Firstly, kudos to the host for organizing this platform. I'm sure many people are facing significant challenges with no one to turn to. Like she mentioned, sometimes it feels safer to stay silent than to open up and risk betrayal. My advice to her is to try to get closer to God and talk to Him about her struggles. It might be difficult, but with dedication, she'll likely see positive changes over time.I've been through a similar experience myself. As a guy, I struggled with pornography for 9 years, which nearly destroyed everything I had. What helped me stop was praying and staying active, making sure I was never alone. I've been free from watching porn and masturbating for over a year now, and I attribute this to God's help and my own dedication.So, I encourage you to have those deep conversations with God. It might not be easy to stop all at once, but giving it a try could lead to a better life. All love ❤️✌🏻
Oh this is such a beautiful beautiful testimony. Thank you so much for sharing. Many people need to hear this and be encouraged. I don't mind having a conversation with you on this where you can share your success story in a bid to encourage others. If it's something you're comfortable with, please send me a DM on IG or FB let's talk more on it 🙏
lol, draw close to which God? Seems like you don’t know what addiction is! God ain’t gon do shit! It just take time & a lot of determination to be able to stop completely
@@DonNydrumzYey I actually understand, this actually shows that you might have tried it and perhaps it didn't work, but can I ask you..., which heart did you come to God with, is it as an alternative or the only option..?, Matt 11:28 said you should come onto him, with all your burdens and he will give you rest, John 8:4-11, talked about the woman that was cut in the very act, and the accusers were ready to prosecute her, but Jesus been a merciful father turned around and forgave her, he said in his word, that he came to save the lost, to bring them onto himself, he has paid for your freedom and sin, don't allow the devil to thrust you into sin, just believe in him and the freedom which he gave in the cross of Calvary will be yours, Hebrew 11:6 tells us to believe in him, his existence and supremacy and the reward which is your forgiveness and freedom will be yours . Shalom 🙏🙏🙏
These things are evil spirits of sexual immorality, run to Jesus fam I was addicted with a friend of mine being a female, and now we are self improving very well. Im about 3 weeks Free and I feel no urge whatsoever running back. Give it all to God. Amen❤
Her sexual feelings and sexual lifestyle has got nothing to do with Jesus. The young lady is just passing through a period in her life. STOP all these religious nonsense....
Guilt is the trap....stop feeling guilty while you vwork ur way out of it .if you relapase continue without feeling guilty, pick a positive vision that only God can bring to life, that youll need ti stick to him to, you will see that you will go out of it . . like someone once told me, you cant switch off darkness you can only brig in light to expel darkness
For those who felt I was encouraging her to keep going, kindly read this comment and UNDERSTAND. Guilt is one of the major reasons why people in recovery relapse. Other factors include stigmatization, depression, and fear. You can't successfully lead someone on the path of recovery without first dealing with the guilt they feel within them. Guilt is a trap. So deal with the guilt first, then others can follow
Addiction of any kind is dangerous, it destroys everything you hold dear.. my advice for her is for her to get involved in any sporting activities, and of course prayers..
I completely agree that understanding sustains a relationship longer than love. Love is just a feeling, it fades away with time but understanding is like an anchor, steadfast and true. The girls needs help though. She can’t do it on her own, believe me
Addiction is like a person sinking and gasping for breath but can't help the situation. That she has admitted she wants to work on it to stop means she can be helped. The first step to receiving help is that you admit it is a challenge. I pray that God's mercy and grace will locate you.
Nice video. My advice to her is if she feels it's something she needs to stop, she can continue to work on it. On the other hand, she might find someone who loves her that way. I know of a relationship where the guy loves it when the girl plays with herself and he watches it. What may be a turn-off for one person might be a turn-on to another person. The key is communication in a relationship is very important. Don't keep secrets in any serious relationship. Thanks for sharing your experience.
Just came across this page last night and trust me when I say i didn't sleep althru the night. Just want to go and sleep now abeg. I really love what you do here. Am now a huge fan
Follow Apostle. Arome Osayi's message on how to deal with lust, and learn all you have to do to become free again. This is my piece, if u are willing God is willing
Emma u are the real MVP. What u gave this lady is priceless. U without judging her, redirected her thoughts.. people pay real money for such therapy. Pls tell her to reach out to her ex and encourage him to watch this video. He may be damaged from the experience. He, I suspect felt inadequate on some level and may transmit that in his new relationships. He needs to know he was really good and nothing that happened was his fault. Secondly I feel the lady is a free spirited person and it will help her fight her addiction. Habits die faster when we don't attache strong emotions to them. Let her playfully challenge herself to keep working on stopping. I feel if she gets too serious she won't go far. Kudos to you all hosting this platform. U are doing a great job.
Mr. Emmanuel, I've been refreshing your page for new episodes and thank God you posted it today. i just can't love you less cuz your level of asking intellectual questions is just superb and out of this world. Much love from me from Ghana 🇬🇭. Soar Higher, Mr. Emmanuel🤝
We appreciate the guest you brought on the show to share their with us and I believe many people like myself have always had one or two lessons from each episode here , keep the good work.....I love your African print always, love from ghana 🇬🇭
Bro you really know how to counsel and interrogate people to bring out the truth from them.. you really good at what you are doing. people are learning seriously.
Great job sir! I think making provision for resources to help the guests if they are willing will be very impactful. Connecting with Pastors whose ministry are in these areas, psychologists,therapists. That way the guest doesn’t come to just share their stories but also get help .
Addiction is a habit, you have to erase that masturbation habit with another habit e.g reading, sporting, watching the preachings of pastors, drinking.
Ma guy, you're doing a great job, these are not just confession sessions, it's more like counseling and I'm pretty sure you are making some positive impacts... keep it up.
Why do people feel like you are encouraging her? You are actually doing a great job at helping her overcome this. My take home is to understand that people might be going through a lot which can cause them to make decisions we could describe as stupid, but our goal must be to try to make them not feel condemned by us but actually see the help we want to give. This hits home for me
Addiction is not an easy thing to tackle on your own . Since she has the will then therapy will help a lot. It’s reminds me of a movie titled ADDICTED. She can come out but she has a lot to do on her own. Wish her all the best
If she can go therapy it will go a long way in assisting her. She can't do it on her own trust me. I mean that's if she wants go overcome the addictions.
Bro I'm really impressed having watched your video and it's well engaging, interactive and educating more so, it's worth the data consumption and time. Keep the good job blowing. I just subscribe to your channel.
Now having seen the different reactions on your approach to the this confession, I now understand better why you asked your questions. Too bad if the others can't see the picture.
I can feel her pain right here watching this video, you make more sense about communication in relationship. Without communication love doesn't exist. For the addition, it is not bad to be additive to something but the thing you are addicted to shouldn't be the negative but rether the positive one. So for her solutions is to be addcited to positive activities and also she should work on her psychological mind. I believe if she does these things will channel her energy to the positive addition. I have watched all the content and i love it.
Firstly, we commend the Lady for coming out to talk about it. Opening up on the subject matter is the starting point of solution. Secondly, addiction to pornography and masturbation is dangerous at all levels. It initiates the practitioner into darker, deeper realms of explorations, strange desires, insatiable desire to do it again and again. Addiction to drugs and to pornography and masturbation is an enslaver. It is limits the person's urge to do normal things. Therefore, you resolve to end the habits is commendable. End it sister, end it. No man, no normal man, will want to stay with a girl he cannot satisfy in bed. But will immediately after sex resort to masturbating and porn. Only an abnormal guy will enjoy your chains and these strange behavior you want to be free from. Thirdly, the presenter should not encourage his guests to continue in the confessions they want to be free from. Encouraging her to open up with the intent of finding someone who will tolerate or appreciate this lifestyle that she so wants to quit is not right. She has admitted that it has extremely negative consequences on her relationships, her psychology and her body. Stick to your neutrality and your ever beautiful, investigative lines of questioning. Your contribution should be solution - driven to help the confessor STOP what you know is morally, spiritually, culturally wrong. Will be glad to offer free resource materials freely to assist this Lady to get out of this habit. And help her settle out of addiction. Will be glad to be a resource base to counsel some of your guests to return to normalcy. The host or guest can reach us at 08034957357. But note: You can never be free from what you enjoy doing. Be determined and stay focused on building a new life that is free from this lifestyle that you are not proud of. We do not condemn you, we join the host to commend your courage to talk about this for the first time. Maybe this program will end up galvanizing a help and healing community for confessors.
@@moshoodaina I've thought of a thousand and one ways to reply his comment, but I decided against it so it doesn't seem I'm trying to be defensive. Sometimes, people listen to reply and not to understand. I never condoned the addiction. I clearly said in 16:20 "It's not cool to be addicted to ANYTHING". However, I also needed to deal with the guilt she feels because most victims of addiction relapse due to depression, stigma, and guilt. If you don't build up the person's self esteem, whatever solution you provide will only be shortlived. I also delved into other virtues such as communication, understanding, and self awareness. But he picked what he picked. We're humans so it's okay for perspectives to differ and I'm fine with that
"No man, no normal man, will want to stay with a girl he cannot satisfy in bed. But will immediately after sex resort to masturbating and porn. Only an abnormal guy will enjoy your chains and these strange behavior you want to be free from." This 2 sentences tells me EVERYTHING I need to know about you. Cheers.
I always look forward to your content. You are doing a great job. Some things 1) the sound of the guest should improved. It was echoing. 2) I think with therapy, she can overcome the addiction, and with God, time and diligence, the problem will be under her feet. Thank you for having this show.
I think you diviated here, because she literally said she's she want to stop watching porn and masturbation. So I think you should have just let her know about the side effects of watching porn and masturbation as a woman. Let her know it will keep on affecting her relationships and even her marriage. She might not be lucky to meet a man who accepts her situation. And this will make her keep on changing men trying to find the one who will understand her situation. So just advice and guide her to stop 🛑
Thank you Emmanuel for this. I sincerely think that healing/freedom begins from knowing that there is a problem and also talking to the right person. Addiction of any sort is a spirit (at this point stronger than you. Because of it is not, then this channel will not be here). I will advice that you have a team of counsellors and therapist that will work with you to help guest. This could be a bonus somebody gets for getting on the show. I strongly recommend Help.
Thank you for your kind words and support. Yes we actually have a team we work with and our guests who need additional therapy get to receive all the help and support they need. For me, this is not just a show, it's a help center 🙏
If you didn't hear the audio . Then go to another channel. Because of your listening pleasure. Her identity ahould be compromised ? . The audio was okay .
Seriously I didn't have any issue with hearing her I heard all that she said perfectly.I just came across this video and I'm glad I watched it to the end well done you are doing a great job
Great therapy show, communication is really key for success in anything in life, wish her best wishes and trust she learnt from the insight from the conversation .
First, well done with what you're doing in helping these people to talk about some of this thing. However, do you have any link to spiritual people(pastors) and therapist who can help these people in so many ways. Please this also very important.....
I was just about to say the same thing....personally, I can recognise voice of someone I knew from years back whom we might not have even spoken in a long while. Mr. Emmanuel, you can use some form of voice changing program on the guest.
@@etseyamhenurudeen458 The voices of my last 2 guests were distorted with a pitch alteration software. And I intend keeping that up in subsequent recordings
She's trying to be free from the shackles of porn, but in a way you're trying to convince her she's alright and she just need to find a guy that understands her and would accept her the way she is. The question she should ask her self is what kind of guy would accept her the way she is. It's only a damanged and disoriented man that can accept her the way she is and feels good about it. Such kind of men does worse things that will make life a living hell for her. Even though she's masked, I could tell she's beautiful and she is brilliant too, so it's painful she's what she is today. However, even if the world judges her, God loves her desperately. It's for people like her Jesus came for. At this level she's gone, it's almost impossible she changes by her will power. Only through salvation that comes with fath in Jesus and obedience to His word she can be free and become a normal and sweet lady her Creator has created her to be. She'll have to be ready to bear the consequences of her old life for a while during the sanctification process of the Spirit of God if she receives it through repentance. She'll need to spend time more studying the scriptures so the Word can transform her heart gradually. When she falls, she shouldn't feel condemn as though she's lost it, but she must be remorseful and pick up herself quickly. Saint are not saint because they don't sin, but because they have the Holy Spirit living in them by faith and are always willing to please Him. They don't waste time to get back up when they fall. The best time to have repented was before you get addicted. The second opportunity is today. A peaceful life, joy and a secured eternal future depends on your decision today. Don't blow it off! I believe I stumbled on this video for a purpose. Shalom!
So she's been addicted to porn for a long time it has even become a way of life. Yes, she knew there was something wrong about it, but didn't realize how bad it's consequences were until she lost her dude, who in her words was betrayed by her silence. And that was at the point she really felt she needed redemption. This means that, she really didn't think its was too much of a problem until she lost the guy. Meaning that, if the guy was okay with it, then you guys would not be having this conversation. Hence it was important for you to really decipher where her guilt and the need to stop was coming from. And it wasn't because she terribly hated it, but because of someone else.
And sincerely, I came to this conclusion based on the direction of the question the host asked. So personally I feel that's highly commendable, but then I feel the questions should have extended to the personal consequences it brought her which would have now mirrored more her need for growth and redemption.
People can betray and the most painful thing is being betrayed by family... imagine telling ur own mom about what you are going through and she using that against you whenever she has the chance 😢i am a very outspoken person and its hard to be a pretender but now i really want to start keeping everything to myself..i dont wanna share no more
Can you please send me a message on IG let's talk. I'd really really love to speak with you. Just send me a DM @1206TV, add a screenshot of this message or something and let's talk
Sin thrives in secrecy, demons pin men down in addiction in darkness, open up ur issue to someone who is spiritually stronger n to Jesus, the light in him exposes every work of d devil in ur live
Hi, I have been watching the chanel and this lady's story has touched me. I was once in a similar situation, not exactly. I lost a good relationship in the process and I think I have overcome it. Ok have been single since and whoever I met could not accept me ok once I shared my experiences. I would like to get in touch with her, if the chanel can make it possible I am in South Africa Thanks
And after a while, breaks up with you because of the same reason he stayed with you just because he had changed, become redeemed and no longer interested in it. I personally feel that you should want to change the habit not directly because of someone, but directly because of how it made you feel after doing it and how it impacted you negatively and all the terrible relationships or consequences you're having because of it. The psychological effects on your Finaces, career, relationship with God, etc not necessarily because of another person's likesness or dislike for it. I bet she wasn't able to open up on the other personal areas it had damaged her because of time and the emphasis on her failed relationship. This would have helped her get a better clarity on why she really needed help and not for her to go back and considered communication if she found a guy that liked it. Yes, she might communicate and find someone, but she'd still feel its unnatural and the person might even find a better light.
You are doing a great work. My advise is that the lady needs a therapist, and most importantly, dedicate her life to Jesus Christ, our Saviour. She should never forget that the spiritual controls the physical. Therefore, read and meditate on God's word and engage the help of the Holy Spirit daily. Jesus Himself recommended them because they are fail-proof, faith-full and life-full. God bless you.
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I also went to an all girls school and my friend introduced me to porn too and it was this redwap 😢 and from there it lead to masturbation but by God’s grace this is my 3rd month from abstinening from it
Why do I have the feeling that you are a psychologist, see the way you are asking the questions so professionally. Kudos Mr Eme, you are doing so well.
She's trying to be free from the shackles of porn, but in a way you're trying to convince her she's alright and she just need to find a guy that understands her and would accept her the way she is. The question she should ask herself is what kind of man would accept her the way she is. It's only a damaged and disoriented man that can accept her the way she is and feel good about it. Such kind of men does worse things that will make life a living hell for her. Even though she's masked, I could tell she's beautiful, brilliant and has a glorious future that the devil wants to thwart hence my concern for her. Even if the world judges her, God loves her desperately. It's for people like her Jesus came for. At this level she's gone, it's almost impossible she stop by her will power. Only through salvation that comes with fath in Jesus and obedience to His word she can be free and become a normal and sweet lady her Creator has created her to be. She'll have to be ready to bear the consequences of her old life for a while during the sanctification process of the Spirit of God if she receives it through repentance. She'll need to spend more time studying the scriptures so the Word can transform her heart. You would fall along the way, but you shouldn't condemn yourself or think God is angry with you. You should however be remorseful and pick up yourself again quickly. Christians aren't holy because they don't sin, but because they have the Holy Spirit living in them through faith in Jesus and are desperate to please Him. The best time to repent is yesterday, before one became addicted to destructive lifestyle. The second best time is today. Your peace, joy and eternity depends on it. Don't blow it away. I believe I stumbled on this video for a purpose. Shalom.
I actually have the same issue on having the conversation But still very afraid to talk about it and that’s what is making me to fight it with all cost but is not working
I'm so sorry my brother. You just have to try to talk about it. If your partner truly loves you, they'll work with you towards finding a solution. Keep fighting 🙏
This conversation seems weird and incomplete. I expected the host to help encourage her to overcome her addiction instead of trying to make her partners live with it.She is clearly not happy with her addictions and was hoping for advice on how to deal with it. She shouldn't be priotising relationships for now, but self healing. Making her partner understand is very important, but the most important thing should be herself, getting rid of the burden of the addiction and being free.
The sound is terrible,I believe you listening to it before posting,if you initially did the voice that way then it not okay cos I can hardly hear what she’s saying
The guy is a psychotherapist I swear, societal factors affect most of our thought processes and especially from religious and cultural dependency…my take home here is life is preference regardless 😂
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Big ups to these girls for the courage and confidence to open up
Firstly, kudos to the host for organizing this platform. I'm sure many people are facing significant challenges with no one to turn to. Like she mentioned, sometimes it feels safer to stay silent than to open up and risk betrayal. My advice to her is to try to get closer to God and talk to Him about her struggles. It might be difficult, but with dedication, she'll likely see positive changes over time.I've been through a similar experience myself. As a guy, I struggled with pornography for 9 years, which nearly destroyed everything I had. What helped me stop was praying and staying active, making sure I was never alone. I've been free from watching porn and masturbating for over a year now, and I attribute this to God's help and my own dedication.So, I encourage you to have those deep conversations with God. It might not be easy to stop all at once, but giving it a try could lead to a better life. All love ❤️✌🏻
Oh this is such a beautiful beautiful testimony. Thank you so much for sharing. Many people need to hear this and be encouraged. I don't mind having a conversation with you on this where you can share your success story in a bid to encourage others. If it's something you're comfortable with, please send me a DM on IG or FB let's talk more on it 🙏
lol, draw close to which God?
Seems like you don’t know what addiction is! God ain’t gon do shit!
It just take time & a lot of determination to be able to stop completely
@@DonNydrumzyou obviously haven't had a proper experience with God
@@DonNydrumzYey I actually understand, this actually shows that you might have tried it and perhaps it didn't work, but can I ask you..., which heart did you come to God with, is it as an alternative or the only option..?,
Matt 11:28 said you should come onto him, with all your burdens and he will give you rest, John 8:4-11, talked about the woman that was cut in the very act, and the accusers were ready to prosecute her, but Jesus been a merciful father turned around and forgave her, he said in his word, that he came to save the lost, to bring them onto himself, he has paid for your freedom and sin, don't allow the devil to thrust you into sin, just believe in him and the freedom which he gave in the cross of Calvary will be yours, Hebrew 11:6 tells us to believe in him, his existence and supremacy and the reward which is your forgiveness and freedom will be yours .
Shalom 🙏🙏🙏
These things are evil spirits of sexual immorality, run to Jesus fam
I was addicted with a friend of mine being a female, and now we are self improving very well. Im about 3 weeks Free and I feel no urge whatsoever running back. Give it all to God. Amen❤
Thanks for sharing. And may your testimony be permanent. God bless you so much 🙏
@@1206TV Amen😊💜
Hmm
Her sexual feelings and sexual lifestyle has got nothing to do with Jesus.
The young lady is just passing through a period in her life.
STOP all these religious nonsense....
Explain how going to Jesus for help is religious?
So going through rounds of sex and addiction is normal? You need Jesus fam, you clearly not normal.
I love the fact that you are not judgmental in your approach. Keep up the good work...
Thank you for your kind words. I really appreciate 🙏
If he was judgemental, he’s not gonna see anybody
Guilt is the trap....stop feeling guilty while you vwork ur way out of it .if you relapase continue without feeling guilty, pick a positive vision that only God can bring to life, that youll need ti stick to him to, you will see that you will go out of it . . like someone once told me, you cant switch off darkness you can only brig in light to expel darkness
For those who felt I was encouraging her to keep going, kindly read this comment and UNDERSTAND.
Guilt is one of the major reasons why people in recovery relapse. Other factors include stigmatization, depression, and fear. You can't successfully lead someone on the path of recovery without first dealing with the guilt they feel within them. Guilt is a trap. So deal with the guilt first, then others can follow
You’re a wise one
Addiction of any kind is dangerous, it destroys everything you hold dear.. my advice for her is for her to get involved in any sporting activities, and of course prayers..
You're absolutely correct
I completely agree that understanding sustains a relationship longer than love. Love is just a feeling, it fades away with time but understanding is like an anchor, steadfast and true. The girls needs help though. She can’t do it on her own, believe me
100% correct
Addiction is like a person sinking and gasping for breath but can't help the situation. That she has admitted she wants to work on it to stop means she can be helped. The first step to receiving help is that you admit it is a challenge. I pray that God's mercy and grace will locate you.
Amennnnnnnnnnn 🙏🏾 Thank you for your kind words
Nice video. My advice to her is if she feels it's something she needs to stop, she can continue to work on it. On the other hand, she might find someone who loves her that way. I know of a relationship where the guy loves it when the girl plays with herself and he watches it. What may be a turn-off for one person might be a turn-on to another person. The key is communication in a relationship is very important. Don't keep secrets in any serious relationship. Thanks for sharing your experience.
A good school of thought
Just came across this page last night and trust me when I say i didn't sleep althru the night. Just want to go and sleep now abeg. I really love what you do here. Am now a huge fan
Thank you so much and welcome onboard 🙏🏾
Follow Apostle. Arome Osayi's message on how to deal with lust, and learn all you have to do to become free again. This is my piece, if u are willing God is willing
Emma u are the real MVP. What u gave this lady is priceless. U without judging her, redirected her thoughts.. people pay real money for such therapy.
Pls tell her to reach out to her ex and encourage him to watch this video. He may be damaged from the experience. He, I suspect felt inadequate on some level and may transmit that in his new relationships. He needs to know he was really good and nothing that happened was his fault. Secondly I feel the lady is a free spirited person and it will help her fight her addiction. Habits die faster when we don't attache strong emotions to them. Let her playfully challenge herself to keep working on stopping. I feel if she gets too serious she won't go far.
Kudos to you all hosting this platform. U are doing a great job.
Thank you so so much. Your advices are spot on and 100% accurate. Thankful for your kind words and show of love/support. God bless you 🙏
Mr. Emmanuel, I've been refreshing your page for new episodes and thank God you posted it today. i just can't love you less cuz your level of asking intellectual questions is just superb and out of this world. Much love from me from Ghana 🇬🇭. Soar Higher, Mr. Emmanuel🤝
Awwwww thank you so so much. Your words are always soothing and very encouraging. I really appreciate the love and support. God bless you so much 🙏
@@1206TV God Bless you too. But please drop more episodes 🙏
@@isaacebodarmian2282 😁😁 will do
I was eagerly waiting for you to ask her how these addictions affect her everyday life, Work, Productivity and all..not just her sexual relationships
Noted...next time then 🙏
I had the same thought in mind 🤔🤔🤔💯
We appreciate the guest you brought on the show to share their with us and I believe many people like myself have always had one or two lessons from each episode here , keep the good work.....I love your African print always, love from ghana 🇬🇭
Thank you so so much, I really appreciate the love and support 🙏
Bro you really know how to counsel and interrogate people to bring out the truth from them.. you really good at what you are doing. people are learning seriously.
Thank you so much boss. I really appreciate 🙏
Bro you're too good. I really loved the way you made your point, I mean I'm still amazed till now.
Thank you so much for the kind words. God bless 🙏🏾
Great job sir! I think making provision for resources to help the guests if they are willing will be very impactful.
Connecting with Pastors whose ministry are in these areas, psychologists,therapists.
That way the guest doesn’t come to just share their stories but also get help .
You're right. We're doing the best we can and we're also open to collaborations from individuals in these sectors 🙏🏾
Addiction is a habit, you have to erase that masturbation habit with another habit e.g reading, sporting, watching the preachings of pastors, drinking.
You're correct 💯
Drinking?😂
I came across this broadcast yesterday it’s so inspiring. It’s really shows that people are going through a lot in life.
A whole lot to be honest
The host definitely got comfortable on this episode. Almost telling her not to stop that some people like it. Definitely shared his personal opinion
I always share my personal opinion...I never claim to be right or wrong. Just my opinion
Therapist will NEVER tell you wrong or right but give you advice that this is what they think sule all yall mF need therapy
Wow....this is a deep story and situation.Communication is the key.
God I thank you for all you’ve done for me and my security
And may God help this young Generations amen🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽✝️
Amen 🙏
Ma guy, you're doing a great job, these are not just confession sessions, it's more like counseling and I'm pretty sure you are making some positive impacts... keep it up.
Thank you so much for these kind words. I really appreciate 🙏
Why do people feel like you are encouraging her? You are actually doing a great job at helping her overcome this. My take home is to understand that people might be going through a lot which can cause them to make decisions we could describe as stupid, but our goal must be to try to make them not feel condemned by us but actually see the help we want to give. This hits home for me
God bless you bro. Thank you so much for seeing through my intention
Hello and I've practically binge watched your content because they are so relatable
🙏🙏 thank you so so much
Addiction is not an easy thing to tackle on your own . Since she has the will then therapy will help a lot. It’s reminds me of a movie titled ADDICTED. She can come out but she has a lot to do on her own. Wish her all the best
Right! 👍
If she can go therapy it will go a long way in assisting her. She can't do it on her own trust me. I mean that's if she wants go overcome the addictions.
Bro I'm really impressed having watched your video and it's well engaging, interactive and educating more so, it's worth the data consumption and time. Keep the good job blowing.
I just subscribe to your channel.
Thank you so much. I really appreciate the support and words of encouragement. God bless 🙏🏾
Now having seen the different reactions on your approach to the this confession, I now understand better why you asked your questions. Too bad if the others can't see the picture.
Perspectives may differ but that's totally understandable. I'm glad you see it from my lens too
Weldone for the great job Emmanuel,for the guest.Jesus can heal all addictions.Run to him.
Thank you so much 🙏🏾
I can feel her pain right here watching this video, you make more sense about communication in relationship. Without communication love doesn't exist. For the addition, it is not bad to be additive to something but the thing you are addicted to shouldn't be the negative but rether the positive one. So for her solutions is to be addcited to positive activities and also she should work on her psychological mind. I believe if she does these things will channel her energy to the positive addition. I have watched all the content and i love it.
Thank you so much for your beautiful comment. Much appreciated and God bless you 🙏
Firstly, we commend the Lady for coming out to talk about it. Opening up on the subject matter is the starting point of solution. Secondly, addiction to pornography and masturbation is dangerous at all levels. It initiates the practitioner into darker, deeper realms of explorations, strange desires, insatiable desire to do it again and again. Addiction to drugs and to pornography and masturbation is an enslaver. It is limits the person's urge to do normal things. Therefore, you resolve to end the habits is commendable. End it sister, end it. No man, no normal man, will want to stay with a girl he cannot satisfy in bed. But will immediately after sex resort to masturbating and porn. Only an abnormal guy will enjoy your chains and these strange behavior you want to be free from. Thirdly, the presenter should not encourage his guests to continue in the confessions they want to be free from. Encouraging her to open up with the intent of finding someone who will tolerate or appreciate this lifestyle that she so wants to quit is not right. She has admitted that it has extremely negative consequences on her relationships, her psychology and her body. Stick to your neutrality and your ever beautiful, investigative lines of questioning. Your contribution should be solution - driven to help the confessor STOP what you know is morally, spiritually, culturally wrong. Will be glad to offer free resource materials freely to assist this Lady to get out of this habit. And help her settle out of addiction. Will be glad to be a resource base to counsel some of your guests to return to normalcy. The host or guest can reach us at 08034957357. But note: You can never be free from what you enjoy doing. Be determined and stay focused on building a new life that is free from this lifestyle that you are not proud of.
We do not condemn you, we join the host to commend your courage to talk about this for the first time. Maybe this program will end up galvanizing a help and healing community for confessors.
You’re right but listen again because Emmanuel said before giving that advice that he might be wrong but that’s his own opinion.
@@moshoodaina I've thought of a thousand and one ways to reply his comment, but I decided against it so it doesn't seem I'm trying to be defensive. Sometimes, people listen to reply and not to understand. I never condoned the addiction. I clearly said in 16:20 "It's not cool to be addicted to ANYTHING". However, I also needed to deal with the guilt she feels because most victims of addiction relapse due to depression, stigma, and guilt. If you don't build up the person's self esteem, whatever solution you provide will only be shortlived. I also delved into other virtues such as communication, understanding, and self awareness. But he picked what he picked. We're humans so it's okay for perspectives to differ and I'm fine with that
"No man, no normal man, will want to stay with a girl he cannot satisfy in bed. But will immediately after sex resort to masturbating and porn. Only an abnormal guy will enjoy your chains and these strange behavior you want to be free from."
This 2 sentences tells me EVERYTHING I need to know about you. Cheers.
Wisdom will never leaves your side. Well said.
God bless u, please the host contact this guy
I come across this page yesterday and it's interesting to watch and learn, kudos to the anchor ✌️ and the quest
@@RahamanAdetutu Awwww thank you so so much, I really appreciate 🙏🏾
We love what you're doing. Keept at it @1206 TV
Thank you so much, I really appreciate
Third video I'm watching, good to see the distortion you put in the voice. Love the show let's have more stories.
Thank you so much 🙏
Emmanuel, honestly you are doing great ❤
Thank you so much 🙏🏾
I always look forward to your content. You are doing a great job.
Some things
1) the sound of the guest should improved. It was echoing.
2) I think with therapy, she can overcome the addiction, and with God, time and diligence, the problem will be under her feet.
Thank you for having this show.
Thank you so much 🙏
She's trying put an end to that, and you are encouraging her
Not exactly so. I was dealing with the guilt she feels not encouraging her
I think is advisable to keep the site mute as I presume people would want to explore most especially younger ones. Thank you sir
You're right. Unfortunately it's already been uploaded and I can't change it again. I'll do better next time
I think you diviated here, because she literally said she's she want to stop watching porn and masturbation. So I think you should have just let her know about the side effects of watching porn and masturbation as a woman. Let her know it will keep on affecting her relationships and even her marriage. She might not be lucky to meet a man who accepts her situation. And this will make her keep on changing men trying to find the one who will understand her situation. So just advice and guide her to stop 🛑
Yes oh! Understanding is the key in any relationship ❤
Yes it is
This is so deep
Came across your videos and honestly its a blessing
Thank you so so much, we are happy to have you here. Kindly subscribe and share our videos please
Wow! My take home is Emmanuel's Sincere Engagement with the Girl, which brought about Corrections for Solutions...
Thank you boss 🙏
You're very welcome beloved.
Thank you Emmanuel for this. I sincerely think that healing/freedom begins from knowing that there is a problem and also talking to the right person.
Addiction of any sort is a spirit (at this point stronger than you. Because of it is not, then this channel will not be here). I will advice that you have a team of counsellors and therapist that will work with you to help guest. This could be a bonus somebody gets for getting on the show. I strongly recommend Help.
Thank you for your kind words and support. Yes we actually have a team we work with and our guests who need additional therapy get to receive all the help and support they need. For me, this is not just a show, it's a help center 🙏
UA-cam just referred this video, and I had to watch. Nice content big bro. You got a new subscriber. Best of Luck. I'm praying for you! 🙏
Awwww thank you so much. Welcome onboard
Thanks for trying to protect the identity of your guests but the sound is terrible tbh. I struggled to listen to the interview
Sorry about that. We'll improve on it
my guy your vision is outstanding. I salute your ideology. keep it up bro. things day happen for life sha.
Thank you so much 🙏
If you didn't hear the audio . Then go to another channel. Because of your listening pleasure. Her identity ahould be compromised ? . The audio was okay .
How can I like this comment a million times? Honestly your kind must be protected at all cost. Thank you so much 🙏
@@1206TVher identity must be protected . Simple
Seriously I didn't have any issue with hearing her I heard all that she said perfectly.I just came across this video and I'm glad I watched it to the end well done you are doing a great job
@@teesmedia1 Thank you so much 🙏
Great therapy show, communication is really key for success in anything in life, wish her best wishes and trust she learnt from the insight from the conversation .
Thank you so so much 🙏
Nice conversation n lessons all tru
Thank you so much 🙏🏾
First, well done with what you're doing in helping these people to talk about some of this thing. However, do you have any link to spiritual people(pastors) and therapist who can help these people in so many ways. Please this also very important.....
Thank you so much for the kind words. Yes, I have people that I work with
Communication is the key!
I was going to suggest you edit the voice of your guests prior to this video because it's easy to identify people by their voice.
I was just about to say the same thing....personally, I can recognise voice of someone I knew from years back whom we might not have even spoken in a long while. Mr. Emmanuel, you can use some form of voice changing program on the guest.
The voices of my last 2 guests were altered...and moving forward, other guests will also have their voices altered
@@etseyamhenurudeen458 The voices of my last 2 guests were distorted with a pitch alteration software. And I intend keeping that up in subsequent recordings
@@1206TV nice one...and keep up the good work
I really enjoy watching your videos... The most interesting part is the way you asked questions 😅 i really liked it
Thank you so so much for these kind words. I really appreciate 🙏
She's trying to be free from the shackles of porn, but in a way you're trying to convince her she's alright and she just need to find a guy that understands her and would accept her the way she is.
The question she should ask her self is what kind of guy would accept her the way she is. It's only a damanged and disoriented man that can accept her the way she is and feels good about it. Such kind of men does worse things that will make life a living hell for her.
Even though she's masked, I could tell she's beautiful and she is brilliant too, so it's painful she's what she is today.
However, even if the world judges her, God loves her desperately. It's for people like her Jesus came for.
At this level she's gone, it's almost impossible she changes by her will power. Only through salvation that comes with fath in Jesus and obedience to His word she can be free and become a normal and sweet lady her Creator has created her to be.
She'll have to be ready to bear the consequences of her old life for a while during the sanctification process of the Spirit of God if she receives it through repentance. She'll need to spend time more studying the scriptures so the Word can transform her heart gradually. When she falls, she shouldn't feel condemn as though she's lost it, but she must be remorseful and pick up herself quickly. Saint are not saint because they don't sin, but because they have the Holy Spirit living in them by faith and are always willing to please Him. They don't waste time to get back up when they fall.
The best time to have repented was before you get addicted. The second opportunity is today. A peaceful life, joy and a secured eternal future depends on your decision today. Don't blow it off!
I believe I stumbled on this video for a purpose.
Shalom!
You ask good questions! Thumb up!
Thank you 🙏
He's a smart guy 👦 I see God's grace upon his head 🙏 He's a blessed 🙌 son.
Wonderful work bro keep it up I always learn from each episode 👍
Thank you so so much 🙏
Am getting knowledge with your contents thanks you
It's my pleasure. 🙏🏾
So she's been addicted to porn for a long time it has even become a way of life. Yes, she knew there was something wrong about it, but didn't realize how bad it's consequences were until she lost her dude, who in her words was betrayed by her silence. And that was at the point she really felt she needed redemption.
This means that, she really didn't think its was too much of a problem until she lost the guy. Meaning that, if the guy was okay with it, then you guys would not be having this conversation.
Hence it was important for you to really decipher where her guilt and the need to stop was coming from. And it wasn't because she terribly hated it, but because of someone else.
GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!!!
AHHHHHHHHHH very brilliant and well analyzed. This is it 100%.
This i so true
I appreciate the efforts that you hide your guests identity.The girl who sl€pt with dogs kpaii herself because the story went viral.😢😢
Exactly. Thank you so much
This guilt you feel is Jesus telling you to turn to him
Very valid
Are you an Evangelist? Did the title draw you here to save her sinful soul after listening to all the juicy details of her story?
And sincerely, I came to this conclusion based on the direction of the question the host asked.
So personally I feel that's highly commendable, but then I feel the questions should have extended to the personal consequences it brought her which would have now mirrored more her need for growth and redemption.
👌
God help us!! Life is not easy
I like all your videos very initiative..❤
Thank you very much 🙏
My takeaway...... The way you handle a makeup story will determine the level of things I'll tell you.
100% undiluted unadulterated fact
Did you distort her voice or is it the mask? I couldn’t really hear her well.
I distorted her voice. Sorry about the issue hearing her. I'll do better subsequently
People can betray and the most painful thing is being betrayed by family... imagine telling ur own mom about what you are going through and she using that against you whenever she has the chance 😢i am a very outspoken person and its hard to be a pretender but now i really want to start keeping everything to myself..i dont wanna share no more
Can you please send me a message on IG let's talk. I'd really really love to speak with you. Just send me a DM @1206TV, add a screenshot of this message or something and let's talk
Sin thrives in secrecy, demons pin men down in addiction in darkness, open up ur issue to someone who is spiritually stronger n to Jesus, the light in him exposes every work of d devil in ur live
Hi, I have been watching the chanel and this lady's story has touched me. I was once in a similar situation, not exactly.
I lost a good relationship in the process and I think I have overcome it.
Ok have been single since and whoever I met could not accept me ok once I shared my experiences.
I would like to get in touch with her, if the chanel can make it possible
I am in South Africa
Thanks
I love U bro, U are a very intelligent guy I really enjoyed your program keep it up❤❤❤.
Thank you so much, I really appreciate 🙏
And after a while, breaks up with you because of the same reason he stayed with you just because he had changed, become redeemed and no longer interested in it.
I personally feel that you should want to change the habit not directly because of someone, but directly because of how it made you feel after doing it and how it impacted you negatively and all the terrible relationships or consequences you're having because of it. The psychological effects on your Finaces, career, relationship with God, etc not necessarily because of another person's likesness or dislike for it.
I bet she wasn't able to open up on the other personal areas it had damaged her because of time and the emphasis on her failed relationship. This would have helped her get a better clarity on why she really needed help and not for her to go back and considered communication if she found a guy that liked it.
Yes, she might communicate and find someone, but she'd still feel its unnatural and the person might even find a better light.
Valid line of thought
You are doing a great work. My advise is that the lady needs a therapist, and most importantly, dedicate her life to Jesus Christ, our Saviour. She should never forget that the spiritual controls the physical. Therefore, read and meditate on God's word and engage the help of the Holy Spirit daily. Jesus Himself recommended them because they are fail-proof, faith-full and life-full. God bless you.
Amen! Thank you so so much 🙏
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I also went to an all girls school and my friend introduced me to porn too and it was this redwap 😢 and from there it lead to masturbation but by God’s grace this is my 3rd month from abstinening from it
Oh wow what a testimony. Thank God for you and your progress. If you want to talk some more about the journey, please send a DM on Instagram 🙏
the audio modulator thing is echoing badly
Love is not a sustaining factor. Understanding is.
100% facts
Why do I have the feeling that you are a psychologist, see the way you are asking the questions so professionally.
Kudos Mr Eme, you are doing so well.
😁😁 Thank you for the kind words. I'm not a psychologist though
Wow, you really sound like one, keep it up Sir.
Mhmm ! It's very educating !
Thank you 🙏
She's trying to be free from the shackles of porn, but in a way you're trying to convince her she's alright and she just need to find a guy that understands her and would accept her the way she is.
The question she should ask herself is what kind of man would accept her the way she is.
It's only a damaged and disoriented man that can accept her the way she is and feel good about it. Such kind of men does worse things that will make life a living hell for her.
Even though she's masked, I could tell she's beautiful, brilliant and has a glorious future that the devil wants to thwart hence my concern for her.
Even if the world judges her, God loves her desperately. It's for people like her Jesus came for.
At this level she's gone, it's almost impossible she stop by her will power.
Only through salvation that comes with fath in Jesus and obedience to His word she can be free and become a normal and sweet lady her Creator has created her to be.
She'll have to be ready to bear the consequences of her old life for a while during the sanctification process of the Spirit of God if she receives it through repentance.
She'll need to spend more time studying the scriptures so the Word can transform her heart.
You would fall along the way, but you shouldn't condemn yourself or think God is angry with you. You should however be remorseful and pick up yourself again quickly.
Christians aren't holy because they don't sin, but because they have the Holy Spirit living in them through faith in Jesus and are desperate to please Him.
The best time to repent is yesterday, before one became addicted to destructive lifestyle. The second best time is today. Your peace, joy and eternity depends on it. Don't blow it away.
I believe I stumbled on this video for a purpose.
Shalom.
God bless you for this food for thought❤
I actually have the same issue on having the conversation But still very afraid to talk about it and that’s what is making me to fight it with all cost but is not working
I'm so sorry my brother. You just have to try to talk about it. If your partner truly loves you, they'll work with you towards finding a solution. Keep fighting 🙏
Amazing Video 👏
Keep it coming OP.
Thanks! Will do! 🙏
I going through the same thing
Love is not complete without communication
100%
This conversation seems weird and incomplete. I expected the host to help encourage her to overcome her addiction instead of trying to make her partners live with it.She is clearly not happy with her addictions and was hoping for advice on how to deal with it. She shouldn't be priotising relationships for now, but self healing. Making her partner understand is very important, but the most important thing should be herself, getting rid of the burden of the addiction and being free.
How about fixing the issue WITH an understanding partner?
The Lord is your strength
Thank you so much 🙏
Addiction is not easy to stop most especially when is in yur finger tip guy is not easy
100% correct
The sound is terrible,I believe you listening to it before posting,if you initially did the voice that way then it not okay cos I can hardly hear what she’s saying
Sorry about that
The guy is a psychotherapist I swear, societal factors affect most of our thought processes and especially from religious and cultural dependency…my take home here is life is preference regardless 😂
I can see the voice has been autotuned. Smart.
I was here before this channel went boom!
Thank you so much 🙏
U already told her all she needs to hear which is communication, but I’d advise praying and asking God for help… if she’s a Christian
True 🙏
NO MAN JUDGES ANY LADY FOR THIS KIND...
Is the echo in her voice intentional??I mean I just thought it felt weird..
Yes it's intentional to mask her voice and increase her anonymity
I love ur interviews
Thank you so much 🙏
I'm passing through same thing 😔
Oh I'm so sorry to hear this. Please send a DM on IG let's talk
@@1206TV your Instagram handle
@@1206TVwhat’s your IG handle
@@1206TVI’m passing through same thing too 😢
Are you a psychologist?
I am that I am 😌
Addiction is bad
But it's all boil down to mindset
Sorry for her though
Wow 😳 I enjoy watching this content
Thank you so much 🙏
The audio is terrible bros.if we won't get the story why bring them up ..
Just so I'm sure...is this a rhetorical question or you honestly want an answer?
I love this content
Thank you so much