The worst thing you can do to a Narcissist is to reject them but they will tell you lies to have get you back under their influence and control. Also, they don't self reflect or look within or take accountability for anything they do wrong so they remain toxic and negative. I can't stand someone that judges someone else wrongly because of their faults and mistakes but is intentionally blind to their own! They shall drink the wine of violence and eat the bread of wickedness! They don't deserve anything good because they were destined to fail.
@@Sunlumiinous LOL!!!! thank you!!!! So sad we gotta congratulate someone on escaping- like it’s a graduation or something Lol 😂 😂. Glad I’m away though ❤️❤️❤️
@Brown eyes Yes I know right? It was a feat for me to get away. I left almost everything except for certain things I could take and my two precious babies with me when I realized what he's capable of and knew I have to protect my little ones with my life. So my purpose now is to congratulate anyone who has been through this nightmare. I actually plan to have philanthropy involving this issue especially for women who want to escape but couldn't due to financial constraints. My way came by way of a miracle from mother God/the most high.
I did the same, still married only from September 2023 but I got him arrested for the last attack and changed location, number, email and deleted all social media. Filling for divorce and he won’t ever hurt me again !! 💪
Empaths become obsessed to. I was obsessed over my x narc,i was addicted to the abuse, obsessed over the love bombing and the intense sexual experiences that had me going back every time. The smooth talk/ false hope . It kept me drawn
The trauma bond is real. It took me a long time to recover. Now I just see it for what it was....an unhealthy trauma bond. Nothing resembling real love.
Nope I was not obsessed. I was running away hard and my ex was doing all kinds of insanity. It was nuts. I have never missed him. Once I saw who he really was and what he was doing to me I was OUT. He is still to this day OBSESSED, many years later
They want it all... And, they will go to great lengths to have it all.. In their twisted mind they believe that they are ENTITLED to have everybody, and everything they see, and want!
All facts! Ive lived it. Go in silence. I made the mistake of telling the narc my plan to divorce bc I didnt know what narcissism was and wanted to be “fair”. He stole all the furniture I paid for, wouldnt leave the house that was in MY name, trashed it, tried to sabotage the sale of the home…God truly saved me and worked miracles for me to get free. I could go on for hours. Do not go back and do not tell them your plans!
So true! NO CONTACT forever and this warlock will not stop shaking his chicken bones, trying to unalive me, shame me, ruin my businesses and stalk my social media. But, NO WEAPON FORMED has prospered 💃🏿❤️💯💃🏿❤️💯💃🏿 It's disgusting 🤮🤮🤮 But, I continue to pray that God prick his heart and save his soul because it's not going to end well for him if he continues on this path.
I've been no contact for years....but I Know the narc still knew where I lived I remember coming home at night and random cars watching me walk to the front door...or one day my landlord showing me the ring doorbell camera showing me a car following me then driving off when I walked inside...I'm SOOOOO happy 6months ago I was able to move to a whole other city...I truly feel no contact now radio silent!...God Bless you ❤️
So glad you're able to move somewhere he doesn't know where you're at. I had to move to a place no one knows me. Cutting narcs family members who are flying monkeys for him too. So goodbye all the narcs and my firewalls are going to be super unpenetrable.
They know the relationship is over.......they just expect you to pretend, so they can build on that illusional idea "that you are madly in love with them."
You told nothing but the truth they are very dangerous when you discard them I’ve had my tires slashed, and had to get a restraining no contact protective order to protect myself, I’ve blocked him on everything, put cameras everywhere, and bought me some protection.
He popped up at my house after 13 years. My neighbor by God's protection was standing outside and ran him off!! He told my neighbor he just wanted to apologize to me after 13 years. Hell I don't even remember what happened that's how healed I am from his toxic ass.
You know its GOD intervening in our lives when HE exposes the people (demons) who have been wishing death on my life have been blood relatives & former spouses(x2) all working together against me for over 20 plus years ❤️🩹 ✝️ I Will Prevail! ✝️ TEAMJESUSCHRIST 💪🏽
Tomorrow morning I have court with my soon to be ex narc wife. I discarded her 8 months ago. Told her she was a covert narc and would never change and I was done. I came home and she took everything!!!! Damaged anything she left! Then started stalking me and got me gang stalked by posting my business number on her fb. I did nothing and let her send emails and txts and the more j didn’t respond the more I noticed it drove her crazy! She earned herself a restraining order!!! She been hiding for 3 months trying to avoid being served divorce papers. After doing a social security verification search by private investigator, found her living in a second chance section 8 apartment in the ghetto!! I still live in the best school district! Everything she took God has been restoring and giving me better then what she took from me.. you can literally see she hiding because her life has down graded in every way! June 10 th she was personally served divorce papers at her ghetto apartment and June 11th was my bday! Thanks for the gift God. June 14th is today which would have been our 2 year’s wedding anniversary but instead we got court in the morning to make the 6 month restraining order permanent… I’m Happy to finally be moving forward and door slamming this Narc all the way. This week I’ve dealt her nothing but narcissistic injuries and she did it to herself! I’m so Happy to almost be done with this loser
This is 💯! They WILL send text from weird #s about stupid things, mirror you, send fake social media request. Too easy to so right. I believe the narc I was with is covert/malignant. He sent me a text on his birthday from fake # after the holidays. When I told him he needs Jesus, he ranted said he glad he waited to get married 😂. I'm glad he did too😂. I too was NOT about to change my number for the clown. LET THEM BE!!!
It's happening already. I have moved from stagnation/delay to acceleration/destiny 🥺 Hallelujah!!! I am returning back for my miraculous testimony of Massive newness... I receive & connect to this prophetic word in Jesus mighty name 🙏 Amen. Thank you Abba Father
Going through it, 3 weeks blocked and no contact and forever to go. I’m here watching your videos and cant stop laughing 🤣🤣🤣 make that make sense 😂 you are the best, love your energy. They do come back eventually and unfortunately, but guess what ? This bird will never hear from me again no matter what, life is better without them. GET A LIFE !
It never ends. It doesn’t matter if you block them, they will find a way. I’ve blocked my ex several times but he doesn’t mind popping up at my home. It’s scary because I really don’t know what he’s capable of.
If he’s still popping up unannounced, I doubt he takes you seriously. Go step further- restraining order, change your number. I had my same number for over 15 yrs. It was hard for me to make the decision to change it. But, I did. And moved without him even knowing , I never needed him he needed me. I was completely done this time. And I’m still legally married, but there’s nothing else I need to say. My ACTIONS did it for me.
@@browneyes9507 You’re absolutely correct..he probably doesn’t take me serious at this point. But I wouldn’t get a restraining order, that would just piss him off and I wouldn’t get my number changed because like you I’ve also had mine for over 10 years. I definitely can’t just move because my rent is affordable for me right now but I don’t plan on staying forever. Super proud of you for all the moves you’ve made. It’s not easy but when you’re sick of a person you’ll make a way.
@@jaslyn5501 it’s never easy leaving especially someone you loved. But when you finally know who they revealed themselves to be, you have to move on with your life. You cannot get those years back you gave up. In your case, you will have to speak with your ACTIONS cuz he’s not taking you serious at all. Good luck , I’m cheering for you ..❤️❤️
I have been told by my friends to be careful of the narc they he will kill me because I rejected him I was this wife for 12 years listening form Jamaica
Is it just me, but Good lord, Tee Tee looking So fine!! She looks like she trimmed Down and Looking hella young!! Goes to show you, WHEN YOU HAVE THE ANNOINTING THE GLOW UP IS REAL 🗣️🗣️🗣️
I told my ex straight that l was leaving. He didn’t like it, l didn’t give a sh*t. He thought that when l reluctantly broke contact, that we were going to pick up where we left off. I begged to differ. I only returned to offer condolences on his mother passing away. That’s it. I had no intention of staying and said so. Oh he tried to wheedle his way back in, but l wasn’t having it. I cared for him, but l don’t love him and didn’t want him back in my life. I was tired of his games, the immaturity, everything. I sensed his instability, and it was making me uneasy. He gives me the overwhelming feeling of being trapped, l will never go back, ever!!!
The narc knows where I live at while we was married he lived with me so I kicked him out I got tired of his nonsense I have gone no contact I dreamt he was lurking around the neighborhood I don't care to see his behind ever again he will suffer for how he treated me I am a child of God and you don't mess with his children next step filing for divorce.
You spoke so much truth about narcissism they get latched on quicker to ppl and obsessed about you. Noticed they hate being alone always grouped up. God sees all and will defeat the enemy. 🙏👌
Hi Ms. Telsha. Good afternoon. This one lady narcissist I dated in Atlanta became obsessive, after our situation was over, but she tried to become violent towards me and I'm such a mellow person, so oh heck no. I had to call and ask an old Reverend friend of mine for prayer. SMH, Thank God I got out unscathed. 🙏💯🙏💯🙏💯
The Narcissist is real you feel me Ive heard people say narcissist in the pass but never doin the homework made me blind and I was living with a female narcissist the whole time had kids and married them then I did my homework and everything came to life from me asking God to show me because it was like I had a shield over my eyes now I know
I blocked my ex and he came back 5 months later. He had his brother texting my phone lying saying he had died trying to make me feel sorry for him. I was nice enough to talk to him for 5 minutes. He asked to take me on a date but I said no and I haven’t contacted him since. I blocked him and his brother
Telsha please talk about how narcissists may be damned souls playing out in real time; i.e no hope for these people because they are not predestined elect souls, not in all cases obviously.
He's a covert narcissist. I told him he thinks he's all that and a bag of chips. I walked away. It's too much. I've had him text me from a burner number. Actually, several. He lost his Super Empath.
I appreciate and respect the message and your perspective on this. However narcs don't always obsess or stalk or hoover Speaking from my own experience I was grade A supply, he was a malignant narc, I think he was close to discarding me but I beat him to the punch. That was over a year ago and not one hoover, not one peep from him. He even married his new supply 9 months later. Yes for the first 6 months I wanted the hoover, the validation, the apology (which after educating myself realized I won't get that). But the narc channels keep putting out that they hoover. Yet those who are hoping on that need to know it doesn't always happen. Just saying. I appreciate all the channels for helping in my healing and I wish all the survivors genuine love and happiness after they leave these evil creatures. Peace and healing all
@@williamfinley4477 even if they're married? To somebody that I think isn't quite to the level I was but definitely a grade a supply. They still Hoover?
Same here. Over a year and not a peep. But once I got my ego in check I realized it was a blessing from God. I really had a soft spot for my ex, so truth is, if he came back I’m not sure I would’ve been strong enough to ignore him. It would’ve reset the clock on my recovery time for sure.
I just got a hoover after 7 and a half years and he is a whole married man now.Hes blocked on everything, but we had a phone line together about 8 years ago. Somehow he made up some lies and when i paid my phone bill i saw my receipt was sent to his email. So i put extra security on my account. Dude! Get a life!!!
MRS. TEA❤ I WAS EVERYTHING TO THAT DOG WEARING A CAT CHOKER.. I DISCARDED THAT JUMPING FROG WITH A CAPE HUNNY WHEN Y'ALL LEAVE THESE FROGS THEY GO JUMPING LEFT AND RIGHT 😂😂.. THIS IS MY 2ND TIME LEAVING THAT FROG.. NO CONTACT HE BETTER STAY WITH HIS WIFE AND THERE LITTLE HOUSE ON THE HILL😂😂 I'M CHOSEN ME AND MY PEACE LOVE YOU QUEEN TELSHA ❤❤ I ROCKS WITH YOU ALWAYS ❤❤
Queen Leandra in our journey in the struggles and hardships we encounter in life ♥️ we forget how badass we really are... how we adapt improvise and overcome the darkness of the life... it's the process that makes you sweet 😋 keep your wings full of the air currents as you soar above the ashes of destruction beneath you... you are blessed 🙌 😇 🙏 by the best you are chosen to be a leader and teacher ❤️ 💙 STAY STRONG 💪 ❤️ STAY SAFE 💪 ✨️ LOVE YOU TOO MY PRECIOUS FRIEND ❤️ 💙
I know that I can’t leave him because I know he will try to KILL me because he tried it with his ex girlfriend and her boyfriend, he’s trying everything to destroy me but I still ignore him he wants to block anything that I can do, he hates everything that I do and of course he hates my friends and my one daughter, when I was gone for three weeks and when I came back he looked like a skeleton with black skin draped over his body as long as I’m PROTECTED by my LORD and SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST, but I’m blessed 😇 and I’m covered by the BLOOD 🩸 of JESUS Amen 🙏🏼
😂😂 love the singing! You make me laugh! What a wonderful bright spirit!! I feel like we could be besties! lol. Binging your content! Speak it sister!! 🙌🙌
That fool female narc thought she could fool me. I saw everything she tried to do, and I let her know. These demons are such fools. I broke it off in her many times. She didn’t know how to respond, and acted like a 8 year old many times. I got tired of her craziness, and left. She then hovered me, then gang stalked me. I showed the stalkers my Glock so they knew I wasn’t putting up with her crap. One of them come on my property, they better have their heart right with God!
I don't believe he will come around me nah they way I put him out it's how I did it narcissistic injury is deep these narcs are mentally ill blocked on everything
That narcissist texted me for 3 years, he would call from unknown numbers, phone company couldn't do anything. I had to literally take legal matters. The calls had stopped but for the past few weeks, I've started getting calls again from unknown numbers. I don't know where he is. If I knew I would take more legal steps I am not changing my number, i ve had this number for 5 years. All you're saying is TRUE. I never will accept him back, want Nothing to do with him EVER!!!!!!!!!!
Girl he didn’t go to therapy but he went to the altar at church and asked for prayer and fell out like he got deliverdt!!! And acted normal for about two days and he was right back like he never left😂
This is all so so true…my crazy ex drove 2 hours to come to the beach that I hangout at every weekend and posted that he was there. After 2 months no contact, threats, and we broke up bc he cheated. I already had to speak to the cops due to threats and they told me it usually doesn’t stop at just verbal.
The Obsessive behavior still applies no matter who does the discarding. It’s all fake - they want you to chase them usually if they discard. However, when you don’t - BABY!!weirdness begins
@@LisaTheOracle You are so right! I moved out per his request, then like a few months later he wanted to know where we stood and wanted to meet. I filed for divorce instead. No more games for this girl.
I am currently dealing with a woman that is like every video you posted and it’s scary!! I really fell for her and have been hoping she would change. She has affected my business almost allowed her to attack my self esteem. When I put I put my foot down it was like she has been scrambling for another tactic.
I'm married to one! I have filed for divorce and she is trying to make my life a living HELL! She is trying to stay in my house and cheating on me with 3 different guys! But she put in her court papers that I am the problem.
I can testify after 3yrs being narc’ free and blocked across all platforms But my business number’s linked to my social media accounts, he came back hoovering and the audacity of it. BLOCKED again!!! My energy pump has been un-plugged a long time ago! 😂
She did come back with a hoover after she discarded me for other supply then I blocked her and she wouldn't leave me alone her flying monkeys are worse than her thank you for the video ❤️
Stupid bird. Backwards walking giraffe. Left me,.. took us to court,,, which may have lead to leaving my son and I homeless, no regard. Then has the crazy idea after 3yrs of this to say '''I still love you'''''. We will be no victim to evil EVER!
As an Aquarius.. I change my number a lot .. feels so good. Plus ppl in my life aren’t meant to stay for long due to Uranus and I happily accepted that
Everywhere I moved to he gets people to install illegal cameras and pays my neighborhood to gang stalk me. He is watching me in my home right now. It has been going on for years and a bunch of other people watch me too. I am sick of it. I want my privacy and my life back. How can someone be grade A supply to a narc when you never spent time together?
I ran across you yesterday and you are real therapy for me. Everything you say is true of my wife 1.5 but G.F. for 13 yrs before marriage. I was Everything to her.
He cheated the entire time. Didn’t have proof but I didn’t trust him. I blocked him and left days before his bday. He gaslighted me, called me from crazy numbers, tried to get my social media but it’s private. He then called from blocked caller and was upset I blocked him. I eventually picked up and said you can’t get a hold of me because I blocked you bye sir. Still blocked
I Discarded it,him for life.I did all you said. I was it him Nightmare. The burner number calling has stop ped for now. I have moved on. I will not return to the Vomit ever.
I NEVER SEEN ANYTHING LIKE THIS...THE OBSESSION IS UNREAL, GAVE HIM 1001 CHANCE AND DONT UNDERSTAND IVE FILED FOR DIVORCE! ITS SCARY ...IM JUST WALKING WITH GOD PROTECTION ‼️‼️THE OBSESSION IS UNREAL....
Why do I feel like I’m the only one this doesn’t apply to? I wish I didn’t want to see proof of his obsession…. I get that’s unhealthy and not helping me in my healing journey…. But because I don’t physically see it and he hasn’t tried to reach out…. It’s like I’m the only one this isn’t really happening to behind the scenes. I get I should be happy about that…. I just want to KNOW this is the case with me. To know he’s tormented by my memory is so satisfying! Bah! Stupid combat boot wearin joker!
Girl, I been through at least 10 devices and created several different accounts and he is right there as soon as I click on. It doesn't matter what I do, there he is behind a fake account commenting on my comments. And it has been years and we were never in a relationship. We just texted and I stopped that over 4 years ago. I don't get it.
I moved 4 times in 3 years and got rid of all of my devices and they still found me i thought it was 1 person and then people started coming out the woodwork at me so i got a group of em 🤷 the abuse is real
I clearly hear an learning Telsha, thou today late after work. I spot the stalking, off the main Street off my street. I went the other way down the block and if they do it again I'll get the authorities involved and I'm not joking and they already don't like us folks especially if you live in an upscale neighborhood where everyone mines there own business. We are mature adults and no more of anything and I mean what I calmy said let it go. Lastly everything you said in your video explanation is true; and enough of her and her flying monkeys business and her field monkey business.
And the whole time they with someone else they continuously thinking about you that's sad 😢and that new person think they doing something 😅
The worst thing you can do to a Narcissist is to reject them but they will tell you lies to have get you back under their influence and control. Also, they don't self reflect or look within or take accountability for anything they do wrong so they remain toxic and negative. I can't stand someone that judges someone else wrongly because of their faults and mistakes but is intentionally blind to their own! They shall drink the wine of violence and eat the bread of wickedness! They don't deserve anything good because they were destined to fail.
I can't either Janine when narcs ain't got no room to speak
I hate Narcs
All male and female narcs quarantined together, because they are all infectious!
@@1010QUEEN7I hate them too, it stands to reason because I hate Satan.
On point
Only reason why he can’t obsess up close ! this TIME is because he can’t find me , I moved , changed my number , Doneee……
👏!!
Yes same here. Congratulations on the escape! 🎉🍾🍹
@@Sunlumiinous
LOL!!!! thank you!!!! So sad we gotta congratulate someone on escaping- like it’s a graduation or something Lol 😂 😂. Glad I’m away though ❤️❤️❤️
@Brown eyes Yes I know right? It was a feat for me to get away. I left almost everything except for certain things I could take and my two precious babies with me when I realized what he's capable of and knew I have to protect my little ones with my life. So my purpose now is to congratulate anyone who has been through this nightmare. I actually plan to have philanthropy involving this issue especially for women who want to escape but couldn't due to financial constraints. My way came by way of a miracle from mother God/the most high.
I did the same, still married only from September 2023 but I got him arrested for the last attack and changed location, number, email and deleted all social media. Filling for divorce and he won’t ever hurt me again !! 💪
Empaths become obsessed to. I was obsessed over my x narc,i was addicted to the abuse, obsessed over the love bombing and the intense sexual experiences that had me going back every time. The smooth talk/ false hope . It kept me drawn
Right
The trauma bond is real. It took me a long time to recover. Now I just see it for what it was....an unhealthy trauma bond. Nothing resembling real love.
Nope I was not obsessed. I was running away hard and my ex was doing all kinds of insanity. It was nuts. I have never missed him. Once I saw who he really was and what he was doing to me I was OUT. He is still to this day OBSESSED, many years later
They want it all... And, they will go to great lengths to have it all.. In their twisted mind they believe that they are ENTITLED to have everybody, and everything they see, and want!
Not me meredith
They are a mess.
@@shirleygonzales5284 😂
@@sun-jewel right.
Yes! Their behavior is like a little 2 year old toddler 🍼 baby .👶
All facts! Ive lived it. Go in silence. I made the mistake of telling the narc my plan to divorce bc I didnt know what narcissism was and wanted to be “fair”. He stole all the furniture I paid for, wouldnt leave the house that was in MY name, trashed it, tried to sabotage the sale of the home…God truly saved me and worked miracles for me to get free. I could go on for hours. Do not go back and do not tell them your plans!
I was paying for EVERYTHING in the house and I still couldn't make her happy 😭
So true! NO CONTACT forever and this warlock will not stop shaking his chicken bones, trying to unalive me, shame me, ruin my businesses and stalk my social media. But, NO WEAPON FORMED has prospered 💃🏿❤️💯💃🏿❤️💯💃🏿 It's disgusting 🤮🤮🤮 But, I continue to pray that God prick his heart and save his soul because it's not going to end well for him if he continues on this path.
Amen!!!
Obsession is an understatement
Exactly! We definitely need a word. Uuugghhhhh🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Right! 🤢🤮
I've been no contact for years....but I Know the narc still knew where I lived I remember coming home at night and random cars watching me walk to the front door...or one day my landlord showing me the ring doorbell camera showing me a car following me then driving off when I walked inside...I'm SOOOOO happy 6months ago I was able to move to a whole other city...I truly feel no contact now radio silent!...God Bless you ❤️
So glad you're able to move somewhere he doesn't know where you're at. I had to move to a place no one knows me. Cutting narcs family members who are flying monkeys for him too. So goodbye all the narcs and my firewalls are going to be super unpenetrable.
@@Sunlumiinous Amen, so Happy for you and God bless you ❤️🙏
@Kendra Heard Same to you! May prosperity, peace, love, and joy surround you. God bless you!
“They can’t because they are miserable…” That part!
Ducks with combat boots and a hard hat...😅😅😅LOL
"IF YOU ROCK WITH YOUR GIRLLL HIT THAT LIKE 👍 BUTTON " ❤🥰
They know the relationship is over.......they just expect you to pretend, so they can build on that illusional idea "that you are madly in love with them."
You told nothing but the truth they are very dangerous when you discard them I’ve had my tires slashed, and had to get a restraining no contact protective order to protect myself, I’ve blocked him on everything, put cameras everywhere, and bought me some protection.
Letting my wife come back was the worst mistake of my life ! I just want her out my house 🥹
😢 no no no
The rejection is real i will never go back Thank you Jesus Christ Amen 🙏🏿❤
They will never replace you and they will never get over you great timing and great message praying 🙏 praise the lord Jesus ❤❤
Yes that part!
Yes..
He popped up at my house after 13 years. My neighbor by God's protection was standing outside and ran him off!! He told my neighbor he just wanted to apologize to me after 13 years. Hell I don't even remember what happened that's how healed I am from his toxic ass.
You know its GOD intervening in our lives when HE exposes the people (demons) who have been wishing death on my life have been blood relatives & former spouses(x2) all working together against me for over 20 plus years ❤️🩹
✝️ I Will Prevail! ✝️ TEAMJESUSCHRIST 💪🏽
My story exactly even down to the time
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Tomorrow morning I have court with my soon to be ex narc wife. I discarded her 8 months ago. Told her she was a covert narc and would never change and I was done. I came home and she took everything!!!! Damaged anything she left! Then started stalking me and got me gang stalked by posting my business number on her fb. I did nothing and let her send emails and txts and the more j didn’t respond the more I noticed it drove her crazy! She earned herself a restraining order!!! She been hiding for 3 months trying to avoid being served divorce papers. After doing a social security verification search by private investigator, found her living in a second chance section 8 apartment in the ghetto!! I still live in the best school district! Everything she took God has been restoring and giving me better then what she took from me.. you can literally see she hiding because her life has down graded in every way! June 10 th she was personally served divorce papers at her ghetto apartment and June 11th was my bday! Thanks for the gift God. June 14th is today which would have been our 2 year’s wedding anniversary but instead we got court in the morning to make the 6 month restraining order permanent… I’m Happy to finally be moving forward and door slamming this Narc all the way. This week I’ve dealt her nothing but narcissistic injuries and she did it to herself! I’m so Happy to almost be done with this loser
I'm done FOREVERRRR
So am I for ever and ever and ever and ever I can go on for the rest of my life
Me too yes thank you Jesus 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
This is 💯! They WILL send text from weird #s about stupid things, mirror you, send fake social media request. Too easy to so right. I believe the narc I was with is covert/malignant. He sent me a text on his birthday from fake # after the holidays. When I told him he needs Jesus, he ranted said he glad he waited to get married 😂. I'm glad he did too😂. I too was NOT about to change my number for the clown. LET THEM BE!!!
It's happening already. I have moved from stagnation/delay to acceleration/destiny 🥺 Hallelujah!!! I am returning back for my miraculous testimony of Massive newness... I receive & connect to this prophetic word in Jesus mighty name 🙏 Amen. Thank you Abba Father
In Jesus name
Going through it, 3 weeks blocked and no contact and forever to go. I’m here watching your videos and cant stop laughing 🤣🤣🤣 make that make sense 😂 you are the best, love your energy. They do come back eventually and unfortunately, but guess what ? This bird will never hear from me again no matter what, life is better without them. GET A LIFE !
It never ends. It doesn’t matter if you block them, they will find a way. I’ve blocked my ex several times but he doesn’t mind popping up at my home. It’s scary because I really don’t know what he’s capable of.
If he’s still popping up unannounced, I doubt he takes you seriously. Go step further- restraining order, change your number. I had my same number for over 15 yrs. It was hard for me to make the decision to change it. But, I did. And moved without him even knowing , I never needed him he needed me. I was completely done this time. And I’m still legally married, but there’s nothing else I need to say. My ACTIONS did it for me.
@@browneyes9507 You’re absolutely correct..he probably doesn’t take me serious at this point. But I wouldn’t get a restraining order, that would just piss him off and I wouldn’t get my number changed because like you I’ve also had mine for over 10 years. I definitely can’t just move because my rent is affordable for me right now but I don’t plan on staying forever. Super proud of you for all the moves you’ve made. It’s not easy but when you’re sick of a person you’ll make a way.
@@jaslyn5501 it’s never easy leaving especially someone you loved. But when you finally know who they revealed themselves to be, you have to move on with your life. You cannot get those years back you gave up. In your case, you will have to speak with your ACTIONS cuz he’s not taking you serious at all. Good luck , I’m cheering for you ..❤️❤️
@@browneyes9507😢❤ you’re absolutely right. Thank you so so much.
@@jaslyn5501 🙏🏿
Hahaha “ducks with combat boots and a hard hat”😂😂😂😂
I have been told by my friends to be careful of the narc they he will kill me because I rejected him I was this wife for 12 years listening form Jamaica
Happiness is being myself!
You can not have this with a controlling, manipulative, toxic, entity in your life
Is it just me, but Good lord, Tee Tee looking So fine!! She looks like she trimmed Down and Looking hella young!! Goes to show you, WHEN YOU HAVE THE ANNOINTING THE GLOW UP IS REAL 🗣️🗣️🗣️
They couldn't be too afraid of being alone if they causel things that make people leave
I told my ex straight that l was leaving. He didn’t like it, l didn’t give a sh*t. He thought that when l reluctantly broke contact, that we were going to pick up where we left off. I begged to differ. I only returned to offer condolences on his mother passing away. That’s it. I had no intention of staying and said so. Oh he tried to wheedle his way back in, but l wasn’t having it. I cared for him, but l don’t love him and didn’t want him back in my life. I was tired of his games, the immaturity, everything. I sensed his instability, and it was making me uneasy. He gives me the overwhelming feeling of being trapped, l will never go back, ever!!!
The narc knows where I live at while we was married he lived with me so I kicked him out I got tired of his nonsense I have gone no contact I dreamt he was lurking around the neighborhood I don't care to see his behind ever again he will suffer for how he treated me I am a child of God and you don't mess with his children next step filing for divorce.
You spoke so much truth about narcissism they get latched on quicker to ppl and obsessed about you. Noticed they hate being alone always grouped up. God sees all and will defeat the enemy. 🙏👌
Hi Ms. Telsha. Good afternoon. This one lady narcissist I dated in Atlanta became obsessive, after our situation was over, but she tried to become violent towards me and I'm such a mellow person, so oh heck no. I had to call and ask an old Reverend friend of mine for prayer. SMH, Thank God I got out unscathed. 🙏💯🙏💯🙏💯
The Narcissist is real you feel me Ive heard people say narcissist in the pass but never doin the homework made me blind and I was living with a female narcissist the whole time had kids and married them then I did my homework and everything came to life from me asking God to show me because it was like I had a shield over my eyes now I know
I blocked my ex and he came back 5 months later. He had his brother texting my phone lying saying he had died trying to make me feel sorry for him. I was nice enough to talk to him for 5 minutes. He asked to take me on a date but I said no and I haven’t contacted him since. I blocked him and his brother
Very troubled and sick souls.
Telsha please talk about how narcissists may be damned souls playing out in real time; i.e no hope for these people because they are not predestined elect souls, not in all cases obviously.
They could be like pharaoh
He's a covert narcissist. I told him he thinks he's all that and a bag of chips. I walked away. It's too much. I've had him text me from a burner number. Actually, several. He lost his Super Empath.
Thank You Tea ❤️ Im So Glad That I Don't Have Any Desire To Want That Narc I'm Healed And Enjoying My Best Blessed Life To God Be The Glory 🙌🏽
I appreciate and respect the message and your perspective on this. However narcs don't always obsess or stalk or hoover
Speaking from my own experience I was grade A supply, he was a malignant narc, I think he was close to discarding me but I beat him to the punch. That was over a year ago and not one hoover, not one peep from him. He even married his new supply 9 months later. Yes for the first 6 months I wanted the hoover, the validation, the apology (which after educating myself realized I won't get that). But the narc channels keep putting out that they hoover. Yet those who are hoping on that need to know it doesn't always happen. Just saying.
I appreciate all the channels for helping in my healing and I wish all the survivors genuine love and happiness after they leave these evil creatures. Peace and healing all
just wait when they run out of supply
@@williamfinley4477 facts💯
@@williamfinley4477 even if they're married? To somebody that I think isn't quite to the level I was but definitely a grade a supply. They still Hoover?
Yes if they lose all their supplys if your grade a@@julies7618
Same here. Over a year and not a peep. But once I got my ego in check I realized it was a blessing from God. I really had a soft spot for my ex, so truth is, if he came back I’m not sure I would’ve been strong enough to ignore him. It would’ve reset the clock on my recovery time for sure.
I left him to the streets. He big mad
Yes yes sister I'm finished with the abused
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I just got a hoover after 7 and a half years and he is a whole married man now.Hes blocked on everything, but we had a phone line together about 8 years ago. Somehow he made up some lies and when i paid my phone bill i saw my receipt was sent to his email. So i put extra security on my account. Dude! Get a life!!!
If they don't want to be left alone why do they do the discard and also do the abuse that causes you to leave their ass
Good day ms. Telsha...you are so right..I've seen it happened to a friend. She left him and now is right back in it again. So sad!
Your saving lives
MRS. TEA❤ I WAS EVERYTHING TO THAT DOG WEARING A CAT CHOKER.. I DISCARDED THAT JUMPING FROG WITH A CAPE HUNNY WHEN Y'ALL LEAVE THESE FROGS THEY GO JUMPING LEFT AND RIGHT 😂😂.. THIS IS MY 2ND TIME LEAVING THAT FROG.. NO CONTACT HE BETTER STAY WITH HIS WIFE AND THERE LITTLE HOUSE ON THE HILL😂😂 I'M CHOSEN ME AND MY PEACE LOVE YOU QUEEN TELSHA ❤❤ I ROCKS WITH YOU ALWAYS ❤❤
God bless you because we go through so much with these inside out SKUNKS 🦨 and you know that’s a STINKER 😂😂 GOD bless you on your new JOURNEY Amen 🙏🏼
Queen Leandra in our journey in the struggles and hardships we encounter in life ♥️ we forget how badass we really are... how we adapt improvise and overcome the darkness of the life... it's the process that makes you sweet 😋 keep your wings full of the air currents as you soar above the ashes of destruction beneath you... you are blessed 🙌 😇 🙏 by the best you are chosen to be a leader and teacher ❤️ 💙 STAY STRONG 💪 ❤️ STAY SAFE 💪 ✨️ LOVE YOU TOO MY PRECIOUS FRIEND ❤️ 💙
@Tim Sparrey I LOVE YOU MORE FRIEND ❤️❤️.. THANK YOU CHAMP FOR THOSE ENCOURAGING WORDS I NEEDED TO HEAR THAT ❤️ 🙏
@@earlineblack8276 ❤️❤️ AMEN SIS THESE NINJA'S WEARING BATHING SUITES ARE SOMETHING ELSE 😂😂 LOVE YOU MORE QUEEN ❤️❤️
I know that I can’t leave him because I know he will try to KILL me because he tried it with his ex girlfriend and her boyfriend, he’s trying everything to destroy me but I still ignore him he wants to block anything that I can do, he hates everything that I do and of course he hates my friends and my one daughter, when I was gone for three weeks and when I came back he looked like a skeleton with black skin draped over his body as long as I’m PROTECTED by my LORD and SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST, but I’m blessed 😇 and I’m covered by the BLOOD 🩸 of JESUS Amen 🙏🏼
😂😂 love the singing! You make me laugh! What a wonderful bright spirit!! I feel like we could be besties! lol. Binging your content! Speak it sister!! 🙌🙌
That fool female narc thought she could fool me. I saw everything she tried to do, and I let her know. These demons are such fools. I broke it off in her many times. She didn’t know how to respond, and acted like a 8 year old many times. I got tired of her craziness, and left. She then hovered me, then gang stalked me. I showed the stalkers my Glock so they knew I wasn’t putting up with her crap. One of them come on my property, they better have their heart right with God!
Girl your skin is so beautiful and you glow !
I don't believe he will come around me nah they way I put him out it's how I did it narcissistic injury is deep these narcs are mentally ill blocked on everything
That narcissist texted me for 3 years, he would call from unknown numbers, phone company couldn't do anything. I had to literally take legal matters. The calls had stopped but for the past few weeks, I've started getting calls again from unknown numbers. I don't know where he is. If I knew I would take more legal steps
I am not changing my number, i ve had this number for 5 years. All you're saying is TRUE. I never will accept him back, want Nothing to do with him
EVER!!!!!!!!!!
Girl he didn’t go to therapy but he went to the altar at church and asked for prayer and fell out like he got deliverdt!!! And acted normal for about two days and he was right back like he never left😂
Jesus is so good. God is using you to help men and woman get over abusive relationships/ situationships
And social media 😂😂they love looking at your success
This is all so so true…my crazy ex drove 2 hours to come to the beach that I hangout at every weekend and posted that he was there. After 2 months no contact, threats, and we broke up bc he cheated. I already had to speak to the cops due to threats and they told me it usually doesn’t stop at just verbal.
Trying to rid him and his demons!
What if they discarded you first? But then you reject when they try to come back, bye going NO CONTACT.
Stay NC
Same question here
The Obsessive behavior still applies no matter who does the discarding. It’s all fake - they want you to chase them usually if they discard. However, when you don’t - BABY!!weirdness begins
@@LisaTheOracle You are so right! I moved out per his request, then like a few months later he wanted to know where we stood and wanted to meet. I filed for divorce instead. No more games for this girl.
This exactly what I did. Hes the one who walked out, I already told him we're NEVER getting bk together
I am currently dealing with a woman that is like every video you posted and it’s scary!! I really fell for her and have been hoping she would change. She has affected my business almost allowed her to attack my self esteem. When I put I put my foot down it was like she has been scrambling for another tactic.
Thank you 😊
I need closure!!
I'm married to one! I have filed for divorce and she is trying to make my life a living HELL! She is trying to stay in my house and cheating on me with 3 different guys! But she put in her court papers that I am the problem.
He would never hoover. He is happy with the new.
I can testify after 3yrs being narc’ free and blocked across all platforms But my business number’s linked to my social media accounts, he came back hoovering and the audacity of it. BLOCKED again!!! My energy pump has been un-plugged a long time ago! 😂
Thanks!
Thank you! God bless you!
Duck with a combat boot and a hard hat!!!
🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 On the floor!!!
My ex husband left me . He seems very happy with his new life.
Fake Happy
She did come back with a hoover after she discarded me for other supply then I blocked her and she wouldn't leave me alone her flying monkeys are worse than her thank you for the video ❤️
I told my narc girlfriend I was leaving 3 months before I did because of the lease. I can’t begin to tell you what I went through!! Holy Moses!!
THANK YOU ROYAL WARRIOR QUEEN / TRUTH 2 POWER HOUR
Stupid bird. Backwards walking giraffe.
Left me,.. took us to court,,, which may have lead to leaving my son and I homeless, no regard.
Then has the crazy idea after 3yrs of this to say '''I still love you'''''.
We will be no victim to evil EVER!
Ducks with combat boots on am dying
As an Aquarius.. I change my number a lot .. feels so good. Plus ppl in my life aren’t meant to stay for long due to Uranus and I happily accepted that
I’m cool on astrology
Great. Stay away.
Everywhere I moved to he gets people to install illegal cameras and pays my neighborhood to gang stalk me. He is watching me in my home right now. It has been going on for years and a bunch of other people watch me too. I am sick of it. I want my privacy and my life back. How can someone be grade A supply to a narc when you never spent time together?
I ran across you yesterday and you are real therapy for me. Everything you say is true of my wife 1.5 but G.F. for 13 yrs before marriage. I was Everything to her.
He has just re-emerged after going quiet in march. Lordt have mercy. I went radio silent/gray rock. He did not take it well
Great A supply equals stupid. If you are not being hoovered it’s a compliment
Awesome message...thx Ms. Tea...
She got to be crazy after what she did to me,to try and come back
Took a restraining order for me
True True True!!!
Thanks for sharing these vidoes..God bless you and family.
He cheated the entire time. Didn’t have proof but I didn’t trust him. I blocked him and left days before his bday. He gaslighted me, called me from crazy numbers, tried to get my social media but it’s private. He then called from blocked caller and was upset I blocked him. I eventually picked up and said you can’t get a hold of me because I blocked you bye sir. Still blocked
Amen they told the flying monkey there ready to sign the divorce papers the ex narc is in
Love you girl Thank You 🙏🏾
I Discarded it,him for life.I did all you said. I was it him Nightmare. The burner number calling has stop ped for now. I have moved on. I will not return to the Vomit ever.
I NEVER SEEN ANYTHING LIKE THIS...THE OBSESSION IS UNREAL, GAVE HIM 1001 CHANCE AND DONT UNDERSTAND IVE FILED FOR DIVORCE! ITS SCARY ...IM JUST WALKING WITH GOD PROTECTION ‼️‼️THE OBSESSION IS UNREAL....
I have been gone for 8 months and heard nothing. Now all of a sudden he is blowing me up and always wants to talk. WTH? Boy bye!
I really needed this thank you
I've try to talk and send her your video...i dont even know if she listen to it any more.
Bad idea. They will use this information to manipulate even more.
🎵Rocks with ya girl🎶
Why do I feel like I’m the only one this doesn’t apply to? I wish I didn’t want to see proof of his obsession…. I get that’s unhealthy and not helping me in my healing journey…. But because I don’t physically see it and he hasn’t tried to reach out…. It’s like I’m the only one this isn’t really happening to behind the scenes. I get I should be happy about that…. I just want to KNOW this is the case with me. To know he’s tormented by my memory is so satisfying! Bah! Stupid combat boot wearin joker!
Thank you i been done a little over 2 years❤❤❤❤🎉
Girl, I been through at least 10 devices and created several different accounts and he is right there as soon as I click on. It doesn't matter what I do, there he is behind a fake account commenting on my comments. And it has been years and we were never in a relationship. We just texted and I stopped that over 4 years ago. I don't get it.
I don't want it , now that l know what l would b dealing with
Mine met a millionaire . So I know he’s done. He wants a rich girl with money.
Thanks for the video new to your channel I will join the Live Thursday wat time UK please ❤️
I moved 4 times in 3 years and got rid of all of my devices and they still found me i thought it was 1 person and then people started coming out the woodwork at me so i got a group of em 🤷 the abuse is real
😂😂😂 I never seen this many people abuse one person this is crazy 😂😂😂
Romans 8:28 ❤
I clearly hear an learning Telsha, thou today late after work. I spot the stalking, off the main Street off my street. I went the other way down the block and if they do it again I'll get the authorities involved and I'm not joking and they already don't like us folks especially if you live in an upscale neighborhood where everyone mines there own business. We are mature adults and no more of anything and I mean what I calmy said let it go. Lastly everything you said in your video explanation is true; and enough of her and her flying monkeys business and her field monkey business.