What are Females attracted to in a Muslim man?

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  • @alromaani
    @alromaani  3 роки тому +40

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    • @mohsinakhtar7876
      @mohsinakhtar7876 3 роки тому +1

      Talk more about issues of relevance

    • @mohsinakhtar7876
      @mohsinakhtar7876 3 роки тому

      "Become a Real Man and support group for men only"???
      Are you for real ..boi???
      You are talking about "fap or no fap" at a very critical time when real men are giving their lives to protect their families...
      Shame On You kid
      Grow up

    • @zaynshah4023
      @zaynshah4023 3 роки тому

      CELIBACY with SIGMA PERSONALITY

    • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
      @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 3 роки тому

      @bill smith how do you know his intentions? have good thoughts as its sunnah unless you have a reason not to, and...
      because ppl are asking, if you don't need the help then know other ppl do, don't eb selfish , be a man be a leader!

    • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
      @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 3 роки тому

      @@mohsinakhtar7876 ???
      marrige is half the din... as an ummah different ppl have to do different things or did that basic leave you?

  • @junaidabdulkader
    @junaidabdulkader 3 роки тому +229

    I have no beard (no beard growth) ...no six pack ...no muscle arms....🤐 Just a Skinny Man...Many other men may aslo be like this...But Alhamdulillah...we should thank Allah because there are other men who are physically challenged...who have lost their arms..legs ,eyes,etc ...and we have been blessed with all these...The ultimate most important is Tawheed..

    • @antlion6796
      @antlion6796 3 роки тому +77

      Hit the gym bro! Yes absolutely accept the things you can't change, that which Allah has decreed from His wisdom; but strive to change what you can for the better.

    • @MultiOzzyProductions
      @MultiOzzyProductions 3 роки тому +29

      You need to change your diet bro. Eat eat eat more calories to put on weight. Not unhealthy food though

    • @mohsinakhtar7876
      @mohsinakhtar7876 3 роки тому +17

      Abu jahl..and his likes were well fed well satiated with loads of calories and nutritions..but guess what no tawheed..he got his rear end whooped.. well actually
      Sliced by to young kids. From the companions of the Prophet PBUH...even though he was on a horse ..the boys رضى الله عنهما were on foot ..with blunt blades..ripped cloths and most likely didn't eat a proper meal meal in all their life due to poverty.

    • @mohsinakhtar7876
      @mohsinakhtar7876 3 роки тому +22

      So eat according to sunnah divide your stomach for 3 portions water air and food.
      But eat healthy
      Don't listen to kids taking advice from the non believers for their nourishment.
      Khabib whooped connor not becaue he ate alot..he struggled in life that's all.
      Connor had more options to eat & drink from including pork, that whisky he kept braging you name it..
      KHABIB was on a restriced diet. Only Halal.
      29-0
      Wasn't money hungry either and obedient to his mother so didn't care about the last win.
      30-0

    • @laurarae6070
      @laurarae6070 3 роки тому +18

      Muscles are not always attractive to all women. Personality and how they treat a women is the upmost important😊

  • @aliaasfar1791
    @aliaasfar1791 3 роки тому +238

    Deen, good character, balanced, loving, honest, active, humor, adventurous.

    • @EnlytendFilosofar
      @EnlytendFilosofar 3 роки тому +10

      So no looks at all?🙄🙄

    • @aliaasfar1791
      @aliaasfar1791 3 роки тому +48

      @@EnlytendFilosofar character makes one attractive or not to me. I married both types less good looking was awesome character, very good looking was arrogant and ugly in my eyes.

    • @aliaasfar1791
      @aliaasfar1791 3 роки тому +29

      @@redsquirrel6176 Well, I'm talking about me. I'm real, not materialistic or superficial. I'm grown and and have values.

    • @aliaasfar1791
      @aliaasfar1791 3 роки тому +20

      @Sami SA.M sweetie I'm 56 years old, I can teach u a few things! I still look good, ok. guys in 40s hit on me. I don't need to lie. I speak from experience.

    • @aliaasfar1791
      @aliaasfar1791 3 роки тому +9

      @@redsquirrel6176 yes I agree with that, I'm a whole other generation lol

  • @aarfeenanees9147
    @aarfeenanees9147 3 роки тому +109

    I have seen difference in what women of age 18-25 like and what women of age 25+ like. Younger women tend to flock for looks mostly but once they cross a certain age they realise looks are not as important as Deen and manly character.

    • @Anon-uv9mj
      @Anon-uv9mj 2 роки тому +9

      Thats more like 13-17 vs 18 and above, but depends on the person ofc

    • @Aquacrystal78
      @Aquacrystal78 2 роки тому +1

      So true

    • @beenish8189
      @beenish8189 2 роки тому +1

      This is so true Subhan'Allah. With time you realise that it is only the heart and character that matters no matter how he looks like. At the end, The heart makes the man beautiful ♥️

    • @sameerkhan-qg3qi
      @sameerkhan-qg3qi 2 роки тому

      I had seen girls who fall for money before 25 and seen women's who again falls for money thats it.

    • @aarfeenanees9147
      @aarfeenanees9147 2 роки тому

      @@sameerkhan-qg3qi Emphasis on *tend to*

  • @Geebee67
    @Geebee67 3 роки тому +43

    Nothing like a humble man.

  • @bk-ash6770
    @bk-ash6770 3 роки тому +152

    I like this kinda stuff because it shows me how to become manlier

    • @codedaily409
      @codedaily409 3 роки тому +12

      Check out the book The Ideal Muslim by Dr Muhammad Ali al-Hashimi, the best book I've read on the way a Muslim should act

    • @bk-ash6770
      @bk-ash6770 3 роки тому +2

      @@codedaily409 Thanks

    • @abdullahahmad9300
      @abdullahahmad9300 3 роки тому +1

      Ahahahahah

    • @abdullahahmad9300
      @abdullahahmad9300 3 роки тому

      @@daysklant7401 Yes I find it funny

    • @ibnamanot
      @ibnamanot 3 роки тому +6

      @@abdullahahmad9300 simp detected.

  • @anikaabida6019
    @anikaabida6019 3 роки тому +54

    Deen, confidence, striving mindset, physically and mentally strong, protector and a stable provider is attractive. Most women will answer ‘nice boy’, ‘caring’, ‘good humour’, but they themselves know that if they don’t feel financially secure and their husband is not fulfilling responsibilities, they will lose attraction.

    • @omari1174
      @omari1174 3 роки тому +12

      @@blueflame3531 whether or not she is financially stable, the man in the marriage must provide still for the basic needs such as food, water, clothes, shelter, and among other things (within reason, to my knowledge, I could be wrong so may Allah forgive me, Aameen). Her money is her money, she gets to do with it whatever she pleases, now if she wants to help support the family in some way financially, that is up to her, but generally the men must provide in Islam to the best of their abilities.

    • @omari1174
      @omari1174 3 роки тому +1

      @@blueflame3531 point is you buy most of the necessities for the wife

    • @user-pn9zf2lj4c
      @user-pn9zf2lj4c 3 роки тому +5

      @@blueflame3531 he’s talking about a guys Islamic obligation

    • @blueflame3531
      @blueflame3531 3 роки тому +3

      @@user-pn9zf2lj4c You 2 are correct. Sorry for the unnecessary comments.

    • @user-pn9zf2lj4c
      @user-pn9zf2lj4c 3 роки тому +5

      @@blueflame3531 no problem, May Allah bless you for being so humble

  • @M.Sid9.3
    @M.Sid9.3 3 роки тому +39

    The clever ones look for religiosity and eagerness to help others to do good. Also manliness in a man is very attractive to a female. Leadership qualities.

    • @MohammedAlSharif2002
      @MohammedAlSharif2002 3 роки тому

      @Chadjeet Fuqsdeep angry face?! Also, what you mentioned after that isn’t appropriate so please delete it.

    • @MohammedAlSharif2002
      @MohammedAlSharif2002 3 роки тому

      @Chadjeet Fuqsdeep
      Not all facts, just that which you stated.

  • @Jamalishalal
    @Jamalishalal 2 роки тому +37

    As a woman, a man who truly FEARS Allah. He will follow the deen, and ask Allah for everything on His path. I may be the result of his prayers. And isn’t that beautiful, being a shoulder your husband can lean on. Making him and writing him beautiful letters of dua, making sure that before he leaves the house you packed him his lunch, and gave him a big hug because of pure love for the sake of Allah. I’m writing this because Allah separated me from my ex-husband, but I always blamed myself at first.
    😩 I really wanted to my husband to be pleased with me to the point I started disobeying Allah. May Allah forgive me that. Ameen. But I prayed istikhara and Allah found me a way out, I was devasted. But Allah wrote me a way out and protected me. So Alhamdulilah. A year later, I am in Makkah now. Single. But alhamdulilah. My second husband must be God fearing.
    I always prayed for a man who loves the akhirah more than the dunya, and I still have hope that Allah will give me that. And that is one of the biggest tests from my Lord. Having true tawwukul. ♥️

    • @alaouiamine3835
      @alaouiamine3835 2 роки тому +3

      May Allah give you the husband of your dreams and inshallah you will be satisfied

    • @thealpha1687
      @thealpha1687 2 роки тому +2

      May Allah grant you the righteous husband that you desire?

    • @Jamalishalal
      @Jamalishalal 2 роки тому

      Ameen Ya Rab, Jazakum Allah Khair

    • @omarshinwari7823
      @omarshinwari7823 2 роки тому +1

      Doesnt matter. Just keep Allah in your mind and speak to him everyday.
      Hel if he want will grant you with a husband. He may have also removed you from your husband for reason you dont know ans for your own benefit

  • @moonlightaksar9113
    @moonlightaksar9113 Рік тому +9

    1) Taqwa
    2) kindness
    3) humble
    4) Personality
    5) beard

  • @user-user-user-user.
    @user-user-user-user. 3 роки тому +28

    The Romanian in Malaysian is kilin’ it! 💪
    A dose of masculinity and common sense! Allahu Akbar!

  • @sakilahmed6788
    @sakilahmed6788 3 роки тому +17

    Nowadays, loyalty is becoming a rare trait, focus on that too

  • @artismypassion
    @artismypassion 2 роки тому +10

    I see someone telling the real thing now!! It's so much Bollywood, Hollywood!! Thank you for saying out loud!!

  • @mrsk8518
    @mrsk8518 2 роки тому +21

    Practicing Muslim men for me (praying and actively seeking knowledge) also Cleanliness, sincerity the “here is the truth like it or lump it way

  • @fundyourhappyplace5693
    @fundyourhappyplace5693 2 роки тому +15

    I married a Muslim because I love his culture, his loyalty, his nurturing personality, his honesty, his naiveté, how loving he is, how sweet he is and I know through thick and thin, he's going to be my husband for the rest of my life

    • @fundyourhappyplace5693
      @fundyourhappyplace5693 2 роки тому +1

      @Ameenuddin Hussain it is not common for my family. We have 1 spouse our whole life

    • @tataoma9976
      @tataoma9976 2 роки тому

      @Ameenuddin Hussain I live in the west and Alhamdulillah there is still many Muslims who fear Allah and don’t date, but obviously like any non Islamic society the Christians Jews and atheists are going to be dating before marriage

    • @fundyourhappyplace5693
      @fundyourhappyplace5693 2 роки тому +3

      @@whoisthegreatest6255 my husband has very good taste in women so it would be a blessing

    • @fundyourhappyplace5693
      @fundyourhappyplace5693 2 роки тому +4

      @@tataoma9976 Jews also don't date before marriage. The marriages are arranged and the bride and groom have no alone time before the wedding

  • @amird128
    @amird128 3 роки тому +5

    Jazak Allahu Khayran for always speaking truth, Barak Allahu Feek

  • @umar3298
    @umar3298 2 роки тому +27

    I just advice brothers to not make your life turn around a women, just follow sunnah and give her rights and concentrate on other parts of your life, learn Quran, your parents, dawah, sport (for strength and health not just for look, and doing sport is sunnah), work and have good manners with everyone. Today men have this mentality that everything they do have to fulfill women expectations of what a man is, never listen to a women listen to a man and this man is the prophet sws

    • @Reslessmeteor897
      @Reslessmeteor897 2 роки тому +4

      That's a good reality check for me

    • @ummqudamah
      @ummqudamah Рік тому +4

      The prophet SAW did not only give his wives their rights but also did additional to make them happy and spend time with them. No one likes a simp but a marriage is not just about rights and duties but rather living together in goodness and sometimes yiu have to sacrifice. A true man just like our prophet SAW knows how to balance life and be soft when need be and be hard when need be.

  • @n.i3381
    @n.i3381 2 роки тому +12

    Assalamualaikum, Mashallah it was an amazing lecture.
    I love how you spoke openly and it was very easy to understand alhamdulillah.
    We need more open lectures like this one inshallah.
    We really appreciate it, especially for this generation.
    May Allah Bless you and your family inshallah . Ameen. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @achrafagermoune2417
    @achrafagermoune2417 3 роки тому +2

    Interesting! Thanks for sharing. Jazaka Allah khayran.

  • @zayd8801
    @zayd8801 3 роки тому +7

    May Allah bless you brother Gabriel
    Your content is very beneficial

  • @duokusmana
    @duokusmana 3 роки тому +10

    As a practicing muslim, woman should be attracted to pious man. If the man is tall, handsome, and even rich, those are bonus.

  • @tarek399
    @tarek399 3 роки тому +16

    remember to send blessings to the beloved seal of prophethood

  • @someonepassedbyhere6363
    @someonepassedbyhere6363 2 роки тому +1

    True words of wisdom
    .
    I feel like البصائر قد أُعْمِيَتْ
    Wheather we like it or not, we have some degree of globalisation when it comes to our thoughts. The way we're thinking has been orianted to some extent by the movies, anime..etc to the point where sometimes some concepts in our deen like polygany or true manhood.. (for ex.) might seem weird to us
    I truely feel the hadith بدأ الإسلام غريبا و سيعود غريبا كما بدأ islam has started weird and it's become weird again just like it started.
    طوبى للغرباء. Glad tightings to weird people.
    Videos like these make us wake our بصائر up
    Thank you for this may allah reward you

  • @OnePunchMuslim
    @OnePunchMuslim 3 роки тому

    Good vid brother. Enlightening

  • @MOHAMED-zd4ll
    @MOHAMED-zd4ll 3 роки тому +1

    mashallah bro.important subject

  • @fastng
    @fastng 3 роки тому +16

    I don't get how u can be a Muslim, and a feminist, or a nationalist, or any -ist/-ism for that matter. These ideologies are riddled with contradictions. These are man-made ideas. The same way pagans worshipped other than Allah, following these ideologies is following other than Allah and His Messenger, peace be upon him.

  • @iamtheboneofmysword607
    @iamtheboneofmysword607 3 роки тому +33

    A lot of these comments are sad. We can perceive people who don't comply with a specific standard of beauty to be attractive. The media you consume and whether you look at people as objects instead of people effects this. I think a lot of people in these comments would feel better if they take care of their health and spend much less time on social media.

  • @afsaneh4340
    @afsaneh4340 2 роки тому +5

    As a Muslim girl, I would say you are 100% correct these are the things I want in a man and most women want.

    • @afsaneh4340
      @afsaneh4340 Рік тому

      @Dhi Mancini what shaikh mentioned in this video watch full.

  • @mrsk8518
    @mrsk8518 2 роки тому +10

    Active listening and interest in your woman. Applying knowledge into your relationship

    • @mrsk8518
      @mrsk8518 2 роки тому

      @MIKAAL what a vile manner you have may Allah guide you

    • @copainspammeur404
      @copainspammeur404 2 роки тому

      Women don't know what they want

    • @mrsk8518
      @mrsk8518 2 роки тому +2

      @@copainspammeur404 girls don’t and boys make comments such as yours. Many grown women have an idea what they want from this life with the ultimate goal being jannah

  • @ahmedvorajee2430
    @ahmedvorajee2430 9 місяців тому

    Assalamualaikum brother, Jazak’Allah Khair for this video. I found it very useful.

  • @ponderingspirit1475
    @ponderingspirit1475 2 роки тому +3

    I'm pretty sure the vlogger is Adam Saleh. May Allah reward him, he has made an effort to change his ways

  • @sulthanilahi
    @sulthanilahi 2 роки тому

    جزاك الله خير اخي

  • @briantafolla2247
    @briantafolla2247 2 роки тому +11

    I do my best to not look at girls. Instead im interested in Cars😉😊

  • @azidesai5710
    @azidesai5710 2 роки тому +5

    In my opinion women need & appreciates a man that is genuinely loving & sincere!

    • @copainspammeur404
      @copainspammeur404 2 роки тому +2

      Not true

    • @azidesai5710
      @azidesai5710 2 роки тому

      @@copainspammeur404 what makes you say that?
      Did you have a bad experience?

  • @aminah761
    @aminah761 2 роки тому

    Subscribed 😀😀😀. Masha Allah

  • @abolfazlhaji3632
    @abolfazlhaji3632 2 роки тому

    Jazaka Allah khayran,

  • @mohamedsmaili297
    @mohamedsmaili297 2 роки тому

    بارك الله فيكم آمين

  • @goldentv8578
    @goldentv8578 2 роки тому +1

    MashaAllah may Allah almighty bless you

  • @etherealrosegold
    @etherealrosegold 3 роки тому +6

    Sometimes a woman can't feel the attraction due to a lack of dominant approach from the man...

  • @z4781
    @z4781 3 роки тому +16

    Commitment to deen is a key factor, I know for a muslim woman.

    • @jazzstyles1246
      @jazzstyles1246 2 роки тому

      Yes specially in the world full of hypocrites, ex Muslims, liberals and secular. There are a lot of disguised 'Muslims' who don't even know a bit about religion.

  • @Zeczam
    @Zeczam 3 роки тому +29

    This generation is destroyed. We didn't lower our gaze.

  • @hadisergan1
    @hadisergan1 2 роки тому

    oyalaikumussalam oyarahmatullahi oyabarkatuh, jajakAllah khairan, love you vai.

  • @abdifatahosman1127
    @abdifatahosman1127 2 роки тому

    Straight facts!

  • @yaslenemirandosimons1238
    @yaslenemirandosimons1238 Рік тому

    Aslm...I hear you...

  • @naffmusik2426
    @naffmusik2426 3 роки тому +4

    Yes true good sheikh...make dua I get a good spouse 🤲👩‍❤️‍👩 InshaAllah Ameen 🌻

    • @Memic86
      @Memic86 3 роки тому

      What is a good spouse to you? And what are the needs of men? What do they want?

  • @modelstar7119
    @modelstar7119 2 роки тому

    IF i could play this video every channel /every country ,,,I mean the speech its so beautiful and honest to the viewers,, ,IF YOU DONT LIKE THE VIDEO JUST END IT ...That makes you UNIQUE ...MASHALLAH 🤲🤲Respect and BLESSINGS to you INSHALLAH🤲🤲

  • @ibraheemkhan9116
    @ibraheemkhan9116 2 роки тому +6

    You know the biggest problem with the whole objectification in our communities is that it leaves the average-looking guys/gals in a tougher spot. Nothing you can really do about your looks except workout and some grooming/skincare, but because we live in such a society it's becoming more difficult for such brothers and sisters, and may Allah make it easier for them.

    • @Tippy257
      @Tippy257 2 роки тому

      No I think we can watch these videos or see and hear whatever in the media. But the reality is both men and women find what they can have, what is tangible, the most attractive. Meaning if you look around where you live in your neighbourhood and family friends, people you actually mix with and know the background to, out of all those people, there will definitely be women who will like you or be interested in marrying you. This is because it’s a real possibility and they will know your background, not just some abstract idea. Girl /boy next door and all that.

    • @ibraheemkhan9116
      @ibraheemkhan9116 2 роки тому

      @@Tippy257 Jazakallhuhairun for telling me this :)

  • @Mountainfella
    @Mountainfella 3 роки тому +2

    This video was brilliant masha’allah hit nail on this one.

  • @alwiali6545
    @alwiali6545 3 роки тому +1

    Waaleikum salaam warahmatullahy wabarakatuh

  • @M.Sid9.3
    @M.Sid9.3 3 роки тому +12

    That video reminds me of DAJJAL. Women will go crazy to follow him.
    May Allah safeguard us all from the fitna of DAJJAL. Aameen

    • @ndhikaatube
      @ndhikaatube 3 роки тому

      @Millie Abdi what do you mean by "what do you mean"?

    • @sakilahmed6788
      @sakilahmed6788 2 роки тому

      @bbmb they won't be able to control their desires unless they are very much strict with the religion

  • @a.kedits8720
    @a.kedits8720 3 роки тому +2

    You don't respect everyone you have respect those who deserves to be respected

  • @abdallaabdelrahim4150
    @abdallaabdelrahim4150 3 роки тому +20

    Hey Dr. I was just wondering where do you get your suits or are they tailored? Any recommendations in the UAE if so. Moreover, you have great content that I rarely see anyone tackle in this manner specifically from islamic paradigm and perspective.

  • @Jamalishalal
    @Jamalishalal 2 роки тому +1

    Men, just be what Allah has commanded, and you will see barakah on your path. ♥️

  • @Nadine6528
    @Nadine6528 3 роки тому

    Mashallah
    Barak allahu feek

  • @Anon-uv9mj
    @Anon-uv9mj 2 роки тому +18

    As for the men, y’all really shouldn’t be that focused on looks, because the fact is, if you want a righteous and modest wife then you won’t see her body shape in that sense before marriage. I mean you can judge by the face and see if you are attracted. But whether or not she will be a good mother and wife is more important on the scale of importance.

    • @user-bc2ik
      @user-bc2ik 2 роки тому

      @MIKAAL bro what are you saying? are you speaking before marriage or after? make it clear, don't say these scholars said something they didn't without evidence

    • @shadowstorm5261
      @shadowstorm5261 2 роки тому +5

      yes but looks are important. you shouldn't marry someone you are unattracted to

    • @alaouiamine3835
      @alaouiamine3835 2 роки тому

      I don't give a damn about looks
      Don't get me wrong I try my best because the prophet pbuh told us to
      I just don't want people to expect more that what I really am
      And I don't any girl to love based on my looks

    • @safwanshahriar4108
      @safwanshahriar4108 2 роки тому

      Masjid Ribat is the best channel.

  • @tarek399
    @tarek399 3 роки тому +8

    Prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him) said: “When someone with whose religion and character you are satisfied asks your daughter in marriage, give permission to his request. If you do not do so there will be temptation in the earth and extensive corruption." [Marriage, Mishkat al-Masabih 3090, At-Trimdhi]. Authenticated by Al-Albani.
    Prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him) said, "A woman is married for four [main] things: for her wealth, for her lineage, for her beauty or for her piety. Select the pious who has religiosity, may you be blessed!". [Chapter: Visiting the Pious Persons, loving them and adoption of their company, Riyad Al-Saliheen, Al-Bukhari and Muslim]. Authenticated by Al-Albani.

  • @goodlifesince90
    @goodlifesince90 3 роки тому +28

    What attracts a woman in my opinion in a man is :
    Respect
    appreciation
    Quality time
    Words of encouragement
    Actively engaged during a conversation
    Being a good dad to the kids.
    Having a good relationship with my family

    • @anonymousnoticer
      @anonymousnoticer 3 роки тому +11

      You missed the most important deen 🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @hamzasyed9749
      @hamzasyed9749 3 роки тому +6

      @@anonymousnoticer I think deen ties them all together. If you have deen, you will have all of those.

    • @goodlifesince90
      @goodlifesince90 3 роки тому +2

      @@anonymousnoticer of course 😄🤦‍♀️i forgot to mention that. But obviously deen is non negotiable (for me). This list is the extra things that are important.

    • @ColonelFluffles
      @ColonelFluffles 3 роки тому +7

      confidence. If a man doesn't have that she'll quickly lose respect for him and leave.

    • @mistermaykul
      @mistermaykul 3 роки тому +2

      Are you married? If you are not, I advise you to not expect your husband to be that engaged in conversation. Especially if you want a husband who is a good provider or one who is striving to be.

  • @StarsabovetheEmeraldForest
    @StarsabovetheEmeraldForest 3 роки тому +8

    A believer (practicing), a beautiful reciter of Quran, Stability, protection, confident, intelligence, humor, knows how to take charge when needed. Pleasing to the eye (doesn’t have to be handsome, but average), overall just masculine, clean, tall, a beautiful smile, and compassionate

    • @footb9ll217
      @footb9ll217 2 роки тому +16

      "average" 🤣"pleasing to the eyes" 🤣🤣"beautifull smile" "tall" 😅😵

    • @botbeamer
      @botbeamer 2 роки тому +5

      Women are funny tbh

    • @yaseenmalik1755
      @yaseenmalik1755 2 роки тому +7

      Overall just masculine
      Knows how to take charge when needed
      So you want a feminine one. Nice requirements

    • @botbeamer
      @botbeamer 2 роки тому +1

      @Based Department Lol

    • @Only_God_Is_Allah_SWT
      @Only_God_Is_Allah_SWT 2 роки тому +2

      What you're seeking is supernatural.
      Impossible to achieve because everyone has good and bad sides.
      The best protector is Allah (SWT) and you shouldn't search for that in a man.
      He is not God Neuzubillah.

  • @Anon-uv9mj
    @Anon-uv9mj 2 роки тому +7

    Righteous, well mannered, caring, interesting to talk to, is hygienic, is a man.Also yeah the (initial) financial stability, but if later on in marriage there comes poverty, many be patient through that. Regarding looks I honestly don’t think they are important too much, so long as a woman is attracted to the man. But he doesn’t have to be ‘hot’ or what society describes as ‘good looking’ for that. One physical look that matters more than the others I would probably say is the amount of weight (I don’t mean a bit fat I mean being overweight (out of laziness, if it’s heath related that’s a different thing)).

  • @aqanni
    @aqanni 2 роки тому +12

    Never mind what they are attracted to my brothers! Focus on yourself and be the man you want to be for Allah and his messenger and for your societies and suppress your sexual energy and give damn about them then they will chase after you
    You cant and will never ever satisfy anybody’s fantasies!!!

    • @user-gw8ti2yq6u
      @user-gw8ti2yq6u 2 роки тому

      King

    • @alaouiamine3835
      @alaouiamine3835 2 роки тому

      Sad to say but true 👍

    • @stand4justice4867
      @stand4justice4867 2 роки тому +2

      Instead of suppressing, try to actively build yourself and your life and find a pious wife who'll be the best mother to your children.

    • @Dont-worry1618
      @Dont-worry1618 2 роки тому

      Suppress until marriage

  • @sundus928
    @sundus928 2 роки тому +4

    The only thing I don't want in men is ego. I'm too sensitive and I don't want to imagine my man constantly crushing me with his egotistical remarks.
    My father would ask me even at 12 am if I need anything ,even when I say no ,he would do it. Imagine leaving your loving father and living the rest of your life with the opposite of a man .

    • @omarshinwari7823
      @omarshinwari7823 2 роки тому +2

      Thats not ego. thats juat rudeness
      ego is good as its where a person belives he us

    • @MohammedAlAmriki
      @MohammedAlAmriki 2 роки тому +2

      Before you get married, make sure to talk to him a lot and know him well. Meet him atleast 10-15 times so you two get to know eachother well

  • @arnelabih1845
    @arnelabih1845 3 роки тому +8

    I am attracted to a Sunni Iranian Muslim man that is a full package been praying for him. As a European Muslim woman. I love Farsi language. I am so tired of certain people that tell me who I should "marry". I shall be patient for my Persian man.

    • @Romon111
      @Romon111 3 роки тому +7

      Sorry to break to you but there are no Sunni Persians, 99.9% are shia.

    • @Romon111
      @Romon111 3 роки тому +3

      @@hasibabdullah3463 Gabriel is not from Iran bro

    • @mr.t.1237
      @mr.t.1237 3 роки тому

      @@Romon111 😂😂😂

    • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
      @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 3 роки тому +10

      @@Romon111 there are many Sunnis from iran, they have to keep is a secret because of the shi'a bigotry, they are 10 - 20%.

    • @afshanfathima976
      @afshanfathima976 2 роки тому

      @@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 most of them are afghan refugees

  • @reciterrahma3276
    @reciterrahma3276 3 роки тому +3

    May Allah forgive and protect all Muslims dead or alive and grant us jannah by His mercy Aameen yaa Rabb
    Let’s share the reward together few seconds great reward in sha Allah:)
    Al-Qur’an is the greatest dhikr🌳❤️🥰
    Subhan’Allah🌳❤️
    Alhamdu lillah🌳❤️
    Laa ilaaha illaa Allah🌳❤️
    Allahu Akbar🌳❤️
    Laa hawla wa laa quwwata illaa billah🌳❤️
    Astagfirullah wa atuubu ilaihi🌳❤️
    Subhan’Allahi wa bihamdihi Subhan’Allahil Azweem🌳❤️
    May peace and blessings of Allah be upon our beloved prophet his companions and entire household🌳❤️
    Yaa Allah whoever read these Azkar guide and grant them jannah without judgment or punishment Allahumma Aameen🤲🏼❤️

  • @anonymousanonymous870
    @anonymousanonymous870 2 роки тому

    Looks are important to women too

  • @Lion_Tawheed
    @Lion_Tawheed 2 роки тому

    Wa alaykumu as-salam Warahmatullah Wabarakaatu

  • @cherryg.3042
    @cherryg.3042 2 роки тому +2

    I’m pretty sure there was a Hadith about a woman wanting divorce from her husband Bc she found him to not be attractive at all… so …… it’s important to both genders … especially now a days where men still constantly gaze a women in front of their wives … we care about looks too

  • @rutaz6176
    @rutaz6176 3 роки тому +25

    "Guys running as well acting abit weird" 🤣

    • @MohammedAlSharif2002
      @MohammedAlSharif2002 3 роки тому +1

      Lol

    • @rutaz6176
      @rutaz6176 3 роки тому +2

      @Chadjeet Fuqsdeep no it is not OK at all

    • @BintGumby
      @BintGumby 3 роки тому +1

      Who was the blogger?

    • @MohammedAlSharif2002
      @MohammedAlSharif2002 3 роки тому +1

      @@BintGumby Adam Salih

    • @BintGumby
      @BintGumby 3 роки тому

      @@MohammedAlSharif2002 hes just another spoiled arab boy like fousey tube, im surprised now too how so many women would have flocked to him

  • @RB-on1bo
    @RB-on1bo 3 місяці тому

    Good character is number 1

  • @shammaalali6889
    @shammaalali6889 3 роки тому +23

    Personaly (a Muslim woman):
    -Character: confidant, secure, has peace with himself/not afraid to cry especially about something that requires it.
    -Respects his mom!!!: if he can’t respect his mom, know immediately that wallahi he will not respect you! Even if he was kind or seemingly caring, he has his motive and it is a scam!
    -Protective and caring: I like it soooooooooooooo… much when a man feels responsibility toward his woman and children. I have so much appreciation! This includes financial support, emotional support and being physically present meaning carrying stuff and such.
    -Religious: he should take good care of his prayers and be a decent man with good Islamic manners. Not being deceptive with others and such.

    • @PLAYSTATIONGUYGaming
      @PLAYSTATIONGUYGaming 3 роки тому +2

      Don't forget money. Don't want my daughter marrying a broke, dusty boy.

    • @jokerq162
      @jokerq162 3 роки тому +1

      It is not we are afraid to cry
      It's just we don't like to cry at all because it shows weakness and we heat weakness.

    • @ahmadshabz2832
      @ahmadshabz2832 3 роки тому +1

      So pretty much a man with no flaws, what you state here is a perfect man which i think does not exist atleast in this day and age

    • @artarak497
      @artarak497 3 роки тому

      @lord dopey rainbowbeans they are, when you're a 26 yo sisters with high degree. Your pool of options is ridiculous regarding this type of men compared to a younger sister ready for mariage early

    • @blueflame3531
      @blueflame3531 3 роки тому

      @lord dopey rainbowbeans Not in a world where both Men and Women work 40/60 PW how in earth can you possibly bond with your wife? Especially when she has a child. Then that kid becomes the center of attention, you add another child, where can you emotionally support a Woman then? Even when she works full time. Kinda hard to look what's described in a depressed world of overhours and breakdowns.

  • @DanishF
    @DanishF 2 роки тому

    Salaam Br. Gabriel, what's your opinion on the muslim matrimony sites? What are the signs of a good site or bad site in terms of process and interaction?

  • @MARYAM-Aspen
    @MARYAM-Aspen 3 роки тому +3

    Abo 3obaida. He's hella attractive, and we don't even know what he looks like.

  • @clementinapoli8232
    @clementinapoli8232 Рік тому

    Salam alaykum everyone. I'm using the MBTI baseline for this question, mainly the difference between the intuitive vs the sensory woman. Do intuive women struggle more with household chores, taking care of children, etc.... ? If we struggle with sth, it doesn't mean we shouldn't do it right, so what coping mechanisms have you found that have worked for you in regards to household chores and co.
    As a quick reminder intuitives tend to be more conceptual than practical, and easily get bored with routine. Sensors are more down to earth, concerned with the here and now, practical and detailed oriented. Intuitives statistically make up 30% of the world population, men and woman together. I have the impression when I hear about the general woman, that the sensory woman is the one being described.

  • @shirinaakther6418
    @shirinaakther6418 3 роки тому +9

    Assalamualikum Can you make a video on how to be consistent. For me Its easier to do something for one day but much difficult to make it a habit

    • @m9u7shuriken
      @m9u7shuriken 3 роки тому +3

      I can give you advice that will change your life regarding this matter. And it is to take things slowly.
      You most likely go hardcore for that day so when tomorrow comes, you remember the trauma of yesterday and you are just put off from it.
      What you should do is take it very easy. So start of by just walking everyday for about an hour, rest during your walks if you get tired, you are not competing against anyone, the goal here is build up momentum with consistency.
      Once you've done this for a week or two and feel like your getting the hang of moving. Start doing running and walking; so you run as fast as you can for as long as you can and then walk untill you have rested, so untill your heart rate nears resting rate. Keep doing this in intervals and believe me, you will find that getting fit was never hard in the first place, but we make it hard by setting unrealistic goals for our workouts.
      And remember, people overestimate what they can achieve in a day, and underestimate what they can achieve in a year.
      Peace

    • @MultiOzzyProductions
      @MultiOzzyProductions 3 роки тому +1

      Start being consistent in the most basic things like sleeping early at the same time, have a morning routine everyday, do your bed etc. When you are consistent in the small things it will help for the bigger things insha'Allah

    • @mysticminority9060
      @mysticminority9060 3 роки тому

      Make dua then try your best.

  • @sayedahashimi4862
    @sayedahashimi4862 3 роки тому

    Yea women has a diversity of traits that are contrasting one another in personality that is why women in general has variety of preferences. I come to know as well that women are very different from men in terms of impressing from men or selecting of men spouse.men in general are attracted to physical beauty more while women are attracted mostly by social picture of men .if a man is viewed positively in a society or family due to certain reasons be that religious or cultural or any other personal elements there,she will be mostly attracted to him. Because women are more socially complaint than men so women will unconsciously change their likeness and dislikes based on society ,culture ,religion strong opinions,powerful narratives and all other social elements. Women's brain is working in a complex manner when it comes to decisions no matter for what.

    • @Mark-go7qm
      @Mark-go7qm 3 роки тому

      That is why we women can be manipulated easily !!!

    • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
      @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 3 роки тому

      women are more womb aka experience based creatures... and vary alot, they have triggers and emotional perceived ways to deal with them...

  • @nottheaveragejoe4964
    @nottheaveragejoe4964 2 роки тому

    Be humble, praise Allah S.W.T & send lots of durood and salawaat upon Prophet Muhammad S.A.W

  • @sundus928
    @sundus928 2 роки тому

    Pls can you put timestamps with titles .so that it's easier to understand.

  • @882517
    @882517 3 роки тому +3

    I assume it has more to do with the personality type. There are people who prefer more depth and meaningful connections and others don’t. Not all men are like you describe them (mainly focus on looks) there are also some amazing ones who are thoughtful and have different values than those who focus on looks a lot. At the same time, there are also women who are more superficial and only care for looks. I doubt that it has much to do with gender.

    • @sundus928
      @sundus928 2 роки тому

      True, especially if we look at Myer Briggs personality type. It's not always men or women. It's just people in general who have such personalitys.

  • @theterminator6121
    @theterminator6121 3 роки тому +9

    There is no hope and help for the average man except Allah .

    • @Purposeful_Scroll
      @Purposeful_Scroll 3 роки тому +1

      Hahaha

    • @theterminator6121
      @theterminator6121 3 роки тому +1

      @@Purposeful_Scroll why you laughing

    • @Purposeful_Scroll
      @Purposeful_Scroll 3 роки тому

      @@theterminator6121 i found your comment funny & factual at the same time 😁👍

    • @theterminator6121
      @theterminator6121 3 роки тому +1

      @@Purposeful_Scroll thank you for these kind words

    • @Purposeful_Scroll
      @Purposeful_Scroll 3 роки тому +1

      @@theterminator6121 May Allah bless you with a pious & beautiful zaujah my bro ❤️

  • @bigboi6338
    @bigboi6338 3 роки тому +8

    Not knitting

  • @Selma-fp7ie
    @Selma-fp7ie 3 роки тому +2

    I think we can use curtain instead of makeup

  • @anonymousanonymous870
    @anonymousanonymous870 2 роки тому +2

    Our prophet S.A.W was fit ,women like men that are bigger than them, none thing wrong, if a woman want a man who is well built.

  • @abusadi4742
    @abusadi4742 3 роки тому

    How to reduce the stress of home management in one step and avoid kidney/heart disease.
    The man of the house should announce that it's a big stress on the head to buy different food every member of the home and clutter the home. All should eat the same. No individual taste preference

  • @alghurraba
    @alghurraba 3 роки тому +3

    A man should be provider and protector.

    • @alghurraba
      @alghurraba 3 роки тому +1

      @Chadjeet Fuqsdeep that's what Quraan says. if men fail to do this they will be responsible on The Day.

    • @kaz9242
      @kaz9242 3 роки тому +3

      @@alghurraba it takes two hands to clap. Don't expect to hear a clap with only one hand

    • @alghurraba
      @alghurraba 3 роки тому

      @@kaz9242 exactly. Man has his responsibilities and woman has her responsibilities. Only if they both fulfil them, it will be balance and happiness.

  • @shaharia1591
    @shaharia1591 2 роки тому +3

    Basically men have to be a chad muslim like me🗿
    Kidding... I have to improve chadness more😓

  • @tahminakhatun5823
    @tahminakhatun5823 2 роки тому

    This man is beautiful

  • @Theoneandonlyearthhuman
    @Theoneandonlyearthhuman 3 роки тому +2

    R-e-s-p-e-c-t

  • @54wsbrdtyd6ryeb56d
    @54wsbrdtyd6ryeb56d 2 роки тому +3

    haven't women always appreciated looks in a man? like when Zuleika prepared a feast for the women and asked Yusuf a.s to enter and they all cut their hands

  • @Ok-gd3jl
    @Ok-gd3jl 3 роки тому +12

    Money and looks

    • @aatif7518
      @aatif7518 3 роки тому

      Unfortunately

    • @shirinaakther6418
      @shirinaakther6418 3 роки тому +1

      Each women is different from one another. They have different qualities that they look for in a partner.
      But one thing is clear, if her partner lacks empathy for her , don't know her feelings and dont support her emotionally , then she will surely dislike him even if he is the most richest or handsome man in the world
      yes women do want the best husband in the world.
      But at the end of the day i think we must not forget that this life is imperfect. A person may not be perfect. He may have one good quality but may lack another. Most Women can understand this after they get married and may accept their fate and the Qadr of Allah .
      At best what they can do is to change them. For eg if her husband is not religious and not God conscious , she may give him dawah and talk about the wrath of Allah.
      About money , i have seen many women who dont really give importance to it. If he has enough money to provide for her and the kids then that is sufficient for her.
      At the end , it is subjective and may differ . There may be some who are intereseted about money.
      with regards to looks idk about that , Looks actually comes at the end of the list . For some girls an average man is more than enough . Looks will be useless if he doesnot understand her feelings and lacks empathy

    • @Ok-gd3jl
      @Ok-gd3jl 3 роки тому +1

      @@shirinaakther6418 if a woman is so uninterested in me that she considers staying with me "accepting fait and qadr" then i don't want her. These women will never be happy and always be thinking about the "perfect man." That's why men should stay away from women. They can't give men unconditional love like men give them. Bad trade.

    • @shirinaakther6418
      @shirinaakther6418 3 роки тому

      @@Ok-gd3jl what??? you got it wrong . Im not saying that she will be uninterested in you .Mostly Many women forget about the list of qualities they want once they meet their partners.
      for eg among the list , she may want a humorous guy, but suppose that you are not a funny and a serious guy, why would she hate you for that , that's stupid , i mean there are plenty of other things to look at.
      Am sure she will be happy and will forget all the other things , if her husband understand her feelings and support her emotionally [ especially if he is an alpha male} .For her he is best husband in the world

    • @shirinaakther6418
      @shirinaakther6418 3 роки тому +1

      @Chadjeet Fuqsdeep idk ..........though statistically speaking height does matter for women.
      They want someone who is a bit taller to them. It also depends on her height. So if she is 5'1 then 5'6 is tall for her.
      Average height of a women is 5'4.......so you still have a chance

  • @nabilturki1662
    @nabilturki1662 2 роки тому +1

    Money, no doubt ..

  • @haesa4863
    @haesa4863 2 роки тому

    You should do one about what man want in a woman.

  • @yaslenemirandosimons1238
    @yaslenemirandosimons1238 Рік тому

    I'm married 22 years...✌💚👀alhamdulilaah

  • @rebatravelagent7606
    @rebatravelagent7606 3 роки тому

    Maa shaa Allah. Beautiful video. Wonder who that famous UA-camr was the girls were crazy And chasing after.

  • @navedian739
    @navedian739 Рік тому +1

    🌿اللوح المحفوظ🌿
    🌿البيت المعمور🌿

  • @priusa8113
    @priusa8113 8 місяців тому +1

    Where are you from brother Gabriel?!

  • @selinan3077
    @selinan3077 3 роки тому +2

    Im wondering who was that guy running away..

  • @profanotherletter4346
    @profanotherletter4346 2 роки тому +2

    i am putting my trust in u bro i hope this is true T3T

    • @walaalkiin
      @walaalkiin 2 роки тому

      Put your trust in Allah , and take the brothers advice🙏🏽😊

  • @anonymousanonymous870
    @anonymousanonymous870 2 роки тому +4

    Are you telling us that the media, movies, and so on that cause women to go for attractive men ?maybe you have forgotten the story of the prophet Yusuf peace be on him. Women also like attractive well built men.

  • @ladyintheveil796
    @ladyintheveil796 2 роки тому +1

    Every time Mahdi gets cornered, he changes the goal post, this is a common strategy when one can’t win an argument or has no basis for their claim.
    Very frustrating to watch.

    • @s0urbugz837
      @s0urbugz837 2 роки тому

      How did he change it ? Can you explain further please

  • @aatif7518
    @aatif7518 3 роки тому +12

    I don't care if she doesn't look like a model, don't care which nationality she is
    All I ask for is a religious HOUSEWIFE who is NOT materialistic
    Are there any women like these here? (Just checking if these are possible expectations and women like these were widely available before)

    • @benardio6193
      @benardio6193 3 роки тому +1

      Yeah I know... But you won't find them now. It's just sad. You either deal with them or.....

    • @aatif7518
      @aatif7518 3 роки тому +6

      Oh, I forgot manners and bad words like using the word da*g
      Praying 5 times is the bare minimum, you are NOT religious if you do it, basic!
      Reading and memorizing also BASIC
      I mean a housewife who actively seeks ISLAMIC KNOWLEDGE MEMORIZING THE WORKS OF SCHOLARS IN ARABIC AND IT'S EXPLANATION
      And no watching an Islamic lecture isn't knowledge
      So career women will DEFO not have time for Islamic knowledge when they have husbands and kids!
      And almost 90% of career women apply makeup outside, where is the Islamic knowledge here? Don't know what is halal and haram?

    • @aatif7518
      @aatif7518 3 роки тому +3

      @@frabgas27 it's really sad how many people think praying 5 times and reading Qur'an means you are religious

    • @aatif7518
      @aatif7518 3 роки тому +1

      @Moo Miller really not needed to over exaggerate the truth
      And o never claimed to be more religious
      I am talking about these women aren't religious

    • @aatif7518
      @aatif7518 3 роки тому

      @Moo Miller yes praying and reading Qur'an is basic
      It doesn't mean one of practicing lol
      Each and every Muslim is SUPPOSED to do it

  • @rakivjabbar9632
    @rakivjabbar9632 3 роки тому +9

    Gabriel is the one of the true scholars i come through. Those who attack him forget that hes guided by Allah.

    • @mk-ld8ih
      @mk-ld8ih 3 роки тому +17

      He's not a scholar so refrain from referring to him as one. Masha Allah he's a student of knowledge.