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  • @aic0809
    @aic0809 26 днів тому +322

    This man is pure wickedness.

  • @Jasmynshawntel
    @Jasmynshawntel 26 днів тому +287

    He's forever gaslighting her ugh

  • @janedeane3656
    @janedeane3656 26 днів тому +349

    Dude took an enormous red pill before he got to the show! Sandia can do 15x better.

    • @ddoubleu170
      @ddoubleu170 26 днів тому +6

      Seriously!

    • @janedeane3656
      @janedeane3656 26 днів тому +25

      @@ddoubleu170 hes literally projecting while reciting podcast lines about how women are 'too emotional and immature'

    • @afrocaribbelle
      @afrocaribbelle 26 днів тому +14

      ​@@janedeane3656 and has the audacity to tell her she does not have a mind of her own! Clearly he can't think for himself. He sounds brainwashed. How you learn to be a man from those podcasts baffles me. 🤯 Girl, there are great men out there with great mindset and spirit. Run for your life!

    • @bossK78
      @bossK78 26 днів тому +2

      Lol no she can't. And neither can you.

    • @bossK78
      @bossK78 26 днів тому

      Alot of us men have taken the red pill btw. Exposing yall BS.

  • @_heyitsfrenchy
    @_heyitsfrenchy 26 днів тому +219

    He is so disrespectful toward her

    • @juanyelwhite4027
      @juanyelwhite4027 18 днів тому

      He is only doing she she allows. This dude would kick rocks because I’m not allowing no peanut head man talk to me or treat me like I am a low class citizen. Ain’t no way in the world I’m dealing with that bull.

  • @andreaherron968
    @andreaherron968 26 днів тому +167

    When a person says that they don't like to be questioned it's usually because they lie alot

  • @ivyind
    @ivyind 26 днів тому +289

    Safaree is over critical of Sandia

    • @TSBOFRLM
      @TSBOFRLM 26 днів тому +25

      Exactly! Narcissism is a spirit and they all act the same!

    • @ruthquetant7375
      @ruthquetant7375 26 днів тому +35

      Looks like a mix between safaree and bevus and butthead!!

    • @knrb7137
      @knrb7137 26 днів тому +3

      I said the same thing! When I first saw him, I said that he looks like Safaree.

    • @midheaven_mimi
      @midheaven_mimi 26 днів тому +17

      Not Safaree! 😂😂

    • @Anewme92142
      @Anewme92142 26 днів тому +4

      😂😂

  • @YaaKesha
    @YaaKesha 26 днів тому +175

    Leave that man alone! Let him be a headache to someone else. Questioning is apart of communication but she wouldn’t have to ask questions, if he provided more clarity and less attitude. RUN!!!

    • @adriennenicoles598
      @adriennenicoles598 22 дні тому +3

      This is what manipulators do, so you will stop questioning them and just let the abuse happen. Anyone who tries to silence you and make you walk on eggshells in a relationship is definitely someone you should run as fast as you can from

  • @jazzyobiageli2053
    @jazzyobiageli2053 26 днів тому +125

    The way he talks to her is triggering and it’s painful to watch!!

  • @ceecee8924
    @ceecee8924 26 днів тому +95

    I love all the women in this comment section recognizing the red flags. We've come a long way. So proud of us 😊

  • @SierraGINSPIRE
    @SierraGINSPIRE 26 днів тому +168

    When a man laughs at you RED FLAG !

  • @KelliKarine
    @KelliKarine 26 днів тому +193

    I just want to give her a HUG. He can Gooooooo! She doesn't deserve this... Noone does.

    • @TheMwendaa
      @TheMwendaa 26 днів тому +10

      She is sooo sweet! She really doesn't

    • @chinenyeodozi7677
      @chinenyeodozi7677 26 днів тому +5

      Give her a hug for being stoooooopid? He has shown her he has no respect for her and she keeps pushing him. She knows he doesn't want her.

    • @nununicole9408
      @nununicole9408 26 днів тому

      What did Chris do wrong exactly besides ask her to speak for herself and stop letting other people dictate how and when she moves as a grown woman

    • @malakaimusa1476
      @malakaimusa1476 25 днів тому +7

      ​@@nununicole9408It's the way he says it. He is mean. She is trying to communicate how she feels and he doesn't give a damn. What partner tells their other partner you were doing this pointless crying. Naaaahhh fam

    • @lamino8-tg6ro
      @lamino8-tg6ro 20 днів тому

      Some black women are so desperate for a man. This guy is so rude😏

  • @mwakamatembo7606
    @mwakamatembo7606 26 днів тому +135

    This guy will mentally traumatize her

  • @SpiritualQueenVibes
    @SpiritualQueenVibes 26 днів тому +128

    He's not even all that he really should calm down he's feeling himself way to much

    • @thepearl7289
      @thepearl7289 26 днів тому +10

      and, he becomes less and less each time he opens his mouth

    • @TY00000
      @TY00000 17 днів тому

      WAAAAAY too much

  • @patienceisavirtue
    @patienceisavirtue 26 днів тому +127

    He doesn’t like to be questioned?!?!?!!! Chile!

    • @GotGood77
      @GotGood77 26 днів тому +11

      I dated someone like this who said he didn't like to be questioned. Even about the simplest things and it brought me down

  • @dearmingmogul2010
    @dearmingmogul2010 26 днів тому +129

    I don’t know what show this is, but he doesn’t like her at all. If they are in a relationship he has no respect for her. She needs to leave him alone quickly !!!!

    • @elizabethasikpo2847
      @elizabethasikpo2847 26 днів тому +11

      He doesn't like women period. He said it in so many words in the 1st episode.

    • @dearmingmogul2010
      @dearmingmogul2010 26 днів тому

      @@elizabethasikpo2847 that makes so much sense. This was hard to watch and it’s just the clip. What show is this?

    • @pcserialmom4560
      @pcserialmom4560 23 дні тому

      @@elizabethasikpo2847
      Right, when he said he doesn’t trust women.

    • @pcserialmom4560
      @pcserialmom4560 23 дні тому

      @@dearmingmogul2010
      It’s called “The Never Ever Mets” and it comes on Fridays at 8pm ET. These are people who had an online relationship and just finally met for the first time on this show.

  • @Purpose-es8ce
    @Purpose-es8ce 26 днів тому +58

    Nothing has to be this hard. Let him be.

  • @afrocaribbelle
    @afrocaribbelle 26 днів тому +36

    "i don't really like being questioned." Girl, run!

  • @GotGood77
    @GotGood77 26 днів тому +69

    Ooo omg I know someone exactly like this. Rude and narcissist. He is a professional gas lighter x10. He is so full of himself. Then saying she's talking to him crazy when she is trying to communicate. This was actually triggering to watch omg

  • @desrenerankine9983
    @desrenerankine9983 26 днів тому +51

    Girl leave that boy too many red flags.. ruuuuun

  • @avionelle
    @avionelle 26 днів тому +35

    If gaslighting was a person...🤦🏾‍♀

  • @SierraChantal
    @SierraChantal 26 днів тому +19

    If a man has such a negative view of you and you aren't even in a serious relationship yet, you should just cut your losses.

  • @Neisyjay
    @Neisyjay 26 днів тому +99

    This is hard to watch

  • @sweetrose_5
    @sweetrose_5 26 днів тому +19

    Someone doesn't have to TELL you they DON'T want YOU... when
    THEIR actions show it 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @nellyismotivated7839
    @nellyismotivated7839 26 днів тому +34

    Chris is a narcissist! She can do much better.

  • @stvvbee
    @stvvbee 26 днів тому +19

    Why is this young lady still tolerating this crazy man?

  • @CynNage
    @CynNage 26 днів тому +24

    I don't know why it takes us to realize that dudes not be into us, we just forcing things 😭
    Go home nana, you deserve so much better ❤

    • @AmberColeman-gq1wn
      @AmberColeman-gq1wn 26 днів тому +3

      The pillow talking and mind games. When they isolate you, telling you one thing- then switching up the very next second. It shocks the system, especially if you honestly have no bad intentions towards the guy to begin with.
      A lot of times you actually do leave these kind of guys alone- then they come back around on the sly- trying to connect or communicate with you. I bet he’s that type too. SMH

  • @mauryabrown6949
    @mauryabrown6949 26 днів тому +11

    Using the word immature while being immature 🤯😳
    His emotional intelligence is telling, not being able to provide reassurance n clarity n the talking stagiest of a relationship is crazy

    • @nunucantgetin
      @nunucantgetin 22 дні тому

      hes gaslighting the HELL out of her and its scary to watch! now she just sits there and takes it and NOW sides with him?? 😧 he has her brainwashed it’s SAD. i wish she would’ve brought up to the therapist him saying he sleeps with women then stops talking to them a few days later! he continues to paint this picture of her being “annoying” and overly emotional. 😵‍💫

  • @rayecaters2u
    @rayecaters2u 26 днів тому +20

    God will bless Sandia with A 👑.
    My Haitian sista deserves better! 🇭🇹

  • @SunshineKK99
    @SunshineKK99 26 днів тому +11

    This is what emotional abuse looks like! Right here!!!

  • @kegomoditswehendriks5028
    @kegomoditswehendriks5028 26 днів тому +9

    This girl showing us how some of us are in relationships that are not working out

    • @Magique88888
      @Magique88888 23 дні тому

      You’re right that’s why people want her or so bad

  • @ddavis8988
    @ddavis8988 26 днів тому +29

    I wonder if this show has a quitting clause.
    Penalty for not making it to the end of the show.

    • @ddavis8988
      @ddavis8988 26 днів тому +4

      @camary99
      Nobody is disputing that. But there have been plenty of reality show participants who stayed on and kept trying because of the check. Can't ignore that. Right or wrong.

    • @camary99
      @camary99 26 днів тому +2

      @@ddavis8988 I totally agree! 👁️👈🫶

  • @lucys6996
    @lucys6996 26 днів тому +18

    Beautiful one. Please remove yourself from this madness. You deserve 1000x better than this mule.

  • @BeautyGraphicDesigner
    @BeautyGraphicDesigner 26 днів тому +18

    It’s giving lemme get my clout from this show 🤔 Homegirl should’ve left THE MOMENT he expressed that she’s not his girl. Like duhhh that’s obvious but why are you going out of your way to share that esp when you’re here to see if there’s any romantic potential. 🥴

  • @mwakamatembo7606
    @mwakamatembo7606 26 днів тому +15

    We need the full episode 😢

    • @LOfficielM
      @LOfficielM 26 днів тому

      If you have HBO Max, the episodes are on there.

  • @elizabethwangui8028
    @elizabethwangui8028 26 днів тому +26

    This guy is Toxic

  • @nashudaaugustine4686
    @nashudaaugustine4686 25 днів тому +5

    He is manipulating her, making her feel like she is crazy. He is emotionally abusing her. Making her feelings invalid and then saying everything is good and perfect. She needs to know her worth.

  • @MzSweetzTalk
    @MzSweetzTalk 26 днів тому +12

    If I can’t ask questions, it time to go!

  • @caramel-cutie065
    @caramel-cutie065 25 днів тому +7

    He acts like he can’t STAND her! The disrespect of it all is so cringe worthy. And does he realize if she goes home, he’s going home too? Uuggh.🤦🏽‍♀️. And one more thing, these two remind me of Paige and Chris from Married At First Sight. Jesus take the wheel.

  • @sheenahill9819
    @sheenahill9819 26 днів тому +10

    She’s dealing with a narcissist

  • @ZanasWorld2.0
    @ZanasWorld2.0 26 днів тому +7

    Is she doesn’t walk away now, she’ll learn the hard way.

  • @twentyshadesofkay2882
    @twentyshadesofkay2882 16 днів тому +4

    This man showed her exactly who he was on day one when he was talking to the men. He's verbally abusive. She has low self esteem to allow him to keep disrespecting her.

  • @AshBoogie24
    @AshBoogie24 26 днів тому +10

    If she don’t leave that man !

  • @tonyathorpe2064
    @tonyathorpe2064 26 днів тому +10

    These two aren’t a match.

  • @ivannaturner8276
    @ivannaturner8276 26 днів тому +14

    SOME OF THESE FOLKS ARE JUST FAKIN TO TO STAY ON TV!!🙄🙄🙄

  • @stacyo.1080
    @stacyo.1080 25 днів тому +4

    Girl, he doesn’t like you so please move on. You deserve someone who is kind and loving to you. I hope you are no longer with this fool.

  • @MarianSylla
    @MarianSylla 26 днів тому +13

    This guy used this lady to get on the show. He’s not remotely interested in having a relationship with her whatsoever. He just wanted screen time.

  • @MissLaddyd1
    @MissLaddyd1 26 днів тому +5

    Chris is there for the tv appearance. There will be no relationship. This is the start of an abusive relationship if she thinks it's worth her effort

  • @meandmy2cents309
    @meandmy2cents309 25 днів тому +3

    He’s not even looking at her. The disrespect is beyond ridiculous. Why is she still talking to him?! My bags would have been packed.

  • @shaneilrushing6337
    @shaneilrushing6337 26 днів тому +10

    He is mean smh she did really good holding her composure

  • @juliajulia1835
    @juliajulia1835 22 дні тому +3

    He doesn't like her, she needs to realise this. He's always critical at the same time being mean about it.

  • @njokindungu6770
    @njokindungu6770 24 дні тому +3

    "I will show you then" Sadia when will you leave?? at this point I'm just blaming her

  • @no1strawberricherri
    @no1strawberricherri 25 днів тому +2

    I can’t wait to see this episode with their session with Dr. Ramani! It should reveal to Sandia everything she needs to know and how to stay away from Chris.

  • @cosmic_sunflower3864
    @cosmic_sunflower3864 11 днів тому +1

    When things get to this point, your absence and silence is all that man needs.

  • @priscillap7861
    @priscillap7861 26 днів тому +6

    He doesn’t like her

  • @wellok5778
    @wellok5778 26 днів тому +14

    Arrogant

  • @plovie9376
    @plovie9376 26 днів тому +8

    Honey you are worth more than this..he isn't what you want

  • @WALLACE0000
    @WALLACE0000 26 днів тому +12

    RRRRUUUUUUNNNNN YOUNG LADY

  • @PM-xd6nv
    @PM-xd6nv 25 днів тому +3

    Sandia needs to go watch Tony Gaskin’s “He Don’t Want You!!”.

  • @lyrene6029
    @lyrene6029 19 днів тому +2

    We accept the love we think we deserve. -unkown

  • @shawnburt2265
    @shawnburt2265 21 день тому +2

    Chris is disrespectful to her and treats and speaks to her like a child, girl run this man is no good for you

  • @Mary-os9eq
    @Mary-os9eq 24 дні тому +2

    Sandia, please give up. He is not worth it. The same way he got up and walked out on you , you need to reciprocate.❤

  • @katrinaraymond9726
    @katrinaraymond9726 23 дні тому +3

    I really cant see a match between these two, how did they get this far 😮

  • @MarjorieParaison
    @MarjorieParaison 26 днів тому +6

    Seafarer Chris is stressful and for the Miami screeeets

  • @relaxwithnature6532
    @relaxwithnature6532 22 дні тому +2

    He’s right because if he spoke to me like that it’s a wrap.

  • @alphineapondi2668
    @alphineapondi2668 26 днів тому +12

    That was cringe to watch 🤪

  • @hudihoodz
    @hudihoodz 26 днів тому +7

    If one quits, do they both go home?

  • @janedough6410
    @janedough6410 22 дні тому +2

    Sandia is fully aware of Chris mindset day one. IDK why she's hanging around for the abuse.

  • @asteriatuvatilamagnus3037
    @asteriatuvatilamagnus3037 14 днів тому +3

    she deserve better than that

  • @lakia1015
    @lakia1015 26 днів тому +5

    RUN GIRL RUN

  • @Sheiswavy2
    @Sheiswavy2 25 днів тому +2

    Oh honey he crazy and you can tell he was never allowed to express his emotions as a kid bc look how he is suppressing her emotions. She needs to leave asap

  • @stacylewis410
    @stacylewis410 26 днів тому +3

    He narcissistic. He don't like her instead just letting her go he breaking down her self esteem.

  • @EAO-ql8hk
    @EAO-ql8hk 20 днів тому +2

    He only said positive things about her and she only said negative things about him…Hmm, why might that be?🤔 I wonder

  • @malakaimusa1476
    @malakaimusa1476 25 днів тому +2

    Wow this guy is crazy. How do you speak to someone like this??? Don't even play me, if you want to leave you can leave. Naaah he doesn't like her at all. He is incredibly mean

  • @checurtis6758
    @checurtis6758 25 днів тому +2

    Be done ma’am!

  • @terriewithme144
    @terriewithme144 26 днів тому +2

    I can't wait for them to sit down with Dr Ramini!! A narcissist therapist.

  • @toribabe1000
    @toribabe1000 14 днів тому +1

    She was raised well

  • @43francis81
    @43francis81 25 днів тому +2

    Get UP and RUN GIRL!!!

  • @itsquitab
    @itsquitab 6 днів тому

    OWN Production Companies has a talent for finding the most disrespectful men. Bring back All the Single Ladies

  • @PhetogoNoore
    @PhetogoNoore 23 дні тому +1

    When someone shows you who they are believe them.

  • @twylamoses1471
    @twylamoses1471 15 днів тому +2

    He’s a narcissist he’s going emotionally damage this woman she need to go home

  • @billiangadi1186
    @billiangadi1186 20 днів тому

    Im in Kenya and could only watch the episodes on UA-cam. How can i access the rest? The website says its not available in my region 🤦‍♀️

  • @tahwillow667
    @tahwillow667 22 дні тому +3

    He’s doing too much 😭

  • @MarthaBurleson
    @MarthaBurleson 7 днів тому

    When a man dont like to be questioned. He has secrets and is not genuine

  • @marieeleonaregeffrard81
    @marieeleonaregeffrard81 25 днів тому +3

    Sandia you can do MUCH better than this.

  • @bippityboppityboo2u
    @bippityboppityboo2u 25 днів тому +1

    His behind needs to be humbled in the worst way. Sis run and never look back..hes rhe type to teybtonqin you back only to neglect you even more...very toxic

  • @asimenyemwakyanjala1363
    @asimenyemwakyanjala1363 25 днів тому +2

    Forcing things. please let him be

  • @jnieviepierre4916
    @jnieviepierre4916 16 днів тому +2

    Girl run

  • @lovenessfrank95
    @lovenessfrank95 26 днів тому +4

    this guy irritates me

  • @webdev9977
    @webdev9977 23 дні тому

    Who would’ve known Oprah loved drama so much

  • @neshamojanay9423
    @neshamojanay9423 22 дні тому +1

    I don't think Safaree particularly care for Sandia.

  • @chanelmitchell1632
    @chanelmitchell1632 22 дні тому +2

    He's Abusive.

  • @Zee-mu1zj
    @Zee-mu1zj 26 днів тому +1

    He doesn't give a sh** about her, man! ...So sad

  • @LoneliseNtshuntshe-jr5ow
    @LoneliseNtshuntshe-jr5ow 19 днів тому +1

    Sandia you worth more than you, this dude is a boy who disrespect you, that's it I would never fight for a relationship with someone like him never

  • @hanneliehector7365
    @hanneliehector7365 15 днів тому +1

    How do we climb through the screen and handle this for lil sis..cause sir sir….oooooo🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤔

  • @workingmomnc3013
    @workingmomnc3013 26 днів тому +1

    Hes werid and they talked online 😂😂😂😂

  • @twentyshadesofkay2882
    @twentyshadesofkay2882 26 днів тому +2

    He's verbally abusive

  • @heathab...._-_
    @heathab...._-_ 26 днів тому +3

    He gives me gemini and Aquarius vibes

    • @afrocaribbelle
      @afrocaribbelle 26 днів тому +3

      He gives me i grew up without any father figure/ male role model to teach me how to be a man, so i learned from those redpill podcasts.

    • @serveriamanning6313
      @serveriamanning6313 26 днів тому +1

      Oh please..he gives azzhole vibes..idgaf about his sign.

  • @NikkiRich174
    @NikkiRich174 25 днів тому

    Honestly If She Like It I LOVE It... 🌹Colored 👓 & Narcissism Does Not Mix!

  • @chanelmitchell1632
    @chanelmitchell1632 22 дні тому

    "I'll show you then" and he has