@haninkurdi450 I know it sounds completely mad, but I just knew (and I don't believe in anything like that, if it were one of my friends I'd have been red flagging them!) I rang my closest family member to tell them I'd met my soul mate the next day. He says he knew too... I still don't quite believe it tbh! 🤣
As a fellow 30 year old- Christian also dating a Korean Christian whose father is a missionary (with the intent to marry after dating 1 year), her story resonated with me. I am personally happy to hear that they chose to be responsible and do pre-marital counseling given the really short courting period. I understand but do caution and hope they stick to “dating” and getting to know one another, as people bring a lot of trauma/baggage and it takes time to understand who you are in a relationship and what you are setting yourself up for when seeking a partner. Marriage is a serious life commitment and should not be taken lightly or “glorified” especially during the ‘honeymoon’ phase of a relationship. Remember to always keep God at the center and may He bless your marriage!
You said a mouthful and I agree 100%. Not that my opinion matters but I think people show wait to really see if they want to get married after the honeymoon phase of dating wears off a bit
You said what most of us are thinking in the nicest way possible! But, ultimately they’re old enough to know what they want in life. Wishing them the best.
I agree wholeheartedly, I got proposed to and married within 2 months. We had to get to know each other within the marriage which was difficult and draining. It 6 years later, still here by the grace of God. But not the same. 2 months is not enough time to learn his true nature and intentions. Mens true nature comes out the moment you say yes. Really ask yourself if you can trust this man with your entire life, spiritual, mental, physical, financial...As in you can close your eyes and let him live or make decisions for you until death do you part. As christian once we women say yes. Your vowels hold you are giving up the most. So on top of premarital counseling study the wedding vows as well an consider a really long engagement. I know my opinion doesn't matter, but i know i would've loved to see a note to make me think like this prior to saying yes & marrying within 2 months.
Yes, but also keep in mind that wether a Christian or not people can make some changes in life later on in life (not that marriage when that happens should end), changes can happen and you both grow within marriage. It's a serious and enjoyable serious relationship sacred union of two people one man and one woman where there can and usually will be changes like growth and ect. You live life together while having Christ as your foundation and pray together and whenever separately and read and study God's word together and also whenever separately and follow Christ on a daily dying to your flesh and living how Christ wants you to live. More to say, but hopefully many get the idea.
Dry the flowers out from the proposal and then put them in a vase later as dried flower arrangement. That way you can save them forever. Thats what i did with my wedding bouqet and i treasure it 😊. Congratulations!
I think you can also try to look for resin preserved dry flowers. Air can damage flowers but in resin they should last longer. You can have even a necklace made from it. 🌹
I did the same thing!! I dried up my bouquet, framed it and it's been on our living room wall for the past 3 years :) So beautiful 🥰 Congratulations, Kieun!
I’m so proud of you. Many don’t talk about this but when a man and woman know what they want this is the result. I’m 47, black and educated and met my husband when I was 18 years old. First year in college and he proposed to me 4 months after dating and married 9 months later right before my sophomore year in college. We’re celebrating our 29th anniversary this year and still love being with one another. It’s all about priorities and learning how to adjust and grow as time go. We all change but it’s up to you to change with it. Congratulations to you both and enjoy one another.
@@user-qu8zs7vs1x or you can date 10 years and get married for 3 years only to know your partner is not the one for you. When you see someone share a good news, just be happy and wish them the best. Dont rain on someone’s parade.
It is different as you are both a bit older, financially stable, life is on track, communicating etc. I knew my husband was the one the first time I saw him, he said he knew as well and that first time literally was us passing on the stairs. By the way it was leap year so I asked him out😂 and he said yes. We were together just short of 50 years. ❤ Congratulations, can’t wait to see the wedding arrangements.
I personally think it's way too soon to get enganged. But I don't try to be mean. I just think that it can always feel like you have met the right person that earily in the relationship. I have been in love with 3 different guys in my life (I'm 33 now) and it has felt that way in the beginning every time. It can fade pretty quick. But it's absolutely your life and I wish you the best :) If it doesn't work out, it can still be a good ride and a memory for life. So everyone to each taste. We only live once so if it feels right, it can be worth it either way :)
Have you had a major disagreement/fight yet? Personally, I feel like it's necessary to really butt heads on a subject at least once before getting married. I think it's important to know how you and your partner handle disagreements. Just my opinion. Good luck!
My husband and I were married 3months, 2weeks & 3 days from the day we met! We just celebrated our 20th Year Anniversary!!! When you know you know. Our faith has been the foundation of our relationship and it has only grown stronger over these 20 years. Wishing you both the very best! So happy for you! ❤❤
I’m not religious/woman of faith at all, but a lot of the Christian comments resonate with me. I feel that if both parties know what they want and why they’re in a relationship and approach it with a certain maturity, knowing each other for only a short time can be enough to evaluate you want to build a lifetime commitment with each other. Congratulations - I’m so happy for you both 🎉❤
This is amazing. I just started watching your videos and I saw one yesterday that you mentioned how you haven’t been to church since college because you just haven’t felt the calling yet and now you’re going to church since you’ve met him. ❤ he has obviously been a piece of you that you have been missing. Yay!
Congratulations!! This is so amazing! I also met my husband and just knew we got engaged 5 months after and married 4 months after that. We have been happily married for 11 years now and have 3 beautiful kids. May you be so blessed in your marriage!
It is indeed that waiting season is preparing you for something you'll never expected. And you know, when the right person loves you in the right time, everything will run so smoothly. God bless you two, darling! Congratulations 🎉
omg i’m so happy for you i might actually cry 🥺 congratulations angel. you deserve the most genuine, pure love, and i see the word “happiness” shines so brightly on both of your eyes (even tho his face is always blurred lol) when you’re together. i love you so much honestly
Wow! This makes me so emotional😭❤️I remember how in one of your videos you shared some fears about getting older and not being where you thought you should have been. This is a perfect example of how God is always ALWAYS on time. Congratulations!😊
Okay, I was all giddy throughout the Q&A and could see how much you guys like each other even though I still think 2 months is way too fast 😭 I guess we’re all just protective of you. It would have been nice to at least go through 2 fights/stressful situation just to see how you guys would react in that moment. I feel like the first few months of dating you’re ofc gonna show your best attributes because you’re trying to win over the other person. We love to see you happy, but it’s still hard to shake off my skepticism 🥲
That's exactly how I feel!! I love that they both went into it with this intention, but you really don't know someone until you've spent at LEAST a year with them going through different circumstances... They haven't even experienced more than one season it's literally still winter lol
@emilyyyyyy420 i'm totally on board about experiencing more and learning about the other person, but how do u know they haven't had conflict / were about to work it out or already discussed things that took other people much longer to figure out sure you need time to know someone, but i don't think that we as third parties should impose these kind of regulatory perceptions on how other people manage their relationships. also, they already did it anyways, nothing we say is going to undo her very intentional decisions. people can disagree with her choices without judgement
My feeling is, if you know, you know. You are two mature, responsible adults, and I'm sure you feel secure in your decision. So, congratulations and God bless you both.❤❤❤
A christian here myself! Just wanna say how wonderful it is that the Lord brought you two together! Was so so happy to see your recent videos Kieun and so happy to know you're both being so intentional about dating and pursuing Christ together too!
I think as 30 years old couple ppl usually know what they want to find in someone. So its pretty normal time to have engaged! ❤ Im so happy for you! ❤🎉
Omg the story of how you caught him trying to arrange the proposal is too cute, that will forever be a funny memorable moment for you guys. Congrats to both of you can't wait to see you guys get married! 🥰
I’ve been watching you and your channel grow on UA-cam for the past 4-5 years and this made me so emotional im so happy for you Kieun I can’t wait to see you guys embark on this new chapter together 🥹 Congratulations I cannot wait to see where the future takes you and thank you for trusting us and sharing these moments with us! 🖤
How I knew my husband was The One, was realizing that he had attributes I didn't realize I wanted and needed on my list. We ended up getting married in Seoul last year August. The best parts of our relationship lie in the imperfect moments, that made everything perfect for us.
I have some worry about how quickly everything is happening, but yes, it’s your life and congratulations on your engagement! I’m just glad that after marriage you’ll both take things slow before having kids. I really hope you’ll be very happy together!
Oh and the flowers you got are beautiful and how you decorated for the proposal were awesome!! Looking forward to following your life as a married couple!!
It’s your story ❤️ whether you’re together for a long time or not it has to feel right in your heart. Just know that you can change the story anytime you want, everyone else is just a reader outside your major circles. Sending you so many congratulations and love!
Awww. *teary eyes*. Honestly, love really finds you, that's what I realize more while watching this. So happy when I found out you started dating then super shocked about the proposal but all in all sooooooooooooo sooooooooooooo happy for the both of you.
Congratulations! The way you talk about your relationship is very mature. I have been married for over 10 years and only 34 years old. Listening to you was a very pleasant. So dating for 2 month only and getting married is not something someone should ever judge you. They are people who date longer and aren’t as mature as you are. 3 Keys to successful marriage: 1. Communication 2. Trust 3. Laugher
I don't believe you should be judged for your choices or "early" proposal. when you are at this age, you know what you want, you know what you don't like, and sometimes everything falls perfectly into place for you. wishing you and fiancé a happy life and marriage! you've been through a lot...and you absolutely deserve this happiness.
Old enough, yes! Unfortunately, just saw another Christian UA-camr date/marry within few months. Divorce a year later she’s in her 30s with a teen. We’re too old to be making rash decisions like a young 18-21 yr old
I met my husband in January and went on our first breakfast date in March😂 and got married in November same year ❤ we’re both born again Christian’s!! This year will be 40 years being married 🙏🏼🥰 I’m guaranteed subscriber 🤗
I’ve been watching you for years. I won’t lie, I am shocked and a bit taken back. But at the same time happy for you! Love is beautiful and I wish you nothing but love and care ❤ congrats girly!💕
Come on...everyone is thinking it...but this is just soo sooo fast..of course eveyone wants her happiness but this is just sooo weird. How can u know a person in just 2 months
Had to stop the video to say, My husband and I got married after only dating for less then a year of knowing each other and now we are getting ready to celebrate our 30th wedding anniversary. Just make to say I love you daily and always stand together thru everything good or bad you will get thru it.
Honestly super happy for you. I started following you right after you left Korea and moved to LA. You were going through some stuff personally, and I think you’ve had enough time to decide who you’d want to spend the rest of your life with. So once they’ve shown up, you KNOW. Only you yourself know, not anyone else who just sees your relationship through their phone/iPad/computer. And if you decide he’s the one, then he’s the one!
So happy for you!!! When you know you know. I got engaged after 6 months of dating but we both knew after 1-2 month this was it. Now 5 years later and with a beautiful 1 year old going strong!
Oooohhh myyyy goooosshhh Im so happy for you! Flashback the day I started following you at that time you were single and there was this one vid and was talking about your past relationship that was very toxic....and look at you now! Oh my gosh! Congratulations! Manifesting really works!
So happy for you guys, though you might not ever see this, with over 550 comments and counting hopefully. Absolutely love all that is happening for you Kieun. Love love love to you both all of your lives. Congratulations.
some people date forever and divorce right after the wedding and others marry right away and last a life time. I met my husband and we married in less than a year. Here we are 12 years married
I know so many couples that dated over 10 years before marrying and divorced within a year after the wedding. Honestly I feel like waiting for so long might rather be a bad sign for a couple. Kinda means that you're never sure and could potentially still be looking out for someone else.. 😅
my parents... they married in less than 6 months (courthouse) and are now 48 years married. I think this Dating-Culture is wierd as hell... some date for 2-5 years... i mean, i you dont know after 1 year if you want to marry this person, than there is a reason for that so dont waste your own time and their time! 🤣
I know you thing what I am about to say is being judging, or raining on your happiness but honestly what I am about to say is more of wisdom. Please wait a year before you go threw with your marriage. You really don't know him or weather or not you are truly compatible. Love in the beginning is wonderful and full of warmth and happiness but after 2 years that is when the true test of compatibly shows.
I knew the proposal was coming I actually saw her ring in the picture she post before the engagement. I also got proposed after 2 months of dating we’ve married for 5 years now. I’m so happy for her
Hi! I just recently found your channel and well I've been with my man for like 10 years. Not feeling rushed to have kids is exactly how you know this is already beautiful relationship! I've been enjoying "us" time for 9 years (to clarify we started dating when we were 19/20). Take your time and have kids whenever you feel best. ❤ CONGRATS. Thank you for sharing this with us 🎉
While I am really happy for you, I hope you also do remember that marriage is also about loving and choosing each other when you both are at your worst. Marriage is never going to be sunshine and rainbow all the time - it’s about how you get through serious hardships together and still choose one another above all else. And there is no such thing as ideal types - everyone has flaws. I hope you are getting married with these in mind as well.
Huge congrats Kieun! It's so beautiful to see that you found an everlasting love and a life partner. I remembered in a few of your L.A. vlogs when you disclosed a bit of the struggles you faced in that relationship, I was utterly gobsmacked because I couldn't fathom how a kind-hearted and loving soul like you could have met such sad experience(s). But I was so proud and happy to see you happy again, going through healing and growth and, loving so fully and openly😭... Okay, I'll stop now. Thank you for sharing your private life with us and I am glad you two found each other. You both literally manifested each other and with the healing and growth, the timing finally aligned and I wish you both a happy and blissful marriage life. ...I am looking forward to the VA uploads.
I have mixed feelings about this but, just two months after becoming an official couple and not knowing each other before that? that is so quick. I hope you stay together for a long time I truly wish you both the best of luck, please be happy and safe. 🥰
Only 2 months, hope you watched who TF did I marry, he might be trying to mega trap you. I wish you happiness but please be safe first. You don't have to rush, you shouldn't be pressured to rush into marriage. Please get to know yourself and get to know him beyond his words and the actions he presents to you.
I am sure she's aware of the dangers, I think in one video she mentioned that she dated a narcissist for 3 years. So we can trust her instincts. Also being a Christian, you can trust you're om the right path because God directs you and he's gracious enough to make things obvious for you. and family is one thing that plays into it, unless the whole family including hers is love bombing her she'll be fine.
Congrats Kieun, such exciting news! I totally resonate with this; I met my husband off Tinder in October of last year & we got married on December 30th. It’s been wonderful & I’ve honestly been so happy. When you know, you just know. I wish you both an immense amount of love & happiness for the rest of your lives.♥️
Sooooo happy for you Kieun 🥺 Been following you for so long ❤ The flowers from the proposal can last forever!! You just have to let them dry upside down ☺
Congratulations!!! Please don’t worry about anyone Judging you, you’re fabulous! When men know, they KNOW! They don’t wait 5-6 years!!!!! Finding love in your late 20s-30s is a blessing! And you’re so deserving!! And I can’t wait to see your wedding!!
When you fall in love, dopamine is secreted from the brain’s nucleus, and you feel much joy and happiness. Naturally, there will be liveliness and more smiles on your face and the world looks bright and beautiful. As you feel good, you will become generous even with the matters you usually got annoyed or irritated with. You do not see the disadvantages of the loved one but see only good things. This phenomenon is called the pink lens effect in psychology. Just like you wear pink glasses, the person you love looks adorable no matter what he or she does. How good would it be if the glasses were not taken off forever? The validity period of the pink lens effect is three years at most. There must be difference among people, but you gradually come to see the weakness of the other person over time, and what you regarded as strong points of the other person begins to look like disadvantage. In actuality, the other person is the same as he or she was, but your mind has changed. But real love develops from the moment on. If the two accept each other as he or she is and cover their weakness and are considerate of each other, the love and trust that have been firm in them won’t expire.
bro--in our religion, we got married even before knowing each other deeply, y'all so shocked about this T_T can't you just be happy for her? gosh these comments are so sad...
Tbh our society has messed up the way people look at marriage. People used to get married right away because love was real. Now that love seems to be fake people just say “let’s live together but never get married.” The beauty about marriage is that you can grow together during the marriage and if you’re in love with that person marrying quickly shouldn’t be judged or looked down upon. It’s each persons preference but it’s beautiful that they fell in love quickly.
@@lizbaker7527 marriage is a huge commitment, you have to be sure. Good on her if it feels right, but i wouldn't make a big commitment like this with someone i barely know, and it has nothing to do with love being real or not.
You don’t NEED to be married to prove your love, it’s just a (legally binding) piece of paper. And this is coming from someone who wants to be married.
@@aquagamer1212 and that’s your own opinion… that piece of paper doesn’t prove your love but the marriage can. Because the man and the woman are making a promise to be with each other and no one else. A common relationship doesn’t make those boundaries. That’s why our society is so jacked up right now. Everybody wants to have sex with everybody but not just love one person. People are scared of “marriage” because they’re scared of “commitment.” So my point in commenting that was saying to let them be even if they want to get married fast. No one should judge them for that just because our society thinks “marriage” is dumb.
I'm so happy for you! You have so many things working in your favor: you are old enough to know who you are and what you want in life, you have similar upbringing/culture, and the most important thing: faith. You will be amazing! I'm so excited!
Christians are wild. y'all started dating immediately after meeting each other on a blind date and now engagement after 2 months. he wasn't even your friend before do y'all even know each other😅
my exact thoughts , she often said she thought she’d be married by now because she was in her 30s. kinda seems like they both rushed but at the same time they probably clicked together extremely fast because i’ve seen that happened in real life
Congratulations! Haven’t follow this channel for a few months and today it’s surprising to hear this good news. You look much more better than the time you were in LA. Guess you must have a great time in Seoul
I’m so teary eyed watching this! Maybe time is a factor to some people but when you meet the one, THAT’S IT. I wish you both so much love and happiness in faith of your lives together. All the best! Omg I’m going to tear up again. Happiness is beautiful on you Kieun ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I was like 😮 through the whole video. So surprised but so happy for you. Congratulations to you both 🥂🎉 And when you showed the clip of you walking out in the wedding dress and you turned around toward the camera I was like 😲😯😭😭 I gasped, my mouth dropped open and I said aloud "Oh my God she looks so beautiful....stunning!!! I have a daughter a few years older than you so watching you made me think of my daughter. You looked so beautiful. Brought tears to my eyes. I imagine how your parents felt seeing that. I'm excited to watch the upcoming videos of the wedding planning process and excited to watch your wedding. Thank you for including us in this major event in your life. 🙏
Congratulations, Girl! So so so happy to see your wide smile from the bottom of your hear. It was really amazing to get to know your story. Looking forward to the wedding prep vlogs. Wishing you both lots of love and happiness❤❤
By the way - it’s the second time I’m watching this now. First I didn’t get it as well but now, I just met someone and we both feel the same way as them. People think we are going to fast. I understand now hence I’m watching for the second time ☺️
"Your proposal is much faster than the furniture" HAHAHA this table has to be at the wedding!! 😂❤
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LOL this comment took me out. but you didn't even lie though!
She needs a prenup asap.
It's a dreamer catch xD
lmaooooooooooooooo
My blind date proposed after a week, we married 6 months later. This October we celebrate 19 years of marriage ❤ God bless you both x
but how?? did it not scare you! I mean this suddent change so quckly..
@haninkurdi450 I know it sounds completely mad, but I just knew (and I don't believe in anything like that, if it were one of my friends I'd have been red flagging them!) I rang my closest family member to tell them I'd met my soul mate the next day. He says he knew too... I still don't quite believe it tbh! 🤣
Beautiful. I got proposes to two weeks after our first date. It's been 28 years now for us ❤❤.
Oh😊 you are lucky I am scared I have children
@godwinchidi9439 I had a grown up son, he gave me his blessing 🙌
As a fellow 30 year old- Christian also dating a Korean Christian whose father is a missionary (with the intent to marry after dating 1 year), her story resonated with me. I am personally happy to hear that they chose to be responsible and do pre-marital counseling given the really short courting period. I understand but do caution and hope they stick to “dating” and getting to know one another, as people bring a lot of trauma/baggage and it takes time to understand who you are in a relationship and what you are setting yourself up for when seeking a partner. Marriage is a serious life commitment and should not be taken lightly or “glorified” especially during the ‘honeymoon’ phase of a relationship. Remember to always keep God at the center and may He bless your marriage!
Well said!
You said a mouthful and I agree 100%. Not that my opinion matters but I think people show wait to really see if they want to get married after the honeymoon phase of dating wears off a bit
You said what most of us are thinking in the nicest way possible! But, ultimately they’re old enough to know what they want in life. Wishing them the best.
I agree wholeheartedly, I got proposed to and married within 2 months. We had to get to know each other within the marriage which was difficult and draining. It 6 years later, still here by the grace of God. But not the same. 2 months is not enough time to learn his true nature and intentions. Mens true nature comes out the moment you say yes. Really ask yourself if you can trust this man with your entire life, spiritual, mental, physical, financial...As in you can close your eyes and let him live or make decisions for you until death do you part. As christian once we women say yes. Your vowels hold you are giving up the most. So on top of premarital counseling study the wedding vows as well an consider a really long engagement. I know my opinion doesn't matter, but i know i would've loved to see a note to make me think like this prior to saying yes & marrying within 2 months.
Yes, but also keep in mind that wether a Christian or not people can make some changes in life later on in life (not that marriage when that happens should end), changes can happen and you both grow within marriage. It's a serious and enjoyable serious relationship sacred union of two people one man and one woman where there can and usually will be changes like growth and ect. You live life together while having Christ as your foundation and pray together and whenever separately and read and study God's word together and also whenever separately and follow Christ on a daily dying to your flesh and living how Christ wants you to live. More to say, but hopefully many get the idea.
2 months seem fast, but for some people it’s all that’s needed to know it’s the right person! Congratulations, I’m very happy for you.
Thats what I think too and he seems great
Dry the flowers out from the proposal and then put them in a vase later as dried flower arrangement. That way you can save them forever. Thats what i did with my wedding bouqet and i treasure it 😊. Congratulations!
I think you can also try to look for resin preserved dry flowers. Air can damage flowers but in resin they should last longer. You can have even a necklace made from it. 🌹
I did the same thing!! I dried up my bouquet, framed it and it's been on our living room wall for the past 3 years :) So beautiful 🥰 Congratulations, Kieun!
I did the same! It’s really worth it
@@alc9224oh such a great idea
I’m so proud of you. Many don’t talk about this but when a man and woman know what they want this is the result. I’m 47, black and educated and met my husband when I was 18 years old. First year in college and he proposed to me 4 months after dating and married 9 months later right before my sophomore year in college. We’re celebrating our 29th anniversary this year and still love being with one another. It’s all about priorities and learning how to adjust and grow as time go. We all change but it’s up to you to change with it.
Congratulations to you both and enjoy one another.
That’s awesome
Or, you know, they'll just realize they don't know each other and divorce 8 months after marrying like most of these quick couples do. Crazy.
@@user-qu8zs7vs1xor, you can keep your negative energy to yourself
@@user-qu8zs7vs1x or you can date 10 years and get married for 3 years only to know your partner is not the one for you. When you see someone share a good news, just be happy and wish them the best. Dont rain on someone’s parade.
@@user-qu8zs7vs1x😂😂
It is different as you are both a bit older, financially stable, life is on track, communicating etc. I knew my husband was the one the first time I saw him, he said he knew as well and that first time literally was us passing on the stairs. By the way it was leap year so I asked him out😂 and he said yes. We were together just short of 50 years. ❤ Congratulations, can’t wait to see the wedding arrangements.
It is impossible to know how's a person in only 2 months. I deserve you all the best and hope it will last forever.
He seems so intentional in his actions (just like you), from a good, loving and welcoming family. This will be an awesome and blessed marriage
I personally think it's way too soon to get enganged. But I don't try to be mean. I just think that it can always feel like you have met the right person that earily in the relationship. I have been in love with 3 different guys in my life (I'm 33 now) and it has felt that way in the beginning every time. It can fade pretty quick. But it's absolutely your life and I wish you the best :) If it doesn't work out, it can still be a good ride and a memory for life. So everyone to each taste. We only live once so if it feels right, it can be worth it either way :)
Agreed 100%!!!
Have you had a major disagreement/fight yet? Personally, I feel like it's necessary to really butt heads on a subject at least once before getting married. I think it's important to know how you and your partner handle disagreements. Just my opinion. Good luck!
Its a different look at that from a Christian perspective.
how so?@@loveforgood7520
OH MA GERDDDDDDD CONGRATULATIONS!! I’m so so so so happy for both of you ❤
omg it’s sorn 😱 love you ❤
What are you doing here?🤣🤣
My husband and I were married 3months, 2weeks & 3 days from the day we met! We just celebrated our 20th Year Anniversary!!! When you know you know. Our faith has been the foundation of our relationship and it has only grown stronger over these 20 years. Wishing you both the very best! So happy for you! ❤❤
I’m not religious/woman of faith at all, but a lot of the Christian comments resonate with me. I feel that if both parties know what they want and why they’re in a relationship and approach it with a certain maturity, knowing each other for only a short time can be enough to evaluate you want to build a lifetime commitment with each other. Congratulations - I’m so happy for you both 🎉❤
Of course your happiness matters the most but giirlllieee I am scared😹😹 wishing you all the blessings and happiness
Girl same
Same but i hope it ends well
Omg congrats!!! ❤❤❤
This is amazing. I just started watching your videos and I saw one yesterday that you mentioned how you haven’t been to church since college because you just haven’t felt the calling yet and now you’re going to church since you’ve met him. ❤ he has obviously been a piece of you that you have been missing. Yay!
Congratulations!! This is so amazing! I also met my husband and just knew we got engaged 5 months after and married 4 months after that. We have been happily married for 11 years now and have 3 beautiful kids. May you be so blessed in your marriage!
It is indeed that waiting season is preparing you for something you'll never expected. And you know, when the right person loves you in the right time, everything will run so smoothly. God bless you two, darling! Congratulations 🎉
omg i’m so happy for you i might actually cry 🥺 congratulations angel. you deserve the most genuine, pure love, and i see the word “happiness” shines so brightly on both of your eyes (even tho his face is always blurred lol) when you’re together. i love you so much honestly
Wow! This makes me so emotional😭❤️I remember how in one of your videos you shared some fears about getting older and not being where you thought you should have been. This is a perfect example of how God is always ALWAYS on time. Congratulations!😊
Okay, I was all giddy throughout the Q&A and could see how much you guys like each other even though I still think 2 months is way too fast 😭 I guess we’re all just protective of you. It would have been nice to at least go through 2 fights/stressful situation just to see how you guys would react in that moment. I feel like the first few months of dating you’re ofc gonna show your best attributes because you’re trying to win over the other person.
We love to see you happy, but it’s still hard to shake off my skepticism 🥲
THISSSS
Yes 👏🏼 this
fr, I don't want to offend her but 2 months? That's way too fast
That's exactly how I feel!! I love that they both went into it with this intention, but you really don't know someone until you've spent at LEAST a year with them going through different circumstances... They haven't even experienced more than one season it's literally still winter lol
@emilyyyyyy420 i'm totally on board about experiencing more and learning about the other person, but how do u know they haven't had conflict / were about to work it out or already discussed things that took other people much longer to figure out
sure you need time to know someone, but i don't think that we as third parties should impose these kind of regulatory perceptions on how other people manage their relationships. also, they already did it anyways, nothing we say is going to undo her very intentional decisions. people can disagree with her choices without judgement
My feeling is, if you know, you know. You are two mature, responsible adults, and I'm sure you feel secure in your decision. So, congratulations and God bless you both.❤❤❤
God as the foundation opens pathways to boundless possibilities. Congratulations on this new chapter!
Amen 😊
Congratulations, Kieun!
Please take care of yourself, get to know each-other better and never forget yourself.
A christian here myself! Just wanna say how wonderful it is that the Lord brought you two together! Was so so happy to see your recent videos Kieun and so happy to know you're both being so intentional about dating and pursuing Christ together too!
Girl, you looks so happy, you re living your best life 🥹❤️
Congratulations, I hope you’ll be forever happy Kieun !
You are amazing. I love how despite the negative comments you are confident in your relationship and your love story.
I think as 30 years old couple ppl usually know what they want to find in someone. So its pretty normal time to have engaged! ❤ Im so happy for you! ❤🎉
My thoughts! They have a home, job, financial stability, and now each other 💜 the perfect fit for their life
I always see you as very careful person I never thought you would say yes only after 2 month
Omg the story of how you caught him trying to arrange the proposal is too cute, that will forever be a funny memorable moment for you guys. Congrats to both of you can't wait to see you guys get married! 🥰
“you know what, yeah… I think this is what I want” GIRL WHY AM I CRYING I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU 😭😭😭
I’ve been watching you and your channel grow on UA-cam for the past 4-5 years and this made me so emotional im so happy for you Kieun I can’t wait to see you guys embark on this new chapter together 🥹 Congratulations I cannot wait to see where the future takes you and thank you for trusting us and sharing these moments with us! 🖤
You know when it’s “The One” embrace it? You have been blessed!!!
How I knew my husband was The One, was realizing that he had attributes I didn't realize I wanted and needed on my list.
We ended up getting married in Seoul last year August. The best parts of our relationship lie in the imperfect moments, that made everything perfect for us.
I have some worry about how quickly everything is happening, but yes, it’s your life and congratulations on your engagement! I’m just glad that after marriage you’ll both take things slow before having kids. I really hope you’ll be very happy together!
Omg congratulations big sis 🥺🥺💖💖💖 we’re all so so happy for you both
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A heartfelt congratulations to you both! I think when you know someone is "the one", the length of time does not matter.
Oh and the flowers you got are beautiful and how you decorated for the proposal were awesome!! Looking forward to following your life as a married couple!!
It’s your story ❤️ whether you’re together for a long time or not it has to feel right in your heart. Just know that you can change the story anytime you want, everyone else is just a reader outside your major circles. Sending you so many congratulations and love!
Proposal video we’ve been waiting for! Congratulations 🎉
Awww. *teary eyes*. Honestly, love really finds you, that's what I realize more while watching this. So happy when I found out you started dating then super shocked about the proposal but all in all sooooooooooooo sooooooooooooo happy for the both of you.
OMG CONGRATS YOU DESERVE ALL THE HAPPINESS IN THE WORLD 😭💗💗💗
Congratulations! The way you talk about your relationship is very mature. I have been married for over 10 years and only 34 years old. Listening to you was a very pleasant. So dating for 2 month only and getting married is not something someone should ever judge you. They are people who date longer and aren’t as mature as you are.
3 Keys to successful marriage:
1. Communication
2. Trust
3. Laugher
I don't believe you should be judged for your choices or "early" proposal. when you are at this age, you know what you want, you know what you don't like, and sometimes everything falls perfectly into place for you. wishing you and fiancé a happy life and marriage! you've been through a lot...and you absolutely deserve this happiness.
This!! People act like she’s just fresh out of high school when she’s old enough to make her own decission.
Old enough, yes! Unfortunately, just saw another Christian UA-camr date/marry within few months. Divorce a year later she’s in her 30s with a teen. We’re too old to be making rash decisions like a young 18-21 yr old
@@Wordy95 yes, but it is her life choice. We have no say in whatever decision she made. Just respect her decision
I met my husband in January and went on our first breakfast date in March😂 and got married in November same year ❤ we’re both born again Christian’s!! This year will be 40 years being married 🙏🏼🥰 I’m guaranteed subscriber 🤗
I’ve been watching you for years. I won’t lie, I am shocked and a bit taken back. But at the same time happy for you! Love is beautiful and I wish you nothing but love and care ❤ congrats girly!💕
Come on...everyone is thinking it...but this is just soo sooo fast..of course eveyone wants her happiness but this is just sooo weird. How can u know a person in just 2 months
I know I thought I was crazy
When something is not common people are quick to judge
@@Favs649 So true. It's unconventional today but a few decades ago this wasn't out of the ordinary.
hes in his honeymoon phase, so its sad to say it wont really last too long,...
@@PNGheewho the hell are you to say that the guy in the relationship 😂dumbo
so happy for you, Kieun! you deserve all the happiness in the world! 💕
Had to stop the video to say, My husband and I got married after only dating for less then a year of knowing each other and now we are getting ready to celebrate our 30th wedding anniversary. Just make to say I love you daily and always stand together thru everything good or bad you will get thru it.
Honestly super happy for you. I started following you right after you left Korea and moved to LA. You were going through some stuff personally, and I think you’ve had enough time to decide who you’d want to spend the rest of your life with. So once they’ve shown up, you KNOW. Only you yourself know, not anyone else who just sees your relationship through their phone/iPad/computer. And if you decide he’s the one, then he’s the one!
So happy for you!!!
When you know you know. I got engaged after 6 months of dating but we both knew after 1-2 month this was it. Now 5 years later and with a beautiful 1 year old going strong!
Oooohhh myyyy goooosshhh Im so happy for you! Flashback the day I started following you at that time you were single and there was this one vid and was talking about your past relationship that was very toxic....and look at you now! Oh my gosh! Congratulations! Manifesting really works!
i am sooo happy for you kieun congratulations🎉you deserve all the happiness in the world ♥️
So happy for you guys, though you might not ever see this, with over 550 comments and counting hopefully. Absolutely love all that is happening for you Kieun. Love love love to you both all of your lives. Congratulations.
some people date forever and divorce right after the wedding and others marry right away and last a life time. I met my husband and we married in less than a year. Here we are 12 years married
I know so many couples that dated over 10 years before marrying and divorced within a year after the wedding. Honestly I feel like waiting for so long might rather be a bad sign for a couple. Kinda means that you're never sure and could potentially still be looking out for someone else.. 😅
my parents... they married in less than 6 months (courthouse) and are now 48 years married. I think this Dating-Culture is wierd as hell... some date for 2-5 years... i mean, i you dont know after 1 year if you want to marry this person, than there is a reason for that so dont waste your own time and their time! 🤣
This is so exciting, congratulations ❤🥳 I think You and Me by Lifehouse and ONLY by LeeHi would be perfect wedding songs to dance to.
I know you thing what I am about to say is being judging, or raining on your happiness but honestly what I am about to say is more of wisdom. Please wait a year before you go threw with your marriage. You really don't know him or weather or not you are truly compatible. Love in the beginning is wonderful and full of warmth and happiness but after 2 years that is when the true test of compatibly shows.
I knew the proposal was coming I actually saw her ring in the picture she post before the engagement. I also got proposed after 2 months of dating we’ve married for 5 years now. I’m so happy for her
This genuinely feels like my big sister getting married I'm so happy for youuuu
Hi! I just recently found your channel and well I've been with my man for like 10 years. Not feeling rushed to have kids is exactly how you know this is already beautiful relationship! I've been enjoying "us" time for 9 years (to clarify we started dating when we were 19/20). Take your time and have kids whenever you feel best. ❤ CONGRATS. Thank you for sharing this with us 🎉
I didn’t want this video to end! You both radiate so much love. May God bless your union, keep Him at the center always. Can’t wait to see more! 🤍
🎉🎉🎉 Congratulations to you ! Going on a trip together always help to know each other whether it’s a friend or a significant other.
Congratulations!!! 🎉 the timeline doesn’t matter as long as you guys move in faith and have God as your foundation you will be fine xx
i would just like to say you look a lot healthier : ) happy for you, kieun!
While I am really happy for you, I hope you also do remember that marriage is also about loving and choosing each other when you both are at your worst. Marriage is never going to be sunshine and rainbow all the time - it’s about how you get through serious hardships together and still choose one another above all else. And there is no such thing as ideal types - everyone has flaws.
I hope you are getting married with these in mind as well.
Huge congrats Kieun! It's so beautiful to see that you found an everlasting love and a life partner. I remembered in a few of your L.A. vlogs when you disclosed a bit of the struggles you faced in that relationship, I was utterly gobsmacked because I couldn't fathom how a kind-hearted and loving soul like you could have met such sad experience(s). But I was so proud and happy to see you happy again, going through healing and growth and, loving so fully and openly😭...
Okay, I'll stop now. Thank you for sharing your private life with us and I am glad you two found each other. You both literally manifested each other and with the healing and growth, the timing finally aligned and I wish you both a happy and blissful marriage life.
...I am looking forward to the VA uploads.
I have mixed feelings about this but, just two months after becoming an official couple and not knowing each other before that? that is so quick. I hope you stay together for a long time I truly wish you both the best of luck, please be happy and safe. 🥰
You deserve all the love! You look so so happy! He's so supportive of your vlogs, always game being on the camera
Only 2 months, hope you watched who TF did I marry, he might be trying to mega trap you. I wish you happiness but please be safe first. You don't have to rush, you shouldn't be pressured to rush into marriage. Please get to know yourself and get to know him beyond his words and the actions he presents to you.
I am sure she's aware of the dangers, I think in one video she mentioned that she dated a narcissist for 3 years. So we can trust her instincts. Also being a Christian, you can trust you're om the right path because God directs you and he's gracious enough to make things obvious for you. and family is one thing that plays into it, unless the whole family including hers is love bombing her she'll be fine.
Congrats Kieun, such exciting news! I totally resonate with this; I met my husband off Tinder in October of last year & we got married on December 30th. It’s been wonderful & I’ve honestly been so happy. When you know, you just know. I wish you both an immense amount of love & happiness for the rest of your lives.♥️
Sooooo happy for you Kieun 🥺 Been following you for so long ❤
The flowers from the proposal can last forever!! You just have to let them dry upside down ☺
You make the right decision because good things should be done as soon as possible . When its the right person, you would know at first sight.
Congratulations!!! Please don’t worry about anyone Judging you, you’re fabulous! When men know, they KNOW! They don’t wait 5-6 years!!!!! Finding love in your late 20s-30s is a blessing! And you’re so deserving!! And I can’t wait to see your wedding!!
Congratulations! I’m so excited for you. I’ve been married almost 29 years to my best friend. I wish the same happiness for you.
When you fall in love, dopamine is secreted from the brain’s nucleus, and you feel much joy and happiness. Naturally, there will be liveliness and more smiles on your face and the world looks bright and beautiful. As you feel good, you will become generous even with the matters you usually got annoyed or irritated with. You do not see the disadvantages of the loved one but see only good things.
This phenomenon is called the pink lens effect in psychology. Just like you wear pink glasses, the person you love looks adorable no matter what he or she does.
How good would it be if the glasses were not taken off forever? The validity period of the pink lens effect is three years at most. There must be difference among people, but you gradually come to see the weakness of the other person over time, and what you regarded as strong points of the other person begins to look like disadvantage. In actuality, the other person is the same as he or she was, but your mind has changed.
But real love develops from the moment on. If the two accept each other as he or she is and cover their weakness and are considerate of each other, the love and trust that have been firm in them won’t expire.
I can see & feel how much love you are in atm. Congratulations 🥳
bro--in our religion, we got married even before knowing each other deeply, y'all so shocked about this T_T can't you just be happy for her? gosh these comments are so sad...
i know right!
good for you? it mightve worked for you but marrying someone is a big commitment, rushing it is not good
Ruelle - I Get to Love You is so fitting! All the best wishes for your future together.
after only 2 months of dating...
Tbh our society has messed up the way people look at marriage. People used to get married right away because love was real. Now that love seems to be fake people just say “let’s live together but never get married.” The beauty about marriage is that you can grow together during the marriage and if you’re in love with that person marrying quickly shouldn’t be judged or looked down upon. It’s each persons preference but it’s beautiful that they fell in love quickly.
that's nice, very idealistic... I'm rooting for them to grow old together, as you say!
@@lizbaker7527 marriage is a huge commitment, you have to be sure. Good on her if it feels right, but i wouldn't make a big commitment like this with someone i barely know, and it has nothing to do with love being real or not.
You don’t NEED to be married to prove your love, it’s just a (legally binding) piece of paper. And this is coming from someone who wants to be married.
@@aquagamer1212 and that’s your own opinion… that piece of paper doesn’t prove your love but the marriage can. Because the man and the woman are making a promise to be with each other and no one else. A common relationship doesn’t make those boundaries. That’s why our society is so jacked up right now. Everybody wants to have sex with everybody but not just love one person. People are scared of “marriage” because they’re scared of “commitment.” So my point in commenting that was saying to let them be even if they want to get married fast. No one should judge them for that just because our society thinks “marriage” is dumb.
I'm so happy for you! You have so many things working in your favor: you are old enough to know who you are and what you want in life, you have similar upbringing/culture, and the most important thing: faith. You will be amazing! I'm so excited!
2 months? Girl.. he's a stranger to you. Uh oh. Good luck with that.
I am thinking ... and if all this story it's only for engagement?
Christians are wild. y'all started dating immediately after meeting each other on a blind date and now engagement after 2 months. he wasn't even your friend before do y'all even know each other😅
my exact thoughts , she often said she thought she’d be married by now because she was in her 30s. kinda seems like they both rushed but at the same time they probably clicked together extremely fast because i’ve seen that happened in real life
If you know you know…. You don’t need to wait for ages.
I’m scared for her. My fingers are crossed and I’m stressing
So what 😂 rather date 10 years and then still be left? Yall have a sad life
I'm wondering if only Christians from Korea are like that, cuz I'm from a country with 90% of Christians and it usually takes much longer to engage
I was proposed to after 5 weeks, married within 16 weeks.. 22 years ago, and very happy.
Blessings to both to you x
Have you even had your first fight? 😅
This makes my heart happy Kieun ❤ I love to see others celebrate love - congratulations to you both on your engagement.
It's absolutely not the same whether you know someone for 2 months or several months/years 😅2 months for an engagement is crazy
Congratulations! Haven’t follow this channel for a few months and today it’s surprising to hear this good news. You look much more better than the time you were in LA. Guess you must have a great time in Seoul
I’m sorry but get engaged after only 2 months is insane that’s only 8 weeks thsts not enough time to get to know someone
Remember some muslims gets married without knowing or seeing their partner. 😁
@@ray_di5267 not good
I’m so teary eyed watching this! Maybe time is a factor to some people but when you meet the one, THAT’S IT. I wish you both so much love and happiness in faith of your lives together. All the best! Omg I’m going to tear up again. Happiness is beautiful on you Kieun ❤❤❤❤❤❤
After 2 months of dating…?
My jaw dropped! Unnie~ congratulations!! Seriously. I'm so shocked! 😭💗 So happy for you, and best wishes for both of you. 💗💗💗
wtf? That’s a huge red flag after 2 months of dating!
I can understand where you're coming from, but it shows that he really does love her if he proposed just after 2 months
CONGRATS QUEEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I feel like you can tell how well you two mesh just watching this.❤
this is wayyyy to fast..... 2 months??? really??? he probably proposed her cause of her social media presence. as long as you're happy ig
25:00 - 25:30 😀???
If it was the reason he would show himself infront of the camera lol let's be happy for the girl
@@Armygirl-zy6uw 2 months is too early, babe. true colors won't come out within those 2 months. well, as long as she's happy ig
I was like 😮 through the whole video. So surprised but so happy for you. Congratulations to you both 🥂🎉 And when you showed the clip of you walking out in the wedding dress and you turned around toward the camera I was like 😲😯😭😭 I gasped, my mouth dropped open and I said aloud "Oh my God she looks so beautiful....stunning!!! I have a daughter a few years older than you so watching you made me think of my daughter. You looked so beautiful. Brought tears to my eyes. I imagine how your parents felt seeing that. I'm excited to watch the upcoming videos of the wedding planning process and excited to watch your wedding. Thank you for including us in this major event in your life. 🙏
Just after 2 months...
Congratulations, Girl! So so so happy to see your wide smile from the bottom of your hear. It was really amazing to get to know your story. Looking forward to the wedding prep vlogs. Wishing you both lots of love and happiness❤❤
this relationship will end as quickly as you got engaged. Before you get married, you should live together because it verifies everything
don't be so negative dang.
Fire! We don’t want that negativity. 🙅🏽♀️
By the way - it’s the second time I’m watching this now. First I didn’t get it as well but now, I just met someone and we both feel the same way as them. People think we are going to fast. I understand now hence I’m watching for the second time ☺️