Yes. And as much as they will take over-the-top vengeance against you for the most irrelevant things, they will also consistently minimize (or even flat out ignore) all the things you go out-of-your-way to do ‘for them’ every single day. It is a lose/lose situation to engage with these victim-minded, self-serving aggressors.
Exactly! You can not win the game where the goal post is constantly moving and you do not even know the rules to begin with. You have nailed it. The only way to keep your sanity intact is to walk away from those disturbed and evil-spirited people. Thank you❤
If they hurt you (and they will), just walk away, leave them forever, pick up the peaces and live your best life. "Vengeance is mine says the Lord your Redeemer. It is I who will fight your battles."
If the truth offends the narcissist, they'll need revenge for that anyway. In fact, the truth is so offensive to them sometimes that their revenge will appear to any normal person as outright homicidal.
my dad beat me up for letting a glas fall while doing the dishes or one time he beat me up for drinking the last cola that was in the house. not to mention the beatings that i kinda "deserved" ... he even beat me up in front of my friends and he even beat up my friends. complete psycho
I can validate that, like spending huge money on legal fees when they refused a more than equitable settlement--just to take "revenge" and try to ruin you for a process they started. Also, the point that no one else normalish can comprehend what you are dealing with is significant. It means you don't always get support so important to keep that in mind when interacting with others around you.
I made the mistake of thinking I could talk to the Narc sibling about delicate matters assuming they were mature enough in a very non intrusive way. The retaliation was astounding as the narcissist was reminded of the imperfect past and suffered horrible narcissistic injury as a result.
I have been beat up by narcs for years. They are very vindictive and evil. I don't think of revenge, I only wish the best for people, but these narcs pursue and pursue with destruction on their minds. I have found myself alone because I blocked everyone and closed all social media accounts for peace. I pray now to meet a empath or two for friendship.
this totally makes sense as i retro reflect. the narcs that i used to deal with were so dirty and devious. if i made a "mistake" they would get upset at first, then eventually calm down. then when i thought things were good, they would get their revenge on me. ironically when i would call them out for something they did wrong...the narcs would always say amongst other things, "let's just put that in the past and start over," or "can't you just accept my apology? my phone battery is running out" LMFAOOO 🤣 narcs are next-level retarded with their rationale. 🤷♂️
@@kynathomas4809 nah, i like using the exact same things they say to me, back on them. it's a great way to let them know that you are on to their ruse. furthermore, when they get upset, i'll say, "what''s the big deal? if it's okay for you to say the same things to me, why wouldn't it be ok to say it back to you?" narcs hate being exposed.🤣
@carparthero That's a good way to do it. I just don't have patience for that rage they have once they see you are giving them what they're giving you. They're the double standard people.
@@kynathomas4809 understandable. each narcissist situation entails using different tactics. you can def beat them by not participating in their conflict. keep fighting the good fight. cheers, steven
Both parents are full on coverts. I remember once when I was in high school I came downstairs in the morning and on the kitchen counter there was handwritten note from my mother, "By going to bed without saying good night. You are telling us to F off!!". Then my parents continued to pretend I didn't exist and would only look at me with disdain when they had to for the next several days. All because I fell asleep doing my homework in my room. This is only one of thousands of examples. She used to love leaving little notes for me in the morning telling me how I had wronged them in some way, she would then use this as an excuse to give me the silent treatment. To this day, she is 79 and still does this kind of stuff. But now a million times worse and affecting a lot more people.
One need NOT be on any "trained police force" to be REQUIRED to adhere to the 'excessive force' rule: exerting excessive force, BY DEFINITION, is the definition of CRIME. Period. End of word-salad.
Before they called this Narcissism 30-50 years ago they used to call this megalomania. I would always say about my dad if someone stepped on his foot he would chop their leg off at their thigh. My mother supposedly cheated on my dad after they first got married and he caught her. He kidnapped her lover at gun point and was going to take him to the jetties to kill him bc back then it was legal to kill your wife's lover in our state, but instead he let him go; I'm not sure after he almost beat him to death or not and then he opted to sleep with 9 out of her 10 best girlfriends and 9 out of 10 complied. He still brags about that to this day and this happened over 50+ years ago. Narcissists should be forced to wear a scarlet N, and after 2-3 strikes they need to be purged from society. What he did was just a typical Tuesday for him. Another story after this was he was helping a "friend" work on his car or motorcycle when he went upstairs to use the restroom, and while he was there he says he "bent" the guys wife "over the sofa and had her because all women are whores". He laughs about how he did that every time he tells that story 50+ years later to show everyone how all women are whores. So delusional. Just another typical Tuesday. Father, help him in Jesus Name.
I work with a narc. His behavior is very cyclic, boasting with bravado, shitting on people with lies and then being a victim. If he feels a grievance towards the company then he steals something, and then something small of his goes missing and he makes a loud fuss about it. I'm watching.
Like #66~!~!~! I'd consider my self more of a fax machine to Dr Evil but close enough...lol Next court date is this friday... kinda worried and don't care @ the same time...
Does this include stonewalling and silent treatment? I had a female friend leave my home, all was well or so I thought, then stonewalled and silent treated me for 10 years. She finally responded and was passive aggressive with slight comments, but could not tell me what the problem was in the first place. She didn't remember, according to her. Yet, her underhanded comments indicated otherwise We have been in touch for a few months, daily, and now all of a sudden, she isn't responding to a message that she received. I can see her presence online everyday...This time, I am educated about this nut case, so I won't EVER be available to her, again. Vaya con dios!
He would punish me with cold showers, ask me to kneel down on the hard floor while he was scolding me, leaving me with sore knees, make me write a sentence on paper 500 times, give him $100, threaten to kill me or hurt me, show me the fist or knife, etc. It’s insane. Now he’s gotten a bit better since I almost left him in secret. He was so devastated. I hope he doesn’t go back to all that crap.
Ufffso true. I went on holidays with my friends that he did not approve and refuse to cancel the trip the same day i was living so he cheat on me. I have countless story like this.
People here using words like Narcs. I used to think what do Narcos have anything to do with Narcicists. Then realized Americans tend to use abbreviations for lots of things.
I could give a rats @ss about how that narcissist feels and what they try to do to me. I say bring it on, I'm ready. This probably just works for me; so I don't advice anyone to try this.
For being such a young girl you do know your narc…. Your very similar to the little shaman with your insight … it’s like you have a sixth sense like you can see the ghosts or in this case you can see right thru NPD it’s clear as day . Your ex boyfriend gave you your street credits, life would’ve been easier for me if got the freaking memo sooner than 2 years after only searching divorce on youtube
Yes. And as much as they will take over-the-top vengeance against you for the most irrelevant things, they will also consistently minimize (or even flat out ignore) all the things you go out-of-your-way to do ‘for them’ every single day. It is a lose/lose situation to engage with these victim-minded, self-serving aggressors.
Exactly! You can not win the game where the goal post is constantly moving and you do not even know the rules to begin with. You have nailed it. The only way to keep your sanity intact is to walk away from those disturbed and evil-spirited people. Thank you❤
They have to hurt you for the things they did TO you...and apologize to them for it.
If they hurt you (and they will), just walk away, leave them forever, pick up the peaces and live your best life.
"Vengeance is mine says the Lord your Redeemer. It is I who will fight your battles."
Another great video how no one sees through their playing the victim mentality,when their the ones constantly causing chaos in our lives ,
To a narcissist, there are no rules of their game but there own and they will change them whenever they please. Like a cat plays with a mouse.
Sad Truth. Danielle explains these people to a T.
That printer metaphor is incredibly accurate.
If the truth offends the narcissist, they'll need revenge for that anyway. In fact, the truth is so offensive to them sometimes that their revenge will appear to any normal person as outright homicidal.
That’s it.
my dad beat me up for letting a glas fall while doing the dishes or one time he beat me up for drinking the last cola that was in the house. not to mention the beatings that i kinda "deserved" ... he even beat me up in front of my friends and he even beat up my friends. complete psycho
I can validate that, like spending huge money on legal fees when they refused a more than equitable settlement--just to take "revenge" and try to ruin you for a process they started. Also, the point that no one else normalish can comprehend what you are dealing with is significant. It means you don't always get support so important to keep that in mind when interacting with others around you.
I made the mistake of thinking I could talk to the Narc sibling about delicate matters assuming they were mature enough in a very non intrusive way. The retaliation was astounding as the narcissist was reminded of the imperfect past and suffered horrible narcissistic injury as a result.
If a printer fails on a narc, he will set the whole building on fire 😂
Rules...obey, serve, become a carbon copy.
This is so on point wow
My narc mom accused me of abusing her when I was using Gray Rock on her. Smh... Good thing I caught her accusation on camera!
I have been beat up by narcs for years. They are very vindictive and evil. I don't think of revenge, I only wish the best for people, but these narcs pursue and pursue with destruction on their minds. I have found myself alone because I blocked everyone and closed all social media accounts for peace. I pray now to meet a empath or two for friendship.
Hello I hope your ok and I understand xx
this totally makes sense as i retro reflect.
the narcs that i used to deal with were so dirty and devious. if i made a "mistake" they would get upset at first, then eventually calm down. then when i thought things were good, they would get their revenge on me.
ironically when i would call them out for something they did wrong...the narcs would always say amongst other things, "let's just put that in the past and start over," or "can't you just accept my apology? my phone battery is running out" LMFAOOO 🤣
narcs are next-level retarded with their rationale. 🤷♂️
That's their famous line " That's in the past" they use that for everything. However, you can't use that line on them.
@@kynathomas4809 nah, i like using the exact same things they say to me, back on them.
it's a great way to let them know that you are on to their ruse.
furthermore, when they get upset, i'll say, "what''s the big deal? if it's okay for you to say the same things to me, why wouldn't it be ok to say it back to you?"
narcs hate being exposed.🤣
@carparthero That's a good way to do it. I just don't have patience for that rage they have once they see you are giving them what they're giving you. They're the double standard people.
@@kynathomas4809 understandable. each narcissist situation entails using different tactics. you can def beat them by not participating in their conflict.
keep fighting the good fight.
cheers, steven
Oh yeah, my narc will get you back. She has no morals. But you owe her.
Both parents are full on coverts. I remember once when I was in high school I came downstairs in the morning and on the kitchen counter there was handwritten note from my mother, "By going to bed without saying good night. You are telling us to F off!!". Then my parents continued to pretend I didn't exist and would only look at me with disdain when they had to for the next several days. All because I fell asleep doing my homework in my room. This is only one of thousands of examples. She used to love leaving little notes for me in the morning telling me how I had wronged them in some way, she would then use this as an excuse to give me the silent treatment. To this day, she is 79 and still does this kind of stuff. But now a million times worse and affecting a lot more people.
One need NOT be on any "trained police force" to be REQUIRED to adhere to the 'excessive force' rule: exerting excessive force, BY DEFINITION, is the definition of CRIME. Period. End of word-salad.
Ehhhh, I'd say if your that chummy with an ex to say happy holidays happy birthday, happy Easter etc thats a red flag to anyone.
Before they called this Narcissism 30-50 years ago they used to call this megalomania. I would always say about my dad if someone stepped on his foot he would chop their leg off at their thigh.
My mother supposedly cheated on my dad after they first got married and he caught her. He kidnapped her lover at gun point and was going to take him to the jetties to kill him bc back then it was legal to kill your wife's lover in our state, but instead he let him go; I'm not sure after he almost beat him to death or not and then he opted to sleep with 9 out of her 10 best girlfriends and 9 out of 10 complied. He still brags about that to this day and this happened over 50+ years ago. Narcissists should be forced to wear a scarlet N, and after 2-3 strikes they need to be purged from society. What he did was just a typical Tuesday for him.
Another story after this was he was helping a "friend" work on his car or motorcycle when he went upstairs to use the restroom, and while he was there he says he "bent" the guys wife "over the sofa and had her because all women are whores". He laughs about how he did that every time he tells that story 50+ years later to show everyone how all women are whores. So delusional. Just another typical Tuesday. Father, help him in Jesus Name.
I work with a narc. His behavior is very cyclic, boasting with bravado, shitting on people with lies and then being a victim. If he feels a grievance towards the company then he steals something, and then something small of his goes missing and he makes a loud fuss about it. I'm watching.
My Ex did exactly that. He went out and created on me after I spoke with another man.
Like #66~!~!~! I'd consider my self more of a fax machine to Dr Evil but close enough...lol Next court date is this friday... kinda worried and don't care @ the same time...
Does this include stonewalling and silent treatment? I had a female friend leave my home, all was well or so I thought, then stonewalled and silent treated me for 10 years. She finally responded and was passive aggressive with slight comments, but could not tell me what the problem was in the first place. She didn't remember, according to her. Yet, her underhanded comments indicated otherwise
We have been in touch for a few months, daily, and now all of a sudden, she isn't responding to a message that she received. I can see her presence online everyday...This time, I am educated about this nut case, so I won't EVER be available to her, again.
Vaya con dios!
All true
Thank you, Danielle
Mmmm iunno, texting an ex happy holidays is quite the red flag 😅 unless maybe if there's kids involved
Victim/ victimizer...never stops
He would punish me with cold showers, ask me to kneel down on the hard floor while he was scolding me, leaving me with sore knees, make me write a sentence on paper 500 times, give him $100, threaten to kill me or hurt me, show me the fist or knife, etc. It’s insane. Now he’s gotten a bit better since I almost left him in secret. He was so devastated. I hope he doesn’t go back to all that crap.
Ufffso true. I went on holidays with my friends that he did not approve and refuse to cancel the trip the same day i was living so he cheat on me. I have countless story like this.
Another inciteful video...thank you
I love ur channel well 👍👍 done
Ya goal post keeps changing
People here using words like Narcs. I used to think what do Narcos have anything to do with Narcicists. Then realized Americans tend to use abbreviations for lots of things.
amazing printer serve all.💐🍹narc quite ruthless.
yep
1,00,000 times actually
I could give a rats @ss about how that narcissist feels and what they try to do to me. I say bring it on, I'm ready. This probably just works for me; so I don't advice anyone to try this.
But how do you deal with them if they stole something of yours, they can’t just take ehay isn’t theirs.
Thanks.
Bizzaro-world
For being such a young girl you do know your narc…. Your very similar to the little shaman with your insight … it’s like you have a sixth sense like you can see the ghosts or in this case you can see right thru NPD it’s clear as day . Your ex boyfriend gave you your street credits, life would’ve been easier for me if got the freaking memo sooner than 2 years after only searching divorce on youtube