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  • @TheDudeFromFairfax-tw2rz
    @TheDudeFromFairfax-tw2rz 8 днів тому +22

    She wants to be married. She’s not willing to be a wife. It’s that simple. Husbands are looking for wives. She’s not a wife. Simple.

  • @PPB_Army
    @PPB_Army 7 днів тому +43

    So her job can be a priority but if a man works too much it's a problem?

  • @doncartier6796
    @doncartier6796 7 днів тому +16

    Ladies, if you utter the words, independent, boss, etc., you’re no longer eligible for any man. It’s not an ego thing, it’s just that we know you don’t want a relationship, you want a sponsor. That’s not a relationship.

    • @GuyIncognito__
      @GuyIncognito__ 7 днів тому +1

      @@doncartier6796 they just say sht and expect men to pander. How many Beckys and Marias speak like that?

  • @TheInternationalQuietStorm
    @TheInternationalQuietStorm 7 днів тому +8

    Women are telling you who they are in real time. Listen to them and react accordingly. You can NOT change them, they can only change themselves

  • @bladerunner27x
    @bladerunner27x 7 днів тому +6

    Exactly. In all honesty, once you simplify it down to “I’ll hit it when it there and I’ll find another when it leaves”. Women really don’t want to hear or deal with that reality. ✌🏾✊🏿💯

  • @johnh8705
    @johnh8705 7 днів тому +11

    "The men I like..."

    • @tdsheadcoach
      @tdsheadcoach 7 днів тому +6

      She TOLD ON HERSELF…and didn’t realize it😂

  • @deeolusanya9325
    @deeolusanya9325 7 днів тому +6

    It’s all about her. She has given no thought to what the man she wants out of a woman.
    The man she wants would find her undesirable because she’s given no thoughts to what her husband is looking for in a wife.
    It’s all about her.
    In life there are choices & trade offs.
    RIP KS

  • @jeffersonblackmon
    @jeffersonblackmon 7 днів тому +8

    A Man is not an accessory to a Woman's life.
    We are not new weave, some new luggage or an upgrade to a house.
    "Bye Felicia..."

    • @stormship1647
      @stormship1647 7 днів тому +1

      That’s the problem …they think men are …and even children …I’ve seen women get pregnant by broke pookies who look good to them just to have kids that look a certain way …the kids always end up fatherless …it’s crazy

    • @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13
      @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 7 днів тому +1

      That’s exactly what they want you to be especially black men.

  • @mercermercepanama6334
    @mercermercepanama6334 7 днів тому +10

    Her job is her husband!

  • @user-sf4bm2qk1k
    @user-sf4bm2qk1k 7 днів тому +8

    I dealt with chicks that say they want or deserve a good relationship but they put their career and schooling first. It's backwards and I stopped going out of my way to disagree because their life will show it to them, they are only good for hooking up at this point

  • @turdferguson7105
    @turdferguson7105 7 днів тому +7

    Anyone can say they are the boss of their own company. How many employees are under you? Also. Buzz words. "Ego. Insecurities. Afraid." Shame language to make excuses why you are single. 😊

  • @zeorhymer6
    @zeorhymer6 7 днів тому +5

    She wants the title of wife, but not the responsibilities of creating a family

  • @dallasmckay1455
    @dallasmckay1455 8 днів тому +8

    "... For a young, independent, BEAUTIFUL black woman..."
    😳 Talk about narcissism. Your job is priority, life is priority, SELF is priority... However, she questions whether a relationship, which is meant to take "self" out of the equation, and place more focus upon another (husband, kids, etc...) is a realistic "expectation"?
    And she claims its the MAN'S ego thats getting in the way?
    Yikes 😬...

  • @lilpkaibrown
    @lilpkaibrown 7 днів тому +7

    It’s easier to say “feminism has fucked their heads up,” because serval decades full of data later & they’er still believing in that “independent woman lie.” 😂

  • @TheILUMInatedOne
    @TheILUMInatedOne 7 днів тому +4

    “I’m not ready to commit to any woman, I don’t believe I should have to provide for a wife. But I still want to get married tho.”
    No difference between this foolishness and what she said.

  • @othellologos8225
    @othellologos8225 7 днів тому +5

    Naw, I've done this enough times to know. That's HER ego. They like the idea of having someone to be there for her emotional needs, but hate having to do "relationship maintenance". This is how women start situationships . They hate to admit that they love all the benefits but hate the work! Plus they think if they say it you're going to "Smash and Dash", which will make her feel even worse. Women get jammed up here because they hate the idea of men having the other options available to them.

  • @Psych86_
    @Psych86_ 8 днів тому +8

    She clearly doesn't have time to date. Stop blaming men and admit you're not ready to be a wife

    • @johnh8705
      @johnh8705 7 днів тому +1

      Who wants to listen to that everyday?

  • @RoyPeters1
    @RoyPeters1 7 днів тому +6

    That combative full time boss attitude is filled with masculine energy. Its why she'll attract pookie, always.

  • @TheArtbyc
    @TheArtbyc 7 днів тому +4

    Translation: I am a boss (self employed) my money is my priority And no man is taking me seriously. Hmmm I wonder why🤔

  • @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13
    @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 7 днів тому +3

    00:37 she just answered the question. “My job is priority, my life is priority.” They all think they have time and that the man they want will be there waiting or will “manifest.” It absolves them of responsibility. They also expect men, black specifically, to accept ANYTHING and ask for nothing.

  • @eon001
    @eon001 8 днів тому +5

    Everyman she approachs? It's her selection of guy's. She can find a man that doesn't mind her being a boss, but he'll just be a bum, or someone is a lesser tax bracket. Lower your expectations and she'll be fine, but she doesn't want to do that.

    • @joelpenigar
      @joelpenigar 7 днів тому +1

      Not only that, but run that first sentence again…”every man she approaches”…how many men is she actually approaching, since apparently her job comes first and she doesn’t have time for much else?

    • @eon001
      @eon001 7 днів тому +2

      @@joelpenigar Yep that part. She's waiting for prince charming to just fall from the sky. #Deusional.

    • @cpthetrucker9067
      @cpthetrucker9067 7 днів тому

      ​@@eon001when you watch too many Hallmark Movies and WFs Rom-Coms or....you listen to your Pastor too much.

    • @eon001
      @eon001 7 днів тому +1

      @@cpthetrucker9067 It's ridiculous, and improbable. I would respect them more if they were actively looking, but some of these ladies literally just sit at home. Go from work to the supermarket, and think someone is jumping from the frozen food isle to propose marriage. #Deusional.

  • @AfriqueNY
    @AfriqueNY 7 днів тому +4

    If dating is advesarial this is what you get.

  • @Noir_Nouveau
    @Noir_Nouveau 7 днів тому +5

    Most women I know with serious bread usually have the kids but the husband is nowhere to be found.

    • @kanagawa85
      @kanagawa85 6 днів тому

      Yeah I actually seen one before here and there

  • @bradleycampbell245
    @bradleycampbell245 7 днів тому +3

    Vivica Fox 2.0. Modern women like herself will never learn

  • @jinxie712
    @jinxie712 7 днів тому +4

    2:02 They do this to get into a higher status to be noticed by better men. Become a lawyer to get noticed by other lawyers and become his housewife. Kinda like a pre-teen girl playing football with the neighborhood boys. Join the group to get noticed. The rub is that these men don’t want that type of woman. They’d want a woman with the knowledge to help them with advice, but not be the nagging know it all.

    • @RoyPeters1
      @RoyPeters1 7 днів тому +1

      Bingo 🤜🏾🤛🏾💯🔥

  • @themasterteacher
    @themasterteacher 7 днів тому +4

    Stop it lady, bosses have employees. If she is a boss, how many employees and people do you have working under you?

    • @lamontjennings8996
      @lamontjennings8996 7 днів тому +2

      It doesn’t always start that way that’s why she said she works long hours even though she makes her own,some business owners go 4-5 yrs without having more than 2 employees.
      There called small business owners for a reason.

  • @michaelbenjamin6951
    @michaelbenjamin6951 7 днів тому +7

    Kevin Samuels said the same thing you said are saying now I’m sure you saw the episodes and what he thought about all this right here go to college and spend all that time and then don’t wanna work when you get married and have college debt you can’t make it up

    • @mediumman
      @mediumman  7 днів тому +4

      I’m sure Kevin Samuels said this, however that’s not where I got this from. I’ll be 45 this month, so I saw this in real life, so that’s actually where got it from.

    • @kubbykush9401
      @kubbykush9401 7 днів тому

      ​@mediumman you have to excuse some of these men.
      They act like Kevin ( R.I.P. ) was the first and only who said what he himself even said , was said and broken down better by many others but I guess they didn't hear that part when he spoke about that.
      Even he said he says nothing new and the fact that the same has been spoken of for more than 60 years.
      Like wow , I don't care for content that isn't specifically for us as a people , no one else just gives us keys the way we as a people do for the worls over and we continue to get looked down upon but you for the most part come correct so I have to come correct as well.
      We have no friends and everyone steals every part of our persona while shunning and denying us as a people , that can't even be argued so we have no friends.
      It just amazes me that also we as a people , just can't get out of each other's way and stop trying to ish on one another.
      Amazes me to say the least given how this is supposed to be the enlightened faze we live in and knowing we are in constant heightened threat as a people.

  • @DamienKross20
    @DamienKross20 7 днів тому +4

    😂 if your job consumes 100% of your time how & why are you dating. It’s not their ego there just not gonna waste their time dealing with you. Like you said my brother it’s on to the next one. Any rejection they get it’s always a man’s ego or some BS like that. Projection at its worst. 📘✈️✌🏾

  • @Motivationalmoments81
    @Motivationalmoments81 7 днів тому +2

    Career is the only thing that is important!

    • @eq2092
      @eq2092 7 днів тому +1

      Until they hit the glass ceiling. If you look at any C-Suite in a mid to large company all the executives are married with children. A single man or woman can only climb so high in Corporate America

  • @ViralAgent1
    @ViralAgent1 7 днів тому +4

    “My job is priority…”
    So what you’re saying is that you don’t even have time for a relationship. So what’s the problem? Find a man who only wants to see you when you want to see him, have a little fun then get back to work.

  • @WMB6022
    @WMB6022 8 днів тому +6

    Ma’am: If your job is a priority, a man will take what you give him.
    Just don’t be surprised when he leaves that 🐵 out to dry for a woman who has more time 😂.

    • @steviemak10
      @steviemak10 7 днів тому +1

      Thank yoooooouuu!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @brofessormex
    @brofessormex 7 днів тому +4

    Congratulations, thats being an adult.

  • @dward232004
    @dward232004 7 днів тому +3

    Her question was, "Is marriage in today's society a realistic expectation for a.... [young, independent, beautiful, black woman]? What is up with all the additional adjectives? I'm not a psychologist but it looks like ATTITUDE to me. For me that's cool in the workplace but not at home were all I just want is peace. I want to marry my peace not my competition, not a attitude, not a headache!!

  • @Nightmare-we8vm
    @Nightmare-we8vm 7 днів тому +3

    She could easily get a man. The problem is that the only men who she is compatible with are men who are willing to sacrifice their career potential to take care of the things she won't have time to do. That's how a relationship should work, but they don't want that. They want a hustler who has free time.

  • @I46718
    @I46718 7 днів тому +4

    Boss= doing hair and nails lol

    • @jamesdicker2962
      @jamesdicker2962 7 днів тому

      ...., or selling bundles and baby hair.

    • @braelynnblue
      @braelynnblue 7 днів тому

      Or lashes. That’s what in now. Lash businesses 😂

  • @FriskyDingo0347
    @FriskyDingo0347 8 днів тому +16

    Who the hell has a problem with their girl working!? Something's off 🤔

    • @jinxie712
      @jinxie712 7 днів тому +3

      Probably because the “what’s mine is mine, what’s yours is mine” mindset is still there. I think it was KS that said girl bosses raise themselves out of relationships brackets. They make themselves equal to high earners, but still want a dude doing better than them. Like you said, a dude wouldn’t have a problem with her working. But she’ll have a problem with him making less than her. Since what women look for is a provider, this means to her that she is now the head of the household.
      Also, I’m guessing her problem is getting to know each other. If she’s working all the time, how they even going to start something? There wouldn’t be a problem if she blew up while she was his girl.

    • @GuyIncognito__
      @GuyIncognito__ 7 днів тому +1

      @jinxie712 nah. She'd dump him. "He's not on my level." Meanwhile my white friend is married to a white woman who makes more than him wanted to be his wife...

  • @kingmelanin7468
    @kingmelanin7468 6 днів тому +4

    MM, @2:02 is one of the most treacherous things modern women due in stable relationships. How can she be a non-50/50 gyal with student debt? She'll take on the debt for herself but won't do it for US, or at least lessen the burden on her furture 100% provider? 🤔

  • @thetallmanspodcastreacts
    @thetallmanspodcastreacts 7 днів тому +2

    I am going to write a song for these women. The hook is going to be “independent means by yourself”. I just need a good beat.

    • @RoyPeters1
      @RoyPeters1 7 днів тому

      When you release it let us know. I'll buy a copy 🤜🏾🤛🏾💯

  • @christophersterling6788
    @christophersterling6788 8 днів тому +3

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @tpatt513
    @tpatt513 7 днів тому +2

    Zero sense.

  • @rohall5060
    @rohall5060 7 днів тому

    I love career driven women. They have less ⏳️ time for the insecurities BS they dream up in there head, especially th busy ones🎯

  • @julianbryantjb
    @julianbryantjb 7 днів тому +1

    I think it's this "soft life " that is the problem! Stop working at 35, is not a realistic approach to making money, or planning for retirement! Have you met a doctor or lawyer who has stopped working at 35? Appreciation,inflation, cost of living, and the cost of existing has gotten so out of hand that she can't even take time off to focus on a relationship long term! She runs a business, so she barely has time to get married! This is another 60 year old waiting for Mr right in the making! If this was a man his wife would have left him or cheated by now! Does have your own business take that much out of you that it is the relationship and purpose of life? If the business is the relationship then you are the servant to the business, and not the boss! Marriage is a partnership till the end and many people just don't get that anymore! She is not going to get this!