An ex shouldn't be prevalent in your life. If you share children, they still should not be prevalent in your life. They would be in your children's life, not yours. Mostly what I see is people who just cannot be alone. Either you see people who line up the next relationship by cheating and then leaving, or people who keep an ex in their life until they find someone. Super unhealthy and you will just attract a new partner who has unhealthy qualities. The healthy guys will not want to date you.
I have an Ex after 25 years of marriage, and we coparent two teenagers. We are not intimate, NEVER spent the block after the divorce, and it’s been 3 years since the divorce. We court other people. What’s wrong with being cordial? Once either of us gets married, the boundaries would be tighter of course. I don’t want hard feelings with someone that I’ve known since 10 years old, share children, and were married for 1/4 of a century🤔 unless it’s toxic💯‼️ When we irk each other, we just hang up on each other, and we spend very little time in each other’s company. It is not perfect otherwise we wouldn’t be an Ex‼️ It’s about business or the teenagers.
@crystalbolden4081 he wasn't talking about you; that's part of being a single parent. But this is also why single parents should be together. You would be able to tell if the dynamic is off with the other person, because you have experience with it. I would not. It probably also helps if your partner has experience with this as opposed to a guy with no kids, wondering if you're cheating. A guy with kids would know that you're the type to not cheat.
I am divorced with a child from my former husband. We speak only when it concerns our child. We are not friends. As soon as our son is 18 AND graduates high school, I never want to hear from his father again in life! This whole idea that you will always be tied to someone b/c you have a child with them doesn’t hold water once the child is an adult. Some people just want to hold on instead of move-on.
This can be extremely true, especially if you haven't addressed what's within. Please don't allow old energy to mix and mingle with NEW energy....whether it works or doesn't. Even if the old is STILL making offers...just don't, if you're serious about the NEW. Been there.... got the TShirt and am throwing it away! 😂
Can you do one for single mothers? How do you set the appropriate boundaries with the father of our children? My situation is a little different. My ex hasn’t seen his kids in over a year and I’m going through the process of having his rights removed, but I know there are women that coparent and want to date.
"Ex = Next." "If you haven't talked to a guy in two months, we need to block him."
Bwahahaha 😂😂😂 Like Malcolm X, like X gone give it to you!!!
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I was hollering 🤣🤣🤣
People larp like being friends with an ex is "mature," but it's the biggest signal of arrested development.
THIS 👏🏾
Lol there are exceptions to most "rules" relax
@@violastern9462 And to every comment, a reply. It's the concept of yin and yang...
Deep, man.
They really be flexing this like it’s a flex it’s weird to me always has been”arrested development 💡”
X gone give it to you😂😂😂😂😂
I'm old so that reference 😂
An ex shouldn't be prevalent in your life. If you share children, they still should not be prevalent in your life. They would be in your children's life, not yours.
Mostly what I see is people who just cannot be alone. Either you see people who line up the next relationship by cheating and then leaving, or people who keep an ex in their life until they find someone.
Super unhealthy and you will just attract a new partner who has unhealthy qualities. The healthy guys will not want to date you.
I agree. If your ex is your “friend” I could not possibly want you.
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I've been trying to tell the girlie's this but they don't want to listen.
😂😂😂😂😂omg you killed me out when you said " like X gonna give it to you?"😂😂😂😂
Crying 😂
Ez equal next! No truer words have been spoken.
Facts! My sister keeps telling me I'm harsh bc I delete + block!😒😏😒😏
The only reason this should happen is if you are coparenting.
And even then, you only communicate about the kids--short, sweet, to the point
I have an Ex after 25 years of marriage, and we coparent two teenagers. We are not intimate, NEVER spent the block after the divorce, and it’s been 3 years since the divorce. We court other people. What’s wrong with being cordial? Once either of us gets married, the boundaries would be tighter of course. I don’t want hard feelings with someone that I’ve known since 10 years old, share children, and were married for 1/4 of a century🤔 unless it’s toxic💯‼️ When we irk each other, we just hang up on each other, and we spend very little time in each other’s company. It is not perfect otherwise we wouldn’t be an Ex‼️ It’s about business or the teenagers.
@crystalbolden4081 he wasn't talking about you; that's part of being a single parent. But this is also why single parents should be together. You would be able to tell if the dynamic is off with the other person, because you have experience with it. I would not. It probably also helps if your partner has experience with this as opposed to a guy with no kids, wondering if you're cheating. A guy with kids would know that you're the type to not cheat.
I am divorced with a child from my former husband. We speak only when it concerns our child. We are not friends. As soon as our son is 18 AND graduates high school, I never want to hear from his father again in life! This whole idea that you will always be tied to someone b/c you have a child with them doesn’t hold water once the child is an adult. Some people just want to hold on instead of move-on.
@@tracyc.1005exactly. My finger itching to put people on the block list 🎉
Dude said, "I'm friends with all my exes"......lose my number ✌🏾
Bruh....it's not a flex
Along with giving great advice, you're hilarious ❤🤣.
It's already been done. Immediately blocked and left in the PAST!!!
I’ve been saying this since forever!
I freaking love you! Your smile and laughter is so sweet!
Facts! If it didn't work, y r u keeping trash around. Take the trash 🗑 out plz!
😅...yep.... block.... and block again
😂😂😂 x gone give it to you!
EX= you mightiest well have had a funeral 😂
This can be extremely true, especially if you haven't addressed what's within.
Please don't allow old energy to mix and mingle with NEW energy....whether it works or doesn't.
Even if the old is STILL making offers...just don't, if you're serious about the NEW.
Been there.... got the TShirt and am throwing it away! 😂
Can you do one for single mothers? How do you set the appropriate boundaries with the father of our children?
My situation is a little different. My ex hasn’t seen his kids in over a year and I’m going through the process of having his rights removed, but I know there are women that coparent and want to date.
Ok I need like a live coffee talk with you 😂 I just love your content.
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I do t Get it 😂😂😂🤣😂🤣😂
This ignores people who have children
Exactly
Not x is gonna give it to you???🤣🤣🤣🤣
Well if you have kids with your ex and they are still active in the children’s life you can’t block your ex
Lmfaooo 😂😂😂
I blocked after 7 days
EX = EXIT
How about the ex who is the father of the child? I'm all for no contact. But in this case it's just not the right thing to do...
I love you so much lol
I like him 😂
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What about I never talk to my friend for 3 years plus?
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Respectfully disagree.
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