Identifying And Avoiding High Conflict People
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- Опубліковано 8 кві 2024
- High conflict people and family often carry a chip around on their shoulder.
They want everyone to bend to their needs and wants.
You may know this kind of person from work, from the community, and even from home.
High conflict people don't mind starting a fight and they don't mind holding grudges.
If you have a family member like this, I'm sure you can understand just how intense these people can be.
Something very small turns into a big deal. Having to reschedule something is viewed as abandonment. Having to go to work late because of traffic and a car accident, turns into yelling match.
And if you have a parent like this, things can become almost impossible to deal with.
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The ones who act psychotic become so vindictive that it becomes a daily threat and you’re never allowed to feel at peace.
Yes. They live for upheaval.
Hair is so pretty…. I love it
Thank you! :)
Think jealousy a huge one. I should have ruuunn for my life. Erroneously had hope for change. Ruuunn people.
I so wish I knew more when I was in my twenties...Tamara you are most assuredly a gift for so many of us. ❤❤❤ In retrospect, I should have listened to my mother and ran for my life She always knew best ❤
❤ Thank you for that!
And I totally get that. In retrospect, it all makes sense. A client of mine told me yesterday that she wishes she could have "test drove" her in-laws and her family before going overboard to support them or earn their favor. But I replied by telling her, which may help you too, is that if she didn't travel that road in her life she most likely would not have the full understanding of evil, of people, and of how life can be sometimes that she needs to survive this life. Perhaps there is purpose in this space of now knowing.
@@TherapistTamaraHill Such wisdom and knowledge you possess. I admire and respect you so much, Tamara. I'm sure you've been told this many times how you can reach our souls with such great empathy, comfort and healing. I wish my mother could have known you. Losing her was like losing the other half of me...we were best friends, my soul mate. I still and do miss her presence in my life and that's one reason why this drama with in laws is truly traumatic. She wanted me to leave this state after she died...we had plans to move to Austin TX and then she was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. I was gutted and lost my way for years. Peace and love to you dearest Tamara.❣️❣️❣️🙏🫂
I had a situation where my high conflict boss always got me confused with someone who hadn’t worked there in years. And with random people that never worked there. And also would quote things that I said but saying it was from other people. They would blame me for things and I was completely caught off guard by it because I didn’t know what they were talking about.
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I have those earrings they look great on you. Thanks for info❤
I don't have them but they are pretty on her ☺
love your hair
Thank you🤗
I've seen this all my life
It' so very draining to say the least.
no way to escape.
“Hugh conflict”, is that the PC term for toxic now? Because you are just describing toxic people.