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  • TONIGHT’S CONVERSATION Panelist Gives Young BOSS CHICK HORRIBLE ADVICE! | When Eboni K Got It Right!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 158

  • @bigwill9421
    @bigwill9421 Місяць тому +14

    "If You're Out Being a Boss Chick, Who's Schooling Your Children?!"
    -Kevin Samuels

  • @eq2092
    @eq2092 Місяць тому +26

    Any BW that refers to BM as Ninjas is someone I want nothing to do with.

  • @CHRONIC2oo3
    @CHRONIC2oo3 Місяць тому +75

    You notice in these "Tonight's Conversation" places there are NO MEN? If people are telling you have to get into a relationship for marriage and there are NO MEN there... you lost. This is why Kevin Samuels worked so well. He had the men AND the women in one spot, speaking this dialog to save the black community.

    • @mediumman
      @mediumman  Місяць тому +39

      It’s always no men in the audience, which is why the conversations are always one sided lol

    • @therealcmplx
      @therealcmplx Місяць тому +21

      Church 2.0

    • @doublepromo8240
      @doublepromo8240 Місяць тому +8

      The majority of the women in that audience are overweight-to-obese, tacky dressing, drunk, with children by different men. Gayce Metadork looks like a zesty Cam’ron who pandas to women, he always has to get up and walk around and make noise whenever someone like Tripp or Kittie make a good point.

  • @user-gi2et5oc8v
    @user-gi2et5oc8v Місяць тому +12

    Its never the black woman's fault...period! Don't you ever forget that 😢

  • @themasterteacher
    @themasterteacher Місяць тому +12

    These lovely ladies are doing the RIGHT things for the WRONG men 😑⁉️

  • @jboymontel1
    @jboymontel1 Місяць тому +17

    So you allow a "Pookie" to lead and you're mad because you didn't get the best results?? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
    The jokes write themselves, I swear!!

  • @samadgriffin6853
    @samadgriffin6853 Місяць тому +14

    She's poured herself into a cute Pookie. Lol!

  • @adonis190911
    @adonis190911 Місяць тому +19

    That lady is divorced and has a grudge against all men. She is insufferable an bitter.

    • @pryncecharlie
      @pryncecharlie Місяць тому

      That's what I was about to ask... but I still see the ring tho

  • @burritobob69
    @burritobob69 Місяць тому +11

    These women do nothing but have “fun” until the baby comes. After that it’s time to blame men they didn’t have “fun” with.

  • @PhoenixRising82672
    @PhoenixRising82672 Місяць тому +10

    Let it play out Don't waste your breath gentlemen

  • @t.p.m.414
    @t.p.m.414 Місяць тому +18

    "I'm making my own money"... They're doing everything everyone else is doing and think they're doing something..

  • @nutt1621
    @nutt1621 Місяць тому +15

    You can hear her pain from the bad choices she has made coming out lmao. She thinks being an adult and taking care of herself is somehow intimidating or a flex. That wtf you supposed to be doing but if you think career chasing and getting that back blown out going to allow you to get a good man later, that's a fat chance lol.

  • @samadgriffin6853
    @samadgriffin6853 Місяць тому +8

    It's all "Fun" and games until the baby pops up. Now "he" becomes the problem.

  • @C_A_Ross
    @C_A_Ross Місяць тому +19

    Eboni K didn’t even listen to her own advice, ain’t nobody else about to listen to her.

    • @Mr.Edwards233
      @Mr.Edwards233 Місяць тому +2

      You'll be surprise that many of them will listen to her. I've learned over time that women will give each other relationship/marriage advice and do the total opposite what they tell each other.

  • @kelechiaguocha6125
    @kelechiaguocha6125 Місяць тому +12

    That woman stood up to tell everybody “she’s a boss”🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @SlickZero1028
    @SlickZero1028 Місяць тому +5

    I remember telling my sister the exact same thing. When a man gets played by a woman, it’s his fault because he should’ve known better. But when a woman gets played by a man, it’s also his fault because he should’ve been better.

    • @mostunclean6619
      @mostunclean6619 Місяць тому +2

      It’s always Germaine’s fault. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t. So you may as well be true to yourself and women about what you are about and what you want and don’t want from her in a relationship. And if she walks away, she walks away. Don’t be afraid to be the Bad Guy, embrace it. Sure beats being the Nice Guy who usually gets screwed over in the end and demonized anyway.

  • @js43168
    @js43168 Місяць тому +10

    Woman, don't nobody care about who hurted you in the past, if you ain't bringing nothing to the table and I ain't benefitting keep it moving ma'am

  • @JayPeace-ks9oz
    @JayPeace-ks9oz Місяць тому +12

    She's using the word independent.
    That means you don't need nobody, you're okay.
    You are independent but, you want a significant other.
    How does that work? 🤔
    Please explain...
    UNDERLINED: it doesn't have anything to do with MEN.

    • @Eman14128
      @Eman14128 Місяць тому +6

      she just wants the title of wife and a ring on her finger, for a wedding day to show off in front of her girlfriends, nothing about wanting to share a life with someone

  • @garyholiday7446
    @garyholiday7446 Місяць тому +16

    Okay, she'll wound up like Vivica Fox listening to an unmarried woman....

    • @cartier82
      @cartier82 Місяць тому

      😂😂 well..to give Kita some credit she did get married, but has been divorced for a few years already.
      (I just found out last week)
      But that really explains alot, on why her takes are so skewed. Her marriage failed and it certainly sounds like she has a nice ‘n long history of entertaining (and marrying) the wrong type of men

  • @Kwyzdapo3t
    @Kwyzdapo3t Місяць тому +15

    7:30 Why do they always discribe jody from baby boy

    • @mediumman
      @mediumman  Місяць тому +9

      Because they know him very well!!!😂😂😂😂

  • @rgtunderworldrgt7773
    @rgtunderworldrgt7773 Місяць тому +11

    Kita-Keeta? Never cooks. Never
    Never any wise words on sense from her. Never

  • @bigwill9421
    @bigwill9421 Місяць тому +7

    Dennis Spurling once said, "Just like The Boston Tea Party, there need to be a BossChick Tea Party!!"

  • @Nick_legit
    @Nick_legit Місяць тому +10

    I’ve learned that women don’t really live these experiences 1st hand. They heard a story from a friend of a friend of a friend. Same with women experiencing discrimination at work.

  • @bomanpu
    @bomanpu Місяць тому +23

    At ASU, from 1998 - 2004, the majority of Black Females under 25 lived in on-campus living for families and students older than 25. I was able to live their because my roommate was 29 at the time. Our next-door neighbor was a single mother of 3 kids. The entire apartment community was filled with Single Black Mother's. I rarely saw other family races.

    • @Seven_Aint_Nine
      @Seven_Aint_Nine Місяць тому +1

      Hornets?

    • @4RMULA_arch
      @4RMULA_arch Місяць тому +1

      sun devils?

    • @bomanpu
      @bomanpu Місяць тому +2

      @@4RMULA_arch Arkansas State University

    • @mostunclean6619
      @mostunclean6619 Місяць тому +3

      How is that possible with all the birth control options modern women have?

    • @brianmoore3063
      @brianmoore3063 Місяць тому +4

      ​@mostunclean6619 they're having the babies on purpose.

  • @Taye_Stark
    @Taye_Stark Місяць тому +17

    Lmao those ladies on "tonight conversation" never cook😂😂😂😂😂

    • @IllusiveMan343
      @IllusiveMan343 Місяць тому +6

      They routinely get cooked

    • @Mr.Edwards233
      @Mr.Edwards233 Місяць тому

      They feel that they're cooking because they're being loud on the mic and a room full of women just yelling YASSSS and clapping on everything being said without really listening.

    • @BlackPRanger
      @BlackPRanger Місяць тому +1

      Not even worth the watch.

  • @smitht1988
    @smitht1988 Місяць тому +10

    Damn, I don’t see one man in the crowd. The men must be on the other side of the room, away from the camera, in the very back corner of the parking lot outside of the auditorium? 👀

  • @elevated4lyfe
    @elevated4lyfe Місяць тому +7

    Making time for fun, but not for building a lasting relationship. This is why these discussions are not productive. They make you think, but do not encourage healthy action. People end up leaving even more confused than when they arrived, and now their question has gone viral. This specific panel honestly promotes hook up culture.

  • @JTC-333
    @JTC-333 Місяць тому +10

    Who tf let her cook she burnt the house down with that one… we are going back to the trenches with this one

  • @BogaTalksFootball9258
    @BogaTalksFootball9258 Місяць тому +10

    There would be a lot of vivicas in future

  • @negroraven9458
    @negroraven9458 Місяць тому +9

    I’ve never heard that Kita chick say anything worth listening to.🙄

  • @chancebrown106
    @chancebrown106 Місяць тому +17

    5:59 WHYYYY do (black) women in particular insist on getting on a microphone and announce how much they loooooove bums?
    Idris Elba and Boris Kodjoe is not coming to save you.

    • @Mr.Edwards233
      @Mr.Edwards233 Місяць тому +5

      O yes they are coming to save them, that's what the 101 relationship "gurus" told them.
      Pray about it aka the Ciara prayer. (that didn't work)
      Write it down (that didn't work)
      Manifest it (that's still not working)
      Wait for it (patience is running out)
      Shame men for not being a true man to "step to their level" (Kinda backfiring on them)

  • @adonis190911
    @adonis190911 Місяць тому +9

    If they have all that fun before marriage, how can they have new memories with the man they marry?
    Oh wait, they don't and get bored from repeating the things they did single.

    • @Mr.Edwards233
      @Mr.Edwards233 Місяць тому +2

      It won't be memories, it'll just be comparisons

    • @alexisc7565
      @alexisc7565 Місяць тому

      There are infinite new experiences to be had with a person...nothing wrong with living a full life before meeting a significant other

  • @bigdunks4eva
    @bigdunks4eva Місяць тому +11

    Are soon as i saw the title, i knew immediately that it was about Kita Rose.

  • @frankjames6232
    @frankjames6232 Місяць тому +12

    That "go to school, get job , and a career then get married" ' narrative started in the 80's by who ?? Yep you guessed bitter single mothers I remember like it was yesterday it started actually in 85 when I girl I wanted to marry actually her mother told her she couldn't have no boyfriend at all and I was in love with this girl. But I went my way she went her way

    • @alexisc7565
      @alexisc7565 Місяць тому +2

      She probably doesn't remember you lol

    • @frankjames6232
      @frankjames6232 Місяць тому

      @@alexisc7565 you're right but who cares at this point 😊😊lol

  • @bladerunner27x
    @bladerunner27x Місяць тому +5

    “Whatever you say.” 😂😂
    No responsibility or accountability, for the choices we make. 🌴✌🏾✊🏿💯

  • @jayeverything
    @jayeverything Місяць тому +11

    Pssy will be dirt cheap in the future 😂

  • @jinxie712
    @jinxie712 Місяць тому +7

    These the type of women that create red pills out of good dudes. Bring Pookie trauma to regular guy and he doesn’t care for long terms anymore.

  • @youcantyeverknowagain
    @youcantyeverknowagain Місяць тому +8

    she's lying, these women aren't doing any of these things.

  • @kelechiaguocha6125
    @kelechiaguocha6125 Місяць тому +10

    Pouring into a someone you knew was subpar is not help.

  • @tarodglover4642
    @tarodglover4642 Місяць тому +10

    Ebony A. FOX! Lol 😂 😂

  • @jasoncrowder8260
    @jasoncrowder8260 Місяць тому +11

    Kita Rose is detrimental like a mf😅

  • @Music_Blueprint_78
    @Music_Blueprint_78 Місяць тому +7

    With all that said and done fake Boss Chicks, "Biology and the Wall still undefeated!" 🤣🤣😂😂😆😆🎯🎯💯💯

    • @Mr.Edwards233
      @Mr.Edwards233 Місяць тому

      And that's what I want to know, boss of what?

  • @ToneFury
    @ToneFury Місяць тому +15

    Kita is the most annoying

    • @rm5282
      @rm5282 Місяць тому +2

      Absolutely correct.

    • @OthoWilliamsJr
      @OthoWilliamsJr Місяць тому +6

      She is Thy EXample of Lost Female, Blaxk❗️🪬

  • @A_PringlesCanwithVeins
    @A_PringlesCanwithVeins Місяць тому +12

    The sisterhood told women to get security first and everything else second. But they didn't put a time limit on it .
    They invest in themselves for 20 years, however they never learn relationship skills . Then at 38 they try to speedrun a family. 😅. Naw sis . Dont work like that.

  • @IBDGemini76
    @IBDGemini76 11 днів тому

    Some people are menaces and don't deserve the opportunity to speak publicly... That woman, in particular, infuriates me...

  • @virtualarmor3931
    @virtualarmor3931 Місяць тому +7

    No need in wasting time trying to change a woman like that. Just don’t pick like them to do life with. Use this education with actions!

  • @ConsciousRebel85
    @ConsciousRebel85 Місяць тому +10

    Keisha isn't worth the time or effort. #KEISHAFREE & #SYSBM. I know most bm still care because y'all want to save the communitah or see blk families again. I'm over it, and I don't think it's coming back. You will not get bw to change because they've been put over bm by this society. Nobody gives up power and control, and bw aren't an exception to the rule. I don't see the point of becoming successful and a valuable man and then the Westernized woman is what you're choosing from.

    • @Solider7
      @Solider7 Місяць тому

      For the past 3+ years, I have considered becoming a comic book creator. My desire to do so came about as I was fascinated to see how many Black comic creators when in the independent market and how impactful they appeared to be in representing Black people. That has all changed more recently. Most Black comic fans only care about Black characters by Marvel and DC, even if they're clearly racist depictions. Plus, as time went on, I saw how divided Black people are and that there was no hope in changing things. I started asking myself what the point is in promoting positive images of a group of people who love negative images and have zero appreciation of those who desire to do good for our group.

  • @MrSITH-qj6zp
    @MrSITH-qj6zp Місяць тому +3

    Oh, women WILL ALWAYS COMPLAIN.

  • @aquariuswisdom2613
    @aquariuswisdom2613 Місяць тому +4

    "Before you pour into a vessel, make sure there is NOT a whole in it!" 'Confucius'

  • @18wheelzofsteel53
    @18wheelzofsteel53 Місяць тому +7

    No they picked guys because the guy looked a certain way or he could lay pipe and their friends liked the way he looked. In a time when 50+ percent of bm have reached the middle class or higher you really have to ask yourself why are so many of these women constantly are finding so-called bums?

  • @Plagius8
    @Plagius8 Місяць тому +3

    Those men do exist, and BW got out of their way to find them.

  • @MichaelEBeard
    @MichaelEBeard Місяць тому +23

    Kita Rose gives foolish keep you single advice

  • @duwaynejones1710
    @duwaynejones1710 Місяць тому +5

    She cooked a soup sandwich.

  • @sharksimms231
    @sharksimms231 Місяць тому +7

    Are any females on the panel married

  • @festuswilliams654
    @festuswilliams654 Місяць тому +5

    Umar needs to do standup

  • @triad6425
    @triad6425 Місяць тому +4

    The craziest phenomenon for me to see was the amount of black mom at my university who got knocked up by drug dealers WHILE IN COLLEGE. I'm like wait so you left campus to find trouble.
    BTW these were STEM majors. So between tests and studying where is did you find this scumbag?
    I will admit that most of these women only went out with these guys bc the guy asked. So to all the nerdy men, hot the gym AND shoot your shot.

  • @ralphnestor5381
    @ralphnestor5381 Місяць тому +3

    You should have put the Leonardo Dicaprio "hee epps"

  • @specialk5340
    @specialk5340 Місяць тому +7

    I don’t think they know what building a man is, especially in the context of a relationship, why are you helping a man find a job, that’s not building him that’s mothering him, building a man is helping him get a promotion at his job or progressing his business, he has to have a foundation set for you to build on, ya out here trying to build a foundation for a man who doesn’t want to build it himself.

  • @AriMayweather
    @AriMayweather Місяць тому +9

    Kita is annoying AF she likes to purposely go against the grain 1:40

    • @yokahudivine4746
      @yokahudivine4746 Місяць тому +4

      she really is. just says a bunch of nothing or buzz phrases that the sisterhood love to hear.

    • @rm5282
      @rm5282 Місяць тому +3

      ​@yokahudivine4746 thank you. She is just a bag of hot stale air.

    • @PhoenixRising82672
      @PhoenixRising82672 Місяць тому +2

      She doesn't want to face reality

  • @cliffordowens2939
    @cliffordowens2939 Місяць тому +5

    Im starting to feel like the only reason kita is up there is because she pretty because she is a airhead she has never said anything that makes any sense

  • @bryantworley2922
    @bryantworley2922 Місяць тому +7

    "Some of us have allowed a man to lead", and I believe she picked the wrong guy who led her to "h***". I would ask: "How many men have done you wrong? And you don't see anything wrong with who you chose? No necessary improvements?"
    And why are you dating insecure me? You're pretty enough to attract a lot of men, so don't date insecure men. Also, for ALL the ladies, ain't no man intimidated by your grind. NO! They are bothered if you let them know about it, which shouldn't be a part of a relationship - making someone feel less than. Look, if you decide to date someone whose financial doesn't equate to your financial, that's on you, but don't throw it in their face as if you did them a favor. Keep in mind that who you REALLY wanted didn't want, or wasn't available, to you. Stay humble, my friends.

    • @rm5282
      @rm5282 Місяць тому +4

      Most of them have nothing else worthwhile going on in their lives. That is why they always have to tell people how successful they are. Humble and successful people have no need to boast to the world.

    • @baronn9809
      @baronn9809 Місяць тому +1

      They never let a man lead. They just got dug out by some dude.

  • @bradleycampbell245
    @bradleycampbell245 Місяць тому +8

    Vivica Fox 2.0

  • @lsporter88
    @lsporter88 Місяць тому +2

    Absolutely on point.💯🔥

  • @Laminar02
    @Laminar02 Місяць тому +3

    Great video. But I think you are fighting a battle in a war that has already been lost.

  • @mikeruck2888
    @mikeruck2888 Місяць тому +2

    That podcast is wild lol

  • @theburningredbeacon9625
    @theburningredbeacon9625 Місяць тому +1

    They are shopping at the wrong store.

  • @deeolusanya9325
    @deeolusanya9325 Місяць тому +1

    Facts! Facts! Facts!
    Tell’em what’s up sir🫡

  • @LeoThaLast
    @LeoThaLast Місяць тому +4

    She's 40.....

  • @Motivationalmoments81
    @Motivationalmoments81 Місяць тому +2

    Intentional Dating for Marriage!

  • @kelechiaguocha6125
    @kelechiaguocha6125 Місяць тому +1

    What was the purpose of qualifying that statement with your job/title?
    My question is what’s your “why” because if it’s I am a boss 🤦🏾‍♂️🤣🤦🏾‍♂️
    Good Luck

  • @customjeff9070
    @customjeff9070 Місяць тому +1

    💯💯💯💯

  • @djp7222
    @djp7222 Місяць тому +4

    Loud and wrong🙄

  • @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149
    @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 Місяць тому +3

    Eboni can give the good advice she's giving because she has done the work to heal. And because she is healed. She now speaks from a place of wisdom and self reflection.
    Where as a lot of other women haven't healed. Thus speak from a place of pain and resentment. The former can teach you how to not only avoid the bad but also find the good.
    The later can only teach you how to avoid the bad.

    • @SlickZero1028
      @SlickZero1028 Місяць тому +3

      Not anymore after intentionally becoming a single mother.

    • @kevinc3342
      @kevinc3342 Місяць тому +6

      Healed what?! She's a baby mama!!

    • @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149
      @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 Місяць тому +1

      @@kevinc3342 But she doesn't blame men for that. She acknowledged not prioritizing finding a good mate to build a family with. Was the result of her mama. Projecting her pain and trauma onto her.
      Thus she grew up thinking men aren't worth making time for. And is now telling women not to move like that if family is the goal. That's a sign of a healed woman.

    • @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149
      @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 Місяць тому +1

      @@SlickZero1028 That's the path she chose, yes. But she isn't encouraging other young women to do so. She's encouraging them to make the time for a quality man. If building a family with an man is the goal. Because it won't just magically happen. Just because you are successful in your career

    • @SlickZero1028
      @SlickZero1028 Місяць тому

      @@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 Yes, but it’s a little hard to take her seriously when she’s not practicing what she preaches.

  • @keithjackson2035
    @keithjackson2035 Місяць тому

    She fine though 😂😂

    • @blackchain1900
      @blackchain1900 Місяць тому +4

      Let her take that mop off ther head, then we can talk.

  • @LuvvaLuvva-df5ec
    @LuvvaLuvva-df5ec Місяць тому

    Smh

  • @RASDB7
    @RASDB7 Місяць тому

    🐱 for 🆓