I tried warning a young lady about a narc that I knew was going to add her to his supply chain but she didn't listen so now she's caught up in devil's world. She is going to wish that she had listened.
Thank you for sharing your experience. They very rarely do listen because narcs are such sweet talkers and lace everything with a heavy dose of deception.
@@ninijellybeanie6853 MANY MANY MANY people and God himself tried to tell me and show me and I didn't listen to them. He showed me and told me himself and I didn't hear it. He's gone and I'm healing. They can run to the sunset with the wind in their hair, the sun shine on thier faces and hand in hand. I can't stand him. God help me, I despise him for the horrific way he treated me and the sick games he ran. He wasted my time, love and energy with absolute intention. I feel sorry for neither of them. I couldn't care less that they have each other now!!!!
@@darlenerodman9770 of course your ex is telling everyone. It’s called the “smear campaign”…they have to do bad to you, but they want you to get credit for it! It’s about image preservation for them….remember they have no self identity, the little bit of identity they have is based off of how everyone else sees them #nhtlm
I’m sorry I don’t feel sorry for the new supply at all. Anybody that sneaks around and cheat with him knowing he was in a relationship with you deserves exactly what she gets.. Especially when she helps him to deliberately hurt you and then sit back and laugh likes it’s funny.. no I’m sorry I don’t feel sorry for her i will be so glad when God delivers all that Karma to both of them. Like the saying goes what goes around comes around and it goes 10 times harder when you have wronged someone!!!
I can testify, they get their karma, soon as you're out of his life. And its non stop. You may not see it, but he is getting it. God will somehow let you know about it and see it, just like he did for me. The karma is non stop.
@@peacefaith2939 my exes new supply is only 19 years old. 18 years younger than my ex. This is probably her first serious relationship. I sometimes wish I could warn her but I know that I wouldn’t have listened to or believed anything that anyone said to me when I was being love bombed.
Yes we were all once the new supply. I was blind I never saw or really new of another woman when I came in. I do remember everything happening sooo fast. The second time week he gave me keys to his house, I remember feeling soo special.. 21 years later he has thick hair up under that skin.. I've been duped!!! His mask came all the way off and I saw the real him quite scary actually!!! Demonic spirit... I don't want nothing!!!
When you first meet a covert narcissist they are so sweet innocent and childlike there’s a magical quality to them they are the closest thing to a fairy 🧚♀️ that you will ever meet in the real world, at first they motivate you and make you feel like anything is possible but as time goes by they slowly start to take a more sinister turn and when the mask comes all the way off you come to the shocking realization that this person was no fairy they were a goblin in disguise the whole time.
They are pure demonic. I was married to one 18 years. He discarded myself and the kids in 2017. They always discard at a terrible time. Our beautiful son passed of a drug overdose inv2018. He was just awful during that time and turned his back on our son 6 months before this happened. He was so evil blames me for his death and also refused to pay for own sons gravestone. All I can say there will be a higher power in the judgement day. I am healing from this terrible loss and from narcissistic abuse. Glad I am free of this monster.
Smoke and mirrors and I fell for it..thought I was getting the prize but all I got was lump of coal. Don’t believe the hype, a bird never changes it’s feathers.
The new supply sat around me for years , seen everything I went through with him , soon as we broke up . They all of a sudden was together. The new supply is never new !!! Sometimes you got to wish people the best and move on , she getting what she deserves 🤷🏽♀️
I got a severance pay and he took my debit card and stole $10,000 out of my bank account. I was in love and he was "so sorry" that he almost committed suicide, so I didn't file charges-- and if I had have filed charges I would have got my money back, or most of it, through FDIC. Anyway, I had a friend who had a daughter who was half my age and half my size. She heard ALL the stories over the past year that I'd been telling her about this evil man, and yet she still thought it would be a good idea to start sneaking around with him right as we were breaking up and believe it or not she married him! We were together for 12 years and he used my motorcycle... well, the one I financed for him, to ride off into the sunset with her. Of course he wrecked the motorcycle with no insurance and stuck me with four thousand more on top of the $10,000 he stole and she was like: but he loves me. (As if he didn't "love" me) Anyways, just so you know you're not the only one. Her name is Krista Caroll, by the way.
I could careless. At first I was angry and jealous, but then I realized everything she has from him was given to the 40 plus women before her. All that romantic is recycled. The only difference between her and the rest of us is she actually got him to the altar and gave him a kid. She can have him.
I feel you, When that Karma hits, I won’t feel nothing for the new supply. They both made my divorce pure hell even though at the end I got what I asked for . But it has taken me a long time to get over that demon and his demonette.
I felt a twinge of wanting to murder my ex Narc after he referred to the new supply as “his girl” after 3 short weeks. I dumped him so he went all out to show me what I was missing without him but the 18 years I spent with him showed me what I was thankfully missing. He took the new supply away for a weekend, wined and dined her, made future plans to buy a home together ( on the phone to her when I was in the same room). I never reacted, I just waited for the fall out, for his rage to surface towards her, the monster awoke after 8 short weeks, the new supply went from planning her future with Prince Charming to considering booking into an insane asylum. She reached out to me and I listened to her but I couldn’t give her any answers, she said the Narc compared her to me constantly and he tried to recreate the life he had with me, creepy. They are very sick individuals but their time is running out.
Yes did you all know there was a narcissist abuse day June 1. We need to get this out more so the people who are really good people will not fall into this trap and in order to make the narcs accountable for what they do to people
I wanted to do the same trust me . I had a seething hatred for the both of them .. I absolutely know the ns knew I was still on the seen absolute grotesque individual. I caught a glimpse of his texts to my ex while his current partner at the time was stuck overseas .. he was keen to cheat on his gf with my nex I hope he gets his
Yep typical game because I’m sure he use to lie and twist things saying she the new suply was better and to devalue her and make her feel like crap he mentions you and compare they nasty nd messy.. I’m waiting for my feelings to be hurt Chile to the flying monkeys givin me th 411 on the narc current status with the ex or new or old supply of course it will sting by me comparing the illusion of our good memories Chile however that too was a like their are the best actors/actress
its all for show, they cant love, ..the ex narc told me he was "miserable"... i told him you are a survivor you'll be alright, i hung up and never looked back, he still hoovered....
lol my mom saw the ex narc at the clinic...she said he looked 70 yrs old!! he tried his hoovers- blocked n deleted, each voicemail was getting meaner and meaner- rage i could here in his voice- he knows he dont scare me, I'm the prize and the gift , not you ..they needed us lol
It’s sad but im so in need of this !…. He is dating her for over a year know I’m still not over the traumabond and rumination and she is still happy happy happy … I don’t get it …..
The TRUTH makes us FREE!! I’m just grateful that I can’t be recycled and God has used my enemies as my footstool.. Because of this marriage birthed a new/better version of myself.. When we realize we were in bed with a “demon” we won’t second guess this separation.. Hallelujah
The supply after me was my close family member. She saw what I went through and his deviant nature up close. I believe she thought she was going to be exceptional to the narc. He cried her a river and she fell for it. He ended up devastating her and now she is living her Karma with extremely poor health. She is trying to reconnect but because of her betrayal, I see her differently.
Sister I beseech you move on with your life real Talk family or not purposely hurting someone is wicked I don’t have contact nor wish to with fake family
Omg I was a sacrificer - I thought I was giving grace but I was letting him chip away at my soul!!! I had to learn to forgive myself for being a caring, sacrificing person and it wasn’t easy.
It seems as if when I made the decision to move forward and let go....thats when my ex Husband's life fell apart. The longer I sat seething and looking for his Karma to come, the better his life got and more successful he got at cycling through different women. When I threw in the towel and totally disconnected, from the sideline I saw his reaping and man was it devastating. Momentarily I forgot about all that he did and actually felt sorry for the man...it was that bad. But hey....he has to learn the same way I had to.
Wow I really felt like you were talking directly to me! I spent 17yrs trying to figure out what I went through I lost time sanity had nightmares stopped taking care of myself because I was in a state of shock!
I know darn well my ex would never change. That man is a narcissistic psycho. His mom told me about the trail of horrible behavior he bestowed on all his former women. She said to me one day “I just hope he won’t mess this up” / another time she said “I believe my son is a narcissist. He doesn’t like women. He doesn’t respect them”…. I knew I had to get OUT and I did several months ago.
He came into my life so charming .the love bombing is real. I didn't know of love bombing until a few weeks. While in the relationship you try to get back to that part of the relationship but it never returns. It's down hill from there
yup its real...after 2 weeks of dating he told me " I think i'm falling in love with you" i was like, boy please you dont even know me....after a few years of dating, he lied about his 3 baby mamas , didnt find that out until he went to prison for murder !! they are crazy !!
I didn’t envy the new supply, I thanked her for taking him out of my life as she had told me that she “stole” him from me-I told her that she should enjoy the spoils of her thieving and good luck with all that and just smiled and walked away, leaving her with a confused look on her face. She’s a clever girl, hopefully she’ll figure it out and get out of the relationship before it ruins her life-I wish her strength and courage and peace-especially when he starts to put her through the wringer and he will do exactly that because she’s fresh meat.
Yes I know now it’s a lie . He hid me for years. But post her to make me angry. But I’m happy he hid me because he going to destroy her in public and in private. I was only abused in private. So just like him I can move on and not associate with him
Right I wasn't even his friend on sm but his bm is..plus we do have a child togetjet..actually..He's my Sperm Donor! Him his bm his entire family is Garbage😎 & boy did the garbage take itself out..
The only way I'm healing from being married to a covert malignant narcissist for 24 years is to stay grateful that I survived the nightmare. He died of cancer 3 years ago and I am living my best life I ever could have imagined. Even though all three of the most evil people in my life have all passed away the left over slime of them still creeps in every now and then but I am grateful for the reminder that there are evil people in this world. Trust is earned not just given. Loving and caring for myself is the biggest lesson I've learned. I'll never do for anyone that I don't do for myself FIRST!
Praise God 🙏 sis Praise God! I have lived through this nightmare myself and I too thank God everyday for surviving the nightmare. I did it for me my kids!
I've never known anyone who crossed me and is still alive today, not even my childhood "best friend" who was secretly gay, was obsessed with me and constantly trying to set me up, stalking me everywhere I went, is now dead at 50 yrs from pancreatic cancer .
I hope he doesn’t hurt his new supply. I’ve been out of that situation for nearly 2 years, and the one he replaced me with was evil to the core. But for the sake of who he seems to be with now (I spotted this on socials looking up someone else, we had a lot of mutual friends… who are all now his friends) she reminds me of me back in 2019 going through the lovebombing. So happy and so hopeful and looking forward to the future. I hope she never encounters the monster he became when discarding me. I wouldn’t wish that pain on anyone.
Wow… everyone needs to listen to the last 30 seconds over and over and over… the NARCISSIST will never be in a better position than you simply because they are a narcissist. Powerful, POWERFUL words!! Preach !!
This is sooo true and good to be reminded of!! I’m free from being tormented by a demon influenced person. The new supply is walking in blind. Good luck with all that evil trash. The Holy Spirit in me is not compatible with the demonic in him.✝️🙏🏻🙌🏻
The narcissist that I experienced bought around a whole pregnant woman around to be seen. I’ve been gave up that life(meaning having children), so that didn’t move me emotionally no kind of way, because what you know of the predator you wouldn’t what to trade places no kind of way. I had my children by one man they are grown and the father has passed on. So, you can’t guilt me , or evoke a emotion in me about my fertility, been there and done that! I cool with life in that area. The stupidness they do make you say “ Who are you?” A whole demon.
SICKENING... THERE AS LOW AS IT COMES....DONT REJOICE ...JUST PITY THE NEW SUPPLY ..TO EVERY WICKED MAN THEY WILL BE BLESSED WITH AND WICKED WOMEN... THEY WORKED VERY HARD TO GET EACH OTHER AND AT THIS POINT ITS UNTILL DEATH DO THEM PART...THEY HAVE A EVIL AND WICKED SOUL TIE THAT NOT EVEN THE MOST HIGH WILL BREAK UP DUE TO THERE WAYS.
I want to ty ....girl you spoke about my life...I mean 12 years with that narc and girl he txt I can't be with you anymore I'm not in love with you...lives 8 min away and txt that ...txt after 12 years....went to give him a poem next day...he was in the back yard kidding some other gal....I wasn't shocked but I was....I knew when he started not txting calling answering ...comin up with every excuse not to see me .talking I'm too busy...let me tell ya I been studying almost 2 years narssasism and relationship.....no man is too buisy ....if he likes you oh best believe he gona make time for you....if you in a realationship and you got to ask yourself WONDER if he really loves me.....naw you gona know....your teaching mam was so right on spot on for me I joined ty
The best parts of us should only be reserved for God alone... and I think this is the lesson we’re to learn through these types of relationships. We’re reminded to always put God first, and put our trust in no man, but God alone... Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. ~ Proverbs 4:23
He’s in jail, our baby just turned 1. My reputation is in shambles. I had been raped by him & this has happened to me more than once in life. It spread around town & no one believed me so no one believed me when I tried to hold him accountable for it. He turned everyone against me. Had the “new supply” riding by my house. He was sleeping with her while I was pregnant. It’s a lot to this story. I left town.
My son went to his dads house last weekend and when he returned home he told me his dad is cheating on the new supply with one of his long time coworkers and he just got engaged to the new supply 😂💯💀
My narc groomed the new supply behind my back. I pity him, he has no idea the world of hurt he's heading towards. Rinse, wash, repeat. They'll never change. Would I have heeded a warning about this stunning woman who was lovebombing me? Not on your life. He's there being adored. He feels lucky to be alive. What he doesn't know is how dead he'll feel when she starts devaluing him, and finally gets discarded. Remember this, repeat it to yourself multiple times a day: your joy is their misery, and your misery is their joy. Peace and love to all.
7 and a half years and 2 kids. My Narc left me at least 7 times for at least 4 different people not to mention the constant mature text messages from past supply that we argued about constantly. The last month we were together she was never around. Leaving me with the kids and not coming home till 3am. Then when I said something about it she called me boring "because she was around to do anything with anyways". And said I just didn't want to be around the kids. Lol a little projection..... then the call from her dad. She was talking to someone else, witch obviously was where she had been going that whole month and a half...... last time for me, I've lost about 30 pounds dealing with the stress. They were in a relationship the same day I found out lol. All about my kids and my positivity and well being. 1 week strong💪🙌
I couldn't agree more....the last part was real good about the misery......as soon as your being devalued they are usually trying to lovebomb the new supply then and only then when they know they have the other hooked that's when your discarded.....I mean like yesterday's trash....they act like they never knew you.....it's a trip....unfortunately I went thru ....hell 5 or 6 cycles yes ..ugh....and always finding out who the new supply was and he would still be seeing me and id get in touch with them and we'll that usually ended it and then he would come back....idk how I thought I was winning the prize Everytime...no it was a Crackerjack prize.. there flipping clowns...birds
Joy you are amazingly beautiful and your voice is very soothing to a broken soul. You have made a tremendous difference in my life. I did the discard, the Lord spoke to my spirit and told me it was time for me to go. He hovered a few times and I fell for it but cautious at the same time bcuz I had just begun to study his behavior. What really made me to start paying close attention was the relationship with his mama and sister. His back burner was very TOXIC, she tried to come for me. He kept her hid but my name was always coming up, she was calling and stalking, she even tampered with her license plate and sliced her tire and said I did it, but GOD. She forgot there were cameras in the complex. She lied and told the narc she beat me down in a store, and yes he played a part. The last time she called I told her, look Lil Girl I don’t want him I know what you got, I’m high maintenance and it was a privilege for that DEMON to be in my life, so when he’s not with you trust me Booka he’s not with me. I’m much to cute to be in a relationship with you and him. He never post no pictures with me, he’s stays solo bcuz he’s washed up 47 years old and still don’t know what he wants to be when he grows up. He’s more in love with drugs, alcohol, pills and that Demonic Situation with his mama and sister. I will continue to pray for them all, bcuz they need GOD❤️❤️🙏🙏
I got a lot of money coming in December within 10 days she wanted to marry me when the money was gone in February she threw me out slandering me all throughout her job saying what a horrible person I am I'm evil but which they don't really know is she was the evil one she's buying everybody lunch trying to get her little clan and just talking so bad about me I've changed my number I blocked her on Facebook I did everything I can do about every two weeks she shows up at my job for some excuse or another how can I just get rid of her forever the divorce should be final any day she was trying to take my house my car and everything they are very nasty people and I wrote her a letter by saying I know what kind of person you are and I've never ever met a person like this in my life you may say I'm ugly and all that but at least I can use cosmetic to fix me you're ugly on the inside there's nothing that can fix you she didn't like that at all so if you can please help me is it ever going to end
I believe everything you said because once upon a time, I, unknowingly, was the new supply. She cut me one thousand times only for her to turn around and swear she was the one who was bleeding. I'm speaking about a person whose life was in complete shambles when I met her. Truth be told, I feel sorry for her. Someone is going to hurt her.
I don't wish anything bad on anyone. God will handle all of that. I just thank him for what he did for me...rejection was definitely protection! He's trying to make her like me, said he glad he waited to marry her...well boo go right ahead. I've said, its coming, I'm not waiting to see anything that I know is already taking place. Lord, I'm grateful and thankful! I can sleep all night and be at peace.
I was Jesus junior.... I knew what he was early on.. But thought I could 'handle' it... Wrong. Now im literally picking up the pieces and watching the new supply make the same exact mistakes...
"Trop of a life time." How true it is. Narcissistic run a train on your brain. You can try to explain what happened to family and friends, but they won't understand. I wish the narcissit on nobody. Thank you for your channel 🙏
I wouldn’t care if his new supply get what I got and the wife before me, because she was adding her two cents in the divorce. I gave him what he wanted. She had the nerve to put in the divorce papers in her handwriting that I needed to change my last name.
My NEX had that requirement put in our divorce papers. I refused…too much hassle. What did it matter to him?!? Then, a day after the divorce was final, I learned he’d been having an affair long before he discarded me. At first I was kind of sorry I didn’t change my name but now I’m glad I didn’t because I think it probably bothers him. 🤪
This is such a powerful powerful message . I am so grateful for the shared experiences and coaches online . 21 years after and I finally got it figured out HE IS A COVERT NARCISSIST!
It took me 20 years to discover that my wife was a covert narcissist, the red flags and dots were always there, it took me a while to join them up completely.
🙌 Yes, exactly! I gave everything and tried for over 5 years but the abuse only intensified 🥺 Now he’s happier than ever because his new supply is “perfect”. Ugh, I’ve been going through it trying to stomach all of it… he’s giving her everything he promised me. I feel cheated 😔
@@ahmoniquedanielle2585 Exactly! That’s how it feels… calculated. The extravagant trips, diamond ring, marriage, house, etc all goes to someone he barely knows that he cheated with 🥺I hope one day he gets everything he deserves for all the abuse and betrayal.
No. The High that they get from abusing the women is unparalleled. They get more abusive towards every other woman. Believe me. Before discarding me, he said this is how I am. His father told me, we will not change. They are enabled by their own nature and their flying monkeys. If you are out of the gutter, just count your blessings. Seriously. Get smart, and don't even blame yourself. Being left is blessing. Women cry everyday who give birth to their children, and there is enough content on internet indicating that they hurt the mother and even children. And if the new supply is his match and both toxic, believe me they will create and out create hell for each other. You be happy. Heal and live Your own Life .
She's going to go through the same hell I did and I am overjoyed! He called me from a new number a few days ago to tell me he lost his car, job, housing and she's shrieking in the background "Who ya talkin to"!! So far from the happy kissing pictures he proudly posted on FB with her posing on his fancy car which is no more! I am so happy it seems they are both getting their well-deserved karma! It makes me ecstatic that she will be the one constantly checking his phone and FB! I am free!
His new supply was a childhood sweetheart. They were involved in an emotional affair for the second time, but this went too far. He threw away 22 years of marriage because of his obsession with her. She’s on her fourth husband, I think she may also be a Narcissist 😔. She knows all about me and my children, she is as bad as him. Thank you for your content ❤️
Thank you for honoring us with your time and story. It's difficult when the other person knows about the spouse and children affected by their behavior. May God bless you 🙏🏾❤️
Thank you married to a malignant narcissist for 17 years and didn’t know it almost lot my life dealing with him I’m so grateful for this video I found out what I was dealing with from watching 😢videos getting a divorce now all already have the paperwork in my hands Thank God I’m free❤Thank you Jesus savior of humanity
I left my abusive ex about 3 months ago. The last time I saw him he had promised me to get better, go to therapy, get a better income, even marriage. I knew he was full of it so I still chose to leave. If he wanted to do better he would show me. He discarded me a month later. And is now dating a younger replica of me. I’m currently 7 months pregnant and it’s been a roller coaster, but I wake up everyday to tranquility and peace. I wouldn’t trade it for anything in the world. I used to feel jealous of the new supply, but I feel sorry for her overall. Everything he is promising her, he promised me. I fell in love with potential for almost 7 years, thanks to therapy I woke up and chose myself.
God bless you. I have escaped from the narcisist 3 months ago and I'm a happy free man. A girl came along to my life 1000 times better than her and loves me only for me
Believe me, I was the new supply. I was used to make his ex feel 😢 It is infuriating. We did not go skipping in the sunset either, unless he was backhanded me.
It hurts like hell when u realize u were just a fish in their pond of games!! Smh!!! I put him out 3+ years ago and what a peaceful life it has been!! Stay strong🙏🏾💪🏾🤗
You know you are healed when you are sorry for the new supply. They are just starting into that boat ride through hell. A long and painful trip that we already know.
I don't feel sorry for my husband of 12 years or the secretary at his work. She knew he was married, so nope! Zero empathy coming from me. He abandoned me,our home,my daughter and our pets like we were trash.
The narc psychopath strangulated me near death last year September. Then married a older woman after only knowing her for one month. The new wife/new supply left him at the two month point. Run and don't look back!
Wow! This is my first time listening to you and I love it. I got out of an abusive relationship and I’m going through exactly what you are saying at 13:00. He asked me when I would take him back. We are divorced. I told him he needed mental health help. He told me he is a changed man and that he went to counseling once and that that helped. I don’t think so. God knew I needed to hear this. Thank you so much.
Wow this was powerful and encouraging! You opened my understanding on alot of things that I didn't know. Thank you for the ensight on the behavior of a Narcissist!
Many are not new they were being hidden and they know about the wife’s , husbands , and children ! I could care less what happen to her hopefully they have many children together
True. The new supply was his own secretary with whom he had been cheating with for years. He discarded me, abandoned our family and moved in with her and started another family right away. The new supply thinks she has won and are having babies one after the other. She has no remorse for the pain she caused me and my children. I know for a fact that the narc husband is still cheating with the other baby mama. Knowing him, I'm sure he has other supplies as well.
The fact that I just found about about my husband and his supplies, and that he is now playing house with his newest Tinder supply makes me want to throw up. It is like our life, which was pretty great never existed. That somehow because he is there that he is no longer married to me even though all of his belongings, including horses are still here with me. What really is difficult is that 3 weeks ago when I found out, he refused to talk with me, called the police on me instead and they arrested him. He is under a no contact bail condition until November when his hearing is scheduled. So my.life hangs in this limbo he'll. I need to talk to him for my own reasons before I decide to file for divorce. NOTHING could've prepared me for this
Thank you for honoring us with your story Kelly and thank you for sharing your time. It is so difficult when you find out about their different lives. My heart goes out to you 🙏🏾❤️
Thank you for this. 😔 Your voice is soothing, but the message is so clear, I cried through the whole thing. I've been so envious of the woman that he left me for. I try to pray for her, and it's so hard. But your message reminds me that I was once the new supply. He fooled me. Deceived me. Hurt me until I couldn't function normally anymore...but now I feel that I can actually pray for this woman and mean it. God rescued me. I need to rejoice instead of grieving. God bless you. 🥲🙏🏼
Amen sister. God healed you just like he healed me too from my narc relationship. The narc in my life told me I had a demon and he blocked me, funny thing is he was the one acting like the demon it wasn't me. That really opened my eyes and God healed me from the intense love that I had for him and he healed My broken heart
@@kimmidoesdallas1 isn't that so typical of them to accuse you and I, but all along it was them! I can't believe how far I've come on this journey! I'm so blessed to hear that God has set you free! May He bless you on your path to healing! Stay strong, Sis! 💪🏽🫂💜
The new supply will go through the same cycle. I pray for the next and the next... These people are mentally ill, twisted, diabolical, sadistic, and deranged. They always painted a picture to look like a united front. Behind the scene its hell for the new supply.. It's just a matter of time. Love bombing don't last long. The mask is going to come off. We have to be happy that God allowed us to escape. Rejoice and be glad. I saw him with someone and she had an attitude. A few months after I kicked him out and he moved in with her the same day and then a few months later she kicked him out and the same day he moved in with the next woman and i heard that lasted 5 months and now it's it's a another woman. I just smh and keep going. The cycle is continuously being repeated. Stop feeling sorry for someone who wants to level you. Smear your name. Tell lies and work hard to destroy you.. Their family know they are low down and they just sit back and watch it go down. They know the ending is never good. His mother told me "it never end well". Behind the looks, superficial charm, and fake self is a scared and fragile child who is rotten to the core. Its like eating an apple. It's red and shiny. Tastes sweet, but when you get to the core it's rotten. Then you start to spit it out. The core is dark, bitter, and nasty. You throw it away. That's how they are. It can be challenging to leave. We focus on what we could do. Nothing but leave. Run to God.
They definitely need deliverance however it has to be something they want which really is not the case with a narc. You can pray that God would change their heart posture. The parable of the empty house highlights the reality that evil spirits can and will come back in a larger number. They have to be ready to engage in the warfare that will come their way as a result.
I just found your channel you have said everything I have been thinking your so right 👍 no longer have to deal with him I've seen him and the new supply drinking champagne then I said to myself that's a lie and an illusion later she will be drinking salt water better her then me 🙏 Im loving on Jesus and myself the one for me will come in time 😘 every one have a blessed life
Wow! Thank you so much. 💓 I really needed this reminder. 25 years wasted married to the narcissist, 4 kids later. Trying to heal but still stuck, trauma bonded, as I move into year 4 of my divorce. As he flaunts his new supply whom he married on my birthday. He's a piece of work. EVERYTHING you've said hear is true. Thank you again and may God continue to bless you!!
I don’t hate him .. I feel sorry for him for having NPD. And I am waking away for good coz there’s def a devil surrounding that. -- walk with your faith! God is good!
Whoa! You said it sister! On point ,male or female both sexes act the same . 5 years involved with her ups & downs egg shell walking , shaming , blaming , gas lighting I walked 6 months later she’s getting married after going out for some guy after 3 days . 5 years ! I was there and now in less than a year she’s engaged ! You can’t make this stuff up .
I have heard of narcs who will intentionally give their child tainted , bad , spoiled and or expired food so that when the co parenting X arrives for his time with the child he,or she, needs to take the child to the hospital.
I have watched many videos about narcissistic abuse. But, the way you articulated your words and with the passion and emotion you spoke, really touched my heart. It's really important to get informed, but sometimes good information also flys over our heads if we do not feel connected to the presenter. Sometimes it's not the fault of the presenter but the fault of the listeners, as we have gone through so much hardship that we feel numb about hearing these harsh truths. Then someone like you comes along and tells us that "wake up boy, you are not alone, I am here for you.".... This video opened my flood gates. And one of my nicest friend's name is also 'Joy'.... So this video was even more special for me. Thank you.
I tried warning a young lady about a narc that I knew was going to add her to his supply chain but she didn't listen so now she's caught up in devil's world. She is going to wish that she had listened.
Thank you for sharing your experience. They very rarely do listen because narcs are such sweet talkers and lace everything with a heavy dose of deception.
Keep us updated.
The new supply never listens (as I didn’t)…. we want to believe that the Heaven on Earth they promise is real.
If he knows you've warned her. He's gonna be extra nice to counter it. No one could tell you not to see him so you can't tell anyone else.
@@ninijellybeanie6853 MANY MANY MANY people and God himself tried to tell me and show me and I didn't listen to them. He showed me and told me himself and I didn't hear it. He's gone and I'm healing. They can run to the sunset with the wind in their hair, the sun shine on thier faces and hand in hand. I can't stand him. God help me, I despise him for the horrific way he treated me and the sick games he ran. He wasted my time, love and energy with absolute intention. I feel sorry for neither of them. I couldn't care less that they have each other now!!!!
I was the new supply and I can tell you...a narcissist never change...they only change partners
The absolute truth!
Yep, and they will tell you that too with the new supply sitting right there by them
Did your Nex tell you the prior victim was “crazy”? I’m certain mine is.
@@darlenerodman9770 of course your ex is telling everyone. It’s called the “smear campaign”…they have to do bad to you, but they want you to get credit for it! It’s about image preservation for them….remember they have no self identity, the little bit of identity they have is based off of how everyone else sees them #nhtlm
@@darlenerodman9770 and you know this😬I was suspicious but disregarded the red flags
I’m sorry I don’t feel sorry for the new supply at all. Anybody that sneaks around and cheat with him knowing he was in a relationship with you deserves exactly what she gets.. Especially when she helps him to deliberately hurt you and then sit back and laugh likes it’s funny.. no I’m sorry I don’t feel sorry for her i will be so glad when God delivers all that Karma to both of them. Like the saying goes what goes around comes around and it goes 10 times harder when you have wronged someone!!!
I can testify, they get their karma, soon as you're out of his life. And its non stop. You may not see it, but he is getting it. God will somehow let you know about it and see it, just like he did for me. The karma is non stop.
You are so right!!!
I don’t feel sorry for the new supply either. What goes around comes around. xx
Yup. Agree 100%
I Agree!!!
Don’t envy the new supply. You know what’s coming to them.
🎯 exactly new or old supply or the ex yeah it will sting however we all know the bs is coming regardless the will experience the same bs
i actually feel sorry for them .....most of them are not as strong as us!!
@@peacefaith2939 my exes new supply is only 19 years old. 18 years younger than my ex.
This is probably her first serious relationship. I sometimes wish I could warn her but I know that I wouldn’t have listened to or believed anything that anyone said to me when I was being love bombed.
FACTS 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂✌️
If a Narc built a robot to serve all their needs they'll still discard it lol
That's so true!
SO TRUE, BECAUSE NOTHING OR NOBODY CAN EVER SATISFY THEM OR MAKE THEM HAPPY
I AGREE! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
You're not kidding!
That’s a good one .. I’m finally coming to myself and finding my humour again and able to laugh at that
Some said ‘The devil couldn’t get you so he sent a narcissist’
narcs are the devil spirit
Wow, I never heard this one. So true! Thank you!
The tragedy of the new supply is that we were once the new supply. Some went in innocently & some not so much. But the ending will always be the same
That's is. The end will always be same ☹️
@Triple J Mom YOU ARE 💯% RIGHT!
Yes we were all once the new supply. I was blind I never saw or really new of another woman when I came in. I do remember everything happening sooo fast. The second time week he gave me keys to his house, I remember feeling soo special.. 21 years later he has thick hair up under that skin.. I've been duped!!! His mask came all the way off and I saw the real him quite scary actually!!! Demonic spirit... I don't want nothing!!!
When you first meet a covert narcissist they are so sweet innocent and childlike there’s a magical quality to them they are the closest thing to a fairy 🧚♀️ that you will ever meet in the real world, at first they motivate you and make you feel like anything is possible but as time goes by they slowly start to take a more sinister turn and when the mask comes all the way off you come to the shocking realization that this person was no fairy they were a goblin in disguise the whole time.
So very true!
Demonic
Lord deal with Nora and Nii Armah Ayi Bonte
They are pure demonic. I was married to one 18 years. He discarded myself and the kids in 2017. They always discard at a terrible time. Our beautiful son passed of a drug overdose inv2018. He was just awful during that time and turned his back on our son 6 months before this happened. He was so evil blames me for his death and also refused to pay for own sons gravestone. All I can say there will be a higher power in the judgement day. I am healing from this terrible loss and from narcissistic abuse. Glad I am free of this monster.
And everyone has the same story about them.
Smoke and mirrors and I fell for it..thought I was getting the prize but all I got was lump of coal. Don’t believe the hype, a bird never changes it’s feathers.
Love that bird never changes their feathers 👏🏾👏🏾
@@EscapingTheMadness you know these birds ain’t loyal either 😜
True that sister.
@@kimgibbs6585 🎯💯
Except birds do change feathers. Often. It's call molting 🤭 but I get why you're saying
Life with him was pure hell
Yes.
Ikr!!!
The new supply sat around me for years , seen everything I went through with him , soon as we broke up . They all of a sudden was together. The new supply is never new !!! Sometimes you got to wish people the best and move on , she getting what she deserves 🤷🏽♀️
She caught hell after me. I told her that's your karma😂
I got a severance pay and he took my debit card and stole $10,000 out of my bank account. I was in love and he was "so sorry" that he almost committed suicide, so I didn't file charges-- and if I had have filed charges I would have got my money back, or most of it, through FDIC. Anyway, I had a friend who had a daughter who was half my age and half my size. She heard ALL the stories over the past year that I'd been telling her about this evil man, and yet she still thought it would be a good idea to start sneaking around with him right as we were breaking up and believe it or not she married him! We were together for 12 years and he used my motorcycle... well, the one I financed for him, to ride off into the sunset with her. Of course he wrecked the motorcycle with no insurance and stuck me with four thousand more on top of the $10,000 he stole and she was like: but he loves me. (As if he didn't "love" me)
Anyways, just so you know you're not the only one. Her name is Krista Caroll, by the way.
FACTS and some!!!!!
@@vicksburg92 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
His new supply was my best friend. She saw everything he did🤦🏻♀️
I don't feel sorry for the new supply..im sure he told her things abt me..They both will receive bad karma
Me neither
I could careless. At first I was angry and jealous, but then I realized everything she has from him was given to the 40 plus women before her. All that romantic is recycled. The only difference between her and the rest of us is she actually got him to the altar and gave him a kid. She can have him.
@@dity9442 just means it's harder for her to leave. Poor thing.
YUP BELIVEVE IT. It gets delivered to them like a FEDEX PACKAGE. What goes around comes around.
I feel you, When that Karma hits, I won’t feel nothing for the new supply. They both made my divorce pure hell even though at the end I got what I asked for . But it has taken me a long time to get over that demon and his demonette.
I felt a twinge of wanting to murder my ex Narc after he referred to the new supply as “his girl” after 3 short weeks. I dumped him so he went all out to show me what I was missing without him but the 18 years I spent with him showed me what I was thankfully missing. He took the new supply away for a weekend, wined and dined her, made future plans to buy a home together ( on the phone to her when I was in the same room). I never reacted, I just waited for the fall out, for his rage to surface towards her, the monster awoke after 8 short weeks, the new supply went from planning her future with Prince Charming to considering booking into an insane asylum. She reached out to me and I listened to her but I couldn’t give her any answers, she said the Narc compared her to me constantly and he tried to recreate the life he had with me, creepy. They are very sick individuals but their time is running out.
Yes did you all know there was a narcissist abuse day June 1. We need to get this out more so the people who are really good people will not fall into this trap and in order to make the narcs accountable for what they do to people
I wanted to do the same trust me .
I had a seething hatred for the both of them .. I absolutely know the ns
knew I was still on the seen absolute
grotesque individual. I caught a glimpse of his texts to my ex while his current partner at the time was stuck overseas .. he was keen to cheat on his gf with my nex
I hope he gets his
Yep typical game because I’m sure he use to lie and twist things saying she the new suply was better and to devalue her and make her feel like crap he mentions you and compare they nasty nd messy.. I’m waiting for my feelings to be hurt Chile to the flying monkeys givin me th 411 on the narc current status with the ex or new or old supply of course it will sting by me comparing the illusion of our good memories Chile however that too was a like their are the best actors/actress
its all for show, they cant love, ..the ex narc told me he was "miserable"... i told him you are a survivor you'll be alright, i hung up and never looked back, he still hoovered....
Our situations sound so similar. We're better without them!!
Not gonna lie, when I saw the constant karma, my ❤ was healed quickly😁
lol my mom saw the ex narc at the clinic...she said he looked 70 yrs old!! he tried his hoovers- blocked n deleted, each voicemail was getting meaner and meaner- rage i could here in his voice- he knows he dont scare me, I'm the prize and the gift , not you ..they needed us lol
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It’s sad but im so in need of this !…. He is dating her for over a year know I’m still not over the traumabond and rumination and she is still happy happy happy … I don’t get it …..
THE DEVIL is a LIAR,I GOT OUT and NEVER 👀 BACK!!! THEY WILL have to LEARN got THEMSELVES,just LIKE the rest of US DID!! Great VIDEO!
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The TRUTH makes us FREE!! I’m just grateful that I can’t be recycled and God has used my enemies as my footstool.. Because of this marriage birthed a new/better version of myself.. When we realize we were in bed with a “demon” we won’t second guess this separation.. Hallelujah
True
Thank you for this I am going through some mess that may not get any better, but I know that my enemy will be my foot stool. GOD BLESS us all.🕊🙏
Thank you
💯💯💯 @ Gayle Scales- you spoke that so beautifully!! 💕💕
Amen
The supply after me was my close family member. She saw what I went through and his deviant nature up close. I believe she thought she was going to be exceptional to the narc. He cried her a river and she fell for it. He ended up devastating her and now she is living her Karma with extremely poor health. She is trying to reconnect but because of her betrayal, I see her differently.
Sister I beseech you move on with your life real Talk family or not purposely hurting someone is wicked I don’t have contact nor wish to with fake family
Oh no I’m sorry sis
Omg I was a sacrificer - I thought I was giving grace but I was letting him chip away at my soul!!! I had to learn to forgive myself for being a caring, sacrificing person and it wasn’t easy.
Yes I was the new supply that she married. Worse mistake I made in my life. Took these videos to understand what I was dealing with
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It seems as if when I made the decision to move forward and let go....thats when my ex Husband's life fell apart. The longer I sat seething and looking for his Karma to come, the better his life got and more successful he got at cycling through different women. When I threw in the towel and totally disconnected, from the sideline I saw his reaping and man was it devastating. Momentarily I forgot about all that he did and actually felt sorry for the man...it was that bad. But hey....he has to learn the same way I had to.
Wow I really felt like you were talking directly to me! I spent 17yrs trying to figure out what I went through I lost time sanity had nightmares stopped taking care of myself because I was in a state of shock!
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Wow
Me too
Yes me too
I know darn well my ex would never change. That man is a narcissistic psycho. His mom told me about the trail of horrible behavior he bestowed on all his former women. She said to me one day “I just hope he won’t mess this up” / another time she said “I believe my son is a narcissist. He doesn’t like women. He doesn’t respect them”…. I knew I had to get OUT and I did several months ago.
I learned to never give all of yourself! Stop viewing with your heart and pay attention to red flags.
That may be true but people with NPD are predators. They move different
The red flags 🚩 definitely when they blame everything on their ex and their ex was the one abused them.
I surely know now also I’ll be very limited on details on any of my ex partners we grew apart basically .
My ex even lied to the police about this but the sheriff was way to SMART FOR HIM ....
He came into my life so charming .the love bombing is real. I didn't know of love bombing until a few weeks. While in the relationship you try to get back to that part of the relationship but it never returns. It's down hill from there
I am glad that you know what it is now. God bless.
yup its real...after 2 weeks of dating he told me " I think i'm falling in love with you" i was like, boy please you dont even know me....after a few years of dating, he lied about his 3 baby mamas , didnt find that out until he went to prison for murder !! they are crazy !!
When I see them together I just laugh because I know what's going to happen 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 poor girl
I didn’t envy the new supply, I thanked her for taking him out of my life as she had told me that she “stole” him from me-I told her that she should enjoy the spoils of her thieving and good luck with all that and just smiled and walked away, leaving her with a confused look on her face.
She’s a clever girl, hopefully she’ll figure it out and get out of the relationship before it ruins her life-I wish her strength and courage and peace-especially when he starts to put her through the wringer and he will do exactly that because she’s fresh meat.
They think they won a prize when it is exactly poop😮💨 she’s probably going through it now but trying to save face.
That’s right! A narcissist will never change!!!
Yes I know now it’s a lie . He hid me for years. But post her to make me angry. But I’m happy he hid me because he going to destroy her in public and in private. I was only abused in private. So just like him I can move on and not associate with him
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FACTS!!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 THANK U @Frecklefatface 4 THIS 👑👑🌹♥️
I’m so glad I was hidden! 🙌🏾♥️
Right I wasn't even his friend on sm but his bm is..plus we do have a child togetjet..actually..He's my Sperm Donor! Him his bm his entire family is Garbage😎 & boy did the garbage take itself out..
Same thoughts.
The only way I'm healing from being married to a covert malignant narcissist for 24 years is to stay grateful that I survived the nightmare. He died of cancer 3 years ago and I am living my best life I ever could have imagined. Even though all three of the most evil people in my life have all passed away the left over slime of them still creeps in every now and then but I am grateful for the reminder that there are evil people in this world. Trust is earned not just given. Loving and caring for myself is the biggest lesson I've learned. I'll never do for anyone that I don't do for myself FIRST!
Praise God 🙏 sis Praise God! I have lived through this nightmare myself and I too thank God everyday for surviving the nightmare. I did it for me my kids!
I've never known anyone who crossed me and is still alive today, not even my childhood "best friend" who was secretly gay, was obsessed with me and constantly trying to set me up, stalking me everywhere I went, is now dead at 50 yrs from pancreatic cancer .
I hope he doesn’t hurt his new supply. I’ve been out of that situation for nearly 2 years, and the one he replaced me with was evil to the core. But for the sake of who he seems to be with now (I spotted this on socials looking up someone else, we had a lot of mutual friends… who are all now his friends) she reminds me of me back in 2019 going through the lovebombing. So happy and so hopeful and looking forward to the future. I hope she never encounters the monster he became when discarding me. I wouldn’t wish that pain on anyone.
Wow… everyone needs to listen to the last 30 seconds over and over and over… the NARCISSIST will never be in a better position than you simply because they are a narcissist. Powerful, POWERFUL words!! Preach !!
Thank you for sharing your time. It’s true we have the ability to heal and learn from our mistakes and they can’t do that
This is sooo true and good to be reminded of!! I’m free from being tormented by a demon influenced person. The new supply is walking in blind. Good luck with all that evil trash. The Holy Spirit in me is not compatible with the demonic in him.✝️🙏🏻🙌🏻
The narcissist that I experienced bought around a whole pregnant woman around to be seen. I’ve been gave up that life(meaning having children), so that didn’t move me emotionally no kind of way, because what you know of the predator you wouldn’t what to trade places no kind of way. I had my children by one man they are grown and the father has passed on. So, you can’t guilt me , or evoke a emotion in me about my fertility, been there and done that! I cool with life in that area. The stupidness they do make you say “ Who are you?” A whole demon.
SICKENING... THERE AS LOW AS IT COMES....DONT REJOICE ...JUST PITY THE NEW SUPPLY ..TO EVERY WICKED MAN THEY WILL BE BLESSED WITH AND WICKED WOMEN... THEY WORKED VERY HARD TO GET EACH OTHER AND AT THIS POINT ITS UNTILL DEATH DO THEM PART...THEY HAVE A EVIL AND WICKED SOUL TIE THAT NOT EVEN THE MOST HIGH WILL BREAK UP DUE TO THERE WAYS.
Childish!!!!!
Besides, who wants to birth a child with a demon and create another narcissist.
I want to ty ....girl you spoke about my life...I mean 12 years with that narc and girl he txt I can't be with you anymore I'm not in love with you...lives 8 min away and txt that ...txt after 12 years....went to give him a poem next day...he was in the back yard kidding some other gal....I wasn't shocked but I was....I knew when he started not txting calling answering ...comin up with every excuse not to see me .talking I'm too busy...let me tell ya I been studying almost 2 years narssasism and relationship.....no man is too buisy ....if he likes you oh best believe he gona make time for you....if you in a realationship and you got to ask yourself WONDER if he really loves me.....naw you gona know....your teaching mam was so right on spot on for me I joined ty
It is tragic the way they life its actually very sad for them, they are extremely damaged.
Tragic
The best parts of us should only be reserved for God alone... and I think this is the lesson we’re to learn through these types of relationships. We’re reminded to always put God first, and put our trust in no man, but God alone... Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. ~ Proverbs 4:23
He’s in jail, our baby just turned 1. My reputation is in shambles. I had been raped by him & this has happened to me more than once in life. It spread around town & no one believed me so no one believed me when I tried to hold him accountable for it. He turned everyone against me. Had the “new supply” riding by my house. He was sleeping with her while I was pregnant. It’s a lot to this story. I left town.
Girl! I This Might Be Me, I Hear What! Your Saying, These SICK Individuals!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@@latrinamilton1357 Yes! It’s dark. 🤦🏾♀️ I wish you great healing cause this is a nightmare. I would never wish my story line on nobody.
I praying for you sis I hope your doing good and sticking with GOD 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@danetspeaks8708 hello, thank you. I am doing much better now, still gotta watch out for them but I appreciate you. 💖
Please pray for the new supply! She has no idea what is happening!
God Bless You!
My son went to his dads house last weekend and when he returned home he told me his dad is cheating on the new supply with one of his long time coworkers and he just got engaged to the new supply 😂💯💀
Oh wow, the crazy thing is they have no shame whatsoever. Even the children get to see this behavior. Just a sorry mess.
Don't use kids as spies it gonna backfire.That TMI for a child and a burden to carry.
@@oleleewahjahlawze60 Um, my son is 14 and he came home and told me this on his OWN. Thanks and have a great day 🤓
@@vanillapudding9471 I understand that no need to spell it out 😕✨
@@oleleewahjahlawze60 you must be the dad😂😮💨
My narc groomed the new supply behind my back. I pity him, he has no idea the world of hurt he's heading towards. Rinse, wash, repeat. They'll never change. Would I have heeded a warning about this stunning woman who was lovebombing me? Not on your life. He's there being adored. He feels lucky to be alive. What he doesn't know is how dead he'll feel when she starts devaluing him, and finally gets discarded. Remember this, repeat it to yourself multiple times a day: your joy is their misery, and your misery is their joy. Peace and love to all.
7 and a half years and 2 kids. My Narc left me at least 7 times for at least 4 different people not to mention the constant mature text messages from past supply that we argued about constantly. The last month we were together she was never around. Leaving me with the kids and not coming home till 3am. Then when I said something about it she called me boring "because she was around to do anything with anyways". And said I just didn't want to be around the kids. Lol a little projection..... then the call from her dad. She was talking to someone else, witch obviously was where she had been going that whole month and a half...... last time for me, I've lost about 30 pounds dealing with the stress. They were in a relationship the same day I found out lol. All about my kids and my positivity and well being. 1 week strong💪🙌
@@JohnDavis-sd9mi you'll get there, little by little you're going to understand the blessing you've been handed ☮️🙏✨✨✨🌞🧿🇨🇦
I couldn't agree more....the last part was real good about the misery......as soon as your being devalued they are usually trying to lovebomb the new supply then and only then when they know they have the other hooked that's when your discarded.....I mean like yesterday's trash....they act like they never knew you.....it's a trip....unfortunately I went thru ....hell 5 or 6 cycles yes ..ugh....and always finding out who the new supply was and he would still be seeing me and id get in touch with them and we'll that usually ended it and then he would come back....idk how I thought I was winning the prize Everytime...no it was a Crackerjack prize.. there flipping clowns...birds
I was the receiver; the person used to make someone else jealous. I knew this person since high school. No one knew this man was the way he was, smh.
The reality is horrid. They really are evil.
Omg! I Went Thru!! The! Same! Thing!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Don’t sacrifice yourself… this is sooo good.
Oh thats why when he discarded me and I cried he laugh at me
As a black male, I felt like you were talking to me. Thank you so much!!
I never heard anyone speak about narcissism the way You do. Thank You for sharing.
Thank you for sharing your time!
Joy you are amazingly beautiful and your voice is very soothing to a broken soul. You have made a tremendous difference in my life. I did the discard, the Lord spoke to my spirit and told me it was time for me to go. He hovered a few times and I fell for it but cautious at the same time bcuz I had just begun to study his behavior. What really made me to start paying close attention was the relationship with his mama and sister. His back burner was very TOXIC, she tried to come for me. He kept her hid but my name was always coming up, she was calling and stalking, she even tampered with her license plate and sliced her tire and said I did it, but GOD. She forgot there were cameras in the complex. She lied and told the narc she beat me down in a store, and yes he played a part. The last time she called I told her, look Lil Girl I don’t want him I know what you got, I’m high maintenance and it was a privilege for that DEMON to be in my life, so when he’s not with you trust me Booka he’s not with me. I’m much to cute to be in a relationship with you and him. He never post no pictures with me, he’s stays solo bcuz he’s washed up 47 years old and still don’t know what he wants to be when he grows up. He’s more in love with drugs, alcohol, pills and that Demonic Situation with his mama and sister. I will continue to pray for them all, bcuz they need GOD❤️❤️🙏🙏
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The story of my life😢🙄
I got a lot of money coming in December within 10 days she wanted to marry me when the money was gone in February she threw me out slandering me all throughout her job saying what a horrible person I am I'm evil but which they don't really know is she was the evil one she's buying everybody lunch trying to get her little clan and just talking so bad about me I've changed my number I blocked her on Facebook I did everything I can do about every two weeks she shows up at my job for some excuse or another how can I just get rid of her forever the divorce should be final any day she was trying to take my house my car and everything they are very nasty people and I wrote her a letter by saying I know what kind of person you are and I've never ever met a person like this in my life you may say I'm ugly and all that but at least I can use cosmetic to fix me you're ugly on the inside there's nothing that can fix you she didn't like that at all so if you can please help me is it ever going to end
I believe everything you said because once upon a time, I, unknowingly, was the new supply. She cut me one thousand times only for her to turn around and swear she was the one who was bleeding. I'm speaking about a person whose life was in complete shambles when I met her. Truth be told, I feel sorry for her. Someone is going to hurt her.
Them,they,that, thing,who is it what is it ? Nobody really knows. I can't believe I fell for the B S over,and over. I'm truly OVER IT!!!
So many of us were deceived but not anymore ⚔️⚔️⚔️
I don't wish anything bad on anyone. God will handle all of that. I just thank him for what he did for me...rejection was definitely protection! He's trying to make her like me, said he glad he waited to marry her...well boo go right ahead. I've said, its coming, I'm not waiting to see anything that I know is already taking place. Lord, I'm grateful and thankful! I can sleep all night and be at peace.
The new supply has to learn on there own! Just like us!
I was Jesus junior.... I knew what he was early on.. But thought I could 'handle' it... Wrong. Now im literally picking up the pieces and watching the new supply make the same exact mistakes...
They will come with nothing,but try to take everything,
A simply wonderful video with unique information. God bless you richly.
Exactly!! She busted him, and he’s her problem now. She thought she won the lottery when she came between us and I handed him over to her 😂
"Trop of a life time." How true it is. Narcissistic run a train on your brain.
You can try to explain what happened to family and friends, but they won't understand. I wish the narcissit on nobody. Thank you for your channel 🙏
I wouldn’t care if his new supply get what I got and the wife before me, because she was adding her two cents in the divorce. I gave him what he wanted. She had the nerve to put in the divorce papers in her handwriting that I needed to change my last name.
My NEX had that requirement put in our divorce papers. I refused…too much hassle. What did it matter to him?!? Then, a day after the divorce was final, I learned he’d been having an affair long before he discarded me. At first I was kind of sorry I didn’t change my name but now I’m glad I didn’t because I think it probably bothers him. 🤪
This is such a powerful powerful message . I am so grateful for the shared experiences and coaches online . 21 years after and I finally got it figured out HE IS A COVERT NARCISSIST!
It took me 20 years to discover that my wife was a covert narcissist, the red flags and dots were always there, it took me a while to join them up completely.
🙌 Yes, exactly! I gave everything and tried for over 5 years but the abuse only intensified 🥺 Now he’s happier than ever because his new supply is “perfect”. Ugh, I’ve been going through it trying to stomach all of it… he’s giving her everything he promised me. I feel cheated 😔
Same here😥😥🙏🙏🙏💪🏿
@@kaylewis4856 Sorry to hear you’ve had a similar experience! 🤗 It’s heartbreaking but we will survive it and be on the other side of it one day😅
That's calculated...they used what you said you wanted to hurt you
@@ahmoniquedanielle2585 Exactly! That’s how it feels… calculated. The extravagant trips, diamond ring, marriage, house, etc all goes to someone he barely knows that he cheated with 🥺I hope one day he gets everything he deserves for all the abuse and betrayal.
No. The High that they get from abusing the women is unparalleled. They get more abusive towards every other woman. Believe me. Before discarding me, he said this is how I am. His father told me, we will not change. They are enabled by their own nature and their flying monkeys. If you are out of the gutter, just count your blessings. Seriously. Get smart, and don't even blame yourself. Being left is blessing. Women cry everyday who give birth to their children, and there is enough content on internet indicating that they hurt the mother and even children. And if the new supply is his match and both toxic, believe me they will create and out create hell for each other. You be happy. Heal and live Your own Life .
She's going to go through the same hell I did and I am overjoyed! He called me from a new number a few days ago to tell me he lost his car, job, housing and she's shrieking in the background "Who ya talkin to"!! So far from the happy kissing pictures he proudly posted on FB with her posing on his fancy car which is no more! I am so happy it seems they are both getting their well-deserved karma! It makes me ecstatic that she will be the one constantly checking his phone and FB! I am free!
His new supply was a childhood sweetheart. They were involved in an emotional affair for the second time, but this went too far. He threw away 22 years of marriage because of his obsession with her. She’s on her fourth husband, I think she may also be a Narcissist 😔. She knows all about me and my children, she is as bad as him. Thank you for your content ❤️
Thank you for honoring us with your time and story. It's difficult when the other person knows about the spouse and children affected by their behavior. May God bless you 🙏🏾❤️
Thank you so much for this. One of the best on the topic of new supply that I’ve ever heard.
You are truly anointed lady!! I thank Jesus for you at this time in my life. Thank you and God bless your precious soul.
You are so welcome, thank you for sharing your time and God bless you too.
That's what I told the narc...what am I going to miss from a snake coming at me with so much venom...thanks Joy
Exactly!!
Thank you married to a malignant narcissist for 17 years and didn’t know it almost lot my life dealing with him I’m so grateful for this video I found out what I was dealing with from watching 😢videos getting a divorce now all already have the paperwork in my hands Thank God I’m free❤Thank you Jesus savior of humanity
I left my abusive ex about 3 months ago. The last time I saw him he had promised me to get better, go to therapy, get a better income, even marriage. I knew he was full of it so I still chose to leave. If he wanted to do better he would show me. He discarded me a month later. And is now dating a younger replica of me. I’m currently 7 months pregnant and it’s been a roller coaster, but I wake up everyday to tranquility and peace. I wouldn’t trade it for anything in the world. I used to feel jealous of the new supply, but I feel sorry for her overall. Everything he is promising her, he promised me. I fell in love with potential for almost 7 years, thanks to therapy I woke up and chose myself.
God bless you. I have escaped from the narcisist 3 months ago and I'm a happy free man. A girl came along to my life 1000 times better than her and loves me only for me
So much hurt n pain w him
Thank you so much for the insightful explanation and the wonderful message, Joy. Have a wonderful day and blessings to you 🙏💐🎉
You're welcome and thank you!
“Narcs always hit below the belt”. FACT
They do it knowing exactly what they are doing 🥹
Believe me, I was the new supply. I was used to make his ex feel 😢 It is infuriating. We did not go skipping in the sunset either, unless he was backhanded me.
How was it w him as his new supply
It hurts like hell when u realize u were just a fish in their pond of games!! Smh!!! I put him out 3+ years ago and what a peaceful life it has been!! Stay strong🙏🏾💪🏾🤗
@@jacobromero2634 like I was worthless 😔
I was unaware.
Same I was used to make the exes jealous didn't do much for me but use me. I feel so free to block and move on.
You know you are healed when you are sorry for the new supply. They are just starting into that boat ride through hell. A long and painful trip that we already know.
I don't feel sorry for my husband of 12 years or the secretary at his work. She knew he was married, so nope! Zero empathy coming from me. He abandoned me,our home,my daughter and our pets like we were trash.
The narc psychopath strangulated me near death last year September. Then married a older woman after only knowing her for one month. The new wife/new supply left him at the two month point. Run and don't look back!
Excellent job!
Absolutely another amazing video. This is on repeat 🙏🏾❣️
Wow! This is my first time listening to you and I love it. I got out of an abusive relationship and I’m going through exactly what you are saying at 13:00. He asked me when I would take him back. We are divorced. I told him he needed mental health help. He told me he is a changed man and that he went to counseling once and that that helped. I don’t think so. God knew I needed to hear this. Thank you so much.
Preach Joy. Thank God for you and the word. You are so helpful in my healing 🦾🦾🦾🦾🙋
Wow this was powerful and encouraging! You opened my understanding on alot of things that I didn't know. Thank you for the ensight on the behavior of a Narcissist!
This is so true. I feel absolutely no jealousy only deep sorrow for her.
When the new supply is also narcissist?
I believe my narc ended up with another narcissist. Toxic romance if you ask me. Than that's just plain karma for them both.
Everything in this message is factual
Many are not new they were being hidden and they know about the wife’s , husbands , and children ! I could care less what happen to her hopefully they have many children together
True. The new supply was his own secretary with whom he had been cheating with for years. He discarded me, abandoned our family and moved in with her and started another family right away. The new supply thinks she has won and are having babies one after the other. She has no remorse for the pain she caused me and my children. I know for a fact that the narc husband is still cheating with the other baby mama. Knowing him, I'm sure he has other supplies as well.
The fact that I just found about about my husband and his supplies, and that he is now playing house with his newest Tinder supply makes me want to throw up. It is like our life, which was pretty great never existed. That somehow because he is there that he is no longer married to me even though all of his belongings, including horses are still here with me. What really is difficult is that 3 weeks ago when I found out, he refused to talk with me, called the police on me instead and they arrested him. He is under a no contact bail condition until November when his hearing is scheduled. So my.life hangs in this limbo he'll. I need to talk to him for my own reasons before I decide to file for divorce. NOTHING could've prepared me for this
Thank you for honoring us with your story Kelly and thank you for sharing your time. It is so difficult when you find out about their different lives. My heart goes out to you 🙏🏾❤️
Thank you for this. 😔 Your voice is soothing, but the message is so clear, I cried through the whole thing. I've been so envious of the woman that he left me for. I try to pray for her, and it's so hard. But your message reminds me that I was once the new supply. He fooled me. Deceived me. Hurt me until I couldn't function normally anymore...but now I feel that I can actually pray for this woman and mean it. God rescued me. I need to rejoice instead of grieving. God bless you. 🥲🙏🏼
Praise God, may He continue to heal your heart and reveal Himself and His purpose for your life through this process.
Amen sister. God healed you just like he healed me too from my narc relationship. The narc in my life told me I had a demon and he blocked me, funny thing is he was the one acting like the demon it wasn't me. That really opened my eyes and God healed me from the intense love that I had for him and he healed My broken heart
@@kimmidoesdallas1 isn't that so typical of them to accuse you and I, but all along it was them! I can't believe how far I've come on this journey! I'm so blessed to hear that God has set you free! May He bless you on your path to healing! Stay strong, Sis! 💪🏽🫂💜
Great video!!
You are SPOT on with these narcissist.
I lived with him for four years.
It was crazy. It was the worst time of my life.
The new supply will go through the same cycle. I pray for the next and the next... These people are mentally ill, twisted, diabolical, sadistic, and deranged. They always painted a picture to look like a united front. Behind the scene its hell for the new supply.. It's just a matter of time. Love bombing don't last long. The mask is going to come off. We have to be happy that God allowed us to escape. Rejoice and be glad. I saw him with someone and she had an attitude. A few months after I kicked him out and he moved in with her the same day and then a few months later she kicked him out and the same day he moved in with the next woman and i heard that lasted 5 months and now it's it's a another woman. I just smh and keep going. The cycle is continuously being repeated. Stop feeling sorry for someone who wants to level you. Smear your name. Tell lies and work hard to destroy you.. Their family know they are low down and they just sit back and watch it go down. They know the ending is never good. His mother told me "it never end well". Behind the looks, superficial charm, and fake self is a scared and fragile child who is rotten to the core. Its like eating an apple. It's red and shiny. Tastes sweet, but when you get to the core it's rotten. Then you start to spit it out. The core is dark, bitter, and nasty. You throw it away. That's how they are. It can be challenging to leave. We focus on what we could do. Nothing but leave. Run to God.
We need to get these people in for deliverance!!!!!
They definitely need deliverance however it has to be something they want which really is not the case with a narc. You can pray that God would change their heart posture. The parable of the empty house highlights the reality that evil spirits can and will come back in a larger number. They have to be ready to engage in the warfare that will come their way as a result.
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I just found your channel you have said everything I have been thinking your so right 👍 no longer have to deal with him I've seen him and the new supply drinking champagne then I said to myself that's a lie and an illusion later she will be drinking salt water better her then me 🙏 Im loving on Jesus and myself the one for me will come in time 😘 every one have a blessed life
Wow! Thank you so much. 💓 I really needed this reminder. 25 years wasted married to the narcissist, 4 kids later. Trying to heal but still stuck, trauma bonded, as I move into year 4 of my divorce. As he flaunts his new supply whom he married on my birthday. He's a piece of work. EVERYTHING you've said hear is true. Thank you again and may God continue to bless you!!
I don’t hate him .. I feel sorry for him for having NPD. And I am waking away for good coz there’s def a devil surrounding that. -- walk with your faith! God is good!
AMEN!!!!!!
I'm so happy i found your channel. What a beautiful voice and great advice. Also bringing Jesus into your advice. God bless you
Your message is priceless. Thank you for helping to make sense of this assisting the true healing. Answering questions very few can. 🙏🏻
Thank you for sharing your time. God bless you.
Ok ..Jesus Jr...had me rolling!🤣😂🤣 Such a good Talk today!
Lol
This spoke to my spirit tonight , thank you. I don't miss nothing. I truth set me free. I could never put my finger on it unitl I did my research
Thank you for sharing your time!
AMEN!!!!!!
Whoa! You said it sister! On point ,male or female both sexes act the same . 5 years involved with her ups & downs egg shell walking , shaming , blaming , gas lighting I walked 6 months later she’s getting married after going out for some guy after 3 days . 5 years ! I was there and now in less than a year she’s engaged ! You can’t make this stuff up .
This message was a true Blessing 🙏🏾🙌🏾
Thank you for sahring your time!
Wow, thank you very much I think you articulated that better than anyone else I’ve heard.
All these crazy tests ! Yep I actually laughed at that Joy it’s so correct
The insanity of these relationships. It was like an elevator trip to hell
This sums up the NARC in 18 minutes better than many, WOW🙏🏿
Well said.Thank you for sharing.Now i understand what i was up against.Whome the Son set free is free indeed.Amen
Excellent video, sis! Thank you for this reminder/confirmation. 💕
I have heard of narcs who will intentionally give their child tainted , bad , spoiled and or expired food so that when the co parenting X arrives for his time with the child he,or she, needs to take the child to the hospital.
Sadly this is behavior that can be expected from a narc.
I have watched many videos about narcissistic abuse. But, the way you articulated your words and with the passion and emotion you spoke, really touched my heart. It's really important to get informed, but sometimes good information also flys over our heads if we do not feel connected to the presenter. Sometimes it's not the fault of the presenter but the fault of the listeners, as we have gone through so much hardship that we feel numb about hearing these harsh truths. Then someone like you comes along and tells us that "wake up boy, you are not alone, I am here for you.".... This video opened my flood gates. And one of my nicest friend's name is also 'Joy'.... So this video was even more special for me. Thank you.