Spring 2022 | I'm Having A Mental Breakdown | Week 2 Recovery Of A DVT In My Arm

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  • @Everythingfreshandsassy
    @Everythingfreshandsassy 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for opening your heart and sharing all that makes you vulnerable. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND YOU ARE LOVED!

  • @michaelstylezz3870
    @michaelstylezz3870 2 роки тому +17

    Get ready to read cuz this is finna be long and I’ve been trying to sleep for hours but you were on my mind so heavy since I watched this video earlier today… first let me say thank you for being transparent and sharing. It’s hard to do and I know that because I can relate. I’m 30 years old and I have had cancer 5 times, shingles, ulcers, pretty much if it could happen to someone it was most likely gonna be me lol. I say all that to say YOU GOT THIS! Let’s take a moment to be thankful that you listened to your body to begin with because if I’m being honest my last run in with cancer… I didn’t. I was sooo afraid of hearing the words “unfortunately you have cancer, but this time we don’t think there’s anything we can do about it ” I was letting fear get the best of me and I eventually went and found out I did indeed have it again I started treatment and now I’m better. I know for a fact you are going to get through this. I started crying when you were talking about how much your body changed and you gained weight and you aren’t feeling like yourself in your clothes and I get that 100 percent but for me was I couldn’t stop LOSING weight (guuurlll I looked a damn bobble head) and it really messed with my head. I’m back at a healthy weight now and I’m so thankful I had a great support team and team of doctors to nurse me back to health. I know you have the same cuz one things forsure is that Mr.Long ain’t about to let ANYTHING happen to you that can be prevented. We all love you and we are here for you ❤️ again thank you for sharing how you REALLY feeling in this TEMPORARY moment! Keep ya head up you have a lot of people rooting for you 😊

  • @EducatedLady1975
    @EducatedLady1975 2 роки тому +1

    I feel you sis, God bless you! ❤️🙏 Thanks for sharing because this is a lot, but God has you. Wishing you a speedy recovery beautiful.

  • @anncraig5625
    @anncraig5625 2 роки тому

    Steph don't beat yourself up. I had fibroid as well. My cycles were off the chain, bleeding for 3 weeks straight and passing huge clots. After getting and IUD, shots of lupron in my butt for months, nothing worked. I finally got a hysterectomy (partial, I still have my ovaries) and hunti, one of the best decisions I ever made. Only regret is, I didn't so it sooner. January made 3 years and life has been fantastic. I have blood pressure issues as well and hate my weight too (190) and I'm 5'6. However, people put here have way worse problems than myself, so I count my blessings and just control what I can and dispose the rest. You'll be ok doll, just listen to the doctors and have faith in the process. Sending you huge virtual hugs and kisses!!

  • @statecraft9878
    @statecraft9878 2 роки тому +1

    Hey...Hey!!!🥰🥰
    Glad you made this video. Please be selfish and take this time for healing(self care). Praying for you for strength, mercy, and grace. Praying for your family too!! Ready for story time. Hugs....

  • @shawright9273
    @shawright9273 2 роки тому

    Prayers

  • @jojoreid7867
    @jojoreid7867 2 роки тому

    Steph!!!! You are enough of a person! You can not control EVERYTHING! I had a complete hysterectomy due to Fibroids and being pre-cancerous. I am fine. You will get better, and get back to yourself. I suffer with depression and medication helps me to feel more like me.

  • @inayahumm6000
    @inayahumm6000 2 роки тому +6

    @Stephanie Long , Thank you for sharing!! We need more discussions about Health issue( Physical & Mental). You are helping someone. We are so proud of you. We appreciated you!!

  • @TamicoShawn
    @TamicoShawn 2 роки тому +1

    Praying for you Steph! Praying for a full recovery, optimal health, pain-free, your body will be back to the way it’s supposed to. God is walking with you every step of the way. Un-wavering faith.

  • @joanyeis60pluslovinglife28
    @joanyeis60pluslovinglife28 2 роки тому

    Much love to you Steph, stop beating yourself up. You are much younger than me, but all this too shall pass. Depression can make you think you are losing your mind, been there done that. I didn't have a platform like you do, but I survived and you will to. It is absolutely okay to cry, and to say no, I can't speak for others but I need you to love yourself and your family first.

  • @chynawright9935
    @chynawright9935 2 роки тому +2

    Hey MaMa Steph I Thank you for Sharing your life with us, And I also want to Say thank God U Are Feeling So Much Better We Misses And the Fam🫶🏽🙏🏾💕🤩🥰 Can Please Listening to your 🧑🏻‍⚕️Because UA-cam Family Need You God Bless

  • @joannlaw1918
    @joannlaw1918 2 роки тому +4

    Trust and believe God will work it out for you. He is a doctor that has never losted a patient. Thanks for sharing.

  • @dawnbrady684
    @dawnbrady684 2 роки тому +1

    Hun i watched someone go from vibrant and busy to meh in weeks because of stress and high blood pressure. They are now on clonidine its to be rid of water weight (it took around a month to be back to their normal size)It will take time and a lot time away from bad stress. You have so many people around you. They are waiting to for you to speak up. If you haven't yet, hopefully you will soon cry your last tear. My suggestion is write down everything that bugs you about everything. Read the whole list someone to their face then burn it in a metal trash can or whatever. Dont let it come back to mind. You just gave it to GOD. Its up to him now. It works very well for me. Footprints in the sand are what i look for. A walk on the beach with Him can look like one pair or two, When there is only one Its him carrying you through whatever problem you are going through.

    • @EclecticNista
      @EclecticNista  2 роки тому

      This is a great idea! Write it down, say what I need to say to purge myself and burn it! Thank you for this, i appreciate it.💜

    • @dawnbrady684
      @dawnbrady684 2 роки тому

      @@EclecticNista I'm glad i was able to help. 🙏

  • @Donella00
    @Donella00 2 роки тому +5

    Girl sending you some love … not going through the same illness but i was diagnosed with kidney disease in October it’s been a journey to say the least … it was hard in the beginning because I would be tired and nauseous all the time … I agree with your doctor give yourself grace this just one chapter of your life you are going through definitely not the end I’m praying for you ❤️

  • @leihaila
    @leihaila 2 роки тому +6

    We have to be selfish for US all the time Steph!! Especially when it comes to our health! My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family! Peace and blessings my dear 😊 virtual hugs babes

  • @beverlydenny2274
    @beverlydenny2274 2 роки тому +1

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @gdy2shoes78
    @gdy2shoes78 2 роки тому +1

    Also, get your vitamin D levels checked as well. A lot of times those levels are also low especially when you iron/hemoglobin is low.

  • @Mia-on4no
    @Mia-on4no 2 роки тому +1

    Dear Steph, I agree with you 100 percent. I am praying for you, Got got you. U must rest to heal, and walk by faith not by sight. Love yourself unconditionally. You will heal, it takes time.You will bouce back. God be with u always, keeping u in my prayers. 💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @rogerwinters9856
    @rogerwinters9856 2 роки тому

    Stay positive talk to yourself and say this too shall pass, this will all be behind you, you are smart and intelligent person so is your family, take your time and don't think about how your clothes fit now, what you want now is to be well, so now first things first, you sound as if you have some good doctors who are now listening to you, much rest is needed, and slowly work your way back, the key is time time time and don't rush, because I saw you doing what you needed to do and your weight was going down, now once everything is fixed hey you will be back on track. We as women our bodies change and we just have to roll with the punches, just think about how much we put it through, education, working, being married, raising a family, cooking, cleaning, school work, and so on, so I give myself a brake. Can't wait to see the next video of the event.

  • @tanyapetersen7426
    @tanyapetersen7426 2 роки тому +1

    Hey, StephNista. I watched this video last night and you just about had me in tesrs right ong with you. I have been watching you for six years and I know that you are a very private person. You are crying out for help and I'm glad you did. This will cause other women to come forth with what you're going through. We all as women go through emotional trials because we are the nurturers. I believe God is trying to get your attention. I know He wants to deliver you from this and He will.
    Talk to Him. No one can bring you out of this but God..I'm praying for you. I know you are going to be fine. Please don't scare me like this again..I need you to be here and your family needs you to be here a long time.too I love you ,girl.Keep the faith, trust in God and get better. God bless you and the family. Continue to be the strong woman you are..
    .

  • @DiamondzPearlz1
    @DiamondzPearlz1 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for being transparent and sharing your thoughts. You are beautiful! Sending you so much love and light. 💖

  • @teayah5815
    @teayah5815 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for opening up and sharing your struggles… but rest assured it’s a lot of us is going through or approaching the time we have to give ourselves more grace. I’m going through the change and can’t stand it. I fill so unwell at times. Especially the wait gain and the body aches! But Steph I can’t give up. A little more grace to give yourself is the best advice.

  • @LadyJay355
    @LadyJay355 2 роки тому +1

    Omg I’m so happy you’re sharing your story. Yesterday I went to the doctor because my leg was heavy and felt like it was being squeezed. No clot was found! I have to take a 10hr flight next week. Im so ready to get it over with. 😩 I’m also anemic. Keep giving yourself grace. Everything will be okay, Steph.💕

  • @chandrapreston3847
    @chandrapreston3847 2 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing

  • @nicholashaley6563
    @nicholashaley6563 2 роки тому

    My favorite

  • @rosalindbizzell3822
    @rosalindbizzell3822 2 роки тому +1

    God loves you, bless you and keep you. This is the season of Self Care!

  • @iamchakinakrystelle
    @iamchakinakrystelle 2 роки тому

    STEPH! LISTEN! I’m will be 46 on tomorrow I too suffer with fibroids which are very painful.
    I too lost over 30 pounds and after my fibroids returned along with high blood pressure that was gone but after removal surgery 5 years ago I gained it ALL back.
    My fibroids returned and came back so painful, my stomach is bloated and my body doesn’t look the same.
    Im not able to wear the clothes I so love to rock.
    Im a thrifter and love clothes and just bring me.
    I so UNDERSTAND how you feel!
    I was on birth control which did nothing but put more pounds on me.
    It’s a hard place to be so I understand when you don’t feel like you.
    It’s ok to be selfish when you are a mom, wife business owner etc etc.
    It can be ALOT but I’m praying for you sis.
    I just wanted to give you a big hug and tell you God got you girl TAKE CARE OF YOU!

  • @lesliewheatle1354
    @lesliewheatle1354 2 роки тому +1

    I’ve been going through some of your challenges since 2019. I truly appreciate your video.

  • @frannie7
    @frannie7 2 роки тому +3

    Steph, as you know "this to shall pass". God is in control! And you can't have a testimony without a test. Take time and let yourself heal.

  • @thetracyset
    @thetracyset 2 роки тому +2

    We all go through it sometimes. We’ve got you Steph!!

  • @yolandahayes1354
    @yolandahayes1354 2 роки тому

    We LOVE YOU. It's OK to be selfish .

  • @jackiesworlds
    @jackiesworlds 2 роки тому

    Heyyyy my.....i hate that you are going through all of this.....But Friend Please Please please....Keep The Faith....I'm over here in tears with you....BUT SOMETIMES WE HAVE TO GO THRU THE STORM TO GET TO SUNNIER DAYS... .GOD GOT YOU....I'M PRAYING FOR YOU... IN JESUS NAME YOU ARE HEAL💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @bbisweet2
    @bbisweet2 2 роки тому

    Sending peace & light to you Mrs Long.🙏🏽keep giving yourself the grace you need & desire.💜

  • @1977pinkpanther
    @1977pinkpanther 2 роки тому

    Stephanie I know how you feel. In 2015 I almost died. I had a hysterectomy. The doctor snipped my lower intestine. I was septic. They had to remove two inches of my small intestines. I went through hell. On dialysis. When they say come to the light Carolyn. It’s REAL. Thought I was having an out of body experience, or a dream. I’ve had 3 blood clots in the same leg. The first one. The technician said if the dr wouldn’t have sent me. To get an ultrasound. I would’ve been dead. 😭The vein is messed up. My leg swells everyday. But guess what. I’m still here. A test is required in order to have a testimony🙌🏾. BUT GOD . I get frustrated too. Its ok to cry, journal. God kept you, me and others. Who have been through the same thing. God got us. Just know that. I love ya queen. Going through the valley can be rough. But trust when we can’t see our way. God is carrying us.

  • @christyluckett439
    @christyluckett439 2 роки тому

    I can't believe Ms.J is going to be 21just can't believe this. I remember when u all took the phones from her and she couldn't open of Christmas gifts. wow.Happy Birthday.also God will always will carry u.U are Blessed u Blessed. Keep the faith and be encouraged.

  • @sherrelljay394
    @sherrelljay394 2 роки тому

    Hey, try a lymphatic drainage massage. It helps to get the fluids out of your body.

  • @gdy2shoes78
    @gdy2shoes78 2 роки тому

    Sending hugs and positive vibes your way! I evicted my uterus Nov 2020 and feel soooo much better. No more anemia, shortness of breath, heart palpitations, or looking 6 months preggo and bloated. i wasn’t a candidate for an ablation because my fibroids were inside and outside of my uterus. I had the davinici laparoscopic surgery to remove my tubes and uterus. I kept my cervix because nothing was wrong with it. Recovery was about 4 weeks and I was able to resume normal activity. I pray you make the best decision for YOU regarding your health. I just wanted you to know you are not alone. ❤️

  • @buggnita8094
    @buggnita8094 2 роки тому

    Sending healing prayers for your body and your stamina. Thanks for sharing and being vulnerable. Blessings 🙌🏽

  • @angiesplace24
    @angiesplace24 2 роки тому +2

    Stephanie I'm crying and praying for you.

  • @sheliafinn5990
    @sheliafinn5990 2 роки тому

    And you are still ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS SIS…..

  • @mslcarmon
    @mslcarmon 2 роки тому +4

    Be selfish. Your health is priority here. Put your health first. Praying for your recovery. 🙏🏾

  • @GulfCoastLady
    @GulfCoastLady 2 роки тому

    Steph, I'm so sorry that you are going thru such an emotional time. Just remember, if God brings you TO it, he will bring you THRU it!! Just continue to follow your doctor's orders and you will be back to your old self in no time. Prayers going up for you....and Jazz!🙏Stay strong! Love ya, girl💓

  • @tamiekajdavis
    @tamiekajdavis 2 роки тому

    I will continue to pray for you. Take care of yourself. Take it easy. Give it time. You'll be back to normal soon. I pray all goes well w/ your surgery.. You look BEAUTIFUL!!!! Prayer & patience will get you through.. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💜💜💜😘😘😘

  • @shirleyfretty487
    @shirleyfretty487 2 роки тому

    I’m new to your channel Stephanie. I’m older than you and have had many illnesses in my lifetime. One thing for sure anemia is a lot of your fatigue, very happy you’re on a healthy eating regiment. Please continue eating fresh veggies and fruits, as you well know you are what you eat. Happy they’re not shoving a lot of pills on you. You will get over what you going through now, praying for you my friend!!!!

  • @Wavy-Waves
    @Wavy-Waves 2 роки тому

    @ Stephanie, I experienced this at the age of 32. I had the hysterectomy, due to fibroids also. I was experiencing a lot. However, I also developed blot clots in my lungs @ 46, & will be on blood thinners the rest of my life. Looking at you reminds me of me at that time. I say that to say, brighter days are ahead. Please take the time to rest. I must admit that the fibroids cause the bloating, as well as menopause. I say, find something comfortable to wear, sleep, & eventually you will feel better. However, it takes a LONG time! So if you can give yourself grace with this, you will be ok..Sending you hugs & kisses.❤️💐

    • @trunicolemckenzie7288
      @trunicolemckenzie7288 2 роки тому

      What were your symptoms of clots in your lungs?

    • @Wavy-Waves
      @Wavy-Waves 2 роки тому

      @@trunicolemckenzie7288 I am sorry for the delay in answering. First, let me say that I was suppose to drop dead. However, the Lord was looking out for me. My symptoms was first what was stomach discomfort that got to feeling like intense indigestion. Then I starting having chest pains & eventually the pain in my chest was so intense, I fell to floor, short of breath and anxiety. Symptoms are different for everyone. If it doesn’t feel right get to the ER!

  • @marisadavid-wilkinson2532
    @marisadavid-wilkinson2532 2 роки тому

    Praying for you Steph.

  • @kimberlyroute5983
    @kimberlyroute5983 2 роки тому +1

    Steph God got you. It’s going to be okay. Love and peace!

  • @mrsmurphy6371
    @mrsmurphy6371 2 роки тому

    Miss you ! Told Jazz yesterday I was sending love 💜hugs and prayers. Can’t come at 8 but will watch in the morning. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏽💜🙏🏽💜🙏🏽🙏🏽💜🙏🏽💜🙏🏽

  • @BellaTHardamon
    @BellaTHardamon 2 роки тому +1

    🙏🏾🙏🏾 We see your beauty always 💜💜

  • @sheliafinn5990
    @sheliafinn5990 2 роки тому +1

    Take care of YOU first ALLLLLLWAYS

  • @sonyacapehart2521
    @sonyacapehart2521 2 роки тому

    You have the right to stand in how u feel with no guilt. I have some medical issues similar to you and i know what “i just dont feel like me” means. Others look from the outside and make u feel like “ girl folk dealing with worse shit u will be ok” You like i know ima be ok but it dont change how i feel now HELLO!!! Keep pushing to get to the other side! U got this! And let me say yr doctor sounds phenomenal! I long for a physician that listens…

  • @sasw77intwo
    @sasw77intwo 2 роки тому

    Hello thanks for sharing. I feel like I am reliving my battle with fibroids. I assure you better days are ahead. 😊 Just know you look beautiful and are the best at re-inventing yourself which is one of the reasons I enjoy your channel. You are so admired. Keep moving forward and don't let this hurtle sadden you. You are so entertaining, blessed and a blessing. 🙏🌞✨🌞🌞🦋🦋

  • @jeanjohnson4639
    @jeanjohnson4639 2 роки тому

    Stay strong God got you girl !!!!!! Love Stephanie 💞

    • @jeanjohnson4639
      @jeanjohnson4639 2 роки тому

      Met to say love you Stephanie !!!! Love Jean

  • @iamladeegee8032
    @iamladeegee8032 2 роки тому

    Suga, all that you're going thru, especially with your emotional state might be a form of depression and as also symptoms of menopause, i.e., mood swings, weight gain, hot flashes, irritability. And u just had major surgery, which in and of itself takes a toll on your body. You need time to heal: physically, emotionally and mentally. Take some time to go to your prayer closet, and even if you start to cry, let it out and tell Our Father in Heaven all of your troubles. If u have a favorite Scripture, read it aloud. Play some uplifting gospel music or relaxational music to put your mind, soul and Spirit. Believe me, I have felt (and still do from time to time) the same way where I just shut down. But you will get thru this sweetheart. God is the Master Physician and I declare by His Stripes YOU ARE HEALED!!! I love you and God loves you more 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽❤❤❤

  • @joleentate1818
    @joleentate1818 2 роки тому

    Thank you Mrs. Long for sharing your story with us, I will continue to pray for your healing and The Father has you continue to read the word especially the scripture Psalms 23 it has been my word to go to in times as this, I've been through five surgeries and I do understand what you've been going through, be blessed dear woman of th most high. Peace & blessings

  • @patricamusic8351
    @patricamusic8351 2 роки тому +1

    Did the doctor do an EKG. Those are also symptoms of heart issues the coughing. throughing up and having to use the restroom all of a sudden like you did. You should see a cardiologist. Please see a cardiologist

  • @mariapollard6832
    @mariapollard6832 2 роки тому

    Hi Steph i know i don't know you personally i am sending my love and prayers

  • @jeanjohnson4639
    @jeanjohnson4639 2 роки тому

    Sorry, I meant to say Love you 💓 Stephanie. Love Jean.

  • @latanyastovall7810
    @latanyastovall7810 2 роки тому

    Hi Stephanie I just want to let you know you are so beautiful if I wasn't listening to your story you can't tell what you been through because you are simply gorgeous it's going to pass God this going to pass God going to get you through this trust and believe he is I just wanted to tell you that God bless you because you are fly

  • @nicholashaley6563
    @nicholashaley6563 2 роки тому

    I can't hear this, my wife had this bullshit too

  • @nicholashaley6563
    @nicholashaley6563 2 роки тому

    I bet he needs you

  • @kimrobinson6836
    @kimrobinson6836 2 роки тому

    Oooooh wish I could give u a hug!!!

  • @nicholashaley6563
    @nicholashaley6563 2 роки тому

    I cured myself, you can too

  • @mrs.onlymiles59
    @mrs.onlymiles59 2 роки тому

    Hello Queen Steph

  • @nicholashaley6563
    @nicholashaley6563 2 роки тому

    Medical Doctor?

  • @montgomeryfamilychannelemm7948
    @montgomeryfamilychannelemm7948 2 роки тому

    It’s OK baby girl but you have to take time for yourself I know we say that but it is very very very true you really do💜💜💜💜🥰 I totally understand what you’re going through and what you’re feeling I’ve been married now divorce one daughter and three grandchildren I old is granddaughter lives with me she just got through with prom and graduation on my birthday May 27 and that within this self was a lot I am going to celebrate my birthday this coming weekend which is Saturday today is Thursday I made the day all about her she needed that because it was about her on my birthday but now I am going to take time for me on my day which is this coming weekend so I get it you’re OK honey going to be OK take care of yourself first I’m sure your family understands that and most of all your husband understands that too he can look into your eyes and tell that I love you girl🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🥰🥰🥰

  • @shandranewell2837
    @shandranewell2837 2 роки тому

    Sometimes you have to have a BREAKDOWN TO HAVE A BREAK UP!..break up with the somber days..break up with the Devil..break up with the negative energy..break up with depression..break up with what GOD DOESN'T HAVE IN STORE FOR YOU!!!!.❤🙏🏽💪🏽⚘

  • @nicholashaley6563
    @nicholashaley6563 2 роки тому

    You wives of military men, HELP HER

  • @montgomeryfamilychannelemm7948
    @montgomeryfamilychannelemm7948 2 роки тому

    🤦🏽‍♀️😂😂😂🤣😂 what you say hell is not for Stephanie I can’t do Heat I know that’s right😂😂😅💋

  • @nicholashaley6563
    @nicholashaley6563 2 роки тому

    Where is your husband

  • @montgomeryfamilychannelemm7948
    @montgomeryfamilychannelemm7948 2 роки тому

    🤣😂🤣😂😂😅😂 girl you a mess we fly over here honey we ain’t cute we fly😂🤣😂😂 I know this right and when you get 50 baby you even flyer in that, You can get no fly in that honey okay😂😅😂😅💜🌹💜🌹💋💋

  • @nicholashaley6563
    @nicholashaley6563 2 роки тому

    Sso

  • @FluidEarth
    @FluidEarth 2 роки тому +1

    this sounds like vaccine side effects

  • @montgomeryfamilychannelemm7948
    @montgomeryfamilychannelemm7948 2 роки тому

    I get it kind of feels like you have an anxiety moment as I’ve gotten like that fatigue very tired felt like I was just a little short of breath yeah

  • @nicholashaley6563
    @nicholashaley6563 2 роки тому

    Lol