1. Don't beg persuade or pleed, don't interact or message first 2. Forgive, don't wait to live your life go out find your passions 3. Give gratitude for the good things you already have 4. Define exactly what you want (example to get married and have kids) 5. Find a living in the end technique (example visualize, affirm etc) 6. Change your reactions, if something you don't like happens in 3D you control your reactions 7. Self concept affirmations (embody the identity you want), and live by it
I try all this but nothing happens. How do you get into the right mind set? How can one be so certain that it will happen? How can visualise all the things coaches tell you to?
Thank you! 🙏🏾 There’s nothing new under the sun but it’s my intention to bring a different approach to it. I appreciate you taking the time to leave your thoughts.
Great video! Sadly, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The person I thought was the love of my life decided to leave, and I’m still deeply in love with him. I can’t stop thinking about him, and despite all my efforts to win him back, nothing has worked. I feel so frustrated and can’t imagine being with anyone else. No matter what I do, he’s always on my mind, and I miss him terribly.
Same situation 3 months ago. Hardest thing ever and I finally let go and just lived my life, focused on what was in front of me and continued to grow. She been coming back lately. You have to let go and quit trying and just do you. If it’s meant to be, he’ll be back. You have to remember and accept that Gods plan for us are far greater than our plans for us. Trust God and be a good human. Live your life and see other people, don’t isolate. Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can come into place, whether that better thing is him back and a better stronger deeper relationship or someone new or just time for you to grow and add value to life. Just try to let go and choose to be grateful for what you have and live your life. More will be revealed. Hope that helps you!
I have reached out many times through phone calls, texts, emails, and running into her in public. I’m working on forgiving myself for doing all of that. My end is I am in a healthier, stronger, loving and committed marriage with her.
Amazing, i was actually thinking this today cos i was affirming for him for months and nothing. So decided to affirm for me and then your video pops up..thank you so much..love from Dubai
Your channel is one of the best I’ve encountered here on UA-cam. You’re very reassuring. Especially since people who search for LOA are people who are looking for solutions to their problems that seems impossible (but I know it’s not) to fix. I just keep repeating your videos over and over. I keep hearing about fixing your SELF CONCEPT, how do you really do it when you’re feeling so miserable though? When you sob every after word you utter? And what if you’ve already “begged,” will you still be able to redeem yourself?
Thank you for supporting my content. It’s much appreciated! When your feeling miserable, you have to shift your attention to things that do not make you feel miserable. You’re feeling miserable because you’re hyper focusing on the 1-2 things that aren’t going the way you want them to while ignoring the dozens of things that are going your way. The way out is gratitude, everyday for everything that IS going correctly. Begging is not irreversible. This is something I’d have to walk through on a 1on1 session though.
Love this video, Ive always been able to pull my ex back in, but as soon as he comes back I repeat that same old story, and make comments about him leaving again. I realize later, thats what was making him leave. I was happy he was back but always fearful he would leave. I always see the changes in him but clearly no changes were made with me. During no contact I pour into myself and I actually love our no contact 😂. Im less anxious and live my life. Its been a little over a month of no contact, I know hes no going nowhere but I need to make sure I continue to be happy and pour into myself when he comeback.
Thank you so much for sharing this, Shawn. I was seeking out a sign a hint to re-evaluate the whole thing about her. I herby affirm that I trust in myself, my subconscious, and the universe that I don't need to sweat about any of this. I will be the best version of myself that I choose to be and I will win her back when the time is right. I'll come black here when that happened. "The law is perfect, and it never fails " .
I love that you say No Contact is important when manifesting an Ex back because YOU will need the space to grow and fulfill yourself. Again, your SP won't fulfill you. They will only be a reflection of your already fulfilled being
i fw your words bro basically take accountability for who you are and become someone she will be energetically attracted to in order to get her back in your life. i appreciate this video, especially from the perspective of an intellectual black man
This one was actually pretty good and different. I'm going to do this, even though I already started, but its good to know I was on the right path with my thinking.
Thank you! This video was for the men but my audience is majority female 😄 There’s an equivalent video for the ladies: ua-cam.com/video/7PF_kRksji0/v-deo.htmlsi=8SpJFWn4Uzd-K3Lu
My intention is to have him back and love each other better than we did before and I want to marry him. I have also changed my self concept. I know I'm beautiful and valuable! I live my life to the fullest without him. I'm actually experiencing what it feels to "be in love with myself "! ❤
Just finding this video 10 months after you posted and the timing is perfect for me. I’m already married, but she wants out. The points you make still apply to me. I was down feeling hopeless, but I’m encouraged by this now. Thank you for your message my Brother! 🙏🏾
Hi Shawn, damn i was blown away by explanation. This is the first channel that actually breaks it down step by step, trust me I've watched alot and they've left me feeling more confused. Thank you, i just subscribed. God bless 🙏🏼
wow! what a great video. Thank you for all of it. I've been binge watching manifestation videos for almost a month and that one hit home. Appreciate you.
Absolutely, 100% described my situation.... And I absolutely 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 - it's not thay we "get back" - but we actually start new, amazing, fulfilling love and build a family and get married. Thank you SO much for putting up this video. You're fantastic!
So for me to get the deposits of my inheritances I first need to change my self concept: from needy desperate to Creator confident I get what I choose.
Loved it. This applies to any desire one may have which is easy to see because of how well you explained it. Love your channel my dude, keep disciplining. Much love and respect from California.
Yes, this applies to all desires but creators tend to think it’s different when it comes to love. I appreciate you stopping by and giving such great feedback! 🫡💯
You're content is just great. There are many manifestation videos out there but no one really do it in step by step even tho they did it they were not as clear as you. Thank you posting this❤
Great video, very well structured, perfect pacing and awesome content. Quick question on meditating and imagining the end game though... Wouldn't that cause you to hold on to that thought of potential reconciliation for too long, potentionally preventing you from moving on (in case things don't work out)?
Amazing .. Have really come to enjoy your videos. Very informative. The tone of your voice is also soothing, makes it easy to focus on the message. Thank you very much
@Here-Nor-There bro you cant beleive how it happened. 6 months aho i texted her i miss you then she blocked me after that i compeletly gave up on it until i found you I exactly followed your steps. I did gratitude everyday i was enjoying myself meanwhile i was feelng like sh... but i forced myself to enjoy and mind my buisiness. I can say one night i was walking home i was damn hopeless about her comeback i checked her profile pictures meanwhile i was feeling like nothing but sh... i still owned my business. Bro 10 mins later i heard a notification and when i opened it up that was her... i was like wtf?! Am i dreaming or what. She texted me like hey long time no see cutie. So i set up a date with her. Yeaterday i met her. God bless you bro...
We are in love but we can't be together cause shes already dating she told me,that i can't keep waiting for her i should move on ..I didn't respond since she told me that have been silent for weeks what should I do coach still love her ,shes supportive ad caring
Ok. I’ve been watching your videos so sorry to flood you with questions. Your content is so clear and gives me hope. How do we go about when ur with ur SP but their behavior sometimes is upsetting and triggering. Those habits that bothered you before how do u not let it cause conflict and trigger you. I’ve been meditating affirmations for some time now.
Your videos are good. But unfortunately my ex & my child broke up with me a yr ago everything was good with us from what i thought wen he told me the reasons why he broke up with me was immature it was something else i aint say nothing bout it i just sad to him the reason was immature it would've been worked out he aint say nothing just hung up iam not gonna lie iam still hurt because i really love this man we talked bout having a life together marriage everything iam just taking this time to heal again but if its ment for us get back together it happened but iam nlt gonna beg or nothing .but i forgive him through
I am from india. This is my second marriage which is abt to break. We did love marriage and my husband left me for another women. But I am facing humiliation. People blaming me that i couldn't keep up my second marriage also. Its not easy for a women to be alone. I truly loved him that its been 2 years i am fighting to stay with him and he is fighting to get divorce. I dont have anyone to take care of me other than my husband. Its easy to tell give up. But post divorce things are not easy
My ex had accused me of cheating on her with another woman and ended up breaking up with me. She said to me that once we’ve been on a break for a year or longer that we’d get back together and start over again. Do you think she’ll actually wait for me and if she does will we ever date again?
@@cpz.9z because no one in that situation, who actually would want to try again, will know when they will be ready. Her putting a time-frame on it like that is very suspicious. I think its possible she just wants time to hoe around/find another guy(no offense). When she puts it the way she did it gets you out of her hair without being mean, and by the end of that year she can say she's moved on or have a new bf and not talk to you at all
@@Subsonia that’s fair enough it’s just hard for me to move on and get over it since it’s my first ever long term relationship (over a year) and I’m trying to just become a better version of myself whilst she goes out drinking, smoking and doing sexual things with guys this summer. But although it hurt me a lot it gave me a lot of advice on places I can work on it the future for a better relationship such as reconnecting with god and bettering my mental peace.
What's up man, great video! I was wondering if you could give me some advice... I'm in a similar situation to the one you were in, it was my fault, we blocked each other, broke up and it's been over a year, and I recently realized how important she was to me and I'm thinking about trying to get back together. I apologized about 6 months ago but she seemed to have the same energy she did the day we fought. I don't want to come off desperate, and she's not the sensitive type so I don't want to tug on emotions. What was it that you said to your girl that set you two on the path to reconciliation?
I didn’t say anything to her. Reality doesn’t work like that. I changed my thoughts about myself and relationships and that is what triggered a reality of her seeing me different. My community offers support to get you on track! www.skool.com/here-nor-there/about
I didn’t. I did the steps I outlined and she reached out to me once I reached my authentic self - which was already being happy, fulfilled and satisfied with my life before she reached out.
Agree with most of your content...however if a woman is forced to reach out, it puts her in a masculine energy and that is never good. A man should always be the one to contact first! Especially if he is the reason for the separation.
Im usually in agreement with the man doing the pursuing but in this case where she's the one that left the relationship, it would t be ok for him to pursue her. She doesn't want it, so she would need to be the one wanting to communicate with him
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I heard you said no contact but if a child is in the picture
You could also visualize a person close to you telling you congratulations on the new wedding …it makes it easier to believe
There you go! Exactly. It is much easier to visualize moments that confirm what you have rather than the actual moment (i.e. the wedding).
1. Don't beg persuade or pleed, don't interact or message first
2. Forgive, don't wait to live your life go out find your passions
3. Give gratitude for the good things you already have
4. Define exactly what you want (example to get married and have kids)
5. Find a living in the end technique (example visualize, affirm etc)
6. Change your reactions, if something you don't like happens in 3D you control your reactions
7. Self concept affirmations (embody the identity you want), and live by it
I try all this but nothing happens.
How do you get into the right mind set?
How can one be so certain that it will happen?
How can visualise all the things coaches tell you to?
@KyleTheDalek i love you remember yo love yourself and be happy
@@rebecaguemes3354 what?
@@KyleTheDalekit doesn’t work.:the clicks and subscriptions make him money. Don’t be a fool. Just go find another girl if you can’t get yours back.
You're really good. Channel will blow up, same old info of course but so well put/ formatted. Amazing work.
Thank you! 🙏🏾 There’s nothing new under the sun but it’s my intention to bring a different approach to it. I appreciate you taking the time to leave your thoughts.
helllo
agreed!!
Facts 💯
Great video! Sadly, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The person I thought was the love of my life decided to leave, and I’m still deeply in love with him. I can’t stop thinking about him, and despite all my efforts to win him back, nothing has worked. I feel so frustrated and can’t imagine being with anyone else. No matter what I do, he’s always on my mind, and I miss him terribly.
Wow, that’s incredible! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him?
Thank you so much for the suggestion you have no idea how much this means to me.
Same situation 3 months ago. Hardest thing ever and I finally let go and just lived my life, focused on what was in front of me and continued to grow. She been coming back lately. You have to let go and quit trying and just do you. If it’s meant to be, he’ll be back. You have to remember and accept that Gods plan for us are far greater than our plans for us. Trust God and be a good human. Live your life and see other people, don’t isolate. Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can come into place, whether that better thing is him back and a better stronger deeper relationship or someone new or just time for you to grow and add value to life. Just try to let go and choose to be grateful for what you have and live your life. More will be revealed. Hope that helps you!
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That is soo sweet 😍
@@KaitlinStephanspam
I have reached out many times through phone calls, texts, emails, and running into her in public.
I’m working on forgiving myself for doing all of that. My end is I am in a healthier, stronger, loving and committed marriage with her.
Goodness me! This channel is awesome, he’s talking like he’s coaching us my goodness I’m subscribing now
Welcome aboard! 🫶🏾
This video works.
It teaches you to let go of everything & embrace confidence in yourself.
Wow! Where were you all this time?? You’re very good.
i’m coming back with a success story!
You really reverse-engineered tffff outta this! 🔧 I enjoy how you structure your thoughts & teachings. Thank you for sharing!
🤣 💀 That’s what I do! I’m just grateful that I’m finally putting it to good use. Thank you!
This resonated with me on a deep level 💯💯💯💯
Amazing, i was actually thinking this today cos i was affirming for him for months and nothing. So decided to affirm for me and then your video pops up..thank you so much..love from Dubai
You are so welcome
Your channel is one of the best I’ve encountered here on UA-cam. You’re very reassuring. Especially since people who search for LOA are people who are looking for solutions to their problems that seems impossible (but I know it’s not) to fix. I just keep repeating your videos over and over.
I keep hearing about fixing your SELF CONCEPT, how do you really do it when you’re feeling so miserable though? When you sob every after word you utter? And what if you’ve already “begged,” will you still be able to redeem yourself?
Thank you for supporting my content. It’s much appreciated!
When your feeling miserable, you have to shift your attention to things that do not make you feel miserable. You’re feeling miserable because you’re hyper focusing on the 1-2 things that aren’t going the way you want them to while ignoring the dozens of things that are going your way. The way out is gratitude, everyday for everything that IS going correctly.
Begging is not irreversible. This is something I’d have to walk through on a 1on1 session though.
@@Here-Nor-There the info for you 1on1 isn’t on UA-cam?
Love this video, Ive always been able to pull my ex back in, but as soon as he comes back I repeat that same old story, and make comments about him leaving again. I realize later, thats what was making him leave. I was happy he was back but always fearful he would leave. I always see the changes in him but clearly no changes were made with me. During no contact I pour into myself and I actually love our no contact 😂. Im less anxious and live my life. Its been a little over a month of no contact, I know hes no going nowhere but I need to make sure I continue to be happy and pour into myself when he comeback.
Thank you so much for sharing this, Shawn. I was seeking out a sign a hint to re-evaluate the whole thing about her.
I herby affirm that I trust in myself, my subconscious, and the universe that I don't need to sweat about any of this. I will be the best version of myself that I choose to be and I will win her back when the time is right. I'll come black here when that happened.
"The law is perfect, and it never fails " .
I love your attitude! 🙌
Man thank you for this video it actually calmed me down and helped me relax and your instructions were so clear and direct.
I love that you say No Contact is important when manifesting an Ex back because YOU will need the space to grow and fulfill yourself. Again, your SP won't fulfill you. They will only be a reflection of your already fulfilled being
I love this comment! Thank you for leaving this wonderful insight and wifey and I thank you for the well wishes ❤️
i fw your words bro basically take accountability for who you are and become someone she will be energetically attracted to in order to get her back in your life. i appreciate this video, especially from the perspective of an intellectual black man
I am glad it resonated with you!
yo - this channel is awesome. thank you so much for sharing
Thank you! 🙏🏾
You are a solid dude. You have a new follower.
🫡 I appreciate you
This one was actually pretty good and different. I'm going to do this, even though I already started, but its good to know I was on the right path with my thinking.
You have such a calm and reasurring voice. I was feeling anxious before watching your video and now I feel at ease. Thank you 🙏🏼
Even though your audience seems to be men, this resonated! The best explanation I’ve come across
Thank you! This video was for the men but my audience is majority female 😄 There’s an equivalent video for the ladies: ua-cam.com/video/7PF_kRksji0/v-deo.htmlsi=8SpJFWn4Uzd-K3Lu
@@Here-Nor-There ohh okay 😅 thanks for the link too!
this channel is gold
Love your work, brother
Grateful for You!
🫡 🙏🏾
Aww, the doggy in the back is so cute.
Implementing these starting now 🙏🏾
You got this 💪🏽
Your channel is going to blow up! I just found your channel today and you explain things so very well! Thank you Shawn!!
Thank you for the much appreciated prediction! I’m glad we’ve found each other! More to come! 👏🏾
My intention is to have him back and love each other better than we did before and I want to marry him. I have also changed my self concept. I know I'm beautiful and valuable! I live my life to the fullest without him. I'm actually experiencing what it feels to "be in love with myself "! ❤
I'd love to hear your success story when it happens!
So much this!
this !!!!
Claim this❤
This was an amazing video
All facts great vid
Just finding this video 10 months after you posted and the timing is perfect for me. I’m already married, but she wants out. The points you make still apply to me. I was down feeling hopeless, but I’m encouraged by this now. Thank you for your message my Brother! 🙏🏾
You’re welcome! It’s never too late for transformation! 🙏🏾
Hi Shawn, damn i was blown away by explanation. This is the first channel that actually breaks it down step by step, trust me I've watched alot and they've left me feeling more confused. Thank you, i just subscribed. God bless 🙏🏼
Perfect. Thanks 👐
You're welcome!
wow! what a great video. Thank you for all of it. I've been binge watching manifestation videos for almost a month and that one hit home. Appreciate you.
I am so glad you resonate with it! 🙌🏾
I like that you explain to me everything in a way that's easy to understand
Wonderful!
Absolutely, 100% described my situation.... And I absolutely 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 - it's not thay we "get back" - but we actually start new, amazing, fulfilling love and build a family and get married.
Thank you SO much for putting up this video. You're fantastic!
Thank you!
Wow that was really good and I really needed to hear this. 🙏🏽❤️😌
I’ve watched a few of these, I think this is the best one! Thank you!
Love this! my sp will be my husband!!!
You've got this! 🙌
You’re right. There’s only love & fear ✨
So for me to get the deposits of my inheritances I first need to change my self concept: from needy desperate to Creator confident I get what I choose.
I don't want him back 😅😂🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 I'm here alllllllllllll for me
POWERFUL!!!!
I really enjoyed listening to this and the tips. Subscribed 😊
Welcome! Thank you!
Loved it. This applies to any desire one may have which is easy to see because of how well you explained it. Love your channel my dude, keep disciplining. Much love and respect from California.
Yes, this applies to all desires but creators tend to think it’s different when it comes to love. I appreciate you stopping by and giving such great feedback! 🫡💯
@@Here-Nor-There Yes Sir, so true. Thank you!!
@@Here-Nor-There and congratulations on the engagement!!!!
You're content is just great. There are many manifestation videos out there but no one really do it in step by step even tho they did it they were not as clear as you. Thank you posting this❤
I'm so glad it resonated with you! 🙌🏾
This video just popped up on me at time I really needed it. Appreciate the video!
you’re fkn incredible. absolute mastermind delivery and coherent storytelling. THANK YOU
Very good video my friend i appreciate it! Keep it going!!
Yessir! 💯
Well spoken buddy, keep it up
Much appreciated! 🫡
So incredibly good I had to rewatch it right after I finished
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Excellent 👌
Thank You again step 3❤❤❤
Thank you for this structured information! 99% of LOA ex back videos are just scattered ramblings.
Thank you! I lived it so it’s much easier to speak on
This video is sooooo awesoooomeee! Thank you!
Glad it helped!
Yes, I'm sure!! You said her name in one video ( all the proof i needed)
Thanks for this great video! Helped me a lot.. i have just broken up and feel like sh*t but i will follow your advices…
I have everything I desire.
Isn't it wonderful.
I am grateful.
Thank you. 🙏🙏
Great video, very well structured, perfect pacing and awesome content. Quick question on meditating and imagining the end game though... Wouldn't that cause you to hold on to that thought of potential reconciliation for too long, potentionally preventing you from moving on (in case things don't work out)?
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This was awesome. Thank you! 🙏
You’re welcome!
Thank you for sharing
Amazing video! Wow simple and easy. I’ll be back 😉
This was such a fantastic summary
Amazing .. Have really come to enjoy your videos. Very informative. The tone of your voice is also soothing, makes it easy to focus on the message.
Thank you very much
And it actually worked thank you!
Congrats! Would love to hear your story on our next livestream
@Here-Nor-There bro you cant beleive how it happened. 6 months aho i texted her i miss you then she blocked me after that i compeletly gave up on it until i found you I exactly followed your steps. I did gratitude everyday i was enjoying myself meanwhile i was feelng like sh... but i forced myself to enjoy and mind my buisiness. I can say one night i was walking home i was damn hopeless about her comeback i checked her profile pictures meanwhile i was feeling like nothing but sh... i still owned my business. Bro 10 mins later i heard a notification and when i opened it up that was her... i was like wtf?! Am i dreaming or what. She texted me like hey long time no see cutie. So i set up a date with her. Yeaterday i met her. God bless you bro...
@@white_heaven9372how's things now
This was a great video. Very clear and to the point. So glad I found your channel!
Great vidéo bro
So glad I found you
Me too!
This was a really succinct, but and exactly what I needed. Thank you, sir.
Thank you 🙏🏾
Phenomenal
This is such awesome advice 🔥
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New subscriber!
Welcome aboard! 🙏🏾
Thank u! U got my subscription
Glad to have it! 🙏🏾
We are in love but we can't be together cause shes already dating she told me,that i can't keep waiting for her i should move on ..I didn't respond since she told me that have been silent for weeks what should I do coach still love her ,shes supportive ad caring
Thanks a lot for your good videos❤
Glad you like them!
Excellent! Just Excellent 👌
Wow thank you!!
You're welcome!!
Thank you 🙏🏽 ❤ BEST ON YT THUS FAR!!!!
masterpiece, nothing to say about, perfect speak ! thanks bro
Thank you brother! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I love this! Thank you ❤
You're so welcome!
Beautiful
Thank you
Sending love and peace from Barbados💪🏾💯🇧🇧
Ok. I’ve been watching your videos so sorry to flood you with questions. Your content is so clear and gives me hope. How do we go about when ur with ur SP but their behavior sometimes is upsetting and triggering. Those habits that bothered you before how do u not let it cause conflict and trigger you. I’ve been meditating affirmations for some time now.
Sometimes its best to take a break from them (if you can) so it can allow your mind to view them (and yourself) differently.
I love my SP.. I want my SP...Only my SP... Thank you so much for your help.. Really appreciate your video's.. Thank you..
Your voice is so soothing and hypnotic 🫶🏼
Haaaa! Thank you 😊 🙏🏾
Watching this video after 3 months is hitting different
Oh!?
Your videos are good. But unfortunately my ex & my child broke up with me a yr ago everything was good with us from what i thought wen he told me the reasons why he broke up with me was immature it was something else i aint say nothing bout it i just sad to him the reason was immature it would've been worked out he aint say nothing just hung up iam not gonna lie iam still hurt because i really love this man we talked bout having a life together marriage everything iam just taking this time to heal again but if its ment for us get back together it happened but iam nlt gonna beg or nothing .but i forgive him through
I am from india. This is my second marriage which is abt to break. We did love marriage and my husband left me for another women. But I am facing humiliation. People blaming me that i couldn't keep up my second marriage also. Its not easy for a women to be alone. I truly loved him that its been 2 years i am fighting to stay with him and he is fighting to get divorce. I dont have anyone to take care of me other than my husband. Its easy to tell give up. But post divorce things are not easy
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Hi Coach! Is it possible to manifest an SP after a second breakup?
Yup!
My ex had accused me of cheating on her with another woman and ended up breaking up with me. She said to me that once we’ve been on a break for a year or longer that we’d get back together and start over again. Do you think she’ll actually wait for me and if she does will we ever date again?
She won't. That type of behavior is a major red flag. Stay as far away as possible
How comes it’s a red flag?
@@cpz.9z because no one in that situation, who actually would want to try again, will know when they will be ready. Her putting a time-frame on it like that is very suspicious. I think its possible she just wants time to hoe around/find another guy(no offense). When she puts it the way she did it gets you out of her hair without being mean, and by the end of that year she can say she's moved on or have a new bf and not talk to you at all
@@Subsonia that’s fair enough it’s just hard for me to move on and get over it since it’s my first ever long term relationship (over a year) and I’m trying to just become a better version of myself whilst she goes out drinking, smoking and doing sexual things with guys this summer. But although it hurt me a lot it gave me a lot of advice on places I can work on it the future for a better relationship such as reconnecting with god and bettering my mental peace.
What if your blocked, chased for a year, and was threatened with a restraining order, and now it’s been a year of no contact lol
Let’s start with making sure you didn’t manifest yourself onto a restraining order first 😂 then we can proceed
What's up man, great video! I was wondering if you could give me some advice... I'm in a similar situation to the one you were in, it was my fault, we blocked each other, broke up and it's been over a year, and I recently realized how important she was to me and I'm thinking about trying to get back together. I apologized about 6 months ago but she seemed to have the same energy she did the day we fought. I don't want to come off desperate, and she's not the sensitive type so I don't want to tug on emotions. What was it that you said to your girl that set you two on the path to reconciliation?
I didn’t say anything to her. Reality doesn’t work like that. I changed my thoughts about myself and relationships and that is what triggered a reality of her seeing me different.
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@Here-Nor-There Thanks man
Curious as to how you reconnected with your fiancé? How did you initiate that?
I didn’t. I did the steps I outlined and she reached out to me once I reached my authentic self - which was already being happy, fulfilled and satisfied with my life before she reached out.
Agree with most of your content...however if a woman is forced to reach out, it puts her in a masculine energy and that is never good. A man should always be the one to contact first! Especially if he is the reason for the separation.
Disagree. Have a nice day!
Partially agree but there could also be circumstances where u end up reaching her or vice vera. But what happens will be the best for u.
@@Here-Nor-Thereit is masculine for a woman to do that, I’ve felt horribly masculine every time I was forced to
Im usually in agreement with the man doing the pursuing but in this case where she's the one that left the relationship, it would t be ok for him to pursue her. She doesn't want it, so she would need to be the one wanting to communicate with him
I used to say that master Oogway quote all the time… synchronicity.
What if you have made all the mistakes, by contacting, chasing, all of the wrong things under the sun, and it’s been more than ten years?
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Did it in first place ( all those miserable begging) . Am i still in a position to get him back😞
does this work even if you're blocked everywhere?