she shouldn't make herself happy?🤣🤣🤣. Sooo she should be mad, sad, negative, angry & depressed & then someone will gravitate towards her then...ok

    • @peace_seeker5545
      @peace_seeker5545 2 роки тому

      @@foreveralchemy3193 When did I ever say that? U must be a therapist or sumn the way u just know what's on my mind lol.

  • @Grandmaster_Vic
    @Grandmaster_Vic 3 роки тому +420

    When Aba said “let me get this straight” the second time. I dead ass threw my phone at the wall from laughing so hard and now I have a big dent on my wall. Thanks Aba I appreciate the laughter

    • @bobbyshewan4229
      @bobbyshewan4229 3 роки тому +9

      That about sums up most of the cold opens in these videos for me

    • @tommatt2901
      @tommatt2901 3 роки тому +3

      Oof I can’t do without my case

    • @ciggytwiggy
      @ciggytwiggy 3 роки тому +1

      Hahahahaha

    • @bigrich6075
      @bigrich6075 2 роки тому

      Big pause.

  • @snowwhiterosered8571
    @snowwhiterosered8571 3 роки тому +229

    As a straight, happily married woman (clearly I got at least one man to stay so I think I know what I’m talking about) ALL of his advice would coming off WAY too strong. All I did was smile, laugh, dress nice, be respectful and sweet and I had plenty of men wanting to be with me🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @alayhaferron1972
      @alayhaferron1972 3 роки тому +6

      Right!

    • @tyrellseymour7724
      @tyrellseymour7724 3 роки тому +25

      Seriously we are not that conplicated at all. And most of the videos telling men what to do are just as silly as this. If you watch youtube to get instructions on how to find a mate like its instructions on how to fix a sink idk what to tell you.

    • @agathachris9722
      @agathachris9722 3 роки тому +12

      Did the same. I wasn't plaging hard to get, I was hard to get. My outer face is civil, polite and pleasant. Few people are worth my time especially in this back stabbing day and age. Carru yourself with grace, have good judgment and don't invite anyone and anything into your privacy

    • @coachobispersonalworkoutti2223
      @coachobispersonalworkoutti2223 3 роки тому

      @@tyrellseymour7724 🤓🤓🤓

    • @ghariiscool
      @ghariiscool 3 роки тому +4

      That's all it takes...so many women don't get it

  • @fyro01
    @fyro01 3 роки тому +225

    Why Preach laugh sound like trying to start the car in winter? 🤣🤣🤣 (I have a similar laugh, I know 😅)

  • @nnebundoannaobi1386
    @nnebundoannaobi1386 3 роки тому +90

    Thanks to the both of you for keeping it 100.
    I'm a young woman and I'm constantly shamed for not being "open" or seductive. But I feel like my value lies beyond my sexual value and so far I've stayed true to my conviction. There's a time and place for everything under the sun.
    Thank you both, I don't feel crazy about my standards for myself.
    Great outro song btw

    • @donaldbowler4514
      @donaldbowler4514 3 роки тому +9

      As a man, I've always thought it was weird if a woman tries to have her "sexual value" as her only personality trait when it comes to dating even with attractive ones. Good for you for not doing that, you don't even need to approach but just have a pleasant conversation with the man.

    • @nnebundoannaobi1386
      @nnebundoannaobi1386 3 роки тому +9

      @@donaldbowler4514 Well thanks for the advice, it's nice to hear this from a man. Generally, people tell me to put myself out there but that usually entails me dressing revealingly. It's not really about building rapport, assessing fit/character/vision etc.
      When I was a teenager, I felt I was a bit odd but now it's turned out that I've avoided a lot trauma that some women go through. I couldn't stomach that. Anyway, thanks Sir!

    • @aninsimone
      @aninsimone 2 роки тому +9

      The right person will love u for you. When I met the love of my life I was a total prude and he brought out the best in me, having respect for urself is never the wrong thing to do.

  • @kaikayoru1316
    @kaikayoru1316 3 роки тому +273

    As a Native American man, NEVER touch my hair. Also, everything that was said in the video is wrong. There's plenty of men that don't like touching nor being teased. Some of us just want somebody to grow with and not to be played with.

    • @marshawright9620
      @marshawright9620 3 роки тому +26

      That's not as commonly wanted these days... Its something I crave but as I am going to be 45 in a few weeks and still single (divorced, grown kids) people mostly play games and I'm starting to lose hope. Going to invest in some cats and start hoarding lol its safer than having my heart broke again!

    • @ogulcandursun1665
      @ogulcandursun1665 3 роки тому +4

      @@marshawright9620 lol you are 45 you are quite late to losing hope with grown kids.You shouldve lost that hope a looong ass time ago.

    • @gscr09
      @gscr09 3 роки тому +42

      @@ogulcandursun1665 Nope. There’s someone for everyone in every age bracket.

    • @VictoriousSage
      @VictoriousSage 3 роки тому +31

      @@ogulcandursun1665 thats shallow, never too late to find someone.

    • @ogulcandursun1665
      @ogulcandursun1665 3 роки тому +1

      @@gscr09 Possiblity of that significantly diminishes as you age and that is just life .Its called being realistic .Yeah I can win the lottery lol everyone can but the probability of that happening in my entire life span is quite low and most likely will not happen so that is a stupid perspective to get your hopes wrapped around 0.00001 % chances.To hold on to that hope does nothing but kill your other options of actual things you might probably have because you are still holding on to an impossible dream.Thats not a smart way to live.

  • @austins.1102
    @austins.1102 3 роки тому +873

    Men that respect themselves won’t stick around to chase a woman that wants to play games. This ain’t no scrimmage, tag, or an in game situation. I’m not chasing a girl unless we playing a 5v5 pick up game & I have to guard her.

    • @tommatt2901
      @tommatt2901 3 роки тому +51

      Exactly, I am not playing these manipulative games

    • @nothingsuspicioushere.6379
      @nothingsuspicioushere.6379 3 роки тому +44

      Kakashi sensei, spitting fax as usual.

    • @TardMania
      @TardMania 3 роки тому +20

      The actions being comitted by both sexes in these "games" you're referring to, have ironically been otherwise described as both toxic-masculinity and toxic-femininity..
      Maybe the dating "game" itself is just fucking toxic, idk..

    • @BiGSmoke-.-
      @BiGSmoke-.- 3 роки тому +7

      See you at Summoner's Rift

    • @raizen_maziku
      @raizen_maziku 3 роки тому +10

      seeing your kakashi photo reminds me of that one episode when sakura “pretended” to tell her feelings to naruto. and he did not fall for it. basically she never let sasuke go. and one of the characters was finna swing on sakura in that scene🤣🤣😂

  • @brandonx8292
    @brandonx8292 3 роки тому +524

    “So let me get this straight…..”
    *kills everybody with laughter on a global scale*
    Sir, that is a war crime! 🤣

    • @EasyMoneyMid
      @EasyMoneyMid 3 роки тому +11

      Straight terrorism

    • @nitatolbert9979
      @nitatolbert9979 3 роки тому +16

      Preach laughing 🙌 always makes my day!!

    • @jodawa2504
      @jodawa2504 3 роки тому +4

      @Nita Tolbert, there's a Preach laughing compilation. Two of them, in fact. Preach's laughter alone is happily lethal. Whoever said that laughter isn't contagious has a dark sense of humor or depressed. @Brandon X, I get laughter tears all the damn time Preach laughs and falls on the bed. Imagine a live audience laughing that damn hard because Preach laughs so damn hard and authentic. Laugh on, Preach. Laugh on. We all, men and women, love your wild laughter.

  • @nadi4873
    @nadi4873 3 роки тому +60

    "If you got pancake ass bring some maple syrup" lmaoo

  • @jaymz010
    @jaymz010 3 роки тому +350

    Ladies, their is no hard ‘n fast rule. All men are different.
    A girl I met once, gave it up to me on the SECOND DATE...10years, one marriage & a baby later? We are still going strong.
    A man maybe attracted to one or two things. But he’ll stay with you for completely different reasons

    • @moonknight4053
      @moonknight4053 3 роки тому +17

      How’d you land her for ten years bro? That’s crazy, tell ur story man.. could learn a thing, true that with all men are different too

  • @BenjiBoyStephEnt
    @BenjiBoyStephEnt 3 роки тому +306

    “You Got pancakes well i got maple syrup”
    *Words by preach*

  • @Alteori
    @Alteori 3 роки тому +1375

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 the first few seconds had me dying

  • @GandolfdaBlaq
    @GandolfdaBlaq 3 роки тому +103

    Any woman that comes to this man for reassurance on how to express their feminine energy aren’t worth the time. Lmao it’s like we living in Bizarro world

    • @nickb6425
      @nickb6425 3 роки тому +1

      Lol. Also he emphasizes "this can get a man sprung on you (snaps) QUICKLY honey" but also "I do that for weeks and weeks and weeks and weeks and weeks" bruv

    • @animalkingdom2871
      @animalkingdom2871 3 роки тому +7

      Right if someone likes you then they like you. You don't have to play silly games😵😂🤧

    • @crazymadstriker766
      @crazymadstriker766 2 роки тому

      @@animalkingdom2871 yea and it also takes time and special moments. Not seduction and manipulation. One leads to love and the other to lust and toxicity

  • @angelofscorpio
    @angelofscorpio 3 роки тому +85

    What gets me is some of us love doing this until the man does it too, then we get mad and call them dogs lol. I think there should a mutual interest so no one has to “chase,” unpopular opinion… I know.

    • @imanigordon6803
      @imanigordon6803 3 роки тому +16

      Yup women love playing the game until the man starts reading the manual as well 😂

    • @Realjcjammer
      @Realjcjammer 3 роки тому +16

      @@imanigordon6803 Facts don't hate the player hate the game all I did was peep the game and pick up the controller 😂😂😂

    • @sonofthearabiansands7145
      @sonofthearabiansands7145 3 роки тому +7

      I am sorry did you just spoke sanity?

    • @ctg5679
      @ctg5679 3 роки тому +3

      @@Realjcjammer yep, thats the only way to stop them from playing the game when they start loosing more often

  • @cacaforcoucoupuffs
    @cacaforcoucoupuffs 3 роки тому +324

    Aba: let me get this straight
    Preach: “proceeds to lose his shit”
    Love you guys😂

  • @mangogoblin3212
    @mangogoblin3212 3 роки тому +310

    We've gone so low in society now where we actually have men who are homosexuals trying to give advice to the same women that look down on them, by trying to teach how to keep a man with some of the most basic advice. 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @imanigordon6803
      @imanigordon6803 3 роки тому +66

      😂 facts women going to a gay man for women advice? You can’t be serious

    • @houseofhas9355
      @houseofhas9355 3 роки тому +4

      damm near crazy. Its wild,

    • @drcokepepper
      @drcokepepper 3 роки тому +71

      I'm gay and I actually just commented that if I was a straight female im not asking a gay man advice on how to get a straight male.how the hell would I know what a straight man is gonna want in a female.hell,I don't even know why women look to jeffree star for makeup advice ,the man is not all that attractive to look at.

    • @houseofhas9355
      @houseofhas9355 3 роки тому +28

      @@drcokepepper I agree. But romcoms and many decades of propaganda has created the image of ever girl means of success in relationships has to mean having a gay bestfriend or gayadvicer. lol

    • @mangogoblin3212
      @mangogoblin3212 3 роки тому +8

      @@drcokepepper bro I thought your name said Wu-Tang lol.... All the craziness that's going on in the world in my opinion is the byproduct of feminism; and from your response even members from the LGBT world are affected by it.

  • @Nuck-Fo0bZz
    @Nuck-Fo0bZz 3 роки тому +63

    I don't think I've ever seen Preach laugh that hard. Shit is contagious.

  • @Crick1952
    @Crick1952 3 роки тому +182

    Preach's laugh is the only anti-depressant I need 😂

  • @endiya.
    @endiya. 3 роки тому +555

    I’m guilty of watching that exact video since it was on my recommendations, but I never had the confidence to do any of that ish since I hate playing games💀💀😂 if I like you, you’ll know.

    • @paulcarmi8130
      @paulcarmi8130 3 роки тому +59

      Respect for that, bruh

    • @gbarrows04
      @gbarrows04 3 роки тому +65

      Ayyy pin of fame

    • @spk4000
      @spk4000 3 роки тому +65

      Pin of sane

    • @domonicpoores1267
      @domonicpoores1267 3 роки тому +14

      That's how it was with my fiancee. Gave it a couple of days and she just wanted to get down with me. And here I thought I just looked scuff as fuck.

    • @terryburnett751
      @terryburnett751 3 роки тому +1

      Won't speak for others, I thank you for that.

  • @GOAT-pi3gl
    @GOAT-pi3gl 3 роки тому +234

    A Cat doesn’t approve of Manipulation.

    • @mikeg3439
      @mikeg3439 3 роки тому +29

      Yet again, a Cat is correct. A Cat is wise.

    • @HannaMagdalena
      @HannaMagdalena 3 роки тому +13

      Very wise, A Cat. Very wise.

    • @bbbbbbb51
      @bbbbbbb51 3 роки тому

      Nobody cares. Your whole comment history is just like farming. It's cringe

    • @paulcarmi8130
      @paulcarmi8130 3 роки тому +5

      My cat is very manipulative, he's adorable, but still. Lmao

    • @og_szzl6627
      @og_szzl6627 3 роки тому +12

      @@bbbbbbb51 brandon chill out and get a job

  • @DragonWitDatFire
    @DragonWitDatFire 3 роки тому +22

    I love how real aba and preach are. The fact that they remain so true to their innermost selves is a huge reason I watch their content, they're the kind of people that remain the same person regardless if they're giving advice or an opinion on a situation, or if they're doing a glass pipe add fixing to toke up. Legends. (Note: super baked whole typing this)

  • @iggy2677
    @iggy2677 3 роки тому +68

    "We don't chase men" says the man... who chases other men.

  • @Bella_bella334
    @Bella_bella334 3 роки тому +192

    but a manipulative woman already knows how to be manipulative...he's literally not saying anything

    • @zimkhithasitofile9216
      @zimkhithasitofile9216 3 роки тому +12

      And manipulative women usually have an agenda, and when they dont benefit theyre the first to leave

    • @se.i.4393
      @se.i.4393 3 роки тому +5

      It's for nice, good women who are fucked up always, we need to learn some stuff sometimes.

    • @antoniojohnson104
      @antoniojohnson104 3 роки тому

      Yeah that's true

    • @missfefeloves
      @missfefeloves 3 роки тому

      Lol exactly

    • @mesalouis8976
      @mesalouis8976 3 роки тому +1

      He’s preaching to the choir.🤣😂

  • @AstralLaVista
    @AstralLaVista 3 роки тому +248

    This guy traded his masculine energy to get that tank top

    • @tiffanyferguson829
      @tiffanyferguson829 3 роки тому +7

      Tank top was kind of 🔥

    • @AstralLaVista
      @AstralLaVista 3 роки тому +21

      @@tiffanyferguson829 I don't deny that, it's just not something a straight man would wear and requires a level of flamboyantancy that most guys dont have to pull off

    • @ezerbia
      @ezerbia 3 роки тому +13

      Some traded their inheritance for a plate of food. It all started then.

    • @FroyourHistory
      @FroyourHistory 3 роки тому +4

      @@ezerbia deep cut

    • @cityboychad
      @cityboychad 3 роки тому +4

      🤣

  • @femininebeauty5934
    @femininebeauty5934 3 роки тому +66

    His laugh is contagious. Mosquito bites. Pancake azz. I died. 😂😂😂😂

  • @fidelmercado2621
    @fidelmercado2621 3 роки тому +448

    Here is some dating advice: Don't play games.

    • @100Xsprinkles
      @100Xsprinkles 3 роки тому +12

      Exactly smfh

    • @missNCW
      @missNCW 3 роки тому +7

      Like the men with 'dating advice' about how women should be 'punished for bad behaviour' and vetted, or how to manipulate a women into sleeping with you.
      But where are your comments criticising them. Oh yh, you only have a problem with women

    • @fidelmercado2621
      @fidelmercado2621 3 роки тому +17

      @@missNCW Who are you talking to? I didn't mention men or women.

    • @bmgfrosty7089
      @bmgfrosty7089 3 роки тому +15

      @@fidelmercado2621 lmao she definitely plays these silly games look at her other comments on the channel 🤣

    • @bmgfrosty7089
      @bmgfrosty7089 3 роки тому +12

      @@missNCW pathetic

  • @nicolasleonhart5893
    @nicolasleonhart5893 3 роки тому +251

    The title of this video should have been “how to lose a guy in 10 days”.

    • @aqua7576
      @aqua7576 3 роки тому +2

      Right!!

    • @Pain-rf6kg
      @Pain-rf6kg 3 роки тому +1

      10 days? Tch as soon as you tried 8:36 on me I'm gone.

    • @ScribblebytesWorldwide
      @ScribblebytesWorldwide 3 роки тому

      Underrated comment.

    • @animalkingdom2871
      @animalkingdom2871 3 роки тому

      I didn't even watch it after the first part I already knew it was gonna be bad.

  • @Hekinsieden
    @Hekinsieden 3 роки тому +170

    When he said "a guy who likes to look at the Clevelands" I thought he meant like the Cleveland Cavaliers and went "ah, nah man I don't really watch sports."

    • @jameshawkins809
      @jameshawkins809 3 роки тому +13

      I never heard that reference for boobs

    • @bjjkickboxing7876
      @bjjkickboxing7876 3 роки тому +10

      How is your comment 2 days old when the video came out 18 mins ago?

    • @beyondthesacrosanctbreeze
      @beyondthesacrosanctbreeze 3 роки тому +9

      @@bjjkickboxing7876 Time ring bro, its simple 🤷✨😏

    • @beyondthesacrosanctbreeze
      @beyondthesacrosanctbreeze 3 роки тому +1

      Lol thats great

    • @AlenAbdula
      @AlenAbdula 3 роки тому +4

      @@bjjkickboxing7876 could have been part of premium service, like pre-release type thing only available for paid members. I'm not sure how YT handles that.

  • @michelegrant2303
    @michelegrant2303 3 роки тому +6

    I so needed a laugh this Saturday night...you guys are giving me life tonight!

  • @jordinometry1589
    @jordinometry1589 3 роки тому +111

    Am I wrong for thinking guys that actually like you prefer to see your “assets” in a private situation rather than for everyone to see....

    • @timtapp5931
      @timtapp5931 3 роки тому +26

      No. No you are not. Intimacy is so exciting

    • @altumurnemtzra2026
      @altumurnemtzra2026 3 роки тому +26

      you're not, showing them for everyone is a big red flag. but most importantly bringing out your morals to the tables should take you further than "assets" as nice as they may be they are not the be all end all.

    • @ghariiscool
      @ghariiscool 3 роки тому +3

      No you're not wrong

    • @ryt6940
      @ryt6940 3 роки тому +15

      Well it depends on how you want a guy to perceive you. He's either going to think Chyna is a "respectful" chick who keeps her goods private, or that Chyna's a "fun" chick who's here for a good time not a long time.

    • @trustme7660
      @trustme7660 3 роки тому +3

      Your not wrong thou

  • @KumaNicol
    @KumaNicol 3 роки тому +229

    God I love when people basically say “play hard to get” cause that’s what shows me how little they really know. If a girl leads me on for weeks saying .lets take it slow” and never changes, I’m out of there. If you don’t got a good reason for it, it’s clear you’re fucking with me,

    • @sochioranmyaku
      @sochioranmyaku 3 роки тому +6

      💯

    • @chiefjersey1823
      @chiefjersey1823 3 роки тому +13

      Too many fish in the sea to keep chasing one who don’t want you.

    • @Mari-hl1yw
      @Mari-hl1yw 3 роки тому +7

      Lol and I think I’m kinda dumb cuz if a chick did that with me I’d just think she’s not interested in me

    • @umadbra
      @umadbra 3 роки тому +16

      It's amazing the idea of waiting until marriage is so foreign to you.

    • @DiaAkin
      @DiaAkin 3 роки тому +12

      "For weeks?"
      You're a LOT more generous than me! Lol. As soon as I spot the game playing, I'm outta there.

  • @chumleyk
    @chumleyk 3 роки тому +162

    He basically explained to women what every teenage girl learns within a year of puberty onset.

  • @ActionJackson3785
    @ActionJackson3785 2 роки тому +7

    When Aba said, “Let me get this straight”, I hollered!!! 😅😂🤣

  • @filmcam7007
    @filmcam7007 3 роки тому +695

    "we don't chase men" "like nature intended" bruh is a walking contradiction

    • @laelo9
      @laelo9 3 роки тому +89

      Fruits shouldn't b giving women advice on how to get men, he used to his own kind of "men"...it ain't da same dude🤣

    • @newchapter6521
      @newchapter6521 3 роки тому +16

      Bruh 😂 I said the same thing....like how that work?

    • @sunsundks3891
      @sunsundks3891 3 роки тому +1

      ?

    • @newchapter6521
      @newchapter6521 3 роки тому +33

      @@sunsundks3891 nature intended men to chase WOMEN

    • @shadowprodify
      @shadowprodify 3 роки тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Yunfei81
    @Yunfei81 3 роки тому +259

    I swear, humans are so strange sometimes...
    Why wasting all that time and energy manipulating him into staying? Either he wants to stay or he doesn't. And if he doesn't, he'll be gone anyway.
    I wouldn't want to force a person to spend time with me, but that's just me.

    • @riyo.38
      @riyo.38 3 роки тому +17

      Thank you. I don't understand why people are so obsessed with making people stay, that don't want to.
      Let them go.
      I'm male and I find it attractive if my energy is matched. If I like a woman, I'll make sure to let her know. If she doesn't meet me with the same enthusiasm, excitement aso I would loose interest in her.
      Easy as that.
      No way am I chasing someone who clearly doesn't like me the same way or doesn't have the same intentions with me, as I have with her.
      Sounds so weird to me.
      And if they attempt mindgames, that's an instant no

    • @eightyninetreasure
      @eightyninetreasure 3 роки тому +10

      @@riyo.38 I agree, it’s not suppose to be that difficult. When I met my hubby, we both mutually admitted we like each other. We connected with stories, attraction and intellectual conversation. It was so easy that it scared me, still I went with the flow. Let’s just be straight forward and not waste people’s time.

    • @conormcgregor6932
      @conormcgregor6932 3 роки тому

      THAT PERSON HAS A ATTACHMENT THATS AWAY IS EASY TO SAY JUST LEAVE ,BUT MOST PEOPLE DONT LEAVE BECAUSE OF THAT ATTACHMENT THEY HAVE THERE FEELINGS INVOLVED

    • @agathachris9722
      @agathachris9722 3 роки тому

      Exactly.

    • @riyo.38
      @riyo.38 3 роки тому

      @@conormcgregor6932 Of course there's feelings involved and people will get hurt. Maybe even yourself.
      It's hard to do and deal with it, but that's life in general.
      One of my girlfriends left me, although we still loved eachother. It just didn't work. At some point you have to accept it and move on.
      I'm not saying meet someone new right away. It took me a lot of time to deal with that break up, but that's fine.

  • @dashawnwilliamson8407
    @dashawnwilliamson8407 3 роки тому +62

    I would NEVER ever ever EVER want Preach to laugh at me for anything lol. Talk about more fuel to the fire lmao

  • @4islandbeauty
    @4islandbeauty 3 роки тому +9

    I watch these just to hear preach laugh, I swear it’s medicine for the soul...always makes my day!

  • @spk4000
    @spk4000 3 роки тому +72

    This advice is as good as telling someone to dunk their head under water and take a deep breathe.

  • @candace4187
    @candace4187 3 роки тому +226

    Just to be clear this person "MJ" is no longer in a relationship and has not had a stable relationship yet. Who's taking advice from him is my question?

    • @leonidas0242
      @leonidas0242 3 роки тому +68

      And he's gay. Why is he giving straight women advice?

    • @hawaiianrussian1047
      @hawaiianrussian1047 3 роки тому +22

      True but I mean….I always noticed that single women who give terrible advice as long as it’s uplifting women and bashing men other women always listen to her and never call out the fact that she’s single….only if it’s a single guy that’s giving advice the comment section is always full of bitter women saying why should people listen to a SINGLE MAN giving horrible relationship advice, it’s like apparently it’s only ok for single bitter women to give relationship advice, but not men lol

    • @candace4187
      @candace4187 3 роки тому +18

      @@hawaiianrussian1047 Not sure if you are calling me bitter, but to be clear I'm not. I'm a happily married woman. I would say the same thing about a woman giving advice that is in no place to be doing so.

    • @candace4187
      @candace4187 3 роки тому +14

      @@leonidas0242 And it's really immature advice. Some girls did that stuff in high school.

    • @ihateanimebutonlywhenitiso7227
      @ihateanimebutonlywhenitiso7227 3 роки тому +5

      @@candace4187 I think he was responding to the second comment not you booboo

  • @DPham1
    @DPham1 3 роки тому +48

    Manipulation and toxic games...what a "wonderful" foundation to build a relationship on. I'm "sure" this kind of relationship "advice" won't lead to trust issues for men and women on the whole at all.

    • @rachelsullivan2926
      @rachelsullivan2926 3 роки тому +2

      So true, and great smart ass way of wording it. 🤣

  • @saleemahnurid-din1733
    @saleemahnurid-din1733 3 роки тому +8

    A relationship is about conveying what both parties are seeking in a true, loving and respectful relationship. Responsible, mature minded adults focus a building a stable environment, not game playing. Being reckless and irresponsible are individuals who are need of self improvement, self love, self evaluation, self check list.

    • @Kal-El207
      @Kal-El207 2 роки тому

      Y’all always talk like this over the internet. But nobody practices it in real life. You guys love to seem flawless behind a screen. But don’t even attempt to be better in real life. Just saying. Seems fake to me.

  • @glassmuxxic
    @glassmuxxic 3 роки тому +92

    'So let me get this straight' 🤣🤣

  • @victoryjorsie5498
    @victoryjorsie5498 3 роки тому +53

    Aba: "Let me get this straight-"
    Preach: *dying on the floor lol* 🤣🤣🤣

  • @SirYeetus
    @SirYeetus 3 роки тому +66

    Aba: (*VISIBLE CONFUSION*)
    Preach: 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @TDominicT
    @TDominicT 3 роки тому +2

    Let me get this straight! 🤣🤣🤣 This two are something else!

  • @kasseen
    @kasseen 3 роки тому +58

    moisture levels exceeding 9000

  • @TheLastSaint7
    @TheLastSaint7 3 роки тому +52

    I damn near crashed the car when he said let me get thisnstraight

  • @GVO_Kurama
    @GVO_Kurama 3 роки тому +25

    This is why you always need a big homie. So you can have someone tell you when you're genuinely messing up

  • @user-gr3nz7ii7s
    @user-gr3nz7ii7s 3 роки тому +13

    Nobody:
    Preach: BONGS, BUBBLERS, BONGS, DABBING

  • @yaboimax6356
    @yaboimax6356 3 роки тому +70

    17 seconds in, I'm like NOPE.

    • @why-kg6kx
      @why-kg6kx 3 роки тому

      shout out to the coach gang

  • @shaun1293
    @shaun1293 3 роки тому +46

    I always find these super flamboyant men to be the worst.

  • @cjandauntieyaya1446
    @cjandauntieyaya1446 3 роки тому +158

    Yeah, the whole idea of MANIPULATION sounds like he's trying to skirt around the CONSENT rule by using coercion. NO! We women don't like being coerced by men, we shouldn't coerce men either. Stop playing head games. Be sincere and say what you mean.

  • @baronhelmut2701
    @baronhelmut2701 Рік тому +2

    I swear preachs laugh is like 3 different people laughing at the same time.

  • @Hekinsieden
    @Hekinsieden 3 роки тому +131

    You know what would make me want to chase a girl? Confidence and Intelligence, being able to engage and really get into it about things that are important to them. I knew a girl who was going to school to be a Mechanical Engineer and talking to her and her being able to confidently speak about it was so interesting. It was great engaging and asking questions about this topic that she liked to discuss. Her dream is to design rides for Disney.

    • @mcmudger1538
      @mcmudger1538 3 роки тому +9

      How the fuck is this comment from 2 days ago? This video says it was uploaded 4 minutes ago.

    • @venomousdc_0142
      @venomousdc_0142 3 роки тому +11

      @@mcmudger1538 patreon my friend

    • @79ad84
      @79ad84 3 роки тому +1

      NANI the FUCK... bruh this video is 4 minutes old yet this was commented 2 days ago...

    • @Thegoldenbagel
      @Thegoldenbagel 3 роки тому +1

      That’s awesome

    • @xMckingwill
      @xMckingwill 3 роки тому +1

      Im with you there brotha

  • @tatianamatejova
    @tatianamatejova 3 роки тому +12

    I must have a lot of masculine energy in me,because if I like somebody I go for it,I don't sit and wait and don't play games...

  • @mrenemy7674
    @mrenemy7674 3 роки тому +65

    Be reasonable, be honest, be humble, be feminine, that is all

  • @sephy980
    @sephy980 3 роки тому +7

    "So let me get this straight"
    *Rip preach*

  • @jackiek4159
    @jackiek4159 3 роки тому +100

    Preach's laugh is literally Oscar worthy! 😂😂

  • @ZanyJordie
    @ZanyJordie 3 роки тому +23

    People don't know how to have conversations now a days. 😅 All parties are confused and worried about investing too much or being vulnerable. We're all going to die alone. 🤣

  • @1specified
    @1specified 3 роки тому +140

    I like men. I promise, we do not associate with this unearthly presence.
    I hate students in psychology who have been on the course for two days.

    • @faeiger9215
      @faeiger9215 3 роки тому +10

      “Students of psychology” = watches literally one episode of Sherlock

    • @1specified
      @1specified 3 роки тому +3

      @keep rollin no one wants your link

    • @soultakerx2
      @soultakerx2 3 роки тому +16

      As a psychology student I can tell you it takes years to become "good" at psychology and even then you're probably only knowledgeable about one specific subject within psychology. And subjects can be extremely niche.

    • @edgymoji8260
      @edgymoji8260 3 роки тому

      @@soultakerx2 agreed, it’s a pretty interesting topic but the whole referencing thing is killing me

  • @attieyag
    @attieyag Рік тому +2

    @2:24 IM DYING LAUGHING WITH PREACH!!! Can’t hold it together!!! Lol. I’m on the whole floor rolling!!!

  • @kanyahemrettananun7241
    @kanyahemrettananun7241 3 роки тому +56

    "when you finally give him intimacy" preach in the corner -😮 pom😑😮 pom😑

  • @HannaMagdalena
    @HannaMagdalena 3 роки тому +10

    I felt super drained after coming home from work today but Preachs laughter after "let me get this straight" worked as emotional cpr

  • @Drumcomedy
    @Drumcomedy 3 роки тому +40

    You don't understand how much joy preaches laugh brings me.