You sound like my Mom. She was a very wise woman. Thanks for posting this. It is very helpful and reminded me of all the wisdom my Mom shared with my brothers and myself. 👍
I think these are good tips, but I'm really done trying to give credit to celebrate someone over and over when he/she fails to reciprocate....been there done that, and it's time to move on.
This is a really good reminder because some people overlook these signs. I feel like ignoring the hate will make life easier for someone. Use all the hate as motivation to achieve your next goal.
For once my boring life is working. No one is jealous of me! Seriously though,life would be so much easier if we'd all just "do unto others". Ignoring is such good advice for so many situations. Thanks Morgan Kratz
I can’t believe a person who I thought was my best friend is really secretly jealous of me. But I wonder why... I knew it was something about him That I couldn’t really figure it out and now I figured out what it was... It’s disappointing really because I held him in the highest regards.
A good video that sheds some light on blocking out others negativity along with keeping yourself in check with where your feelings are towards another person. Thank you for the recommendation Morgan Kratz!
...#10 ...or, when you speak they give "eye cues", "elbow nudges", or a "leg tap" to their fellow cohorts. smh lol. I have learned to notice it without reacting.
1) belittle your success 2) constantly competing with you 3) spread sensitive information 4) criticize you in front of others 5) fail to celebrate with you 6) starting drama 7)
Yes, this has helped me tremendously, I think it's about integrity and like he said taking the high road. My success is definitely what I'm going to be focusing on and not my or anyone else's insecurities.
Brett! Long time no talk in 2 or 3D! I am just loving these personal reflections infused by such expert levels of analysis! I hope you are blowing up the lands of Facebook and beyond with this highly qualified and quality content! So needed in so many places and spaces! I’ll reach out to you soon... I’m still on leave ....
I got so many jealousy people included family thy soo jealous thy wants me dead” n even try used me as maid n sooo jealous about my hair dont even want it to grow!! But I don’t care!!! Thy jealous thy should be jealous!! I don’t give a damn!! jealousy foools!!
So true, I've been belittled , and had sensitive, misinformation spread around, ( if you get to read this, low life, I have worked hard for what I have,)
I only disagree w the "Failure to celebrate with you" My coworker is something else. My hack for her is to just ignore her. I dont want nothing to do with her at all. So there is no way i could celebrate with her for anything. In my mind though im happy for her and hope her well!!
Great video, I think the essence under a lot of the hacks is learning to act by your own choosing, than automatically react and get sucked into their attention seeking bubble. Gotta do your own thing and be true to yourself, I think most people who fall prey to this behaviour are scared of being alone - so don't want to cut out these people. Makes sense, our brains evolved in a time when not being part of "the group" meant certain death... same process could explain why others are devious - to remain embedded in the group. Either way, if you are prepared and not afraid to cut every last one of these people out your life (if necessary) then you are working with a strong advantage!
No these hacks dont work for me. I have been doing all of this. I stay silent and kind and i keep getting slandered. And I end up looking bad lol so I developed my own hacks.
Understood; however, these do become draining if one must apply continually every time they encounter the person who is displaying the envious behavior. And I have done this and it continues to be a problem. The person makes me feel zapped of energy. That is not really acceptable to me. So it seems there is no end to the trauma.
1. I am belittled...at my job ..2. i have been discriminated against. 3. Lied to by an uppermanagment...in last job...4. weak men like to watch women compete with each other like a cat fight. I don't capitulate.
I pray I should be a nice and beautiful friend. ❤️❤️✌️🙏🏻😇 I’m sorry for being mean to others. I will focus on me. My priority is school and my goals. Amen. Totustuusmaria.
yo i need help... theres this dude in my high school who tries to one up to everyone and (he def shows these signs to me) mostly bcs we take the same classes and therefore he makes getting good grades and being good at everything a competition and shit, but idk if its actual jealousy. cause like he's competitive with some people in every class but with the classes he takes with me mostly its like he always is condescending and negative?? cause i dont make it about competition and when i try to be positive he makes sure I KNOW that he can do better than me when he knows i dont really care tho??? is he actually jealous or just competitive or insecure i swear i dont even know anymore lol like there are other people with better grades than me but hes super competitive with me specifically. we take all of the same classes but in this one class im not even the best or second best, someone else is, but he still chooses to be negatively competitive and condescending with ME. help a girl out y'all
Yo if u suddenly start cheering him on for doing well when he least expects it and keep doing this I bet you notice it stops. It's my speculation but really need to know the function of his behavior to be more likely to work.
Disagree on this. You then become their “narcissistic supply” and you will not only never get rid of them but you will attract MORE of that type of person.
Very relatable!
Its a good reminder, if someone's throwing negativity at you for being you, it usually means you're doing something right ;)
yep
That's so true
My behavior hack:
STAY AWAY FROM JEALOUS “FRIENDS”
True
Fact 💯
I absolutely agree. I generally move alone
There will always be someone out there jealous of you, you just need to know how to handle it and this advice is defiantly great! thanks for sharing!
Behavior hack. Just stop being around them
Good point
I can defiantly relate! I hate drama! people who are jealous of you are always looking for some drama!
Too true, sister. Drama to them is like an itch an animal NEEDS to scratch!
Don’t be around them. They already smeared you so all that being nice to them ain’t going to work
You sound like my Mom. She was a very wise woman. Thanks for posting this. It is very helpful and reminded me of all the wisdom my Mom shared with my brothers and myself. 👍
Thanks Shannon
I think these are good tips, but I'm really done trying to give credit to celebrate someone over and over when he/she fails to reciprocate....been there done that, and it's time to move on.
Good point
This is a really good reminder because some people overlook these signs. I feel like ignoring the hate will make life easier for someone. Use all the hate as motivation to achieve your next goal.
wow, this was excellent. i like that not only did the behaviors to look for were there, but great ways to respnd to them
Best hack is completely cutting these people out of your life.
For once my boring life is working. No one is jealous of me! Seriously though,life would be so much easier if we'd all just "do unto others". Ignoring is such good advice for so many situations. Thanks Morgan Kratz
I agree with everything said! Don’t satisfy that person by giving them attention!
I can’t believe a person who I thought was my best friend is really secretly jealous of me. But I wonder why... I knew it was something about him That I couldn’t really figure it out and now I figured out what it was... It’s disappointing really because I held him in the highest regards.
There are a lot of insecure and jealous people that cross my path at every job I get.
Shout out to Joe!😝
True
A good video that sheds some light on blocking out others negativity along with keeping yourself in check with where your feelings are towards another person. Thank you for the recommendation Morgan Kratz!
Nice! Jealousy is always an issue. I can relate to reason number 2.
...#10 ...or, when you speak they give "eye cues", "elbow nudges", or a "leg tap" to their fellow cohorts. smh lol. I have learned to notice it without reacting.
1) belittle your success
2) constantly competing with you
3) spread sensitive information
4) criticize you in front of others
5) fail to celebrate with you
6) starting drama
7)
Good ones
#7 4:55 imitate you without credit
#8 5:29 Fail to invite
#9 5:54 Body Language
Sadly, i’ve seen these before!! 😏
Yes, this has helped me tremendously, I think it's about integrity and like he said taking the high road. My success is definitely what I'm going to be focusing on and not my or anyone else's insecurities.
Be enthusiastic and show positivity! Tell them to do well and wish them well! God multiples the best regards! ❤️❤️💓☺️🙏🏻
I agree
Brett!
Long time no talk in 2 or 3D!
I am just loving these personal reflections infused by such expert levels of analysis! I hope you are blowing up the lands of
Facebook and beyond with this highly qualified and quality content! So needed in so many places and spaces! I’ll reach out to you soon... I’m still on leave ....
Great to heat from you Kim 🙂
I've had friends like this
Sorry to hear
This guy looks like he has a Tony Stark envy complex 😂 love it.
I do envy him
Super relatable in today's world! Thank you for recommending this video, Morgan Kratz 👍🏼
This is so true 💕 that’s exactly me don’t give a f about people I just keep going on in life and I am good on my own world 🌎
Yes! You have to live your true life
I love all of these examples, thank you for sharing.
I got so many jealousy people included family thy soo jealous thy wants me dead” n even try used me as maid n sooo jealous about my hair dont even want it to grow!! But I don’t care!!! Thy jealous thy should be jealous!! I don’t give a damn!! jealousy foools!!
It only hurts them
So true, I've been belittled , and had sensitive, misinformation spread around, ( if you get to read this, low life, I have worked hard for what I have,)
I know what you mean
Very enlightening. Thanks for the rec Lynn Von Thaden.
I love the eye rolling one! That's brilliant😂! Thanks Jonathan White for sharing 😘
Yeah they don't know what to say after u say "is everything OK?"
Excellent video!
I only disagree w the "Failure to celebrate with you" My coworker is something else. My hack for her is to just ignore her. I dont want nothing to do with her at all. So there is no way i could celebrate with her for anything. In my mind though im happy for her and hope her well!!
Yeah I get it. I just am saying if people claim they are friends it would be odd to not celebrate in your friends accomplishment
What if the person jealous is your mother and sister? Then what?
May need to figure out why first
Great video, I think the essence under a lot of the hacks is learning to act by your own choosing, than automatically react and get sucked into their attention seeking bubble.
Gotta do your own thing and be true to yourself, I think most people who fall prey to this behaviour are scared of being alone - so don't want to cut out these people. Makes sense, our brains evolved in a time when not being part of "the group" meant certain death... same process could explain why others are devious - to remain embedded in the group.
Either way, if you are prepared and not afraid to cut every last one of these people out your life (if necessary) then you are working with a strong advantage!
I love how you referred back to many years ago & I 100%. We evolved where there was safety in your tribe or group so some of it may be phylogenetic
No these hacks dont work for me. I have been doing all of this. I stay silent and kind and i keep getting slandered. And I end up looking bad lol so I developed my own hacks.
What Hacks do you use?
This is my step dad and mum all over.
A good reminder to be aware of the behaviors of those around us and how we respond. Thanks for the recommendation Morgan Kratz!
No you just end up looking like a fan...instead of a bf or close friend. Just disengage is my fix.
Understood; however, these do become draining if one must apply continually every time they encounter the person who is displaying the envious behavior. And I have done this and it continues to be a problem. The person makes me feel zapped of energy. That is not really acceptable to me. So it seems there is no end to the trauma.
Thanks Morgan for recommending this video.. very informative 😋💯🤝
One up you...that's what 95% of people do to each other lol
This is some great advice!
What if some of these habits jealous people do are subtle and unnoticeable by others but you spot it right away what do you do??
Might want to alert others
Great advice! I think anyone can relate.
😂😂😂 the No invites is funny
👍🏻👍🏻
I thought this was going to be about detecting jealousy, from the female you are in a relationship with
Great advice thank you!
Great video, and yes we can relate! :)
1. I am belittled...at my job ..2. i have been discriminated against. 3. Lied to by an uppermanagment...in last job...4. weak men like to watch women compete with each other like a cat fight. I don't capitulate.
Glad you don't capitulate
Where were you 25 years ago? I struggled with depression for years and I didn’t understand what was going on.
I wish I was there. U doing better now?
I’m ok. I just feel scarred from my past. Videos like this help me see that I trusted the wrong people.
Thank you!
I focus on myself period
Enjoyed watching your video...Great insight and hacks...thanks for the recommendation Morgan Kratz!
I pray I should be a nice and beautiful friend. ❤️❤️✌️🙏🏻😇
I’m sorry for being mean to others. I will focus on me. My priority is school and my goals. Amen. Totustuusmaria.
Tony Stark with David Spades voice! Jk :)
That's good stuff
Sweet T!
yo i need help... theres this dude in my high school who tries to one up to everyone and (he def shows these signs to me) mostly bcs we take the same classes and therefore he makes getting good grades and being good at everything a competition and shit, but idk if its actual jealousy. cause like he's competitive with some people in every class but with the classes he takes with me mostly its like he always is condescending and negative?? cause i dont make it about competition and when i try to be positive he makes sure I KNOW that he can do better than me when he knows i dont really care tho??? is he actually jealous or just competitive or insecure i swear i dont even know anymore lol
like there are other people with better grades than me but hes super competitive with me specifically. we take all of the same classes but in this one class im not even the best or second best, someone else is, but he still chooses to be negatively competitive and condescending with ME. help a girl out y'all
Yo if u suddenly start cheering him on for doing well when he least expects it and keep doing this I bet you notice it stops. It's my speculation but really need to know the function of his behavior to be more likely to work.
You had a nice little test of character there!
@@TheBdinovi1 thanks for the advice!
Love your colorful eyeglasses. I want them .just kidding lol
Yep!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
So true
Robert Downey Jr.
Iron Man here 😊👍🏼
3:50 I prefer when they go low, I get high
Disagree on this. You then become their “narcissistic supply” and you will not only never get rid of them but you will attract MORE of that type of person.
@@HeavenlyLights I think you are confused.