Why do you need to figure out what that big trauma is?

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  • Опубліковано 12 лис 2024

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  • @gabriela3338
    @gabriela3338 4 дні тому +30

    Absolutely, I was 6 yrs old for 32 yrs. I finally woke up when I had two boys, that I had these abandonment issues. I finally broke this vicious cycle with my boys. Thank you again Anwar for keeping it real💚🤎🧡✌🏽

  • @liliasonialopez8451
    @liliasonialopez8451 День тому +1

    You rock! Love the wisdom behind your services ❤🎉

  • @tlee980
    @tlee980 4 дні тому +23

    I’ve blocked out so much of my childhood, I wouldn’t know where to start

    • @MeiMariie
      @MeiMariie 3 дні тому +4

      Literally same here. I wouldn't even know where tf to start. It's just too much.. way too much

    • @user-wm1nd2zj2u
      @user-wm1nd2zj2u 3 дні тому +2

      Maybe you can do past life regression with an experienced practioner. If you blocked it out, it may be because it was extremely painful. Be patient and gentle with yourself.❤

  • @SunflowerOfTheEast
    @SunflowerOfTheEast 4 дні тому +14

    Honestly a lot of men’s looks start going at like 25.
    Healing your emotional state and gaining emotional intelligence is a lot of hard work but worth it. So worth it. For more than dating. For your life overall.

    • @BL3SSed-Bliss
      @BL3SSed-Bliss День тому

      Meanwhile, an inordinate number of those I know and see are actually _improving_ as they age, including "ugly duckling" late bloomers.
      Such a mixed bag, Life is.
      Your remaining statements are *_SO_** spot on! I am so pleased, proud and honestly **_relieved_** to finally* be in the era where this is being acknowledged, echoed, and promoted much more, far, and wide...especially in/for Our community[ies]. ❤‍🩹
      For a while, so few of us were on an island. Proud of _and for_ Us❣💥🙏🏽

  • @soleil_24
    @soleil_24 3 дні тому +2

    You keep it so real. Grateful to have come across your channel.

  • @MM-em6ly
    @MM-em6ly 4 дні тому +11

    I DID NOT expect something so deep and important- so vital to my healing be told to me right now
    VITAL.

  • @ebony2413
    @ebony2413 4 дні тому +6

    Powerful advice!🙌🏾❤️

  • @Iguocho
    @Iguocho День тому

    you give me life every time you say "balloon popped" lmao 😂😭

  • @nathalieduverna6963
    @nathalieduverna6963 3 дні тому +1

    Healing any masculine and/or feminine energy is extremely important. And this advice is well said. We are stuck in our trauma no matter what age

  • @Aleena_McLean
    @Aleena_McLean 4 дні тому +4

    This is a great topic.

  • @Prismatic9008
    @Prismatic9008 4 дні тому +5

    As a 34 dealing with her big trauma, I agree with this ❤❤

  • @mschurchgurl
    @mschurchgurl 4 дні тому +6

    So much truth here!

  • @georgiegirl8345
    @georgiegirl8345 4 дні тому +6

    Thank you 🙏

  • @guacgirl
    @guacgirl 4 дні тому +13

    Best Video Ever.

  • @Agapelove2024
    @Agapelove2024 4 дні тому +7

    Im emotionally 21 got there at 47. I was emotional deprived. Because i was adopted

  • @jaynebarry5658
    @jaynebarry5658 4 дні тому +3

    So much truth.❤

  • @blaq2handle
    @blaq2handle 3 дні тому +2

    5, almost 6 years old.

  • @LunazulBaraka
    @LunazulBaraka 4 дні тому +4

    I'm 4, between 7-10 and 15

    • @BL3SSed-Bliss
      @BL3SSed-Bliss День тому +1

      Similar here. Deep down, I still feel 4, 11-14, 16-19, 27-29...
      I realized that I was simultaneously trying to heal each, while also "adulting", helping others heal, etc. No wonder why it felt so chaotic. Too much juggling. 🤹🏽‍♀ Once I focused on 4, I was able to evolve into healing 11-14, etc. Progressing each phase with as much diligent commitment, patience, and grace I could offer/grant/gift myself.
      Still, I always protect 4.
      It's legit like a reparenting of-sort.
      I must say that finally getting to the fun parts of healing those ages felt/continues to feel rewarding to the very core of my being. [Re]connecting to my very essence. Moreover, all of the *_very hard, painful_** work,* which oft mimicked and at times even exacerbated the very suffering I was healing), while nourishing, nurturing and *HONORING* all parts of ME (including the aforementioned fun 😇🥰❣) really did help me to "course-correct". Legit _even physically_ after all.
      I hope this helps someone.
      I feel you, friend. Warm, Healing energy to You. ❤‍🩹⚕💗

  • @mzvita08
    @mzvita08 4 дні тому +5

    Umph so I’m 6 years old 😢

    • @MeiMariie
      @MeiMariie 3 дні тому

      I'm feel like I'm fucking 2😒

  • @Rhjnkiitewsxbmlp
    @Rhjnkiitewsxbmlp 4 дні тому +4

    🎈💥 you’re the best

  • @ExoticalT369
    @ExoticalT369 3 дні тому +1

    ♥️👏

  • @winxclubstellamusa
    @winxclubstellamusa 4 дні тому +5

    So how exactly do we get our emotional age equal to our actual age? By prioritizing emotional intelligence in our partner choices?

    • @Sandakan00
      @Sandakan00 4 дні тому +9

      No you have to work on yourself your partner can’t do it for you

    • @amichel1873
      @amichel1873 4 дні тому +8

      You have to cry it out, journal it out, draw/paint it out, dance it out after you go back to the emotions that were swept under the rug.

    • @amichel1873
      @amichel1873 4 дні тому +10

      💯. I was emotionally nine years old until 33 because my uncle, grandma & older male neighbor m*lested me. I buried it so, deep I forgot about it. I emotionally vomited it out when the USA gymnastics team shared their stories. Simone's & another woman's incidents were exactly like mine. I felt the feelings, cried & journaled it out of my system. Immediately, the caliber of men approaching changed. Every area of my life improved.

    • @TVeeTime
      @TVeeTime 2 дні тому

      @@amichel1873❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢

  • @hillaryfuller5204
    @hillaryfuller5204 День тому

    You preaching a little too loudly right now! I had to sit back and take that in, wow