Michele, the are very supportive groups in FB for people transitioning. I'm in Silver Revolution and Beauty Reinvented. Look for me, I'm Yupelo PalmeraAsqueadalavida. xxx
I finally cut off the last of the bleach! I stopped dyeing my hair in August 2017 and here I am 18 months later with my beautiful white/silver/gray hair! Although I am still getting used to it (I’m still surprised in the mirror), now I am hearing envious remarks from friends who still color their hair. I did my transition with you, Elisa, and your videos helped me stay true to myself. Thank you. 🥰😍😘
I went dye free over 3 years ago and I have hair the same color as your original dark color. What a waste! I colored it for a decade just because I had a few gray hairs! Even now at almost 50, my silver looks like highlights at only about 20% gray. I have fine wavy hair and never could wear it this long because it would get so dry and damaged from the dye. I figured that if I kept getting my hair professionally colored until age 60, I would have spent 17k! I never have bad hair days now. I know that some women think I should color it but I don’t care. I’ve never been a conformist and my hair looks so much better with the rest of me at this age. To me, it’s depressing having my hair similar to what I had with an aging face. My hair makes me feel alive and has changed my perspective on so many other things in life. Thank you for spreading the word. If people want to color their hair, that’s their prerogative. But it’s worth giving a chance. It takes at least a year to see what it really looks like. “If mine looked like yours, I’d stop coloring it” doesn’t fly with me. You don’t even know what it’s going to look like until you try!
You’re energy is so contagious! I’m sold. Stopping the dye immediately. I can’t wait to see my beautiful natural hair that’s been hiding from me for decades!!
Elisa you look fantastic. My mum and I are using your saying "you do you and I'll do me" 😁. I think mature women are easily as beautiful as young ladies, just in a different way. Maturity is sexy and so is confidence. Loving the hoops!! Xxx
Bellisimo! It's so nice to hear a rational view on growing out your silvers and living life. I missed you. Embrace yourself, be kind to yourself and others - this very act will make you attractive. Xoxo D
Yep, it is all in the attitude that you have, the way you carry yourself that will reflect what you feel inside. You are beautiful because you take care of yourself and let your light shine!
Love your videos...another fabulous example that "you doing you" is what shines through. I have been dye free almost 4 years and have never had a negative comment...loving my silver everyday 💚
I love your post Elisa ~ This is the second time I've decided to let my brilliant silver white hair grow out...I listened to you the first time and again "I'm back" for your support of letting it grow out again lol! So strange that people treat me differently when my hair is its natural brilliant silver white they approach me of a woman of no walls, approachable, wisdom, more gentle of course way more compliments. Thank you and keep the post coming!
Totally agree with you in every way. Im 69 yrs, still rocking on.Look and act many years younger, love of life and attitude is the key. Elisa I believe you are a great role model for women. x
Looking *gorgeous* as usual! 😍 May I suggest a very, very small amount of Shea butter for the “staticky” strays?? I put a little on the palm of my hand and rub my palms together, then very lightly run my palms from the crown of my head down to the ends. And just like that the strays settle down! 😅👍🏼 Shea butter is completely natural, good for everything from burns, scars to hair and tanning (seriously) and I buy it super cheap $5-6 for a big tub. Um grande beijo de uma brasileira americana! 😉😘
You look amazing Elisa. I have started the transition and I have never had so many negative comments in my life. However, do not care because I just want to stop putting chemicals in my hair. Grey hair does not make you look old and it can look gorgeous.
I totally agree! Have you seen my latest videos? #Grayhair How to control your gray hair (Con subtítulos) bit.ly/2DeD5hW y #Grayhair Does gray hair make you insecure (Con subtítulos) | Elisa Berrini Gómez bit.ly/3hSTiIw
Since you liked my video, could you help me and share this video on your Facebook. If you don't know how to do it, you can ask someone who does? That will help me a lot and it doesn't cost you anything, right? Sister helping sister? :)
Elisa sounds like your trip did you some good. I love seeing you smiling and sooo happy my friend. You are beautiful inside and out. You are rocking your silver gurl 😘
100%. Grey hair does NOT stop guys digging you. If anything, it liberates everyone because you clearly don't give a f---, and that is so very attractive. Attitude and energy is EVERYTHING. xxx
Hadn't stumbled into your gray hair videos in a long time, it's so good to see you, your videos are very uplifting and that's so important to feel good about yourself, it definitely goes beyond just having gray hair or not having gray hair, best wishes and thank you for the therapy 🙂☺️
Hello beautiful lady. I am glad I came across your video after watching numerous ones about the topic so thank you for sharing your experience. I'm 53 years old and since my let's say late 30s I started seeing grey hairs peaking through my dark brown hair. A few years back I stopped covering my roots at home and went to a salon to get my hair bleached yikes! I trylly regret that. So much so that after a couple of months I went back and got my hair back to dark brown. Then I really changed my mind about dealing with chemical nasty dyes all together and started using henna. At home. Soooooo messy but I was okay with it, at least it is natural stuff : ( BUT the other day I woke up and I realized I finally got corageous and decided to stop fighting myself because I knew deep inside I really wanted to embrace my now natural color. I probably have 70% greys now and I just used my last bit of henna yesterday and from now on I've made up my mind and that means I'm going all naturelle! Your video encouraded me to try and look my best still considered talking to my husband about it so he knows what to expect and he is fine with my decision. Anyway, thank you!
I am glad that you found a decision to make you happy. However, it's not a colour thing. So much so that not even the opinion of the husband would matter. Think about it?
Hello Elisa! You look positively radiant and so full of life & energy. I weirdly found myself out of breath just listening to you speak of your trip and how embracing your grey hair has so greatly impacted your life.:-) What a wonderful inspiration you are! I always feel so uplifted and revved up about my decision to go grey after hearing of your experiences. My friends and family refuse to give up the dye so I'm the sore thumb that sticks out when we're together. It's such a confidence booster to see that I am no longer the dye's slave.;-) I absolutely LOVE my salt and pepper hair!
I don't know Elisa.🧐 I'd say for me it's a combination of color and getting older. I just don't care what others think of how I look anymore. I am pleased with my appearance. I feel confident, attractive & interesting with grey hair. Did I feel this way before going grey? No, I had to dye my hair every 3 weeks first because if I didn't cover the grey, I felt run down, unkempt & blah. Now, my attitude is if you don't like it, don't look. What's important is that I'm happy with it! 😄
Love your hair, I let my hair turn naturally to grey and have had more compliments on my hair, I went back to my shorter style and I am loving it. Love your videos and I loved my 50's and 60's. Now getting ready to enter my 70's and feel wonderful. It is a personal choice for hair colour and I tell people that, each to their own.
Agree, agree, agree... Attitude is essential. Once a woman believes she is invisible she will become invisible. If the men around you don't see you then move on. Move to a different friend or social group, different age group, different ethnic/racial or cultural group, or another country, state or city. I'm not at all as extroverted as you are or as free in public but when I go into a conversation with someone I am myself regardless of my age. Haven't had a problem with getting a bit of attention from men of different age groups with gray hair though I haven't been dating yet. My hair started growing back a bit blonde which surprised me and I thought what had I been fearing all these years. I was born with blonde hair but by my 20s it was sort of dirty blonde so I wasn't as attached to my color as you were. You are right the men were smart of not to go to the age zone. It is like asking a man do I look heavy. Also, they are very afraid that a woman is going to ask them how old am I and then they say an older age and the woman gets mad. The men didn't care about how old you were or they would have kept walking. Post Note: Growing out naturally started with colored hair so there really isn't anything already natural about it. Adding a few treatments of highlights isn't any different that the colored hair that is slowly inching down. I used to belong to an all natural gray transition facebook page. Women wanted to give up because they couldn't stand the demarkation. I'd message them privately about my highlighting and they would thank me. Most of them went to the hairstylist to transition after our conversation. Many of them had high power jobs so they had to think about their image. It isn't how you get there just that you are able to make it there.
I love you Elisa. So happy to see your old self back. I have my natural hair also. It's been 1-1/2 years since I died my hair. I feel fantastic and I've not had any bad experiences. On the contrary, like you, I've experienced positive things. Many blessings for you. Ali from Miami
Elisa you and your hair looks fantastic. I am turning 50 in just over a week and it's nice to see someone who has the same attitude to life as me. This year I changed my eating habits and take collagen. I do dye my hair however since I started my new healthy eating plan my roots are growing in brown now instead of grey/white. It's all crazy...I was looking forward to my hair being white!!! I am embracing everything with a powerful and positive attitude x
Wow gorgeous! I'm almost ready to ditch the dye but I'm only 41 and apart of me wants my dark brown hair and than there's that other part of me that wants what's natural. Thanks for sharing! 😘
You are the most inspirational UA-camr I've watched. I love your attitude and the vibe you convey to your viewers. It's always a treat to watch your videos.
I am 6 months in to growing out my grey-I have about 3 inches grow out. I was really excited about it at first but for past few months I am very unsure about it so far, I do feel like it makes me look much older. However, i am 100% committed to growing it all the way out before I arrive at a firm opinion about if it is flattering or not-and that is about 2 1/2 years away as I have long hair! I do think it looks great on most people, and I hope to be one of those by the end of this. Perhaps I don't know how to color my face with light hair, I always had darker hair from dye. I am tired of dyeing my hair and the damage it has done (so much thinning, breakage, etc.). I hardly have any hair falling out now & it is coming in much thicker & healthier which is very welcomed. So glad you had a great trip & enjoyed this video! Thank you for your posts.
For me, it is a question of being able to feel attractive in this new natural color or not. Perhaps it hasn't been an issue for you, I can't remember even though I have seen all of your videos. It is still important for me to feel attractive, to be able to make myself look attractive in my own unique way. Hopefully I can find my way there during this process eventually. Health and happiness to you @@elisaberrinigomez2946
For me it is an internal struggle, not comparing to others but to how I ideally like to present myself- I am an artist so it has to do with that. Thanks for your replies :) Peace to you!@@elisaberrinigomez2946
So tired of coloring my hair.... I went to caramel, then to blonde then I did this myself.... I took out all color. Used a product that made my hair school bus yellow... Then added a purple color and voila..... A gorgeous sterling silver. I kept the growing out pretty with blue shampoo. 2 years later I still get compliments on my gorgeous healthy silver hair. So glad I did it.
Elisa-you look fabulous! You are glowing! Your youthful energy is shining through. I think your face looks as young as you were, even when you had your brown hair. 😁
Wonderful, you worked so well on your bien-être. I'm so flabbergasted so many people fear ageing until I started to realize younger women who were snarky to me where actually seeing me as competion! I mean, huh? I . Like I would tear away a snippet their overflowing stock of potential Tinder-dates 😂. But confidence is beautiful and knowing where you are in life too so you are very inspirational and I'm so happy Mexico was amazing on you
I have never seen so many young women look at me with awe. I can read it in their eyes "ooooh I want what SHE has!" Power to those of us who got the message that we hot ! Woohoo :)
Great to see you back Elisa!!! So happy you had a blast in Mexico and had a big realization while you were there! You just confirmed what I was feeling too about it being all about our attitude and spirit! Love you bunches!! xoxox
I agree with you 100 percent. I love how confident you are and how you think about life. Take care dear and thank you for being an inspiration! Btw I am almost two months transitioning 😊👍🏼❤️
Elisa! I am so happy to see a video from you. I've been thinking about you (I am not on Instagram, otherwise I would know that everything was fine), and wondering how you are. Just last night, my twin sister and I got complimented on our hair by a group of 20-somethings. She has a pixie of salt and pepper, and I have a Nikol Johnson-style bob. So glad that things are sunny for you!❤
Hello Silver sister! I too follow Elisa! Love her beauty inside and out! Do you have pictures of you and your sister's hair style? I'm growing out my gray hair and looking for ideas for a fresh look to go with the new me!! Lol Thank you!
Julie if you don't want to do instagram on your phone you can actually access it on a lap top. I'm one of the few who started out that way instead of on the phone app.
Another gorgeous, beautiful real woman. You look amazing. Women have the advantage, we can wear make up that accentuates our beauty, even though men wear makeup, but anything men can wear, women wear better. Thanks for the inspiring video. I also love the cut. Wondering how you look with red lipstick.
I have stayed grey, everyone that doubted me, love it & say I look better, I do wear it as a pixie now 🤗 such a relief NO MORE DYE 🇬🇧❤️xx p.s men say I look younger & think I dye mine as well 😂
Hi Elisa, I missed you! Kept checking everyday to see if you made a video, never thinking to check Instagram! Well I'm so happy you're back looking beautiful, happy and well rested! Glad you had a fabulous vacation.
You look great, I'm happy and inspired imitating women who are in grey hair.. I'm on my third month with out dyeing my hair.. Your hairstyle look good on you.. ❤️🌞✌️😇😇😇😇😇😇😇
I am one year into not dying my hair today (25 October 2019). Aside from the god awful colour of the fading red dye, i like it. It’s a pale silver colour (bit streaky) and I’m definitely impatient for it to be entirely grey but if you want change, you’ve got to put up with the in between part. I agree with all you say and I think it’s so usual nowadays to see women who’ve had Botox or a facelift that it’s almost the norm now, so anyone who hasn’t had it done, is the one that looks odd. When did that happen?! Anyway, I’ve always said that if I am lucky enough to get to 80 and be in good health, I intend to dress like Miss Marple and be addled on G&Ts from 10 am with nothing but a slick of lipstick to face the world.
Elisa me encanta verla su cabello se ve genial y su personalidad me encanta es una mujer madura pero moderna y eso es bonito la felicito y que gusto saber que disfruto de sus vacaciones
I can't wait to get where you are now, you look fantastic, simply ,I had to stop colouring due to severe allergy, after using many years, I just turned 60! However feel 40 again? But what's in a number? Xx 😂 your wonderful!
Fantastic, Very cool and well researched ( and yes it confirms My earlier theory as I snagged My first sexual encounter with a gorgeous man whilst wearing NO make- up, with a headcold and a twoday old pyjamas after an amazing 4 hour long discussion about history ,philosophy etc)
Love your hair style, please show how it is cut, where the layers on top come down too, I trim my own hair , it is very like yours, just my top layers need to be a bit shorter. Xx
My hair is gray/silver.......I tried a product called Keracolor + Clenditioner. It is temporary and washes out after a few washes. It comes in different colors but I tried the Silver which looks dark gray to me. I used it on my dry hair and let it sit for 10 minutes then washed it out. It made my hair very soft and the silver was very pretty however I might have overdone it because it made my hair a little darker. I also think it’s taking a longer amount of time to totally wash out. Next time I’m only going to use it on a small front section of my hair. I didn’t know if you ever heard of Keracolor and might want to try something fun. I didn’t want to alter my gray only enhance it so I chose silver. There’s another color called Platinum and I’m going to try that next. It doesn’t have any yellow but it’s lighter with a pale purple hue, might not show up at all.
M Toyota you can get more in-depth info on it at Keracolor website or Ulta. It’s primarily for people with colored hair to keep up the vibrancy of their color. You can also watch MrKongsMom, she does a review on it, she used purple on her natural gray hair. Everyone will get different results depending on their hair color. Doesn’t hurt to try because it washes out.
Hi. Most of my jewelry is pieces from around the world, gifted or bought myself, some is old gold jewelry, silver from my Mexican travel and some from HM.
Elisa, your attitude and beauty, including that of your hair, keeps you radiant and uncommonly attractive to everyone. 🙂 That "natural" stuff is totally BS. There are women who go "natural" - which truely means no styling products, no blowdrying, no hot irons or straighteners or curlers or makeup AT ALL. Unless they are under 20 years old, they look like Hell. Fuck that. We are not cave women. And not using help while growing out dyed hair, so it looks decent, makes no sense to me. As you know, I transitioned very happily over 2 years using bleached and toned highlights at first, and then Overtone on just the treated "ends" for the remaining about 18 months. Was very successful and painless for me. No one knew I was transitioning through the whole thing. Now I am free of it all. I get compliments on my hair all the time now, from total strangers, men and women. I love my hair. And I LOVE your current haircut/style. 😘
Hello Robin. Long time no chat my dear friend. Well the way I see it the white hair that comes OUT of the scalp is natural. So transitioning is nothing but waiting for that natural that comes out from the scalp to grow out. So EVERYONE transitions natural. LOL. Big hugs beautiful friend :)
Okay....I need advice sistas. My hair is naturally black and silver....AND LONG. Two feet long. Now here is the rub.....WOMEN WHOM I DEAL WITH ARE GETTING JEALOUS AND CATTY AND SNIPPY. Please help and advise! I am a sweet woman who loves everyone...... I know my hair looks great and I take great care of it....but how to deal with the .......bitchiness? Thanks in advance...Margaret.
Simple, ignore. You are not responsible for their karma. You take care of YOU. Also like my mom always said, we are not gold coins that everyone is going to love us regardlessly, ya?
You look gorgeous and you what men like gray hair my lovely man always says you looks sexy and he doesn’t even want I dye or straight my hair so man just care how we feel and if we project positive and happy actitud we going to look fabulous not matter the hair color, makeup and nothing xoxo 😘
My god you are fantastic... I'm 46 and stopped the dye 4 weeks ago 🙌🏻 I'll keep watching your videos to stay inspired. ♥️
Michele, the are very supportive groups in FB for people transitioning. I'm in Silver Revolution and Beauty Reinvented. Look for me, I'm Yupelo PalmeraAsqueadalavida. xxx
I finally cut off the last of the bleach! I stopped dyeing my hair in August 2017 and here I am 18 months later with my beautiful white/silver/gray hair! Although I am still getting used to it (I’m still surprised in the mirror), now I am hearing envious remarks from friends who still color their hair. I did my transition with you, Elisa, and your videos helped me stay true to myself. Thank you. 🥰😍😘
your hair is just gorgeous! I love it! Glad you had a nice vacation.
You make me feel happy, beautiful, and confident. Thank you for bringing lightness and brightness into the world!
I went dye free over 3 years ago and I have hair the same color as your original dark color. What a waste! I colored it for a decade just because I had a few gray hairs! Even now at almost 50, my silver looks like highlights at only about 20% gray. I have fine wavy hair and never could wear it this long because it would get so dry and damaged from the dye. I figured that if I kept getting my hair professionally colored until age 60, I would have spent 17k! I never have bad hair days now. I know that some women think I should color it but I don’t care. I’ve never been a conformist and my hair looks so much better with the rest of me at this age. To me, it’s depressing having my hair similar to what I had with an aging face. My hair makes me feel alive and has changed my perspective on so many other things in life. Thank you for spreading the word. If people want to color their hair, that’s their prerogative. But it’s worth giving a chance. It takes at least a year to see what it really looks like. “If mine looked like yours, I’d stop coloring it” doesn’t fly with me. You don’t even know what it’s going to look like until you try!
You’re energy is so contagious! I’m sold. Stopping the dye immediately. I can’t wait to see my beautiful natural hair that’s been hiding from me for decades!!
Elisa you look fantastic. My mum and I are using your saying "you do you and I'll do me" 😁. I think mature women are easily as beautiful as young ladies, just in a different way. Maturity is sexy and so is confidence. Loving the hoops!! Xxx
Woohoo! I should do tee shirts huh? :)
Bellisimo! It's so nice to hear a rational view on growing out your silvers and living life. I missed you. Embrace yourself, be kind to yourself and others - this very act will make you attractive. Xoxo D
Yep, it is all in the attitude that you have, the way you carry yourself that will reflect what you feel inside. You are beautiful because you take care of yourself and let your light shine!
Yeh baby...I love it! Fabulous attitude and zest for life!
Love your videos...another fabulous example that "you doing you" is what shines through. I have been dye free almost 4 years and have never had a negative comment...loving my silver everyday 💚
I love your post Elisa ~ This is the second time I've decided to let my brilliant silver white hair grow out...I listened to you the first time and again "I'm back" for your support of letting it grow out again lol! So strange that people treat me differently when my hair is its natural brilliant silver white they approach me of a woman of no walls, approachable, wisdom, more gentle of course way more compliments. Thank you and keep the post coming!
I agree with you. I find people smile at me all the time. :) I hope you are happy with your decision. that is all that matters, right? :)
Thanks again Elisa! I m 11 months into my gray transition and you inspired me to do this! LOVE IT! Thank you.
Totally agree with you in every way. Im 69 yrs, still rocking on.Look and act many years younger, love of life and attitude is the key. Elisa I believe you are a great role model for women. x
Looking *gorgeous* as usual! 😍
May I suggest a very, very small amount of Shea butter for the “staticky” strays?? I put a little on the palm of my hand and rub my palms together, then very lightly run my palms from the crown of my head down to the ends. And just like that the strays settle down! 😅👍🏼
Shea butter is completely natural, good for everything from burns, scars to hair and tanning (seriously) and I buy it super cheap $5-6 for a big tub.
Um grande beijo de uma brasileira americana! 😉😘
oooooh how kind of you to pass your tip! Shea butter is on my shopping list :)
You look amazing Elisa. I have started the transition and I have never had so many negative comments in my life. However, do not care because I just want to stop putting chemicals in my hair. Grey hair does not make you look old and it can look gorgeous.
I totally agree! Have you seen my latest videos? #Grayhair How to control your gray hair (Con subtítulos) bit.ly/2DeD5hW y #Grayhair Does gray hair make you insecure (Con subtítulos) | Elisa Berrini Gómez bit.ly/3hSTiIw
Since you liked my video, could you help me and share this video on your Facebook. If you don't know how to do it, you can ask someone who does? That will help me a lot and it doesn't cost you anything, right? Sister helping sister? :)
Elisa sounds like your trip did you some good. I love seeing you smiling and sooo happy my friend. You are beautiful inside and out. You are rocking your silver gurl 😘
sing it sister! Love my grey hair! Im 57, stopped nearly 3 years ago. so fun and easy!
la laaaaaaa :)
100%. Grey hair does NOT stop guys digging you. If anything, it liberates everyone because you clearly don't give a f---, and that is so very attractive. Attitude and energy is EVERYTHING. xxx
I'm so glad to see you back, I"m only 3 months into my transition and your videos are always such an inspiration, love your spirit!!
Hadn't stumbled into your gray hair videos in a long time, it's so good to see you, your videos are very uplifting and that's so important to feel good about yourself, it definitely goes beyond just having gray hair or not having gray hair, best wishes and thank you for the therapy 🙂☺️
Thank you very much. :)
@@elisaberrinigomez2946 You're most welcome 😊
I love your grey hair. It's so glamorous... you look natural and young and vibrant
Marianne Lubenskyi How kind thank you :)
Your hair is glowing, it looks so soft, shiny and in amazing condition. I much prefer your hair now than dyed. 👍
Hello beautiful lady. I am glad I came across your video after watching numerous ones about the topic so thank you for sharing your experience. I'm 53 years old and since my let's say late 30s I started seeing grey hairs peaking through my dark brown hair. A few years back I stopped covering my roots at home and went to a salon to get my hair bleached yikes! I trylly regret that. So much so that after a couple of months I went back and got my hair back to dark brown. Then I really changed my mind about dealing with chemical nasty dyes all together and started using henna. At home. Soooooo messy but I was okay with it, at least it is natural stuff : ( BUT the other day I woke up and I realized I finally got corageous and decided to stop fighting myself because I knew deep inside I really wanted to embrace my now natural color. I probably have 70% greys now and I just used my last bit of henna yesterday and from now on I've made up my mind and that means I'm going all naturelle! Your video encouraded me to try and look my best still considered talking to my husband about it so he knows what to expect and he is fine with my decision. Anyway, thank you!
I am glad that you found a decision to make you happy. However, it's not a colour thing. So much so that not even the opinion of the husband would matter. Think about it?
@@elisaberrinigomez2946 Noted : ) thank you for the reply : )
Hello Elisa! You look positively radiant and so full of life & energy. I weirdly found myself out of breath just listening to you speak of your trip and how embracing your grey hair has so greatly impacted your life.:-) What a wonderful inspiration you are! I always feel so uplifted and revved up about my decision to go grey after hearing of your experiences. My friends and family refuse to give up the dye so I'm the sore thumb that sticks out when we're together. It's such a confidence booster to see that I am no longer the dye's slave.;-) I absolutely LOVE my salt and pepper hair!
Ah but my dear beautiful Cynthia, it's not a colour thing :)
I don't know Elisa.🧐 I'd say for me it's a combination of color and getting older. I just don't care what others think of how I look anymore. I am pleased with my appearance. I feel confident, attractive & interesting with grey hair. Did I feel this way before going grey? No, I had to dye my hair every 3 weeks first because if I didn't cover the grey, I felt run down, unkempt & blah.
Now, my attitude is if you don't like it, don't look. What's important is that I'm happy with it! 😄
Love your hair, I let my hair turn naturally to grey and have had more compliments on my hair, I went back to my shorter style and I am loving it. Love your videos and I loved my 50's and 60's. Now getting ready to enter my 70's and feel wonderful. It is a personal choice for hair colour and I tell people that, each to their own.
Exactly :)
I'm 47 yrs old and ready to go Gray!!
I like Mexicans people they are warm open hearted people, when I travelled there I felt alive!!!
Agree, agree, agree...
Attitude is essential. Once a woman believes she is invisible she will become invisible.
If the men around you don't see you then move on. Move to a different friend or social group, different age group, different ethnic/racial or cultural group, or another country, state or city. I'm not at all as extroverted as you are or as free in public but when I go into a conversation with someone I am myself regardless of my age.
Haven't had a problem with getting a bit of attention from men of different age groups with gray hair though I haven't been dating yet.
My hair started growing back a bit blonde which surprised me and I thought what had I been fearing all these years. I was born with blonde hair but by my 20s it was sort of dirty blonde so I wasn't as attached to my color as you were.
You are right the men were smart of not to go to the age zone. It is like asking a man do I look heavy. Also, they are very afraid that a woman is going to ask them how old am I and then they say an older age and the woman gets mad. The men didn't care about how old you were or they would have kept walking.
Post Note: Growing out naturally started with colored hair so there really isn't anything already natural about it. Adding a few treatments of highlights isn't any different that the colored hair that is slowly inching down. I used to belong to an all natural gray transition facebook page. Women wanted to give up because they couldn't stand the demarkation. I'd message them privately about my highlighting and they would thank me. Most of them went to the hairstylist to transition after our conversation. Many of them had high power jobs so they had to think about their image.
It isn't how you get there just that you are able to make it there.
BRAVA BRAVA BRAVA!!!!!!! BEST COMMENT :)
I love you Elisa. So happy to see your old self back. I have my natural hair also. It's been 1-1/2 years since I died my hair. I feel fantastic and I've not had any bad experiences. On the contrary, like you, I've experienced positive things. Many blessings for you. Ali from Miami
Blessings Ali :)
Allo Elisa!,tu as une belle attitude de vie ! Your glowing ma belle! Tu es sur le bon chemin! A la prochaine!♥️🤗😚🌹🌹
So glad you’re back! You’re so much fun to watch!
Well said Elise. So. Glad you have a wonderful time on your vacation.
Elisa you and your hair looks fantastic. I am turning 50 in just over a week and it's nice to see someone who has the same attitude to life as me. This year I changed my eating habits and take collagen. I do dye my hair however since I started my new healthy eating plan my roots are growing in brown now instead of grey/white. It's all crazy...I was looking forward to my hair being white!!! I am embracing everything with a powerful and positive attitude x
Fantastic news. You go girl :) Let me know how it goes, yes?
Wow gorgeous! I'm almost ready to ditch the dye but I'm only 41 and apart of me wants my dark brown hair and than there's that other part of me that wants what's natural. Thanks for sharing! 😘
dear, at 41 it is mega normal to feel like you do. I DID!!!!
You are the most inspirational UA-camr I've watched. I love your attitude and the vibe you convey to your viewers. It's always a treat to watch your videos.
Oh thank you ever so much :)
I am 6 months in to growing out my grey-I have about 3 inches grow out. I was really excited about it at first but for past few months I am very unsure about it so far, I do feel like it makes me look much older. However, i am 100% committed to growing it all the way out before I arrive at a firm opinion about if it is flattering or not-and that is about 2 1/2 years away as I have long hair! I do think it looks great on most people, and I hope to be one of those by the end of this. Perhaps I don't know how to color my face with light hair, I always had darker hair from dye. I am tired of dyeing my hair and the damage it has done (so much thinning, breakage, etc.). I hardly have any hair falling out now & it is coming in much thicker & healthier which is very welcomed. So glad you had a great trip & enjoyed this video! Thank you for your posts.
Hello Oona, dear it is not a question of colour. Or if "it suits you" or not. Think about it.
For me, it is a question of being able to feel attractive in this new natural color or not. Perhaps it hasn't been an issue for you, I can't remember even though I have seen all of your videos. It is still important for me to feel attractive, to be able to make myself look attractive in my own unique way. Hopefully I can find my way there during this process eventually. Health and happiness to you @@elisaberrinigomez2946
Oona Voluspa Dear it’s about what you want to feel and believe. It’s giving up on comparing ourselves with XYZ.
For me it is an internal struggle, not comparing to others but to how I ideally like to present myself- I am an artist so it has to do with that. Thanks for your replies :) Peace to you!@@elisaberrinigomez2946
Wow estaba viendo tu video y me inspiro para seguir dejando mis canas .. tengo 45 años ; gracias 😘🤗
Very true. This video helped me a lot because i am letting my hair grey. You helped me accept the transition smoothly
Wonderful to see you !🌷
I love your hair. Just started mine. 6 weeks. Have a long way to go but im excited
You got this! :)
So tired of coloring my hair.... I went to caramel, then to blonde then I did this myself.... I took out all color. Used a product that made my hair school bus yellow... Then added a purple color and voila..... A gorgeous sterling silver. I kept the growing out pretty with blue shampoo. 2 years later I still get compliments on my gorgeous healthy silver hair. So glad I did it.
Your hair looks great I love women with gray hair it looks good on women you gorgeous. Great video
Elisa-you look fabulous! You are glowing! Your youthful energy is shining through. I think your face looks as young as you were, even when you had your brown hair. 😁
Wonderful, you worked so well on your bien-être. I'm so flabbergasted so many people fear ageing until I started to realize younger women who were snarky to me where actually seeing me as competion! I mean, huh? I . Like I would tear away a snippet their overflowing stock of potential Tinder-dates 😂. But confidence is beautiful and knowing where you are in life too so you are very inspirational and I'm so happy Mexico was amazing on you
I have never seen so many young women look at me with awe. I can read it in their eyes "ooooh I want what SHE has!" Power to those of us who got the message that we hot ! Woohoo :)
Great to see you back Elisa!!! So happy you had a blast in Mexico and had a big realization while you were there! You just confirmed what I was feeling too about it being all about our attitude and spirit! Love you bunches!! xoxox
Love you more Victoria. Mouaaaaa :)
You've inspired me! I'm 9 weeks free of dye. =)
I’ve missed you! You rock it!
Awwww. You are too kind :)
Elisa how do you keep your gray hair from turning yellow? Just a purple shampoo?
I use regular blue shampoo bought cheaply at 7.49$
Love your energy😊. Beautiful! 🥰
Love it!
I agree with you 100 percent. I love how confident you are and how you think about life. Take care dear and thank you for being an inspiration! Btw I am almost two months transitioning 😊👍🏼❤️
How do you like it so far?
Elisa! I am so happy to see a video from you. I've been thinking about you (I am not on Instagram, otherwise I would know that everything was fine), and wondering how you are. Just last night, my twin sister and I got complimented on our hair by a group of 20-somethings. She has a pixie of salt and pepper, and I have a Nikol Johnson-style bob. So glad that things are sunny for you!❤
Hello Silver sister! I too follow Elisa! Love her beauty inside and out! Do you have pictures of you and your sister's hair style? I'm growing out my gray hair and looking for ideas for a fresh look to go with the new me!! Lol Thank you!
Hi Elisa! Love you channel and I missed you! You are a beautiful inspiration to many of us! Thank you for sharing!
Glad to hear that you are happy with your decision :)
Julie if you don't want to do instagram on your phone you can actually access it on a lap top. I'm one of the few who started out that way instead of on the phone app.
@@lifetobelived9102 thanks
Thank you for always being an inspiration! Sharing this video everywhere!
Looking beautiful as usual!! Glad you had fun on your vacation. I could use one of those💗
Another gorgeous, beautiful real woman. You look amazing. Women have the advantage, we can wear make up that accentuates our beauty, even though men wear makeup, but anything men can wear, women wear better. Thanks for the inspiring video. I also love the cut. Wondering how you look with red lipstick.
Hear, hear!!! :)
Glad to see you back Elisa! Looking good girl !
Love Angie from UK x 💋
Thank you dear Angie. I am sooooo busy girl. I wish I could do more :(
I’m so happy for you! It sounds like you had an amazing time on your vacation. Good for you.😊😊😊❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you dear beautiful Lori. Big big hugs full of tons of love for you :)
I have stayed grey, everyone that doubted me, love it & say I look better, I do wear it as a pixie now 🤗 such a relief NO MORE DYE 🇬🇧❤️xx p.s men say I look younger & think I dye mine as well 😂
Woohoo :)
You are a wise (and gorgeous) woman...beauty has no age, hair color, etc. requirement.
Hi Elisa, I missed you! Kept checking everyday to see if you made a video, never thinking to check Instagram! Well I'm so happy you're back looking beautiful, happy and well rested! Glad you had a fabulous vacation.
Thank you lovely Janie. You are just the sweetest. I am editing as fast as possible, hehehe :)
you are looking great! glad you are back.
You look fabulous Elisa I wish I had your hair!! I'm glad you had a wonderful time in Vera Cruz Mexico
You look great, I'm happy and inspired imitating women who are in grey hair.. I'm on my third month with out dyeing my hair.. Your hairstyle look good on you.. ❤️🌞✌️😇😇😇😇😇😇😇
I love your hair so pretty! I need let my hair go natural been color since I was 25vnow I'm 52.
Let me know how it goes :)
I am one year into not dying my hair today (25 October 2019). Aside from the god awful colour of the fading red dye, i like it. It’s a pale silver colour (bit streaky) and I’m definitely impatient for it to be entirely grey but if you want change, you’ve got to put up with the in between part. I agree with all you say and I think it’s so usual nowadays to see women who’ve had Botox or a facelift that it’s almost the norm now, so anyone who hasn’t had it done, is the one that looks odd. When did that happen?! Anyway, I’ve always said that if I am lucky enough to get to 80 and be in good health, I intend to dress like Miss Marple and be addled on G&Ts from 10 am with nothing but a slick of lipstick to face the world.
Meant to say it’s unusual to see women who haven’t had Botox - at least in the public eye, i mean.
Elisa me encanta verla su cabello se ve genial y su personalidad me encanta es una mujer madura pero moderna y eso es bonito la felicito y que gusto saber que disfruto de sus vacaciones
Mil corazones hermosa Teresa :)
You’ve been missed, good to see you posting again 🥰 you look fabulous 😎
Trying to edit as fast as possible, hehehe :)
Thank you Elisa, your hair looks very nice.
I can't hear a thing of what you're saying cuz I'm mesmerized by your stunning hair!! 😍
I am floored by your comment. Thank you ever so much :)
I can't wait to get where you are now, you look fantastic, simply ,I had to stop colouring due to severe allergy, after using many years, I just turned 60! However feel 40 again? But what's in a number? Xx 😂 your wonderful!
Beautiful
Lisa you’re so beautiful with gray hair 😍❣️
You still have a gorgeous mane! ....and a gorgeous energy! 🥰
Missed you. Great video ❤️💕
Editing as fast as I can :)
Love Love Love Your Hoop Earrings I need to find some that are similar xoxo 💋
Fantastic, Very cool and well researched ( and yes it confirms My earlier theory as I snagged My first sexual encounter with a gorgeous man whilst wearing NO make- up, with a headcold and a twoday old pyjamas after an amazing 4 hour long discussion about history ,philosophy etc)
uuuuuuuu my kinda encounters. yummy :)
Love your hair style, please show how it is cut, where the layers on top come down too, I trim my own hair , it is very like yours, just my top layers need to be a bit shorter. Xx
Hello Linda, I simply got a long layer cut back the beginning of October.
Love 💗 Your Videos Thank You xoxo 💋
Hey Bella miaaaaa!!! Looking belliisima.... I'm so happy you had a great vacation. Xxx
Thank you sorella mia :)
Natural hair. No dye, no chemicals.
Sending Love and Light and Abundant Blessings your way xoxo 💋
My hair is gray/silver.......I tried a product called Keracolor + Clenditioner. It is temporary and washes out after a few washes. It comes in different colors but I tried the Silver which looks dark gray to me. I used it on my dry hair and let it sit for 10 minutes then washed it out. It made my hair very soft and the silver was very pretty however I might have overdone it because it made my hair a little darker. I also think it’s taking a longer amount of time to totally wash out. Next time I’m only going to use it on a small front section of my hair. I didn’t know if you ever heard of Keracolor and might want to try something fun. I didn’t want to alter my gray only enhance it so I chose silver. There’s another color called Platinum and I’m going to try that next. It doesn’t have any yellow but it’s lighter with a pale purple hue, might not show up at all.
Hi JoJo! Is the Keracolor a toner like the ones used in hair salons? Please update me on how you like the Platinum vs the Silver. Thx!
M Toyota you can get more in-depth info on it at Keracolor website or Ulta. It’s primarily for people with colored hair to keep up the vibrancy of their color. You can also watch MrKongsMom, she does a review on it, she used purple on her natural gray hair. Everyone will get different results depending on their hair color. Doesn’t hurt to try because it washes out.
@@jojorey6886 Thanks a bunch for your reply! Really appreciate it!
Can you link where you get your jewelry?
Hi. Most of my jewelry is pieces from around the world, gifted or bought myself, some is old gold jewelry, silver from my Mexican travel and some from HM.
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Beauty is from Within xoxo 💋
Elisa, your attitude and beauty, including that of your hair, keeps you radiant and uncommonly attractive to everyone. 🙂
That "natural" stuff is totally BS. There are women who go "natural" - which truely means no styling products, no blowdrying, no hot irons or straighteners or curlers or makeup AT ALL. Unless they are under 20 years old, they look like Hell. Fuck that. We are not cave women. And not using help while growing out dyed hair, so it looks decent, makes no sense to me.
As you know, I transitioned very happily over 2 years using bleached and toned highlights at first, and then Overtone on just the treated "ends" for the remaining about 18 months. Was very successful and painless for me. No one knew I was transitioning through the whole thing.
Now I am free of it all. I get compliments on my hair all the time now, from total strangers, men and women. I love my hair.
And I LOVE your current haircut/style. 😘
Hello Robin. Long time no chat my dear friend. Well the way I see it the white hair that comes OUT of the scalp is natural. So transitioning is nothing but waiting for that natural that comes out from the scalp to grow out. So EVERYONE transitions natural. LOL.
Big hugs beautiful friend :)
@@elisaberrinigomez2946 I thought I was agreeing with you. I must have misunderstood. 🙂
robjeny Right you are. I just added and reinforced our point in agreement:)
Bravo!! I could understand quiet a lot!!(jaja i am from Argentina) you are great!! Please do it in spanish!! 😘😘
Hola Graciela, estoy editando el mismo video en español Pero no es exactamente igual ya que la audiencia es un diferente, si? :)
@@elisaberrinigomez2946 Te entiendo y te agradezco! Un gran cariño!!
Graciela Nieto Hola Graciela. Ya está mi vídeo en mi canal ELISA EN ESPAÑOL :)
Hello Beautiful xoxo I also stopped coloring My Hair actually my hair is in better condition it has been seven months now ........xoxo
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Okay....I need advice sistas. My hair is naturally black and silver....AND LONG. Two feet long. Now here is the rub.....WOMEN WHOM I DEAL WITH ARE GETTING JEALOUS AND CATTY AND SNIPPY. Please help and advise! I am a sweet woman who loves everyone...... I know my hair looks great and I take great care of it....but how to deal with the .......bitchiness? Thanks in advance...Margaret.
Simple, ignore. You are not responsible for their karma. You take care of YOU. Also like my mom always said, we are not gold coins that everyone is going to love us regardlessly, ya?
I love you 🏵 and your are very beautiful
Boa tarde linda, seus cabelos está show, parabéns**
Muito obrigado, linda :)
@@elisaberrinigomez2946 abraços**
I don’t care what other people think 💭
Woohoo :)
Your cute and funny girl...
Glad to entertain you :)
Huh! Nooooo! I never said anything of such. That you were going to look older. So not everybody. Heh heh! ;-p
Babe you are the love of my life. You will never say anything to hurt me. I loooooove you:)
You look gorgeous and you what men like gray hair my lovely man always says you looks sexy and he doesn’t even want I dye or straight my hair so man just care how we feel and if we project positive and happy actitud we going to look fabulous not matter the hair color, makeup and nothing xoxo 😘
Exactly :)
I think you don't look older with gray hair because it is so long. Short hair would definitely not look the same.
Oh la la don't say that to my girlfriend who has a pixie white hair cut. :)
See I told you lol
hahahahahaha. Was I EVER thinking about YOU!!!!