I see both sides of the argument as someone who was bullied it did make me a stronger person with tougher skin. I think nowadays people don’t know what true bullying actually looks or feels like. Brutality to me is bullying and merciless personal attacks. Calling someone a name once ain’t it. Also anyone bullying the bully doesn’t make them any better and it’s dripping with hypocrisy.
True. I don't actually call once-of-name calling "bullying", however that can be part of bullying culture (because in schools, there can be a culture of targetting a specific student, no matter what grop, class or year you're in) unfortunately I have to report it like that. Bullying is abuse and it's systematic. It's not hypocritical when it's the victim returning the bullying or just to teach this specific idiot lesson to the point she privates her account (anymore and that's an issue), I think she learnt a lesson. I hope she doesn't get bullied by anyone, unless it's her own victim.
what a disgusting person, why did she private her account if she believes in bullying? also what growth is she talking about? I don't see any growth she keeps talking about, she is the one who needs to get a grip
Right? She says bullying is good, it makes you stronger but when others dont agree with her opinions and bully her for it she puts her account private. 😂 Alright.
She should really learn to be more confident and be more confident. And honestly it was like a week ago she should just move on like OMG girl. So chronically online
If you think bullying is not that bad, then clearly, you've never actually been bullied. It's not even just about getting your feelings hurt, depending on how severe it is, it can actually fuck up your well being and lots of people have offed themselves because of it.
@@alicethomas6375It's giving waste of space. It's giving get off the internet and apply yourself. It's giving don't come back until you've learned something. P.S. People, this is how you sound when you use these phrases. Don't mix trendy Tiktok lingo and sensitive subjects, you'll probably just end up pissing people off.
Can we focus on something else like why is everything impossible to buy? Can we direct our attention on that instead of some random girl being mean online?? Y'all are mean online too who cares
Compassion is evolution. Bullying is regression. Making ammends shows grace. Making excuses for poor behaviour is stagnant. Please girl, get a psychological assessment. ❤
idk how 'mean' she was but highschool bullies never seem to understand the irony in saying how they treated people wasnt a big deal and they never think about it now. like, that sums up your whole bullying mindset?? because you were horrible all the time it became your norm and you doled it out and went on with your day. but every time you made someone feel bad it had a high chance of sticking with them into adulthood bc it ruined their self perception💀 your excuse is WHY you're horrible
And not just their self-perception, but also conditioned them into avoiding society. My self-perception is fine, but society is so fucked up that I have NO TOLERANCE of dealing with society's bullshit.
I love that she made her TikTok account private, too. Shouldn't the angry comments have made her a better person? Poor Liana, looks like she's not such a fan of self-improvement after all. 😅
Clearly her voice is like so familiar, "mean girl voice." I don't know what it's called. Correct me or anything. But that girl, she clearly has no remorse or something. Let me tell you, when I was homeschooled because of COVID 19, my bully the "class president" yes she's a class president my bully, she's been bullying since when I was at elementary. She's clearly abusing her power as a class president to bully me, she will bully any chance she got. And also I was so done with her bull crap that I actually confronted in front of the class of why she's targeting me. You know what she did!? Well, she cried in front of the class saying I was "mean" and "bullying" her. When in reality, she made my school years miserable. So yeah, bullying is not "justifiable" this girl is really justifying bullying. PS: I'm sorry if I butchered my English, I'm not really good at English, it's not really my first language, so correct me if my English is messed up.
This is one of the most wildly insecure people I’ve ever witnessed. Like… damn, she clearly recognizes that the problem is her attitude and behavior - she soft admits that the reason people in her classes “weren’t putting in the effort” to be friends with her was because of the things she was saying. She’s trying to act like the fact that no one wants anything to do with her is HER choice - that she doesn’t care (even though she wanted them to watch her videos and see how “well” she’s doing.) But it’s obviously a defense mechanism to reject others before they can reject her. Wild how someone can just put their own psychology on blast like that. Like, dang, girl, learn to love yourself.
not promoting the psychoanalysis of an individual off of one video they made BUT i definitely feel like she could be a playground for budding psychologists
Obviously its hard to move on from bullying it could be years but a rude comment could stick with someone. You wouldn’t remember it but the person being ridiculed obviously remembered the embarrassment.
it's because someone commented that she still is the same mean girl from back then. So she didn't want to be like those who get exposed, so she exposed herself in the form of "healed" and "storytime"
This girl did not just proceed to give us an entire story about how she didn't bully anyone and then uno reverse it and tell us people need to be bullied AND THEN use K-dramas as an example of bullying in other countries as if its accurate or justifies anything lmao what-
For anyone who was bullied in hs and still feels angry or sad or however you're feeling, dont feel bad about having those thoughts, you can heal and still be affected by events in your life, specifically hs bc its during your teenage years and you absorb everything you see, of course if you see something about that person you're going to feel bad, and that's fine. I hope yall find people who can prove you wrong and make you feel secure and you can be yourself
@@QueenFreaq i often remember and sometimes it still feels confusing and painful, to me it's like I wish I had confronted and said so many things to people but I didn't bc of fear, I was so different and insecure about everything back then that I called people who made me feel terrible my friends and sometimes their voices are still there when I'm trying to make new friends and its always that feeling all over again, I can control it better now but sometimes it gets hard and I have to try my best, you're not alone in feeling that way and it's not being crazy, I sending you tons of love dear
Was this account created strictly for this topic? 🤔 Also, the most annoying thing you can do is hop on the buzzword bandwagon, and then on top of that use the words wrong. There is NOTHING about this girl, or this situation, that have anything to do with “pick me”s. Personally, I think the term is stupid and makes you sound trashy when you use it, but if you’re going to use it at least use it properly. Pick a different trendy word to use. And on a more serious note, I’m sorry if you’re getting bullied. Is it at school? Have you tried to do anything about it yet?
@porcelaindoll9074 I heard she got a lot of backlash from the video (to the point of privatizing everything) so I don't think it's a gen z thing (since it's mostly gen z on tik tok?)
I hope this is fake or something because holy shit. And the thing about bullying in different countries - it doesn’t matter which country it’s in, it’s still bullying
No. An actual psychopath would seem like a perfect person, an angel. They would turn people against each other in a quiet, sweet voice, turn people against this girl because she's visibly ill adjusted. The psychopath is perfectly focused, perfectly sweet (at the beginning) and has seemingly perfect manners, they're charming and narcissistic underneath and they make you feel special. Then they get embarrassing info about you, to have power over you, so you fear them releasing it for the rest of your life. This girl would be closer to "sociopathic". They've meshed these two words now into ASPD, but I think it was a mistake, cause they're very different.
I think when she's calling that commenter "silly goose" she's trying to throw shade with the "L" sign for "loser". Maybe I'm imagining, but it's a awkward way to wag your finger at someone. I tried doing that and found it more straining than doing it with my thumb contracted.
As someone who was abused at school by girls like this, boys did it also but girls were way worse…thanks for contributing to my ptsd I left when I was 16 im now 39 & still think about it…& she only peaked in high school..also calling people snowflakes makes you the arsehole…
She's a psychopath, and I don't mean that as a joke. Or a sociopath, but I'm thinking psychopath. She has no conception of what her actions caused for this person. She thinks she should just get over it. I'd LOVE to speak to her FACE TO FACE
wow! five and a half minutes of self-aggrandizement and repetition. oh god, the repetition. why did you not mention the brands of all the product you were using so as to MAKE SOME MONEY?
uh so someone who was rude to you might not have meant to be rude or didnt even realize they were rude... so that one's out lol you've shown yourself to not having changed whatsoever. still a mean girl. still a bully. bullying shouldn't be the normal! bullying can get super bad. the person who does the bullying often has more issues going on than the person being bullied which doesn't make it right! it makes it more sad! this entire tiktok is a mess lol
this shit about ‘evolutionary theory’ she just completely pulled out of her ass. in what world would humans evolve to need to be bullied and ridiculed in order to become stronger ?? that wouldn’t be favourable
She's clearly not very smart. If she was smart she would understand by the age of 22 that bullying is a form of trauma, and this is trauma that most people carry with them for the rest of their lives. I know somebody who was bullied by a group of girls like Liana. She was chased outside and physically assaulted before one of the girls tried to set her hair on fire. So according to Liana, this trauma is something to get over because what happens in high school doesn't matter.
@@TiffWafflesRight? She seems entirely unaware that the human brain is capable of forming memories while in high school. 😂 I also honestly don't believe she was in the "smart kid" classes, either. Not because bullies can't be smart, but just because she does not seem particularly intelligent herself. Plus she's already clearly an immoral person, so what's some self-aggrandizing lying when you already enjoy making people's lives miserable?
I’ve been bullied from 9 years old up until 15 and i’m 26 now. It seriously traumatized me. It brought this evil voice inside my head, ended up with extreme social anxiety and isolated myself from the world for years. Developed an eating disorder. I went to many therapists. And i still struggle every single day. There was a point in my life i saw no way out and attempted suicide. I failed, i learned from it and will never do it again. But bullying can never, EVER be talked right. And my heart hurts seeing this video, knowing people will see it becoming convinced that bullying is okay. This woman is emotionally immature and shows extreme narcissistic behaviors. Not a word she says is okay. It shocks me really, that people have this kind of mindset.
She’s saying high school isn’t important but makes a whole tik tok about it
I see both sides of the argument as someone who was bullied it did make me a stronger person with tougher skin. I think nowadays people don’t know what true bullying actually looks or feels like. Brutality to me is bullying and merciless personal attacks. Calling someone a name once ain’t it. Also anyone bullying the bully doesn’t make them any better and it’s dripping with hypocrisy.
True. I don't actually call once-of-name calling "bullying", however that can be part of bullying culture (because in schools, there can be a culture of targetting a specific student, no matter what grop, class or year you're in) unfortunately I have to report it like that. Bullying is abuse and it's systematic. It's not hypocritical when it's the victim returning the bullying or just to teach this specific idiot lesson to the point she privates her account (anymore and that's an issue), I think she learnt a lesson. I hope she doesn't get bullied by anyone, unless it's her own victim.
Liana: "I'm very smart"
Also Liana: "It's giving biological... things"
Yeah Liana is “trying her best” 🤣
@@theteabehottodayyh if she is trying to be nice then ima guy that has a giraffe head and duck feet so 😂😂😂😂
what a disgusting person, why did she private her account if she believes in bullying? also what growth is she talking about? I don't see any growth she keeps talking about, she is the one who needs to get a grip
Right? She says bullying is good, it makes you stronger but when others dont agree with her opinions and bully her for it she puts her account private. 😂
Alright.
@@Katriiifyagreed!
Not homegirl saying bullying is not that bad then proceeded to private her account after getting bullied relentlessly.
IM CACKLING
She should really learn to be more confident and be more confident. And honestly it was like a week ago she should just move on like OMG girl. So chronically online
It’s giving evolution theory, it’s giving biological things
@@sushi287 lmao that was too funny
Well why are yall bullying her lol tht's just mean, people can be flawed
@@wolliw-em5mc There's flawed, and then there's willful ignorance😆
If you think bullying is not that bad, then clearly, you've never actually been bullied. It's not even just about getting your feelings hurt, depending on how severe it is, it can actually fuck up your well being and lots of people have offed themselves because of it.
Abuse goes beyond "hurt feelings", it's your rights to safety being taken away, causing undue stress etc. all just to be sadistic to you.
I remember when I was 12 I tried to drown myself in my bath tub one night because of being bullied in 6th grade.
She needs to travel more, she seems psychologically lost. It’s giving embarrassment.
It's giving Dunning-Krueger effect. We despise a brain-dead girly.
Lol, well said!
She does need to travel, to a counsellor for all the bullying she just got 😂
She is even a bigger bully now.
i thought this was satire until i looked at the comments 😭😭 she's horrible
honestly there is something seriously wrong with this girl 😳
yes, sociopath vibes. No remorse or empathy
NPD probably
@@alicethomas6375It's giving waste of space. It's giving get off the internet and apply yourself. It's giving don't come back until you've learned something.
P.S. People, this is how you sound when you use these phrases. Don't mix trendy Tiktok lingo and sensitive subjects, you'll probably just end up pissing people off.
@@aidanhugh2490No one is offended except you Aidan. "Vibes" is a totally normal thing to say.
Can we focus on something else like why is everything impossible to buy? Can we direct our attention on that instead of some random girl being mean online?? Y'all are mean online too who cares
Compassion is evolution. Bullying is regression. Making ammends shows grace. Making excuses for poor behaviour is stagnant. Please girl, get a psychological assessment. ❤
3:04 she even did the mean girl laugh 😭😂😂
Ah, yes, the mean girl laugh
Watching this has made me realize that Hannah Montoya is literally perfect at the mean girl impression lol
'go travel' 'go get money' i really wanna know what her parents do.
Yeah, people like her don’t get far in life lol
They do though
Actually most leadets are narcissists, so many do get far.
@@ellasoriginalchannel9713 Miss girl couldn’t even describe her biology point, though!
But I definitely see your point
this is CRAZY like especially past minute 2 lmao i have no words absolutely no words
She thought she was cute 😭
idk how 'mean' she was but highschool bullies never seem to understand the irony in saying how they treated people wasnt a big deal and they never think about it now. like, that sums up your whole bullying mindset?? because you were horrible all the time it became your norm and you doled it out and went on with your day. but every time you made someone feel bad it had a high chance of sticking with them into adulthood bc it ruined their self perception💀 your excuse is WHY you're horrible
And not just their self-perception, but also conditioned them into avoiding society. My self-perception is fine, but society is so fucked up that I have NO TOLERANCE of dealing with society's bullshit.
@@qwmxagree
I saw a video mocking this. I guess this is the original lol
Yes you’ve found the OG 😂 hahaha
I love that she made her TikTok account private, too. Shouldn't the angry comments have made her a better person? Poor Liana, looks like she's not such a fan of self-improvement after all. 😅
i also saw the video mocking this by haylee and came directly here
Same lol
“Crazy they think I was mean. I wasn’t mean, sounds like a poor person with no life being obsessed with me. Silly goose.”
she used korean drama as an example to invalidate peoples trauma LMFAOOO ITS CALLED A DRAMA FOR A REASON GIRLIE
Clearly her voice is like so familiar, "mean girl voice." I don't know what it's called. Correct me or anything. But that girl, she clearly has no remorse or something. Let me tell you, when I was homeschooled because of COVID 19, my bully the "class president" yes she's a class president my bully, she's been bullying since when I was at elementary. She's clearly abusing her power as a class president to bully me, she will bully any chance she got. And also I was so done with her bull crap that I actually confronted in front of the class of why she's targeting me. You know what she did!? Well, she cried in front of the class saying I was "mean" and "bullying" her. When in reality, she made my school years miserable. So yeah, bullying is not "justifiable" this girl is really justifying bullying.
PS: I'm sorry if I butchered my English, I'm not really good at English, it's not really my first language, so correct me if my English is messed up.
She clearly said that bullying has to happen, yet she couldn't take people bullying her on her comment section.
She said she doesn't care about high school anymore, but, girlie, here proceeds to make a video about it.
"offense is a choice" wtf 💀💀
Somebody tell her having good grades doesn't equal being smart
“I didn’t care about the friends I had in high school.” Gee, I wonder why she didn’t have a lot of them.
It's giving like. Anti-social personality traits. It's giving, like, psychopathic things.
This is one of the most wildly insecure people I’ve ever witnessed. Like… damn, she clearly recognizes that the problem is her attitude and behavior - she soft admits that the reason people in her classes “weren’t putting in the effort” to be friends with her was because of the things she was saying.
She’s trying to act like the fact that no one wants anything to do with her is HER choice - that she doesn’t care (even though she wanted them to watch her videos and see how “well” she’s doing.) But it’s obviously a defense mechanism to reject others before they can reject her.
Wild how someone can just put their own psychology on blast like that. Like, dang, girl, learn to love yourself.
not promoting the psychoanalysis of an individual off of one video they made BUT i definitely feel like she could be a playground for budding psychologists
Honestly though
Obviously its hard to move on from bullying it could be years but a rude comment could stick with someone. You wouldn’t remember it but the person being ridiculed obviously remembered the embarrassment.
Why does she think people care?
it's because someone commented that she still is the same mean girl from back then. So she didn't want to be like those who get exposed, so she exposed herself in the form of "healed" and "storytime"
I assume she's an example of 'peaked in high school' where she thinks the real world still conforms to the high school social hierarchy
This girl did not just proceed to give us an entire story about how she didn't bully anyone and then uno reverse it and tell us people need to be bullied AND THEN use K-dramas as an example of bullying in other countries as if its accurate or justifies anything lmao what-
Mentally still in highschool while in ur 20s... Ughhh hmm😅 need to do some growing up
For anyone who was bullied in hs and still feels angry or sad or however you're feeling, dont feel bad about having those thoughts, you can heal and still be affected by events in your life, specifically hs bc its during your teenage years and you absorb everything you see, of course if you see something about that person you're going to feel bad, and that's fine. I hope yall find people who can prove you wrong and make you feel secure and you can be yourself
True ♥️
Agreed! I'm also bullied
Thank you. It's been 10 years and sometimes I still feel hurt about it. Makes me feel crazy sometimes.
@@QueenFreaq i often remember and sometimes it still feels confusing and painful, to me it's like I wish I had confronted and said so many things to people but I didn't bc of fear, I was so different and insecure about everything back then that I called people who made me feel terrible my friends and sometimes their voices are still there when I'm trying to make new friends and its always that feeling all over again, I can control it better now but sometimes it gets hard and I have to try my best, you're not alone in feeling that way and it's not being crazy, I sending you tons of love dear
As someone who gets bullied, I have no words 😶 it’s giving pick me 😌💅
Don’t let those bullies get to you hon. There’s a lot of insecure people who need to look in the mirror first. Always stay true to who you wanna be❤️
Was this account created strictly for this topic? 🤔 Also, the most annoying thing you can do is hop on the buzzword bandwagon, and then on top of that use the words wrong. There is NOTHING about this girl, or this situation, that have anything to do with “pick me”s. Personally, I think the term is stupid and makes you sound trashy when you use it, but if you’re going to use it at least use it properly. Pick a different trendy word to use.
And on a more serious note, I’m sorry if you’re getting bullied. Is it at school? Have you tried to do anything about it yet?
She was trying to do "Pick me"💅, but it became "Pick ON me"🎯
@@Arbolito661 tysm ❤️☺️🫶
Gen Z : bullying its giving evolutionary theories ya know ?
We're all scrwd as humanity
@porcelaindoll9074
I heard she got a lot of backlash from the video (to the point of privatizing everything) so I don't think it's a gen z thing (since it's mostly gen z on tik tok?)
Generally I'd say no one deserves to be bullied but she does lol
You don't seem very smart...atleast not on EQ area❣️
Shes the type of girl i try to avoid LOL no fun to be around
I hope this is fake or something because holy shit. And the thing about bullying in different countries - it doesn’t matter which country it’s in, it’s still bullying
Please let this be fake WHAT😭
I would like to see her swap the word "bully" to "abuse".
EXCATLY!
why does she stop the video every 5 seconds then starts again
She’s giving “mother of two drowns toddlers in the bathtub, more at 7”
Psychopath?
Propably just a regular narcissist. Female psychopaths are less than 1% of population.
No. An actual psychopath would seem like a perfect person, an angel. They would turn people against each other in a quiet, sweet voice, turn people against this girl because she's visibly ill adjusted.
The psychopath is perfectly focused, perfectly sweet (at the beginning) and has seemingly perfect manners, they're charming and narcissistic underneath and they make you feel special. Then they get embarrassing info about you, to have power over you, so you fear them releasing it for the rest of your life.
This girl would be closer to "sociopathic". They've meshed these two words now into ASPD, but I think it was a mistake, cause they're very different.
I think when she's calling that commenter "silly goose" she's trying to throw shade with the "L" sign for "loser". Maybe I'm imagining, but it's a awkward way to wag your finger at someone. I tried doing that and found it more straining than doing it with my thumb contracted.
ew
I love that she sites K-Dramas as bullying in other countries. Thats like watching Riverdale and thinking you understand American schools.
ew
As someone who was abused at school by girls like this, boys did it also but girls were way worse…thanks for contributing to my ptsd I left when I was 16 im now 39 & still think about it…& she only peaked in high school..also calling people snowflakes makes you the arsehole…
She's a psychopath, and I don't mean that as a joke. Or a sociopath, but I'm thinking psychopath. She has no conception of what her actions caused for this person. She thinks she should just get over it. I'd LOVE to speak to her FACE TO FACE
wow! five and a half minutes of self-aggrandizement and repetition. oh god, the repetition. why did you not mention the brands of all the product you were using so as to MAKE SOME MONEY?
Girly i obviously dont understand what youre actually saying😂
uh so someone who was rude to you might not have meant to be rude or didnt even realize they were rude... so that one's out lol
you've shown yourself to not having changed whatsoever. still a mean girl. still a bully.
bullying shouldn't be the normal! bullying can get super bad. the person who does the bullying often has more issues going on than the person being bullied which doesn't make it right! it makes it more sad!
this entire tiktok is a mess lol
this shit about ‘evolutionary theory’ she just completely pulled out of her ass. in what world would humans evolve to need to be bullied and ridiculed in order to become stronger ?? that wouldn’t be favourable
sounds like she needs to travel more😕
LOL
She just unprivated her tiktok account!
Looks like it's not deleted anymore
I literally am picturing who this is at my school
She’s smart, really smart
She's clearly not very smart. If she was smart she would understand by the age of 22 that bullying is a form of trauma, and this is trauma that most people carry with them for the rest of their lives. I know somebody who was bullied by a group of girls like Liana. She was chased outside and physically assaulted before one of the girls tried to set her hair on fire.
So according to Liana, this trauma is something to get over because what happens in high school doesn't matter.
@@TiffWafflesRight? She seems entirely unaware that the human brain is capable of forming memories while in high school. 😂
I also honestly don't believe she was in the "smart kid" classes, either. Not because bullies can't be smart, but just because she does not seem particularly intelligent herself. Plus she's already clearly an immoral person, so what's some self-aggrandizing lying when you already enjoy making people's lives miserable?
I’ve been bullied from 9 years old up until 15 and i’m 26 now.
It seriously traumatized me.
It brought this evil voice inside my head, ended up with extreme social anxiety and isolated myself from the world for years.
Developed an eating disorder.
I went to many therapists.
And i still struggle every single day.
There was a point in my life i saw no way out and attempted suicide.
I failed, i learned from it and will never do it again.
But bullying can never, EVER be talked right.
And my heart hurts seeing this video, knowing people will see it becoming convinced that bullying is okay.
This woman is emotionally immature and shows extreme narcissistic behaviors.
Not a word she says is okay.
It shocks me really, that people have this kind of mindset.
@@TiffWafflesi think the original comment was being sarcastic.
WIILLLDDD is this satire !?!?!
I wishhh 😭
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