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КОМЕНТАРІ • 139

  • @TheGloriousQuran6236
    @TheGloriousQuran6236 3 роки тому +126

    I don’t get why some people are triggered about this content. Being intimate with your spouse is an act of worship.

    • @lost_poet_
      @lost_poet_ 3 роки тому +7

      @@memodata the above was a General comment bro, wasn't targeting you with it

    • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
      @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 3 роки тому

      @@lost_poet_ alot of them are fake an insecure on ones own healthy independent situation, they need to grow up.

  • @aos1932
    @aos1932 3 роки тому +34

    Bro how does this brother (faiyad) go from bursting out laughing to ‘ sorry we’re closed ‘ face so quick

  • @xyz4288
    @xyz4288 3 роки тому +4

    Great video! Continue the good work brothers.This is benefitting the Ummah.

  • @joon_choco
    @joon_choco 2 роки тому +2

    Jazak'Allaah khair, really appreciated

  • @samik3184
    @samik3184 3 роки тому +31

    Would appreciate if the moderators especially Faiyadfit wouldn't interrupt the sheikh too much, sometimes he's on a really important tangent and he gets interrupted and we as viewers would've wanted him to finish his thought. JazakAllah k hair brothers

  • @kjy05
    @kjy05 10 місяців тому

    Jazaak Allahu khairan for this video brother❤

  • @karenalexander1636
    @karenalexander1636 5 місяців тому +5

    I have two teenage sons, 16 and 17. Thank you so much for this Intimacy Series. I’ve just sent my boys the link so they can learn the right way

  • @hassanraad3067
    @hassanraad3067 3 роки тому +11

    Great content benefiting the umma may Allah give you barakah

  • @hassanraad3067
    @hassanraad3067 3 роки тому +6

    The thumbnail is amazing 😂😂👌🏻

  • @AlannahRyane
    @AlannahRyane 22 дні тому

    I love your metaphors!

  • @bakmartech
    @bakmartech 3 роки тому +2

    Amazing!

  • @Saeroye
    @Saeroye 3 роки тому +6

    This was very insightful! For those bashing the brother for doing this video just rethink why this is an issue?

  • @sharunajally5090
    @sharunajally5090 4 місяці тому

    JazaakAllahkum Khairan,it's important to talk about these things to preserve marriages. Subhanallah, your brother's all seem knowledgeable.

  • @aminah1779
    @aminah1779 2 роки тому +4

    this was fun and entertaining and full of knowledge

    • @Idksweetpie
      @Idksweetpie 6 днів тому

      I am just going through the comments to k what I might find it as and I feel like I am gonna like it

  • @reginamehmet42
    @reginamehmet42 8 днів тому

    Every man should listen to this

  • @sulthanilahi
    @sulthanilahi 2 роки тому +1

    جزاك الله خير

  • @haredzackariadaoud1099
    @haredzackariadaoud1099 3 роки тому +5

    53:10 i literally rolled on the floor laughing when he said that.

  • @muhammadnavid4967
    @muhammadnavid4967 2 роки тому +4

    This podcast wouldnt be this much enjoying without the @The3Muslims

  • @abdlhmdx
    @abdlhmdx 3 роки тому +44

    I like how everyone started hiding their laugh at 23:45 after hearing the word *m o i s t* definitely caught the brothers off guard.
    Though beneficial content I would have to say Masha’Allah. May Allah reward you brother Gabriel and others and hopefully people find this useful to start a healthy halal relationship or improve their current ones

  • @jdjdbsjndnd
    @jdjdbsjndnd 3 роки тому +5

    I think its importatn that we get educated about this

  • @edwinbrenord5238
    @edwinbrenord5238 2 роки тому +2

    good content

  • @blackgown7485
    @blackgown7485 3 роки тому +7

    These bros are watching with their eyes wide open lol taking everything on board lol

  • @Mohdzn
    @Mohdzn 2 роки тому

    Mashallah

  • @farhidahmed4473
    @farhidahmed4473 3 роки тому +6

    Brother Gabriel 😊

  • @rickyvon6682
    @rickyvon6682 3 роки тому +2

    Pretty good

  • @marlonhosten4693
    @marlonhosten4693 3 роки тому +3

    18:00, Very true the Latin culture is very Sexually Open. Huge difference from many muslim communities today.

  • @zayn-vu1cb
    @zayn-vu1cb 7 місяців тому +1

    The look on the faces of other three mens😂😂😂

  • @salmandrame
    @salmandrame 2 роки тому +2

    24:00 😂😂

  • @Marwan-fz8nx
    @Marwan-fz8nx 2 роки тому +3

    Without reciprocal love there is no deep intimacy. Unfortunately not all people get married because they love each other and feel atraction specially in muslim comunity. We see cases of couples that stay together just because they have children.

  • @salmandrame
    @salmandrame 2 роки тому +2

    44:30 😂

  • @BouchraNsr
    @BouchraNsr 4 місяці тому

    ما شاء الله

  • @muhammadnavid4967
    @muhammadnavid4967 2 роки тому +2

    33:05 maaaan brother jibreel knows alot bout us bangladeshis 🤣🤣🤣

  • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
    @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 3 роки тому +1

    3 :00 - discussing intimacy shouldn't be a problem, christianiizing sufis oppress Muslims by down playing intimacy, after their bida divides the umma to local areas, colonial bida hurting us on many lelvels and leaving us vulnerable to haram ideas.
    Muslims now don't know how to deal with all these haram ideas.
    Great point, Gabriel , the previous Conservative Muslims still addressed this.
    brother says sunnah is to consumate nikah night and next day walimah.
    10 :00 -
    marriage is becoming one family.
    some ppl aren't educated, they didnt know if they "went through", some know too much from watching porn.
    grl is shy on wedding night esp. if she a virgin.
    if its an innocent boy or girl, they might not know what to do...
    some couples wait years before intimacy.
    you are soppose to pray, man should make first move,
    a brazilian sister was very proactive and it turned the brother off.
    Man is kawam, guardian, his trigger for orgasm is eyes, woman's is mind.
    says men is like mircrowave, it starts and goes ding, and women are like ovens, takes while to turn up and down.
    20 :00 -
    Prophet peace and blessings be upon him said send messengers, meaning kissing and words.
    women get turned on by hearing how beautiful she is and her body, feeling this way makes her feel ready.
    with foreplay women have more erotic zones and can climax in 3-5 minutes.
    a alot of women look different at men who give them orgasms.
    30 :00 -
    don't rush the women.
    some women due to upbringing need different ones.
    example a british bengali calling his immigrant wwife a b turns off..
    other women want to be called a b...
    talks about rxpae fantasy , and jahanum has desires around it.
    without proper foreplay or training it can tramatic, premature ejaculation.
    40 :00 -
    some times the man and woman has experience so its different.
    one said watch porn...
    incorrect foreplay, give her some sncks, tell her to move around. get her to orgasm before intimacy is good too.
    50 :00 -
    man should lead.
    says give woman 2-1 orgasm, possibly even before intimacy.
    no i agree that guy talks nasty...
    50 shades book went crazy and wanted to be abused...
    talk about birth control, positions, strokes, time of month hadith etc. hadith.

  • @Edameda_mmori
    @Edameda_mmori Рік тому +1

    Where are the intimacy series? Couldnt find it as a list

  • @phoenixknight8837
    @phoenixknight8837 3 роки тому +10

    # Rami, King of Intimacy
    # Anghel, Prince of Intimacy
    # Faiyad, Qadi of Intimacy
    # Gabriel, Shaykh of Intimacy

  • @r.b7979
    @r.b7979 6 місяців тому +1

    These men seem to have the opnion that it is obliged that a man leads in the bedroom if i am understanding correctly. If it is not haram why not simply allow a couple to do what satisfies them best. Who leads in the bedroom does not necessarily conflict with who leads in other aspects of their relationship.

  • @marlonhosten4693
    @marlonhosten4693 3 роки тому +5

    24:00 Wow they are laughing at the MOIST comment, Funny !

  • @shamaselahi5606
    @shamaselahi5606 3 роки тому

    Respek

  • @berryboi1574
    @berryboi1574 3 роки тому +23

    I get it that some may say such topics shouldn’t be in public but my question is there where should it be done n how can the youth have access to it ?
    I learned my basics of Islam but no where could I find anyone talking about intimacy in Islam. People expect us to automatically know what to do during the marriage night.
    I came from a region where we had 0 sex education. I was shocked when I read a few books on marriage n intemacy in Islam n I don’t get why none of the mainstream speakers spoke of it.
    At least we ain’t going to the Hollywood point of view to learn intimacy.
    It’s not that they ain’t discussed in Islam (in books) but people nowadays feel so holy to even talk about it. Were I to have gotten married right after high school, I would’ve been one of those funny examples of guys who don’t know what to do. I’m not kidding I was that ignorant of the whole shebang.
    I know enough now and thank people like you who discuss this. I at least would teach my children when they are off age to know about these topic because I won’t want them to be taught from outside where you have no control over the extent of what they should know.

    • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
      @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 3 роки тому +1

      Brother Prophet Muhammad peace & blessings be on him spoke of sex in the masjid, he emphasized discretion & modesty and not being vulnerable is teh norm, so if bida sufi preist imams don't teach there community others will have to! batini sufism is a colonial bida cancer, salafiya is structured balanced truth!

    • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
      @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 3 роки тому +1

      so many sufis are like preists which means complete fails when it comes to sex, moms abusing daughters for menstruating, raising sons only for money and if a practicing brother wants to talk about sex, its not time, and they leave him to learn from non Muslims, Alhamdulilah i had met imams who give time to this and are balanced, Islam deals with everything...

  • @miraclequran
    @miraclequran 3 роки тому +3

    Are they all married?

  • @phoenixknight8837
    @phoenixknight8837 3 роки тому +6

    #50 Shades of Halal
    # King Rami
    # Rami King of Intimacy

  • @altruistboy2759
    @altruistboy2759 3 роки тому

    Lol

  • @r.b7979
    @r.b7979 6 місяців тому

    Tbh for the man talking about the woman without the bra etc, and saying she might as wear nothing I cant see anything but judgement in this statement. What good would going up to her and saying that do except shaming a woman who most likely doesnt even have islamic ideals? It kinda sounds like an ego thing to me

    • @r.b7979
      @r.b7979 6 місяців тому

      *well

  • @BintGumby
    @BintGumby 3 роки тому +4

    So i wonder if a born muslima is outgoing like that brazillian sister if brothers would want her just as much or if they would shame her and say shes too experienced? Does the man always have to be Qawwam?

    • @johney3105
      @johney3105 3 роки тому +2

      this is not something busy people spend their time thinking about.

    • @BintGumby
      @BintGumby 3 роки тому +7

      @@johney3105 busy people wouldnt be watching youtube period i had a right to ask the question.

    • @johney3105
      @johney3105 3 роки тому

      @@BintGumby chill u misinterpreted

    • @johney3105
      @johney3105 3 роки тому +1

      @@BintGumby different women=different personalities. not all muuslimahs alikes not all reverts alike.

    • @BintGumby
      @BintGumby 3 роки тому +1

      @@johney3105 i understand that. What i was asking is if muslim men would be accepting if a born muslim woman was like that?

  • @absolutelynobody3837
    @absolutelynobody3837 3 роки тому +1

    Girls' minds lol. Tarantulas...

  • @marlonhosten4693
    @marlonhosten4693 3 роки тому

    It is Mandub to consummate the marriage on the first night, not Fard !

    • @johney3105
      @johney3105 3 роки тому

      i dont think its mustahab..?

    • @marlonhosten4693
      @marlonhosten4693 3 роки тому +5

      @@johney3105 It is strongly recommended to consumate your marriage on the first night, it's not fard though.

    • @mxxz3900
      @mxxz3900 3 роки тому +4

      Brother Gabriel said it was a sunnah if I remember correctly

    • @marlonhosten4693
      @marlonhosten4693 3 роки тому +2

      @@fizakhanam7316 Yes I understand, the one who abstains from Sunnah is not sinful. The one who abstains from Fard is Sinful !

    • @hamzus4760
      @hamzus4760 2 роки тому +1

      Aren’t we supposed to give them 7 nights

  • @marmes868
    @marmes868 3 роки тому +1

    The 3 need to be more serious. And they need to grow up. Please stop guffing around.

  • @bluegoblet7672
    @bluegoblet7672 2 роки тому +1

    Does size matter?

    • @girlleo2807
      @girlleo2807 Рік тому

      yes

    • @itech40
      @itech40 6 місяців тому

      ​@@girlleo2807No

    • @r.b7979
      @r.b7979 6 місяців тому

      Yes but usually size isnt the issue and its that the man doesnt know what he is doing

    • @AaishaMaleka-habibi
      @AaishaMaleka-habibi 9 днів тому

      I don't know what to say right now the fact that I don't know to what to say is like I really don't know what to say about the size of today of the way I simply don't know what to say
      So you still reading my comment😥 okay then.
      "The size don't matter."

  • @deedeee6271
    @deedeee6271 3 роки тому +24

    Kind of cringe to watch cause it's as if this talk is being given to a bunch of school age kids (i.e laughter, jokes, awkward comments). Part of "being a man" is being mature about these subjects. Just saying.

    • @ajajssksk1757
      @ajajssksk1757 3 роки тому +6

      You’ve got a point but it’s not so much of a big deal

    • @deedeee6271
      @deedeee6271 3 роки тому +8

      @@ajajssksk1757 it is. They look like middle school kids, yet they insist so hard that men are leaders. Like, what lol??? Act like it!

    • @salmaa2871
      @salmaa2871 3 роки тому +2

      @@deedeee6271 ABSOLUTELY AGREED👍👏

    • @absolutelynobody3837
      @absolutelynobody3837 3 роки тому +20

      Girls: Why don't men show emotions?
      Also Girls: LOL he LaUgHeD. So iMmAtUrE

    • @johney3105
      @johney3105 3 роки тому +3

      @@absolutelynobody3837 but it was. this is a sensitive topic that is important to be discussed, but laughing about it ruins the purpose of discussing this topic. sex can be perverted and jokes or it can be learned and educated on.

  • @ItsMeRunNgun
    @ItsMeRunNgun 3 роки тому +7

    Y’all gotta chill

    • @xDeFc0nx
      @xDeFc0nx 3 роки тому +1

      kids shloud not be here, grow up frist

  • @jetbllackwings
    @jetbllackwings 6 місяців тому +2

    if female Muslim influencers did an episode like this y’all would be haram policing and shaming them.

    • @r.b7979
      @r.b7979 6 місяців тому +1

      They actually have on honest tea talk here on youtube . There was a little backlash but not as much as u would expect by far

    • @keid9334
      @keid9334 5 місяців тому +1

      Fr, it’s always the women getting bashed for speaking up.

  • @unet7292
    @unet7292 3 роки тому

    This was good, but can you stop the hand gestures man, it's already extremely awkward

    • @xDeFc0nx
      @xDeFc0nx 3 роки тому +2

      how?

    • @unet7292
      @unet7292 3 роки тому

      @@xDeFc0nx I don't know man, I'm just not used to hearing this from sheikhs, but it's good that they're talking about it

  • @AaishaMaleka-habibi
    @AaishaMaleka-habibi 9 днів тому

    Awkward