7 Husbands Drugged & Assaulted Each Other’s Wives & Live-Streamed It For Their “Boy Chatroom”

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  • @lily.97
    @lily.97 5 місяців тому +24727

    It's disgusting that their names are protected yet the ladies whole body are on the internet they should be known publicly worldwide they deserve no privacy

    • @rileehuckleberry7677
      @rileehuckleberry7677 5 місяців тому +852

      To be fair, it was said a lot of the women chose to stay with their husbands, so to release his information is also to release hers.

    • @niccib
      @niccib 5 місяців тому +329

      @@rileehuckleberry7677that’s a good point hmm

    • @hironyx
      @hironyx 5 місяців тому +1064

      unfortunately revealing the criminal identities will indirectly reveal the identities of the victims and other family members. the gag order was to protect the victims, not the criminals.

    • @psychedelicyeti6053
      @psychedelicyeti6053 5 місяців тому +230

      ​@@rileehuckleberry7677I wonder if that's strategic to remain anonymous. I would not be able to trust staying with my partner if that had gone down. Very sad situation

    • @dysmissme7343
      @dysmissme7343 5 місяців тому +270

      @@rileehuckleberry7677
      THAT IS HORRIFYING
      I can’t believe some of them are still living with such monsters

  • @user-xi5ut6uh7u
    @user-xi5ut6uh7u 5 місяців тому +14612

    Please this is important!!!! As a nurse, please don't show the drugs that are used. Whenever those crimes comes to light and the drug that is used also gets known, those drugs are getting sold 80% more and are used for the same purpose. Humans are cruels and i know you just want us to be more aware but at the same time some people get this information and they are turning it into something horrible!!!

    • @lizi1516
      @lizi1516 5 місяців тому +981

      This needs to be pinned!!

    • @CaseyMarie11-11
      @CaseyMarie11-11 5 місяців тому +468

      I'm not sure how this comment doesn't have more likes and replies?? Shows what's important to people 😔 a comment that could literally save lives gets nothing,but some dumbass comment would have thousands of likes 😔 Do better people 💯

    • @marsh799
      @marsh799 5 місяців тому +241

      agree, this comment should get pin

    • @user-br6vp2kt6y
      @user-br6vp2kt6y 5 місяців тому +947

      i agree that with showing the drugs, it’s unintentionally promoting it. however, i think that it is better to be aware of these types of drugs, than ignorant. because regardless if she shows them or not, if a person is willing to commit these sorts of crimes, they’ll go out of their way to look and research the ‘best’ drugs to use. so stephanie not revealing it wouldn’t matter in the grander scheme of things, since information is so easily accessible, and on the contrary it would harm viewers of stephanie soo since they wouldn’t be aware of the certain drug being used.

    • @kerph87
      @kerph87 5 місяців тому +177

      I'm a nurse too, and what she said is true😢

  • @brittany7573
    @brittany7573 2 місяці тому +1408

    I argue this was not just assault. It was human trafficking.

    • @saaramohamed8921
      @saaramohamed8921 2 місяці тому +12

      yup

    • @cynthianguyen711
      @cynthianguyen711 2 місяці тому +7

      Facts

    • @JessicaMiller-pc4dj
      @JessicaMiller-pc4dj Місяць тому +12

      Without a shadow of a doubt - and probably some others we haven't yet thought of 😞.

    • @Justmy7cents
      @Justmy7cents 21 день тому +4

      YES!!!! Good point!!

    • @JavierPwns
      @JavierPwns 19 днів тому +2

      Nah the ladies were 100% into it. Hold women accountable for poor decisions

  • @calmingbabysleep1256
    @calmingbabysleep1256 2 місяці тому +1706

    With " husbands" like that, who needs enemies. Disgusting

    • @saaramohamed8921
      @saaramohamed8921 Місяць тому +57

      yet men like this will complain "all" woman have only fans these days

    • @orandachildren1051
      @orandachildren1051 Місяць тому

      Nah, those are the men paying for it​. @@saaramohamed8921

    • @danidakota7304
      @danidakota7304 Місяць тому

      Enemies?? In this case enemies are nothing comparing what sick, perverted, disturbed, disgusting those husbands are

    • @dicksanchez
      @dicksanchez Місяць тому +2

      Cause they do ha 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @sativalibra
      @sativalibra Місяць тому +7

      @@dicksanchez"Evil is everywhere" yep, you're apart of it.

  • @theundone777
    @theundone777 5 місяців тому +31698

    How crazy is it that seven men found each other and trusted each other enough to do this? You couldn't find that many people to rob a bank with you, but when it comes to preying on women you're good to go.

    • @user-xn6dw6tt5x
      @user-xn6dw6tt5x 5 місяців тому +922

      As a man, that's a guy code no one told me about but it would appear to be the case , yes.
      Wtf lol

    • @nalane6970
      @nalane6970 5 місяців тому +1

      @@user-xn6dw6tt5xwhat do you mean “guy code”???

    • @hiitsme2427
      @hiitsme2427 5 місяців тому +8

      You probably didn't hear about this story where a man from France has been accused of drugging his wife every night and getting her raped by several men for 10 years... There's more than 50 who got arrested. And who knows maybe there's more...

    • @DM-nw5lu
      @DM-nw5lu 5 місяців тому +38

      These men don't view women as people. So to them it's like sharing a gym membership card or something. Or a netflix account. Men and the "bro code" are absolutely vile. Girl code be like "protect other women from predatory men", "don't leave your friends alone at a party", "you come together you leave together" and bro code be like "help your bros cheat on their partners and have affairs by keeping it hush hush", "don't ever sell out your bro even if he did f*cked Up sh*t". Parts of bro code are about protecting predators whereas most of girl code is about protecting other women from said predators.

    • @kalpajha3002
      @kalpajha3002 5 місяців тому +151

      ​@@DM-nw5luwell said you are absolutely right.

  • @MythologicaYT
    @MythologicaYT 4 місяці тому +3989

    "I only did it because my wife had an affair!" Buddy didnt YOU have an affair FIRST?

    • @captainobvious6070
      @captainobvious6070 4 місяці тому +1

      Narc males ☕️ they always think the rules don't apply to them.

    • @Cranky_Crone
      @Cranky_Crone 4 місяці тому +315

      So entitled they can’t even see the hypocrisy…

    • @Keva-jp8kc
      @Keva-jp8kc 4 місяці тому +154

      Narcissist!!!!

    • @Mans_Ruin1313
      @Mans_Ruin1313 4 місяці тому

      And he wanted to watch another dude screw her anyway!!!

    • @rachelnicholeee
      @rachelnicholeee 4 місяці тому +109

      Rules don’t apply to guys like him. Definitely the need to be in control all the time

  • @Dubhaltagh
    @Dubhaltagh 2 місяці тому +1051

    what terrifies me even more is that in a lot of places, they dont consider marital rape to be a real thing

    • @sidvyas8549
      @sidvyas8549 Місяць тому +49

      It was criminalised in the UK only in 1991. Nuts

    • @brileehenry4161
      @brileehenry4161 Місяць тому +14

      @@sidvyas8549jesus christ what is this life?!

    • @bjohns3961
      @bjohns3961 Місяць тому +12

      Even more scary is if you pair that with child marriage which is still legal in a lot of places including the USA

    • @laurendillon627
      @laurendillon627 Місяць тому +14

      Add that to that is the fact that women are not told rape is the same as “intimate partner violence”. That rape doesn’t have to be a person you aren’t in an intimate relationship with. That no means no even to your partner. So some women don’t know if they have experienced marital rape or not. I was told “some things are expected when you start dating someone in college” so I didn’t realize what happened until years later

    • @kikikungfukakes6639
      @kikikungfukakes6639 Місяць тому +15

      My husband told me that it's not rape if people are married. It's part of your "contractual agreement " or you can sue. There are many cases of husband's suing a wife for not fulfilling martial duties. I remained unmarried

  • @phillinateo
    @phillinateo 3 місяці тому +706

    As Singaporeans, we are still shocked by this case, it was highly talked about. For context, Singapore is extremely safe, ladies will not think twice about walking home in the middle of the night in fear of anything happening to them. Just never thought my country would end up on a UA-cam channel where i binge-watch episodes about crazy crimes.

    • @lusstarr
      @lusstarr 2 місяці тому +2

      @@JuicyUTTPshe meant the amount of the “fluid” becomes more than before. Meaning, for example, if before it’s just 5ml, he may release 10ml

    • @siddified
      @siddified 2 місяці тому +53

      No public crime, or crime in the open. But hidden domestic crime is a whole different thing, and you can blame the shame culture for that.
      I know a case of a young girl, a child, being raped multiple times by a family member and the parents being fully aware but blaming her and shoving it under the carpet, even sucking up to the rapist AND EVEN ALLOWING HIM MORE OPPORTUNITIES TO KEEP DOING IT, all because they felt they would look bad themselves if they confronted him, or if it got out, and lose face. They'd rather subject their daughter to repeated rape than to consider ''losing face'', which is a stupid and ridiculous concept in the first place. And instead they blamed the victim, their own young daughter. Talk about insult upon injury. Talk about unforgivable betrayal and trauma. And I happen to know this happens a lot actually. This is Chinese (/Singapore) culture. Prove me wrong. Please...

    • @hopeadler507
      @hopeadler507 Місяць тому

      No country is safe nor perfect. It’s an illusion of safety.

    • @izdiharali2794
      @izdiharali2794 Місяць тому +1

      ​@siddified wooow. Come on dont say that. Just because some sick guy did it u want to blame the whole culture. They (chinese Singaporeans) dont agree to this

    • @siddified
      @siddified Місяць тому +7

      @@izdiharali2794 most of them don't, I'm sure, but it still happens a lot and the culture facilitates it

  • @0230Raveena
    @0230Raveena 5 місяців тому +9117

    The absolute violation is beyond comprehension. It is truly a crime! This man has daughters and if he can violate his wife in such a manner, I'm fearful for his daughters.

    • @Mr.WestcottX
      @Mr.WestcottX 5 місяців тому +276

      For real 7 husbands drugged and assaulted each other's wives like what????😱😱🤬🤬

    • @user-xn6dw6tt5x
      @user-xn6dw6tt5x 5 місяців тому +56

      You are probably right.

    • @user-ht4ci6id4c
      @user-ht4ci6id4c 5 місяців тому +78

      An absolute sicko

    • @nellie__
      @nellie__ 5 місяців тому +217

      would probably jump at the chance to pass his daughters off to his boys

    • @0230Raveena
      @0230Raveena 5 місяців тому +85

      @nellie__ that would be absolutely disgusting and questions just how far these men will go.

  • @jazmineemery629
    @jazmineemery629 5 місяців тому +6481

    the fact that they were like “haha how stupid are these women that don’t know they’re being drugged and assaulted.” enraged me

    • @avamasquerade
      @avamasquerade 5 місяців тому +136

      Yes, they did say this. It's clear several had good "pickers" for who would make the most compliant targets because most of the wives stayed with them even though they have children, thus making the wives accomplices should the husband's, which is statistically very likely, ever prey on their children.
      When children are involved, I will judge, and rightly so if anyone chooses to stay with a partner this existentially threatening to their so called "loved ones."

    • @rosetzu_nagasawa
      @rosetzu_nagasawa 5 місяців тому +5

      hahahaaa
      You need to stop
      and ponder W H Y....

    • @Aelffwynn
      @Aelffwynn 4 місяці тому +152

      ​@@avamasquerade you dont know the kind of coercion that goes on in some marriages, and you don't understand divorce or child custody at all. Even if a man is a CONVICTED RAPIST or even a PEDOPHILE, in most cases he will still have parental rights to his children. So if his wife leaves him, he will usually be awarded partial custody or at least visitation rights with the child, without the mother there for protection. So what you're saying is that these women should leave, and most likely leave their children ALONE with these men at times. It is fucked up and wrong, but unfortunately in most legal situations, parental "rights" still come before child safety. A child would literally have to be battered and abused by their parent before anyone could legally step in to take them away. So if the mothers want to keep their children safe, sometimes their best bet is to stay, at least until the child is old enough to defend themselves.
      And even IF the laws were fair and just, and protected children like they should, you're really going to blame someone who is likely not in their right mind due to calculated and cold-blooded abuse?

    • @ChocoBerryTsuki
      @ChocoBerryTsuki 4 місяці тому +71

      ​@@AelffwynnI really really highly wish people would talk more about this, because there's a high percentage of marriages that are loveless and miserable that don't end in divorce for the children. Not in the sense people push though, everyone pushes the "wanting the kids to have both parents" narrative publicly, but not the "I'm staying because this man has a good public image, and more money than I have and if I'm separated from my children I don't know what he'll do to them without me around. There is no evidence he is this abusive, so I know the courts will give him at least partial custody."

    • @MeglynLad
      @MeglynLad 4 місяці тому +16

      YESSSSS!!!! Any commenters on here that don't understand this concept clearly don't have kids.

  • @viclorenzo5016
    @viclorenzo5016 3 місяці тому +420

    Timestamp
    0:00 Introduction
    4:09 Disclaimer
    6:25 Case start
    8:05 Sammyboy
    21:24 Disgusting Crime Part I
    29:31 Ad break
    31:17 Disgusting Crime Part II
    55:50 Shocking Discovery Part I
    59:28 Ad break
    1:01:20 Shocking Discovery Part II
    1:12:45 Trial & Punishment
    1:31:07 Video end

  • @ohhey6888
    @ohhey6888 Місяць тому +306

    I was married to a man for 5 years, he was loving and caring at first but then during this marriage I started to get to know him better, he told me stories how he loved to order prostitutes and I saw how excited he was telling this, same with seeing girls that look like 2000s porn actresses it all made me feel dirty and disgusted. On our second year of marriage I found a bunch of nude pictures of his ex girlfriend (they dated while he was married to another woman) and I was shocked and devastated but I couldn’t leave him, I moved to the US for him and I had nowhere to go. So I stayed.
    And there were good years but then he started to express ideas about threesome and other stuff which I didn’t want to do, so we argued a lot. And he had that friend of his, he was always hanging around, always spent time in our apt from the very start of our relationship, he was married also but spent with us more time than with his wife and his kid it seemed. And when he visited he always made sure to bring alcohol. I was 21 and one day he brought tequila and made me so drunk that I threw up and just went to bed but didn’t fall asleep, just waited till he left. Nothing happened that day but it all seemed off so I never again drunk in his company nor in my husband’s because I didn’t feel safe anymore. Fast forward to 5 years later. He and my husband finally talked me to drink a can of flavored beer and I agreed. It shouldn’t have made me drunk at all, I just made a few sips. They put something in it. And my husband’s friend take advantage of me while my husband was watching. I remember everything, I remember looking at my husband in search of protection but there was none. He acted than nothing happened after that and when I tried to talk to him how it was wrong, how he could do that to me, he answered that I never want to make him happy. I saved up money for a year, bought a ticket to my home country, left all my belongings and left. I wish I did it at 21 when I stopped trusting the man who should have been the most trustworthy man in my life.

    • @chestersarang806
      @chestersarang806 Місяць тому +36

      You fid what you had to do anf that wad very brave. Younger you probably still had hopes he was not going to be as bad, abuse has many layers and I'm sorry this also happened to you

    • @amainoacid
      @amainoacid Місяць тому +41

      chanced upon this.
      there is always a part of you that will think “if only I did this/had left earlier” “I wished I noticed the red flags much earlier”. . . Don’t beat yourself up over it. The fact that you managed to save up and leave him was very brave of you. You had no support and so many more things could’ve gone wrong. Applaud yourself for leaving someone like that. Keep safe and take care!

    • @littleblackpistol
      @littleblackpistol Місяць тому

      Men shop abroad when they are known to be a creep by women from their own culture who read them better.

    • @hopeadler507
      @hopeadler507 Місяць тому +30

      Oh sweetheart. You did your best with what you had. It’s not your fault. I’m so sorry. I wish I could give you a hug. :(

    • @user-tk1xd9js1z
      @user-tk1xd9js1z Місяць тому +4

      So you
      married a man who already had been married. Were you wife #2?

  • @zayzels12
    @zayzels12 5 місяців тому +5998

    the thing that shocks me the absolute most is that they did this for 8 YEARS. 8 years of assault, 8 years of drugging up wives, 8 years of doing illegal activities in a house with 4 daughters, 8 years of women being treated like nothing. James STILL thinks he’s the victim because his wife cheated twice. I hope they all get a life sentence. ALSO, how is that website up and running?? it’s crazy how easy it is to get to content like this and lots of these “creators” don’t get any sort of punishment! absolutely foul

    • @complikaty9740
      @complikaty9740 5 місяців тому +580

      Honestly it concerns me this man has 4 daughters. How safe were they around him if he wanted to have his wife assaulted in their room while they slept...

    • @pointfrogg
      @pointfrogg 5 місяців тому +386

      @@complikaty9740 And someohow these are often the type of men who talk about “keeping their daughters safe” or are hyper-selective of her partners/sexuality. (Think the rapper T.I who said something to the effect of he gets his daughters privates checked regularly to make sure she’s still a virgin…)
      There’s just a level of broken mindedness that is just…terrifying and alien.

    • @shae9364
      @shae9364 5 місяців тому +50

      ​@@pointfrogg T.I. was my first thought.

    • @hasicazulatv2078
      @hasicazulatv2078 5 місяців тому +169

      ​@@pointfroggT.I is absolutely repulsive for that absolutely disgusting. Wasnt his daughter 18 when that was exposed? Id feel so violated, i feel violated for his daughter.

    • @seajduff
      @seajduff 4 місяці тому +6

      Right

  • @sophiel362
    @sophiel362 4 місяці тому +1945

    James wasn't afraid of his wife cheating, as much as he was afraid of losing CONTROL. That's what it was really about.

  • @bethanynorman1829
    @bethanynorman1829 2 місяці тому +85

    What's truly evil here is the health risks they subjected their wives to. They treated their own wives like they were less than human. Did not care at all about the risk of pregnancy or STDs they were putting their wives at risk for.

    • @Lilliz91
      @Lilliz91 Місяць тому

      They literally had a fetish of their wives getting pregnant from the assault. But yeah the STDs would def be bad, hope he at least made them wear a condoms.

    • @milkywaycafe.
      @milkywaycafe. 4 дні тому

      Not to mention that being constantly drugged like this for 8 YEARS likely had negative health affects. These men aren't even human. They're monsters

  • @mamakitty6549
    @mamakitty6549 Місяць тому +54

    I'm so angry that the men were protected. Name and shame to protect future women who are around them. Absolutely disgusting.

    • @MsEverAfterings
      @MsEverAfterings 4 дні тому

      The gag order is to protect the victims’ identities.

  • @kalpajha3002
    @kalpajha3002 5 місяців тому +4115

    It's absolutely disgusting when men, especially if they are married, think of their wife as an object and not a person who has feelings. What a sick mind to allow other men to come out sa his wife. Appalling!!!!! Hope they are locked up forever.

    • @magicalspacegiraffe
      @magicalspacegiraffe 5 місяців тому

      Did you know that in the States the number one cause of death of pregnant women is murder? Relationships are so much more dangerous to women than we like to admit and the cost of silence is paid by women and children.

    • @Ninaloasana
      @Ninaloasana 5 місяців тому +146

      This is among a very few of steph video that made me literally sick to my stomach. Imagine doing such an unthinkable thing to someone who carry your children, care for them 24/7, love you and cherish you. These men don't need psychologists they need exorcism

    • @yasminxx9329
      @yasminxx9329 5 місяців тому

      @@ville__ give your phone back to your mom pls...obviousy youre too young to have internet access...or too dumb

    • @chungus5272
      @chungus5272 5 місяців тому +18

      @@ville__yet you commented lmao

    • @iamnemoo
      @iamnemoo 5 місяців тому +115

      and then people complain that women are too picky while dating lmao like damn we're just watching out for ourselves

  • @HeisenbergFam
    @HeisenbergFam 5 місяців тому +5252

    Imagine getting married just to be drugged and assaulted LIVE by your own partner..

    • @bhuuh3590
      @bhuuh3590 5 місяців тому +33

      Man why are you here?! 😬 like why are you every dude

    • @melissamoonchild9216
      @melissamoonchild9216 5 місяців тому +103

      ​@@bhuuh3590what...? theyre saying thats appaling..

    • @ivexoxo
      @ivexoxo 5 місяців тому

      @@bhuuh3590???

    • @Light_Of_Elohim
      @Light_Of_Elohim 5 місяців тому +9

      Lol this person is everywhere.

    • @kmfdm_sucks
      @kmfdm_sucks 5 місяців тому +68

      @@melissamoonchild9216 it's not what they said, this person is on like EVERY youtube video in the comment section. it just shocks people haha

  • @katelynsharp330
    @katelynsharp330 2 місяці тому +80

    I hope that the women involved in these situations are getting the help that they need. I couldn’t imagine being betrayed like this, it’s horrible.

    • @kazumakiryuu2668
      @kazumakiryuu2668 Місяць тому

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  • @tiny_fern
    @tiny_fern Місяць тому +21

    i’m a singaporean and i had no idea this happened until i stumbled upon stephanie’s video. i’m even beyond speechless that they have their own disgusting forum that it makes me more and more afraid of men now.

  • @Whattaview
    @Whattaview 5 місяців тому +3259

    These "men" are despicable!! They should have to register as sex offenders so that everyone will know their names, faces, addresses and the criminal acts they committed against women!!

    • @libiskit
      @libiskit 5 місяців тому +33

      you can't because you need to protect the wife and kids

    • @htsand
      @htsand 5 місяців тому +75

      its men. drop the "

    • @Whattaview
      @Whattaview 5 місяців тому +116

      @@htsand Nah. Real men don't act like this!

    • @imhalfhere
      @imhalfhere 5 місяців тому +29

      ​@@htsand Girl please dont die on this hill, sure people are cruel but not all of them

    • @ncrest4365
      @ncrest4365 5 місяців тому

      @@imhalfhere but they are still men who did this, the quote on quote is for nothing, cause what are you gonna substitute it with? They're men, that's all it is.

  • @angelicatrino2498
    @angelicatrino2498 5 місяців тому +2524

    Its so amazing how 7 psychopaths meet each other and agreed to violate their wives . Truly same feathers flock together.

    • @b.l70
      @b.l70 5 місяців тому +192

      I’m starting to wonder if the # of sociopaths and psychopaths are increasing due to the toxic modern society we live in.

    • @softpurplebat
      @softpurplebat 5 місяців тому +39

      ​@@b.l70
      That'd be scary ...

    • @redleeks6253
      @redleeks6253 5 місяців тому +1

      ​@@b.l70Nop. They are just easily in connection with eachother thanks to internet and social media networking.

    • @mothmos
      @mothmos 5 місяців тому +1

      @@b.l70 it's what i noticed with a lot of men, especially in asia/middle east. It's like they're a different breed, not human. Theire outer bodies are human but everything else is not - psychological/mental/emotional. A lot seem to be narcissistic psycho subhumans. But of course they'll go into denial, what-about-isms and gaslighting, unfortunately including the still deeply brainwashed women who have internalized misogyny.

    • @user-od5fh3gn4d
      @user-od5fh3gn4d 5 місяців тому

      @@mothmoswestern men are the same. They enjoy seeing women and girls suffer. Most are addicted to depraved internet corn

  • @Guyontheinternet_
    @Guyontheinternet_ Місяць тому +16

    Btw side note. We banned chewing gum partly is because it is dirty and get stuck everywhere but the main reason is that we have a public train transport system called the MRT. It cost us billions of dollars to build and a few years after it was opened at 1991, some people stuck some chewing gum at the door of a train and caused the door unable to close and the train unable to move. This caused the whole train line to stop operating for a while and this caused chewing gum to be banned. Chewing gum is still illegal only chewing gum with medical purposes given by dentist and other medical professional are allowed. But nowadays it is common to "smuggle" chewing gum into Singapore for personal use no one cares, sometimes you will get caught and they will just tell you to throw it away. If you chew gum in Singapore no one cares, just don't litter and dispose it properly.

  • @kittycato2023
    @kittycato2023 3 місяці тому +103

    If i was one if his daughters...id never see him again.

    • @saaramohamed8921
      @saaramohamed8921 2 місяці тому

      yup

    • @kazumakiryuu2668
      @kazumakiryuu2668 Місяць тому

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    • @pinkturtle2564
      @pinkturtle2564 22 дні тому +3

      I might even change my last name.

    • @heartattackchuufromloona36
      @heartattackchuufromloona36 12 днів тому

      @@pinkturtle2564fr

  • @just_alice844
    @just_alice844 5 місяців тому +2532

    Why can’t women just exist??? Why is it hard to just live a normal life? I’m beyond baffled, disgusted and disappointed. HOW HARD IS IT TO RESPECT YOUR WIFE AND HER BODY?

    • @kenjako
      @kenjako 5 місяців тому +2

      Mosoginy and the patriarchy are whole systems that has the sole purpose is to opress and violate us. We can't just exist bc those exist.

    • @user-wr2cd1wy3b
      @user-wr2cd1wy3b 5 місяців тому +1

      It is true, 1 in 3 victims of spousal violence will be women, while and 1 in 4 men. The numbers almost double when it's boyfriend/girlfriend relationships, 30% of boyfriends experience violence from their girlfriend, 41% for girlfriends by their boyfriends. 10% of male children experience parental abuse, while 5% of females experience parental violence. Experience of violence by other children is about same 8% and 8%, for male/female, reported. Those are insane numbers, that means nearly everyone has experienced violence, at some point in their lives.

    • @venusroses
      @venusroses 5 місяців тому +195

      ⁠@@blissbabe just because a wife simply disrespects their husband it doesnt give them the excuse to full on sa someone? No duh cheatings bad but sa is a whole another lvl just divorce atp lol

    • @mimimi4589
      @mimimi4589 5 місяців тому +135

      @@blissbabe her husband cheated first tho

    • @Zucifer8
      @Zucifer8 5 місяців тому +61

      @@blissbabehow did she start the disrespect

  • @shellbell8062
    @shellbell8062 4 місяці тому +2147

    Can you even imagine being in those wives shoes? To know that your own husband humiliated, betrayed, arranged for you to be assaulted, took videos and posted them publicly for EIGHT years? I cannot even fathom how you would mentally and emotionally reconcile all of that information about the person who was supposed to love and protect you.

    • @TheGreyGhost_of43rd
      @TheGreyGhost_of43rd 4 місяці тому +31

      Can you imagine, blacking out all those times for almost a decade straight? Waking up feeling very strange, in strange places. All while never noticing a single thing thing is off?
      Yeah me either.
      Too many inconsistencies in the story! Don't add up. Unless you take a biased perspective from the start!

    • @thegrumpygecko2390
      @thegrumpygecko2390 4 місяці тому +65

      Are you implying that the wives knew?

    • @RokeJulianLockhart.s13ouq
      @RokeJulianLockhart.s13ouq 4 місяці тому +6

      ​@@TheGreyGhost_of43rd So what else is true?

    • @chloekhamxox
      @chloekhamxox 4 місяці тому +34

      @@thegrumpygecko2390theyre saying its absolutely horrendous to hear this happened and find out this happened to you for 8 years by someone you thought loved you.

    • @chloekhamxox
      @chloekhamxox 4 місяці тому +30

      @@TheGreyGhost_of43rdwerent they assaulted in their own homes?

  • @lisazapata9780
    @lisazapata9780 3 місяці тому +75

    Praying for you and your protection. You are an Angel for exposing this! The world can be a horrible and dark place. You are the light.

  • @naomiemannings6499
    @naomiemannings6499 3 місяці тому +18

    This is how you give prison sentences to sexual assaulters/predators. Specially when they do not know the gravity of what they did or not remorseful at all. Not a freaking 5 years probation or less than 3 years. wth This is how they would begin to understand what they did was sickening and not "It's not prolly a grave of a matter that's why my sentencing was a probation or just a year or 2 in jail."

  • @effera
    @effera 5 місяців тому +2066

    There is a similar story in France. A man drugged his wife every other night for 10 years to let other men SA her, recording and documenting every "session" for his and "his circle of friend's" twisted fantasy. We are talking about a network of 83 perpetrators - only 51 so far are identified- of all ages and backgrounds, from barely 20 to men in their 70s, from unemployed guys still living with their mom to firemen and veterans, all living in the same region/area. And on top of that, a lot of them were found in possession of... illegal children related stuff... The mere idea that actual human beings could do such a thing is sickening . If you want to learn more, I recommend reading the investigation article in Le Monde by french journalist Lorraine de Foucher, she did a great work gathering testimonies and uncovering things about this network.

    • @jellycatfish
      @jellycatfish 5 місяців тому +139

      That's horrifying

    • @bkcarameljbk7174
      @bkcarameljbk7174 5 місяців тому +100

      Ummm whatttt??!!!!😮 I feel for her & that male is disgusting!!!

    • @anusha2465
      @anusha2465 5 місяців тому +19

      Why? For money or revenge?

    • @blueshoes5145
      @blueshoes5145 5 місяців тому

      Twisted thinking@@anusha2465

    • @user-qj2bi3ph6p
      @user-qj2bi3ph6p 5 місяців тому +170

      I commented on this before seeing your post. The thing that made it even more disturbing was that these 81 men were living in the same community and included civil servants, ambulance workers, soldiers, prison guards, and nurses.

  • @itzrayla
    @itzrayla 5 місяців тому +1424

    The scariest thing is that he had multiple DAUGHTERS. I was so worried this whole video there'd be some mention of his assaulting or encouraging the assault of his one of or all of his daughters. This is just absolutely disgusting.

    • @margodphd
      @margodphd 4 місяці тому +22

      How is rape of one defenceless, unconscious human being less traumatic than others? You listen to stories of unbelievable violation and what worries you is just the daughters? We have so little regard for women that they need to be kids to deserve sympathy?

    • @itzrayla
      @itzrayla 4 місяці тому +257

      ​@@margodphd ​ That's not what I said or implied at all. I just meant that if he was willing to violate the trust of his wife, he could have been willing to violate the trust of his daughters as well. He had access to so many women in his life who trusted him to keep them safe and that's scary because he could have assaulted any one or all of them. I don't understand why you're being so aggressive about your misinterpretation of my words. I'm sorry if this isn't worded well.

    • @lordtette
      @lordtette 4 місяці тому +123

      ​@@margodphd...that's not what they said at all

    • @bethwalker7887
      @bethwalker7887 4 місяці тому +133

      ​@@margodphdBroooo.... That isn't what she said. Worrying that his abuses were going to extend to his daughters, or to anyone else, is a legitimate concern

    • @helianabanes4875
      @helianabanes4875 4 місяці тому +83

      I am guessing this would have happened if they wouldn't have been caught. The fact that he wanted to do it with the daughters in the room?? Yeah, it seems like that was the direction it was heading. The fact that he wanted to involve his daughters in something that crosses a huge line, he truly is a shockingly perverted, and disgusting man.

  • @PerrincinaSprecaci
    @PerrincinaSprecaci 3 місяці тому +88

    Stories like this are the reason I'm so happy I never got married and stopped dating years ago and live alone with a cat.

    • @rainbowsieben
      @rainbowsieben Місяць тому +6

      There are beautiful stories of happy marriages out there. I wish happiness with your decision.

    • @ouwebrood497
      @ouwebrood497 Місяць тому +5

      Yes, being alone is not that bad. I share my life with cats too. Life is too short to put up with BS from some significant other all the time.

    • @lukekopesz9635
      @lukekopesz9635 21 день тому

      It's safer to live alone. I read recently that 90% of murders worldwide are committed by men.

    • @deeprollingriver52
      @deeprollingriver52 16 днів тому +2

      Oh so true. I have 3 dogs, though. Good luck to you!

    • @deeprollingriver52
      @deeprollingriver52 16 днів тому +2

      @@rainbowsiebenwhat a beautiful comment 🎉

  • @AyeYoTay
    @AyeYoTay 3 місяці тому +83

    I love how she is so smart you don't see her reading a script or anything and she is so good with her memory that she is always able to tell us what happens while looking at us ( camera) and she doesn't look at any paperwork or anything like that and she has never got her information wrong it's always been corrected and out of many UA-camr who tells stories, I love watch her and MrBallen because they both keep you intrigued by how they tell the stories and how well they're informed and I love that she just talks about each story and never has to read from anything this is all from the top of her head and she's impressive that she's able to remember everything! Including names, dates, times. And other small but extremely important information! KEEPITUPSTEPHANIE! YOU ROCK

    • @Amethyst.i
      @Amethyst.i 2 місяці тому +15

      She could have the info laid out on a screen or something in front of her so she can still look at “us” and the info, idk much about UA-cam setups but a lot of them do that

    • @AyeYoTay
      @AyeYoTay 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Amethyst.i ah ok I try to watch and I can see when ppl are reading cue cards and so far she's passed! Maybe you see something I don't.. lol I have always wondered how much money people make doing this job!!

    • @tahira1
      @tahira1 2 місяці тому +1

      I agree Stephanie & Mr Ballen are epic.

    • @Nagutama
      @Nagutama 2 місяці тому +13

      Even if she was reading a script, that would not make her less smart

    • @Amethyst.i
      @Amethyst.i 2 місяці тому

      @@Nagutama true

  • @vlogsswhanna
    @vlogsswhanna 5 місяців тому +2705

    It’s crazy how James wanted revenge” when he cheated first AND when she first how her baby. I feel so bad that she thought it was her fault because she had denied intim_cy with him cause of the baby. It suck’s how they treat people like this.

    • @VermontConnection
      @VermontConnection 5 місяців тому +259

      It's a lot about control. When he cheated and she found out, he felt like he had no control over what her reactions were. When she was pregnant and post-partum, he had no control over when he could get her in bed. When she cheated with Owen, even if he orchestrated it, the fact that they did stuff without his knowledge made him feel he had no control.
      So his poor little pathetic twisted mind decided to regain control by advertising his wife to be SA'd by other men and livestreaming their private moments. Those actions were logical for him for some reason.

    • @vlogsswhanna
      @vlogsswhanna 5 місяців тому +75

      @@VermontConnectionYes but would have never done it (probably) if he didn’t cheat first. I completely agree with this. And when he tried making the judge feel sorry for him? It happened for 8 years and you weren’t thinking about her so why should the court think about you? Doesn’t make sense. He can’t take responsibility and that’s what makes me so mad. He’s victimizing himself like that’s gonna work 🤦🏽‍♀️. He essayed his wife and other wifes and still think he deserves justice.

    • @VermontConnection
      @VermontConnection 5 місяців тому +48

      @@vlogsswhanna Exactly, it's always someone else's fault and never his.
      Though i do agree with him that he deserves justice, it's just my version of justice for him is maximum prison time and maximum number of cane strokes, and not "I should be free because my wife and kids miss meee" 🙄

    • @sandpiperr
      @sandpiperr 5 місяців тому +39

      He didn't want revenge, that was just his excuse.
      From his actions, demanding that the honey trap actually sleep with his wife, and then how he talked about...it's obvious he had some kind of kink.

    • @lcd1063
      @lcd1063 5 місяців тому +11

      ​, on point. Men and their quandary with control. If he is not in control, he is disorganized, messy and all over the place. On the other hand, if he the one in command power emanates from it. A high probability of abusing it is plausible if he is bereft of self awareness, mindfulness, and accountability.

  • @aliciamichael973
    @aliciamichael973 5 місяців тому +1043

    James is the lowest of the low. What kind of Deranged person would do this in his own house with his own kids in the house to his own wife. Absolutely despicable.

    • @AquaticStarchild
      @AquaticStarchild 5 місяців тому +56

      It truly scares me how frequent male violence towards women is.

  • @alexanderbarroga1088
    @alexanderbarroga1088 3 місяці тому +39

    It is crazy how to think that he believes he was the victim the whole time!!! Like WTF???!!!

    • @Palepetal
      @Palepetal 2 місяці тому +3

      People like this are always the victim in everything, no matter what.

    • @voxspitmusic1289
      @voxspitmusic1289 22 дні тому +2

      They always do

  • @NukeYourFear
    @NukeYourFear 2 місяці тому +20

    Imagine marrying someone who you're suppose to trust, who suppose to protect and love you, and they do you like this

    • @Mr.WestcottX
      @Mr.WestcottX Місяць тому

      For real. 😮 No empathy or remorse.

  • @NatureFreak1127
    @NatureFreak1127 5 місяців тому +3392

    What scares me is, that reporting on it will certainly inspire like-minded psychos.

    • @richrich2862
      @richrich2862 5 місяців тому +140

      I was literally thinking the same thing

    • @user-ht4ci6id4c
      @user-ht4ci6id4c 5 місяців тому +16

      😞😞

    • @nataliannawalingford8382
      @nataliannawalingford8382 5 місяців тому +190

      i think though it could be true this its mostly the opposite. just like talking to someone about suicide won't increase they chance they do it. Evil people will do evil things without seeing it in the media. The reporting is shinning light on these tragedy's and helps victim's understand what happed and makes reporting similar crimes easier yk. it sucks either way

    • @s__9939
      @s__9939 5 місяців тому +67

      @@nataliannawalingford8382 well obvi, but a lot of evil people aren't as creative and there's actually a lot of instances of people being inspired by others horrific acts and doing it themselves

    • @ayindiagarcia2430
      @ayindiagarcia2430 5 місяців тому +21

      Yea, I was worried that it's going to expose alot of sick people to these websites and forums.

  • @selenedust7645
    @selenedust7645 5 місяців тому +1626

    This is the most evil and disgusting story I’ve heard in a long time. I’m glad you are bringing awareness to this horror. May the victims heal.

    • @iahelcathartesaura3887
      @iahelcathartesaura3887 4 місяці тому +13

      The story from France is worse, if you can believe it. Similar but a lot worse.

    • @midgetporn9735
      @midgetporn9735 3 місяці тому

      @@iahelcathartesaura3887 any links?

  • @Isa-Everly
    @Isa-Everly 2 місяці тому +14

    I am so appalled by a lot of men in this comment section. It sickens me that they can listen to a case like this and STILL have no empathy towards women. It’s sad, really. I’m baffled!

    • @NiobeNeo
      @NiobeNeo 2 місяці тому +2

      Well now you know.
      They donot care.
      So next time a man is talking to you, just know what might be on his mind. And you as woman should be very very vigilent around them.

    • @Cherry7092
      @Cherry7092 Місяць тому

      gender wars ☕️

  • @jasonang321
    @jasonang321 2 місяці тому +32

    Saw this story going through the list and as a Singaporean, I was utterly shocked that such an incident happened on our homeland. When I hear about the caning sentence, I perfectly agree that such a punishment is just, as the mental trauma on the perpetrators acts as a deterrence in doing criminal activities here. As we always learnt, prevention is better than cure, better to have these people punished and deter others from doing so, then lighten the sentence and allow the citizens to run loose, thinking that they can get away with whatever they did.

  • @levithebaddest2369
    @levithebaddest2369 4 місяці тому +511

    I can't imagine discovering that my partner did that to me for 8 years. Holy crap. Imagine how violated the women felt. Disgusting. I hate people

    • @rebeccaharris4444
      @rebeccaharris4444 2 місяці тому +5

      Me 2

    • @TheZephyrsWind
      @TheZephyrsWind Місяць тому

      Same. If I were her I would never trust a man ever again, & that's coming from a man. Ugh, I don't understand how these absolute monsters in human form can live with themselves... I feel terrible for telling a tiny lie, so if I did this or shoot, even entertained the thought for a moment... Yeah, I wouldn't be able to forgive myself.

    • @Gingerserenity
      @Gingerserenity Місяць тому +5

      I have no faith in humanity anymore 😢

  • @mithinie
    @mithinie 4 місяці тому +367

    I'm French and unfortunately we don't cane people here : 3 years ago a man was caught doing the same thing to his wife. She was R**ed by more than 80 men (only 53 were identified). He'd been drugging her for 10 YEARS !!! and on top of all of that she started showing neurological side effects from what he gave her. They found more than 20,000 pictures and videos some of which were of their (adult) daughter but unfortunately for the daughter there was not enough evidence to tell if she was r**ped too. Him and his "friends" will be judged this year

  • @HaxStudio
    @HaxStudio 3 місяці тому +14

    I just don’t understand how you can stay married to someone, knowing you’ve got daughters in the house too. Like I completely understand there are things surrounding this I could never hope to understand, but I genuinely could never live with myself if I couldn’t even say with confidence that this man wasn’t going to start putting my daughter in that kind of danger. How horrifying these wives situations must be. The rest of their lives, not knowing is really a lot to sign up for. They’re so strong.

  • @rubyahlo-ruiz2758
    @rubyahlo-ruiz2758 2 місяці тому +6

    This is phenomenal. Tracy you do great work, enjoy listening to all your information and evidence.

  • @viastephtop
    @viastephtop 5 місяців тому +3760

    like, listen, infidelity sucks. Dump them. Don't assault them. That's beyond insane. Can't even trust your own spouse anymore. Like infidelity is certainly a betrayal but I think repeatedly violating your partners body, their safety, in such a way is exponentially worse.

    • @sophietessier8998
      @sophietessier8998 5 місяців тому +260

      But why would they, they have a cook, a maid, a nanny, a sex worker , a social statue, a public image set since they area married. They want all the advantage without the sacrifice.🤮

    • @Tree-House69
      @Tree-House69 5 місяців тому +109

      Exactly, they could just LEAVE, hell they could even burn all their bridges, but instead they do this?? What on earth.

    • @Tree-House69
      @Tree-House69 5 місяців тому +143

      Well, to elaborate though, they did this not solely because they were hurt, but because it got them off and to them, felt like a sick way of re-arraining power, they are predators through and through, they shouldn't even have partners as they'd just continue to harm people unless they got true help

    • @caitlinhammons2437
      @caitlinhammons2437 5 місяців тому +219

      he cheated first though, he decided to assault her after she did the same.

    • @viastephtop
      @viastephtop 5 місяців тому +61

      @@sophietessier8998 Yeah honestly, so many of these people out here just do not see their partners as people. They make that clear.

  • @Evarys
    @Evarys 4 місяці тому +502

    Latest update from local news - James failed to get a lighter sentence in his appeal.

    • @Einvvv
      @Einvvv 4 місяці тому +22

      Read the news article… i cannot with his letter of plea 🙃

    • @Akane1313
      @Akane1313 3 місяці тому +6

      Yess!!🎉

    • @Amethyst.i
      @Amethyst.i 2 місяці тому +1

      YES

    • @sabrinafernandez6197
      @sabrinafernandez6197 2 місяці тому

      @@Einvvvwhat did James blame now..? 😅

    • @Einvvv
      @Einvvv 2 місяці тому

      @@sabrinafernandez6197 He wrote an appeal letter to say that he’s writing this appeal for his wife, growing children and aging parents and he used a lot of adjectives to express his sorrow.. the following part are from the article that made me 🙄
      “The sentence which has been imposed on me had already choked the life out of me,” he added.
      “I have told both my counsellor in prison and psychologist - my soul has died. What is left is just an empty soul. I’m trying my best to compose myself not to break down in court today.”
      He later added that he used to take home a salary of S$60,000 (US$44,600) on average every year.
      “Twenty years of income lost will be calculated as S$1.2 million as financial support to give family minimally,” he said.
      "What kind of son, husband and father leaves his loved ones to fend for themselves for this amount of years?”

  • @thespottedleaf584
    @thespottedleaf584 3 місяці тому +7

    Whoa! Just found your channel with this episode and my mind is blown! I listen to a LOT of TC and never heard of this case! You did a great job covering it. I really appreciate the way you went with creating names for everyone involved making it so much easier to follow. Super excited I've found your channel!

  • @alexanderditty3459
    @alexanderditty3459 Місяць тому +6

    I talk about you all the time... Today I mentioned you and my customer was telling me how much she loves you! We totally bonded over it thank you!

  • @hiraeth30
    @hiraeth30 5 місяців тому +2968

    As a Singaporean, there was a time when they would invite people to my school for a talk about certain crimes and the consequences. So I remember seeing pictures of prisoners' buttocks after they got caned and how it was done (educational purposes). It was gruesome but naturally like most Singaporeans I became someone that favors harsh punishments to deter certain crimes. I understand the arguments against it but to me if you don't want to be in that position, don't do the crime in the first place. If you still choose to do it even after knowing, that's between you and the Singapore law already.

    • @ThisBraveHeart
      @ThisBraveHeart 5 місяців тому +187

      That’s exactly my view.

    • @hazecliff7173
      @hazecliff7173 5 місяців тому +182

      Here in my country, were debating on bringing back death penalty. IDK why weten studies act like harsher punishment don't deter or lessen crimes. They do.

    • @sundaewacherryontop318
      @sundaewacherryontop318 5 місяців тому +21

      exactly

    • @CollagenExpert
      @CollagenExpert 5 місяців тому

      The West and it’s socioeconomics are way different than the majority of the word. The death penalty did not deter crime at all. It just became a game of not getting caught.

    • @heartIucy
      @heartIucy 5 місяців тому +34

      completely agree with you

  • @xxo8888
    @xxo8888 5 місяців тому +1918

    What a horrifically terrifying case. It's like a legal open dark web for creeps.. and the creep is your husband?! 😱

    • @Mr.WestcottX
      @Mr.WestcottX 5 місяців тому +19

      For real 😮

    • @Alejandra-cv7rj
      @Alejandra-cv7rj 5 місяців тому

      This is something from the dark web. If one wants to have a orgy there's no need for drugs to many people want to be part of one

    • @loretopg
      @loretopg 5 місяців тому +21

      I agree completely, absolutely terrifying.

    • @skittles1975
      @skittles1975 5 місяців тому +44

      i didnt know men can be this cruel, i know generalizing a whole gender is not very fair but if we had a penny everytime this happened, in this case we'd have 7 pennies, which is 7 pennies too much for SA

    • @eponack
      @eponack 5 місяців тому

      @@skittles19757 perpetrators, it was multiple times for each victim.

  • @danimohl819
    @danimohl819 Місяць тому +6

    His wife had an affair ??? He’s been cheating on her ! He didn’t like the fact that she did the same to him he should be charged for severa counts of rape , and trafficking ! Chauvinist !

  • @The_sparkly_silly
    @The_sparkly_silly 2 місяці тому +7

    Every time i hear one of these cases i feel like, okay yeah makes sense he would be angry if his wife is probably cheating on him- AND THEN ITS THE MOST CRAZIEST DISGUSTING THING IVE EVER HEARD LIKE. WHAT.

    • @moonflowerspeaks
      @moonflowerspeaks 18 днів тому +1

      Facts and it’s the fact he set up the affair for me. Technically she wasn’t cheating willingly at that point.

  • @hordakprime6172
    @hordakprime6172 5 місяців тому +1453

    Human beings are truly disgusting. How can you marry someone claim to love them and do this to them?

    • @Tree-House69
      @Tree-House69 5 місяців тому +10

      Very off topic but love the icon and username

    • @oppooopoookjgffghjookjjj4531
      @oppooopoookjgffghjookjjj4531 5 місяців тому +2

      It's men, not human beings. Women don't do shit like this

    • @DM-nw5lu
      @DM-nw5lu 5 місяців тому

      Those men never loved their wives. They probably just got married to have access to s*x anytime and to have a live in maid. Also pressure from parents could be a factor. Not love.

    • @michaelsomething7674
      @michaelsomething7674 5 місяців тому +34

      All of them are sociopath

    • @spy6205
      @spy6205 5 місяців тому +87

      The older I get, the more I realize lots of people get into relationships based on what the other person can do for them (most often sexually or domestically), not any feelings of genuine love or desiring companionship. It doesn’t matter to them if they even like their partner as a person, so long as that person “holds up their end of the bargain” (aka: provides them access to the things they desire).
      Honestly, sometimes it seems there’s more people who view relationships through this lens than don’t. Ive seen inklings of this mindset in people who I know actually do love their partners even. It’s very prevalent and easily hides in plain sight. I’ve seen this way more commonly with men, but I have noticed some women who do this as well.

  • @user-theims
    @user-theims 5 місяців тому +986

    I can't imagine how the woman felt after learning this has been happening against her for 8 years

    • @aaz1992
      @aaz1992 4 місяці тому +18

      8 goddamn years 😢

  • @megawatercup
    @megawatercup 2 місяці тому +6

    i love the sensitivity you show to each and every detail in these stories

  • @reneelarson5781
    @reneelarson5781 Місяць тому

    I love you so much for putting aside you're own personal opinions and for doing such an AMAZING job at telling these stories!!! You are my new favorite and I tell everyone about you. As a survivor of abuse I can tell you there is such much behind it that people don't understand. You do a very good job at telling this story and making it easy to hear without traumatizing me for hearing it. I wish we had the same punishment as Singapore!!!

  • @faevalentine9187
    @faevalentine9187 5 місяців тому +1867

    I’m actually impressed with Singapore punishment laws when it comes to criminals. There’s a reason why they’re crime rate is lower than most countries. In the US they might get a couple years or a few years of probation. We need to stop being so empathetic towards criminals that feel no guilt for their victims.

    • @m0nz13
      @m0nz13 5 місяців тому +214

      They’re actually really lenient on sexual offenders though, there has been a rise of such cases the past few years (including incest/PDFelia etc). The laws should be even stricter but money talks 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @ksng767
      @ksng767 5 місяців тому +139

      @@m0nz13 Singapore has some of the harshest laws on the planet, if 20 years is lenient places countries like Korea and America must be just a vacation for criminals then

    • @JohnnyLynnLee
      @JohnnyLynnLee 5 місяців тому +70

      To those praising the stick punishment in Singapore that's why Singapore in many rankings is classified as a "flawed democracy" and Singapore is just not in the news everyday because of alleged lack of democracy and human rights violations because they are an ally to the USA. If a thing like that happens in China, or were to happen in a communist country, like, say, Vietnam, or in a otherwise non aligned with the USA country there would be a constant outcry in the Western media. But Japan, South Korea and the other Asian Tigers were supported by the West to contain the spread of communism from China and then Indochina. They were created to be Western outposts in the Pacific during the Cold War, in the post-War era. So they were given (and still are given, but less) a lot of leeway in terms of what they can do, discretely, without calling much attention to themselves, in terms of human rights. Therefore, you'll hardly hear about the brutal dictatorship of Park in South Korea, or Lee Kwan Yew and the PAP hard grip in Singapore, but you WILL heard about anything the CCP does.
      And it's not true their crime rates are lower because of that. The Us is BY FAR the most violent country among the developed country and with far harsher punishments. Germany is one of the less violent countries on planet and in other case here you were complaining their prisons "look like hotel rooms.". and in fact Germany REDUCED it's crime rate after shortening their sentences and replacing prison time for minor offences for social work,

    • @JohnnyLynnLee
      @JohnnyLynnLee 5 місяців тому

      @@ksng767 Singapore is a failed democracy and a viloator of human rights and just get away with it for being an Us outpost in the Pacific, so the Western media will turn a blind eyes. But were they a communist country there would be a constant outcry in the Western media.

    • @qtmyung
      @qtmyung 5 місяців тому +143

      @@JohnnyLynnLee if you're going to attempt to position yourself as a Singapore expert, the least you can do is spell Lee Kuan Yew's name correctly.
      Singapore is absolutely a flawed democracy, there's no arguing that. We've had the same political party in power for all 58 years of our independence, and the insidious methods they used to take down political opponents in the 70s and 80s is well-documented.
      But what I'm failing to understand is why you're bringing up the lack of human rights when talking about its criminal justice system. What exactly are you trying to argue here - that Singapore's harsh punishment for violent crime (of which majority of Singaporeans believe is an effective deterrent) should not be acknowledged because of a flaw in another aspect of its governance?

  • @Kailiria
    @Kailiria 5 місяців тому +1484

    I heard about this!! It's so disgusting!! How could you do something like that to someone who loves you and who you claim to love? What an awful betrayal. I hope the women involved are doing okay now. 😞

    • @christypham3386
      @christypham3386 5 місяців тому +64

      Ikr! I think if they are able to do it to their wives, I don’t think they love them.

    • @Tigerous
      @Tigerous 5 місяців тому

      They married each other for money.

    • @violetluverie
      @violetluverie 5 місяців тому +72

      Because men

    • @the_honored_one_06
      @the_honored_one_06 5 місяців тому +1

      I cant trust men mostly for this. This amount of women would never think of doing something so disgusting but ive seen a whole thread on Reddit that condoned this and even encouraged it.

    • @CharBar07
      @CharBar07 5 місяців тому +53

      I don’t mind people having their fetish. But damn man, this is no fetish. Just wrong.

  • @nothinwatever
    @nothinwatever 2 місяці тому +3

    I’ve really been enjoying your channel lately… some of my like classic favourite true crime people have just been regurgitating really old stories that I’ve already been discussed multiple times before… I’m actually finding new content on your channel. Thank you for bringing that to me. ❤

  • @Nick991.2
    @Nick991.2 3 місяці тому +3

    Great investigative content - you do your homework and it shows. This story just makes me feel so mad and sad that this kinda of shit happens.

  • @chelsealee144
    @chelsealee144 5 місяців тому +1185

    Singaporean here, chewing gum is banned because there were 2 incidents in the 90s where someone stuck gum between a train’s doors. passengers had to disembark causing disruptions to many people’s commutes. We can’t purchase gum here but getting fined or arrested for just chewing of having gum on you is a misconception

    • @jeriwonhoho
      @jeriwonhoho 5 місяців тому +108

      yea, singaporean here too, i had that misconception for a while too but apparently you just cant sell/distribute chewing gum lol but u can chew it for your own personal usage

    • @kaedeAoi27
      @kaedeAoi27 5 місяців тому

      Westerners love to demonise Asian countries so I'm not surprised they made it up lol

    • @hironyx
      @hironyx 5 місяців тому +62

      yeah, even if u bring in a box of gum into singapore, most of the time it get confiscated at the customs and you face no consequences, UNLESS that one custom officer has a very bad day...

    • @Syn741
      @Syn741 5 місяців тому +56

      @@hironyx not sure how big your box is, but the general rule is that you can bring an amount of gum that is for personal consumption. if you bring in a huge box, they will assume you are trying to sell them which they will 100% confiscate.

    • @strawberryandcakes
      @strawberryandcakes 5 місяців тому +18

      @@ville__huh….

  • @Phoenix-mh5eo
    @Phoenix-mh5eo 4 місяці тому +339

    I am SO proud of the Singaporean government for those sentences. I was fully expecting this case to end as many others do, with minimal punishment and jail sentence for the monsters. These sentences are SO much higher than I expected or even hoped for. Like logically, they should probably be in prison for LIFE (if they can do this to their wives who they claim to love, what can they do to others they don't care about?), but that was unlikely. 29 years is a LONG time.

    • @petervansan1054
      @petervansan1054 3 місяці тому +1

      you are absolute monster. This kind of a punishment should be banned

    • @vanpirebaby
      @vanpirebaby 3 місяці тому +1

      i 100% agree

    • @MegaBlair007
      @MegaBlair007 2 місяці тому +72

      @@petervansan1054explain why is it worse than what they did to the victims without making yourself sound like a monster

    • @pie1o1morris46
      @pie1o1morris46 2 місяці тому +3

      ​@@petervansan1054 If you mean the caning thing, I agree. I get /maaybe/ using it for those who do extreme violent crime like s** crimes and torture (and only 100% proven ones, imagine going through that after being falsely accused), but other than that I completely disagree with it being used as punishment. It's basically s**ual assault in and of its self.

    • @AdrianCHOY
      @AdrianCHOY 2 місяці тому +1

      I think it’s excessive.

  • @amalgamangel
    @amalgamangel 2 місяці тому +14

    If you can't even trust your husband ... who can you trust? 😢

    • @liberatumplox625
      @liberatumplox625 Місяць тому +2

      Marrying a person doesn't make them trustworthy, it makes them your spouse.

  • @TM-cv1gm
    @TM-cv1gm 3 місяці тому +5

    I’ve got to say….you’re storytelling is SO good…….I’m so happy I found your channel

  • @ggfor3278
    @ggfor3278 4 місяці тому +363

    The level of Hate these men had for their wives is unbelievable. My heart goes out to these women.

  • @lilscenechick1995
    @lilscenechick1995 4 місяці тому +1672

    Yet they still ask why women prefer to be single these days…

    • @user-wl8rr7wb4y
      @user-wl8rr7wb4y 3 місяці тому +122

      I'm glad I'm considered ugly, not anyone's type, etc, therefore I am single for that reason 😊. I have been post menopausal for over four years 😊. I hope men continue to consider me ugly so they would leave me alone 😊.

    • @sneakyviewing4391
      @sneakyviewing4391 3 місяці тому

      @@user-wl8rr7wb4y Sounds like my girlfriend's worst nightmare coming true

    • @marcmuwanga68
      @marcmuwanga68 3 місяці тому

      Naah. Men prefer being single more often than women. Women just fail to find a man they want by the time they are done with their whore phase because more men now know those women carry baggage at that point and are just settling. So they don't go for such women. Women cope by claiming to love their independence and freedom.
      Get the difference.

    • @whittakerwinstanleyiii4051
      @whittakerwinstanleyiii4051 3 місяці тому +37

      Men increasingly prefer to be single too. Society is doomed basically 😂

    • @UneFemmeSansNom
      @UneFemmeSansNom 3 місяці тому

      @@whittakerwinstanleyiii4051 Men as a collective do not and have never preferred to be single. But you already knew that, you just wanted to insert your little bullshit about men "too". Even the term incel is a portmanteau of _involuntarily_ celibate. And those who absolutely detest women - red pillers, MGTOW - still have their entire credo and reason for being revolving around women - how to trick women into sex. Women who prefer to be single will live their happy lives as normal, focusing on family, friends, work & hobbies, with zero male companionship - and maybe a little vibrator help along the way. Men act as though they will spontaneously combust without sex, so even those rare few who legitimately "prefer" to be single will incessantly seek out female companionship.
      Every male I’ve known who prefers to be "single" and "focus on themselves" - stays _planted_ on dating apps, going to the club, and approaching women with the goal of sex. Women who prefer to be single want absofuckinglutely nothing to do with men.

  • @calmingbabysleep1256
    @calmingbabysleep1256 2 місяці тому +28

    Genuine question: how do you know who to trust?
    You can't trust anyone these days.

    • @heyma004
      @heyma004 Місяць тому +8

      Ikr, even a long, reliable relationship of 10 years could turn into something horrible.

    • @lynnvon8758
      @lynnvon8758 18 днів тому +1

      You can never truly know anyone look at serial killers they were married had kids they're families didn't know they were are monsters.

  • @agentcannabis
    @agentcannabis Місяць тому

    I found your channel not too long ago, absolutely love the way you make your content, so interesting and awesome. This story was heartbreaking.

  • @chair508
    @chair508 5 місяців тому +2190

    snapping and cheering when she described the caning process 👏🙌 I wish we could have this in America for when there is undeniable evidence of guilt for torture (including sexual assault) (YES! Sexual assault is TORTURE! And perpetrators should NEVER get parole)

    • @Helica123
      @Helica123 5 місяців тому +284

      Yeah I was definitely on the pro side when she was aaying some were against it.
      Cruel and unusual? You mean like their crimes? Scarred forever? You mean like their victims?

    • @stefanleithner6922
      @stefanleithner6922 5 місяців тому +41

      you want to undo 500 years of cultural advancment? it‘s common knowledge, that harder punishment isn‘t the main reason for less crime. crime in northern europe and here in switzerland is very low, even though we have very soft punishments.
      the rougher a society is, the rougher their crimes. if you want less crime, you need to create a happier society.
      that‘s all.

    • @Mjp11111
      @Mjp11111 5 місяців тому

      I disagree. Singapore is devoid of violent or petty crime. You also can't buy your way out of a caning like the rich can do in the West. I think it works well.@@stefanleithner6922

    • @harleyhendrix8467
      @harleyhendrix8467 5 місяців тому +45

      ​​@@stefanleithner6922are you serious? I can pull up a 1000 videos of crime from Switzerland has the low if not the lowest crime rate but that isnt zero.....
      It means that bc of your soft punishment you have higher crime in certain areas but bc of your reputation your not always as honest as you should be...
      Do you have low crime...well no shit of course....
      Is it the lowest ....yes maybe .
      But if you have 1 million crimes in 1 country.... having only 500 in yours doesnt mean zero does it. No it means you dont count or factor in probably another 500 or the ones we dont know about...
      Also keep in mind that most people live so far away and its so cold that if anyone plans a crime they get to cold and tired and just give up and will either wait till a better opportunity presents itself or their life gets better and they no longer need to comment the crimes.
      And im not sure but i believe iceland has the lowest crime rates and crime is almost non existence... but just like they said ALMOST non existence does mean 100% non existence.
      And think about it .... if you " The law abiding citizen" knows about this soft punishment then the criminals to..

    • @stefanleithner6922
      @stefanleithner6922 5 місяців тому

      I never said there is no crime here, what are you on? I said there's low crime rates and that countries that have more poverty (= rougher societys) have more crime. Because of course the 2 main reasons for crime are low education, poverty and lack of social safety net.@@harleyhendrix8467

  • @aishaontop
    @aishaontop 5 місяців тому +425

    I got disgusted immediately when i read the title gosh imagine getting married to your partner and him doing that to you thats fucked up so fucking disgusting

    • @Mr.WestcottX
      @Mr.WestcottX 5 місяців тому

      For real. So awful and absolutely disgusting

    • @allie_xoxo7910
      @allie_xoxo7910 5 місяців тому +8

      It's absolutely disgusting but unfortunately a lot of abuse doesn't start until engagement or marriage. A lot of people will start the abuse then because it's harder to get out of. It's a side of "ownership" that goes with the abuse. It's absolutely disgusting.

    • @Mr.WestcottX
      @Mr.WestcottX 5 місяців тому

      @@allie_xoxo7910 I bet. Anywhere in this world.

  • @Indpendent01
    @Indpendent01 3 місяці тому +1

    Wow, amazing storytelling and supporting details like the experience of caning and the back stories!

  • @Stacydsullivan
    @Stacydsullivan 2 місяці тому +2

    You do a very good job putting yourself in these people’s shoes. Also amazing work.

  • @lenasamzelius5530
    @lenasamzelius5530 4 місяці тому +593

    This story is so horrible. Poor, poor women.
    How does a body react to repeatedly being drugged over a period of 8 years, medically wise? We all know that it is devastating on the psyche, but what about the rest of the body? How does a brain react to that? The heart?
    What cowardly monsters. I hope each and every one of those poor wives and ex-wife heals and will find wonderful life partners instead of those sacks of pure sh*t and evil.

    • @Clarachk
      @Clarachk 3 місяці тому +45

      So true! A lot of people don’t realize that the human body holds onto these traumas for much longer than we might guess. Sometimes forever. Even if the brain has had years decades of psycho-therapy to help overcome the mental trauma.

    • @Clarachk
      @Clarachk 3 місяці тому +1

      So true! A lot of people don’t realize that the human body holds onto these traumas for much longer than we might guess. Sometimes forever. Even if the brain has had years decades of psycho-therapy to help overcome the mental trauma.

    • @Clarachk
      @Clarachk 3 місяці тому +1

      So true! A lot of people don’t realize that the human body holds onto these traumas for much longer than we might guess. Sometimes forever. Even if the brain has had years decades of psycho-therapy to help overcome the mental trauma.

    • @Clarachk
      @Clarachk 3 місяці тому

      So true! A lot of people don’t realize that the human body holds onto these traumas for much longer than we might guess. Sometimes forever. Even if the brain has had years decades of psycho-therapy to help overcome the mental trauma.

    • @holdmacat9932
      @holdmacat9932 3 місяці тому +5

      ​@@Clarachkhe is asking if the meda themselves fuck you up. Cause for example you can't have a lot of anesthesia, cause that is a health and life risk, so does the drugs also have bad affect after so many times?

  • @serchmaabaatarchuluun5761
    @serchmaabaatarchuluun5761 4 місяці тому +165

    Why bother having enemies when you have husbands like them.
    This is real life example that shows people mostly gets sexually assaulted by the people they know.

  • @FreeRthan
    @FreeRthan 25 днів тому

    And thank you Mr and Mrs mango butt. Just absolutely love your storytelling and work. And your obviously genuine respect to giving victims, their voice.

  • @masterfulmakers7647
    @masterfulmakers7647 2 місяці тому +6

    W.T.A.F!!! What happened to getting a divorce? I just can’t wrap my head around this. The brutality of this is so disturbing. WOW!

  • @aimorgana
    @aimorgana 5 місяців тому +733

    Demons in human form is my only explanation for their mentality. I legit cannot wrap my head around their despicable behaviour in any other way.

  • @PassTheMarmalade1957
    @PassTheMarmalade1957 5 місяців тому +500

    "Sammy Boy is not responsible for your hurt feelings."
    They're also apparently not responsible for reporting evidence of literal crimes.

    • @SRose-vp6ew
      @SRose-vp6ew 4 місяці тому

      Internet platforms are not responsible because it would be impossible. They are typically monitored in accurately and there will be no accurate way to actually find out who’s doing real crimes when people just randomly report each other and the AI just looks for trigger words and not actual ability to see crimes or not in most cases. However, what’s posted has been used against people in court and to find criminals. But the platform themselves are not held responsible and if anything they could be seen as guilty of liable, slander, election tampering, harassment, and a whole bunch of other things if they’re wrong and who they allow a physical human being to block, ban, and report. These legality and liability conversations are actually going on in the US government now. It seems there are laws that protect companies from what people say on the platform, but not protect the company from the censorship they do that could lead to allowed criminal activity. So far all that’s being done is talking about it.

    • @tarotcardsandwich
      @tarotcardsandwich 4 місяці тому +9

      There it is

    • @sneakyviewing4391
      @sneakyviewing4391 3 місяці тому +2

      welcome to the internet

    • @nick3508
      @nick3508 3 місяці тому

      Anytime anyone says that its a gigantic red flag.
      Just a disgusting site run by disgusting trash and used by trash. They really dont even deserve the title of "people"

  • @thevoidlands
    @thevoidlands 2 місяці тому +4

    I have to give you guys credit that you do not demonize people who are a part of the BDSM community or even the wife swapping community and you define the difference thank you for putting this information out responsibly

  • @leoneabbacchio5463
    @leoneabbacchio5463 17 днів тому +3

    GUYS KNOW THIS!! SINGAPORE HAS THE "the lowest crime rate" because most likely crimes would end up not getting filed to begin with

  • @iboreasie
    @iboreasie 5 місяців тому +163

    These men really hate women. The fact that one of them had four daughters is alarming.

    • @cupcake-cx5ov
      @cupcake-cx5ov 5 місяців тому

      They are deranged!

    • @kazumakiryuu2668
      @kazumakiryuu2668 Місяць тому

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  • @Krisgrace5
    @Krisgrace5 5 місяців тому +860

    This case makes me sick. I’ve been S/a’d and R worded. The fact that the guys were like “oh they still think they’re loyal haha” is so angering. That part definitely struck a cord with me, my ex bf broke up with me after I was R worded because “it’s like cheating”

    • @AimeeKateKelly
      @AimeeKateKelly 5 місяців тому

      Some people are stupid , like unbelievably fucking stupid . It’s unfortunate we have to encounter and deal with people like that

    • @chinkeyeye7486
      @chinkeyeye7486 5 місяців тому +9

      What is R worded??😶🤨🤔🤔

    • @gossiplurker6681
      @gossiplurker6681 5 місяців тому

      ​@@chinkeyeye7486R@p3

    • @qseit5140
      @qseit5140 5 місяців тому

      ​@@chinkeyeye7486rape

    • @mikerosoft2179
      @mikerosoft2179 5 місяців тому

      @@chinkeyeye7486 aped with r in front

  • @juliemelton6830
    @juliemelton6830 2 місяці тому +7

    I love your style. You tell the story from a truly human voice. So easy to listen to, and impossible to turn off.

  • @danataylor9437
    @danataylor9437 2 місяці тому +13

    My X Husband did this to me for over 25 years with i don't know for sure other than 2 men. I have never been to get any help even after contact with the FBI.

    • @nekorei2023
      @nekorei2023 2 місяці тому +3

      Wow, are you ok now? Please tell me you got away :(

    • @danataylor9437
      @danataylor9437 2 місяці тому +8

      @nekorei2023 I did physically get away with the help of a doctor as I was very ill so he thought that I was dying. Though he kept me in financial and legal abuse for 10 years. Still coming out of the legal issues. Hell on earth even after you leave them.

    • @danataylor9437
      @danataylor9437 2 місяці тому

      @@nekorei2023 thanks for your concern.

  • @aimeekessell5022
    @aimeekessell5022 5 місяців тому +441

    In the case of James, imagine have such little respect for women and being the father of 4 of them. 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @timeless9820
      @timeless9820 5 місяців тому +1

      I m afraid for the daughters cuz his disgusting desire might make it curious to let men touch his daughters cuz he wants to see it as a movie and start to see the daughters as fictional characters

    • @juliemesser2053
      @juliemesser2053 5 місяців тому +29

      EVIL!🥺

    • @lizi1516
      @lizi1516 5 місяців тому

      ​@@user-od5fh3gn4dsadly i thought so too...

    • @timeless9820
      @timeless9820 5 місяців тому +28

      @@user-od5fh3gn4d unfortunately. I can't understand how it is possible for people to do such act.

    • @cheyennecrosby203
      @cheyennecrosby203 5 місяців тому +11

      @@ville__ odd that you outwardly dislike females and found your way to this video

  • @Castkett4ever
    @Castkett4ever 5 місяців тому +633

    I'm only halfway through the video but you know it's catastrophically bad and wholly deranged when you think "well, at least they didn't touch the kids; they just used their rooms, while they were asleep in them ..."

    • @ms0jakson
      @ms0jakson 5 місяців тому +22

      and then u watch further...

    • @tradwifelife9156
      @tradwifelife9156 5 місяців тому +88

      I thought for sure that the daughters were going to end up being abused. I’m not done watching. I pray they don’t. These poor women. What losers these men are.

    • @secretsofcloud9452
      @secretsofcloud9452 5 місяців тому +58

      @@tradwifelife9156 I was scared like if he gets bored with doing it with the wife is he gonna do it with the children?...

    • @sandpiperr
      @sandpiperr 5 місяців тому +31

      @@tradwifelife9156 Yeah I only just had that thought when she mentioned that this was in the house where their daughters were living.
      All along I was thinking it was amazing that she didn't mention SammiBoy attracting PDF Files since that's what always happens with unregulated forums that pride themselves on being unregulated and not "politically correct."
      However, when she mentioned the daughters, I had the terrible thought...are they going to start doing this to the daughters too as they get older, or even worse, not wait until they're older???

    • @Gamez_Studios_
      @Gamez_Studios_ 5 місяців тому +7

      OH GOD, IVE JUST GOTTEN TO THAT PART AND THATS WHAT WENT THROUGH MY HEAD-

  • @Currosive4Lyfe
    @Currosive4Lyfe 3 місяці тому +1

    The style and way you narrative feels like I'm at an effed up kiki 🤣 These are so good

  • @QuentimBurtino259
    @QuentimBurtino259 2 місяці тому +4

    Imagine marrying someone then finding out they're one of the 7 men that did this! Those poor women & his poor daughters, these men need lockin up for life!!

  • @Banana-lk7tf
    @Banana-lk7tf 4 місяці тому +924

    I had a boyfriend ask me if I'd ever thought of being with another man, while we were mid act. I've never been more turned off. Wouldn't let him touch me for a while after that. I'm sorry, but if a man wants to share me, something's VERY wrong.

    • @c.brooks3013
      @c.brooks3013 4 місяці тому +119

      You wouldn't let him touch you for a while? That implies you let him touch you again after a while? That would have been the end of that relationship for me because the suggestion is something he's thinking about and he's not going to stop thinking about that just because it made you upset. It means he's now going to sneak around behind your back and find someone else to do that with.

    • @Amynity
      @Amynity 4 місяці тому +91

      ​@@c.brooks3013some ppl do like to ponder a certain fantasy, but they won't actually execute it. i hope the guy won't go so far such as that.

    • @williamhensley8698
      @williamhensley8698 3 місяці тому +35

      Noted...never share a fantasy.

    • @lanadelrayslabia
      @lanadelrayslabia 3 місяці тому +1

      @@williamhensley8698ok William

    • @mariec2882
      @mariec2882 3 місяці тому

      ​@@williamhensley8698Note to myself as well, stay away from men period because they lie and omit who they really are, and they take notes on what women say in order to manipulate them in the future.

  • @abigaelwhite2383
    @abigaelwhite2383 4 місяці тому +290

    How awful... How would you even begin to explain to 4 daughters why mom and dad are getting divorced? Unfortunately I think the daughters were in for a similar fate if they didnt get exploited in some way already. Someone that depraved doesn't just stop because it's their daughter..... or their wife

    • @khelpie2242
      @khelpie2242 3 місяці тому

      the moment he suggested that one of the guys should sa his wife in the daughters room while they slept… i guarantee that would have just been the start if they had. next he would be installing cameras in their rooms… 😭 if youre willing to allow your kids to potentially wake up and witness their mom being (R)@ped, who knows what he would put them through next. im at least thankful that he didnt do it to them for those 8 years but who knows how long it would be until someone suggested it as “a joke” and then they all go “hmm…. 🤔”

    • @therealmouseymouse
      @therealmouseymouse 2 місяці тому +27

      Maybe I watch too much true crime but every time she mentioned the daughters my stomach dropped and I kept waiting for him to turn on them.

    • @siddified
      @siddified 2 місяці тому

      @@therealmouseymouse it was just a matter of time. These (sad disgusting excuses for) men had no conscience and no remorse for what they did and they would have victimized anyone for their own pleasure regardless the violation or the damage. Absolute psychopaths.

  • @archi8014
    @archi8014 12 днів тому +3

    so this James had no problem with another man sleeping with his wife. He had problem because it was CONSENSUAL??????? that is so f'd up

  • @Lilliz91
    @Lilliz91 Місяць тому +7

    Damn I didn’t know about a drug like that. Good to know as a girlie 😢
    Plus I’m all for signapore teaching a lesson to some spoiled westerners, which would get away with their schemes in their own countries. Maybe they’ll learn some respect.

  • @sagescorner256
    @sagescorner256 5 місяців тому +1263

    literally no matter what us women do we can never be safe

    • @briannaarrington3435
      @briannaarrington3435 5 місяців тому +27

      Speak for yourself.

    • @setuser777
      @setuser777 5 місяців тому +76

      we will never win

    • @Alexandra_Wolf
      @Alexandra_Wolf 5 місяців тому +164

      “It’s the most dangerous for us in the safest places”
      Our homes. Our cars. Our universities. For some their family.

    • @Alexandra_Wolf
      @Alexandra_Wolf 5 місяців тому +139

      @@setuser777we could end nuclear war, create food for all, global peace and these incels would be out here being sad sick little leaches. A peer reviewed study showed that Countries with female leaders like New Zealand have wildly more successful happiness levels and distributed wealth and health.

    • @Madinaash
      @Madinaash 5 місяців тому +21

      Honestly… it’s rough

  • @tenebritrix
    @tenebritrix 5 місяців тому +792

    PLEASE cover the stolen babies case where NUNS actually stole newborns from their families, told them they died and then SOLD THEM OFF TO RICH COUPLES

    • @tenebritrix
      @tenebritrix 5 місяців тому +35

      This case was in Europe btw

    • @juliemesser2053
      @juliemesser2053 5 місяців тому +57

      NOW THIS IS EVIL. Hope they get punished.

    • @Heather-ip8sd
      @Heather-ip8sd 5 місяців тому

      Ohh this happened in Spain right? The Catholic Church stole 300,000 babies and sold them to the highest bidder?

    • @didostempest2966
      @didostempest2966 5 місяців тому +12

      @@tenebritrixdo you mean the Ireland cases?

    • @tenebritrix
      @tenebritrix 5 місяців тому +38

      @@didostempest2966 it happened in Spain too… I'd imagine it also happened in other catholic countries as well

  • @jackierios2723
    @jackierios2723 Місяць тому

    Been watching your videos back to back… I love the way you explained this nasty act compared to consensus swapping, cuz I got confused really quick! And your past videos not a bad one! Got the flu again and y’all have been my entertainment! Thank you to you and off camera guy! I’ve lived to see the unknown comic and other “unknown” voices revieled … stay unknown, it adds to the mystery and keeps her doing what she does greatly , and running the show she is a good story teller! I’d love to be her co-worker I bet lunched / breaks her would be good she can really spill the tea in a captivating way … really love and appreciate you guys! ❤

  • @lauriebennett5136
    @lauriebennett5136 3 місяці тому +2

    You’re awesome!! Brand new to your channel. Great job 👏

  • @allasperans3984
    @allasperans3984 5 місяців тому +480

    Statistically, this is not shocking and actually more likely for your rapist to be someone you know and trust... And people who rape are just, you know, people (mostly men). What I mean is, the "they're monsters" narrative actually harms victims - bc you really think that "i know him, he is not a monster, so I must be wrong/just be dramatic/it doesn't count/this is just my fault" etc. I went through that and I hate the way I learned it.

    • @Mr.WestcottX
      @Mr.WestcottX 5 місяців тому +27

      I bet
      One's family member or close friends for long time or spouse/partner.

    • @alwayshaley325
      @alwayshaley325 5 місяців тому +5

      Exactly

    • @CLopez-pi9hk
      @CLopez-pi9hk 5 місяців тому +31

      You are so right! Many rapists can be really charming and in most of the cases they are someone the victim knows and trusts like a boyfriend/ a friend / a husband or someone from the family. The case of a stranger assaulting a woman is less common. Many of these predators marry as a status for the public eye and because they seek to control their wife.

    • @CLopez-pi9hk
      @CLopez-pi9hk 5 місяців тому +7

      @@ville__ are you okay?

    • @halloumi420
      @halloumi420 5 місяців тому +6

      ​@@CLopez-pi9hknah they're just an attention seeker

  • @mybindis3592
    @mybindis3592 4 місяці тому +120

    I watched something similar. It was a social experiment created via an app. Live players had avatars and the set up was a local lounge, bar type atmosphere. There were five men and one woman, all who participated online. The men immediately attacked the female avatar,one by one. "Are you fckn kidding me" she repeated through her mic as they continued to slap and punch her. The experiment brought to light the very nature of man when it comes to women. It was disgusting and extremely frightening. I implore all women to learn self defense in order to protect themselves against this vicious cycle.

    • @jenniferj5324
      @jenniferj5324 2 місяці тому

      Yeah okay ... you act like every single man is a violent psycho. That's absurd. Source for this ridiculous study, please.

    • @littleblackpistol
      @littleblackpistol Місяць тому +1

      The true test of character and morality is what you do when you have permission to dio it or think you will not suffer consquences. Sadly, many men WILL do horrific stuff if the environment allows it and their male peer group cheers them on.

  • @royalace2271
    @royalace2271 2 місяці тому +16

    This is something unfathomable. No matter how irritated and annoyed I may get with my wife, she is still one of the most precious person to me and I will always protect and love her for the rest of my life. Even in a scenario where I may despised and hate my wife, she is still the mother of my baby and I'd still love and cherish her as my baby's mother. These men are viled humans with such pathetic self respect for themselves. The fact that they could attempt this crap to the mother of their kids tells me their indifference towards their own children

  • @bigjoyouscelebration2908
    @bigjoyouscelebration2908 Місяць тому +11

    i will never marry