How to get over someone who doesn't want you.
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- Опубліковано 6 сер 2024
- Are you having a hard time getting over an ex or somebody you liked but the feelings weren't mutual? . Look no further :)
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Omg this is deep because I'm going through this right now.
Bryant Avant tell me about it man
@@stephengreico2810 same here 😫
HEIDY NUÑEZ I hear ya Heidi...it gets better trust me..you’ll be just fine...Leo doing things that take your mind off it while striving to be your best self
Same brother same
Same. ;c
Accept and express your emotions. Accept it’s over. No contact. Cut them off. Hobbies. Friends. Ask yourself what it’s really about? Why is it hard to let them go?
Hobbies and friends don’t work
My boyfriend broke up with me and we made so many memories and he doesn’t seem bothered by it and then I’m over here crying it’s just horrible
I’m goin thru that rn :/
@@Iamget2gether same bro
Same thing with me. It's hard to get over her
i will try to do all this and more....cos am tired of being miserable.....the hurt doesnt seem to stop
timmy yusuf honestly my man! give this a go and I can promise you you'll feel better and you will grow from this! If you feel like you want to talk or you have questions drop me a message on insta @ jchizzy23 and I'll be able to clear up any questions you may have :)
Thank you so much. My husband is leaving me after 15 years and it's so hard to let go when we've made a life together for so long. Your voice is calming and reassuring
E Fox Thank you for commenting and im glad you've got something out of this video! keep going, you'll get through it :)
E H + How have you been (update)? I hope you have a swift recovery.
May Phoenix yes I’m curious too. How are you? I pray all is well. Love you God Bless
JesusLovesMe2 + Thanks for the encouragement...I'm still healing. I feel like I'll never find the right one. I've been alone most of my life. I've tried looking nice, praying, staying busy, dating sites and nothing seems to work. I just want to not care about love if I'm not going to have a love life. It hurts also that people around me seem to find someone with little effort. I've even asked God if I was cursed or just destined to be alone. I'm grateful for my health, job, and the few friends and family I do have. I would just love to have that soulmate to spend the rest of my life with. I hope your doing good and hopefully your heart is joyful.
May Phoenix I know that’s how it seems now but God knows all things. I was just in a courtship with a Christian man who really broke my heart. He put his hands on me and hurt me. That ended and now I feel very much alone. God made a man to be strong to protect us- the weaker vessels, not to hurt them 😔. Many days I feel that way too, but keep the faith in God and allow him to transform you from the inside out.
I just got friend zoned by a girl I love today, this helped me thank u
Ergge Bfdfd Don't worry about it man! you'll definitley grow from this experience and thank you for watching and commenting man, i appreciate you sharing that with me :)
Ergge Bfdfd same here :(
Mitchy T keep going man :)
Same, I honestly thought she was the one 😢😥😭
You're lucky. I'm not even good enough to be in the friend zone.
This has been a constant struggle I go thru. Rejection has been so crippling to me that at the age 25 im considering celibacy for the rest of my life. When you been rejected as many times as i have, you wonder if its even worth it. And if you do manage to find someone, you feel like; "well nobody else wanted me, so this guy is going to date someone nobody wants". being single isnt all that bad anyway. Giving your heart to someone is a huge risk.
Dear Sam, I am in your place as well. It's okay. The right person will know your worth. Keep faith. ❤️
I'll love you Sam ♥️♥️
Your not the only one sis
That last sentence sent chills up my spine... very true!!!
You deserve to be loved so don't worry. On a very good day you will meet someone who love's you
hey dude around 3 weeks I ago I told my crush how I felt about her but then got rejected, this video helps me feel better :)
Alex Roman hey man! big respect to you for having the courage to tell her how you feel! that's not always easy but don't sweat it man, this experience will make you stronger ☺.. and I appreciate you commenting man, im honoured this made you feel better :)
Joshua Chisambo Thanks man!
Stay strong king. Work on yourself and learn to love yourself.
First don't try to have strong feelings for the person. Second don't keep asking the person out. Third if they like you as a friend but not romantically get over it. Four think of what you want in someone special. Five don't settle for anyone.
Literally crying about this rn.
did it get better?
sofia aguirre girl I’m so done with him. You learn to get over it and move on
Kennedy Antoinette i wish that were the case for me:( my ex left me yesterday and our 2 years is in 2 weeks :( he said i was clingy and annoying and he couldn’t lie abt his feelings anymore. i thought he was my person and it hurts so much
sofia aguirre and yk I was dealing with a guy who said we were exclusive but he was ready for a relationship for a year. Then found out he was sleeping with someone else. So sometime things don’t go the way we want but you learn to deal with the hits and keep rolling
Me too!
For four years. I've been in love with a woman who doesn't give two shits about me and i was even still in love with her even though I knew the truth. This video makes a whole lot of sense and maybe I'll take this advice to heart.
how you doing now? i went through the same length you went through. it stings, but we'll make it through somehow
@@AiRbaL2000 how are you doing now
@@Mrshoottokill I'm doing excellent, thanks for asking. Met a few more girls and eventually got really close to one. I stopped chasing and hoping for the wrong girl and moved on. It ain't easy, but they're are many good people willing to talk out there.
@@AiRbaL2000 did it just happen or was there some sort of light bulb moment
Please move on same with me and I been working with her move on otherwise you will regret for the rest of your life
He broke up with me the day before Valentine's day 😭I felt so dumb on Valentine's day 🙁 I cried in school in front of everyone thanks to God he wasn't there at the moment bc when I saw him my heart sank 😭 and I tried staying strong in front of him but I just couldn't. I ran out of the class and cried on my own😧😭
Love Ash + I hope your feeling better and find someone better. I got rejected 2 weeks ago and it still hurts bad...
May Phoenix oh I’m sorry to hear that but yes I found the perfect person and it’s my bestfriend . I can’t believe I didn’t see it earlier. But hope you feel better
Love Ash + I'm glad you did, your beautiful, intelligent, and deserve someone to that appreciates what you have to offer.
I've been seeing this woman for 9 months now, I put more time and energy into her than any other woman in the past and she told me she wants to be friends and heal herself. Thank you for this video. Every single day is a struggle to conquer my emotions. It's no easy task and your video is a good guide. Much appreciated!
After over 3 months of not talking to him, my feelings are still hurt so this video helped me a lot
this meee im trying to forget his number
I enjoyed the video!! Life sometimes just doesn’t make sense. Especially, the people that are in it. People will hurt you , and act like you hurt them . 💔😢
Exactly you hit the nail on the head
This really made me feel better
Im glad this encouraged you :)
imma give you an L for this video....
L for Like..
iKayBee yes
L for lovely 😊 and C for cutie and H for Hot :)
all of the steps you said I did them before watching your video and it helped but what caught my ear was when you said about enjoying your own company,making you happy
Priscilla Bless ohh I think that's one if the biggest keys, I'm so glad you picked up in that :D
It's been almost 2 years, I have even been in another relationship during that time and I simply cannot stop thinking about her...
How are you doing now
@@rb757 I am completely dead inside, and I still think about her. It's mostly about reminiscing on a time when I had a soul...
My girlfriend just broke up with me. This really does work and honestly just realize that it is over and move on look forward to what is in the future and don’t look back in the past
I met a guy that had every quality Iv been looking for. We clicked instantly, talked laughed! I wanted to make us official but he didn’t want a relationship. Days weeks then months of back n forth of be my BF and me trying to b his friend hopefully he will finally date me. Well long story short I blew up and told him how I felt, now I’m blocked from everything on his side. And I’m hurt hurt! Was his feelings just lies? If a man likes u and wants you around then what’s the issue? I can’t stop thinking about him!
Well.. I'm in love with my bestfriend and I can't cut her off.
Did you ever tell that person? What happened?
I understand that completely cause I'm in the same situation. But I had to walk away completely cause it was breaking my heart. I lost 50 pounds, I was crying myself to sleep and I was becoming bitter. I finally told him, I couldn't be friends with him anymore. But I'm glad you still have a friendship. Only you know what's best for you
Same
Bro from the first second of your video. I liked your energy immediately :)
Dino Ortolani91 wow! thank you so much man haha, I really appreciate that 😄
I want someone who doesn't want me back .
4:53 so true but its so hard....
So you cannot be completely happy.. until you're happy by yourself. You know what man, that's the reminder I needed, I use to enjoy my own company until I was too dependent on this special girl. But now I remember how happy I was on my own. I appreciate that.
Adore how honest and straight to the point he is; quite helpful!
broke up today... thank you a lot. i'm gonna go out tomorrow and start filming short adventures again.
Great Video! So Positive and True! Happiness comes from within. Don't settle for anyone.
Great video. I have been dealing with this for years. I’m starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel.
Thank you... this gave me the courage to end something that’s been on my mind so hard the past month basically.
A girl isn’t interest in me, not even being friends. This video by u helped me very much and I appreciate you a lot.
I have the same issue ,I’m over here trying to cope 😢
I️ searched in the search bar something very specific. I️ came to this video surprised by how on the spot it was with me. THANK YOU IT HELPS VERY MUCH
Look man, im 3 years late to this video, but I appreciate you big time bossman. Ive been hurt countless times by people i couldnt get over and honestly i just needed to realize that i need to find my own happiness. Youre working wonders my guy thank you fr
Fell in love with a married women whom I started to adore & the feelings felt mutual. I haven't heard from her in a few months. It's best to leave her alone and do my best to live my best life.
Joshua from all the so called life coaches on you tube ur video has made the complete sense simple n practical especially the part where you say that one needs to spend time n be happy with themselves n that draws the right people to u as ur picky n choosy rather than wanting a relationship having a relationship with yourself first...amazing stuff helped me much more than the life coaches out there definitely was a sign for me great work have subscribed love ur video☺👍
I am glad I watched this. Thank you for helping me and others who are going through this. I appreciate it so much. I liked this person for about 3 years now and I'm learning to get over them. Also pointing out things you don't like about the person can actually help you get over them. I watched so many videos because I'm just desperately wanting to move on. But I'm learning. It's strange, it kinda makes me nervous trying to move on. I don't know why. Maybe that's just me being overly emotional. But anyways, again thank you so much. I love you man🌹
this is the kindest reminder that is incredibly empathetic . thanks so much
It's hard to move on when you see them moving on in life and with someone else. but you can't, due to unemployment and having life kick you down constantly. Sometimes I wish life can just fast forward till the day I die, so I won't have to worry about these things.
Please help me I'm so hung up on this person I can't sleep eat focus do anything I'm so miserable and have been for a year.
Lauryn Chandler hit me up on instagram or on snapchat and we can talk. I'll be more than happy to help you :) ( insta: jchizzy23, or snap me @ yochizz23)
@@joshuachisambo5821 Hey ..can I dm u on Instagram?
I’m going through the same situation now, how did you get through it?
I love that Quote!! Great video!!
God you spoke the truth.
minnie cee Haha the truth shall set you free ☺
Thanks man...you really made me feel a bit better when i watched this .Gave me some perspective 👌
Johnmichael Marran you're very welcome man! Im glad it made sense haha, and thank you for commenting :)
I loved this video. Definitely liked and subscribed! You're the Man🦁
Thank you so much for these advices, I think they are very good and you focus on self esteem instead, that was so cool because it's inevitable to think that ti's something wrong about me. I was looking for something that made me feel better and your words did it after being rejected at a company party by a girl who I liked since like six months ago and honestly I needed to hear that it's ok to sorrow for some time
I love your energy man! I don't know where you're from but you spoke the truth.
This was amazing.. This is perfect. Thank you so much. Every word you said was so helpful, I took so many notes. Hopefully in the future when I come back to re-read this comment again, I'll have moved on from my lover x) thank you!
Wayy to go my bro! Those notes will help you! You'll get through it 🙌
This actually helped out a lot, thanks man.
Hello, and thank You for your video. It sounded like from someone who has taken some of these issues in consideration in a mature way. Some good advice. I appreciate your way of putting forth information on the topic.
You honestly made me feel way better thank you 🙌🏽
Diego Miranda you're welcome dude! 😄🙌
I want to thank you so much this is going to help me In the future and now let god bless you on the teachings you have taught these many people who are heartbroken
Cant lie I've been stressing over a bitch who doesn't want me...this literally made me realise what i should do...safe man🤙🏿
Dude you said exactly how I feel..
Jeremy Magee sane brah niggas be going through it
U deserve wayyyy more subs ur such a good UA-camr it rlly rlly helps wish I saw this when I broke up with my ex bare ago
Elle Wills ahh Thank you SOO much! I really appreciate that, and thank you for taking the time to watch the video! and thank you for commenting :D
That moment you have been alone so long you don't even care anymore
This is great and spot on. I have been trying to move on from a guy i grew to really like at work but he doesn't feel the same way. He now has a gf. This advice helps both with the self reflection and dealing with the hurt with not making the cut with him. Thank you :)
Dani Marie thank you! And you get it, it really does make a difference. We learn so much about ourselves through self reflection so you have really hit the nail on the head there
This video is amazing, thank you, it made me cry. It feels so true, the truth hurts 😢
This is actually what I've been looking for! :) I mean I am already letting go of her and this actually confirmed a lot of stuff tht I've been telling myself.. Tnx :D
Thank you so much for sharing some of your truth, homes. I really do appreciate it.
CitySkin09 anytime my man! :)
omg this is such a good video and I'm not even heartbroke lmao
Isabella Encinas hahaha why thank you 😄
This has been very helpful and I'm so very thankful, this was tremendous and it will help me through the rest of my life
Jack Swanson im honoured brother
Thank you so much! I needed this 😌 I feel better already
This has really helped me today, thank you Joshua
Such great advice Joshua! Thank you!
Such wise advice, thank you! X
Thank you so very much you delightfully honest, humbled and vulnerable handsome and with a beautiful spirit! It's awesome to see a video made from a masculine perspective. I feel like we are truly all "ONE"___🌎 and 💔 is the human condition....😭😥😮💨🌹
please do more videos about loving oneself :) God bless you for all you do!
claaarez guizon Request noted! :)
I meant thanks for the advice about writing it in your journal and see how you feel about it later that should really helps man appreciate it
Thank you a lot brother for your clever advices, I'm having hard time trying to forget her because she meant everything for me.. now it's all gone 😪💔 I'll try to stick to your precious advices bro.. Take care.
I know this video is old but it applies today for me. Thank you. It was beautiful and effective advice.
Thank you for this. I was actually happy being by my self before one of these encounters happened. Now I'm trying to over come it.
Thank you Joshua, this helped me a lot!
dimitarie It's all good! im just so happy you got something out of it and I really appreciate you taking the time to watch the videos! I can't say it enough but honestly thank you :)
I really needed to hear this! Thank you
Gio Dickens no problem man! it feels good knowing its helped you 👊
You can be a whole person and still find and attract weirdos...
Literally, going through this. Thanks for the advice.
Thanks for those helping words :)
thankyou man, this helped me so much!
You’re awesome! this honestly helped.
Great content love this and thanks for sharing it .
This helped me a lot, cheers mate
Thankyou I won’t get into another relationship- the emotional destabilising and complete rebuild of your self takes time - you do get there - it’s painfull and the amount of people in this world suffering heartbreak- seems like people are flippant about staying in a relationship. Things get a bit hard, they walk , rather than work it out. Wider community net working now - thru out world - opens more choice of people out there. People don’t stick it out in the hard times - they just drop and pick up elsewhere. Partnership / marriage use to mean something once.....
All of this sounds so easy but its the hardest thing in my life right now. I just don't wanna hurt anymore, I don't wanna be sad anymore, I don't know how to pick myself up.😔
It’s the “AHHHH PATRICIA” for me 😂😂😂. I watch this video weekly, thank so much for the advise!
This young man is brilliant!
Janelle Glass thank you 😄
thank you so much man, you really helped me, I truly mean it
So thankful to find your video. I’ve been having a hard time letting go of a guy for at least a year now. We talk but I don’t know if he’s replying to my messages out of respect 🤷♀️
This is wisdom omg
I’m been going thru this for 3 years , thanks for your advice
Great advice my friend
Thanks for this wonderful video. Was having a hard to move on and forget someone who has been ignoring me for 2weeks now.... i think am already over him. Thanks for the video really help me alot thank you and God bless you
Boys and girls, just love yourself and most importantly your family cuz there's no one greater than family. Love your parents till their last days ❤️
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and who ever you want to manifest within two-days.....♥️♥️♥️
He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯💯
Whatsapp him for help..
What if your family don’t love you
@@PeteS_1994 Him can help you ok
Thank you! This has helped me a lot!
Thank you for this video. This really helps
Thank you so much I am in so much pain and this definitely helped
this is the truest shit ive ever heard... did all of this after my breakup and its really the best thing
Josh ,Thank u so much for ur realistic point of view and logical advice .I m so surprised that u r so underrated .
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate🥰👩❤️👩
He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay🥰😘
Whtsaap him"**???
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Loved this vid😂💕
I got ghosted recently and it actually Hurt because I thought she was mine and really liked her
This is the video I needed to watch, but wow I liked her soo soo much , the last point is the deal though
This helped so much, thank you!!!!
Thanks man. I needed this.