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  • Sandia and Chris meet with a relationship expert, who helps Chris realize he needs to be more empathetic to Sandia. Will this be the breakthrough the couple needs to move forward? Tune in to an all-new episode of The Never Ever Mets every Friday at 8/7c on OWN. For more on #theneverevermets visit: www.oprah.com/app/the-never-e...
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  • @Vsnsms
    @Vsnsms 25 днів тому +305

    Safaree does not appreciate Sandia he just loves attention

  • @traumaqueeen
    @traumaqueeen 25 днів тому +226

    I always thought she is way too good for him. She seems very humble and sweet.

    • @GhislaineMutombo
      @GhislaineMutombo 25 днів тому +8

      Look where humility can get you. Sometimes a balance is good and will save you embarrassment and heart aches. The girl needs an ego and a backbone.

    • @TSBOFRLM
      @TSBOFRLM 25 днів тому +3

      The narcissist will always meet the empath!!

    • @TSBOFRLM
      @TSBOFRLM 25 днів тому +1

      No narcissist you look for weak!

  • @raisingaking9303
    @raisingaking9303 25 днів тому +182

    Girl RUN! This is an act, he has way more work than one therapy session

    • @stinedange9152
      @stinedange9152 25 днів тому +9

      “I know I’m supposed to care and have empathy” is the language of a narcissist. This therapist is a leading relationship expert on narcissistic personality and narcissistic abuse… she’s all over UA-cam and you can tell she’s biting her tongue the whole time!

  • @TwotoneTony-xb4gd
    @TwotoneTony-xb4gd 25 днів тому +142

    As a man I can tell yall he is a master manipulator..

    • @rebeccamock6308
      @rebeccamock6308 23 дні тому +1

      Thanks

    • @TwotoneTony-xb4gd
      @TwotoneTony-xb4gd 23 дні тому +3

      @@rebeccamock6308 he making me mad because he think he colder than me 😂

    • @ryanamari2233
      @ryanamari2233 18 днів тому +2

      That’s how he gets the women he claims he gets

  • @SpiritualQueenVibes
    @SpiritualQueenVibes 25 днів тому +175

    This is the same guy who said she's not his girlfriend he's not in a serious relationship etc why are yall even discussing a child or children so soon he doesn't even think her feelings are valid

    • @Psychehealthymindhub
      @Psychehealthymindhub 25 днів тому +11

      That part... I'm shocked!

    • @SpiritualQueenVibes
      @SpiritualQueenVibes 25 днів тому

      @@Psychehealthymindhub Yes it's the aducity for me 🤨 His attitude makes him so unattractive !

    • @NyakzOTSD
      @NyakzOTSD 25 днів тому

      They aren’t together, so what is the issue?

    • @lucys6996
      @lucys6996 25 днів тому +12

      He's a narcissist. This is proof.

    • @Magique88888
      @Magique88888 25 днів тому +2

      He just wants her to be his baby mama.

  • @Adeolaclassicmakeover
    @Adeolaclassicmakeover 25 днів тому +106

    He’s just there for the show. He doesn’t like her 😢

    • @tomaradoss3420
      @tomaradoss3420 25 днів тому +5

      Yes Ray Charles can see it! She doesn’t even look happy.

  • @Jasmine-eo9fo
    @Jasmine-eo9fo 25 днів тому +137

    He has issues she needs to walk away

  • @beautifultiana6578
    @beautifultiana6578 25 днів тому +84

    What breakthrough did he have? Until I see action I think Chris can not get it.

  • @debbieamisi147
    @debbieamisi147 22 дні тому +9

    His put on an act..this girl deserves better she is the sweetest

  • @fraziersworld3701
    @fraziersworld3701 25 днів тому +35

    Sandia you are to beautiful, sweet, kind for the narcissistic. Once someone shows you who they are believe them

  • @tyisha2105
    @tyisha2105 25 днів тому +75

    Uh oh this is scary. I know I’m supposed to care about how she feels. Wow

    • @nnash3026
      @nnash3026 25 днів тому +16

      The main characteristic of a narcissist. He's with the right therapist on this one, she is THE expert on narcissism!

  • @doniellemadaris3159
    @doniellemadaris3159 25 днів тому +18

    The advice of the therapist is powerful.

  • @Magique88888
    @Magique88888 25 днів тому +43

    The problem is he believes what he is is masculine. And he believes he is a leader. His understanding of what those are in incorrect. Being loud and overtalking or throwing subliminal insults at a woman that is going to stay quiet is not a leader or masculine. He said he wants a kid with Sandia, not that she is his future wife or the one he wants to marry. He does not like this therapist holding him accountable.

    • @Michelle-qy5fj
      @Michelle-qy5fj 25 днів тому +1

      Preach you could not have said it better.

    • @CoffeeCrazy
      @CoffeeCrazy 21 день тому +2

      I wonder the dynamics of his parents? Is he emulating toxic masculinity from his father?

  • @ashunt29
    @ashunt29 25 днів тому +28

    He's like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde in front of the therapist.

  • @myfriendisaac
    @myfriendisaac 25 днів тому +27

    DR. RAMANI ON *OWN* NETWORK!?
    I absolutely love that woman 👏🏾💐💯

    • @dr.100purrscent5
      @dr.100purrscent5 25 днів тому +8

      They need her on ALL these so called dating shows, so she can shut this foolishness down!!! She can spot a Narcissist 100 miles away.

  • @energeticvibes8235
    @energeticvibes8235 25 днів тому +44

    He's a Gaslighter

  • @Talkativebuddy
    @Talkativebuddy 25 днів тому +43

    We need a full episode 😢

    • @LOfficielM
      @LOfficielM 25 днів тому +1

      Full episodes are on HBO Max, if you have it!

  • @soycomosoy1919
    @soycomosoy1919 25 днів тому +32

    Sandia please take your time go to counseling pray ask God to give you his Wisdom Guidance Strength Knowledge Grace to be Open about what she really wants in your relationship.🙏🏾❤️✋🏾

  • @denisejones9615
    @denisejones9615 25 днів тому +17

    She seems so scared to share her voice/opinion.

  • @BeautyGraphicDesigner
    @BeautyGraphicDesigner 25 днів тому +12

    When it come to years in a relationship: *Quality* > Quantity... that's all I'll say and leave it at that!

  • @diamonism111
    @diamonism111 25 днів тому +13

    Him and Jody got the same eyes 😂 I know why they get along so well lmao

    • @danyelgarcia3689
      @danyelgarcia3689 25 днів тому +1

      Huh? She's narcissist too?

    • @diamonism111
      @diamonism111 24 дні тому +3

      @@danyelgarcia3689 lmao idk but they're twins iykyk

    • @briana3792
      @briana3792 8 днів тому

      You look like the person you’re supposed to marry? lol

  • @KRey112
    @KRey112 25 днів тому +12

    He says he should be the man in the relationship but he has to learn the man’s role to provide, honor and protect. I don’t see that he honors or respect women. He plays games with women and that’s not honor or respect.

  • @TamarraPresley
    @TamarraPresley 25 днів тому +12

    She needs to run! He is controlling and operates out of toxic masculinity.

  • @OfficeChatter
    @OfficeChatter 24 дні тому +6

    All these comments are valid this man dont like her . She needs someone to adore her and enjoy her company

  • @lysec9672
    @lysec9672 23 дні тому +7

    I love that she's the specific specialist assigned to Chris 👀

    • @marshajulessa2995
      @marshajulessa2995 18 днів тому

      It was a diff one for the others?

    • @briana3792
      @briana3792 8 днів тому

      Why cuz she’s the most experience? I also feel like something about him would make smart remarks about her being a woman too smh

    • @lysec9672
      @lysec9672 8 днів тому +1

      @@briana3792 because she's a specialist on the topic of narcissism.

    • @SagittariusSweet704
      @SagittariusSweet704 8 днів тому

      😂😂😂😂 iykyk

  • @kayojj
    @kayojj 25 днів тому +6

    So ya not gonna post the new full episode??? Only clips?🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @ntombifuthigumede
    @ntombifuthigumede 24 дні тому +5

    Oh wow. So it IS a relationship. Chris, I thought you said you guys are not in a relationship🫣

  • @sherriroyes4392
    @sherriroyes4392 25 днів тому +6

    Ya'll putting out a thousand clips. Can we get the full episode?

    • @redbird14able
      @redbird14able 23 дні тому +1

      The full episode is Friday on OWN.

  • @lyrene6029
    @lyrene6029 20 днів тому +2

    Sandia, I hope you get out sooner rather than later. He is emotionally immature and stunted. Your feelings are ALWAYS valid and deserving of consideration. You deserve the same sweetheart that you display.

  • @kristinahoneycutt
    @kristinahoneycutt 25 днів тому +8

    How do you choose to try to make things work with a man who out of his mouth, in front of strangers, and in front of the world, says he does not care how you feel??

  • @JesuisFlay
    @JesuisFlay 25 днів тому +10

    She needs to leave. Therapy isnt going to be a fix for this. This is who he is

  • @StyledbyTaylorMorgan
    @StyledbyTaylorMorgan 25 днів тому +8

    Sandia please get out of this situation.

  • @susanagarcia9646
    @susanagarcia9646 25 днів тому +28

    So he says they are not a couple and belittles her in front of everybody and now want a kid?? Sorry, I need to laugh and it is not funny at all

    • @JoBunny87
      @JoBunny87 25 днів тому +7

      Most men are like this. All over the place. Want traditional benefits with no responsibility of a traditional relationship.

    • @susanagarcia9646
      @susanagarcia9646 23 дні тому +2

      @@JoBunny87It is annoying and frustrating that some women do not see it. I mean, this guy was very evident from the beginning. We need more women with self-love

  • @MrsDove-cn2hw
    @MrsDove-cn2hw 25 днів тому +23

    She let's me be masculine 😂

    • @aChum7145
      @aChum7145 25 днів тому +6

      🤦🏽‍♀️ smh

    • @plovie9376
      @plovie9376 25 днів тому

      That part..smh

    • @TwotoneTony-xb4gd
      @TwotoneTony-xb4gd 25 днів тому +1

      I’m a man and I will tell yall he took master manipulation 101

  • @zinziwilliams105
    @zinziwilliams105 24 дні тому +6

    Classic narcissist/empath relationship. Girl you better run before it’s too late.

  • @chels3120
    @chels3120 21 день тому +2

    Dr Jekyll & Mr Hyde at its finest lol

  • @sthembilethanjekwayo_za
    @sthembilethanjekwayo_za 25 днів тому +13

    I don't trust him!! 🤔

  • @Tazmaniacomedy
    @Tazmaniacomedy 25 днів тому +4

    Man look he liking on Jodi and Jodi liking on him point blank period 💯🤣😂 don’t be surprised they will end up together in the long run 😂😂

    • @danyelgarcia3689
      @danyelgarcia3689 25 днів тому +2

      I don't think he likes Jodi but all the attention that she is willing to give. I'm not really sure who is checking for Jodi but I am women so maybe men are but she is definitely not what America would call pretty. I do not think Chris is physically attracted to her to be with her openly/ have kids etc. If she were to slip up and get pregnant, I'm not sure they would have the same vibe and energy going. He may switch up on her real fast.

  • @D_A_Marv
    @D_A_Marv 25 днів тому +2

    🗣️CLAYYYYY runnnnnn Sandia
    Perfect therapist

  • @khierab2
    @khierab2 22 дні тому +5

    She is the perfect Haitian woman for him to bring home to his family, the type of woman his mom would approve of as a wife. But he doesn't deserve her at all

    • @RahYisrael99
      @RahYisrael99 20 днів тому

      He doesn't want her. She just checks all the boxes

  • @texasllcoriginal7351
    @texasllcoriginal7351 24 дні тому

    Real talk for everyone doing vs follow through....

  • @autyyx
    @autyyx 21 день тому +2

    I wish Dr Ramani had more time! She’s amazing and he needs multiple sessions to ever have a “break through”. He’s a narc and will never have empathy for her because he’s incapable. Period

    • @SagittariusSweet704
      @SagittariusSweet704 8 днів тому

      I’m glad someone else knows who she is 😂😂 I got hype seeing her on here.

  • @tootsie-roll2345
    @tootsie-roll2345 12 днів тому +1

    Safaree knows he can control her every mood that’s why he saying things are going good,.. he wouldn’t stand a chance with a woman with a back bone🦴 💯💯

  • @sattasana7753
    @sattasana7753 25 днів тому +4

    Good luck Sandia..this man's ego is through the roof and looks very fragile. Only out come of this is abuse.
    He's a special kind of dater that would go to therapy with you before choosing you..cuz he says he says he's not in a relationship with you .

  • @guyyscotty
    @guyyscotty 18 днів тому

    I feel like they are checking off traits on a checklist rather than genuinely falling in love with each other

  • @jolemadelacruz5912
    @jolemadelacruz5912 23 дні тому +2

    This is a train wreck waiting to happen.

  • @blackblinkzennie
    @blackblinkzennie День тому

    Poor Sandia doesn’t know her worth. She’ll learn the hard way.

  • @kadeijadalrymple137
    @kadeijadalrymple137 25 днів тому +3

    Safari needs to stop sell these dreams wholesale

  • @chanelmitchell1632
    @chanelmitchell1632 20 днів тому +2

    He's not ready for a relationship

  • @Kmama801
    @Kmama801 25 днів тому +4

    Why is she desperate she really doesn't have to be there is something there

  • @DDTHEGREAT9900
    @DDTHEGREAT9900 6 днів тому

    That man playing a role....

  • @ArienMoon
    @ArienMoon 25 днів тому +4

    What breakthrough... he's a gaslighter

  • @cameshaburkes4770
    @cameshaburkes4770 25 днів тому

    Wow I hope he learn something out of thatt

  • @Desie380
    @Desie380 10 днів тому

    He told her many times he didn’t want nothing serious I don’t understand why she still hanging around 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @hudihoodz
    @hudihoodz 22 дні тому +1

    Sandia girl, why are you still there

  • @SallyMef
    @SallyMef 21 день тому

    I see another Chris from Married at first sight🤔

  • @roaming1996
    @roaming1996 24 дні тому +2

    He’s so inconsiderate it’s not even funny, I hope she runs after this.

  • @oluwatosinjohnson7519
    @oluwatosinjohnson7519 18 днів тому +1

    Look at his body language. He doesn’t love or like her at all. He didn’t even look at her for once

  • @ndileka216
    @ndileka216 23 дні тому +2

    I cannot stand Chris, Sandia deserves better. I hope they break up.

    • @neshamojanay9423
      @neshamojanay9423 22 дні тому

      Chris doesn't particularly care for Sandia at all. He's not all that. Sandia needs to find a better real man that cares for her.

  • @starrjohnson1327
    @starrjohnson1327 25 днів тому +1

    I detect some type of accent from him. I'm wondering if he is Caribbean

  • @CynthiaMurphy-ep8os
    @CynthiaMurphy-ep8os 21 день тому

    He not even atrracted to her..U CAN TELL

  • @emeldahmwila8644
    @emeldahmwila8644 24 дні тому

    The name safaree is beginning to scare me

  • @banlabenadine6314
    @banlabenadine6314 23 дні тому +1

    Second Safaree , now i hate the name

  • @charmainelacey7843
    @charmainelacey7843 17 днів тому +1

    I just don't trust him he a narcissist

  • @melissaholder4231
    @melissaholder4231 6 днів тому

    Do you all know who this lady is? The Narcissist Detector